Keep him coming....... They say that the way to a man’s heart is through his stomach. While I agree with this statement wholeheartedly, there are other things women must do to keep that man of interest coming back for more. Here’s my top 5!!
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Acceptance~A man wants to be accepted for who he is not for what you may want him to be. Don’t compare him to previous relationships~ you’re no longer in that one for a reason. You should, however, encourage and support your mate and believe in HIS dreams which ultimately will bring out the best in him.
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Compliment~ As different as women and men are, one thing we have in common as that we both love to be complimented. I have yet to meet a man who didn’t enjoy being told how nice he looked or how good he smells.
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Communicate~ Communication is key and is an integral part of a successful relationship. Men are not readers and women shouldn’t assume that they are. If you are mad, sad, happy or glad your feelings are important and the lines of communication should always remain open.
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Space ~No individual wants another individual clinging on to them. Allow your man to have his own friends and spend some time outside of time spent with you. They say absence makes the heart grow fonder so allow him to miss you every now and then.
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Sex~Ahhh, did you think this really wasn’t going to make the list? They say men want a lady in the streets and a freak in the sheets, but beyond that, men love variety which at times can be challenging for us moms, students, career women, etc. We, as women, can add variety by not falling into a sexual routine and waiting for your man to always initiate an intimate encounter. Greet him at the door with just a raincoat or cook for him in a sexy outfit. Get into the habit of role playing with your man because what you won’t do some other female will.
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Naturally, there are many others that can be added to this list but at the core of any relationship, there should always be trust and honesty. What are your Top 5?
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