BUILDING BRIDGES: The Benefits of Collaborative Divorce in North Dakota ivorce is often perceived as a battle, filled with acrimony and contentious legal proceedings. However, there is a growing movement toward a more amicable and constructive approach: collaborative law. This method offers numerous benefits for all divorcing spouses; particularly for families with children. When parents can divorce with dignity and maintain a cooperative relationship, it creates a healthier environment for all involved, especially the children. Collaborative divorce not only addresses unresolved issues from the marriage but also prevents the transfer of trauma to the next generation. The conclusion of a divorce through the courts does not signify the end of the journey, as
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BY PRISCILA ULLOA Attorney, SW&L Attorneys
the events during and after the divorce have lasting impacts on real lives and families. As an attorney committed to fostering positive post-divorce relationships, becoming trained in collaborative law was crucial for me. In my view, the “pitbull lawyer” approach is not the best in family law. Why? After the attorneys are no longer involved, the ex-spouses will need to co-parent until their children reach adulthood. If the attorneys' actions during the divorce only fueled animosity, effective co-parenting becomes nearly impossible. For this reason, I recognize the long-term communication needs of families and strive to support them through this transformative process.