Life Cycles 2023

Life Cycles 2023

The cover photograph, from the back of Corpus Christi Chapel at the National Shrine Grotto of Our Lady of Lourdes in Emmitsburg, Maryland, was taken by Associate Chanin Wilson. Elizabeth Seton came to the grotto in 1809 when she moved to Emmitsburg. The pictured statue of Elizabeth overlooks “her rock,” the rock where she taught her first classes of Christian Doctrine to the children of the mountain parish in the early 19th century.

Throughout the pages of the 2023 Life Cycles, you will find some of Elizabeth Seton’s favorite psalms to accompany the entries. The psalms nourished Elizabeth through her life. They were her constant companion and the subject of her daily meditation, serving as an animating guide. Let God’s Word echo in your heart as you reflect on the gifts of these women.

Dear Sisters, Associates and friends,

Oneof my favorite times of the year is the turning of October to November and the feasts of All Saints and All Souls, as well as Dia De Los Muertos and the Celtic and Irish images of a time when the “veil is thin” between the world of here and the life beyond. The images, colors, and passages from scripture are all so powerful in reminding us that this is not all as it seems and that those gone from this life are still with us in our hearts and minds, indeed even still present with us in ways beyond our earthly knowing.

I love our beautiful annual prayer in celebration of those who have crossed into the arms of our God in the past year. The ritual of remembering is powerful and comforting. Sometimes, too, there are tears and sadness that they are no longer with us on this side. Grief seems a constant in our lives as we have so many goodbyes.

Elizabeth Seton held her husband and two daughters as they slipped from this side of heaven. She grieved and yet believed as the scripture tells us “they seem in the eyes of the foolish to be dead and their passing away an affliction … but they are at peace” (Wisdom 3).

We, too, grieve the loss of our loved ones and miss their presence among us, but believe, not just in words, but also in faith that surpasses understanding, that this is not the end. As we celebrate the Sisters and Associates who have “crossed the veil” into eternity, let us remember each of them fondly, share stories, and give thanks for their presence among us. Let us call on them for their guidance and wisdom as we continue our sojourn here on Earth. Even in our grieving may we take solace in these practices and prayers, for we know our God hears and responds.

With Gratitude,

S. Monica Gundler, SC President

Sister Marion Agnes Boeddeker

February 22, 1924-October 27, 2023

“O God, by your power and strength save me, and give me freedom. Hear me, O God, hear my words and listen to my prayer.” Psalm 54:1

Born to William A. and Julia (Steuwer) Boeddeker in Cincinnati, Ohio, S. Marion Agnes Boeddeker was the fifth child of 15 children, seven girls and eight boys. S. Marion Agnes grew up on Cincinnati’s east side, attending St. Cecilia Grade School and Withrow Junior High School. She graduated from Ashland Burdett Commercial Business School and worked for 10 years for various accounting agencies as a bookkeeper or accountant’s assistant.

At the age of 25, S. Marion Agnes began volunteering on weekends at St. Joseph Infant and Maternity Home in Cincinnati, helping S. Francella Mezger take care of the toddlers. She would say, “God used S. Francella to draw me to Him.” Shortly after two years there, S. Marion Agnes chose to enter the Sisters of Charity Community in February 1952. In September 1953 S. Marion Agnes was sent to St. Joseph Orphanage to serve as a group mother. In total she gave 20 years of service in the role, spending more than 18 years as the entrusted caretaker for the little girls.

In 1974 S. Mary Rita Vieson, who was the administrator at St. Joseph Infant and Maternity Home, invited S. Marion Agnes to do the Home’s accounting. She served as Chief Financial Officer until May 1992, when she came to the Motherhouse to work in accounting in the Finance Office. Her careful attention to detail served her well for 20 years.

In 2012 S. Marion Agnes chose to slow down a bit, finding more time to offer her services as a seamstress, chief mender, hemmer and alteration expert for her Sisters living among her in the Motherhouse. Following the Motherhouse renovations in 2004, S. Marion Agnes had her own sewing room out of which to work. She delighted in seeing the successful results with needle and thread. In 2014 S. Marion Agnes decided to officially retire but continued giving volunteer hours when needed in the Finance Office and even took on short-term sewing projects from her room after moving to Mother Margaret Hall.

For relaxation S. Marion Agnes enjoyed Sudoku and loved challenging puzzles, which when completed filled more than the average-size card table. She pursued each until completed, intent on seeing the final, beautiful picture.

Sisters of Charity of Cincinnati CFO Vicki Humphrey, who worked with S. Marion Agnes in the Finance Office for more than 30 years, knew her as a dedicated and faithful servant who took her work seriously. She shared, “S. Marion Agnes did not like the spotlight, preferring to be the person behind the scenes getting things done. I was blessed to know her and have her in my life.”

Associate Eileen Casey

October 23, 1935-February 19, 2023

“From morning to night I praise you, God, and sing of your glory.”

Psalm 71:8

Born in Lansing, Michigan, in 1935, Associate Eileen Casey was the only girl of the O’Leary triplets. Eileen entered the Sisters of Charity in 1953 and left the Community 20 years later for health reasons. She married her husband, Bob, and along with their daughter, Genevieve, the family moved to Juneau, Alaska, in 1990 for Bob’s work. She was a lifelong teacher. In her retirement, Eileen worked as a substance abuse/addictions counselor and was well known throughout Juneau.

Eileen believed in the Charity mission and charism and always kept the SC Community close. Following a visit to the Motherhouse in 2003, she was made aware of the Associate program. She made her commitment on Jan. 3, 2005, via conference call with S. Jane Bernadette Leo as her companion. “In becoming an Associate it made my life complete,” Eileen said. “It connected all the dots, and gave me the grace of belonging and seeing God’s plan for my life.”

Following her commitment Eileen went to work building an Associate community in her hometown of Juneau. She invited Connie Trollan to become a member and walked with her on her discernment journey; shortly after, more Associates followed.

Eileen attributed the opportunity to meet so many beautiful and spiritual women in her life to her Associate relationship. She explained, “Living in Alaska there is a great need to belong among people. Women, especially, need that extra connectedness they are not finding in the Church. By praying together, reading the written publications together and sharing our spiritual journeys, we feel a part of this Community. Being an Associate is a calling and a vocation in itself.”

S. Dee Sizler first met Eileen when she traveled to Juneau in 2007. “She showed us hospitality and sights of the Alaska capital city,” S. Dee recalls. “Little did I know the impact that visit would have for me and how much Eileen was to be a part of my future. … She had an Irish wit, a twinkle in her eye and could tell a great story. You couldn’t want a better hostess and tour guide when in Southeast Alaska for a visit.”

Added her friend of 20 years, Colleen Koval, “We enjoyed a lot of laughter together because she was so funny, witty, and sarcastic, too! But she was also full of wisdom and kindness – always willing to help sort things out.”

Always proud of her relationship with the Sisters of Charity Community, Eileen made her lifetime commitment on June 11, 2017, in the presence of fellow Alaska Associates and S. Dee. Health issues prompted Eileen to move to Ketchikan, Alaska, to spend her last years there.

Sister Josetta Marie Chu

January 4, 1932-October 6, 2023

“O Lord, it is so good to thank you and to honor you with song every morning and every evening. O God, my song proclaims your constant and faithful love.” Psalm 92:1-2

Born in Hupeh, China, S. Josetta Marie Chu was the second oldest of seven children. She and her family moved to Beijing, China, during the time when the Japanese invaded China. They had become converts to the Catholic faith, and through the influence of the Jesuit priests, she was encouraged to study nursing in the United States. She accepted a scholarship from the Good Samaritan College of Nursing in Cincinnati; there she met the Sisters of Charity. “They treated each other so courteous and were so happy all the time,” she once said. After graduating from nursing school in 1960, S. Josetta entered the Sisters of Charity Community.

In 1964 S. Josetta began as a nurse at St. Joseph Hospital, Albuquerque, New Mexico, followed by hospitals in Colorado and Dayton, Ohio. She came home to Mother Margaret Hall to care for Sisterpatients through 1971. The next three years she worked with college students at the College of Mount St. Joseph, serving as the coordinator of student health and receiving a bachelor’s degree in art from the College of Mount St. Joseph in 1974.

S. Josetta then headed to Washington, D.C. where she spent the next three years as a student at George Washington University, earning a master’s in art therapy as well as interning in psychiatry at Prince George Hospital, Cheverly, Maryland. Experiencing some overlap in programs, she also began studying psychiatric nursing in a new program introduced at The Catholic University of America, finishing there in 1982. She continued on as an employee of Provident Hospital of Psychiatry, Washington, D.C., and Provident Hospital Center, Washington, D.C., until 1997 using her art therapy and knowledge of Eastern medicine, especially acupressure, with the patients. S. Josetta also nurtured her artistic passions, studying traditional Chinese painting at the Smithsonian Institute with the famous Chinese art professor, Chang-I.

In her retirement years, S. Josetta moved to the Motherhouse where she enjoyed sharing her hobbies with her Sisters, especially her art, nursing and acupressure techniques. For her own relaxation, S. Josetta read, sang and painted to improve her physical, mental and spiritual growth. She loved the challenge of learning new things that could benefit others. Meeting new people was a special joy for her.

S. Joan Deiters was grateful to get to know S. Josetta through their East Coast small group. She remembered, “Josie gave me one of her paintings for my therapy office in Poughkeepsie, New York. It hung on the wall facing my chair, so I could take in the beauty, the peace, the artistry of that painting every day. Thank you, Josie, for that gift and for your life that you lived in abundance.”

Sister Helen Cranley

December 24, 1928-April 18, 2023

“God, you are my God. Ever since I was born you watched over me and you kept me safe. Because of this I depend upon you, God, my faithful protector.” Psalm 22:9-10

As a Sister of Charity for 76 years, S. Helen Cranley dedicated more than 50 years of her life to ministry in nursing and health services—the majority of those years spent close to her hometown of Cincinnati, Ohio. She attended and graduated from St. Mary High School, Hyde Park, in 1946. She entered the Sisters of Charity the following September. It was the relationships and caring spirit that she experienced with her Sisters of Charity teachers in high school that drew her to consider a vocation to religious life.

S. Helen earned a Bachelor of Science degree in nursing from the College of Mount St. Joseph in 1960. She then earned a master’s in nursing from The Catholic University of America, Washington D.C., in 1969.

S. Helen began her years of service at Good Samaritan Hospital, Cincinnati, in 1952. She became nursing supervisor at San Antonio Hospital, Kenton, Ohio, in 1952, coming back to Cincinnati Good Samaritan in 1953 as head nurse. In 1957 she went West to Penrose Hospital, Colorado Springs, Colorado, serving as head nurse, followed by six years as nursing supervisor, and then two more years as director of nursing.

In 1977, S. Helen participated in the Global Sabbatical Education Program at the College of Mount St. Joseph and came in touch with her desire to take her nursing gifts to others beyond the formal hospital settings. She saw herself as a healing minister to separated and divorced Catholics within the Archdiocese of Cincinnati, serving as its first director from 1977 to 1984. It was a ministry that S. Helen found to be life-giving.

S. Helen was asked to become the director of Health Services for the Sisters of Charity Motherhouse (1984-’94). Her duties once again called upon her pastoral gifts of listening and responding to individuals’ long-term health care needs.

In 1994, S. Helen began ministering in home care nursing where she would carry out the orders of physicians as persons were dismissed from the hospital, helping clients to adjust to their new parameters in their own home. In this role she was affiliated with CareWise home care connected with TriHealth health-related services in Cincinnati.

For her retirement years, S. Helen helped many others adjust to their new ‘normal,’ be it in her Norwood neighborhood or in Mother Margaret Hall as her own health declined. S. Helen’s positive, joyful spirit was valued.

Associate Dave Scharfenberger remembers S. Helen as a member of St. Anthony parish for many years. He shared, “She was always caring about others and took an interest in those she met. Helen always had a smile on her face when I came to visit her at the Mount, thanking me for coming.”

Sister Maureen Donovan

April 29, 1927-June 26, 2023

“Because of your protection I awake aware of your presence and filled with your joy.” Psalm 17:15

The sixth of nine children, S. Maureen Donovan grew up in rural northeast Iowa. The Great Depression uprooted their family, taking them north to Lansing, Michigan. S. Maureen attended St. Mary’s Cathedral School and St. Mary’s High School, Lansing. Feeling a closeness to the Sisters who had taught her in the new environment, she entered the Sisters of Charity in September 1943.

S. Maureen earned a bachelor’s degree in education from the College of Mount St. Joseph in 1955 and a master’s in education from the University of Detroit in 1960. Her ministries spanned more than 55 years in education, 21 as an elementary classroom teacher and 36 as principal. She began her years of service in 1945 teaching primary age children in the Cincinnati area. Fifteen years later, she moved and performed similar duties in Michigan and Colorado schools.

It was in 1967 that S. Maureen was to begin the rest of her educational ministry (35 years) in the school first opened by the Sisters of Charity in 1873, St. James, Bay City, Michigan. Under S. Maureen, St. James School offered innovative programs and new ways of doing things, based on individualized instruction in small groups, ever conscious of the growing number of both parents working outside the home. She was valued as a ‘hands-on’ principal. In a June 2002 letter of congratulations to S. Maureen, Bishop Kenneth Untener shared, “We’re glad you have stayed with us through three popes, three bishops and five pastors.”

Choosing to retire filled S. Maureen with peace and gratitude for the many years she was able to use her gifts and energy in ministry. She shared, “The Lord has blessed me abundantly and I am filled with gratitude for His presence and guidance throughout my life.”

For her retirement years, S. Maureen served the community through many parish ministries including Christian Service Commission, Parish Council, Food Pantry and Board of Catholic Family Service. In 2011 she was the recipient of the Bishop Murphy Award, presented annually to a person who, through the example of their life, fulfills Jesus’ mandate to promote and pass on the faith.

S. Karen Hawver reflected, “I’ll remember Maureen as the loveliest Irish lady I’ve ever met, next to my own mother. She was calm, quiet, funny, caring, strong and had the best Irish humor. Maureen helped me learn how to be a principal some 40 years ago when I was a rookie. She modeled the understanding, yet firm woman I always wanted to be.”

S. Marge Kloos added that S. Maureen was an “eager protector of the most vulnerable and generous companion to those living in poverty. I will miss the twinkle in her eyes and the absolute joy she radiated.”

Sister Teresa Dutcher

November 9, 1948-November 5, 2023

“Forever let us praise the Lord! So be it! Amen!” Psalm 89:52

Born and raised in Leslie, Michigan, S. Teresa Dutcher was the oldest of three children. She graduated from Leslie High School in 1966. As a high school student, she had the opportunity to enroll as a full-time student at Michigan State University (MSU) for her senior year. While there S. Teresa met a group of Sisters of Charity at the Campus Ministry Parish Center: Sisters Ann Seubert, Daniel Miriam (Helen) Flaherty and Annina Morgan. Not being a Catholic she wanted to learn more; they did not disappoint. She developed a friendship with S. Ann and soon after became Catholic, all while pursuing her studies at MSU.

In the late 1960s, the Sisters of Charity were not admitting new Sisters, particularly a convert to the faith. S. Teresa developed a correspondence with Mother Mary Omer Downing and eventually was offered a living opportunity at the congregation’s St. Joseph House as well as a teaching positon at Marian High School. She entered the Sisters of Charity on Aug. 24, 1971.

S. Teresa’s ministries spanned more than 50 years, all in secondary education in the Cincinnati, Ohio area. She began at Marian High School in 1971 teaching social studies. In 1974 she moved across town to Seton High School and remained there until 1979 when she returned to Marian as an assistant administrator and social studies teacher, and then to Purcell Marian High School from 1981-’85.

In 1985 she returned to Seton High School, this time as assistant principal until 1993. She then began a 25-year stint as a religion and social studies teacher. She also held the role of chair of the religion department for many years. S. Teresa enjoyed working with teens—it was their curiosity and energy that kept her young. She retired after 39 dedicated years in May 2019. Two months later, she began her four-year term with the Sisters of Charity Leadership Team, which she completed this past June 2023.

A highlight for S. Teresa occurred during the summers of July 1995 and 1996, when teams of American-based communities of women religious volunteered to teach English as a second language in Eastern Europe. She was privileged to work with 56 Sister students from 36 different Polish communities. She would say, “I cannot begin to measure the depth of spiritual experience we shared or gauge the effect of the intercultural exchange on our future lives.”

S. Brenda Busch has fond memories of working alongside S. Teresa at Seton High School. She said, “She was a brilliant, compassionate and very wise coworker and friend. Terry was a gifted and empathetic teacher. She was always ready to roll up her sleeves and get any task accomplished. She added her unique humor into every conversation.”

Sister Juanita Marie Gonzales

July 26, 1938-December 29, 2023

“Again and again we thank you, God, because you are so great! We will never stop telling all about your wonderful works.” Psalm 75:1

The eighth of 14 children, S. Juanita Marie Gonzales was born and raised in Santa Rita, New Mexico. She had a strong desire to become a nurse at an early age and enrolled at St. Vincent Hospital, Santa Fe, New Mexico. It was during this time that she was introduced to the Sisters of Charity. After finishing her LPN program, S. Juanita chose to enter the Sisters of Charity on Feb. 2, 1960.

A serious back injury changed the initial direction of how and where S. Juanita would serve. She would give 32 years in elementary education; six as a missionary in Poland; and 20 as director of parish faith formation. She was first missioned to the Shrine of the Little Flower, Royal Oak, Michigan, in 1964 as a primary teacher. She continued to teach in other schools across Michigan until 1969 when she served as a teacher at Holy Cross, Lansing, Michigan, and then as administrator for 18 years.

With the fall of Communism, the Sisters of Charity congregation put out a request to Sisters interested in helping women religious in Eastern Europe learn English while U.S. schools were on summer break. This held great appeal for S. Juanita who had a missionary heart and was ready for a change. In 1996 she went off to Warsaw, Poland, to teach English to high school girls and adults. She welcomed all the challenges while making life-long friends and seeing much of Eastern Europe.

In 2004, S. Juanita began serving at San Isidro/San Jose, a growing parish in Santa Fe, New Mexico. She served as director of faith formation at the parish until the time of her death, a total of 20 years.

“My best memories of Juanita Marie are from several years ago when she was a super elementary teacher in one of the few surviving Catholic schools in Lansing, Michigan,” recalls S. Noreen Ellison. “Juanita was a responsive, diligent teacher, dedicated, and highly regarded by parents and other faculty members. She was whole-hearted in her mission as a Sister of Charity.”

S. Juanita believed that Elizabeth Seton’s legacy of charity changed her life. “It is her drive that keeps me going to wherever I can be of service to God’s people,” she once said. “She inspires me as to what it means to be open to God’s will and to trust that God will see us through wherever we are to be.”

She found hobbies of pottery and photography offered her a refreshing outlet. Her happiest memories were when Sisters gathered together as community.

Associate Mary Jo Maximovich

August 7, 1924-November 14, 2023

“Constantly, I am aware of God’s presence. Nothing disturbs me because God is so close.” Psalm 16:8

Associate Mary Jo Maximovich was born in Akron, Ohio, to Michael and Josephine Maximovich. She was the oldest of 12 children, eight boys and four girls, attending St. Mary’s grade and high school in Akron. The close-knit family enjoyed spending time together as well as at the parish.

Throughout the years Mary Jo had a variety of work experiences which included administrative and payroll duties for automotive companies and hospitals in Akron. She was also a cook at St. Mary’s convent, secretary at Hoban High School, paralegal secretary for the City of Akron, and worked for her niece’s cleaning business. Most importantly to her, Mary Jo cared for her mother in their family home for almost 10 years until her mother’s death at the age of 99.

Mary Jo was fortified by her Catholic faith. She made her commitment as an Associate in Mission on Oct. 30, 2010, at Villa San Bernardo in Bedford, Ohio. She said, “I continually seek to challenge and to be charitable to all I’m in contact with. I am encouraged and inspired by the founders of the Sisters of Charity to have courage, faith and hope that God’s will be done. I am drawn to this Community by the kindness, concern and prayerfulness of the Sisters. I attend Mass every day, if possible, and offer sacrifice and prayers for their intentions. I want to take part in their prayer and their simple lifestyle and to work with the poor.”

In her spare time Mary Jo enjoyed singing in the choir at St. Mary’s in Bedford as well as playing in a band, dancing and crafting.

In more recent years, at the age of 97, Mary Jo chose to move closer to her sister, Sister of Charity Mary Germaine Maximovich, living in Bayley. The two enjoyed frequent visits and activities. She also enjoyed contributing in the retirement community’s afternoon music group.

“I spent only a little time with Mary Jo and her sister, S. Germaine, on occasions when I was visiting a resident at Bayley whose room was on the same floor,” remembered S. Barbara Davis. “S. Germaine and Mary Jo were often engaged in a game or other activity. Their care for one another was obvious in their bright smiles and kind words.”

“Mary Jo engaged herself in living!” added her sister, S. Mary Germaine. “She shared her abilities and involved herself in whatever was available and needed at the time. In recent years, when she moved to Bayley, I would visit and enjoy playing games with her. I admired that even as her energy was tiring, she wanted to keep going. She was ambitious to the end.”

“Again the land has borne us a fruitful harvest; God has given us abundant blessings. Let all people in turn acknowledge the wonders our God has performed.”

Psalm 67:6-7

Sister Carol Joan McCarthy

April 7, 1932-October 20, 2023

“Ever since I was created, you, God, have been my source of help—the one whom I could always trust.” Psalm 22:10

Growing up in Dayton, Ohio, S. Carol Joan McCarthy attended Corpus Christi grade school and graduated from Julienne High School in 1950. She entered the Sisters of Charity on Feb. 2, 1951, saying she was drawn to the Sisters at Corpus Christi since she knew them as neighbors, living just down the street. Working at Good Samaritan Hospital in Dayton after graduation confirmed for her that she wanted to become a Sister of Charity.

S. Carol’s ministries spanned more than 50 years, 31 in education. Her service began in 1952 at St. James in Bay City, Michigan, and continued throughout locations in New Mexico and Ohio. During these years she also earned her bachelor’s degree in education from the College of Mount St. Joseph (1964).

In 1970, S. Carol took a break from the primary classroom and offered recreational therapy at Cincinnati Good Samaritan Hospital and Mother Margaret Hall (1970-’73). After serving as school librarian at St. Lawrence in Cincinnati, she became a full-time student at St. Francis-St. George Hospital and went on to provide LPN services at various hospitals throughout Cincinnati and Dayton until 1989.

It was in those years that S. Carol also had a sudden need for a kidney; her twin sister, Eileen, proved to be a match! Following her successful recovery, S. Carol shared, “Eileen, you have given me an extended stay on this earth and the opportunity to serve. I am able to do what I do for others because of what you did for me.”

The next ministry call S. Carol answered was that of a GED tutor at the North Fairmount Community Center. After 10 years there she retired from teaching and was invited to come on board as a staff volunteer with The Women’s Connection, Price Hill, Cincinnati. “Feeling included as part of the staff, I pray, eat lunch, or take coffee breaks with them. Each one appreciates the least thing I do and I feel good when I go home,” S. Carol once shared.

S. Carol retired in 2005, joining her Sisters in prayer at Mother Margaret Hall and taking time for knitting, art and crossword puzzles. Also in 2005, as part of AOPHA (Association of Ohio Philanthropic Homes, Housing and Services for the Aged), S. Carol received first prize for her watercolor entitled “Only God Can Make a Tree.” She was a loyal fan of the Cincinnati Reds and Notre Dame University.

S. Marge Kloos was in S. Carol’s small group. She remembered, “Her joyful and gentle demeanor was always a gift. I admired her for the way she encouraged others. … She had a great sense of humor and it often appeared just when the group began to take a more ‘serious’ turn.”

Associate Barbara McCormick

June 14, 1932-September 26, 2023

“Lord, your strength and powerful presence cause us to sing your praises always.” Psalm 21:13

Associate Barbara Ann Kirkpatrick McCormick was born in Los Angeles, California, to Vincent Edward and Louise (Hebert) Kirkpatrick. She grew up in the West and graduated from Saint Mary’s High School in Albuquerque, New Mexico. She started her undergraduate education at the University of New Mexico and met her husband, Bill McCormick, a young Army Air Corps airman, at a serviceman’s dance in 1950. They married on July 7, 1951 at San Felipe de Neri Church in Albuquerque. A postcard to her parents from their honeymoon in Durango, Colorado, cited their shared dream for a big family with eight children.

Over the next 16 years, they realized this dream as an Air Force family living and raising their children in New Mexico, New York, Germany, Florida, Alabama and Texas. In 1968, the family moved to Bill’s hometown of Philadelphia and settled in the nearby New Jersey suburbs. While there, Barbara finished her degree in education at Trenton State College and taught first grade for 22 years at Ft. Dix Elementary School. She and Bill returned to Albuquerque in 1994, and lived a joyful retirement together until his death in 2013, when she moved to Coppell, Texas.

Barbara’s Catholic faith, shared with Bill, defined her, and they shared daily prayers and attended daily Mass in retirement. Barbara was active in her teacher’s union and a supporter of civil rights and women’s causes. When Church teachings and her beliefs conflicted, she never wavered in her devotion to both. She envisioned a world where these conflicts—i.e., the role of women in the Church and the rights of everyone to personal freedoms—were overcome, and she worked and voted to achieve this. She had a strong work ethic and extraordinary personal strength grounded in her faith.

Barbara became an Associate in Mission with the Sisters of Charity in October 2001, saying she was first acquainted with the Community as a student at St. Mary’s High School, Albuquerque. Fifty years later she reconnected with former classmate, S. Lucia Anne Roney, who invited her to consider becoming an Associate. Spending time with the Sisters living in the Albuquerque area, Barbara said, “made me feel welcome, and my life enriched by their friendship.” She was challenged and inspired by the spirit of Elizabeth Seton and Margaret George to live the Gospel message of service and prayer.

Barbara enjoyed music and musicals, and loved to sing. She was a voracious reader of newspapers, novels and nonfiction true crime. She also loved to vacation and took many road trips across the United States. She traveled abroad extensively throughout her lifetime. More regularly, she traveled around the country to visit her cousins and extended family in Texas and her children and grandchildren everywhere.

Associate Ruth Meyer

June 21, 1934-January 25, 2023

“The thirsty deer pines for cool water. So too, Lord, I thirst for you – my living God.” Psalm 42:1-3

Associate Ruth Meyer was a graduate of Mother of Mercy High School. After graduation she joined the Sisters of Charity of Cincinnati, remaining in the Community for 15 years. She obtained both undergraduate and graduate degrees. After several years as a Sister, Ruth decided she could better serve her faith and nurture her spirit in the lay community.

Ruth taught elementary school for several years to include sixth grade at St. Aloysius Gonzaga in Bridgetown. After teaching, she pursued a career in banking as a secretary and then executive assistant. She worked at Firstar (now Star Bank) and retired from Huntington Bank after many years.

Ruth joined the Sisters of Charity as an Associate in 1991, saying she was looking for a way to bring herself closer to God. She connected with S. Annina Morgan, attended a meeting of the Associates in Mission and realized it was what she was looking for. Ruth particularly appreciated the religious and spiritual focus and opportunities afforded. “It surely was God’s will that this connection happened,” she once said.

Ruth valued her bond with the Associates and Sisters saying, “There are so many opportunities to deepen my relationship with God. I love being at the Mount, experiencing the hospitality of the Sisters, surveying books in the Resource Center, enjoying the delicious meals, or walking the hallowed halls of the Motherhouse and outdoors.”

In addition Ruth was an active member of St. Aloysius parish, bringing Communion to the homebound and serving as lector. In 2005, she took part in an Immersion Experience in Cincinnati, with the purpose to explore in-depth and in-person Cincinnati ministries of the Sisters of Charity focused on social justice issues and systemic change. She said, “Never doubt that a small group of thoughtful citizens can change the world.”

Ruth initiated the practice of Associates sending Christmas cards to the Sisters. Associate Mary Jo Mersmann remembers, “She would gather all of the names of the Sisters and invite the Cincinnati Associates to send cards.” Throughout the years the simple gesture has expanded to include Associates outside of the Cincinnati area and has brought much joy to recipients.

In June 2015 Ruth made her lifetime commitment as an Associate in Mission. She said, “This journey has no end, and I try to take small steps by distributing Holy Communion to the patients at West Park and Bayley. I also volunteer weekly at a food pantry as I try to have a smiling face and a pleasant greeting as the clients move along the distribution line.

“It’s hard to summarize a 25-year journey,” she continued, “but as long as I am able to participate I will try to imitate Elizabeth Seton and live out the Sisters of Charity charism.”

Sister Irene Mraz

August 24, 1933-April 30, 2023

“God, I have only you; I need only you. What will be is in your loving hands. Your greatness is reflected in all your gifts to me.” Psalm 16:2

At an early age, S. Irene Mraz (formerly S. Mary Michaelene) was drawn to doing things for and with others. A Sister of Mercy cousin had a deep influence on S. Irene. She shared, “I spent a lot of my time with her in the orphanage where she ministered to boys. It was here where I learned the ways of serving and reaching out to others; I knew this would be my life’s call. God did not disappoint.” She was a Sister for 74 years, entering the Vincentian Sisters of Charity* in Bedford, Ohio, in 1948.

S. Irene’s active ministries spanned more than 60 years; 21 in the elementary classroom, eight in religious education, 12 in congregational leadership, five as a missionary in El Salvador and 18 in pastoral ministry. She taught grades first through eighth at schools all across Ohio throughout her early teaching ministry.

After much prayer and discernment, S. Irene accepted a call to serve on the Cleveland Missionary Team to El Salvador in 1981. She went after the American missionaries were martyred, a time filled with anxiety and war. During those five years, she helped prepare and write a Spanish catechetical aid for those in the villages who were preparing children to receive the sacraments. The village teachers were most grateful for the faith-based preparation from the Missionary Team and the encouragement provided.

The returning years offered S. Irene an opportunity to assist Lumen Cordium High School in Bedford with development assistance, followed by three four-year terms of leadership for the Vincentian Sisters of Charity. In 1999 she became the pastoral minister of St. Pius X parish, a position she held for 18 years.

In May 2017, S. Irene retired from her varied ministries. She moved to the Motherhouse in Cincinnati, continuing her spirit of giving and outreach. S. Irene appreciated spending time in God’s creation, reading, listening to music, enjoying a good movie and being with people.

S. Dorothy Ann Blatnica recalls S. Irene, her former second grade teacher, playing a pivotal role in her life’s journey. She shared, “As a senior in high school I was sitting with Irene on the back steps of the convent at St. Pius and telling her that I wanted to become a Vincentian Sister. She helped me through the process of entering the community that summer. Thank you, Irene, for all the memories and laughter we shared during our life together.”

Associate Nancy Bick Clark appreciated S. Irene as a great listener. “She would add gems of insight to what was being said in group discussions. If I had to characterize her spirit in a few words, I’d say gentle and strong.”

*The Vincentian Sisters of Charity of Bedford, Ohio, merged with the Sisters of Charity of Cincinnati in 2004.

Sister Joseph Ellen Noppenberger

April 22, 1927-December 16, 2023

“God, when you walked the waves and crossed the deep waters, your presence was not seen in footprints; but felt in secure comfort.” Psalm 77:19

Adevoted teacher, S. Joseph Ellen Noppenberger grew up in Norwood, Ohio, attending St. Mark grade school and graduating from Regina High School. She obtained a position in the Field Accounting Department of Western Southern Life Insurance after graduation and then a civil service position with the Veterans Administration. It was during this time that she was introduced to the Sisters of Charity at St. Joseph Infant Home where her sister, Jean, was serving as a nurse. It was through that contact and volunteering with the children there that S. Joseph Ellen began to consider religious life. Jean had the same intentions, unbeknownst to her. Together, the two sisters entered the Sisters of Charity in September 1949, the first siblings to do so since 1929.

As a Sister of Charity, S. Joseph Ellen was first missioned to Margery Reed Day Nursery in Denver, Colorado, from 1951 until 1954. There she served as bookkeeper, supervisor of buildings and grounds as well as day care assistant for the upper school children. In 1954 she began her almost 40year education ministry as a fourth grade teacher at Holy Trinity, Trinidad, Colorado. S. Joseph Ellen taught in schools across Ohio, including a return to St. Joseph Infant Home (1957-’59). She was also the last Sister of Charity to serve at St. Mary’s, Hyde Park, ministering at the school for 21 years (1972-’93).

S. Joseph Ellen had a natural aptitude for fixing things, which she felt she inherited from her dad. On the various missions where she served she became known as ‘Sister Fix-it.’ She maintained convent gardens, changed electrical plugs, fixed lamps, projectors and whatever else they brought to her.

In “pre-retirement,” S. Joseph Ellen enrolled in a renewal program (Manna House in Concordia, Kansas) where she was encouraged by her peers to consider a ministry of assisting others. In retirement at the Motherhouse, she served as a driver to medical appointments, shopping, the airport, or entertainment for Sisters living in the City of Cincinnati; she also volunteered at the Motherhouse front desk answering phones and greeting visitors, sewing hems and buttons, and in general ‘fixing things’ when they needed attention. Her gifts were welcomed and appreciated by many.

Several years ago, as S. Joseph Ellen looked back on her years in ministry, she remarked that while change was dreaded, it always seemed to be for the best. “It was God’s plan and I tried to follow it.”

S. Patrice Vales entered the Community with S. Joseph Ellen in 1949. She remembered, “S. Joseph Ellen was older than the rest of us in the Novitiate. She was kind, generous, and helpful to us at that time and all throughout her life.”

Associate Ethel O’Connor

May 7, 1937-July 19, 2023

“Oh God, send me your light. Help me to let myself be led by your truth.”

Psalm 43:3

Associate Mary “Ethel” Lee O’Connor was born to Samuel and Gladys Baker Brookings in Scotland Neck, North Carolina. The family migrated to the Washington, D.C. area where she grew up frequenting the landmarks and nearby East Coach beaches. Ethel bravely fought childhood illnesses and found herself graduating early (with honors) from the illustrious Dunbar High School. She continued her education through the master’s level at Xavier University in Cincinnati, Ohio, where she met the love of her life, Norman “Bud” O’Connor Jr.

The two were married on June 12, 1971, in the Bellarmine Chapel on the Xavier University campus. Norman and Ethel were married for more than 52 years and raised four children: Christopher, Michael, Keith and Sarah. Ethel was a fiercely dedicated wife and mother.

Professionally, Ethel devoted more than 45 years of her life educating the youth of Cincinnati. She taught in both the Catholic and public school systems, along with specializing in educating the severely behavioral and mentally challenged youth. She had a passion for bettering the lives of everyone through education and her faith.

Ethel was a former member of the Sisters of Charity, entering in 1956 and remaining in the Community for 14 years. It was her love of the SCs and a desire to remain connected that prompted her to make her commitment as an Associate in 2007. At the time she said she was drawn to the Community “by its openness to the Spirit, seeking to do God’s will.”

She compared the Community to a tapestry, having many threads which together represent the common good. “These threads are the lives of these faith-filled women and men. Their lives exemplify the charism, mission and vision statements of the Community. Interwoven through are the main threads of humility, simplicity and charity.”

Ethel had a bright, beautiful smile that could light up a room; you could witness it in every “friend” she met along the way.

“Ethel was a very warm and gentle lady who welcomed everyone with her smile and open arms,” remembered Associate Mary Hirsch. “Even though she was from the east side of town, she always tried to make it to the events and socials we would have. I will miss her at our gatherings!”

Added Associate Vicki Welsh, “Ethel was in my small group that met in Hyde Park. There was lots of sharing, laughter and food! Ethel was an important part of it all. She was soft-spoken, but quick to chime in and quick to laugh! Her lovely husband brought her. Eventually we talked him into returning early and joining us in our eating. To say he loved her doesn’t quite say it ... He was devoted to her.”

Associate Maria Rogers

January 5, 1940-June 22, 2023

“May our God look upon your hopes and plans and make them fruitful, so that you may know many blessings.” Psalm 20:4

Born in Albuquerque, New Mexico, Associate Maria Rogers was the first of 18 children born to Eloy Maestas and Quiterita Gutierrez. Maria grew up in La Jara, New Mexico, and learned English when she started grade school. She graduated from Cuba High School, Cuba, New Mexico, as valedictorian in 1956.

Maria met James Rogers while working as a waitress at the Cup and Saucer Café in Cuba and married Nov. 20, 1965. The couple had three daughters: Michelle, Melissa and Faith. They moved to Juneau, Alaska, in 1983 where Maria worked for the state as a community health aide, in administrative positions, and for several years as the adoptions clerk for the Department of Family and Youth Services where she helped people find their parents. She retired in 1994. In retirement Maria continued to make a difference, starting Children First in 1996, a licensed home childcare where she was known as Granma Mia. She also worked as a part-time childcare food program helper and Hispanic provider liaison. She helped Hispanic women (who often knew little English) start their own childcare business.

Throughout her life Maria was a devout and practicing Catholic. She helped in religious education programs almost everywhere she lived. With Jim she worked with high school teen programs. They did marriage preparation for couples for almost 30 years. She was a Eucharistic Minister and a lector. She worked with the Catholic Hispanic community, Bishop Michael Kenny, and the Catholic Diocese of Juneau to bring Spanish-speaking priests into Juneau for retreats and missions.

Maria became an Associate with the Sisters of Charity in December 2007, saying, “What draws me to this Community is the love I experience and the faith I see. My prayer life is enriched by having them to pray with.” She added, “I bring care and a willingness to help those in need. … It is when I help others that I feel closer to God. I believe that I was put in this world to serve God, and that is what I want to do.”

Maria enjoyed hiking, gardening, crafting, meeting friends and relatives, playing Mexican train dominos and cards, cooking, and her little chihuahua Gizmo. She developed a love for travel, visiting 52 countries before the pandemic hit in 2020.

S. Delia Sizler remembers Maria as “one of the first Associates of Charity in Juneau. She embraced the charism and exemplified it in her daily life so beautifully. She was hospitable to all. ... I loved activities at the Rogers’ home, Mexican train on the dining room table, birthday parties, cookouts or just sitting with Maria as she knitted or did hand crafts, of which she was gifted.”

Sister Marie Vincentia Roney

July 8, 1932- June 1, 2023

“May your glorious name penetrate our entire world; and may we praise that name forever.” Psalm 72:19

Born in Old Town Albuquerque, New Mexico, S. Marie Vincentia Roney dedicated her life to helping and teaching others. She was a Sister of Charity for 71 years and entered in September 1951. Her father’s faith was a great influence on her—she would say, “He was a man of prayer. He didn’t push his version on us; he simply lived it.”

S. Marie Vincentia’s ministries spanned more than 60 years, 36 in elementary education, 25 in retreat ministry and spiritual direction. Her service first began in 1954 when she went to St. Albert School, Kettering, Ohio. She then ministered at St. Therese, Pueblo, Colorado from 1955-’58. Next, she moved back to Ohio and taught at St. Dominic in Cincinnati from 1958-’60 and St. Rose in Lima from 1960-’66. From this time until 1988, S. Marie Vincentia taught and served as principal in several schools in New Mexico.

At this time in her life S. Marie Vincentia enrolled in a renewal program, IL Ritiro in St. Louis, Missouri. She followed this program with her graduate work at Creighton University in Nebraska. It was an atmosphere she was ready to become part of. She referred to those years as “a powerful, wonderful experience of community.”

In her 25 years of ministry in spiritual direction, S. Marie Vincentia served in various centers across New Mexico, beginning as a staff member at Madonna Retreat Center in Albuquerque; next, at the Christian Brothers College of Santa Fe; and finally as a full-time staff member at Sangre de Cristo Center in Santa Fe. She was also involved with the Center for Action and Contemplation. There, she met with individuals for spiritual direction as well as various groups of interns for group processing and spiritual direction. She would say of these years, “To attend to the souls of these lay people from many different walks of life as well as men and women religious, I first of all had to attend to my own life. Receiving regular supervision from peers monthly with a group of five spiritual directors was appreciated and essential. May I be and remain a fit instrument.”

In July 2019 S. Marie Vincentia returned to Ohio and the Motherhouse campus. In her retirement years she enjoyed reconnecting with her Sisters and corresponding with her many friends, near and far, sharing her welcome sense of humor.

S. Jean Miller expressed how inspired she was by S. Marie Vincentia. She shared, “In Albuquerque she served in so many ways. Her ministry to visitors was so special. She opened her house, entertained, fed, provided a bed and cooked breakfast with homemade bread for her guests. And food came from her small garden, making the experience even more special.”

“God, my saving hope, may you be fully pleased with all that is within me –judgments as well as my speech.”

Psalm 19:14