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Teens experience abuse too
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The Washington State Domestic Violence Fatality Review has been studying domestic violence–related homicides in our state since 1997. The research shows how early many abusive relationships start. Nine percent of domestic violence homicide victims were under 21 at the time they were killed, and 31% of homicide victims in studied cases were under 21 when they started dating the abuser. Several met in high school or middle school. Researchers found that education about dating violence in schools was not sufficient and often started too late. In their first experiences with dating, these young people did not get critical information about what a healthy relationship is or practical tips on what to do if someone was abusing them. Their parents also did not have the information they needed. Many tried to help, but did not know about resources—like their local domestic violence program—that could help them in their efforts. We can do better. Teens need information, safe options, and support. Dating violence is a complex issue with no one, simple answer, but it is simple for each of us to play a role in teaching teens about healthy relationships. For teen dating violence support, find the domestic violence program in your community at wscadv.org, contact the National Teen Dating Abuse Helpline at 1-866-331-9474, or text “loveis” to 22522. To raise money and awareness for domestic violence prevention, register today for the Refuse To Abuse® 5K at Safeco Field at refusetoabuse5k.org. Kelly Starr Director of Communications Washington State Coalition Against Domestic Violence
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ne in three teens has experienced some kind of abuse in their dating relationship, according to the American Journal of Public Health. One in three. This includes physical and emotional abuse, stalking, and sexual coercion. Abuse may look different in teen versus adult relationships, but we need to take it just as seriously.
Wednesday, July 2, 2014 • Whidbey News-Times
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Barbara Cynthia “Cindy” Coffin
Cindy Coffin passed away at her home in Oak Harbor on June 18, 2014 at the age of 57, surrounded by loved ones, after a nine-year battle with cancer. She was born on April 24, 1957 in Summerside, Calif., to John and Barbara Coffin. Cindy grew up in a military community. Her father was a career U.S. Marine Corp colonel. She graduated from high school in Alameda, Calif. Following graduation, she attended the Vidal Sassoon Beauty Academy. In 1984, Cindy moved to Oak Harbor to be near her parents. Cindy met Steve, the love of her life, 29 years ago. Shortly after, Cindy had the baby girl she had always dreamed of. After her daughter started school, Cindy began her career at Whidbey Island Bank, where she made many lasting friendships. She was dedicated to the bank for the past 24 years, serving as a compliance officer at the time of her death. Cindy loved decorating her house for every holiday, especially Christmas. Her favorite pastimes were sitting on the deck with her family and enjoying the sun, vacationing in tropical paradises, making her garden beautiful and, of course, shopping. Cindy was a loving and inspirational person, touching the lives of everyone who knew her. She was always content making others happy. Cindy is survived by her husband, Steve Dickemann; her daughter, Amberly Coffin; her father, John C. Coffin; her two brothers, John W. Coffin and Kenneth Coffin; and her two sisters, Vicki Skilbeck and Debbie Branco. A Celebration of Life for Cindy will be announced in the near future. Friends and family are invited to visit
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Sandra Kay Pease
Sandra Kay Pease, age 72, born Nov. 10, 1941 in Astoria, Ore, passed away June 23, 2014 at Swedish hospital in Seattle. She was surrounded by loving friends and family throughout her extended illness and was with family at the time of death. Sandy is survived by her husband of 50 years, Don Pease; daughter Carrie Gerdes and husband Dana of Burlington; son Brian Pease and wife Pamela of Oak Harbor; granddaughters Taylor, Riley and Morgan; and grandson Jake. She also leaves behind beloved niece Laura Renninger and countless other friends and relatives. Sandy will be remembered by many as the elementary music teacher at Broadview Elementary in Oak Harbor, where she sang and danced with children throughout her career. Sandy loved people, all people, and especially children. She lived life fully and gave her energy to everyone and everything. Don and Sandy spent most of their married years in Oak Harbor. In 2002, they moved to their dream home in the Methow Valley in eastern Washington. Hobbies included tending her flowers, sewing and scrapbooking the lives of her grandchildren. She loved the community and volunteered as she was able. Paramount in her life was time spent with her grandchildren. The world is not quite as bright without this biggerthan-life, loving lady. Memorial services will be held in Oak Harbor and Methow Valley in the near future. Remembrances may be made to your favorite charity.
Soroptimists install officers
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The Soroptimist Club of Oak Harbor recently installed its new officers. From left to right are, front row: Kathy Jones, Cathy George, incoming president Marilee Paddock, Christine Davenport and Sarah Russell; middle row: Barrylynn Wenaas and Carolynn Kaetterhenry; back row: Kathy Doll, past-president Paige Bates and Renee Faber. Soroptimist is an organization whose members volunteer to improve the lives of women and girls through programs leading to social and economic empowerment. With more than 80,000 Soroptimists in about 120 countries and territories, they support community-based and global projects benefiting women and girls and help provide women and girls access to education. Oak Harbor Soroptimist Club runs a thrift store, Upscale Resale, on Pioneer Way. Store proceeds are returned to the community through scholarships, awards and contributions.
CHURCH NOTES n LIFE CHURCH is holding Jesus: Rockstar Kids Camp 2014 Tuesday, July 22 through Friday, July 25. It’s for children ages 6-12. There will be a chapel time each morning and activities in the afternoon, including a trip to Bowman Bay, Water Day, Movie Extravaganza and a Field Day filled with games and bouncy houses. The times are 10 a.m. to 4 p.m. each day. The cost is $75 per camper before July 4 and $85 after. Call to ask about family discounts; limited scholarships are available. Registration closes on July 12. Register online at lifechurch.co n St. Hubert Catholic Church is holding VACATION BIBLE SCHOOl: The Garden of Eden Monday, July 7 through Wednesday, July 9 from 9 a.m. to noon each day. For children Pre-K through 6th grade. To register, call Rachel at 360-221-7744. n The CHANCEL CHOIR OF OAK HARBOR FIRST UNITED METHODIST CHURCH, 1050 SE Ireland St., presents “America – Sweet Land of Liberty,” the annual musical celebration of God and Country 7 p.m. July 3. Everyone is invited. n GANGWAY TO GALILEE VACATION BIBLE SCHOOL, 6 p.m., Monday, July 14 to Friday, July 18, Concordia Lutheran Church, 590 N. Oak Harbor St., Oak Harbor. Learn about Jesus and His grace at Gangway to Galilee Vacation Bible School. Registration 8:45 a.m. July 14. VBS hours 9 a.m. to noon. Pick up form at church office Monday through Thursday 9 a.m. to noon or print out online form at www.concordialutheranwhidbey.org n Oak Harbor Seventh Day Adventist
Church is holding a VACATION BIBLE SCHOOL 10 a.m. to noon Monday, July 28, through Friday, Aug. 1. The program is “Investigation Station: Galactic Quest.” They will play an important role in investigating God’s plan for their life. There will be skits, games, entertaining characters and snacks. For ages 5-12. n LITTLE LAMBS PRESCHOOL at Concordia Lutheran Church, 590 N. Oak Harbor St., is accepting registrations for the 2014-15 school year, beginning in September for ages 3 and 4. A $50 nonrefundable deposit is required at the time of registration; tuition is due the first of the month, $90 for 3-year-olds and $120 for 4-year-olds. The teaching staff is experienced in preschool education, which is characterized by a love for Jesus, a love for children and a dedication to providing the best environment and experiences for learning and kindergarten readiness. For more information, call the church office at 360-675-2548. n WHIDBEY ISLAND FRIENDS, also known as Quakers, holds their regular meeting for worship 4-5 p.m. Sundays at the Unitarian Universalist building, 20103 Highway 525, two miles north of Freeland. This time of silent worship together may include spoken messages. For more information, visit www.whidbeyquakers.org or email Tom Ewell at tewell@whidbey.com n Oak Harbor’s CHRISTIAN SCIENCE READING ROOM is open for study and prayer 11 a.m. to 3 p.m. Tuesdays, Thursdays and Fridays, and 3-7 p.m. Wednesdays. Visit christianscience. com or christiansciencewhidbey.com