We’ve officially ended the most divisive election of our modern times. As I write this, the results are still unknown. As I write this, the direction our nation will go in the coming years is still unknown.
Regardless of this election’s outcome, we the people can still choose the path we wish to see our communities take. Rather than that of a person who rarely stepped foot in our county, our own involvement is what can be the driving force for the changes we wish to see. We didn’t even have to wait until Election Day to start.
Every year, as our staff prepares for this holiday issue, we look back on previous issues. During this issue, which marks our 15th anniversary, we are reminded of the many people we come to interact with daily or weekly, the people who have shaped this fine county we call home into the amazing place it is. Through their generosity, hard work, volunteering, mentoring and fundraising efforts, the people of Bergen County have stood up time and time again and helped out others within our county’s borders, in New Jersey, throughout the country and all around the world. It is always a source of pride for us to have the opportunity to shine a light on those outstanding individuals, organizations and companies. With that said, where better to start than our annual Giving Back Guide. Each holiday season, we dedicate several pages to shining that light on some of those organizations that go above and beyond for the people of Bergen County. As non-profits, they rely on our charity to help the many causes and people they come across. Despite what you may think, every dollar counts!
Then there’s Annie Hausmann. For the many years we’ve known Annie, she has always been at the forefront of giving back and community involvement, and rarely desired any of the feel-good credit that went along with it. It took us years just to convince her we’d like to write a story about her! But when Annie sets out to rally behind a cause, her relentless passion drives everyone around her, and the results can be seen and felt throughout our community.
We’re often reminded, as we sit down for our Thanksgiving feast, that there are many brave service men and women serving overseas that do not get to be with their families. For the past few years at New Milford High School, the students have rallied together to send holiday cards to our troops, to remind them about what can often be forgotten: they are loved, they are missed, and we are incredibly grateful for their service. Though the story began with just one local veteran, it has morphed into so much more.
We could go on and on about how great Bergen County is, but you already know, since you, the readers, are part of the greatness we describe. All we can do now is thank you for everything. Thank you for your kindness, thank you for your friendship and support, and thank you for the past 15 years. We look forward to telling so many more of your incredible stories.
Sharon and Steven Goldstein
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ANNIE HAUSMANN: A LIFETIME OF INVOLVEMENT
From humble beginnings to Wall Street and a new start in Bergen County, this spunky redhead has dedicated her life to giving back.
notes. “Despite the chaos, my mother, who worked full-time and just turned 90, volunteered at the church. My mom was and is a kind, giving soul; the work was ingrained in me.”
Iwill ask anyone for anything for charity,” says the unabashed Annie Hausmann, a Bergen County mother of two, wife and advocate for the community whose determination brought her from humble beginnings in the South Bronx to Wall Street and now to a life as a full-time philanthropist.
“I get what I want for causes I’m passionate about,” says the spunky redhead whose causes include numerous local non-profit organizations, such as The Triple Negative Breast Cancer Foundation, Spring House for Women, Women’s Rights and Information Center, and Philip’s Academy Charter School in Paterson.
Hausmann’s dedication to helping those around her traces back to her childhood, growing up in a household of seven children in city-run housing. Her mother, Joan Rogers, who Hausmann names as her biggest role model, encouraged her kids to participate in church functions and charity events, instilling in them the joy and power of sharing with community.
“My family and upbringing greatly influenced the type of person I am,” Hausmann
Growing up, Hausmann imagined herself as an English teacher. She enrolled herself at a community college and went to a temp agency in order to make money to contribute to the household. She was placed at a trading desk at Drexel Burnham Lambert, where shortly after, she was transferred to the floor of the American Stock Exchange. Instead of becoming an English teacher, she worked on Wall Street for 16 years until she left to become a full-time mother once her youngest child was born in 1999.
Her passion for giving back never left her. Throughout her hectic and demanding New York City lifestyle Hausmann remained involved in non-profits, working with
Covenant House on the suicide hotline two nights a week, as well as with the Guardian Angels, for which she helped plan its annual event. Later, as her immediate family grew, so did their joint volunteering.
Hausmann, her husband, David, and their children, Jack and Georgia, spend much of their time doing good. Each year, they work at the Center for Food Action in Englewood. After Hurricane Katrina, the family traveled to rebuild houses with the St. Bernard Project and together they volunteer at many local charities.
“We have been doing service work as a family since the kids were born. We took Jack to the local county nursing home for Christmas when he was two months old,” Hausmann says. “I always try to gently remind the kids that they’re fortunate to be raised in Bergen County, but their childhood is not better than mine was in the Bronx, just
different. I was poor, but I didn’t know it; everyone was. I lived in the projects, so it wasn’t like I had any frame of reference other than people like me. And we were the lucky ones. My parents were married; we went to church together, and we had family dinner at 5:30 every night. I was happy. I didn’t know what I didn’t have. It’s an internal struggle with the kids. I don’t want to jam down their throats every day how ‘lucky’ they are. They’re grounded kids and we’ve instilled in them the value of giving back to those less fortunate.”
While Hausmann remains actively involved with a host of non-profits throughout Bergen County, she is selective about where she volunteers her time and talents, and is “heavily motivated by either what gets on her nerves or what she is passionate about,” she emphasizes.
“Working with women and children inspires me. I have
seen lives shattered, lost, and families torn apart,” she explains. “I’m deeply moved by men, women, young people and kids who are struggling and I have the honor of meeting and, hopefully, supporting them on their journey. I believe that people and situations are put in your path for a reason, and I try my best to pay attention; observation is my biggest motivator.”
This was the case when Hausmann initially became involved with the Triple Negative Breast Cancer Foundation (TNBC), which recently celebrated its 10-year anniversary. TNBC focuses its efforts on raising money for research and educating the local and TNBC community about why this cancer is different from other breast cancers. “As an organization, we strongly believe that education and awareness of any disease is critical if we are going to combat it successfully,”
“I’m deeply moved by men, women, young people and kids who are struggling and I have the honor of meeting and, hopefully, supporting them on their journey. I believe that people and situations are put in your path for a reason, and I try my best to pay attention; observation is my biggest motivator.”
according to Hausmann.
“When Nancy Block Zenna was diagnosed it was the first time I heard of TNBC. Nancy and I were not close friends at the time, but we had mutual friends. I loved her energy. She was a spitfire, sassy, beautiful, and I was drawn to her. Often at social gatherings I would end up sitting, chatting and laughing with Nancy for the evening. She was larger than life and hilarious,” Hausmann recalls.
“Nancy had access to the best care, and yet the treatments she endured were absolutely ineffective and ultimately futile,” Hausmann continues.
“This type of cancer wasn’t even on the map 15 years ago. It normally targets pre-menopausal women, who are just starting their lives, careers, having children; it’s aggressive and ugly. Nancy had a three-year-old when she found her tumor and she died shortly after our first event. Her daughter, Jolie, turned 13 last year.”
Hausmann now serves on TNBC’s board of trustees and is the organization’s chair of events, where she spearheads the foundation’s signature gala “Peace, Love & A Cure,”
which is held every spring in a “showcase home” in Bergen County.
“My role is expansive and wide-ranging but simply put, I plan and execute fundraisers and awareness events, oversee third party events organized by the foundation’s many incredible supporters,” Hausmann explains. “I kind of like the terms ‘party girl’ and ‘professional beggar,’ but there is so much more involved in my role.”
Following their mother’s example, Hausmann’s
children founded the Triple Negative Breast Cancer Foundation Youth Initiative three years ago. Hausmann is extremely proud of this effort to involve young people in fundraising and awareness.
Hausmann also focuses her charitable efforts at Spring House for Women in Paramus, NJ, a halfway house for women recovering from alcohol and substance abuse.
“Lots of women who enter Spring House are pretty much at the end of the road. I always say Spring House should be
the first stop on the train, not the last,” Hausmann notes.
“This incredible place offers love, support and a path to recovery, in a nurturing, confidential, therapeutic environment filled with respect. Whenever possible, I volunteer here, driving women to appointments, helping out with fundraisers, doing whatever I can. Sadly, not many people support organizations working to assist alcoholics and drug addicts. However, I have seen miracles walk out the doors
of Spring House and blossom into productive members of society. At Spring House, the laughter is as powerful as the pain and the camaraderie brings tears to even the most hardened eyes.”
Hausmann’s charitable nature extends outside of non-profit organizations, too, as she is part of the finance committee for Josh Gottheimer’s Congressional campaign. And—motivated and driven by the people and stories that are all around her—Hausmann’s charitable and civic pursuits continue growing.
“I never know what it is that will move me or why I get so passionate. Sometimes I wish I didn’t care so much, but the honest answer is that I get so much more than I give,” Hausmann admits. “When I stand in the back of the room of an event and
see all these people having a lovely time and the awareness being spread, I feel a sense of accomplishment. It makes me feel really connected and peaceful.”
Yet, even with all of the good she’s done for the community, Hausmann regards her family as her biggest accomplishment. Her son is in college in Austin, TX, and her daughter is entering her senior year of high school. Hausmann, looking to the future, is unsure of what the next chapter will be for her. For most of her time in Bergen County, she believed she would return to New York City. However, after all the connections, relationships and friendships she has made over 22 years, she is no longer sure. She is certain of one thing, though: whatever path she takes, it will involve growth, purpose and generosity.
“I made a home here, and I am very involved in the community,” she says. “Now that my youngest is looking to college, the question of what’s next is really on my mind constantly, and I don’t have a clue. I keep threatening to move to the city where I belong—that’s what I say, at least—but I just don’t know. I wish I could say definitively where I will end up, but life never works out that way, does it? So I will continue the work I do, evolving and changing all the time, and I’ll end up where I belong.”
Tara DeLorenzo is a freelance writer and frequent contributor to BC THE MAG.
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FINDING BEAUTY IN THE ASHES
The daughter of a Holocaust survivor shares lessons of her treasured legacy with the world.
Somehow, memories of good deeds during an era so horrific that many may wish to forget manage to survive the decades as testaments to selflessness. For Ann Arnold, a Bergen County mother, businesswoman and daughter of Holocaust survivor Mark (Manek) Schonwetter, this innate sense of humanity is the sole light in the darkness of her family’s past—a treasure in the ashes to share with the world and remember in her debut book, Together: A Journey of Survival. This true account follows the perilous plight of her father and his family as they fled and evaded Nazi persecution across the Polish countryside. In the process it movingly portrays the strength of a mother’s love and the bravery of good people when all hope seemed lost. The year was 1939. Sala Schonwetter had everything she needed—a beautiful, wellrespected life with her husband and two children in a small Polish town. But her perfect
world was shattered in an instant when her husband was taken away, never to be seen again. Mark, only six years old at the time, was forced into the harshness of manhood in order to help his family to survive. Following the courageous lead of their determined mother, he and his sister fled the only home they had ever known. Escaping through a barbed wire fence to avoid extermination by the Nazis, the three took refuge in the woods, fields and farms for three arduous years. At the time of their departure, their village was home to approximately 1,500 Jews. By the end of the war, less than 50 remained.
“Knowing the atrocities endured by my family made me very cynical over the years,” Arnold explains. “I have pretty much always wanted to share my father’s story, but it wasn’t until my second trip to Poland, back to the birthplace of my father’s legacy, that I was truly inspired.”
With nothing left for them but ghastly memories of the catastrophic invasion, no Jews had returned to the village where Mark once lived. That is until the respectful act of a professor, who petitioned to have the demolished town cemetery rebuilt by gathering artifacts and lost tombstones. The tombstone of Arnold’s great grandfather was one of the first to be found. After learning the news, Arnold and her father were invited, in 2009, to attend a special
ceremony held in celebration of the project’s completion.
“We were overcome by the welcome we received,” Arnold recalls. “A plaque was erected, and over 600 members of the community came to witness the ceremony, some of whom remembered my father. We were even brought on buses to the local high school, where students and their families home-cooked for us, including kosher food, and learned Hebrew songs to sing to us!”
When thanked for the town’s kindness, the Polish mayor responded that no thanks were necessary; it was simply the right thing to do.
“It was in that moment that I fully realized there are good people in this world,” Arnold says. “After all, it was none other than good people that kept my family alive.”
In 2010, Arnold used this life-changing experience to begin writing a blog. The stories she shared sparked the attention of numerous people, who often asked her about “the coming book.”
Actively involved in her father’s successful jewelry business, as well as serving as the CFO of various companies with her husband, Arnold never saw herself as a writer.
“I always wanted to write down my father’s account. Being the daughter of a Holocaust survivor is like wearing a badge on your shoulder. The lessons, hardships and gratitude you hold remain in the back of your mind, urging you to
Ann Arnold will continue sharing the message of Together: A Journey for Survival with the Bergen County community, hosting discussions at several local venues that are open to the public. Upcoming events are listed on her website, www. togetherajourneyforsurvival.com. Together: A Journey for Survival is available online for print and e-book purchase through the website, as well as on amazon.com.
carry the torch to the next generation. Regardless of my apprehension, it finally hit me that this book was meant to be my torch,” explains Arnold, who connected with a publisher that interviewed her father, delving deep into details of his journey, many of which Arnold had never known herself.
Her family’s years spent in hiding entailed surviving off berries with the camouflage of the forest in the summers, and in the attics and barns
of welcoming residences in the winters. Arnold describes the emotionally draining process of exploring the unimaginable life-ordeath decisions that her grandmother had to make to protect her children. While writing, she often found herself asking, “Would I have done that?”
A mother’s intuition is strong, and her grandmother’s was the strongest. “It was like she had a sixth sense,” Arnold
comments. “She had a keen ability for discerning kindness from danger. Every winter, when my grandmother knocked on strangers’ doors asking for shelter, she wisely wouldn’t accept unless she had to beg. The ones that needed the most convincing were the ones that wouldn’t turn them in.” They were also the ones that would make the ultimate sacrifice, putting their own lives on the line, to save those of strangers.
Forever grateful to these people, Grandma Sala kept in touch with many for the remainder of her life, even after moving from Poland to Israel following the war. She consistently sent them money, and generously purchased land and a house for one of the families who chose to make lifethreatening and, at times, life-shattering sacrifices on behalf of three strangers.
“One particular family that took them in had a mentally challenged son,” Arnold recounts. “All it took was a question from suspicious Nazis, and the innocent response of an unknowing child, who explained that he had indeed seen ‘two and a half Jews’ nearby—the half being my six-year-old father—for them to brutally put a bullet through his head. He was ‘mocking’ them, they claimed. It was a son slaughtered on behalf of their presence. I’ll never truly understand this heavy burden my grandmother
had to bear for all of her 94 years.”
In 2011, Mark returned to his hometown after an etched rock marking the site of his father’s mass grave execution was unearthed deep in the woods. It is thanks to yet another good person, who secretly buried this small tribute in the hopes that it would one day be found, that a memorial was erected.
Mark attended a ceremony held at the site, honoring his father and all those lost on that fateful day. While in Poland, he also had the pleasure of meeting more relatives of the people who helped save him during the war, their sacred connection passed down through the generations with no sense of regret, only pride. One family even saved a small corner of the house that once sheltered Mark and his family, building it into a new home to always remember.
“There was nothing but gratitude on both sides,” Arnold comments. “Where there is mutual respect, there is tolerance, and we can certainly use more tolerance in this world.”
Looking upon her father’s past as a lesson for today, Arnold hopes to introduce her book to schools, and even has lesson plans written and prepared for 8th and 9th grade classes to potentially add to their curricula. She describes her father’s history as a vital lesson that all young people must learn and never forget.
Already recognized as an official honoree at the inaugural “Heroes for Tolerance” event held by the prestigious Simon Wiesenthal Center, a global organization committed to promoting human rights and dignity, Arnold is overwhelmed by the positive response surrounding her book’s launch. For instance, she and her father were brought to the center of the field at Yankee Stadium before the game on September 11, 2016, and honored for their incredible story of tolerance during one of history’s most cataclysmic times.
“It’s been a once-in-alifetime experience,” Arnold says. “I’ve been on TV and the radio since publishing my father’s story. Just thinking about it makes my head spin.”
Deserving every bit of praise, Arnold’s book offers an inspiring message in a world that desperately needs reminding that, above all
else, virtue does prevail.
“We need to hear good news today more than ever,” Arnold emphasizes.
“Everyone has a bad day, but my father’s story provides a new perspective on it—one that prompts us to seek out the goodness in all situations, because it does exist, and it will heal in every sense of the word.”
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The 16th Annual Joseph M. Sanzari Charity Run and Motorcycle Raffle included a visit to the 9/11 Memorial, where a wreath was placed to honor the victims of the terrorist attacks of September 11, 2001.
Jim Blazar, Joe Simunovich, Robert Garrett, Ulises Diaz
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STEVE CAVALLO:
HONORING HOLOCAUST SURVIVORS AND WAR VETERANS
With his moving visual tributes, the Westwood artist pays homage to the indomitable spirit of courage, endurance and strength in the face of horror and inhumanity.
Steve Cavallo strives to use the redemptive beauty of art to bring recognition and understanding to the valor and value of the human soul. His powerful paintings— most embodying recurrent themes of social issues, human rights and advocacy— vibrate with passion, intensity and raw emotions. His powerful strokes give voice to the voiceless.
“I realized it is important for my art to capture the stories of these war heroes before they are gone. It is a wonderful thing to be able to hear the stories they tell and to see them face to face. It is amazing how humble they are.”
“I had the honor of designing the first memorial dedicated to World War II wartime sex slaves known as ‘comfort women.’ This was the first memorial on public ground, which is in Palisades Park, NJ. Since Mayor James Rotundo and I unveiled this memorial in 2010, over 12 other memorials dedicated to these women have been installed throughout the world,” Cavallo notes with pride.
As a result of his work with former comfort women, Cavallo had the opportunity to meet several Holocaust survivors in programs held in Bayside Queens. “After hearing them bare their stories of the war years, I asked if I might paint them and tell their stories as I did with the former comfort women. I then began interviewing WWII veterans and researched the story of my Uncle Rocco Cavallo, who survived the Battle of the Bulge and received the Bronze Star and Purple Heart. My uncle passed away in the 1980s, but I was able to find news articles and hear stories from relatives. He was never one to talk about the war years, but would usually respond in few words: ‘It was tough.’” For more info on Steve Cavallo and his work, visit www.stevecavallo.com. The artist can be reached at scavallo@sva.edu
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LETTERS FROM GRATEFUL
HEARTS OFFER HOLIDAY CHEER
Jessica Groff, a teacher at New Milford High School, enlisted the help of veteran Jesse Canella to reach out to active military members across the world through letters written by students.
Asimple message from a stranger can have a big impact, especially during the holidays. If you doubt it, just ask the students at New Milford High School who have written letters of gratitude and the hundreds of soldiers who have received them.
This “feel good” letter
campaign started in 2014 as a public service lesson inspired when New Milford High School teacher Jessica Groff’s ninth grade English class read Franz Kafka’s Metamorphosis . It quickly grew and it’s now an annual occurrence.
“[The book and its main character, Gregor,] made me think about the struggles
that our soldiers go through when they return home from war,” explained Groff, who teaches English for grades nine and 10, as well as digital journalism classes.
“They go off to do this great noble act for our country, but come back with limited marketable skills (but they can disassemble a bomb or an automatic weapon
without blinking), and have trouble relating to their friends and families because of what they have seen or been through in this foreign country. I could go on and on about this, but the point is, Gregor made me really think about how our soldiers must feel upon their return, and I wanted to do something to reach out to them, and let
them know that their sacrifices do not go unnoticed and that although they struggle to fit in, we all want to help them in any way we can, and we want to understand them.”
To first help the students understand, Groff asked Jesse Canella, who created HonoVet.org to help veterans get job placements when they return from war, to come into the classroom to talk about his experiences as they related to the book. This not only became interesting to students, making the novel relatable to them, but it also brought the students closer to the reality of what happened, creating an awareness among the students that Groff feels is important.
“I didn’t know him that well when I asked him to come in and talk to the kids about his experience and relate it to the book, and he looked up the book and refreshed his memory on it and brought in pictures and was honest with the students without hesitation,” Groff said. “They really got a lot out of his talk because he didn’t gloss over anything. He was open about how secluded he and his fellow soldiers felt returning from Iraq, and I think the kids really appreciated that.”
“It is about understanding the impact of a gentle word on a stranger, and how we can send out a ripple in such a simple way that creates positivity in the world, even if we can’t see it.”
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Gearing the class up to get involved was a simple job for Groff, who initially made it an optional assignment. To get as many students involved, she planned a day for students to write after creating a prompt with a co-worker for students to write a thank-you note to members of service.
“[The students] were happy to do it,” Groff said. “They were self-conscious about what to write, which I was surprised about. They wanted to make it perfect, say the right things, get across the exact right sentiment that they were aiming for. It was inspiring to watch.”
The first year the program ran, the letters were directed to a single active soldier, Kevin Chavez, an older brother of a student attending New Milford High School.
Chavez’s sister had been part of Groff’s class for two years, and whenever Groff inquired about Chavez, his little sister would say he was sad. So with the holidays and his birthday, coming up, Groff wanted to find a way to help.
“This would be the first year he would spend these milestone moments away from his family,” Groff explained. “So I asked Kevin’s sister for an address that we could write to him at. I actually also enlisted the help of my daughters’ day care. The teachers there did an artsand-crafts day with the other one-year-olds in their class, where the kids did handprints and the teachers wrote a note of thanks on the back. It was adorable. Kevin was so touched by the letters from the students and the little handprints. He posted on his Instagram page about the impact that the notes of gratitude had on him.”
“This not only became interesting to students, making the novel relatable to them, but it also brought the students closer to the reality of what happened, creating an awareness among the students...”
From there, this program expanded, as Groff saw a Facebook post in 2015 regarding holiday cards to soldiers. After seeing the effect the letters had on Chavez, Groff wanted to help the students make more of an impact. With the assistance of her colleague Joanna Westbrook, who had helped with the prompt the first year, Groff was able to create an assignment that was picked up by multiple teachers in the English department in order to involve more students.
“I instructed the students to speak from the heart,” noted Groff, who explained that students were given class time to write the letters, which ranged in subject matter. “Many of them wrote letters of gratitude, some wrote about what’s going on here in New Milford in order to help the
soldiers feel connected to a world that they can’t see and remind them of what they are fighting for back at home, some just wrote a simple ‘We’re thinking of you and your family.’ To be honest, I did not read them, because I didn’t want the kids to feel censored. I wanted them to really write with abandon, and to say what they felt, which is hard to do if you know your teacher is going to be reading them. That’s the kind of letter that I would want to get if I was somewhere in the Iraq desert.”
At first, the letters were returned to the school marked undeliverable. However, with persistence and patience from folks such as the school’s main office secretary, Diane Norton, they eventually contacted the American Red Cross, which gave them an address where the letters could be successfully delivered. With all the work and emotion that went into the writing, the program evolved into something much more significant.
“I wouldn’t necessarily call it a program,” Groff said.
“It was more of a lesson in expressing gratitude and developing relationships with the people outside of our little NMHS bubble, even if those relationships aren’t necessarily reciprocated. It is about understanding the impact of a gentle word on a stranger, and how we can send out a ripple in such a simple way that creates positivity in the world, even if we can’t see it. It’s also about realizing that although we are an average town, we have this great big heart to share, and how that in and of itself can change a life.”
Groff hopes her students learn about compassion, gratitude, and more than that, she wants them to gain a deep understanding of how “we touch the lives of the people around us” and, in the process, gain a better appreciation and empathy for the soldiers overseas.
Since she feels the program holds such meaning and teaches her students so much, Groff
is prepared to continue this assignment each year in order to bring holiday spirit to those fighting for freedom and for the United States.
“As long as we have soldiers out there fighting for our liberty and to ensure that our children stay safe, I will always ask students to write letters to them thanking them,” Groff noted. “It is important not only to acknowledge the sacrifices that are being made for our freedoms, but to be grateful for them. If we lose that gratitude, then we lose the ability to see just how lucky we are, and we may begin to take our freedom for granted. While people are sacrificing their lives, their families, their sons and daughters, moms and dads, children, friends, we need to remain humbled by their sacrifices, or else what is it all for?”
Tara DeLorenzo is a freelance writer and frequent contributor to BC THE MAG
FOUNDATION FOR FREE ENTERPRISE
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A “CHEESE-Y” BERGEN COUNTY LOVE STORY
Most people don’t normally associate “mozzarella” with “insurance.”
But for one Bergen County native, the two go hand in hand.
the ingredients, changing the water, adding the salt—just like his mother had shown him. As each batch came and went, Morelli’s skills improved.
“I used to test my dad, Teodosio, by letting him taste the cheese and asking him to guess if it was my mine or my mother’s. After awhile he couldn’t tell the difference. That’s when I knew it was good,” Morelli says with a laugh.
An only child, Morelli headed off to Becton Regional High School, followed by a stint at the Technical School Computer Learning Center. “In 1994, technology and the Internet were beginning to explode, so majoring in computer science seemed like the logical choice,” adds Morelli. It was around this same time that he met his future wife, Denise, as she caught his eye at the Meadowlands Fair.
Upon graduation, Morelli got a job as a consultant for CompuCom. Although he dabbled in other positions, including a tow truck driver and a pizza deliveryman, he never lost his zest for making homemade mozzarella. “I love to feed people and see them enjoy my food. I guess that comes from my mom,” Morelli notes.
Vincent Morelli, a regional coordinator for Aflac Insurance, has embarked on a culinary journey—specifically, creating award-winning fresh mozzarella. “Vinnie’s Mootz,” as he affectionately calls his gastric delight, is currently being handmade and sold through Corrado’s Market in North Arlington. Morelli is a Bergen County boy, through and through. Born in Hackensack and raised in Carlstadt, he spent summers as a young boy with his family in Caserta, Italy. It was there that he watched his mother, Vittoria, carefully watching her prep the simple ingredients used in making fresh mozzarella.
“I think I was about 6 or 7 years old when I first starting paying attention to the process of cheese making,” Morelli remembers. “I noticed that my mother had a certain order of doing things, and everything had to be ‘just right’. She didn’t measure things, but the temperatures had to be perfect.”
Little Vinnie took note, and by the age of 12, he began helping out in the kitchen.
With his kitchen towel tossed over his shoulder like his mother, Morelli starting developing his own fresh mozzarella by carefully blending
It’s a hands-on, labor of love for award-winning mozzarella maker and Lyndhurst resident, Vinnie Morelli.
Morelli married Denise in 2000 and they started their family. After their sons, Nick, 13, and Matteo, 10, were born, Morelli began working for Aflac Insurance, starting as an agent and working his way up to his current position as regional coordinator; all the while, he was making and sharing his fresh mozzarella, much to the delight of friends and family.
“After a close friend tried my ‘mootz’ at a party and raved about it, Denise encouraged me to enter it in a contest she had heard about, so I did,” Morelli explains. “This past January, my fresh mozzarella was chosen as the top homemade recipe in the 2016 Hoboken Mutzfest. I couldn’t believe it!”
Word of Morelli’s delicious homemade fresh mozzarella traveled quickly, and he was asked to create some for Corrado’s Market. So on
Sunday mornings, Morelli can be seen making huge batches of mootz at Corrado’s North Arlington location. So far, reaction has been favorable; free samples and shrink-wrapped portions have been flying off of the shelves.
Mootz is winning fans of all types. “Vinnie is truly a spectacular guy. His love of family, friends and food is contagious,” says Brian Haggerty, motivational speaker and author of numerous books, including Put That Cell Phone Down and Look Me in the Eye. “Having spent his boyhood summers in Italy, he has learned the true art of genuine Italian cuisine. His mootz will make your knees buckle!”
Although Vinnie’s mom, Vittoria, has since passed away, her presence remains…in the mootz. “Making the cheese, working the consistency ‘just right’ with my hands, the taste—it all brings me back to those times spent with my mom. And now my boys are learning to make the mootz, too. It’s funny how life comes full circle sometimes,” Morelli muses.
“I love helping people with their insurance needs through my position at Aflac, but I gotta tell you that I get a real kick out of when people stop me and express how much they love my mootz,” Morelli admits. “It’s really something I want to pursue, so I launched the website, vinniesmootz.com, to get the business off of the ground. I’m doing in-home mootz-making parties now and my boys have even videotaped me for Facebook.”
So where does this upbeat insurance executive by day, mootz maker by night see himself in five years? “Hopefully, working my way across the country and sharing my mootz,” says Morelli.
Laura Comppen is a freelance writer based in Lyndhurst, NJ.
EXPLORING SPARKLING WINE
It used to be, Champagne was reserved for New Year’s Eve and extra special moments. These days we know that sparkling wine, in all its forms—extra dry to very sweet, Italian, Spanish or French, white, rosé or red—is perfect anytime, even during dinner. Sure, you can go all out and spend a fortune on a bottle of Cristal, which just released its 2009 Brut at $250, or the new, limited edition Armand de Brignac Blanc de Noirs Assemblage A2 at $1,000 a bottle. But for everyday celebrating, you may wish to consider these joyous sparklers from around the world that won’t break the bank.
Bulle de Rêve 2011 Champagne
Of course, sparkling wine from the Champagne region of France, made using time-honored methods is the standard-bearer for the category. Lately, smaller family labels and so-called “grower” brands have gained attention for their complex flavors and often-reasonable prices. From New York Champagne Week’s Blaine Ashley comes this label collaboration with third-generation family producers Domaine Lombard & Cie (a négociant, not a grower). The name of this premier cru means “Dream Bubble” and this 100% Blanc de Noir is rich in vanilla, almond and lemon notes. Pair with mushroom-heavy pastas or pan-seared red snapper with lemon butter and chives. $60
Chapel Down Three Graces 2010 (England)
Did you know that before the French, it was probably 18th century English winemakers and scientists who explored controlling the secondary fermentation process that makes sparkling wine?
Southeastern England (think Dover) hosts the same chalky soils and cool weather as Champagne. New to the U.S., made from classic Champagne grapes (Chardonnay, Pinot Noir and Pinot Meunier) and aged up to 5 ½ years on the lees before release, this wine is crisp and fruity, with notes of red apple and cherry. Pair with andhra fish curry or grilled branzino with lemon rice and braised onions. $50
Bellavista Franciacorta
Alma Cuvee Brut (Brescia, Lombardy)
Many Americans are familiar with Italian bubblies like Prosecco and Lambrusco. While flying somewhat under the radar, Franciacorta, a DOCG sparkler from mountainous northern Italy, is gaining attention. The wine uses traditional Champagne methods on regional Italian grapes. “The producers of Franciacorta wines have always invested in quality, not quantity,” says Giulio Galli of Terra Moretti wines. “Alma” is an affectionate term for the Lombardy region’s land and this endearing wine is rich with fruit notes of pear, apple and vanilla. Aged four years before release, it is pleasant yet complex. Pair with sliced Italian charcuterie or risotto with braised veal. $27
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Freixenet Casa Sala Cava 2006 (Cava de Parje Calificado)
Spanish sparkling wine—“cava”—is made the same way as French Champagne, with either European or indigenous Spanish grapes. But recently, Spaniards decided they needed to up the ante with a special designation. Meeting that, the familiar black-bottle Freixenet Cordon Negro Brut (a wonderful wine on its own merits) with the new Casa Sala label. Built on a family estate in 1901, the winery now employs contemporary biodynamic tech to produce a new-old sparkling wine of the highest caliber. Aged seven years in the bottle, the deep, rich, crisp wine (a blend of Xarello and Parellada grapes) has notes of peach, baked bread and apricot. Pair with fried ham and olives or Serrano ham, arugula and quail egg pizzette. $80
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A TALE OF TRAGEDY, LOSS AND HOPE REBORN
Using the creative process as a catharsis, a 9/11 widow helps others grow from grief.
Turning pain into motivation, Iliana Guibert is transforming her personal loss into a powerful message for others through her new short film “Twice Upon a Time.”
Written and produced by Guibert and directed by Paul Borghese, the 14-minute film made its New Jersey premiere
at Golden Door International Film Festival, where it won for Best Local Film. “Twice Upon a Time” follows Isabel, (played by Iliana), a 9/11 widow who is learning to deal with her grief while also looking for a second chance at love. Loosely based on Guibert’s own experiences, this short film is her debut as a writer/producer.
In addition to its win at the Golden Door International Film Festival, “Twice Upon a Time” has been awarded Best Screenplay by NYC Indie Awards, Best Short Feature at Nyack International Film Festival and the Award of Recognition in the Best Short Films Competition. It has also been nominated for Best Short Editing at the Action
On Film International Film Festival.
The project began in 2012 after Guibert lost her corporate job in the economic downturn. While figuring out what to do next, she kept returning to her love of the arts, and she immersed herself in learning everything she could about the film industry. Yet when it came to writing,
Guibert didn’t know where to start, as it was something she had never done before.
“In researching and looking into what partner to use or what story to tell, people kept saying, ‘Why don’t you write it yourself?’” Guibert recounts. “I kept thinking that I didn’t know anything about writing. I started thinking about it, though, and one thing that everyone kept saying is, ‘Write what you know,’ and I thought, ‘Okay, I know about being a mom and being a businesswoman and I certainly know about being a 9/11 widow.’ I figured maybe I could incorporate those things together and that’s how I came up with this story.”
Although Guibert emphasizes that the story isn’t about her, she does admit that parallels do exist between her and her main character. The two are both 9/11 widows with children in college. The biggest differences lie in how the two women handle their grief after losing their husbands, and how they end up.
Given the powerful topic, Guibert’s goal was to start conversations about dealing with and moving on from grief. “I wanted to send a message: we can’t just go around our grief; you need to go through it,” she emphasizes. “How each person goes through it can be different, but it needs to be dealt with. Everyone deals in different time frames, but the grief cannot be avoided; it must be coped with. That is what the message is about. It’s directed to those affected by 9/11, but it’s a message for everyone because we’re all
going to lose someone if we haven’t already.”
“Twice Upon a Time” is currently making the rounds of the film festival circuit.
From the Golden Door International Film Festival, Guibert will be taking the film to California. At the time of this writing, she planned to show it at the Awareness Festival in October. The film’s star/writer/producer is proud to be a part of the Awareness Festival since it deals with social issues and difficult topics.
Moving beyond film festivals, Guibert plans to partner with organizations that deal with growth and grief, so that “Twice Upon a Time” can be a “springboard for conversation about the difficult topics and not dealing with growth,” she says.
“I want (the film) to engage people and hope it helps people think twice about handling grief and helping those who have lost someone,” Guibert continues. “I hope it makes an impact. It may be only 14 little minutes, but a lot can happen in that time. It really is a powerful message.”
Looking back at the process of creating this labor of love, Guibert explains it proved a wonderful experience not only for her, but also for all of the cast and crew involved.
“While it was a hard subject matter, everyone said it was the happiest they had ever been on set,” Guibert says. “I think it was just the energy I brought to it. And not just me, but the people I picked and that the director picked; we all brought that
energy. The people were passionate and appreciative to be a part of it.”
Guibert’s dedication to her vision of the film played a major role in having it all come together. While the production was limited in terms of budget and setting, she was adamant that the short needed a funeral scene for Isabel to say goodbye to her husband, Eric. This meant adding a second filming location, a cemetery, as well as the addition of real marines to hand off the
American flag—the same flag that Guibert’s family received after she lost her husband, Thomas, in the 9/11 attack— to Isabel’s son.
“I was hung up on the idea, and I searched really hard to make it happen,” Guibert notes. “It was two nights before we were going to film the scene, and I thought I just would get an actor since it was so close, so I found an actor who had a real uniform. Ten minutes later, a marine called me saying he might be able to do it. He is really
a lovely man; he’s a master sergeant. But he called the night before saying he didn’t know if he could make it. I let him know the time and everything just in case, but told him not to worry. So it was the day of filming, and the cast and crew is there, and here comes this marine all dressed in his pristine blues. It was not only him; he had four marines with him,” recounts Guibert, who gets teary-eyed as she explains that despite not knowing her or anything about the film, these men cared enough to help a stranger. Not surprisingly, such experiences have proved moving and therapeutic for Guibert. “It wasn’t easy tapping into those emotions, but I feel like I’ve been an open book about it,” she explains. “If you don’t have people like me telling the stories, how are people going to know what happened? How are you going to know that my husband got through to me and that he told me what he told me? So, he’s in a room and he’s telling me that people are jumping from windows in the floors above him, and not that we don’t know that, but these people were trapped seeing what’s happening on the floors above them, jumping to their death. To know someone is telling that story and how calm my husband was and how I heard guys saying they would knock down the wall, being strong and tough, and hearing a woman crying in the background. What is going to go in the history
books and what are people going to know if people aren’t willing to share their stories?
“It’s a piece of my heart I’m sharing,” Guibert continues. “It’s scary. There were so many people saying I needed to share my story and a part of me didn’t like that idea because I don’t want anyone to think I’m capitalizing on being a widow. I’m not doing this for any gain. If anything, this cost me money. And it’s not about attention. As a 9/11 widow, you’re going to get attention no matter what. I came to grips with that. Yes, you can turn down interviews, but people are still going to ask. You can be someone who doesn’t like talking to press, and that’s fine, but it’s therapeutic for me and it helps others.”
As for her late husband, he would have been her film’s biggest fan, according to Guibert. “My husband would be on Cloud 9 with it,” she notes. “He would have been my biggest cheerleader. He used to say to me, ‘You need to quit this job and I will float you for a year. You’ll see; I’ll be able to retire because of the work you do.’ He was so proud of everything and anything I did.”
Tara DeLorenzo is a freelance writer. For more info on “Twice Upon a Time,” visit the Facebook page at www.Facebook.com/ TwiceUponATime.TheMovie.
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RIGHT CHOICE FOR BEAUTY
A silky, rich, overnight skin-brightening mask, Paula’s Choice Radiance Renewal Mask ($36, 1.7 fl. oz.) has skin brightening properties that work to correct the appearance of uneven skin tone. Skin goes from a dull complexion into a refreshed, luminous and hydrated glow in no time! Available at paulaschoice.com
HS PLAY: Metamorphoses will be held Nov. 17, & 18, 7PM; Nov 19, 1PM & 7PM at Pascack Valley High School (200 Piermont Ave, Hillsdale). Tickets: $12, adults; $5, students. Purchase at www. pvhstheatre.org or pay at the door.
TRAIN SHOW: Ramapo Valley Model Railroad Club’s annual Holiday Train Show will take place during Open Houses on Nov. 20, 27 and Dec. 4, 11, & 18, 1-4PM at 629 Cliff St., Ho-Ho-Kus. Donations: $1pp; Info: ramapovalleyrailroad.com
KIDS’ PLAY: Directed by Lynne Lupfer, the Prince Street Player’s version of The Emperor’s New Clothes will be held Nov. 26-Dec. 18, at Bergen County Players (298 Kinderkamack Road, Oradell). Fridays, 7:30PM; Saturdays/Sundays, 1 & 3:30PM. Tickets: $14. Info: www.bcplayers.org; 201261-4200
CRAFT SHOW: On Nov. 27, 10AM5PM, attend the Paramus High School (99 E. Century Rd.) Holiday Craft Show with 110 quality exhibitors. Admission: $3; Info: www.pjspromotions.com
WORKOUT GROUP: Every Saturday, 9AM, join a free fitness class at Crossfit Rising (38 N. St., Bergenfield). Info: 201674-0419; CrossfitPony@yahoo.com
HOLIDAY PARADE: Westwood’s annual “Home for the Holidays” Parade will take place on Dec. 3, starting at 6PM at five corners of Westwood Ave & Kinderkamack Rd. There will be various events, great shopping and eats all day.
HOLIDAY FAIR: On Dec. 3, 1-7PM, Bergenfield will hold its annual “Holiday in the Park,” where families go to enjoy winter time holiday events and light refreshments. This year, South Presbyterian Church (150 W. Church St.) is partnering with this event to hold a Church Fair. Info: 201-314-7698
HOLIDAY MARKET: On Dec. 4, 9AM-4PM, Our Lady Church of Peace (400 Maywood Ave., Maywood) will hold its annual free event featuring assorted crafters and vendors, food, 50/50 raffle and bake sale. Info: Dianne at 201-845-9566
HOLIDAY CONCERT: On Dec. 8, 7-8PM at Montvale Library (12 Mercedes Dr.), singer Ellen Woloshin and guitarist Rick Briskin will perform songs from her two CDs. Free and open to the public. Register: montvalelibraryprograms@gmail.com, 201391-5090
FAMILY DANCE: From 2:45-3:30PM on an ongoing monthly basis every Sunday, the Center for Modern Dance Education (84 Euclid Ave., Hackensack) holds a free multi-level class for adults and kids to come together in a fun way. Info: 201-342-2989
TANGO CLASSES: From 8:309:30PM, on an ongoing monthly basis every Thursday, learn the basics of Argentine Tango at Center for Modern Dance (84 Euclid Ave., Hackensack). $20/drop ins. Info: 201-342-2989 or cmde.org
ELVIS MUSIC: Free Elvis Christmas concert by Elvis tribute singer Ruben Castillo will take place on Dec. 12, 7PM (snow date: Dec 19, 7PM) at Montvale Library (12 Mercedes Drive). Register: 201-391-5090, montvalelibraryprograms@gmail.com
OPEN BOUNCE: On Dec. 16, 3:30-5:15PM, BounceU of Paramus (70 Eisenhower Dr.) will host Free Food Friday Open Bounce for kids featuring 1 hour of play in 2 giant bounce stadiums, followed by 45 minutes in the party room. Included in $12.95 admission price, kids receive 1 free slice of pizza & soft drink. Reservations: www.bounceu.com
PAUL ANKA: He’ll be performing his greatest hits on Dec. 16, 8PM at NJPAC Prudential Hall (One Center St., Newark). Tickets: $39-$128. Purchase at www. NJPAC.org or box office (888-466-5722)
STORYWALK: Every Saturday through Dec.17, the Tenafly Nature Center will host a free interactive outdoor exhibit; while strolling through a guided trail, hikers will read a nature-themed story that appeals to young children. Info: www.tenaflynaturecenter.org
ZOO VISIT: On Dec 27, 11AM3PM, enjoy “Visit the Zoo Day” at Bergen County Zoo (216 Forest Ave., Paramus) for crafts, animal encounters, programs & exhibits. Info: www.co.bergen.nj.us
HEALTH CLASSES: From 9:3011AM, 1st & 3rd Saturdays of every month, the Advanced Medical Care Center (22 Madison Ave., Paramus) holds a series of wellness classes. Price: $30, signup 4 days prior at 201-641-9008
HABITAT FOR HUMANITY
Habitat for Humanity of
held their annual casino night at Seasons
For more information visit; habitatbergen.org
Nestor Zaragoza, John Corr
Bergen County
Catering.
Brian Marchese, Pam Nall, Michael Stimgone, Andrew Bolson
Julia Orlando, Jacey Raimondo, Tisha Hamilton, Doreen Winn Kevin Pace, Matthew Langer
David and Diane Van Grouw
Jack and Sandy Fields, Tom Guinan
Bill and Michele Calise Melanie Butler, Alicia Rigdon, Kat Vintayen
Jim and Rosanne Buscemi Diane Rawdon, Sharon Tammen, Karen Norton
Karen Willick, Abbe Greenberg Cheryl and James Cleary
Jennifer Polidori, Laura Mann
Vanessa Garcia, Janet Eyerman
Kevin and Julie Lynch
Ann Van Dyke and Greg Stars
Brian Kohles, Brian McCourt
Jillian and Michael Yellin
GOOD SAMARITAN HOSPITAL GOLF CLASSIC
Good Samaritan Hospital held their annual Golf and Tennis Classic at The Tuxedo Club. For more information visit: goodsamhosp.org
David Ober, Gayle Hirsch, Mark Ginsburg, Gerry Tobias
Sister Fran, Vince Mezzetti Tony Schiero, Jonnie Wesley-Krueger, David Haas
Charles Violino, Kevin Ryan, Corey Deixler, Frank May
Nestor Zaragoza, John Corr
Linda Greene, Jill Feibusch Gayle and Dr. Cary Hirsch
Dr.David Eisen, Dr. Mark Geller, Dr. Mary Leahy, Jack Holt
James Vela, Sister Fran, Joseph Lagana, Mary Leahy, Lou Siracusano Nestor Zaragoza, John Corr
Dr. Leon Harris, Arnold Etelson
Pete Cullen, Chip Faust Chris and Steve Albanese
Dr. Bijo Chacko, Dr. David Rubin
Sapna Shah, James Vela, Sarah Vela, Tim Vela Josesh Lagana, Harold Peterson, Lou Siracusano, Nick DeSantis
Elizabeth, Dr. Richard and Angela Clarkin
Jeanne and Neil Braverman
LINDA’S LIST
Christmas Day
Dining Out
It’s always amazing to me that as soon as Labor Day is past, the holidays seem to follow in the blink of an eye. As I was growing up I swore never to utter the words “when I was a kid,” but here I go: When I was a kid all of the businesses, even the gas stations, closed on Christmas Day. Lucky for us, though, these days some restaurants do open on Christmas Day.
And whether you celebrate Christmas or not, who doesn’t love to dine out? As for me, I’m Italian and our cultural tradition calls for eating seven fishes until midnight on Christmas Eve. So this year I think I just might go to River Palm (1416 River Road, Edgewater) to either enjoy sushi or fish. Even though the restaurant is a steak house, Andy is, bar none, the best sushi chef around and the eatery’s fish is never, ever a disappointment; it’s always fresh and prepared to perfection. As I’m nibbling on my Alpine roll (with a glass of cranberry sangria, of course) waiting for my lobster to steam, I think to myself: I hope Santa doesn’t pass by my home this year; I’ve been a good girl, I swear. But I doubt he will ignore me, because I have made such a realistic wish list. Let’s see: first, I’ll take some diamonds because they are a girl’s best friend and a Louie bag or two because you should never leave home without one…
My friends who celebrate Chanukah and I always laugh and say, “Who cares whether it’s Santa or the Chanukah Man as long we get what we want?” Thanks, Santa, for never disappointing me!
With Chanukah starting on the 24th of December and Christmas Eve being on the 24th, things will feel especially festive. I love, love, love the holidays! And don’t you just adore breakfast on a holiday? I know I do. Typically my normal everyday breakfast routine is to make a shake and run out the door. Don’t get me wrong; my shakes are delish, but so are omelettes. I’m thinking Pancetta, the restaurant at the Teaneck Marriott at Glenpointe (100 W. Burr Boulevard, Teaneck). What better way to start Christmas Day
than with their omelettes, Canadian bacon and attentive service?
After a scrumptious breakfast, I’ll head back home to wrap some gifts (now you know the reason they call me last-minute Linda). Afterwards, I think I’ll run down to my gym to work off my breakfast. Know what’s crazy though? Even as I’m on the treadmill working to lose the calories, I’ll be trying to figure out where to go for lunch.
Let’s consider our options: Water view? An easy choice is Le Jardin (1257 River Road, Edgewater), which offers great panoramic views of NYC and a French-continental menu with something for everyone. The view is simply breathtaking! (Please say hello to Gus from me.)
If you want a more formal setting, a good option is The Manor (111 Prospect Avenue, West Orange). Talk about food choices—a lobster buffet or an á la carte menu are sure to tempt your taste buds. I personally always prefer the á la carte menu because of my food allergies and, of course, Princess Linda likes being served as opposed to going on buffet lines. I just love The Manor’s beautiful grounds; they are always impeccably well manicured and are so lovely and picturesque even in the winter. They make for such great photo ops. OK, so we covered French, continental and American. Now for the Asian food lovers, it doesn’t get better than Aoyama French Thai & Japanese (319 Franklin Ave, Wyckoff). The
food here is simply fabulous and don’t forget it’s a BYOB so don’t leave home without your bottles. I never do. And Aoyama has gluten-free soy sauce, so I’m a happy camper. Try the sticky rice with mango. I always end my meal with the delicious sorbet because of my dumb allergies, but the menu also features some really incredible desserts.
Feel free to let me know what you chose for your Christmas Day meal. I would love hearing about your day! You can leave your comments online at www.bcthemag.com or email me at info@bcthemag.com with subject line “Linda’s List.”
I can’t believe that 2016 is almost over! It’s been an amazing year. Thank you for reading about and sharing in my fun life. I wish you all a fabulous holiday, and a happy and healthy New Year in 2017. Let’s make it a great one! Ciao for now. See you next year...
Linda Barba is out and about every day of the week! Have something cool for her to check out?
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RIVER PALM THE
HOLIDAY FASHION
Location: The Tides Estate, North Haledon
Photographer: Nick Gagliano, Studio Uno Photography
Stylists: Bruce Estevez, Amy Schwartz
Hair: Meagan Chavez, Eric Alt Salons
Makeup: Alexa Mele, Eric Alt Salons
Models: Stephanie and Liane
Fashions: Available at Boutique 811, Franklin Lakes
Fashions
Liane: grey wool Caban with fox collar with black tank and black ribbed leggings and mirrored aviators.
available at Boutique 811, Franklin Lakes.
Stephanie: shawl collared blackand-white long tweed coat with cream turtleneck and velvet midrise flared cropped black pants. Fashions available at Boutique 811, Franklin Lakes.
Liane: plaid and lace pencil skirt with black and grey sweater and green rabbit fur cropped jacket. Fashions available at Boutique 811, Franklin Lakes.
Stephanie: long-sleeve v-neck t-shirt with chocolate suede leggings, rabbit and fox swing jacket. Fashions available at Boutique 811, Franklin Lakes.
Liane: grey ribbed knit dress with multi-colored faux fur vest and oversized belted chunky knit coat. Fashions available at Boutique 811, Franklin Lakes.
Stephanie: classic multicolored tweed jacket, black stretch pencil skirt and grey faux fur shrug. Fashions available at Boutique 811, Franklin Lakes.
Liane: fur-lined denim sleeveless coat with slim army green twill pant and nude strapped sandals with gold locket and blush wallet. Fashions available at Boutique 811, Franklin Lakes.
Stephanie: blush-colored motorcycle jacket with cream ruffled knit top and lizard patterned taupe pants. Fashions available at Boutique 811, Franklin Lakes.
Liane: heather grey fur-lined hooded sweatshirt with grey and black sweater, cropped flared jeans and leather ankle booties. Fashions available at Boutique 811, Franklin Lakes.
Stephanie: metallic crackled leather dress and grey wool baseball jacket with sequined sleeves. Fashions available at Boutique 811, Franklin Lakes.
Liane: velvet embroidered bomber jacket, dark skinny jeans and grey stole. Fashions available at Boutique 811,Franklin Lakes.
Stephanie: tan tweed cape with leather trim, cream turtleneck and high-waisted indigo skinny jeans with natural knitted fur scarf. Fashions available at Boutique 811, Franklin Lakes.
Stephanie: oversized white fur jacket with beaded and fringed knit jacket and high-waisted wide leg black jeans. Fashions available at Boutique 811, Franklin Lakes.
Liane: amethyst triple zip convertible coat with black tank, black pencil skirt and ribbed knit leggings with Lucite lip clutch. Fashions available at Boutique 811, Franklin Lakes.
Stephanie: floral embroidered tea gown. Fashions available at Boutique 811, Franklin Lakes.
Liane: Multicolor beaded flapper dress.
Stephanie: pearl and crystal beaded gown with grey stole. Fashions available at Boutique 811, Franklin Lakes.
Liane: black eyelet lace cocktail dress
Stephanie: red cocktail caftan
Fashions available at Boutique 811, Franklin Lakes.
Liane: Sheer floral appliqué cocktail dress
Stephanie: black and white lace fit and flare party dress
Fashions available at Boutique 811, Franklin Lakes.
FIT FOR HEROES
Homes Fit for Heroes held their annual Golf and Dinner Classic. For more information visit: homesfitforheroes.net
Brian Flood, Ray Piacentini
Brian Mackey, Craig Richardson, Wayne Mackey Zigmund Gorski, Stephanie Aboyoun
Mark and Jena Marino, Larry Inserra, Elaine and Lawrence Raia
Linda Post, Ilana Raia, Cal Post Shannon and Chris Schnall Ryan and Joni Sanzari
Bryann Dusharm, Sarah Duncan August O’Niell, Chelsea Delgado, Mariana O’Niell
Linda Ng, Minwoo Jang
Jeff Dziak, Larry and Larry Inserra, Patrice Jungerman
Joseph and Annette Raia Illana and Larry Raia
The Raia Family and Kim Guadagno
Paulette Puccio, Jeff Laviano Larry Raia, Elaine Raia, Levi Rodgers, Pedro Solis, Sam Raia
Sam Raia, Kim Guadagno, Tina Raia
Sam and Benita Raia
Chrissy and Jim Yu
Russ and Lydia Furnari
Chrissy Yu, Ty Skamas and Holly Manuelian
Kris Horgan and Cleopatra Kollias-Perez
STAYING FASHIONABLY WARM THIS WINTER
Even though winter is upon us, there’s no reason we can’t be toasty and cozy, and fashionably stylish. From coats to boots and hats, the hottest seasonal trends are here!
TOP COATS
CASHMERE SWEATERS
This great investment piece can easily be dressed up or down. It’s equally perfect paired with classic shirts and trousers or more hip and edgy fashions like leather pants. The nice thing about cashmere is that it is lightweight, yet it gives you all the necessary warmth.
The first thing that everyone sees, coats need to make a “wow” statement. This means showcasing your outerwear with one of this season’s must-haves. Choose from various styles, such as the classic cozy wrap coat, which can resemble a robe, to the military look with embellished buttons. The puffer coat is huge this winter season and can even be worn over your LBD for a night out. Colorful fur —whether it’s faux or real — will also be a major look this winter. And last but not least, there’s the trench coat, which is being seen in both its classic incarnation as well as with a fashion-forward patent twist. If we’re lucky enough to experience the same unseasonably warm weather as last year, then this is the ideal coat to wear.
TURTLENECKS/ LEGGINGS
It’s all about layering. You can layer a turtleneck under your dress or shirts. In fact, you may want to unpack some of your summer pieces and use them this winter season. Embracing the cozy look, leggings will also have a leg up this season, as they show up paired under dresses and skirts.
OVER-THE-KNEE BOOTS/ANKLE BOOTIES
These are two essential accessories. The over-the-knee boot is warm, chic and can be dressed up or down. I love how you can wear it with a pair of classic jeans for a sleek casually cool look or dress it up with a skirt or dress for a more sophisticated, sexy look. I also adore this season’s ankle bootie. Ladies, save your classics for another day and go for the boots that have designs on the heel or an all-over embellished look such as a floral or leopard print.
HATS
Believe it or not the trapper hat is in. Who knew looking like you’re going hunting would be the rage this winter season? Not only will you be on trend, but you’ll also be keeping your ears warm and protected from the elements. The beanie is another warm hat carryover from last winter’s season. (I know, ladies; it can mess up your hair, so this is when you go for that minimal look.) Beanies are super cozy, warm and yes very fashionable. You can even get them with a cute pom-pom. Other popular hats topping the list: berets and wool fedoras.
Soneca Guadara, a fashion stylist certified in professional styling from New York’s Fashion Institute of Technology, has worked backstage at various runway shows for NYFW as well as several fashion photo shoots.
KID’S FASHION
James: Appaman velvet tuxedo suit and bow tie with Paul Oliver white dress shirt
Meghan: Sally Miller cream and black dress, Chloe K heart clutch and Amiana leather boots
James: Appaman twopiece grey plaid vest and pants suit with Leo & Zachary pink and blue dot shirt
Meghan: Les Tout Petits cold shoulder lace dress
James: Sylvia & Heach color block sweater and Appaman black dress pants
Meghan: Les Tout Petits lace jumpsuit and Chloe K heart clutch
James: Appaman velvet tuxedo suit with Leo & Zachary pink and white check shirt
Meghan: Les Tout Petits sequin tank sheath dress, Bari Lyn pom-pom rhinestone headband
James: Leo & Zachary black and white check button down shirt with Appaman straight twill pants
Meghan: Les Tout Petits sequin bottom dress with Marcia’s Attic for Kids black neoprene handbag
James: Scotch Shrunk blue and white check double layer shirt with DL 1961 khaki 5 Pkt Twill jeans
Meghan: Terez cotton and Lycra motorcycle sweatshirt jacket with DL 1961 grey ripped jeans
Location: The Tides Estate, North Haledon
Photographer: Nick Gagliano, Studio Uno Photography
Stylists: Bruce Estevez, Amy Schwartz Hair: Meagan Chavez, Eric Alt Salons
Makeup: Alexa Mele, Eric Alt Salons
Models: James and Meghan
Fashions: Available at Marcia’s Attic For Kids, Englewood
The HackensackUMC Foundation held their annual Golf Outing at the Ridgewood Country Club. For more information visit: hackensackumc.org
is now SUEZ United Water
70 countries. 50 companies. 1 focus — you.
We’re dedicated to the 7.5 million people nationwide who rely on United Water for their drinking water, and to protecting this valuable natural resource.
So while our name may be changing, our commitment to preserving our water supply today and for generations to come has not. Thinking Ahead
Anthony Perhacs, Dr. Ira Esformes and Dr. Robert Levine
Nancy Kennedy, Clair Ward, Ro Sorce and Kimberly Ceasar
Dr. Ihor Sawczuk and Larry Inserra
David Jurist, Jackie Lee and Dr. Carla Simonian
Bruce Markowitz, Theresa and JD de Leon, Eurice Rojas and Joe Burt
Jerry Iannone, Kerry Hesler and Trae Minicucci
Dr. Rick Winters and Dr. Greg Simonian
Jason Kreitner and Tony Cabrera John Calendrillo, Nick Cangialosi and Dr. Morey Menacker
Tommy Scudieri, John Salemme and Bob Costa
Liz Koller and Sam Toscano
Dr. Steven Topfer, Dr. Mark Schlesinger
Mark Sparta, Kevin Joyce, Dr. Dante Implicito
Uli Diaz, Kimberly Ceasar, Diane Reynolds and Jon Fitzgerald
Rich Henning and Dr. Ihor Sawczuk
Jim Kirkos, Joan Fragala, Joe Coccaro
Jo Ann and Billy Cunningham
Joe Simunovich, Bob Garrett, Jon Fitzgerald and Larry Inserra
Karla Alvarez and Jean Monnecka
HACKENSACKUMC PALISADES FOUNDATION
The HUMC Palisades Foundation held a cocktail reception honoring Ed Davis and The Harborage. For more information visit: palisadesmedicalfoundation.org
Alda Valenzuela, Tyler McCamish, Jennifer McIntyre
Anthony Passannante, Joe Burt, John Calandriello, Ruben D. Fernandez
Helen Davis, Brian Davis, Kathleen Mc Andrew
Joujou Rizk, Jessica Lyons
Bruce Markowitz, Ed Davis
Lisa Lansing, Shawn Ryan Roland Alun, Dorothy Riley, Norma Almanza, Eurice Rojas
Kevin and Anna Marie O’ Connor, Lillian Sonnenschein, John Meditz, Dolores Lawlor
John Capazzi, Mayor Thomas Calabrese, Gerald Calabrese
Brian and Dana Martinotti
Michael Iannacone, Lydia Melendez, Jasmin Rodriguez, Katie O’Donnell
Mike Calamia, Mary Ellen Lillis
Bruce and Eileen Markowitz, Lillian Sonnenschein, Patrick Sweeney
Joe Capriglione, Donna Simidian
J.D. And Theresa deLeon, Claude and Barbara Coleman
Amy and Andy Horowitz
Brigette and Patrick Sweeney
Center for Food Action of New Jersey
Bergen County
Share the Spirit of Giving!
192 West Demarest Avenue Englewood, NJ 07631
GIVING GUIDE
SHARE YOUR GENEROSITY WITH WORTHY AREA CHARITIES.
Center for Food Action of New Jersey
Contact: Jennifer Johnson
192 West Demarest Avenue
Phone: 201-569-1804
Englewood, NJ 07631
Web: www.cfanj.org
Contact: Jennifer Johnson
Phone: 201-569-1804
Web: www.cfanj.org
Help spread holiday cheer throughout the coming year for those in need. Join forces—and funds—with other like-minded individuals and organizations, such as the ones that follow, to make a positive difference towards enriching our Bergen County communities and all of those who call it home.
This year join forces with other like-minded individuals and organizations, such as the ones that follow, to continue Bergen County’s long-standing spirit of caring commitment to improving our communities and all of those who call it home.
Mission: The organization’s goal is to prevent hunger and homelessness, and to improve the lives of individuals and families. It provides emergency food, utility and housing assistance, advocacy, counseling services and access to other community resources. CFA helps clients find solutions to problems, achieve financial stability and create a brighter future.
Mission: The organization’s goal is to prevent hunger and homelessness, and to improve the lives of individuals and families. It provides emergency food, utility and housing assistance, advocacy, counseling services and access to other community resources. CFA helps clients find solutions to problems, achieve financial stability and create a brighter future.
New Concepts for Living
68A W. Passaic Street
Rochelle Park, NJ 07662
New Concepts for Living
Contact: Rachel Shemesh, exec. director
68A W. Passaic Street
Phone: 201-843-3427
Rochelle Park, NJ 07662
Email: info@ncfl.net
Web: www.ncfl.net
Contact: Rachel Shemesh, exec. director
Phone: 201-843-3427
Email: info@ncfl.net
Web: www.ncfl.net
Mission: New Concepts is a community nonprofit organization committed to people with disabilities and their families. Inspired by the vision of families and consumers, New Concepts enables people to realize their dreams and achieve their individual potential through quality community program supports and services.
Mission: New Concepts is a community nonprofit organization committed to people with disabilities and their families. Inspired by the vision of families and consumers, New Concepts enables people to realize their dreams and achieve their individual potential through quality community program supports and services.
Multiple Sclerosis Care Center
690 Kinderkamack Road, Suite 300
Oradell, NJ 07649
Habitat for Humanity of Bergen County
Contact: Jacey Raimondo
690 Kinderkamack Road, Suite 300
Phone: 201-457-1020
Oradell, NJ 07649
Web: habitatbergen.org
Contact: Jacey Raimondo
Phone: 201-457-1020
Web: habitatbergen.org
Mission: Habitat for Humanity of Bergen County was established in 1994 as an affiliate of Habitat for Humanity International. Our mission is to provide decent, affordable homes for hardworking Bergen County families.
Mission: Habitat for Humanity of Bergen County was established in 1994 as an affiliate of Habitat for Humanity International. Our mission is to provide decent, affordable homes for hardworking Bergen County families.
Court Appointed Special Advocates
One Bergen County Plaza, Suite 440
CASA
Hackensack, NJ 07601
Court Appointed Special Advocates
Contact: Amanda Simonton, amanda@bergencasa.org
One Bergen County Plaza, Suite 440 Hackensack, NJ 07601
Phone: 201-336-7520
Contact: Lori Morris, lori@bergencasa.org Adam Fishman
Email: info@bergencasa.org
Web: www.bergencasa.org
Contact: Amanda Simonton, amanda@bergencasa.org
Phone: 201-336-7520
Email: info@bergencasa.org
Web: www.bergencasa.org
Mission: Court Appointed Special Advocates (CASA) for Children of Bergen County is an independent, nonprofit organization of professionals and trained volunteers who have been appointed by the NJ Family Court to advocate for children removed from their homes due to abuse and/or neglect. CASA works to ensure that needed services and assistance are made available to these children while helping to move them toward safe and permanent homes.
Mission: Court Appointed Special Advocates (CASA) for Children of Bergen County is an independent, nonprofit organization of professionals and trained volunteers who have been appointed by the NJ Family Court to advocate for children removed from their homes due to abuse and/or neglect. CASA works to ensure that needed services and assistance are made available to these children while helping to move them toward safe and permanent homes.
Multiple Sclerosis Care Center
Holy Name Hospital 718 Teaneck Road Teaneck, NJ 07666
Holy Name Hospital 718 Teaneck Road
Contact: Lisa Futterman
Teaneck, NJ 07666
Phone: 201-837-0727
Web: holyname.org/mscenter
Contact: Lisa Futterman
Phone: 201-837-0727
Web: holyname.org/mscenter
Mission: The Center is New Jersey’s only nonprofit licensed facility providing healthcare and related services to patients with MS regardless of their ability to pay.
Mission: The Center is New Jersey’s only nonprofit licensed facility providing healthcare and related services to patients with MS regardless of their ability to pay.
“Generosity consists not in the sum given, but the manner in which it is bestowed.”
“Generosity consists not in the sum given, but the manner in which it is bestowed.”
—Author Unknown
—Author
Unknown
Hope for Children
Research Foundation
700D Lake Street
Ramsey, NJ 07446
Contact: Meg Minassian, exec. director
Phone: 201-962-8686
Web: www.hopeforchildrenresearch.org
Mission: The hope of the foundation is finding new treatments and cures for children with neurological diseases. We hope a doctor will never again have to say to a mom or dad, “take your child home; there’s nothing we can do.”
Pet ResQ, Inc.
24 West Railroad Avenue, Suite 172
Tenafly, NJ 07670
Contact: Robyn Urman
Phone: 201-450-5992
Web: www.petresqinc.org
Mission: We are a small group of volunteers who believe that all living creatures deserve a chance. We exist solely on donations and the efforts of volunteers and foster homes. We tend to rescue the elderly and handicapped pets that otherwise would not stand a chance at life.
Children’s Cardiomyopathy
Foundation
P.O. Box 547
Tenafly, NJ 07670
Contact: Lisa Yue
Phone: 866-808-2873
Email: info@childrenscardiomyopathy.org
Web: www.childrenscardiomyopathy.org
Mission: The Children’s Cardiomyopathy Foundation is dedicated to finding the cause and cure for pediatric cardiomyopathy, a chronic and potentially life-threatening disease of the heart muscle, through the support of research, education, and increased awareness and advocacy.
Sharsheret
1086 Teaneck Road, Suite 2G
Teaneck, New Jersey 07666
Contact: Elana Silber, director of operations
Phone: 866-474-2774 & 201-833-2341
Fax: 201-837-5025
Web: www.sharsheret.org
Mission: Sharsheret is a national not-for-profit organization supporting young Jewish women and their families facing breast cancer. Our mission is to offer a community of support to women, of all Jewish backgrounds, diagnosed with breast cancer or at increased genetic risk, by fostering culturally-relevant individualized connections with networks of peers, health professionals, and related resources.
“Life is a gift, and it offers us the privilege, opportunity and the responsibility to give something back by becoming more.”
—Anthony Robbins
Pony Power Therapies
1170 Ramapo Valley Road
Mahwah, NJ 07430
Contact: Dana Spett
Phone: 201-934-1001
Web: ponypowernj.org
Mission: Pony Power Therapies is a non-profit organization giving special needs and at-risk children and adults a unique opportunity to ride, care for and interact with horses. Our riding and non-riding activities enhance individuals’ physical, social and emotional well-being in a safe, nurturing farm environment.
200 Club of Bergen County
560 Hudson Street
Hackensack, NJ 07601
Contact: Andrea Betancourt
Phone: 201-229-0600
Email: info@200club.org
Web: www.200club.org
Mission: To benefit law enforcement, fire or emergency personnel who die or are seriously injured in the line of duty. Our motto is “serving our servants.”
Mission: hip is a non-profit agency, run by and for people with disabilities, with Centers for Independent Living in Bergen and Hudson counties. hip’s mission is to empower people with disabilities to achieve independent living through outreach, advocacy and education. hip offers wide-ranging programs and services to people with disabilities of all ages.
JDRF- Northern New Jersey and Rockland
County Chapter
(Juvenile Diabetes Research Fund)
560 Sylvan Avenue, Suite 1210 Englewood Cliffs, NJ 07632
Contact: Jim Roberts
Phone: 201-568-4838
Web: www.jdrf.org
Mission: To find a cure for diabetes and its complications through the support of research while providing support for those living with Type 1 Diabetes and their families in our community.
Julia’s Butterfly Foundation
637 Wyckoff Avenue, Suite #285
Wyckoff, NJ 07481
Contact: Christine Callahan
Phone: 201-675-9961
Web: www.juliasbutterflyfoundation.org
Mission: Julia’s Butterfly Foundation is a volunteer, non-profit 501 (c)3 charitable organization dedicated to improving the lives of terminally and chronically ill children and their families. The foundation honors the memory of six-year-old Julia Marie Bommer, who passed away in 2005 following her brave battle against a rare kidney disorder. It is the foundation’s goal to pay tribute to Julia’s life by helping other children and their families struggling with the demands of their unique circumstances. We are humbled by the courage and dedication of the children and caregivers we support, and consider it a privilege to provide financial aid, physical assistance and services to those who need it most.
Tomorrows Children’s Fund
30 Prospect Avenue Hackensack, NJ 07601
Contact: Susan Garbe, sgarbe@tcfkid.org
Phone: 551-996-5504
Fax: 201-488-1444
Web: www.tcfkid.org
Mission: The Tomorrows Children’s Fund was founded by a group of committed parents to help their children and others like them with cancer and serious blood disorders. With the help of friends like you, today, TCF provides a warm, healthy and loving environment for children in treatment; a full scope of services to relieve families’ emotional and financial stress and the very best possible medical care. All of which confirms TCF’s belief that through hope, hard work and heartfelt generosity, extraordinary things are possible.
bergenPAC (Performing Arts Center)
30 North Van Brunt Street
Englewood, NJ 07631
Contact: Dominic Roncace
Phone: 201-816-8160
Web: bergenpac.org
Mission: To make the live performing arts accessible, and to speak to the lives of its diverse community. It builds a creative home for artists of excellence and relevance, who entertain and enlighten, inspire and inform audiences.
The Volunteer Center of Bergen County
64 Passaic Street
Hackensack, NJ 07601
Contact: Lynne Algrant
Phone: 201-489-9454
Web: www.bergenvolunteers.org
Mission: The Volunteer Center of Bergen County strengthens the community by connecting people with opportunities to serve, operating model volunteer programs, building capacity for effective volunteering, and participating in strategic partnerships that meet community needs.
The Community Chest
Foundation for Autism Training and Education (FATE)
P.O. Box 1157
Englewood Cliffs, NJ 07632
Contact: Sheilagh Cirillo
Phone: 201-541-9833
Web: www.thefate.org
Mission: FATE strives to help individuals with autism achieve their highest level of independence within their home, school and community.
West Bergen Mental Health
120 Chestnut Street
Ridgewood, NJ 07450
Contact: Carol Cohen
Phone: 201-444-3550
Web: www.westbergen.org
Mission: The agency’s mission is to treat severe mental illness in children and adults and promote psychological health and personal growth. It provides comprehensive treatment and supportive services for clients and the surrounding community.
RBARI
2 Shelter Lane Oakland, NJ 07436
Phone: 201-337-5180
Email: AdoptLove@rbari.org
Web: www.rbari.org
Mission: RBARI believes that all animals have a natural right to humane treatment including proper care, respect, and safe shelter. Our primary mission is to provide sanctuary while finding permanent, loving homes for the many animals that come to us (including feral, elderly, handicapped, and formerly abused animals). Animals in our care receive lots of love in addition to shelter, food, and medical care. RBARI adheres to a “nokill” policy, giving animals an open-ended stay at a warm, safe place until loving homes can be found.
Family Promise of Bergen County
100 Dayton Street Ridgewood, NJ 07450
Contact: Kate Duggan, executive director
Phone: 201-833-8009, fax: 201-833-8011
Web: www.bergenfamilypromise.org
Mission: To provide hospitality to the homeless and to keep families together in times of crisis, guiding them through temporary periods of homelessness by helping them create an achievable vision and develop a strong foundation for self-sufficiency.
1 Bergen County Plaza, Suite #440 Hackensack, NJ 07601
Mission: The Valley Hospital serves the community by healing and caring for patients, comforting their families and teaching good health. The Valley Hospital is distinguished by a commitment to excellence in clinical care, innovation in programs and technology and a compassionate and respectful environment.
Mission: The Community Chest raises funds and allocates them to agencies demonstrating the capacity to provide services to residents and provides coordinating and planning services in Englewood, Englewood Cliffs and Tenafly to support a range of needs, including hunger, afterschool programming, elderly care, career counseling for women, mental health services, environmental education and medical care to low-income pregnant women.
The Comedy Cures Foundation
122 E. Clinton Avenue Tenafly, NJ 07670
Contact: Saranne Rothberg
Phone: 201-227-8410
Email: info@comedycures.org
Web: www.comedycures.org
Mission: The Comedy Cures Foundation is a national non-profit organization bringing joy, laughter and therapeutic humor programs to kids and grown-ups living with illness, depression, trauma and disabilities.
“We must give more in order to get more. It is the generous giving of ourselves that produces the generous harvest.”
“Generosity is giving more than you can, and pride is taking less than you need.”
—Kahlil Gibran
Contact: Maggie Peters Phone: 201-336-7500
— Orison Swett Marden
Mission: BCEDC is a not-for-profit organization created to foster new business development and retain existing businesses within Bergen County.
YCS Foundation
(Youth Consultation Services)
235 Main Street, 3rd Floor Hackensack, NJ 07601
Contact: Richard Mingoia
Phone: 201-678-1312
Web: www.ycs.org
Mission: At YCS, our mission is to advocate for, educate, shelter and care for children in need, and their families, so that each can further develop the skills, self-worth and hope necessary for success within their communities.
North Jersey Friendship House
125 Atlantic Street
Hackensack, NJ 07601
Phone: 201-488-2121
Web: www.njfriendshiphouse.org
Mission: To maximize the independence and community living skills of persons experiencing severe and persistent mental illness, in order to reduce unnecessary hospitalization, secure other health and welfare services, as required by each individual referred to Friendship House for treatment; and to render this assistance voluntarily in a safe, comfortable environment.
Friendship House is a non-profit rehabilitation center offering comprehensive behavioral health services, vocational training and employment support for adults with all types of disabilities. Services are designed to address the unique needs and goals of every individual.
New Jersey Association of Verismo Opera (Verismo Opera)
P.O. Box 3024
Fort Lee, NJ 07024-9024
Jewish Home Foundation of North Jersey
10 Link Drive
Rockleigh, NJ 07647
Adler Aphasia Center
60 West Hunter Avenue
Maywood, NJ 07607
201-368-8585
The Office of Concern Food Pantry
55 West Demarest Avenue Englewood, NJ 07631
Contact: Mary Ellen Rohon
Phone: 201-886-0561
Contact: Mary Ellen Rohon, info@verismopera.org
Contact: Melanie S. Cohen
Phone: 201-750-4231
Contact: Elissa Goldstein
Phone: 201-368-8585
Contact: George McKenna, GMcK1320@optonline.net
Web: www.njavo.org
Phone: 201-886-0561
Web: www.verismopera.org
Web: www.jewishhomefamily.org
Web: www.adleraphasiacenter.org
Phone: 201-568-1465
Mission: New Jersey Association of Verismo Opera’s (Verismo Opera) mission is: 1. To enhance the cultural life of our community by providing a complete range of fine musical programming; 2. To educate the community about the uplifting benefits of music and, in particular, grand opera; 3. To educate and introduce our youth to the joy of fine music; and 4. To provide performance opportunities to musicians and offer study grants to young performing artists.
Mission: New Jersey Association of Verismo Opera’s (Verismo Opera) mission is: 1. To enhance the cultural life of our community by providing a complete range of fine musical programming; 2. To educate the community about the uplifting benefits of music and, in particular, grand opera; 3. To educate and introduce our youth to the joy of fine music; and 4. To provide performance opportunities to musicians and offer study grants to young performing artists.
The
Daniel Jordan Fiddle Foundation
P.O. Box 1149
Ridgewood, NJ 07451
Contact: Linda Walder, executive director
Phone: 877-444-1149
Web: www.djfiddlefoundation.org
Mission: The Daniel Jordan Fiddle Foundation is the first organization in the United States with the mission to provide grants to residential, recreational, vocational, educational and family programs for adolescents and adults with autism. Its expertise encompasses developing, identifying, supporting and supervising exemplary programs nationwide that honor the individuality of each person with autism.
Mission: The mission of the Jewish Home Foundation of North Jersey, Inc. (JHF) is to provide aid and support to the not-for-profit organizations of the Jewish Home Family; Jewish Home at Rockleigh, Jewish Home Assisted Living, Jewish Home at Home, and Jewish Home and Rehabilitation Center for the purposes of making available healthcare, educational, life enrichment, scientific or other charitable efforts for the seniors, the elderly and infirm in our community, without regard to the individuals’ ability to pay.
The American Cancer Society
Mission: To be a vital resource to anyone whose life or profession is touched by aphasia. Aphasia is a language disorder that impairs the expression and understanding of spoken language, reading and writing. It occurs most often from a stroke or brain injury. This condition affects a person’s ability to communicate, but does not affect their intellect.
Adler Aphasia Center provides people with aphasia the assistance they need in regaining basic communication skills, as well as their self-esteem and selfconfidence, often lost as a result of their disability.
Mission: Serving “the poorest of the poor” in northern New Jersey by supplementing their food and other basic needs with bags of food each week. Food packages contain canned goods and other non-perishables, as well as fresh poultry, fresh fruits and vegetables, and dairy products. It is sponsored by St. Cecilia’s church in Englewood but the pantry is independent functionally and financially. It serves all regardless of religion, race or culture. They are open Monday through Thursday, from 9:00 am to 1:00 pm.
Phone: 201-343-2222 or 800-ACS-2345
Web: www.cancer.org
“Real generosity toward the future lies in giving all to the present.”
—Albert Camus
Mission: The American Cancer Society is a nationwide community-based volunteer health organization dedicated to eliminating cancer as a major health problem, by prevention, saving lives and diminishing suffering from cancer through research, education, advocacy and service.
Alzheimers Association
400 Morris Avenue, Suite 251
Denville, NJ 07834
Phone: 201-261-6009
Web: alz.org/nj
Mission: The Greater New Jersey Chapter provides programs and services to individuals with Alzheimer’s disease, their families and caregivers who live in the Bergen County and 13 other New Jersey counties. Association programs and services include education and training, support groups, respite assistance, and a toll-free telephone, HelpLine.
“You have not lived today until you have done something for someone who can never repay you.”
—John
Bunyon
Center for Hope and Safety
12 Overlook Avenue, Suite A Rochelle Park, NJ 07662
Contact: Jean Kirch
Phone: 201-498-9247, ext. 301
Web: www.hopeandsafetynj.org
Mission: Center for Hope and Safety’s mission is to assist women and children who are victims of domestic violence, including emotional, economic, sexual and physical abuse. The agency provides emergency and transitional housing, emotional support, as well as a diversified continuum of services focused on safety, empowerment and self-sufficiency.
Each week they move 4.5 tons of food from their warehouse to their front office for distribution to 750 needy families. “We are staffed almost entirely by dedicated, unpaid volunteers. We operate through the generosity of foundations, businesses, churches, schools, community organizations, and ndividuals. We are a 501 C 3 organization, so all contributions are tax-deductible,” notes spokesperson.
The Hermitage
335 North Franklin Turnpike Ho-Ho-Kus, NJ 07423
Contact: Leslie Naghshineh
Phone: 201-445-8311
Web: www.thehermitage.org
Mission: The Friends of the Hermitage, Inc. was established to restore, maintain and interpret The Hermitage, along with its grounds and outbuildings. Their mission is not only to provide these services, but also to communicate to a diverse audience of students, scholars and the general public, the site, its archives and its collections as they relate to local, regional and national history beginning in 1740.
Giants of Generosity, Inc.
201 Piermont Road, Suite #16
Cresskill, NJ 07626
Contact: D. Jane Chagaris Albanese
Phone: 201-567-2622
Web: www.giantsofgenerosity.org
Mission: Giants of Generosity’s mission is to quickly respond to the urgent needs of people in our own communities who are experiencing critical, life-altering situations. It does this by providing financial relief, connections to valuable resources, and service providers. Its goals are achieved with much greater impact by leveraging resources, expertise and relationships with other, like-minded organizations whenever possible. Giants of Generosity is fully funded by the generous donations of area residents and by corporate grants.
Girl Scouts of Northern New Jersey
300 Forest Avenue Paramus, NJ 07652
Contact: Lynn Apolinaro
Phone: 201-967-8100
Web: www.gsnnj.org
Mission: Girl Scouting helps girls develop their full individual potential; relate to others with increasing understanding, skill and respect; develop values to guide their actions and provide the foundation for sound decision-making; and contribute to the improvement of society through their abilities, leadership skills and cooperation with others. GSCBC serves one in every four girls in 61 Bergen County towns, over 13,000 girls. Girls, ages 5-17, meet in age-level groups on a regular basis or they may participate in shortterm activities, special interest groups, neighborhood activity centers or camping.
Northern New Jersey Community Foundation (NNJCF)
1 Grand Avenue, Suite 3
Englewood, NJ 07631
The Gregory M. Hirsch Memorial Foundation, Inc. for Pediatric Heart Care & Research Center
Contact: Danielle De Laurentis, nnjcf@nnjcf.org
Joseph M. Sanzari Children’s Hospital
Phone: 201-568-5608
Hackensack University Medical Center
Web: www.nnjcf.org
Hackensack, NJ 07601
Contact: Fred Hirsch
Phone: 201-707-5933
Web: gmhhf.org
Mission: Its mission is to prevent sudden cardiac death in children and young adults by better understanding its causes, identifying at-risk individuals and families, and offering those families state-of-the-art treatment and support.
Mission: NNJCF focuses on civic engagement, education, public health and the arts by working with local governments, school districts, businesses, non-profits and citizen groups to improve community life. Foundation partners identify and resolve regional problems and opportunities by sharing ideas, services and resources. The ArtsBergen initiative supports and encourages creative placemaking, the integration of arts and culture into an area to build community and boost the local economy.
Advance Housing Incorporated
100 Hollister Road
Teterboro, NJ 07608
Contact: Mary Rossettini
Phone: 201-498-9140
Web: www.advancehousing.org
Mission: The mission of Advance Housing, Inc. is to expand the range and scope of supportive housing opportunities available to persons with psychiatric disabilities. In addition, we will seek to make similar options and services available to other individuals who are in need of supportive housing. Our array of outreach services, designed to help people live independently and productively in the community, will exceed the highest standards of professional practice.
Robert Nick, Andrew Silverman, Tony Travotto, Roger Fogg
Linda Fortunato, James Chitty Ciara Trainor, Lauren Eva, Jessica Martin, Moira Fox
Jon Taubin, Lauren Cohen
Joseph and Ellen Silverman, Michael Kolin Glenn Stein, Ed Stevenson, Matt Kuiken
Michelle Levitt, Sara Buchbaum
Jody Parker, Robert Hyd, Howard Levitan Dana and Mark Goldstein
Marc Rosenkrantz, Charles Shulman, Jared Kanter
Brian Wraith, Doug Allen
Quinn, Jen, Jarrett and Nora Milligan
Mike Della Pesca, Jim Veale
Roger Kostiuk, Christine Kostiuk, Jerry Camhy
Dana Goldstein, Diane Lieberfard, Andrew Silverman
Judy Perlmutter, Annette Feldman, Judy Schwartz, Cynthia Geller, Ellen Silverman
Elissa and Andrew Silverman
Scott, Rachel, Charles, Melissa and Michael Berkowitz
Laurie Siegel and Gary Siepser
Annette Myers and Ron Soussa
Beth and Jay Nadel
Beth Hirschberg and Gil Sandler
2016 HOLIDAY MOVIE PREVIEW
November and December releases offer sci-fi and magic, true stories and fantasies, animation for kids and drama for adults. Ten of the most promising are described here, in order of their release dates.
DR.
STRANGE
NOVEMBER 4
Stephen Strange (Benedict Cumberbatch) is an arrogant New York neurosurgeon whose hands are destroyed in an automobile accident. He spends all of his money trying to mend his injuries, to no avail. Penniless, he wanders as a derelict for a time before making his way to Nepal, where he encounters the Ancient One (Tilda Swinton), a healer who teaches him how to tap into his psychic powers. Strange develops an array of amazing abilities, including the power to cast spells and fly. Other characters include the Ancient One’s sorcerer cohort Karl Mordo (Chiwetel Ejiofor), fellow New York surgeon Christine Palmer (Rachel McAdams) and another master of the mystic arts, Kaecillius (Mads Mikkelsen). Directed by Scott Derrickson, the film is based on the Marvel character originated by Stan Lee and Steve Ditko in 1963. The movie opens a whole unseen corner of the cinematic universe—parallel dimensions —with eyedazzling surrealistic production design. It promises the usual action and violence associated with a Marvel film, as well as a darker-than-usual origin tale.
HACKSAW RIDGE
NOVEMBER 4
This is the true story of Desmond Doss (Andrew Garfield), a pacifist, Seventh-day Adventist and conscientious objector who served bravely as a U.S. Army medic in World War II even though he refused to pick up a rifle. He believed the war was just, but killing was wrong and against his religion. The only American soldier in World War II to fight on the front lines without a weapon, he single-handedly evacuated the wounded near enemy lines, took fire while tending to soldiers, was wounded by a grenade and hit by snipers. During the bloody battle of Okinawa, he saved 75 men. Director Mel Gibson traces Doss’ pacifism back to an incident during his childhood in rural Virginia when he hit his brother with a brick and feared he had killed him. Their father became an alcoholic after losing his friends to battle in World War I. Doss was the first conscientious objector ever to be awarded the Congressional Medal of Honor. The battle scenes are brutal, ranking with Saving Private Ryan in intensity and gore. Hugo Weaving, Sam Worthington, Vince Vaughn and Rachel Griffiths co-star.
TROLLS
NOVEMBER 4
This DreamWorks 3D animated feature takes us to a world populated by Trolls, optimistic fuzzy-haired critters who are given to song and dance. But all is not well for the Trolls. The Bergens, giant monsters who enjoy dining on them, invade Troll Village. Poppy (voice of Anna Kendrick), a constantly upbeat and happy Troll, and the very cautious curmudgeon Branch (Justin Timberlake), embark on an adventurous mission fraught with mishaps as they try to tolerate each other long enough to rescue their friends.
Since hair is the Trolls’ predominant feature, the filmmakers have given it a sort of life of its own. The Trolls can grow it and change its color at will, and swing with it. Zooey Deschanel, James Corden, Christine Baranski, John Cleese, and Jeffrey Tambor provide additional voice talent.
ARRIVAL
NOVEMBER 11
When 12 mysterious space crafts enter Earth’s orbit, an elite team headed by linguist Dr. Louise Banks (Amy Adams) is brought together to investigate. Working with the military and scientist Ian Donnelly (Jeremy Renner), Louise attempts to find out what the visitors want. The aliens—given the name “heptopods”—speak in whalelike sounds, but Louise eventually uses written language to determine the aliens’ mission. This takes time, and the world’s uncertainty and uneasiness grow.
Unlike many science-fiction films about UFOs and contact with extraterrestrials, Arrival doesn’t overly rely on computer-generated imagery to tell its story. Director Denis Villeneuve (Sicario) creates tension and illustrates international anxiety through widespread rioting, paranoia, resource shortages and governments opting for a firststrike response to the alien presence.
A cerebral sci-fi, the film aspires to capture the feeling of awe and wonder in Steven Spielberg’s movies with their emphasis on human beings caught up in the drama. Forest Whitaker co-stars as a colonel assigned to monitor attempts to communicate with the heptopods.
BILLY LYNN’S LONG HALFTIME WALK
NOVEMBER 11
Based on the novel by Ben Fountain, this film focuses on 19-year-old Iraq War hero Lynn (Joe Alwyn) who, along with his fellow soldiers in Bravo Squad, becomes a hero after a harrowing Iraq firefight. When he’s brought home temporarily for a victory tour, we see, through flashbacks, what actually happened to the squad, contrasting the realities of war with the perceptions of Americans on the home front. Seen through Billy’s eyes, the movie switches back and forth between the war in Iraq to events during the night before the Thanksgiving football game with his family to the halftime show where he is presented.
Director Ang Lee (Brokeback Mountain, Life of Pi) shot the film at 120 frames per second (the standard film speed is 24 frames per second), resulting in crystal-clear sharpness and providing extreme detail. The supporting cast includes Kristen Stewart as Billy’s sister, Kathryn, and Vin Diesel as his sergeant. Steve Martin and Chris Tucker are also featured.
FANTASTIC BEASTS AND WHERE TO FIND THEM
NOVEMBER 18
The film opens in 1926 as Newt Scamander (Eddie Redmayne, The Danish Girl) has just completed a global excursion to find and document an extraordinary array of magical creatures. Arriving in New York for a brief stopover, he must deal with a No-Maj (American for Muggle) named Jacob, a misplaced magical case, and the escape of some of his fantastic beasts, which could spell trouble for both the wizarding and No-Maj worlds.
Marking the screenwriting debut of J.K. Rowling, the movie’s script was inspired by Rowling’s character Newt Scamander, who was expelled from Hogwarts but eventually wrote one of the school’s most important textbooks, “Fantastic Beasts and Where to Find Them.” Scamander is described as a “magiczoologist,” which in the world of Harry Potter is a person who studies magical creatures. Spun off from Harry Potter and the Sorcerer’s Stone, the film is the first installment of a planned trilogy. The cast includes Ezra Miller, Colin Farrell, Zoe Kravitz, Ron Perlman, Jon Voight, Samantha Morton and Dan Fogler. David Yates directs.
RULES DON’T APPLY
NOVEMBER 23
The setting is Hollywood. The time: 1958. Aspiring young actress Maria Mabrey (Lily Collins) and her ambitious young driver, Frank Forbes (Alden Ehrenreich), struggle with the often-absurd eccentricities of their employer, the wildly unpredictable billionaire Howard Hughes (Warren Beatty). When small-town beauty queen and devout Baptist Maria arrives at the Los Angeles airport, she meets her driver, Frank. Frank is engaged to his 7th-grade sweetheart and is a deeply religious Methodist. Their instant attraction not only puts their religious convictions to the test, but also defies Hughes’ Number 1 rule: no employee is allowed to have any relationship whatsoever with a contract actress. Hughes’ behavior interferes with Maria and Frank in separate and unexpected ways, and as they are drawn deeper into his bizarre world, their values are seriously challenged and their lives changed. Beatty has been absent from the big screen for 15 years, during which time he wrote the screenplay for this film. Hughes was originally a larger role, but as Beatty wrote, he changed the focus from the eccentric billionaire to the young couple as they balance their long-held convictions with temptations that appear almost normal in the atypical world of Hollywood.
THE FOUNDER
DECEMBER 16
Michael Keaton stars as Illinois
milkshake machine salesman Ray Kroc, who turned McDonald’s drive-through business into a national franchise. The film portrays the first meeting between Kroc and the McDonald brothers—Mac and Dick—who were running a burger operation in 1950s Southern California. Kroc, then 52, was impressed by the brothers’ speedy system of making the food and saw franchise potential. He offered his services to the McDonalds, who were looking for a new franchising agent, and Kroc eventually maneuvered himself into a position to take over the company and turn it into a billion-dollar empire. Kroc has been credited with making a number of innovative changes in the food-service franchise model, specifically selling single-store franchises rather than the territorial franchises common at the time, and maintaining uniformity in service and quality among all McDonald’s locations. Director John Lee Hancock and Keaton portray Kroc as a shrewd, cold businessman but also emphasize his work ethic. Laura Dern, Linda Cardellini, Patrick Wilson, Nick Offerman and B.J. Novak co-star.
PASSENGERS
DECEMBER
21
On a luxury interstellar spaceship bound for a colony 120 years away, two passengers sleeping in suspended animation are awakened 90 years too early when the ship malfunctions. As Jim (Chris Pratt) and Aurora (Jennifer Lawrence) face living the rest of their lives on board, with every luxury they could ever ask for, they begin to fall for each other, unable to deny their intense attraction… until they discover the ship is in grave danger. With the lives of 5,000 sleeping passengers at stake, only Jim and Aurora can save them all.
Although the film has the pedigree of a big-budget sci-fi spectacle, it is also an intimate look at two individuals thrust into the position of responsibility, not only for their own lives, but also for the thousands on board. Lawrence and Pratt bring considerable star power and charisma to their roles. Morten Tyldum directs.
GOLD
DECEMBER
25
Matthew McConaughey stars as Kenny Wells in this film based on the true story of the 1993 Bre-X Mineral Corporation scandal. Wells operates a failing prospecting business out of a bar in Reno while his loyal girlfriend, Kay (Bryce Dallas Howard), works several jobs to keep them afloat. Desperate for a lucky break, he teams up with an equally luckless geologist (Edgar Ramirez) to execute an elaborate plan: find gold deep in the uncharted jungle of Indonesia. The film is reminiscent of Humphrey Bogart’s Treasure of the Sierra Madre, which tells how gold leads to greed, danger and even death. In Gold, Wells enjoys the fruits of his discovery until others attempt to wrest control of it, resorting to extreme measures to lay claim to the multi-million-dollar treasure. For the role, McConaughey gained 40 pounds and shaved back his hair to appear older.
NOTABLE MENTIONS
Other November releases include Loving , about a Virginia couple (Joel Edgerton, Ruth Negga) who violated a Virginia law prohibiting interracial marriage and took their case to the Supreme Court; the Brad Pitt-Marion Cotillard romantic spy drama Allied ; and Bleed For This , about a boxer (Miles Teller) who is left with a broken neck after a near-fatal car accident and struggles back to the ring against overwhelming physical odds. December brings Miss Sloane , starring Jessica Chastain as a powerful lobbyist who sacrifices her career to push through an amendment enforcing stricter federal laws regulating guns; Rogue One: A Star Wars Story highlights a key event in the Star Wars timeline, in which a group of ordinary people band together to steal the plans to the Death Star, the Empire’s ultimate weapon; Fences , starring and directed by Denzel Washington, about a former professional baseball player who denies his teenage son’s dreams of playing college football; and Why Him? , about an overprotective father (Bryan Cranston) who panics when he learns that his daughter’s socially awkward boyfriend (James Franco) plans to propose.
Dennis Seuling is a resident of Maywood
PLAY FOR PINK
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Chris and Liz Rabidou, Eileen and Bob Mulligan
Donna Kotz, Jamie Fox, Jodi Cohen, Lisa Halperin
Melissa Dziabo, Michelle Lieberman
Phyllis Benjamin, Sharon Fleischer, Linda Palish, Susan Seidenberg
Ellen Gursky, Lauri Bader
Barbara Spector, Geri Lambert Jo Anne Siegel, Stephanie Kissler
Laura Young, Beth Bergstein
Ann Philips, Eleanore Foster
Lynn Horn, Kathy Evans, Eve Tucker, Susan Seidenberg
Judi Weinberger, Beth Shiffman
Maureen Shugar, Sue Brussel
Rita Singer, Pam Levitz, Ina Marcus, Carole Oberg
Phyllis Sousa, Joyce Roth, Lisa Gussack, Shelley Cohen
Mollie Rambler, Lesley Levey
Yvonne Haskill, Susan Loeb, Debbie Kleinberger
Donna Kissler, Barbara Spector, Hope Shuvall
John Rosato, David Spiewak
PREVENTING AND TREATING SWIMMER’S SHOULDER
Swimmer’s shoulder is a broad term used to describe the problem of shoulder pain in recreational and competitive swimmers. Swimming is a challenging sport because the shoulders and arms are used for locomotion, while at the same time, above average shoulder flexibility and range of motion are needed for maximum performance. Unfortunately, this is often also associated with an undesirable increase in joint laxity. In addition, swimming is performed in a fluid medium, which offers more resistance to movement than air. This combination of high demands can lead to a spectrum of overuse injuries seen in the swimmer’s shoulder, the most common of which is rotator cuff tendinitis. However, there are several other specific shoulder problems that are common in swimmers and all have been identified as either causes of or contributing factors for swimmer’s shoulder. These include ligamentous laxity, impingement, nerve entrapment and muscular imbalance. The risk of injury is understandably high when you add together all of the unique challenges of swimming— the propulsive demands on the shoulders and arms, inherent shoulder
laxity and the increased resistance provided by water. It is no surprise that shoulder problems are reported in an average of 66% of swimmers, and as high as 91% in some studies.
In order to prevent shoulder injuries in swimmers, pre-season evaluation is the key. A thorough examination by the trainers and team physicians should identify and correct any structural deficits, muscle imbalances or previous injuries that could predispose to problems. Most shoulder injuries in competitive swimmers are the result of a sudden increase in training or poor technique. The coaches should play close attention to the swimmers’ stroke patterns in order to correct any errors that could lead to injury. Finally, training schedules should be designed to avoid the microtrauma associated with overuse injuries.
If injuries do occur, they should be identified early, and corrective measures should be started as soon as possible. Training schedules should be modified as much as needed, and strokes should be evaluated and corrected. Evaluation by an orthopedist is important to identify the specific cause or causes of swimmer’s shoulder, so that proper, targeted treatment can be started. Evaluation should include a thorough history and physical examination, with x-rays done at
the time of initial visit. An MRI, arthrogram or CAT scan may be necessary, depending on the severity of injury and the response to treatment.
Most of the causes of swimmer’s shoulder are functional rather than structural. Therefore the vast majority of patients will respond to non-surgical treatment. A general treatment protocol begins with rest, ice, stretching and nonsteroidal anti-inflammatory drugs (NSAID). However, a directed therapy program has the best chance of success and is useful in preventing further or recurrent injury. Physical therapy programs can employ a variety of strengthening exercises to target specific muscle groups, as needed.
An important issue to consider when working with swimmers is their reluctance to stay out of the water. Although swimmers are involved in dry-land training, no suitable substitute exists for swimming. Modification of training schedules and techniques allow the patient to continue swimming, enabling the physical therapist to establish or maintain credibility with the swimmer. In extreme cases, the swimmer may need a short dry-land period to allow for adequate soft tissue healing. In these cases, the rehabilitation specialist should fully educate the swimmer as to the necessity for the
lay-off. Time spent out of the water should be kept as short as possible, even if the swimmer is doing primarily kicking activities. Although returning to the water may not be ideal for rehabilitation, keeping a swimmer out of the water for a lengthy period may result in a rehabilitation program that is ignored.
Surgery may be the appropriate approach for correcting structural problems. These include ligamentous laxity, labral tears and nerve entrapments. However, surgery should not be approached lightly. Surgery may correct the problem, but the athlete may not be able to return to activity at the pre-injury level. For that reason surgery should be considered if conservative measures are unsuccessful or if pain has begun to affect activities of daily living or quality of life. As with any surgical procedure, the athlete and surgeon should have a thorough discussion of the patient’s goals, the potential outcome of surgery and the risks and benefits, both in general and specific to the athlete in question.
Swimmer’s shoulder is a condition that may be prevented with adequate pre-season screening, which can identify impairments and training errors that may lead to symptoms. If a swimmer does become symptomatic during the season, the coach or athletic trainer should identify the most likely
impairments or training errors and rule out any significant tissue pathology that would warrant a referral to an orthopedic surgeon. A comprehensive rehabilitation program usually includes strengthening of the rotator cuff and scapular stabilizers, stretching anterior chest musculature that may be shortened and implementing activity modification so the athlete can still participate in the sport.
It takes a skilled and experienced clinician to recognize and manage this problem. The approach should involve the combined input of an experienced shoulder surgeon, skilled physical therapist and coach. Early and appropriate treatment can avoid chronic shoulder problems in swimmers.
Dr. Michael Gross, the founder and director of Active Orthopedic and Sports Medicine, is the section chief of sports medicine and the orthopedic director of the Center for Sports Medicine at Hackensack University Medical Center, as well as medical director of Active Center for Health and Wellness.
PONY POWER GOLF AND TENNIS OUTING
Pony Power Therapies held their annual golf outing at Montammy Golf Club. For more information visit: ponypowernj.org
John Rosato, David Spiewak
Bob Mulligan, Kelly Zampino, Christine Caputo, Bruce Petrie, Naim Bulbulia
Ed Cobos, Michael Weintraub
Bob Reitinger, Joe Syernick, Gerry Thorelo
Mark Goldner, Linda and Bill Dator Pieter Van der Heide, Mike Jenkins Laura Maresciallo, Erin Chaffee
Jakob Steinmetz, Kevin Weng, Don Eim, Kunal Naik
Pete McCabe, Ken Depalo, Dan Balunis
Cathy and Jim Napolitano, Dana Spett
Kenny Pershetz, Barry Brober, Jim Ruskin
Ronnie Blackham, Rob Carbone
Kerry Barrett, Miriam Berman, Emma Spett
Dana Spett, JP and Linda Rosato
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Debbie Hollender, Ardys Rosenthal
Joe Junda, Peter Hopper, Tesh Durvasula
THE MCLAREN 570S:
“ENTRY-LEVEL” SUPERCAR THAT PACKS A SERIOUS PUNCH
WThe supercar world is a tough nut to crack, especially if you’re an automaker trying to take on the establishment. When your competition is Ferrari, Lamborghini and other storied nameplates, you have to wonder what exactly is going to separate you from the good ol’ boys’ club.
McLaren, a small supercar manufacturer from the U.K. founded by Bruce McLaren, has decided to do the impossible and attempt to unseat the establishment. Although the British company, with its respective Formula 1 pursuits, is hardly new to the world of high-performance racing, it’s entering an entirely different ballgame in building production-spec vehicles for the street. Buyers are looking for a certain mix of performance, comfort and exotica; having driven the company’s 650S Spider, I know that the company has figured it out, but can it have a repeat performance?
This brings us to McLaren’s all-new model. Considered the “entry level” McLaren, it is the least expensive product in the company’s increasing portfolio. Called the 570S, it boasts more unique exterior styling. However, at a quick glance, most folks would see a sensual, Ferrari-esque design. Unlike with Lamborghini, McLaren’s 570S has no hard edges. Instead McLaren went with a curvaceous look. The most distinct element of the 570S’s design is its side air intakes, which are integrated into the door and flow into the rear fender. My test car further accentuated this striking feature with carbon fiber inserts.
Bonus points go to McLaren’s designer for also integrating flying rear buttresses from the roofline into the rear deck. Not only is this a stunning design detail, it’s also functional as it both channels air towards the engine bay as well as increases the vehicle’s downforce, which is greatly appreciated on the track.
In addition, important lessons have been learned from the company’s other models. While the dihedral doors are always a crowd favorite, they do make egress and ingress difficult for the uninitiated. If this wasn’t already a bit problematic, the carbon fiber “tub” construction of McLaren’s vehicles means there is typically a high and wide doorsill. So when entering other McLaren vehicles you have to multitask: 1) Make sure you don’t bonk your head, 2) Manage to step over and into the car and 3) Lower yourself into the low-slung seats. When
designing the 570S, the designers made sure the doors open wider and they’ve also decreased the size of the doorsill so it makes passengers’ lives easier. The larger aperture makes for much more graceful entrances and exits, and less bruising—of the ego, that is.
Once behind the thin, three-spoke Alcantara steering wheel, I found the interior space to be quite spacious for a supercar. Outfitted with a pair of sport seats upholstered in Alcantara, it proved quite comfortable and relatively airy. Although they don’t look like they will be the most supportive, the seats were surprisingly fitted for touring and spirited driving. Zero complaints here.
There are some British quirks with some of the switchgear, and I was warned at delivery to be careful with a latch as it had a tendency to break off in a user’s hand. Upon inspection, I found that some switches and dials seemed a bit flimsy while others were solid. Of course, this makes it seem a bit kit car-ish but during my time with the vehicle there were no problems. One thing that hasn’t changed is the infotainment system, which is a bit wonky in its usability. It’s a lot like having a smartphone attached to the center stack; it’s just a
really annoying one. I wish it were easier to navigate and that I could do simple things like display traffic on the navigation map so I know where not to go. Aside from that, two positives that stood out to me were the matte carbon fiber trim, which was beautifully executed, and the optional Bowers & Wilkins sound system, which provided BIG sound for a little cabin. Having just experienced the all-new Ferrari 488 GTB, the Italian’s sound system is akin to a tin can with a string attached to it.
As you may suspect, though, I was far more interested in another sound. That would be what would come from the 570S’s 3.8-liter, twin-turbocharged V8 motor. Power is rated at 562 horsepower and 443 lb.-ft. of torque, which translates to a McLaren-claimed zero to 60 time of 3.1 seconds. You can thank McLaren’s engineering team for delivering a vehicle weighing less than 2,900 pounds and the seven-speed, dual-clutch gearbox for that. While it reads like a monster, its sound is far from monstrous, even when equipped with the sport exhaust as my test car was. In fact, I found it rather tame and far from being an annoyance.
A proper daily driver? Surprisingly, yes.
During my time with the red 570S I daily drove it in and out of the hustle and bustle of Manhattan. Zero problems ensued and I was comfortable at all times. I cannot say the same of other supercars I’ve piloted across the Hudson River. There’s a reason for this. Thanks to the adjustable suspension and powertrain settings, you can “flex” the McLaren as needed. Keeping the suspension locked in “normal” mode meant it could take bumps when the going got tough, and the optional vehicle lift that raises the 570S’s front end helped me when getting in and out of hairy (read steep) situations. While all of the aforementioned was appreciated, what truly makes the 570S special is how it performs when you dial up the settings to “track” mode. The TFT instrument panel changes into a race-spec rev counter and it prominently displays the gear you’ve engaged. Going around corners I had previously taken in “normal” and “sport” mode feel completely different. You can attack them faster, there’s literally no body roll and it feels like you’ve got the 570S’s motor strapped to your back. This is not how other comparable supercars feel.
Grip is somehow there even when pushing the rear-wheel
drive Brit to its limit and I couldn’t get the McLaren to wiggle its hips even a little. I probably wasn’t even close to the car’s respective edge, but I sure was having a blast. What adds to the fun is the 570S’s steering rack. It’s tuned to be responsive but, more importantly, it actually provides feedback to the driver. In an age where this is becoming incredibly rare as automakers switch to fully electric power assisted steering, I have to say I was melting every time the car spoke to me and I hit a corner’s apex.
While I must admit personality goes a long way and I wish the 570S’s motor had a bit more in its sound, the car really pulled at my heartstrings. Yes, some switches and the infotainment system could be better, and the seat controls could be easier to use, but that isn’t what stuck in my memory. The rush of speed, extremely flat cornering and the 570S’s stickiness to the tarmac were what resonated with me. It’s precisely everything you would want in a supercar, just without the half million or million dollar price tag.
Richard Posluszny is a freelance writer based in Bergen County.
CHARITY RUN AND MOTORCYCLE RAFFLE
Joseph Sanzari sponsored his annual Charity Run and Motorcycle Raffle. For more information visit: hackensackumcfoundation.org
HACKENSACKUMC FOUNDATION
HOLDS 16TH ANNUAL CHARITY RUN AND MOTORCYCLE RAFFLE
Luke Murray, grandson of Joseph M. Sanzari, pulled the winning raffle ticket for the 2016 Harley-Davidson FLTRXS Road Glide Special “Hard Candy Custom Flake” which was donated by Joseph M. Sanzari with a retail value of $26,999. Assisting Luke was Diego Coria, M.D., chairman of the Center for Behavioral Health and Medicine at HackensackUMC, Caryl Kourgelis, and Jason Kreitner, vice president of Operations, HackensackUMC
This year’s charity run included a visit to the 9/11 Memorial in downtown Manhattan, where a wreath was placed to honor the victims of the terrorist attacks of September 11, 2001. From left to right: Mark D. Sparta, FACHE, executive vice president and chief operating officer of HackensackUMC, and executive vice president of Population Health Clinical Operations, Hackensack Meridian Health; Joseph Simunovich, co-chair, Hackensack Meridian Health Board of Trustees; Rosemarie J. Sorce, vice chairwoman, HackensackUMC Board of Governors; Joseph M. Sanzari, chairman, HackensackUMC at Pascack Valley Board of Trustees; and Robert C. Garrett, co-CEO, Hackensack Meridian Health
Joe Simunovich, Bob Garrett, Ro Sorce, Joe Sanzari, Larry Inserra, Jon Fitzgerald
John and Regina Salemme Joe, Mia, Joe Jr. and Lisa Sanzari
Colleen and Kevin Downes
Dr. Dante Implicito, Dr. Rick Winters, Dr. Jim Cahill
Joe Sanzari and Lori Rubino Helen Cunning, Jon Fitzgerald
Westwood H.S. Cheerleaders
Nelson Rosa, Danny Murphy , Nicole Di Salva, Tommy Hoerner, Joe Turner, Francesca Berardi and Tommy Scuderi
Michael Policastro, Greg and Jerry Iannone
Yogi Virk, Balpreet Grewal and Gungeet Grewal and Shivi Grewal
The Holliman Family Mark Sparta, Jason Kreitner and Dr. Diego Coira
Nadine Arslanian and Doug Anton
Joe and Michele Conte Dr.Diego Coira, Caryl and Jimmy Kourgelis
Bob Garrett, Joe Simunovich, Mark Sparta
IT’S ALL ABOUT THE ALL-INCLUSIVE
For quite some time, all-inclusive resorts have carried a nasty (literally) reputation. The food was awful, the drinks were watered down and if you’re even able to get past those two major factors, the guests themselves could sometimes be more than you bargained for.
I’m happy to say that times, they are a changin’! The past few years we’ve been spoiled by the emergence of many great allinclusives throughout the world. In Mexico and the Caribbean in particular, these newly found or reimagined gems are definitely worth a trip to change your mind and alleviate your allinclusive travel woes.
PARADISUS
PALMA REAL – THE DOMINICAN REPUBLIC
If the food at all-inclusives was your concern, then Paradisus Palma Real quickly challenges your thinking. With
eight restaurants, one of which is that of 7 Star Michelin Chef recipient Martin Berasteguis, you already know you’re headed in the right culinary direction. Look out at the 37,000-squarefoot swimming pools and the beautiful Bavarro beach, and you quickly realize this trip won’t be so bad.
January is the perfect time to go. You’ll have about nine hours a day of unadulterated sunshine, which compared to the weary winter days in Jersey, just can’t be beaten. The resort is sizeable, and has different sections to fit your rest and relaxation needs. For families, the suites are oversized. Though little time is spent in the room, Palma Real ensured it would be a comfortable few hours of recharging for a family of four. Having just undergone a multi-million dollar renovation, the new family amenities have quickly become crowd pleasers.
Starting with the family lounge area complete with
Wi-Fi and snacks all day, families can also be entertained at the Kid Zone, the numerous kiddie pools, several kidfriendly restaurants and a family concierge to help plan kid activities, restaurant reservations and, of course, milk and cookies turn-down service.
As far as couples go, opting for Royal Service will pay off in droves. When you first arrive on the property, guests of Royal Service are escorted through a private check-in, where they are greeted by a personal butler and given a cell phone by which to reach him at all times. He will assist you in unpacking, make all of your spa and restaurant reservations, and draw a bath for you while you’re still at dinner. Laundry and beachside bed reservations are just two more of his offered services.
Royal Service also has both a private pool and private beach, with no children allowed.
Between the fruit smoothie bar and a pool or beachside waiter
delivering your next drink, it’s pure sunny bliss. Oh, and the water is about 81 degrees in January.
The Royal Service suites are more than spacious, all overlooking the ocean or the beautiful Balinese-inspired tropical gardens. The furniture is mahogany and the ambience, restful. They also provide a “pillow menu” so you can rest in perfect comfort. The suite includes a mini bar that is refreshed daily. You don’t have to worry if you just want to peek inside, as this is an all-inclusive resort .The bath products are fabulous and are by Thierry Mugler. The fragrances actually seem to follow you throughout the resort. (I found out that it is true, due to discreet incense diffusers placed throughout. The smell is fragrant and sublime.)
winner of 7 Michelin awards, 4 Diamonds Martin Berasateguis has certainly evoked the passion in me. The ambience is all black and white with bold red influences and accessories. The place resembles a little jewel box. This is the only restaurant that has a surcharge, but it is well worth it. You can order á la carte or the Chef’s Tasting, which can be paired with wine (additional cost). If you are a real foodie, go for the Chef’s Tasting. It is seven courses of heaven, presented elegantly on several different small dishes. Remember to ask your butler to reserve a table for you as this offering sells out quickly. Needless to say, you won’t go hungry on this trip.
line the perimeter begging you to stop, relax and unwind before or after your treatments. I had the Yhi Abhyanga massage, which was 75 minutes of pure bliss.
When it comes to food, Palma Real shines. Aside from Martin Berasteguis’ restaurant, there are seven other restaurants to explore. Rare is a typical steakhouse with a variety of American and international cuts cooked to perfection in a more informal atmosphere. Blue Agave offers a wide selection of authentic Mexican dishes and fabulous margaritas. Bana boasts three experiences within the one restaurant: a sushi bar (that was a little limited in selection, but the quality was there), Teppanyaki tables and Bana Bistro. Vento specializes in international cuisine with Mediterranean influences along with Moroccan, Tunisian, French and Turkish specialties. Fuego is a Latin infusion and Peruvian restaurant beneath a thatched roof right off the beach. Both the view and the smart décor add to its charm. Palazzo is the newest addition á la carte Italian restaurant. Mangia! Then, there’s Passion. Let’s just say this restaurant from
There are actually two spas and a full fitness center with all the bells and whistles your workout requires. They also have aqua spinning in the pool and lots of activities such as yoga, Pilates, volleyball, golf and tennis nearby all day long throughout the resort.
The first YHI spa is located in the middle of the Balinese gardens and pays homage to thatched roof little cottages. The services offered rely on therapeutic remedies based on ancient massage oils and rituals. You can even have a private tea ceremony there. My favorite is the YHI Spa located in the Reserve at the beginning of the complex. Your butler will provide transportation to and from the spa area. With your treatment you can use the hydrotherapy pools ranging from ice-cold water to warm relaxing drizzles on your feet. There is actually a list of procedures to guide you for the maximum effect. This area feels like you were dropped in the middle of a tropical rain forest. The surrounding fauna and flora are magnificent; Balinese beds
In the evenings you’ll be entertained by different shows put on by the staff members, who are far from amateurs. The first show I saw was similar to a Cirque du Soleil performance full of climbing, spinning and jumping through the air sans nets. It was scary but delightful. The second was a musical and there were no sour notes there! Rounding out the resort are nine different bars worth exploring, and a little casino for those who must gamble on vacation. For me, the boutiques were a great stop. For my husband, the cigar shop couldn’t be passed by!
Paradisus Palma Real is a truly upscale all-inclusive resort with the friendliest and warmest staff. Your wish is their command, and I have a command of my own: You have to go here!
ROYAL HIDEAWAY PLAYACAR – PLAYA DEL CARMEN
I’m so not a winter girl. I decided a quick jaunt to Mexico would be perfect. As we pulled up to the private manned gate, Lorenzo Chan, the GM of Royal Hideaway Playacar in Playa Del Carmen, warmly greeted us. I fell in love as I entered the open space courtyard flanked by a big beautiful lobby bar. The way to go at Royal Hideaway is to stay in a villa suite, which is in a twoor three-floor Mexican colonial style building with a private balcony and butler service. The room was beautifully appointed with dark wood furniture, light-colored floors and hints of tropical design influences with
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a luxuriously attached marble bathroom with a hydro tub and Bulgari amenities. This room passed my standard “hotel room test” with flying colors. Now that I was settled, my main goal was to check out the beach! Heading past the huge sparkling infinity pool, I spotted a chaise lounge beckoning to me. I enjoyed lounging in the sun. I enjoyed it even more when my butler, Raoul, appeared to ask if I might care for a cocktail or lunch. I decided on the cocktail because I wanted to check out the poolside BBQ offerings. I sampled everything and was very satisfied with my choices, which included steak, pork, chicken, fish, ribs and several sides.
A full-service resort with the emphasis on service, the staff at Royal Hideaway is welcoming, warm and friendly. Almost too friendly! Every time I opened my door Raoul was there waiting for me—whether to escort me to a restaurant or ask if I needed something. How did he always know when I was coming or going? He must have ESP!
Like most resorts, they offer a ton of water-related sports, a PSDI scuba-training program, kayaking and snorkeling. They will even arrange golf and shopping trips or excursions to Xcaret Park, a nearby resort, theme park and ecotourism development. I decided to go to a dinner show there, and it did not disappoint. The park itself is massive. They have beautiful parrots and fauna, several swimming holes and I watched a horse show with riders in traditional costume. The show at night is in a huge amphitheater and takes you through various pivotal stages of Mexican history. The acting and theater were quite dramatic. You can spend the whole day at the park if you so choose.
There is also a full-service spa with a wide choice of wraps, facials and massages. I sampled a heavenly massage. You can also work out in the fitness center or play tennis.
When it comes time for food, there are six different restaurants, each with its own flavor and personality. Azia focuses on traditional Japanese and Hibachi with a sprinkling of Thai influences. Palazzo is an Italian restaurant with innovative European cuisine in an elegant and charming atmosphere. The Grill is just what it sounds like, a chef’s selection of grilled fare in a romantic al fresco setting. Last, but not least is Las Ventanas.
The room has more of a Mediterranean feel with high ceilings and large comfy chairs overlooking the beach. This is a serious fine dining restaurant serving innovative creations by executive chef Eugenio Villafaña. If you reserve early enough, you can take part in dining at The Chef’s table with a select tasting menu as you watch the chefs craft your meal.
An extensive wine cellar keeps your taste buds in check as the action of a busy kitchen looms around you.
No matter where you decide to dine, though, the food is exemplary throughout the resort. After dinner head over to the Piano Bar for a nightcap and some live music before retiring for the night. There are also several bars serving creative cocktails using freshly squeezed juices and homemade simple syrups.
Royal Hideaway Playacar is a perfect place for a wedding, honeymoon or a romantic escape. The white sand beach and clear water (yes, there is some seaweed, but nothing to alter your happiness) beckons me back to this quiet, friendly adults-only resort.
As the night expires and the piano stops playing, it’s back into my cozy room and a waiting tub filled with rose petals. Thank you, Raoul!
HARD ROCK
RIVIERA
MAYA
Sometimes the search to capture Rock and Roll’s nostalgic feeling takes you further than you might expect: to Riviera Maya, Mexico. For those who don’t know, Hard Rock has the largest collection of rock memorabilia in the world, spread throughout their many properties. It’s their ability to transport you back to seeing your favorite rock band in the ’80s, though, that makes Hard Rock for rock ‘n’ rollers what Disney is to children—pure unadulterated bliss.
So while Cleveland may have a great Rock and Roll Museum, I’ll take the sunshine, pools and entertainment of Hard Rock Hotel Riviera Maya any day. Enter the sprawling property (this is not for those seeking the most intimate stay) and you’ll see that Hard Rock spared no expense in building this mega resort. You’ve almost got two resorts built into one, with an adults-only section and a family-friendly side, with some separate and some shared amenities between the two. There are lazy rivers, a “yoga temple,” and much more, including, of course, a grand concert area for you to see your favorite rockers rock once again. Naturally spas, salons, and all the restaurants and bars you could ever need dot the resort’s grounds, and you’ll never be short on finding other activities to enjoy at the resort’s nightclub and beautiful beaches (as if that wasn’t the reason you came to Riviera Maya in the first place).
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Just recently, however, Hard Rock Riviera Maya (and Hard Rock Cancun) teamed up with global fitness leader Les Mills to debut a series of fitness programs aimed at keeping up your wellness routine even while on your dream vacation. Much like Hard Rock’s signature highenergy experiences throughout the resort, the Les Mills training program will include three daily classes from a collection of 14 different Les Mills signature training programs, such as his CXWORX personal training style program and BodyPump Total Body Workout, not to mention HIIT (high-intensity interval training) to keep the heart racing even when you’re not rocking out to your favorite classic music.
The rooms at Riviera Maya are made for rock stars. From the entry-level rooms up through the suites, they are beautifully adorned with a mix of décor that is coastal and local to Mexico, yet also reminds you of why you’re here: to have a really good time. Hard Rock Hotel Riviera Maya also boasts the Bret Michaels Rock Star Suite—Hard Rock’s first-ever celebrity designed Rock Star Suite, Hard Rock’s spin on the traditional penthouse. At Hard Rock Riviera Maya, entertainment reigns. Yes, you can relax all day poolside or beachside, but when the lights go down, it’s time to party. Hard Rock has turned the “rest and relaxation” idea of a resort on its head, and reinvented the space the way they saw fit. As they say at the nightclub Club Heaven: “The party starts at 11, and doesn’t end until you say so!”
For more information, please visit www.hrhrivieramaya.com
UNICO HOTEL RIVIERA MAYA – COMING IN MARCH 2017
Want to sleep in a bed never slept in before? Be the first to use the toilet? Or maybe you just want to be the first in the know? Well, this is your chance. Check out one of the coolest new resorts in Riviera Maya before people even find out it’s cool.
Opening in March of 2017 and situated just south of Playa Del Carmen in Riviera Maya, Mexico, UNICO Hotel Riviera Maya will be the first hotel to debut under the UNICO brand. The curated adults-only, all-inclusive resort will feature 448 lavishly appointed guestrooms with predominantly ocean views, boasting plunge pool and double hydro spa tub options, an in-room mini bar stocked for guest preference with all the essentials to makeyour-own cocktail, three expansive pools, a state-ofthe-art wellness center, a spa outfitted with 18 luxe cabins, five globally infused gourmet restaurants, and six bars and lounges, including a cigar lounge and two swim-up bars.
The fun doesn’t stop there, though! Signature guest experiences include art to purchase from local artisans both in-room and throughout the hotel and the Esencia Studio located in the Esencia Wellness Center, where guests select their own personalized in-room amenities made with local ingredients.
Food and beverage offerings will focus on creativity and emerging talent, including an annual rotating chef restaurant giving guests a unique dining experience every time they choose to return.
In addition, UNICO Hotel Riviera Maya will play host to experiential meetings and weddings, featuring an 11,600-square-foot ballroom, two breakout rooms and
outdoor event space. To inspire spontaneity, impromptu popup programming will include mezcal tastings and cocktail hour in a nearby Mayan village, to boozy pibil’s “pit roast” and full moon parties on the beach.
Departing from the traditional all-inclusive, the UNICO experience will encompass all food and beverages, select spa treatments and off-property excursions, and unlimited golf.
Embracing the contemporary culture of the region, this aspirational all-inclusive resort allows vacationers a real, unfiltered experience in the backdrop of relaxed luxury with a unique “Host” concept, replacing the traditional butler service.
Equal parts international outpost and local getaway, UNICO Hotel Riviera Maya encourages guests to fully immerse themselves through exclusively developed private excursions, such as exploring the region’s lesser known alcoves with native hosts to dining at local tastemakers’ preferred restaurants and bars.
On-property culturally inspired experiences include cooking classes taught by renowned local chefs, and an executive mixologist infusing local flavors and ingredients to craft specialty cocktails throughout the hotel.
For savvy travelers ready to make the leap, book now through December 22, 2016 and travel from March 1, through December 22, 2017 to receive up to 15 percent off your stay. Now what are you waiting for?
For more information, or to book your stay, visit www. unicohotelrivieramaya.com
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TOWN TITLE GOLF OUTING
Town Title held their inaugural golf outing to benefit Tackle Kids Cancer and St. Jude Children’s Hospital. For more information visit: towntitle.us
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IZAKAYA HONTEI
412 Bergen Boulevard, Palisades Park
Izakaya Hontei, a new Japanese-Korean restaurant, has opened in Palisades Park. Its chef, Satto-san, hails from Japan and has 40 years’ worth of kitchen experience. The menu offers sushi and sashimi along with other
Japanese kitchen dishes like teriyaki, katsu, udon, soba and robatayaki. The restaurant also has a liquor license, offering a selection of beer, wine and sake. Izakaya Hontei is currently open daily beginning at 5:00pm.
CENTER TAVERN
170 Center Avenue, Westwood centertavern.com
Center Tavern or as it’s labeled almost everywhere: “Bat Barry’s Center Tavern” is the “new” restaurant and bar that was formerly Bat Barry’s. Still owned by Westwood resident John Owens, the eatery is self-described as “locally sourced,
seasonal fare pairs with cocktails and wines in a laid-back, classic tavern setting.” There’s a new menu to go along with the changes, including shareables (apps), pizzas, wraps, burgers and sandwiches, as well as a number of Mainfare (entrees). According to the website, Center Tavern is open seven days a week for lunch and dinner.
LOLLI AND POPS
Garden State Plaza, Paramus lolliandpops.com
Lolli and Pops, the self-proclaimed “purveyors of sweetness,” has opened at Garden State Plaza. The chain operates 30+ stores from coast to coast, with a simple goal according to its website: make every day delicious. They carry a delectable selection of candies and confections
from around the world, including chocolate from Madagascar, sour belts from Spain and sodas from Japan; all are sourced from famed producers and local artisans, changing daily with batch size and availability.
WHISKEY BAR & BISTRO
1050 Wall Street, Lyndhurst whiskeybarbistro.com
The Whiskey is back! The former home of the Whiskey Cafe is now Whiskey Bar & Bistro, a “sports bistro” dressed in a modern rustic decor. The new ownership has a collective 20 years’ worth of restaurant experience working at such places as Sushi Lounge, Taphouse Grille, and Bareli’s.
Stephen Mohren (Taphouse Grille, Brass Rail, Forest Hill Field Club and Catering) is handling chef duties with a menu of his takes on bistro classics. This includes an exclusive blend of chuwck, short rib and oxtail patties crafted by Pat LaFreida for their burger. Artisan pizzas are available as 14-inch pies or served in 3-, 4- or 5-foot options. The bar is covered with their “Drink Up” menu, crafted with familiar, yet different martinis and cocktails along with eight wines on tap, as well as bottled beer and wine. Many institutions of the former Whiskey are still intact: Friday Happy Hour, Country Line Dancing and the American Cruisers Car Show. There’s also Chinstrap Sundays, which include an outdoor tailgate and “Gameday” menu coupled with drink discounts and a DJ, plus shuttle service to and from Met Life Stadium. Expect DJs a few nights a week and live bands on weekends. The renovated space includes 26 TVs and two projector screens; total occupancy is 300 and seating capacity of 185, 40 of which are by the bar. Whiskey Bar & Bistro is currently open seven days a week.
STELLA ARTISAN ITALIAN
18 E. Ridgewood Ave, Ridgewood stellaitalian.com
Stella Artisan Italian, a new restaurant and market described as “Eataly meets gastro pub, meets butcher shop,” has opened in Ridgewood from the owners of S. Egidio. Initially conceived as an “authentic Italian oil shop,” the business has expanded its scope
with the addition of Chef Vincent Forchelli, who has worked under the likes of Daniel Boulud, Michael White and Ken Oringer. Chef Forchello has also brought in Heather Bertinetti to handle Bergen’s strong desire for sweets; Bertinetti, formerly of Four Seasons and Major Food Group, has been named one of the “Best Pastry Chefs in the United States.”
Stella offers an in-house pasta program, homemade charcuterie (sausages, cured meats, etc.), breads, sandwiches, gelato, specialty Italian retail and more in a casual marketplace setting. Stella Artisan is open for breakfast, lunch and dinner seven days a week.
ZOZO’S
625 Rivervale Road, River Vale zozos.menu.com
Zozo’s, a new restaurant and bar, has taken over for Vale Bar & Grill in River Vale. The new owners have implemented an Italian menu to go along with the popular bar space, which hosts a happy hour from 3:00-6:00pm.
A crostini menu tops the list of starters, with options such as
the goat cheese crostini with pear, honey and thyme or the mushroom crostini topped with artichoke, truffle and Parmesan. The zucchini Carpaccio is also a unique starter worth trying. Pastas, steaks, a few fish items and veal chops prepared three ways round out the entrée menu, and a slew of custom cocktails, Prosecco cocktails and wines keep the happy hour lively. The space itself hasn’t undergone any significant changes, with the new business being open six days a week (Tuesday through Sunday).
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1055 Hamburg Turnpike, Wayne viaggioristorante.com
Viaggio, the new Italian restaurant helmed by Chef Robbie Felice, has opened in Wayne. The restaurant features locally sourced ingredients, handmade pastas and house-cured salumi in a casual Tuscan farmhouse setting.
SILLI POINT
498 Anderson Avenue, Cliffside Park sillipoint.com
Silli Point, a new restaurant serving Indian and Indian fusion, has opened in Cliffside Park. The owners are three couples, all foodies using their own recipes, aiming to give “an authentic Indian flavor” to customers.
The menu includes Indian and Indo-Chinese food consisting of appetizers, Indian curries, biryanis and breads, with special platters for lunch. A few specialties from the menu include Old Monk Chicken (soaked in dark rum sautéed in whole Indian spices), Chicken Lollipop (batter-fried chicken drumsticks served with Szechuan sauce) and lamb chops from the tandoor (marinated with yogurt, garlic, ginger and Indian spices, served with mint chutney).
Felice has trained at the Culinary Institute of America and worked in New York City (Del Posto, The Modern), Vegas (B&B Ristorante); he’s also worked extensively throughout Europe, including in England, Spain, Holland, Belgium and Italy. The menu, which supports many local farms, will change seasonally at the direction of Chef Felice. The location, which was formerly Novu, has been completely renovated in the aforementioned farmhouse look and feel.
Look for the initials RDN, or RD, after your nutritionist’s name. These credentials indicate that the practitioner has completed both academic and professional requirements, including: an accredited 4-year educational program, 900 hours of supervised practice, and passed a national exam.
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The restaurant is cricket-themed, as the sport is akin to a religion to the owners. The theme carries over to the decor, interior and even the menu item names. There are approximately 40 seats for dining in, with local delivery available. Silli Point is open seven days a week for lunch and dinner.
RESTAURANT GUIDE
If you’re hungry or planning a special night out, this is the place to find the answer to that appetite. From steak, chops and seafood to almost any ethnic fare, it’s all here.
American (Contemporary & Traditional)
The Abbey
Ramsey Golf and Country Club
105 Lakeside Drive, Ramsey, 201-818-9298
Allendale Bar & Grill
67 W. Allendale Ave. Allendale, 201-3273197
Allendale Eats
101 W. Allendale Ave., Allendale, 201-8250110
Bacari Grill
800 Ridgewood Rd., Washington Township, 201-358-6330
The Barn
359 Sicomac Ave., Wyckoff, 201-848-0108
Bicycle Club
487 Sylvan Ave., Englewood Cliffs, 201-894-0880
Biddy O’Malley’s Irish Bistro and Bar 191 Paris Ave., Northvale, 201-564-7893
Blind Boar Barbeque
595 Broadway, Norwood, 201-784-6900
Bonefish Grill
601 From Rd., Paramus, 201-261-2355
Boom Burger
375 W. Passaic St., Rochelle Park, 201843-2666
The Bouwerie
83 Dewolf Road, Old Tappan, 201-564-7939
Brady’s at the Station
5 W. Main St., Ramsey, 201-327-9748
The Brick House
179 Godwin Ave., Wyckoff, 201-848-1211
Café 37
37 Broad St., Ridgewood, 201-857-0437
Café Amici of Wyckoff
315 Franklin Ave., Wyckoff, 201-848-0198
Café Angelique
1 Piermont Road, Tenafly, 201-541-1010
Café Matisse
167 Park Ave., Rutherford, 201-935-2995
Chakra
144 West State Route 4, Paramus, 201566-1530
Coach House Restaurant
55 Route 4- Hackensack, 201-488-4999
The Cornerstone 84 Broadway, Hillsdale, 201-666-8688
Crow’s Nest
309 Vincent Ave., Hackensack, 201-3425445
Cubby’s BBQ Restaurant
249 S. River St. Hackensack- 201-488-9389
Davey’s Irish Pub & Restaurant 5 Park St., Montvale, 201-391-9356
East Coast Burger
75 Franklin Ave., Ridgewood, 201-857-0227
Emerson Hotel Restaurant
31 Emerson Plaza, Emerson, 201-262-7557
Esposito’s Park
Café
790 Anderson Ave., Cliffside Park, 201313-2441
Esty Street
86 Spring Valley Rd., Park Ridge, 201-3071515
Farmhouse Café & Eatery
15 E. Madison Ave., Cresskill, 201-2668931
Fire and Oak
100 Chestnut Ridge Rd., Montvale, 201307-1100
Giovanni’s Deli
22-08 Morlot Ave., Fair Lawn, 201-7911911
Glen Rock Inn
222 Rock Rd., Glen Rock, 201-445-2362
Grand Cru
36 N. Van Brunt St., Englewood, 201-5683939
Griffin’s
44 E. Madison Ave., Cresskill, 201-5417575
RESTAURANT
Grosso’s La Strada
231 Godwin Ave., Midland Park, 201-6709233
Harvest Bistro
252 Schraalenburgh Rd., Closter, 201-7509966
Haven Riverfront Restaurant & Bar
2 Main St., Edgewater, 201-943-1900
Ho-Ho-Kus Inn and Tavern
1 East Franklin Turnpike, Ho-Ho-Kus, 201-445-4115
Houston’s
The Shops at Riverside, Rt. 4W, Hackensack, 201-488-5667
Iron Horse
20 Washington Ave., Westwood, 201-6669682
Ivy Inn
268 Terrace Ave., Hasbrouck Heights, 201393-7699
Jackson Hole
362 Grand Ave., Englewood, 201-871-7444
Just Janice 23 Sheridan Ave., Ho-Ho-Kus, 201-4452666
Jersey Boys Grill
704 River Road, New Milford, 201-2625600
Joe’s American Bar & Grill
Garden State Plaza (Rtes. 17 & 4), Paramus, 201-843-8858
The Kitchen
21 E. Palisade Ave., Englewood, 201-5684570
The Kosher Nosh Deli 894 Prospect St., Glen Rock, 201-445-1186
Lakeside Grille & Bar
105 Lakeside Dr., Ramsey, 201-327-0009
Local Seasonal Kitchen
41 W. Main St., Ramsey, 201-962-9400
Mahwah Bar & Grill
2 Island Rd., Mahwah, 201-529-8056
Mason Jar
219 Ramapo Valley Rd., Mahwah, 201-5292302
MK Valencia
228 Main St., Ridgefield Park, 201-3730228
Nellie’s Place 9 Franklin Turnpike, Waldwick, 201-6528626
Noah’s Ark (Kosher) 493 Cedar Lane, Teaneck, 201-692-1200
Oceanos
2-27 Saddle River Rd., Fair Lawn, 201-7960546
Palmer’s Crossing
145 Dean Dr. (Clinton Ave.), Clinton Inn Hotel, Tenafly, 201-567-4800
Park Bistro
700 Palisadium Drive, Cliffside Park, 201366-4047
Park Wood Delicatessen 342 Erie Ave., Midland Park, 201-68908550
Pearl Restaurant 17 S. Broad St., Ridgewood, 201-857-5100
Peppercorns
176 Colony Ave., Park Ridge, 201-391-2818
Pizzaiolo By Brothers 85 Godwin Ave., Midland Park, 201- 4444944
P.J. Finnegan’s
274 Fairview Ave., Westwood, 201-6647576
The Plum and The Pear 393 Franklin Ave., Wyckoff, 201-485-8793
Railroad Café 170 Union Ave., East Rutherford,201-939-0644
Raymond’s
101 E. Ridgewood Ave., Ridgewood, 201445-5125
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RESTAURANT GUIDE RESTAURANT GUIDE
Regina’s Steakhouse and Grill
827 Teaneck Rd., Teaneck, 201-862-1996
Restaurant L
9 Franklin Turnpike, Allendale, 201-7851112
Rolling Pin Café
341 Broadway, Westwood, 201-666-4660
Rosario’s Trattoria
29 Central Ave., Midland Park, 201-4453335
Rotunda Garden State Plaza (Rtes. 17 & 4), Paramus, 201-843-7693
Ruby Tuesday Route 4 & 17, Paramus, 201-909-0886
Rutherford Pancake House
40 Park Ave., Rutherford, 201-340-4171
Sal’s Good Eats
80 Green St., Teterboro, 201-375-4949
Session Bistro
245 Maywood Ave., Maywood, 201-8807810
Shelly’s Vegetarian Café and Caterers
482 Cedar Lane, Teaneck, 201-692-0001
Smith Brothers
51 N. Broad St., Ridgewood, 201-444-8111
St. Eve’s Restaurant (BYOB)
611 N. Maple Ave., Ho-Ho-Kus, 201-8574717
Stony Hill Inn
231 Polify Rd. (Rt. 80), Hackensack, 201342-4085
Tommy Fox’s Public House
32 S. Washington Ave., Bergenfield, 201384-0900
Twisted Elm
435 River Dr., Elmwood Park, 201-791-3705
Vale Bar & Grill
625 Rivervale Rd., River Vale, 201-3913195
Veggie Heaven
473 Cedar Lane, Teaneck, 201-836-0887
Victoria’s
336 Queen Anne Rd., Teaeck, 201-801-0888
Village Green
36 Prospect St., Ridgewood, 201-445-2914
Waterside
7800 B River Rd., North Bergen, 201-8617767
Continental Cuisine
Al Di La
1 Hoboken Rd., East Rutherford, 201-9391128
Fountainview Restaurant
Sheraton Crossroads, 1 International Blvd. (Rt. 17N), Mahwah, 201-529-1313
319 Franklin Ave., Wyckoff (In Boulder Run Shopping Center), 201847-9900
Bangkok Garden
261 Main Street, Hackensack, 201-4872620
Penang
334 Main Street, Lodi, 973-779-1128
Pimaan
79 Kinderkamack Road, Emerson, 201967-0440
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HackensackUMC Receives Donation of Paramedic Vehicles
Northern New Jersey has become even better equipped for trauma and medical emergencies, thanks to two new paramedic vehicles at Hackensack University Medical Center. These state-of-the-art vehicles were a generous gift of Joseph M. Sanzari, Chairman of the HackensackUMC Pascack Valley Joint Venture Board.
Each vehicle is staffed with two paramedics, heart monitors, medications and other emergency medical equipment, and are able to treat both adult and pediatric patients. These vehicles also help drive the core of our mission: to deliver exceptional patient-centered care, when it matters most.
Photo from left to right: Jack Mayo, MICP, vehicle and equipment coordinator, HackensackUMC; Michelle Kobayashi, administrative director, Emergency Medical Services and Emergency Community Operations, HackensackUMC; Robert C. Garrett, president and chief executive officer, Hackensack University Health Network; Joseph M. Sanzari, chairman, HackensackUMC Pascack Valley Joint Venture Board and past chairman, HackensackUMC Board of Governors; Ihor S. Sawczuk, M.D., president, Hackensack University Medical Center; Ron Spethmann, manager, Emergency Medical Services, HackensackUMC; and Christopher Hogan, MICP, BLS supervisor, HackensackUMC.
PREDICTIONS
SOMEONE IS SENDING YOU A MESSAGE
JANUARY
Take time to enjoy the simple things that come your way. Open your eyes and ears because someone who totally gets you and is right in front of you is sending you a message. Listen carefully and you will find lots of love and laughter waiting right where you left it. You’ll be amazed by how simply everything will start to come together. You might want to think about taking on some new projects at home or if you are feeling like you want to get away, pack that bag and go.
APRIL
Forgive yourself and others. It will lighten your load and you’ll feel much happier. You will notice that one of the greatest gifts you can give to yourself and others is acceptance. Someone is waiting right there for you with a message that will bring a big smile to your face. Time to get out of your comfort zone, experience new things and meet new friends. Try joining a book club or going to a wine tasting event. Accept an invitation you would normally turn down and see what happens.
JULY
You always find that happiness is sharing in the lives of others and that you enjoy building relationships with people. Now is the time for you to sit back and savor the ride because someone is sending you a message. There is lots of good news waiting for you. The cloud that has been hanging over your head will finally be gone and you can look forward to sunny skies with friends and family all around you to share in the laughter and the good times.
OCTOBER
Happiness is sharing in the lives of family and friends and enjoying it! Participating with others sometimes can mean more to you than you think. Give of yourself, whether or not others give to you, and you will always be a winner. If you need a little hope in your life, put yourself out. The holes in your heart will get filled. Remember that we all carry burdens around with us. The trick is to try to make a difference in the lives of others by lightening their loads.
FEBRUARY
Today it’s time to give yourself another chance to be the best you can be! Expect big changes, possibly a promotion, at work. Someone is sending you a message, maybe by phone, e-mail or text. Answer them all. There are also many social opportunities awaiting you. Kindness is a choice; it’s contagious and goes a long way, so try reaching out to someone special. Messages can come through words of a song, or words in the newspaper; keep your eyes open.
MAY
You have been searching for a message. Well there are plenty coming your way; time for you to be open to them. The things you are reading and the conversations you are overhearing are not coincidences; they are clues to help guide your way. Time to take notice. If you find a penny, pick it up, and soon you will feel that your luck is improving. Also pay attention to the messages you are sending to others and consider thinking before you speak.
AUGUST
You are a very lucky person; you have someone that truly understands you, never questions your intentions, always believes in you, and loves and trusts you. This is priceless so don’t take it for granted. Someone is sending you a message. It could be coming from a family member, friend, co-worker or even your guardian angel. Whatever the message someone is trying to communicate, it will put you on top of the world, as it’s precisely what you wanted and needed to hear.
NOVEMBER
You need to participate with others. It may seem like a chore, but it will mean more than you think. Whether or not others give to you, give of yourself and you will always wind up winning. If you need a little hope in your life, put yourself out by sending a message. This could be the lift you need now and you may just have a better day than most. If you want a better work situation, listen carefully to what your colleagues have to say without being defensive or antagonistic.
MARCH
Spending time with people who understand you is the best medicine for you now. When people understand how you tick, they appreciate you more. Make good choices by surrounding yourself with like-minded folks. There is more than one someone who is sending you a message. Sometimes love doesn’t complete the picture. Find someone you like today and you will have a better day. Tomorrow will take care of itself and who knows what or who may be waiting.
JUNE
Try and avoid the nonsense. If you find you’re being more emotional than usual, go with it. Blame the eclipse, the moon, the planets, and expect the unexpected. At the end of the day or night, close your eyes and meditate or pray. Someone is sending you a message; relax and allow yourself to receive it. Breathe deep, keep busy, and laugh with family and friends as this lightens your mood. Keep your head high and focus on happy thoughts!
SEPTEMBER
The best place to be is where you feel welcome! You will receive an invitation given by people who truly love your company. Accept it and go. This event will bring new people and opportunities into your life. Someone is sending you a message and you might just find it there. Pay attention to the feelings of others; there will always be someone around who wants you, just maybe not today. As you sit around the table, think about who showed up. Bells will ring.
DECEMBER
Have you been waiting for that day that offers an opportunity for a new start? Here’s a chance to rethink yesterday and have a do-over. An unexpected opportunity may be coming your way. You may have to recognize it and pay attention to hidden messages being sent your way. Never stand in the way of yourself. Don’t pass up your chance to find a brighter today. But be careful; look at the fine print in everything, even in declarations of love.
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SAY IT TO MY FACE(BOOK)
Idon’t feel old. To many of you who read this, I’m still “a baby.” Thank you, guys; that really helps me feel manly, after all, 27 is a manly age. If you won’t convince me of it, I’ll take it upon myself—except when the Legos come out to play.
So I’m doing it. I have a job. I live on my own. I do my own laundry and pay my own bills. I guess I’m doing this whole “adult” thing okay. I can even keep up conversation with the “big boys” of business and so on and so forth. Then I log onto Facebook, and I feel like I’m back on a middle school playground. Mom, the kids are just so mean!
Do you see what people say to each other on the Internet? It’s insane. I’m all for “telling it like it is” or whatever, but damn, these people are ruthless. If you think cyber bullying is bad among teenagers, log onto Facebook and watch fullgrown adults go at it like twin
sisters fighting over the same Barbie. It’s vicious.
My father often reminds me that when two kids in school had a disagreement “back when he was a kid,” they’d settle it then and there. No knives, no guns, just four fists and one winner. After the fight, order was restored and half the time the two people fighting were friends once again. Ah, the good ole days.
Now though? If someone is mad at someone else, the first thing he or she does is hit the Inter web with passive-aggressive banter sometimes so cryptic people don’t know what the post or tweet even means; if it was meant for someone, or if the words were lyrics from a song they’ve never heard. That’s just step one to the disagreement. Then, things get ugly.
“Friends” take sides and opinions start flying. The digital equivalent of “You want to take this outside?”
is so much more chaotic, not to mention less effective.
Nobody has ever won an argument on Facebook.
Ever.
This became even clearer with this past election.
I’m friends with people on both sides of the aisle
(Goldstein for President in 2028), but watching both sides post their opinions and then get verbally (but digitally) berated has become incredibly disheartening.
When we were kids, we didn’t know better. We
looked up to our parents, teachers and other role models to teach us respect, understanding and how to compromise with others. Instead, today all we have are screens in front of our faces. Where should we look now for our role models and code of conduct?
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Brandon Goldstein is associate publisher of Talk of the Town and BC THE MAG Health, Beauty & Fitness.
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