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2023 STEVE CHASE

HUMANITARIAN

AWARDS

UP CLOSE WITH HEADLINER DARREN CRISS

MARCH 2023 | VOLUME 11 ISSUE 3 | THESTANDARDPS.COM | @THESTANDARDPS
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CONTENTS

VOLUME 11, ISSUE 3

ARTIST JOE DIETL’S PERSPECTIVE ON PALM SPRINGS

Volume 11 Issue 3

COVER THE CHASE 2023

DARREN CRISS HEADLINES

COVER DAP HEALTH COMMEMORATES NEW CLINIC

FEATURE

MRNA VACCINE

SHOWS PROMISE IN THE FIGHT AGAINST HIV

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IN DESIGN MAKING MODERN OUT OF VINTAGE

FASHION IN THE CLOSET STELLAR STYLE PIECES FOR SPRING 2023

MUSIC MATHEW V TAKES ON THE GREAT AMERICAN SONGBOOK

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DAP HEALTH’S 2023

STEVE CHASE HUMANITARIAN AWARDS

The Steve Chase Humanitarian Awards, DAP Health’s biggest annual fundraiser, also fondly known as The Chase returns to dazzle donors outdoors at the Palm Springs Convention Center on the evening of Saturday, March 25. Fashion, medicine, and music will take center stage at the starry annual benefit gala.

Created by (and named after) the late, world-renowned interior designer Steve Chase — an early DAP Health donor, volunteer, and board member who worked touring the globe but loved Palm Springs best — this glittery gala is a golden star on the desert’s social calendar.

“Your presence at The Chase, beyond signaling your support for our honorees, shows your continued commitment to DAP Health’s 10,000+ patients and clients,” says DAP Health CEO David Brinkman. “Every attendee can count themselves among the bighearted humanitarians who help remove roadblocks to quality

care and supportive services for their neighbors and friends so that everyone may live life to their fullest potential.”

Though it began as Desert AIDS Project in 1984 to fulfill the needs of people gripped by the HIV crisis, DAP Health — which was recently rebranded and has long been designated as a federally qualified health center (FQHC) — has opened its doors wide to every individual in the Coachella Valley. The advocacybased, culturally competent nonprofit now provides everything from primary, HIV/AIDS, dental, gender-affirming, sexual, women’s, and mental health care to housing, food assistance, recovery, and harm reduction services. No one is ever turned away for inability to pay.

Vision Forward — the agency’s 10-year strategic plan that will see it grow to serve 25,000 patients annually by 2025 — has completed 90% of its fundraising, with more than $6 million still needed to complete the expansion of its physical and programmatic footprint.

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PRESENTING SPONSOR EISENHOWER HEALTH

This year, The Chase is presented by Eisenhower Health, with special thanks to Amazon. “The health care needs of the Palm Springs community present unique challenges,” says Eisenhower Health President and Chief Executive Officer Marty Massiello. “According to recent statistics, the prevalence rate of people living with HIV in Palm Springs is more than 21 times higher than California overall. Eisenhower Health, like our community partner DAP Health, is dedicated to understanding and treating the specific needs of this first generation of people who are aging with HIV. Providing HIV specialists and focusing on both prevention and treatment are vital to advancing health care equality in our community. It’s events like The Chase that help raise awareness, and much-needed funds, to

meet these unique health care advancements that both organizations see among our patients.”

Eisenhower Health has been a supporter of DAP Health for decades. “DAP Health and Eisenhower Health share the same vision and the same values,” continues Massiello. “Our organizations envision a community where everyone has access to the care they need, when they need it. We continue to collaborate and innovate together to meet the expanding needs of our valley. We are proud to support the work DAP Health is doing to redefine what health care is and what it can be in the future — including the many social determinants that inform wellness, including housing, health care access, nutrition, and mental health.”

THE BLUE CARPET AND AMAZON’S AMAZING COCKTAIL PARTY

It all begins with arrivals on the Blue Carpet, which will pay homage to health care workers. Guests will then be granted entrance into Amazon’s Amazing Cocktail Party, where nattily attired attendees will be urged to engage in meaningful conversations while feasting on beverages and hors d’oeuvres accompanied by local music maven DJ Modgirl spinning her tuneful magic.

“We imagine a room filled with local leaders communicating bold ideas that inspire our community to create a better path to health care,” says Amazon’s Head of External Affairs & Community Engagement for The West and Inland Empire David Ambroz.

Explaining the synergy between DAP Health and Amazon, Ambroz continues: “What I saw during my first tour has stayed with me

all year. I noticed that DAP Health approaches innovation the same way Amazon does — we start with our customers and work backward. DAP Health remains patient-centric in its delivery of human care and development of new ways to improve health and wellness.”

Brinkman: “Amazon serves the valley’s residents, business owners, and employees. The organization has made a long-term commitment to our community, having done business here for more than 10 years, and we are grateful for the company’s prioritization of equitable access to health care for everyone. DAP Health looks forward to partnering with Amazon all year long as we increase the positive impact we can make together. As a leader in our community, Amazon has a vision for — and commitment to — our success.”

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THE EVENING’S PROGRAM

To kick off the programmatic portion of the evening — set against stunning sunset views of the majestic San Jacinto mountains — Tony Award nominee (and Drama Desk and Obie winner) Saycon Sengbloh will perform an opening set prior to event co-chairs and DAP Health Board Members Kevin Bass, Lauri Kibby, and Scott Nevins officially welcoming the audience. They’ll then cede the spotlight to Brinkman, whose speech will address the future of health care in the Coachella Valley and the role the organization will play in guaranteeing health care access to every member of our desert community.

Returning host Michael Urie — a veteran of stage, TV, and film who currently stars alongside the legendary Harrison Ford in the new Apple TV+ hit comedy series “Shrinking” — will then shepherd the evening, which will include the bestowing of honors onto Desert Healthcare District & Foundation, its board of directors, and its CEO Dr. Conrado E. Bárzaga (who are jointly receiving the DAP Health Humanitarian Award) and fashion icon and philanthropist Donna Karan (who will be granted the DAP Health Equity Award).

Between those two tributes, Nick Adams — who not only

originated the role of Adam/Felicia in the Tony-winning Broadway music “Priscilla, Queen of the Desert” but co-starred in Hulu’s queerthemed comedy “Fire Island” — will regale the crowd with his crooning. Leading up to the live auction and live appeal, helmed by veteran auctioneer Dale Johannes, two patient videos that exemplify the lifesaving work done by DAP Health will be shown.

Once Urie wraps up the program, headline entertainer Darren Criss — the Emmy-, Golden Globe-, and Screen Actors Guild Awardwinning star of such pop culture sensations as “Glee,” “American Buffalo,” and “The Assassination of Gianni Versace: American Crime Story — will delight the audience with an eclectic musical set. (Read more about Criss in the Q&A, below.)

Lastly, what would The Chase be without its infamous, rollicking afterparty, which will see DJ Modgirl return to her turntables to usher guests onto the dance floor before the night comes to a close?

For more information about this sure-to-be sensational soirée — or to procure tickets — please visit daphealth.org/thechase.

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Darren Criss — the 36-year-old “Glee” alum who won an Emmy, a Golden Globe, and a Screen Actors Guild Award for playing gay serial killer Andrew Cunanan in Ryan Murphy’s “The Assassination of Gianni Versace: American Crime Story” — may be making his professional desert debut when he headlines the 2023 The Chase for DAP Health, but he’s no stranger to the Coachella Valley. Since he reports he has a “significant amount of family in the Palm Desert,” he’s somewhat of a regular. “I’ve got all my favorite spots, let’s put it that way.” He even made it to fellow performer Harry Styles’ last North American “Love On Tour” stop (and impromptu birthday bash) on February 1 at the new Acrisure Arena.

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I chatted with Criss over Zoom while he was in Los Angeles to talk about what we can expect at his show, his love of all things show biz, and his ties to queer audiences.

Tell me a bit about the show you’ll be presenting at The Chase. When I have the opportunity to play events like this, which are very fun — I know The Chase is very big and I’m very thrilled to be there — I’m the court jester. I’m just making sure I’m servicing people having a good time. So, I tend to stray away from deep cuts [in favor of] any smattering of things that people would be familiar with from, Broadway or the stuff I did on “Glee” or just covers in general that

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are fun to play and that kind of seem appropriate for the vibe. I’m notorious about not coming up with a set list until a few days before. I’ll have a band [that night], so I have to be a little more fastidious with the organizing of that. The nice thing about being a musician is you’re your own accompanist. If this was just me, I wouldn’t have an answer for you. Maybe about an hour before I went on stage — ’cause I would go to the party, kind of get a vibe from people, have a couple drinks — I’d go, “OK, I think I get the playlist,” and then I’d just do it… I’d just show up and try to make people happy. You can quote me on that.

Acting, singing, or songwriting and producing — what would you say is your favorite?

That’s a great question, because usually the question is, “Which one do you consider yourself?” And my answer is, they’re all the same because they’re all connected. They’re all storytelling. It’s just different tailoring. Different dress codes. But it’s the same party, the same venue….

You know, I’ve been very lucky, where I’ve gotten to do everything. I will say the most fulfilling would probably have to be songwriting…. Songwriting and producing probably consume most of my soul.

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Talking acting, is it film, TV, or theatre?

Nice work if you can get it. Listen, I’m a mercenary. I’ll be very happy to have the opportunity to work in any of those fields if they invite me to the party. Lucky me. And I’m always grateful and cherish every opportunity that comes my way. Obviously, I come from the theatre, so it kind of has my heart and soul because there is an immediacy to it. So, yeah, that might be the leading player on the field.

Between “Glee,” Ryan Murphy, and Broadway, you clearly have a lot of queer fans. Thoughts?

I think the simple answer is I’ve always felt so privileged to be included at what I deem to be the cool kids table. And that’s not me trying to be charming or sucking up to a certain demographic. I’ve spent a lifetime chasing my heroes, wanting to have the people I think are cool think I’m cool. And I’ve worked very hard for that. I’ve educated myself. I’ve tried to cultivate my life so that people I respect might go, “Hey, this kid ain’t so bad.” And a huge [number], if not the majority, of those people come from the queer community. I feel very privileged to have anybody’s attention, much less that of a community of people I think are rad. I’m just so pleased to have a seat of the table, and I hope that my conversation is interesting enough to hold their attention and to be worthy of their time.

As you know, The Chase is DAP Health’s largest annual benefit, and the organization began in 1984 as Desert AIDS Project. How have HIV and AIDS touched your life personally?

I was born in the eighties, raised in the nineties, in San Francisco. I’m from a very, very queer city during a very troubled time that didn’t see everybody survive. People’s uncles were dying. I was a little boy. You’d notice, and you’d go, “Wait, what’s going on?” But it’s something that didn’t really hit me until much later in life. When you’re old enough to understand and realize, “Holy shit, that was a pretty insane time.” I’m very lucky because I’m of a generation that got to benefit from the slow de-stigmatization and more healthy conversations around HIV and AIDS. The men and women in my circle who are living with it, when we talk about the sort of dark days of AIDS in the United States, they and I are just supremely aware of the people upon whose shoulders we get to live our day-to-day life. I consider myself very, very lucky.

Well said. Shifting gears to a lighter subject, The Chase can be quite the fashionista extravaganza. So, here’s the most important question: Have you picked out your outfit?

Oh, girl. Um, no. [Laughs] And I’m not proud about it. I gotta get on it. Thanks for reminding me. I gotta get a set list together and an outfit. It’s literally the two things that are required of me. And I don’t have either one right now.

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DAP UPDATE

DAP HEALTH’S NEW ORANGE CLINIC OFFICIALLY COMMEMORATED

On the evening of Wednesday, February 15, some 75 invitees attended the formal ribbon-cutting of DAP Health’s new Orange Clinic, which is devoted to sexual wellness and housed in the Annette Bloch CARE Building at the main Palm Springs headquarters.

The occasion marked yet another important milestone for Vision Forward, the organization’s 10-year strategic plan that will see it grow to serve 25,000 patients a year by 2025 thanks to expanded medical, dental, and mental health clinics and a new on-campus affordable housing complex that will add 60 units at Vista Sunrise II to the existing 81 units at Vista Sunrise.

As guests enjoyed cocktails and hors d’oeuvres provided with compliments of major donor Jerry Keller’s Lulu California Bistro, DAP Health CEO David Brinkman took center stage first, announcing that 90% of Vision Forward’s required funding has been amassed, but stressing that $6 million remains to be raised.

Brinkman went on to thank not only the late, great Annette Bloch and her daughter Linda Lyon — who together bequeathed a total of $4 million to the effort — but other major campaign patrons such

as Desert Care Network, Mark Adams and the Ridgeway-Adams Community Center, Dorothy and Mel Lefkowitz (in memory of Keller’s wife, Barbara), Steve Tobin and Johnny Krupa of the Grace Helen Spearman Charitable Foundation (whose donation endowed the Orange Clinic reception area), Mike Feddersen and Tom McClay (who funded the Blue Clinic lobby), DAP Health Board Chair Patrick Jordan, Board Secretary Mark Hamilton and Juan Francisco (who gave to establish the café that will reside in the future Tenet Health Pavilion), Charles Robbins and Damon Romine (benefactors of Exam Room 1 in the Orange Clinic), Board Vice Chair Lauri Kibby, Board Member Kevin Bass and Brent Bloesser, Paul Kowal, Keith Kincaid and Chris Harms, DAP Health Chief Financial Officer Judy Stith, and Lulu’s Keller.

“From Day One, demand has been high and so has patient satisfaction,” continued Brinkman, speaking specifically to sexual wellness needs in the Coachella Valley — including free HIV and STI testing as well as prevention services such as PrEP and PEP. “But one thing was missing — a permanent home. A suitable home. A home that says everyone is welcome and everyone deserves to be cared for in a clean, professional, and dignified environment.”

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Orange Clinic Nurse Practitioner Anna Daymon spoke more to that point when she related the story of a transgender patient, Erica, who is living with HIV and who had refused to seek care in the past for fear of attitudes of unenlightened health care professionals. “Erica immediately connected with our Orange Clinic staff, speaking openly with our nurses Chris and Johnny without embarrassment,” said Daymon. “She was shocked by the support that DAP Health’s team provided, which included transportation and insurance assistance. What she realized is that staying in care is actually really easy when one has the right team caring for you. At DAP Health, we accept all people — sex workers, male, female, and trans alike. They all come to the Orange Clinic because they know they’re going to receive competent, compassionate care without stigma or judgment.”

Before noting that in 2022, 5000 patients were cared for at the Orange Clinic — free of cost, as well — Daymon said many patients refer to themselves as “bad” or “stupid” for their actions. “Shaming themselves, just for living,” she revealed. “I simply say, ‘No’ to shame. It’s just sex. You’re just living your life and you’re taking care of yourself and others by being here today. And we got you.”

Charles Robbins — who has spent most of his life working in LGBTQ+ and HIV/AIDS nonprofit spaces — spoke last, adding to Daymon’s message on behalf of himself and of his husband, Damon Romine. “DAP Health is sex-positive,” he affirmed. “The staff is sexpositive. We know that in the Coachella Valley, and especially here in Palm Springs, there’s a lot of sex going on and we love it! It’s healthy, and we want to make sure people are not only taking care of themselves but of the community. That’s why coming in and getting regular testing and treatment is such an important activity. The fact that they can do so in a stigma-free and beautiful environment — that’s why my husband, Damon, and I decided to make an investment. We believe in this community. The work the staff does here is making a difference, making an impact in people’s lives. That’s why we made a gift. We’re just happy to be part of the family.”

It was at that point that Robbins, Krupa, and Tobin took giant orange scissors and — flanked by Brinkman, staff members, and other donors — cut the long orange ribbon, proving that, at DAP Health, everyone is part of the family.

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mRNA VACCINE TECHNOLOGY: A PROMISING IDEA FOR FIGHTING HIV

By the end of November 2021, scientists estimate that mRNA COVID-19 vaccines had prevented at least 1 million deaths, 10 million hospitalizations, and 36 million SARS-CoV-2 infections in the United States.1 It took less than a year to develop these vaccines, thanks to the hundreds of researchers who had been working on mRNA vaccine technology for decades before the COVID-19 pandemic. That foundation of knowledge supported the creation of safe, effective mRNA vaccines to help control the spread of COVID-19, protect people from severe symptoms, and reduce the risk of death.

Now scientists aim to harness the power of mRNA technology to fight other diseases, including HIV. HIV is a long-term viral infection that destroys the body’s immune system. Since HIV was discovered more than 40 years ago, the virus has taken between 25 million and 42 million lives. No cure or preventive vaccine exists, although treatment can greatly lower the risk of life-threatening infections, prolong life, and prevent transmission of the virus to others. Some medicines called pre-exposure prophylaxis (PrEP), if taken regularly, can reduce the risk of getting HIV.

DEVELOPING mRNA HIV VACCINES

Mary Marovich, M.D., DTMH, FACP, leads efforts at the National Institute of Allergy and Infectious Diseases (NIAID) to develop HIV vaccines. Despite steady work on vaccines and tremendous scientific insights into how the virus works, progress using traditional vaccine strategies has been slow.

“HIV is very challenging in terms of vaccine development,” Marovich explained. “mRNA technology is giving us new hope for creating vaccines to fight HIV.”

In March 2022, the HIV Vaccine Trials Network (HVTN) launched HVTN 302, a study that’s testing three experimental mRNA HIV vaccines designed and developed with support from NIAID. Each of the 108 study volunteers was vaccinated with one of the three experimental vaccines, given at varying doses and followed by booster doses. Scientists collected samples of blood and, in some cases, of lymph nodes to check immune responses to the mRNA vaccines. Medical teams closely monitored the volunteers’ health.

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When the trial ends in mid-2023, scientists hope to know enough about the vaccines’ safety and the body’s immune responses to decide whether to proceed with larger trials. If the mRNA vaccines stimulate immune responses against HIV, more studies will be needed to learn whether the vaccines can prevent HIV infection.

Overcoming challenges

“HIV has many tricks up its sleeve, making it hard to develop an effective vaccine using standard methods,” explained Marovich. “As one of the fastest-mutating viruses, HIV has millions of variants. By comparison, the number of SARS-CoV-2 variants of concern or variants of interest causing the COVID-19 pandemic is about a dozen [as of December 2022].”

Other factors also limit the usefulness of existing methods of vaccine development.

“Old-school methods of producing experimental HIV vaccines using whole, inactivated viruses are not safe enough to study, so instead specific complex proteins have to be stabilized and

manufactured — a process that often takes years and is very challenging and costly,” Marovich said. “The process of creating mRNA vaccines does not require cell culture or animal material. The manufacturing process stays about the same regardless of the sequence of the mRNA. By using mRNA technology, we can make new vaccine products quickly, in a matter of weeks or months.” Scientists can then test the mRNA vaccines safely and efficiently.

“We hope that mRNA vaccines can stimulate the immune system to create powerful antibodies that neutralize many strains of HIV,” Marovich explained. mRNA vaccines may generate a more effective immune response than previous vaccine designs, based on the immune response generated by COVID-19 vaccines.

“Most likely, to provide long-lasting protection from HIV, a vaccine strategy will require a variety of vaccines, boosters, and perhaps even time-release elements to stimulate different parts of the immune system,” Marovich said.

For more info visit www.hivinfo.nih.gov

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BOOK REVIEW ALWAYS OVERBOOKED

Check one from each category.

Pick carefully. Take one from Column A, one from Column B, or choose what’s behind Door Number One or Two. Immediate or long-term, when it comes to your future and your happiness, as in “Choosing Family” by Francesca T. Royster, it’s good to have options.

The whole idea hit her like a slap.

Francesca Royster had never particularly wanted to be a mother. She’d dated boys in school, decided that she liked women better, and eventually came out to her family. No, motherhood wasn’t on her radar –and yet, when she saw a sleepy toddler wrapped in her mother’s arms at an airport, Royster had the sudden need to tuck that little head beneath her chin.

She never discussed it with her partner, Annie. The urge “receded to the edges of my thoughts,” she says, and they traveled instead, hit middle-age together, cared for sibling’s kids, and joked about “breeders.” She loved the life they’d built as queer women with community, what Royster calls “queer time.” Would she lose that if there was a baby involved?

She and Annie split, took time to think about the future, but came together nightly to talk and plan. Royster spoke to the “Mothers” –ancestors and goddesses from other cultures – and she thought of the kids near her hometown of Chicago who needed families. Her female forebears had raised children, their own and others’, in situations that were fluid. Surely, two queer women could, too. And so, she and Annie applied to adopt and after a nail-biting wait and a near-loss, they brought home their daughter, Cece, who became a fierce, smart, loving little girl who’s cherished by the family that her mothers have assembled.

“I... know that there might come a day when Cece won’t feel as comfortable with this motley group that is our chosen family,” Royster writes. But “...by living our lives as truly as we can... we can change the world that she inherits.”

Not that it will affect your enjoyment at all, but the subtitle of “Choosing Family” is a bit confusing. This book is more about “queer motherhood” than it is about “Black resistance” and that’s okay. The best, most meditative, most meaningfully worded parts of author Francesca Royster’s story are in becoming a mother to her child, and in tales of Royster’s own mother and other steely female ancestors who left their prints on her.

Resistance? No, that’s irresistible, especially to anyone pondering raising children.

Anchored by the turning of the word “family” upside down and reclaiming it from white hetero-normalcy, then, readers are led –indeed, treated – to what Royster and her partner created B.C. (before child) and afterward. Theirs is a made family that includes blood relatives, absent relatives, and relatives-because-we-say-so. That’s icing on a work-in-progress cake for readers who are considering doing the same thing, formal or otherwise. “Choosing Family” is also for those who’ve done this work, created the family they want, and it’s all good. Picket fence and two-point-five kids or not, check this.

“Choosing Family: A Memoir of Queer Motherhood and Black Resistance” by Francesca T. Royster c.2023, Abrams Press $26.00 264 pages.

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MAKING MODERN OUT OF VINTAGE HOW PALM SPRINGS CHANGED THE WORLD OF DESIGN

Once again, another Modernism Week has passed with great fanfare and aplomb. This year in particular, Palm Springs saw record crowds of attendees. Even the unusually cold and wet weather couldn’t stop the parties, tours and open-air bus junkets to see the best of midcentury modern architecture and products.

We here at Foley & Stinnette Interior Design just happen to be in the midst of 2 separate midcentury home design projects. Each home is noteworthy and, in both cases, the entire house is being renovated and updated. This combination of projects and exposure to ideas, theories and products, both new and old midcentury, got me thinking about making old new again.

The truth is, this idea of creating something new and fresh, that still pays homage to the original architecture is what we do every day as a design firm. So, you ask, what is our approach? How do we make the old, new again? No matter the style or age of a home, I believe firmly in, living with the past, not in it. The way forward is not necessarily looking back but, understanding where we came from to be able to make choices today for better living.

In the case of midcentury design, we do not do “kitch”. In my opinion, It is the death knell of good and lasting design. I will always avoid the obvious, in favor of the personal and unique. One can still be true to a specific design style, without having to live in a bubble of dated design.

When considering the updating and modernization of midcentury design, I begin with specifying the very best in technology. The good news is that those elements are easily hidden. You can have that strong Wi-Fi and you can have heating and cooling that are both highly effective and efficient. You can have windows and doors that are strong, beautiful, safe and energy efficient. A new roof, new windows/doors, new insulation, new water lines and wiring are paramount, if not mandatory for these homes to ensure another generation of life. Convenience, efficiency and safety are the first priority to renovating midcentury design in the desert.

You must realize that, in the case of the desert midcentury house, they were designed as secondary homes. The materials and construction standards of that time are not appropriate for today.

To truly renovate and restore a midcentury here in the Valley, you must start from scratch, or at least from the frame. You will find, as many have, repeatedly, that half-efforts in this realm of renovation and design will not spell success.

How do you begin? Where do you start? The answer is not all that difficult but, as with all successful design, it is imperative that you begin with a clear plan. A plan based in reality first, with desires second is the way to ensure a meaningful conclusion.

I have a simple budget check list you can apply to this situation, and it works equally well for any type of architecture and design style. A fool-proof plan does not exist but, a well thought out scheme will greatly mitigate those costly surprises that will undoubtedly crop up.

• The first reality is true for all clients; there is never enough money on the table for everything you want. It is simply a fact of life. Be clear on what you want to achieve and what you must address, first.

• Any plan you create can be executed in as many phases as you and your pocketbook require. Planning is the key to moving forward.

• When creating a plan for your project, we divide the budget into 2 parts; the decorative budget and the renovation budget. it is important to separate the two because, when considering your investment and resale, the decorative items are those things you can take with you, while the renovation items are those things attached to the property and cannot be separated from the house.

• During the creation of the decorative portion of the budget, be careful to list all items separately. For example, window treatments are multi-layered. There is fabric, construction, hardware, trim and installation involved in the total cost of those items. Leaving any piece off will cause financial strain overall.

• When creating a renovation budget don’t forget to list tasks, such as demolition and removal of debris, separately. Gone are the days of you or your contractors going to your local dump to discard material. Our Valley municipalities charge by volume and/or weight of refuse. That additional cost can easily be overlooked… until you get the bill!

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• Of course, I recommend using a professional design firm, like ours to avoid costly mistakes and missteps.

Overall, it is important to take your time and to think through both your desires and your requirements. Putting that information on paper creates a record to review and refer to throughout the process and also keeps everyone, from client to contractor to delivery person, on the same page.

Creating a home is more than just shopping for pretty things… though we all love that! Building a home that speaks to who you are, soothes your soul and inspires a life well-lived is as much about

fantasy, as it is reality. Living well is personal, it takes thought and effort but, what else in your world could be more important than creating your own place of refuge, pleasure, comfort and pride?

Live Well, Designer Dann

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We want to thank our exceptional care teams for your hard work, dedication and compassion which, once again, have earned Eisenhower Health recognition from U.S. News & World Report. In addition to being named a Best Regional Hospital, we were recognized for high quality care in the following categories:

• Aortic Valve Surgery

• Chronic Obstructive Pulmonary Disease (COPD)

• Colon Cancer Surgery

• Diabetes

• Heart Attack

• Heart Bypass Surgery

• Heart Failure

• Hip Fracture

• Hip Replacement

• K idney Failure

• K nee Replacement

• Lung Cancer Surgery

• Pneumonia

• Spinal Fusion

• Stroke

We look forward to another year of caring for the Coachella Valley and to adding new treatments and services to enhance your care and comfort. Our gratitude goes out to the many community members who choose Eisenhower to help them get well and stay well. Thank you, one and all — you are the inspiration for what we do.

Learn more about our accreditations and recognitions at EisenhowerHealth.org/Awards

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FASHION

IN THE CLOSET: STELLAR STYLE PIECES FOR SPRING 2023

The purge is upon us. Not the one that results in the loss of limbs and life, but rather the return of annual spring cleaning, the collective load-shedding opportunity to rid closets of outdated and unwanted clothing and accessories. Those free spaces won’t stay unoccupied for long, however. Update your wardrobe – and your attitude – with these easy-breezy style picks for spring.

ORTTU LISBON PANTS

What would you wear to a boozy, dramatic brunch at the fictional White Lotus resort? Orttu’s casual-but-smart woven Lisbon pants in mint and white stripes are a solid choice for all the rich-prick shenanigans you’re bound to get up to. $189, Orttu.com

INFAMOUS SWIM BOARD SHORTS

Put a conch shell up to your ear in Infamous Swim’s mid-length Iris trunks – featuring blue dots, lines, shapes and stripes in a printed pattern inspired by the Mediterranean Sea – and you can almost hear Santorini’s sirens’ songs. $40, InfamousSwim.com

DUKE DRESS SNEAKER

A minimalist take on the classic crispy sneaker, Ace Marks’ Italian leather Duke low-tops – in a light, bright colorway like champagne –are the perfect pairing for dressed down vacay ’fits with zero danger of looking underdressed. $224, AceMarks.com

OMHU: X WAYKINS WATCH

You’ll make more than one statement sporting Waykins’ sunny Recapture watch in audacious yellow (and featuring a vegan leather inlay), which, with the help of Danish beach-cleaning org OMHU:, repurposes pollutant sea plastic so compromised marine life can swim another day. $147, Trendhim.co.uk

LIGHTNING BOLT BLAZER

Shazam yourself into serving an all-eyes-on-you look in Love Khaos’ shimmery, satin-lined lightning bolt blazer, adorned with

reversible gold-and-black sequins that change color when touched and complemented with texture-contrasting velvet lapels, elbow pads and front-pocket detailing. $633, LoveKhaos.com

KHARI RUBY SUNGLASSES

Seeing the world through literal rose-colored lenses in the Italian-made, Mazzucchelli acetate Khari ruby oversized sunglasses from British-based Kimeze won’t change the outcome but it might just improve your outlook. $305, Kimeze.us

BARIO NEAL SHIELD BAND

Less is more when it comes to warm-weather accessorizing, and Bario Neal’s handmade shield ring with blue enamel relies on centuries-old craft making to produce a graphic, masculine band that transitions from poolside cocktails to patio tapas without looking like you tried too hard. $570, Bario-Neal.com

SCORPION BROOCH

If “I’m the problem, it’s me” were a wearable, it’d be Orttu’s striking scorpion brooch, handmade with gold and silver embroidery thread and silver bugle beads, and officially the least toxic thing about you. $150, Orttu.com

GROUNDED PEOPLE KICKS

There’s a waitlist for Grounded People’s PETA-approved, vegan Jundiai lightweight high-tops, but registering is a no-brainer: the machine-washable, fair-wage kicks are comprised of second-life recycled cotton canvas and laces, come with a five-year warranty, and each sale supports ethical causes. $229, GroundedPeople.com

LAMBSKIN BOMBER JACKET

Swap your go-to denim jacket for the supple Blue Barclay lambskin bomber by Jack Victor, ideal for traveling lighter on a getaway weekend with its perfectly proportioned fit, half-jet side pockets, invisible internal pocket, and sophisticated suede composition. $1,298, JackVictor.com

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WHEN RAPE GOES BEYOND PSYCHOLOGICAL EFFECTS INTO THE PHYSICAL REALM

Warning: This article is not for the faint-hearted, so please tread lightly, dear readers. It does however have a silver lining.

Forty years ago, I was raped at gunpoint in Chicago. I was 27 years old.

We’ve all seen many programs and read articles about the psychological effects of rape and of course depending on the level and type of rape have become familiar with some of the mental, emotional as well as physical effects known as P.T. S. D., or Post Traumatic Stress Disorder.

I had P.T.S.D., for many years and have used various techniques to rid myself of its deep talons in me. I have been in years of therapy to help me deal with the consequences of that night. I, ironically, was coming home from a therapy session that night perhaps making me even more vulnerable.

I wrote about the circumstances surrounding the rape in my book which included a statement that I made shortly after the initial shock wore off. I said, “I do not want this rape to be a reason for me to hate men,” and I meant it.

During the rape, I was taught an eye-opening lesson that my boyfriend at the time had been raping me every night he came home drunk and forced me to have sex with him. After the rape, I believed that I and would continue to have and enjoy sex.

But, the rape did greatly affected my trust of men. The very first person I felt somewhat safe with was actually a gay man, who turned out to be bi-sexual. I evidently felt so safe with him, that I got pregnant, but was not prepared to face motherhood, so I chose to have an abortion.

What I did not know nor discover until a few months ago is that I may have dealt with the psychological components of my rape but I did not deal with the physical aspects of it. Let me explain.

As a younger woman, I experimented with sex. I had one boyfriend, who not only sexually abused me but physically abused as well. At the same time, I trusted him enough to try lots of different types of positions and possibilities when it came to sex. This was back in the mid-70’s and if sex toys were sold, we did not know where or how to buy them so we tried lots of unusual items to reach orgasm.

As that young women, I was one of many women whom ejaculate or “squirt” when reaching orgasm. (Statistically, it’s believed that 1054% of women ejaculate) No one ever talked about this in those days and so I think that he and I assumed that it was urine or that he had ejaculated a larger load. I never thought to ask my gynecologist about it and because it only seemed to happen with the “abuser,” I didn’t really think much about it, that is, until the recent past.

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I met a man who is very special and unique and whom I feel safe with. It has been 9 years since my divorce and I have been almost totally celibate by choice and lack of straight men who could deal with the likes of me. But, this particular man is different and is as open and honest as I am. The level of trust that I feel from him ended up translating into my body, allowing me to relax and thoroughly enjoy myself sexually.

Evidently I was more relaxed than I have been in 40 years! I knew I was having a wonderful time, but truly had no idea that up until that time I had been psychologically suppressing my Skene glands, which are thought to be female prostate glands which release the ejaculate. According to scientists, the fluid that is squirted is not urine in smell or taste and upon examination of the fluid, one can find prostate-specific antigen, or PSA! Who knew? Maybe I really am a gay man in a women’s body!LOL!

So when this fluid flowed from me in copious amounts and the realization hit, I was beyond words because I did not know what I has been missing. I literally had flashbacks of my early experiences with the abuser, remembering the large, wet spots left on the sheets after sexual intercourse. The beautiful part is that I was also able to share that with my man and he got it and chose to hold me while I told him

the significance of what had just happened.

Through lots of therapy and finally now, trust, a part of me has opened up. Maybe now I am releasing many years worth of fluid that may account for the profound physical symptoms I have experienced beginning in peri-menopause and finally, menopause since the early 2000’s. Perhaps my hot flashes will finally minimize, allowing me to once again deal normally with the heat of both Palm Springs and World Gym!

I wonder how many other victims of rape or sexual abuse have experienced similar physical losses without appreciating the depth of the abuse. I pray that now that this part of me is once again opening up and that I will be free to experience sex and intimacy on much deeper levels.

I hope this recall and telling of such an intimate experience will allow some of you to learn and grow from, for of course that is always my wish and intention.

My very best to you all,

Jill

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ARTIST JOE DIETL’S PERSPECTIVE ON PALM SPRINGS

Local artist, Joe Dietl, has a brand-new show of original pieces inspired by life in Palm Springs since moving to town from Los Angeles five years ago. A former comedy actor, known for his work in the successful gay web series, “Where the Bears Are,” Joe has made a new life for himself as an artist in the Coachella Valley.

His new pieces reflect what he views as “Iconic Palm Springs Locales.” His idea of what constitutes “iconic” might differ from those visiting the city, because each locale has special meaning to him, the artist, and the local gay community to which he belongs.

Joe’s large acrylic paintings create a snapshot and tell a story...a glimpse of Palm Springs life with loose detail, light and shadow.

The Opening Cocktail reception is Thursday, March 16th, from 6:00 pm to 9:00 pm at Dietlart Gallery, 4629 Sunny Dunes Rd. Palm Springs, CA 92264.

If you can’t make the reception, this new show will be hanging at Dietlart gallery through the month of May. Schedule an appointment at joe@dietlart.com.

Dietlart Gallery will also be open during the “Desert Open Studios” Tour. See the “My Palm Springs” exhibit and meet artist Joe Dietl on:

Sat. Mar. 18th from 10:00 to 4:00 pm

Sun. Mar. 19th from Noon to 4:00 pm

Sat. Mar. 25th from 10:00 to 4:00 pm

Sun. Mar. 26th from Noon to 4:00 pm

For more information, go to: https://dietlart.com

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LET’S DO THE TIME WARP AGAIN

The Coachella Valley Shadow Cast is thrilled to announce auditions for new cast members for their upcoming second production of The Rocky Horror Picture Show. The auditions will be held on March 11th and 12th from 10am to 2pm at the Palm Springs Cultural Center.

The Coachella Valley Shadow Cast is an all-local troupe dedicated to performing the cult classic The Rocky Horror Picture Show at the Palm Springs Cultural Center’s Historic Camelot Theatre. A Shadow Cast is an ensemble of artists that act out the movie while it is playing; oftentimes dancing and singing/lip-syncing live. They also serve as the catalysts for the audience cues to participate in callbacks and when to use their props.

This is a volunteer effort/performance out of the pure passion that is The Rocky Horror Picture Show. The Coachella Valley Shadow Cast is looking for any individual with a passion for musical theatre and a willingness to commit to a rehearsal schedule. No previous experience necessary.

“We welcome everyone and anyone to come audition for a character role, work as an extra, get theatre experience, or work in makeup or costuming.” said Katrina Storton, director of The Coachella Valley Shadow Cast. “Please be a part of this glorious local community effort!”

The Palm Springs Cultural Center in the Historic Camelot Theatre (2300 E Baristo Rd, Palm Springs, CA 92262)

Saturday, March 11th at 10am-2pm

Sunday, March 12th at 10am-2pm

Callbacks

The Palm Springs Cultural Center in the Historic Camelot Theatre (2300 E Baristo Rd, Palm Springs, CA 92262)

Saturday, March 18th at 10am-2pm

Sunday, March 19th at 10am-2pm

The performances will be Friday, May 26th and Saturday, May 27th at 9pm at The Palm Springs Cultural Center in the Historic Camelot Theatre (2300 E Baristo Rd, Palm Springs, CA 92262).

The Coachella Valley Shadow Cast had their debut during last year’s Thanksgiving weekend. With two packed performances, the raucous shows had audience members dancing in the aisles, throwing props, and yelling call-backs during the cult classic screenings.

For more information, please email Show Director Katrina Storton at kat.storton@gmail.com or call 760-625-3112.

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LGBTQ MEDIA ENTREPRENEUR BRAD FUHR ACQUIRES CHANNEL Q RADIO

LGBTQ media entrepreneur Brad Fuhr has purchased KQPS 103.1 Radio, known in the market as “Channel Q.” The acquisition, which follows Fuhr’s purchase of KGAY Radio in August 2021, expands Brad’s local landscape which began 10 years ago with the wildly successful Gay Desert Guide and digital agency OMGPSP. On Monday, March 6, KGAY and 103.1 FM will begin simulcasting for a brief period, with new programming on the former “Channel Q” commencing Wednesday, March 8.

“Be careful what you wish for,” laughed Fuhr, known to legions of friends, colleagues and fans as a major voice for the LGBTQ+ community and allies in the Coachella Valley. “I’ve wanted for some time to expand and diversify the reach of our current properties to benefit listeners and advertisers. The deal with Audacy is a win, win, win for local media and for consumers.” Under the KGAY PSP Corp umbrella, the new entity will be organized as a California public benefit corporation or “B” Corp. Such companies put purpose over profit with examples like Ben & Jerry’s and Patagonia. The new offerings will allow Fuhr to provide multiple programming streams

including the well-known and popular KGAYPalmSprings.com and 106.5 FM music channel with the new 103.1 FM.

A new format will hit the airwaves at 103.1 FM on Wednesday, March 8th. Fuhr would not reveal the format in advance but alluded to his love of memorable music from decades past as a hint. While programming will not be LGBTQ-specific, Fuhr believes that it will strike a chord with all audiences.

Fuhr came to Palm Springs in 2013 to start GayDesertGuide. LGBT.

Recognizing the decline of “gay” print media, he created the website to bring locals and visitors alike content including a widereaching events calendar, LGBTQ+ business directory, news and a weekly email newsletter. He expanded with a digital marketing agency, OMGPSP, in 2015.

www.KGAYPalmSprings.com

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CHECK OUT THESE 5 ACHIEVABLE GOALS FOR 2023

Some goals aren’t attainable or sustainable for your life. Instead of making lofty promises that are unachievable, start with modest changes that you can accomplish and build upon in years to come. Not sure where to start? Check out these five achievable goals.

1. LEARN OR RESUME A HOBBY

If you don’t have a hobby or have let it go by the wayside, dedicate some time to doing something you enjoy. Hobbies aren’t just activities we do for fun. They can have huge mental and physical health benefits.

According to VeryWell Mind, enjoyable activities can help you reduce stress, lower blood pressure and combat depression. You don’t have to engage in your hobbies every day to reap the benefits. One study showed that engaging in a physical leisure activity for 20 minutes a week helped people feel less fatigued.

Whether you get back into knitting or playing guitar or pick up a new hobby like painting or ballroom dancing, you’re carving out time for yourself that can take your mind off the stresses of everyday life.

2. MOVE YOUR BODY

This year, make it a goal to get your body moving. That doesn’t mean you have to exercise every day for hours at a time. According to the Centers for Disease Control and Prevention, adults need 150 minutes of moderate-intensity activity each week. That may sound like a lot, but it breaks down to 30 minutes a day, five days a week.

Take it slow if you’re new to working out or it’s been a while since you’ve exercised. You can even break up 30 minutes of daily activity into smaller chunks. For example, you can do 10 minutes of brisk walking or aerobic exercises three times a day or 15 minutes twice a day. By breaking up your movement goal into smaller chunks, you can naturally find breaks throughout your day to get moving.

3. INVEST IN YOUR HEALTH

If you want to live a long healthy life, you need to invest in your health. Nicole Avena, Ph.D., Associate Professor of Neuroscience, Mount Sinai School of Medicine and Author of Why Diets Fail, says,

“In addition to a healthy and balanced diet and getting an adequate amount of exercise, it’s important to cover all your bases like adding daily vitamins to your health regimen. Each person’s dietary needs will vary slightly. While most people can get enough from diet alone, others may need to take a supplement, and nowadays, there are many vitamin options for men and women of all ages.” To ensure that you receive essential nutrients, consider taking a daily multivitamin.

4. MINDFULNESS

You’ve probably heard about mindfulness, but do you know what it is and its benefits? Simply put, mindfulness is being aware and fully present in your body, mind and environment. According to the National Institutes of Health, practicing mindfulness can have several positive impacts on your health and well-being, including reducing anxiety and depression, lowering blood pressure and improving sleep.

A popular way to practice mindfulness is meditation, but it’s not the only way. You can practice breathing or grounding exercises, go on a walk or take stock of how your body is feeling in the present moment. Mindfulness practices can be short or long, but to start, you can carve out five minutes a day in the morning or at night to get in touch with your awareness.

5. IMPROVE YOUR FINANCES

According to the American Psychological Association (APA), 72% of adults report feeling stressed about money at least some of the time. While there isn’t a one-size-fits-all plan for improving your financial well-being, there are simple ways to assess your finances and target areas for improvement.

For one month, track all your income and expenses. You can do this by using an expense sheet, or you can download an app to make things easier. Once you know where your money is coming from and where it’s going, you can identify areas where you could be spending less and saving more and set financial goals.

Small changes can add up quickly and turn into life-long habits. Using these five tips, you can invest in yourself now and for years to come.

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_SANTI_ GETS THE FIESTA STARTED

“PerreON,” the debut single from hunky gender-bending artist SANTI_ is a Latino dance anthem that combines house music with reggaeton elements and pays homage to perreo, a way of dancing to reggaeton that simulates having sex. “For Latinos, perreo is a sick ass urban music party,” _SANTI_ explains. “PerreOn is meant to embody that feeling of anticipation we feel all over our bodies when we know we are going out to tear it up at the clubs.”

_SANTI_ recorded ‘PerreON’ in Los Angeles after he learned his shoot with designer Sho Konishi was in the pages of Japan’s Vogue

Magazine. “It was a very happy surprise, and I was feeling like a bad bitch, spitting out verses about how I didn’t need a crown to be a queen. I was high on life and from that joy sprang PerreON!”

_SANTI_ was born and raised in Venezuela by a strong single mother. His father passed away when he was ten. As a child, he recalls writing music and dancing and singing in front of the mirror, dreaming to one day be on stage. “Growing up gay in a machismo country like Venezuela was hard,” he recalls, “but so was life under the dictatorship of Nicolas Maduro.”

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At 18, _SANTI_ escaped the tyranny of Venezuela, immigrating to the USA with only 300 dollars in his pocket. “It was not easy, but my early struggles made me a hard-working hustler.”

His early life is very much reflected in his music today. Many of the original songs on _SANTI_’s soon-to-be-released full-length album touch on his culture and experiences as an immigrant, as well as being a flamboyant kid and misfit.

He is inspired by LGBTQ+ artists like Kim Petras. In fact, _ SANTI_ has recorded his own version of her album, Slut Pop, with his original raps added. “I love everything about Kim Petras and her music,” _SANTI_ explains. “’Treat me like a Slut’ is such a dirty song and speaks so much to who I am. I just thought that the only way it could sound even dirtier was in Spanish!”

His fans on social media agree. So much so that _SANTI_ was encouraged to make five more Spanglish Slut Pop covers. “It’s been fun to put my own personality and take on the tracks,” he says.

Being an independent artist is hard but _SANTI_ has immersed

himself into the whole creative process. In addition to writing all his original music, he shoots and edits his album covers and produces, directs, choreographs and styles his music videos.

For the “PerreON” music video, _SANTI_ wanted to pair the city of Miami with some of the leading urban fashion design houses of today. He wears looks from Patrick Church, Lucas Stowe, Sho Konishi, and FBMT. “Fashion has always been important to me,” _ SANTI_ says. “I love to sew and alter my clothing to express my individualism and to make statements. It’s a way for me to show the world that I can wear dresses, skirts and heels and still be masculine. I can paint my nails and still be sexy as hell.”

His main goal is to be a positive representative for the LGBTQ+ Latino community and to be a voice for all young gays, misfits and weirdos fighting to live life as their true authentic selves.

_SANTI_’s new single, “PerreON,” will be available on Apple Music, Spotify and all digital platforms on March 10.

Follow on Instagram @ _SANTI_

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P!NK RELEASES NINTH STUDIO ALBUM “TRUSTFALL”

Today, critically acclaimed singersongwriter and global pop icon P!NK releases her highly anticipated ninth studio album, TRUSTFALL, out now via RCA Records.

Featuring the hit singles “Never Gonna Not Dance Again” and “TRUSTFALL,” as well as her latest release, “When I Get There,” TRUSTFALL marks some of P!NK’s most vulnerable and exhilarating work yet. Featuring collaborations with Chris Stapleton, The Lumineers, and First Aid Kit, as well as tapping notable songwriters and producers Max Martin, Shellback, Greg Kurstin, FRED, Billy Mann, and more, TRUSTFALL is an exploration of the highs and lows of uncertainty, freedom, and letting go.

To celebrate the album, P!NK appeared on NBC’s TODAY and CBS’ The Late Show with Stephen Colbert, followed by a show takeover special on The Drew Barrymore Show.

“This might be the album I’m most proud of,” says P!NK. “Get in your coziest pair of sweats, grab yourself an hour of self-care, and start on track one. Two ingredients needed: tissues and dance shoes.”

In tandem with its release, P!NK has also announced The TRUSTFALL Tour. Produced by Live Nation, the 14-city tour kicks off on October 12 making stops at arenas across North America, including a date at Madison Square Garden in New York. The fall tour will follow P!NK’s previously announced 2023 Summer Carnival Stadium Tour, which will mark her highly anticipated return to touring with special guests Brandi Carlile and 2022 Hall of Fame inductees

Pat Benatar & Neil Giraldo on select dates. GROUPLOVE and KidCutUp will be special guests across all tour dates.

General ticket sales for The TRUSTFALL Tour started Friday, Feb 24 on LiveNation.com. Tickets for 2023 Summer Carnival Stadium Tour are also on sale now at LiveNation.com

Fans can also purchase VIP Packages, which may include premium tickets, access to the pre-show reception, limited edition lithograph, P!NK carpet entry and photo op & more.

For more information, visit vipnation.com.

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QUEER SINGER MATHEW V TAKES ON THE GREAT AMERICAN SONGBOOK

Today, Vancouver-based queer singer Mathew V announces Anything Goes, a new record that seeks to reframe the assumed heteronormative narratives of the Great American Songbook. Due out April 14 on 604 Records, Anything Goes takes standards by the likes of Cole Porter, George Gershwin, and Henry Mancini and draws out queer perspectives from the elegant imprecision of their timeless lyrics.

“Queer culture, gay history, and jazz music have a lot of parallels,” explains Mathew V. “Jazz music was vilified not just as a genre of music but as a lifestyle that society looked down upon. It was synonymous with sin. This music lives at the intersection of camp, glamor, and showmanship, which are all aspects that inform the very essence of my performance.”

As the most traditional arrangement and delivery on the record, Mathew V’s take on George Gershwin’s “The Man I Love” pushes the boundaries of conventional jazz from the queer perspective. Of the process, Mathew says, “It’s been exciting choosing songs like ‘The Man I Love,’ which a man like me may not have been able to sing when these songs were written,” and adds, “I’m at a place in my career and in my life that I not only want to sing at my highest caliber, but I want that music to come from my heart. I owe that to the little Mathew that was looking for this record all those years ago.”

All throughout Anything Goes, Mathew V speaks out against the vilification of jazz, boldly bringing his thoughts to life with storied tunes such as “Moon River” and “Georgia On My Mind,” each sung from the perspective of a queer man who embodies rebellion, flirtatiousness

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and glamor. This record allows Mathew to confidently share his stance on love, romantic trials and tribulations with other men.

The new album also features original song “My Boy,” a Marilyn Monroe-inspired song and fan favorite on tour, compelling Mathew to include it on the album. The song was written spontaneously with Mathew’s co-writer Ben Dunnill. Of the process, Mathew recounts, “Ben was in Europe at the time and sent me a voice note for a chorus idea from a public train station piano. From there the voice notes flew back and forth, and ‘My Boy’ came to life.” With the use of witty lyrics, a walking bass line, and energetic piano solos “My Boy” has the power to transport listeners to a glamorous smoke-filled 1960s lounge.

Mathew V’s timeless musical sensibilities are perhaps most evidently stemming from his youth. At age 17 he moved from Vancouver, Canada to London, England and began exploring what would soon become his signature soul-filled vocal style. Following his musical awakening overseas, Mathew penned a deal with 604 Records, has become a sought-after topliner in the dance world and now debuts into the vocal jazz world with his tasteful representation of the Great American Songbook.

Stay tuned for more to come from Mathew V soon.

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www.ricksrestaurant.biz

PINOCCHIO IN THE DESERT

134 E. Tahquitz Canyon Way

Palm Springs, CA 92262

760.322.3776

www.pinocchiops.com

BLACKBOOK BAR

315 E Arenas Road

Palm Springs, CA 92262

760.832.8497

www.blackbookbar.com

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HUNTERS NIGHTCLUB

302 East Arenas Road, Palm Springs, CA 92262

760.323.0700

www.huntersnightclubs.com

TOUCAN’S TIKI LOUNGE

2100 North Palm Canyon Dr. Palm Springs, CA 92262

760.416.7584

www.toucanstikilounge.com

CHILL BAR

217 E. Arenas Road

Palm Springs, CA 92262

760.327.1079

www.chillbarpalmsprings.com

STREETBAR

224 E. Arenas Road

Palm Springs, CA 92262

760.320.1266

www.psstreetbar.com

THE TOOL SHED

600 E. Sunny Dunes Road, Palm Springs, CA 92262

760.320.3299

www.toolshed-ps.com

QUADZ

200 S Indian Canyon

Palm Springs, CA 92262

760.778.4326

AMP SPORTS LOUNGE

68-718 E. Palm Canyon Dr Cathedral City, CA 92234

760.699.7090

www.ampcatcity.com

ROOST BAR LOUNGE

68718 E Palm Canyon Dr #203

Cathedral City CA 92234

760.507.8495

www.theroostcc.com

ONE ELEVEN BAR

67555 E Palm Canyon Dr A103 Cathedral City, CA 92234

760.537.3111

www.oneelevenbar.com

BARRACKS BAR

67625 E Palm Canyon Dr Cathedral City, CA 92234

760.464.0957

www.barracksps.com

RUNWAY

68300 Gay Resort Dr Cathedral City, CA 92234

760.537.7800

www.runwayccbc.com

REFORMA

333 S. Palm Canyon #2 Palm Springs, CA 92262

760.902.6630

www.reformaps.com

DICK’S

301 E Arenas Road

Palm Springs, CA 92262

760.327.0753

www.dicksps.com

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