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“Celebrate Love” ISSUE February 2022 | Vol. 12 No. 11
GLAM + STYLE Fashion: Lady in Red: Tips to wearing your heart on your sleeve this month..................................................... 8 Self Care + Beauty: Self-defense Basics For Women ................... 10
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COMMUNITY FOCUS She glows’ : Antoinette Francher-Donald ......................................... 12 He glows’ : Jonathan Busarow ............................................................... 13 glo Girl’ : Malila Smiley ............................................................................. 14
FEATURES Feature Focus: In Celebration of Black History .............................. 16 On Her Nightstand: Andie Parker ....................................................... 18 We Love Your Style: Katie Pruitt & Andy Welfle ............................ 20 Motherhood: L earning Your Child’s Love Language ................... 22 Finance: Love + Money ............................................................................ 23
SHOPPING Shop Local .................................................................................................... 24
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HOME LIVING HOME Feature: Finding Your Perfect Home ................................... 28 Support Small: Meraki Co. ..................................................................... 30 Do It Yourself: Chalkboard Wall ........................................................... 32 How To: DIY Valentine’s Day Cards ..................................................... 34
From the executive editor Dear glo readers – As I write this month’s editor’s note, we are amid an unprecedented COVID spike, with case numbers soaring above previous daily records. As we have for almost two years, we hope you are staying safe and healthy. And, we hope you are still supporting local retailers as much as you can, as they are inevitably hit with staff shortages and closures. Keeping your dollars local is more important now than ever before. Small, locally owned businesses are the cornerstone of our region’s vibrant culture. We exist not only to bring you inspiring and engaging content, but to help small businesses grow, as well. We provide them an affordable avenue to reach new customers. So, we beseech you, reader, to tuck this issue into a handy spot and refer to it when you shop for a product or service — use it as your guide to local retailers and service providers. We designed our Shop Local section for this very reason. Check it out on pages 24 and 25. Back to that inspiring content. If you have a story idea or know someone who’d make a good feature for She Glo(w)s, Glo Girl, or He Glo(w)s, please email me. We create each issue for YOU and would love your feedback. In the meantime, enjoy our “Celebrate Love” issue, featuring a fun Fashion spot to help you embrace red this month, a nod to a woman preserving and bringing Fort Wayne Black History to the forefront, and a guide to embracing your child’s love language.
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Becky Johnson Current Town: Fort Wayne Hometown: Fort Wayne Inspiration for your artwork in general: Nature I suppose, as most of my paintings are of flowers, leaves, trees, birds, etc. I would say other artists I am exposed to inspire me, as well.
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What advice do you have for artists just starting out? My advice would be to continue painting until it makes YOU happy! If you hate it, paint over it. The process is what it’s all about. Somewhat like meditation I suppose, it’s calming. When people like it …. that’s a bonus.
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What inspired this piece? I love flowers, so I tend to paint my own whimsical version of flowers from my garden. The flowerpot is inspired by several artists I’ve known who make pottery with faces, also known as “potheads”.
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I was raised surrounded by great art and artists, so you could say that it’s in my DNA. I’ve owned two art galleries and truly appreciate painting as a medium. So, when I had the time during the pandemic, I became more serious about it. I’m loving the growth and am sure I’ll keep painting, along with other artistic endeavors, whenever time permits.
I show at Jake Art Studio on Berry St., Studio K on State Street, have shown at Artlink, and I’ll be having a show at Trubble Brewing later this year. a
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GLAM + STYLE | Fashion
Lady inRed
Tips to wearing your heart on your sleeve this month By Julie Young
There is something about a woman in red that makes people sit up and take notice. Whether it is a simple pop of color that makes a big splash, or a standout ensemble designed to turn heads, red is an intense color that demands attention. Red is the color of action, determination, power, and passion. So, if you are ready to wear your heart on your sleeve this month, we’ve got the tips to help you pump up your style!
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KNOW YOUR SHADE. No two reds are exactly alike, so be sure to choose a red that compliments your skin tone, so you know what to look for. Darker skin tones often look best in reds that are infused with orange, such as coral or tangerine. Fairer skin tones require some pink below the surface like ruby or berry reds. However, if you have been blessed with a medium skin tone, chances are any shade of red looks great on you!
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DON’T WANT TO GO OVERBOARD? Give your otherwise neutral look a lift by adding a red accessory like a great bag, belt, scarf, or shoes. This can be accented with red nail polish or a great red lipstick to get you used to the bolder hue.
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THINK OUTSIDE THE BOX. Although red is often paired with black and white, it can also enhance greys, blues, greens, and earth tones, so don’t be afraid to try red with some of these exciting options.
INDIVIDUAL STYLE. A red coat or jacket will give your look an automatic update. A red top can turn any outfit into a statement. Casual denim becomes classy when red is included. When paired with a pastel pink skirt (with ruching details), a soft red sweater offers a chic, romantic look. Geometric prints that include some red will help you be the talk of the town.
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PRETTY IN PLAID. Red and plaid prints go hand in hand and that’s the reason this look is always in vogue. It can be dressy or casual depending on your need. FIT OR FLAIR? When going red from toe to head, make sure you find a look that flatters your body type. You will be noticed, so you’ll want a piece that highlights your best features while minimizing the ones you’d rather hide. A pencil skirt will draw attention to your body’s natural shape while giving it the illusion of length. A mini skirt will show off your legs while a maxi skirt will show off your long, lean lines. A belted pantsuit is a great way to emphasize your waist while ankle-length trousers with a great pair of red heels and red-tinted sunglasses will give you an added sense of glam.
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GLAM + STYLE | Self Care + Beauty
SELF-DEFENSE BASICS By Jennie Renner
Violent crime is an unfortunate reality of the world we live in today. As women, we know that we should be prepared to defend ourselves, but it isn’t something we like to think about. Steve Basche, Master Instructor and the owner of Basche’s Martial Arts, says self-defense starts with projecting confidence. In fact, he said it is the most important thing you can do to help avoid a threatening situation. “You should always look like you know where you’re going,” he said. “Walk a little bit faster than usual, chest out, chin up, look straight ahead, and use your peripheral vision to stay aware of your surroundings.” Sensei Basche opened his business in 1997 but has been practicing martial arts most of his life. He started training at a very young age with his mother. “I love what I do,” he said. “I live and breathe martial arts.” According to Basche, awareness is the other basic skill for defending yourself. He said that the reason some women get attacked is because they are surprised and freeze up.
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Mary Miller is an assistant instructor at Basche’s Martial Arts. She added that it is important to be smart about where you park and don’t travel alone if you can help it. Assailants often prey on people who look like an easy target. She advised to follow your gut instinct and avoid situations if something doesn’t feel right.
Miller became interested in martial arts because she wanted to learn to defend herself. She also doesn’t like regular exercise and wanted a challenge. She said she walked out of her first class feeling empowered. She kept coming back and eventually earned her black belt under Sensei Basche. Beyond confidence, awareness, and being smart about situations, Miller encourages women to learn basic self-defense moves like a front kick. “The goal is for you to get away, not beat the bad guy up,” she said. “You want to create that window of escape.” For further training, Basche’s Martial Arts offers a Ladies Self-Defense class. You can register on the website, www.basches.com. The class is open to anyone ages 10 and up, regardless of ability. Miller insisted that anyone can learn
to defend themselves in some way, even if they can’t walk. She said that they have had a participant attend in a wheelchair before. “If someone wants to learn, Sensei Basche will teach them,” she said. Sensei Basche said that the self-defense class is a good place to start, but that the more training you do, the more you will be able to respond autonomically. “If someone does attack you, it’s all about reflexes,” he said. “And the only way to develop those reflexes is to practice.” Besides the obvious of being able to protect yourself, there are other benefits of learning selfdefense. “You feel good, you look good, you have peace of mind,” said Sensei Basche. “In turn, your confidence will go up.” Miller agreed, and said, “I didn’t start training until I was 43 and my confidence went up because I felt strong and capable.” a
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COMMUNITY FOCUS | SHE
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They say it takes a village to raise a child — and Antoinette Francher-Donald is certainly someone you want in your village. Whether it’s advocating for children’s health in her role at the Community Foundation of Greater Fort Wayne, volunteering for various causes, or raising two daughters, she’s hungry for change. Presently, as the Children’s Health Collaborative Director, at CFGFW, she’s focused on helping vulnerable youth who live in our community’s poorest zip codes. The program’s objective is to create a system of care where all kids in Allen County are physically, mentally, and spiritually healthy, and educated to their highest potential. You could say she sees herself in the children they’re helping to reach. “My lived experience (is what) drove me to this position,” she said. “I’m incredibly passionate about our youth— their well-being and the disparities and inequities that still exist today. Our littles deserve better. So that drove me to it; knowing I see the opportunities that my daughters have, and I see the lack of opportunity that so many youth in our community still have.” In other words, as a child growing up in poverty and experiencing related trauma, she hopes to end that cycle in our country. It starts in our backyard and with our children. Francher-Donald credits her daughters Shaneé and Elyse for making her the person she is today. Her husband, Tony, is also a powerful force for good in her life. “My husband is a silent warrior,” she said. “He’s a man of few words, but when he says something, it has great meaning to it.” He’s been there through thick and thin and has challenged her at critical junctures in life. Among those occasions was when she decided to run her first marathon. Running is part of her identity now, but it wasn’t always the case. “My husband was one of the first persons to help me see so much potential in myself,” she said. “If it weren’t for my husband, I would have never run a full marathon. And because of that, I have the Boston (Marathon) on my resume.” Speaking of resumes, she can add another accomplishment to her resume. She was recently honored with the Spirit of the YMCA Volunteer Award from the YMCA of Greater Fort Wayne’s two branches: Parkview Family and Child Care Services. Looking forward, Francher-Donald is bullish on the future and what opportunities might lie ahead. “From a personal perspective, I’m excited about continuing to learn more about myself and others, and how to continue to project that voice for the well-being of our families and our kids.”. a
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Jonathan Busarow was raised on music and has been sharing his passion for it with the Fort Wayne community since 2012 when he moved here to accept his position as Executive Artistic Director for the Fort Wayne Children’s Choir. Today, he continues to remain a vital instrument in the process of teaching children of diverse ages and backgrounds the benefits of learning and performing music.
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Busarow has always been “impressed with the Fort Wayne community and the arts opportunities it provides.” His position with FWCC gives him the chance to nurture the early relationship between a child and music, helping them to understand music literacy, as well as how to refine themselves vocally. FWCC provides not only in-house classes but works with local music teachers and the Allen County Public Library, as well, and is working on launching a new program through Arts United. “I want to make sure that everyone in our community knows what we can do and that this can be for them,” Busarow says. “If there’s a kid that loves to sing, then we have a place for them.” FWCC provides tuition assistance to help eliminate barriers that may prevent a child from participating. With over 250 children from all over the community, the organization focuses on fostering a child’s love and curiosity for music while giving them access to “skills that will benefit them for the rest of their lives,” Busarow says. Busarow is also an active member of Rotary, a service organization that works locally, as well as globally. The Fort Wayne chapter recently helped build a heart hospital in India, as well as an oxygen lab. Busarow notes that “the work is so powerful,” and he has been able to make strong connections with local leaders by becoming a member. A husband and father of 4 young boys, he notes that in their free time, his family “loves visiting the Botanical Gardens and the Fort Wayne Children’s Zoo. My wife and I really love to explore different restaurants and enjoy spending time with friends from church,” he says. “Fort Wayne has fit our family so well, which has been a real blessing.” They are currently working on a home renovation and caring for the newest addition to their family, born just a few months ago. You can see Busarow and the Fort Wayne Children’s Choir’s hard work put on display during their yearly spring concert on Saturday, May 7th at PFW. a
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glo GIRL MALILA SMILEY AGE: 16 By Stacie Ball | Photo by Mollie Shutt
At a young age, Malila Smiley dreamed of becoming a baker. When her dad said she did not need to wait to become a baker, she hit the ground running. A good amount of positive thinking, a dash of YouTube, and a sprinkle of inspiration from Pinterest helped Malila write the recipe for the business of her dreams. Malila was born with a passion for art and enjoyed drawing and painting. Soon she discovered culinary art and learned to bake from YouTubers like ‘How to Cake it’ and Rosanna Pansino. “I learned how to make cupcakes, which eventually branched off into cheesecakes and brownies,” Malila explained. She experimented with different recipes from Pinterest and favorite cookbooks and put 14
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together a menu of items she thought would sell. In August of 2016, Malila founded her business, Dreamie Pastries. Customers order her delicious cupcakes, cake pops, cheesecakes, brownies, and lemonades on Facebook and Instagram or by email. She offers approximately 24 flavors of cupcakes, including customer favorites like chai latte, strawberry colada, mint chocolate, and cotton candy. Her love of culinary arts is quite contagious. She teaches baking classes at the YMCA to eager beginning bakers and even gets her little sister and brother in on the action. She said, “Now, my little sister, Amiliya, makes cake pops for Dreamie Pastries, and my little brother, Ephraim, makes lemonade in the summer.” Malila’s life isn’t all sugar and flour. She is part of the National Honor Society and was a
Junior Achievement Student Board Member. In November 2021, she became a Junior Achievement Entrepreneur of the Month. In her spare time, she works at JCPenney. When asked how she manages everything, she stated, “I manage it by simply knowing that I am capable and it’s possible.” Even if orders were scarce, or recipes flopped, Malila resisted the urge to give up. Her business has grown due to her positive thinking and hard work. Malila’s next dream is to become a dermatologist. In five years, she hopes to begin her journey through medical school. Discover more about Dreamie Pastries by visiting it on Facebook and Instagram. Place an order on either social media site or by sending an email to dreamie.pastries@gmail.com. a
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FEATURE FOCUS | Black History Month
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Black History By Jennie Renner
“Black history is every month for me - or actually - history, period.” clubs. “When she passed, she had five boxes of things on women’s history here in Fort Wayne,” said Smiley.
attention to women reading that because it is about women empowering their community at a time when there were drawbacks to doing so.”
When asked what she would like to highlight in the collection, Smiley drew attention to the African American women’s clubs. “These colored women’s clubs were groups that began to address their own wishes to advance, but then grew from that into something bigger,” she said.
Smiley also started a black history club at the Boys and Girls Club in the late 1990’s, which grew into workshops called “Spirit Flight.” For the curriculum, she connects virtues with stories of African American achievements. “‘Spirit Flight’ is a celebration of the human spirit because in spite of all that stood in their way, black people made significant achievements,” she said.
She talked about the significance of these clubs in a paper she wrote called “Extolling Indiana’s Colored Women’s Clubs.” The paper is available in the publications section of her collection on the ACPL’s website. “I would really like to draw
When Marsha Smiley attended Central High School in Fort Wayne in the late 60’s, she said that black history wasn’t taught properly. Her grandfather, who raised her, was a high school principal and was teaching her the African American history that was being left out of her formal education. Smiley inherited her grandfather’s passion for the past, which led her to earn a bachelor’s degree in history from Indiana University in 1973. While on the board of the African / African American Historical Society Museum in Allen County, she told fellow-board member Curt Witcher about her desire to preserve some family documents in her possession. As the Genealogy Center Manager at the Allen County Public Library, Witcher was uniquely qualified to help her, and the “Marsha Smiley African American Collection” was born in 2011. The documents that started Smiley’s collection were from her uncle’s mother. His mother, Josephine Gaines Williams, was a native of Fort Wayne and died in 2009 shortly before her 95th birthday. Williams was well-known for her community service and involvement in women’s 16
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One example that she cites in the workshops is Bessie Coleman, who she links with the virtue of determination. Coleman wanted to learn how
to fly, but because she was a black woman, she was not accepted at any flight schools in the United States. Encouraged to go to France to learn to fly, she got her international pilot’s license in 1921, becoming the first African American woman to do so. Smiley wants her collection on the genealogy website to be educational as well as a celebration of black history. She emphasized that Fort Wayne is a composite of many communities and that we need to learn about each other and focus on our common humanity. “As one, we’re whole,” she said. “We’re all in this together.” To view the “Marsha Smiley African American Collection,” visit https://www.genealogycenter.info/search_marshasmiley.php a
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FEATURE | On Her Nightstand
On Her Nightstand By Wendy Stein
What are you currently reading? “Genius of Place: The Life of Frederick Law Olmsted” by Justin Martin. Olmsted was the father of landscape design during the 1800’s. He was an early voice for the environment and a staunch abolitionist. Olmstead designed New York’s Central Park, as well as the grounds around the Capitol building, and many urban parkways. He was a conservationist for Niagara Falls and the Adirondacks. I think our city mirrors Olmstead’s passion, working hard to improve and grow our parks and recreation. We have some amazing parks staffed by talented and dedicated employees who work hard to make beautiful public landscapes everyone can enjoy. Olmstead was the kind of guy I can identify with because he didn’t start off his adulthood knowing he wanted to be the father of landscaping. Much to the dismay of his parents, he screwed around as a young adult, goofing off with friends and never finishing anything. He ran off and joined a merchant ship and that adventure tamed him down a little. When he came back, he became more serious about finding his passion in life. It took him a while, but when he found it, he really found it. His life’s work gave so much to future generations.
Andie Parker is a professional gardener and landscaper, currently working for the City of Fort Wayne Parks Department. Her passion is perennial and annual design. A lover of the arts, music, and beer, Andie thinks her jokes are funnier than anyone else’s. She has a humorless chihuahua named Chupacabra and two cats who emotionally abuse her.
Who is your favorite author? John Steinbeck. The first book I ever read by him was “The Red Pony.” I used to sneak into the teachers’ section of the library when I was in sixth grade. I’d wait until there was a student helper staffing the library desk when I could get away with it. I thought it was going to be about a red pony. I think my brain melted when I read it. It was so gray and sad and lost. I had a rough childhood, so the way Steinbeck wrote with such grim desperation really spoke to me. After that I read every Steinbeck I could get my hands on. He helped shape how I look at some of my own circumstance and reminds me to forgive others when they don’t rise to my expectations. What’s a book everyone loves that you secretly hate? I tried to read “Fifty Shades of Grey”, but I couldn’t even finish it, it was just so shallow and silly. I think Judy Blume writes about sex in a much better way we can all relate to. a
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FEATURE | We Love Your Style
We Love Your Style KATIE PRUITT & ANDY WELFLE Scandinavian, clean-lines side, and Katie is more drawn to the designs that feature asymmetrical elements and weird patterns. We try to balance the MCM with some hygge fundamentals: pops of color and texture, like baskets and throw pillows, to keep the design from being cold and unwelcoming. Are rugs a type of style? Because that is Katie’s style.
By Amber Bouthot
Each month, we highlight someone whose style we admire. If you know someone we should consider featuring, email ambouthot@the-papers.com. This month, it’s Katie Pruitt and Andy Welfle, natives of Fort Wayne who moved to the Bay Area in 2014 when Andy got a job opportunity he couldn’t pass up. They are both writers. Andy leads a content design team at Adobe, and Katie works as a marketing copywriter and project manager. They ended up loving San Francisco so much that they bought a house there in November 2021. It’s important to them that they don’t disconnect from Fort Wayne, though — so many of their friends and family are here, and they’ve invested in the community so much over the years. During non-pandemia times, they try to make sure they get back to visit regularly. They have pieces of Fort Wayne and Indiana scattered all over the house.
How would you describe your style? We’ve definitely leaned into the midcentury modern trend. Andy tends toward the
Tell us a little about each of the areas you chose to highlight. Why did you choose them? What makes them your faves? We chose the living room and dining room because these two are our main living spaces, and therefore we’ve spent the most time and effort decorating them in the two months we’ve lived here. The spacious living room, with the cute fireplace in the corner, is one of the things that sold us on this house. There are so many cute little elements that are full of charm and character, like the detail on the crown molding and the fireplace. It’s been a while since we’ve lived somewhere where we could display all the special art pieces we’ve acquired over the years. We’re proud to have art by people we know, like Fort Wayne artists John Hrehov, Matt Plett, and Rebecca Stockert. And Fort Wayne artists we wish we knew like Lyndy Bazile. We also have art by our friends who are artists but might not tell you that themselves, and it feels good to have it all out and on display again.
When you think of your home, what’s the feeling you hope your family and visitors have? We’re after a warm environment that makes people relax, but everyone is after that blend of style and comfort, right? We try to choose furniture that is comfortable without being shapeless. Smell is also important to Katie. She wants visitors to walk in, take a deep breath, and say “it smells so good in here,” not “whoa, it smells like you have cats.” What’s your favorite color? Collectively, orange is probably our favorite color. We like that it’s bold and warm and evocative of the 60s and 70s, periods whose style we like. We’ve used orange to decorate ever since we first moved in together, sixteen years ago. Individually, Andy likes blue and Katie likes purple, and those colors also show up around our house. Who lives in your home with you? Two large and fuzzy cats named Sebastian and Rupert. If we’re being honest, we bought this house for them. It brings us such joy to see how much they love it. They have more space to run around and plenty of sunlight to nap in. They stretch out in the sunbeams in the living room in the mornings and perch on the back of the couch to watch the people and the birds outside. Coming home and seeing them in the front window is a dream. a
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e g a u g n a L Love can strengthen your relationship by Mary Jane Bogle
We all crave close connection, now more than ever. Our kids especially are relying on us to provide a safe, warm, loving environment when they walk through the front door. If your relationship with your children isn’t as strong as you would hope, learning their love languages just might be the key to making sure they feel valued and loved. First coined by author and counselor Gary Chapman, the term “love language” speaks to everyone’s unique craving for love and affection. According to Chapman, each of us gravitates to one specific language that deeply touches our soul.
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ords of Affirmation – Children who speak this love language are always giving compliments and might seem overly offended by negative remarks. This child needs to hear the words, “I love you,” repeated often and in many ways. A sticky note in a lunchbox or a folded message left on a pillow is just as powerful as a spoken word. Phrases like “You are so good at…” “I love the way you…” and “You are so important to me…” will touch them deeply and create a close connection with you.
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or tying shoes, but occasionally doing their chores will send a loud message of love without diminishing that child’s move toward independence. Little acts of service, such as warming her clothes in the dryer in the morning or fluffing a pillow before bed, can work wonders.
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iving and Receiving Gifts – Kids who speak this love language appreciate the time and thoughtfulness behind a gift and can tell you who gave them what for Christmas or birthdays long after the day has passed. Remember, a gift doesn’t have to be expensive to be memorable to this child. A wildflower set in a tiny vase by her place at the table, a bottlecap you found on the beach together taped to a lunchbox lid or even a smooth stone from a recent hike pressed into the palm can become a treasure to this child.
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uality Time – “Come play with me!” is a common mantra for a child who craves quality time as a primary love language. The child who constantly asks you join in activities is really saying, “I need to know you love me.” Getting down on the floor and playing with Legos, reading a book together, or going on a special, one-on-one trip is exactly what this child needs to feel secure and loved.
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hysical Touch – The child with this love language is easy to recognize. He or she is the one constantly climbing in your lap, holding your hand, or playing with your hair. Hugs, cuddles, high fives, and back rubs are way more important to this child than words alone.
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A MODERN GUIDE TO HAVING THE MONEY TALK By Lauren Caggiano
With Valentine’s Day right around the corner, love is in the air! You might be thinking about taking next steps in your relationship and that might mean commingling finances, or at least having important discussions related to money. If you decide to go that route, it’s important to exercise discretion and go into the conversation educated and open to dialogue. Carrie Lamb, a financial advisor with Edward Jones in Fort Wayne, knows a thing or two about this topic. She’s a newlywed and counsels couples on emotionally charged topics like entering into financial unions, either while dating or recently married. “Coupling is joining a team, so approach money and how you’ll deal with it as a team,” she said. “Even if you keep accounts separate, it’s important to discuss and agree on how you’ll approach things.” For instance, it’s imperative that you discuss how much debt and what kind of debt you each have. That might mean credit cards, student loans, child support, etc. Also consider the goals you each have personally and as a unit and how your finances might play a role in attaining those goals. Lamb makes another important point in that each person will have different attitudes and emotions around money.
“As a couple, you’ll need to come to a consensus about how you’ll deal with money together,” she said. “And each party will need to be okay with the decisions. Otherwise, resentment can build, and that’s not good for the marriage. Most studies show that money issues are among the main reasons for divorce. If you’re trying to avoid that, be open and honest and work as a team from the get-go.” Speaking of being transparent, according to Lamb, you’ll want to strategically plan the timing of these conversations. So, this begs the question: when should you have the “money talk”? In her words, “I don’t feel it’s ever too early (well it may not be great first date material) especially if you think the other person has different viewpoints or if you have big goals you’re determined to accomplish. You can only get where you want to go with open and honest communication and consensus on how to move forward.” The same goes for taking advantage of tools and
resources. Per Lamb, you can’t go wrong with a financial literacy book or course. “And of course, I think a Financial Advisor is a good investment,” she added. Beyond these considerations, don’t overlook the obvious. “The biggest tip is talk to each other,” she said. “The second tip is create a spending plan and a savings plan (that’s what I call it, others call it a budget). Tell your money where to go otherwise it will tell you where you can go.” Lamb offers one last closing piece of insight: “Dream together. Dream big together. Write down your dreams. Find help breaking down what steps you’ll need to do achieve those dreams. Put dollar amounts to those steps. This is what I help people do every day.” a shutterstock.com
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“Little River Ramblers”
Hike and explore the interesting plants and wildlife of Eagle Marsh. Dress for weather, boots recommended. Bring binoculars for a close-up view. Free admission. 9 a.m.-11 a.m., Arrowhead Prairie, 8624 Aboite Road, Roanoke. 260.478.2515, info@lrwp.org, lrwp.org.
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First Friday
Festive block party atmosphere with food, nonprofit and business vendors; live entertainment. Free admission. 5 p.m.-9 p.m., downtown Warsaw. 574.267.6311, warsawcdc.org/first-friday.
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Seed Stratification Workshop
Part of the Native Plant Propagation Series. Learn the easiest way to grow native plants from seeds. Take home a container of stratified seeds. All materials will be provided. Register 24 hours in advance. 2 p.m.-4 p.m., Eagle Marsh Barn, 6801 Engle Road, Fort Wayne. 260.918.7119, m.russell@lrwp.org
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16th annual Winter Gala
Dinner, dessert auction, drinks, dancing. Proceeds go to Wabash, Northfield, Southwood seniors for college scholarships. 6:00 p.m.-10:30 p.m., Heartland REMC building, 350 Wedcor Ave., Wabash. $35/person, on sale through Jan. 28. 260.563.7275 or 765.661.8206, visitwabashcounty.com
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Decatur Flea Market
Nearly 100 indoor vendors, hot food available. 8 a.m.-2 p.m. (year-round), Riverside Center, 231 E. Monroe St. (Highway 224 East), Decatur. Contact Carla at 260.517.8182, decaturcoinshow.com, facebook.com/ decaturindianafleamarket.
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Mather Sunday Lecture Series
Christopher Elliott will lecture on “Before the Dream: Dr. Martin Luther King and Civil Rights Struggles in Fort Wayne, Indiana.” Book signing to follow. Free admission. 2-3 p.m., The History Center, 302 E. Berry St., Fort Wayne. 260.426.2882, fwhistorycenter.org.
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Settler Series Hand-Arts Class: Historic Stencil Art
Costumed instructors share their expertise in hand arts and related history. 9:30 a.m.-11:30 a.m. (doors open at 9:00 a.m. for refreshments, program display, social time). Advance registration only. $15/members, $20/nonmembers. Historic Sweeney Homestead, 1424 W. Jefferson Blvd., Fort Wayne. 260.637.8622, settlersinc.org.
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1812 Winter Garrison
Served with scalloped potatoes, coleslaw, dessert and coffee. Full service bar available with German and domestic beer, wine and other beverages and soft drinks. German music. $12/adults, $6/children. 4:30 p.m.-7 p.m., Ft. Wayne Maennerchor/Damenchor, 3355 Elmhurst Drive, Fort Wayne. Contact: Patti Knox, 260.444.3634. www.fortwaynemaennerchor.us
Experience winter life in a frontier fort by visiting with soldiers as they chop wood for the fireplace, cook their own meals, conduct military drills and serve on guard duty. 10 a.m.-5 p.m., The Old Fort, 1201 Spy Run Ave., Fort Wayne. Free admission, but donations accepted. 260.437.2836, oldfortwayne.org, facebook.com/historicfortwayne
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Watch eagles from aboard Trolley No. 85, learn about their habitats from local guide Teresa Rody, interpretive manager of the Upper Wabash Interpretive Servcies. 9 a.m.- noon. Trolley departs from 221 S. Miami St., Wabash. $30/person. visitwabashcounty.com/trolley-tours/ Would you like to submit an event to be considered for glo’s To-Do List? Our deadline is the 6th of the month prior to publication. E-mail us your event 40 words or less to: rbalogh@the-papers.com. Please type ‘To-Do List’ in the subject line. Or you may mail info to glo, P.O. Box 188, Milford, IN 46542.
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• Ongoing through April 17, “Under the Big Top” circus garden, public hours, regular admission
• Tuesday, Feb. 1, 8, 15, 22, T’ai Chi for Relaxation, class times 9:30 a.m.-10:30 a.m. or 5 p.m.-6 p.m., $52 for six sessions, $47 for member or volunteer • Tuesday, Feb. 8, through March 13, Sweetheart Orchid Display, public hours, regular admission Tuesday, Wednesday, Friday, Saturday; 10 a.m.-8 p.m. Thursday; noon-4 p.m. Sunday; closed Monday. 1100 S. Calhoun St., Fort Wayne. 260.427.6440, botanicalconservatory.org.
Embassy Theatre
• Tuesday, Feb. 1, Trekking Mexico, 7:30 p.m., $5 • Saturday, Feb. 5, Fort Wayne Philharmonic Pops 3, “Classical Mystery Tour: A Tribute to the Beatles,” 7;30 p.m., $27 to $86 • Friday, Feb. 11, Ron “Tater Salad” White, 8 p.m., $39 • Saturday, Feb. 12, Who Got Snacks Stand-Up Comedy Special, 8 p.m., $10
• Saturday, Feb. 19, Fort Wayne Philharmonic Masterworks 4: John Williams and Dvorak, 7:30 p.m., $23 to $81 • Wednesday, Feb. 23, An Evening with Travis Tritt: “Solo Acoustic Tour 2022,” 7:30 p.m., $45/$55/$65 • Thursday, Feb. 24, Rodney Carrington: “Let Me In!” 7 p.m., $46.50/$66.50/$196.50 NOTE: Ticket prices are subject to fluctuation based on demand. 125 W. Jefferson Blvd., Fort Wayne. 800.745.3000, fwembassytheatre.org.
Fort Wayne Museum of Art
Exhibitions: • Dazzle, Pattern, Color, Bling: The Alluring Patterns of Liz Quisgard (through Feb. 27) • Saint & Shepherds: New Work by Hebru Brantley (through March 6) • A Century of Making Meaning: 100 Years of Collecting (through March 13) • A Sense of Place: Abstract Art in Northern Indiana (through March 13) • Saints & Shepherds: New Work by Hebru Brantley (through March 13)
Memorial Coliseum
• Thursday-Sunday, Feb. 3-6, Fort Wayne RV & Camping Show, 11 a.m.-9 p.m. Thursday through Saturday, 11 a.m.-5 p.m. Sunday, $10/adults, $8/seniors 60+/$3 children 5-12, $20/family day pass (2 adults, 3 children), children 4 and under free • Thursday-Sunday, Feb. 10-13, Fort Wayne Boat Show, 3 p.m.-9 p.m. Thursday and Friday, 11 a.m.-9 p.m. Saturday, 11 a.m.-5 p.m. Sunday, $10/adults, children 12 and under free • Tuesday, Feb. 15, Nickelodeon’s JoJo Siwa: “D.R.E.A.M. The Tour,” 7 p.m., $39.50/$49.50/$69.50 • Thursday, Feb. 17, Winter Jam Tour Spectacular, 7 p.m., $10 general admission at the door, no tickets required • Thursday-Sunday, Feb. 24-27, Disney On Ice: “Mickey’s Search Party,” 7 p.m. Thursday and Friday; 11 a.m., 3 p.m., 7 p.m. Saturday; 1 p.m. and 5 p.m. Sunday, $15.50 to $55.50
Parking $6 main lot, $10 preferred lot. Allen County War Memorial Coliseum, 4000 Parnell Ave., Fort Wayne. 260.482.9502, memorialcoliseum.com.
Honeywell Center
• Ongoing through Sunday, Feb. 20, “92 County Art Show” competition display, 8 a.m.-5 p.m., Honeywell Center • Thursday, Feb. 3, “Dinosaur World Live,” 7:30 p.m., Ford Theater, $15/$25/$35 • Sunday, Feb. 6, The Oak Ridge Boys, 3 p.m., Ford Theater, $35/$45/$55/$75 • Friday, Feb. 11, Date Night Dinner, 6 p.m., Eugenia’s Restaurant in Honeywell Center, $49.95/couple • Saturday, Feb. 12, “Scooby-Doo! And the Lost City of Gold,” 7:30 p.m., Ford Theater, $29 to $190 • Friday, Feb. 18, “My Name is NOT Mom,” 7:30 p.m., Ford Theater, $25 to $65 • Thursday, Feb. 24, Josh Turner, 7:30 p.m., Ford Theater, $38/$54/$100 • Friday, Feb. 25, “Rock N Roll Dream Tour,” 7:30 p.m., Ford Theater, $49/$59 • Saturday, Feb. 26, Big Bad Voodoo Daddy, 7:30 p.m., Ford Theater, $29/$39/$100
Honeywell Center and Ford Theater, 275 W. Market St., Wabash. Eagles Theatre/ Ballroom, 106 W. Market St., Wabash. Honeywell House, 720 N. Wabash St., Wabash. 13-24 Drive-In, 890 IN 13. Dr. Ford Home, 177 W. Hill St., Wabash. 260.563.1102, honeywellarts.org.
Shipshewana Blue Gate Theatre
• Baby, I Got the Blues: Photographs by Azya Lashelle (through March 25)
• Thursday-Monday, Feb. 10-14, Valentines Celebration with John Branyan, 7 p.m. Thursday-Saturday, Monday (no performances Sunday), Music Hall, $19.95 to $49.50
• Planes, Trains & Automobiles: Classic Toys and Americana (ongoing)
• Saturday, Feb. 12, Richard Marx: “Valentine’s Celebration,” 8 p.m., PAC, $29.95 to $104.50
• FWMoA Permanent Glass Displays (ongoing)
• Friday, Feb. 25, Cory Asbury of Bethel Music, 8 p.m., PAC, $19.95 to $64.95
• Kaiyodo: Mini Artworks for the Modern Age (ongoing) Events: • Thursday, Feb. 3, Curator’s Tour: “Dazzle, Patter, Color, Bling,” 12:15 p.m., open to first 16 registrants with RSVP • Saturday, Feb. 12, Second Saturday Family Tour, 10:30 a.m., preregistration required • Thursday, Feb. 17, FWMoA Live: Azya Lashelle, 7 p.m. via museum’s YouTube channel • Friday, Feb. 18, Artist Lecture with Bob Cross, 6 p.m. $8/members, $12/nonmembers Adults $8, students (pre-K through college) $6, seniors (65 and older) $6, families $20, free admission for veterans and veterans’ families, free general admission 5 p.m.-8 p.m. every Thursday. 10 a.m.-6 p.m. Tuesday, Wednesday, Friday, Saturday; 10 a.m.-8 p.m. Thursday; noon-5 p.m. Sunday (closed Mondays), 311 E. Main St., Fort Wayne. 260.422.6467, fwmoa.org.
• Saturday, Feb. 26, Josh Turner, 8 p.m., PAC, $29.95 to $99.95 All shows add $18 for dinner theater. Performing Arts Center (PAC), 760 S. Van Buren St., Shipshewana. Music Hall, 195 N. Van Buren, Shipshewana. 888.447.4725, thebluegate.com.
Stroede Center for the Arts
• Saturday, Feb. 12, Cinema at the Stroede: “Moonstruck,” 7:30 p.m., free admission • Friday, Feb. 25, Madcap Puppets: “Jack & the Gentle Giant,” 7 p.m., free admission • Sunday, Feb. 27, Sunday at the Stroede: Bridge & Wolak classical music duo, 7 p.m., $15
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While the concept of “home” is often associated with the people we love, the actual house is part of what makes somewhere a place we want to return to again and again. Finding the perfect house has many facets and we’ve asked an expert to weigh in. Lynette Johnson, a residential realtor for 17 years at Sold by the Gold team, is a certified negotiation specialist and president of the Anthony Wayne Rotary Club. How can we find the perfect home? LJ: When I meet a home buyer, I ask for their priorities for criteria they must have, what they would like to have, and what they do not want. I always tell buyers to not fall in love with a home until they are handed the keys. It is important to mitigate emotion in a business decision.
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Is the “perfect” house a moving target? LJ: An owner’s definition of a perfect house evolves as the owner’s life evolves. Some owners live on a country property for multiple years and then they decide to move into the city for a complete change of pace. Perfect 20 years ago may not be perfect today. What is a reality check? LJ: Investing in real estate is always a risk. There is never a guarantee. Buyers/investors need to look at the big picture for the local economy. Is the city vibrant and growing? What industries are moving into the area? What are the long-term projections? Fort Wayne is positioned to continue growing for years. People search for a home to meet their priorities. They may need two master bedrooms on the main floor to accommodate family members who cannot negotiate steps. Some want a large yard with perfect sun for their garden.
What do house hunters prioritize? LJ: Top priorities are always schools and the commute from work. Some clients want to live close to schools and work; some want to live close to schools but prefer a longer commute. It is critical for a realtor to ask a myriad of questions and to be a very good listener. Past experience influences a buyer’s wants/needs.
The most important recommendation I can give buyers and sellers is to ask their friends/co-workers/family members for a referral to a realtor.
What is the downside? LJ: The biggest pitfall is becoming too emotional, which can cause a rash decision. Buyers today need to be all-in with their initial offer so there are no regrets if their offer is not accepted; however, they should not overextend themselves in any way. They should work with an experienced realtor who sees the situation objectively, and verbalizes pros and cons of the property and the situation. It is vital that the realtor does the research so the buyer makes informed decisions.
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There is nothing better than finding a funky and expressive fashion piece – unless it’s the feeling you get when you wear it! According to Courtney Freeman Spann, owner and creative director of Meraki Co, that feeling is the “Meraki Moment.” “Meraki is an evolutionary brand for change,” she said. “Our muses thrive on bold statement styles, always setting the blueprint for next year’s trends.” Celebrating its fifth anniversary this year, Meraki’s flagship location in Warsaw has been so overwhelmed with love and support from its loyal customers, that Freeman Spann opened a second location in Fort Wayne’s Wells Street Corridor last December. This month, the shop will commemorate its three-month anniversary in the new location on Valentine’s Day. Freeman Spann says each store offers something different to meet the needs of its customers.
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Meraki carries one-of-a-kind collections that can be kept for generations, while cultivating styles that create double takes for any moment of your life.
“Our best sellers are our exclusive authentic Designer Gems,” she said. “As a lady who loves luxury, it hurts to see how inaccessible some of the world’s finest brands are. I wanted to be able to create and give a small piece of that world to anyone who dreamed of their closet to sparkle with those gems.” With the help of her husband, Freeman Spann looted her personal stash of designer vintage and began to carefully remove buttons from the tops, skirts, bags, jackets, and dresses. She began to solder down and weld together 24K gold plated chains and buttons to make a brand of her own.
And of course, the backbone of Meraki is the ever-popular Free People. “Free People is and always will be a brand that Meraki carries as long as we are open and operating,” Freeman Spann said. “It’s the brand that pushed us into taking our first steps on this wild and exciting journey. Just like us, each piece that comes from Free People is uniquely created using the best quality fabrics. Their mission is to create a line of clothing that caters to their customers’ intelligence, creativity, and individuality, while keeping with its great quality and affordability.” Freeman Spann said that when you shop local, customers do more than get the items they are looking for quickly. When you patronize a local store, you stimulate the economy, and help the environment, local schools, and organizations.
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HOME LIVING | Do It Yourself
Every month, we highlight do-it-yourself projects from our readers. Do you want to see your project featured in our magazine? Email ambouthot@the-papers.com.
Chalkboard Wall This month’s Reader DIY project comes from Wendy and Adam Downing. They made use of an empty wall and created a chalkboard wall in their kitchen to use as a central hub for organization and communication.
What was your inspiration for the project? Pinterest and that we had a lonely, empty wall that we were looking to make fun and useful. Our kitchen is small, and with an open concept, sometimes it can be challenging to find ways to make functional spaces out of areas that aren’t separate rooms. We have an empty wall just off the kitchen area, so I started envisioning ways we could use it more to our advantage. So, I took to Pinterest for chalkboard wall ideas. My hope was to build a space that could be used as a message board, weekly menu, to-do list, whatever. That current space lives in my laundry room and just wasn’t accessible when it needed to be. Now that we have a finished product, I’ve managed to create the functionality that I need, as well as a fun place for the kids to draw and show off their artwork.
How long did it take from start to finish? 1.5 days due to drying times on the paint. Was it easier or harder than you anticipated? It was about what I expected. Anyone casually versed in DIY could complete this project in a weekend. If you can paint a wall, you can make a chalkboard. The hardest part was probably the trim. A note from the carpentry-challenged: I would not have known where to start with the trim. To frame it the way we did, it required measuring and cutting an angle with a miter saw. I mean, I know I could do it if I had to, but I had a pretty handy helper, and I am thankful for that. What was the total cost of the project? Ours was about $200 by the time it was said and done. That can obviously fluctuate depending on how big you want it, what kind of lumber you purchase, and how you choose to accessorize the wall. I think it’s worth pointing out that $200 is probably the higher end of the price range for this project. I think you could easily accomplish this for $100 if you wanted to. What did you like best about the undertaking? I like a good project, and the finished product is always the best reward. The use of the empty wall will be convenient for us as parents and provide years of entertainment for our kids. We love the feeling it gave us to know that we were using our creativity and personalization to make better use of a space. We literally had a blank canvas and I think we made the best of it.
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Whether your child needs some Valentine’s Day cards to hand out at school or you want to sprinkle your friends with sweet surprises, you can create your own cute and meaningful Valentines. Here are some ideas.
Clothespin Airplanes
Butterfly Valentines
These are a blast to make. The airplanes are a cute craft idea on their own and adding a Valentine message makes it extra fun.
Smarties make the perfect butterfly body, and you can use scrapbook paper in fun Valentine’s prints for the wings.
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Clothespins with a spring Popsicle sticks (2 per plane) Corrugated cardboard Paint Paint brushes Hot glue Construction paper Scissors
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Step 1: Assemble your pieces. For each plane, you’ll need two popsicle sticks, one clothespin, and one mini popsicle stick. Cut cardboard segments for the struts between the wings of the bi-plane. Make the cardboard segments just tall enough that the top wing will sit above the clothespin and not attached to it. Cut a segment of a popsicle stick to be a tail. Step 2: Assemble the plane with hot glue. Step 3: Paint your plane. Step 4: C ut out a heart from construction paper and write a cheerful message.
White card stock Scrapbook paper Smarties Small buttons Google eyes
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Pipe cleaner Scissors White glue Hot glue
Step 1: Create your pattern. Cut out a small heart and slightly larger heart from card stock. Trace them onto another piece of cardstock. Fold cardstock in half and cut out the wing shape. Each butterfly has one white wing piece cut from card stock, and two large hearts and two small hears from scrapbook papers.
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Step 2: Glue the hears to the card stock with white glue. Cut antennas from pipe cleaners. Step 3: Glue the google eyes to the button. Glue the pipe cleaner antennas to the other side of the button. Attach smarties with hot glue, and then glue the face to the top of the smarties.
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