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As we close out Pride Month, I’d be remiss to point out the fact of how the commemoration of the Stonewall riots, which are ascribed to giving birth to the modern gay rights movement, in some ways parallel the civil rights protests that are happening nationwide right now in response to the senseless killing of George Floyd and many other Black Americans.

Although Pride Month looked vastly different this year, I hope it was also a time for reflection on how those riots in 1969, started by Marsha P. Johnson, Sylvia Rivera, and Storme DeLaverie, sparked a movement and a breakthrough so that the LGBTQ community could finally live openly and authentically. It is proof that change is possible when we resist, no longer tolerate abuse, and demand justice and change. Let’s all keep it up!

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Dwight Allen O’Neal Releases His Hilarious Memoir

In his first collection of humorous vignettes, the star of Christopher Street-The Series recounts some of his life’s biggest missteps, and reflects on how they have affected his personal journey. From learning to break out of his selfimposed shell to giving his heart to the wrong person, to finding the courage to come forward in a very public sex scandal, Dwight Allen O’Neal imparts his own brand of “gay boy next door” wisdom that has been delighting fans on his popular SHOULDA! COULDA! WOULDA! podcast show.

Where did you get all of your wisdom?

I have always had a very old soul. When most children were outside playing, I would sit on our front porch drinking sweet tea and listening to my grandfather and my grandaunt Carrie talking about current events and family gossip.

How very southern!

My grand-aunt Carrie would tell me things about the family and give me her opinion all the time. I became her only friend up until she died. I would sit next to her hospital bed and play with my toys and visit with her for hours. I learned so much, probably too much and too soon, however, it has created the person that I am today.

Do you have it all figured out now?

Hell no! I wish I had it all figured out. I don’t think anyone does, and that’s the beauty of life. We are consistently growing and learning about the world, others, and most importantly, ourselves. The thing that I have figured out is it’s not about falling, but how you get up. Getting up time after time is the beauty of life.

What is the biggest f up you have ever made?

My biggest f up would be my habit of letting men move in with me too soon.

Who is one person you shoulda known to avoid?

The guy I met in college. We went on one date and it was probably the worst date ever. We had no chemistry at all. However, over a decade later we reconnected at a party and thought we would try again. After dating for about 2-3 weeks, he said his place needed renovations and asked if he could crash with me for a month. A month became over a year. He paid his bills on time, however the emotional and sometimes physical abuse was horrible. My spirit told me to run from him, but I didn’t listen.

What is one thing you coulda done better if you had tried a little harder?

The one thing I probably could have done better was believe in myself. For so long, I thought it was about pushing myself to do more, to be the best, to achieve greatness.

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Yes, these things are important. Nonetheless, it is equally as important to believe that you can do amazing things, and support yourself when you make a mistake or fail. At one point in my life I was a better friend to others than I was to Dwight Allen O’Neal.

Tell about one challenge you woulda overcome if only you had persevered.

If I had persevered in my relationship with my husband, my marriage would have worked. To be honest, if I persevered in my relationship with myself I probably would have realized that I was marrying the wrong person. I married an incredible man, however we were not compatible. If only we had waited, we would have avoided a sad ending to a beautiful start. As I continue to mature, I am learning more and more about the importance of our personal relationships with ourselves. Without a strong, positive, loving personal relationship with yourself, you will never be able to have one with others.

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Most Iconic Gay Scenes On TV

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As we round out Pride Month, we’re counting down the top ten sexiest gay scenes in television history in collaboration with Mr. Man! Whether gay or straight, these actors shed their inhibitions (not to mention their underwear) to bring the most explicit, influential, and iconic gay scenes ever

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Brian Jordan Alvarez and Ryan O’Connell in Special With his semi-autobiographical series Special, Ryan O’Connell gave a voice to queer people thriving with disabilities. He also brought one of the most realistic gay sex scenes in television history. Ryan’s character hires an escort played by Brian Jordan Alvarez to take his bottoming virginity. He’s like a virgin - thrust for the very first time!

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Dyllon Burnside and Billy Porter in Pose Ryan Murphy’s groundbreaking series Pose made waves in the industry for the inclusive cast. The iconic Billy Porter shines as the MC of a Paris is Burning-inspired club, and in the show’s most shocking scene, he has passionate sex with the much younger Ricky - played by openly gay actor Dyllon Burnside! Category is: Anal.

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Dylan Vox, Josh Collins, and More in Dante’s Cove No show has reveled in its unabashed smuttiness quite like the supernatural gay series Dante’s Cove. But this show is more than just cheeky. It’s penis-y! Both Dylan Vox and Josh Collins flaunt their rock hard bods and long swinging cocks in the OG red room. Forget soap operas, this is a drop-the-soap opera!

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Andrew Rannells and Corey Stoll in Girls

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Jack Falahee and Niko Pepaj in How to Get Away With Murder

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The openly gay actor Andrew Rannells portrayed one of television’s most well-rounded gay characters on Girls. Ah, the complicated life of a gay man in NYC. The ups.

The downs. The ins… the outs? Seeing him try to please bossy bottom Corey Stoll during sex is as hilarious as it is hot. The show may be called Girls, but we’re here for the boys.

No network show has delivered more graphic gay content than ABC’s How To Get Away With Murder, and we have the gorgeous star Jack Falahee to thank. While we love his gay sex scenes with onscreen boyfriend Conrad Ricamora, this passionately porny hookup with Niko Pepaj in season one is… tops. Thanks for turning network TV into netWERK TV www.peachatl.com

filmed for the small screen. Below you’ll find the ten gay scenes that turned the TV Guide into the TV Glide, as well as a description of each scene’s significance – and you can watch the full NSFW clips on Mr Man!

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Russell Tovey and Jonathan Groff in Looking Looking gained a cult following thanks to its realistic portrayal of gay lovin’ in the 21st century. But we’re here looking at the chemistry between openly gay hotties Russell Tovey and Jonathan Groff. During their wildly hot sex scene, Groff pounds out Tovey until both men explode in sweaty moan-filled ecstasy!

It’s so real, you’ll feel like you’re really bare.

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Omid Abtahi and Mousa Kraish in American Gods Gay showrunner Bryan Fuller helped turn this fantasy series into a MANtasy (trademark pending) series. The show made headlines when Mousa Kraish, playing a fire-eyed god, topped Omid Abtahi with his huge CGI penis in a gay sex scene lasting over four minutes! Real or not, that penis left its mark on television. And on Omid’s butt.

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Max Jenkins and Colby Keller in High Maintenance

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Alexander Skarsgård and Ryan Kwanten in True Blood

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Aidan Gillen and Charlie Hunnam in Queer as Folk

The weed anthology series High Maintenance has delivered tons of great dudity, but nothing gets us higher than Max Jenkins’ gay sex scene with pornstar Colby Keller. Colby puts his peen prowess to use on Max’s ass during slow-motion sex, before later casually revealing his big cock and balls! You could say that Max took a hit from the dong.

The fact that the second hottest gay scene in TV history is non-nude speaks to the undeniable chemistry between hard-bodied hunks Alexander Skarsgård and Ryan Kwanten during their insanely intense gay make out. Skarsgard even once said that Kwanten was a better kisser than his other costars Margot Robbie and Nicole Kidman: “Out of the three I’ve got to say Ryan Kwanten is surprisingly a good kisser actually. He’s very tender. You wouldn’t think it because he’s kind of a tough guy but very soft, gentle, tender touch.” ‘Nuff. Freaking. Said.

And the best gay scene in television history goes to Charlie Hunnam and Aiden Gillen on the original UK version of Queer As Folk. And, how could it not? Young twink Charlie gets his ass licked by future Game of Thrones star Aiden, before Aiden penetrates Charlie in missionary. And TBH, we’re queer for it. These two make Queer As Folk hot AF.

Haaz Sleiman to the Rescue

By Chris Azzopardi Photos: Apple TV+, Iftar Productions

Actor Haaz Sleiman is on a mission to take part in stories that broaden the pool of queer perspectives on the screen. And if you already know his work, you know he’s on a roll.

For “The Son,” an episode of Apple TV+’s acclaimed anthology centered on the immigrant experience, Little America, Sleiman portrayed a gay Syrian refugee trying to gain asylum in the United States after his father brutally condemns him for kissing a man.

Sleiman must be doing something right: The episode has been banned in 10 Arab countries and in Russia.

Then, in writer-director Mike Mosallam’s indie rom-com Breaking Fast, which is currently seeking wider distribution while also making its virtual Pride rounds this summer, Sleiman plays a gay Muslim Arab navigating life, love and loss in West Hollywood during Ramadan.

But the queer storytelling mission that’s so important to Sleiman, who has also starred in Nurse Jackie, 24, Veronica Mars, The Good Wife and Jack Ryan, will reach towering heights when he plays the husband of gay superhero Phastos in Marvel’s The Eternals, due in theaters in early 2021.

Here, Sleiman talks about telling stories that are long overdue, how Madonna’s sex-positivity influenced him as a gay man, and why he makes a convincing straight guy onscreen.

After “The Son” aired, what kind of feedback did you get from LGBTQ immigrants whose experiences were similar to Rafiq?

I am so grateful for amazing, positive feedback on Instagram, just comments thanking me and saying they felt seen.

The importance of what we do, and storytelling and television itself, is that you can feel like if your story is being told, you matter somehow. It was really just very gratifying.

By the way, the lovely gentleman I got to portray, Shadi Ismail, was floored by

how it came out and felt it was exactly what he went through. He was in tears. So, for me, I’m just very happy with the way it came out and how LGBTQ people have been receiving it. This is a story that should’ve been told a long time ago; it’s long overdue. We’re finally getting it, and I really think it’s about time.

breaking the rules and her being so rebellious in the sense that, yeah, I’m gonna have sex with this guy and I’m gonna be so happy about it and I’m not gonna feel any shame the next day.

Whenever Madonna was equal to men, whether it’s in her lyrics, in her music, that’s what really empowered me because I saw, through her, that I can be like that as a gay man. That’s really what Regarding represen-tation, who did you look up to inspired me and empowered me the most. as a gay boy who grew up in Lebanon?

I would say a lot of Great question. I grew her sexual songs up in Lebanon in the do that for me. ’80s – there were a lot I’m a very sexual less options. And also, person and I’m a I was in Lebanon, so big flirt and it’s just it’s even more limited something natural there. So just one for me; it’s second word: Madonna. She nature. So I flirt was really it. Now, with women, I flirt in all my interviews, with men; it doesn’t Madonna comes up. matter. And, for (Laughs.) But she was me, anytime she that for me. She really was free and represented hope for uninhibited in me. She was really expressing her the first person who sexuality in her actually told me that I songs that was was OK, that nothing very empowering, is wrong with me; she because in Lebanon gave me hope that, and in most Arab yeah, I can actually countries sex is a have a bright future shameful subject to for myself, and I can talk about. get what I want, and that there’s nothing You’ve been open wrong with that. As a about being, as gay kid, I really loved you’ve said, a “total strong women, and so bottom.” But at the in that sense it made same time, you’ve sense I looked up to her. I was inspired by her acknowledged that being so sexually transparent and really, honestly, if I didn’t have Madonna in could hinder you career-wise. Why do you think my life as a child I don’t know if I would’ve been that would affect your professional life? And has it? able to survive.

Look, I’d be lying to you if I said I’m not worried about how it’s affected that and my career. I’m In “The Son,” Rafiq’s friend, Zain, is a Kelly Clarkson not delusional. I’m aware that there is an effect; fanboy and finds comfort in her song “Breakaway.” I am aware that we are evolving; I am aware that What’s a song that kept you going during your time we are making a lot of progress. But there’s a lot as a gay man living in Lebanon? more to be done.

I was a very interesting child, I guess you could say. An old soul. So I always heard people being I think my biggest fear was that it would affect like, “What’s wrong with Haaz? He needs to my career. That’s why I didn’t come out before I be like normal children. He needs to play with came out, and I really just thought it was going children.” I never understood that. I felt bad to affect my career. Then, afterwards, I got to the about that. The reason I’m saying all of that is place where I didn’t care anymore. I didn’t care because it also applies to what I’m about to tell about my career. Respecting myself became a you. priority.

I think I was kind of sophisticated in the sense that I really was a feminist when I was a kid. And I don’t know why but I really had a strong empathy for women. I really cared about them. Whenever I would see that women are not treated fairly or equally, it really upset me. So, for me, the songs that really moved me and affected me are when Madonna would sing lyrics about doing things that women are not supposed to do, and her

Before you officially came out in a video posted to Facebook in 2017, you were asked about your sexuality by The Advocate. How do you reflect on denying being gay in that interview? Do you feel public figures have a responsibility to be out if they’re LGBTQ? For public figures, no one has a responsibility to save the world. I think everyone has the responsibility to be honest. Look, you could

say a lot of people play the game and are really clever. Trump is one of them. They’re really good at faking it. But I really think public figures, absolutely: their main responsibility is to be truthful, because if they’re not then they’re not enlightening the world. I think public figures’ job is to enlighten the world. More than ever now, today, we need that. And that I believe in my heart of hearts is my job, my responsibility.

Of course when The Advocate asked me about my sexuality it was awful. I really struggled afterwards because I lied. I said I was straight.

I betrayed myself. I betrayed my fans. I betrayed the people who admire my work. I also felt I was a hypocrite. That really ate from the inside.

That, combined with the evolution of it all and all the different shows, like RuPaul’s Drag Race, and the massive killing of trans women of color, all of that just made me finally come out.

I don’t know. After many years of lying and not coming out and just basically disrespecting myself and betraying myself, it’s clear to me today that, whether you’re a public figure or not, the most important thing is to really live your truth. Be authentic. And that applies to anyone. It doesn’t matter who you are or what sexual orientation you are. That comes first. And then after that everything else falls into place.

My favorite artists in the world are all authentic and respect who they are. The ones I look up to, they’re all an example of that.

You’re a lead in Mike Mosallam’s feature film debut Breaking Fast. How does that movie fall in line with your goal of centering queer stories that typically aren’t told?

I think the majority of the world is not aware that there are openly gay practicing Muslims. I’ve had so many conversations about this with a lot of gay and queer people. My friend is an openly gay practicing Muslim. They exist. And there’s a lot of them. So this film simply is making those people visible, no different from how finally the world is making trans people visible because they were not visible for the longest time. Now, finally, they’re seen.

The internet was thrilled to hear that you’d be sharing a kiss with your husband, Phastos, in Eternals, the first Marvel film to feature a gay married couple; they will also be raising a child. What did it feel like to witness the excitement around such a historical moment in pop culture for the LGBTQ community?

Marvel is purposely and intentionally trying to put out a positive image of a queer family for the whole world to see, from kids to old people. That’s huge. Visibility at a level that is unprecedented.

We got to humanize a queer family who have a son, and we got to really show how loving queer families are.

healthier than straight families, and I really think their journey shows that in a beautiful way. So I’m very proud that I was a part of it. I’m very grateful that I got to humanize a queer family on a global level and I can’t wait for the world to see it. And I think what The Son did was also revolutionary.

For women, for LGBTQ people, and for other marginalized people and ethnic minorities, there’s a movement happening; there’s an elevated level of consciousness, globally speaking.

And you asked me, “Do you think coming out is gonna harm my career?” I’m excited to see what’s gonna happen with that. Meaning, I’m excited to start seeing openly gay actors play straight. I would be excited to play James Bond, for instance. And by the way, I’ve had some training in Lebanon.

When I was a teenager I really had to sell it to make people think I was straight. I had to have a girlfriend, I had to befriend straight boys to look like a badass. I really pulled it off. The reason I’m so convincing playing straight roles is because I did that in Lebanon with my family.

And you’d play a straight James Bond, not a gay one?

I would play a straight James Bond because I think it would be a big statement that an openly gay actor is playing a straight iconic figure. That’s more challenging for the world. I think, for me, I’m interested in playing the roles that would challenge the world’s thoughts and perspectives about each other. That’s the most important thing for me: to really change the conversation.

As editor of Q Syndicate, the LGBTQ wire service, Chris Azzopardi has interviewed a multitude of superstars, including Cher, Meryl Streep, Mariah Carey and Beyoncé. His work has also appeared in The New York Times, Vanity Fair, GQ and Billboard.

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Yvie Oddly Takes the Virtual Stage with Jaida Essence Hall in Werq the World’s Pride Castle

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hat happens when eight drag queens are released from isolation to spend pride weekend together in a castle? Find out Saturday, June 27th when Yvie Oddly and Jaida Essence Hall star in the highly anticipated third edition of the ‘Werq The World’ Live Streams, Pride Castle. Hosted by trans activist Candis Cayne, the show will feature performances by RuPaul’s Drag Race favorites Heidi N Closet, Raja, Naomi Smalls, Kim Chi, and Plastique -- plus an over-the-top spectacular finale with all of them! We spoke with Yvie Oddly from her Colorado home.

What do you have in store for Pride Castle?

I wanted to use Pride Castle to do two things.

First and foremost, I’ll be paying homage to the struggles and the journey of QPoC’s in our fight for freedom and equality. But I am a drag queen so of course I bring some fashion, flash, and fun for all the kidses.

Is it exciting to be back on stage?

It is so thrilling to hit the stage again. I miss the camaraderie of hanging out backstage and exchange of energy when you’re performing for people rather than a camera. So I look forward to feeling that again, How would you describe your time in quarantine?

My time in quarantine has actually been really busy. It’s given me the opportunity to craft a lot more of my visions from scratch and explore different aspects of drag, all while giving my body some long overdue rest.

What are your thoughts on the BLM movement?

If you’re not actively supporting the Black Lives Matter movement, then you are actively supporting the continued oppression of over 400 years. Donate to organizations, support black artists/businesses/economy, take the battle to your local ballot boxes, and if you’re going to act progressive online, be progressive with your actions.

What is your Pride message to fans this season?

It’s time for our community to truly become as colorfully diverse as the rainbow flag we’ve preached acceptance and inclusivity under for decades. There should be no more kids who visit their first queer space (whether through media, online, or in person) only to be made to feel like they don’t belong because of their skin, shape, color, economic standing, sex or gender expression.

Let’s set the example we represent to the rest of the world and lead in uplifting/empowering our QPoC’s, specifically within the trans community since our entire movement was built off of their backs.

Werq the World: Pride Castle streams live June 27th at 8PM EDT. Pre-sale tickets are $9.99 for a limited time at VossEvents.com. The show will be available for replay for 48 hours after the live event.

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This Is Keith

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his is Keith. He’s my partner, the man I love. He has the most beautiful, toothy smile of any man I know, and it literally lights up the room. Keith is 39 years old, and he’s hilarious! We laugh so much together; I mean constantly cracking each other up.

He is an amazing cook, and he cooks for me quite often. His shrimp and pesto pasta is out of this world.

He even actually cleans the kitchen afterward! He treats me really well and genuinely wants to see me happy, and he goes above and beyond to make that happen.

Keith has a degree in psychology, works for a non-profit organization, and devotes his life to helping homeless, mentally ill men and woman live their lives with dignity and hope. He doesn’t do this work to get rich, as he is woefully underpaid. He does it because he’s a kind, thoughtful, compassionate, and caring human being.

Keith is also a black man living in America.

A while back, Keith came over to my place for dinner and some TV. He said he’d had a stressful week, and I could see it on his face and that he was a little drained. I assumed he was mostly talking about work because working in the field he is in, with almost 500 clients and the circumstances they are in, is emotionally e x h a u s t i n g sometimes. We ate dinner and were watching TV. I can’t remember what we were watching (maybe the news), but he looked at me and said, “people fucking 28 | follow us @ peachatlmag

suck.” I said something like, “aww, don’t be so negative. Not everyone sucks,” and to be completely honest, I was a little annoyed at his negativity. He began to tell me a story about something that happened to him a few days earlier. I began to cringe and become heartbroken for him. I was ashamed for feeling annoyed.

He is the Director of Operations for the non-profit he works for and was driving from one property to another.

He was driving through a white, affluent neighborhood when he sees a man lying on the ground next to a bicycle. Keith immediately pulled over and got out of his car and ran over to see if the man was ok. The man was white and older and said thank you for stopping. He said he had fallen off of his bike and felt pretty banged up. Still lying on the ground with Keith kneeling over him, he began to ask him some questions about how he was feeling, he offered to call an ambulance and if he didn’t want an ambulance did he want help getting up? The man did not want an ambulance but wanted to get up. Just as Keith was beginning to help the man up another car pulled over, and a white woman got out with a phone in her hand, it was unclear if she was filming them, but she was yelling and asking Keith what he was doing. Another car pulls up, and two white men got out and started yelling what are you doing and for Keith not to touch him. www.peachatl.com

Ignoring what the others were saying, Keith asked the man again if he wanted help getting up, and the man recoiled his arm away from Keith and said, “no, don’t touch me.” Keith told me that what immediately ran through his head was the song from Sesame Street, “One of these things is not like the other,” being that Keith is black and they were all white. Without saying a word, Keith let go of the man, got back into his car, and drove away. Who knows what could have happened if he stayed. He wanted to cry, to fight, to scream. He was a kind-hearted human who could not just drive by an injured man lying on the ground and was treated like he was inhuman and was doing harm.

Two days ago, Keith challenged a white, gay man in Facebook private messenger for the way he used the word thug in describing the protests. I won’t post the entire thread because it is very long but will mention some of the things the man said, and even without posting the entire thread, his comments CANNOT be taken out of context because each one stands on its own. The man was somehow justifying his points by sending an unrelated video (had nothing to do with current events) of a young black man punching an older white man. Keith asked him what the video had to do with anything. His grammar makes some of the responses difficult to understand, but here are some of his DIRECT QUOTES to being challenged:

“You sound like an angry black man”

“Have you looked at any statistics how many AfricanAmericans have killed white people by robbing down and raping them by shooting them way more”

“Do you see the white community going out and destroying their stuff no we don’t do that and the majority of my black friends would never do that because they’re rich and educated”

“I’m not white privileged at all! 70% of my friends are black”

“White privilege is usually attached to being a racist”

“You don’t even know me and you’re very upset right now and I don’t think you’re thinking clearly because I wouldn’t hurt you and that way I wouldn’t do anything to you to hurt you”

Followed by….

“and there is nothing in this conversation that I am ashamed of I said nothing wrong so there you have a nice life to because it sounds like you’re having a pretty shitty one”

Every one of those comments is disgusting to me.

Now, keep in mind, this is one side of the conversation.

Keith mentioned ways he should teach himself about racism, perhaps some books. He told him he was passively racist (although it looks like very overt racism to me), told him he might just post the thread so his black friends could see this. All in all, Keith did what I could not have done. Keith didn’t tell the man to seriously go fuck himself or worse.

After being treated this way, day in and day out for your entire life, with having legitimate fear of going for a jog by yourself without taking a firearm, living with the fear that if you get pulled over for not wearing a seatbelt, you could end up DEAD, when the color of your skin is being weaponized, how is it possible to not be angry, resentful and fed up?! How is it possible to not live with individual and collective trauma-induced anxiety?

You are willfully ignorant when you dismiss the anger and despair of black men and women in American with “You’re just an angry black man!”. Your white privilege allows you to not even LISTEN to the constant fear of being black in America without getting defensive or your panties in a wad and making it all about you!

Black Americans don’t get to ignore what’s happening to them and their communities.

Hey white people, please open your hearts, minds, ears, and eyes. Allow yourself to be teachable and LEARN about racism and its subtle and not so subtle systems that continue to oppress black America. There are dozens of books on this topic. All white people benefit from the systems of racism that have been set up by WHITE PEOPLE. We all need to take a really good look at ourselves and ask am I a racist or an anti-racist.

There is no in-between.

I love you, Keith, and I’m sorry you have to live these types of things on a daily basis. I promise I will never stop using my white privilege to make other white people hear what’s happening to you and every other black person in America.

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Georgia Equality’s At the Intersections The discussion series is hosted by Georgia Equality and will touch upon subjects about celebrating diversity and the intersection of the LGBTQ+ and Latinx communities.

Wednesday, June 24, 6 – 7 pm Live via Georgia Equality’s Facebook Page

Virtual Kickoff for Team AID Atlanta AIDS Walk Atlanta is virtually here. Join AID Atlanta for a virtual kickoff party and get all of the updates for the 2020 event. Due to the ongoing pandemic, there will be some changes!

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The G8yties 80’s Dance Party The Gayties Party is back! All your favorite 80’s dance hits and music videos on the big-screen TVs all night long!

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As your friend, I feel obligated to let you know that that remark was racist Is the person’s race relevant to the story?

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SAGITTARIUS (NOV. 22 - DEC. 21) You’re so focused on the big picture that you don’t see the stuff right under your feet that keeps tripping you up. This affects how you deal with men. You’re so fixated by Mr. Dreamy in the distance that you don’t see Mr. Right standing there in front of you. Narrow your field of vision today. You’ll be amazed at what you can see.

CAPRICORN (DEC. 22 - JAN. 19) Now that you haven’t been able to spend money like before the pandemic, you are learning that being frugal actually suits you well. You’ll be queen of the discounts as you cleverly find ways to save money once all of this is over. Question is, will you resume your lavish lifestyle or will you stay on the modest path?

CANCER (JUN. 21 - JUL. 22)

AQUARIUS (JAN. 20 - FEB. 18)

Maybe it’s because you have been confined to your home, you have a bunch of crazy ideas in your head.

What’s even crazier is that people like them, and are giving you the resources to start developing them.

Jump on this excellent opportunity, and follow through.

Sometimes crazy is just another word for innovative.

You’ll be like a space-walking astronaut today, floating freely through the cosmos. The feeling of singularity and freedom will give you a Messiah Complex, and you may want to untether yourself from the mothership to be one with the universe. Don’t do that. Can you hear me, Major Tom?

LEO (JUL. 23 - AUG. 22)

PISCES (FEB. 19 - MAR. 20)

Today will be chaotic with no rules of right and wrong, so brace yourself to face an online stand-off even over the smallest squabble. You have the ability to step in and restore a little calm and order – even though it may seem like daunting task. Your time in lockdown has taught you to enter conflict with a level head.

Make yourself a good dinner today. A healthy and organic meal will do wonders for the waistline, and give you the peace of mind of knowing you won’t feel like a blimp coming out of isolation. So rattle those pots and pans, set the table with candles and the good china and find someone to share it with at a social distance.

VIRGO (AUG. 23 - SEP. 22)

ARIES (MAR. 21 - APR. 19)

Even though you can’t travel far, you feel the urge to experience something foreign today. Luckily, you don’t have to head to exotic places to experience the exotic, because the world is in your town – and now that places are opening up, you can slowly start to satisfy your wanderlust. Just be safe and wear a damn mask!

Careful with finances today. Hard work and saving money while quarantining has paid off nicely, and you’ll be tempted to spend. Go ahead and reward yourself. In the past you’ve been stung by impulse buying, so spend your money on something sensible.

LIBRA (SEP. 23 - OCT. 22)

TAURUS (APR. 20 - MAY 20)

Houseguests are likely in your future -- you can expect a ‘We’re coming to visit!’ text soon. Whether they’re family or a good acquaintance, be graciously hospitable, and open your home that has been closed down for strangers for months now. It’s time to open up to the world again, and you will be rewarded for being a perfect host.

Flattery will get you everywhere today, as you find that handing out compliments will open many doors for you. But it won’t take long for people to figure out that all your grandstanding amounts to little more than serious butt-kissing. Then those doors will be hitting you in your own butt as you leave.

SCORPIO (OCT. 23 - NOV. 21)

GEMINI (MAY 21 - JUN. 20)

You feel like you’re in a game of Mario Brothers today, ambushed at every turn and forced to make acrobatic escapes from tight situations with daring aplomb. And that’s just grocery shopping! Now that restrictions are easing up, you seem to be the only one taking precautions, so keep your head down and keep it up.

You’ll be the one better off in a couple of months.

Don’t sidestep issues today, especially in your relationship. Face them head-on, even if it leads to a dust-up. Out of chaos comes order, and sometimes a little squabble is needed to clear the air. Work through your problems as adults, and see it as a growing process.

Trouble in the love department? With sex? Or just people in general? Send us your queries, questions, and problems, and you’ll get answers served straight up and with a little ice.

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hen I came out, I was mainly a top.

Then, I met this guy who was very wellhung, who proceeded to turn me on to bottoming – I actually got so into it that I didn’t top for years even after we stopped seeing each other. Maybe it’s because of the isolation that I’m now feeling like topping again, but after experiencing what spots a really big d**k can hit, I am suddenly very self-conscious about my own average-sized erection. I even had problems getting properly hard when I invited my ‘iso sex buddy’ over – and he’s a very willing bottom! I have never gotten any negative feedback, but I find myself doubting if I can ever please a man like that. Please help me get out of this negative loop!

Sincerely In-Between Size Queen Dear In-Between Size Queen The first thing you need to do – like your sphincter when you met that big dom-top – is to relax! Try and flip your argument around for a minute: Although you enjoy getting it from a well-endowed guy, I bet you still find a lot of pleasure getting fucked by someone who matches you in size. So you know from experience that size doesn’t matter as long as he knows what to do. For your feeling of insecurity, put on a cock ring or take ED meds to ease your mind. You also need to bear in mind that although you enjoyed getting those deep spots tickled, all guys aren’t built as you, so they may very well get sent over the edge by what you have to offer. Trust your own experience in this area! When you start hooking up with guys regurlay again after all this is over, don’t go for a pushy bottom, but instead go for a guy who identifies as vers or mostly top – that way, it isn’t potentially all about you topping. Plus, a lot of those guys who rarely top tend to be so hungry for it, that they get off a lot quicker, so you don’t have to perform like a porn star on the first go-around anyway.

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Sincerely First-Timer Dear First-Timer First of all, you need to hold your horses! There are so many open ends and presumptions in this that you could set yourself up for massive failure if you don’t take it a LOT slower. So, you THINK this guy is gay, but you are not sure? What do you base this presumption on? Did he say something or do something that would define him as gay?

Then there is the fact that he asked if you should grab a drink together. If this would be more of a date set-up, hopefully, maybe it would be more than drinks? This could be a co-worker merely wanting to hang out and make a new friend. If he is gay and this was a semi-date situation, there is still no guarantee that this will lead anywhere in terms of hooking up or even getting to that first kiss! Not to mention that hooking up and having sex is still not entirely safe right now because of a deadly virus going around! Just because he is gay, it doesn’t mean that he automatically wants to have sex with you. So the best piece of advice you can take with you into this is taking it slow and don’t presume anything! Make friends with him and see where it takes you.

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