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Are we excited or are we excited! We’ve been working non-stop for the best part of 2013 to create something that will be life changing (huge statement, but that’s what we’re aiming for. Think big : standard). YouthPhoriaUK© is a brand new digital magazine for young people, by young people, about young people – you get the idea, right? An online platform for thoughts, ideas, opinions, attitudes, concerns, celebrations, REAL LIFE stories and all that is great about youth to be expressed. This, the premier edition of YouthPhoriaUK© <<insert music, whistles, balloons, poppers and fireworks here>> yes, this edition focuses on Role Models – What are they? Who are they? Do we need them? Is it a term that gets overused but actually, nobody really cares about? Inside you’ll read about some ordinary people who are doing extraordinary things in our ‘S.O.S – Story of Success’ articles; individuals who are setting great examples, being ‘role models’ and showing that Generation Z (born early 90’s and onwards) really are leading the way of change (but what will the generation after Z be called, I wonder?) You’ll see from the front cover that X-Factor favourites Rough Copy are included too. You might be huge fans of the boys or not (or might not even know who they are) but we’d like to thank them for taking time out for YouthPhoriaUK© this year. As Editor of YouthPhoriaUK©, I really hope that you enjoy what we’ve put together for you. You can read on page 5 about who we are and what our vision is for YouthPhoriaUK© and the many opportunities that will be available to get involved.

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We’d love to hear your feedback and suggestions, so please get in touch!

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Home is where our heart is! Youth in Excellence CIC are proud to announce their new partnership with Ekaya Housing Association. Ekaya are a well-established organisation with over 25 years of experience providing housing and accommodation support to predominately ethnic minority women and their families in South London. Currently working in the London Boroughs of Lambeth, Southwark, Wandsworth, Lewisham, Croydon, Merton and Greenwich, Ekaya provide accommodation and a range of support services to over 400 homes and residents. Their portfolio also includes the provision of high quality support to teenage mothers and their babies, and they go a step further by running an award winning community nursery. The subsidiary nursery â&#x20AC;&#x2DC;Happy Nursery Daysâ&#x20AC;&#x2122; provides quality child care to 69 children in Tulse Hill, Lambeth. This visionary collaboration will be a great benefit to Ekaya, its residents and the communities that it serves. Working from and based within Ekayaâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;s community nursery premises in Tulse Hill, YIE CIC will bring their expertise, ideas and dedication offering additional support to service users and also promoting digital inclusion opportunities for Ekaya. Together, Youth in Excellence CIC and Ekaya will be working on new initiatives such as:

delivering professional skills and enterprise training to teenage parents

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Both partners are really excited about the new partnership, which will no doubt add immense value to the work which they already do and provide much needed support and training to the community they serve as a whole.

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Campus Youth in CMI Excellence Youth in Excellence CIC and Campus CMI are delighted to announce that they will be working in partnership to roll out the Campus CMI programmes to young people aged 14 to 21, initially within the London area from 2014. These CMI accredited management and leadership qualifications focus on core personal development and employability skills, which will help people to secure jobs and provide a credible qualification to add to their CV.

Campus CMI aims to inspire, create confidence and build employment competence in the next generation of Managers and Leaders, through practical training and support resources which includes free access to the online system ‘Management Direct’. By working alongside Youth in Excellence CIC who have built strong relationships in the community, Campus CMI will be able to offer this opportunity to more young people, raising the aspirations and ambitions of future generations.

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Junior Ogunyemi is his name, helping others maximise their potential is his game. A multi-award winning social entrepreneur and one of the passionate pioneers who helped kick start the current ‘student entrepreneur’ buzz around the UK. While studying for a BSc in Economics at Queen Mary, University of London, Junior co-founded the Queen Mary Enterprise Society and built one of the fastest growing sports academies in Britain. By graduation, he owned a successful football coaching academy operating in schools and communities across London. He also launched a publishing company that produced several magazines and ran numerous other start-up ventures online. He then went on to write the book ‘How To Be A Student Entrepreneur’ that is currently

sweeping young entrepreneurs off their feet and into their destiny. After securing a publishing contract in late 2011 the revolutionary book is now available in five countries across the globe.

“This book is the ultimate guide to making a fortune whilst studying,” says Junior. “It’s both inspirational and practical. It addresses everything from your personal development as a business leader to how you can Along with his book, Junior recently set up manage time, stress and finance.” a fundraising platform to help promote and One could say Junior is a catalyst for generate revenue for Christian ministries. inspiring the kind of young people who are He’s doing this because he found a lot of bold and brave enough to go in to the big ministries were struggling to keep doing the wide world and start their own businesses. work that they wanted to do. But at times the reputation of young people as a whole may be a detriment to what they “I think it’s important for people who are doing good work to be able to continue their are capable of doing. good work without having to worry about “Young people don’t always get the best finance.” reputation in the media,” says Junior, When asked what advice he could give “however I do think that’s changing to someone who wanted to follow in his now, probably thanks to the works of footsteps he says, “You don’t have to be organisations such as Youth in great to get started but you have to get Excellence and their BYA Awards. started in order to be great.” I remember back in the day, the way young people were You can read the full length interview portrayed in the media was a with Junior in the 2nd edition of lot worse. It’s definitely a lot YouthPhoriaUK© more positive now. “

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Osheane

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Osheane Chambers is a student at University of Greenwich and an aspiring Europe, Middle East and Africa (EMEA) Business Consultant and Social Entrepreneur. Having been told by an A-level teacher that he would be re-sitting a year at college and wouldn’t get into University, he proved them wrong and has gone on to achieve many great things.

President of ‘Bright Futures Society for University of Greenwich and Kent University’, Osheane and his team have organised several workshops and high profile events across the academic year. Their biggest event to date was held on 21st November during GEW (Global Entrepreneurship Week) called ‘From Idea to Enterprise’. Knowing that not all University students have the desire to go and work for an employer after graduating – instead preferring to start their own business – ‘From Idea to Enterprise’ was an initiative to engage young people in entrepreneurial development, as a way to improve their socio-economic futures by encouraging them to explore entrepreneurialism as an alternative to unemployment. Guest Speakers included Levi Roots of ‘Reggae Reggae Sauce’ fame; Nathaniel Peat, founder of The Safety Box; award winning business mentor Lorna Stewart; Keshav, founder of Revolution Hive; Jordan Poulton from the BBC’s Apprentice and Carly Ward, founder of Young Entrepreneur Society Ltd and was hosted by #1 best selling author Vanessa McClean. The event saw around 500 attendees, and due to its great line up, has been nominated for an award by the Global Entrepreneurship Week team.

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LOOK AT ME... Amy Stables tells how Momentum World’s inclusive approach has changed young people’s lives – and her own. Momentum World (view online at www.momentumworld.org) offers international opportunities, leadership skills and professional development to enhance the career prospects of young people. One of the ways Momentum does this is through the use of film and TV projects and training, to give young people a fun, creative and inspiring experience.

This project was a challenge, as we had to get over a multitude of barriers in order to pull off the near-impossible task of being ‘film ready’ in just two days. The experience was amazing and we made friends from all over the world. We learnt how to work together through the difficulties we were facing and create some amazing programmes in such a short five day event.

I got involved with Momentum several years ago, and during this time I have travelled the world, developed as a young person and learnt new skills that I put into practise every day. My name is Amy, I’m 24, and through my involvement as a participant when I was 17 I have worked my way up to become the Creative Assistant of Momentum World.

In Austria, Momentum World provided highly skilled young film makers from the UK to teach film techniques to the young people. The only rule, once the project started, was that the professionals couldn’t touch the equipment; this was to be carried out completely by the young people. I was recently involved in the ‘Inclusion TV’ project. This project first ran over twelve months ago in Sheffield. Inclusion TV works with young people in a realistic television environment, providing the participants with a platform to develop technical skills as well as focusing on inclusion issues. The film crew was made up of students from both mainstream and special schools. They had two days to learn how to use the equipment and how to work with one another, as after this time Inclusion TV would go live to an audience of youth workers from all over the country. The young people then used this audience to actively create content and programmes about inclusion in the TV studio. The project was a huge success and we all had a fantastic time. Through the success of this project, Inclusion TV really hit the road and went international in September 2013. It landed in Austria and was received by an audience of youth workers from across Europe. The young people involved were from Germany and Austria and again had a mixture of learning difficulties or mental health issues.

‘Look At Me’ is a film produced by the young people during that week, and it is astonishing when viewed that none of them had ever made a film before. They storyboarded their ideas, wrote poetry (which became the voiceover to the film) and captured some beautiful shots which really portrayed the young people and their story in an amazing light. The young people wrote, filmed and edited this incredible piece of film-making in just four days. It includes all the young people involved in the project – some with special/social needs – and I believe this film really defines why Inclusion TV is so important.... It is their story – their inner feelings – their voice, articulating the ways in which young people are made to feel invisible, and screaming out to be heard and believed in. Momentum World provides incredible opportunities to those ready to make a change and a develop in their own lives, helping them to grow and learn in a challenging and empowering way through a process of hard work, determination and self belief. If you want to make a difference and be involved in a life changing project with other countries, get in touch. I did, and “look at me”!

Check out our blog of the project at: www.itvaustria.blogspot.com The film can be viewed in full at: www.vimeo.com//77032553 Contact Amy at: amy@momentumworld.org

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dedicate yourself to the visi “You’ve got to give it all you’ve got – dedicate dedicate yourself yourself to to the the vision vision that that you you will be whatever it is you want to be!” Kyla Frye is an award-winning actress and model from East London. Both of Kyla’s parents forged successful careers in the entertainment industry, so she naturally developed a passion for the performing arts at an early age. Kyla made her small screen debut in 1990, aged just two years old, after beating more than 2,000 entrants to win TV Toddler of the Year, a competition launched on a popular BBC1 daytime programme. The little star was rewarded with an appearance in a music video for a top UK artist at the time and gained further experience performing in theatrical productions at infant school. While still in her teens, Kyla joined street dance troupes Boy Blue Entertainment and Estate of the Arts, and honed her skills competing in the International Street Dance Championships and performing at venues such as Wembley Arena and Sadler’s Wells. Around the same time, she began nurturing a previously undeveloped passion for acting and joined Theatre Royal Stratford East’s Youth Theatre and Identity Drama School and Agency. When asked whether she had any clear goals when she was young Kyla said “For as long as I can remember all I wanted to do was to become a star and throughout my schooling life, I did all that I could to try and make that happen”. In 2006, Kyla’s journey took another unexpected turn when the 18-year-old was picked to be part of the UK Urban Fashion Awards catwalk team.

The experience introduced Kyla to a glamorous new world and with support from her close friend, Miss Black Britain 2006, Rachael Williams, she would go on to appear at London Fashion Week and model for Sony Ericsson, 3 Mobile, hair care brand Sta-SofFro, celebrity fashion designers Romero Bryan and Emmy Collins, and numerous beauty publications. The now 24 year old says that being blessed with an incredibly loving family who always encouraged and supported her, was a great example and inspiration to her growing up. Quoting Nelson Mandela “It always seems impossible until it is done”, Kyla believes that it’s very important to have to have role models in your life. “You need to be able to see / hear / know about someone who has strived in their own life, for your own mind to even contemplate the idea that something amazing could happen in your life also.” Amazing things continued to happen in her life and in 2008 she landed the supporting lead role of Tawanda in Noel Clarke’s BBC Three drama ‘West 10 LDN’, and juggled filming alongside her studies towards a combined honours degree in Criminology and Drama, Theatre and Performance at Roehampton University. Kyla’s commitment led to further acting work and by the following year she was nominated for Best British Actress at the Black Filmmakers Awards for her role in ‘The Hydra’, which won Best Film on the night and in 2010, Kyla collected Black Entertainment, Film, Fashion,Television and Arts (BEFFTA) awards for Best Model and in 2011 was nominated for Best Film Actress, respectively. YouthPhoriaUK

Additionally, in 2011, she received a BYA Award in honour of her work in the performing arts and now represents the organisation as an ambassador. Kyla also featured in comedian Angie Le Mar’s play, Younger Brothers and in a series of productions at Soho Theatre. More recently, Kyla made her big screen debut in Sheila Nortley’s ‘Zion’ and celebrated the premiere of her first feature film, ‘The Naked Poet’, directed by Jason Barrett. Not content with just being in front of the camera, Kyla has now set up her own production company, Fryeday Entertainment LTD. and released her filmmaking debut, ‘The Key’ – which was seen by over 21,000 people on TV and the most watched of all the British Urban Film Festival (BUFF) shows on BBC iPlayer. The Key has since gone on to be screened at Channel 4 and was also an official selection for film festival, Caribbean Film Corner. Clearly now a wonderful role model to others, Kyla knows that there is still a lot of work to be done and changes that need to be made within the entertainment industry and society on how young people are portrayed. “I want to leave this world in a better place than how I found it and have a legacy that inspires a generation. History has always depicted their youth as wild and lawless. I think it would be wonderful to see more young people’s successes celebrated publically as opposed to their shortcomings.” Kyla Frye is definitely living up to her motto of ‘Being the change we want to see’

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Commonly misunderstood, sometimes ridiculed and occasionally feared, those with Autism face a huge barrier when it comes to employment. YouthPhoriaUK© spoke with Phil Evans, who is seeking to increase job opportunities for Autistic people and help employers to see that they can be an asset to the workforce and not a liability. “Diversity is a word that means a lot to me and as somebody who has succeeded from a diverse background, I want to help others to achieve in life just like I have. I am autistic, and I have managed to find employment on two occasions in adult life as a Residence Assistant at Southampton Solent University and as a Retail Assistant at Iceland Foods. This may not sound like too much of an achievement and to be perfectly honest, it would be completely understandable if you don’t know too much about autism or any of the reasons why finding a job as an autistic person is such a big achievement, but I’d love to tell you about what I’m doing to give people a chance to achieve from a diverse group in society that means a lot to me.

My disability could hold me back, but I want to break down barriers, and get rid of the diversity tag. I’m a 27-year-old with Asperger’s Syndrome, a form of autism which is a developmental disability that can cause difficulties with communication skills such as a lack of eye contact or problems in understanding social cues including body language and facial expressions, and I am proud to say that I am the way I am. I’m also somebody who cares about other people and by using my experiences of finding a job, I want to help anybody else who is autistic and ready to find a job. Through Autistic Achievers, a specialist online recruitment portal that is looking to work with small, medium and large employers in Great Britain to develop tailored job vacancies for autistic people that focus on positive tendencies of autistic behaviour such as alertness, clarity, honesty, passion and precision, as well as issues with communication skills as one negative tendency, I want to change the ways in which autistic people are viewed in the workplace. Becoming employed is something that has proved incredibly tough for autistic people through simply applying for a job by picking up an application form from an employer or by looking for vacancies through online recruitment agencies such as Reed or Jobsite, so I’m offering something that shines the light on any jobseekers with autism. Only 15% of all British autistic adults have managed to find employment of any kind, as the National Autistic Society revealed in The Way We Are: Autism in 2012, while a further 79% are unemployed despite regularly searching for and applying for job vacancies.

There needs to be acceptance! Not being able to look an interviewer in the eye or not being able to understand what the interviewer is thinking are problems that cause this. Issues in being understood cause this, and I feel as an autistic person that opportunities should be built for autistic people with employers as I want to break down a fear of the unknown around autism. As with any diverse background, this is something that must be taken care of before long-term changes can be made. Whether somebody is autistic, whether somebody has struggled at school or whether somebody has got themselves a criminal record, there needs to be understanding before a relationship can move forward. There needs to be acceptance! In my mind, I feel that it is possible to grab this by showing in meetings with employers what I can do myself. I feel that I am a fairly decent advertisement for all of the positive aspects of autistic behaviour that I mentioned earlier on, and I’m starting to create opportunities where autistic people could soon apply for tailored job vacancies. The Bromford Group, a social housing association in Central England with offices in Cirencester, Lichfield, Solihull and Wolverhampton have agreed to work with Autistic Achievers in developing employment opportunities on a local level and nationally, there are meetings taking place on a regular basis with national employers that are growing more and more promising. On top of this, I am spreading the word of Autistic Achievers through the Autistic Achievers Facebook page and also the Autistic Achievers Twitter account (@AutismAchieve), so I’d love it if you would like to join me on my journey.”

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A (very) young man with a plan! At just 6 years old, Joshua Beckford started taking classes at Oxford University and now dreams of becoming a neurosurgeon. This young man knows exactly what he wants from life. At just 6 years old Joshua Beckford started taking classes at Oxford University and now dreams of becoming a neurosurgeon. This young man knows exactly what he wants from life. Not many children in pre-school know what they want to be when they grow up. Most youngsters would be humoured and patted on the head if they said that they wanted to be a neurosurgeon. But, Joshua Beckford is the exception to the rule as he knows exactly what he wants to study.

“I’ve always had a clear idea of what I want to be when I get older,” says the eight yearold who has unusual skills in seven different areas: maths, foreign languages, history, philosophy, IT, art and science. “When I was four years old I decided that I wanted to become a neurosurgeon. I am fascinated by how the human body works, especially the brain.” Joshua was born in London in 2005. His father, Knox Daniel, said he noticed his son was advanced as a baby as he sat on his lap while he worked on the computer. “I started telling him what the letters on the keyboard were and I realised that he could understand and was able to point to each letter and number correctly before he could speak” says Knox.

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He started home teaching his son aged just 10 months. Between then up until he turned six, Joshua taught himself to touch type on a computer before he could even use a pencil. At the age of two and a half, he learned to

read fluently using phonics. Then after mastering Japanese, he started to learn Chinese Mandarin. Aged 3, he was able to correctly name most cars on the road, along with the country in which they were manufactured. He also developed a fascination with the human body and completed his reading of 11 advanced books on human anatomy, including genes and DNA. During that time, his dad, while searching for more challenging things to keep Joshua stimulated, spoke to the Director of Education at Oxford University about their on-line learning platform and Joshua`s unusual talents. She suggested a master-class on philosophy for highly able children between the ages of eight and 13. Joshua was still only six years old and the university had not previously accepted anyone so young. But, they agreed to make an exception and his father committed to the idea of keeping his son occupied outside of school.

adult, says of his father, “He bought me lots of books and software on human anatomy.” Joshua mastered naming all the internal organs of the body (using their technical terms in Latin) and can explain how the 12 systems all work together to keep people alive, including parts of the brain and the parts of the body they control. Joshua also performs surgical operations on his laptop using Microsoft Surgery Simulator. He can correctly use all the instruments and successfully complete operations, including appendectomy, hernia removal, removal of a cataract, varicosis and tonsillectomy, repair of a lower leg fracture and cholecystectomy (surgical removal of the gallbladder).

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What may appear to be simply child’s play online is an absolute plan to Joshua.“In five years time I hope to be doing neurosurgery and genetics research at either Oxford or Joshua was enrolled on the philosophy Cambridge University. I would like to practice course and became the youngest student surgery to save lives so that people don’t EVER to pass with a distinction. After receiving have to lose their families and friends.” his certificate, Oxford University offered him the opportunity to do another master-class in Meanwhile, Joshua, with his unusual skills historical enquiry on the Great Plague of 1665. in various topics is fascinated by Imhotep, Again, Joshua, who is able to explain complex the great Egyptian multi-genius and Father of concepts such as gravity and infinity, was Medicine. He currently spends his spare time successful and came 4th out of 24 students all writing a children’s book called Interesting older than him, earning another distinction. Facts about Ancient Egypt. Knox is used to his son being way ahead of his years. “Most of the time I don’t notice his intelligence because he is just Joshua to us. But he can be a bit of challenge because sometimes he asks so many questions.” Speaking of his ambition to become a neurosurgeon, Joshua, who has a reading age of an

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He asserts, “I am fascinated by ancient Egypt, as the Egyptians were able to do the most amazing things long ago. I want to help children to learn about history.” Could Joshua also go down in history as one of our greatest geniuses?!

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Syrus yrus S “I chose to emulate negative examples. Then I chose not to seek mentorship from positive role role models. models. That was my choice… positive ...at the time.” It’s not a crime to fail or to fall down, however it is a crime to stay down.

When you were at school, did you have a clear idea of what you wanted to do when you were older or was it a bit of a confusing time for you?

Chris Syrus turned his life around (after spending a period in prison), by studying and gaining a teaching qualification whilst inside. He uses poetry, spoken word and music as a platform to steer other young people away from crime.

“I did have a passion for computers and IT when I was at school. I went to college to study a GNVQ in IT, a PC Maintenance course and worked in a computer shop for a while.”

In 2012 Chris won ‘Croydon’s Next Top Role Model’ a summer programme in the borough.

“It’s very, very important”

He now delivers crime prevention workshops aimed at deterring children and young people from offending and re-offending. Intent on building confidence, he teaches communication skills whilst inspiring youngster to engage in education, training and employment. YouthPhoria UK© managed to catch up with Chris for an interview...

“Actually, there were members of my family running their own businesses and working hard who I could have emulated and used as a role model. But I chose to emulate negative examples. Then I chose not to seek mentorship from positive role models. That was my choice… at the time.”

The term ‘Role Model’ is used so much nowadays; how important do you think it is to have people who can provide good examples to others?

Did you have someone who set a good example for you when you were younger?

endured the following consequences. This made me more aware and appreciative of those around me and of my potential.” How do you feel young people are currently portrayed in the media? What changes would you like to see?

“Young people are predominately portrayed as lost, wild and a danger to themselves and the general public. I think we would benefit from a rounded view that showed both positive and negative realities.” If you could do one thing all over again, what would it be and why?

“I believe that everything happens for a reason and that there is learning to be gathered throughout your experiences. If given the opportunity I would have aced my G.C.S.E’s and gained a higher level IT qualification.”

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“Yes, I did miss out on guidance that would have supported me to achieve at an earlier age, but I chose not to seek mentorship from positive role models. I made that choice and had to learn from my mistakes, having

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Christopher Preddie born and bred in North London. At the age of 17 he was given his first taste of stardom by getting up on stage as a spoken word poet and receiving the Champion’s title of the 2006 Londonwide Youth Slam championship, awarded by Keep moving forward Ken Livingstone, then Mayor of London. Whilst continuing to maintain his position at WAC University for four years and receiving a diploma in the Performing Arts, Chris began to come into his own by participating in many art forms on his journey including dance, ballet, acting, music as well as performing in many UK dramas and plays. In 2007 Chris was called upon by Crime Stoppers to join their team. For three intensive years, he worked to educate and guide young people on the nature of society and how to keep moving forward and stay out of trouble, immediately building a rapport and advising on knife and gun crime, snitching and the impact of these decisions on our futures. After getting a taste for paving a positive path for the young generations, he founded

If you would like Chris to deliver a workshop at your school, college or youth organisation, contact him via:

Web: www.dreamsreality.co.uk Email: info@dreamsreality.co.uk Tel: 07951 503 094 @teammdr / @chrispreddie his company MDR – Make Dreams A Reality. In 2010, after building on his experience of working with children, Chris began to approach schools, prisons and youth projects with a view to educating both young and old through poetry, creative writing, inspirational speaking, knife and gun crime workshops, gang discussions, anti-bullying techniques, mentoring and

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Ebony Torrington was just 20 when she hosted her first charity event for her not-for-profit faith-based organisation ‘Hope Restored’ The event was based around teenage pregnancy and also the factors that may have caused this issue to be so common in modern society e.g. peer pressure, insecurities, broken homes etc. Ebony is involved in quite a few projects at the moment that all aim to ‘restore hope’.

My dad Arthur Torrington C.B.E is one of many who inspire me. He has always had a plan, an advocate for racial equality and social justice in Britain. He was awarded the C.B.E by the Queen for his work in Black British heritage. As his daughter I have witnessed his work ethic; studying his interest in black history, organising/hosting educational events, facing challenges and overcoming them practically. From observation and the conversations I’ve had with him I know that nothing in life comes easy, especially the goals in life we wish to accomplish. However, with hard work, persistence and the right attitude you will succeed in fulfilling your goals.

what helps artists advance in their craft e.g. write poetry books, record music albums and perform in prestigious venues giving the audience practical advice on how to pursue their own creative goals. I am also a part of a theatre group called ‘The Hidden Hearts Company’. We present plays that deal with socially hidden and issues that are often ignored in many cultures in society such as rape, prostitution, substance abuse,

In Britain I find the media present young people predominately in the context of education, sport or crime. The media gives more coverage to young people who are academic higher achievers or athletes representing the country. However I believe the media should give more coverage to the young people who are pursuing other ventures like; catering, art, craft, fashion or music businesses, motivational workshops or other new initiates that are improving society. Those young people who may not be always be the academic A* student can be quickly classed as trouble makers or future menaces to society. Many young people feel discouraged and neglected because they may not fit into the ‘perfect student’ role. Therefore, they seek other paths of identity which may not be positive.

Every individual from each generation needs role models to inspire them. Role models are a source of information on how to practically pursue goals and overcome challenges.” “As a community worker I do not feel that there is only one way to inspire or challenge someone to be the best they can be. Through community projects in music, acting, working in the media, presenting & hosting Charity and music events, facilitating singing and song writing workshops, I have been able to inspire and spread hope. Currently, I am the presenter for a new YouTube series called #thePOETseries by ‘Check My Flow’ showcasing (P)eople (O)f (E)xceptional (T)alent. ‘Come Check my Flow’ showcases creative people but particularly pushes poetry and has its own line of poetry inspired clothing. In my interviews I discover

illnesses and paedophilia. Our first play, called ‘The Fathers Love’ premiered on the 10th of August and we are currently working on showing it in different locations across London. I played Louise, a high class escort who was sexually abused as a child. I wanted to play this role to show those who have been sexually abused that not dealing with your past can severely affect your decisions and relationships in the future. Clearly, Ebony is someone who is very passionate about making an impact and helping other young people to break through their barriers; what led her to be so active in her community? YouthPhoriaUK

London sleep out helps raise £1m in aid of youth homelessness Over 1,000 IT and business professionals slept rough at sites across the UK at Action for Children’s annual Byte Night event - raising over £1m to fight youth homelessness. In London, just under 400 sleepers took part, bedding down at Potters Field, Tower Bridge and contributing a massive £485,000 so far to the growing £1m total. The London event was one of seven sponsored sleep-outs held to raise awareness of the plight of the 100,000 homeless young people in the UK. The money raised will fund services that provide emergency accommodation and emotional and practical support for homeless young people. Founder of the event, Ken Deeks, from The Amber Group, said “It was enormously inspiring to see so many people sleep out on a cold October night in support of homeless young people in the area. When I started this event 16 years ago I could never have imagined that it would grow to such a significant fundraiser across the UK.

“We are really proud to have raised a landmark £1m and plans are already underway to make next year’s event even bigger and better – I urge businesses from across London to sign up and join us next October. Not only is it a great team building and networking opportunity, but you are also helping us in the fight against the sad truths of youth homelessness.” The sleep-out in London raised funds for several local Action for Children services - including Tower Hamlet’s Children’s Rights Service, which works with young people living in care or in vulnerable family situations. Action for Children staff listen to these young people, with the aim of tackling problems before they escalate to crises and preventing them from becoming another homelessness statistic. Byte Night is the technology and wider business community’s annual sleep out in support of Action for Children. Each year, colleagues from hundreds of companies spend a night exposed to the elements in a bid to raise sponsorship and awareness of the charity’s work to combat youth homelessness and associated issues.

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Derek Tuitt of Hewlett Packard took part in the London Byte Night on 4th October. Here, he recalls how his experience made him more aware of the plight faced by many every day. “I became aware of Action for Children for the first time this year. I took the opportunity to better understand the challenges and the need to address the homeless situation that many young people experience by sleeping rough during Byte Night 2013. Empathy gives a limited view of both the challenges and difficulties that many people sleeping rough face and I found myself becoming consciously aware of the numerous things I have taken for granted in the comfort of my home such as a warm dry bed; during Byte Night I had to find a space for my sleeping bag on the cold hard ground. When sleep finally came it was then broken by the harsh wind and rain at 3am which tore through me as my only protection was the thin, now very wet sleeping bag. At that point, I started counting down the minutes until I could get up, head home to grab a shower and sleep in my own bed. The most significant thing from my experience was the following Friday when it was raining heavily all day, I thought of all those individuals who faced another night of sleeping rough not by choice but circumstances of their lives. Byte Night has raised over a million pounds but we in the UK need to do more to make homelessness a thing of the past.”

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Living Dreams really can come true, and the soulful R&B group Rough Copy are living theirs now. Last year these three talented young men auditioned for the X-Factor and reached the ‘judge’s houses’ stage but, unable to travel due to an outstanding visa issue, were withdrawn from the competition despite being tipped as potential finalists. As the saying goes ‘good things come to those who wait’. With the X-Factor fire still burning within them, the boys auditioned again this year and Wow! what a journey they have been on since. With their sassy attitudes and harmonies, the Rough Copy sound has now become known as “Sweet but Street” providing a little something extra for their diverse fanbase.

Winning global acclaim from music industry peers, the boys now find themselves in the live X-Factor finals and with that the talk of being joint favorites to win. When asked what their thoughts are on their journey they said “We are humbled by the support we have been shown by everyone, this has always been our dream but now it’s really happening, we give thanks to God and our mentor Gary (Barlow) for this opportunity.”

In the first week of the live finals they sang the classic ‘In The Air Tonight’ by an artist called Phil Collins (very popular in the 1980’s!) which led Nicole Scherzinger to say “You might be the best band I’ve ever seen on this show.” She then went on to say “There’s something in you that I’ve not seen in anyone else, I’m talking international stars!!!” High praise indeed from a global superstar who has sold over 50 million

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records worldwide and is one of the entertainment world’s most recognisable faces. As if that were not enough, after the Rough Copy performance the original version by Mr. Collins was re-released and instantly landed in the Top 100.

So what does the future hold for Rough Copy? The simple answer is that nobody knows, but if there’s any justice in the world it should include a very exciting musical/ entertainment career for these boys from Croydon who, with their infectious personalities and eye-catching style, are stirring up a storm all over the planet. We’ll catch up with the boys again in 2014 to find out more about what they have done. In the meantime you can follow them on @roughcopyuk and join them on RoughCopy UK

NinetyOneNinety Let You Be The Fashion – Don’t Let Fashion Be You

‘Rough Copy’ is a group made up of 3 incredible guys who are equally talented but all have an individual sense of style. The boys naturally love to stand out and take much pride in their overall appearance. But have you ever wondered where they get their creative and “Sher-Mazing” look from? Meet NinetyOneNinety, the design team who have inspired Rough Copy’s ‘Street Luxe’ style. NinetyOneNinety is a fusion between stylist Naomi May and designer Arayner Ashia, who have come together with their different fashion backgrounds and outlooks to detonate an explosion of creativity that is unstoppable. Naomi’s door to fashion opened not by studying or gaining a degree –

“People would question how did I get into fashion without a qualification (?), failing to understand that my creativity and ability was more than enough. Starting from scratch and buying countless amounts of magazines, cutting out images, building mood-boards, gaining inspiration from catwalks on how to build outfits, walking into shops discovering my likes and dislikes was always far from the norm in comparison to my peers who went down the traditional academic route. Before I knew it, my style was changing. I was evolving from following the trends and the ‘must have’ pieces of the season, into someone who realised THE must have was ME! When you put ‘YOU’ into your outfit you become the FASHION.” Conversely, Naomi’s business partner Arayner graduated from the London College of Fashion in 2012. A unisex and menswear designer, she represents a new London, deriving from the unexpected conceptual aesthetic of street culture in the capital.

“Building an alliance with a stylist like Naomi May has enabled me to tailor my imagination into reality. My independent designs are hyper-cultured and statement heavy which theoretically reflects Rough Copy’s look and attitude within the industry and Naomi’s style aesthetics and perceptions of treating clothing like Art forms the basis of NinetyOneNinety as an independent styling movement” Working alongside eachother for a while now, Naomi and Arayner had the opportunity to style Rough Copy during their time on the show X-Factor in 2013.

“It’s been such a pleasure to work with the boys Kaz, Stering and Joey but not easy because they are all so unique” said Naomi “Kaz loves to stay true to his roots always having a play off from his African culture, whilst staying masculine but being individual with a slick finish. Sterling loves to throw you off by being out of the box keeping originality key. A lot of his influence is from the 90’s, so he loves pieces with a 90’s inspiration with a little softer edge of cuteness. Joey is pretty open but is mindful of his build, so needs garments to be complimentary whilst not being afraid to take a risk; an absolute bonafied lover of vintage and London fashion.” Arayner explained that “During the X-Factor live shows, we feel that the boys have been slotted into the ‘Street Luxe’ trend. This phenomenon is all over visual social media (Tumblr, Instagram etc.) it combines the normalities of youthful street life with a growing age of desire and imitation for fashion Luxury. The street kids have a growing desire for fashion luxury, so this is imitated through filtered editorial like visuals and the rich kids have a growing desire for street wear, which is then communicated in the same way. So the current trend that is commonly associated with Rough Copy’s style is ‘Street Luxe’.” With such a huge platform to jump from, where exactly are NinetyNineNinety heading? “We plan to invade this trend with Rough Copy and create a New Age of Authenticity.” So watch out. You heard about the industry takeover here first!

Look out for NinetyNineNinety’s fashion column in the next edition of YouthPhoriaUK© Check out their styles on www.pinterest.com/lybtfashion/rough-copy-style-inspiration and their Tumblr blog, ninetynineninetyus L-R: Naomi May & Arayner Aish

Images, from top left: Kaz featured in Arayner Aisha ready to wear with Sterling and Joey rocking OTHERS (Photo: X-Factor) / Keeping it simple, Sterling in Arayner Aisha tie-dye drop crotch dungarees (Photo: Huffington Post) / Kaz featured in Arayner Aisha street luxe waistcoat (Photo: Contact Music) / Show of plays on black, styled by Naomi May (Photo: Contact Music) / Show of plays on black, styled by Naomi May (Photo: Contact Music) / Show of plays on black, styled by Naomi May (Photo: Evening Standard)

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Welcome to Nelson’s Column - recipes to make your mouth water along with tips on how to eat healthily on a budget. This month you can make Flaky Orange Pastry Mince Pies with Vanilla Butter... Servings: 24 - 30

Ingredients:

Method:

Preparation Time: 30 Minutes (10 Minutes For The Vanilla Butter) Cooking Time: 20 Minutes For The Pastry

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500G Plain Flour 400G Butter, Softened 200G Icing Sugar 350G Icing Sugar 400G Cold Butter, Diced 1 Tsp Vanilla Paste 500G Mince Meat 1 Egg, Whisked Juice & Zest, 1 Large Orange (finely grated)

Pre-Heat the oven to 180°/Gas Mark 5. In a separate bowl, sift together the flour and icing sugar then add the diced butter and rub the mixture together until it resembles breadcrumbs. Add the orange zest & juice, then bring the mixture together. Tip the mixture onto a lightly floured surface, knead briefly until smooth and then chill for ½ hour until firm. Lightly dust the work surface with flour, then roll out the pastry to approximately the thickness of a £1 Coin. Cut out 24 x 8cm rounds with a fluted cutter, and then lightly press into two 12 hole non-stick muffin tin. Re-roll the trimmings to the same thickness and cut out 24 x 5cm rounds for the tops. Spoon about 1-2 tbsps of mincemeat into each base and lightly press on the tops. Place the mince pies in the fridge to chill for 10 minutes. Whilst the pies are chilling, make the Vanilla Butter. Put the butter, icing sugar and vanilla paste in a bowl and mix on a low a medium speed for 5 minutes, increasing the speed to high for another 5 minutes to achieve the light and fluffy texture. Brush the tops of the mince pies with the egg, and then bake for 15-20 minutes until golden and crisp. Remove the pies from the oven and cool for a few minutes, then lever out of the tins with a table knife and cool completely on a wire rack. Either slowly remove the tops from the pies and put 1 tsp of vanilla butter on top then serve or slightly warm the pies and serve with a quenelle of Vanilla Butter on the side. Dust with icing sugar, then serve.

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LONG Dedicated to preserving the Southbank Undercroft and its LIVE diverse creative community. H SOUT BANK.

ning for the Long Live Southbank has been campaig every single day preservation of Southbank Undercroft the news of its since the Southbank Centre announced days. intended destruction – that’s over 200 ce and home of The mission is to preserve the birthpla wned creative British skateboarding and world-reno gination for over space, which has captured public ima public support, 40 years, and garnered unprecedented into in order to protect it from being turned commercial retail units. etes, Mums, kids, performers, architects, athl organisations, academics, youth groups, community of all walks of MPs, Assembly Members and people campaign and life have galvanized in support of the don’s the LLSB objective or saving one of Lon most loved creative spaces. ure’ campaign Long Live Southbank’s ‘The Bigger Pict has received close film, made by Henry Edwards-Wood, ks. The film to 60,000 YouTube views in just two wee position details the history of the space and its and ural andinfluence as part of London’s cult historic landscape.

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Natasha Benjamin speaks very openly to YouthPhoriaUK© about her abusive childhood and how she has sought to free herself from this trauma. There are details at the end of the article if you would like to get in touch with her if you’re affected by any of the issues spoken about. “As a young girl I witnessed and experienced the most acute violence against my mother and I, at the hands of my stepfather. This had a traumatic impact on my developing years, through teen to adult years. I felt that I was both the guilty and innocent party. Guilty, that in some unknown way it was my fault but then innocent because I hadn’t asked for it to happen.

A few weeks passed with me writing every day; I was learning to channel my feelings and emotions into a place that was safe. During this time, an incident occurred with a close friend where I could sense that they just wanted me to ‘snap out of it’ and they thought that I was playing the ‘victim’ to get attention.

The blog gave me a different perspective. I was able to look at my life from the outside in and use it whenever I felt the need to release the things that were going around my head. I was never a good speaker or talker (so I believed) but I found that writing really helped and was naturally very comfortable for me.

This led to me having another horrid panic attack and I decided that I’d had enough of being misunderstood and that other people needed to understand just what I was going through. The struggles I was having with my feelings; the everyday darkness I was in. I wanted their compassion, not their pity.

As time went on, my blog received more and more followers some of whom commented that they would like to be able to write to express their feelings, but didn’t know where to start. Hearing this, I created a Facebook page and a closed group to support individuals who had or were experiencing mental health issues and/or domestic violence. I encouraged them to start writing creatively and free their minds.

I emailed the link of my blog to all my friends and family, hoping they would read it and finally get it. I was overwhelmed by Trying to always make sense of the suffering the support I received; the messages telling Now I have over 10,000 followers across me how brave I was and how well I’d my blog and social media sites and I’ve I encountered due to domestic violence registered Free Your Mind as a company brought about issues with my mental health. managed to hide so much. Another friend with the aim of creating a supportive comtold me she’d cried reading it because she I dealt with Post Traumatic Stress Disorder; munity to help people rebuild their sense of really had no idea that things were as bad then experienced panic attacks and depression. self through writing their own story.” as they were. Unfortunately, I did not know this until early last year. Up until then I just thought that I If you’d like to get in touch with Natasha and Free Your Mind: was an over-thinker, a bit paranoid and odd. Strangely it seemed perfectly normal for Web: www.freeyourmindcic.com Facebook: Free Your Mind cic me to be like this, but it affected everything Closed Group: www.facebook.com/groups/502907503100327 around me from relationships, to friendships and employment. Twitter: @Freeyourmindcic Instagram: Freeyourmindcic Blog: www.tumblr.com/blog/fym-paintopeace

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But then I hit rock bottom. I stopped communicating with people and began to completely isolate myself. Locked off in my own little world, I began to find mental space and comfort in writing out my thoughts in a diary. This then became a blog called ‘Free Your Mind - Pain to Peace’. My journey to finding me had started.

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Did you have someone who set a good example for you when you were younger? If so, who were they and how did they influence you?

“When I was young I used to be really quiet and didn’t ask for any advice. I had a lot of family and friends around me and I think I may have missed out on their guidance. But I managed to pick myself up and change my life by having passion, a good network and self-belief.“ How do you feel young people are currently portrayed in the media? What changes would you like to see?

do what you love Blessing Maregere, from Leeds, started his first business at the age of 16 which was a contract cleaning company. After 3 months of trading, he was employing 6 cleaning staff and turning over £10,000 a month. His early success motivated him to launch ‘Bright Futures Enterprise’, a social enterprise with a mission to inspire and educate young people to become successful. Bright Futures Enterprise has worked with over 5000 young people through their events and mentoring programs. Whilst running the social enterprise, Blessing also runs ‘Estate Direct Leeds’, a 0% commission estate agent. We recently interviewed this young entrepreneur who is now 20, to find out what led him to be so successful and what he plans to do in the future.

what is was about! So if I got asked I would say scientist, but when I was 16 my GCSE business studies course and the teacher inspired me and changed my future. It seems like you made a good decision to get into business. Who or what inspired you to do more and be more?

“Richard Branson is an inspiration to me and I aspire to achieve what he has done and

“I think young people are portrayed very negatively in the media. The media use words like ‘lazy’ and ‘crime’ which is wrong because the majority are not like this. We do have a minority of young people who are like this but they don’t represent all the young people in the country. I think it is important to showcase the positive stories of young people and show that there is something positive about us. We just need to be given a chance.” If you could do one thing all over again, what would it be and why?

“If I knew then what I know right now, I would have started investing in my future way earlier, so I’d be able to retire at a young age but be able inspire other people to do the same.”

“You need to do what you love and love what you do” also young people who are making a difference and running businesses inspire me” The term ‘Role Model’ is used so much nowadays; how important do you think it is to have people who can provide good examples to others?

“It is important to have positive role models to inspire and educate other aspiring young people to achieve the same. I have so many Blessing, when you were at school, did you people I look up to and they inspire me to have a clear idea of what you wanted to keep going and achieve my dreams. So it is do when you were older or was it a bit of a important to have successful people in all confusing time for you? careers and industry to go back into “When I was young I wanted to be a schools and community to motivate scientist but I had no idea what it involved or the next generation”

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Where do you see yourself in 5 years time?

“I would like to be travelling the world, passing on my knowledge and inspiring young people to be all that they can be and achieve their dreams.” And finally Blessing, what advice could you give to someone who wanted to follow in your footsteps?

“I would say be passionate; you need to do what you love and love what you do. Definitely get yourself a mentor; find someone who has been through your journey who can guide you and support you. And lastly go out and meet and talk to new people; for you to be successful it’s not about what you know its about who you know.”

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Young entrepreneur James Sesay started his own business, Social Add, along with his friend Josh Oluwafemi. He is also a founding member of the mentoring group Project BISCEY. YouthPhoriaUK© had a chat with James about the motivation behind his entrepreneurial and community spirit. “With the growth of social media, and particularly social networking, it dawned on us (me and Josh) that we could use the power of online communication to connect people with the products they are passionate about - in a more efficient way than existing methods. From this we came up with the idea for Social Add.

range of events and activities that centre around helping young people aged 11 to 16 in our local area of Southwark. I have always wanted to give back to my community and thought it would be good to bring together a number of role models in the area to help do so. I think it’s very important to have role models, as they can almost act as hope for individuals who are less fortunate than others. I myself grew up in Peckham and went through the phase of looking up to the older males around me. Those in particular who showed the most love to me were the ones I listened to and acted on their word.

this was an important time where the subjects I chose mattered, I felt the whole year group were under-prepared for this. I was fortunate enough to do well in subjects that I liked in school, so ended up choosing these in college and this laid out the path I walk today although if I could do my college years all over again I would have taken it a bit more seriously. I did attend all the classes and pass with good grades but I don’t think I utilised my time outside the classroom well and if I did I may be a bit further than I am today but there’s still a lot of time ahead of me!

Fortunately for me, although my area wasn’t the best of places, I managed to surround myself with older people who were doing things; this gradually became all that I saw so it became all that I knew. For example my football managers, although they too were quite young they managed to do some really good stuff for the area, such as setting up the football team and getting the youth involved. They also made sure that we were all on track in school and acted as mentors even until today.

Our services provide businesses with an opportunity to create a presence on social network platforms, create a buzz for a new products & services and access potential customers. We do this through our primary service Social Net. We create status updates which advertise the business or product and feed this through Facebook or Twitter via our carefully selected individuals who have a large following. This stimulates conversation among followers generating huge exposure to potential customers. In addition to Social Add I am also a founding member of a mentoring group in Southwark called Project BISCEY – see www.projectbiscey.co.uk.

Looking back at my school years I was pretty uncertain as to what I wanted to be when I grew older. I always enjoyed Maths and was advised to be an accountant by my dad, but after researching this line of work, I opted against it due to the plain focus on numbers.

Project BISCEY is an organisation run by a group of 18 to 20 year olds and we run a

It was a bit of a confusing time during the transition from school to college. Given that

I’d like to see more recognition of those who are doing the right thing. They should be highlighted as examples to show people that crime isn’t the only way, that there are other options available.

If I had an hour to do absolutely anything I would sit down and talk to JayZ and Obama about life. I think they are two brilliant men and to be able to share a conversation with them would be amazing. YouthPhoriaUK

Get Glowing... 7 Simple Steps to Healthy Happy Skin

It’s never too early to start caring for your skin, and these seven simple steps are a good starting point: Drink Water - Drinking water clears all the toxins from your skin and prevents it from drying out. Take a water bottle with you to school/college/work.

Resist the urge to drink fizzy drinks when you are thirsty. Instead, have a sip of water; not only does this help your skin it will improve your overall health. Drink the recommended 8-10 glasses per day and you are sure to see results.

Eat Healthy - Eat a nutritious and balanced diet to provide enough vitamins such as vitamin A, E and vitamin C to nourish the skin. Your skin is a reflection of what’s going on inside, so it makes sense that healthy skin starts from within. That means lots of fresh fruit and vegetables and not overdosing on sugar, saturated fat and ‘fast’ food – leave those chicken and chips alone! Instead choose a diet which includes whole grains, fruits, green vegetables and lean meat. Exercise - Being active on a regular basis helps regulate hormones in young people. So dance, swim, walk, or run and you will surely see a difference in your skin and your overall health.

Cleansing - Cleansing removes a build up of dust and pollution from the skin. Avoid using soap bars as they can contain detergents that can be harsh to young skin. Use a mild cleansing gel especially formulated for young skin and your skin type. Put cleanser on your finger tips and rub upwards in circular motions around your face, then rinse well with water and pat your face dry with a towel. Tone - Toning is very important as it closes the pores of the face after cleansing. It will leave your skin feeling refreshed, smooth, tight and springy. Always use a toner which is alcohol free. Moisturise - Moisturising is very important as it will keep your skin soft and smooth, use after you cleanse and tone as it locks in the essential moisture.

Regular moisturising will help to regulate the blood circulation in the skin and will give you healthy and glowing skin. Always use a moisturiser with sunscreen minimum of SP15 to protect your skin from the sun. It is important to Cleanse, Tone and Moisturise daily each morning and to repeat the process before you go to bed

Exfoliating - Exfoliation helps in removing all the dead skin from the skin and helps in formulating new cells. Exfoliating with a scrub once a week will help in getting soft, subtle and glowing skin. Simple Natural Facial Scrub for Exfoliating - Oatmeal is nourishing to the skin and great for all skin types 4 Tablespoons of Oats n 1 Tablespoon of Brown Sugar n 2 Tablespoons of Greek Yoghurt / or 2 Tablespoons of Water Blend all ingredients together until you have a thick texture. Wet your face and rub gently in circular motions onto your face and neck, avoid the eye area. Let the scrub sit for 10min and rinse off with water.

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‘Red Lipstick Day - the Movement’ is the brain child of social marketing stylist Jay Kamara-Frederick. The inaugural launch of RLD took place on 11th November 2013 on social media site Facebook, where it attracted hundreds of women and men to show their support by posting ‘selfies’ wearing red lipstick in support of Survivors of sexual violence around the world. The celebration and acknowledgement of business success, achievement and transformation is very common place in our society today. But, very rarely do we celebrate the success and achievement of those who have overcome sexual violence which includes abuse, rape, sexual assault and female circumcision. Rather than acknowledge the positive transformation and determination to embrace life that these women and young girls take. Survivors are successful business owners, wives and everyday people that contribute so much to both their own lives and to society. For high ratings, the media focuses on the life story of the perpetrator, government bodies and those charged with raising awareness and prevention focus on the how, what and where. Red Lipstick Day focuses on the beauty and strength of the Survivor – their story of strength and overcoming.

“It irritates me that the journey of a Survivor is overlooked and people want to hold on to the ‘what and how it happened’. Millions of woman have - over time - created amazing lives for themselves despite what they have been through and that’s whom Red Lipstick Day wants to celebrate, support, empower and stand with – like a soldier is acknowledged for their contribution to service, so a sexual violence survivor should be acknowledged and not feel like they are the victim over and over again” said Jay. “Survivors are heroines not victims and until organisations and even government stop making reference to them as such many ‘survivors’ will remain in bondage afraid to disclose, report or ask for help because they are embarrassed and ashamed and don’t want to be that label of ‘victim’.” “I remember telling my mum what had been happening to me. First I had to convince her that I was telling the truth, then, I had to listen to the reasons why we couldn’t tell anyone. It’s a feeling that is hard to describe. But, I knew I didn’t want to live in a place of shame, or the life of a victim, so I didn’t and I don’t. It’s a choice to be survivor.” For the last 18 months the media has bombarded us with the stories of sexual perpetrators. It’s frustrating that they indirectly hold the ‘spotlight’ while the women they hurt are forced to live under the stigma of a victim.

“As a creator and visionary I wanted to create something that would make a statement, and most importantly make a survivor shine whilst getting a series of messages out, one being ‘There’s No shame in being b’U’tiful’ which seems to have really caught on” Jay continued. Red Lipstick Day symbolises the strength, beauty, life source, boldness, courage, power, love and sexiness of a woman. It symbolises the wholeness and virtue of a woman’s body despite any violation.

Jay K. Frederick is an award winning communications specialist and who is known for her organic but systematic approach to marketing. Founder of B’Inspired Marketing, Jay provides strategic marketing coaching to entrepreneurs and business owners, helping them to adopt a passionate and integrated marketing approach that transforms, creates and shares their vision with ease .

It is a global acknowledgement of the survivors of sexual violence and includes the: • 40 million children subjected to abuse every year

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Approximately 20% of women and 5–10% of men who report being sexually abused as children

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30 million young girls who are survivors of FGM

50,500 children in the UK known to be at risk of abuse right now 1 in 4 children 16.5% age 11-17 who have experienced sexual abuse Millions of women & children who have endured due to conflict or war Millions of women who are survivors of sexual slavery Millions who are looking for strength to speak out

Red Lipstick Day acknowledges these survivors as they wipe away the tears and the shame and stand strong in the magnificence and strength of their beauty. It’s important to remember that sexual violence has no colour. It does not discriminate by class, age, rich or poor or even gender it happens daily all over the world. It’s also important to know that female genital mutilation has taken place in over 28 countries in the world, including some parts of Africa, Asia, Europe and America. On November 10, 1986, while doing a show with sexual abuse victims and their molesters, Oprah revealed to her audience that she was raped by a relative when she was 9 years old. This created a path for many to share their own story, helped to put people behind bars and most importantly it raised the momentum of sexual violence globally. The vision is for Red Lipstick Day to have the same impact for survivors. To celebration, empower, support and stand with them as they stand with pride in the beautiful individuals that they are because – there is No shame n being b’U’tiful. A host of activities including survivor interviews, workshops, retreats, support and exhibitions are being planned for 2014 including the 2nd Red Lipstick Day on 10th November 2013. It’s exciting to see what has been accomplished thus far and it encourages and motivates me to want to do more to empower, support and stand with survivors’ world wide.

For more information visit www.redlipstickday.com

“Don’t knock – push that door open!”

Shanice

McAnuff Shanice, aged 21, is a young woman who has set a definite plan for her life. Her teenage years were disrupted by the separation of her parents, and a two-year period of continuous relocation which placed an enormous strain on her mental, emotional and physical health. Nonetheless, Shanice persevered and focussed on her education, achieving one A*, two A’s, and an A (AS) in her A level exams, exceeding the expectations of her teachers. Now at University, Shanice has her eye firmly set on entering the legal field by qualifying as a solicitor. She took time out to share some of her thoughts around her journey, and what has influenced her.

“When I was younger, I always thought I wanted to be a writer. I loved writing short stories and poems. As time went on, I realised that I wanted to keep that as a hobby and become a lawyer. My mum has always set a great example for me. She came to London from Jamaica when she was 20 years old, and has been trying to better herself ever since then. She went back to university in my younger years and got her Master’s degree. Seeing someone look after her kids and finances whilst also studying was a real inspiration, and gave me the courage to go to University myself. Young people need to see other successful people so that they can have the belief that they can also achieve greatness. It’s even better for them to see successful people who have struggled or been in a similar position to them, as that will make their goals seem more achievable. Aside from my mum, I look up to the female Partners from ethnic minorities who are at major Law firms. It’s amazing that they have managed to break through both the race and sex barrier in the working world.

There are a lot of unrealistic ‘role models’ and negative portrayals in the mainstream media. Good news doesn’t seem to sell, and so the media constantly reports on the bad things that youth are involved in. A prime example is all the news stories after the London riots in 2011. I participated in an interview for a local newspaper, and rather than reporting what I had said about people turning their lives around after the riots, they just mentioned the negative points. These stories should be far more balanced. I know that anything can be achieved, and would say to anyone reading this to never give up. Even if it seems like you can’t get the best grades or reach the highest mountain right now, do not let that hold you back! Don’t knock, PUSH THAT DOOR OPEN!”

Interested in Law? Did you know – for every 1 place to study Law, there are 5 applicants and only 218 places available each year on average, per university! The top 5 universities to study Law? See The Complete University Guide – www.thecompleteuniversityguide.co.uk/league-tables/rankings?s=Law

To be accepted you’ll need:

– A*AA in three A Level subjects – Study a total of 14 subjects over the • Cambridge three years of the degree including Civil Law, Criminal Law and Family Law

• London School of Economics – A*AA in three A Level subjects • University College London – A*AA in three A Level subjects • Oxford – A*A*A in three A Level subjects • Glasgow – AAA in three A Level subjects

Potential solicitors are then required to complete the Legal Practice Course which lasts one year. Then a two-year apprenticeship under a training contract, during which the trainee solicitor has to complete a Professional Skills Course. Potential barristers must usually complete the one year Bar Professional Training Course (formerly known as the Bar Vocational Course), followed by a year of vocational training known as a pupillage.

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When someone says that they are playing a game what would you think they were talking about? X-Box or Playstation? Cricket or football maybe? Or what about chess?

So much more than just moving figures around a board, Chess can improve your reading, language and mathematical ability. You may find that you get better at making decisions, become more patient and have a sharper memory too. People have also found that they are able to communicate better, The age old game of chess is have more confidence and self-esteem. very popular in certain countries, Seems like Chess is a game for those who and in the UK the number of people want to have a champion’s mindset!

who are playing it is also increasing. So how can you learn to play Chess? Chess is a universally fun game that anyone can play and equally challenges the minds of both girls and boys. It teaches people how to win and lose gracefully with good sportsmanship attitudes too. Playing chess can help you to develop the soft skills that you will need to get through school, college, work and even relationships!

The Richard Weekes Chess Academy operates at the moment in London and Kent. Richard is passionate about chess and decided to provide lessons for children and young people on how to play the game and to promote it as a social activity. Chess is a powerful educational tool that can motivate people to learn and can play an important role in educational, social and personal development. Richard believes that “Chess is a game children (of any age – and yes, big children

too!) can play most of their life, and it gives them a sense of achievement. Through playing Chess, children learn many skills and techniques that help them to take responsibility for their actions. The Chess knowledge they receive will stay with them and empower them to succeed in whatever they choose to do.” Using chess as a learning tool to strengthen your mind is one of the best games there is for developing logical and precise thinking. It’s also fairly easy to learn. There is clear evidence to show that children who play chess perform better in school; have improved calculating ability; are more imaginative, creative and self-motivated. That’s why Richard believes learning and playing chess makes a real difference to each child’s life and this gives him lots of opportunities when teaching, to help shape their attitudes to learning and their mindset too.

If you’re interested in learning to play the game you can contact Richard via: Email: rwchessacademy@hotmail.co.uk Telephone: 07538 035896 Twitter: @chessbootcamp or by visiting www.chessforchildren.influencer.biz

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On 16th November 2013, TEDxYouthCroydon took place at the prestigious BRIT School for Performing Arts & Technology, in Selhurst. This unique event saw 11 young speakers present well-formed and inspirational ideas in less than fifteen minutes to a selection of students from Sixth Form schools based within the borough. The first annual event showcased aspirational ideas from young people who definitely inspired the youthful audience from Croydon. 2011 saw the London riots erupt onto the streets of Croydon. In their wake, the organisers of TEDxYouthCroydon felt justifiably that their event helped to shine a positive light on young people who felt they were not being heard, giving them a means of self-expression and also celebrating all the great things about the borough. The theme of the event was ‘THE SPARK – What’s The Idea?’ and nine young speakers were featured including poet Najite Graham, the three creators of the ‘Mandem on the Wall’ comedy series and Founder & CEO of

Brainbook Ltd., Gary Smith. They shared stories, ideas and knowledge about where the spark for their journey began and what they did with their ideas to make a difference in the world. There were also performances from Mandem On The Wall and The Brit Dance Group. The event in turn inspired other young people to run with their ideas and make their own dreams come true, creating opportunities for the youth of Croydon and generating a positive perception of the area. TedxYouthCroydon was part of TEDxYouthDay, a series of events taking place in over a hundred countries around the world to coincide with Universal Children’s Day (20th November). Around 17,000 young people took part in the global movement. The event was streamed live onto the TED website, and has already been one of the most viewed TED youth events worldwide, which goes to show the power that young people have in making a difference within their communities and beyond.

You can watch the event at www.tedxyouthcroydon.com

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Goals + Action = Success!

Ebony Babb

Ebony Babb is 18, and would be the first to admit that she hasn’t always been the most focused person or someone who likes to take advice! After going through a few difficult years, she has now got herself onto a positive path and shares some of her aspirations with YouthPhoriaUK©.... Ebony, you’ve recently started University to do a degree in Maths. Congratulations on your achievement! Was this something that you wanted to do from when you were younger? No not really. Throughout my childhood I was constantly changing my mind about what I wanted to do and I still don’t know which career path I want to follow. In my early teens I was interested in Psychology, Criminology and Sociology. By the end of secondary school I thought I wanted to study Chemistry at university, but after receiving my AS results I applied to study Pure Mathematics; however, one of my university choices offered me an engineering course which confused me further! I finally decided to study a Mathematics degree, which is 25% computing. Being at University makes you have a certain level of independence. Who prepared you for this experience or gave you advice? I have always been my own person. As a child, I always wanted to be independent and I avoided following in others footsteps. Although there were many good examples in my life, such as my mum and my older sister, I tended to ignore their advice; only when I began maturing in my late teens did I begin to value their opinions.

The term ‘role model’ is used so much nowadays; how important do you think it is to have people who can provide good examples to others? I think it is important for children to have good role models, as children are incredibly impressionable and without good guidance can behave inappropriately. I think role models are less important for adults, as they should be mature enough to know the difference between right and wrong; and be able to set goals for them to achieve.

Has 2013 been a good year for you Ebony? I’d say yes, it has. I completed my A-Levels for which I achieved two A* and one A (Maths, Further Maths and Chemistry) and got accepted into University, which I didn’t think would be possible a few years ago.

I also went on a youth exchange to Serbia for ten days in March, which helped me to grow up a lot. The aim of the project was to find solutions to problems affecting young people in Europe. On the project I was discriminated against for being black, some What are your views on soaps and reality TV people made racist comments and one man programmes and the type of characters that wouldn’t even shake my hand. In the street young children stared, many people wanted star in them? Some soaps and reality shows portray young to take photos with me and touch me or people badly; shows such as Waterloo Road my hair. This made me realise that people and Eastenders display young people behav- in some other countries live very sheltered lives and how lucky I am to be in the UK ing inappropriately by being disrespectful where we have a more diverse society. to authority and engaging in crime. In programmes such as Geordie Shore and TOWIE What advice could you give to someone who (The Only Way is Essex) many of the young is trying to make decisions about people lack ambition, do not have jobs or their future? are not in education and spend the majority Work hard and stay focused! Don’t wait of their time engaging in sexual activity with ‘til tomorrow, start today. It is annoying multiple partners. thinking about what you could have It’s not really sending a responsible message done, but never did! to viewers. As an adult, when I engage with media, I try my hardest to focus only on factual information and try to ignore opinionated content. If you could do one thing all over again, what would it be and why? I would work a lot harder at school; I may have been able to apply for Oxbridge. Who or what inspires you now? At the moment no one really inspires me. I’ve set my own goals and I am strongminded enough to achieve them without having to replicate someone else’s actions. Where do you see yourself in 5 years time? In 5 years time I hope to be doing a PHD, but if an appropriate career opportunity comes my way after I’ve completed my degree I will consider it. I just want to be successful!

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The Anti-Bullying Alliance is a membership organisation made up of over 120 public, commercial and voluntary sector organisations acting to prevent and respond to bullying. We have a network of over 1000 schools to get the message out there that children and young people can grow up in safe environments free from bullying. At the start of 2013 we conducted a poll with young people about what was most important to them. The response was overwhelming; we needed to return to the issue of cyber bullying. The Anti-Bullying Alliance is a membership organisation made up of over 120 public, commercial and voluntary sector organisations acting to prevent and respond to bullying. We have a network of over 1000 schools to get the message out there that children and young people can grow up in safe environments free from bullying. At the start of 2013, we conducted a poll with young people about what was most important to them. The response was overwhelming; we needed to return to the issue of cyber bullying. Cyber-bullying can often make children and young people feel angry, embarrassed and isolated, as well not knowing if their community is against them and making them feel ashamed. This is why it is so important to talk to someone, to know you are not alone. The feedback from young people was that a lot of the information was out of date, much on PCs and failed to reflect their use of both the technology (mobile phones and tablets) as well as the risks of social networking sites. We believe it is important that young people are given support in schools to know what is appropriate and what inappropriate or risky behaviour is on-line. With so many young people placing personal information online, we have come up with the term â&#x20AC;&#x2DC;digital tattooâ&#x20AC;&#x2122; to help remind everyone that information is permanent and very difficult to remove. So it is important to think about your actions before you send comments, images or videos. For schools, ensuring cyber-bullying is high on the agenda and that they are clear on how pupils can report cyber-bullying is really important; but also that staff are confident in resolving issues of cyber-bullying to help victims fee safe. In addition, parents need support in preventing cyber-bullying by being helped to understand the risks to children and young people online, and are confident in giving appropriate advice such as: saving pictures, texts, or videos to show a pattern of harm as well as reporting to service providers. We also want industry to have clear statements that cyber-bullying is unacceptable and clear processes to report it. By working together we can all make a difference to prevent cyber-bullying.must feel empowered to take ownership so that they all feel safe, fun and connected. This yearâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;s Anti-Bullying Week highlighted the fact that young people will own the future of the Internet and therefore must feel empowered to take ownership so that they all feel safe, fun and connected.

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Manifesting Magnificence Lashai Ben-Salmi is an award winning young entrepreneur who by the age of 11 had written a book and become an inventor! Now 14, YouthPhoriaUK© found out what inspired this amazing young lady to achieve so much at such a young age.

around me. Most importantly they’ve taught me how to focus upon my journey of self development and nurture my inside universe to enable me to create a beautiful future, PAY IT FORWARD and so much more.”

How do you feel young people are currently When you were at school, did you have a clear portrayed in the media? idea of what you wanted to do when you were I think that the media have made young people older or was it a bit of a confusing time for you? believe that the only way to have fun is to When I was in primary school I dreamed about recklessly party and take drugs, which then being a fashion designer. As I’ve got older, this leads young people to lose all morals and self and peer respect. I would like to see the media desire has got bigger and bigger and now I’m making connections within the industry to plant advertising young entrepreneurs so young people can aspire to become the same or seeds for my time and financial freedom. better. I’d also like to see the media giving The term ‘Role Model’ is used so much children a positive stage to express and nowadays; how important do you think it is to share their talent and passions. I believe that have people who can provide good examples teachings such as The Secret, Abraham Hicks to others? and Andy Harrington techniques should be taught so that young people will learn the truth I think it is very important that children and about who they really are at a young age. youth have someone in their life that they We are Divine children of God and a creator, aspire to be like and then develop a burning therefore we ought to fully embrace and not desire to pursue their passions. waste it. Did you have someone who set a good example If you could do one thing all over again, what for you when you were younger? would it be and why? Throughout my life I was fortunate enough to I would like to have a second opportunity to have my mother and my grandmother as very present to my school because I was quite strong role models, they both encouraged me scared and didn’t say much. I now know that I to follow my dreams and aspirations; as well as other entrepreneurial leaders such as Dawn have a lot of knowledge to share with my peers and therefore I’d love to impact their lives in a Gibbins, Junior Ogunyemi, Alex Browning, Robert G Allen, Stephanie J Hale, Althea Grant, more powerful way. Kay Oldroyd, Andy Harrington, Cheryl Chapman, Tell us more about your enterprise empire!. Lidia Frederico and Harun Rabbani to name a few. I am proud founder of ‘My Journey’ giving They’ve influenced me by allowing me to openly youth several reasons to smile and we express my ideas and they have taught me how encourage children and youth to follow to mirror and match other inspirational figures their dreams and aspirations.

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My brother and I are co-authors of ‘Kidz That Dream Big’ and we are now working on the second book in the series. We do this because we believe that by sharing our teachings, children around the world can plant the seeds to manifest their dreams. We also have an app which aims to reduce bullying, which we’re seeking funding for. It will change the way children interact for generations to come, and we need £2,600 to launch it. I started this project because I was bullied in my first primary school, which taught me a lot about myself and human behaviour. Where do you see yourself in 5-10 years time?

In 5-10 years I can see our company becoming an international franchise and I see myself travelling the world as a public speaker, sharing my insights and inspiring children and youth through my self-development techniques to empower them to manifest their deepest desires. When children grasp their true nature as a natural creator, there are no limits and so much to learn that the possibilities became infinite. What advice could you give to someone who wanted to follow in your footsteps?

I’d advise them to have fun, dream big and learn to love themselves unconditionally. Surround yourself with people you like and trust, practice gratitude, be optimistic, have unwavering faith in your dreams, reach out and connect with people you resonate with. Be open minded and replace your unfulfilling values with more powerful ones which will help you to attain your deepest desires. The universe/God has got your back, therefore whatever or whomever you desire to connect with will show up.

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Housing and Benefits Advice If you rent your home and are having problems paying your rent, there is help available but you have to take responsibility and take action quickly, rather than hoping that the problem will go away by itself.

RENT ARREARS

Finding yourself in rent arrears can be a distressing time. But you have to take quick action before you are faced with the possibility of eviction and finding yourself homeless. If you are evicted for rent arrears, you will be seen as making yourself intentionally homeless and will not be rehoused by any Local Authority.

WHAT TO CHECK WHEN IN RENT ARREARS

If the Tenancy is only in your name, called a Sole Tenancy, then you are the only person responsible for the arrears. However, if it is a Joint Tenancy (more than one person) then both parties are responsible. If the other party isn’t paying their share of the rent, then you will still be expected to make sure the payments are made. If you succeeded to the Tenancy e.g took over the Tenancy from someone, usually in the case of death; then you are responsible for any arrears that are owed after you took over the Tenancy. You are not responsible for any arrears before that, and should seek some independent Legal advice to sort this out.

HOUSING BENEFIT

Housing Benefit is a benefit which helps you pay your rent if you are on a low income. You may be able to get Housing Benefit if you are getting certain benefits such as Income Support, Jobseekers Allowance or Pension Credit. You may also be able to get Housing Benefit if you are working either part time or full time but on a low income. If you are not claiming a benefit which you are entitled to, then you may be able to get backdated payments which could help with your rent arrears. You can find out whether you might be entitled to Housing Benefit and other benefits by using the online Benefits Advisor tool on the GOV.UK website. Go to www.gov.uk.

AGREE A REPAYMENT PLAN

Contact your Landlord and discuss your arrears with them as soon as possible. Before they can take you to Court, there are a number of procedures they have to follow and one of those being making a reasonable agreement with you to pay back these arrears. If you then break this agreement, they can take your case to Court.

TAKEN TO COURT FOR RENT ARREARS?

The procedure your Landlord must follow if they want to evict you for rent arrears is: n A ‘pre-action protocol’. These are steps your Landlord must take before starting court action. n Send you a warning, called a ‘Notice of Seeking Possession’ or NSP

n Send you court papers

n Get a court order called a Possession Order which is either: a) Suspended Possession Order: It gives you the right to stay in your home, as long as you stick to an agreement to keep up the rent payments and pay off the arrears. OR b) Outright Possession Order: This will say that you have to leave the property by a certain date. Your Landlord is likely to be granted this if you are unable to convince the Judge that you can keep up your rent payments and pay off the arrears. n Get a warrant of possession

n Get a notice of eviction sent to you by the Bailiffs

EVICTION

If you haven’t left by the date on the possession order and your Landlord still wants to evict you, they must apply for a warrant of possession. This is authority granted by the Court for the Bailiffs to evict you. The warrant will give a date and time for the eviction. You will also get a notice of eviction from the Bailiffs with the date and time of the eviction. If you haven’t left by the date on the notice of eviction, the Bailiffs will come to your home and force you to leave. It’s against the law for your Landlord to try to evict you without a warrant of possession. If this happens, call the police. It may be possible to ask for the warrant of possession to be suspended. If the court agrees to this, it would mean that the eviction will not go ahead. You have to do this before the eviction takes place. You will have to give enough information to persuade the judge that the warrant should be suspended.

ADVICE

Always seek independent Legal advice. Contact Citizens Advice Bureau – www.citizensadvice.org.uk

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What the ACLT has achieved

The ACLT (African Caribbean Leukaemia Trust) is a leading Cancer charity dedicated to raising the awareness of the shortage of Black and Ethnic Minority donors on the UK Bone Marrow, Blood and Organ registers. We recruit potential donors at ACLT registration drives, via saliva or blood, and involve them in the process of offering hope and a healthy future to someone whose disorder might otherwise prove fatal.

n Raised the number of Black and Mixed Race people on the UK Bone Marrow register from 550 to over 50,000 potential donors

The trust was catapulted into existence in 1996 by Beverley De-Gale and Orin Lewis, the parents of leukaemia sufferer Daniel De-Gale (pictured above right), whose desperate search for a matching bone marrow donor for Daniel in 1996 revealed that there were just 550 Black or Mixed Race people on the UK registers. This meant that Daniel had a 1 in 250,000 chance of finding a donor, compared with (at best) a 1 in 5 chance for a White person. The parents made it their mission to increase the number of Black and Mixed Race donors, and to help others like their son. The chance of finding a match is greater if the donor is from the same racial background, as bone marrow contains racially specific characteristics, and a compatible donor for Daniel could therefore only be found within these communities. Black and Ethnic Minority sufferers are at a severe disadvantage due to lack of awareness, and the myths, fears and taboos around giving blood and donating organs for transplant purposes.

Helped save well over fifty lives by sourcing matching Bone Marrow donors such as Homeland actor David Harewood (above left), Dr Kamisha Guthrie, footballer Clive Wilson, Debra Forth, Helen Robinson, Naomi Williams, Johanna Charles and Francesca Clarke.

Sarah Thompson (below left), London who received a match from Michelle Duncan in 2006; “I’m forever indebted to the ACLT. Without it, I might not have received a donor with a match and probably would not be alive today” she said.

n Promoted the need for regular blood donation, and the use of Organ donor cards within the Black and Ethnic Minority communities. n

Beverley De-Gale and Orin Lewis have each been awarded with an OBE (Officer of the Order of the British Empire) in the Queen’s Honours List by the Prime Minister and Cabinet Secretary in recognition for services to healthcare.

Eventually Daniel won his battle against leukaemia when on 16th June 1999, at the age of 12, he received a bone marrow transplant from an unrelated American donor, Doreene Carney, (below) at Great Ormond Street Hospital. This enabled Daniel to live a full and fruitful life, including successfully passing his exams at school and University.

ACLT, Southbridge House, Southbridge Place, Croydon CR0 4HA Tel: 020 8240 4480 Fax: 020 8240 4481 Email: info@aclt.org Web: www.aclt.org

Daniel was in full remission and free of cancer, but due to complications leading to multiple organ failure, he died aged 21, on the 8th October 2008 in hospital, surrounded by his family.

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YOUNG VOICES IN ARTS, MEDIA, RACE & POWER

Shake! is a dynamic youth initiative using art as a powerful non-violent force for change and a celebration of youth voices. Each day Shake! creative workshops provide space to imagine what justice looks like, experiment with new ideas, learn new tools, work with incredible artists and inspire your imagination! Khadiza Shahid spoke to YouthPhoriaUK© about some of their recent projects. “Shake! instilled hope in me that it is possible for the potential of young people to evoke change to be recognised and duly utilised. Indeed, this could be achieved by harnessing youth’s skills and talents as well as engaging with them as social activists in a dialogue around topical issues of contemporary society. In this manner, Voices That Shake yet again provided a platform for young participants to explore their own views on power, perceptions and the media. Some of the sessions explored how forms of art have been used to campaign for social change. Sokari Douglas created a living memorial of Ken Saro-Wiwa in the form of a steel bus as part of a campaign on human rights and oil drilling in the Niger Delta. The bus has the statement “I accuse the oil companies of genocide of Ogoni people” and allows for drummers to perform on its roof. The memorial has been situated at the Southbank Centre, which is sponsored by Shell. Also, as a mobile art work, it has been taken on a tour across the UK, raising awareness.

In other sessions, participants were able to draw on such inspiration to express their ideas and concerns about the injustices in today’s world through creating poetry, music and film which has been showcased at the Free Word Centre in Farringdon, London, on the 29th October. Young poets voiced their articulate poetry and music addressing key issues such as war and racism. Youth participants who produced a short film in three days held their film premiere of ‘Reach’ which focused on the prevalence of economic inequality in London and the impact of gentrification upon local communities who find themselves excluded from reaping the benefits as well as accessing higher education. I think young people can be more responsible for creating their own circumstances by being confident in themselves to achieve their goals. Young people need to believe in their many talents and to explore and experiment with the ways in which they can use them for social activism. They need to believe in the value of challenging the status quo, whether or not efforts to do so are successful. Without this, there is little likelihood for change. To overcome obstacles and boundaries they may face, I believe the key is to persevere with determination. Often, this will lead to innovative solutions.”

The next Voices that Shake! event is during half-term holiday, 17-21 February 2014 at The Stephen Lawrence Charitable Trust. For more info, email farzana@platformlondon.org or visit their blog at http://voicesthatshake.blogspot.co.uk/

Check the latest short film, Reach, made by Shake! participants in August 2013. You can get a flavour of how it went from the pilot of the course in 2010 that was made by the young people who took part –

http://vimeo.com/15666941#

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Breaking Down Walls Kanayo Phoebe

She was about 14 years old when Kanayo realised the importance of her GCSE’s. Despite being predicted grades that were much lower, she continued and worked hard throughout the year to achieve her full potential.

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Growing up in today’s society where there are so many distractions can be a challenge, but the prediction that she would get low grades was enough for the then year 10, age 14 years old to buckle down and fully concentrate on her GCSE’s. The end result was ten A’s and one B in subjects ranging from English Literature to Business Studies, Maths and Psychology. Taking authority, she says between now and five years time she wants to complete her PHD and work towards creating a school of psychology in Nigeria. Not bad for someone who says she never had a clear idea of what she wanted to do in the future.

“I remember wanting to be a fashion designer, a teacher, a lawyer, doctor and then I finally settled with psychology, which I study at the University of Surrey,” says Kanayo. “Choosing an ambition or setting career goals is not an easy thing for anyone, especially when you’re young with a mind buzzing with ideas.” For her, keeping one’s feet on the ground was vital. “Make sure that the goal is somewhat attainable and realistic and surround yourself with people who will encourage you.” She took time to speak her to elders, received advice from credible sources and lastly listened to herself. “I adhered to what my brain was great at, which was psychology. I didn’t force myself to do a subject that I ‘thought’ I should do, or because everyone else is doing it. I did what I want to do, no mixed messages, no confusion.” Kanayo believes that it’s extremely important for people to have ‘real life proximal’ role models. “I stress ‘real life’ because many people see celebrities as their role model, but the truth is they do not know the ins and outs of that persons life, the mistakes they’ve made etc. they only know what the media tells them, and we all know how subjective the media can be!“

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She maintains that real life role models are individuals that one can speak to, learn from, essentially be mentored by. “Role models, give you a tangible end result that you can aspire to achieve. They show that whatever you aspire to do ‘can be done’ because someone has done it. Role models save you making silly mistakes. “ She regards her mum as being a constant role model for her. “Her drive and determination throughout everything challenged me to adopt her ‘joy through it all’ mindset which has seen me through the toughest times,” Kanayo says proudly. “She has been a great encourager, and the number one supporter of my dreams. She always says “whatever you do Kanayo, do it with excellence’. Her support has been priceless!” In 2013, Kanayo went to China for a month for an internship, and whenever she is asked about her trip she just cannot answer with one simple sentence!

“Whenever I’m asked ‘How was China?’, it’s a question that I feel terrible for answering with just a few words because to be quite honest, one sentence and a few pictures cannot qualify my experience. It all began before I left for Beijing at Heathrow airport. It started with the unforgettable support I received financially from all those who donated to fund my one month trip. A total of £2,685 was donated, way above my target of £1,500. A massive thank you to everyone who supported me, especially my late cousin Ify who told me I would go to China! China is great…great in everything – demographically, sky scrapers, technology and the list goes on. China was culturally challenging, in terms of living there as a foreigner or ‘alien’ as they call us. It was hard being different. People will stop, stare at you in awe and take pictures which admittedly was flattering at times! I guess I assumed or expected that for a country that is so in touch with the whole world through

“Never allow your circumstances or your past to inhibit your growth as a person at all! If you have a goal, dream, whatever – GO FOR IT!”

psychology rants, let me conclude by saying business, essentially providing us with all our ‘made in china’ goods, that they wouldn’t that it has certainly stirred up a desire for me to do more. be so shocked to see foreigners. Working in China as a Marketing Intern for Astronaut China was an amazing experience, which has ‘sprinkled gold dust onto my CV’, especially when I learned about Chinese business etiquette and communicating with my colleagues despite the verbal language barrier. China reinforced the fact that communication goes beyond verbal discourse. There are endless amounts of universal gestures, which even Chinese natives understand. I will miss my colleagues at Astronaut, they were absolutely lovely and welcoming. However, I will NOT miss the subway journeys to work, especially transferring from line 10 to line 1 at Gumao. China has taught me to be OPEN MINDED to different cultures. It is very easy to get stuck in western ways, but I think this is the beginning for me. I will travel a lot more by God’s grace, and I look forward to learning about different cultures. I loved being a tourist on the weekends! My top tourist experience was walking on The Great Wall of China; that was my exercise session for the whole year. Being a student of Psychology with a strong interest in mental health and the crosscultural differences, it was humbling and fulfilling for me to visit the ‘Beijing Huling Community Centre for Intellectual Disabilities’ to volunteer for a weekend. 83 million people suffer from mental illness in China…that is the entire population of the UK plus 20 million. That’s a lot of people, yet very few get the help they need. The manager of the centre told me that there are only 10 mental health community centres in the whole of Beijing, the capital of China, with a population 20 million.

Even though mental health isn’t my main career interest, I believe there is a lot that our young generation of psychologists can do. Going to China for this internship provided me with the wonderful opportunity to connect with other interns from all over the world, to work for a great company and to have the experience of a lifetime.” Since returning from China, Kanayo has secured a work placement with leading property agent Need A Property.Com. Her positive approach to life means that she always manages to seek out opportunities that help her to progress. YouthPhoriaUK© would like to congratulate Kanayo on her most recent achievement!

If you have been inspired by Kanayo’s story and would like to find out more about her overseas experience or psychology, you can follow her blog at

doctorkanayo.wordpress.com

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Kane

Thomas Kane Thomas is an amazing young man who looked after his mother when she became ill with Bell’s Palsy. His parents had separated and although his father would occasionally drop by and his older brother lived not far away with his grandfather, Kane at the age of 10 became the primary carer and he took his role seriously.

“The advice that I would give to someone is to keep on going. No-one No-one said said it it was was going going to to be be easy easy and you just have to push that little bit further to get that little bit extra.”

“I wouldsomeone have to come straight home to “The advice that I wto check she was ‘OK’ and I couldn’t waste is to keep on going. any time in case she got worried and then

she would get stressed and that is the last thing we wanted to have happen,” recalls Kane. “I dealt with that by making sure I didn’t cause her any stress.” Young as he was Kane, using the mental strength of a man twice his age, managed to keep home, school and growing up under control. His mother eventually regained her health and, according to Kane, “She’s fine as long as she doesn’t get stressed which could cause her Bell’s Palsy to happen again.” With life virtually back to normal Kane set about paying much needed attention to his school years. Although young, he knows exactly what he wants which is “to be successful in the coming years and enjoy a good life”. And he knows that he has choices. Good with figures he reveals, “I really want to be a maths professor.” But he also likes rugby, so it could be a toss up between maths and becoming a rugby coach. “I play for my school rugby team and I am really enjoying the sport,” says Kane. “I also have an interest in swimming. I swim for a swimming club called Seabyrds where we compete against other swimming clubs by way of galas which is highly competitive and helps develop our progress as a whole.” While he’s pondering those choices he already knows he will be going into either sixth form or college. It’s obvious that whatever he decides with do with his life Kane is steadfast as to what is really important when making decisions.

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“I will have explored all possibilities and hopefully know which direction I want to go in. At the moment I just want to keep my head straight, remain focused and concentrate on my school work, doing the best that I can.” That firmly stated, he speaks warmly of his family. “My Uncle Bobby and Uncle Ruddy have taught me how to have respect for one another and to treat people the way you want to be treated and my brother because spoils me,” he beams, “and My Auntie Dee has taught me how to discipline myself and how to take care of other people.” But the person who shines the most in Kane’s eyes is his beloved mother. “Mum provides for me and does everything for me. She teaches me how to be a good person and her way of parenting me is how I am going to be with my children.” Of her illness, which she has overcome he says, “Everyday I would pray for my Mum to get better and in the end she did, so God was always by our side watching over us and caring for us.” Kane’s caring and committed attitude has not gone unnoticed and he was nominated and won the ‘Local Hero Award’ in Middlesex as well as the ‘BYA Community Award’, both in 2011.

Clearly a young man with a bright future, Kane Thomas is a great example of someone who was presented with challenges but didn’t allow them to make him feel sad or stop him from achieving his goals and dreams.

Rose

Fernando A diamond in the rough

Rose Fernando seems to have An outstanding school student, Rose unlimited amounts of time and completed her GCSEs at Enfield County and energy! Devoted to improving the lives of young people, she started

achieved an impressive six A levels, all with A grades, at Alexandra Park.

With a string of achievements to her name, her mission with ‘Worth More Than including the ABC Foundation Award for Rubies’, an empowerment program Bridging Cultures and a Jack Petchey for young women involved in Award, Rose is also one of a number of young volunteers on the vTalent program.

knife and gun crime.

Rose launched her company ‘NextGeneration

Rose then became vice-chair of London’ (NGL) in March 2012. NGL is a youth the National Learner Panel (NLP) and community development organisation which targets young people and addresses key issues such as education, employment, Young Ambassador with her first leadership, crime prevention personal official role involving a visit development and self-confidence.

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to Copenhagen and meeting “We run workshops for young people and I the Danish delegation to the contact educational institutions to set them

up,” says Rose. “I also facilitate some of the personal development programs, especially took place before her my female only program ‘Diamonds in the 21st birthday. Making’.”

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“I’ve had a passion for working with young people from an early age,” says Rose. “I started out by volunteering in my church youth club when I was 14, and from there I progressed into volunteering at different youth organisations and working for numerous charities”.

“I want young people to see that they have

Having gone through some rough patches whilst growing up, Rose understood where the youngsters were coming from.

“When I was younger, there was one person who was always there for me – a teacher,” Rose remembers. “I was dealing with a lot of issues in my life at the time. She showed me a type of love and respect that helped me through a lot of struggles, and to this day I still thank her for everything. That is why I wanted to go into this line of work – to be that person for someone else who needed support.” Working with young people can be fun, but at times also emotional. “It is very easy to get emotionally involved in certain situations and let your own personal judgments take over,” explains Rose, “but if you do that, then you won’t be as effective a youth worker as you’d ideally want to be.” It is also easy for youngsters to be judged within the community. “I think some people can have a stereotypical view of youth because of the media attention received when a young person is involved in crime. I hope that NGL can help put an end to these stereotypes, and also that young people see they have much more potential than they are made to believe”.

more potential than they are made to believe”

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Self Empowerment for Life’s Foundation (SELF), a not-for-profit organisation, promotes and facilitates self development and empowerment. Directors Cassandra Campbell and Donna Solomon believe that: l like a house our lives should be constructed from a solid foundation to create and build upon l every individual has the power and ability to design and mould their lives in the way they desire.

Creating their true SELF! SELF’s first workshop Pandora’s Box (PB), an emotional development workshop for 14-25 year old females, is based on life skills through counselling theories and self-development practices. SELF works on the basis of self-love and self-awareness being essential to achieving a fulfilled life. Assisting young women in identifying the experiences that can affect their self concept, self worth, negative beliefs, and how thoughts and feelings interlink and affect their behaviour. The name and theme of the workshop originates from the Greek myth of Pandora who was prohibited by her father Zeus from opening a box. She opened it anyway, letting evil and disease into the world. However, along with all the bad things in the box was also HOPE. The Pandora’s Box workshop is, ultimately, a journey of positivity, wellbeing and HOPE! Pandora’s Box can be delivered in any organisation or establishment where there are young women. Its aim: to provide support, guidance, assistance to young women in living their lives to the fullest. LOVE their lives to the maximum, and discover their PERSONAL POWER! Pandora’s Box is presently being delivered as part of BelEve UK’s ‘Pathway to Success’ employability programme, and SELF are seeking facilitators to deliver Pandora’s Box.

Life experience, Counselling or Psychology qualifications essential. Facilitation experience preferred but not essential, as training will be provided. The organisation is in need of volunteers to be involved in this rapidly growing London based community organisation which can provide services around the UK.

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