Shell Point Life (Nov/Dec 2022)

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FEELING GRATEFUL

Nov/Dec 2022 Vol. 17 Issue 6
OUR
INSIDE: Community Happenings • Weathering the Storm
THIS HOLIDAY SEASON, WE REFLECT ON
COMMUNITY'S RESILIENCE

A Grateful Community

Hurricane Ian may have been a mighty storm—but it was no match for Shell Point’s residents and staff who responded with an amazing display of determination and resilience. On page 4, read about Shell Point’s preparations before the storm, the camaraderie in the shelters, the damage the campus endured, and the deep sense of gratitude that remains around the entire community.

Holiday Cheer

The holidays are always a special time at Shell Point –and without a doubt, this year is no exception. With tree lighting festivities, services at The Village Church, and an incredible array of holiday events and performances, there is no better place to celebrate the season than Shell Point! Check out pages 22, 38 and 19.

A Peaceful Haven

Within the Larsen Health Center, a tranquil Chapel offers a beautiful space to feel His presence and be grateful for His many blessings. Here, “you relinquish the tyranny of the urgent desire to ‘do’ and accept the reality to simply ‘be,’” said Dee (Horne) Nesselroade, who honors the memory of her late husband Jerry with the Chapel. “It is at that moment that we can hope to hear the still, quiet voice of the Holy Spirit.” Learn more about the Chapel on page 36.

In Every Issue

Academy of Lifelong Learning 14

At The Tribby 16 Happenings Calendar 22 Support Groups 26

Connections Corner 27

Out and About 30 The Village Church 38 Natures Notebook 40

– Romans 12:12

Shell Point Life is published for the residents of Shell Point Retirement Community.

Director of Marketing and Communications Lynn Schneider Editor Kara Hado Creative Director Rich Cerrina

Senior Graphic Designer Brent Mayer Graphic Designer Vanessa Miranda

Contributors

Pat Bubb, Claude Emler, Janine Hammond Andrew Hawkins, Jon High, Kevin May, Steve Morton, Joseph Pink, Don Pullen, Emily Reese, Laura Slack, Amanda Spencer, Susan Uhleman, Peggy Zimmerman

Shell Point Life is available online. You can find this current issue, as well as back issues of Shell Point Life magazine, at www.shellpoint.org/shellpointlife.

On the COver

In spite of the recent destructive events of Hurricane Ian, Shell Point looks forward to the holiday season with gratitude and a spirit of true thanksgiving.

13921 Shell Point Plaza • Fort Myers, FL 33908 (239) 466-1131 • www.shellpoint.org

Shell Point is a nonprofit ministry of The Christian and Missionary Alliance Foundation

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Rejoice in hope, be patient in tribulation, be constant in prayer.
RETIREMENT COMMUNITY
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A Sweet Thank You

It was an afternoon of sweet treats and fellowship at The Village Church as Shell Point residents organized a special dessert reception to express their gratitude to all employees for their hard work and commitment before, during and after Hurricane Ian.

Darlene Coulombe, Julia Zapparolli, Dory Sotelo Ceroa, Karen Alger Kayla Lukesic, Yolanda Perez Rizio, Christy Skinner Mary Buck (Parkwood), Carol Strange (Periwinkle), Wendell Ward Maria Cedeno, Adriana Alvarez, Felix Zambrano Betty Bullock (Springs) and Claire DeJoseph (Cameo) Peter Boigeol, Michael Jones, Larry Smith, Caroline Lennox Pat Bubb (Parkwood) and Jon High Carol Sperlak and Jason Smith

the Gulf waters off Southwest Florida, the management team of Shell Point Retirement Community was putting its hurricane preparedness plan into action.

“The path of Hurricane Ian was unpredictable but there was an increasing chance that it was coming our way and we wanted to be ready,” said Martin Schappell, president of Shell Point. “Our consulting meteorologist was carefully watching the storm for several days, keeping us informed of its progress and projected path. During this time, we began putting our hurricane plan into effect and making the preparations for what turned out to be a direct hit.”

Time to Evacuate

On Tuesday, September 27, Shell Point staff began moving residents into two sep arate on-campus, hurricane-rated, Lee County Emergency Operations-approved shelters. The hurricane shelter located in the garage on The Island of Shell Point was the location for independent living residents. Residents from the three assisted living facilities were moved into the skilled nursing floors of the new Larsen Health Center located in the Waterside neighborhood at the entrance to the community.

Within the shelters, on-site Coordination Centers were staffed by dual Command Teams comprised of department representatives from Administration, Safety, Healthcare, IT, Finance, Facility Operations, Maintenance, Amenities, Human Resources, Security, and Communications. Throughout

Weathering the Storm

Hurricane IAN Fails to Shake Foundations

On September 28, 2022, Hurricane Ian struck Fort Myers as a Category 4 hurricane with winds of almost 150 miles per hour and a storm surge of three to 12 feet. Residents of Shell Point Retirement Community rode out the storm in two shelters designed for this purpose. Here is our story.

the hurricane, teams remained in contact with each other and the Lee County Emergency Operations Center through short-wave radio.

In addition to the approximately 2,000

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During Hurricane Ian, Shell Point’s two hurricane shelters kept residents safe and secure. The top floor of the employee parking garage on The Island sheltered independent living residents and the Larsen Health Center sheltered residents from assisted living and skilled nursing.

Upper left: Residents and staff encouraged each other at meal times.

Second row: Carol Sperlak, Jon High, Jim Clark and Monica Tison were among dozens of staff volunteers working in the shelter. Playing games helped pass the time.

Third row: Jim and Carolyn Stapleton (Harbor Court).

Bottom row: Shell Point provided each resident with a zero-gravity reclining chair and the shelter was well-stocked with supplies.

President Martin Schappell addressed each court in The Island shelter to keep residents up-to-date on Shell Point’s response to the storm.

WEATHERING THE STORM

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residents who took shelter in the two buildings, Shell Point staff also moved in, many with their families. A special shelter was also set up to keep the pets of residents safe as well.

“Our staff here at Shell Point are dedicated to the residents they serve, and I am proud of how many worked in the shelters throughout the storm to serve our residents,” said Christy Skinner, vice president of healthcare. Well over 200 staff, including medical doctors, two nurse prac titioners, and a cadre of nursing staff were on hand throughout the entire event.

The Storm Arrives

On Wednesday, September 28, Hurricane Ian had become a massive storm with sustained hurricane-force winds that spread across 80 miles— nearly double the size of Hurricane Charley in 2004. Due to its size and strength, the hurricane moved slowly across the region, leaving tremendous damage in its wake.

Shell Point residents were safely settled into the two shelters awaiting the storm. Due to the strength of the construction of the two shelters, residents were unaware of the ferocity of the storm’s true power. As the hours passed, staff and residents devel oped a routine that revolved around the basic necessities of eating and resting. In spite of the storm, spirits were high and residents found positive ways to enjoy each others’ company. Various card games and even a spontaneous concert performed by Shell Point’s own Dan Philgreen helped pass the time.

“During the storm, it was incredible how Shell Point cared for us in the hurricane shelter and provided the food and the facilities we needed,” said Terry Hall, a resident of Nautilus. “I can’t imagine a place that has gone so far above and beyond taking care of their people.”

Outside the shelters Hurricane Ian was slowly moving across the campus dump ing massive amounts of rainfall while winds crisscrossed the property tearing up trees, blowing shingles off buildings, push ing boats back and forth in the marina

Island Shelter

and causing other damage. A storm surge brought water across the campus but both shelters remained high and dry.

In the Larsen Health Center, residents from each of the assisted living facilities were happy to be housed with their friends and neighbors from their buildings. Nursing and volunteer staff cared for all of the res idents in the health center and created a reassuring and loving environment.

I can’t think of anything they could do to make me happier here at Shell Point. During the storm, it was incredible how Shell Point cared for us in the hurricane shelter and provided the food and the facilities we needed. I can’t imagine a place that has gone so far above and beyond taking care of their people.
— TERRY HALL (NAUTILUS)
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Dan Philgreen’s soothing impromptu guitar concert inspired a sing-a-long to John Denver’s “Annie’s Song.”

While

Larsen Health Center Shelter

waiting to return to their homes, residents passed the time chatting and playing games. Residents in the Larsen Health Center shelter were safe and comfortable above as the storm surge crossed the roadway and parking lots below. The Dining Team did an awesome job keeping everyone well-fed in the shelters.

After the Storm

As the sun rose on Thursday, September 29, residents continued to shelter as teams conducted an immediate post-storm assess ment, which revealed the Shell Point campus had sustained considerable dam age from Hurricane Ian. Downed trees and landscaping debris, broken utility poles, overturned cars and boats, and battered buildings created a surreal scene. After the howling winds of the storm, the silence was surprising, but it did not last long because a second group of Shell Point staff began returning to work to immediately begin the cleanup and restoration process.

Staff began working diligently to get the community back into shape. Due to the storm surge, many buildings experienced varying degrees of water intrusion. Significant repairs began immediately and will continue until all resident homes and common areas have been restored.

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The Pet Set

During Hurricane Ian, 53 dogs and 24 cats belonging to residents and employees were safely sheltered in the former Larsen Pavilion.

Marge Lieblein (Cameo) was happy to reunite with her dog, Joy, as were Cheryl and Craig Baker (Harbor Court) with Oreo. Before After

The Days Following

Most residents were able to return to their homes, but all of Shell Point was without water and power for several days. Residents whose homes were uninhabitable were housed in rooms in the former Pavilion skilled nursing center. The entire community banded together as neighbor helped neighbor and Shell Point staff were everywhere providing food and bottled water.

Rebuilding Efforts

“Hurricane Ian was a devastating event that resulted in catastrophic damage across our 700-acre campus,” said Schappell. “Nevertheless, we could feel God’s presence and protection as we walked throughout the campus and we will continue to rely on His strength during the recovery process.”

Rebuilding efforts continue across the campus. Approximately 250 homes that experienced water damage have been remediated. Depending on the level of water penetration, the remediation process included removing flooring and drywall to ensure the units were being fully restored.

“While our community experienced catastrophic damage, we are rebuilding and returning residents to their homes as quickly as possible,” he said.

“There is no minimizing what we have individually and collectively experienced over the past month. We were sheltered together for 48 hours while an historic hurricane battered our campus. We witnessed the damage of the wind and water to our landscape and buildings. We relied on our physical and emotional reserves to perse vere while the water and electricity were down. We survived trauma that words can not fully capture.

“I already knew how gracious and sup

portive our residents are. However, I learned how compassionate, appreciative, and resilient they are too. They cared for one another, encouraged one another, and are helping one another cope. I already knew that we had the best employees. However, I learned how dedicated and loyal they are as they sacrificed the comfort of their own homes to be with our residents. Many of our staff lost their homes and cars yet they

continue to be here to care for and serve each resident. Our staff love our residents. I am truly proud to be a part of the Shell Point family.

“While these next few months will bring many challenges as we restore our community, we choose to be grateful. To God be the glory for His grace and hand of protection over our community, our resi dents, and staff. He is faithful!”

Sharon and Jerry Miller (Harbor Court) visited their garden plot on The Island to salvage a precious momento with the handprints of their grandchildren from 2007. Shell Point posted a billboard capturing the sentiment so many were feeling after the storm.
While these next few months will bring many challenges as we restore our community, we choose to be grateful. To God be the glory for His grace and hand of protection over our community, our residents, and staff. He is faithful!
— MARTIN SCHAPPELL, PRESIDENT AND CEO
Shell Point’s IT Department helped teams from a variety of departments get back to work quickly by setting up impromptu offices in the Larsen Pavilion. The "2190" 24-7 Call Center operated from there until they could reenter their office.

Purchasing Supervisor Maurico Morro worked through the storm and brought his wife Lis and 7-year-old daughter Aitana to The Island shelter. Before returning to their home, Aitana wrote a sweet thank-you note to Project Manager Julie Nipper, in whose office she was able to find a quiet spot to nap.

Supporting Shell Point Employees

Director of Employee Ministry Jim Clark worked quickly with managers and supervisors to identify employees who had been displaced from their homes after the storm. Nearly 70 team members were without use of their homes due to storm damage. Most were able to find temporary accommodations with a family member, neighbor or co-worker. Shell Point was also able to house more than a dozen employees who did not have an alternative place to stay. While public schools were closed for several weeks after the storm, Shell Point also offered temporary childcare. Employees who lost clothing were able to receive donated golf apparel and items from the Thrift Store.

“Immediately after the storm, residents swiftly responded by generously donating to both the Employee Hurricane Relief Fund and the Shell Point Hurricane Ian Recovery Fund,” said Jeff Cory, Executive Director of The Legacy Foundation. “Employees received financial assistance from the Fund to help with housing displacement, home repairs, and vehicle replacement – and the grati tude was overwhelming.”

Staff members signed a giant card to express

their thankfulness, writing heartfelt sentiments such as “Thank you from the bottom of my heart—I am so proud to serve my Shell Point Residents,” and “Thank you for your amazing generosity, kind ness and support!” One employee wrote “Thank you for giving when you had a loss as well.”

Karen Anderson, Vice President of Human Resources, added “We are so thankful for the benevolent nature of our residents and Legacy Foundation’s creation of this relief fund!”

In addition to the generous funds from the Legacy Foundation, Jim continues to provide additional assistance through the Employee Benevolence Fund at the Village Church.

“Our Shell Point managers and supervisors have done an amazing job of looking out for each of their employees after Hurricane Ian. They’re check ing on their team regularly and providing flexibility and support,” said Jim. “We’ll do whatever we can until our team is back on their feet.”

“ Our Shell Point managers and supervisors have done an amazing job of looking out for each of their employees after Hurricane Ian.”
—Jim Clark
Employees’ children made new friends in the temporary childcare center in the Schilling Dining Hall of the Larsen Pavilion while area schools were closed.

Partners Pharmacy Opens in Larsen Health Center

Shell Point welcomed Partners Pharmacy with a ribbon cutting ceremony to kick off their grand opening in the Larsen Health Center.

“Partners Pharmacy offers a full range

of resources to effectively serve the comprehensive medication needs of Shell Point residents,” said Derek Corriveau, Partners Pharmacy’s Senior Vice President of Operations. “Our goal is to provide the

highest quality pharmacy care available.”

Derek added that Partners Pharmacy is accepting retail co-pays and will work on credentialing with residents’ current insur ance plans. They are also able to fill a 90-day prescription supply for those resi dents whose insurance plan includes that benefit.

“Partners Pharmacy’s culture of exceptional personal service is a perfect complement to the high standards we’ve established at Larsen Health Center,” said Christy Skinner, Vice President of Healthcare. “Their team will help us provide the best possible care to Shell Point residents, each and every day.”

Partners Pharmacy is open in the Larsen Health Center Monday through Friday from 9 a.m. to 5 p.m. and Saturdays from 9 a.m. to 1 p.m.

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Pharmacists Kelly Swan and Eddie White, Shell Point Director of Outpatient Services Brian Sykes, Shell Point Vice President of Healthcare Christy Skinner, Partners Pharmacy Senior Vice President of Operations Derek Corriveau, and Pharmacy Technicians Christopher Scurry and Vanessa Juan-Tomas Pharmacy Technician Christopher Scurry with resident Kate Bradfield (Lucina), the first Partners Pharmacy customer in the Larsen Health Center

Shell Point Singers' Christmas Concert

Monday, December 19 | 3 p.m. at The Village Church

Join your friends and neighbors at The Village Church for the Shell Point Singers’ “Christmas Carols for Comfort and Celebration” concert. Enjoy many of the familiar songs of the season as this talented group of singers celebrates the holidays with song. Free, no sign up required.

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Holiday
Monday, December 5 • 9 a.m. to 3 p.m.
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paradise when
artisans of The Island
showcase their wares. Come browse a wonderful selection of
Comfort Celebration AND CHRISTMAS CAROLS FOR

For The Academy of Lifelong Learning, fall was filled with many exciting and educational events, including Unconfined Creativity: Works from the Crossroads Prison Art Project. Eliezer Yeong, the Art Project Coordinator from Crossroads Prison Ministry, spoke about the unique pieces on exhibit in the Tribby Art Center. He was joined by Robert Woldhuis, a former prisoner who is now a Crossroads employee. He said the ministry changed his outlook on life and gave him hope in a time of deep despair, leading him to find an outlet in art. Many of the exhibition’s pieces were created from everyday objects, but were astonishingly beautiful and full of meaning. Eliezer spoke about a piece of pottery that had been broken in transit to the Ministry. Yet by employing a Japanese technique called Kintsugi, they were able to join the fractured pieces back together and make something new and beautiful. This serves as an apt metaphor: although the prisoners may be broken, they can again become whole by embracing God and his teachings.

The Academy also happily reinstated the popular Lunch and Learn series with That’s Amore! An Afternoon in Naples, Italy. Dr. Tom Cimarusti transported us to Naples to explore its musical history, from early operas to more recent ItalianAmerican classics. The Grand Cypress Room tables were beautifully set with fresh flowers and linens in the colors of the Italian flag. The Palm Grill team created an outstanding menu of Neapolitan favorites, including house-made focaccia bread and delicious Arancini filled with risotto, mushrooms and peas, sundried tomato and micro basil – a dish that brought the red, green, and white of the Italian flag to our plates! After a main course of Briacole, which is a rolled flank steak filled with prosciutto and cheese, we enjoyed a delicious cannoli while being serenaded by Dr. Cimarusti and tenor Carlos Esquilin from Florida Gulf Coast University’s Bower School of Music. The event ended on a high note with a spirited sing-along to “That’s Amore!”

Looking ahead to the winter season, the Academy is hosting favorite presenters with the return of Thomas Tyrrell and our current events series “News From Over There”; several delightful musical programs from Dr. Tom Cimarusti; and a look back into history with Nancy Maxwell and Dr. Jerry Franz. We also have new presenters and topics, such as the funny and upbeat motivational speaking of Barbara Smith; a look at the construction of the Hoover Dam through documentary; and several Health Matters lectures to keep you healthy and happy well into 2023!

Eliezer Yeong, Vida Burgess (Arbor), Robert Woldhuis Dr. Tom Cimarusti

Upcoming Attractions

A selection of Academy events in Connie Brown Hall at the Tribby Arts Center. Register for these sessions at your Concierge Desk.

HOLIDAYS AROUND THE WORLD

Monday, December 5 at 4:30 p.m.

Come join FGCU Professor of Music History Dr. Tom Cimarusti as he explores the rich musical traditions associated with holidays from around the world, including Christmas, Hanukkah, Kwanza, and Omisoka. Participants will be invited to partake in this musical journey and sing along as Dr. Cimarusti introduces holiday selections from Europe, South America, Asia, Africa and the Middle East. A special guest from Ukraine will be a featured artist.

PEARL HARBOR DAY DOCUMENTARY

Wednesday, December 7 at 1 p.m.

On December 7, 1941 at 7:55 a.m., the attack on the naval base at Pearl Harbor began — an event that ultimately ushered the United States into WWII. This devastating attack took the lives of many service members and civilians on Oahu and forever changed our nation. Shell Point commemorates Pearl Harbor Day with a documentary that explores the history of this momentous day in WWII.

HATS OFF! THE HAT LADY BARBARA SMITH

Thursday, December 8 at 10 a.m.

If there is one thing that sought-after motivational speaker Barbara Smith has learned in life, it’s that no matter what the job description, you will be required to wear a few more hats! Come and watch The Hat Lady model her collection from her whimsical hatbox. You will laugh, sigh, and enjoy how often you identify with each chapeau! Barbara has presented her hats in 16 states to audiences of all types, from national organizations to hospital groups.

Academy

Lifelong Learning of

AT SHELL POINT

BONUS CONCERT! MUSIC, LOVE, AND MADNESS

Wednesday, December 14 at 7 p.m.

Academy

Join Dr. Tom Cimarusti and special guests from the FGCU Bower School of Music in exploring a most fascinating musical figure: German composer Robert Schumann. Vividly illustrating the very essence of 19th-century Romanticism, Schumann’s life was filled with aural hallucinations, bouts with depression, and a legal battle to win the hand of his future wife, Clara. Yet, Schumann amassed a formidable catalog of masterworks before languishing in an institutional confinement just prior to his death. Music, love, and madness make for a rather fantastic life story, but what remains are the composer’s many musical masterpieces, from large scale symphonies to intimate chamber works. Enjoy an incredible live performance of arguably one of the greatest chamber works of all time: Schumann’s Piano Quintet in E-flat Major.

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ACADEMY o f LIFELONG LEARNING

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ACADEMY o f LIFELONG LEARNING

WASHINGTON AT TRENTON: DECEMBER 25-26, 1776

Lifelong Learning of AT SHELL POINT

Friday, December 23 at 10 a.m.

The year 1776 seemed a disaster. The British anticipated the end of the war soon, following a long string of victories against ill-equipped and poorly trained Americans. Then, in one of the most unexpected and pivotal events in American history, Washington led American troops over the icy Delaware River on Christmas Day and shrewdly snatched sensational New Jersey victories at Trenton (December 26) and Princeton (January 3). The news swept through the Colonies, and the patriot cause was given a second birth. Join FGCU’S Dr. Jerry Franz as he shares this inspiring story.

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Celebrating the Start of the Holiday Season … TribbyStyle!

Come to the Tribby for Christmas treats and the tree lighting, and stay for a fun-filled, free concert sponsored by The Legacy Foundation!

Tribby Christmas Spectacular

FRIDAY, DECEMBER 2

Dessert Reception 1 p.m.

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Tribby Atrium

Tree Lighting 1:30 p.m.

Tribby Atrium

Jingle Bell Jubilee Concert 2 p.m.

Connie Brown Hall

Free • Pick up Tickets at Tribby Box Office

Join us as we kick off the holidays at the Tribby with a festive tree lighting that's sure to delight! The Tribby Christmas tree will be decked out for the holidays with more than 225 ornaments, 30 handwired bows, and 20 decorated packages. Made by the Crafts Studio with contributions from other Tribby studios, the ornaments are made using die-cuts, and this year include poinsettias created from a paper-quilling technique.

After the tree lighting, join us for Jingle Bell Jubilee: A Musical Celebration of the Season! Brian Gurl returns to the Tribby with a multitalented cast of performers to provide an afternoon of soaring voices, dazzling musical arrangements, humor, and pure joy—along with fun-filled twists on all the Christmas favorites, from Silent Night, Greensleeves and Jingle Bells, to Oh Holy Night, White Christmas, and many others.

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Brian Gurl

HANDMADE FOR THE HOLIDAYS

Works by the Shell Point Quilters

Friday, December 2—Saturday, February 18, 2023

The Tribby Legacy Gallery

Members of the Shell Point Quilting Studio ring in the holidays with an array of wall hangings, table toppers, stockings, and other textile items that celebrate the season.

In the Galleries

LET THERE BE LIGHT

Artworks by the Painters Guild

Friday, December 2—Saturday, February 18, 2023

The Overlook Gallery

Luminous light infuses images of the beloved rituals and traditions of the winter solstice and holiday season. From pictures of a whimsical tropical Christmas to a simple sacred candle to a winter sunset, Painters Guild members demonstrate the transformative quality of light as the color and symbol of life and hope during the darkest part of the year. All works on display have been completed within the last three years, and none have been previously displayed in the Shell Point, Overlook, or Legacy Galleries at the Tribby.

Time to Celebrate by Carol Mann

Resident Performing Arts

MUSICIANS GUILD

CHRISTMAS CONCERT

Saturday, December 3 • 2 p.m.

Connie Brown Hall

Free • Pick up Tickets at Tribby Box Office

Enjoy watching your musical friends and neighbors playing all your holiday favorites as ensembles or soloists. You won’t want to miss the Shell Point Strings’ performance of Dance of the Sugar Plum Fairy. A video recording of the concert will be aired on SPTV Channel 12 on Tuesday, December 20 and Wednesday, December 21.

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Santa's Friends by Carol St.Clair (Palm Acres) (Sundial) Frosted by Karen Meredith (Lakewood) Christmas Eve, Maine by Carolyn Bachman (Parkwood) Up North Winter by Elaine Neighbors (Rosemont)

Resident Performing Arts

SHELL POINT PLAYERS

It’s a Wonderful Life: A Live Radio Play

Tuesday, December 6 • 3 p.m.

Connie Brown Hall

Featuring an ensemble of actors and a team of sound effects artists, the Shell Point Players will bring the beloved American holiday classic to life with Joe Landry’s captivating 1940s-style live radio broadcast. It will take a lovable angel to show George Bailey what life would be like if he wasn’t born and to help him understand the true spirit of the holidays.

Directed and produced by Jana Stone (Eagles Preserve) and Edina Lessack (Parkwood). All are welcome! Admission is free.

In the Studios

WRITERS GUILD

Open Mic Poetry Readings

Wednesday, December 7 • 4 p.m.

Literary Lounge

All Shell Point resident readers are invited to read their own or others’ poetry or prose. Each reading should not exceed six minutes. Sign-up is not necessary.

A Christmas Reading

Tuesday, December 20 • 4 p.m.

Literary Lounge

All are invited for the reading of a Christmas tale, along with poetry, as Albert Myers (Arbor) entrances the audience once again.

POTTERY GUILD

JAZZ ‘N STUFF

Wednesdays • 2:30 p.m.

Connie Brown Hall

Shell Point’s resident big band offers free concerts celebrating the sounds of the season. Admission is free.

December 14: Looking Forward to Christmas December 21: Home for the Holidays

Beginner Pottery Classes

Mondays and Thursdays

Pottery Studio

The recent Imagine That exhibition in the Tribby Legacy and Overlook Galleries showcased the work of many residents who are beginners to the fabulous world of pottery. You too can participate in this art form—and we will help you get started! This introduction to pottery will demonstrate some basic skills, provide an overview of the process, familiarize you with the studio, and allow you to make your first piece. Small classes will take two to three hours and will be offered on Monday and Thursday afternoons. Cost is $20. To register, email the Pottery Studio at ShellPointPottery@gmail.com or stop by the studio and speak with Doug Heatherly or Augusta Crane.

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Shell Point's Holiday Series delights with a trio of special seasonal performances. For tickets, call the Tribby Box Office at (239) 415-5667.

SANDI PATTY CHRISTMAS TOUR

Thursday, December 8, 2022 at 7 p.m.

Tickets: $37 Resident | $47 Public

The Village Church

As one of the most acclaimed performers of our time with five Grammy® awards, four Billboard Music Awards, three platinum and five gold records, and eleven million units sold, Sandi Patty is known as "The Voice."

Sponsored by Friends of Shell Point

are the

THE NUTCRACKER with Gulfshore Ballet

Saturday, December 17, 2022 | 6 p.m.

Tickets: $37 Resident | $47 Public | $15 Children 12 and under Connie Brown Hall

The music soars, snowflakes swirl, flowers dance, and a little girl dreams about Sugar Plum Fairies and a handsome prince coming to life in an enchanted world. Gulfshore Ballet presents your favorite Tchaikovsky holiday classic, with new choreography by Iliana Lopez and Franklin Gamero.

Sponsored by Marie-Michelle McCarthy

SOUTHWEST FLORIDA SYMPHONY HOLIDAY POPS

Monday, December 12, 2022 at 7 p.m.

Tickets: $37 Resident | $37 Public

The Village Church

The Southwest Florida Symphony is Lee County’s only fully professional orchestra and one of the oldest symphony orchestras in the state of Florida. Conducted by Maestro Radu Paponiu, Music Director, the Symphony visits Shell Point this holiday season with what is certain to be an impressive performance featuring the classics of Christmas.

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MOVIES ON THE BIG SCREEN

SUNDAY CINEMA MATINEES

3 P.M. in Connie Brown Hall • Also on SPTV Channel 12

THE LION IN WINTER (1968)

Sunday, December 4

It is Christmas 1183, and King Henry II has gathered family at his castle in Chinon for the holidays. The king is aging and must decide on a successor. At the festivities are his estranged wife, Queen Eleanor of Aquitaine, and his sons Richard, Geoffrey and John. Also present are King Philip of France and his sister, Princess Alais. Yes, there were dysfunctional families even then. Katherine Hepburn and Peter O’Toole star in this Oscar-winning drama by James Goldman. Hepburn took home her third Oscar, and John Barry won for the score.

NATIONAL LAMPOON’S CHRISTMAS VACATION

(1989) Sunday, December 18

Now after a serious drama, it’s time for some holiday laughter as Chevy Chase plans his perfect family Christmas. When cousin Randy Quaid and his family arrive, mayhem ensues. What can go wrong? Perhaps everything! The tree, the lights, the relatives! Written by John Hughes, this was the third in the series of National Lampoon’s Vacation films.

MONDAY NIGHT MUSICALS

7 P.M. in Connie Brown Hall • Also on SPTV Channel 12

LA LA LAND (2016)

Monday, November 28

Writer and director Damien Chazell won an Academy award for this modern take on the 1950s Hollywood musical. A young couple meet, fall in love, and pursue their dream careers. Emma Stone and Ryan Gosling star as they struggle with success and failure. Oscars also went to the composer Justin Hurwitz, Emma Stone, and the cinematographer.

WHITE CHRISTMAS (1954)

Monday, December 12

White Christmas is the ultimate holiday musical. Bing Crosby, Danny Kaye, Rosemary Clooney and Vera Ellen star as singers putting on a gala show to save a struggling Vermont Inn. Irving Berlin took home an Oscar for the title song, everyone’s holiday favorite. Please note: this film is only shown on SPTV.

CATS (2019)

Monday, December 26

Why did the beloved and longest-running Broadway musical fail as a film? The critics panned it; it lost millions. But is it worth seeing? We think so. It features a star-studded cast: Judi Dench, Taylor Swift, James Corden, Idris Elba and Jennifer Hudson. The music is still wonderful. It is colorful and exciting, if a little creepy. You may love it or hate it. Get out your copy of T. S. Eliot’s Old Possum’s Book of Practical Cats and be ready to meet the feline characters.

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Music on Mondays

This series of world-class performances by renowned artists is presented on the big screen in Connie Brown Hall at the Tribby Arts Center on Mondays at 1 p.m., and broadcast on SPTV Channel 12 at 1 p.m. and 7 p.m.

MORRICONE CONDUCTS MORRICONE

Monday, December 5

When we think of the quintessential Western movie, what music do we imagine hearing as the heroes face off in the sun and sand? Even those of us who have never seen a Western will certainly conjure up the music of the legendary Ennio Morricone.

Perhaps chiefly known for his scores of Sergio Leone’s Spaghetti Westerns—notably The Good, the Bad, and the Ugly and Once Upon a Time in the West—Morricone also provided the music for comedies like La Cage aux Folles, dramas like Cinema Paradiso, and action films like Quentin Tarantino’s The Hateful Eight, for which Morricone won his first competitive Oscar in 2016 at the age of 87. His influence on contemporaries and successors is immeasurable, ranging from cinema and classical to pop, rock, and world music.

Few silver screen composers have made so indelible a mark; his work is powerful enough to make good films great and great films greater. In this 2005 concert from Munich, Morricone conducts his own works, many even more iconic than the films they soundtracked.

PHILIPPE HERREWEGHE CONDUCTS BACH’S CHRISTMAS CANTATAS

Monday, December 19

Get in the Christmas spirit with Philippe Herreweghe, the Collegium Vocale Gent, and its period-instrument orchestra in a concert at Paris’s beautiful Église Saint-Roch. Joined by soprano Dorothee Mields, countertenor Damien Guillon, tenor Thomas Hobbs, and bass Peter Kooij, they perform four seasonal cantatas from J.S. Bach’s time in Halle and Leipzig.

Composed in 1734 for six major religious feast days, Bach’s six Christmas Oratorio cantatas count together as one of his most popular sacred works, performed every December throughout Germany and around the world. But before he wrote the Christmas Oratorio, Bach had already spent many years composing individual cantatas for the Sundays of the Christmas season, from the beginning of Advent through to Epiphany. This program features four effervescent cantatas from those earlier years—one cantata from his time in Weimar, Christen, ätzet diesen Tag, BWV 63 for Christmas Day, 1713; and three cantatas from his first two years in Leipzig: Darzu ist erschienen der Sohn Gottes, BWV 40 for December 26, 1723; Nun komm, der Heiden Heiland, BWV 62 for December 3, 1724; and Gelobet seist du, Jesu Christ, BWV 91 for December 25, 1724.

With festive brass, spritely oboes, and melodious strings, these works joyfully sing out the good news of the Savior’s arrival and offer reflective commentary on how the faithful can prepare themselves.

GERGELY MADARAS CONDUCTS ORCHESTRE PHILHARMONIQUE ROYAL DE LIEGE – 100% GERSHWIN

Monday, January 2

The Salle Philharmonique in Liège, Belgium welcomes you live for a memorable New Year’s concert. In this enchanted evening behind closed doors, the prestigious venue will resound with the electric rhythms of the great George Gershwin. Meet the breathtaking Yeol Eum Son on piano, who will perform two of the American composer’s jazzy masterpieces: I Got Rhythm and Rhapsody in Blue. The spirited Gergely Madaras brilliantly leads the Liège Royal Philharmonic in an energetic program that ends in style with Catfish Row, symphonic suite from the opera Porgy and Bess.

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FRIENDSHIP POINT/ISLAND

It’s the kickoff to the holiday season at Shell Point! Join us for one of our longest-standing traditions — over 40 years — as we celebrate our Annual Christmas Tree Lighting at Friendship Point. One of our favorite musicians, Brian Gurl, will be on hand playing all of your favorite Christmas songs. Come enjoy time with your Shell Point neighbors, grab a sweet treat, and sing along to your favorite carols while honoring the real meaning of Christmas. No sign up required.

CHECK THE WEEKLY REMINDER FOR UPDATES ON ANY CHANGES TO THE PROGRAMS LISTED IN THIS CALENDAR AS THINGS MAY CHANGE. For questions about upcoming events or activities, please contact either concierge desk. Unless otherwise noted, sign-up for each event will begin on the first business day of the month. If you are unable to attend a program that includes a fee, five business days’ notice is required to receive a refund DECEMBER FRESH
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ANNUAL CHRISTMAS TREE LIGHTING CEREMONY THURSDAY, DECEMBER 1 6 P.M.
PRODUCE MARKET
DECEMBER 1, 8, 15, 22 & 29 8:30 -11:30 A.M. ISLAND COURTYARD Shop each week on Thursday morning for fresh produce from Veggie Vendors, right here in the Island Courtyard! With a wide variety of fruits and vegetables — from cucumbers and pineapples to ginger and cilantro — you’ll be sure to find your healthy seasonal favorites. Cash and credit cards accepted.
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WALK WITH THE DOCS

FRIDAYS, DECEMBER 2, 9, 16, 23, 30

7 A.M.

MEET AT ISLAND CIRCLE FOUNTAIN

Lace up your walking shoes and join Shell Point’s physicians every Friday morning in an exhilarating morning walk around the beautiful Island neighborhood. You will have the opportunity to learn about the medical staff while also getting physi cally fit together. The Island walk is approximately 1.5 miles.

FOOD TRUCK FRIDAYS

FRIDAYS, DECEMBER 2, 9, 16, 23, 30

11 A.M. – 1:30 P.M.

FRIENDSHIP POINT/ISLAND PARKING LOT

Join us on a new day and explore different lunch options each week!

• Dec. 2 – Monjaras Kitchen

• Dec. 9 – Horse Eyed Jake

• Dec. 16 – Ma Petite Creperie

• Dec. 23 – Gina Authentic Mexican

• Dec. 30 – Mambo Sandwich

Sign-up required; call a Concierge Desk: Island: 454-2282, Woodlands: 454-2054

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ISLAND GIFT SHOP HOLIDAY EXTRAVAGANZA

MONDAY, DECEMBER 5 9 A.M. – 3 P.M.

SOCIAL CENTER/ISLAND

The Social Center will be transformed into a shopper’s paradise when the artists and artisans of The Island Gift Shop showcase their wares. Come browse a wonderful selection of handmade and enhanced items and support our talented Shell Point residents!

NEIGHBORHOOD HOLIDAY SOCIALS

MONDAY, DECEMBER 5 1:30 – 3 P.M.

THE ISLAND (ISLAND COMMONS)

TUESDAY, DECEMBER 6 1:30 – 3 P.M.

THE WOODLANDS (GRAND CYPRESS ROOM)

Let’s get together! Meet, greet and connect with your friends and neighbors at these drop-in events. Join the Resident Programming team for a seasonal good time of fellowship and conversation. Light refreshments will be served. No sign up required. All are welcome.

EDISON AND FORD WINTER ESTATES HOLIDAY TOUR

WEDNESDAY, DECEMBER 7 6 / 6:15 / 6:20 / 6:25 / 7 P.M. IS / WDL / ES/ EN / EP

COST: $26

Enjoy the dazzling display of thousands of Christmas lights and decorations at The Edison and Ford Winter Estates as they celebrate their 47th Holiday Nights. We will tour the grounds on our own, enjoying all the festivities. What a great way to get into the Christmas spirit!

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TONE CHIMES CONCERT

TUESDAY, DECEMBER 12

1 P.M.

GRAND CYPRESS ROOM/WDL

Join us in the Grand Cypress Room and enjoy the musical stylings of the Tone Chimes playing their favorite Christmas tunes, from classical to contemporary. No sign up required.

CAROLING AT FRIENDSHIP POINT

MONDAY, DECEMBER 15 6:30 P.M.

FRIENDSHIP POINT/ISL

Join in on the Christmas spirit as we sing all your favor ite traditional and nontraditional Christmas songs, led by the Resident Programming Team. Cookies and hot chocolate will help us get into the spirit before the singing begins. No sign up is required.

SHELL POINT SINGERS CONCERT: CHRISTMAS CAROLS FOR COMFORT AND CELEBRATION

MONDAY, DECEMBER 19

3 P.M.

THE VILLAGE CHURCH/ISL

Join your friends and neighbors at The Village Church for the Shell Point Singers’ “Christmas Carols for Comfort and Celebration” concert. Enjoy many of the familiar songs of the season as this talented group of singers celebrates the holidays with song. Free, no sign up required.

SHOPPING EXCURSION TO NAPLES

FRIDAY, DECEMBER 27

9:30/ 9:40/ 9:50/ 9:55/ 10 A.M.

IS / WDL / ES / EN / EP

APPROXIMATE RETURN 3 P.M.

COST: $7 (LUNCH ON YOUR

OWN)

Come along for a trip to The Village Shops on Venetian Bay in Naples to finish up (or start!) your Christmas shopping. The beautiful waterfront setting, colorful Mediterranean architecture, art sculptures, boutique shops and established restaurants have made the Village on Venetian Bay one of the most notable landmarks and attractions in Naples for more than twenty years. Discover apparel from name brand merchandise to sophisticated private label collections. There are art galleries, gifts for the home, exquisite timepieces and dazzling jewelry. The Village’s restaurants range from indoor and outdoor waterfront settings offering fine dining to casual pub fare—the perfect way to satisfy your appetite and take in the sights over Venetian Bay.

WATERS EDGE CONCERT –THE DUELING PIANOS

WEDNESDAY, DECEMBER 29 6 P.M.

FRIENDSHIP POINT/ISLAND

What are Dueling Pianos? Two piano players try to outdo each other to see who can play better and faster to get your feet pumping! This exciting free concert on the Friendship Point stage features two grand pianos and a pair of energetic pianists ready to entertain you with humor and music! Light refreshments will be served. No sign up required.

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Mark your calendar for two fun-filled days of shopping as talented Shell Point crafters display their unique, useful and beautiful creations. Browse original works of art and photography, pottery, woodworking, fabric and needlecraft, jewelry, children’s items, shells and sparkling glass, along with handmade fashion accessories.

Sign-up required; call a Concierge Desk: Island: 454-2282, Woodlands: 454-2054 Walking required Stairs Save the Date SHELL POINT GAMES SHELL POINT GAMES SHELL POINT GAMES MONDAY, MARCH 27 THROUGH FRIDAY, MARCH 31 Shell Point’s beloved biennial event returns in 2023. Get ready to join in on the fun and competition! 2D ArtandShowSale MARCH FRIDAY, MARCH 10 AND SATURDAY, MARCH 11 9 A.M. – 2 P.M. THE VILLAGE
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DIABETES SUPPORT

FRIDAY, DECEMBER 2

1 P.M. • SOCIAL CENTER/IS

Anyone impacted by diabetes or looking to learn more including spouses or family members are invited to attend the Diabetes Support Group. Each monthly meeting covers a different topic and includes an open discussion and an opportunity to share. Call Vivian Ciulla (239) 225-2929 for more information.

VISION ENRICHMENT

TUESDAY, DECEMBER 13

2:15 P.M. • SOCIAL CENTER/IS

This group provides educational opportunities and support for those individuals dealing with low vision. Discussions may include the emotional aspects of vision loss, investigating solutions, helpful tools, and sharing resources. At every session, you will learn a “quick eye exercise” that you can utilize at home and share with others. Please join us to share your story, your knowledge, as well as your experiences with other residents. For additional information, contact Healthy Living Coordinator Katy Quinones at (239) 454-2101.

HEARING ENRICHMENT

WEDNESDAYS, NOVEMBER 23 ; DECEMBER 28

1:15 P.M. • SOCIAL CENTER/IS

Poor hearing can affect many aspects of one’s life. This group seeks to help residents cope with hearing loss, share information, learn about services and products that may help and offer support to each other. This is a great opportunity to try out the assisted listening devices available in the Social Center. For more information, call Healthy Living Coordinator Robert Torres at (239) 433-7975.

PARKINSON’S ENRICHMENT

TUESDAY, DECEMBER 6

10:15 A.M. • SOCIAL CENTER/IS

The Parkinson’s Enrichment Group aims to provide support and educational opportunities to those affected by Parkinson’s disease as a patient, caregiver, family member, or friend. Meetings include speakers, group discussions, and emotional support. For more information, call Healthy Living Coordinator Christy Hayford at (239) 433-7939.

HEART HEALTHY

MONDAY, DECEMBER 5

10 A.M. • SOCIAL CENTER/IS

The Heart Healthy group aims to provide support and educational information to individuals living with heart disease. The goal of the group is to allow members to share their experience, fears and solutions in an effort to help everyone from the newly diagnosed to those managing heart disease for many years. For more information, please con tact Healthy Living Coordinator Nola Mokeyane at (239) 433-7976.

CONNECTIONS CIRCLE: CAREGIVER SUPPORT

WEDNESDAY, DECEMBER 21

10 A.M. • BUTTONWOOD ROOM / WDL

This group offers support for residents or family members that are caregivers for someone with dementia. Participants will have the opportunity to connect with fellow caregivers, share ideas and discuss the stresses, challenges and rewards of providing care for a loved one. If there is a need for respite, a coinciding group offering supervised activities for your loved one with dementia is available. Preregistration is required. Contact Emily Reese, Connections Program Coordinator, (239)454-2134 or Connections@shellpoint. org to register your loved one for the supervised activity program or questions about the group.

GRIEFSHARE

Group is on hiatus and will resume in January.

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Support GroupS Gifts of Christmas: Hope, Joy, Peace and Love Presented by Women’s Connection The Village Church Auditorium Wednesday, December 14 9:30 - 10 a.m. — Registration and Refreshments 10 - 11:15 a.m. — Program Sign up November 27 and December 4 or at the church office (239) 454-2147

In 1983, President Ronald Reagan declared November as National Alzheimer’s Awareness month. In 1994, he bravely disclosed to the world he had been diagnosed with the disease. President Reagan made the personal disclosure with the intention of bringing clear understanding of the condition and its impacts on individuals and families. Today, 6.5 million Americans age 65 and older are living with Alzheimer’s dementia.

The fight to end Alzheimer’s contin ues with research as the primary weapon. Although there have been disappointments in developing treatments, a new weapon built on

Fighting Alzheimer’s

research is a lifestyle approach to reduce risk of developing disease. Findings from two longitudinal studies (Chicago Health and Aging Project and the Rush Memory and Aging Project*) indicate healthy lifestyle is associated with a substantially lower risk of Alzheimer’s disease. Furthermore, the studies indicate increased risk reduction is correlated with engaging in multiple healthy lifestyle factors.

Shell Point Connections Café pro gramming highlights the “Big Four” life style areas, which are healthy eating, physical activity, cognitive stimulation, and stress management. Memory classes, topical lectures, exercise classes, and healthy menu items in the restaurants all support the Big Four approach. A wellness support

program is available for residents who need more guided encouragement in starting or maintaining a healthy lifestyle change. If you are a caregiver of a spouse with memory changes, there are caregiver education classes, Connections Circle Support Group, and respite services. For a person impacted by memory changes, there are opportunities for socialization and engage ment through the Day Retreat at the Springs and UCLA Memory Care Program.

The fight to end Alzheimer’s will continue. For many it will be per sonal, but for all there are resources and support in the battle. For more information about programs and services referenced here, you may contact your Healthy Living Coordinator or Connections@shellpoint.org.

National Alzheimer's Disease Awareness Month

*Neurology. 2020 Jul 28;95(4):e374-e383. doi: 10.1212/WNL.0000000000009816. Epub 2020 Jun 17.

The Best of Care

Shell Point and its skilled nursing center, the Larsen Health Center, recently earned multiple recognitions for its high quality of care and overall performance by Newsweek and the Fort Myers News-Press.

Newsweek partners with respected global data research firm Statista to create an annual ranking of America’s Best Nursing Homes. This year’s ranking identifies the nation’s top nursing homes based on three critical criteria: overall performance data, peer recommendations, and each facility’s handling of COVID-19, rel-

ative to in-state competition. Nursing homes in the 25 states with the highest population size, according to the United States Census Bureau were included in the study. Among the 37 best nursing homes recognized in Florida, the Larsen Pavilion ranked No. 12 on the list.

Once again, Shell Point swept the Fort Myers News-Press 2022 Best of the Best Awards, earning top community choice accolades for Assisted Living and Memory Care and a finalist ranking for Senior Living.

Practicing Gratitude

“Thank you.” It’s more than just a polite response to a good deed. It serves as a reminder that we all have things to be thankful for and reasons to feel grate ful. Purposefully recognizing the good in our lives and expressing appreciation and thanks is engaging in the practice of gratitude.

Gratitude is foundational to well-being and mental health. In positive psychology research, gratitude is strongly and consistently associated with greater happiness. Gratitude helps people feel more positive emotions, relish good experiences, improve their health, deal with adversity, and build strong relationships.

When you learn to have a thankful heart and to see the best in all situations, you learn to be more positive even in the toughest of times. It’s easy to express gratitude during success and when things are going our way, but it’s harder to see the positive during difficult times. It’s during these times we need to be more grateful for the lessons learned. In Psalm 28:6-7 when David was crying out to God to be saved from death, God heard his prayer

and answered it, and David showed his gratitude. “Praise be to the Lord, for he has heard my cry for mercy. The Lord is my strength and my shield; my heart trusts in him, and he helps me. My heart leaps for joy, and with my song I praise him.”

Here are a few suggestions to help you cultivate gratitude: Write a thank-you note expressing your enjoyment and appreciation of someone’s impact on your life. Send it, or better yet, deliver and read it in person. Keep a gratitude journal. Make it a habit to write down or share with a loved one thoughts about the gifts you’ve received each day. Practice mindfulness by focusing on the present moment with out judgment. Pray and thank God for the blessings in your life.

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Research shows that gratitude can help us cope with traumatic events, regulate our negative emotions, and improve our well-being. More importantly, gratitude can have a positive effect on our friends and family, too. It’s a small way to have a meaningful impact.

Out & About

Ready to Rally

Even a hurricane can’t stop Shell Point’s pickleballers from serving up a good time! Just two weeks after Ian, players got back to playing their favorite game. The group’s skill set ranges from beginner to advanced—but regardless of experience, all players are happy to greet a newcomer and encourage them to join in the fun as they rally on the courts every day of the week.

Adventure to Cabbage Key

A group of 20 residents embarked on a trip to Cabbage Key, famously known as the inspiration for Jimmy Buffet’s hit song Cheeseburger in Paradise. The journey began bright and early from McCarthy’s Marina aboard the 45-foot Santiva, where residents enjoyed a relaxing and informative boat ride as they made their way through Pine Island Sound. Friendly gopher tortoises welcomed residents to the island as they made their way up to the restaurant to share a lunch of burgers, seafood, and slices of key lime pie. Afterwards, some residents relaxed and soaked in the tropical scenery, while others climbed an overlook tower for an amazing view of surrounding islands or walked along nature trails leading to overlooks of different waterways.

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Harry and Margaret Nesteruk (Estuary) Bob and Jan Barger (Junonia), Jay Wright (Estuary), Paul Friedler (Junonia), Bibi Stein (Junonia)

You Scream, I Scream

Everyone loves a good scoop of ice cream, especially when it is served up compliments of The Legacy Foundation! Residents socialized while enjoying each other’s company and an assortment of delicious flavors from Black Pearl Homemade Ice Cream from North Port. Favorite flavors included the deliciously smooth “Best Vanilla Bean You’ve Ever Had” and the decadent “Cookie Monster.”

Give Samba a Try

Perhaps one of the most popular card games enjoyed by Shell Point residents is Samba, a strategic game formerly known as Canasta from the Rummy family. Shell Point’s Samba Games were originally started in 2012 by Barbara Milligan (Larsen Health Center) and Dorothy Zablotsky (Oakmont), and ten years later, the club has more players than ever with roughly 150 members.

Serving as the director of Samba Games since its inception, Dorothy decided it is time to pass on the torch to Mary Mazur (Junonia), who will take on the responsibility of the club as it continues to grow. Before stepping down, Dorothy emphasized the desire for more residents to join in on the fun. “We are looking for new players and will be glad to teach the game to all those who are interested,” she said. “You won’t be sorry you’ve learned this wonderful game.” The group meets several times throughout the week, and with the new addition of a detailed Samba rule book authored by resident Leland Mills (The Arbor), it is easy for anybody to get involved and participate in the exciting game.

Although members of Samba Games clearly appreciate the game in itself, the club provides an opportunity for something much more valuable. Players use the time to socialize and catch up with friends within the community, as well as meet new ones through events like “Samba Sweet Night,” when nearly 50 members and non-members came together to have some tasty desserts and play a game they enjoy. The club certainly fosters a social environment, and as a result, it is not uncommon for players to lose track of their games as they get carried away in conversation. For anybody looking to make new friends and try something new, Samba Games just might be worth a try.

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Nancy Ferguson (Rosemont), Susie Means (Oakmont), Morton Zablotsky (Oakmont), Nancy Kofira (Oakmont) Eunice Murray (Oakmont), Mary Waters (Oakmont), Deborah Hiser (Eagles Preserve) Leland Mills (Arbor) Ilse Franklin (Palm Acres), Stephanie Johnson (Enclave), Mary Coddens (Oakmont), Dorothy Zablotsky (Oakmont) Patricia Mowbray (Royal Bonnet) and Maddy Hanlon (Harbor Court) Karen Chamberlin and Lillie (Junonia) Barney and Karen Pultz (Sundial)

Shell Point Retirement Community Hosts the Iona McGregor Fire District

In late summer, Shell Point Retirement Community hosted the Iona McGregor Fire District as they led a multi-week train ing program for Lee County firefighters in an ideal acquired structure: the empty Larsen Pavilion on The Island.

Together, crews from Fort Myers, Fort Myers Beach, Sanibel, Cape Coral, Lehigh, Estero and Bonita Springs focused on different aspects of firefighting operations and trained on skills such as search operations, rope operations, communication and Rapid Intervention Teams. Firefighters on different shifts from multiple agencies were eager to practice their skills and train in an unfamiliar highrise setting.

“This training is a unique opportunity to deploy our hose lines and make our fire attack simulations in a building we actually used to respond to in our district,” said Iona Fire Department Division Chief John Wisdom. “We don’t get the opportunity very often to get inside these buildings when it is not an emergency, so being able to get together and practice our skills—

especially with our neighbors from six different agencies—is an amazing experience and an amazing opportu nity. Thank you, Shell Point, for wel coming us so we can have fun, train, and be better prepared to serve you.”

As a retired fireman, Shell Point’s Fire Safety Officer Patrick Blanchard recognized the benefits of offering the Pavilion for training purposes.

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Shell Point Fire Safety Officer Patrick Blanchard and Iona Fire Department Division Chief John Wisdom

“We appreciate every thing the Iona McGregor crew does for us,” said Patrick. “Shell Point is happy to help support them with this space and opportunity.”

According to Megan Contreras, Iona McGregor Fire District’s Community Relations and Education Coordinator, training at Shell Point gives firefighters an opportunity to build relationships with staff and residents too. “We hope those who saw the training have confidence and trust in their local first responders and recog nize the hard work they put in daily to keep us all and themselves safe.”

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The crews used rope systems to practice highrise rescues as they rappelled down the Larsen Pavilion. To simulate a fire response, engines pumped high-pressure water lines into the building and crews worked through dark hallways filled with theatrical smoke (similar to what is used at a concert).

The Firefighter Experience

The Iona Fire Department graciously offered to let interested Shell Point employees experience what it is like to be a firefighter—and several accepted the challenge! The exercise included donning nearly 60 pounds of gear, taking a hose load up four flights of stairs to the fire area, crawling low in a smoked environment, and searching for a victim in the smoke. After the experience, Kevin May, Director of Facility Operations, shared his thoughts:

“Suiting up in full firefighting gear and participating in a full training exercise is a once-in-a-lifetime experience most people never have an opportunity to do. While putting on the equipment, my first thought was “This is heavy!” It was also inspirational, and it felt like armor to give you courage.

I was blessed enough to borrow Patrick Blanchard’s old firefighting gear, and I wanted to honor his name that was on his helmet

I was wearing.

The sense of anticipation as I climbed the stairs was a huge adrenaline rush. I was trying to listen to the instructor while thinking about what we would see—or not see—when inside the smoke-filled hallway.

This opportunity demonstrated the physical aspect of firefighting, which was very apparent with all the gear on—but that is secondary. My adrenaline was going through my veins even though I knew I was in a safe environment and not in mortal danger. The emotional and mental aspects of firefighting are second to none.

After the exercise, Patrick asked me how I felt, and then he told me that it’s exactly that feeling that gets inside of you and makes you want to keep doing it and putting yourself in harm’s way. It is amazing to me to think how firefighters willingly put their lives on the line to help save other people.

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Brian Hinds, Chief Information Officer; Kevin May, Director of Facility Operations; Justin Schiff, Director of Project Development; and Paul Tison, Director of Dining Carol Sperlak, Resident Engagement Manger and Shirl Stringer, Island Concierge Kevin May, Director of Facility Operations

The Shell Point Veterans Group, which honors the ideals of all veterans at Shell Point and promotes programs in support of veterans, their families, and surviving spouses, has been an important resource for the past 13 years. After its founding in 2009 by Jack Hubbard, a retired United States Air Force Major and a former Royal Air Force B-17 Bomber, the group has been sustained over the years by ded icated residents including Karen Hubbard (Turban), Helen McDonald (Oakmont), and Paul and Jane Hoden (Oakmont).

Jim Stapleton (Harbor Court), a retired Army veteran who has coordinated the group since 2018, has focused on organizing meetings with informative and interesting speakers, planning annual activities, and communicating with the community’s veterans.

“I’ve also been working on improving engagement, especially for our veterans in Assisted Living,” said Jim.

Jim has been joined by a pair of Harbor Court residents to help lead the group into 2023: Teri Romano, a retired defense intel ligence inspector and her husband Bob Cardin, retired Army Lieutenant Colonel and Vietnam War pilot.

Plans for the new year include recruiting new volunteers to help in a variety of areas, including identifying speakers; serving as court coordinators; increasing coordination of VA benefits for members and surviving spouses; and acting as a liaison both for veterans in Assisted Living and surviving spouses. There is also a need for volunteers to visit sick veterans and participate in Hope Healthcare’s VALOR program Honor Guards.

“Our plans provide more veter ans with leadership opportunities to become more involved and will allow us to continue to serve our Shell Point veterans and their spouses,” said Bob.

All Shell Point veterans, family and friends are welcome to join the group and attend events—there is no official “membership” involved.

“One thing that will stay the same in 2023 is the group’s mantra,” said Jim. “Never Stop Serving.”

Never Stop Serving 300 SHELL POINT VETERANS BY THE NUMBERS VETERANS, SPOUSES AND SUPPORTERS MORE THAN WAR TIME ERA: WW II 39 KOREA 36 VIETNAM 117 IRAQ 1 U.S. Army 88 U.S. Navy 39 U.S. Air Force 34 U.S. Marines 14 U.S. Coast Guard 1 Royal Air Force 2 Royal Canadian Air Force 2 BRANCH OF SERVICE
Shell Point Veterans
Jim Stapleton, Teri Romano and Bob Cardin (Harbor Court) will lead Shell Point’s Veterans Group into 2023. The group commemorates Veterans Day, Memorial Day, and National Vietnam War Veterans Day each year.
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Shell Point’s WWII Veterans were honored with special Dream Flights in 2021. Another event to honor our Veterans is planned for 2023.

The Chapel in the Larsen Health Center A

Haven of Peace During Challenging Times

The recent events brought about by Hurricane Ian created a number of significant challenges for the residents and staff here at Shell Point. During this trying time, it became more important than ever to have safe spaces where individuals could find peace in the midst of chaos.

One such space has been the beautiful chapel in the Larsen Health Center. This chapel, which was generously provided by Dee (Horne) Nesselroade in memory and

honor of her late husband Jerry Horne, provides a quiet place where residents, family members, and staff can find peace and comfort in their relationship with the Lord.

Residents come to the chapel to talk with God, pray for friends and family, and ultimately be reminded that no earthly pos session is greater than receiving His love.

The atmosphere of the chapel provides an opportunity for occupants to feel His pres ence and be grateful for His many blessings

even in a time of much uncertainty, making it an invaluable resource to Shell Point and all who reside here.

The chapel was initially constructed in the Larsen Health Center to provide a place for all residents and staff to separate themselves from the troubles of the outside world. It is not uncommon to find a small room in hospitals and different healthcare facilities designated as a place of worship, however, they are often no bigger than a

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closet and have little consideration put into them. “Every aspect of this chapel was designed with the needs of our residents in mind,” said Martin Schappell, President of Shell Point.

The chapel is located on the ground floor of the Larsen Health Center. To the right of the lobby, there is a hallway that leads past Lindy’s Café, two educational rooms, and the Pavilion Auxiliary workroom. At the end of the hallway, on the left, is the chapel. “The chapel’s location in the Larsen is somewhat secluded, but the hope was that it would provide a place of quiet soli tude away from the hustle and bustle of the main lobby while still being easily accessible to everyone who lives in, visits, or works within the building,” he said.

“Time slows down in the chapel,” said Dee. “As you sit in the quietness of this restful chamber, you relinquish the tyranny of the urgent desire to ‘do’ and accept the reality to simply ‘be.’ It is at that moment that we can hope to hear the still, quiet voice of the Holy Spirit.”

As individuals visit the chapel, they are greeted by calligraphy artwork at each side of the entrance that prepares hearts for introspection. The first is the beautifully illustrated Lord’s Prayer taken from Matthew 6: 9-13, and the second is Psalm 23: The Lord is my shepherd; I shall not want. He maketh me to lie down in green pastures; he leadeth me beside still waters. He restoreth my soul; he leadeth me in the paths of righteousness for his name’s sake. Yea, though I walk through the valley of the shadow of death, I will fear no evil; for thou art with me; thy rod and thy staff they comfort me. Thou preparest a table before me in the presence of mine enemies; thou annointest my head with oil, my cup runneth over. Surely goodness and mercy shall follow me all the days of my life; and I will dwell in the house of the Lord forever.”

Once inside, the chapel is an intimate space, while providing seating for 16 peo ple. The focal point is a beautiful altar table crafted from wood with a top that

appears to float above a delicate stainedglass structure created by Shell Point’s own resident artists. On the altar is a gleaming brass cross, a large Bible, and two brass candlesticks.

ing treatment inside the chapel mirrors the outdoor pergola effect.

The chapel’s interior walls are engraved with a delicate vine motif that reminds us of Micah 4:4, which states: “But they shall all sit under their own vines and their own fig trees, and no one shall make them afraid.”

The chapel is open at all times for both residents and staff. “People find peace in this little refuge,” said Sunny Torres, Director of Spiritual Services. “In a community dedicated to the service of God and the care of his people, spiritual peace is often the rock underneath our feet. This chapel is just one of many ways Shell Point emphasizes spiritual wellness and care for its residents.”

Sunny added that “residents of the Larsen can be going through one of the most challenging times of their lives, and these times require spiritual strength. More often than not, faith is the thing that keeps residents standing up and spiritual care can be just as important as medical. The chapel can be used by residents and families for their everyday relationship with God, for times of loss and closure, or any other crucial moment in life that might require a calm and peaceful environment, and it is important that this resource is available.”

“The chapel is a sacred space,” said Dee. “Just as Jesus went into the garden alone to pray, we often come to the chapel alone. But we are not alone. It is here that the Holy Spirit is waiting for us when we need his love the most.”

Behind the altar, a large glass window looks out onto a large white cross anchor ing a small seating area overlooking the nature preserve. A white pergola provides shade to the outdoor seating area. The ceil

Following recent events like the Covid pandemic and weather catastrophes, the new chapel fills a need in the community that is more important than ever. It is no secret that the pandemic and Hurricane Ian made a large impact on the lives and mental health of all those residing in the community, and the chapel has the potential to provide spiritual relief from physical and personal loss for all those affected. It is times like these where Shell Point’s dedication to God’s people and their spiritual care is most important, and the Larsen Health Center chapel will always be a place for just

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that.
‘‘Time slows down in the chapel. As you sit in the quietness of this restful chamber, you relinquish the tyranny of the urgent desire to ‘do’ and accept the reality to simply ‘be.’ It is at that moment that we can hope to hear the still, quiet voice of the Holy Spirit.”
Dee (Horne) Nesselroade

Christmas Season

at The Village Church

The Village Church Christmas Concert

SUNDAY, DECEMBER 4 AT 6 P.M.

Christmas Caroling in The Springs, The Arbor and Kings Crown

SUNDAY, DECEMBER 18 AT 3 P.M.

Christmas Eve Candlelight Service

SATURDAY, DECEMBER 24 AT 6 P.M.

Christmas Morning Worship Service

SUNDAY, DECEMBER 25 AT 10 A.M.

Are ‘Life’s Big Questions” on your mind? You are not alone! Experience Alpha with us and explore the answers with which we all struggle.

Fast-moving video presentations provide a natural lead-in to the small-group conversations that focus on discovery rather than dogma. You will find that there are no dumb questions!

Whether you attend church or not, Alpha will provide refreshing insights and answers to Life’s Big Questions. Join us as we gather together for ten Tuesday evenings from

Tuesday, January 10 though Tuesday, March 14. Together, we’ll share experi ences and opinions, learn from each other, and form new friendships.

Each session begins with a complimentary dinner, followed by a video and your small group discussion. Sessions take place in the Woodlands Grand Cypress Room, starting promptly at 4:30 p.m. and ending at 6:45 p.m.

Alpha is sponsored by The Village Church and the Academy of Lifelong Learning. The course, underwritten by The Village Church, is free to participants.

Register by Thursday, January 5 either online at www.villagechurchshellpoint.org/alpha or by calling the church office at (239) 454-2147. Space is limited.

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CELEBRATING THE

refused to be comforted...”

Holiday Haze

The season of Thanksgiving, of Christmas, of Hanukkah — all leading up to the New Year. A season of lights and food and decorations and food and giving and food and celebrations and, of course, did I mention, food. I love this time of the year.

Maybe it starts too early. They started to put up Christmas lights in our neighborhood in September. Christmas decorations are marketed starting at Halloween. We endure all the commercialization, and I hope we all look forward to the real celebrations.

But it won’t be the same this year. A fog has set in on our holiday season. A holiday haze. Clouds over the celebrations.

That’s because we have just experienced one of the strongest storms to have ever hit Southwest Florida. Hurricane Ian has left an indelible mark on the landscape, and on our psyches. More

than 100 deaths in Florida. Neighboring communities devastated. Hundreds of Shell Point residents displaced as more than 250 units flooded, requiring extensive renovation. Much loss of possessions. More than 50 Shell Point employees lost homes.

Will we celebrate as we used to? How could we? The loss will color all of our celebrations.

To be sure, Thanksgiving will be very special at Shell Point. The Lord’s protection of our community was remarkable, especially considering our geographical vulnerability. Gratitude for the amazing job our Shell Point administration and employees did in preparation, sheltering, and restoration must be celebrated. And yet, it will be a sober celebration as we consider the losses which surround us.

But then, the holidays we celebrate have all had their dark sides. The brightness of their glories shines against the backdrop of dark clouds.

The first Thanksgiving is normally

thought to have been celebrated following a devastating first winter that claimed the lives of half of the Pilgrims. A successful autumn harvest, along with the support of local native Americans, occasioned the celebration.

Hanukkah first celebrated the liberation and rededication of the second Temple in Jerusalem by the Maccabeans, following the Temple’s desecration by Antiochus IV Epiphanes.

And even Christmas, the birth of Jesus, had its dark side, as Herod murdered the male infants in a vain attempt to destroy the One born king of the Jews.

So perhaps a holiday haze is more the norm than the exception.

May our very unique experiences in 2022 enable us to celebrate the holidays in a more thoughtful, loving, meditative, caring, and meaningful manner!

And may God bless the Shell Point community with His gracious hand during this special time.

(Matthew 2.18)
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It’s the holiday season!

Nature’s Notebook

I'm Still Standing

I have been knocked down in life, as have you. Our hearts have been crushed by the loss of a loved one. We have been set back financially, only to start over again. Our health has failed us at times, and so has our confidence. Carefully constructed plans have been revealed to be castles made of sand. Yet, we con tinue to wake up each morning and persevere.

Resilience is part of the human condition. The ancient Greeks understood our struggles well, and their mythology remains relevant after more than two thousand years. The story of the King of Corinth, Sisyphus, symbolizes the power of perseverance. Each day Sisyphus awakens to the task of rolling a huge stone up a mountain, only to discover the stone again at the bottom of the mount the next day. Hercules was challenged by twelve dangerous labors that he successfully overcame despite his suffering.

As fall transitions to winter, for many, it is the opportunity to evaluate and start anew, to adjust the plan. But for me, there is no greater metaphor for resilience than the deciduous cycle of trees. Each fall the leaves dry and float away, resulting in a winter skeleton of despair. But despite the pall of the tree’s appearance, we are con fident that spring will end the lifelessness, and green swelling buds will proclaim the glory of resurrection.

Hurricane Ian crashed through Southwest Florida like an invis ible, invading army. Wind driven swords sliced and stabbed at the trees, threshing leaves and stems from branches. Trees that have stood their ground for decades were mowed down by transparent battle tanks of wind and rain. Imperial Stormtroopers of poisonous salt water followed the initial assault, inundating anything left upright. An hour after the storm I stood at ground zero, overcome with helplessness. The landscape that I nurtured for the last 18 years was now a war zone.

Adansonia digitata is native to the African continent and the southern Arabian Peninsula. It is the source of many differing culture’s indigenous remedies, traditions, and folklore. It has earned the nickname, “The Tree of Life.” Radiocarbon dating has shown some individual trees to be over 2,000 years old, perhaps existing during the time of the ancient Greeks. The Baobab tree’s long life, combined with its massive size perhaps demonstrates the ultimate in sylvan resilience.

Two days after the storm, I visited Shell Point’s flowering tree arboretum. Rounding the corner behind the Arbor, I noticed the pretty wooden gazebo was intact. Walking into the arboretum, I winced at what I found. The Ylang-Ylang Tree was stripped bare of leaves and branches like a forlorn telephone pole. The African Tulip Tree had fallen onto a Pink Shower Tree, breaking some of its branches. In the back of the arboretum, I was overwhelmed to see our sole specimen of the Baobab tree. Despite being stripped of leaves, it was still upright. Looking closer, I noticed a minute green bud on a branch tip. It was a glimmer of hope, a harbinger of life. As this year draws to a close, we are still standing!

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