Temple Isaiah Bulletin Volume 50, Issue 4 December 2014
Happy Chanukah
Youth Group Cook-a-thon with Rabbi Sobel
Bernie Friend Brotherhood Latke Bash
Sunday December 7th from 1 to 2:30 pm
Sunday December 14th at 10:30 am
Scholastic Book Fair
Latkes & Vodka at Gloria and Mark Snyder’s House Saturday December 20th at 7:30 pm
Sunday December 7th through Tuesday December 9th
Also in this Issue: Supporting Israel By Joining ARZA A The Iranian Nuclear Moment of Truth Temple Isaiah’s “Giving Tree” A Chai for Chayalim A Sisterhood’s “Movie & Pizza” Night “He who saves a single life, it is as though he has saved an entire world.” Talmud
Member Union for Reform Judaism
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10:30-11:30 am Tanach Study/Ecclesiastes (Rabbi Karol) offsite 1:30 pm Renaissance Club Social Hall
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Chanukah 6th night 9-10 am Atid 10:30-11:30 am Tanach Study/Ecclesiastes (Rabbi Karol) offsite
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Religious School/ YA 10:30 am Bernie Friend Brotherhood Latke Bash 10:30-11:30 am Tanach Study/Ecclesiastes (Rabbi Karol) offsite
Religious School/ YA/ ATID Scholastic Book Fair 9:09 am Brotherhood Mtg 10:30-11:30 am Tanach Study (Rabbi Karol) offsite 1 pm Youth Group Cook-athon with Rabbi Sobel 4 pm Cantor Search Focus Group 5 pm Congregational Vote
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Religious School 2 pm Book Discussion Group @ Rm 5 8 pm Bd of Trustees Mtg
Religious School 1 pm Cantor Search Focus Group: Open to Congregation at Jefferson’s Ferry 4:30 pm Scholastic Book Fair 8 pm Religious School Bd Mtg @ Cindy’s House
Religious School
Monday
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Chanukah 8th night
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Chanukah 1st night Religious School
Religious School 4:30 pm Scholastic Book Fair 7:30 pm Adult Ed Shabbat Hebrew Prayers Carole-Ann Gordon
Religious School 7:30-8:30 pm Spiritual Pathway via Meditation & Poetry Carole-Ann Gordon
Tuesday
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Chanukah 2nd night
1 pm Cantor Search Focus Group: Open to Congregation Meeting in Library
Wednesday
5 Mazer 19 Feldman/Cohen
Friday Ushers
Office Closed
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Chanukah 3rd night
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7:30 pm Social Action Mtg. @ Rm 5
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7:30 pm Ritual Committee Mtg @ Rm 4
Thursday
December 2014 / Kislev - Tevet 5775
6 Rosen 13 Mazer 20 Kanter 27 Rosenzweig
Saturday Ushers
Candles: 4:16
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8 pm Erev Shabbat Evening Service
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8 pm Erev Shabbat Evening Service
Candles: 4:12
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12 Chanukah 4th night 5 pm Tot Shabbat
Candles: 4:10
7 pm Family Service Youth Lead
Candles: 4:10
8 pm Erev Shabbat Evening Service
Friday
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20 10 am Shabbat Morning Service
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8:30-9:30 am Shabbat Morning Torah Study
Daniel Liquori Bar Mitzvah Latkes & Vodka @ the Snyder’s House
10 am Shabbat Morning Service
Chanukah 5th night 8:30-9:30 am Shabbat Morning Torah Study
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7 pm Youth Group/Overnight
10 am Shabbat Morning Service
8:30-9:30 am Shabbat Morning Torah Study
10 am Shabbat Morning Service
8:30-9:30 am Shabbat Morning Torah Study
Shabbat
Rabbi Sobel ‘s Reflections Rabbi Sobel ‘s Reflections Supporting Israel By Joining ARZA I have been an ardent Zionist since I was very young.
much more. Not only does the IMPJ provide Israelis with
My love of Israel was inculcated within me by my grand-
the opportunity for a religious identity that is progressive
mother – who made me a life-member of Hadassah at
and modern, it also strives to:
the age of seven – and my parents. My first visit to Israel was for 6 weeks the summer following my Bat Mitzvah.
A Provide regional security for both Israelis and Pales-
The visit inspired within me a desire to spend even more
tinians
time there, getting to know the land and people more
A Provide
intimately. So, I completed four years of high school in
youth, teens and adults from within a liberal, Jewish
three years and spent a full year in Israel, volunteering
framework
on a Kibbutz, studying Hebrew and traveling the country.
A Fight for religious equality for all Jewish denomina-
leadership development and training for
tions, where all Jews are treated fairly and with respect my first year of rabbinical school. Eventually, my career
A Advocate for women’s rights and gender equality A Provide free legal aid for tens of thousands of new
path led me to become the head of ARZA Canada, the
immigrants each and every year
Zionist arm of the Canadian Reform Movement. In that
A Offer
capacity, I led many trips to Israel, participated in fund-
whether from war, hunger or poverty
Since that time, I lived in Jerusalem for one year during
respite and assistance to those in crises,
raising bike rides in Israel to raise much-needed funds for the Israeli Reform movement, and partnered with
As American Reform Jews, we can lend our support
the Israeli Reform movement to strengthen ties between
by joining ARZA, the Association of Reform Zionists
Canada and Israel.
of America. ARZA unconditionally supports Israel and champions activities that further Israel as a pluralistic,
Israel needs our support now more than ever, and the
just and democratic Jewish state.
Israel Movement for Reform & Progressive Judaism (IMPJ) is counting on us, the North American Reform
ARZA is the Reform movement’s vehicle for the engage-
Movement, to partner with them to help Israel remain a
ment of American Reform Jews with all aspects of
strong and vital society.
Israel and emphasizes education, advocacy, travel and relationship building. ARZA’s mission is to make Israel
The IMPJ is comprised of over 30+ Reform congrega-
fundamental to the sacred lives and Jewish identity of
tions, two Reform Kibbutzim, one Reform moshav, The
Reform Jews.
Israel Religious Action Center, Hebrew Union College (in Jerusalem), Mercaz Shimshon and Beit Daniel (Guest
ARZA provides the IMPJ with financial support gener-
Centers/Education Centers) in Jerusalem, The Daniel
ated through membership dollars.
Centers for Progressive Judaism in Tel Aviv/Jaffa and so
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Sustaining Members & Friends of Temple Isaiah 2014 Please help us to maintain Temple Isaiah as a house of worship, a house of learning, and a house of assembly by becoming a Sustaining Member in 2014. It is here where you celebrate life-cycle events, and it is here where you will find support when you need it. It is with your strong financial support that Temple Isaiah will continue to provide education, worship services, and support for people who are experiencing loss, crisis, or illness. Please join our growing list of Sustaining Members!
Silver Chai
Circle of Hope
Mitzvah Partner
Chai or Multiple
Claire Baer
(continued)
Judy Albano
(continued)
Arnie & Honey Katz
Stephen & Lisa Sokoloff
Stephen & Sandy Dick
Carole-Ann Gordon
Richard & Gina Rose
Dan Stenzler & Joan Korins
Joseph & Eileen Donnelly
Steven & Bonnie Katz
Phyllis Sterne
Larry & Sharon Epstein
Lance & Lisa Kirshner
Pamela Feldman
Carl Kravitz
Circle of Enrichment Jerry & Linda Barancik
Chaverim
James & Janet Feldstein
Charles & June Levine
Jerry & Barbara Fine
Howard & Leah Block
Howard & Shelley Fleit
Carlos & Michelle Lopes
David & Iris Schiff
Mark & Essie Freilach
Rose French
Harriet Martin
Mark & Gloria Snyder
Suzanne Gabrielsen
Marian Guralnick
Howard & Jodi Mazer
Harry Verby
Stewart & Anita Gaffan
Stephen & Janet Hiller
Norman & Gigi Querido
Bernard & Irene Gische
Ira & Robin Koeppel
Harvey & Fran Robinson
Circle of Growth
Barbara Goldberg
Marlin & Cora Levi
Jay & Margaret Schoenfeld
Craig & Paula Balaban
Luis Gruberg &
Steven Shapiro
Ilene & Dion Shea
Steve & Paula Bennett
Rakefet Einav Gruberg
Cantor Michael & Cherie
Pamela Shulder
Rabbi Adam & Eileen Fisher
Gary & Barbara Kamen
Trachtenberg
Randee Silberfeld
Marc & Ruth Fisher
Marshall Lacoff
Douglas & Lisa Walters
Brett & Fern Silverman
Rodger & Linda Jonas
Micheal & Dreania LeVine
Tom & Robin Wells
Saul & Irva Steinweis
Rabbi Stephen Karol
Theo & Marion Pavlidis
Ted & Deborah Rosenberg
Morton & Bernice Rosen
Chai or Multiple
Shirley Willig
Richard & Linda Stopsky
Dean & Susan Rosenzweig
Bruce & Jill Berns
Richard & Barbara Wright
Alan & Myra Rosofsky
Kenneth & Melissa Bossert
Larry & Marcia Yellin
Circle of Hope
Mark & Mona Saidens
Jayne Cohen
Ivan & Ilene Ensler
Lewis Silverman
Alan & Shari Countess
Alfred & Suzan Goldhaber
Richard & Susan Tuckman
Steven Fallis & Carrie Blank
Randee Kanter & Pat Urquhart
Daniel & Phyllis Turner
Sylvia Feingold
Paul & Norma Michael
Stephen & Diane Weitzman
Lillian Goldstein
A A A A A
Platinum Chai ($5,400 or above) Golden Chai ($3,600-$5,399) Silver Chai ($1,800-$3,599) Circle of Enrichment ($1,018-$1,799) Circle of Growth ($540-$1,017)
George Sterman & Elise Frank
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Circle of Hope ($360-$539) Chaverim ($180-$359) Mitzvah Partner ($118-$179) Chai or Multiple ($18-$117)
A Note from the Cantor “Oy, Chanukah, Oy Chanukah!” Perhaps it is human nature, but when holiday seasons
to walk around in a bathing suit, looking at Christmas
come around, I recall (in this case) Chanukah seasons
decorations and Chanukah Menorahs. Veterans have
of years past. Perhaps my earliest recollection is when I
shared memories of their years in the military and
was 5 years old. Our family always lit the candles, and
Chanukahs celebrated in Europe, Korea, Vietnam, and
there was a small gift for me, but on the 8th night this
more recently, Iraq and Afghanistan.
particular year, I received a train set from my maternal grandmother. My father and I set up the trains in the living room, the largest open area in our small Brooklyn apartment, and it stayed up for about a week.
We all have our own suitcase of memories of celebrations with family and friends. Some past Chanukah celebrations at Temple Isaiah have involved lighting the Menorah with religious school students, Howard Stern’s
Over the years, the set grew, adding accessories and
beautiful Menorah in front of our building, the wonder-
track; when we moved to Queens, we set it up in our
ful “Zimriah,” led by Donna Siani, and the legendary
basement. I still have some of the trains and “stuff.”
“Bernie Friend Latke Bash”.
Our family joined a Conservative synagogue when we moved to Queens. The new synagogue put on a Chanukah play, in which I had a (singing) role as a priest.
As the Yiddish song says: “Sing ‘Al Hanissim,’ love God for the miracles, and come and dance in a circle!
I would later be involved in our synagogue’s choir, youth
A “Frailiche Chanukah” (a Happy Chanukah), and a
group, daily minyan, and other activities.
happy, healthy 2015.
Of course, I have developed additional memories. I was
Shalom,
once in the Caribbean for a vacation. It seemed odd
Cantor Michael Trachtenberg
Rabbi Sobel ‘s Reflections
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Beginning with our January dues statements, you will
difference as well by voting in the upcoming World Zion-
have the opportunity to join ARZA, by “checking off”
ist Congress Elections.
ARZA on your Temple Isaiah dues statement. We will collect the dues for you and then remit the funds
Please join me in supporting Israel by joining ARZA. For more information, please visit: www.arza.org
to ARZA on your behalf. “Checking off” ARZA is one way that each of us can “Stand up for Israel.” Next month, I will explain how each of us can make a
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Religious School Review From The Principal’s Desk At the end of October I had the opportunity to participate
Israeli dance lessons, or when Rabbi Witman taught
in two weddings. The first was my son Greg’s at Congre-
them Hebrew and Yiddish songs.
gation Rodeph Sholom in NYC, where he is the Rabbinic Intern, and the second was the mock 7th grade shtetl wedding that I have been privileged to be part of for over thirty years. As the students who have gone through our 7th grade simulations in the past can attest, “the memories last forever.”
While it is fashionable in some parts of the United States today to attend Religious School for an hour a week, or only learn enough Hebrew to read a prayer or two at a Bar or Bat Mitzvah service, it is not, however, preparation to live a meaningful Reform Jewish life in the 21st century. At Temple Isaiah, we are blessed with innovative, expe-
No, Greg didn’t marry the girl he “married” during the
rienced teachers who are committed to your children’s
mock wedding when he was in 7th grade - but many of
Jewish education.
his friends who joined in the celebration in Manhattan had been part of the Religious School wedding as well.
The Rabbinic sages ask “Why does every volume of the Talmud begin with daph Bet, page two and not with daph
Greg’s Jewish connections began with these friends
Alef, page one?” It is to impress on each Jew that Jew-
during Cradle Roll and continued from kindergarten
ish wisdom has no beginning, and therefore no ending.
through Confirmation and Post Confirmation, and includ-
There is no easy way to become a knowledgeable Jew.
ed participation in Youth Group, NFTY, and time together at the URJ Eisner Camp.
At Temple Isaiah, our Jewish educational decisions are always made by professionals with long-term goals that
At the wedding reception, the eyes of those longtime
may not follow the latest fads, but rather are designed to
friends in attendance lit up when they saw Rabbi Fisher,
ensure the lifetime Jewish growth of our students. Jewish
Rabbi Witman, Cantor Trachtenberg and Ilene Ensler
Education is more than just feeling Jewish, or just eating
(their Hebrew and 6th grade teacher). Many spent con-
Jewish, or wearing a chai or a Jewish star, or preparing
siderable time reminiscing about their Religious School
for a Bar or Bat Mitzvah service. It is learning about the
experiences, including the shtetl wedding, the day they
past, praying for the present, studying for the future,
simulated going from Russia to Germany, the day they
and remembering that Reform Jewish life depends on
simulated arriving at Ellis Island and the impact their
everyone who came before, while being part of a larger
Religious School education had on their lives.
and modern Jewish community.
It was amazing to watch them enjoy and sing Israeli
Chazak, chazak, v’nitchazayk
songs while dancing the hora with abandon, while
Stephen Weitzman
remembering how they moaned and groaned during
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President’s Report Making Sure Your Voice Is Heard Since becoming your president nearly a year ago, I’ve focused on making it a priority to listen to what our con-
A December 3rd at 1 pm in the Temple Library A December 5th during the Oneg after the Friday Night
gregants have to say. Often it’s during conversations at
the temple, other times it’s been during phone calls or
A December 7th at 4 pm - an hour before the congrega-
email exchanges. I really enjoy hearing what’s on your
mind, even when you’re offering constructive criticism.
A December
It gives me great insight into how much you enjoy being
Shabbat Service tional meeting for those who wish to attend both 8th at 1
pm
- being held at Jefferson’s
Ferry, but open to the entire congregation
part of the Isaiah community, or occasionally, to hear about what’s really bothering you.
These focus groups will provide the search committee, led by Rodger Jonas and Joy Schneider, with crucial
Our upcoming annual Congregational Meeting on Sun-
insight into what our congregants are looking for in our
day, December 7th at 5
also provides an ideal forum
next cantor. I encourage you to share your thoughts at
for your voice to be heard as we present the upcoming
these focus groups and to continue to reach out to Rodger
year’s budget and the candidates nominated to serve on
and Joy with your additional thoughts as the search
the Board of Trustees for the next 12 months. Much
process continues into this spring.
pm,
thought and effort have gone into planning for Temple Isaiah for 2015 and beyond, and I encourage you to be on hand to ask questions, engage in healthy dialogue, and ultimately cast your ballot.
I look forward to seeing you at the congregational meeting and to hearing from you during our future one on one conversation. I truly believe it makes me a better leader of this congregation.
This year provides an additional opportunity for your voice to be heard, as we begin the exciting search for a new cantor.
Every member of the Isaiah community
should be part of this important search effort and the decision making process that goes into it. Perhaps you’ve already attended one of the many focus groups the search committee is offering. If not, there are plenty of additional opportunities to participate in a focus
Speak - I promise your voice will be heard! L’Shalom, Dean Rosenzweig Email: dtrosenzweig@gmail.com Home Ph (631) 444-0199 Cell Ph (646) 884-3615
group session before this part of the search process winds down. Here are the remaining focus group dates, a mix of days and times to hopefully accommodate your schedule:
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P ostings
from the
Parents ’ Association
Looking for Chanukah gifts? Our annual Scholastic Book Fair will be held on Sunday, December 7th - Monday, December 8th - and Tuesday, December 9th during religious school hours. A large selection of Jewish themed books and books by Jewish authors will be sold. Bingo Night is coming January 10th at 6 pm! Mark your calendars. We’ll have lots of pizza, fun and prizes. See you then. If you would like to be involved with the Parents’ Association, please e-mail us, Nancy Linden & Ilene Horan, at nlinden@optonline.net & mamallama2@optonline. net. We’re the co-chairs of the Parents’ Association and we’re looking forward to meeting you! Our next meeting is January 11th!.
The Rabbi Adam D. Fisher Library Our temple library is open one half-hour before each Erev Shabbat Service. If you are available to volunteer, please call Barbara Yarmus at 981-2709.
Camp Corner At our camps, one is always being Jewish, while having fun with Jewish peers. Please visit these websites for our regional Reform camps.
http://eisnercranelake.urjcamps.org
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http://eisnercranelake.urjcamps.org
Our Daily Bread Soup Kitchen Members of Temple Isaiah’s Social Action Committee and other volunteers staff the Our Daily Bread Soup Kitchen at St. James Catholic Church (429 Route 25A in Setauket). Please note the times: set-up will be from 1:15 - 2 pm, dinner will be served at 3 pm, and all clean-up should be done by 5 pm.
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Temple Isaiah Wish List We have been trying to keep the Wish List current and prominent in the minds of our congregation. The response has been wonderful. Thank you to Sy & Helen Schlachter for donating $500 to purchase a Ping Pong Table and Pool Table for our Youth Lounge. The goal of our Wish List is to raise needed funds for temple improvements, without raising dues or tapping into the temple's operating budget. We owe a huge todah rabah to all who have taken an interest in this work. The following is the list of remaining projects that still need our attention: Irrigation for cemetery section I Blinds for all classrooms
$5,000
$3,000
10 rectangular tables
$950
2 rectangular table caddies
$378
10 circular tables
$1,890
2 circular table caddies
60 folding chairs
2 LCD players
$690 $1,500
TV/DVD projection equipment for the Youth Building
$650 $800
Cork Board for Youth Building
$50
Shelving for Youth Building
$100
Please remember that we are engaged in an effort to thrive, and not just survive. Helping us to purchase any item on the wish list is a mitzvah, a tax deduction, and a way to make Temple Isaiah a better home for our families. Mort Rosen
Tot Shabbat Friday December 19th at 5 pm
Music, Story & Shabbat Celebration
Join Rabbi Sharon Sobel and Cantor Michael Trachtenberg Children Ages 0-5 (feel free to invite your parents and siblings to join you!) Challah, Juice, Fun and Friends
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Breaking Bread With Brotherhood Bernie Friend Latke Bash is Coming! Sunday, December 14th Thanks to everyone who made Comedy Night such
In these hours, during the peeling, slicing, chopping,
a success. Our comedians – Maria Walsh, Maureen
mixing, frying and tasting, is when you get the true
Langan, Rich Walker and Eric Haft – had us laughing
sense of what Brotherhood is about. We have cur-
hysterically, and the Martini Garden gave us a great
rent members, former members and future members
reason to hang around after the show. If you were
(some of our older children) all working together as
there, you know why Comedy Night has become one
equals to get the job done. The bonds that develop
of our most popular events. Thanks to Alan Fisher for
as we work side by side are truly amazing and last a
organizing it, and to all our volunteers and sponsors
very long time.
(full listing in the next Bulletin) for their support. Our December Brotherhood meeting will take place Sunday, December 7th at 9:09
am.
in the Temple
kitchen. Have a bagel, meet some of your fellow congregants and hear about what we’ve got planned. Better yet, come with ideas about what else we could do. There are no dues for first-year members. Our main order of business will be a discussion with the Cantorial Search Committee (co-chaired by our own Rodger Jonas) to get our input as they go forward. I encourage everyone to participate in the Cantorial search process by attending at least one of these sessions. Brotherhood’s biggest event, the “Bernie Friend Latke Bash,” will take place on Sunday, December 14th. Everyone is welcome. It is named in honor of Bernie, a former Brotherhood President and President of our Temple Board. Bernie passed away too early, several years ago. While the Latke Bash is a great event, the best part
We can always use more help. Feel free to come by in the early morning and pitch in, or just meet us at our Brotherhood table at the Latke Bash. Also in the works for December are a Bowling Night and a Stony Brook Seawolves basketball game at the new Stony Brook arena. Details aren’t yet finalized; watch the weekly announcements for details. I am grateful for the opportunity to serve another term as your President. Re-elected along with me are Vice President Mike Kelson, Treasurer Alan Fisher and Secretary Rodger Jonas. We appreciate your confidence and support. I wish you a Happy Chanukah and look forward to seeing you in December. As always, if you have any thoughts, ideas, suggestions or comments, please email me at tekuates@yahoo.com or call me evenings at 981-5128. Jay Schoenfeld Brotherhood President
takes place several hours earlier, when Brotherhood members gather at 6:00 am to begin the preparations.
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Shmoozing with S isterhood Movie & Pizza Night is Coming! Sunday, December 14th Sisterhood would like to extend truly heartfelt thanks
pbennett100@gmail.com and ask to be added to
to Ruth Gerbi and Teddy Reiner for their very dedi-
our list. (You don’t have to be a Sisterhood member
cated service to Sisterhood and our Temple for fall
to join Sisterhood’s group, but we will encourage you
rummage. We would also like to thank all of our won-
to join, of course. You’ll be glad you did!)
derful helpers and all of you who helped Sisterhood raise funds through your donations of your gently used items. The money raised helps provide camp scholarships for our religious school students and needed items for our Temple.
We are also planning a Mahjong evening for January, so stay tuned. It should be a delightful evening for all. If you don’t know how to play, but would like to learn, this night’s for you! If you do play, you’ll have fun playing and experience the joy of teaching.
On Sunday, December 14th, Sisterhood will be having a movie and pizza get together at Stony Brook Loews theater/Sole Mio restaurant. (Title and show time to be announced.) Further information will be
Sisterhood wishes all of you a joyous Chanukah and a wonderful 2015 filled with good health, love and many blessings.
sent out on TI Sisterhood’s Google Groups e-mail blast
Very Sincerely Yours,
line. If you would like to be added to Sisterhood’s
Paula Bennett and Eileen Donnelly
Google Groups mailing list, please send a request to
TI Sisterhood Co-Presidents
Adult Education at Temple Isaiah See our “2014 Fall Program Book” for full details or visit our website at www.tisbny.org
Renaissance Club Attention Seniors! Our Renaissance Club meets once a month at the Temple. You are invited to come, make new friends, and share your ideas for speakers, outings, and events. The next meeting is December 28th at 1:30 pm. Please call Lillian Goldstein at 862-1747 for more information.
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Social Action Activities This year, Mitzvah Day (Sunday, April 19th) will be a day for the entire congregation to participate. We will have activities for everyone. I urge Brotherhood, Sisterhood, Youth group members, Hebrew school staff and any student and/or congregant to join us in planning this day of mitzvots. Please mark December 11th at 7:30
pm
on your calendar for the Social Action meeting to plan this special day.
Make the holiday special for a child in need. If you have not already done so, please lift a child’s name off our Giving Tree. And do not forget our brave men and women overseas and donate to Chai for Chayalim (life for soldiers) so that we can bring some joy to their lives as well. Wishing all a joyful, happy, and blessed holiday season. Sheila Silberhartz Social Action Chairperson
The Giving Tree Brighten the Holidays of Needy Children Temple Isaiah has partnered with M’yad L’yad (Helping Hands) to provide gifts this holiday season for children in need.
Here’s how you can help fulfill this wonderful mitzvah! Visit the Giving Tree in the Temple Lobby and take a tag with a holiday wish. Write your name, telephone number, email and tag number (from back of tag) on the sheet near the Giving Tree. Purchase the item on the tag, attach the tag to it (so we can make sure it gets to the right child) and return it to the basket under the Giving Tree no later than December 14. If you don’t have time to shop but would like to participate, you can donate money or gift cards, which will be used to fulfill the wishes of children whose tags were not taken. Please put checks or gift cards in the Social Action mailbox in the Temple Office. Questions? Contact Sheila Silberhartz at sheil48402@aol.com or Ilene Shea at ileneshea@gmail.com or 631-513-0573.
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“Latkes & Vodka” Cocktails and Appetizer Social Evening Saturday, December 20, 2014 – 7:30 pm at the home of Gloria and Mark Snyder (They will provide the Latkes & Vodka)
Let’s Celebrate with a Potpourri of “Chanukah-type” Foods from Around the World! Please RSVP to Penny Gentile at (631) 751-8518 or: tisaiah@optonline.net to get the Snyder’s address and to let her know what you will bring to share. Please RSVP by Wednesday, December 17th Here are a few ideas or use your imagination: A Vegetable pakoras A mini vegetarian egg rolls A crispy sweet potato fries A veggie tempura bites A fried mozzarella sticks w/ sauce A mini donut holes A fruit platter A vegetable platter & dip A cheese & crackers A sweets A other forms of “libations” A and of course, Pepto Bismol
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Israel Committee Insights The Iranian Nuclear Moment of Truth As of this writing, we are nearing possibly the single
use executive powers to bypass Congress so that the
most important foreign policy development in a
deal goes forward.
generation. November 24th is the deadline for a negotiated deal with Iran, whose purpose was to peacefully prevent Iran from becoming a nuclear threshold state in return for ending the economic sanctions on the Iranian Islamic Republic. The Obama administration believes this deal will keep Iran’s nuclear weapons ambitions in check; critics say it is troubling. There is a lot at stake.
The Iranian regime is an Islamist supremacist regime that intends to spread its revolution around the world. It’s hostile to the United States and is the leading state sponsor of terrorism. Its leaders have threatened to destroy Israel and it is a blatant human rights abuser, yet it is the policy of the Obama administration to loosen economic sanctions that were having a significant effect on the regime in return
For years, concerns about Iran’s nuclear weapons
for sub-optimal nuclear development concessions
ambitions have been met with economic sanctions,
that may still leave Iran with the ability to produce
which were having a significant impact on the Iranian
nuclear weapons in a short breakout time.
economy and put political pressure on the Iranian regime. Then, about a year ago, President Obama decided to pursue a diplomatic solution. He engaged in negotiations with Iran, partnering with the leading economic powers (the P5 plus 1), and offered Iran an easing of the economic sanctions in return originally for a dismantling of its enrichment capabilities and an inspection regime that would ensure that it would not be able to manufacture a nuclear weapon.
In the late 1990s, a similar diplomatic deal failed to prevent North Korea from developing nuclear weapons. But the prospects of an Iranian nuclear bomb is far worse. If Iran succeeds in obtaining a nuclear breakout capability it will behave even more aggressively, and the Sunni Arab states like Saudi Arabia and UAE will pursue the acquisition of a nuclear capability from Pakistan. The entire nuclear nonproliferation regime will collapse perhaps forever.
The Obama administration assured those concerned,
The world will be a vastly more dangerous place and
including Israel, that the negotiations were to be
Israel’s existence will be at the whim of a hostile
limited to 6 months as Iran was already feverishly
ruthless regime.
enriching uranium approaching weapons grade levels. In July the deadline was extended several more months. Now with this second deadline fast approaching, the New York Times is reporting that the Obama administration is retreating from its original demand to dismantle the centrifuges alto-
The moral, practical and safest policy is one that encourages regime change in Iran, not détente. In my opinion, our administration should be instituting the maximum economic sanctions possible. That’s the best chance for a more peaceful future.
gether and is now demanding merely that the piping
Rich Tuckman
between the centrifuges be disconnected. This
Chair of the Israel Committee
would leave the centrifuges intact. The Times is also
dooderspa@aol.com
reporting the Obama administration is planning to
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Media Watch Israel Israel’s Moral Imperative 1. Massive cult complex discovered at Tel Burna, Israel. Said possibly to have been site for Baal worship. http://news.yahoo.com/storm-god-worship-ancient-cult-complex-discovered-israel-120150092.html 2. Rare fragment of stone engraved with Latin inscription dedicated to the Roman Emperor Hadrian is said
to be one of the most important Latin inscriptions discovered in Jerusalem.
http://www.jpost.com/Not-Just-News/WATCH-2000-year-old-commemorative-inscription-dedicated-to Roman-emperor-Hadrian-unveiled-379384 3. UN Secretary-General Ban Ki-moon visiting a Gaza donors meeting in Cairo accused Israel of causing last summer’s violence with Hamas in Gaza, due to a “restrictive occupation.” Israeli Prime Minister
explained to him during a subsequent visit to Jerusalem that there is no Israeli occupation of Gaza.
http://www.jpost.com/Arab-Israeli-Conflict/Netanyahu-to-Ban-Gaza-is-not-occupied-378807 4. US Secretary of State links Arab-Israeli conflict with gains by ISIS, “…a cause of recruitment and of
street anger and agitation…” Israeli official denounces comment as a “boost to global terrorism.” [Ed.:
Iranian officials separately charged Israel as intentionally causing ISIS, and blaming the US for same, as
reported in Algemeiner.]
http://www.jpost.com/Arab-Israeli-Conflict/Bennett-blasts-Kerry-for-linking-Israeli-Palestinian-conflict-to ISIS-proliferation-379080 5. Emeritus chief rabbi of United Hebrew Congregations of the British Commonwealth, Lord Sacks,
describes the alarming rise of anti-Semitism across Europe, and its implications for Jews and non-Jews.
[Ed.: Although an Op-Ed, it is referenced in this news column because of its source, timeliness and pen-
etrating perspective.]
http://online.wsj.com/news/article_email/europes-alarming-new-anti-semitism-1412270003-lMyQjAxM TA0MzA2NTIwMjUyWj 6. “Israeli and Palestinian officials met… to draw up an action plan to prevent the Ebola epidemic from
spreading to the territories they control, the Israeli military said Sunday.” [Ed. Palestinian Health Ministry
official goes to lengths seemingly to explain that this cooperation should not be seen as prelude to peace.]
http://news.yahoo.com/israelis-palestinians-join-forces combat-ebola-165754549.html
Larry Weber
weberl@optonline.net
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Chai for Chayalim Chanukah Cards Make a difference in the lives of America’s Jewish service members. Please help our soldiers celebrate the Miracle of Lights. Chai for Chayalim Chanukah cards are on sale now. You will receive a set of Chanukah cards for your donation. Chai for Chayalim (Life for a Soldiers) is Temple Isaiah’s own initiative. The program is committed to sending religious items, food stuff, and gifts for Chanukah and Passover to American Jewish soldiers who are deployed overseas. Make all checks payable to Temple Isaiah. Mail in your check with the enclosed form or call and request that you be billed. Cards can be picked up at the main office, or you can have them mailed to you. Any contribution is greatly appreciated.
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Simchas & Tzures Whether you have happy news (simchas) or sad
If you would like one of our rabbis to officiate
news (tzures), we hope you will share it with us.
at a funeral, please speak to Rabbi Sobel before
Rabbi Sobel likes to know about births, engage-
scheduling. Our sanctuary is available for funeral
ments, weddings, and other happy occasions, as
or memorial services. If you call the Temple about
well as hospitalizations, sicknesses, or deaths. As
a funeral and have to leave a message with the
hospital stays are often short, and hospitals do not
answering service, please mention that you are
call us when you are admitted, please let us know
calling regarding a funeral.
so Rabbi or Cantor can arrange to visit or at least telephone.
Congratulations Mazel Tov to Lloyd and Donna Newman on the birth of their grandson Henry Maxwell Newman. Mazel Tov to Martin and Marion Liebowitz on the birth of a great-grandaughter, Leah Narbonne.
Sunshine Funds
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The purpose of the Beautification Fund is to
to your Temple. It might be in honor of a living per-
generate money to renovate and beautify our syna-
son or a recent event, or in memory of someone or
gogue. All monies will go into a fund dedicated to
something, or anything you want. Donations can
this purpose.
be made over the phone, by email, or through the USPS. However you send the information, your do-
To assist in this goal, a wall sculpture has been
nation can be added to your monthly Temple Isa-
commissioned. This permanent work of art pro-
iah invoice for easy bookkeeping. Sunshine cards
vides the opportunity to commemorate your
require a minimum contribution of ten dollars.
support for Temple Isaiah. Plaques of different sizes will be available in the following categories:
Minimum contribution is $10 Prayer Book: $45 Chumash: $60 Tree of Life Leaf: $118 Pew Plaque: $500 Memorial Board Plaque: $250 Please call the office for more information regarding the above contributions.
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Sunshine Funds & Other Donations Camp Fund
Music Fund
In memory of Traute Stern Janet & James Feldstein Mazel Tov to Irva & Saul Steinweis on the birth of their granddaughter Susan & Rich Tuckman Mazel Tov to Diane & Stephen Weitzman on the marriage of their son Janet & James Feldstein Alice Schleifer Perri & Larry Lieblich Sue & Dean Rosenzweig Myra & Alan Rosofsky Susan & Rich Tuckman
In memory of Leon Agatstein Marge & Paul Weiser In memory of Estelle Goldstein Barbara, Richard and Jacob Wright
Fund to Feed the Hungry In In In In In In
memory of Leonard Goldstein Lillian Goldstein memory of Shirley Rivkin Marge & Bert Feldstein Alice Schleifer memory of Pearl Silverman Lewis Silverman memory of Sidney Stenzler Joan Korins & Dan and Josh Stenzler memory of Traute Stern Amy & Mort Rosen memory of Manny Wohl Amy & Mort Rosen
Israel Fund In memory of Lillian Lieblich Lawrence Lieblich In memory of Murray Kamen The Kamen Family
Landscape Fund In memory of Neil Abelson Cantor Michael Trachtenberg and Cherie Trachtenberg In memory of Shirley Rivkin Cantor Michael Trachtenberg and Cherie Trachtenberg
Rabbi Adam D. Fisher Library In In In In In
memory of Nettie Deifik Honey & Arnie Katz memory of Richard Mazzola Honey & Arnie Katz memory of Manny Wohl Sue & Dean Rosenzweig memory of Harold H. Hirsch Dr. & Mrs. Jerrold Hirsch memory of Jesse Lietner Rhoda Lieberman
Rabbi Karol Youth Lounge Fund In memory of Jack Greenland Claire Baer In memory of Shirley Rivkin Nancy & Toni Cali
Rabbi Sobel’s Discretionary Fund In memory of Louise Baron Judy Albano In memory of Florence Bernstein Maureen & Harvey Bernstein In memory of Estelle Goldstein Barbara Goldberg In memory of Jack Hollander Paul Rosenthal In memory of Max Rosenzweig Arlene Gitter In memory of Shirley Rivkin Linda & Gary Bernstein Susan & Lloyd Lense Ilene and Ivan Ensler In memory of Traute Stern Ellen & Mark Koenig Lori & Howard Stern
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Sunshine Funds & Other Donations Rabbi Sobel’s Discretionary Fund (continued) In memory of Manny Wohl Ellen & Mark Koenig Janet & James Feldstein Mazel Tov to Diane & Stephen Weitzman on the marriage of their son Gloria & Mark Snyder
Religious School Fund In memory of Manny Wohl Grace La Torre In memory of Shirley Rivkin Eileen & Joseph Donnelly Doris & Leo Dvorken Barbara Goldberg Robert Licht Myra & Alan Rosofsky Iris & David Schiff Marge & Paul Weiser In honor of Harvey Witman’s exceptional service Barbara Goldberg Myra & Alan Rosofsky
Special Projects Fund In In In In
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Bar Mitzvah December 2014 Daniel Liquori December 20th Son of Brett and Jennifer Liquori
Siman Tov & Mazel Tov To All!
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Cantor—Michael F. Trachtenberg
& Ilene Horan
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