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supervised visitation, in-home visits, off-site classes, autism programs, a call center, the New Directions school and various trauma treatment programs. Their mission is simple: to end child abuse and strengthen the health of children, parents and families. â&#x20AC;&#x153;We get funding to see kids who donâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;t have health insurance, so itâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;s like the last-ditch safety net for kids,â&#x20AC;? says executive director Robin Bowen. â&#x20AC;&#x153;Kids who have been abused, kids who come from high-conďŹ&#x201A;ict divorce, kids who have witnessed community violence, kids who have been in some traumatizing accidents, or maybe just even witnessed horrible things in their communityâ&#x20AC;&#x201D;those kids can come here without insurance.â&#x20AC;? Except thereâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;s a waiting list for the programs at CPIâ&#x20AC;&#x201D;Bowen estimates about 80 kids total. Thatâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;s why last week, Bowen walked through the warehouse into which CPI will be expanding, explaining how the new Parent Education Center will increase services, whittle down the waiting list and better serve families in Sonoma County. â&#x20AC;&#x153;Itâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;s really hard when you have kids who have traumaâ&#x20AC;&#x201D;maybe theyâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;re being bullied at schoolâ&#x20AC;&#x201D; and you have to go, â&#x20AC;&#x2DC;Well, we have a waiting list,â&#x20AC;&#x2122;â&#x20AC;? Bowen says. â&#x20AC;&#x153;And a lot of these families donâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;t have a lot of resources to go elsewhere, so theyâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;re stuck waiting.â&#x20AC;? Adding an extra 4,600 square feet for group rooms, playrooms and supervised visits will surely help. Construction is slated to be completed in September and is estimated to serve an additional 250 children and families each year. (Last year, more than 3,000 families received services from CPI.) The expansion is being funded by a $350,000 donation from First 5 Sonoma County, and by nearly $100,000 from Connie Codding and Jean Schulz. While a bank loan is covering the additional bills, â&#x20AC;&#x153;Weâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;re short about a half million,â&#x20AC;? says Bowen, â&#x20AC;&#x153;and thatâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;s what weâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;re looking for right now.â&#x20AC;? In 2007, the G.K. Hardt Foundation gave $500,000 to CPI to improve its existing center on
Standish Avenue in southwest Santa Rosa. Bowen estimates that CPI has doubled in size since then. Expansion into the warehouse across the parking lot will also allow CPI to concentrate mentalhealth services into one building. â&#x20AC;&#x153;I think people are getting more comfortable with looking for mental health help,â&#x20AC;? says Toni Sprouse, who serves on the CPIâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;s board of directors, â&#x20AC;&#x153;and becoming more aware that there are issues, and you need to seek help.â&#x20AC;?
â&#x20AC;&#x2DC;A lot of these families donâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;t have resources to go elsewhere, so theyâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;re stuck waiting.â&#x20AC;&#x2122; An estimated 51 percent of children seen at CPI are affected by domestic violence. Some parents are referred to CPI from family court on child-abuse issues, mandated to complete a 52-week program. Some are returning veterans with PTSD. Some have drug or alcohol issues. All of them have a chance for a better start at CPI. At the same time, says Tiffani Montgomery, CPIâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;s marketing director, â&#x20AC;&#x153;weâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;re here for everybody. For any type of family. Anyone can call us.â&#x20AC;? Indeed, classes are inexpensive and accessibleâ&#x20AC;&#x201D;$10 to $50, depending on durationâ&#x20AC;&#x201D;and are bilingual. They range from infant massage and yoga classes to raising a child with an ex-partner and handling anger. Along with parenting tips, the classes provide a reminder that parents arenâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;t alone in the struggles they face, says Bowen, whoâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;s served as executive director at CPI for over 30 years, and who has three grown children of her own. Her ultimate advice for parents echoes that of many: â&#x20AC;&#x153;Enjoy your kids. Really, really enjoy your kids. Because theyâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;re little for only so long.â&#x20AC;?