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Welcome to the September 2020 issue of Queen Size Magazine. THE KING SIZE ISSUE When we initially created QSM, it was all about the plus size ladies. But as the industry evolved, we realized that the big and tall men also shared some of the same issues that we did. They too struggled with lack of confidence because of their size. They too struggled (and still do) with finding quality clothing to fit them properly. They too understand that there are not enough opportunities for “us”. So why not make room for them in our pages as well? As of January 1st of 2018 we’ve officially gone co-ed. We have made space for big and tall men to showcase themselves along with plus size models. But once a year we dedicate an entire issue just to them. With that being said, this issue is all about the Big and Tall Men. In this issue, our cover model, Michael Moss discusses why he started his brand and the importance of helping big and tall men look & feel good in what they wear. We also sat down with some of your favorite big and tall professionals in the industry to discuss how/why they got started in the industry and what they would like to see changed. I love this time of the year. As with every issue, I truly thank each and every person that had a hand in making Queen Size Magazine possible. And on behalf of myself and Queen Size Magazine, I would like to thank all of our readers; without you we would not still be here. We would love to hear your feedback. Email us at queensizemagazine@gmail.com and let us know what you like, don’t like and/or want to see in future issues. We value your opinion.

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MASTHEAD TAWANA BLASSINGAME CEO/Editor In Chief PHILIP DREW Executive Director & Director of Photography MEESHA ANN Executive Director SHEENA POSTELL Social Media Correspondant LAWANDA SANYANG Beauty Editor ASHLEY WALKER Fashion Editor Sharonda Grandberry Oversees Ambassador EYANI COUTURE House Designer Nathaniel Jaye Beauty Janelle Simmons Fashion Nyemade Boiwu Lifestyle Detras Powell Lifestyle ValaRae Partee 2020 Face of QSM

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MICHAEL MOSS DISCUSSES BIG MAN CULTURE By ASHLEY WALKER

HEALTH AND FITNESS

TAKE STEPS TO PROTECT YOUR SKIN.... By STATEPOINT

BEAUTY&FASHION SPOTLIGHT | NICHOLAS 08 MODEL ALEXANDER By QSM

AT-HOME ACNE MISTAKES TO AVOID

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MEN IN PAGEANTRY: WITH DR. RAFAEL GALLEGO

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By LAWANDA SANYANG (LALA)

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TAKE STEPS TO PROTECT YOUR SKIN....| BY STATEPOINT

Do you spend summer days outdoors mowing the lawn, tending to the garden and working on the house? Here are a few steps you can take to help you care for and protect your skin as you complete your seasonal chores: DRESS RIGHT: A few wardrobe considerations go a long way. Opt for long, lightweight clothing in light colors, which can protect your skin from sun exposure while keeping you cool. Sunglasses and a wide-brimmed hat can provide further coverage. If possible, arrange to spend the bulk of your time outdoors either before 10 in the morning or after 4 in the afternoon to avoid exposure while the sun’s rays are at their strongest. DON’T FORGET THE SPF. Apply sunscreen and a lip balm containing SPF before heading outdoors. Reference the bottle’s instructions to ensure you are reapplying as-needed. Dermatologists recommend an SPF of 30 or higher for extended outdoor activity. For lawn care and gardening, you should also be on the lookout for a product that’s resistant to sweat. PROMOTE RESILIENCE: There are many outdoor elements that produce free radicals, such as sun exposure and pollution, and exposure to these free radicals can have harsh effects on the body. To help protect and maintain healthy, youthful-looking skin, consider incorporating Heliocare Daily Use Antioxidant Formula into your morning routine. In a survey conducted by Ferndale Healthcare Inc. between Nov 2019 and Feb 2020, of 923 U.S. dermatologists, more than half personally use Heliocare, and 87 percent of these experts recommend it to their patients. “I tell all my patients who ask me how to maintain their skin’s youthful appearance to consider taking Heliocare, particularly if they spend a lot of time outdoors,” says New York City dermatologist, Dr. Rachel Nazarian. The antioxidant-rich proprietary extract in Heliocare, Fernblock PLE Technology, has been studied for over 25 years by leading dermatologists. To learn more and to access additional skin care information, visit heliocare.com. ADOPT HEALTHY HABITS: Drinking plenty of water and ensuring you are getting electrolytes can help regulate the balance of fluid in the body for healthy-looking skin. Also, be sure to get a great night’s sleep. Not only do you deserve it after a hard day of work, but sufficient sleep is beneficial to skin health. This summer, treat your skin right while working in the yard. Take steps to protect it from the inside out.

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AT-HOME ACNE MISTAKES TO AVOID Spending more time at home has shifted the way we solve our problems. More than ever, people are turning to online platforms and social media, like YouTube and Instagram LIVE, as primary resources for mastering new skills and finding solutions. However, some problems are more complicated than a quick fix howto video, especially when it comes to treating acne. If you have started to break out or noticed your acne has worsened over the past few months, there is a good chance that heightened stress levels are a factor. “Stress increases hormone levels to prepare our bodies for that environment. The same hormones can impact the skin, leading to an increase in oil production which causes breakouts,” explains Dr. Joshua Zeichner, Director of Cosmetic and Clinical Research in Dermatology at the Mount Sinai Hospital in New York City. It also could be from wearing a face mask, says Dr. Zeichner. “We know that wearing a face mask has several negative impacts on the skin. Direct friction can lead to irritation, inflammation, and even promote acne breakouts.” With breakouts accelerating and in-office visits on pause, a DIY approach to treating acne has surged, with people testing solutions at home. “There’s a downside to experimenting with too many products because more often than not it leads to skin irritation. This can cause more harm than good in treating acne,” says Dr. Zeichner. “If you develop skin irritation while using multiple products, it may not be easy to figure out which product is the culprit. Plus, you won’t know if one product is blocking penetration or breaking down the other one.” To un-do the DIY damage, Dr. Zeichner shares the best tips to clearer skin:

* Keep it simple: If you notice breakouts and irritation including flakiness, inflammation, redness or burning, it’s likely you’re over doing it with your skincare routine. Pare down the number of products you’re using to eliminate the cause of the irritation. Your routine doesn’t need to be complicated to be effective. A cleanser, an Rx product if your dermatologist deems appropriate and a moisturizer is a simple and effective regimen. Also, remember to always wear sunscreen to protect your skin. * Consistency is key: Once you’ve simplified your routine, be sure to stick with it for 6-8 weeks to allow time for the products to work. * Consider a prescription product: If you’re suffering with acne over an extended period of time and over the counter products aren’t getting the job done, you may need a prescription option from your dermatologist. One product I often prescribe is ALTRENO® (tretinoin) Lotion, 0.05%. As a topical retinoid it increases collagen production and regulates skin cell turnover to help with the prevention and treatment of acne. This medication is an effective option for many patients to treat acne, which can result in long-lasting marks or even permanent scars on the face if left untreated. As an added bonus, ALTRENO is available via delivery through national in-store or online pharmacies. ALTRENO may cause irritation or other side effects. To learn more visit www.altreno.com. * Listen to the experts: If you can’t get an in-person appointment right now, you’ll find many board-certified dermatologists are sharing helpful tips, tricks and product recommendations daily on social media and through virtual appointments. Tutorials and peer forums are useful, but if you aren’t seeing the results you want, reach out to an expertthey’ll find a way to connect with you.

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MEN IN MAKEUP | LAWANDA SANYANG (LALA)

Have you ever wondered how your favorite male model achieved such pretty smooth blemish free skin? Well wonder no more because he’s probably wearing makeup. More men are wearing makeup then you think. It has become a part of the male grooming system. It is no longer a taboo or uncommon for male models, public figures or celebrities to wear makeup. As a Makeup Artist, I have been hired on several occasions to make up men for photoshoots ranging from clothing brands to book covers. We’re not just talking about your Beauty Boys with full on glam, we’re talking about your average male who needs to look camera ready. The next time you watch your favorite television show look at the males actors, I am almost certain they are wearing makeup. The beauty industry has expanded and men are taking a part, they too are looking for that perfect foundation or concealer shade. So Queens don’t be surprised if the favorite male in your life asks you to assist him in the Beauty department. Queens I would like to end on a note of encouragement; as we continue to work through a very difficult season. Make the best of the season you are in. Just know that all seasons change and this too shall pass. Stay encouraged. Love you, smooches Lala Sanyang

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ichael Moss is a Fashion Designer and Lifestyle Curator for Big & Tall Men. Michael founded Big Man Culture, in Atlanta, Georgia, from a need to highlight fashion and lifestyle trends for the Big & Tall Community.

Big Man Culture (BMC) is a Lifestyle and Image Consulting Group for the BIG MAN. BMC strives to assist the “ergonomically challenged” to find self-wealth and purpose through the lifestyle and fashion services that we offer. From custom clothing to image consulting or lifestyle to life balance, our goal is to transform each clients’ vision through one BIG Experience! Michael’s primary focus is to provide comfortable and exclusive custom clothing while promoting luxury accommodations at an affordable price. While living as a Big Man and realizing their challenges, Michael can provide expert advice that will eventually become a tailored experience for each customer.

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MVP Collections In August 2016, MVP Collections was created as a solution inspired Big & Tall Menswear brand founded by Mo Vaughn, former three-time MLB All Star, 1995 MVP and Co-Founder, fashion industry veteran Diane Bennett with the mission to promote body positivity, diversity, equity and inclusivity. Since its inception MVP Collections has been in the forefront of promoting in communities nationally and globally using Online Omni-channel distribution, Direct to Consumer (DTC) and nextgen digital marketing strategies .The collections cater to the customers looking for stylish clothing options that fit both their personality and frame. The Big & Tall customer has had limited options. While having clothing tailored can be costly, finding good quality and the perfect fit is essential. With these limits in the market place and Mo being the customer, he was inspired to create his vision with MVP Collections. Made in the USA, the collections offer a wide range of lifestyle looks in Athleisure, Premium Denim, graphic tees and shirts from sizes 1XL-6XL, 2XLT-4XLT, and 38-58â€?. The looks are designed to provide an easy transition from day to night. Shop all these looks at www,MVPCollections.com

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Big Men, Big Voices When people hear or think of “plus size” their minds immediately conjures up an image of a women. The industry largely caters to women with men almost as an afterthought. There’s often a lack of representation for them as well as less focused attention to help them with their concerns regarding body image issues. More and more men are working to make their voices heard so this perception can change. We spoke with a few men to hear their thoughts on the topic. Also, find out what “must know” piece of advice they’d give other larger men!

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audience facing roles. Brands are starting to slowly catch up to the times, but there’s still a ton of work to be done in media; from film all the way down to journalism to better represent the diverse population of the world. We need to see wider representation across brands; more fitness brands showing their support and promotion of health at any size, more of the premium brands entering the body positive arena. Society is beginning to wake up to the need of inclusivity and these brands shouldn’t be exempt.

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Tahge Benoit (IG - @Tahgeb) is a Big & Tall model born on the Caribbean island of Dominica. He currently resides in New York.

QSM: If you had the ability to snap your fingers and make one instant change in the fashion industry regarding bigger men what would it be? Tahge: If I could snap my fingers and make one change in the fashion industry, it would simply be for better representation across-theboard. That means producing comfortable/ on trend products for larger bodies and better representation in their ad campaigns, especially the ones marketed at the plus community. I’ve always felt that the fashion industry (and all other industries) would gain substantially from being more inclusive. QSM: Overall, how do you feel about the representation of plus size men in media? Tahge: I think that the lack of representation of plus size men in the media is highly deplorable at this point. It’s one of those things where I shouldn’t get excited to see a bigger guy in acting roles, or in ad campaigns or in any

QSM: Plus size women are often concerned with being over sexualized for their bodies. Do you think this is a concern with big & tall men as well? If so, in what ways? Tahge: I can only speak from my personal experience here, but I haven’t found this to be an issue I’ve come across as a male model in the industry. I think it’s because there’s currently less of a demand for Big & Tall models in swimwear and underwear campaigns than there is for women, so that narrative has yet to appear for us. However, it doesn’t mean that it won’t be or that it isn’t a concern. QSM: Do you think your size has an impact on your mental health or insecurities? If so, in what ways? If not, how did you overcome it? Tahge: Growing up I definitely allowed my size to impact my mental health. I think more so, I allowed the image others had of me to dictate how I saw myself. It took me a while before I realized that my insecurities about my body stemmed from believing the opinions of others. Deep down I was fine with my body, and letting go of these titles others assigned to me (fat boy, big guy, etc ..) gave me room to title myself (confident, smart, and funny). QSM: What’s one “must know” piece of advice you’d give to other men or young boys trying to navigate this world in a larger body? Tahge: I think that men in larger bodies should know that it’s okay to feel. Allow yourself to feel the negative emotions, just don’t dwell on them. You are a resilient king and are able to conquer anything you want. Life isn’t going to be an easy ride and accepting the lows for what they are, makes a huge impact on appreciating the highs.”

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BUSINESS under 5’9”, men with different curvy body parts. The men you do see are still a certain type of look or body type; our bodies are not the same and the models chosen don’t represent everyone. QSM: Plus size women are often concerned with being over sexualized for their bodies. Do you think this is a concern with big & tall men as well? If so, in what ways? Hollis: Hmmm. Big & Tall men and the industry are still up and coming, so you might not see it; however, it does exist in certain communities where B&T can be fetishized because of their height, bellies or curves in other body parts.

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Hollis Kam (IG- @holliskam) is a Leadership Coach who focuses on self-love, body image and confidence. He creates experiences (coaching, intensives, and programs) that focus on the mental & emotional wellbeing of the community. He also does modeling as well.

QSM: If you had the ability to snap your fingers and make one instant change in the fashion industry regarding bigger men what would it be? Hollis: I guess it’s not one thing; however, they are related -- To have more options and sizes in traditional stores and for existing brands who cater to B&T to be in traditional stores. It’s hard to find your size in the stores; actually they started to pull back larger sizes and say you can purchase it online. I want to see and feel the clothing. QSM: Overall, how do you feel about the representation of plus size men in media? Hollis: I feel that there’s still a lot of work to do. You see the same faces over and over again. I am thankful and I honor those who were trailblazers, and there are a lot more faces in the industry. Also, we don’t see the diversity in body types, e.g. men WWW.QUEENSIZEMAGAZINE.COM|SEPTEMBER 2020 ISSUE

QSM: Do you think your size has an impact on your mental health or insecurities? If so, in what ways? If not, how did you overcome it? Hollis: This is an interesting question based on my own experience and research. I do believe my past and present insecurities didn’t start with my size, it started with how I viewed myself based on other’s comments, what I saw in the media, how I was raised and even certain experiences. Then add in size, where I was made fun of, or felt like an outsider because I couldn’t find/fit clothes in the stores, and adding in diet and sex culture, where my body type was/is unwelcomed. So size added to my insecurities and it was easy enough to put the blame on what I can see on the outside because it can change quickly enough vs. really working on the inside. I do still have some insecurities; however, with the help of coaches and my tribe of friends/family, sprinkled with me doing the internal mental and emotional work of releasing, accepting, connecting and celebrating my full-self inside and out, I am more secure than ever. It takes a lot of work, it’s not the easiest or quickest kind and it’s the most important work that I’ve done! QSM: What’s one “must know” piece of advice you’d give to other men or young boys trying to navigate this world in a larger body? Hollis: You are handsome, phine, dapper, beautiful, bussin -- the way you are and be confident in who you are. Focus on your mental/emotional wellness along the way and build that tribe of people to help you walk your path. Also, you may not see folks who look like you in the media; however, you can rise up and break the mold/create a mold that is fluid. OK, maybe it’s more than one. :)

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Mikey Hailing (IG: @onlymykey & FB: Mike Myke) is from Richmond Va. He has been devoting his full time attention into being a freelance model since 2019. It is his goal to be a part of this growing plus size movement! Photographer | Rob Snapped Productions @robsnapped

QSM: If you had the ability to snap your fingers and make one instant change in the fashion industry regarding bigger men what would it be? Mikey: The one instant change would be for every clothing store in the mall to have a robust Big and Tall Section in it!!! #That Part QSM: Overall, how do you feel about the representation of plus size men in media Mikey: We are definitely under represented, we are human beings that wear clothes. I feel media is so vain about looks and until they are EDUCATED they will never know how much revenue and good looks with charm that Big and Tall men have to showcase in their respected media highlights QSM: plus size women are often concerned with being over sexualized for their bodies. Do you think this is a concern with big & tall men as well? If so, in what ways? Mikey: I believe so. Because bigger men are categorized as sex symbols as well some folk love a big statured male so in a sense we can be oversexualized simply because we may turn someone on!

QSM: Do you think your size has an impact on your mental health or insecurities? If so, in what ways? If not, how did you overcome it? Mikey: It definitely does impact your mental health and can scar you. For me I still cringe at my body at times because I’ve been put down in the past for not having that rock hard body. People have been taught that the size of a person matters because it’s the only way that people can be attracted to you and I’ve learned that is simply not the case its what’s on the inside only that counts QSM: What’s one “must know” piece of advice you’d give to other men or young boys trying to navigate this world in a larger body? Mikey: That you need to only pay attention to what’s inside you. Having dreams yet to be fulfilled. Having a pure heart. Having peace about yourself that helps others to be at peace around you. Once you have that mastered then your body and whatever imperfections you think you may have would not bother you or make you feel less than. Be exactly who you are God Will take care of the rest!!!

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QSM: Overall, how do you feel about the representation of plus size men in media? Earl: I love it, I also feel as if it’s being overlooked like a back page story at times. BIG & TALL Models brings a New Flavor to the industry that has been overlooked great talent as well as great people. The world is missing out on some amazing Male Models, that if given more opportunities would shine bright like the Beautiful Plus Size Queens Models. QSM: Plus size women are often concerned with being over sexualized for their bodies. Do you think this is a concern with big & tall men as well? If so, in what ways? Earl: Honestly, I don’t believe so. Big & Tall Models have been overlooked for a very long time now. In 2020, the world is appreciating Big & tall Men in all shape and Sizes. It’s been a Major journey for me.

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Earl Lamar Clayton Junior (IG: @_i_ amlamar, YT: IAMLAMAR) was born in Orlando, Fl but raised in Apopka. He is an entrepreneur with several busiensses including: Truck Driver, Notary Signing Agent, Model, Trucking Company, YouTuber, and Blogger.

QSM: If you had the ability to snap your fingers and make one instant change in the fashion industry regarding bigger men what would it be? Earl: More support and exposure, Big and Tall is New but I feel that it’s more that we could do in regards to the industry as well as fashion shows. Full Figured Fashion Week opened my eyes to a New world of love and support (with no judgement) to be creative and free as possible.

QSM: Do you think your size has an impact on your mental health or insecurities? If so, in what ways? If not, how did you overcome it? Earl: Due to the fact that, I’ve played Football, Basketball and Track at high levels in the life, I’ve always kept in shape. Being more of a slimmer person, entering into the Big and Tall Community has allowed me to love and appreciate myself and my body when at times I didn’t want to even look into the mirror. Due the a major injury gain, I gained 40 pounds going from 230 to 270, when look at you different and the attention I was use too I wasn’t getting at a rate that I was used to, So it look sometime to learn to love and appreciate LAMAR again and Big and Tall Modeling guided me through that journey. QSM: What’s one “must know” piece of advice you’d give to other men or young boys trying to navigate this world in a larger body? Earl: Love yourself, and learn to appreciate the person that you’ve become. Yes, we all that flaws but getting up every morning, thanking god you’ve saw again day. SO, go out into the world and bless someone with your presence. There will never be another one of “YOU”! GOD took his time to make “YOU” unique and special in your own way. Go out to the world and give your gifts to the world and bless others who may or may not have had the opportunity to have a great day or has as many blessing as you have. But Look good while you do it, lol. You are Big & Tall!!! So.......... Go Be Great!!!!

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WAYS YOUR FAMILY CAN CURE CABIN FEVER

It’s not always easy to be at home with kids day after day, but with a little creativity, you can beat cabin fever. Whether you’re in your own backyard or venturing out, there are plenty of things you can do to have fun together. Make sure to choose activities that are age-appropriate and that follow your current local guidelines for social distancing. Here are just a few things to try. Get out in nature Visit nearby parks or scenic areas for fresh air and exercise. Choose locations that aren’t crowded, so social distancing isn’t difficult. Bring toys for the kids, like balls, kites, hula hoops, scooters or bikes. WWW.QUEENSIZEMAGAZINE.COM|SEPTEMBER 2020 ISSUE

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Play tourist Pretend your car is a tour bus. Let Mom or Dad play tour guide first, modeling what to say (serious and/or funny). Drive by picturesque or unusual locations and make up the “tour” as you go along. Then let your kids take a turn narrating the “sights” as you drive. Plan a celebratory parade Have a friend or family member with a birthday, anniversary or graduation to celebrate? Plan a drive-by parade with a few other family groups in cars, complete with signs, streamers and balloons. Honk, wave and sing as you slowly pass their home.

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Enjoy a treat with the family Take a tour to find the best shake, burger or kids meal toy.

You’d be amazed how much kids can appreciate their own yard, with just a little help.

For example, Sonic Wacky Pack Kids Meals come with a fun toy for kids. Through Aug. 2, kids age 3 and older will receive a collectible Hot Wheels Monster Truck exclusively at Sonic with their meal. Check out SonicWackyPack. com for free, downloadable activity packs that include coloring sheets, puzzles and games to entertain the kids while stuck at home.

* Create an obstacle course using large cardboard boxes, hula hoops, cones or other items from your garage.

Contactless ordering and payment are easy using the Sonic app: Just create and pay for your order in the app, drive to your nearby Sonic, and check in when you arrive via the app. A Sonic Carhop brings out your meal when it’s ready.

* Use sidewalk chalk to draw hopscotch and other games, plus pictures and hopeful messages for neighbors walking by.

Make washing the car an event

* Dig through your garage for neglected toys and games. When did your kids last play badminton or croquet? Or make your own games, like jump rope, cornhole or horseshoes, using household items. Search online for tips on crafting homemade games.

If there’s a touchless car wash nearby, young children will have a blast being in the car during the washing process. Turn up their favorite songs while you sit back and watch the suds and water do their work. Or you could involve the kids in washing the family car in your driveway. Go on a scavenger hunt Whether you’re walking or driving through the neighborhood, play “I Spy” or hunt for specific items - like a red car, a blue house, a large dog - or search for signs, rainbows or teddy bears in neighbors’ windows (a trend sweeping the nation while people are staying home). Make the most of your own yard

* Make bubbles with 1 part dish soap to 3 parts water, adding a little sugar (1-2 teaspoons). Stir the mixture gently. Use pipe cleaners or cut out the bottom of plastic water bottles to create wands.

* Find veggies or flowers your kids want to grow and involve them in gardening projects.

Take a trip down memory lane Scour your memory and ask grandparents about outdoor games from when you (or they) were children. Have grandparents explain how to play their games via phone or FaceTime. Then, video kids playing the games for the whole family to share! Spending time together, outside or in, creates special memories your kids will treasure as they grow up - making all your efforts worthwhile.