A MARRIAGE AS BEAUTIFUL A S Y O U R W E D D I N G D AY
AUS $15 / NZ $16 ISSUE #39 : 2018 ISSN 1834-3589
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A LETTER FROM THE EDITOR Hi lovely! How are you going, precious one? It’s an absolute honour to have you pick up this copy of White Magazine and be reading this letter—thank you. Each piece I write comes deep from my heart straight to yours and I hope to share some words that meet you where you’re at. So, you’ve picked up this copy most likely looking for some inspiration—I hope that we give you a visual feast but also leave you with a deeper impression, one that carries long into your marriage. We care so deeply for your relationship and want to see you have every success, through the beautiful times and the ones that need your patience. I’m excited for you in this journey! No matter where you are at, if you’re six months away from being married or a more seasoned couple, there is so much to keep learning as individuals and together. Sometimes the mountain seems really high, but the climb is most definitely worth it. Amongst these pages, our focus has been on the topic of ‘Trust’. Do you ever have trust issues with your friends, family or colleagues? I’ll be the first to pop my hand up for this one. I remember early on in our marriage being unsure if Luke had my back—would he stick up for me no matter what and defend my honour to the end? I was proud to be on his arm, but was he proud to have me on his? Enough was enough though … I had to come to a point where I needed to throw out those negative, consuming thoughts and being a ‘doubting Thomas’, and start believing, start trusting. If I wanted trust, I needed to show it and live it! There are times when these thoughts try and creep back in, but instead of retreating into my own little world, I go straight to Luke and we talk it through. Sometimes we think it’s easier to do things ourselves, but here you are about to embark on the most beautiful partnership … one that requires ALL of you. 1) It needs you to trust yourself and 2) Trust your husband/wife. You’ve totally got this you know—believe in yourself and believe in them. Marriage can be the most beautiful thing where two souls join and achieve so much more together. Enjoy the ride, and the read!
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TRUSTING YOUR GUT PLANNI NG
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DREAM TEAM CR EATI VES BR I NG A TEXTURED SHOOT TO THE MIX
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ithin two weeks of being engaged, my fiancé ran off to the Bahamas! He had already accepted a job in
the Caribbean Sea and to top it all off, we had chosen the date to be married with only six months to prepare. Little by little, over those two weeks we realised unless we engaged our village in the process, we were not going to make it through. Have you ever had to trust someone to do something that is really important to you? Your wedding day is one of the three most stressful moments of your life. The first being the day you are born, the second the day you marry and the third day the birth of your first child. How did we arrange a day that was not only stress-free but brilliant? We engaged an army of friends and family to take part in every detail. Rather than rely on just our bridal party, we gave out tasks to many different people, starting with my ninetysomething-year-old grandma to envelope the invitations. The best part of all, now years upon years later, I still smile at the memories of all the different people who helped with small jobs. It was a flurry of encouragement as people said yes to contributing to the beauty of our day.
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DRE AM TE AM “TRUST IN WHAT YOU LOVE, CONTINUE TO DO IT, AND IT WILL TAKE YOU WHERE YOU NEED TO GO.” —NATALIE GOLDBERG Photography: Samantha Simone Photography | Styling + Stationery + Silk: Lines and Squares | Florals: Rose & Bud | Furniture: Owl & Bear | Place Settings: A la Table | Gowns: Maevana | Hair + Makeup: Elicia Rudd | Model: Aniqua Toquero | Venue: Fridays Studio
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“PERCEPTION IN LIFE IS EVERYTHING. WHERE SOME SEE ABUNDANCE, OTHERS ONLY SEE LACK.” Words: Erica Bartle | Photography: Montana Lee Photography
It started with an audition. But perhaps it was before that. This creeping sense of not being quite enough. It has followed me for as long as I can remember, like Peter Pan’s shadow, mocking and taunting as I strived to do things right, to make something of my life. On that audition day, I remember lining up with perhaps 100 other little girls in a room with a parquet floor to gain a part in a stage production of Swan Lake by The Australian Ballet. There I stood, leotard, stockings, bun, all of 10 years old, waiting to be told if I had been successful. I had been. I was in. And so I ran to my mother to tell her the good news. “Really? Are you sure?” she asked. That is when the doubt crept in. She was, of course, delighted (and later confirmed this to me as a grown-up), but like a lottery winner who puts the ticket aside for some time in disbelief, shoving it perhaps in a box next to the toaster and kettle, too scared to redeem it at the newsagent just in case … well, just in case it was too good to be true, there was some disbelief. And this tiny seed of doubt, well, that sprung into a lifetime of questioning my adequacy … and I took that all the way down the aisle and into my marriage. Perception in life is everything. Where some see abundance, others only see lack. Open a pantry in any home in Australia, with its packets of Salada biscuits and pasta and sauces, and if you are not of a creative bent, you see only the basics and boredom, and head straight to the shops. Open that same pantry in Africa, and you see blessing. The same
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“I REALISED FOR THE FIRST TIME I CAN LOVE SOMEONE FULLY AND STILL BE FREE IN WHO I AM.” PHOTOGR AP HY Emily Ma ge rs
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“THE RESPONSIBILITY AND TRUST REQUIRED TO HOLD A MIRROR UP FOR EACH OTHER IS NOT EASY, BUT IT REMAINS WORTH IT IN EVERY WAY.” PHOTOGR AP HY Jonnie + Ga rre tt
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T HE R E L AT IONSHIP TA L K TAKE OUR QUESTIONNAIRE TO RECONNECT AND ESTABLISH TRUST FOR YOUR MARRIAGE AHEAD. Photography: India Earl
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WHAT DOES LOVING SOMEONE LOOK LIKE TO YOU?
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DOSS + GLYN: A MARRIAGE OF A LIFETIME Photography: Samuel Jacob Photography
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here is a lot to be said about a couple that gives everything to be able to raise their family, never giving
up on each other in the process. Doss and Glyn are one such couple, determined to make their marriage last a lifetime. “Marriage isn’t always easy, but divorce is not an option for us. We both believe that marriage is for life,” shares Doss. This earnest pair met as young teenagers through Glyn’s sister, Del, sparking a sweet romance that started with an innocent attraction. Glyn thought Doss was a “real goodlooking sheila,” while she thought he was “a real spunk. He had these beautiful light grey eyes with a dark ring around them.” Doss’ teenage heart couldn’t resist Glyn on a motorcycle, so the pair spent many a date doubling on the bike sharing each other’s worlds.
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