DreamStyle Collective Vol.4 by DreamStyleMag

DreamStyle C O L L E C T I V E

Bringing Dreams to Reality

37 WOMEN RIDING THE WAVES OF CHANGE & NEW DISCOVERIES

NAVIGATING CAREER TRANSITION WITH PURPOSE & DRIVE

KAYLA’S STORY: TOLD “YOU ARE LESS OF A WOMAN.” PRESSURE TO PROCREATE

JANUARY 2025 | VOL 4

18 Reagan Hollister

From Ebonie

A Story of Artistic Awakening

02 About

19 Ranaya Binns

A Prelude : Mundane to Marvelous

Navigating Major Changes to Discover True Passion

03-05 Ebonie’s Workspace

20-21 Elisabeth Point Du Jour

Fun Facts

Finding Home: Navigating Uncertainty with Faith

06 Ikigai Find your Passion!

22-23 Kennedy Moton

07 Quynh Vo

Unveiling the Layers of Identity: Reflections on Heritage and History

Lose me to find me: A Journey of Self-Discovery

08-09 J’Mya Brooks Pushing Towards Success

10 Jocelyn Perez Pursuing Dreams

11 Paola Duran Rising Through Resilience: A Letter to My Younger Self

12-13 Kathleen Bodden The Journey of a Multifaceted Dreamer: A Letter to My Past and Future Self

24 Schnei Verneus Charting My Course: From Immigrant Beginnings to Future Aspirations

25 Zenab Khatib From Business Dreams to Reality: A Note to My Younger Self

26 Christen Robinson A Letter of Empowerment and Hope

27 Alexis Godet From the Bahamas to Boundless Horizons: A Journey of Growth

14-15 Kaitlyn Hardy Turning Childhood Determination into STEM Stardom

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01 Welcome

16-17 Nilah Marshall Embracing Success and SelfWorth in the Limelight

28-29 Jasmine Malone From Imagination to Innovation: A Journey of Creative Growth

30 Ameerah Battle Growing Beyond Limits: A Note to the Younger You

31 Shamiere Bornelus Finding Strength in Adversity: A Path Forward

32 Camryn Cummings Dancing Through Life: A Letter to My Future Self

33 Saniya Locklear Finding Strength in the Mountains: A Letter from Within

41 Berlecia Charlemagne From Playful Beginnings to Purposeful Impact: A Journey in Clinical Research

42 Desiree Brown Running Toward Dreams: How I Found My Voice and Built My Path

43-44 Armani Regester Unfolding Dreams: A Letter of Hope and Inspiration

45 Adanze Ekwem

34 Kamaria Green

Unfolding Dreams: A Letter of Hope and Inspiration

The Road to Self-Acceptance: A Letter of Growth

46 Jordan Worth

35 KBAKES Ad

36-37 Faith Kent Nurturing Dreams: From Puppies to a Promising Future

38 Amiana Grady From Turmoil to Triumph: A Journey of Resilience and Advocacy

39-40 Tyler Gordon Embracing Growth: A Journey of Adaptation, Friendship, and Future Dreams

From Impossible to Reality: My Path in STEM and Life

47-48 Erika Hicks From 3-Year-Old Actress to Purposeful Creator

49 Myonni E Bailey From Comb Microphones to Code: A Story of Passion and Growth

50 Aline Trifonov A Symphony of Resilience and Passion

51-52 Career Transition Thinking of a Career Transition?

53 Gerlisa Hardy From Deadlines to Dance Floors: Cultivating a Life of Purpose and Passion

54 Dessence Taliyah Harris The Power of Perspective: Navigating Challenges to Achieve Success

55-56 Brianna James From Challenges to Change: My Path Toward Equitable Healthcare

57 Jasity Rush Finding My Voice: Turning a Rare Diagnosis into a Life of Advocacy and Care

58-59 Kayla Miles Breaking the Silence: The Unfair Judgement Against Women Who Choose Not to Have Children

60 Travel Gals The Gift of Wanderlust

61 Sil’Amore Ad

62 Thank You Let's Connect!

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FROM EBONIE, CREATOR OF DREAMSTYLE COLLECTIVE Thank you for being a part of my journey! Take a listen to why this magazine was birthed, my intentions for our future next steps together, and a funny childhood story of mine regarding my embarrassing experience with banana pudding... With Love,

Ebonie

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A Prelude :

Mundane to Marvelous

I clearly remember sitting at my cubicle desk one Friday afternoon around 3pm, munching on my butter popcorn at my great paying job, with some really cool colleagues and... being unfulfilled. Sure my schedule was pretty flexible. It needed to be that way in order to accommodate my lifestyle of parenting children who were under the age of five at the time. I needed to be there for their developmental years and my flexible schedule afforded me that opportunity. Sounds great, right? Wrong. I was at a job that's sole purpose in my life was to basically serve as a paycheck, when what I really needed was vibrancy and life. This position gave me very little satisfaction in those areas. How could it? I was stuck in a holding pattern of going to my job day after day, and "can't waiting" my life away. You know what I'm taking about. "I can't wait for the holidays," "I can't wait for my vacation," or" I can't wait for the weekend." I found myself saying those things all to often, because anything involving NOT being at my job was what I looked forward to. That's the norm for so many ladies, but I knew I needed to change that for myself. I wanted to LIVE. And not just for the weekend, but for every day, every second, every moment. I wanted to enjoy every single part of my life. Little did I know that enjoyment would derive from being an international wellness-based career and lifestyle coach and consultant.

Living as a Wellness-Based Career & Lifestyle Coach Once I identified that I wanted to impact lives as a wellness-based career and lifestyle coach and help women to love themselves inside and out, while also pursuing their life purpose I became excited about life! I made a career change to becoming an entrepreneur. I no longer met the social norm of going to my safe 9-5 job just so that I could buy cute outfits and material things that lacked real meaning to me. Instead, my desire was to live a life I loved, and this became one of my sources of strength. I steadily created a ripple effect of passion to women in my local community and across the seas. These women that I helped inspire, began to also embrace the notion that meaning and purpose is necessary if we are to give love, understanding and attention to the people who need it the most. Can you relate to how I felt working that boring 9-5 job? Does it feel like your job is slowly sucking the energy out of you? Maybe you would love to escape, but you don't know where to turn, and you don't know how to get started.

You may be wondering if you need to return to school to earn another degree, certificate, or continuing education credits. You may be thinking, "How on Earth will I even find time to make the sacrifice to further my education?" and perhaps thinking "Who will take care of my children while I study?"

You Can Start a Fulfilling Lifestyle There are so many factors that run through our heads when it's time to transition to living a better and more meaningful life. Most of us get stuck at the fear stage. That fear sometimes stems from the thought that things may not turn out the way we would like them to be after having given our time, money and energy to what we are pursuing. But what if I told you that "fear" actually stands for False Evidence Appearing Real and fear is holding you back from living a life you were meant to fulfill? What if there are people who need your exact gifts, talents, personality and presence in order to leave the darkness they are living in and propel them into the Marvelous light of living meaningfully on their own?

Stop Fearing - Start Living Many of us are stuck in fear of the unknown and it's slowly killing our spirits. Not only is it killing our spirits, but it's also affecting our health, relationships, and sense of joy. We can't possibly be the best version of ourselves if we are barely making it through the day. I invite you to walk with me as I share more about about my journey of leaving an unfulfilling, mundane corporate job and becoming a world change agent through the realm of health, wellness and career purpose. Sharing my success as a wellnessbased career and lifestyle coach has afforded me the opportunity of transforming young, modern women's lives and I want to do the same with you. I'll share many of my BEST kept secrets to maintaining a low-stress lifestyle that I love, my joys, my disappointments and how you and I can continue to identify the things that raise our vibration on this earth so that we can discover our passions and live meaningfully and purposefully. Who do you know that would LOVE to transform their lives and join my "from Mundane to Marvelous" lifestyle moment? Share this magazine with a friend or family member. A fulfilling lifestyle isn't just for a few select women. It's for ALL of us!

ie xo, Ebon

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WELCOME FROM EBONIE'S WORKSPACE

"Is this really my job?" As a wellness-based career consultant and international women's retreat host, I often find myself contemplating whether to write or produce a video about my previous and current life experiences. I thoroughly enjoy connecting with others who have similar stories to share. For example, when I recently considered what to share with my community and the lessons I have learned, I was unsure whether to talk about:

The time that I won money for twerking on stage like Beyonce in Jamaica.

How one summer I traveled to California and could've easily gotten arrested for having one of the best times of my life in a parked car at the Golden Gate Bridge. Imagine that.... me in a Cali jail cell.

The time I totaled my friend's mom's car, and the dope experience I had at a local swinger's club.

The time I almost died in a truck accident after driving home from my boyfriend's house smoking weed.

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EBONIE’S WORKSPACE "Take a listen to this video and email me at ebonie@simplicityhealthstyle.com if you have stories to share that may help others realize they're not alone in experiencing the highs and lows, good and bad lessons along their unique personal path. Life is amazing if we take the time to appreciate its fullness!"

Ebonie’s Workspace

I’m highly intuitive, but rarely tell others. Consider yourself lucky to know that if you’re reading this considering that I rarely speak on it and sometimes play dumb like I’m not.

I love looking at pretty pics of the snow, but have almost zero motivation to visit a cold place. I’d probably never travel to Antarctica if visiting every continent wasn’t already on my nonexistent bucket list.

I LOVE cake (i.e pineapple upside down cake & red velvet cake… yum) and don’t care about eating cookies unless it’s a warm Crumbl cookie. If you’ve never heard of them or ordered them then GOOD, you’ve just possibly saved yourself from gaining 10 pounds in the next 3 months.

Dolphins are my fave mammal. I have a tribal dolphin tat and a couple of my good friends still buy me things that have a dolphin somewhere on it. If I see a dolphin at the beach or a statue of a dolphin just know we’re stopping to take a pic mid-conversation.

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I hate waking up to loud alarms and am pleasantly surprised when I wake up just before the alarm goes off so that I don’t have to wake up to that annoying sound.

You can sometimes find me in the bathroom dancing to Caribbean or Afrobeats music while getting dressed to go out.

I cook because my family and I need to eat, not because it’s a hobby. But once I’m in the kitchen be assured that my food will turn out flavorful and you’ll be full.

I’m very often asked to be in the spotlight, but most of the time I couldn’t care less about being in the spotlight. I enjoy kicking it with friends, fam, and people that value work-life integration/harmony (Ikigai), fun, reduced stress, and serving with their gifts and don’t necessarily have to be in the spotlight to shine & thrive.

I’m a free spirit and sometimes get under the skin of ultra conservatives or corporate America even though I help a lot of people land corporate jobs that they love!

IKIGAI

Your reason for being A Japanese practice that means “Reason for being”. This practice helps to give you an additional purpose in living, along with finding a career that aligns with your values, skills, and passions.

What do you love?

What would you do if you didn’t have to worry about money? How would you spend your time on a free weekend? What gets you excited or your juices flowing when you do it? What could you talk about for hours on end?

What type of skills are in demand by companies /organizations? What type of problems generally, do you enjoy? What issues in your community touch you emotionally?

Passion

Mission

IKIGAI Profession

What are you good at (or what would you like to be good at)? What parts of your current work (Eg. Class/ school extracurriculars, part time hobs) are you effortlessly good at? What are you best at in your workplace/ community?

Interested in my team helping you map out your Ikigai?

Vocation

What can you be paid for? What have you been paid to do before? What are some of the skills you have, that you see other people being paid for?

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Lose me to find me:

Looking ahead, I envision a horizon brimming with possibility where I continue to pursue my passion for design, while also spreading kindness and compassion wherever I go. Surrounded by my loved ones, I'm living out my wildest dreams, making a difference in the world one project at a time.

A Journey of Self-Discovery

So, if I could leave you with one piece of advice, it would be this: embrace rejection as a signpost on the journey to success. Every setback is a blessing in disguise, guiding you closer to your dreams. So keep moving forward, because trust me, the best is yet to come.

Dear Quynh, Can you even believe that just a few years ago, you found yourself wandering in the maze of life, unsure of where you were headed, what your purpose was, or even who you really were? It was a seriously scary time, facing the vast unknown of the future. But guess what? You found your way, and let me tell you, what a journey it's been since then.

Love Always,

Today, as I sit here, I am filled with gratitude for the winding road that led me here. For it was in the depths of darkness that I discovered the light within, igniting a passion for self-love, for life, and for design that grows brighter with each passing day. Now, as a graphic designer, I get to weave tales of beauty and meaning through my work, using design as a vessel for change in the world. Each stroke of the brush, each pixel meticulously placed, is a testament to the journey of selfdiscovery that brought me to this moment.

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But it's not just about the work. It's about the people, the connections and relationships that enrich my life every single day. I feel blessed everyday surrounded by so many amazing people, by many inspiring souls.They're the ones who fuel my passion, who fill my days with wisdom, love, and unwavering support.

Quynh I have a side hustle where I make personalized cake and sweets. Check out my bakery on Instagram @dreamer_bakery_ I got a chance to study photography in Prague. Green juice is probably my favorite drink of choice.

Never wait for the perfect time to do anything. It may not come.

Quynh Vo

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Pushing Towards Success Dear J’Mya, You wouldn’t believe me if I told you persevered through years of childhood depression and anxiety and graduated college with the highest honor. You have been naturally gifted from the very beginning. At only 8 years old, you became a competitive gymnast and went on to win many competitions & collect dozens of medals and trophies. All the while, you always strived to be at the top of your class, constantly finding yourself with all A’s on your report card & congratulations from family and friends for school and sports alike. Being an amazing gymnast and smart kid seemed great on the outside, but it was lonely, and we were the only ones who understood the inner turmoil you struggled with every day. Growing up as a black girl was not easy. You were constantly surrounded by people who didn’t look like you, so you never felt like you fit in. You dealt with microaggressions from your classmates and teammates on top of society telling you that because of the color of your skin, you had no value. That’s why you worked so hard to be the best, to prove them wrong, but it took the biggest mental toll on you that you’re still learning to recover from to this day.

As a high school graduation present, you were graced with the opportunity to travel to London and Paris for a week with your mom. It was your first time outside of the United States and you loved every second of it. Experiencing new cultures, new foods, new scenery, and new languages sparked something in you that you hadn’t felt in a long time. From that experience on, you knew that you couldn’t shackle yourself to one place forever; you developed a passion for travel and to see everything the world has to offer. When you entered college as a freshman, you still hadn’t discovered a major that fit quite right and that made you anxious about your future. You learned about many different career paths over the years, but none of them sparked a passion in you like travel did. However, you did discover one thing about yourself while in college: you knew you wanted to help people. Whether it was helping classmates with projects and assignments, or helping your mom recover from COVID-19, you knew that helping people fed your soul. That led you to discover the field of public health and not long after that, you were blessed with the chance to have your first remote working job. From there, the future became something that made you a little less anxious and a lot more excited.

J’Mya Brooks

When you quit gymnastics at 14 to find a new path for yourself, you became more lost than you had ever been before. All that success from childhood puts thousands of pounds of pressure on your shoulders and constantly made you feel like if you weren’t the best, you didn’t deserve anything. Growing up in a family with a huge generation gap, no one was around your age, so you felt like you had no one to talk to, you isolated yourself, and felt like no one understood you even when you did manage to open up to others. This caused you to struggle with chronic depression throughout high school and college, and it fed that anxiety in you that existed from the start. You lost friends and hobbies you used to love, but little did you know, life was just about to start feeling worth living very soon.

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having fun, supportive, easy-going coworkers you can connect with. This work lifestyle will give you the freedom to travel the world and work from anywhere within it while still helping others in an administrative position. While traveling, you will bring your polaroid and video camera to capture memories for scrapbooking and editing videos that you may post on YouTube (a childhood dream of yours). I see you moving out of Florida and living in a colorful twostory home filled with plants. You will have a big backyard that has a fireplace, garden, and an outdoor kitchen. You will be married to a loving partner with at least 2 cats or dogs and a leopard gecko. In your free-time, you will play video games on a PC that you built yourself (in your own game room), invite friends over and have cookouts, tend to your garden, visit family, and exercise. While traveling with friends, family, or by yourself, you will wear halter tops, bucket hats, sweaters, and long skirts that you personally crocheted and seek out new and fun adventures in other countries. I also see you exploring spirituality and creating a work-life balance that gives you plenty of time for people and hobbies you love.

Despite all your adversity, you have so much to be proud of. At 21 years old, you have graduated high school with a GPA over 4.0 and graduated college Summa Cum Laude with your Bachelor of Science in Public Health. You picked up crocheting again (after giving up learning in elementary school) and now run a small crochet business all by yourself. You became certified in two different computer programming languages. You’ve put yourself out there socially & strengthened the friendships you treasure most. Most important of all though, you love yourself more than you ever have before. I am so proud of you for never giving up and for all your hard work throughout the years; now you can build the foundation for a future you’re no longer scared of. There is so much in store for you my love, don’t be afraid to go after whatever you want to.

I love you so much, J’Mya. Thank you for hanging in there, we have so many wonderful memories to make. With all my love,

J’Mya

FUN FACTS I have a growing crochet business on Instagram. (@jmyascrochetcorner) I love video games & cartoons. I can play the violin.

I envision that in the future, you will work as a senior-level Data Analyst for a health, wellness organization/company that offers hybrid and remote flexibility. I also see you

I think there’s no need to live your life based on the standards of others. Everyone says ‘dream big’ but I don’t think you have to live so fiercely like that all the time. Kim Namjoon

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Pursuing Dreams Dear Jocelyn, Can you imagine that at 18 you would be proud of who you are becoming? You’re leaving the insecurities behind, or more so, not letting them define you. You are finally learning that it isn't others’ opinions that define you. It was a hard lesson, but now you can finally say that your opinion about yourself is above all. Although this may seem minor, to you, this is everything. Loving yourself was a goal you hadn’t thought about too much until you looked back and realized just how much time you spent seeking external validation. Now you have realized you are enough and that, is more than enough. Traveling more this year and interacting with new people has made you realize that there is so much in life you want to explore. Going to Mexico and seeing your family content with a simple meal and a roof over their heads made you appreciate the simple things in life. They have no modern technology including: stoves, laptops, heaters, AC, Wi-Fi etc. They depend on one another for entertainment and help each other out with everything. This, most of all made you realize that, for the most part, we make life so much harder than it needs to be. This experience made you think about the opportunities you have access to versus that of your family. Yet, they seemed so much more fulfilled with life. They taught you many things. That’s why you live everyday with the sole intent of appreciating the small things & most importantly finding joy in them. The bad things are not worth focusing on when there is so much good around us.

Jocelyn Perez I envision that in the future I will travel to many places, including Spain which has been my dream destination to visit. I’ll almost always be dressed in flowy, easy going attire when I'm not working. Sun dresses and long flowy skirts will be my go-to. I will hopefully be a Marketing Manager for a company where I am able work both remotely and in-person when needed. I will continue on my fitness journey and always fill my free time doing activities such as: hiking, biking, swimming etc. I will also learn how to surf. I envision having a yellow Jeep, that I will primarily use for road-trips. I will make it a priority to spend time with myself by doing the things that I love. When I decide to get married, I’ll settle down somewhere near the beach. This way, when I decide to have a family I can take my kids and golden retriever down to the beach and show them just how beautiful nature is. Along with this, we will continue to travel as a family, both by flying and road tripping. Overall, God, my family and my personal improvement will be my priorities to which I hope to dedicate all my time to. I know there is always going to be more to learn and work on but, I'm up for the challenge and excited to discover what the future holds. A piece of advice I would give to someone pursuing their dreams is to acknowledge the milestones. If we don't take time to celebrate the small victories we will essentially never achieve our goal. Our goal is merely an excuse to develop new skills and experiences along the way. As cheesy as it may sound. “Success is a journey, not a destination. The doing is often more important than the outcome.”— Arthur Ashe

FUN FACTS I am an adrenaline junky. I love quality time with my family and friends. I love roller coasters DreamStyle Collective

Love always,

Jocelyn

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Rising Through Resilience:

A Letter to My Younger Self Dear Paola, Can you imagine, at just 6 years old, losing the closest person in your world without warning? One day, they were there, and the next, they were gone. How does a little girl make sense of such a loss? Yet somehow, you found a way to cope, in your own quiet way, even when no one fully understood the weight you were carrying. You were always known as the “strong one,” but no one tells you how heavy that title can be. Through it all, you kept your head high, even when feeling different in school made you feel isolated. I want you to know that it got better—so much better. The hair you once wished would straighten now thrives in its natural beauty. Your skin glows, your personality shines, and those traits that once felt like burdens are now your greatest strengths. You’ve found your people—those who love and celebrate you, whether or not they look like you. They see the light in you, just as I do. You’ve never been one to settle, and that’s something I admire most about you. Remember when your car was wrecked and your test materials were stuck in the trunk at the junkyard? You didn’t tell your professor, thinking it would sound like an excuse. But do you remember her words when she found out? “Paola, never stop advocating for yourself. Speak your truth.” That moment, though small, shifted something in you. From then on, you learned to own your voice—respectfully but powerfully.

Siempre saldrá el Sol, the Sun will always rise.

Paola Duran Looking ahead, my dreams for you are vast and vibrant. I see you smiling, sharing your light with the world in ways both big and small. I pray you continue to live fully, always remembering that you belong in every room you enter. Never doubt your worth or the impact of your words. I believe in a future where you stand tall, commanding attention not by force but by the strength of your presence. You’ll pursue your dreams fiercely, no longer held back by doubt, but propelled by the certainty of your own power. Love,

Paola

ADVICE Don’t let your internalized beliefs hold you back from your fullest potential! Face them head-on, and watch your life change.

FUN FACTS I can never pick just one favorite of anything! I have multiple favorite songs, movies, and more. I think it makes life more fun. I go deep in my relationships; my friends and family mean the world to me. I never want to love them halfway. Service is my purpose. I don’t know exactly where I’m headed, but I know I’ll be surrounded by a village of people. DreamStyle Collective

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The Journey of a Multifaceted Dreamer:

A Letter to My Past and Future Self Dear Kathleen, Do you remember deciding to be a police officer at age 7? What about changing that decision to be a lawyer at age 12? What if I told you that you went to school to be an engineer? The first-generation American experience typically involves being encouraged (nearly forced) to be a doctor, lawyer, or engineer. Thankfully, your parents did not do that. Your Mexican father and Jamaican mother encouraged you to do your best at whatever it is you set your mind to while taking advantage of opportunities that can excel you further. Their encouragement motivated you to develop a competitive spirit in sports, music, and ESPECIALLY video games. This spirit later extends into academics, which allowed you to be the first person at your high school to graduate concurrently with an associate degree. Your cheerleading days had stayed in childhood. Similarly, you achieved up to a yellow belt in taekwondo before that too ended. Although you were trained in self-defense, you grew up to have a distaste for violence. You loved chess but eventually stopped playing competitively. You played football with the neighborhood kids until your oldest brother became too big to play without accidentally hurting you. You played volleyball, soccer, and basketball until you realized how you needed to be aggressive in these sports. However, you did win a basketball championship and came second place in a soccer championship tournament. At the same time, you were developing your passion for music. Although you were the family translator, your middle school didn’t think you were proficient enough to be in level one Spanish and made you choose a different elective. You picked the band only because you didn’t want to learn French (but you’re currently learning Creole, so this comes full circle). You couldn’t quite get your embouchure right to play a brass instrument, and you weren’t able to sustain a note on the flute mouthpiece. However, you were a prodigy at the clarinet. You played in all-state and all-county bands where the kids around you shared the same dedication and appreciation for music. You were drum major, section leader, and band president. Your room at home is decorated with awards and certificates from all the activities you’ve participated in. Nevertheless, you’ve shifted from playing the clarinet to mixing music in your spare time. DreamStyle Collective

All these experiences and achievements left you not knowing exactly what to do. On the verge of completing your master’s in mechanical engineering, you were still unsure if this was what you wanted to commit to. I hate to break it to you, but college was the best and worst years of your life. The global pandemic, COVID-19, made the challenge of making friends extremely difficult, but you managed to do it anyway. You and your friends traveled to New Orleans, Atlanta, Bahamas, Puerto Rico, Grand Turk, London, Amsterdam, Paris, and more! Watching the Eiffel Tower sparkle nearly made you cry because you felt blessed to witness it, but you further marveled at the engineering that encompassed the tower. The steak frites that you and your friends waited two hours for from Le Relais De L’entrecôte was the best steak you’ve ever had (although the green sauce had you skeptical at first). As you discovered your love for experiencing new places, cultures, and lifestyles, you were additionally trying to juggle the emotional turmoil that is heartbreak as an engineering student. Nobody tells you how difficult it is to grieve a relationship while trying to maintain your grades, work as an engineering intern, cope with physical health changes, and engage with your community (professionally and interpersonally). Spoiler: you were in therapy for about a year, but I encourage this decision because we are NOT designed to get through life alone. During this time, the growth in your faith becomes immeasurable. You came to realize that it was God alone who brought you through the challenges you faced in undergrad, and you began working your way back to Him. I cannot stress to you how much this decision has impacted your life; but what I can say is that it saved your life. As you discovered what you were designed to do and how to utilize your gifts for the benefit of others, here are

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some things I know about you. I know that you often put the well-being of others above your own. I know that there is a passion inside you to help the less fortunate. I know you have hope in mankind, and you try to see the best in people, despite the hurt that they’ve caused. I know there exists a desire to serve people and change the community for the better. I know that your research with machine learning and diabetes management has encouraged you to pursue biotechnology/assistive robotics because you love the idea of engineering in healthcare. I know you chose engineering not for the money (although it’s not too bad) but because of your love for calculus. I know you stayed in engineering not only because of the resilient spirit that manifested in you as a child but because you are driven to excellence to take care of your family. I know your goal is to be able to provide for your parents as an attempt to repay all the sacrifices they’ve made (and continue to make) to see you succeed. I know that despite college being the most painful years of your life, you don’t regret a single minute of it because it has led you to be the woman you are today. At 33 years’ old, I envision that I will have a career that allows me to financially sustain my lifestyle while investing in my future. I am married and trying to start a family with at least one dog. I would be living in the suburb of some major city on the east coast of the United States, preferably somewhere not too cold or too hot. My travel consists of mission trips with my local church and an annual trip with my college friends. I will be working to create a scholarship at Florida State University for young women of color in engineering, and I will participate in a mentoring program for junior engineers. Finally, I will develop my childhood home to have the amenities my parents dreamed of having.

A word I will leave with you is agape – love, a selfless love. Be sure to cherish the friendships that have formed from college because they love you unconditionally. They’ve seen you at your worst and never turned their backs on you. Do not be afraid to be vulnerable with your friends and family about your struggles and be willing to seek professional help if you are not yet ready to confide in your inner circle. The biggest lesson I’ve learned throughout the years is that who is for you will be with you – some friends are seasonal, and some are lifelong, but both are essential in life. Also, it’s okay to not know where your next steps are ordered. At a young age, we are constantly plagued by the question “what do you want to be when you grow up.” Curiosity is okay because this is how we learn more about ourselves and what our gifts are. Understand that everything has a season, and one position may not deserve 40 years of your life. Interests change as we grow and mature. Just be sure to give yourself grace as you work towards figuring these things out.

Love Always,

Kathleen FUN FACTS I DJ on commission because music has a way of shedding light on feelings that I may not be able to put into words myself. I enjoy watching content-creators playing video games. I am a fraternal twin, shoutout to Kristian.

Love can save the human race. Garnett Silk

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Turning Childhood Determination into STEM Stardom Dear Kaitie, Can you imagine that at 19 years old you would have secured a position as a brain cancer researcher, worked for the United States Naval Research Laboratory, and run tests on instruments that are going up into space? I remember not too many months ago feeling discouraged, anxious, and wondering if I was even on the right career path. Little did I know, God had greater things in store for me than I could even fathom. One of my grandmother’s favorite childhood memories to tell about me is about a time when I was maybe a toddler. She had been watching over me in the afternoon, and we were running late to go somewhere. She said that she was so frustrated and then she missed her exit, adding several minutes onto our trip. And in the midst of all her exasperation and frustration, she heard my little voice pipe up from the backseat, “Don’t worry, Goddie, I’ll help you!” She always says that after that one sentence, all of her negative emotions just melted away. What was I, a small child at the time, going to do to help her? And yet I was totally convinced that I could, and would help her. As I go on to bigger and greater challenges entering the STEM field as a double minority, I hope to hold on to that level of determination and care for others. I hope to be able to do everything in my power to increase the quality of life for patients and to always have that desire to do so.

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In my future, I envision many degrees and honors, engaging in world-changing research, and living a life younger me could have only dreamed of. I imagine discovering miracle cures for diseases, being renowned for the research I’ve done in my chosen field, and helping countless people achieve a higher quality of life. But beyond my academic and career-based ambitions, I imagine a peaceful life, to balance out my rigorous work. I imagine beautiful vacations exploring new cultures and meeting new people. I imagine getting stronger and maintaining my fit lifestyle. I imagine a large church family and a ministry that complements my calling. But most importantly of all, I imagine a life filled with joy and surrounded by the people I love the most; those that I know now, those that I’ve known my whole life, and those that I have yet to meet.

Kaitlyn Hardy

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So, whether you eat or drink, whatever you do, do everything for the glory of God. 1 Corinthians 10:31 NRSV

To anyone who wants to pursue their dreams, don’t let anyone tell you that you’re not fit for the life you want to have. Failure is nothing more than a detour on the road to success, and a learning experience to better prepare you for the bright future ahead.

Love Always,

Kaitie

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FUN FACTS I am majoring in chemistry and prepharmacy at Xavier University of Louisiana. I conduct brain cancer research, focusing on studying glioblastoma multiforme. I have many hobbies, including but not limited to drawing, painting, singing, sewing, basketball, golfing, baking, cooking, reading, and crocheting. I used to work as a seamstress and a swim instructor! I have five siblings and three amazing parents. Love you, Mom and Dad! <3

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Embracing Success and Self-Worth in the Limelight Dear Nilah, Can you imagine that at age 18 years old, you would get the opportunity to be featured on the local news for earning a full ride scholarship to one of the top HBCUs in the country? You were sitting at your desk in the corner of your room, with sweaty palms and a rapidly beating heart as you waited for the news reporter to join the call for your virtual interview. As you answered the interview questions, you thought to yourself, “I can’t believe I’m doing this” and “why did I agree to this interview?” as your nerves caused you to stumble and stutter through your sentences. After the interview, the amount of relief that washed over you was indescribable and you were immediately filled with thoughts of what you should’ve done or said differently but overall you felt proud of your willingness to put yourself in the spotlight for once. Having always been a reserved and quiet person, you avoided being the center of attention for anything. Waking up for the 5 o’clock morning news broadcast, you sat with your mother on the living room couch anticipatively for your segment to air. As you saw yourself on the television screen being praised for all of your hard work and dedication, a switch was flipped, and a moment of realization began as the weight of your accomplishments finally sunk in. Everything you’d ever accomplished always seemed as if it was the expected best-case scenario as a step on the path to be successful in life. But you never got the feeling that what you did was all that great or remarkable in any special way. Here and now you finally felt, “wow, I must really be something” especially if you were able to get on the news for what you’ve done. The news segment highlighted your love of science, from DreamStyle Collective

Nilah Marshall your participation in science fairs and carrying out experiments to getting accepted to one of the best HBCUs in the country as a STEM major. It was from this opportunity that you became more comfortable in allowing yourself to shine at your brightest and to let others be able to see it too. You were able to see yourself for how exceptional of a star you really are regardless of anything that would make you feel otherwise.

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In the future, I envision traveling around the world tasting new foods, meeting new people, trying new activities, experiencing different cultures, and learning as much as I possibly can about my purpose in life. I’ll be surrounded by those I hold near and dear close to my heart, my family, the love of my life, and a plethora of close-knit friends. I see myself living in my hometown enjoying the hustle and bustle of big city life while working my dream job as a bioinformatician at a biotechnology company who also moonlights as a computer programmer. I’ll be in the best spot of the city where I can come home and admire the skyline with my pet cat after a long day but still close to where I grew up. Every day is one of minimal stress and maximal happiness in which time is not an enemy. You'll feel satisfied with your life and be looking forward to each and every day to try and make it even better than the last.

FUN FACTS I’ve been ziplining, and it was so much fun! Salted caramel cheesecake is my favorite dessert. I enjoy playing chess and learning American Sign Language (ASL). I began university as a chemical engineering major, then switched to bioinformatics. My birthday is on the autumn equinox.

One piece of advice that I would give someone who is serious about pursuing their dreams is to trust your intellect and intuition while giving yourself the space to be vulnerable and ask for help when needed. You know that you can accomplish whatever it is that you want all by yourself, but you don’t have to, and that doesn’t make you any less competent, valuable, or extraordinary. With Love Always and Forever,

Nilah

Do the best you can, until you know better. Then when you know better do better. Maya Angelou

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Leaving a Mark on Canvas and Soul:

A Story of Artistic Awakening Dear Reagan, Do you know why you wanted to be the first female President of the United States when you were little? You didn’t realize then, but it’s because you wanted to leave a lasting impact. Your world was so full of the fear of being forgotten, of being insignificant in the grand scheme of things, and you didn’t even realize that’s what you were feeling. What an enormous thing for a kid to be scared of! Well, you didn’t become the first female president. Not even close, actually. But when you were 13 years old, you decided to switch to an art school to pursue visual art and music. Most middle schoolers don’t know what they want at that age, but you knew something wasn’t right at your current school and took charge. Going to an art school was the best thing you could’ve done for yourself, and it led to so many opportunities and experiences. When you were 18, you were so miserable in college that you debated dropping out. Not only did you stay in school, but you also switched universities and changed majors during a global pandemic. You were accepted to the graphic design program of your dreams and thrived despite the pandemic making it feel like the world was ending. You’ll be prouder of yourself than you ever thought you could be. But you’ll also feel like a fraud at times. 'I shouldn’t be here, everyone else is better than I’ll ever be'. Remember that you were chosen for a reason. You’ll battle imposter syndrome your whole life, but remember that you worked hard for everything you’ve gotten. You earned it.

Reagan Hollister The most significant thing you’ll do in your life isn’t becoming the first female president of the United States. It won’t be anything of the sort. It’ll be making a lasting impact on yourself. Always care for your inner child and do what feels right. You’re the only person you’ll have to spend your whole life with. In the future, I see you selling art full-time, perhaps in a little brick-and-mortar shop, surrounded by people who love art as much as you do, and who love you as much as you love them. And really, who could ask for more? At the end of the day, I just see you continuing to do what makes you happy. Keep reaching for the stars and working hard. Things will work out for you. Love Always,

Reagan FUN FACTS I was a marine biology major before I became a graphic design major, and I love sea life. I sometimes sell art in Artist Alleys at pop culture conventions.

My portfolio can be found at https://reaganhollister.com

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Navigating Major Changes to Discover True Passion Dear Ranaya, Can you imagine at 20 years old you would have changed your major twice? You started college as a premed major, and although you love science, it wasn’t a great fit. So, you later changed your major to sales and marketing and discovered something called 'Aesthetic sales'. That void that you didn’t know how to fill disappeared because you knew that this would be the career for you. After years of saying you were going to be a plastic surgeon or dermatologist, you’ve found the perfect medium. In the future, I imagine that I will wake up in my cute silk pajamas, say my prayers, put my playlist on to do my morning routine, then walk my dog while thanking God for giving me another day to help others. If I could give one piece of advice to someone trying to pursue their dreams, it would be to not stress about the plan you set out for yourself when it doesn’t go as you intended and remember sometimes we have the right idea but the wrong plan.

Ranaya Binns FUN FACTS I’m a foodie (I’ll eat almost anything). I have a lash extension business. I love to fish. I think I can win American Idol. Dogs are my favorite pets.

Love Always,

Ranaya

I never lose, I either win or learn. Nelson Mandela

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Finding Home:

Navigating Uncertainty with Faith Dear Elisabeth,, Can you believe that at the age of five, you would leave your beloved homeland to embark on a new journey in a land full of uncertainties, new beginnings, and new people? You?! Though so young, you knew that Haiti, The Pearl of the Antilles, was your maker. After God, she made you! She formed you. She was your morning kiss, your glorious ensemble, and the harmony that never mistuned —until corruption! The enemy of all innocence. The enemy that steals innocence. The enemy that orchestrates the forced steps to lands of new beginnings for five-year-olds who love their country. “Oh, dear Haiti, my love, how I wish to see you soon…” were the last unspoken words that your land heard from you. You stared into her desolate eyes, aching inside, and marched the walk that still has yet to determine your enabled return. Nevertheless, as uncertain and confusing as it was, you owned that walk. Into the airplane, over the Atlantic Sea, into America, across various commencement ceremony stages, and now into lands where your prized identity gives you a seat at the table. Though you left Haiti, Haiti never left you. You did everything with her in your heart and mind. For the ones who couldn’t, for the ones who can’t, and for the ones who, just like you, dream of being able to in their beloved land. Haiti has been, is, and will always be “ta raison d'être.” Who would ever think today that Elisabeth Point Du Jour, “la neguess haïtienne,” would travel to Tanzania to do medical volunteering?

My time in Arusha, Tanzania, has truly been an eyeopening experience. If described in one word, "amazing" is an understatement. From the first day, I fell in love with the culture and environment. I was warmly welcomed by my host family, the Matolos, and felt at home. They treated me as one of their own. I even acquired an international nickname! “Elisa.” Originally, I was supposed to volunteer in the summer; however, due to the pandemic, I rescheduled for the winter holidays instead. That was the best decision ever. The atmosphere during the holidays is very lively, warm, and welcoming. I connected with everyone I encountered, from the house staff to my coworkers and fellow volunteers at St. Elizabeth Catholic Hospital. At the hospital, I volunteered in the surgical ward and observed copious procedures. “L’union Fait La Force—Unity Makes Strength” is a traditional Haitian motto found on the emblem of our flag. In a Haitian household, children are taught that mountains can be moved with unity. It was not until my experience in Tanzania that I understood the true meaning of this statement. Although under pressure and lacking medical resources, every person in the operating room, in unity, contributed to the well-being and survival of each patient.

Elisabeth Point Du Jour

Remember how it was always your dream to go to Africa? You seized the opportunity as soon as it came. Your passion for humanitarian work has always driven you. Thanks to the WE organization, the “We Walk for Water” fundraising project for low and middle-income countries (LMICs) that you led at your high school, introduced you to Tanzania. You fell in love with her! She reminded you of your beloved Haiti.

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Your overall experience gave you a glimpse of the future life for which you’ve so longed, but what does that future entail? I imagine that in the future, I will live a life where the world is my oyster. Though Haiti will always be my home, I look forward to establishing new homes in all four corners of the world and becoming a professional nomad. I will strive to learn about new cultures and share their experiences. I may even take my cooking skills on a global tour and create my show, “Food Passports: Cooking with International Friends.” Moreover, I will pursue humanitarian work while gaining new families worldwide. Let’s not forget the most important of all, my faith. I will walk into my God-destined Canaan. I will walk in my Christian faith and uphold my Godly values. I will be the worshiper, woman, wife, mother, minister, and global health professional whom God has called me to be. My daily life will always be a new page in my agenda of doing good to everyone I encounter everywhere. Nations will call me to minister, give seminars, and teach the rising generations of young women who seek to walk in their God-given purpose. I will be an author, mentor, and advocate for young underrepresented women in STEM fields. I once had to learn about the purpose of walking into new lands when I left my home country many years ago. God worked it out for my good. I will use my experiences to encourage young individuals worldwide to never give up on their dreams. Lastly, to the ones who are serious about pursuing their dreams, I strongly advise you to go for it! In my experience, the most awkward and uncomfortable thing I ever had to do was walk on a land that I was not accustomed to nor was ever aware of its existence. A land on which I never saw myself walking. A land to which God Himself brought me. A land where I had to be humbled to trust God for my “new.” A land full of “new.” However, one thing I have come to appreciate about God is that despite the new land, He is still the same old covenant-keeping God! Whatever your dream is, do it confidently, do it scared, do it with your team, do it lonely, but most importantly, do it with faith. God will help you. You’ll never know and grow until you go!

FUN FACTS I love plant photography (specifically of flowers). I love traveling the world in my kitchen by cooking dishes from different cultures worldwide. I am a worshiper, singer, and songwriter. I can communicate in six different languages (each at their proficiencies). I play the clarinet.

Love Always,

Elisabeth 10 So do not fear, for I am with you; do not be dismayed, for I am your God. I will strengthen you and help you; I will uphold you with my righteous right hand. 13 For I am the LORD, your God, who takes hold of your right hand and says to you, do not fear; I will help you Isaiah 41:10 & 13

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Unveiling the Layers of Identity:

Reflections on Heritage and History Dear Kennedy, Do you remember being in preschool, carelessly strolling into the classroom with your Dora the Explorer doll in tow? You walked in and greeted your friend, a white girl with soft, bouncy curls named Wynn, and another girl named Olivia. Olivia always had some sort of contempt for you, from trying to steal your snacks when no one was looking to giving you dirty looks behind her mother’s back, but you never let it bother you. You asked them if they wanted to play with you and your doll, and before Wynn could answer, Olivia narrowed her eyes and told you no. You stared blankly and asked her why, to which she replied, “because we’re white.” You walked away speechless, not because of the blatant racism you experienced before the age of 7, but because not only was Olivia black, but she was darker than you! Of course you remember, because that’s one of your earliest memories, and it still haunts you to this day. Although I’m sure little you didn’t know that that moment would be the catalyst to you finding your passion in life, you’ve recounted it numerous times, whether it be discussing when you first “realized” you were black in courses about race and the law or whether talking to your peers in the black student union about how colorism is eviscerating the black community. Throughout the course of your life, most of your identity has been found in your blackness (to the point where your mom still calls you Mini Angela Davis and your dad always asks you, “when did you become so black?”). You’ve always known that your purpose lies in educating and uplifting black people all over the globe. From teaching people about the nuances of African American culture to examining the relationship that members of the diaspora have with each other, to this day you are determined to contribute to the advancement of black people while preserving black art and history. It's been a rough journey, filled with what some might describe as way too much zeal, but what if I told you that that moment would come full circle while you were in college when you accidentally became a diplomat? You’ve gone your entire life feeling as if your African American heritage and culture were constantly mocked, overlooked, and undervalued, and so you made it a part of your mission to uplift and bring light to other ethnic groups in DreamStyle Collective

Kennedy Moton in the black diaspora that weren’t as well known, which is how you stumbled upon Garifuna culture. You learned about them during your late teens; they’re an ethnic group consisting of the descendants of escaped West African slaves. They were some of the first groups of Black Caribs, settling in the idyllic islands of Saint Vincent and the Grenadines, until they were exiled by the British to different parts of South America, mainly Nicaragua, Belize, and Honduras. Shortly after learning about them, you made friends with a Garifuna girl during an OLAS interest meeting. You two remained cordial, until a couple of years later, when she randomly invited you on a trip to Saint Vincent, known to the Garifuna people as Yurumein. You beamed with joy during the weeks leading up to the trip, mainly because the prices were amazing, you got to spend spring break in a hidden corner of the world, and it was your first time traveling alone. Even the version of you that returned to the United States two weeks later would have laughed in your face if you told her that you initially considered it to be a luxury vacation for a criminal rate, and would be one of the most eye-opening turning points of your life thus far. You were breath-taken immediately upon landing. The air was balmy, and the sun was relentless. The sky was the clearest you had ever seen it. And everything was so silent. And so still. And so peaceful. It was mesmerizing, like something out of a fantasy novel. Everything about it was mystifying, from the stunning view of that overlooked the tiny village where you stayed, to the cool humid air that tapped your cheeks as you stood 5,000 feet above the island where you peered directly into the opening of an active volcano, to the tempos of ancient hymns that made your ears ring as you sat in Prime Minister Ralph Gonsalves’ house. Still, the best was yet to come.

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It began bright and early at 6 am. You forced yourself to get out of bed at the very last minute, very groggy, and very miserable. The prime minister’s speech didn’t end until 2 am that morning. You rushed to brush your teeth and shower and rushed out to the two buses waiting for you. Each was filled with people you were sharing the luxurious vacation home with. It was a quiet ride to the beach, where many people stood waiting, everyone dressed in white. You were surprised to see a giant yacht, courtesy of the coast guard. One of your roommates performed a cleansing ritual, swinging charcoal all around you and blowing cigar smoke all over you, before sternly instructing you to release all anxiety, ego, and any other negative emotions before boarding. What ensued next was a two-hour trip across the Atlantic. The water was rough, and it wasn’t until you felt as if the post might capsize while it rained in the middle of the east Atlantic that you remembered that you never learned to swim. Some Garifuna people gathered at the front of the boat, drumming, beating sticks on the ground, and wailing the songs of their ancestors. Then, a sharp brush of cold air swept over the boat. Suddenly, people were crying out, screaming as they fell to the floor with hot tears streaming down their cheeks, and vomiting before wandering around aimlessly while praying out loud. From there, there was a stop, right in the middle of the ocean, no land in sight. The group was forced to split up into smaller, separate canoes. At this point, you couldn’t help but giggle at the instructions to release all anxiety. You sat in complete silence, as more people continued to cry and throw up. Eventually, the trek was over, you landed on the remote island of Belliceaux (the original Grenadine Island the Garifuna first settled on, which they just recently earned the rights to), where in between laying and listening to more hymns and smoking a cigar, you couldn’t shake overwhelming feelings of sorrow and peace that were occurring at the same time.

There is something so attractive in the Caribbean. But I don’t see it from the hotels. I find it in the streets. I see a hint of what Black life could be like if it were not tampered with. I feel when I’m there that all my flaws are revealed, as are my strengths. It’s like going to my mother’s house- there’s no way to hide. It’s like going home. Toni Morrison, 1978

Up until that moment, you felt disconnected from the Garifuna people you shared the experience with. Then it occurred to you that you had more in common with them than you originally thought. The fear, dread, confusion, anxiety, and bravery you felt are exactly what your ancestors and theirs felt while crossing those same waters. For the first time, you felt a true connection to your ancestors and their experience, and as you basked in the water, hands raised to the sky after the journey, you couldn’t help but feel grateful for their sacrifices and willpower. While some decades earlier, you were haunted by that early memory of hatred and division from people who looked like you, you were finally able to release it, because while lying on the beaches of the Grenadines at dusk, you realized that what makes the black identity so profound has nothing to do with tribes or skin tones, but the fact that we are all here today due to the resilience and courage of those who came before us. Today, you still think about that experience daily, and you still love learning about other cultures. You’re still learning and growing, and hoping that more pivotal experiences will come along. You hope that you will always be able to continue traveling in order to be a lifelong learner. You like to imagine that you’ll be living overseas, perhaps amongst the hustle and bustle of London or maybe under the warm sunsets of Addis Ababa. Regardless, you know that wherever life takes you, the stories, sacrifices, and heritage of your ancestors will follow. Love Always,

Kennedy FUN FACTS I am a descendant of Robert Russa Moton, who helped Booker T. Washington found the HBCU Tuskegee University. The field where the Tuskegee Airmen practiced, Moton field, is named after him. When I was in the 3rd grade, I touched a human brain provided by medical students from Emory University. I have never broken a bone. I never learned how to swim. I play the clarinet, bass clarinet, contrabass clarinet, guitar, and ocarina. DreamStyle Collective

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Charting My Course:

From Immigrant Beginnings to Future Aspirations Dear Schnei, Can you imagine what it’s like at six years old to travel across the sea from Haiti to the United States? I was just a little girl, wide-eyed and curious, thrust into a world where I didn't understand the culture, didn’t speak the language, and felt the heavy weight of doubt pressing on my small shoulders. It was hard to believe that an immigrant like me could ever become someone significant. How could that scared little girl, who others doubted, ever dream of growing up to achieve something great? Right now, I’m on a journey of self-discovery. I've often felt like the present moment isn't truly valued, and finding myself seemed like an elusive goal. But in these past few weeks, I've developed an insatiable thirst for the unknown. I've begun to embrace new experiences and savor what life has to offer. I've started trying things I never would have considered before. Imagine me, the girl who once shied away from anything unfamiliar, now eagerly sampling exotic foods, hiking through rugged trails, and even participating in a 4K run! I know, it sounds crazy to think of me pushing my limits in a long-distance run, but there's something exhilarating about stepping out of my comfort zone.

As I reflect on my journey, I’m reminded of the little girl who once trembled at the thought of fitting in and venturing beyond familiar boundaries. That girl has grown up with a dream—to create a private health center or shelter in impoverished areas back home in Haiti. I can see my future so clearly now. I envision a cozy, charming house, not too big or too small, much like the Dunphy residence from Modern Family. It’s a place where I’ll raise my two children—a lively little boy and a sweet girl. And back in Haiti, I’ll help mothers and children access the health necessities they desperately need. If I could offer one piece of advice to anyone serious about pursuing their dreams, it would be this: never stop believing in yourself, even when others doubt you. Your perseverance and determination are the keys to unlocking your potential. Warmly,

Schnei FUN FACTS I moved from Haiti to the United States when I was just six years old. I love trying new foods and have recently started exploring cuisines from different cultures. I am also an exceptional cook, if I can say so myself. Hiking has become one of my favorite activities, even though I never imagined I’d enjoy it. I recently completed a 4K run, which was a huge accomplishment for me.

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From Business Dreams to Reality:

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A Note to My Younger Self Dear Zeze, Could you imagine that the various competitions and activities you started participating in at the age of 5 would one day lead you to achieving your goals and dreams? Growing up in a business family, you’ve always been the well-spoken girl who wanted to dress up in business outfits and high heels every day, as well as being a model and famous. You began participating in numerous programs and competitions both in your country and abroad to build your future, even though you were only 10 years old. At the age of 16, you moved alone to the United States to live with a host family and people you had never met before, aiming to be independent and continue working on your dreams. There, you formed lifelong friendships and relationships with wonderful people who crossed your path, and the nickname “Miss Business Woman” was born. You’ve always had a clear plan and goals set for each year. You were selected to speak at the White House for a peace organization, presented at various American universities, and helped younger students reach their goals, which has always been a dream of yours. Reflecting on everything you envisioned as a child, you’ve definitely achieved many of these goals. Now, you are studying your dream major of international business and sales at one of the top universities in the United States. You serve as the operations manager of a business organization that fuels your passion for the business and corporate world, while also modeling parttime. You are an ambassador for your country in the United States through various organizations and conferences, both online and in person, and you volunteer at major events to help build up the community.

In the future, you will become the businesswoman you have always aspired to be. You will be a renowned business leader, owning and running one of the largest companies in the world. You will remain surrounded by family and friends who have supported you throughout your journey, along with new people who will become part of your life along the way. A piece of advice I would give: Always focus on yourself, keep your eyes on the goal, and ensure that everything you do is leading you towards it. Love Always,

Zeze

FUN FACTS I speak four languages (Arabic, Hebrew, English, Turkish). I'm from the city of Nazareth. I spent a year in Wisconsin as an exchange student. I have been riding horses since I was 5. My favorite sport is tennis.

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A Letter of Empowerment and Hope Dear Christen, Girl! Let’s talk for a minute! So, Christen, do you remember wanting to be a Pediatric Nurse Practitioner from a very young age because you loved your own so much and wanted to help others just like she helped you? Do you also remember the struggle of making it through the prerequisite classes for the nursing program at Kennesaw State, especially the “weed out” ones, better known as Organic Chemistry and Anatomy? Do you remember the gut-wrenching realization that you were going to have to give up that dream of becoming a nurse because you were running out of time and financial aid? And then having to switch your major to something else that was still healthcarerelated so it didn’t feel like you had wasted so much time? What about that moment when it clicked that the major you switched to, Public Health Education, was indeed the perfect choice for you? Do you also remember relocating from Georgia to Florida at the beginning of the COVID-19 pandemic, getting into a car accident right before moving into your new apartment three weeks before starting your Master of Public Health program at Florida A&M University? And on top of that, having to undergo surgery because of the accident on the same day you were supposed to attend classes, making you question whether you should continue moving forward? But somehow, you did and graduated from the program with an almost perfect GPA.

Christen Robinson What about how you dealt with fibroids, ovarian cysts, the pain, self-esteem issues, hormone imbalances, and the weight fluctuations that came with them as a result of starting puberty at the age of five? Reflecting on the negative impact this had on your life, you realized that part of your God-given purpose might be to go back to school to get your Doctorate so you can contribute to the field of public health by researching precocious puberty. This way, little girls who look just like you will have the research, education, and resources needed to navigate that diagnosis better than you did. Let’s not forget that you even wrote a journal titled “We Found Hope, Let’s Not Lose Her Again” as a physical reminder that through every challenge you’ve faced, it has always worked out for your good. It also stressed the importance of never losing yourself in the midst of it all. So Christen, listen, I say all of this to say... if you’ve made it through everything mentioned above, what exactly are you worried about now? Or ever, for that matter? Your favorite Bible verse is Psalm 46:5, “God is within her, she will not fail,” so stop acting like you’re not built to win. Wishing you the best, always, and with love,

Christen

FUN FACTS Middle child and only girl I recently reignited my love for reading leisurely Sunsets on the beach are my favorite I love the “golden hour” of each day

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From the Bahamas to Boundless Horizons:

A Journey of Growth DearcAlexis, Would you ever think that at just seventeen years old, you would experience a rollercoaster of highs and lows that would drastically change the trajectory of your life? Moving from the idyllic island of New Providence, The Bahamas, to the concrete jungle of Tampa, Florida? Could you possibly imagine discovering your passion for chemical engineering and science? Or, would you ever think that at just nineteen, you would be working alongside Ph.D. students in one of your college’s chemical engineering research labs, building connections and strengthening your engineering knowledge? Would you ever imagine being able to operate an X-Ray Diffractometer? I think I can safely assume that you would have never thought this could be your life—in fact, I can guarantee that you thought your future was ruined when you failed a school entrance exam for the third grade and had to undergo intensive tutoring over the summer in hopes of passing another school’s exam. However, despite the challenges of failure, as well as being uprooted from the life you grew accustomed to when you moved to an island foreign to you, you prevailed! You, a quiet and shy girl, unsure of her abilities and riddled with self-doubt, rose above the weights holding you down and succeeded. You became the person you wished you could be, going from dreaming about achievements to having them become your reality, your prayers answered ten-fold. Would you imagine that at seventeen, you would become the recipient of your country’s most prestigious scholarship, awarded to only one person per year? You went from being inspired to being the inspiration. And you would have never thought these things would happen to you…

But what if I told you that you are not finished yet? That you have goals and dreams not yet fulfilled, and that you are still working hard to make your daydreams your reality? You want to create and showcase talents that seem to contradict each other yet exist in total harmony. Remember that little notebook you had, filled with rhyming words and self-expression? Remember the poems you would write for class projects and even recited in front of your entire school? Remember the words you tucked away inside your heart? Now they are pouring out onto the pages of your first poetry chapbook. You want to publish your poetry while also being an engineer who pushes the boundaries of science. We want to push the boundaries of both science and literature. Who said engineers aren’t creative? Let’s prove them all wrong! And to all readers, remember that “The future belongs to those who believe in the beauty of their dreams” — Eleanor Roosevelt. Believe in yourself and your dreams, believe that they are possible and worthy of coming true. Your present doesn’t have to be your forever—it is up to you to change the landscape of your life. Yes, things will be rough, but what valuable thing is easy to acquire? Sincerely,

Alexis FUN FACTS I have been playing the violin for 12 years. I love rollercoasters, and my favorite ride ever is Cheetah Hunt. I’m from The Bahamas. I have written over 100 poems. I’m really good at playing rhythm games (LoveLive, BangDream, etc.).

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From Imagination to Innovation:

A Journey of Creative Growth Dear Jasmine, Would you believe it if I told you that the 5-yearold kindergartener who initially lacked child-like creativity would eventually be creating beautiful graphics for collegiate teams across the country? Kindergarten was your favorite grade level by far. You came in every day, collected big hugs from your teacher, Ms. Simpson, and got to sit in your favorite seat in the entire classroom, with your name printed on it in big letters for everyone to see. You practically ran the school! However, this day was different. After nap time, Ms. Simpson decided to read, as she often did, but this book was a personal choice of hers. As she read, I visualized each word that came from her lips, piecing the story together bit by bit, word by word, when all of a sudden, I paused. I encountered a sort of roadblock within my story and couldn’t understand why. I tried to tune back into the teacher’s words and piece it back together, but still, nothing. I stood up and raised my hand as high as I could for all to see. Ms. Simpson called on me, “Yes Jasmine?” I cleared my throat and voiced my concern, “This story isn’t true because ducks cannot talk!” Ms. Simpson smiled, laughed a little, and reassured me, “That is correct, sweetie, but this story is about using your imagination.” I was puzzled. With confusion on my face, I sat down to avoid embarrassment and allowed her to finish the reading.

Jasmine Malone answered her friend’s call without hesitation, “Hey Karen, what’s going on?” “Hey Kathy, not much. I didn’t want to take up much of your time, but I wanted to let you know what happened in class today.” My mom grew concerned, “Is everything okay?” “Yes, everything’s fine. I’m just concerned that Jasmine doesn’t have the general creativity that a child naturally possesses.” My mom retreated from protective Mama Bear mode as she listened to the sequence of events from earlier. “Thank you for calling, Karen. We will try to help her be a little more open-minded moving forward. Sorry for the inconvenience today.” “She is never a bother, Kathy. Have a great evening.” Click.

After school, Ms. Simpson picked up the phone and dialed my mother’s number. This wasn’t unusual, as my mom and Ms. Simpson were good friends, even to this day, but as I mentioned, this day was different. My mom

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Instances like this occurred frequently as you progressed through life. For example, in fifthgrade art class, you could never understand how to create shadows and highlights because you were drawing a 3D object on 2D paper. Or the time you picked up the clarinet in 7th grade and couldn’t understand why the keys were alphabetically out of order, which made it harder for you to grasp the instrument as a whole. By the time you learned Photoshop during your junior year of high school, all creativity had come to a standstill, and you struggled tremendously. You tried to push away the urge to express yourself creatively and stick to your athletic ability in sports, but it always felt like something was missing—a missing puzzle piece. Fortunately, things began to turn around after you went to college, at the illustrious Fisk University. With a little more freedom, you were able to explore, use trial and error, and figure out that you CAN do anything you think, dream, or imagine. Fast forward to your senior year of undergrad: you were excited to pick your last set of electives to complete your degree. You chose something you’d always wanted to try: photography. This class scratched the itch you had been reaching for a long time. It was a way for you to regain a sense of creativity before heading into the real world, and it did exactly that. Learning the basics

of photography propelled you to keep going once you graduated. Now, you are the lead graphic designer for a Division 1 collegiate basketball team while incorporating photography and videography into your growing arsenal. Today, you have no choice but to look back at the young girl who interrupted class for her lack of imagination and be proud of her growth into the woman who gets to express herself creatively for a career. Taking initiative to create the life she wants and not falling into the constraints of the system around her—SHE did that. To the reader of my story, you will never get this time you’ve dedicated to understanding who I am back, so let it be worth something. Take my journey and use it as inspiration to keep seeking out your passion. Find that thing you’ve loved since childhood and go after it. No matter the setbacks, no matter the imposter syndrome, do it scared, do it tired—just do it and watch it all work out. Colossians 3:23-24 “Whatever you do, work at it with all your heart, as working for the Lord, not for men, since you know that you will receive an inheritance from the Lord as a reward. It is the Lord Christ you are serving.” Love always,

Jasmine FUN FACTS I have had the same Southwest Airlines account since I was 5 years old. I frequently like to try new food spots in my area. I share the same birthday as my mom and her twin brother. I named my first two puppies Michael and Jackson (I was a HUGE fan). I am a new plant mom to 3 beautiful plants.

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Growing Beyond Limits:

A Note to the Younger You Dear Ameerah,

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Hey girl! How are you? Really, how are you? I know it’s tough being 13 and worrying about your future school, family, people liking you, etc. However, as much as you’re in your head about things, you’re going to achieve such exceptional things that your mind will be blown! All the times you said you couldn’t wait to leave Arizona—you will, and only come back for the holidays! Ameerah! Get ready to move! The first big move is to the East Coast! You’ve been obsessed with it! You become the first in your family to go to an HBCU, THE ILLUSTRIOUS HOWARD UNIVERSITY in Washington, D.C. The path there will be challenging, but you’ll grow so much out of your shell and have various experiences that you’ll remember forever. You’ll always stay true to your most authentic self. You’ll be on the dance team, student council, and cherish your loved ones. While in college, you aspire to become a medical examiner, so you’ll need to go to medical school! However, you’ll take your time because life happens and then a global pandemic! Can you believe you’ll get to go to Taiwan twice!? The second time, you’ll live there for a year as a Fulbright Scholar after graduating from college! I’m serious! You’ll live in Taiwan for a year as an English teaching assistant at an elementary school in New Taipei. This is your first job post-college. Although the rain will get on your nerves, everything else will make you grateful to be there. You’ll live right by the ocean, eat delicious Taiwanese delicacies, travel throughout the entire island, and meet so many people in your Fulbright program and among the Taiwanese people. Your favorite city will be Kaohsiung because of the heat and fun memories you’ll create there! While you’re there, you’ll decide to get your Master of Public Health. You’ll receive a full-ride scholarship to Brown University School of Public Health!!

Can you imagine!? You’ll also be the first person in your family to receive an Ivy League education! For two years, you’ll live in Providence, Rhode Island. You’ll travel throughout New England and New York! This is where you’ll meet your closest friends and find the sisterhood you’ve been yearning for! Ameerah, you have such a beautiful life to look forward to. Please don’t let fear limit you from experiences. Do the things you want, even if you’re scared! Do the things you want to do alone if you really want to go to that restaurant or movie—don’t wait for others. Ameerah, you are resilient, and everyone talks about how much of a light and joy you are to be around. Believe them. Believe in yourself. You are beautiful inside and out. Continue to be your most authentic self and use your voice! You’ve felt and been physically restricted from speaking up about your feelings. It will take time, but you’ll meet people who want to hear you. They’ll care about your thoughts and emotions. They’ll teach you and give you space to grow into using your voice. Your voice matters, and it’s powerful. Ameerah, this is only a glimpse of what the future holds, as I am quickly approaching a quarter of a century in less than two months. Ameerah, I love you so, so much. I’m giving you the biggest hug. Be strong and courageous… Deuteronomy 31:6 With light and love,

Ameerah

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Finding Strength in Adversity:

A Path Forward Dear Shamiere, Do you recall, at age 16, amid COVID, struggling to cope with the conditions of the world around you as well as the recent passing of your father? The feelings I experienced during that time were complex, almost as if I was drowning in despair, and, thanks to quarantine, I had no way to escape my emotions or distract myself. My depression caused me to lose many friendships and distance myself from those who cared about me. It was easy to feel as if my world was ending, especially at such a young and impressionable age. However, look at how things turned out: you graduated from high school and attended your dream college, studying for your dream occupation. It is important to understand that it is wrong to hate the experiences that shaped you. Though disheartening, my father's death forced me to work much harder to attain my goals, and I feel it helped shape me into the committed and powerful young individual that many consider me to be today. In the future, I envision myself as a successful child psychologist with a penthouse overlooking the city, running my own practice, and campaigning for the normalization of therapy among young African Americans. I intend to continue surrounding myself with family, positive influences, and several household pets.

Shamiere Bornelus My advice to anyone wanting to pursue their goals would be to stay focused and, of course, never give up. More importantly, embrace your mishaps. Take a limitation and turn it into an opportunity; greatness lies not in the struggles you face but in how you choose to overcome them. Love,

Shamiere FUN FACTS I’m scared of heights. I have played over five sports. I originally wanted to be a doctor.

The greatest glory in living lies not in never falling, but rising every time we fall. Nelson Mandela

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Dancing Through Life:

A Letter to My Future Self Dear Camryn, Do you remember when you were in the 2nd grade, and your mom was so excited to attend your school's honors and awards day? You discouraged her from coming because you thought you weren't getting any awards. At the time, you saw yourself as an average kid who did not deserve recognition, not as the star you truly are. Let me tell you, Camryn, this was just one of the many times you have proven yourself to be more than average. Over the years, you have made a name for yourself, set the standard, and gained the respect of people in high positions or older. You have been a woman of grace who shows other girls you can have influence without letting go of your morals or class. At 20, you had the opportunity to dance on stage behind two very well-known artists at Atlanta's State Farm Arena for S.P.A.R.S.E Entertainment's 25th Anniversary Concert, a show celebrating the South's journey of hip-hop. You were backstage with multiple artists who were pioneers of hip-hop. This gig was booked for less than 24 hours before the performance; familiar with the entertainment industry, you were worried about what you would be asked to do on stage. You prayed that this opportunity would not put you at risk of using your art in a negative light. Things worked out when you were told to go on stage and be yourself; this night highlighted that any work you choose to do professionally must be done with intention.

Now, you can sit back and enjoy your peaceful life with your family and close friends. You have an outstanding urban planning career where you touched many lives in underrepresented communities. You never let go of your passion for dance and creative direction, and your creative work has led to lifelong friendships with creatives nationwide. Your many talents have impacted those of all ages, and you inspire those after you to serve those in need. You are at peace with your decisions, mistakes, accomplishments, and missed opportunities. You prioritize your happiness and do not stress over the world's opinions on how you should be living your life. Most importantly, you are a woman of God who is blessed and favored by the creator of this beautiful earth himself. To give you some advice, remember who you are and never let go of the baby girl your village invested so much energy and love into. Love,

Camryn FUN FACTS I am a dancer from Birmingham, Alabama; my favorite style is hip-hop. Although I love music, I do not have a favorite artist. Outside of dance, I paint and journal for fun. I have a love/hate relationship with the ocean; it's beautiful, but don’t ever ask me to swim in it. I will forever love macaroni and cheese!

Be the light everywhere you go! Montrice Young

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Finding Strength in the Mountains:

A Letter from Within Dear Saniya, Can you imagine that at 16 you would lose your mom, then go on to hike a mountain in Guatemala? 1,500 miles away from home, I learned how bright and beautiful the world is. Small, wide-eyed, and scared, I had no idea what I had gotten myself into. We traveled around the country on a vibrant multi-colored bus, as I gawked in amazement at the beauty of the green, soaring mountains. The people were just as beautiful as the land. Colorful clothes, ethereal sounding Catholic hymns, fresh, delectable food. They welcomed me with open arms. Working with dentists native to Guatemala, I assisted them in providing free dental care. It was truly a pleasure and an honor. Interacting with the patients and getting to see dental techniques up close reaffirmed my passion for dentistry. We didn’t speak the same language, but there was a shared understanding, a shared sense of gratitude. I eventually hiked the big, tall, scary mountain that we had driven past so many times. The journey was steep and grueling, but at the top I watched the sun rise. A bird lingered. A bird similar to one perched on the window the day of my mother’s funeral. My mom was my #1 fan. No one believed in me more than she did. I have always been an anxious person, but she always encouraged me to be brave, to believe in myself and pursue my dreams. There were so many times where I doubted myself, doubted my ability to make it in the competitive world of dentistry. My trip to Guatemala showed that I am capable of anything I set my mind to and I’ll always have an angel watching over me.

Saniya Locklear I envision that in the future I will live in a house with a pool and a hot tub with my spouse and two kids. We’ll have family and friends over for barbecues and holiday celebrations. Every day, I walk into my own dental clinic, doing the work I love. Then I’ll come home to my family, taking my kids to sports practice, helping them with their homework; watching them grow up. I will go back to Guatemala as a licensed dentist, giving back to the community that welcomed and nurtured me when I was just a novice. My advice for anyone chasing after their dreams is to enjoy it. Fear is, in my opinion, the number 1 dream crusher. It’s okay to fail, but if you never try, you’ll never fly. Just do your best and don’t worry about the rest. Love Always,

Saniya FUN FACTS I love to crochet and read thriller, fantasy, and young adult novels. I also taught myself how to play the guitar when I was 10, and after that I played the clarinet. Jordan Peele is my favorite director, and I am a sucker for drama TV shows.

Faith is the bird that feels the light when the dawn is still dark. Rabindranath Tagore

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The Road to Self-Acceptance:

A Letter of Growth Dear Kamaria, Would you believe it if I told you that in 2019, at the age of 13, you would finally learn how to truly hate yourself? You would hate the way you look, the way you act, and the way you think. You would hate your horrible eating habits, and you would hate the way you endlessly scrolled on social media and played games to distract yourself from your negative thoughts. You would hate those dreadful nights when you couldn't sleep, while at the same time harboring feelings of not wanting to wake up. In fact, you would hate yourself so much that you would have outbursts of anger because you didn't know how to handle the frustration. I know the road sounds tough, but I encourage you to keep going, because in the following year, during 2020, you would also begin learning how to un-hate yourself. How? Well, the process was not easy; in fact, it took four whole years. But see, you started your healing with a journal. This wasn't just any journal; it was a journal of wishes. Every day, you would dedicate a page or two of this journal to one of your many wishes. And over time, this journal became littered with wishes like “I want to be more confident,” “I want to have a better work ethic,” “I want to be happy, feel free, be willing,” and so on. To add more detail, you would even write a description of habits that you would change and a list of steps required to make your wishes come true. Although it felt great to finally make a plan, the real challenge would be the discipline to follow up. In the beginning, it was failure after failure, but despite many tears of disappointment, you would somehow convince yourself to try over and over again.

Everything is happening for you, not to you

Kamaria Greene Step by step, you checked off every box until one day, four years later, at age 17, you realized that you no longer needed the journal anymore because all of your wishes came true. By doing so, you learned how to truly love yourself. This caused a ripple effect, and love began to follow you everywhere you went. You used this love to start your baking business, KBAKES, to land internships, to win scholarships, to build better relationships, and to do things as simple as look in the mirror. Whatever you did, there was love. Who knew that at the age of 18, on the verge of graduating from high school and entering a new chapter of my life, I would feel so empowered? With this new chapter, there will come new wishes, and I will be sharing them with you today. 1) I wish to obtain success and opportunity through my career. 2) I wish to inspire all to create their own wishes and accomplish their dreams. 3) Most importantly, I wish that my new chapter is blessed with love. To a fault, we humans tend to believe that the world revolves around us. Even the slightest error can lead us to spiral into a tunnel of “Why is this happening to me?” “I don't deserve this!” or “What did I do wrong?!” But the truth is, everything that happens to us now is a form of redirection so that we can reach our goals later. And we often look back on these moments and realize that, without them, we wouldn't be where we are now. Love always,

Kamaria FUN FACTS I’m a Stranger Things Stan and I own over $1,000 worth of Stranger Things merchandise. I am a hobbyist! Some of my hobbies include; Gardening, playing piano, exercising, mathematics, and hiking. I'm a big fan of arabic perfumes I have my own YouTube channel, @kamariag_ ! I have my own baking business that I started at 13 years old called KBAKES (@kbakes_offical)

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I’m assuming you’re here because you’re interested in hearing a little more about my business, KBAKES! Thank you for taking the time to learn more.

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KBAKES is a gourmet cookie business I started at the age of 13, inspired by my grandmother. To see my work or place an order, follow me on Instagram @kbakes_official or contact me via email at kbakesofficial@gmail.com!

Nurturing Dreams:

From Puppies to a Promising Future Dear Faith, Can you imagine that at just 14 years old, you would help your dog, Duchess, give birth to a beautiful litter of puppies on the cold night of December? Your family always knew who you aspired to be, so they allowed you to make all the big decisions. “She should be drinking more water. I think she needs to eat more. She’s gonna need a safe space to give birth.” You felt the best way to give her a safe space was to give her a piece of you while you were away at school. You set up one of the rooms with the least amount of foot traffic with sheets and your prized baby blanket. A few weeks later, you come home from school and notice your rounded, blue-nosed Pitbull nesting a lot more than before. It must be about time, you think to yourself. You decide to sit with her the entire time she gives birth. You pet her and soothe her, letting her know everything’s going to be okay. This is her first litter, so the puppies are coming out slowly, giving her time to clean one before the next puppy arrives. By the end of the night, the Duchess births a beautiful litter of puppies that you will love with your whole heart. This was when your passion in life was solidified, and you knew, deep in your heart, that veterinary was the path for you.

Six years later, you still have not given up your passion for animals. Just last summer, Ma kept her promise to you and Mecca and took the girls to Montego Bay, Jamaica (yeah, the trip y’all have been talking about since you could ride a bike). On the first night, y’all stayed in a cute hotel on the top floor. You and Mecca walked to the beach where the sun shined so bright you didn’t dare look up at it. The ocean was beautiful and bright and blue, like out of a fairytale. You and Mecca found some kids close to your age from Canada, and y’all just sat in the hot tub and talked until it was time to go. The next day, Ma surely wowed y’all. The girls were picked up by the personal driver and taken to the biggest mansion. Everyone had their own room and bathroom, there was a balcony overlooking the pool, and y’all had the most amazing cook and hostess. It was a dream that you were able to live in. All the next day, the residents of Montego Bay welcomed you as a “Rasta” and called your locs beautiful. When you and the girls walked the strip, y’all visited many shops. At one shop, they had beautiful jewelry and clothes. You were looking at the shorts and bracelets because when you were rushing out of the house, you left in just your bathing suit, and you already had a collection of bracelets on your arm. You bargained for a good price on the shorts you wanted and even traded bracelets with the shop

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while her friend did your aunt’s hair. This is where you learned how to put your locs in a perfect bun. After the strip, everyone went to the beach. The water was clear and the temperature was perfect. A resident that was showing us around picked a starfish up right out of the water, and you were able to hold it. Crazy how it barely felt like anything even though initially you were a little scared. To end the night, the resident took us to get some authentic Jamaican food that was delectable. The last day was so bittersweet because you wanted to vacation longer, but you also were tapped out by the heat. I envision that in the future, you’re sitting on your big wrap-around porch. Your house is two stories high. The top level is your three kids’ rooms and a living room. The bottom level is you and your husband’s room, a guest room, the kitchen, the office, and the dining room. Beside the house are two metal garages for both work trucks and luxury cars. The house sits on a big field, so behind the house sits a barn and around the field is a big white fence. It’s your day off from the animal hospital and clinic just a few miles down the road, so you’re just in a big shirt and shorts with your hair in a high bun. As you’re sitting on the porch, you’re watching your two girls lay on their stomachs with their feet swinging in the air as they draw and color. Your husband and son are out in the

field playing with your two pitbulls, who come onto the porch every so often for some water. I see you being proud to be a world-renowned veterinarian that has saved many animal lives whilst also being a mother in her kids’ lives. I see you always continuing what you feel is right in your heart even when everyone else swears it’s wrong. I see you continue to never give up and never give in. I envision nothing but greatness, no matter how long it takes and no matter how many bumps are in the way. YOU WILL BE GREAT. My advice for everyone is that even in your darkest days remember your why. Why are you here, why are you doing this, why do you feel the urge to fight so hard? As long as you keep your why close to your heart and mind, you can overcome anything. Love, with all my heart,

Faith FUN FACTS I learned photography on my own I have complete control of my face and can more my eyes, eyebrows, nose, and ears My first tattoo was a stick-and-poke done by me and my sister, Mecca I’ve helped deliver 2 puppy litters and 2 cat litters

Sometimes you gotta back up, to go forward. Brian Happy Feet 2

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From Turmoil to Triumph:

A Journey of Resilience and Advocacy

Amiana Grady

Dear Amiana,

Can you imagine being only 10 years old and caught in an extraordinary, tumultuous situation that would shape your understanding of family and relationships for years to come? At that tender age, I was suddenly swept away from my familiar world when my mother, driven by a deep desire to reunite our family, took me to Nashville. This unexpected experience was my first encounter with a whirlwind of emotions, both bewildering and profound, filled with confusion and anxiety. Upon arriving, I met siblings and a stepdad I had never known before. The new faces and voices were overwhelming after the long drive. Though I was cared for overnight, the reunion was abruptly interrupted when authorities became involved. They took me in, feeding and looking after me until my grandmother and two aunts drove from Knoxville to bring me back home. Later, I faced a heart-wrenching decision: choosing where I wanted to live. For a young child, it was an agonizing choice, torn between an unfamiliar world and the comfort of the one I had known since I was two months old. Ultimately, I chose to stay with my grandmother, the only home I’d truly known. My relationship with my mom was nearly nonexistent until I reached high school and she became ill, prompting me to start visiting her. Gradually, our relationship began to grow. As I grew older, I forgave her, even though I never fully understood why she would subject one of her children to such trauma. Forgiving her was difficult, but I came to realize that, as I matured, I needed to accept and forgive others, even my parents. Our bond evolved from a strained connection to one marked by deeper understanding and compassion. Turn your wounds into wisdom and your struggles into strength. The challenges you face today are the foundation for the triumphs of tomorrow.

Instead of allowing these experiences to define me negatively, I chose to channel my pain into something positive and transformative. I dedicated myself to education and self-improvement, becoming one of the first in my family to graduate from college. This achievement was not just a personal victory; it was a testament to resilience and the power of turning adversity into opportunity. My academic journey was driven by a desire to create meaningful change and to use my experiences as a catalyst for helping others. My passion led me to pursue a career in behavioral science and public health, with a focus on helping children understand and manage their emotions. I am committed to addressing issues like anxiety and depression by integrating emotional experiences into constructive activities like sports and health education. Through this approach, I aim to empower children to channel their emotions positively, fostering resilience and well-being. In my envisioned future, I see myself in a city where childhood obesity has become a significant concern. Drawing from insights gained while writing my senior thesis and my enriching experience at Maryville College, I am driven to make a tangible difference in the lives of children. My goal is to leverage my expertise and passion to promote healthy lifestyles, equipping children with the tools and knowledge they need to lead balanced, active lives. I envision creating programs and initiatives that address both physical health and emotional well-being, emphasizing self-care. Picture a bright, sunny day as I work in a community center, surrounded by enthusiastic children and dedicated colleagues. Together, we implement engaging sports programs, interactive health education workshops, and supportive counseling sessions. The energy is vibrant, and the atmosphere is filled with hope as we work toward instilling lifelong habits and emotional resilience in the children we serve. In this vision of the future, my life is a testament to the power of turning personal challenges into opportunities for growth and impact. My experiences have shaped me into a compassionate advocate for children’s health and well-being, and I am committed to making a meaningful difference in their lives. Love,

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Embracing Growth:

A Journey of Adaptation, Friendship, and Future Dreams Dear Tyler, At just 12 years old, you realized that adapting to new environments would be an essential skill. The night before your first day of seventh grade, you had no idea how to navigate a school with classrooms larger than eight students. When you first switched schools in fifth grade, you struggled to fit in and connect with others. Now, as you lay on your Paris-themed sheets, staring at your ceiling fan, you wondered if you’d repeat the same cycle of isolation and loneliness. Your mind raced through the possibilities of starting over. Your neatly ironed school uniform—a powder blue polo shirt and a knee-length khaki pleated skirt—was laid out on the foot of your bed. Your hair, styled in short braided pigtails with beads, and your blue flower earrings completed the look. At four feet eleven, with a baby face, you didn’t realize that once again, you’d stand out. The next morning, you tried to calm your nerves as you ate breakfast, but the drive to school felt all too brief. Stepping out of your family’s silver Honda Accord, you already missed the comfort of the car. Yet, as you navigated the chilly classrooms, your initial fears softened. Though social cues were unfamiliar, you spoke with classmates and asked them to be friends. Over time, you realized that fitting in required patience, awareness, and effort. You observed, adapted, and learned—enduring years of trial and error. In the end, your journey of growth and self-improvement became invaluable. Fast forward to six in the morning during your freshman year of college: you and your friends are making your way through the airport for Spring Break, headed to Puerto Rico with your Spelman Sisters. It’s your first big trip together, and the anticipation is mixed with excitement and nerves. You spent the previous night preparing, helping each other with lashes, nails, and last-minute details for what you hoped would be the best Spring Break ever.

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Tyler Gordon Blessed are those who find wisdom, those who gain understanding, for she is more profitable than silver and yields better returns than gold. She is more precious than rubies; nothing you desire can compare with her. — Proverbs 3:13-15 NIV

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As you neared the gate, you felt the familiar tug of anxiety. This time, however, you resolved not to let it overshadow the excitement. You shifted your focus to the amazing memories that lay ahead. The trip was unforgettable. You and your Spelman Sisters grew closer as you immersed yourselves in the beauty and culture of Puerto Rico. From delectable tacos and mofongo to fresh fruit, the island's flavors were a revelation. The roar of the Atlantic waves and the richness of each sunset intensified the experience. One day in Old San Juan, you listened to Spanish poetry that nearly moved you to tears. Every aspect of the trip felt vibrant and profound—the island itself seemed to heighten every sensation. Each day, you and your friends dressed in coordinated outfits, from turquoise on the first day to sunset dresses on the second, and elegant black attire for an evening out. On the final night, you bid farewell to Puerto Rico in flowing white dresses. This trip, your first of many with friends, deepened the bonds with your Spelman Sisters, and you couldn’t be more grateful. Looking ahead, your dream is one of family and fulfillment. If all goes as planned, you’ll live in a luxurious home in the suburbs of a big city with a loving husband and two children. You envision yourself as a Pediatric Dentist who travels the world and reads on beaches across the globe. Love,

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A PIECE OF ADVICE

To anyone pursuing their dreams, my advice is to be consistent and put in the necessary work to achieve your goals.

FUN FACTS I love reading. I design and sew dresses. My favorite type of food is Thai. I enjoy speaking foreign languages.

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From Playful Beginnings to Purposeful Impact:

A Journey in Clinical Research Dear Berlecia, Can you imagine the younger you, sneaking your mom’s Akon and Beyoncé CDs after school, dressed in your cutest dress and heels, would one day be on the threshold of a meaningful career in clinical research? Who would have thought that those carefree afternoons would lay the groundwork for a creative journey that now intertwines with a powerful purpose. What began as a love for making fun, expressive videos has evolved into a purposeful way of sharing your voice, aligning beautifully with your passion for public health and equity. As you enter this exciting new chapter in clinical research, you’re diving deeper than science and data; you’re connecting with the human stories behind it. Your work is about bridging healthcare gaps and ensuring that underserved voices are truly heard. And through it all, you’re still creating videos, capturing this new stage in life. They remain fun, self-accepting, and reflective, embracing the spirit of your journey and the lessons you continue to learn.

ADVICE To anyone serious about pursuing their dreams, I’d say go after them without fear, and be patient as endless opportunities unfold.

Berlecia Charlemagne Looking ahead, I see you embracing both your creative and professional sides, blending them to amplify your mission. Whether through global research projects or storytelling that highlights health disparities, you’ll continue to inspire change. With faith matching your ambition, you’ll see these dreams unfold in divine timing, making a positive impact on the world around you.

Love Always,

Berlecia FUN FACTS I was born in the US but grew up in three different places: Saint Lucia, where my family is from; London, where I spent most of my pre-teen years; and I’m currently in Atlanta, GA. I love watching interviews with music artists and notable cultural figures. The beach, palm trees, and warm weather are my happy places.

Success is only meaningful and enjoyable if it feels like your own. — Michelle Obama

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Running Toward Dreams:

How I Found My Voice and Built My Path

Desiree Brown

Dear Desiree, Can you imagine that at just 18, you’d pack up and fly across the world alone to study in beautiful, sunny Valencia, Spain? You were so young, so eager for adventure, and so ready to experience all life had to offer. You arrived with no Spanish skills and, after a mishap at the airport, no phone either. That first month abroad taught you the art of being present—of connecting deeply with the people around you and relying on your surroundings. You traveled to 14 countries, made lifelong friends, and learned to laugh through every mishap, from lost luggage to pickpockets. Despite it all, you never lost your passport—a small triumph but one worth celebrating! And after all of it, you even learned Spanish. Your resilience amazed me then, and it still does. Then you went on to become Miss Oakwood University, a feat that pushed you beyond your comfort zone. Despite your fear of being in the spotlight, you campaigned around wellness and community and spoke up about campus issues. The student body responded, and your courage sparked change. You even founded Oakwood University’s first run club, “OU Laces,” which still meets today. In those moments, you learned to embrace the power of your voice.

Relying on God has to begin all over again every day as if nothing had yet been done. - C.S. Lewis

Now, here you are—exactly where you’re supposed to be. You’ve let go of external expectations and are shaping your own path, one that reflects who you truly are. You’re pursuing your dream of becoming an entrepreneur, using your artistic skills to create illustrations and designs. You even landed your first commission with the UNCF STEM Scholars program, a testament to your talent and determination. As you step into content production for Huntsville, Alabama, you’re mastering social media and building toward your vision: a lifestyle and wellness brand that combines your love for art, community, and purpose. And looking forward, your journey only gets brighter. I see you traveling the world as a multi-passionate entrepreneur, collaborating with major brands, and bringing your designs to storefronts nationwide. You’ll one day settle in a cozy chalet in Switzerland, raising a family of polyglots, balancing your entrepreneurial work, and living a Christ-centered life filled with love and service. You'll even become a philanthropist and write books that inspire others. Love always,

Desiree ADVICE Keep going. Resilience is crucial in making your dreams come true, helping you push through the hard times and stay the course. Often, a breakthrough is closer than you think. Most importantly, rely on God daily and without compromise. This is the foundation of a truly fulfilling life.

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Quarter-Life Clarity:

Finding My Rhythm After the Fall Dear Armani, Can you imagine that at 25 you’d face a quarter-life crisis and maybe even have undiagnosed ADHD? You've got some degrees under your belt—so that’s a win—but you're juggling so many aspirations, wondering which dream to chase first. You want to finish grad school, become a bartender, travel, and learn three instruments. Slow down! Because, Armani, I have to tell you: not everything went as planned. It all started back when you were a sophomore and became captain of the dance team. You thought everyone would cheer you on, but some people weren’t happy for you; some even questioned whether you deserved it. It hurt, and after a while, you started to believe them. Dance was your passion; you’d been part of so many arts programs, and making the team the previous year had only fueled your dream of dancing at a collegiate level. You thought becoming captain would bring you closer to that goal. But that role came with challenges that, at the time, you didn’t know how to navigate. College started, and while you were excited, something didn’t feel quite right. You were taking biology courses and making friends, but a voice in your head kept asking if you were running from something or genuinely unhappy. As you prepped for the collegiate dance team auditions, stretching and memorizing routines, you felt ready. But after all that hard work, you didn’t make it. The dream you’d cherished shattered. You kept dancing in student organizations and even took ballet electives, but it wasn’t the same. All of this hit you your freshman year. By your sophomore year, you changed your major, and for the first time, you could breathe. You felt happy and recognized your own strengths.

Armani Regester After college, you took a gap year. In that time, you reflected on all those dreams that didn’t pan out. It hurt, and you questioned your confidence, your worth, even your decision to go to college in the first place. But that gap year changed you. You healed parts of yourself you didn’t even know needed healing. You found new dreams, and to your surprise, you got accepted into your dream grad school with a scholarship! So, maybe things weren’t as bad as you thought. You were finally dreaming again, learning that some rejections are just redirections.

The sun doesn’t ask for permission to shine, and neither should you.

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Now, you're rebuilding yourself from scratch, and that’s okay. You’ve gained wisdom, honesty, and resilience. You’re stepping back into the things that make you happy, finding new ambitions, and realizing you are not defined by broken dreams. You’ve learned to never stop dreaming, no matter how many times you need to start over. You daydream about your future self constantly—about being physically, mentally, socially, and financially healthy. You’re passionate about your career, supporting your family, giving back to your community, and living as your true, bold self. You imagine yourself as a woman who lights up the room, who is wise and respected, and who speaks with strength and beauty. I see you as that aunt with countless stories and adventures, who leaves a lasting impact everywhere she goes. You’re rebuilding a life beyond your broken dreams, a life where you shine without apology. Love always,

Armani ADVICE

Do it scared. Don’t let fear hold you back. It’s better to say, “I’m glad I did that” than to wonder “What if?” And remember, be positively delusional if it helps.

FUN FACTS I was the last-born girl in my family for 21 years. I was born with two extra teeth (only one fell out). On my mom’s side, I’m still the only daughter, niece, and granddaughter.

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Unfolding Dreams:

A Letter of Hope and Inspiration Dear Adanze, Can you imagine that at 22 years old, you have grown so much in confidence and brought so much positivity into the world? Picture giving your timid 12year-old self a warm hug and reassuring her that she is beautiful and full of life. Remember the vacation you took to Mexico last September? It was an incredible experience to explore a different part of the world and soak in all its beauty. You even used the Spanish-speaking skills you developed in high school and your last semester of undergrad. You weren’t afraid to approach the barista at the resort and ask, “¿Dónde está el restaurante cercano?” I’m certain your travels won’t stop there—you’re planning to see so much more of the world and hear the stories of others. That trip was a refreshing reward for the hard work and milestones you’ve achieved, like graduating from Baylor University with your Bachelor of Arts and getting accepted into a Master’s program that fuels your passion for becoming a physician. I envision that in the future, you’ll have grown even more confident in yourself and your aspirations, spreading your light to others. You will have completed your Doctor of Medicine degree and joyfully matched into a residency program.

Adanze Ekwem In this journey, you’ll find a balance between the hustle of work, the joy of family, and the laughter of cherished relationships. I know God will bless your relationships, and His plans for you will come to fruition. Let your light shine bright! Love Always,

Adanze ADVICE Never give up! You belong exactly where you are and will succeed as long as you follow your heart. God has, and God will!

FUN FACTS I absolutely love R&B music. I’m passionate about fashion and enjoy designing, drawing, and planning outfits. I love traveling the world and learning about new traditions and customs.

Trust in the Lord with all your heart and lean not on your own understanding; in all your ways submit to Him, and He will make your paths straight. — Proverbs 3:5-6

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From Impossible to Reality:

My Path in STEM and Life Dear Jordan, Can you imagine that, at 23 years old, you would be among the 14% of women in the United States who are engineers? Just a few short months after walking across the University of Memphis stage, you achieved this remarkable milestone. With your head held high and a smile stretching from ear to ear, you grabbed your diploma and looked into the crowd to find the joyous faces of your village—all but one. Losing your biggest cheerleader just months before this moment could have derailed you, but you found the strength to carry on. As you stepped off the stage, tears welled in your eyes. You glanced down at the words on your custom stole: “In loving memory of Granny Chris.” In that instant, you remembered your “why” and felt a renewed sense of purpose. That moment wasn’t just a celebration of your achievements; it was a testament to your resilience and the foundation laid by those who love you. With your “why” clear in your heart, you began to dream of the future ahead—a future filled with bliss. You imagine yourself in a beautiful home with your husband and a bunch of little "crumb snatchers" running around. Your business is thriving, and you’ve passed on the reins to someone else, giving you the freedom to focus on what matters most: your family. When you and your husband

Never be limited by other people’s limited imaginations. — Dr. Mae Jemison

Jordan Worth need a break, your retired mom, living in another wing of the house, is always eager to spend time with her grandbabies. In your free time, you throw on your cutest matching athleisure and take long walks along the beach to clear your mind. On these walks, you reflect on how far you’ve come and brainstorm ways to give back to the community that shaped you. One idea stands out: developing a program that creates a pipeline for minority students to enter STEM fields—a space where they can express their creativity while building a secure future. While 23-year-old you may find this ideal future hard to imagine, 6-year-old you would be in awe of all you’ve accomplished. You’ve become the person younger you would have thought was “super cool.” On your lowest days, when your dreams feel out of reach, remember who you once were and how far you’ve come. That reflection is more than enough to keep you going. To anyone serious about pursuing their dreams, I’d advise this: Always remember where you started. Take a step back and truly see how far you’ve come. What was once impossible is now your living, breathing reality. Love always,

Jordan

FUN FACTS I’m an only child. I’m a nature lover who enjoys walks, especially in parks or on nearby trails. Doing nails helps me express myself and saves money —a double win! I love discovering new and old music. My old soul often craves the soulful sound of the Blues.

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From 3-Year-Old Actress to Purposeful Creator Dear Erika, Waking up at the age of 3 is such an interesting time in life. For most, it’s probably the simplest part of childhood. You don’t have a care in the world because everything is taken care of for you. There’s no stress and no worries. And let’s not forget the boundless imagination of a child. Some of the most creative ideas come from children— they’re just so innovative. Imagine being a 3-year-old aspiring actress, inspired by a sitcom called That’s So Raven. You were so mesmerized by the show that you’d go to school and reenact scenes every single day during the afterschool program. From having "psychic visions" to randomly “passing out” and falling out of chairs, it became a routine. In fact, the teachers could tell from your mannerisms and stances that a performance was coming. You called it That’s So Erika. 22 chapters later, and your show—your life—has been a remarkable journey. So much has happened to bring you to where you are today. The highs and lows have taught you invaluable lessons. Sometimes, you can’t even believe all that you’ve accomplished. One of your proudest milestones was attending Indiana University Bloomington on a full-ride scholarship to study public health. Graduating debt-free, you gained experiences that opened your eyes to the world. From fulfilling IU traditions to holding a human brain in psychology class, you made memories and friendships that will last a lifetime. Your hard work has brought incredible opportunities. An internship at Franciscan Health connected you with great patients and unforgettable moments, including witnessing an open-heart surgery where a benign tumor was removed—one of the most memorable days of your life. That internship paved the way to your first postcollege job scheduling heart procedures. It’s been a fantastic stepping stone, teaching you about the healthcare industry and helping you grow in ways you couldn’t have imagined.

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Erika Hicks In recent years, you’ve focused deeply on your career and life’s purpose. Reflection has been key in shaping your path. Since childhood, you’ve always been a natural helper and giver, driven by the desire to make the world a better place. You’re determined to create a positive impact on your community and the lives of others.

For I know the plans I have for you,” declares the Lord, “plans to prosper you and not to harm you, plans to give you hope and a future. — Jeremiah 29:11

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While career success is important, so is finding joy outside of work. You strive for balance, and moving forward, you’re dedicating time to your creative passions: drawing, painting, graphic design, and fashion. The arts have always been an outlet for you, feeding your soul with excitement. You’re ready to explore your city’s art community, visit galleries and museums, and bring your ideas to life. This year, you’re committing to honing your skills and sharing your creations with the world. Looking into the future, you see yourself living a purposeful and harmonious life. You’ve found an incredible organization to work with, one that values the health and well-being of others while allowing you the flexibility to enjoy life with family and friends. You’ve built a beautiful home and a loving family, traveled the world, and mastered your creative craft. You’ve created opportunities for both your family and your community, leaving a legacy of love, connection, and purpose. If you’ve made it this far into my story, I hope it inspires you to keep writing yours. Show up as your authentic self and trust the journey. Don’t overthink things beyond your control, and remember, you can always change your path. Love always,

Erika ADVICE

Stay true to yourself and keep creating the life you want to live.

FUN FACTS I’m obsessed with elephants. I enjoy drawing, painting, and ceramics. I won 3rd place in the Franciscan Health Foundation mural contest!

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From Comb Microphones to Code:

A Story of Passion and Growth Dear Myonni, Can you believe that at just 13 years old, you had the courage to sing the national anthem in front of your entire middle school? It’s funny to think back to those days when you’d grab a black wide-tooth comb, pretending it was a microphone, and belt out Selena Gomez’s "Naturally" as if you were on a grand stage. Even though your pitch may not have been perfect, your passion and heart stole the show. That fearless energy stayed with you, driving you to keep singing, keep growing, and keep pursuing the things that made your heart race with excitement. While you didn’t end up in scrubs as the surgeon you once dreamed of becoming, you found an even better fit for your talents and passions. Now, you’re forging a path in Computer Science at the University of Georgia, blending creativity and logic to solve problems and help others in ways you never imagined. Your artistic side is alive and well, too, as you’ve chosen Studio Art as your minor. Along the way, you’ve explored countless hobbies—knitting, crochet, singing, dance, pottery—each one reflecting your curiosity and creative spirit. One of your proudest moments was winning a Hackathon with your project REMORA, a transformative experience that revealed coding was more than a career choice; it became a part of who you are. With every line of code, your passion for technology grows, and your excitement for what’s possible in this field fuels your journey forward.

Myonni Bailey Looking ahead, I see you merging your technical expertise with your artistic flair. Picture this: working for a tech company that values creativity and innovation, traveling the world with your laptop in hand, and discovering new cultures that broaden your perspective. Despite never having flown before, you’ve always been enchanted by the idea of seeing new places. Soon, you’ll be living that dream—finding temporary homes in vibrant cities, filling your apartment with two cats, and living a life rich with adventure and connection. When the wanderlust eventually settles, you’ll create a sanctuary in the countryside, sharing a cozy home with your spouse. Your days will be filled with tending to your garden, raising animals, and pursuing hobbies that bring you peace and joy. It will be a life of freedom, love, and fulfillment—a beautiful blend of all the things that make you you. Love,

Myonni

ADVICE So, plant your own gardens and decorate your own soul instead of waiting for someone to bring you flowers.

To anyone scared of chasing their dreams: just do it. Do it scared. Do it anxious. Do it nervous. What you’ll never feel is regret for trying.

FUN FACTS I want to make music. I love Studio Ghibli movies and anime. I enjoy playing horror games. No matter what I’m learning, I aim to master it to the best of my abilities.

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A Symphony of Resilience and Passion Dear Aline, Can you believe that by the age of 20, you had already made the incredible leap from Brazil to the United States to pursue your dream of a career in piano? Not only that, but you went on to earn both a Bachelor's and a Master's degree in Piano Performance, establishing yourself as a renowned pianist and expert teacher with over 60 students! You, the shy and reserved child who loved art, history, piano, and ballet, carried dreams and ambitions that once seemed beyond reach—but were always part of God’s plan. Your journey was anything but easy. In the midst of earning your Bachelor's degree, tuition costs surged beyond what you could afford, threatening to put your dreams on hold. At the same time, your world was shaken when your mother was diagnosed with colon cancer. Life as you knew it seemed to unravel, and the future felt uncertain. But you held on to faith. You knew deep down that your story wasn’t over. Against all odds, your mom miraculously recovered, and you found a way forward by transferring to Eastern Washington University. There, you encountered mentors who would shape both your life and your music in profound ways. You didn’t just survive —you thrived, completing your studies and rising above every challenge in your path. Life had more trials in store. You faced a heart-wrenching breakup and had to start fresh in a new city, with new friends, a new job—everything felt different. But with each challenge, you reinvented yourself, building a new life filled with even more possibility and purpose.

Aline Trifonov And now, Aline, you’ve done something truly extraordinary: you’ve made a masterpiece of your life. Through every triumph and trial, you’ve composed your own symphony, playing the notes of resilience, passion, and grace. Each experience has been like a movement in a grand composition, woven together into a beautiful and inspiring work of art. You’re not just living your life—you’re conducting it like a maestro, turning every challenge into music that inspires others. Love Always,

Aline FUN FACTS I enjoy comedy and thriller movies. I can write with my left hand. I love reading, dancing, learning new languages, and choreographing aerial acts.

Be strong and courageous. Do not be afraid or terrified because of them, for the Lord your God goes with you; He will never leave you nor forsake you. — Deuteronomy 31:6 You have shown that, no matter the odds, you can orchestrate something magnificent. Keep dreaming bigger, because the most beautiful notes are still to come.

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Thinking of a Career TRANSITION? Embarking on a career transition can be a daunting journey, marked by unfamiliarity and a significant lifestyle change. However, it has the potential to be a transformative experience, leading to newfound purpose and passion in your chosen path. To help alleviate any doubts and navigate this transition effectively, consider following the self-assessments below to gain a better understanding of your career shift.

WHY

WHAT

(do you want to take the chance?)

(do you desire to do?)

Define Your Motivation

Define Your Success

Before making the most significant change in your career, take a moment to ask yourself why you're considering leaving your current job. Reflect on various aspects, such as your work environment, including the company and location, your department, role, and expertise. Ask yourself if your current situation aligns with your aspirations and if it's how you envision spending the rest of your career. This is an opportunity to assess your work style and determine if any changes are needed.

When contemplating a career change, begin with a thorough self-assessment. Ask yourself: What is my ultimate goal? Will my 80-year-old self have fewer regrets based on my current choices? Define your personal criteria for success and assess whether your current path aligns with those aspirations.

“What IF I fail” Fear of failure often serves as the most significant roadblock preventing individuals from making career transitions. It's natural to envision worst-case scenarios that can deter us from pursuing our dreams. However, it's crucial to revisit your initial reflections on why you desire this transition and the potential positive impact it could have on your life. Don't let the fear of failure overshadow your aspirations and growth.

“It’s not the right time.” In our busy lives, there's always something demanding, our time – from family obligations to household chores. The truth is, life will always be hectic, and there's never a 'perfect' moment to make a career transition. Instead, reconnect with your reasons for desiring the change and keep your focus on your ultimate goal. You don't have to start with a massive shift; consider taking small steps, like networking with professionals in your desired field or exploring opportunities within your current company that align with your new career aspirations. A step is all that is needed to start your transition.

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WHEN (do you want to take the chance?)

Set Realistic Expectations and Time Frames Embracing this change will undoubtedly present challenges. You may encounter personal hardships and face rejections that trigger moments of doubt. Fortunately, all it takes is one opportunity from the right person to launch your new career. To prepare effectively, start by setting realistic expectations. Understand that this transition won't happen overnight, and it's essential to establish a practical timeframe for realizing your dreams. For example, give yourself a whole year to focus on your new career or 2 years making small milestones as you balance your life.

“And what if I do fail?” It's wise to have a backup plan because life is full of unexpected twists, and that's completely normal. Consider crafting an alternative plan that can seamlessly align with your current situation and your ultimate career goal. This plan acts as a bridge, leveraging your existing skills and networking connections to facilitate a smoother transition process between careers.

“There is no way of guaranteeing success, but not trying might just leave you with regrets” -Utkarsh Amitabh

QUICK TIPS Seek Support Consider reaching out to a potential mentor for guidance during your transition, or you can contact Ebonie and her team with Simplicity Healthstyle to learn reduced-stress work-life balance strategies and get started on your career journey.

Conduct Informational Interviews If you still have doubts after conducting your research, consider reaching out to professionals in your desired career to gain valuable insights into working in your target industry.

Self-Care

This is a life-changing opportunity, but it can also be quite stressful. Ensure you take care of yourself and avoid burnout by scheduling quality time with family, going for walks, or indulging in your hobbies.

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More Perspectives From Deadlines to Dance Floors:

Cultivating a Life of Purpose and Passion Imagine waking up on a crisp fall morning, golden leaves crunching beneath your shoes as you step out for a day filled with endless meetings, deadlines, and emails. The 9to-5 grind has become a part of life for many of us. But what if I told you that your mental health doesn’t have to be sacrificed on the corporate altar? What if, instead, you could find peace, balance, and fulfillment in small, meaningful ways amidst the daily hustle? I’ve discovered that weaving little moments of joy and self-care throughout my day is what keeps me grounded. After clocking out, I trade my work shoes for ballet slippers, twirling across the dance floor in a way that makes my soul sing. Ballet is more than just graceful movement; it’s an emotional release—a mental detox. On weekends, I escape into the pages of a good book, letting stories transport me far from the confines of office walls. Journaling has also become my secret weapon. Scribbling down my thoughts, fears, and hopes allows me to declutter my mind, creating space for clarity and creativity. Why is this important, you ask? Because mental health is the silent engine that drives every aspect of our lives, both personally and professionally. Without it, even the smallest challenges can feel insurmountable. But with a few simple practices, we can all introduce moments of calm and creativity into our busy routines.

Here’s what I’ve learned: Make time for a passion: Whether it’s dancing, painting, writing, or something else, carve out time for activities that feed your soul. You’ll find that a wellnurtured passion spills over into other areas of your life, giving you energy and focus. Schedule self-reflection: Keep a journal and make it a habit to write, even if it’s only a few lines each day. Journaling is a therapeutic way to process emotions, track growth, and stay connected to your goals. Engage in mindful movement: Whether through ballet, yoga, or a morning walk, moving your body mindfully helps you reset and releases the stress that builds up during a long workday.

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Gerlisa Hardy Unplug regularly: Turn off the screens and pick up a book. Escaping into fiction or a good romance provides a mental vacation, giving your brain the rest it needs. Create small rituals: Whether it’s morning coffee on the porch, a midday stretch, or an evening bubble bath, small rituals create pockets of calm and joy in your day, grounding you even when life feels overwhelming. By tending to our mental health, we create a foundation that allows us to show up fully, both at work and at home. It’s not about adding more to an already-packed schedule; it’s about sprinkling in moments that nourish us. When we nurture our mental well-being, we not only become better professionals but also more fulfilled, happier versions of ourselves. As Maya Angelou once said, “My mission in life is not merely to survive, but to thrive; and to do so with some passion, some compassion, some humor, and some style.” With the right balance of work and selfcare, you can do more than just survive the 9-to-5— you can thrive in it. Love Always,

Gerlisa FUN FACTS I’ve been practicing ballet for the past year—it’s my favorite way to unwind. I have a growing collection of journals dating back to high school. I read at least one new book every month to keep my mind sharp. My dream vacation is a month-long stay in Paris to visit every bookshop and ballet theater. I believe in manifesting my goals and visualize them regularly.

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More Perspectives The Power of Perspective:

Navigating Challenges to Achieve Success “You are very behind, Ms. Harris.” “You will have to work 10 times as hard as your classmates to succeed in science based on your ACT score.” “Most students like you don’t graduate in four years with this major.” Close your eyes and imagine yourself as a driven 18-yearold, just starting college on a full scholarship. You walk into your advisor’s office, excited about your future, only to hear discouraging words like these. It’s natural to feel hurt—I did too. For a few hours, I doubted myself. But instead of letting it define me, I turned that doubt into determination. With the support of my mentor, I kept my confidence and inner light alive, even when it could have easily faded. Before I continue, let me formally introduce myself. My name is Dessence Harris. I’m the oldest of five, I have a pet bunny named Spottie, and I’m passionate about fitness. Now that you know a little about me personally, here’s something else: I’m a Microbiology Analyst at a biopharmaceutical company, and by the age of 23, I earned both my bachelor’s and master’s degrees. How’s that for proving someone wrong? Despite the negativity I faced, I’m now pursuing a career in medicine, and I firmly believe that anyone can overcome the challenges and obstacles life throws at them.

Dessence Harris When I was just five years old, my mother shared a quote with me that has stayed with me ever since: “The worst thing someone can say is no.” I want to pass that message on to inspire others. Just because someone says "no" or a roadblock appears in your journey—whether in life, your career, or elsewhere—doesn't mean it’s the end. There’s always another way to reach your goals, find happiness, and fulfill your purpose on this earth. Remember, there isn’t just one way to reach a goal. When a path seems blocked, it might feel like a setback, but what if that detour is actually pushing you toward a route that will help you grow and prepare you for success? Life is all about perspective. After reading this, I hope your outlook on success and finding your purpose evolves. Sometimes, a roadblock is just a sign that there’s a better path waiting for you. Love Always,

Failure only happens if you give up! Remember to always keep moving, and you will always reach what is meant for you! — Dessence Harris

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Dessence FUN FACTS I’m the oldest of five siblings. I have a pet bunny named Spottie. I enjoy powerlifting. I love talking and socializing with people. I’m passionate about traveling and trying foods from different cultures.

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More Perspectives From Challenges to Change:

My Path Toward Equitable Healthcare Picture this: Equitable healthcare, accessible resources, and a clear understanding of your plan of care. Or what about a photographic memory, stress-free studying, and A’s on every test you take? Perhaps all you need is a fiveday weekend where you don’t have to worry about what’s happening at work because you know your team has your back. It’s a dream we all may share—much like fantasizing about two weeks on sun-soaked beaches, twelve days in rustic mountain retreats, or a month in a bustling city high-rise. It sounds too good to be true, doesn’t it? But that’s just the thing—this shouldn’t have to be an imaginary scenario for anyone. Too often, we find ourselves grappling with what we consider "standard" in our lives. Many don’t even realize the benchmarks for fairness and advocacy that should be the norm in our experiences. These moments of feeling heard, valued, and treated with dignity aren’t just occasional blessings—they're the fuel that drives my passion for transforming the healthcare system. As a student now, and later as a practitioner, they inspire me to rise, challenge norms, and stand firm in the face of adversity. While I haven’t embarked on this journey alone, I want to ensure I lay the stepping stones for others who wish to follow. So, I encourage you to come along to learn my story and how I plan to make a difference. The world can be unforgiving at times, and as I’ve lived through the ups and downs of life, I’ve realized how transformative sharing my story can be. In our digital age, social media and online communities often distort our perceptions of reality. For young adults, resisting the urge to measure ourselves against curated images and societal norms is no small feat. I strive to live authentically, serving as proof that embracing one’s truth can be liberating. You might look at my life today—graduate school, planning a wedding, waking up for daily workouts— and think, “Wow, she has it all together.” While those accomplishments are a part of my reality, they prompt a deeper question: Why are we so quick to compare ourselves to one another?

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Brianna James My life hasn’t always looked like this. Seven years ago, being where I am today was the furthest thing from my mind. Despite having an amazing support system, good grades, and doing what any other 17year-old would do, I was not okay. I was diagnosed with anxiety and depression, and it began to get the best of me. No amount of social media scrolling could help. I wouldn’t shower or eat. I often found myself feeling helpless, questioning my worth, and battling the overwhelming thought that my presence might not matter. Therapy, countless doctor visits, and ultimately a fiveday hospital stay illuminated my path to recovery. This experience ignited my desire to share my story and demonstrate what resilience can achieve. Professionally, it also solidified my belief that the Western society we live in often glorifies busyness and relentless productivity at the expense of mental health. At a young age, I learned that self-prioritization is not a luxury—it’s a necessity. I take days off from school to focus on my mental health and well-being before trying to show up at 50% for my classmates and professors. I take myself on solo dates, treat myself to my favorite things, and write affirmations on my mirror. I openly talk about seeking help through therapy and medication, while also finding comfort in the Lord because I believe you can have both.

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This journey of self-care empowers me to support others. My pursuit of a doctoral degree is more than a personal achievement; it’s a commitment to creating a healthcare environment that is not only understanding but also accessible and equitable for everyone. I utilize the space I’m given to be transparent and welcoming to those who may be struggling silently. As we continually advocate for ourselves and one another, we’ll find that resilience comes when we take care of ourselves. Whether the vision is for equitable healthcare, supportive environments, equal pay, or better infrastructure, there comes a point where we all feel tired. By sharing our stories and embracing our journeys, we empower ourselves and others to rise above challenges and foster meaningful change.

The struggles along the way are only meant to shape you for your purpose. — Chadwick Boseman

This commitment to authenticity and self-care not only enriches our personal lives but also enhances our professional endeavors. As we advocate for accessible change and treatment, we become hopeful for a brighter future. So yes, we can have those five-day weekends, two weeks out of the country, and a life filled with better tomorrows. Love always,

Brianna FUN FACTS I can walk on her hands. I LOVE all things pumpkin-related. I volunteered over 300 hours of service in undergrad. I was born 10 weeks early and weighed just one pound at birth. I love reading—mystery is her favorite genre!

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More Perspectives Finding My Voice:

Turning a Rare Diagnosis into a Life of Advocacy and Care Imagine waking up one day without a voice—just a whisper. You’d no longer be able to belt out your favorite song lyrics, and to communicate, you’d have to repeat yourself multiple times. This is what it’s like living with Recurrent Respiratory Papillomatosis (RRP), a rare condition in which benign tumors grow on the vocal cords. While in my medical school program, my voice started to get hoarse. After trying different medications, changes in diet, and voice therapy, I finally underwent a biopsy of my vocal cord, which led to the diagnosis of this rare condition. Surgery is the main treatment option, and unfortunately, no known cure exists. Countless procedures and unanswered questions are the norm for the rare disease community.

FUN FACTS I’m an animal lover and enjoy spending time with my Maltipoo, Levi. I love traveling! Some of my favorite destinations include India and Italy. I hope to be bi- or tri-lingual one day! Running is a favorite hobby of mine—I even ran a 5K on Thanksgiving. I participate in pageants in my free time and was crowned Miss Florida World 2020. Love,

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Being diagnosed with a rare condition has become a part of my story, but it will not define my entire story. Currently, I work as a Physician Associate (PA) in urgent care. Before this, I was a first-generation graduate of Florida State University and the University of Florida. As a healthcare provider, I now see almost 500 patients every month. In the short time I’ve worked as a PA, I know I’ve saved lives because my patients have told me so. I’ve become a patient advocate for my condition while continuing to stand on the frontlines with my patients. In life, there will be many things that seem like setbacks. However, they don’t have to stop you from achieving your purpose. If you believe in yourself, anything is possible.

The elevator to success is out of order. You’ll have to use the stairs, one step at a time. — Joe Girard

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More Perspectives Breaking the Silence:

The Unfair Judgement Against Women Who Choose Not to Have Children Women face a barrage of expectations that shape their identities and life choices. Among these expectations is the presumption that motherhood is an inevitable and necessary milestone in a woman’s life. However, not all women want to become mothers, and those who choose not to have children often face judgment, misunderstanding, and societal pressure. I decided to write this blog to share the experiences of women who do not want kids and the challenges they encounter daily.

The Pressure to Procreate From a young age, girls are often given dolls and toys that mimic motherhood, reinforcing the idea that having children is their ultimate destiny. As they grow older, society and family members amplify the expectation of having children, often accompanying it with questions about marriage and family plans. This theme becomes a staple in conversations at every family gathering and even in professional settings. The pressure to procreate is pervasive, leaving little room for alternative life choices. As a child, I played with baby dolls and toy kitchens without questioning the expectation of having children. As I got older, people around me would say things like, “When you have children…” or “You won’t understand until you have children of your own.” It made me feel as though having children was mandatory. Now, as an adult, I know that having children is a choice—my choice.

Most women, like my sisters Kanesha and Gabby, find joy in witnessing milestones like a baby’s first steps or first words. They embrace the late nights and early mornings that come with parenting. But there are women, like me, who are perfectly content without those experiences, and that choice should be accepted without judgment.

The Myth of Fulfillment One of the most pervasive myths is that a woman’s life is not truly fulfilled unless she becomes a mother. This narrative dismisses the reality that women can lead meaningful and impactful lives without experiencing motherhood. It overlooks the contributions women make through their careers, communities, and personal endeavors. At one point in my life, I said I wanted children, but only because I felt I had to in order to align with societal norms. Over time, I realized that fulfillment comes in many forms, and motherhood does not have to be one of them.

The Judgment of Not Wanting Kids Women who openly express their desire not to have children are often met with disbelief, criticism, and even hostility. They may be labeled as selfish, incomplete, or immature, with their life choices subjected to scrutiny. This stigma can lead to feelings of isolation and pressure to conform to societal expectations, even at the expense of personal happiness and well-being. As someone who does not want children, I have faced plenty of judgment. I’ve heard comments like, “You are not considered a woman until you have children,” or, “It’s selfish not to want children. Don’t you want your legacy to continue?” While children are a blessing for many, it’s important to recognize that not everyone shares the same desire to experience parenthood. DreamStyle Collective

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The Courage to Choose Choosing not to have children is a deeply personal decision that requires courage. It’s a declaration of autonomy, a refusal to be bound by traditional roles, and an assertion of one’s right to define happiness on their own terms. Women who make this choice often live just as happily and meaningfully as those who choose motherhood. I remind myself daily that it is okay to choose a childfree life. It’s okay to wake up in a quiet house, to focus only on my own needs, and to skip the financial and emotional responsibilities of parenthood. At the end of the day, what matters most is choosing what makes YOU happy.

Creating a More Accepting Society Society must learn to respect and celebrate the diverse life choices of women. This means challenging the norms that stigmatize women who do not want children and recognizing the multifaceted nature of women’s identities. While children are undoubtedly a blessing, parenting is also a challenge. There’s no manual for raising a child— it’s a journey of trial and error. Some women do not want to undertake that journey, and that is okay. For me, being an aunt brings tremendous joy. I have a niece and three nephews—Madison, Kayden, Joel, and Johari—whom I treat as though they were my own. I can spoil them, take them on adventures, and watch them grow. And when Gabby has children, I will continue to pour love and care into their lives.

A Call for Change The journey toward acceptance is long, but it is worth taking. By embracing the diversity of women’s life choices, we can create a more inclusive and understanding society. Women who choose not to have children deserve the same respect and support as those who do.

To the Woman To the woman who is a hard worker, Your work does not go unseen. You are always the first to wake and the last to go down at night, Your life is not over, keep pushing and keep having faith. To the woman who has a dream, Turn that dream into reality. Pursue it and execute it, God instilled the idea in you for a reason. To the woman who is a mother, God chose you for motherhood, you have never-ending love. You guide your children through the darkest days, Your sacrifices do not go unnoticed. To the woman who is tired, It’s ok to have bad days, as long as you overcome them. You are a fighter, a warrior, a ray of sunshine, Continue to handle challenges with unwavering grace. To the woman who is all of the above, You are a hero; your love knows no bounds. Your courage is bold and true, So, we bow and honor your strength and we honor you. — Kayla Miles

It’s time to break the silence surrounding childlessness and celebrate the many paths to a fulfilling life. Let us champion every woman’s right to live authentically, free from the burden of societal expectations. Love,

Kayla DreamStyle Collective

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