Sunday, September 8, 2013 | The Newnan Times-Herald — 5B
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Human trafficking a dark part of contemporary culture Q: I've never kept tight controls on my teenagers. I don't enforce strict curfews or get uptight when they come in late at night. But recently, I read an article about sexual slavery and human trafficking in our community, and it left me deeply unsettled. Am I overreacting? Jim: Human trafficking is a terrible reality that impacts not only the developing world, but middle-class neighborhoods right here in the U.S. So yes, you need to be aware of this dark underside of contemporary culture. At the same time, alarmist fears are helpful to no one. You don't want to scare your kids unnecessarily. Nor is it wise to convey an attitude of suspicion or distrust to your teens without good cause. Statistically, they face far greater danger from simply riding in an automobile every day than they do from the possibility of trafficking. You know your kids best, and you're in the best position to determine whether they might be vulnerable to this kind of deception and victimization. Are they troubled in any way? Do they struggle in school? Are they slipping academically, dealing with social rejection or facing bully problems? Are they new in the neighborhood, unpopular with their classmates, insecure or low on self-esteem? If so, their innate desire for some kind of human connection could make them easy targets.
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The best way to prevent this is to make sure you're building strong relationships with your kids. The family should be their primary point of connection. You can protect them against all kinds of negative outside influences by forging a bond of mutual trust. Make it clear that they can always come to you with their needs, problems and concerns. While your first responsibility is to your own kids, it's also important for everyone to do their part to ensure their communities are safe. Keep your radar up for signs of suspicious activity in your community. If, at any point, you come across evidence that your children or anyone else you know have become caught up in human trafficking, contact local authorities or call the National Human Trafficking Hotline at 888-373-7888. Q: My wife has "given up drinking" several times only to end up back on the bottle. She's lost her job, our household i s show i ng sig n s of neglect, and the whole family is slowly going to pieces. What can I do to reverse this negative trend?
Dr. Greg Smalley, Vice President, Family Ministries: We're very sorry to learn about this painful situation. One thing is for certain: You can't navigate it alone. Your wife, especially, needs to enlist outside help to combat her addiction. The Lighthouse Network is a clearinghouse for substance abuse referrals. People there can help you locate a facility in your area that will help your wife take some positive steps toward recovery. They can also provide information regarding the insurance companies that are prepared to work with these facilities. You can contact Lighthouse Network at 1-877-562-2565. Another option for longterm treatment of alcoholism is the Salvation Army. This service is offered free of charge. Visit www.salvationarmyusa.org for information regarding local treatment centers. You can also find out about local Alcoholics Anonymous groups at www.aa.org . Finally, you should think about enlisting the help of a qualified professional, not only to help your wife, but to help your entire family navigate these difficult waters. Contact Focus on the Family (focusonthefamily.com) for a free consultation with one of our staff counselors, as well as a referral to long-term counseling in your area. God bless you and your family as you go through this dark time together.
From left are Judith Lowery, General Daniel Newnan Daughters of the American Revolution chapter
treasurer; Brenda Jessel, past regent and DAR Georgia state chaplain; Jane Petsch, registrar; Jeannine Jackson, membership chair; and back, Judy Gagliano, DAR Good Citizens chair; Bob Wylie, president of the Marquis de Lafayette Chapter, Georgia Sons of the American Revolution; Audrey Wylie, chapter regent; Kayla Hudson, vice regent; Anna Thompson, chaplain. Not pictured is Marci Swetmon, local DAR schools chair.
DAR chapter members attend national meeting A delegation from the local General Daniel Newnan Daughters of the American Revolution chapter attended the national DAR’s 122nd Annual Continental Congress in Washington, D.C. The nation’s capital welcomed more than 3,500 members of one of its foremost service organizations with the arrival of the DAR members. Among them were nine members of the General Daniel Newnan Chapter, NSDAR. A m on g t h e g roup we re Audrey Wylie, chapter regent, accompanied by husband Bob Wylie, president of the Marquis de Lafayette Chapter, Georgia Sons of the American Revolution; Kayla Hudson, vice regent; Judith Lowery, treasurer; Anna T hompson , chapla i n ; Ja ne Petsch, registrar; Jeannine Jackson, membership chair; Marci Swetmon, DAR schools chair; Judy Gagliano, DAR Good Citizens chair; and Brenda Jessel, past regent and GSSDAR state chaplain. They attended business meetings, luncheons
and special events during the Congress. Jessel also serves on the National Defense Committee as National Southeast Division Chair. "We are proud that so many from our Chapter attended this year," stated Chapter Regent Wylie. "It is a very exciting week with so much to learn." Highlights of the week-long event i ncluded welcom i ng respected keynote speakers and award winners during the gala evening ceremonies. Guest speakers for the opening night ceremonies were antique expert Leigh Keno, known from his appearances on “Antiques Roadshow,” who received the DAR Historic Preservation Recognition Award; and Rich Little, comedian and voice actor, who received the DAR Americanism Award given to distinguished naturalized citizens. On National Defense Night, an evening that honors America's military personnel and veterans, the keynote address was
delivered by Vice Admiral Robin R. Braun, U.S. Navy, chief of Navy Reserve, comm a nder, Nav y R e s er ve Force. Lieutenant General Claude “Mick” Kicklighter, U.S. Army (Ret.), provided remarks about the upcoming efforts of the commemoration program. Additional awards that evening were presented to the Army Nurse of the Year and outstanding volunteers for veterans. The gala awards banquet honored Ambassador John Limbert with the Medal of Honor, actress Connie Stevens was presented with the Founders Medal for Patriotism, and DAR Media Awards honored the films “Honor Flight” and “Girl Rising.”
Coweta County Remembered Students of the final class of the Mary Ray School in Raymond, Georgia, for 1947-48, are pictured on the front steps of the schoolhouse. The schoolhouse building in the community southeast of Newnan has been restored by a group of concerned community members and has been listed on the National Register of Historic Places. The photo is provided for Coweta Remembered by Paula Stanford of the Mary Ray Memorial Schoolhouse organization. Pictured are, from left, first row, Helen Upshaw, Carol Ann Mabry, Betty Jean Mabry, Jane Chambless; second row, Billy Mabry, Unknown, Unknown, Unknown; third row, Teacher - Mrs. Alma Morrow, Parent -Mrs. Mabry; fourth row, Alfred Beckom, Tony Beckom and Charles Abercrombie.
Newnan-Coweta Historical Society works with The Newnan Times-Herald to produce Coweta County Remembered, which appears in each Sunday issue of newspaper. To submit a photo or item, call Herb Bridges of the historical society at 770-253-4934 or contact him by mail in care of the NewnanCoweta Historical Society, P. O. Box 1001, Newnan, GA 30264. Or contact News Editor Ellen Corker at The Newnan Times-Herald office, 770-253-1576, ext. 727; fax 770-253-2538; or email at "ellen@newnan. com." Photos may also be brought to The Newnan Times-Herald office, 16 Jefferson St., P. O. Box 1052, Newnan, GA 30264; or to historical society volunteers at the Male Academy Museum at Temple Avenue and College Street, 770-251-0207. Include a name and telephone number. The museum offers permanent and rotating exhibits and has a shop with gift items including books on Coweta County history such as its "History of Coweta County, Ga." The society also operates the new McRitchie-Hollis Museum on Jackson Street at Clark.
BIRTHANNOUNCEMENTS Coley Bruce Lee Coley and Marga ret A sh leig h Wi l k i n son announce the birth of a daughter, Ashleya Hope Coley, on Aug. 5, 201 3, at P ied mont Newnan Hospital. Maternal grandparents are Johnathon and Hope Mowell of Snellville. Paternal grandparent is Shirley A. Arrington of Newnan. *** Hancock Ju s t i n a n d B e c k y H a n cock announce the birth of a son, Kellen Hancock, on Aug. 8, 2013, at Piedmont Newnan Hospital. Maternal grandparents are Doug and Cindy Roberson of Sharpsburg. Paternal grandparents are Jay and Charlotte Law of Dawson. *** Garriga Daryl and Samantha Garriga announce the birth of a son, Justin Eli Garriga, on Aug. 7, 2013, at Piedmont Newnan Hospital. Maternal grandparents are Ruby Stout of South Gate, CA, and David Stout of Aiken, SC. Paternal grandparents are Debbie Garriga of Huntington Beach, CA, and Don Garriga of Huntington Beach, CA. *** Jarvis Sheldon Jarvis and Valerie Render announce the birth of a daughter, Kylie Ashanti Jarvis, on Aug. 15, 2013, at Piedmont Newnan Hospital. Maternal grandparents are Faye and Jack ie Render of New na n. Paternal grandparents are Sharon Jarvis and Wylie Woodal of Alvaton. *** O’Neal Michael O’Neal and Brittany Montgomery announce the
birth of a son, James Anthony O’Neal, on Aug. 13, 2013, at Piedmont Newnan Hospital. Maternal grandparents are Angela Montgomery of Newnan. Paternal grandparents are Becky and Wesley Moreland of Newnan. *** Taylor Cody R. and Cindy E. Taylor announce the birth of a daughter, Brooklyn Shae Taylor, on Aug. 5, 2013, at Piedmont Newnan Hospital. Maternal grandparents are Scottie Walker of Hogansville and the late Sharon Elaine Simpson Bentley. Paternal grandparents are Albert and Lisa Taylor of Hogansville. *** Tucker
David Tucker and Ny-Keisha Russell announce the birth of a son, David Monta Tucker Jr., on Aug. 4, 2013 at Piedmont Newnan Hospital. Maternal grandparent is Vickie Russell of Gay. Paternal grandparents are Willie and Annie Tucker of Gay. *** Wright Jeujuan and Tanisha Wright announce the birth of a son, Andru Jeujuan Wright, on Aug. 17, 2013, at Piedmont Newnan Hospital. Maternal grandparents are Walter and Ernestine Moss and the late Patricia Sutton Parks of Newnan. Paternal grandparents are Josie and Jessie Wright of Newnan.
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