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“Hug me, mama!” Do you have a child who constantly wants to be attached to you? While it can be overwhelming because, let’s face it, we all need personal space, this could be your child’s way of seeking affection. For kids who crave physical touch: n Instill good morning and good night hugs n Hold hands when walking together or running errands n Cuddle more n Create a special handshake for the two of you n Stroke her hair or rub his back
“I want, I want!” Is it impossible to go to Target without your child asking for a new toy? The good news for your bank account is that it might not actually be about the thing; your child could be asking you for validation of your love, which doubles down on the old adage: It’s the thought that counts. For gifts: n Include a special something in his lunchbox every once and awhile n When grocery shopping, let her pick out an item n Create a photo album or book about him n Pick wildflowers to leave in a vase in her room n Make sure to choose gifts that fit his interests
by Emily Webb
As a parent, you love your child unconditionally. It’s that unspoken thing; that moment when you first see those tiny hands —all you want to do is love and protect them. And, during the baby stage, it’s pretty easy. But, as your child grows and develops a personality all her own, loving can become more complicated. Take out the guess work by understanding his love language. Popularized by marriage counselor Gary Chapman, his bestseller “The 5 Love Languages” focuses on five ways people express love: physical touch, gifts, words of affirmation, acts of service and quality time. You can find more information on the love languages and take a free quiz online at 5lovelanguages.com. Though originally designed for adults, you can take the quiz for your child to help understand her better. Pay attention to how your child shows you love—we often tend to offer affection in the way we wish to receive it. And, remember, your child’s love language may shift over time, so keep observing. 20 Atlanta Parent
February 2023
“Daddy, I love you!” Does your child often express how they feel toward you and other family members? Return the sweet sentiments openly with your child to ensure they understand that you love them. For words of affirmation: n Tell her how proud you are of her accomplishments n Share a sweet thing he did today with your partner at a time where he’ll hear it, too n Skip the sarcasm, mockery and put-downs, even if teasing n Call her by a special nickname n Write love notes to stick in his lunchbox or in special spots in his bedroom atlantaparent.com