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Issue 8 • August/October 2011
EE reflecting modern family living
Alton Towers Resort Discount voucher inside! IN THIS ISSUE: Competitions Galore • Bump to Baby Favourites Family Fun For All Guide • Preparing Your Child for School • Hobbies & Crafts Understanding Autism • Bump to Business and much more . . .
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Birth & Beyond A Beautiful Mummy – New Autumn Collection Breastfeeding Information and Support Morning Sickness Relief with Lillipops Understanding Baby Reflux by Baby Eureka How to Help a Choking Infant Three Steps to becoming A Greener Parent Competition Fun! My All Grow’d Up Cup
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Holiday Fun for All Guide Competition – Win an Eco-Friendly Break at Blackthorn Gate Wizards, Pods & Ponies – just your average holiday in England! Family Friendly Holidays Family Fun with enjoyEngland Tips for Travelling with Children Competition Fun! Win a Family Ticket for Alton Towers Theme Park. Let’s Celebrate! Competition Fun! Win a Wii Magical Adventure with Max Save Children’s Play. Competition Fun! Win a Smart-Trike Competition Fun! Win a BitBike.
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Hobbies & Crafts Craft Events Guide Competition Fun! Win a Pair of Tickets for ICHF Crafts for Christmas Competition Fun! Win Tickets for Cake International 2011 Make Your Own Beaded Curtain Tie Backs with Beads Direct
DISCLAIMER The information contained in My Family magazine is not meant to replace that of a midwife, healthcare professional or GP. My Family would always recommend that you seek medical information from a qualified health professional.
A note from the editor
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Fashion & Beauty Competition Fun! Win a Limited Edition Mama Jewels ‘Indian Summer’ Necklace
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Family Health Programme Child Safety in to Your Autopilot
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Summer Home Make the Most of Your Summer Evenings
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Education
For prospective and new parents our Birth and Beyond section guides you through our Bump to Baby Favourites, including the exclusive launch of A Beautiful Mummy’s stunning new Autumn collection of maternity and nursing wear. La Leche League GB provides information and support to breastfeeding mums and we take a look at Morning Sickness with Lillipops. There is a step-by-step guide of how to recognise and treat a choking child or baby from Impact First Aid Training and Baby Eureka tell us about baby reflux.
Overcoming First Day Fears Back to School and Back on Track with Explore Learning Best Start Nurseries – Giving Your Child the Best Start
Let the adventure begin! Summer is in full swing and our ‘Holiday Fun for All Guide’ is packed with fantastic ways to fill your holidays and weekends from August to the beginning of November. Exciting day trips, short breaks and staycations will keep the kids smiling when you explore the UK.
Understanding Autism
As the busiest time in the crafting calendar approaches we feature some of the most popular craft fairs throughout the region. So why not take your family on a creative escapade and enjoy amazing demonstrations from many well-known names in the arts and craft world. Plus, there is a simple yet effective curtain tiebacks project from Beads Direct for those of you who are feeling crafty.
Samantha Cameron Opens New Specialist School for Children With Autism Anna Kennedy Reaches Out to the Autism Community The Old Vicarage - Supported Care Building Independent Lives Specialist Support for Independent Living
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Hello and welcome to the latest issue of My Family magazine.
From Bump to Business Getting Your Prices Right Advertising Your Business
If your child is anxious about their first day at a new school, nursery or playgroup My Family’s education guide will help them overcome first day fears. You can read about Samantha Cameron’s visit to Baston House School and we keep you up to date with Anna Kennedy as we follow her dedicated campaign to raise awareness of autism. There are competitions galore with lots of amazing prizes to give away including an eco friendly family break with Blackthorn Gate, a Smart-Trike and Bitbike to name but a few.
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Issue 8 of My Family really does have something for everyone and I hope that you enjoy reading it as much as we have enjoyed creating the magazine for you. Best Wishes, Karen x Karen Reddell – Editor
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A Beautiful Mummy: The Stylish Way to Celebrate Your Bump Once again A Beautiful Mummy raise the style stakes with the launch of their gorgeous new collection of fashionable maternity and nursing wear. Fashionista mums-to-be no longer have to make a fashion compromise to accommodate their changing body shape From Bump to Baby Feel great throughout your pregnancy and when the time comes, socialise easily while coping with the demands of breastfeeding your new baby, discreetly and confidently, no matter where you are. A Beautiful Mummy’s versatile collection will flatter your changing shape from early pregnancy through to the magical bonding time of breastfeeding, with functional but stylish ‘cross-over’ nursing wear.
New From September 2011 Celebrity favourite, Sweet Belly adds a touch of red carpet glamour to A Beautiful Mummy’s, Simply Couture Collection. From your debut as a new mum-to-be, Sweet Belly’s stunning collection of couture maternity wear will compliment your blooming bump, whatever the occasion. Another fantastic designer name to make an appearance is Queen Mum, a hip brand for modern mothers-to-be. Created by Renée Bino and Erzsébet Weber, Queen Mum’s collection was designed with the main accent on enabling expectant mums to feel fantastic and beautiful.
Simply Couture, Simply Gorgeous and Simply Essential! A Beautiful Mummy’s stylish autumn collection includes inspirational designs from the likes of Annee Matthew Nursing Wear, Mothers en vogue, bellybutton, IMAHOT Design, Paola Maria, Milker and Ripe Maternity to name a few. To find out more visit
www.abeautifulmummy.co.uk
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Angel Dress by Sweet Belly – couture maternity wear
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Pure Love Dress by Sweet Belly – couture maternity wear Chrysalis Tunic – neckline breastfeeding access
Renaissance Dress – Neckline and empire line breastfeeding access
Goddess Drape Top – Hemlift breastfeeding access
Petal Tunic – neckline breastfeeding access
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Havanna day dress – with neckline breastfeeding access
Lisbet Nursing Nightie – with neckline breastfeeding access
Snow Princess Coat by Sweet Belly – couture maternity wear
Elisha top by belly button – side-seam breastfeeding access
Paris by Night Dress by Sweet Belly – couture maternity wear
Knitted Striped Dress – Empireline breastfeeding access
Mama’s New Beginnings Gift Set
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Simply Couture, Simply Gorgeous & Simply Essential! A fantastic collection of the latest Maternity and Nursing wear from top international designers including Annee Matthew Nursing Wear, Mothers en vogue, bellybutton, IMAHOT Design, Paola Maria, Milker and Ripe Maternity. New From September 2011 Sweet Belly and Queen Mum
G Koochu Changing Bags G Accessories & Gifts G A Beautiful Mummy Gift Vouchers
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La Leche League GB: offering breastfeeding information and support to all In previous years we have all heard the mantra “breast is best” however this is now being replaced with the phrase “breast is normal”. Breastmilk contains all the nutrients a baby needs and its unique structures cannot be replicated in formula. Breastmilk adapts to suit our own baby and if a baby is born prematurely it will adjust so that it is ideal for the continued growth that baby needs. Breastfed babies are less likely to suffer from a range of conditions such as gastroenteritis, chest infections, eczema, asthma, celiac disease, crohn’s disease, heart disease, multiple sclerosis, meningitis, ear infections, diabetes in childhood, sudden infant death syndrome, childhood obesity, urinary tract infections, childhood leukaemia, and other cancers.
What are the benefits for Mum?
Which is the best feeding position for baby?
Breastfeeding also reduces a mother’s risk of developing breast, ovarian, cervical and uterine cancer. It protects a mother against developing osteoporosis also reducing the risk of postnatal depression, helps the woman’s uterus to return to normal size after giving birth, and aids weight loss. Women who nurse their babies have a lower risk of developing diabetes.
Getting a baby attached well at the breast is the key to comfortable breastfeeding. Find a comfortable position where you feel wellsupported sitting, reclining, or lying down Use pillows for your own comfort to support your head, shoulders, body, arms and legs, but not under the baby.
When should baby feed? Offer the breast as soon after birth as possible. Breastfeeding is normal and natural, but it’s an art, that may take both mother and baby time and practice to learn, especially if a baby is sleepy or perhaps has a headache from a forceps delivery. It’s distressing when occasionally a baby refuses to breastfeed. However, many things can help with this, such as skin-to-skin contact and lying back with the baby on the mother’s body so that s/he uses innate instincts help find the breast. It’s normal for a baby to bob at the breast and lick the nipple when preparing to latch on. Crying is one of the last cues that a baby gives to tells us that he needs to feed and watching for earlier cues such as stirring in sleep, rooting, and fist sucking can help to get the baby latched on before he is upset. It is quite normal for a baby to want to nurse frequently and to expect a newborn to nurse at least 8 to 12 times in 24 hours.
Baby should be positioned “nose to nipple” so ensure he can tilt his head back and extend his neck. He can then take a big enough mouthful of breast (not just the nipple) and swallow easily. His body should not be twisted; his ear, shoulder and hip should be in alignment. If you need to support your breast keep your fingers well away from the areola and keep the breast at its natural level. Bring baby to the breast and lightly stroke his mouth with your breast until he opens wide like a yawn, then roll the underside of your breast into his mouth and onto his tongue. This pushes the lower jaw open wider. Your nipple is the last part of the breast to enter his mouth and when it reaches the back of the mouth it triggers active sucking. Keep his body tucked in close. Once he is attached you can make small adjustments to how he is positioned to maximize your own comfort and gently tuck his body in close if necessary.
Where can mum get help and support with breastfeeding? Breastfeeding is not always easy at first and that is why nine out of ten women who wanted to breastfeed stop in the first six weeks. Getting the right information and support in the early days can make a lot of difference and going along to breastfeeding support meetings, such as those held by La Leche League, before the baby is born helps prepare for challenges which may arise. For more information call La Leche League’s national telephone helpline 0845 120 2918 or visit www.laleche.org.uk Written by Anna Burbidge on behalf of La Leche League
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Congratulations, you’re pregnant… Three little words that herald the pitterpatter of tiny feet. At one of the most joyous times in any woman’s life, all too often the physical tell tale signs that you’re pregnant are anything but. Nausea, heartburn, loss of appetite, dehydration and fatigue, are the debilitating and depressing symptoms of morning sickness, not necessarily confined to first thing in the day. What’s worse is that there is very little you can do to help with the condition. Until Lillipops that is.
heighten the sense of smell, which can trigger an aversion to certain foods and encourage the onset of symptoms. Small changes to diet and lifestyle are generally recommended, the effectiveness and convenience of Lillipops make them ideal as part of a self-care programme.
Some facts About Morning Sickness provided by Dr Roger Gadsby MBE GP & Associate Clinical Professor, Warwick Medical School, University of Warwick Chairman of trustees, Pregnancy Sickness Support Trust Charity no. 1094788
G Nausea & Vomiting in pregnancy is very common: it affects over 70% of pregnant women G Severe nausea & vomiting occurs in 30% of pregnant women G Around 1 in 100 pregnant women have such severe nausea & vomiting in pregnancy that they require admission to hospital for rehydration. This severe form is called hyperemesis gravidarum G There are over 25,000 admissions per year to hospitals in England for hyperemesis gravidarum G 30% of pregnant women in paid employment need time off work due to nausea & vomiting In Spring 2011, in the first national trials of its kind conducted by the AOGOI (Italian Association of Hospital Gynaecologists and Obstetrics), Lillipops were found to be effective and offered no side effects in 95% of cases of women tested. Lillipops retail at £6.95 for a 20 ice pop multipack of all 5 flavours. They are available through good independent chemists nationwide, or online at www.lillipops.com or www.amazon.co.uk. * Lilipops Iced Soothies is not a medical product and if symptoms are severe and a cause for concern, a pregnant woman should seek the advice of her doctor or midwife.
Lillipops Iced Soothies are delicious ice pops specially formulated to alleviate the symptoms of morning sickness. Available in 5 soothing, refreshing natural flavours – grapefruit & tangerine, lemon & mint, camomile & orange, lime & vanilla and ginger with no artificial colours or sweeteners added, you simply pop them into the freezer and call on them whenever you feel dehydrated, or a bout of sickness coming on.
Lillipops founder, Denise Soden
As Lillipops founder, Denise Soden can attest, “I had a nightmare first pregnancy. I could barely get out of bed on some days. I couldn’t even keep fluids down and ended up in hospital 13 times to be treated for dehydration.” Denise came up with the idea for Lillipops when pregnant with her third child and a craving for ice took over. The craving for specific textures or foods with little nutritional value is common during pregnancy and is known as pica, although it is not known why this occurs. Fearful of repeating her earlier experiences, for Denise, the ice proved a wonderful substitute for food and liquid to help keep her hydrated whilst soothe her symptoms. The influx of hormones and, in particular, oestrogen is the most likely cause of morning sickness. Oestrogen is also thought to
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Bump to Baby
Favourites
If you are an expectant mum or new parent you will be experiencing one of the most magical times of your life. My Family introduces you to some much-loved early year’s products and services with our Bump to Baby Favourites. Featuring unique finger print jewellery to capture a precious moment in time, the latest must have baby goods and innovative products for mums, tiny tots and toddlers. So before you hit the high street why not pay a visit to our chosen online retailers of maternity and baby products.
Gorgeous Shoes for Funky Little Feet If you want something special For someone small and sweet, Take a look at Pre-Shoes For the coolest little feet!
Go to www.preshoes.co.uk Ƥ t Ǥ Christenings, birthdays, special occasions or just because....
www.preshoes.co.uk Organic, traditional and alternative clothes for babies to toddlers.
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Petrina & Stuart Kightley-Jones Northampton 07795 435679 • Kightley.jones@googlemail.com
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Hand made by professional knitters in the UK.
Telephone: 07724 181 827 www.handknitbabywear.com
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Understanding Baby byReflux Baby Eureka Up to 65% of all babies suffer from reflux. But what is reflux? Reflux is the term used to describe stomach contents and acid being regurgitated by a baby. For most babies reflux does not upset them or causes them distress, but it may distress their Mums with the mountains of washing a reflux baby produces. However for 1 in 300 babies reflux is a serious condition that causes a lot of heartache to babies and parents with intervention required.
What causes reflux in babies? It is unclear what causes infant reflux. Some of the triggers which may contribute to infant reflux are: I I I I I
immature digestive system family history food sensitivities Gastreosophagel Disease GERD/GORD Stress e.g. vaccinations/hot weather/teething/travel...
Many babies get reflux because the muscular valve at the end of the food pipe, which acts to keep food in the tummy hasn’t fully developed yet. Therefore, when baby’s tummy is full, the stomach contents and acid can travel up the gullet - causing baby to bring up small amounts of milk or even vomit.
What are the symptoms? Hiccups and bringing up a small amount of milk after feeds is quite normal unless your baby seems otherwise unwell or distressed. Both formula-fed and breastfed babies may be affected by reflux. It is important to note that while “spitting up” is the classic symptom of reflux, it can be absent and a
baby can suffer from silent reflux. It is therefore advantageous to know all the possible symptoms of reflux. Common reflux symptoms a baby may experience: I frequent spitting up (if a baby is otherwise happy and thriving the reflux is not a concern) I crying/fussy during and after a feed I under feeding I comfort feeding I arching their back and neck I excessive bouts of hiccups I hoarse/sore throat I gagging/choking I difficulty sleeping I coughing I drooling I failure to thrive/grow I nasal congestion I recurrent ear and sinus infections I breathing problems such as bronchitis, wheezing, pneumonia, asthma I foul breath Infants with reflux may experience any number of these symptoms. If your baby is exhibiting any or a combination of these symptoms, seek advice from your GP or Health Visitor.
Mum Orla Walshe’s Experience of Silent Reflux
Excited about her find, Orla explained, ‘’we were so impressed that we set up Baby Eureka to spread the word about this amazing product and make it available to parents in Europe. It’s such a simple, yet brilliant medical device and has brought our daughter, and us, so much relief.” Baby Eureka was born! The sole UK distributors of the RES-Q Wedge, which provides fast and natural, yet highly effective relief for babies who suffer from reflux, sleep disturbances, ear and sinus infections, pulmonary disorders and orthopaedic issues. The reversible, orthopaedic design of the RES-Q Wedge is the first of its kind on the UK market for infants and is suitable for use from birth to twelve months. One side of the wedge boasts a built-in ‘nest’, which provides the baby with boundaries and containment, promoting good head moulding. RES-Q wedge allows an infant to be placed on their back at a 30-degree angle, while maintaining a comfortable, flexed, shoulders forward posture. The reverse side of the RES-Q wedge is shaped like a mother’s chest, allowing the baby to comfortably lie on their stomachs and to complete their daily “tummy time”. For more information or to place an order visit
www.babyeureka.com
Orla’s daughter was diagnosed with silent reflux at four weeks. ‘’She cried all the time, tossed and turned in her sleep, had frequent bouts of hiccups, and couldn’t drink a bottle as her throat has become so sore and she simply wasn’t thriving. We tried everything to ease her discomfort.’’ Orla explained. Distressed, exhausted and at her wits end, the new mum spent hours trawling the internet looking for a way to ease her baby’s symptoms. ‘’Our Eureka moment came when we stumbled across the RES-Q Wedge on the internet. The first night we put our daughter on the wedge, she drifted into a peaceful sleep and we slept for the first time since she was born’’.
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How to Help a Choking Infant Choking is one of the things that parents worry about most . . . and rightly so. It is amongst the top causes of accidental death of UK children. In this feature Impact First Aid Training (as per Resuscitation Council guidelines) will give a stepby-step guide of how to recognise and treat a choking child and baby.
What is choking? Choking is when there is an obstruction which is preventing air (or enough air) from passing down the windpipe (trachea) into the lungs. A blockage can be a partial blockage or a full blockage.
Recognition A baby or child who is choking may start to cough, or try to cough but not be able to. A choking baby may be crying and then go silent due to a blockage. A choking child may grasp their throat and physically show signs of struggling to breathe. Someone who is struggling to breathe may appear red in the face.
What to do
What to do
– for a baby (0 - 12 months)
– for a child (1 year upwards)
G First of all, look in the mouth for visible signs of any obstruction. Only if an obvious object is seen then a single finger sweep may be performed to try and remove. Summon help if available to call an ambulance.
G Encourage the child to try and cough and look in the mouth for any visible obstruction. Only if an obvious object is seen then a single finger sweep may be performed to try and remove. Summon help if available to call an ambulance.
G Position the baby face downwards across your arm, supporting the head along the chin bone, with the head lower than the chest.
G Ensure the child is bent over so head is lower than chest. Support the child by placing your hand across the front of the chest.
G Using the free hand, give up to five backslaps with the heel of the hand between the baby's shoulder blades. (see 1 figure 1) Checking the mouth after each slap. Remember these back slaps must be hard enough to dislodge the blockage.
G Give up to 5 back blows with the heel of the hand in between the shoulder blades. Check the mouth after each back blow (see figure 3).
G If after 5 back blows there is no success in removing the blockage, lay the baby down on a hard surface and place two fingers on the lower half of the sternum (just below the nipple line on the breast-bone - see figure 2) and perform up to five ‘chest thrusts’. These must be short and sharp (one third of the chest depth), checking the mouth after each thrust.
3 G If unsuccessful after 5 back blows, stand/kneel behind the child and prepare to give abdominal thrusts (Heimlich manoeuvre). G Make a fist with one hand and place the top of the fist in between the navel (belly button) and sternum (breast-bone) the other hand may wrap round if necessary, depending on the size of the child (see figure 4). 4 G Give up to five abdominal thrusts, inwards and upwards below the ribs. G If unsuccessful, repeat up to 5 back slaps again and cycle. If the child becomes unconscious begin CPR.
2 G If this is unsuccessful, repeat the 5 back slaps and cycle between the two. G If the baby becomes unconscious start cardio-pulmonary resuscitation (CPR) – 5 breaths, 30 compressions then 2 breaths repeated. CPR protocol will be covered in more detail in a future article.
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If you have performed chest or abdominal thrusts on a baby or child then it is advised you take your child to see a doctor, even if the blockage was removed. We advise that in any choking or near-choking incident you seek medical advice. To book a first-aid course email:
info@impactfirstaid.com or call free on: 0800 988 4713
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The Holo Story! Invented by mother Emma Benson, a new product Holo®, has arrived in the world of pregnancy comfort. Originally the idea came to Emma just over 5 years ago, at 28 weeks pregnant, on holiday in Spain. “I was aware that lying on my back with my tummy in the sun was not advisable, as apparently an unborn baby doesn’t like the brightness in its eyes and will turn away in the womb. Lying on my front was just not an option unless I dug a big hole in the sand! It seemed obvious that all I needed was a lilo with a hole in it for my tummy to go in.” explained Emma. Emma got to work on the project and Holo was created! Not just for holidays but for relaxation at home too, the Holo is ideal for pregnant or sensitive tummies to use on land or water, to lie on your front for relaxation, massage and sunbathing. The Holo can be used at any stage of pregnancy from the moment it becomes impossible to lie on your tummy, right up until the birth. An instant hit with happy mums-to-be, the innovative Holo is also used by Physiotherapists and pregnancy yoga teachers. With international interest growing the Holo is now available worldwide. “The holo is a truly wonderful thing! I would recommend it to pregnant women everywhere!” Alexandra Orchard, UK
“The holo was great as I got to lie on my belly for the first time in months!” Amy Walker, Texas, USA
For more information visit www.holo-lilo.com
Fast relief from symptoms of Reflux, Ear Infections and Sleep Disturbance RES-Q Wedge RES-Q Wedge is designed to help relieve the symptoms of baby reflux whilst allowing baby to rest comfortably in a semi-upright position. Baby’s Essential Daily Log Book Baby’s Essential Log Book helps parents record essential information about their baby’s growth and development, feeding, nappies, medication and appointments. Simple to use – easily fits in a changing bag. ARA – Apnea Reflux Aid The ARA relieves the symptoms of Apnea and Reflux/Heartburn including pregnancy related heartburn. The ARA can be used in both back-lying and sidelying positions.
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Three Steps to becoming
A Greener Parent There is no denying that having a baby is hard on the environment. New babies have many needs, food, clothes, nappies, nursery products, to name but a few. Furthermore, as any new parent knows they outgrow many of these things in a very short time. Even with the demands that a new baby makes on our planet being green doesn’t have to be overwhelming. Here are a few things that you can try, even if you only do one of them it is a step in the right direction.
Host a Green Baby Shower Throwing a baby shower is one of the nicest ways to celebrate the imminent arrival of a new baby and for a mum-to-be to share the joy of becoming a mother. So why not ditch the pink or blue theme and go green instead – send e-invites instead of paper invitations,
suggest that anyone who wants to give a gift makes it eco friendly, offer guests tasty organic and fair-trade refreshments or use a catering service that source local produce.
Breastfeeding Some Mums want to breastfeed because they’re convinced – rightly – that it’s the way to give their baby the healthiest start in life. Another way to look at it is that it’s the most natural and straightforward way to look after your child in the first few months. Whenever your little one starts to show signs of hunger, you simply let them feed. 100 percent safe and clean – and you’ll be happy your baby is getting 100 percent of the nutrition needed and NOTHING else!
Real Nappies Did you know your baby could use up to 6000 disposable nappies by the time they are potty trained? Real nappies can save you up to £500 over the time your baby is in nappies. Even using them part time will help reduce the 8 million disposables sent to landfill every day in Britain. Real nappies today require no boiling, folding or pins, but are easy to use with hundreds of fun designs.
Top tips for choosing and using Real Nappies 1 Get independent advice from experienced washable nappy users. Someone who has used several different nappies, not just one brand, will be able to give you more idea of the pros and cons of the different types. 2 Try a few out if you can before buying a whole set, so you can be sure you like them. 3 Don’t buy a ‘Birth-to-potty kit’ that includes bigger sizes, because you might change your mind about the nappies you prefer when your baby is older. 4 The quickest-drying nappies are made from synthetic fibres (usually a polyester microfibre). If you prefer natural fibres, one that opens out as much as possible will dry quicker (eg a terry square). 5 For heavy wetters, bamboo and hemp are very absorbent fabrics without being too bulky (they do take longer to dry though!) 6 You will usually need to use a different nappy at night time, or increase the absorbency by adding bamboo or hemp boosters. You will probably need a larger nappy and wrap, or change to the next largest setting if you use onesize nappies. 7 Use a mesh bag to line your bucket, then you don’t have to re-handle dirty nappies when you transfer them to the washing machine. 8 Do a cold rinse cycle to get the worst off the nappies before you add washing powder. At this point you could also add other items to the wash to make up a full load. If you fill out the questionnaire at www.strafordnappies.co.uk, Karin will help you choose the best nappies for your particular circumstances.
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Hevea: Tried & Tested
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All HEVEA products and packing are sustainably and responsibly produced, using recycled biodegradable materials.
We gave Hevea’s Raw Rubber Bathing Toys consisting of a duck, fish and frog, to 1-year-old Lillyanne to try out. Over the last three months, she has shared her bath time with her three new little friends. We asked her dad Stuart how our little tester got on.
HEVEA natural rubber pacifiers – unique, cute design suitable for both girls and boys
HEVEA rubber bath toys – duck, fish and frog. Splash time fun for little hands
HEVEA panda teether – gentle texture and hygienic solid design
• made from 100% sustainably sourced natural rubber • • BPA, phthalates and PVC free • No added colours • Cast in one-piece, HEVEA’s modern Danish designs have no perforations in the rubber making them safe, more hygienic and easy to care for.
Available in the UK:
www.bebecatalog.com and Whole Foods Market
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‘’Lillyanne loves Hevea’s bath toys; she won’t get in the bath without them. We even have names for two of them Quack Quack Duck and her favourite Freddy Frog. They are easy for her little hands to grip and the texture is great – soft and squishy. As parents we love them because they don’t fill up with dirty bath water and have stayed in great condition over the trial period. Lillyanne doesn’t put them in her mouth but it is good to know that if she did they are hygienic and also BPA, phthalates and PVC free’’, says Stuart. Hevea’s Raw Rubber Bathing Toys are available in the UK from www.bebecatalog.com, www.heveababy.com and Whole Foods Market.
My All Grow’d Up Cup . . .
Competition Fun! My All Grow’d Up Cup is the playful beaker with a big difference – this one could honestly be a lifesaver whilst also being an awful lot of fun!
WIN! ++ WIN! ++ WIN! We have 4 of these fantastic cups to give away – just email your name, address and telephone number to competitions@happyhollydaisy.com and remember to put ‘My Family Magazine’ as the subject! Closing date for entries is 15th October 2011, no entries will be accepted after the closing date.
It’s the bright, elephantshaped cup that’s set into a strong holder that affixes to the car window (or the fridge, bedroom door, or even your patio windows)! Ultimately this clever cup means parents won’t need to turn around at the traffic lights, frantically trying to pass their child’s beaker over, plus it also provides a great support around the home too. To make tots love it even more, when they put it back, there’s an elephant
noise to encourage them to use it again and again! RRP: £12.99 Stockists: www.happyhollydaisy.com, Tesco, Halfords etc
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Can you hear the pitterpatter of parents’ feet?
Tommy’s and Buggyfit are calling upon parents, prams and babies to take part in this summer’s Baby Race. Last year’s event was such a success that Tommy’s and Buggyfit have teamed up again to bring the Baby Race to five locations for 2011. Saturday 10th September, 10am 8km at Virginia Water in the Great Park, Windsor 4km or 8km at Pittville Park, Cheltenham 8km at Marbury Park, Northwich Saturday 17th September, 10am 5km Preston Park, Brighton Sunday 25th September, 10am 8km at Bute Park, Cardiff More exciting than your average stroll in the park, taking part in the Baby Race means you can actively help Tommy’s to make strides in their work to give babies the best start in life. Along with baby and buggy, hundreds of like-minded mums and dads – or other relatives who want to take part – can power-walk or run the stunningly beautiful courses. The events all begin with an aerobic warm-up, led by Buggyfit’s qualified instructors. Upon crossing the finish-line, each participant will be awarded a fun-packed goodie-bag which includes swag from sponsors HUGGIES® Club, co-sponsors Cow & Gate, plus more leading brands. With children’s entertainers at each venue to keep little ones happy, the events are something the whole family can enjoy. Those without buggy and baby, and pregnant women (once they’ve checked with their GP or midwife) are also welcome to take part. Registering for the Baby Race couldn’t be easier: just visit
www.tommys.org/babyrace. Entry costs £14.50, which includes your Tshirt, goodie-bag and training plan.
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Blackthorn Gate For wide horizons and see-for-miles views, the summit of Roseberry Topping is in a class of its own. Layers of human and geological history have shaped this distinctive and iconic landmark, with its bluebell woods and heather moorland. Towering over the landscape, it guarantees a memorable walk, with the climb up as fantastic as the breathtaking sights from the top.
Over recent years, more families have become aware of green issues – with many looking to take a guilt free holiday where neither the environment nor luxury is compromised. Having a thoroughly enjoyable time does not have to be detrimental to your pleasure or your ethics. Blackthorn Gate Luxury Holiday Lodges are ideal for environmentally conscious couples and families alike and are highly recommended by My Family Magazine, as Eco Friendly Accommodation 2011. Owners Mike and Rita Corrigan have always had a keen interest in nature, wildlife and the great outdoors. Aiming to create a haven of tranquillity for their guests to enjoy, they make every effort to ensure that their business respects the conservation of the area and recently received the Green Tourism Silver Award.
Set in 230 acres of open farmland on the border of North Yorkshire and the Tees Valley, Blackthorn Gate comprises four eco-friendly pine lodges constructed using timber from sustainable forests in the far north of Sweden. Spacious and airy, all the lodges offer excellent self-catering accommodation with fully fitted kitchen, a comfortable living room with a dining area, master bedroom with en-suite shower room, separate bathroom and a sauna. Sleeping up to five people, two storey lodges ‘Skylark’ and ‘Lapwing’ also have a large wet room shower area suitable for wheelchair users – single storey ‘Curlew’ and ‘Chaffinch’ sleep up to four people. All lodges have fabulous views of Roseberry Topping. Visitors to Blackthorn Gate don’t have to travel far to enjoy the rugged beauty of the area, delve into the rich history, visit stately homes and gardens or enjoy picturesque towns and villages. You can even fit in some retail therapy – shopping in York or The Metro Centre is less than an hour away.
Alternatively, simply enjoy a day spent wandering around the farm – looking out for wildlife including deer, otters, stoats, hares and owls. There are five wildlife ponds and three fishing ponds for guests and family. After a busy day, you can relax in your private sauna, play pool or table tennis in the games room, or just unwind on your veranda with a drink and a bite to eat.
WIN! ++ WIN! ++ WIN! An autumn break for up to four people at Blackthorn Gate Luxury Holiday Lodges, North Yorkshire. The lucky winner will enjoy either a 3 night weekend stay or a 4 night midweek stay – to be taken between 30/9/11 and 15/12/2011 inclusive (excluding half term week 21/10/11 to 27/10/11) and subject to availability. For your chance to win simply answer the following question:
On which farm are Blackthorn Gate Luxury Holiday Lodges located? Email your answer along with your name, address and daytime contact number, with the date that you would like to stay to info@blackthorngate.co.uk under the subject header 'My Family Competition'. Closing date is 5th September 2011 – no entries will be accepted after this date. A winner will be picked at random and notified by Blackthorn Gate.
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Wizards, pods & ponies: just your average holiday in England! The staycation trend shows no sign of slowing. The poor exchange rate and a growing eagerness to “go local” mean more families are giving crowded airports and lost passports the slip in favour of jumping in the car to an undiscovered part of England.
The idyllic waterfalls at Stanley Force, Eskdale © Britainonview
A few minutes’ walk from the site is Dalegarth Station, where the Ravenglass and Eskdale steam railway terminates. The trains chug across marshes and through craggy fells, opening up to views of the rugged Scafell range under vast skies (www.ravenglass-railway.co.uk).
Star-spangled moors
From the sandy beaches of Devon to the wild fresh air of Cumbria, via a city bursting with magical heritage, these are just a few ideas for family holidays in England. And not a kiss-me-quick cap in sight.
Wizarding city break Stratford Upon Avon has stretched its repertoire far beyond Shakespeare, although the untamed gardens of timberclad Anne Hathaway’s cottage and the farmyard animals of the Tudor Mary Arden’s Farm will appeal to families of all literary tastes (www.visitstratforduponavon.co.uk). If your kids are more impressed by JK Rowling than William Shakespeare, the Museum of Wizardology will be right up their street. Muggle apprentices solve the sorcerer’s riddles, learn to cast spells and mix potions (www.seekthemagic.org).
Cool camping Forget struggling with the tent poles and hire a camping pod. Eskdale Camping and Caravanning Club Site has ten heated wooden pods sleeping four each in the heart of the Lake District National Park. Book early enough (and we do recommend booking well in advance) and you can ask for adjacent pods for larger family groups. (www.campingandcaravanningclub.co .uk)
Budding astronomers will appreciate the clear, dark skies above Exmoor’s brooding landscape. Meteor showers are due in midAugust and October but, just in case clouds or a full moon spoil the view, there’s plenty more to do in this corner of North Devon. Kids over four years can groom ponies and then ride in Exmoor Pony Centre’s (www.moorlandmousietrust.org.uk) indoor arena while more experienced riders can take to the moors. You’ll probably fall head over heels for these adorable but endangered native creatures, so adopt one.
Tarr Steps on the River Barle in Exmoor National Park © Britainonview / James McCormick
Lynton and Lynmouth Cliff Railway (www.cliffrailwaylynton.co.uk) is a more modern means of transport, although only slightly. The Victorian water-powered lift rattles down the cliff face from the tea shops of Lynton to the sea-facing fish ‘n’ chip shops, art galleries and bobbing boats of Lynmouth harbour. Visit enjoyengland.com for more family holiday ideas, from otter spotting in Norfolk to living like a Viking in York.
Shakespeare countryside museum, Stratford upon Avon © Britainonview / Martin Brent
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HOLIDAY FUN FOR ALL Situated just off the Essex coastline approximately 10 miles from Colchester, you will find the unique and largely undiscovered holiday haven, Mersea Island. One of Britain’s best-kept secrets, this tiny island is just 5 miles by 2 miles and has 12 miles of coastline. Owned by the Lord family since 1918, Fen Farm Campsite is located in the southeast of the island. In a tranquil, rural setting, this small yet well-appointed campsite offers its guests a warm and friendly welcome. Catering for tents, trailer tents, touring caravans and motor-homes of any size, the site has well maintained laundry facility, toilet and shower block with solar powered water heating, children’s play area, separate wheelchair accessible toilets and showers, family toilet and shower room, hair driers and razor points, 10 amp electric hook up and chemical disposal unit. A haven for local wildlife, the proximity of the Essex marshes gives a unique tranquil atmosphere and the presence of many birds and wildlife adds to the ambience. Offering something for family members of all ages Fen Farm is within walking distance of a wonderful south facing beach and Cudmore country Park. The ‘Dog and Pheasant’ public house is a few minutes walk, and a little further away is the village shop and the ‘Pick Your Own’ fruit, flower and vegetable farm. A continuing commitment to protect the environment has resulted in Fen Farm Campsite receiving the David Bellamy Conservation Gold Award annually since 1999.
For more information about Fen Farm Campsite visit
www.fenfarm.co.uk or call 01206 383275
Set in the quaint and picturesque conservation village of Egleton in Rutland, St Monica's Cottage provides luxury, wellequipped self-catering accommodation for up to 6 people. The predominantly stone built, single storey, thatched cottage is ideal for families wanting a home from home feel. The welcoming, recently renovated cottage overlooks scenic farmland to the rear, beyond which is the well-known Rutland Water and the romantic new wedding venue Normanton Church is a short drive away. This peaceful retreat is perfect for guests who just want to relax and unwind. Families and those who like to get out and about can be sure there is plenty to do – cycling, sailing, walking, fishing, bird watching and windsurfing available to enjoy locally.
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Luxurious Rural Accommodation Down on the Farm Nestling in the charming south Norfolk countryside, amongst rolling farmland and hidden waterways, Wheatacre Hall Barns can be found.
The Wheatacre site has extensive river frontage with access to a network of walks varying in length amid the picturesque landscape. Fishing is available along the river and an abundance of birdlife is easily accessible for enthusiasts.
The attractive cluster of eight barns on the Burroughs family working dairy and arable farm, have been tastefully restored retaining many of their original features to create luxury, self-catering accommodation, for couples and families alike.
Norfolk and Suffolk food produce deservedly has a great reputation, those who fancy eating out can visit one of the quality, local pubs or restaurants. Further afield the fine medieval city of Norwich has a magnificent cathedral, castle with museum, cinemas, theatre, high street stores, designer brands, independent shops and a covered market, offering the perfect opportunity to combine a spot of retail therapy with a little sightseeing.
All Wheatacre Hall Barns have stylish and comfortable interiors equipped with contemporary modern touches, internet access, LCD TV, DVD/Video, CD/Radio, ipod docking stations, microwave, dishwasher, fridge, freezer and automatic washing machine. Each barn boasts its own private garden and furnished patio area with barbecue, where guests can relax and unwind while enjoying the tranquillity of the countryside. For the more energetic members of the family there is a games room, fitness barn and the extensive grounds offer plenty of grassy areas for football and other outdoor games. Not forgetting the youngest family members, the play barn is sure to keep under 5’s amused when they are not visiting the animals on the farm.
For information and availability, visit
www.wheatacrehallbarns.co.uk or telephone 01502 677208.
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Kids Go Quackers at QHotels QHotels are a collection of fourstar individual hotels located throughout the UK. Each hotel is individual with their own unique characteristics, but you can guarantee that each and every hotel will deliver the fantastic service you’d expect from a fourstar hotel and treat you to a stay that is one to remember. From countryside retreats to tranquil spas, from championship golf courses to hotels residing in bustling city centres, there is something for everyone this summer!
dinner. You will also have access to a games room and the chance to take part in Wii competitions or Young MasterChef – a pizza making masterclass. This summer QHotels are offering families the chance to explore the beauty of the UK whilst staying at one of their great family friendly hotels. Enjoy a two night break from £190 including an extensive breakfast buffet each morning and a delicious three course evening meal. The school holidays in full swing we thought it was time you thought about treating the whole family at QHotels. All kids will receive a Quackers activity pack (with the chance to win £100 in Chad Valley toy vouchers) plus a re-fillable plastic Quackers beaker to make use of the free soft drinks during
What are you waiting for? Treat your family to a fun filled summer break! To book a fun filled family break this summer call 0845 0345 777 and quote SUMMER11.
One for the perfect family break. One of a kind. Enjoy a two night break from £190 including a yummy breakfast buffet plus a delicious three course evening meal on both days*. Don’t forget kids also stay, eat and drink for FREE too! Kids aged 12 and under will receive a Quackers pack jammed full of activities, puzzles and games to keep them entertained. Keep your eye out for the games room, swimming pool splash times and pizza making masterclasses!
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footsteps of astronauts, be a weather presenter or build a LEGO space empire. The kids are bound to leave as starry-eyed space geeks. Watch out Brian Cox! Download the free enjoyEngland app to find thousands of attractions and activities close to you (the app uses GPS to find your location). You can personalise it to search for FREE activities only and access it via Facebook and Twitter to share your location with friends and family. Visit www.enjoyengland.com/Official-EnjoyEngland-app to find out more.
Sticky pink candyfloss, seashell hunts and sandcastle competitions: a day out at the seaside oozes family fun. And Skegness (www.skegness.net) has just the perfect mixture of golden sands, retro rollercoasters and technicolour beach paraphernalia to keep the family smiling all day.
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If rain looks likely, set the camera to macro and head to the Butterfly Farm in Stratford-uponAvon (www.butterflyfarm.co.uk) for a chance of snapping over 100 species of butterfly that flutter and feed around you in the tropical greenhouse. The creepy-crawlies housed at Arachnoland, including the deadly black widow spider, will have the kids screaming in terror.
We can’t think of a better way to lighten the mood than with some playful penguins and there are plenty to dote over at the new Penguin Beach at London Zoo (www.zsl.org). When making your way there, we recommend hopping on the London Waterbus (www.londonwaterbus.co.uk) from Little Venice over to the zoo, where you can skip the usual queues via a special gate. From penguins to planetariums – the biggest planetarium in the UK to be precise. Let the little ones explore the wonders of the universe at the National Space Centre in Leicestershire (www.spacecentre.co.uk). Along with the dazzling cosmic dome, it is home to plenty of futuristic exhibitions for all ages. Follow in the
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Leicestershire’s famous Wistow Maze is now open, offering an enjoyable day out for the whole family. Following a wildlife theme this year, the maze made out of 8 acres of living maize crop has been designed in the shape of a giant honeybee, complete with a hive. The number of bumble bees has declined by around 70% since the 1970s, and honey bee numbers have fallen by 15% over the past two years according to official UK Government figures. As well as providing a fun and educational day out the Honey Bee Maze is designed to raise awareness of the plight of our bee populations and their importance to the environment. “However it is not just our bee populations that need our help, but many other species are also under threat. This year’s quiz trail highlights the situation of other wildlife such as the dormouse, red squirrel and otter; with clues to be found amongst the 3 miles of intricate pathways.” explains owner Diana Brooks.
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Opposite is the Wistow Rural Centre with a café/bistro, garden centre, model village, farm shop, aquatic centre and many shops selling furniture, gifts, jewellery and much more. The Wistow Maze is open seven days a week from Saturday 16th July - Sunday 4th Sept (then weekends only until Sunday 25th Sept)
Having experienced the ‘real thing’, visitors can then take part in a variety of mini mazes, games and table top activities in the Activity Funyard. There is also a space hopper track, hoopla and football shooting game, with light refreshments available.
Opening Hours: 10am - 6pm. Free Parking. Admission charges: Adults £5.95 Children £4.95. Family Ticket (2+2): £19.95. For more information telephone 07884 403889 or visit:
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special places, great value Open every day (except Christmas Day) fun for all the family
Visit Britain’s International Steam Railway All the sights and sounds of the golden age of steam come alive at the Nene Valley Railway, The 7 miles of track passes through the heart of the 500 acre Ferry Meadows Country Park. The ideal outing for lovers of steam both young and old. NVR is also the home of "Thomas" the children’s favourite engine. Shop, Café and Museum open on service days. Loco Yard and Station open all year. Services operate Sundays from January; weekends from Easter to October; Wednesdays from May, plus other mid-week services in summer. Santa Specials end of November and December. Disabled visitors very welcome. Free parking, picnic and play areas. Driving Experience Course Available and Special Events throughout the year.
Full Steam Ahead for A Great Day Out! Enquiries: 01780 784444, Timetable: 01780 784404 or www.nvr.org.uk
holiday events birthday parties fishing orienteering mobility scooters adventure play areas cafes lakes/scenery surfaced paths
visit www.warwickshire.gov.uk/parks and download a free guide or events booklet (car parking charges apply - see website) or call 01827 872660 for further information
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Tips for Travelling with Children All families are different, but when it comes down to it there are some basic requirements for a good family trip. Most family breaks run smoothly if well planned with all members of the family taken into account. Ultimately this will mean that you can spend more time doing the things you love and less time discussing where and what you will be doing.
The pleasure is in the detail If this is your first trip with your children, plan for a slower pace than you might usually attempt. Be realistic about what you can cover with little ones in tow – the less you feel you have to pack in, the more enjoyable and stressfree the holiday.
If you are travelling with a small child a pram or buggy can be useful even if your child is walking. It will serve as a place for them to rest when covering a lot of ground or a makeshift bed when they are worn out. An all-terrain version is worth the investment if you are going to be walking a lot or on unpaved paths. If you are travelling with another family, or adults, discuss what each person wants to do before you go and how much time you would like to spend together. Come to an agreement about the way you'll split the bills and arrange how chores will be shared. Discuss taking turns childminding and dedicate childcare responsibilities during travel.
Keeping little ones safe It doesn't matter how good a parent you are, it can happen the best of us! You look away for a just a second and in an instant your child has vanished. Your heart races and your stomach sinks. It's an awful feeling. Right? Always designate a meeting point in each new place, in case anyone is separated from the group. If it's likely you'll be in dense crowds, promise a group reward if everyone stays together.
A wireless child locator system is an ideal way to keep track of your child in crowded places such as shopping centres, airports, theme parks or sporting arenas. The parent carries a tracking device – while the child wears a separate part of the device. Should the distance between the child and the tracker exceed the user-defined range, or if the bracelet is removed, an alarm sounds and a bleeper will help track down your little one. In case of emergencies, an identity bracelet detailing your child's medical condition, treatment and their doctor's name is useful if your child has a disability, hidden medical condition or serious allergy. A great range of brightly coloured and sporty identity bands for kids are available from medicalert.org.uk. Always use a car seat when travelling by car regardless of the regulations in your destination. A universal model is a good idea if you are using a variety of vehicles or hiring a car. For general guidelines and information about fitting child's car and booster seats, go to childcarseats.org.uk. For children with a disability or special needs www.crelling.com can provide seats and harnesses for a variety of travel requirements including aircraft travel.
Childcare Look into supervised childcare, such as kids' clubs before you go. Ask what activities the children will be involved in, how many children are cared for and whether groups are split according to age. Be prepared to check it out yourself when you arrive and make sure that all the necessary paperwork including CRB checks are in place. If anything seems amiss, be prepared to cancel your plans and start looking for alternatives. Having your own personal Nanny can open new doors: cottage/villa holidays can become realistic possibilities, instead of ‘dreams’ for the future, when the children have grown up. If you holiday with other families, you could consider sharing a Nanny to cut costs. With My Travelling Nanny you have an extra pair of hands, ears and eyes when you need them – someone else to help do the suncreaming, spend endless hours in the pool, sing Humpty Dumpty or wipe sticky fingers. You might even get some breathing space – which as well as family fun is what holidays are all about. Visit www.mytravellingnanny.co.uk for more information.
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Win! Win! Win! A Family Ticket to Alton Towers Resort Alton Towers Resort is the UK’s number one short break destination and Britain’s Greatest Escape! The Resort offers a world leading theme park with ground breaking rollercoasters and endless family fun, two fantastical hotels, a wacky waterpark with gallons of fun, a luxurious spa for the ultimate in relaxation and zany entertainment in our Extraordinary Golf. There really is too much to squeeze into one day at the Alton Towers Resort.
Enjoy a mind-blowing mix of fantastic rides and attractions offering unlimited fun for kids of all ages, families and thrill seekers. Join Charlie on his amazing journey through Willy Wonka’s Chocolate Factory and venture into the fantabulous fun area Cloud Cuckoo Land, especially for our younger guests. For those seeking adrenalin pumping experiences, scream your way into Oblivion, feel the speed of Rita, experience the windswept exhilaration of Air and enjoy Nemesis’ famous turbulent, twisting frenzy. Ride into The Dark Forest and experience TH13TEEN if you dare. As the ultimate rollercoaster and the world’s first free fall drop coaster, TH13TEEN takes riders on a gruelling journey through The Dark Forest where they will battle the overwhelming force of the woods through a series of twists and turns, before plummeting into the unknown.
New for 2011 Families can explore Skeleton Bay at the amazing Sharkbait Reef by Sea Life where 12 giant Japanese Spider Crabs have been shipwrecked! These breathtaking creatures and their unlucky crew are a definite must-see while at the Alton Towers Resort! PLUS The Go!Go!Go! Show comes to the Alton Towers Resort. Straight from the West End stage, The Go!Go!Go! Show is a brand new popmusical for kids starring five fantastic new pop stars, a sock-eating Fluffalope and the permanently confused Mr. Baffled. Don’t miss this energetic song and dance adventure guaranteed to put a smile on your face, a spring in your step and a song, or several, in your head!
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Adults £18, Children £13 (4-11 yrs), Under 4’s free Why not visit over 2 days* for just £25 Adults & £18 for Children (4-11 yrs) 1.By using this Voucher you accept these Terms and Conditions and are bound by the Regulations currently in force at Alton Towers (“Alton”), copies of which are available on request. 2. This Voucher entitles the bearer to a maximum of 2 adults and 2 children, £18 Adult entry and £13 Child entry to Alton. 2nd day tickets must be consecutive to the 1st day. Only one Voucher can be redeemed per person per transaction. 3.Visitors under 4 years of age enter Alton free of charge. Visitors under 12 years of age must be accompanied by a person 18 years of age or over. 4.This Voucher is non-transferable, cannot be sold and no cash alternative will be offered. The exchange price of this Voucher is £0.0001. Admission prices are subject to change. 5. This Voucher cannot be used in conjunction with any other voucher, offer, any discounted or concessionary rates, annual or family passes, inclusive travel packages, pre-booked or timed tickets. 6. Amended, defaced or photocopied vouchers will not be accepted. 7.This Voucher is valid from 26.03.2011 until 14.10.11. Excluding 12th June, 4th-8th, 11th – 15th & 18th-22nd July. All dates are for 2011. Dates are subject to change - please check opening dates before your visit. This Voucher must be used at the time of entry and is not valid when making advance credit card bookings or for the purchase of timed tickets or Family tickets.8.Alton reserves the right, in its absolute discretion, to refuse entry and to close and/or alter all or any part of the facilities including closure of rides and/or attractions for technical, operational, health and safety or other reasons including over capacity. 9.Size height and age restrictions and medical warnings apply to certain rides and attractions. 10.Exchange or sale of this 9RXFKHU IRU SUR¿W LV SURKLELWHG )RU IXUWKHU LQIRUPDWLRQ RQ opening times & dates/ride availability visit www.altontowers.com. *2nd day visit must be consecutive to the 1st day
This Halloween experience the most spooktacular and longest Scarefest yet! From 15th - 31st October share in the season of spooktacular fun as the Resort celebrates Scarefest. With spine-tingling spooks for younger visitors and haunting horrors for thrill-seeking ghost hunters, there's something for everyone at Alton Towers Resort. Enjoy late opening until 9pm every night and increase the fright factor by experiencing our most thrilling rides and attractions in the dark! Be confronted by live terror as a chilling combination of scare attractions ensure those willing to be frightened this Halloween don't leave feeling scared . . . they'll leave terrified! Home to tricks, treats, ghosts and ghouls, there's a whole host of spookiness for all the family across the Resort during Scarefest. For more information, about Scarefest and other events visit www.altontowers.com.
WIN! ++ WIN! ++ WIN! To win a Family ticket for up to 4 people please answer the following question: Which sock eating character stars in The Go! Go! Go! Show? Email your answer along with your name, address and daytime contact number to atr8@myfamilymagazine.co.uk under the subject header ‘ATR8’. Closing date for entries is 10th October 2011.
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Let’s Celebrate! With summer time well and truly in full swing, what better opportunity could there be to throw a get together? No matter what the occasion, there is something special about a party outdoors. Whether you are planning a summer celebration or relaxed get together, there are some simple steps to planning a successful event. Check out our five easy tips and remember the most important rule have fun!
Pick a date With longer days and warm evenings any day of the week is usually good during the summer. However, the weekend is ideal as it allows your guests to stay over as late as they want without having to worry about getting up early the next morning for work.
Plan your guest list How many people do you want to invite? Will your party be small intimate gathering or a large get-together of friends and family? Are children invited? Don’t feel pressured to invite everyone over at once, the summer season is long and offers plenty of opportunities for social gatherings. Avoid party poopers!
Send out invites – crucial for a good party in the making! If you are having a casual get together an email or text invite will be ok. For more sophisticated gathering we suggest a traditional paper or card invite with RSVP. Allow plenty of time for your guest to reply.
Plan your menu Keep the menu for your summer party simple. For a casual outdoor get together barbecues are ideal with healthy salad and
Win a Wii Magical Adventure with Max Max and the Magic Marker tells the story of Max, an adventurous young boy who receives a mysterious marker pen in the mail.
Playing around with it, he discovers that whatever he draws comes to life and the stage is set for a classic platform adventure romp! The player controls Max, as he hops and jumps through a series of levels, as well as the magic marker itself, using its fabulous powers to help Max by drawing directly onto the game world and solving a wide range of problems and puzzles in the process. The DS version of Max and the Magic Marker recreates all the action of the WiiWare and PC indie hit, and brings the all-important magic marker under the control of the stylus. The Wii version adds an extra ‘tutorial’ mode to provide tips and help for new players. Easy Interactive Managing Director, Michel van Elmpt, comments, “We’re thrilled to see Max and the Magic Marker launch for the first time on Nintendo DS and Wii through traditional retail. Magic and the Magic Marker is a fun and delightfully charming title that gamers of all ages can enjoy. It has already proven itself to be incredibly successful across a number of platforms so we have high hopes for the latest releases and fully expect them to fly off the shelves.”
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jacket potatoes on the side. Steak, fish, or surf-and-turf go down well and don’t forget a vegetarian option. Exotic fruit salad is great as a refreshing desert.
Bright but simple decor Decorate your table with bright summer colours, table confetti, tea-lights and fairy lights will set the mood after the sun goes down. No need to get fussy - paper party supplies are perfect and just a few small items can make a big difference!
Max and the Magic Marker features in full: G Three stunning worlds G 15 challenging levels G Variety of challenges, secrets and rewards to unlock G Intuitive use of the Wii controller/DS stylus as the magic marker G Original soundtrack by Danish band Analogik Max and the Magic Marker for Nintendo DS and Nintendo Wii is available to buy through UK retail channels from today, with a suggested retail price of £24.99
WIN! ++ WIN! ++ WIN! Easy Interactive have teamed up with My Family to offer a lucky reader a One Year Tate Modern Membership (plus extra card – see https://membership.tate.org.uk/ join-art.asp) worth £115 and a copy of the Wii version of Max and the Magic Marker. For your chance to win simply email your name, address and telephone number to max@myfamilymagazine.co.uk under the subject ‘MAX’. Closing date for entries is 15th October 2011, entries received after this date will not be entered.
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HOLIDAY FUN FOR ALL Action pack Starting a campaign can sometimes seem daunting, but with a little advice, and a lot of passion, you'll be surprised how a small movement can make a big change. We've put together an Action Pack with simple steps on campaigning to help you Save Children's Play where you live.
In response to demand, Play England has launched Save Children’s Play – a resource that communities can use to establish their own local campaigns for children’s play and be part of a national movement at the same time. In a climate of massive public spending cuts, the play sector faces its most difficult challenge since the 1980’s. Local authorities are facing tough decisions on spending, and children’s play is being hit hard. Sadly, once we start seeing the impact of cuts – play sites falling into disrepair, play schemes closing and play services making staff
redundant, it will be too late. The millions of children who rely on public play facilities will lose out for a generation. But it is not just the fundamental enjoyment of childhood that is being damaged by these cuts. Evidence shows that outdoor play is essential to children’s health, well-being and future life chances. Obesity, rickets and attention deficit disorder are just some of the growing problems in children that health experts have linked to a lack of good play space, and research
also shows a clear link between play and learning. These consequences are not being fully considered as play is targeted for easy savings. Children on their own cannot speak up about which parts of the public realm are most important to them. It’s up to us to stand up for them; to stand up for play. For more information or to download your action pack visit
www.playengland.org.uk/savechildrensplay ‘Like’ us at www.facebook.com/savechildrensplay.
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A delightful range of toys including wooden toys and bath toys, creative ideas and craft kits, role play activities and props, gardening tools and educational fun. Toys and games selected to encourage and enhance children's imagination and creativity.
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Get outside this summer with our range of outdoor toys and ideas Stockists of: Orchard Toys, Puppet Company, Fiesta Crafts, 4M, Ravensburger & I’m Toy and The Green Board Company
Try before you buy with a Headz and Handz at Yourz party. Contact: Charlotte Mitchell • Tel: 07708 350541 •info@headzandhandz.co.uk
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Perfect for children 0 - 10 yrs Helping your child’s development and learning
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HOLIDAY FUN FOR ALL
Freewheeling Fun for Little Ones . . .
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Win a Smart-Trike!
For your chance to win a Smart-Trike – email competition4smarttrike@gmail.co.uk telling us why you and your tot would love a Smart-Trike!
School runs can be a crazy dash of mayhem and all too often you end up jumping in the car to travel just a couple of miles . . . but why not encourage even the youngest in your family to enjoy getting out and about in the early morning with this unique Smart-Trike?
Closing date for entries 15th October 2011. No entry received after the closing date will be entered into the competition. Unique safety features include parent’s footbrake, a clutch on the pedals that allows freewheeling for little ones, seat belt, safety bar and a completely unique steering handle that gives parent’s peace of mind in the early stages. Easy to convert at each stage, the Smart-Trike is designed for years of use for children and their siblings to get the most of the outdoors and learn to love exercise. This fantastic Trike comes in an array of stylish designs and is available from Toys R Us, and The Early Learning Centre . . . and SmartTrike have also given us one amazing Smart-Trike Zoo for one lucky tot to enjoy over the years ahead! RRP: £99.99. Stockists: ELC, Toys R Us, Amazon, Argos etc
The Smart-Trike Zoo 3-in-1 is the innovative push-along trike that grows with your child from ten months right up to three years plus, when they can ride it as their own tricycle! As they grow their feet will reach the pedals, and quicker than you’d ever expect, they’ll learn to ride all by themselves!
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Win A BitBike! Is there any better way to race around the playground than on one of these fantastic, awardwinning balance bikes? My Family Magazine don’t think so and happily we have one of these cool space-age vehicles to give away to one lucky tot! The BitBike is the uniquely stylish, ergonomically designed balance bike for little trailblazers from around 18 months all the way to 3 years+ and they’re now available in the UK!
This really is the perfect mission vehicle for adventurous tots and the ultimate product to help them take their first steps into the world of two wheelers . . . The funky, brightlycoloured, wide wheels and innovative handlebar provides extra stability, a comfy riding position and a great carrying handle for parents. Even better, with the help of the super-stable BitBike, it won’t be long before your little ones can run to explore on their own as it quickly helps them to develop their balance, coordination, and motor-skills. All-in-all a great way to set your tots on the track to selfconfidence and a love of the great outdoors! RRP: £90.00 Stockists: http://shop.bitbike.co.uk
WIN! ++ WIN! ++ WIN! For your chance to win a BitBike email your name, address and contact number to info@bitbike.co.uk and tell us why your little one would love to have a BitBike of their very own! Closing date for entries 15th October 2011. No entry received after the closing date will be entered into the competition.
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HOBBIES & CRAFTS
Crafty Changes at Burghley Living Heritage announce a major change to their Burghley Craft, Sculpture and Art Fair on Saturday 15th & Sunday 16th October.
When you want to be thrilled by noise and excitement, take a stroll to the Chainsaw Carving Area, where you will have the chance to be thrilled by their skills, and the opportunity to buy a nice carving.
As always there will be our Pavilions, where over 90 of the Country’s most talented Craftsmen will be exhibiting and selling their Crafts and Skills. New for this year is the addition of individual marquees of Ceramics, Wood, Glass, Paintings and other mediums which will be the star attraction. Approximately 6 or 8 Craftsmen will be on hand in each specialist marquee demonstrating continually throughout the show.
Margaret Burke from E & M Glass in Cheshire. Do not miss their inspiring demonstrations as you witness the transformation of a small gather of molten glass resulting in a beautiful sparkling vase or glass. There will also be areas where the visitors themselves can try their hand at different crafts.
The Ceramics marquee has attracted some very special demonstrations, with large pottery being thrown on the wheel by Roy Clarke, sculpting by Maggie Betley and specialist potter David Pantling to name a few. They will be there to demonstrate and talk to visitors and advise on techniques being used.
This is just one of a series of events being organised for you and the family. With entertainment for all, the chance to purchase a special gift, the opportunity to ‘have a go’ at one of many skills, there really is something for everyone at a Living Heritage event. Please view our websites for more information www.craft-shows.co.uk www.livingheritagecountryshows.co.uk www.livingheritagecontemporarycraft.co.uk
There will be many more demonstrations for you to see, such as the popular glass blowers Ed &
Get crafty this summer: Chilterns and Weald of Kent Craft Shows 2011 The Chilterns Craft Show 26-29 August, Stonor Park, Henley-onThames and the Weald of Kent Craft Show 9-11 September, Penshurst Place, Nr Tonbridge will be packed with stunning British handmade arts & crafts for the home and garden, live music, features, displays and a stunning show garden as well as delicious food and drink. More than 200 crafts people from all over Britain will be showing why handmade is best. Find a quirky gift for a loved one or an iconic addition to your home and garden. Don’t miss the Good Food Live area, a mustvisit for all foodies, which will include a Live Cookery Demonstration Theatre with guest chef Paul Da Costa Greaves. Whizz around the globe in the friendly and informal Tutored Wine Tasting sessions where you can sample a selection of fine wines from across the world and be entertained and education in an enjoyable way!
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Be inspired to create a tranquil oasis this summer at the stunning Show Garden. Meander around the lavish selection of flowers and shrubs that have been designed by the experts. Bring out your children’s creative side and get them to try something new in the hands-on workshops and activity area or let off some steam in the children’s play area. With numerous interactive family craft demonstrations, including some traditional rural craft techniques, there’s plenty for adults as well. At Chiltern’s, Simon Keeley will be on hand to teach the art of stone carving. With the buzz around beekeeping, Natures Fayre will be offering inspiration and practical advice for would-be beekeepers. With something for all the family, don’t miss the Chilterns and Weald of Kent Craft show this summer. Buy tickets online at
www.ichf.co.uk or phone Ticket Hotline
01425 277988.
HOBBIES & CRAFTS
Visit Crafts for Christmas, Hobbycrafts and Art Materials Live this autumn! Put some fun and creativity back into your Christmas shopping by visiting Crafts for Christmas/Hobbycrafts/ Art Materials Live at the NEC, Birmingham from the 3-6 November! Escape the crowds and queues on the High Street and enjoy a much more relaxed shopping experience. Here you will find everything you need for a handmade, personalised Christmas for you and your family. With nostalgic toys for the children or beautiful jewellery for someone special, Crafts for Christmas offers a huge selection of fine handmade crafts from over 200 craft exhibitors. Find treats that will capture every boy and girls’ heart, young or old at the British Toymakers Guild who will show why traditional toys are best. The Festive Food and Drink aisle is a must for any foodie – with a fabulous selection of tempting products, including handmade chocolates, marmalades, cheeses and wines. There will be something for even the most discerning food fan!
Hobbycrafts, the UK’s largest creative crafts show, will be bigger and better than ever this year with over 200 exhibitors bringing the best of the creative craft world together. Stock up and discover new products with an unrivalled choice of supplies. Speak to the exhibitors for all the latest trends, ideas and top tips for a wide range of creative crafts. With daily on-stand demonstrations and mini workshops, you’ll find plenty of inspiration for your own creative craft projects.
With over 100 exhibitors offering cutting-edge cake decorating supplies and products, this show is a must-visit for any cake craft and decorating fan. Pop along to ‘A Taste of Sugar’ hands-on workshops especially designed for sugarcrafting
To win a pair of tickets for Crafts for Christmas, Hobbycrafts and Art Materials-Live simply email your name, address and daytime contact number to hobby@myfamilymagazine.co.uk under the subject header ‘HOBBY8’. Closing date for entries is 10th October 2011.
Get creative at UK’s liveliest and biggest art materials show, Art Materials Live where leading professional artists will be on hand to offer the very latest in art supplies, ideas and innovations as well as free demonstrations to leave you feeling inspired and enthused. If you are after Christmas gifts that you won’t find on the high street or you want to treat yourself to some new creative craft supplies, make sure you visit both these events this autumn! Buy tickets online at
www.ichf.co.uk or phone Ticket Hotline: 01425 277988.
Visit the Authors area where you can pick up top tips from cake decorator gurus. This year’s international guest will be the highly regarded Rosa Viacava de Ortega from Peru, who is a pioneer in modern sugarcraft art. See the experts create their masterpieces live in one of the three Demonstration Theatres where some of the greatest sugarcraft and cake decorators from both home and abroad will be show-casing their talents.
Win Tickets for Cake International 2011 Visit the largest sugarcraft and cake decoration event ever staged, Cake International 2011, 4-6 November at the NEC, Birmingham. This fantastic three-day event will provide all the latest ideas, supplies, live competitions, demonstrations and workshops leaving you with the perfect recipe to create your very own masterpiece.
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newcomers and juniors, or if you enjoy a bit of friendly competition, enter one of the junior competition classes. If you are a novice to cake decorating or have been creating masterpieces for many years, enter the 2011 competition classes to be in with a chance of getting your skills and creativity recognised. For more information about the competitions please contact about the competitions please visit www.ichf.co.uk/cake. The 3 LIVE PME Cake Decorating Competitions will make a welcome return to the show following their successful launch last year. Spread out over three days, choose from the Cupcake Challenge on Friday 4th November, PME Student of the Year on Saturday 5th November and PME Cake Decorator of the Year on Sunday 6th November or rise to the challenge and enter all three!
With an abundance of demonstrations, new products, advice and workshops, make sure you visit the world’s largest sugarcraft & cake decoration show, Cake International. For more information call ICHF on 01425 272711 or visit www.ichf.co.uk Buy tickets online at
www.ichf.co.uk or phone Ticket Hotline: 01425 277988.
WIN! ++ WIN! ++ WIN! To win a pair of tickets for Cake International simply email name, address and daytime contact number to cake@myfamilymagazine.co.uk under the subject header ‘CAKE8’. Closing date for entries is 10th October 2011.
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HOBBIES & CRAFTS
Make Your Own Beaded Curtain Tie backs . . . Create your own ‘home-made home’ by making your own beaded curtain tie backs! You can add a personal touch to your room by including home-made touches, and it can save you money too!
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Materials Required BO337 – large wooden beads BO98 – fabric bead selection BA1089 – acrylic ‘washer’ beads TC266 – brown rayon cord
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Take a piece of twisted rayon cord and make a loop at one end. Tie a knot to secure the loop. Thread on large beads in a pattern. I chose to use wooden beads and fabric covered beads.
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Once the string of beads reaches your required length, make a loop at the other side, tie a knot and cut off any excess thread. Hook one loop on to a hook, wrap the beaded tie back around the curtain and hook the other loop to hold the curtain.
All products are available from Beads Direct
www.beadsdirect.co.uk or call on 01509
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FASHION & BEAUTY
Hot Competition Fun for an Indian Summer! For all those fashionista mums out there who had to hang up their necklaces as soon as their little one came along, we are happy to introduce . . . Mama Jewels!
Inspired and stunning jewellery designed to withstand the rough and tumble of life with young children. Super strong and completely non-toxic these are necklaces and bracelets that no curious little fingers will be able to harm, plus the eye-catching designs and sparkling beads are sure to capture the attention of little ones when they’re being fed! With such a wide range of designs and colours available, and such lovely packaging, Mama Jewels are sure to always make the perfect present – and happily we have two of their lovely, limited edition ‘Indian Summer’ necklaces to giveaway to our lucky readers… RRP: £25.95 Stockists: www.mamajewels.co.uk
WIN! ++ WIN! ++ WIN! A Sparkling Prize from Mama Jewels To be in with a chance of winning one of the necklaces please email your name, address and telephone number to info@mamajewels.co.uk and tell us why you’d love to win! Closing date for entries 15th October 2011. No entry received after the closing date will be entered into the competition.
Hearts and Homespun
Olinda jewellery is unique handmade jewellery, made with natural stones and gemstones, Murano glass and shell, on chain, wire, leather and cotton, with silver and gold-plated findings and clasps.
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Hearts and Homespun create beautiful, gentle and moisturising soaps using only quality oils, natural ingredients and luxurious Shea Butter. From gorgeous handmade soaps to an eclectic range of bath and body care products and gift sets, Hearts and Homespun are against using any SLSs or parabens and all products are lovingly handcrafted in the Amber Valley, Derbyshire. For more information on this natural gem, visit www.heartsandhomespun.com or call 0777 2673 241
FAMILY HEALTH
Programme child safety into your ‘autopilot’ It is a sad fact that every year around one million children, the majority under the age of five, are taken to hospital after an accident at home. During Child Safety week (20 to 26 June) the Child Accident Prevention Trust launched a piece of research that showed that we all carry out everyday tasks on ‘autopilot’ to get through the day because there is simply too much to remember. Think about it, how many times have you gone back to check you have locked the front door and discovered you had? Or sat down and drunk a cup of tea but not really remembering making it? But in stark contrast the research showed that for many parents child safety was not automatic, with less than half stating they did not automatically put hot drinks out of reach of small children and only 21 per cent of parents said they strapped their child into their highchair every time.
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Commenting on the findings, Katrina Phillips, Chief Executive of the Child Accident Prevention Trust said: “Busy parents can use their autopilot to their advantage to help keep children safe from serious accidents. The trick is to make safety part of your everyday routine and develop safety habits before your child puts you to the test. “Many accidents happen when parents are taken by surprise by their child’s abilities – when they grab at a mug of coffee or open cleaning products left under the sink. If safety habits are already second nature, children are kept safe from serious harm.” So take the time today to check whether child safety is part of your every day routine and visit www.capt.org.uk/safety-advice for easy to remember tips and ideas.
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SUMMER HOME
Make the Most of
Your Summer Evenings
Now summer is here we turn our attention to the garden, weeding, planting and mowing but what about when all that is done and you want to sit on the patio to enjoy a nice glass of wine (or beer). How do you extend that summer evening? Here at Countesthorpe Blinds Limited we have the answer – Patio Awnings and Terrace Covers. Both of these products not only give shade against harmful UV rays but improve the ambience of a summers evening. Cold air drops at night, so sitting under one keeps the chill off and now with the addition of Quartz Heaters that heat you and not the air, enable you to enjoy a drink long into the night. Patio Awnings come in a wide range of models, from a Basic manual awning to fully motorised cassette awning.With the addition of lighting and heating you can totally transform the area. All awnings are fully retractable and and self supporting when extended.
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If it was a more permanent sturdy structure you were looking for then a Terrace cover would be your answer. Terrace covers create an outdoor room, the front frame continues to the floor and is bolted down. The cover then extends within the frame keeping it taut.This together with the integral gutter system makes them ideal in the rain.These also make great covers for hot tubs providing both shelter and privacy and with the addition of lights and heaters a perfect room that can be put away when you have finished with it at a fraction of the cost of an extension. So if this sounds like a great way to enjoy the summer, call Countesthorpe Blinds Limited for a free no obligation quotation on : 0116 277 6749 or 0771 833 7048 or Visit our website at: www.countesthorpeblinds.co.uk
EDUCATION
OVERCOMING
First Day Fears Your child's first day at a new school, nursery or playgroup is a big step. However, there are plenty of practical things that you can do to prepare them. It is important not to dismiss your child's fears – things that seem obvious or silly to an adult can seem daunting to a five year old. Talking to your child
G Games, role-playing and reading at home can help your child get into the right frame of mind and boost their confidence. G play games that involve taking turns or speaking in front of a group G playing with children of a similar age to develop social skills G read books together about starting school G using your child's favourite toys to role-play going to school G painting and drawing, which involve sitting down for short periods of time
Your child may be anxious about what to expect on the first day at school. If so, one way of helping them is to talk through their fears:
In the weeks before school starts
G explain where they'll be going, what they'll be doing and for how long
In the run-up to the first day of term you could:
G answer questions and iron out any fears by asking what they think the school might be like
G involve your child in choosing things they need for school like school bags or uniforms
G emphasise the things they may enjoy doing
G visit the school with your child so they become familiar with the building and the local area
G tell them who will be there to meet them at the end of the day
Building on practical skills If your child has a good idea of what school is going to be like and have already experienced learning activities at home and in other settings, they're less likely to find the experience stressful.
G most schools have arrangements to support your child's transition into school which you may want to enquire about G establish a routine and discuss what might be happening at school at different times of the day
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"ACK TO SCHOOL AND BACK ON TRACK back to school can be daunting for even the Here are a few tips to help them make the transition smoothly. Get them excited! Ask lots of questions about their new schedule. Showing interest in all the exciting things the new term will bring will help them focus on feeling grown-up rather than daunted.
Re-establish the old order During the holidays all of the work that you have put into termtime routine seems to go out of the window. Sensible sleep patterns can be the hardest to reinforce so it is good to start setting the alarm at least a week before the start of term.
Make it fun The“Back to School�shop can feel like the signal that the holidays are over. Letting them pick out new pencil cases and stationery can help relieve that sense of disappointment and help them get excited about the new term.
Talk it through that not only is it perfectly normal, but that all of their friends and even their new teacher is likely to be feeling the same. Ask them what they can do to help their friends feel more relaxed on
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FOR YEAR OLDS OF ALL ABILITIES
How Explore Learning can help... Joining an extracurricular maths and English centre such as Explore Learning can really help a child ease back into school, not just after the summer but after any holiday period. For most children, consistency and routine is key to helping them make big transitions smoothly, and as Explore is open all year round, children never have to abruptly stop their entire routine.
classroom and is eager to participate by providing them with a comfortable environment in which to practise new skills. All work is mapped to the National Curriculum, and every child’s learning plan is tailored individually meaning that Explore can help every child, whatever their ability.
Flexible Membership Explore Learning centres can be found throughout the UK and are open 7 days a week. Once members, children can attend the Explore Learning centre twice a week anytime during our opening hours, without booking or calling in advance.
free trial session simply visit our website: www.explorelearning.co.uk or call: 01483 447410
EDUCATION
Give Your Child
the Best Start From the moment your child is born, he or she is learning, growing and developing. Their experiences play a fundamental part in that development. Award winning, Best Start Nurseries provide a safe, secure and friendly environment where your child can learn and develop, while receiving a good grounding for the school years ahead of them.
Based in South Leicestershire, Best Start Nurseries have two childcare provisions – St Mary’s Montessori Day Nursery in Lutterworth and Alma Park Nursery in Wibtoft.
Pre-School The words ‘first day at school’ provoke a range of reactions in both parents and children. Some are counting the days, others are apprehensive, curious, or plain terrified – and that’s just the parents! At Best Start, staff do their very best to prepare your child for this exciting stage of their life. Participation in pre-school literacy and numeracy activities will help your child achieve their Early Learning Goals as laid out in the Foundation Stage Curriculum. While nursery routine, the experience of sharing, making friends, tidying up and sitting down to eat together, all help to prepare your child for the average school day.
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Starting your child at nursery is often more traumatic for you than it is for your child. In order to ensure that your child settles in as quickly as possible, Best Start Nurseries do their homework.
Security is a priority at Best Start Nurseries and access to both nursery premises is strictly controlled. For added peace of mind – there are webcams in each room, which enable office staff to monitor what is happening around the nursery throughout the day.
The Best Environment Best Start Nurseries believe that a stimulating and attractive environment is essential for your childs development. Both nurseries are spacious, purposely designed facilities and are well equipped with age appropriate resources. Free play is encouraged and the weekly timetable includes yoga and other fun activities.
Starting Out
the brand new Garden Room. Designed to encourage curiosity about the outside world, it allows easier access to the garden and adds a new dimension to the nursery.
The nurseries are set in their own grounds, with attractive outdoor spaces for the children to let off steam, play with friends or simply investigate the world around them. St Mary’s Montessori recently underwent the addition of
The Best Start team take great pride in creating a welcoming, caring environment for children and building good relationships with parents. If you would like more information or to arrange a visit call Sue or Claire on 01455 554 034 Please be aware that spaces are limited!
www.beststartnurseries.com
Prior to your child’s first day at nursery, staff will discuss their routine and needs with you. There are also two, hour-long visits for you and your child to become familiar with the environment, routine and the staff. Best Start want your child to feel happy and confident about their new surroundings. They understand that the more relaxed and reassured you are about your child’s transition into the nursery, the more easily your child will find their feet.
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EDUCATION
An individual approach to education
St George’s School Edgbaston Give your child the very best start in life with a quality education at St George’s School, in Edgbaston. A fully co-educational independent day school, we offer a friendly and caring one school community for children from age 3 -18 years.
Established since 1997, Ladybird Day Nursery provides a friendly stimulating and safe environment where children enjoy challenging activities that stretch their imaginations and help develop a range of new skills. Registered with Ofsted Early Years – all staff hold appropriate childcare qualifications. The nursery also benefits from a large, secure garden and CCTV. Situated next to Edgbaston county cricket ground, opposite Cannon Hill Park, Ladybird Day Nursery offers flexible childcare for up to 29 children from 0-8 years of age – including school holidays and teacher training days. Open Monday - Friday, 7.00am until 6.30pm (excluding bank holidays)
Telephone: 0121 440 5706
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Small classes with a fun learning ethos for younger pupils
Outstanding support for children with dyslexia
11+ tuition and excellent exam results
Improved facilities with recent refurbishment, including extended library, upgraded ICT department, new art block with ceramics room, bespoke dance and drama studios
Extensive variety of extra curricular and enrichment activities including the Duke of Edinburgh Awards Scheme and ‘Go Ape’ experience
Thriving Sixth Form, with a wide choice of A-level subjects
“You’re not just a number... you’re someone at St George’s.” Dominic, Lower Sixth
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Saturday 1st October 10am-12 noon Tel: 0121 625 0398 31, Calthorpe Road, Edgbaston, Birmingham B15 1RX Email: admissions@sgse.co.uk
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UNDERSTANDING AUTISM
Samantha Cameron Opens New Specialist School for Children With Autism On June 9th 2011, the Prime Minister’s wife Samantha Cameron officially opened Baston House School in Bromley, Kent. My Family were privileged to be among the 100 guests who attended, including Patron, Esther Rantzen and the Deputy Mayor of Bromley, Cllr Reg Adams and Directors of Hillcrest Care. Baston House School is an impressive new day facility providing autism specific education for children aged from 5-16. A centre of excellence in education and development, the school which offers specialist teaching and support for children and young adults on the autistic spectrum, is one of a number of provisions that have been pioneered by autism campaigner Anna Kennedy.
After her tour of the school, Samantha Cameron and other guests enjoyed the official opening celebrations with pupils displaying their talents on the school stage. To everyone’s surprise Samantha Cameron joined them briefly on the stage alongside Anna Kennedy and Esther Rantzen as they danced to Beauty School Drop Out. All three were then proudly presented with gifts from children at the school.
On visiting the groundbreaking facilities, Samantha Cameron said:
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I am delighted to open Baston House School. I have great admiration for Anna Kennedy's determination to help people affected by autism and I'm pleased to celebrate this landmark opening with her. “She was quite rightly named 'Most Inspirational Woman of the Year' by the Daily Mail in 2010 and I'm so pleased she has achieved her ambition of opening this school which stands as testament to her dedication to this important cause.
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During her visit Samantha Cameron toured the school and met some of the children who will be benefiting from the impressive new facility. The children were happy to meet their VIP guest and eager to show her their classrooms,
which have been specially designed to create a therapeutic environment where pupils learn to work independently without distraction. Samantha Cameron also met some of the teachers who are supporting the children in their learning. The main focus at Baston House School is to tackle the barriers to learning that pupils on the Autism Spectrum encounter; namely communication and interaction difficulties also problems with flexibility of thought and action. Working alongside the teaching staff, specialist teams ensure that students are appropriately supported through every day and every learning experience.
Baston House was beautifully decorated in blue and yellow for the occasion with fresh flowers, balloons, and the pupils work. Guests enjoyed a tasty buffet lunch and there was a beautifully decorated cake made by friend of the school Maureen Jones. With smiling faces throughout the celebration, it was clear to see that everyone had enjoyed the event!
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UNDERSTANDING AUTISM
Hillingdon Manor The largest school for children with autism, in the UK & Europe Specialist independent day education, for children on the autistic spectrum, aged between three and nineteen. Local Authority referrals accepted. • Access to the National Curriculum.
G Yiewsley Grange, Primary – Key Stage 1 and 2 G The Manor, Secondary – Key Stage 3 G The Lawns – Key Stage 4 / Key Stage 5 Therapies include Speech and Language Therapy, Occupational Therapy, Music Therapy, Drama & Movement Therapy and Counselling. Set in extensive grounds with outdoor play area and gardens. Visit www.hillingdonmanorschool.org.uk or phone: 01895 813679 for more information about Hillingdon Manor School, including admissions, open days and events.
A Step in the Right Direction Autism campaigner Anna Kennedy is due to launch a unique dance and exercise DVD for children and young people with autism. The founder of Hillingdon Manor School produced ‘Step in the Right Direction’ in association with Pineapple Performing Arts Schools. Anna, formerly a dance teacher wants to encourage youngsters on the autistic spectrum to take a ‘Step in the Right Direction’ and find out how much fun expressing themselves through music and dance can be. Most of the filming took place at Pineapple Dance Studios and features children from Anna’s school, alongside a host of famous dance teachers including Pineapple Dance Studios founder Debbie Moore, Maggie Paterson, Jade Flannagan, Andrew Stone and 12year-old, Britain’s Got Talent sensation James Hobley. With a recommended retail price of £7.99 ‘Step in the Right Direction’ will be available in September from www.annakennedyonline.com, www.amazon.co.uk and iTunes.
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UNDERSTANDING AUTISM
Anna Kennedy Reaches Out to the Autism Community A regular to the pages of My Family, autism campaigner Anna Kennedy is at the forefront of autism awareness. The mother of two autistic sons, she knows first hand the struggle that half a million adults and children in the UK with autism, and their families, face.
Spreading the Word After the publication of Anna’s book ‘Not Stupid’ she received a growing number of emails and letters from people with similar experiences to herself and her family. Anna knew that there was need for a global platform where those who live and work with autism could discuss new strategies and approaches. Never wanting to miss the opportunity to connect people she created annakennedyonline.com an autism specific community resource where people who need help or want to offer solutions could come together and share ideas.
Fighting for Fairness The award winning mum’s capacity to push forward and her determination to get things done is inspirational. Not to be underestimated because of her slight appearance, Anna is a driving force in the autism community. As the founder of Hillingdon Manor School (the largest school for children with autism in the UK and Europe), she understands that you have to shout the message demanding equality loud and clear, if you want to be heard! Anna has collected and reported information from a number of surveys, launched campaigns and created specialist provisions for those living with autism and Asperger Syndrome. Led by her own battles with bureaucracy and
prejudice, she tirelessly pushes the boundaries of discrimination in the fight for fair treatment, fair opportunities and the right to suitable support for those on the autistic spectrum. Anna is a co-founder of ACT NOW (Autism Campaigners Together), a core group of people passionate about the future wellbeing of children and adults with an autistic spectrum disorder in the UK. Fighting cuts to welfare, health, education, services and provisions, the national campaign has gained 10,000 active supporters including some of the UK's leading autism professionals, MPs and members of the House of Lords.
New Blog! It doesn’t end there; Anna hasn’t stopped developing ways to communicate with the wider audience. The latest news travels fast with the launch of her new blog www.annakonline.com continuously updated with inspirational stories and expert advice, it makes sourcing information about Anna’s latest projects and ideas as easy as possible.
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UNDERSTANDING AUTISM
The Old Vicarage Supported Care Building Independent Lives The Old Vicarage is an eight bedroom residential home, located in a leafy road, ten minutes walk from Uxbridge town centre. Offering assisted living, specifically for adults with an autistic spectrum condition or Asperger Syndrome.
A well-equipped modern kitchen encourages as much independence as is possible. Residents are encouraged to use the space to prepare their own food and labelled cupboards give everyone their own space for shopping. Leading off the kitchen is a spacious dining room which is currently used as a breakfast area.
We met manager Michele Jackson who took time out of her busy schedule to guide us around. Michele explained that The Old Vicarage’s objectives are to provide needsled care packages for residents, whilst offering a consistent, quality staff team, who recognise an individual’s needs and understand their diagnosis. The home access and liaise with relevant healthcare professionals and constantly review the service to offer the best quality of care available.
Comfortable and Homely Communal Areas The Old Vicarage is in a beautiful setting and there is a real feeling of comfort with many of the rooms retaining their original features. Four communal rooms are located on the ground floor with modern leather couches and the latest high-tech gadgets. Michele and her team appreciate that the facility is most importantly the residents’ home and respect the privacy, choices and dignity of those residing there. Personal photos can be found throughout, along with a gallery of images including fancy dress parties and barbecues that the residents have attended.
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Anna Kennedy and Michele Jackson
The Garden
A bright and airy conservatory looks out onto, and provides access to, a large enclosed garden where residents can take a private moment or make the most of the outdoor space. A social hub, the large conservatory is currently the dining area in the summer months where residents can eat together or alone if they prefer. Regular house meetings, attended by residents and staff for open discussions about the home are also held in the conservatory.
Neighbours, staff, and residents regularly attend open days and barbecues in the garden, these events offer the chance to meet each other and embrace The Old Vicarage as part of the community. There is always a good turn out with lots of fun, good food and sometimes even fancy dress. Within the garden, there is a large ‘wellbeing room’ set within a Swiss chalet style building a quiet space, it offers an alternative place to relax without distraction.
Care and Support The Old Vicarage provides a level of care that respects the privacy of its residents whilst recognising and enhancing selfesteem, confidence and personal identity. Service users are supported to access and investigate new ideas, activities, experiences whilst as independently as possible, are encouraged to increase their skill base in all areas of their life. If a resident chooses to move on and live independently, they are helped every step of the way by West London Specialist Support, an outreach service for supported living. Individual’s homes are supported with panic buttons and 24- hour support through the service, which has been established since 2003 as part of Autism Consultants Limited. For more information visit
www.autismconsultants.org or telephone: 01895 454710
UNDERSTANDING AUTISM
Specialist Support for
INDEPENDENT LIVING West London Specialist Support Services is a supported living and outreach provision for individuals affected by Autistic Spectrum Condition, Learning Difficulties, and Acquired Brain Injuries. Providing needs-led packages of support, the aim of the service is to maximise an individual’s potential and encourage independence skills whilst building on their self-esteem.
Independence for Karl “I moved to Hounslow in February 2009 after living away for a few years. I didn’t like where I was living before and I was excited about moving in to my new house but also a little nervous. My support workers helped me settle into my house and make it feel like home, they showed me how to set up direct debits to make sure my bills are paid.
Two clients Angelo and Karl tell us how West London Specialist Support Services have helped them to gain confidence and independence.
Angelo enjoys his time with Gloria Hello, my name is Angelo and I am 18 years old. I live with my parents and attend Hillingdon Manor School. I enjoy watching DVD’s and using the computer. I have autism which means that I find communicating, understanding others and how to express my own emotions difficult. I sometimes find it hard to imagine situations outside of my routine but love trying new experiences.
Angelo (right) with his brother, Patrick I access West London Specialist Support Services for outreach support, so that I can gain confidence within the community accessing activities which I enjoy. My support worker is called Gloria; I meet with her once a week except in the school holidays when we meet more often. She drives and has her own silver car, and I get to sit in the front. I have a support plan that is ‘all about me’ and helps Gloria to understand why I need support and how I would like to be supported. I like to go for walks in the countryside where I can have lots of space and fresh air. It’s a good job Gloria likes keeping fit and enjoys the countryside too! We have been on lots of outings together and my confidence is growing. I like eating out in restaurants and cafes, Gloria knows all the good places to get my favourite food.
“I like to do things for myself but sometimes I wasn’t sure how, I hadn’t done things like hoovering and washing my clothes for a long time. The support workers helped me learn how to do these things again, along with other things such as which bus to catch when I can go shopping or to the pub. I’m now learning how to cook so I can eat my dinner when I want. Where I lived before there wasn’t a choice, I had to have my dinner at the same time every day, but now I can have it whenever I want!’’
For information about the services that West London Specialist Support can offer, contact a member of the Senior team for an informal chat – telephone 01895 619930 and ask for Gemma, Gavin or Polly. If you feel that you are interested in becoming a Support worker contact recruitment@hillcrestcare.co.uk for an application pack.
Gloria accompanies me to the barbers to get my haircut and beard trimmed, I always look very smart when the barber has finished. We have visited shopping centres and also the city farm, Gloria reassures me about the noises and crowds. Should I become anxious, she understands how I would like to be supported. We have also been to the bowling alley – I let Gloria win!
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FROM BUMP TO BUSINESS
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Helen Lindop Helen Lindop is the founder of the website, BusinessPlusBaby.com, dedicated to helping mums of young children start their own businesses. She is also co-author of Start a Family Friendly Business: 129 Brilliant Business Ideas for Mums.
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Autism Specific Education in Bromley MISSION STATEMENT:
“Baston House School will strive to provide effective specialist education and support to pupils on the Autism Spectrum and to their families, enabling pupils to achieve their full potential in education and in life outside school.”
Admissions now being taken for Primary and Secondary School entry A centre of excellence in education and development, Baston House School is a day facility for children aged between 5 and 16 years, who have been diagnosed with an autism spectrum condition. We accept referrals from Local Authorities.
Open Days for Parents, Carers and Professionals 11am - 1pm 29th September 2011 24th November 2011 For admissions and information about upcoming events call 020 8462 1010 or visit www.bastonhouseschool.org.uk Baston House School Baston Road • Hayes Bromley • Kent BR2 7AB