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As a participant in the arena of free expression, I lean toward allowing freedom of expression with the acknowledgement that others are free to express their displeasure.

It was absurd, for example, that a Brandeis student leader who tweeted that she had “no sympathy” for New York police officers who were gunned down recently and used vile language to call for an “intifada” against America should think that she’d be exempt from criticism.

A lot of that criticism, much of it vulgar and threatening, did cross the line — even Daniel Mael, the student who brought those tweets to the attention of a wider audience, was horrified at some of the responses and threats against that student. He also was targeted for daring to simply mention what she said and has been warned that he should never walk alone on campus.

Committing violence as a response to speech should be beyond the pale, but much of the criticism of the Charlie Hebdo cartoons that “led to” the massacre at their office has been along the lines of “they deserved it because they went too far.”

Nonsense. Nobody deserves what happened there.

Is it wise to mock or caricature Mohammed? Perhaps not, especially in today’s highly-charged atmosphere. Simply in the name of civility, one should not go around gratuitously mocking others. But this was a satirical publication, pointing out absurdities in society. And the periodical, which almost nobody had ever heard of before, was an equal opportunity offender.

It is offensive to Muslims to have their prophet depicted, as they have a strict boundary on the definition of idolatry. That is why you won’t see portraits in mosques.

But not everyone holds to those standards, and the Muslim world can’t expect everyone

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commentary else to follow their restrictions. For many in the Jewish community, it is wrong to write out a divine name, so euphemisms like “G-d” are used. Having it spelled out and thrown around casually is seen as taking the holy name in vain. It’s splashed all over our money, for example — how much more mundane can one get?

But do we expect our non-Jewish neighbors to follow that example out of sensitivity to us?

Hardly — let alone the notion that anyone in the Jewish world would deem it an offense deserving of death. Do we tell non-Jews that they can’t have their bacon or oysters?

There have been many artistic works in recent years that the Christian world found highly offensive. The reaction has often been fierce, but violent?

Shortly after the Paris attacks, the International Union of Muslim Scholars, led by the spiritual leader of Egypt’s banned Muslim Brotherhood, met in Qatar and urged the United Nations to draft a law prohibiting the defamation of religions, a direct challenge to Western notions of free expression.

In all this, there is one aspect that has been overlooked in the deadly Islamic extremist reaction to cartoons.

What is missing? A mirror.

Anyone who follows the Middle East closely can’t help but feel a complete lack of empathy when Muslim figures complain about how Islam is portrayed in cartoons, or chuckle at their assertion that it’s wrong to defame religions.

The Muslim Scholars aren’t interested in stopping the defamation of religions. They are interested in stopping the defamation of religion. Theirs.

It takes almost no time to find examples of the most vile anti-Jewish and anti-Christian rhetoric and cartoons in Middle East publications. Palestinian publications are filled with cartoons about Israel and Jews (they really don’t distinguish between the two) that would make the Nazi publication Der Sturmer blush.

Emergency response personnel were still responding to the stabbing of a dozen people on a Tel Aviv bus by a Palestinian when a supportive hashtag that translates to “I am the knife” started trending, and within an hour a cartoon celebrating the knife attack was circulating.

A couple of months ago, when several Palestinians rammed their cars into crowds in central Israel in an attempt to kill as many as possible, cartoons urged more such attacks, with drawings of car interiors where the gas pedal was replaced by an ammunition clip.

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February 2015 lence and the celebration of dead Jews. And we’re supposed to have sympathy for them because of hurt feelings over depictions of the prophet?

We can’t insult them but they can insult us tenfold.

And that is part of the bigger problem, which is what many people miss in discussing the Middle East. In many parts of the Muslim world, the belief persists that Islam is the one true faith, and while Jews and Christians are People of the Book and are to be protected (we see how well that is working out these days in Syria, Iraq and so forth), we are still on a lower rung — and must be kept there.

That is why in Muslim-ruled areas one can’t build a church or synagogue that is as tall or taller than mosques, for example.

To borrow a concept from local history, as long as we “know our place,” everything is fine.

But if we get uppity and assert ourselves, such as having Jewish sovereignty in a place that they see as part of the Muslim world, that impertinence can’t be allowed.

This is indeed a clash of civilizations and world-views. Of course, we need to have the obligatory “not all Muslims” here. It was great to see the honor bestowed upon the Muslim employee at the Paris kosher supermarket who was credited with saving at least six lives.

Recently there was an article about the very friendly relations between Israel and Azerbaijan, a Muslim nation, and there are many groups like the Kurds who are not hostile to Israel.

But in terms of taming the extremist elements, that is something that has to come from within Islam. It wasn’t the Jewish community that stopped the theological anti-Semitism in the church, it came from within, culminating in Vatican II. The speech given by Egyptian President Abdel Fattah el-Sisi on Jan. 1, where he went to the same venue as President Obama’s 2009 speech on Islam, needs to be more widely heard. In the speech, before a large group of Egyptian clerics, he decried how the forces of radical Islam have made Islam a “source of anxiety, danger, killing and destruction for the rest of the world” and called for a “religious revolution” to prevent the Islamic world’s self-destruction.

We will see if the events in Paris were a wake-up call that will prompt changes in attitudes, or if it is just the next in a long list of horrible events continuing the downward spiral.

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Ole Miss was front and center at the Jan. 14 “mega-event” in Jerusalem celebrating the 15th anniversary of Birthright Israel. Thousands of this year’s attendees were at the event, where Prime Minister Benjamin Netanyahu spoke and there was a tribute to Yoav Hattab, one of those killed in the kosher market in Paris, who had been on a Birthright trip just two weeks before the terror attack.

Site work starts for Temple Beth-El’s large new neighbor 15-story apartment building on B’ham’s Southside Preparation work has begun for a large residential development that is planned for Birmingham’s Highland Avenue next door to Temple Beth-El. In October 2013, a 15-story apartment building was announced for the Highland Diagnostics Center site, known by many as the Britlings property for the cafeteria that used to be in that building.

The large parking lot behind the building, which Beth-El had been using, was part of the Britlings property and the announced plans had additional apartments and a six-story parking garage slated for that parking lot.

In September, Beth-El formed two committees to “identify the needs and concerns of Temple Beth-El; safeguard the value of our property (financially, structurally and aesthetically); and ensure the safety of our congregants during the construction period.”

After three months of negotiations, a memorandum of understanding was presented between Harbert, which is developing the property, and Beth-El. Prior to demolition of the Highland Diagnostic building, which took place in mid-January, there was a study of the structural integrity of Beth-El, which is a standard procedure.

As part of the process, Harbert has agreed to demolish the house on 21st Way behind Beth-El’s side parking lot. Beth-El owns the yellow house, and the space will be paved by Harbert for additional Beth-El parking.

The memorandum also assures that Beth-El’s services will not be disturbed by the construction.

The $53 million high-rise project reportedly will have 227 apartments, with 88 more units in the rear building. Targeted at young professionals, the apartments will be one or two bedroom units. There will also be 5,000 square feet of retail space.

Ovarian Cycle fundraiser on March 1 The annual Ovarian Cycle will be held on March 1 at Birmingham’s Levite Jewish Community Center, to raise funds to support ovarian cancer research through the Norma Livingston Ovarian Cancer Foundation.

This year, the event has a new three-hour format to encourage more participation. A participant can “do it yourself ” by riding a stationary bike for all three hours, or there is a “team ride” for three riders to each take an hour and reach their goal together, as well as share fundraising responsibilities. Male participants are also encouraged.

There are also “virtual riders” who can not join in person, with no registration fee or minimum fundraising goal.

Spectators are welcome for the 9 a.m. to noon event.

Registration for participants is $50 for riders age 26 and older, $25 for ages 12 to 25.

There is no registration fee for ovarian cancer survivors. Minimum fundraising goals are $200 for one-hour riders, $300 for two-hour riders and $500 for threehour riders.

On Feb. 8, Bari Cotton and Sherri Romanoff will share their journeys through ovarian cancer at a 10:30 a.m. awareness program at Birmingham’s Levite Jewish Community Center. Megan Farmer, director of genetic counseling at the University of Alabama at Birmingham, will also speak.

Cotton, a Birmingham native, is a seven-year ovarian cancer survivor who is also BRCA2-positive. Romanoff has survived ovarian and breast cancer.

The program is open to the community, and refreshments will be provided by the Norma Livingston Ovarian Cancer Foundation.

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Renowned archaeologist Jody Magness will visit Birmingham and Pensacola for presentations over the next few weeks.

Magness holds the senior endowed chair of the Department of Religious Studies at the University of North Carolina. She has been on over 20 archaeological excavations in Israel and Greece.

Since 2011 she has led an excavation project at Huqoq in the Galilee. It is the first time the village has been excavated, and a major find was the remains of a Temple that had a diverse set of mosaics, including the story of Samson.

She was featured in the National Geographic film “Jerusalem” which played in Birmingham last year and is currently being screened at the Gulf Coast Exploreum Science Center in Mobile.

In 2017 she is slated to become president of the Archaeological Institute of America.

Magness will speak about Huqoq at Birmingham’s Temple Beth-El on Feb. 11 with a reception at 6:30 p.m. and presentation at 7 p.m. The evening is also sponsored by the University Fellows and Religion Department of Samford University and the Focus on Faith Committee of Independent Presbyterian Church.

On Feb. 12, she will speak on the “Archaeology of Qumran and the Dead Sea Scrolls” at the University of Alabama at Birmingham’s Alumni Hall.

There will be a 6:30 p.m. reception, followed by the presentation at 7 p.m.

She will also give her talk on Qumran on March 5 at the University of West Florida in Pensacola. There will be a wine and cheese reception at 5:30 p.m. followed by the presentation at 6 p.m. The event will be at the Center for Fine and Performing Arts, Building 82, Mainstage theater. The evening is co-sponsored by the Pensacola Jewish Federation.

Jacobs Camp hosting family weekend The Henry S. Jacobs Camp in Utica will have a Family Camp the weekend of March 27. The weekend is tailored for grades 1 to 5, but students in grades 6 to 8 will be participating in the NFTY Junior weekend, which will be at the camp the same weekend.

The weekend is open to veteran camp families and newcomers. Registration begins at 5 p.m. on March 27, followed by Kabbalat Shabbat, dinner and a song session, mixers and programs.

On March 28 there will be family activities, Shabbat services, camp tours, a kids versus parents kickball game, Havdalah, an evening program and Havdalah. The weekend will end on March 29 at 10 a.m.

Boating and the climbing tower will be available, as will the pool, weather permitting.

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Latkes vs Hamantaschen: Discuss Birmingham Hadassah will host Birmingham’s first Latke/Hamantaschen debate, with a cast of community members presenting their arguments on which of the holiday delights is superior. The debate will take place on Feb. 15 at 2 p.m. at the Friedman Center for Jewish Life on Overton Road, and the community is invited.

Making the case for latkes will be Dan Weinrib, Robert Levin, Daniel Odrezin and Jackie Feldman. The Hamantaschen team will be Brad Siegel, Leslie Kahn, Efram Peller and Rabbi Yossi Friedman. The audience will vote for the winner.

Admission is $5 per person for ages 10 and up, but all ages are welcome. Of course, latkes and Hamantaschen will be served.

agenda Beth Or’s Jewish Food Festival on Feb. 22

Mark Levy, who headed a Freedom School in Meridian during Freedom Summer 1964, spoke to the Mississippi State Hillel on Jan. 15. In 1964, Levy was heading to Mississippi to work on voter registration when Rita and Mickey Schwerner urged him to run one of the schools. While training in Ohio, Levy heard of the torching of the church being used as a Freedom School in Neshoba County, and the subsequent disappearance of Schwerner and two other workers.

In what has become a Montgomery institu- will have corned beef sandwich sales, generally tion, on Feb. 22 Temple Beth Or will once again in proximity to St. Patrick’s Day. open its doors for the Montgomery Jewish Food Festival and Treasure Market.

Now in its 12th year, the festival includes numerous traditional dishes made by the members. They include pastries such as rugelach, strudel, chocolate praline matzah and mandel bread; plates of brisket or corned beef; matzah ball soup; potato latkes; and quajado (spinach pie). “Imported” from New York are New York cheesecakes, direct from the famous Carnegie Deli and sold by the slice or cake.

The treasure market and congregational gift shop are also open during that time. Rabbi Elliot Stevens offers short sessions about Jewish customs in the sanctuary.

“I always enjoy the authentic Jewish cooking and the variety of wonderful dishes,” said Stevens, “but for me the best part is reconnecting with neighbors and friends from across our community. It’s so gratifying to see the role our Ellen Landy, a sixth-grade student at the festival has played in terms of interfaith relaN.E. Miles Jewish Day School, won the Birtions and understanding.” mingham district spelling bee on Jan. 16, The festival will be from 9 a.m. to 2 p.m., but making it through 37 rounds. She placed organizers caution that many items are gone by second last year. She will continue on to 1 p.m. Admission and parking are free. the Jefferson County bee on Feb. 6.

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agenda CAMERA to honor UNO’s Valdary CAMERA: The Committee for Accuracy in Middle East Reporting in America announced that Chloe Valdary will be honored at the annual CAMERA Gala on May 3 at Chelsea Piers in New York City.

Valdary, a senior at the University of New Orleans, will receive the David Bar-Ilan Award for Outstanding Student Leadership. She founded Allies for Israel at UNO, co-founded the Declare Your Freedom pro-Israel festival and has written numerous articles that have been published worldwide. Her “Letter from an Angry Black Woman” to Students for Justice in Palestine became the most widely-read piece on Tablet magazine, with over half a million views.

She has initiated the “This is What a Zionist Looks Like” and “Zionism First” campaigns to instill pride and reclaim the term from detractors.

Justin Hayet of SUNY Binghamton will receive the campus activism award.

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Lawrence Hoffman, one of Judaism’s top scholars and a recipient of two National Jewish Book Awards, will speak on “Limits, Truth and Meaning: The Anxious Search for Meaning in our Time” at Temple Beth Or in Montgomery on Feb. 12 at 7 p.m. A professor of liturgy at Hebrew Union College-Jewish Institute of Religion in New York, Hoffman is author or editor of over 40 books, including “My People’s Prayer Book,” “Rethinking Synagogues” and “Art of Public Prayer.” He is also co-founder of Synagogue 3000, a transdenominational project designed to envision and implement the ideal synagogue of the spirit for the 21st century. There is no charge for the talk, which is open to the community.

Joel Hoffman, author of the recent book, “The Bible’s Cutting Room Floor: The Holy Scriptures Missing From Your Bible,” will speak at Beth Israel in Jackson on Feb. 28 at 7 p.m. Hoffman is the chief translator for the 10-volume series, “My People’s Prayer Book.” His 2009 book, “And God Said: How Translations Conceal the Bible’s Original Meaning,” provides readers with an authoritative account of significant mistranslations and shows how new translation methods can give readers their first glimpse into what the Bible really means.

Beth Shalom Sisterhood in Baton Rouge is holding a PJ Library Havdalah concert on Feb. 7 at 7 p.m., featuring Rabbi Judy Caplan Ginsburgh of Alexandria. The evening is for all ages, including those who do not have children, and will also include a craft project. Pajamas are encouraged.

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Baton Rouge Hadassah is going on a pilgrimage to Natchez in March.

On March 21 there will be a carpool to Natchez from Beth Shalom, for a tour of Natchez’s Jewish roots. There will be a tour of Temple B’nai Israel, dinner and Shabbat services. There will be an option on whether to return to Baton Rouge or stay overnight. Those who stay will participate in the Natchez Spring Pilgrimage on March 22, touring three historic homes and plantations, then returning to Baton Rouge that evening. For more information, contact Marilyn Martell, (609) 315-2264.

The Discovery School at Birmingham’s Temple Emanu-El will have an “Our Little Hands” art exhibit and sale on March 3 at the Abroms Engel Institute for the Visual Arts, from 6 to 9 p.m. Artwork as envisioned through the eyes of the preschool students will be displayed. The event, which is open to the community, will include hors d’oeuvres, live music and a cash bar, and a Discover Our Dreams silent auction.

Christians United for Israel will have a Night to Honor Israel, Feb. 21 at 7 p.m. at Fayette Family Church in Fayetteville, Ga., between Peachtree City and Atlanta. Israel Consul General Opher Aviran from the Atlanta Consulate will be the guest speaker, and the keynote speaker will be Pastor Victor Styrsky, CUFI’s Eastern Region coordinator.

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agenda Several in region on ballots for World Zionist Congress election Voting is now open for the 37th World Zionist Congress, which will be held in Jerusalem in October, and there are several candidates from the region on the slates.

Representation in the U.S. delegation is proportional to votes received, and the U.S. has 145 delegates out of a worldwide total of 500. The Congress meets every five years to discuss issues of vital importance to the global Jewish community and set policy for the World Zionist Organization.

Issues of religious pluralism and funding priorities have often been debated at the Congress.

In the last election, only 80,000 American Jews voted. The Association of Reform Zionists of America received 56 delegate slots, the Religious Zionists of America received 35 and the Conservative movement’s Mercaz USA had 33 delegates.

Voter turnout was much higher in the 1990s when contentious religious pluralism issues were high on the American delegation’s agenda.

Any Jewish citizen of the U.S. who is age 18 or above and did not vote in the last Israeli parliamentary election is eligible to vote for one of the 11 slates. One may register online and vote, or one may go through an organizational website.

The processing fee for voting is $10, $5 for those under age 30. By registering and voting, one also affirms acceptance of the Jerusalem Program, which “views a Jewish, Zionist, democratic and secure State of Israel to be the expression of the common responsibility of the Jewish people for its continuity and future.”

The 11 organizations put forth a slate of delegates. Often, if a group

receives 10 slots, many more from the organization actually attend the Congress but only 10 are able to vote on policies at any given time.

Birmingham has three entries on the Mercaz slate — Julian Brook, Rabbi Randall Konigsburg and J.B. Mazer.

William Hess and Susan Hess of New Orleans are on the ARZA slate.

Julie Wise Oreck of New Orleans and Andy Groveman of Memphis are on the Zionist Spring slate, which is “dedicated to restoring the greatness and vitality of the Zionist movement… a voice of the Jewish people demanding that Zionism become once again relevant in our daily lives.”

Tulane student Maor Shapira is on the Alliance for New Zionist Vision slate, which is a group of grassroots movements, especially on college campuses.

The list of organizations and slates is available at myvoteourisrael.com, which is also the registration and voting site. Voting began on Jan. 13 and runs through April 30.

Matisyahu to headline DYF3.0

Matisyahu will be one of the performers at Declare Your Freedom 3.0, an annual celebration of Israel in New Orleans. The pro-Israel campus event is organized by Maor Shapira of Tulane and Chloe Valdary of the University of New Orleans.

This year’s event will be on April 12, and similar events are being planned at American University, Penn State and the University of Central Florida. The events feature musical acts and speakers, and has been endorsed by Alan Dershowitz as an antidote to anti-Israel activities on campus.

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agenda Roselle Ungar named new NOLA JFS executive director Roselle Ungar has been hired as the new executive director of Jewish Family Service of Greater New Orleans, starting her new position on Jan. 28.

A New Orleans native, Ungar was approved at a board vote on Jan. 21. She had been serving as president of the agency, and as a result of the vote, Julie Wise Oreck became the new president.

In recent months, Executive Director Michael Steiner was on leave due to medical reasons. He had been hired by the agency to succeed Deena Gerber, who reRoselle Ungar tired in June 2013 after 19 years of leading the social-service agency.

“We formed a committee to conduct a search, but then received a resume from a candidate who was so exceptionally qualified and surpassed the credentials of anyone we could have potentially recruited,” said Oreck.

“We are thrilled with this selection and know that Roselle will be a superlative leader for the agency.”

Ungar was assistant executive director at the Jewish Federation of Greater New Orleans from 1997 to 2006. Most recently, she has been the owner of Strategic Nonprofit Consulting, speaking and training across the country. She has also been the director of community and philanthropic affairs at Crescent Bank and Trust.

Ungar graduated as an R.N. from the Touro Infirmary School of Nursing. In 2008, she received her Certified Fundraising Executive designa-

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tion and is one of only 4,127 individuals in the United States to hold this credential.

Ungar is also a former national vice president and current national board member of Hadassah, and co-chaired the 2014 national convention in Las Vegas. She also is a past president of Beth Israel Congregation.

“It is such an honor for me to take on this role,” Ungar said. “JFS is an agency that changes people’s lives and I look forward to being a part of making a difference through this organization’s great work.”

Jewish Family Service provides a wide range of programs to the Jewish and greater communities, including counseling, homemaker services, the Lifeline emergency response service, a Teen Life Counts suicide prevention program in schools, case management and adoption home studies.

Annual benefit concert for Monroe community’s cemetery on Feb. 28 B’nai Israel in Monroe will have its annual “Tribute to Jewish American Composers” benefit concert on Feb. 28.

This is the ninth year that the congregation has held the event, with proceeds going toward the maintenance and restoration of Monroe’s historic Jewish cemetery.

Featured artists are Rod Allen Payne and Carvel Avis, guitar; Lawrence Gibbs, saxophone and clarinet; with vocalists G. G. Shinn, Corey Trahan, Lisa Lee Pheifer, Zelia Logan and Lisa Spann.

The program begins at 7 p.m. and a reception will follow. Tickets are $20. Patron tickets, which include two admissions, are $60. Sponsorship levels are also available.

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When the organizers of the Mobile Jewish Film Festival decided to have Nancy Spielberg’s documentary, “Above and Beyond: The Birth of the Israeli Air Force” as the first Reita Franco Memorial Film, they had no idea just how fitting that choice would be.

Reita Franco, who died last April, was a driving force behind the festival since its inception 14 years ago. She often would speak of the festival becoming big enough to draw a visit from Steven Spielberg — but that quip aside, there was a much bigger connection between the Spielbergs and the Franco family, especially on this film.

Nancy, who is Steven’s sister, was in Mobile for the Jan. 18 screening and a patron’s reception at the Fort Conde Inn, where she spoke of her connection with Alan Franco of New Orleans, one of Reita’s three sons.

Through his work with the D-Day Museum, now the National World War II Museum in New Orleans, Alan Franco got to know Steven and his father, Arnold. Steven dedicated a wing at the museum in honor of Arnold.

During World War II, Arnold was communications chief of the 490th “Skull and Wings” Bombardment Squadron, known as the “Burma Bridge Busters.”

After the war, he helped design and build the first business computer.

He also invented and patented the first electronic library system and designed the first electronic cash register.

Steven Spielberg and Tom Hanks headlined the museum’s dedication in June 2000, and at the event Arnold called Nancy over to “meet my friend Alan.”

“That’s when I met Alan and that’s when we became friends,” she said.

Nancy said the only other time she had been to Mobile was in 1977, when Steven was filming “Close Encounters of the Third Kind.” She spent a hot August day in the huge airplane hangar there, “the worst mistake of my life.”

Nancy was inspired to produce “Above and Beyond” after reading a 2011 obituary for Al Schwimmer, who was credited with being a founder of the Israeli Air Force. She researched the story of U.S. and Canadian pilots, World War II veterans, who were inspired to fight for Israel’s independence despite the risk of losing their U.S. citizenship because of an administration embargo through the U.S. Neutrality Act. The pilots — both Jews and non-Jews — trained and coordinated in secret to stay ahead of the FBI and played a critical role in repelling five invading Arab armies in 1948 after Israel declared independence. Some of them wound up flying repurposed Nazi planes, which had been abandoned in Czechoslovakia, that they had tried to shoot down a few years earlier.

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Those Messerschmitts were able to best the Spitfires that had been flown by the Allies during the war for the first time, when flown by American pilots for the IDF, she noted.

Nancy said for most of the fighters, it wasn’t necessarily a strong sense of Zionism that motivated them. “They felt it was their duty to help someone who needed help.”

When she started telling people about her project, the reaction was mostly an astonished “that’s a great story.” But Alan “was the only guy who knew what I was talking about,” having read about it some years earlier.

She said he would send her articles and email her with bits of historical information, saying “did you know this?” She said she had to learn quickly so she could say yes to him.

Roberta Grossman was the film’s director. Because archival footage from 1948 was scarce, a lot of scenes had to be re-created. And with a small budget, that was a challenge — for one dogfight scene they needed to show 12 Spitfires. There was just one available, and doing quality CGI is expensive.

Nevertheless, Nancy contacted George Lucas’ Industrial Light & Magic and they agreed to do it pro bono, creating 11 more Spitfires for the scene.

She wanted to finish the film as quickly as possible, because of the age of the pilots. Already, two of the film’s subjects have died.

“Above and Beyond” had its debut last summer at the Jerusalem Film Festival, including a private screening for Israeli Air Force members. Arnold was in attendance for the screening.

The U.S. debut was two weeks later at the San Francisco Jewish Film Festival — during the height of the Gaza operation.

In Jerusalem, her concern was whether the film got everything right in front of an audience of “family,” while her concern in San Francisco had more to do with reaction to the film with the backdrop of the war in Gaza.

In California “they took the film as it should be taken — celebrating those guys and not trying to twist it into a political agenda.”

A major event is planned around the film for April 22 at the World War II Museum in New Orleans. The Jewish community will have an Israel Independence Day event with a 5:30 p.m. reception, followed by a talk by Nancy at 6:30 p.m., and the film will be screened at 7 p.m., followed by a question and answer session.

The Greater New Orleans Rabbinic Council will have a Memorial Day service as part of the evening.

Seating is extremely limited, and reservations are required. The cost to attend is $18, $10 for students and adults under age 30. Reservations can be made through the Jewish Federation of Greater New Orleans.

The film is also schedule to be screened at the American Israel Public Affairs Committee Policy Conference in Washington in March.

At the reception before the Mobile screening, Barry Silverman paid tribute to Reita and Edward Franco, saying that after they arrived in Mobile in 1976, “each of them gave so much of their energy to the Jewish community.”

When the festival began as a program of the Goldring/Woldenberg Institute of Southern Jewish Life, she traveled to Jackson each year to view and select films. “Her sense of what people wanted to see was an inspiration,” Silverman said. Though she did not like fundraising, she took the lead each year, later insisting — for several years — that it would be her last year.

Silverman said they hope the Reita Franco Memorial Film would be a big event each year, and “she would be very excited to welcome Nancy Spielberg today.”

Alan said the film festival “was her baby. She truly loved the idea of a Jewish film festival in Mobile.”

Silverman also announced that the Franco sons are setting up the Reita Franco Mobile Jewish Film Festival Endowment. “This is going to enable us to really expand the film festival with exhibits, musical performances and speakers that will honor Reita’s memory.”

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Opening night at the Baton Rouge Jewish Film Festival on Jan. 14 included pickled herring on rye with a chilled vodka shot.

“The Sturgeon Queens” opened the four-day festival, which drew over 700 fans to the Manship Theatre.

SOJOURN launches Birmingham programs with “Straightlaced” SOJOURN, the Southern Jewish Resource Network for Gender and Sexual Diversity, will have its first Birmingham program this month.

The Atlanta-based organization was recently included in the annual Slingshot Guide of “the most innovative and effective Jewish organizations, programs and projects in North America.”

On Feb. 23, SOJOURN and the Levite Jewish Community Center are partnering for a screening of Groundspark’s “Straightlaced: How Gender’s Got Us All Tied Up.” The film’s creators will lead a discussion after the screening.

“Straightlaced” is directed by Academy Award-winning filmmaker Debra Chasnoff, and is part of Groundspark’s acclaimed Respect for All project. It is accompanied by an educational curriculum and professional development series.

The program was made possible by a $20,000 grant from the Mandel Foundation to bring educational programming to the Southeast in partnership with GroundSpark. Other programs will be in Atlanta, Blue Ridge, N.C. and Asheville.

Chasnoff said “There is exciting work happening now in Georgia, North Carolina and Alabama to support all students to be their best, fullest selves. We are honored that our films, curricula and professional development programs will be utilized to expand that work even further.”

The film, which is appropriate for all ages, explores the pressures, stereotypes and “rigid gender policing” American teens face around questions of gender and sexuality, including perspectives from over 50 teens who self-identify as straight, lesbian, gay, bisexual or questioning. The film demonstrates that much of teen life requires thinking about gender and sexuality, from girls who “dumb down” so they do not intimidate boys, to boys who are sexually active to “prove” that they are not gay, to non-conforming teens facing relentless bullying.

SOJOURN collaborates with religious and secular institutions to promote “equality and inclusion for gender- and sexually-diverse people from a Jewish perspective.” In addition to running inclusion training workshops for Jewish organizations throughout the South, SOJOURN has also contracted with the state of Georgia to train clergy of all faiths to address these issues in their communities.

The Feb. 23 program kicks off the Welcoming Communities program in Birmingham. The 7 p.m. screening at the LJCC is open to the community.

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Friendship Circle is off and running Birmingham Circle approaching third year, plans in the works for New Orleans On Feb. 22, thousands of runners will take to the streets of Birmingham for the Mercedes Marathon. Among them will be a few dozen members of Team Friendship, including Rabbi Yossi “The Runnin’ Rabbi” Friedman.

Team Friendship is participating as a way to raise a goal of $60,000 to support the Friendship Circle, which brings together teenage volunteers and children with special needs for fun, friendship and socialization.

Rabbi Levi Weinbaum, who is co-director of Friendship Circle Alabama with wife Mushka, said participation in the race has two goals.

First, the circle is growing but there isn’t much awareness about the circle in the broader community, and “as we were getting bigger we needed to find a way of supporting the Friendship Circle and hopefully this will be an annual fundraiser.”

The Friendship Circle began in Detroit in 1994. The Lubavitch Foundation of Michigan asked Rabbi Levi Shemtov and his wife, Bassie, to start an organization that would bring friendship to those who need friends.

The idea came from a grant from a family where there was a special friendship between a Chabad rabbi and their son, who had passed away.

Weinbaum said the Shemtovs started sending their teenage children to visit special needs children in the community, and found that their teens were getting as much of a benefit, if not more, as the special needs children.

By 2003, the Detroit circle had 350 teen volunteers serving 150 children with special needs. The success there inspired establishment of circles across the country, then around the world. Today there are around 80 locations with 5,000 children and 11,000 volunteers.

In 2004, the Friendship Circle built the Meer Family Friendship Center in the Detroit area, a hands-on area where the children and their friends can practice life skills.

The Birmingham circle started in the summer of 2013 through the Bais Ariel Chabad Center. Before long there were three volunteers visiting two children. At the end of the year there was a dinner honoring the teen volunteers, with 45 in attendance.

Entirely through word-of-mouth, the circle soon grew to seven children and 13 volunteers, and now the program serves 12 children with 23 volunteers. More growth is certainly possible, Weinbaum said, “we have people waiting for visits, we just need more teens.”

Rabbi Mendel Rivkin of Chabad of Louisiana said they are in the planning stages of bringing Friendship Circle to New Orleans. The closest Friendship Circles otherwise are in Atlanta and Houston.

The program’s cornerstone is Friends at Home. Pairs of teen volunteers visit children with special needs in the place where they are most comfortable — their home. The Sunday visits are for them to simply do

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At the first meeting, there are games that are brought along as icebreakers, but they haven’t been needed as the volunteers and the children hit it off immediately.

Weinbaum said they are now planning at least two programs or events per trimester, and special needs teens are also invited to attend Chabad’s teen programs with their Friendship Circle buddies.

One program starting up for older participants is Chef Academy, where those in Friendship Circle can cook meals that they can then bring home.

Another aspect of the program is Mom’s Night Out, where the mothers of special-needs children can have “time to get out, relax and mingle with friends and get support that they are not in it by themselves.”

Each year, Weinbaum explained, “we add to the program. We’re not trying to explode overnight.” Right now almost all of the participants are in the Jewish community and they are looking for more Jewish teens to volunteer. Weinbaum hopes to eventually have a facility like the one near Detroit that would be open to the broader community.

Weinbaum notes that the visits are not therapy sessions, as the volunteers are not trained to be therapists. “They are there to be friends.”

The program’s philosophy comes from the command “v’ahavta l’re-echa kamocha,” to love your neighbor as yourself. “Anyone is eligible for a friend,” Weinbaum said. “Anyone who is not making that connection, we try to make that connection.”

The circle works with “every single type of kid, whatever the reason may be… and make sure they have friends coming over.”

The program cites Rabbi Menachem Mendel Schneerson’s unconditional love for everyone and desire that every person should feel that they belong.

Among those participating are children with autism, cerebral palsy, ADD/ADHD, aspergers and other conditions that make it difficult to form friendships or socialize.

Some of the kids in the program are popular in school but “nobody hangs out with them” otherwise and they never go out with peers. For some of the participants, being in Friendship Circle has been the first time they have been “a normal teen.”

The framework is that Sunday visits are to be at least 45 minutes twice a month, but Weinbaum said he doesn’t know of any that have been for less than an hour. As a friendship grows and the families get more comfortable, the visits can expand.

Weinbaum noted that some teens have reported that their friends rely on the visits and

community “how can we do it just twice a month?”

The volunteers say that working in the Circle has affected their outlook toward others and sensitized them toward those who are alone.

Jennifer Laszlo Mizrahi said simply, “I love the program.” Mizrahi was the founder and director of The Israel Project before becoming president of RespectAbilityUSA, a non-profit group in Washington advocating for greater inclusion for people with disabilities.

Friendship Circle “is really well-respected nationally because they fill a lot of gaps that exist in the system.”

Mizrahi noted that “this is a real issue “ in the Jewish community, because Jews are more likely to have children with disabilities. There is a greater chance because of generations of in-marriage and the tendency among Jewish families to start having children at a later age. “There is a correlation between the age of the parents” and many disorders.

“We have to understand this is part of our population,” she said. And “for every child with a disability there are two parents and siblings.” If the special-needs child can be fully welcomed by the Jewish community, “then you can increase engagement of the whole family.”

And generally, “it is pretty easy to accommodate kids with disabilities.

You just have to ask parents what they need.”

For some parents, that need is anonymity. For many there is a fear of having a child labeled as special-need or having a child with a mild disability compared to those with more serious cases, and in school there may not be any outward sign of the special need. Weinbaum said the program is designed to help keep participants as mainstream as possible and they do not label. Privacy requests are respected.

Even the display of Friendship Circle magnets, which have proliferated on local cars, “doesn’t mean anything” specific as it could denote a participant, a volunteer, a supporter or a donor.

As a way of thanking the volunteers there is a special dinner each year, and in March Weinbaum plans to take some of the older volunteers to a Chabad Teen Shabbaton in New York, where one of the highlights will be Havdalah in Times Square, with the group taking over most of the large screens in the square.

The circle’s programs run entirely on donations, and there is no cost to the families. Weinbaum explained, “You are taking a child to therapy, to a specialist. You are paying a lot of money. Every single one of our programs is 100 percent free for the families.”

About 45 runners have signed up on Team Friendship in the Mercedes Marathon. While some may run the entire marathon, there are slots set up for non-profits where relay teams can be formed and the runners seek sponsors.

Weinbaum, who moved to Birmingham in early 2013, grew up in a community where there were two children with special needs who were “always part of our lives. We went to their houses, they came to our home.”

While studying, he volunteered with Friendship Circle in New York and knew that wherever he ultimately was sent as a Chabad emissary, he wanted there to be a Friendship Circle. “It’s needed in every community, it’s just a question of someone working to find the people and getting all the teens,” he said.

When he brought up the idea after arriving in Birmingham, there was some skepticism as to whether the community really needed a program like that, but the numbers have demonstrated the need. Weinbaum noted that a couple of the participating families had been going to churches because there was nothing available in the Jewish community.

Several of the special-needs children “would never have been involved with the Jewish community if not for Friendship Circle,” Weinbaum noted, and one who did not have a Bar Mitzvah was thinking of having one.

“It does not matter where you are on the circle,” Weinbaum said. “You feel incredible.”

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After exercising his passion for Italian food all this amazing food, walked through the marfor several years, Alon Shaya is looking to his kets and saw all this really great stuff, and when I roots in his new venture, Shaya, which will open came back it influenced my cooking right away.” in New Orleans in the next month or so. An He started adding Israeli influences to his opening date was not certain at press time. menus, but the dream grew stronger.

The restaurant will have traditional and mod“We have such a strong team of people who ern Israeli cuisine, influenced by his past and his were ready for a bigger opportunity” at his recent visits to Israel. restaurants, and in opening Shaya nine of them He and his family moved are being promoted. Also, to Philadelphia from Isra“this space came up that we el when he was four, and are excited about,” so “all he spent a lot of time in the those stars aligned.” kitchen with his mother and That space, at 4213 Maggrandmother. azine Street, is the former The restaurant’s name and Dominique’s on Magazine. cuisine are a nod to his herShaya said the art deco vibe itage. “I wanted to celebrate already was reminiscent of my family’s lineage through Tel Aviv. not only Israel, where I was “We thought it was the born, but my father is Hunright time for New Orleans, garian, my grandparents are the right space… and this Bulgarian, their grandparteam is unstoppable,” he said. ents came up through Spain, The new restaurant is almy father’s family came up ready creating a lot of buzz. through Persia.” He wanted Southern Living named the menu to “reflect that stoShaya one of the 50 people ry and pull some influences Photo by Graham Blackall changing the South in 2015, from Israel but also places saying that he “shows off the like Eastern Europe, Spain, Morocco, Greece.” foods of his native country and fills underrepIt will show that influence through a “beau- resented space in the South’s rich dining scene” tiful combination of flavors, ingredients and with the new place. techniques.”

Eater National featured the restaurant in its Shaya started his culinary career at a Las Ve- 33 most anticipated restaurant openings of early gas casino but was “lured” to New Orleans in 2015.

2001 and became Chef de Cuisine at Besh Steak.

He has been assembling a team of chefs and In 2009, Shay and John Besh partnered to managers running the day-to-day operations open Domenica in the Roosevelt Hotel. “I’ve “and I will be overseeing all three operations.” had a chance to cook Italian for people for most Shaya will have a wood-burning oven in the of my career and that has always been one of dining room to make pita bread, “so we will be my huge passions,” Shaya said. “I even moved to constantly making fresh pita bread to order” Italy and lived there for a while.” throughout service.

In 2012 Shaya was New Orleans Magazine For those who have had home hospitality in Chef of the Year, and he has been a finalist Rosh Ha’Ayin, he has been working on Yemenite for Best Chef in the South at the James Beard kubana bread. “I’m not sure if it will be on the Awards for the last three years. opening menu, but it will make an appearance,” Last Spring, he and Besh opened Pizza Do- Shaya said. menica, a casual offshoot.

A section of the menu will elevate regular Still, “people are always saying, when are you hummus with seasonal toppings. Among the going to cook some Middle Eastern?” he said. ones he has been working on are curried cauliHe would answer “eventually, I really want to.” flower and onion, roasted tomato and fried eggTrips to Israel furthered that dream. In 2011, plant, seared duck breast with buttered leeks. he and Besh were part of a delegation of chefs The restaurant will also feature “all the beautisent by the Jewish Federation of Greater New ful salads and spreads that come out to the table Orleans to the community’s Partnership2Geth- when you sit down to eat in Israel.” er community in Israel, Rosh Ha’Ayin. “Going Small plates will include items like stuffed on trips to Israel over the last few years has in- grape leaves stuffed with slow-roasted brisspired me to want to start cooking this food for ket and shiitake mushrooms, a saffron roastour customers,” he said. ed chicken salad, French avocado toast with The visit to Rosh Ha’Ayin “really kicked off continued on page 21 what was inside,” he said. “I went there and ate

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“Enchantress” a trip through the world of Jewish magic Anton concluding book tour in New Orleans For Maggie Anton, writing “Rav Hisda’s Daughter” and “Enchantress” was an unexpected magical experience, and she will finish her current book tour in a city known for magic, New Orleans.

The author of the successful Rashi’s Daughters trilogy, Anton set out to explore Talmudic times as the background for her next two books. She was surprised to find that it launched her into the little-known world of Jewish magic — a world that many find difficult to believe existed, though much of current Jewish practice has echoes of it.

Anton spoke about “Rav Hisda’s Daughter” in Birmingham and Montgomery in May 2013. “Enchantress” was published in September 2014, and she will speak at Shir Chadash in Metairie on Feb. 5 at 7 p.m., and at a New Orleans Hadassah Keepers of the Gate luncheon on Feb. 6 at the home of Stan and Ellen Kessler.

Anton said she has never been to New Orleans, and “To wind up there on a speaking gig just before Mardi Gras is so beshert.” She admitted she knows little about Mardi Gras “other than figuring that it clearly has something to do with Purim.”

When she found out about the timing, her husband “who never goes on book tours with me… has agreed that he will fly out and we will spend six days in New Orleans.”

After doing the Rashi’s Daughters books set in 11th-century France, Anton looked for a different era to explore.

She discovered Rav Hisda’s daughter after seeing a story about her in the Talmud. While she was still very young, her father brought his two best students to her and asked her which one she wanted to marry. She answered, “both of them” — and that is what happened, though in succession after the first one died.

That piqued Anton’s interest, but there was one issue that was a major problem for a writer — the daughter’s name is never given. Looking for authentic women’s names from the period, she found out about recently-discovered Babylonian incantation bowls Until recently, scholars have been reluctant to look into the parts of Talmud that have to do with magic. Archaeologists unearthing incantation bowls “didn’t want to admit how many people were doing it, that it was some weird sect.”

After 1990 Iraq War “with no government control, the archaeologists and looters started digging up like crazy” and that is when a lot of material has been found. Thousands of these bowls have been unearthed in ancient Jewish villages in Iraq, and the archaeologists were finding them under just about every house.

“Each bowl is unique to the client,” Anton said, mostly for benign purposes, such as healing, protecting children and pregnant women, avert-

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community ing the Evil Eye. In the first book, she had bowls, amulets and incantations, all of which can be explained away. “I didn’t cross over into full-out fantasy where there was magic and it worked, but in ‘Enchantress’ I crossed that line.”

The summoning of demons and rabbis talking to birds “crosses into the fantasy world,” as does Rava creating a man out of nothing. “It is in the Talmud, how could I write a book and not put it in there?” she asked.

For some that was controversial, ascribing such things to revered historical Maggie Anton figures, “even if they did, in the Talmud, what I write about.”

Anton did not invent any of the magic in the book. “The spells I used in the book are all authentic, they are either from the Talmud itself ” or magic manuals that come from that period. And the characters who cast the spells (in the book) are the ones who cast them in the Talmud.”

There was a wealth of material, and she figured, “Why should I make up stuff when I have the real thing?”

That did not go over well in certain parts of the Orthodox community. One Long Island newspaper that had done reviews on her previous books refused to run one on “Enchantress.” The paper “refused to take my ad because I showed these historic great Talmudic sages doing magic, and magic is against Jewish law.”

Though the subject makes many uncomfortable based on the notion that Jews don’t “do” magic, she said that magic and sorcery were common and taken for granted in Talmudic times.

11:22:58 AM First of all, the Biblical prohibition against sorceresses was interpreted to refer to non-Jewish ones, unlike Jewish ones whose magic calls upon God. Another rationale was pikuach nefesh, which states that one may violate almost any law to save a life. “They absolutely believed magic worked and that these incantations and spells were protective.”

Throughout the Talmud, sorceresses “are never condemned” by the rabbis and it is regarded as the sole province of women.

Still, it was regarded as necessary for the rabbis to know sorcery, especially in the Sanhedrin. “What if there is a sorceress in court?” Anton asked. The rabbis have to be able to detect one and be knowledgeable enough to counteract her. Especially, she noted, because in most magic books from that time “one of the first spells… was to influence an important person in your direction,” advantageous in a legal proceeding.

Several pages in the Talmud detail how to be sure that a healer is authentic and provides proven amulets and spells.

There is also a reference to a rabbi consulting the Head Sorceress.

“How do you get to be the Head Sorceress? Is there Hogwarts in Babylonia?” she asked. And she added that implies an organization of sorceresses existed. “I was so flabbergasted at seeing that.”

She did limit her use of the magic in the book. When writing about curse spells or conjuring demons, “I didn’t give the whole incantation…

I didn’t want to give anybody ideas.”

About 90 percent of Jewish magic has to do with healing anyway, she noted. “Everybody wore amulets because either you were sick or you were going to get sick or you were worried about getting sick.”

She noted that some prayers and practices today are based on ancient Jewish incantations. The mishebeirach, said for those who are ill, is traditionally said using the person’s mother’s name. That goes back to the incantation bowls, which had the mother’s name — which is how Anton came up with the authentic female names for her books.

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community There is also a prayer said after going to the bathroom, giving thanks for the body functioning properly. Anton said the prayer still said today is “part of an incantation that a person said as they washed hands three times for protection against the demons that live in the privy.”

She added that the Talmud says if you don’t do it and then touch your nose, then the demons will get in there and respiratory problems will follow, if you touch your eyes you will go blind.

“They were absolutely correct. I worked in a hospital for 35 years. If you had to name the best prophylactic practice to avoid getting sick, wash your hands!” she said. “They considered it a magical procedure, and it did work.”

Amulets and incantations “can work, the same way any placebo can work,” she said. “We know now the placebo effect is real” even when the person knows it is a placebo.

The Traveler’s Prayer is also an ancient incantation, and “of course these are amulets. These keychains with hamsa and the traveler’s blessing? I have one in my purse,” she said.

The six-pointed star with a circle around it is also an amulet. “According to some, that design is the seal of Solomon, and when Solomon wanted to summon the demons to make them work for him, he would draw this on the ground” much like witches would draw a pentagram.

Anton said this is the final book with Rav Hisda’s daughter. Unlike the Rashi’s Daughters trilogy, which should be read in order, the two Rav Hisda books were written to be stand-alone, “like two books in a detective series.”

As for which time period is next on her literary itinerary, she plans to take some time off after two hectic years of deadlines and touring.

While she has nothing specific planned, “there is something rattling around in my head,” but “I’m not going to tempt the evil eye and say more.”

>> Shaya smoked whitefish, and tagines with braised short rib with coucous, citrus and fennel.

“There will be plenty to choose from,” he said, adding that it will range from simple meals for $10 to $15 per person, “or you can come in and make an anniversary dinner out of it and be there for hours, get some really great wine and order four courses.”

Opening Domenica “was an opportunity for me to grow and learn and do something I was passionate about,” he said, and his business partners “have made all of these dreams come true and allowed me the opportunity to truly do what I love.”

Shaya added, “we’re ready to go, we’re super-excited to be cooking Israeli cuisine.”

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The Klein family of Louisville, Ky., is among the five honorees at the March 7 Jewish Roots of Music gala benefiting the Jewish Children’s Regional Service.

The gala, which will celebrate the agency’s 160th anniversary, will be at the New Orleans Hyatt Regency, and will coincide with the agency’s annual meeting weekend.

In 1934, brothers Elias and Ike Broniatowski, ages 10 and 11, members of a Polish-Jewish family residing in Plauen, Germany, said goodbye to their parents and seven year-old brother Sasha as they were sent for a new life in the United States. They were two of only 1,000 Jewish children permitted to enter the United States from Nazi-occupied territory in Europe between 1934 and 1939. For virtually all these children, including Elias and Ike, their departure marked the last time they would see their parents and siblings.

For the first two years, the brothers lived with two different sets of foster parents in Atlanta. Before the brothers went to a younger foster family, their first foster mother felt that the boys needed a “simpler” last name, so the Broniatowski boys became the Kleins.

In 1936, the second foster family relocated to New Orleans where the father was transferred by the company that employed him. It was soon evident that the brothers needed more nurturing care than what their current foster couple was providing. The couple that would provide a home for them over the next six years were Leslie and Lillian Greenwald, a couple who had each been widowed previously, and were together raising children from their respective first marriages.

Both of the Greenwalds understood children who were separated from their parents. They had grown up in the former Jewish Children’s Home of New Orleans, along with eight of their own siblings, and when Lillian’s first husband had died, she had to place her three children in the home for several years, until she married Leslie.

The brothers graduated Fortier High School in the early 1940s. Elias was able to attend LSU for three semesters with scholarship funds from the New Orleans Jewish Federation, but like virtually all of their peers, he and Ike soon enlisted in the U.S. Armed Forces. Elias’s First Army Division landed in Normandy on D-Day and fought in the Battle of the Bulge.

While in active service, or upon discharge, each brother returned to New Orleans and married his high school sweetheart. Ike married Vera Barton in 1943 and Elias married Beverly Aronowitz in 1948.

In 1950, Elias left his job as a traveling salesman and enrolled as a chemistry major at Tulane. In four years he earned his Ph.D., and then embarked on his career as an industrial and research chemist. For the next 27 years, he held executive positions in laboratory science in New Orleans and Mobile, culminating in 1981 with his appointment as a Professor of Medicine at the University of Louisville Medical School.

Beverly and Elias raised three children in New Orleans: Jon (Laura), a Louisville nephrologist, Jerrold, a New York-based financial advisor, and Meryl (Barbara) a gerontology consultant living in Memphis. They are also the grandparents of Rachel and Sarah Klein.

In 1994, in recognition of the care and love that the Klein brothers received from the New Orleans Jewish community, Beverly and Elias created the Klein/Broniatowski College Assistance Fund for Refugee Children at JCRS. The inspiration to create a fund that would assist in higher education came from Elias’s childhood social worker, Ruth Levy, who secured his LSU scholarship. In the past 20 years, dozens of Jewish college students from Eastern European and Central and South American families have received financial aid through the fund created by the Kleins.

business After successful mission, Mississippi to host Israel business summit in April rael Homeland Security Conference. It was his first visit to Israel.

At the conference, he took part in a panel discussion regarding information management and limiting privacy breaches during emergency situations.

Ten companies took part in the November mission, along with representatives from Mississippi State University and the University of Southern Mississippi.

Among those represented on the mission were the Mississippi Development Authority, Raytheon, General Atomics, and Huntington Ingalls. Delegation members met with 40 companies in Israel, with two Mississippi companies receiving large orders while on the trip.

He noted that this was the largest delegation he has taken on a trade mission overseas.

MDA Trade Bureau Director Rose Boxx said the April summit will be “a way to follow up and make the Mississippi Governor Phil Bryant at a Chamber of trip more productive and effective.”

Commerce meeting in Tel Aviv last November Bryant called the Israel trip a great

Following up on a “successful” trade mission to Israel in November, there will be a Governor’s Mississippi-Israel Business Summit in Jackson on April 28.

Mississippi Governor Phil Bryant led the Israel Multi-Sector Business Development Mission from Nov. 9 to 12 and was also the only U.S. governor to speak at the Third International Is-

success and “the best opportunity for Mississippi since we began our relationship with Japan.”

During the trip, Bryant met with Consul General Opher Aviran from Israel’s Atlanta Consulate and U.S. Ambassador to Israel Dan Shapiro.

Aviran said Bryant “is a close friend of Israel (who) took this visit very seriously.”

An expected handshake opportunity with Prime Minister Benjamin Netanyahu turned into a 45-minute conversation that included discussions on an electromagnetic railgun missile defense system built by General Atomics in Mississippi and on the Ingalls shipyard that built three ships for the Israeli Navy in the 1990s.

Bryant spoke at an event of the U.S. Chamber of Commerce’s U.S.-Israel Business Initiative in Tel Aviv, where he said “Mississippi has a lot in common with Israel,” such as world-class research institutions, innovation hubs and the defense industry. “Yet we both have challenges.

People have preconditioned ideas of who we are and what we can achieve, just like Israel.”

This was the first in a series of visits and trade missions that the U.S. Chamber will host in Israel.

Bryant told the Jackson Clarion-Ledger that

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Israeli business folk remind him a lot of Mississippians and Southerners.

“A lot like Southerners, they won’t do business with someone they don’t know,” Bryant said. “The first 10 minutes of meetings are, ‘How are you? How’s your family? How was your flight?’ – almost like, how’s your mamma ‘n’ ‘em? It’s not like going to New York.”

Boxx said the April summit will be business-to-business, bringing Israeli companies in certain sectors to meet with Mississippi companies to discuss joint ventures, exports and research. The main target industries are aerospace, defense, security and agriculture.

The development office is in the process of identifying companies for the summit. “We have found it is a good match, and that is why we continue to promote trade with Israel,” she said.

Succeeding in business, career involves good coaching

by Lee J. Green The best football coaches motivate and mold leaders, getting the most out of their players by creating an environment in which they can be encouraged to succeed through hard work and positive focus.

The same can be said of a successful business coach and how that individual can empower company leaders as well as employees to win as a team.

“It’s a leader’s job not to be the best at what they do but to get the best out of the team,” said George Brockman, a Birmingham-based business coach and owner of Radiant Professional Services. “Leaders who find ways to excite and engage their employees have happier, more productive employees. It’s about creating that culture and enhancing the communication.”

Brockman, who attended UAB and graduated from Herzing College with a degree in Technology Management, spent 20 years in project management as well as process improvement in the IT industry. He said he himself benefitted from a business coach.

“He helped me to understand that yes, it’s all about the bottom line, but there are many inter-personal things that can be done that help lead to increased revenues and that don’t cost a cent to do,” said Brockman. “That really opened my eyes.”

When he was a victim of layoffs a couple years ago after serving as a vice president of IT for a company, he saw it as an opportunity to “have a career helping other peoples’ careers.” He launched Radiant Professional Services and works with businesses large and small.

“We customize a plan based on each individual business’s needs and dynamics, but there are some things that seem to work across the board,” he said.

Brockman said he works with some HR/hiring departments to help them select the best candidates. The three criteria should always be fit, attitude and aptitude, he said.

When companies call him in (he offers free consultations), he meets with company leaders, managers and employees to recommend some procedures, best practices and incentives.

“We’ve found that people are more motivated to do well for a boss they trust and believe in. That is more of a motivating factor than being offered more money but in a bad working environment,” he said. “It’s about the people, not the money.”

Brockman said his “goal is to come in to a business and help them enough so they can be self-sufficient and don’t need me anymore. It’s about creating procedures, processes and a positive work environment that is sustainable.”

He said he also leads some business success seminars on leadership and recently started a video web series along with a newsletter. For more information go to www.radproserv.com.

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CJFS Cares offers caregiver respite, engages those with memory disorders The launch of CJFS Cares on Jan. 27 isn’t just the launch of a major new program for the Birmingham social service agency, it’s a new direction for the Friedman Center for Jewish Life.

CJFS Cares is a program of Collat Jewish Family Services that provides cognitive, social and physical stimulation to people with memory disorders such as Alzheimer’s, dementia, Parkinson’s, or stroke.

It is housed at the Friedman Center, where it becomes the first resident program. Brenda and Fred Friedman purchased the Knesseth Israel building when the congregation was unable to financially sustain the new facility. While the congregation remains in the building, the Friedman Center will be used as a community asset, housing numerous programs.

Lauren Perlman, CJFS executive director, said this is the “first venture into making that a reality, and CJFS is thrilled to be a part of that,” and the agency has been working with the Friedmans for several months to coordinate. The Birmingham Holocaust Education Center also has a set of its Darkness Into Life exhibit on permanent display there.

Perlman noted that this is the first major program launch for CJFS since 2003.

CJFS Cares was modeled after the Adult Respite Ministry at First United Methodist Church in Montgomery. Perlman said they began the program three years ago “and were overwhelmed by the amount of need out there, and the lack of resources for families with Alzheimer’s.”

Staffed by trained professionals and volunteers, CJFS Cares will offer life-enriching activities to the program participants. It will also give family caregivers a break to focus on their own needs, with the knowledge that their loved ones are being looked after.

The program is designed to not be “just sitters” for the participants, but

to engage them in cognitive, physical and social ways.

That is important for patients, because even if one has the best caregivers, there can be a tendency to “slip into isolation,” staying at home and watching television, interacting with just one or two people on a given day. Studies have shown that “the more patients are engaged, the slower their decline,” Perlman said. ”This program is designed to engage people.”

While these conditions can’t be reversed or prevented, CJFS Cares “ will at a minimum enhance the quality of life for both the participant and the family caregiver who often just needs a break.”

For several years, the agency has run a caregivers support group, acknowledging the challenges faced by those who are called into service to take care of a loved one.

The program is being offered on Tuesdays and Thursdays from 10 a.m. to 2 p.m. The agency hopes to eventually expand it to additional days.

The program is “heavily dependent” on volunteers. With CJFS staffers Pam Leonard and Amy Peetluk also on hand, they want to keep a clientstaff ratio of 2:1. They will launch with eight participants.

There have been two four-hour training sessions for volunteers, and 23 have completed the training. The volunteers commit to at least one session per month “but they are welcome to come every day.”

They have partnered with the Levite Jewish Community Center for exercise instruction and the lunch program. There are volunteers who will do pet therapy, music therapy, and arts and crafts. “Anyone who is interested in sharing their skills with our group, we’d love to have them,” Perlman said.

The fee for CJFS Cares is $40 per session, including lunch. A screening of participants is required.

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VITAS now the only certified Jewish hospice in Alabama

by Lee J. Green Recognizing that Jews have unique needs at the end of life, VITAS Healthcare in Alabama and VITAS nurse Susan Green took the initiative to obtain accreditation from the National Institute of Jewish Hospice.

As the only caregivers in the state to possess this prestigious accreditation, they are noted for their ability to provide a higher quality of customized care to terminally ill Jews and their loved ones. There currently are no accredited groups in Mississippi, Louisiana or northwest Florida.

The NIJH was established in 1985 to help alleviate suffering in serious and terminal illnesses. Established in 1978, VITAS is the nation’s largest provider of end-of-life care.

“Providing quality care to Jews at the end of life requires learning how to best understand different religious traditions, practices and cultures — it’s all about customization at a very deep level, and there are no cookie-cutter approaches,” said Green, who joined VITAS in 2014 and has 37 years of experience in nursing and home health care.

Specifically, the NIJH certification addresses the concerns, expectations and fears that Jews encounter at the end of life. It also addresses Jewish religious rituals at death and during the mourning period as well as strategies to ease the suffering and provide comfort to patients along with their loved ones. Discussion topics include the specific belief systems, customs, traditions and needs of Orthodox, Conservative, Reform, and secular or non-practicing Jews.

To be accredited by the NIJH, a hospice must undergo in-depth, on-site training of all employees and volunteers, both Jewish as well as non-Jewish.

During her certification, Green received several days of training with NIJH. One of the speakers at the conference she attended was Dr. Barry Kinzbrunner, executive vice president and chief medical offer for VITAS and an ordained rabbi. He has been with VITAS in Florida since 1984.

“The certification enhances our knowledge of the unique requirements and needs of each person according to his or her particular sect of Judaism,” said Green. The NIJH accreditation reflects VITAS’ commitment to excellence and is an extremely important part of ensuring that the highest quality of personalized care to Jews is provided and meets their unique needs at the end of life.

For more information about VITAS, visit www.vitas.com

ComForcare helps New Orleans area seniors feel right at home

by Lee J. Green ComForcare in the New Orleans area wants to make seniors feel right at home and advises those seeking non-medical home care to make sure the provider is licensed, bonded and insured, along with its caregivers being well-trained, certified and screened.

“We’re there for whatever they need. It could be a few hours a week for errands and in-home assistance or many hours a day every day for more advanced care such as for Alzheimer’s and dementia patients,” said ComForcare Owner Lori Franzo. The company can provide care all across the New Orleans metro area as far as Picayune, Miss., and Hammond, La. Franzo said ComForcare has been providing care for those in need for more than 13 years. The company is licensed, bonded and carries all insurances, including workman’s comp. ComForcare carefully screens its employees and makes sure all are trained to meet the needs of the patients they are matched up with.

“We offer a free assessment and know all we can about someone we will be providing care to. We have the resources to not just match someone with a caregiver that is trained to do everything they need of them but also someone who provides a good personality match,” said Franzo. “That is so important to have someone that seniors not just know they can count on, but also enjoy their caregiver’s company and friendship.”

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W ComForcare’s services range from bathing, dressing, hygiene, medication management, meal preparation, transportation, housekeeping and running errands. The company also has caregivers who are training in nursing assistance for those who need more advanced memory care help.

They also provide care for anyone 18 years old and up who might be disabled or needs regular ongoing care in their home.

Franzo also advises to not “wait until the need is so great” if possible. “It’s best to get someone matched with a caregiver even if they might only need help with a few things a few hours a week. Then if the need increases, they know they have someone coming to their home they trust and like,” she said.

NOLA Jewish Family Service offers array of senior programs Jewish Family Service of Greater New Orleans offers a number of programs and services for older adults, with an emphasis on services that can prolong the time individuals can continue to live safely and confidently at home. These include counseling for individuals, couples and families; a homemaker program that offers light housekeeping and transportation assistance; the Lifeline personal emergency response system; Bikur Chaverim (Visiting Friends) and Catch-A-Cab. As people live longer and choose to age at home, the preference for independent living is challenged by risks associated with inevitable compromises in physical abilities, mental wellness and general mobility. As individuals consider their own needs as they get older or if they are caring for an aging parent, it is important to explore the various resources available through organizations and agencies in their communities.

Homemaker has been a JFS program since 1975 and provides clients with light housekeeping and transportation. It is especially useful for clients who are capable of living alone but who require extra help with household tasks or running errands. Clients can receive services weekly or twice a month for 2-1/4 hours per visit. This is especially helpful to busy family caregivers whose loved ones may be going home after hospitalization, are struggling with routine housekeeping, are adjusting to a disability or have recently stopped driving.

Lifeline is a personal emergency response system that provides a connection to immediate assistance 24 hours a day, 7 days a week, in the event of an accident or fall. Subscribers wear a button and are able to summon help in case of an emergency. This service allows clients to live independently for as long as possible and provides the confidence to go about daily activities with the comfort of knowing help is always available if needed.

The majority of JFS services are available to anyone in the community and are provided on a sliding fee scale. Lifeline has a one-time installation fee, but both Homemaker and Lifeline are available on a month-to-month basis with no long-term commitment.

Bikur Chaverim or “Visiting Friends” is a volunteer-based program that provides visits to homebound or partially-homebound individuals. It is based on the mitzvah of Bikur Cholim, visiting the sick, and pairs Visitor-Volunteers with Friends with whom they have shared interests to facilitate conversation in order to share ideas and life experiences.

Catch-A-Cab is one of a select few of JFS’s extensive programs that are available only to members of the Jewish community. It provides transportation assistance through taxi coupons and gives individuals who are no longer able to drive the ability to attend social engagements, meetings, or other obligations at a discounted rate.

There are advantages for the entire family through participation in these various programs. Seniors especially appreciate the ability to retain a good degree of personal autonomy in the comfort of familiar surroundings. They are able to maintain connections with friends as well as community organizations and hobbies that keep them engaged and active. Meanwhile, their children feel more at ease knowing their loved one is receiving periodic attention and assistance from trained professionals. The services can also provide a break from caregiving to attend to other family or work responsibilities.

More information on all of the programs at JFS is available by calling (504) 831-8475 or visiting the agency website, www.jfsneworleans.org.

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Senior Health: By the Numbers courtesy Touro Infirmary Living a healthy lifestyle, visiting the doctor regularly and properly managing chronic and acute health problems are all keys to living healthy and independent well into the older years.

Know Your Numbers: Regular wellness exams with a primary care physician helps one stay on top of important health readings such as blood pressure, cholesterol, glucose, weight and body mass index. When these numbers are elevated and not properly controlled, a person is at greater risk for many serious health conditions including heart disease, stroke and diabetes.

According to the Centers for Disease Control and Prevention, nearly 68 million people in the U.S. have high blood pressure, but only 1 in 2 has it under control. About 71 million U.S. adults have high cholesterol, but only 1 in 3 has it under control.

Staying informed of vital signs lets individuals and their doctors be in control and take steps to address any concerns. If one readings is elevated, the physician will suggest ways to improve the numbers including medications if needed and healthy lifestyle choices like eating well, getting regular exercise, minimizing stress and quitting smoking.

Weight Loss and Healthy Food Choices: Making healthy food choices and controlling portion sizes are important factors in weight management. If trying to lose weight, it is important to burn more calories than one takes in.

Try: Choosing more vegetables, whole grains and tree nuts

Using olive or canola oil in cooking instead of butter High-fiber foods such as fruits, vegetables, whole grains, and legumes Skim milk and other low-fat dairy products Eating more unsaturated fats (mono/poly unsaturated) Limit: Saturated fats (and avoid trans fats); stay away from hydrogenated oils Red meat, dairy, eggs; drink alcohol in moderation Get moving! Exercise: 120 minutes of aerobic exercise per week is one of the few things proven to raise HDL (good cholesterol).

Exercise can improve your health and help you live a longer life.

It can also help prevent heart disease and other health problems.

Exercise improves energy, builds strength, and reduces stress.

If beginning a fitness routine, discuss any concerns with a physician. It may be helpful to start off with 20 minutes three or more times per week and work up to 30 to 60 minutes six times per week.

Choose an activity that is enjoyable, such as walking, swimming, biking, jogging, dancing.

For more information and health resources visit Touro Infirmary’s online health library at www.touro.com. For a referral to a Touro primary care doctor or specialist, call (504) 897-7777 or visit www.touro.com/findadoc.

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Greenbriar at the Altamont, which offers Independent Living, Assisted Living and Skilled Nursing/Short Term Rehab and Long Term Care in Birmingham, is growing with the addition of Greenbriar at Hanover, previously known as Hanover.

Greenbriar’s parent company, Noland Health Services, recently purchased the facility and it is currently undergoing enhancements. This campus is located on Hanover Circle which is near Greenbriar at the Altamont and will offer Assisted Living services as well as Specialty Care Assisted Living. It is also close to St. Vincent’s on Southside.

“This is a great asset to Greenbriar and what we can offer in continuing care,” said Greenbriar Executive Director Jennifer Shunnarah.

activities. Director of Marketing and Admissions Kelley Scott said 2014 was a great year for active seniors at the community.

Activities included a riverboat cruise in Alabama; visiting musicians ranging from jazz to mariachi; fun exercise classes; artists who came in and taught classes as well as inter-generational Skype-ing with elementary school students.

More field trips have been added to the activity calendar at Greenbriar with the addition of a handicap-accessible bus. To celebrate the Jewish holidays, Scott said, Jewish and non-Jewish residents joined together for a celebration around the menorah for Chanukah, including Jewish resident family photos in a special display, and they plan a Passover Seder this April.

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Interim HealthCare suggests what to look for in choosing a caregiver

by Lee J. Green

Trusting the caregiver and home health care-providing company is of greatest importance to seniors in need, as well as their families.

For those in the Birmingham area, Interim HealthCare provides skilled nursing and non-skilled home care. Owners Melissa and Lloyd Ford said they can provide caregiver support whether it is for a few hours a week or many hours a day.

“When choosing a home health care provider, it is important to choose one (such as Interim) that is licensed, bonded and carries all insurances including workman’s comp,” said Melissa Ford. “When caring for loved ones, nothing should be left to chance.”

Interim was started in 1966 and the Fords have owned and run the Birmingham area location for several years. Lloyd Ford, who spent many years in hospital administration, said changes in health care and rising costs for hospitals have created a void that home health care companies can fill.

“These days you can have open-heart surgery and be home from the hospital in three days,” he said. “The goal of anyone recovering is to get well at home as soon as possible. We have caregivers who can be there for those in need or can even come to assist family members who are primary caregivers and just need some time to tend to other things.”

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senior life have some of these (fattier, higher cholesterol) foods in moderation,” he said. “What it is really about is eating as many whole, natural, organic foods as you can. The processed, synthesized foods are what get you. Nothing is more important than what you put in your mouth.”

Michell recommends getting enough calcium and being active for seniors to improve bone health so to hopefully prevent the onset of osteoporosis.

“The risk is higher with women than men, but the risk for men is higher than most might think,” he said. “There is a 20 percent mortality rate for those 65 and older who fracture their hip. It’s some serious stuff.”

Vitality also offers some effective hormone replacement therapies for older adults. “We recommend that for some and for others we don’t,” he said.

“But across the board, everyone can benefit from living and eating healthy.”

Michell said the clinic offers a free consultation on the first visit. For more information, go to www.vitalityneworleans.com.

Tulane makes great strides in stroke treatment, prevention and education Eliminating the changeable risk factors and getting treatment as soon as possible help increase the recovery rates and lower mortality rates from strokes.

That, in addition to new research and improved procedures and medication, provides positive news for seniors at risk for a stroke, according to Tulane Stroke Program Director Sheryl Martin-Schild. Martin-Schild is a vascular neurologist and an assistant professor of neurology at the Tulane University Health Science Center.

“The biggest risk factor is age,” she said. “There is nothing we can do about that. But the number one risk factor for a stroke after that is hypertension, or high blood pressure. If blood pressure issues are effectively addressed it could reduce the number of strokes by 50 percent.” Other risk factors that can be addressed include high cholesterol, smoking and inactivity.

She said only about 15 percent of those who have suffered a stroke had Transient Ischemic Attack, a milder stroke from which people usually completely recover quickly. Warning signs for a stroke include sudden loss of vision; difficulty communicating or understanding speech; sudden weakness on one half or part of the body; loss of balance; loss of sensation, and very strong headaches.

“A stroke can strike suddenly like a bolt of lightning,” said Martin-Schild.

“It is so very important to call 9-1-1 and have them send an EMT as soon as a stroke happens. That time in the field is so very vital. Do not ever drive a patient to the hospital. The emergency response team can administer the clot-busting medication on the way to the hospital. Every minute during a stroke, two million brain cells are lost. There isn’t time to wait. Treatment should be as immediate and aggressive as possible.”

Martin-Schild is from New Orleans and specialized in stroke treatment, education and research while at medical school in Houston. She came to Tulane more than seven years ago to launch its Stroke Program. “It consists of four areas — inpatient, outpatient, research and education,” said Martin-Schild, who is also the medical director for the State of Louisiana with the Louisiana Emergency Response Network.

“We want to work with the emergency responders to help equip them with all of the skill, equipment and knowledge they need to work with stroke victims before they get to the hospital,” she said. “Before I came here, only 10 patients a year had been treated with the clot-busting medication before arriving at the hospital. Today that number is more than 100.”

She said Tulane is encouraged by a study released just last month looking at the effectiveness of inter-arteric therapy, angiogram in the brain. The study concluded that if the clot is removed from the blood vessel in the brain with this procedure during the first six hours after the stroke, the rates of survival and full recovery go up significantly.

Martin-Schild said current research is looking into how ultrasound can aid in diagnosing risk factors for stroke, as well as trials of treating stroke victims with hypothermia — lowering the body and brain temperature so the clot-busting medication can work more quickly and effectively.

Tulane has set up a website that Martin-Schild administers — www. tulanestrokesurvivors.com — that provides support and education to those who have had a stroke. They also coordinate support group meetings.

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senior life Somerby offers lifestyle options in Birmingham, Mobile Somerby of Mobile’s seniors stay active with everything from Chanukah parties to educational field trips, such as to an archaeology museum, and a recent trip to the Hyundai manufacturing plant in Montgomery.

Lifestyle Director Nancy Matherne used to work at the University of South Alabama, so she uses those connections to bring in some special speakers as well as to plan some trips to the university.

“We know our community has seniors with a wide range of backgrounds and interests so we give them a lot of opportunities to get involved in things they are interested in,” said Matherne. Somerby of Mobile includes independent living, also with garden homes and villas, assisted living, skilled nursing and memory care.

In December, Somerby of Mobile hosted a Chanukah party, which was well-attended by Jewish and non-Jewish residents. Somerby served latkes with apple sauce and sour cream.

Last month, they took a group to see some films at the annual Mobile Jewish Film Festival. Once a month, Rabbi Steve Silberman comes to meet with Jewish seniors and speaks various topics.

A few times a year, as a part of a partnership with Springhill Avenue Temple, a speaker visits as a part of Somerby’s Cultural Awareness Series.

The most recent visit was by Israel-native Arad Lenor, who spoke about the “State of the State of Israel.”

“Those events too are well-attended by both Jewish and non-Jewish residents,” said Matherne. “We are pleased to have that cultural and religious diversity in our facility. Our residents enjoy learning about their friends’ beliefs, culture, traditions and things that are important to them.”

Upcoming events at Somerby include a Mobile-style Mardi Gras celebration this month and a Passover Seder in April. Other recent activities have included the addition of a line dancing class and learning about technology

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Somerby St. Vincent’s 119 Birmingham/Hoover Jewish and non-Jewish residents alike at Somerby St. Vincent’s 119 senior living community look forward to visits by Rabbi Barry Altmark.

“Barry always comes out to lead our Chanukah celebration and Passover Seder. He always makes it fun and interesting,” said Somerby St. Vincent’s Director of Activities Saralyn Millwee. “He came out for Chanukah recently and we had more than 25 people, most of them not Jewish.”

Millwee said residents at Somerby — which includes independent living, assisted living and memory care — love to “party and learn.” In the next three months they will celebrate Mardi Gras, St. Patrick’s Day and Passover.

She said Somerby has what is called Masterpiece Living. This came out of a 10-year study by the McArthur Foundation that shows being active increases happiness, health and extends life.

“Our seniors take an active role not just in telling us some of the activities they would like to have at our community but also play leadership roles in organizing these activities,” said Millwee. “We’ll do anything we can to help them facilitate, whether its field trips to the planetarium or bringing in musicians to perform.” She said one Somerby resident came up with 350 hours of senior-related trivia, and teams go head-to-head regularly in trivia contests.

“They are have a keen interest in geography, health-related topics… as well as learning more about how to use social networking to keep up with friends and family,” said Millwee.

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Planting for Jacobs Camp future Tu B’Shevat, which this year falls on Feb. 4, is the birthday of trees according to Jewish tradition, marking the time when the earliest blooming trees in Israel emerge from winter sleep.

Last year, the Henry S. Jacobs Camp in Utica partnered with Adrian Juttner of the New Orleans area to add 108 trees to the property. Juttner, who is now semi-retired, does tree pest control and consulting, and honey production.

A major focus for him has been controlling termites, a major problem in New Orleans. In 2013 he did a six-month project to try and eradicate termites infesting almost 300 trees in the Garden District.

For Jacobs Camp, the issue wasn’t termites but a desire to replace pine trees. In the late 1970s, a lot of pine trees were planted around camp, especially lining the roads.

Jonathan Cohen, who was director of the camp until last summer, said “Pine trees don’t live too long; we were losing several of those trees every year.”

Also, there was a plan to put new roofs on all shingled buildings, so removing trees that could put the new roofs at risk needed to go.

Juttner helped the camp select a variety of hardwoods, shade trees and fruit trees and oversaw the planting last January and February, around Tu B’Shevat. He also put a nursery in the back of the camp, so if any of the trees did not survive the hole could quickly be reused for a new tree.

“Planting trees is a good thing,” Cohen said. “As was beautifying the camp.”

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Where The Wild Things Are: Maurice Sendak In His Own Words and Pictures at the Breman Museum. Images courtesy of The Maurice Sendak Archive, The Rosenbach Museum & Library, Philadelphia, PA.

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Where the Wild Things Are: Maurice Sendak in His Own Words & Pictures It’s back, and better than ever! After years of travelling, the celebrated exhibition Where the Wild Things Are: Maurice Sendak in His Own Words and Pictures has returned to Atlanta with new content and a focus on literacy. It will run through July 5, 2015 at the William Breman Jewish Heritage Museum.

The Sendak exhibition features drawings, artifacts and biographical information as well as fun, interactive activities. Upon entering the gallery visitors of all ages will be immersed into Sendak’s beloved stories. The exhibition includes interactive locations where visitors can dress up like wild things, slide into a bowl of chicken soup, and pick one of many of Sendak’s books to read on Rosie’s Stoop. Younger visitors will be introduced to Sendak’s timeless characters, while older children and pre-teens will gain an understanding of how sketches and drawings are turned into published works. Along with the exhibition there will be ongoing workshops and events for children and families.

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Carolyn Goodman may be best known here for the sacrifice her son, civil rights worker Andrew Goodman, made during the summer of 1964 when he was murdered in Philadelphia, Miss., along with James Cheney and Michael Schwerner. Alas, this wasn’t the only tragedy in her life, as she was molested as a child, had a brother die prematurely and experienced the loss of her father to suicide. Rather than defining herself by loss, Goodman dedicated her life by becoming an activist for social justice (including being arrested at the age of 83 at a protest in New York), organizing an anniversary Freedom Summer, producing documentary films and forming The Andrew Goodman Foundation.

At left, the Chaney, Schwerner, Goodman memorial window at Cornell University’s Sage Chapel, dedicated in 1991 by the Class of 1961. Both of Andrew Goodman’s parents graduated from Cornell. The Schwerner Chaney Goodman Memorial Project at Cornell University is currently underway, which has as its goal the building of an outdoor campus memorial to the three civil rights workers. The project is estimated to cost $500,000. To donate and learn more, visit facebook.com/schwernerchaneygoodman. Photo courtesy Daniel A. Klein.

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Jason Robert Brown will bring his highly-acclaimed off-Broadway production of “The Last Five Years” to Birmingham’s Red Mountain Theatre Company cabaret theatre Feb. 19 to 21, with the show’s current cast.

The Jewish playwright, composer and singer has come down to do some musical revues in the past at RMTC. He and his wife, composer Georgia Stitt, and their daughters live in New York City, where Brown is originally from.

Since its Broadway debut, “The Last Five Years” has won numerous awards, including being named the “10 Best of 2001” by Time magazine. In 2013, “The Last Five Years” broke off-Broadway attendance records at Second Stage Theatre under Brown’s direction and starring Betsy Wolfe along with Adam Kantor.

Both Wolfe and Kantor will travel with Brown to Birmingham for the local show to reprise their roles as Cathy and Jamie, a 20-something couple in New York who explore the last half-decade of their relationship through song. This unique show starts with Cathy at the beginning of their romance; Jamie starts his story at the end. Throughout “The Last Five Years,” the audience watches as the couple’s love burgeons and deteriorates.

Brown has been hailed by the Philadelphia Inquirer as “one of Broadway’s smartest and most sophisticated songwriters since Stephen Sondheim.”

His musical adaption from the best-selling novel “The Bridges of Madison County” won 2014 Tony Awards for Best Original Score and Best Orchestrations. Red Mountain Theatre Company was listed as a producer on that Broadway show.

The film adaptation of “The Last Five Years,” staring Anna Kendrick and Jordan Jeremy, premiered at the Toronto Film Festival and is receiving high praise from critics.

“Honeymoon in Vegas” — based on the Andrew Bergman film — is Brown’s next musical project and opens on Broadway later this year.

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Each talk starts at 6 p.m. with light refreshments. Tickets are $6, available online or at the Exploreum box office.

On Feb. 26, Lesley Gregoricka, assistant professor of theology and director of the Center for Interreligious Understanding at Spring Hill College, will speak on “Monks on the Move: Evaluating Pilgrimage to Byzantine Jerusalem Using Isotopes from Ancient Human Teeth.”

On March 5, Bill Warren, director of the Center for New Testament Textual Studies, professor of the New Testament and Greek at New Orleans Baptist Theological Seminary, will speak on “Scribes and Sacred Texts: Ancient Texts and the Codifying of Faith Perspectives.”

The series concludes on March 12 with John Switzer, associate professor of theology and director of graduate programs in theology at Spring Hill College, will discuss “The Rewards of Interreligious Dialogue.”

“Jerusalem” will be screened on the IMAX dome through April 4.

community BHEC announces Holocaust lectures, films at Birmingham libraries The Birmingham Holocaust Education Center will have a series of films and talks in March, with many of the talks having a local flavor.

Every March the BHEC does the Birmingham Public Library’s Brown Bag Lunch series, where the Wednesday events at noon are open to the community and audience members are welcome to bring a lunch.

On March 4, Lisa Byrd, a teacher at Mortimer Jordan High School, introduces “Survival in the Forest: Isidore Karten and the Partisans,” a film by the Jewish Partisan Education Foundation. The documentary follows two teenage brothers as they trace the footsteps of their grandfather, a Jewish Partisan who saved over 400 Jews during World War II. Told from a unique teen perspective, the film captures this journey of self-discovery as the brothers accept the responsibility for preventing genocide from happening again.

Byrd will lead a brief discussion after the film.

On March 11, Esther Gerson Levy shares the story of her mother, Tobi Komornik Gerson, who was born in Poland in 1925. After the Germans invaded Poland, 14-year-old Tobi became part of the German labor force, working in the Lodz Ghetto, Auschwitz and at a munitions factory. She was evacuated from the Ravensbruck Concentration Camp and brought to Sweden by the Swedish Red Cross.

On March 18, Ruth Siegler will tell her story of survival and her belief that one has to forgive and look for the good in what life has to offer. Siegler hopes that future generations will learn from her and from other survivors’ experiences. After the talk, she will copies of her book, “My Father’s Blessing.” Books can be

purchased at the event for $15, cash or check accepted.

On March 25, Michael Sznajderman and Melina Goldfarb will talk about “Jack Bass: A comfortable Life Soon Changed.” Bass, who died in 2010, was ultimately deported to Auschwitz, where he found himself working in the “fields of human hair.” When he was liberated by American troops on May 8, 1945, he weighed a mere 60 pounds. Bass family friend Melina Goldfarb will talk of his life both during the Holocaust and his later years in Birmingham. Her discussion will follow a PowerPoint slide show created and presented by Sznajderman.

The Holocaust in Film series will be presented at the Emmet O’Neal Library in Crestline on Sundays at 2 p.m. and Thursdays at 6:30 p.m. The films are free, and Andre Millard of the University of Alabama at Birmingham will lead discussions.

On March 1, “Hannah Arendt” uses archival footage to weave a narrative over three countries that “turns the often invisible passion of thought into immersive, dramatic cinema.” On March 5, “Ida” depicts a woman and her aunt who take a new identity and embark “on a revelatory journey to discover family history and unearth dark secrets dating back to the Nazi occupation.”

On March 8, “Lore” is a unique coming-of-age story and look at the human legacy of the Holocaust. The final film, “The Notebook” on March 12, remodels the coming-of-age story as a Brothers Grimm-like fairy tale, with a stark look at the frailty of youth.

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Amoré is Italian for love and that word has been uttered a great deal by customers about Amoré Italian Ristorante’s food and warm ambiance since Dino Drakos took ownership just more than a year ago.

Located in the Greystone area of Birmingham, Amoré offers authentic Italian food in a friendly setting appropriate for romantic dates as well as family meals.

Drakos said since he took over the restaurant, which opened nine years earlier, he has made several enhancements. “We improved the quality of ingredients, the cooking process and the service,” he said. “We offer highquality food with big portions. Offering value is very important to us. And want to offer our customers a very comfortable dining experience,” he said.

Drakos comes from a Greek family and he grew up in the restaurant business. “I developed a love for food and cooking. Really there are more similarities than people might think between Italian and Greek cuisine,” he added.

In 1982, Drakos moved from Illinois to Birmingham. His father opened a restaurant on Green Springs Highway called Georgie’s.

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then-Loehmann’s Village. Later the name was changed to The Fish Market and it became the second location. It was moved in 1994 to Highway 31 in Hoover, and then he opened The Fish Market on Highway 280.

“But I really wanted to have a place that was more laid back and where I didn’t need to put in so many hours every week. I found this spot and talked to the owner of Amoré. I purchased the restaurant from him and he stayed with us three months to train us in the recipes, to ease the transition and get to know all the guests,” said Drakos.

He and his wife, Angela, have added several special items that change daily and Drakos said she has become one of the “main reasons the service has become so great. These new items have been very well received by the guests.

All of the menu items that were staples of the restaurant remain intact.”

Some of the kosher-style items on the Amoré menu include caprese salad, linguini con aglio e olio, capellini marinara, ravioli with ricotta cheese, eggplant parmigiana and linguini puttanesca.

“We are happy to make anything on the menu kosher-style. We welcome special custom orders,” said Drakos.

Amoré is open for dinner Tuesday through Thursday, 5 to 9 p.m. and Friday and Saturday from 5:30 to 9:30 p.m. The restaurant seats about 40 people and reservations are recommended. Drakos added that for simchas, guests are welcome to use the entire space when the restaurant is normally closed to the public, Sunday and Monday night.

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But was he merely the first murderer, or was this a fluke?

For the sake of mankind, hopefully this will never happen again. After hearing this story, I can’t imagine how it could. That’s why I wrote it. If it never happens again, it’ll put me out of a job. But maybe there are better jobs to have.

And there was evening, and there was morning. One murder.

Doug Brook is a writer in Silicon Valley who directed the Kander & Ebb musical murder mystery “Curtains,” running (appropriately enough) through Valenstein’s Day. For past columns, other writings, and more, visit http:// brookwrite.com/. For exclusive online content, follow facebook.com/the.beholders.eye.

Casting call for “Oliver,” “Beauty” at Theatre LJCC

Theater LJCC in Birmingham is seeking actors of all ages for the 2015 season, which will feature “Oliver!” and “Disney’s Beauty and the Beast, Jr.” Performers in grades 2 to 10 will be considered for “Beauty” while adults, teens and children will be considered for “Oliver!” Auditions will be held at the Levite Jewish Community Center on Feb. 10 at 6 p.m. and Feb. 11 at 4 p.m.

Additional audition times are available by appointment, and callbacks will be Feb. 15 from 3:30 to 5:30 p.m.

There will be further auditions and callbacks for “Oliver!” at a later date.

All performers should prepare 16 to 32 bars of a song to sing. An accompanist will be provided. Singing with CD track or a capella is acceptable. Those being considered for a featured role may be asked to read from the script, and sides will be provided. Performers may be given a song to sing from the show or asked to learn a short dance combination at callbacks.

Rehearsals for “Beauty and the Beast, Jr.” will be held Tuesdays and Wednesdays from 4 to 6 p.m. and Saturdays and Sundays from 3:30 to 5:30 p.m., starting Feb. 24. Saturday rehearsals will not be mandatory for those observing the Sabbath. There will be two weeks off for Spring Break, Easter and Passover.

Show dates for “Beauty and the Beast, Jr.” are April 30 to May 10. Show dates for “Oliver!” are November 12 to 22. Cast members must be available for all performances, which are on Thursday and Saturday evenings and Sunday afternoons.

“Beauty” is a take on the classic fairytale, featuring songs from the Academy Award animated film, music by Alan Menken and the late Howard Ashman, along with new songs by Menken and Tim Rice.

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the beholder’s eye • doug brook

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These are to ponder during Dayofseason, Calling himquestions the first something, implies this thereHigh will Holy be more them. though perhaps not late afternoon on Yom Kippur. This column continued on on theprevious previous page page continued 38 Southern Jewish Life • February 2015

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