Good Shabbos, Ross!
the newsletter of woodlands community temple
June 2015 Sivan-Tammuz 5775
Fri, May 29 at 8:00 pm Sun, Jun 7 at 4:00 pm
What Am I Doing with My Summer Vacation by Rabbi Mara Young
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s things quiet down during summer, we all venture out to explore, reconnect, and unwind. Rabbi Billy, Cantor Jonathan and I are no exception. One at a time, we disappear into the summer. Here’s a taste of what we’re up to: Weddings! Rabbi Billy has quite a few this summer, as do I. Most notably, I will be heading to San Francisco to officiate at my cousin’s wedding. It’ll be my first “barefoot on the beach” ceremony, which has led to some creative thinking about the breaking of the glass (a fun challenge!). More importantly, though, my cousin is marrying his wonderful partner of the same sex. Our family is thrilled, as am I. They are great men and their love is clear. I’m proud to be among this first generation of rabbis to officiate at legal same-sex marriages, opening the doors to lifelong partnership, not closing them. Last summer I officiated at my first wedding for two women; this summer, it’s these two men. I pray that soon I won’t have to wonder if it is legal in the ceremony’s state and that a wedding will be a wedding, and love will be love, anywhere. Music! This I reserve for Rabbi Billy and Cantor Jonathan. Both will be strumming their guitars and tickling the ivories, inventing their next great masterpieces. I’ll be singing the ABC’s with Noah. Travel! We’re all looking forward to time with our loved ones. Cantor Jonathan is embarking on a particularly meaningful trip to Alabama and Mississippi. At 18 and 19, young Jonathan spent time down South doing civil rights reporting and political work. Continued on page 2
Interview with Rabbi Mara
B’nai Binah–Adult Jewish Learning in the 21st Century In a rare free moment, we caught up with Rabbi Mara to ask her about next year’s B’nai Binah program. Her enthusiasm is contagious. What’s all the fuss about B’nai Binah? The tide has turned. Jewish learning is ... dare we say it ... fun. It's relevant. It speaks to, and can even affect, people's lives. Some say, "I hated religious school but my kid loves it!" The Jewish community is doing something right. New educational insights, openness to fresh ideas, and acceptance of diverse people and families, to name a few. This goes for adults too – the religious indoctrination of your youth needn’t be your same experience now. Continued on page 2
Our dear friend, Ross Glinkenhouse, has been with us for a fullness of years: seven of them. And in that time, our young people have benefitted immeasurably from his guidance, his teaching, and his love. How lucky we have been to watch Ross work his magic these past seven years. Lucky seven indeed! Please join us for one or both events in Ross’s honor – to thank him and to give him the send-off he so richly deserves. On Friday evening, May 29 at 8:00 pm, we’ll gather together to celebrate Ross with a very special Shabbat service in his honor. With prayer, song, words of tribute, and one more WoodSY Installation ceremony, let’s honor Ross for all he has done for us. The celebration continues on Sunday afternoon, June 7, 4:007:00 pm, at the Cliffs in Valhalla (1 Commerce St). Climbers and non-climbers are all welcome to join in the fun. Do a little climbing or not, there’ll be lots of schmoozing and even more noshing. Most importantly, we’ll spend time with Ross, thanking him for his great work. Visit wct. org/ross-cliffs to sign up for the fun. Any questions, email programming@wct.org. See you there!
Our Woodlands Community Rabbi Billy Dreskin rabbi@wct.org Rabbi Mara Young rabbimara@wct.org Cantor Jonathan Ben Gordon cantor@wct.org Ross Glinkenhouse, Youth Director youth@wct.org Corey Friedlander, Sh'liakh K'hilah corey@wct.org Jason Fenster, Rabbinic Intern intern@wct.org
Executive Committee Stu Berlowitz, President president@wct.org Jenna Lebowich, VP Education education@wct.org Cliff Schoen, VP Facilities facilities@wct.org Andy Farber, VP Finance finance@wct.org Dayle Fligel, VP Programming/Ritual programming@wct.org Herb Friedman, Financial Secretary financialsecretary@wct.org Andrea Einhorn, Secretary secretary@wct.org Mark Selig, Treasurer treasurer@wct.org
Board of Trustees Bob Apter Jill Garland Nancy Brown Yvette Gralla Aliza Burton Barry Leibowitz Wendy Eliezer z"l Lisa Sacks Gloria Falk Mike Scafidi Nancy Fishman Michele Wise Rochelle Stolzenberg (ex-officio)
Office Staff Liz Rauchwerger, Office Coordinator liz@wct.org Michele Montague, Education Administrative Assistant michele@wct.org Michelle Fine, Office Staff mfine@wct.org Bookkeeper bookkeeper@wct.org
About Our Temple Woodlands Community Temple 50 Worthington Road White Plains, NY 10607 914.592.7070 main office 914.592.1790 religious school direct line 914.592.7376 fax wct@wct.org www.wct.org Religious School: school@wct.org Woodlands Community Temple is affiliated with the Union for Reform Judaism Art Director: Melanie Roher Design and Production: Kate Levy Advertising Director: Bob Apter Production Director: Michelle Fine
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That was the last time he was there, as his work landed him in hot water with unfavorable authorities.“That time remains in emotional memories,” he says, “and I want to re-encounter the places where they took place and maybe understand better what happened after many years.” Camp! I’ll be up at URJ Crane Lake Camp to serve on faculty for a week, doing plenty of canoeing and teaching. Most importantly, I’ll be giving lots of high-fives to the 25+ Woodlands kids who will be at Crane Lake and its sister camp, Eisner, down the road. Rabbi Billy will be making a pilgrimage to his beloved URJ Kutz Camp to celebrate its 50th summer. That’s 50 years of training the next generation of Jewish leaders. Hey, look how well Rabbi Billy turned out! Looking forward! We also have many exciting temple matters to attend to. First is getting familiar with Mishkan HaNefesh, the new Reform makhzor (High Holy Days prayerbook) that we’ll all see in the tent this fall. We’ll also be acclimating our new Director of Youth Engagement, Tara Levine, who will spend parts of this summer getting ready for her official arrival in September. Have no fear ... at least one of us is always around for you and your family. We hope your summer is a great one, so we send you off with words from Tefillat HaDerekh (the traveler’s prayer): “Guide us in peace, and help us to reach our destination safely and joyfully. Confer blessing upon the work of our hands and grant us grace, kindness, and mercy in Your eyes and in the eyes of all who see us.” Have a wonderful summer! Interview continued from page 1
Are you talking to me? Is this something I should get involved with? Yes! It’s the perfect time to taste the change in Jewish education. B'nai Binah is a special, adult opportunity to study Judaism ... whether you feel like you know little or you want to deepen what you do know. We'll explore Jewish history, ritual and thought in a fun, creative atmosphere, spending half the evening learning Hebrew (with small classes of beginner, intermediate and advanced levels) and half exploring Jewish thought, practice, history and culture, developing skills that can help you access Judaism at deeper levels of personal meaning. When’s all this happening? We meet weekly for two years (Thursdays, 7:30-9:30 pm, starting October 1). A big commitment, yes, but we think the payoff is fantastic. Your journey culminates on Simkhat Torah 2017, the holiday where we celebrate Jewish learning in all its forms. And you'll read from the Torah to seal the deal! What if I’m not sure B’nai Binah is for me? New to Jewish learning? Add the basic tools of Jewish living to your personal toolbox, and feel more empowered in Jewish settings. Already know the basics and want to dive deeper into what you learned long ago? B’nai Binah will take you there, helping your religious education "grow up." Wondering about conversion? B’nai Binah is an excellent place to explore that possibility too. Never became Bar/Bat Mitzvah? This is the perfect time – we’d love to see you there too! Anything else you want to tell us? Oh yes! B’nai Binah is also an excellent opportunity to deepen temple friendships and make new ones too. We bring you our A-team of teachers: our Hebrew faculty (Harriet Levine, Margot Serwer, and Rabbi Joan Glazer Farber) and our Jewish studies faculty (Rabbi Billy, Rabbi Mara, Cantor Jonathan and intern Jason Fenster). We’re thrilled to be on this learning journey with you! I want in! How do I sign on? Classes begin this fall (Oct 1, 2015). Tuition is $250/year (financial assistance is available – contact Rabbi Mara). Register (right now!) at wct.org/bnaibinah so you can be part of the new world of Jewish learning. Anything else? We can’t wait to see you there!
Worship Schedule Shabbat Naso
Shabbat Korakh
Fri, May 29 Honoring Ross Glinkenhouse at 8:00 pm For seven years, Ross has guided our young people through their informal education at WCT. Tonight, we thank him for all the gifts he’s given to them and to us. Also tonight, installation of the WoodSY Board 2015-16.
Fri, Jun 19 at 6:00 pm Mishpakha Kabbalat ShaBarbecue Outdoor summer services begin tonight! So it’s a one-hour Mishpakha Shabbat, followed by our annual cookout. A fantastic night to introduce a friend to the Woodlands you love! Also, camp blessings to send our kids off to a summer of fun and growing. Reservations for the BBQ a must: wct. org/bbq. Bring a friend to “Taste of Woodlands” at 5:30 pm to meet the clergy and leadership.
Num 4:21 -7:89 ... Judg 13:2-25
Sat, May 30 Shabbat Morning Service at 10:30 am Celebrate with us as Alexander Weitzman, son of Jacqueline and Laurence Weitzman, becomes a Bar Mitzvah.
Shabbat Beha’alotkha
Num 16:1 - 18:32 ... I Sam 11:14 - 12:22
Sat, Jun 20 at 10:30 am Celebrate with us as Alexander Cohen, son of Karen and Matthew Cohen, becomes a Bar Mitzvah.
Num 8:1 - 12:16 ... Zekh 2:14 - 4:7
Hevra Torah Learning Saturdays, 9:15-10:15 a.m.
There’s abundant room around our table. Drop by once or often, we’d love to have you join our lively conversation. In the Meeting Room or Library. May 30: Parashat Naso Facilitated by Rabbi Mara Jun 6: Parashat Beha’alotkha Facilitated by Rabbi Billy Jun 13: Parashat Sh’lakh Lekha Facilitated by Rabbi Mara Jun 20: Parashat Korakh Facilitated by Cantor Jonathan Jun 27 - Oct 3 Visit wct.org/hevratorah for list of summer facilitators
Fri, Jun 5 Board of Trustees Installation at 8:00 pm Join us as we thank our outgoing leadership and welcome our new Board.
Throughout the Summer
Sat, Jun 6 Shabbat Morning Service at 10:30 am Celebrate with us as Samantha Blackman, daughter of Hal and Elisa Blackman, becomes a Bat Mitzvah.
Summer Outdoor Services Under the stars (weather-permitting), a bit less formal, and lasting about an hour.
Clergy Availability During the Summer
Saturdays through Simkhat Torah Hevra Torah Learning, 9:15-10:15 am Led by members of Hevra Torah and/ or visiting faculty, good conversation on the weekly Torah parashah is always happening. Drop by any Shabbat morning! Visit wct.org/hevratorah for schedule of facilitators.
Either Rabbi Billy, Rabbi Mara or Cantor Jonathan will be "on call" throughout the summer. Please understand, however, that summertime is one of the very few times our clergy can get away for rest and relaxation. If you should have need, you need only contact the temple office (5927070) or our temple president Dayle Fligel (282-9019).
Shabbat Sh’lakh Lekha Num 13:1 - 15:41 ... Josh 2:1-24
Fri, Jun 12 A Joyful Noise! at 8:00 pm A service for everyone, from oldest to youngest. With a dozen musicians and your voices, we’ll fill the Sanctuary with a joyful noise! Visual Worship tonight ... all prayers and readings projected onto screens. Sat, Jun 13 A Summer's Shabbat Morning at 10:30 am Shabbat morning filled with music and art, a lovely way to usher in summer. Our hour of prayer will also include an interactive art project for all ages. An informal potluck lunch follows. Visit wct.org/shabbatbrunch if you can bring a dish.
Fridays at 8:00 pm throughout June, July and August
•••••••••• Babysitting at 8pm Shabbat Services is provided by teens from our religious school. This month, babysitting will be available only on June 5 and June 12. Shabbat babysitting will then resume in September. There is no charge, and no advance notice is required. For further information contact babysitting@wct.org.
Mussar Probes Jewish Ethics with Cantor Jonathan & Lisa Sacks Mussar develops inner awareness, spiritual growth, and ethical living. Our “Taste of Mussar” class engages with text, develops individual practices, and builds community with each other. You’re welcome to join!
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One Swallow Doesn’t Make a Summer Keep an Eye out for the Loons!
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s summer days promise relaxed evenings and weekends, and vacations filled with changing vistas, I’m pondering my affection for sameness. A creature of habit, I seek out the same foods, books, films ... I’m utterly content Googling unknown geographies that interest me but I’ve little desire to visit. Rabbi Mara’s front-page article shares what’s on tap for your clergy this summer. Hopefully, we’ve got you thinking about your own seasonal adventures. As you do, ponder this: In 2013, film director Steven Soderbergh spoke at the San Francisco International Film Festival. He described sitting on a plane watching someone spend the flight fast forwarding on his iPad to the action scenes of a half-dozen movies. This guy knew what he wanted, and had figured out how to get just that. And only that. NY Times columnist Frank Bruni, in writing about how we cherry-pick the pieces of our lives, mentions Netflix and Amazon making suggestions based on previous habits. Computer-aided mono-behavior, satisfaction guaranteed. But is being satisfied really satisfaction? I’ll probably stay as lazily still as I can this summer. But I hope to read and watch something different. And who knows?
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Maybe Charlie and I will take a walk on the wild side. Kohelet (you may know him by his Greek name, Ecclesiastes) has a reputation for being the most depressing character in the Bible. He’s the guy who wrote, “There’s nothing new under the sun.” But the sun’s pretty big. And so’s the universe around it. I think Kohelet was trying to say, “While there may be nothing new, there’s plenty we’ve not yet seen.” So this summer, try something that’s new to you. Taste a new food. Stumble upon a new author. Go someplace you’ve never been. Find yourself a new adventure. It may not be “new under the sun” but, after experiencing it, you may be. Oh, one more thing. Ross Glinkenhouse: It’s been our great fortune to have you with us these past seven years. May the next seven bring you that and more. You’ve earned it, fella. Here’s to lazy weekends and beautiful sunsets (which never grow old).
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Boredom, Hurrah!
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see lots of people walking the streets while talking on their cell phones. Meanwhile the guy dining next to me is busy texting. We can’t talk, but he must be inspired, I suppose. Students in class stop taking notes and shop on their laptops. There is always something right at hand to do when our attention span wanders. But is this constant busyness good? It is natural to need release from what we are doing. We have had enough. Our legs jump, our eyes drift. We get bored! Boredom creates an opening for something new. We break from the activity at hand in an intense, semiconscious moment. What will we think of? What will we feel? Imagination propels us to an unknown place. People get great ideas in the shower or walking to the bathroom. No phone to fiddle with! We have insight when the task at hand doesn’t take all our attention. The mind wanders and creates. On the other hand, if we jump from one activity directly to another, we pass right over the encounter with emptiness. Our inner lives need space to grow. We need to feel what we are becoming. Religious life requires open time. Jews pray
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three times a day, no matter how intense or worthwhile our work. We break with our labors to reflect, remember and imagine. The soul needs its nourishment. Summer is the great example of creative idleness. We do things that bring adventure and joy. We may lounge at home or drive long highway miles to unknown places. We feel the heat of the sun and the gentle caress of the wind. We notice shapes written in the sky and feel the earth under our toes. The mind wanders. We consider what is meaningful and mark how we feel. Sunsets and sunrises stir us to appreciate God. We reconnect with our loved ones; we consider the past and dream the future. I hope you have the chance to put down the tools of your everyday life this summer. Because work can be a bit boring, thank goodness.
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Thanks for the Memories
t the end of this month, my third and final term as your president will come to an end (hold the applause, please!). It's been an honor and privilege to hold this position at WCT. I'm proud of what we've accomplished together over the past 3 years. Whether it was working with our youth or our seniors, Social action, Adult Ed, the religious school, etc., we have challenged ourselves, even reinvented ourselves in many cases, and moved forward in our efforts of engaging all of our WCT community. The important part in what we have accomplished is the "we." I have had the pleasure of working with a thoughtful and supportive Board of Trustees and Executive Committee who are second to none. I have enjoyed working with all of our committee chairs and their members. Rabbi Billy, Rabbi Mara, Cantor Jonathan, Ross, Liz, Michele, Michelle and German and the congregation at large, you have all been so supportive, and that is something I will hold dear as I move from President to being IPP (Immediate Past President). I am pleased to say that the time is right to pass the torch to my good friend, Dayle Fligel. I know Dayle will do a fantastic job going forward. Special thanks to Karen, my wife, who has supported me throughout this time as my confidante and editor. Thank you also to my children, Sammi and Josh, for all of their support. I look forward to my continued involvement at WCT, both as Immediate Past President and as a congregant participating in and enjoying all that WCT has to offer.
June is one of The Judaica Shop's favorite months. We get to see so many of our congregants celebrating numerous simkhas and milestone events. It’s wedding season, Fathers Day is June 21, graduations, and new homes. Deciding on appropriate gifts can be daunting! The Judaica Shop at Woodlands will help you choose the perfect gift from our array of unique and meaningful items. A picture frame with a vessel to showcase the broken glass shards from the wedding ceremony for the new couple, a mixed metal sculpture from Gary Rosenthal for Dad, a piece of Judaica jewelry for the grad and a mezuzah for the new home.
L'shalom,
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Youth Director
Goooooooood Bye! On May 28, 2008, I was sitting at my kitchen table when I received a phone call from some guy named Mike Winkleman. "Shalom, Ross. Barry Shainker sent us your name to discuss an opportunity for you to work at Woodlands." From there, things progressed very quickly, including temple members like Jennifer Tower driving up to Crane Lake Camp and spending some time getting to know me. By June 22, I was officially offered "the Job" that would change my life! It was beshert that I received this opportunity! I was super-scared at first, and at times I thought, "What have I gotten myself into?" But one of my earliest interactions with my new charges was reading a Facebook posting from then-teen Lauren Weisberg that was titled: Things to Do When We First Meet Our New Youth Director. "1) Say hello. 2) Plan High Holy Days services 3) Lick him!" As frightened as I was at the prospect of signing on to be WCT’s Youth Director, I soon discovered that everybody here really cared about me and, from teen to adult, made every effort to support me and help me feel at home. I feel blessed for the time that I have spent here, learning and growing not only as a Jewish educator but as a member of this very special community. We have had many of our ups-and-downs to be sure, but every experience I have had here has made me a better individual and, I hope, has benefitted Woodlands too. I would not change any of it. Woodlands Community Temple, thank you for embracing me and allowing me to be me, the quirky, loud, energized individual who always screamed, “Goooooooood Shabbos!” I will never forget you, and Woodlands will always be my home. L’hitraot ... stay in touch,
Beams Designs Glass Frame with Vessel for Broken Shards; Gary Rosenthal Mixed Media Sculpture
Stop by and check out our featured artist, Joan Z. Horn, a jewelry artist who uses mechanic's tools – saws, hammers, snips, tubing jigs – to create her one-of-a-kind pieces. Joan sees the world as if it were a piece of jewelry – musical notes become brooches; gates in Barcelona, a pendant.
Joan Z. Horn Jewelry
The Judaica Shop at Woodlands, "your neighborhood gift shop for gift giving and…getting" is open, by request, every day the temple office is staffed. Evening and weekend hours are noted in the weekly email. Shopping for something special? Have a question or suggestion? Email JudaicaShop@wct.org.
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June and Beyond Happenings A Summer's Shabbat Morning
those choices in the months ahead.
Sat, Jun 13 at 10:30 am
We'll give you more to think about when Elul gets here. But for now, we encourage you to make August 15 a red-letter eve in your summer schedule.
Join us for an hour of joyous song and prayer, featuring Don Levan and Jon Richer. A great way to to welcome our community into summer. The service, which begins at 10:30 am, will include an interactive art project appropriate for children and adults alike. When we conclude around 11:30 am, you are invited to stay for an informal potluck lunch. Visit wct.org/shabbatbrunch to let us know what dish you’re bringing.
Summer Outdoor Services Friday Evenings All Summer Jun 26 - Sep 4, 8:00-9:00 pm You are cordially invited to join us – beneath a canopy of enchanting summer skies – for our Shabbat summer outdoor services. About an hour long, come and relax with friends and neighbors. These services are less formal (if that's even possible at Woodlands), filled with music, prayer, and meaningful words of humor and hope. A very friendly crowd will join you following the service for an Oneg of noshing and even better shmoozing. Such a delightful way to celebrate Shabbat. Children are most definitely welcome! And if the weather does not cooperate, we'll move inside for air-conditioned spiritual comfort.
ELUL: A Month to Get Ready While packing bags and kicking back for summer fun, you may want to circle Saturday, August 15 on your calendar. That evening is the beginning of the Hebrew month of Elul, which means Rosh Hashanah is only four weeks away (Sunday evening, September 13). During the month of Elul, Jewish tradition urges us to begin the introspective process that will occupy our attention during High Holy Days. As we begin to wind down from the sunny (hopefully), lazy (also hopefully) days of summer, Elul reminds us it's time to begin examining ourselves – our actions, our outlooks – and begin considering why we've made the choices we've made in the past year, and how we might modify
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Camp Blessings Fri, Jun 19 at 6:00 pm Just before our sweet young ‘uns take off for points known and unknown – summer camp or otherwise – we invite you to bring them to temple. We'll bless 'em and send ‘em on their way ... with much love and hope for a summer of fun, growing, learning and friendship. Hope you and your kids can join us! Shabbat Barbecue follows. RSVP for dinner at wct.org/BBQ.
Hevreh: A Community of Adult Jewish Learners Jul 15-19, Waynesboro, PA You are cordially invited to attend the very first gathering of Hevreh (Jul 15-19, Capital Camps Retreat Center, Waynesboro, PA) for five days of fabulously engaging and inspiring adult Jewish learning. Join Cantor Ellen Dreskin, Rabbi Joan Glazer Farber, this year’s Artist-in-Residence Marilyn Price and others for study, prayer and spiritual recharging. Course descriptions and faculty biographies are included on the registration form. Register at tinyurl. com/ksrjq8e.
A Rewarding Evening Fri, Jun 19 at 5:30 pm “Membership has its rewards.” Once the defining commercial tagline for a credit card, the Woodlands Membership Committee thinks the phrase also speaks to what it means to belong to our temple. Visiting can be a wonderful experience. Belonging to our temple is something else entirely. We hope that you will consider bringing a friend, interested in learning more about Woodlands, to our next Prospective Member “Taste of Woodlands” on Friday, June 19. Clergy, lay leaders and Membership
Committee members will be on-hand to talk about why Woodlands is so special. The evening begins at 5:30, followed by our Mishpakha Shabbat service, camp blessings, and then our annual ShabBarbecue! Membership at Woodlands definitely has its rewards! Come taste it on Friday, June 19 ... and bring a friend!
Daytime Diversions Join us on Wed, Jun 3 at 10:00 am to view, laugh, and discuss the movie, “Broadway Danny Rose,” a 1984 comedy about a not very successful artists’ manager played by Woody Allen. He tries to help a client make a comeback, but all very innocently gets involved with the client’s girlfriend (Mia Farrow) as well as some fairly inept mobsters. Fun, doughnuts, coffee/tea. Bring guests. Daytime Diversions has always been a group of interested, multi-faceted people, many of whom have been getting together for the past 5 years. We may or may not know the details of the diverse backgrounds of these members. Join us on Wed, Jun 10 at 10:00 am to learn what may be surprising stories about three of our regulars: Phyllis Hirth, Jeanne Bodin and Rochelle Novins. Our friends have traveled very different paths to get to Woodlands. Perhaps you will recognize your own journeys in their talks. Bring guests. We’ll leave time for talk. Join us on Wed, Jun 17 at 10:00 am for the ever-stimulating Current Events Discussion. Here’s your chance to comment, agree or disagree with factors affecting local, national, or worldwide affairs. Let’s share opinions, doughnuts and coffee/tea. We’re always ready to welcome new faces. The Current Events group will continue to meet throughout the summer. The movies and speakers are on vacation during July and August, but will return in September. Have a great summer!
Interfaith Worship Exchange – Part Two
URJ Biennial in Orlando, FL Excitement Is Building!
Sun, Jun 14 at 11:00 am
Join the rabbis and many other fellow congregants at the URJ Biennial Convention, November 4-8, 2015. We'll all be staying at the Marriott World Center. Visit urj.org/biennial to learn lots more about the excitement and value of this every-other-year gathering. Among the feature speakers are Nicholas Kristoff and Ari Shavit. You can sign up for updates and be notified when registration opens. Please let Billy or Mara know you'll be attending. See you in Orlando!
Our Friday evening in May of shared worship and fellowship was an unparalleled success! We had such a wonderful time meeting the parishioners from the First Community Church of the Nazarene in Elmsford. Their pastor moved us deeply with his passion for faith in God. Now it’s time for us to traverse Saw Mill River Road and spend a Sunday Sabbath with them. Meet us, on Sun, Jun 14 at 11:00 am, at the First Community Church of the Nazarene (2101 Saw Mill River Rd) for a lively, music-filled morning of prayer, reflection and, of course, faith. Experience a whole different kind of worship and, most importantly, extend a hand in unity and friendship. Your presence will convey a powerful message of interest and camaraderie our neighbors won't soon forget. Please dress in your Sunday best! Rabbi Billy will deliver the sermon.
Summer Reading of the Lofty Kind If you’ve ever wanted to re-read sermons given by the WCT clergy, get your spiritfix right here! Many of these writings live on in cyberspace and we’ve got the details below. So fire up some popcorn, stir yourself a tall glass of iced tea, and settle back for some adventures in soulsearching at: wct.org/sermons (writings from the WCT clergy) wct.org/hhdsermons (High Holy Days sermons) billydreskin.wordpress.com (Rabbi Billy’s writings)
divreitorah.wct.org (Rabbi Mara’s writings)
3 of WCT’s Own to be Honored! On Mon, Jun 19, JCC on the Hudson is celebrating those who have played lead roles in creating exceptional educational Jewish programs in the Rivertowns. WCT members Jenna Lebowich, Juli Klein and Leora Cohen Friedman are being honored for their exceptional efforts on behalf of Woodlands’ Campaign for Youth Engagement. Jenna, Juli and Leora have helped to expand our synagogue’s vision of youth and family engagement. Grandparents, parents and children are attending programs together, learning from each other and deepening their connections to the Woodlands community. As a result, our temple youth (and their parents) feel cared for, empowered, and motivated to apply Judaism to their lives and contribute to their community. Kol hakavod, Juli, Jenna and Leora. A job very well done!
Board of Trustees Installation Fri, Jun 5 at 8:00 pm Each year, a wonderfully dedicated group of volunteers steps forward to share the responsibilities of leading our congregation. Our Board of Trustees works tirelessly to make our synagogue community a home for Judaism for us all. Please join us as we honor them with a gala Shabbat celebration. Our sincere thanks to these outgoing members of our Board of Trustees ... Nancy Brown • Wendy Eliezer z”l • Jill Garland Cliff Schoen • Rochelle Stolzenberg (IPP) For your leadership and dedication, todah rabbah ... thank you. And welcome to our 2015-16 Board of Trustees ... Dayle Fligel, President • Andy Farber, VP Finance Herb Friedman, Financial Secretary • Mark Selig, Treasurer Rachel Wineberg, VP Education • Bob Apter, VP Facilities Nancy Fishman, VP Programming/Ritual • Andrea Einhorn, Secretary Aliza Burton, Trustee • Dan Emery, Trustee • Gloria Falk, Trustee Yvette Gralla, Trustee • Elka Klarsfeld, Trustee • Jenna Lebowich, Trustee Barry Leibowitz, Trustee • Lisa Linn, Trustee • Lisa Sacks, Trustee Steve Sagner, Trustee • Mike Scafidi, Trustee • Michele Wise, Trustee Stu Berlowitz, Immediate Past President
7th Grade Torah Study with Rabbi Billy! Notice the 7th graders sit at the table and talk Torah with the rabbi, while the parents occupy an outer ring to silently follow along. Most are flabbergasted at how wise these kids are. A great time is had by all!
We wish you a year of unparalleled success!
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Committee Reports
Social Action Breakfast Run Sun, Jun 14 at 6:45 am We’ve seen increasing numbers of people waiting in line for our breakfast runs and we could really use a few more helping hands. Come along to serve breakfast, distribute clothing and toiletries to working poor and homeless men and women in NYC. We carpool in and are back by around 10:30 am. Middle school and older kids welcome with parents. Participants help provide food for the Run. Get all the details from Caryn Donocoff and Jane Wachs at MidnightRunBreakfasts@wct.org.
Make a Difference in a Child’s Life – Become a Tutor The First Community Church of the Nazarene runs an established tutoring program in their building across Saw Mill River Rd from Woodlands. We’re partnering with them next fall to help area children succeed in school. Teachers, learning specialists and caring individuals are needed to work with 1 or 2 children on a consistent basis, establish a relationship with the child and understand their best method of learning. Tutors meet at FCCN on
Saturday mornings from approximately 9:30 am to 12 noon and are asked to make a commitment of 10 weeks per semester. This is an opportunity to change the life and direction of a child. For more information or questions about the program, email Julie Stein at SocialAction@wct.org.
Advocacy Taskforce As part of the Reform Jewish Voice of NYS Advocacy Day last month, our delegation personally delivered letters Woodlands congregants wrote to members of the NYS legislature advocating enactment of Nicholas’ Law. This legislation would make homes with children and guns safer. To learn more or help on advocacy issues, contact Roberta Roos, RMRoos@aol.com.
June Clothing Collection for Action for Post-Soviet Jewry Many Jews in Eastern Europe live in poverty and isolation. In response, Action creates programs to strengthen the Jewish community and provide food, medicine, clothing and other assistance. You can help by donating gently used, clean adult and children clothing, shoes
and accessories. Donation bins are located in the lobby through June. To learn more about Action, go to www. actionpsj.org.
Summer Collections School Supplies for Friends of Karen: Donate NEW school supplies to give to families with critically ill children. Please go to wct.org/social-action/projects for the complete list of items being collected by Mon, Aug 10. Review Books: Your studying is done but your SAT, ACT, Regents and AP review books can be used again by another student. We’re collecting good condition, current test books only. Non-Perishable Food: We deliver healthy, non-perishable food to our local food pantries all year round. Bring along a can or box to drop in the food cart when you come in. If you, or someone you know, is a victim of Domestic Abuse, please share this confidential hotline:
Adult Education
The Adult Education Committee would like to thank Jeanne Bodin and Marie Cohen for serving as the co-chairs of the committee for the past four years. During their tenure, they oversaw the reinvigoration of adult education programming at WCT, instituting such successful programs as Building Jewish Lives (which targets programs to adults in different phases of their lives) and WCT University (which provides an in-depth look at a Jewish topic through a combination of lectures and workshops). The new committee chairs are Phyllis Hirth and Marge Thrope, who are already busily planning many new programs for the coming year. We are working on a trip to the 9/11 museum, classes on the Garden of Eden and the Book of Samuel, a WCT University on Jewish art and culture, a kosher wine-tasting and much more. The Adult Education Committee is always looking for new members, so please consider joining us. Drop us a note at adulted@wct.org
Hevra Torah Summer Learning Saturdays 9:15-10:15 am Change Is in the Air! Throughout the summer and until Simkhat Torah, the rabbis and cantor do not regularly lead the weekly Shabbat morning Torah discussions. To give them time off during the summer and to keep their schedules lighter as they prepare for the High Holy Days, we will be featuring a pretty wonderful team of lay
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leaders and "ringers" who'll be dropping by once each to lead a session. This will create tremendous variety in style and content, offering lively opportunities for exploring ancient Scripture. The schedule will appear in the weekly email and online at wct.org/hevratorah.
Ongoing Programming: Woodlands Singers
Spiritual learning and growth never stop at Woodlands. You're always invited to stop by.
Jewish Studies
Cantor Jonathan Gordon Wed, 8:15 pm
Hebrew Thur, 7:00 pm and 8:15 pm Harriet Levine Thur, 10:00 am (ends Jun 4)
Andi Feldman: Our Summer Rabbinic Intern! We’re very pleased to welcome Andi Feldman as this summer’s rabbinic resident. Andi will be with us here at Woodlands from Mon, Jun 8 to Fri, Jul 24. She’ll be “shadowing” our rabbis in order to learn and experience what it is that rabbis do (perhaps you wonder about that too?). While Andi is at Woodlands, she’ll be participating in Shabbat worship, doing some teaching, participating in lifecycle events, sitting in on committee meetings, and getting to know you and your family. Andi resides in New York City and is engaged to Daniel Fliegel who was just ordained a rabbi in May. She holds a BA from Univ of Wisconsin–Madison, and is currently an American Jewish World Service Global Justice Fellow. Andi writes the following: Happy June to everyone! My name is Andi Feldman and I am approaching my final year of rabbinical school at HUC-JIR. I am thrilled to spend these coming summer months learning from your congregation and want to take this opportunity to tell you a little about myself. I grew up in St. Louis, Missouri within the Reform movement. I began my stateside rabbinical education on the Cincinnati campus where I was able to learn from the extraordinary faculty there and take advantage of all the Cincinnati Jewish community has to offer. Since becoming a student on the New York campus, I earned my Masters in Religious Education and found my way to the new URJ 6 Points Sci-Tech Academy. I took on the role of Director of Jewish Life in the camp’s inaugural summer and it was there that I had the chance to work with and learn from Rabbi Dreskin (editor’s note: She calls him Rabbi Dreskin!). I have spent the current school year developing my pastoral care skills at Mount Sinai hospital and am looking forward to bringing this deep pastoral commitment to all of my work at Woodlands this summer. I have served several student pulpits during my time as a rabbinical student and I am excited to teach, pray, brainstorm, and learn with all of you this summer. We are thrilled to welcome Andi to our cozy little temple. Please be sure to drop by and say hi.
Just Israel Why Check Off ARZA on Your Membership Statement? by Rabbi Billy Dreskin Included on your membership statement is an opportunity to support (for $50) and join ARZA, the Association of Reform Zionists of America, the Union for Reform Judaism’s voice in the Promised Land. It’s a small but important gesture from each of us. It’s a step we can each take to connect to, and help build, the Jewish homeland. It allies us with others who are working to build the kind of Israel you and I can be proud of: honoring and protecting all of its citizens – including women, Reform Jews and Muslims – as well as building bridges to peace with her Palestinian neighbors. ARZA promotes advocacy for a Jewish, pluralistic, just and democratic Israel. It takes the concern you and I share for Israel, and translates it into constructive and substantive action. When you see the invitation to join ARZA on this year’s membership statement, please say “Yes” to ARZA membership. It’s one way that each of us can truly help. Visit arza.org for more information
Passover Learning 5775 What a wonderful Passover morning we had! Our young families spent time with noted children’s author and temple member Leslie Kimmelman, while Rabbi Billy and Jason Fenster led a discussion about antisemitism in Europe. Everyone joined together for worship and an exploration of the meaning of Hallel/Praise in our lives today, which was followed by a matzo brei breakfast that couldn’t be beat!
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Mishkan HaNefesh – A Little Taste by Gloria Falk I look forward to the High Holy Days services every year, but this coming year I do so with even greater anticipation. Almost forty years of attendance means I’ve memorized some of the prayers and readings. I don’t read Hebrew and I certainly have no idea what the words mean, but I’ve learned to recite many of them nonetheless. This year will be different. WCT has purchased a new makzor, Mishkan HaNefesh. The format will enable me, and other worshippers like you, to be active participants. The Hebrew is there but so is the transliteration (English letters to help pronounce the Hebrew). Even more important, the new English translations of the prayers will enable me to better understand the meaning of the liturgy. The prayers and beautiful poetry are updated and are gender-neutral. I can’t wait! Won’t you join me in supporting our new High Holy Days adventure by purchasing a bookplate for one or more of them? Visit wct.org/bookplate or contact the temple office to honor or remember someone you love.
Memorial Garden Wall Inscribe Your Loved One’s Name
Twice a year, Woodlands adds names to our beautiful outdoor Memorial Garden Wall and dedicates them during a Yizkor service (Sukkot and Shavuot). The fall dedication will be held on the last day of Sukkot — Mon, Oct 5 at 9:00 am. If you wish to have names inscribed in time for the Sukkot dedication, visit wct.org/memorialwall (no later than Mon, Sep 14). The cost of inscription is $800 per name. Space(s) may be reserved in advance for future inscriptions (so they can be grouped together) with full payment for each reserved name. If you have reserved a name, the price in effect at the time of your deposit will continue to be honored. We’ll need you to provide exactly what you want inscribed so our engravers may reserve the appropriate amount of space.
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The Simkha Page
B’nai Mitzvah
Samantha Blackman
Alexander Cohen
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Torah Portion Beha’alotkha
Torah Portion Korakh
Hebrew Name Esther Puah Reuvena
Hebrew Name Marnin Aharon
Mazal Tov to...
Hal and Elisa Blackman, as their daughter, Samantha, is called to the Torah as a Bat Mitzvah.
Leslie Silver and Larry Geneen on the birth of their grandson, Ethan Myles Silver, son of Daniel and Sarah Silver.
Matthew and Karen Cohen, as their son, Alexander, is called to the Torah as a Bar Mitzvah.
Thank You to...
Leora Cohen, Heidi Gralla, Toby Linder, Hilari Graff and Esther Feldbaum for making the 3rd/4th grade Shul-In so much fun! Roberta Roos for bringing your yummy challah secrets to the 2nd grade. Caryn Donocoff and Jane Wachs for organizing our oneg to benefit Midnight Run and leading our Breakfast Run into the city. Our cooks, Rori Burke, Michele Montague, Roberta Roos and Julie Stein, for cooking dinner for the teens at The Sanctuary, a Children’s Village shelter. Judy Stiefel, Bill Woolis, Nicole Lesser and all our members who donated
household items for 5 families moving out of Hope’s Door shelter in the last few months. Your generosity is inspiring The members of our Hevra Kaddisha who, during our community’s most vulnerable moments, have throughout 2014-15 conducted shiva services in our homes: Alan Kaplan, Andrew Fox, Barry Kessler, Bernie Bacharach, Chuck and Nancy Fishman, Corey Friedlander, David Griff, Donna Berliner, Eric Wachs, Jay Izes, Rabbi Joan Farber, Lance Rosenthal, Mark Kaufman, Mike Kingston and Steve Zizmor. Special shout-out to their fearless leader and organizer David Berliner.
Travel Justly This Summer America’s hotel employees work hard to ensure we feel at home while traveling. Yet they are often poorly compensated and sustain injuries at more than twice rate of other service-sector workers. During this summer’s vacation travels, here’s how we can all help: Keep a Tidier Room Injuries commonly sustained by hotel workers include back aches, shoulder pain and “Housemaids’ Knee.” We can help by throwing away trash and organizing personal items so they don’t need to be moved. Leave a Meaningful Gratuity We can show appreciation for quality service and help hotel employees better care for their own homes and families. Stay at Unionized Hotels Visit hotelworkersrising.org to find union hotels where workers earn an average of 33.3% more. In Deuteronomy 24 we are taught, “Do not abuse needy and destitute laborers. Pay them their wages on the same day, before the sun sets ... lest they cry to God and you incur guilt.” For 3000 years, Judaism has advocated on behalf of those unable to lobby for themselves: the poor and the homeless. Let’s do our part.
Donations We appreciate the thoughtfulness of those who support Woodlands Community Temple by remembering and honoring their friends and loved ones through their generous contributions. Rabbi Billy's Mitzvah Fund In memory of Beverly Borwick, from Sam Borwick. In memory of Raymond Solomon, from Mark and Linda Solomon. Rabbi Mara's Mitzvah Fund In honor of the marriage of Jonathan Boym and Emily Korval, from Gail Weiner Korval. Cantor's Discretionary Fund With gratitude to Cantor Jonathan, from the Ichel family. Chai Fund In honor of Harriet Levine receiving her Doctorate from HUC-JIR, from Mark and Michele Montague. In honor of Stu Berlowitz, as outgoing President from Mark and Marjory Selig. In honor of Dayle Fligel, as new WCT President, from Mark and Marjory Selig. The names of those who donated in memory of Janet Jaffa, mother of Dayle Fligel Jim and Elise Ballan, Stu and Karen Berlowitz, Murray and Jeanne Bodin, Rich and Amy Bohrer, Lee and Nanci Brickman, Aliza Burton, Bill and Gloria Falk, Andy and Joan Farber, Jason Fein and Jennifer Altman, Chuck and Nancy Fishman and Family, Corey Friedlander, Ned and Jeanine Futterman, Dale, Elly, Maya and Zachary Glasser, Larry and Yvette Gralla, David Griff and Roni Beth Tower, Richard and Jill Iturbe, David Katz and Elizabeth Barnhard, Harriet Kohn, Steven and Jodie Meltzer, Mickey Milbauer, The Montague Family, Don and June Moskovitz, Phyllis Opochinsky, Harold Potischman, Mark and Liz Rauchwerger, Jon Richer and Lisa Sacks, Frances Rosenfeld, Ruth Rugoff, Alexandra Selig, Mark and Marjory Selig, Al and Lori Solano, Lew and Judy Stiefel, Melissa Swift, Roger, Roberta and Allison Wetherbee, The Wise Family, and Michael and Deborah Wiskind. Geraldine and Gerald Weinberger Lifelong Learning Fund In honor of Harriet Levine receiving her Doctorate from HUC-JIR, from Jackie and Nelson Leicht. Special Education Fund In honor of Harriet Levine receiving her Doctorate from HUC-JIR, from Aliza Burton.
In honor of Harriet Levine receiving her Doctorate from HUC-JIR, from Anne and Alan Meyer. Education Enrichment Fund In honor of Harriet Levine receiving her Doctorate from HUC-JIR, from Dale, Elly, Maya and Zachary Glasser. In honor of Harriet Levine receiving her Doctorate from HUC-JIR, from Mort and Susan Aron. In memory of Janet Jaffa, from Jeff, Fern and Austyn Richter In honor and appreciation of Abigail Ripin for her work with Tobin, from Miriam Kerness Annual Fund In memory of Janet Jaffa, from Jenna and Michael Lebowich. Music Fund In honor of Jack Safirstein celebrating his 80th birthday, from Jane and Bob Steinhardt. Mazal Tov to Emily R. Harper, daugher, on the completion of her nurse practioner certification in family health, from Helen Harper Steve's H.O.P.E. Fund In memory of Shel Mitelman, with love, from the Mitelman Family. In memory of Ida Mitelman, for her care, wisdom and commitment, from the Mitelman Family. High Holy Day Prayerbook In memory of Arthur Kaplan, from the Wise family. In memory of Richard B. Burton, from Aliza Burton and Briana Garofalo. In memory of Joseph Bromberg, from the Bromberg Family. In memory of Sally Feinsilber, from Adriane and Joel Belmont. In honor of the rabbinic ordination of Beni Wajnberg, from Rabbi Joan and Andy Farber. In memory of Janet Jaffa, from Chuck and Nancy Fishman and family. Social Action In honor of Roberta Roos' birthday, from Jeanne and Murry Bodin.
To find out more about all the funds that are available for your support and for more information about how to donate to these funds, please visit www.wct.org/donate
The Woodlands Community Mourns the Loss of Edith Sherman
grandmother of David Gralnick
Janet Jaffa
mother of Dayle Fligel
Evelyn Gamsu
mother of Gail Hacker HaMakom y’nakhem otam… may God bring comfort to all who are in mourning. Zekher tzadik livrakha ... may their memory be for a blessing.
Bereavement Groups WCT is forming new Bereavement Groups to meet the needs of members who have suffered losses. Our pilot group drew great strength and consolation from one another, and we invite you to be a part of this loving, important, membership-wide initiative. Sessions will be led by therapists. For more information contact Herb Friedman (3950304, hjfswschp@aol.com) or Alan Kaplan (552-0363, alankap1@verizon.net).
Scheduling Weddings or Funerals with Our Clergy The rabbis and cantor want very much to be with you during significant life-cycle moments. Please speak with them before setting any dates or times for weddings or funerals. Don’t be disappointed to learn they’re not available at the time you’ve already arranged, so bring them “into the loop” at the very beginning of your planning.
Bookplates For High Holy Days Prayerbooks You may lovingly inscribe your loved one’s name in our High Holy Days makhzor, Donation is $36. An order form is in the temple newsletter and on the temple website. Order online at wct.org/bookplate.
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Our Woodlands Connection Gone but Not Forgotten by Sy and Sarah Donner
“If you’ve got a story that you’d like to tell about belonging to Woodlands…”
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ell, yes! But what does a retired engineer living in Florida who, by tradition, “don’t talk the well English,” say about belonging to Woodlands? First, lets get one thing straight: Sarah and I have belonged to WCT starting about the end of Year One in 1967 and even as retired folks living full-time in Boynton Beach for the past dozen years or so. We will always belong to Woodlands. Try as we might to escape the clutches of “The Woodlands Way,” we can’t! Our perennial hope is that one day there will be a “Woodlands South.” We selfishly joined for ourselves (our three daughters – Michelle, Karen and Deborah – were only 3, 2, and 1 respectively) and immediately recognized (as that first poster sort of hinted: “This is not your daddy’s old shul!”) we were in the midst of a revolution. We couldn’t only just go to services when we were in the mood. We decided, “Woodlands is a very participatory congregation and if we are going to be a part of this movement we will have to be just as active as all
these other folks.” And so, over the next 35 or so years, Sarah taught in the religious school, was a member of the School Board and a BOT trustee. She ran the Passover Second night seders, was on the Ways and Means Committee and, and, and. And Sy? He started as Corresponding Secretary (he went to the Executive Committee meetings and made Sarah do all the actual corresponding). At one time or another, Sy was Ritual Chair and Facilities Chair, among other seats. Years later, he was 1st Vice-President. Modesty
Try as we might to escape the clutches of “The Woodlands Way,” we can’t! precludes him from saying he was also President from 1984 to 1986. At one point when it seemed like we were 24/7 at the temple and our kids were still quite young (they eventually all became B’not Mitzvah and completed Confirmation at WCT), we were afraid that they would get
upset with our spending so much time at temple, so we would tell them we were visiting friends or “going out” or shopping or anything but another meeting at Woodlands. That spirit of participation has followed us down here to Ponte Vecchio, our “active adult community,” where we are both active on committees and make our voices heard on issues of political and social consequence. The friends we made at Woodlands, including not only members but the staff as well, were part of our family for all the years we lived there. And just like children who move away and start their own lives elsewhere, Sarah and I retired to Florida. But Woodlands is still our home and, like those children, we come home to visit “the folks” whenever we can. In fact, we hope to see you this Rosh Hashanah. We will be sitting with you in the tent, right next to Yvette and Larry Gralla. Just like in the “old days.” Come say hello! If you’ve got a story that you’d like to tell about belonging to Woodlands, please contact Rabbi Billy (rabbi@wct.org).