Knights at the Bookshelf Kenneth Bales on The Four Agreements, by Don Miguel Ruiz
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begin this book report with the caveat. One does not need to subscribe to all Toltec teachings. However, this brief review will allow you to make up your own mind whether to read further or to say “no thank you.” The Four Agreements by Don Miguel Ruiz encourages us all to be honest and “real” in all our dealings. He has four cardinal rules (agreements) which everyone can practice and personify:
1) Be impeccable with your word. That is, speak with integrity. Say what you mean. Avoid using speech to speak against yourself or to gossip about others. Use the power of your words in the direction of truth and love. If you say something, mean it. If you give your promise, keep it. 2) Don’t take anything personally. This means that nothing others do is because of you. What others say and do is a projection of their own reality, their own dream. When you are immune from the opinion of others, you won’t be the victim of needless suffering. 3) Don’t make assumptions. Find the courage to ask questions and express what you really want. Communicate with others as clearly as you can to avoid drama and sadness. 4) Always do your best. Your best is going to change from moment to moment. It will be different when you are healthy as opposed to being sick. Simply do your best and you will avoid self-judgement and regret.
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About the Toltec: Thousands of years ago the Toltec were known throughout southern Mexico as “women and men of knowledge.” They were scientists and artists who formed a society to explore and conserve the spiritual knowledge and practices of the ancient ones. They came together as masters (naguals) and students at Teotihuacan, outside of Mexico City known as the place where “man becomes god.” Though it is not a religion, it honors all spiritual masters who have taught on the earth. It is a way of life. But, please, read it for yourself. I found it quite interesting and easy reading.
january 2023