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Cardiac symptoms for some women to watch for submitted by Louise Arsenault I was compelled to write about my own experience after hearing the news about the lady from Cape Breton, NS a few weeks ago, who died after waiting in the ER for 7 hours and had called her husband to pick her up and then went home. Within an hour, her symptoms increased and he took her back to the hospital but they couldn’t revive her, she suffered a Myocardial Infarction, “Heart Attack”. A week or so later, the family came forward in the media, hoping their experience could save others who might experience similar symptoms. Her symptoms were severe arm pain and jaw pain. She had NO chest pain or shortness of breath. She showed symptoms that some women can present with, along with a few others I will list later. I can’t remember if she had any blood work done when they first took her history. There is a blood test they do in the ER which will confirm there is a cardiac problem. In the last months of 2018, I gradually noticed
a left side jaw pain which radiated along the left side of my nose. It wasn’t severe, but I had it checked out at my dentist and that was negative. In the days that followed, I would feel a “sort of heavy feeling” in my left arm, as well as the jaw discomfort. Both things may have lasted a few minutes. It was not a severe pain, so I didn’t get alarmed. As the weather got cooler and I was out walking to an exercise group, I noticed it more, but once inside, it disappeared. I mentioned it to my doctor who ordered me an ECG the next morning, which was negative. She also suggested I go to Emergency at the Winchester District Memorial Hospital if these symptoms lasted longer than 15 minutes. On a Friday morning, I felt these symptoms for about 2 hours, again not severe, but I went to the ER and said my Doctor sent me. You would never know I had a problem looking at me and my ECG showed nothing. They did the blood work, which takes about 4 hours to get the first result, and they said we would do the same blood work again.
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by Elva Patterson Rutters RSSW Did you know there is no such legal/social identification as bad parenting or good parenting? Parenting is divided into three categories. The authoritative parent, the jelly fish parent or the brick wall (authoritarian) - those are the categories defined by sociologists. Who are you? and when are you? and what is the best selection? The brick wall or authoritarian resonates with historical early years- "yes sir, yes ma'am" and onto the task now. There was no room for negotiation, explanation nor plea-bargaining. In those times, if you got the strap at school, you got it again at home for the same misdemeanor! This style works for all-around legal and safety issues. The issues were well defined and subject to the administering of consequences. The jelly fish style was associated with those who had parents not seemingly aware of what or where their youngster was. Any answer was never prefaced with a yes or no. It was do as you please, and many did as they pleased. This was deemed the pushover parent or they don't care persona. They may well have chocolate cake for breakfast and no set mealtimes. This style does not provide a child with a framework of what is expected and when. Very roller-coaster in application. The authoritative parenting style is the more respected style, lending to a child understanding and instituting the consequences. The youth asked permission, received the perimeters of expectations and were versed in the consequences for non-compliance. Consequences were/are carried through. At one time or another, we deploy all styles at varying situations. You are the brick wall parent when it comes to safety, and legal perimeters. You are a jelly fish when you say have an apple, orange or banana. You are authoritative when you say before you play in the street, if there are no vehicles, eat some fruit, put peelings in garbage and have fun! The extension of application is far more than explained, but well worth a self evaluation of your "style!" Remember you are the child's parent not their friend- true for teenagers- be the parent! February 9, 2023
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After another 4 hours it was confirmed, so I was admitted while I waited for an appointment at the Ottawa Heart Institute. They do an Angiogram, which shows them heart arteries and vessels. There were actually three places that I had some blockage. One was 95% blocked, so it was cleared and a Stent inserted. The other two had only 50% and 30% blockages, and they don’t Stent unless the blockage is at least 70-80%. That might have even changed over the past 4 years. I’ll not go into the details of how it’s done, but you are not put under an aesthetic, just a relaxant, and they ask you not to move. If you wish, you can watch on the very large screen that the Doctor uses while doing the procedure. A nurse will watch you in the recovery room for 3-4 hours and then you can go home. I didn’t feel any discomfort whatsoever after, and the symptoms were gone. We need to inform the general public about these not so obvious symptoms that some women exhibit. 1. Uncomfortable pressure, squeezing, full-
ness or pain in the centre of your chest. It lasts more than a few minutes, or goes away and comes back. 2. Pain or discomfort in one or both arms, the back, neck, jaw or stomach. 3. Shortness of breath with or without chest discomfort. 4. Other signs such as breaking out in a cold sweat, nausea or lightheadedness. 5. As with men, women’s most common heart attack symptom is chest pain or discomfort. But women may experience other symptoms that typically are less associated with heart attack, such as shortness of breath, nausea/ vomiting and back arm or jaw pain. Notice next time when you see an ad on TV about Heart Attacks, take note— no mention about women who can experience the above symptoms. I had never heard of these other symptoms four years ago. We need to spread the word, AS SOON AS POSSIBLE.
Amelia Earhart submitted by Donna Ross, MDHS The Merrickville and District Historical Society kicks off the 2023 monthly lecture series on Tuesday, February 28 , 7 pm at the Merrickville Legion with an intriguing story about Amelia Earhart, the first female aviator to fly solo across the Atlantic Ocean. Mike Venables will speak about this in his presentation: “Amelia Earhart – The Woman and The Mystery”. As a woman, Amelia Earhart was a trend-setter in society at a time when ambition was seen as “un-ladylike”. As a pilot, she was a trailblazer and achieved many firsts. For these traits alone, her memory would live on but the mystery surrounding her disappearance ensures that she will remain an historic figure for generations to come. The presentation will highlight Earhart’s contributions to history as a woman and an aviatrix and spend some time examining the various theories of what happened to her and her navigator on that fateful flight in July 1937 over the Pacific. Mike Venables is an aerospace design engineer and a pilot who has long been fascinated by mysteries of the air. He is now living in Merrickville. If you are an aviation enthusiast, enjoy a mystery or appreciate history, please join us for an evening of facts and intrigue. All are welcome.
Time to build each other up by Marguerite Boyer Due to an impending storm a few weeks ago, I had to cancel an appointment at the Ottawa Hospital Civic Campus. When talking to a staff member there, I was informed that my staples had to be removed as soon as possible, and I was either to contact my own doctor, or go to the Kemptville Hospital emergency to have them removed. Okay, that sounded good in theory. Closer to home, each only a five minute drive away from me. So I called my doctor’s office in the morning, only to be told by a recording that due to technical updates no one was available to answer my call. Phones would be back up by the afternoon and to call after one. So I called later, only to be placed on hold for an hour and a half before anyone answered. I put my speaker phone on and went about my tasks while on hold. Once ‘a real person answered’, there was no apology for having kept me on hold for so long. I could hear the tension in the person’s voice at the 13
other end of the line. I was informed that the nurse was off sick and she had no clue when she would be back, so try and call again the following day. I wasn’t happy but what could I do, other than go spend hours at the emergency. I thanked her and called back the next day. One thing I did notice, that on the recorded message at the clinic, it asks people to be patient, and to be courteous, due to the long delays they are experiencing due to staff shortages. Yes, we are hearing that a lot. This had been my second surgery for a hip replacement, and this time around, I noticed a huge difference in pre-op and post-op in recovery. The staff were over burdened. It was so clear. But even with this to deal with, they treated me with kindness and compassion. It got me thinking how we have taken so much for granted for so long. When was the last time you thanked someone for a service they provided. At the fast food take out, a restaurant, or whatever? To my
mind, the staff at the hospital deserved more from me. I did thank them, as I left, and told them how appreciative I was of the care I received. When I finally got to see my own doctor, which was the next day, I mentioned to him the hour and a half I was on hold, and the recorded message. He said it is unbelievable how rude people have become and how angry people are since Covid. Why has Covid changed us so much? Is it because the service we had before is now in the past? I am aware now that every time I go out for a meal, I am grateful that the establishment is able to be open, and that there are staff to serve me, maybe not as soon as I would like but I do get served. But I am not sure where all the anger is coming from? And what gives you the right to yell and scream at someone over the phone or think it right to post nasty comments about someone on social media. What does it accomplish? That person you just screamed at or posted about, perhaps lives in your community, has feelings just like you, and
surely deserves to be treated kindly and with compassion? In the end, what does it achieve to debase someone? Does it ease your anger and frustrations? I, for one, am so grateful for the service we still have. I no longer take it for granted. Yes, we may have to wait longer and have more patience. I am just so grateful to be able to go out after the years of self–isolation many of us experienced. So rather than voice your anger at the other human being, take the time to think how lucky we are to live in such an amazing community. I am not sure where your anger is coming from, but please take the time to think about the other person you are directing it at. Perhaps they are also having a bad day and coping as best they can, given the circumstances. Let’s build people up, not tear them down. Surely we are better than that!
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