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LAST CHANCE TO CATHERINE MAZZOLA, MD Pediatric Neurosurgeon | Hackensack, Morristown

We met Dr. Mazzola on the worst day of our lives-we had just been told our 12-year-old had a tumor wrapped around the cervical portion of her spine. The care she gave us was remarkable and unwavering. She literally saved my daughter’s life and has continued to provide exceptional care. —D.O., MATAMORAS, PA

TIMOTHY OLSON, MD, PhD Pediatric Oncologist | Philadelphia

Dr. Olson is amazing. He’s a good listener, understands a patient’s and parent’s concerns and explains the diagnosis. He makes a patient and parent feel cared for, and takes the time to answer any and all questions. He’s knowledgeable, observant, reassuring and skillful. Dr. Olson saved our son and we are forever grateful.

SUE X. MING, MD, PhD Child Neurologist | Newark We met Dr. Ming when my autistic son was 17. Whenever we visited, Dr. Ming talked to my son in a very friendly manner and gave me a comfortable environment to “chat” with her about our problems and his needs. Then she tried to find the best way to ease things for all of us. —K.P., BASKING RIDGE

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Our daughter was diagnosed with Down syndrome at 13 weeks pregnant, then high-risk specialists noticed a hole in her heart at 16 weeks. Dr. Fernandes was the first doctor that made us feel at ease. He supported us and was extremely thorough. He continues to show how much he cares about the children he sees.

Her soothing voice and gentle nature made both my preemie daughters and me comfortable immediately. They are now strong, confident 5-years-olds on the playground. The physical therapy made a huge difference in their development.

I’m now 16-years-old and have been a patient of Dr. Samadi since I was about 2 years old. Unfortunately, I’ve had three surgeries because of chronic ear infections but thankfully I’m better. Dr. Samadi is the best. Even when I was a child and very scared of those instruments going in my ear he was always patient and understanding. —D.D., ENGLEWOOD

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Contents Day Trippin’

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the day exploring and eating in 23 Spend one of these New Jersey towns.

Stuff We Love

TREAT YOURSELF Go shopping for yourself this Mother’s Day.

Raising Smarties

Special Section

SPECIAL NEEDS ADVOCATING Tips to support your child with autism during hybrid learning

THE RIGHT CHILD CARE How to pick a daycare or preschool that’s a good fit during stressful times.

NJ’S BEST LAWYERS FOR FAMILIES Our list of the state’s most recommended attorneys.

On the Cover

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Me Time

CLEARLY 10 SEEING Make sure screentime isn’t damaging your kids’ eyes.

‘TIS THE SEASON Keep spring allergies at bay with these tips and tricks.

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CAMPERS 60 HAPPY What to know to keep STAFF PHOTO

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the kids healthy and safe this summer.

HOME IMPROVEMENT Get inspired for your next makeover project.

Explore

TO GETAWAY 56 TIME Drivable destinations we love + tips to plan your next Disney vacay

PLANNER 63 APRIL/MAY The best events, fests and more this spring

Mom Crush

MOM PROBS 62 MODERN Meet the NJ mom behind the Instagram account.

Editor’s Letter

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Hello Spring! Springtime in New Jersey is the best—from cherry blossoms and daffodils to counting down the weeks until Memorial Day weekend at the Shore, there’s so much to look forward to, especially after the crazy year we’ve been through. As the weather warms up and more of us get vaccinated, chances are you’re desperate to get out and explore again. In this issue, we’re shouting out some of our favorite NJ towns to visit on a day trip. From Princeton’s beautiful campus and downtown to Lambertville’s quaint shops and eateries to Cape May’s gorgeous beach, we’re sharing our must-do lists for each of these special spots. If you’re itching to go on vacation (and who isn’t?) but haven’t made a plan yet, we’re highlighting drivable destinations filled with outdoor adventures, history, fantastic food, wine and craft beer. Thinking about making your way to Disney World? We’ve got the details on what has changed since COVID to help you plan your trip. One of the best things about being a part of New Jersey Family is our amazing community of families. Thanks to readers like you, we’ve just compiled our fifth annual New Jersey’s Best Lawyers for Families list. We asked parents about attorneys who’ve made a difference in their families’ lives during the pandemic and received nominations from all over the state. The result is an invaluable list of parent-recommended lawyers who specialize in family law, special needs, estate planning and more. It’s a list you’ll want to hold onto.

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All that screen time can take a toll. Here’s how to keep kids’ (and your own!) eyes healthy: Teach kids to take breaks. “The average person blinks fifteen times a minute,” says Pagan-Duran. “But when we’re staring for an extended period of time, that goes down to half or a third of that number, which can lead to dryness and discomfort.” Common signs of eye strain include blurry vision, headaches, burning eyes or tearing. Reading or writing for hours at a time may also cause Continued on page 14 >>>

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It’s no secret your kids are spending more time than ever staring at computers and other digital devices these days. So it’s natural to worry about what all that screen time is doing to their vision. “It’s difficult to set screen time limits with virtual learning and kids connecting with friends and family online,” says Brenda PaganDuran, MD, spokesperson for the American Academy of Ophthalmology and in private practice at Westwood Ophthalmology Associates. “But there are other ways to help prevent digital eye strain and protect your child’s vision.”

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S et up a healthy work space. If kids are using devices outside or in a brightly-lit area, have them adjust the monitor to reduce screen glare. Take the brightness or contrast down a notch until it feels more comfortable, says Pagan-Duran. Make sure laptops or other digital devices are about 18 to 24 inches away, which is about an arm’s length. But don’t bother buying blue light-blocking glasses or filters, which are marketed to reduce eye strain. There’s no evidence they do anything to prevent fatigue. However, blue light can affect our wake/sleep cycles and make it harder to fall asleep. Therefore, the American Academy of Pediatrics recommends shutting down screens at least one hour before bedtime (and not letting kids sleep with devices in their rooms!).

Get kids outdoors. The number of people with nearsightedness, or myopia, is rising — perhaps at least in part due to increased screen time. But some studies have shown that spending time outdoors decreases kids’ risk of myopia and may slow its progression, says Pagan-Dugan. Encourage kids to play outside or take a walk or a fresh air break at lunchtime. ractice healthy eye behaviors. Make sure kids receive P regular vision and eye health screenings, and call your pediatrician if your child is complaining about vision issues such as blurriness. He or she may refer your child to an ophthalmologist to evaluate the source of the problems. For example, your child’s watery eyes may be caused by eye strain, or they may be due to seasonal allergies. If your kids play contact sports, especially basketball, soccer, racquet sports or field hockey, make sure they wear the appropriate protective eyewear with shatterproof polycarbonate lenses, says Pagan-Duran. Kids should also wear sunglasses that block 99 to 100 percent of UV rays to reduce the risk of conditions such as cataracts and macular degeneration in the future. —Arricca Elin SanSone is a New York-based health and lifestyle writer.

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symptoms. To prevent eye strain, encourage kids to practice the 20/20 rule: Every 20 minutes, have kids look away from the screen into the distance for 20 seconds. This reminds kids to blink and relaxes the lens inside the eye, which helps improve moisture. Set a timer on digital devices, place a paperclip every few chapters in books or set up bookmarks for e-books so kids will remember to take breaks. It’s also okay for kids to use lubricating eye drops that do not contain preservatives to relieve dryness.

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Help your kids manage the seasonal sniffles with expert tips to keep allergy misery at bay.

easonal allergies can interfere with your kids’ sleep, decrease concentration and generally make them completely miserable. And it all starts earlier than you think, with tree pollen the main offender in the spring. “Pollen comes out as soon as the ground thaws, which is typically by the end of March and beginning of April in this area,” says allergist Satya Narisety, MD, clinical assistant professor at Rutgers New Jersey Medical School. “The height of the season continues into May. But your child doesn’t have to suffer if you take a proactive approach.” Here’s what you can do to help your child feel better:

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COVID? “There’s some overlap of symptoms between allergies and COVID, but there are a few identifying features,” says Narisety. While both conditions may involve a runny nose, COVID may also include a fever, cough, shortness of breath, body aches and loss of taste or smell. But nausea and diarrhea are other COVID signs which are not symptoms of allergies. On the other hand, typical allergy symptoms include a runny or itchy nose or mouth, itchy skin, stuffy nose, puffy eyes and sometimes a cough or mild loss of taste or smell. But one of the telltale signs of allergies is itchy, watery eyes, which isn’t a COVID symptom. Another sign you’re dealing with allergies? If your child always gets the sniffles this time of year, says Narisety. If your

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CONTROL THE ENVIRONMENT There are a few things you can do to limit your child’s exposure to pollen. For starters, keep the windows closed and run the AC in your home and car. Wearing glasses or sunglasses also reduces the amount of pollen that gets into your child’s eyes. After coming indoors, have your child wash his or her face, says Narisety. Toss clothes in the laundry, and make sure kids shower and wash hair before bed so they’re not transferring pollen to their pillowcases to sleep in it all night. Pollen counts are higher in the mid-morning, early evening and on windy days, so keep kids inside during these times if possible (you can also check the daily count at pollen.com). If you have a dog, make sure kids wash their hands after playing with him or her. You can also wipe your dog down after bathroom breaks and bathe your pet regularly to control how much pollen is carried inside.

START NASAL SPRAYS BEFORE SYMPTOMS KICK IN If your child’s doctor has approved them in the past, start corticosteroid sprays before pollen season starts because they can take up to two weeks to work for nasal congestion and itchy

or runny noses. Look for over-the-counter (OTC) children’s products like Flonase (fluticasone). If your child complains about the spray burning, try a water-based formula like Rhinocort (budesonide).

ADD AN OTC ANTIHISTAMINE Try adding OTC antihistamines, which come in liquid, chewable or pill forms if your child is having breakthrough symptoms such as sneezing and itchiness while using the spray. Look for children’s-strength medications such as Zyrtec (cetirizine), Allegra (fexofenadine) and Claritin (loratadine), which last 12 to 24 hours. “These second-generation antihistamines are longer-lasting and have fewer side effects than the older ones, such as Benadryl,” says Narisety.

TALK TO YOUR PEDIATRICIAN Your pediatrician may prescribe meds if your child doesn’t feel better in a few weeks using OTC meds. Ask for a referral to an allergist to identify what kinds of allergies or health issues your child may have. “Sometimes it’s another condition called chronic rhinitis, or he or she may be allergic to indoor allergens,” says Narisety. Your child’s allergist may suggest immunotherapy shots, which gradually desensitize kids to allergens and may prevent other allergies and asthma from developing.

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Home SWEET HOME A few simple updates will transform your space and yield a great return on investment.

START WITH CURB APPEAL First impressions are everything. When evaluating a home, buyers definitely judge a book by its cover, says New Vernon-based real estate agent Stefani Werring. “The majority of home buyers have already seen the entire interior of the home online before they’ve stepped foot in it physically,” Werring says. “If they pull up to the house and they don’t like what it looks like from the street, a lot of times they won’t even get out of the car.” A fresh coat of paint is an easy way to make a big impact on the exterior of your home. “Painting is an upgrade that yields an incredible return on investment,” Werring says. She recommends consulting with a color expert to help you choose paint options buyers will find appealing. “Even if you can’t afford to paint the entire house, it pays to make sure the trim is in tip-top shape, says Shirley Messinger, a Coldwell Banker real estate agent in the East Brunswick area. “When you walk up to the door, potential buyers will see if the kick plate and the trim around the door are peeling.” It’s also crucial not to neglect basic landscaping and lawn care. “Landscaping makes the biggest impact on curb appeal,” Messinger says. “If people have let shrubbery overgrow and block the house, a nice pruning and fresh mulch application really dresses up the whole property.” Messinger and Werring agree that installing a pool can go either way when it comes to attracting buyers; in seasonal areas like NJ where a pool will only be used a few months out of the year, the cost of maintenance is harder to justify.

SMALL CHANGES, BIG DIFFERENCE A coat of paint on your home’s interior is a great way to freshen up its aesthetic. “In the past few years, we’ve actually seen the rebirth of a crisp white interior,” Werring says. “It’s very fresh, sleek, and minimal and it’s nice because if a home is extremely outdated and sellers feel overwhelmed, white is a blank canvas. Buyers can come in and have a much easier time envisioning what they would do to the space to make it their own.” Minor updates can really brighten up a home. “When I walk into a bathroom, usually the tub and shower are in great shape, but the bathroom sink is either chipped or worn, or the cabinetry is water-stained,” Messinger says. “Something as easy as replacing a vanity really improves the

impression that people get when they walk into each room.” In the kitchen, swapping out cabinet hardware and lighting fixtures can elevate its appeal, says Alexandria Como, a Morristown interior designer. “Even for someone on a smaller budget, if you can get a designer in to help make a few selections, you can do what you like without it being so outrageous,” Como says. “The beauty is, let’s say you paint your island blue—in five years, you can repaint it. You’re not married to it forever.” Consider replacing overly ornate molding, says Wyckoff-based interior designer Terri Fiori. “We recently replaced dentil molding from a client’s home with a much simpler crown molding. Previously, your eye was drawn right to the moldings,” Fiori says. “Now it’s simply a cleaner transition.” Adding hardy plants, fresh flowers and accent pillows to a space are just a few low-cost additions that make a big difference.

WORTH THE INVESTMENT Creating an outdoor living space is an investment you’ll be able to enjoy now and that’ll attract buyers in the future. “When temperatures get a little warmer and because people don’t feel as comfortable entertaining indoors, they’re taking to their outdoor spaces,” Werring says. “You could put in a fire pit, a sensible patio and maybe a water feature.” Improvements that lower your monthly costs are a great idea. “Heated floors warm the floor up so often people are able to set their thermostat lower, which saves money in the long run,” Werring says. “They make windows that are very energy efficient, and it saves the seller money on monthly heating and cooling costs. Buyers like to know what they’re looking at in terms of monthly expenses when buying a home.” Installing hardwood flooring is another investment that can show a 100 percent return. “If you have wood flooring that has been covered with wallto-wall carpeting, remove the carpeting and refinish the floors if needed,” says Fiori. “A throw rug can be changed out with the seasons, based on the room you have in mind. It’s not only a healthier option, but will open up the space.” Don’t remodel a bathroom or kitchen just to sell a home. If these rooms are in need of an update, it’s better to give buyers a credit on the sale and let them do what they want, Werring says. On the flip side, if you’re going to live in the house for at least another 3-5 years, Messinger says to go ahead and upgrade the kitchen or bath. You’ll be able to enjoy them for the money that you spend, and they’ll add value to your home’s resale, too. Equally important to visual improvements is making sure to service your HVAC system and hot water heater regularly. Doing so ensures you won’t be surprised by expensive repair or replacement costs after a home inspection. No matter how much you spend, taking these tips into account will give you the most bang for your buck. —Heidi L. Borst is a mother, writer and lifestyle coach based in Wilmington, NC.

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You don’t have to hop on a plane to get that amazing vacation feeling. You can do it all right here in NJ! These towns are unique, family-friendly and have plenty to see and do. Be sure to check all places and activities for COVID rules and hours before heading out. Happy adventuring!

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Princeton

Princeton University

ith its prestigious university, busy town square and hidden treasures, Princeton is the perfect spot to spend a Saturday. Its stunning architecture and lush green lawns provide a pretty backdrop to start your day. Grab a coffee or dirty chai from Small World Coffee, walk around the campus and lay out on the grass or seek out some of the university’s more unique art—the Circle of Animals/ Zodiac Heads sculptures are worth searching for. Palmer Square is considered the heart of Princeton and there’s so much to explore. The first stop for finding games, puzzles, dolls and toys is jaZams toy store. The place is a kid’s dream come true and its helpful, friendly staff ensures you’ll find a unique treasure like no other. Another special place for shopping is Morning Glory on Nassau Street. This eclectic shop is chock full of cute knick-knacks, toys and accessories. Music lovers should head to Princeton Record Exchange to show the kids those round flat things that music came on before there was TikTok. Princeton offers a variety of cuisines and you’ll have a hard time deciding what to eat first. Small Bites by Local Greek is a popular spot for lunch (the larger, more extensive nearby restaurant Local Greek is BYOB). For that collegiate feeling, stop by the Yankee Doodle Tap Room for burgers and craft beer (and don’t forget to check out the Princeton alumni photos on the wall inside—extra points for spotting Brooke Shields!). Princeton has a thriving sidewalk café scene happening and there’s nothing better than grabbing a togo beer or glass of wine from Alchemist & Barrister and a slice from Jules Thin Crust and people watching from an umbrella-covered table. A foodie favorite is The Bent Spoon for artisan ice cream. (Insider tip: the dark chocolate sorbet is so decadent you may even prefer it to the chocolate ice cream!) If you’re ready for more exploring, seek out the bust of Albert Einstein near the Battle Monument. No trip to Princeton is complete without passing by Einstein’s house on Mercer Street (but please heed the private property sign since it is not a museum). As you walk around, look for the green ovals

on select buildings which signify some of Princeton’s oldest remaining structures. Not far from downtown, Terhune Orchards has pretty much everything a family could want in a day’s outing—seasonal pick-your-own fruits, barn animals, a farm store and flower picking in the springtime where they hand you scissors to cut your own stems. There’s even wine tasting and live music on the weekends—save room for the excellent cider donuts, which you really should buy by the bag. Another spectacular outdoor destination is Grounds for Sculpture in nearby Hamilton. Spend a few hours taking in contemporary art at this 42-acre museum, sculpture garden and arboretum. Located on the former New Jersey State Fairground, this haven was opened by artist Seward Johnson and features 300 contemporary sculptures and other works of art. Agricola is the place you want for enjoying a farm-to-table, craft cocktail, out-of-this-world dining experience. With a Rosemary Gimlet in hand and the restaurant’s famed mushroom flatbread in front of you, you’ll be plotting your next visit to this amazing university town. The McCarter Theatre has live shows for children and adults and the Princeton Garden Theater is a go-to for indie films. Both are temporarily closed, but check for reopening dates. Jammin’ Crepes is the food you’ll leave craving more of whether it’s the sweet or the savory. The Pastry Room and Salad & Smoothie Market is a cute shop with fresh smoothies made-to-order. House of Cupcakes was a winner on the Food Network’s Cupcake Wars for good reason—the Hostess-style cupcake with white filling and swirls is the one you want. Olsson’s Fine Foods in Palmer Square has the yummiest grilled cheese! Add some fig jam to your sandwich for a taste sensation. Marquand Park is a 17-acre arboretum with gorgeous trees, winding paths and a playground. Go during spring to see everything in full bloom.

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Long Branch Long Branch is the ultimate destination for beach lovers looking to pair a day at the shore with shopping and dining. Less than 90 minutes from New York City, this Monmouth County city is home to a beautiful beach and bustling Pier Village’s trendy shops and restaurants. Start your day at the beach at Seven Presidents Oceanfront Park, named after the US presidents who vacationed there. The park is made up of 38 acres of ocean beach, guarded swimming, surfing, fishing, boating, volleyball and a boardwalk. Then take a stroll on the boardwalk toward Pier Village. For lunch, grab an acai bowl at Playa Bowls, a burger at Stewart’s Rootbeer or a pizza or sub at Tony Boloney’s. Indulge your sweet tooth with candy from Sugar Pop Candy Bar or hit up Rocky Mountain Chocolate Factory for caramel dipped apples and homemade fudge. Plan a dinner with waterfront views at 100 Ocean, an American Mediterranean restaurant with a local, seasonal menu at Wave Resort, a boutique hotel with a Miami vibe. Avenue Le Club has a Parisian brasserie feel and is home to a members-only private beach club. McLoone’s Pier House, an oceanfront restaurant with glass walls serving up steaks, pastas and homemade desserts, is another favorite. More new spots are slated to open at Pier Village this summer. Bring the kids to the carousel across the street from Wave Resort or take in one of the free weekly outdoor concerts and

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Asbury Park

This shore town is worth a visit, even when it isn’t beach season. The pristine boardwalk has an artsy vibe, with stunning murals on display, upscale dining and funky shops. A trip to the beach is a must, so reserve your space in advance during busy summer months. If you visit with the kids and need a break from the sand, head to the Silverball Museum. This arcade is filled with retro and modern pinball machines and other games, and the hourly rate gets you unlimited game play. Go downtown to Hot Sand to let the kids try their hand at making glass art. From fusing to casting to actual glass blowing you’ll leave with a truly one-of-a-kind glass souvenir. The whimsical Asbury Park Splash Park is a great way to cool off and features giant garden equipment and flowers. Once concerts make a comeback, head to the legendary Stone Pony where icons like Bruce Springsteen got their start. With a large outdoor summer stage, take in the salty sea air during a show. For a sugar fix, head to Ocean Avenue to Coney Waffle for some wild takes on classic boardwalk snacks, or Betty’s Icebox for healthier twists like shave ice and vegan soft serve. Don’t miss Talula’s for homemade pizzas crafted in a wood burning oven or Lentil Tree for falafel and kebab platters. For family-friendly food, try Pop’s Garage. This Mexican-inspired restaurant has delicious twists on Jersey classics. In the off-season, you can grab some of Pop’s famed specialties at Langosta Lounge. If you’re looking for a celebratory night out, head to Moonstruck, located in an old Victorian home with wraparound porches, lake views and seafood for days. And if you’re on a date night or out with friends, head to Asbury Park Distilling Co. for a tour of how booze is made in a beautiful tasting room, where you’ll also sample some original cocktails.

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movies under the stars during the summer. Oceanfest, an annual July 4th celebration, is one of the largest summer happenings at the Shore and has music, food, crafts and fireworks. Theater buffs can see a play at the New Jersey Repertory Company when it reopens. If your day trip turns into an overnight, stay at the Wave Resort or Ocean Place Resort & Spa.

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Cape May

Cape May Zoo & Park

Crow’s Woods Hiking Trail

Haddonfield

This South Jersey gem has historic homes and a modern main street but what many don’t know is back in 1858, the bones of a complete dinosaur were found here. The Hadrosaurus Foulkii skeleton is on display at the Academy of Natural Sciences, and the discovery site on Maple Avenue in Haddonfield is a national historic landmark. Hadrosaurus Run, a small stream, runs through a deep ravine and the sticky banks contain everything from shark teeth to fossilized remains. After a storm, children can actually dig and find nature’s treasures left behind or use the Geocaching app to hunt for treasures left by other travelers. Don’t forget to bring your toy dinosaurs—or buy them at the well-known Haddonfield toy store, Happy Hippo. Children leave them on the bench and a small society of residents, mainly other children, maintain the small dinosaurs at the site so they “move” around. Crow’s Woods Hiking Trail in Crow’s Woods Nature Preserve is 1.5 miles of hill, swamps, woods and creek at the very end of South Atlantic Avenue. The trails are dog and stroller-friendly. Once you make you way back to civilization, look for the Hadrosaurus statue, part of the Children’s Sculpture Zoo on Kings Highway. The zoo contains multiple animals and the sculptures are often for sale. Definitely save time for lunch or dinner. Crust n’ Fire is wonderful for pizza and hamburgers, in addition to Pizza Crime and Nocella’s, both offering pizza and Italian foods for take-out. If you’re in the mood for Thai, Sanook is a popular spot and be sure to try the Drunken Noodles. For authentic Mexican food with great ambiance, try El Nopalito. And if you want fancier fare, Mare Monte and Valente’s Cucina are delicious. Groovy Smoovies combines smoothies with classic movies. The owners purchase produce from local farms and retro films are always playing.

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Not only is Cape May’s beach consistently voted once of the best in the country, the city is also dotted with quaint stores and restaurants and set in a neighborhood filled with colorful Victorian homes. The beach in Cape May is unmatched anywhere else on the Jersey Shore. You can easily pass a day here in warm weather, and even in colder temps it’s fun to just walk along the shore or on the beautiful boardwalk. Spend an afternoon hanging with zebras, giraffes and pink flamingos at the Cape May County Zoo. This fantastic zoo is free and open year-round. Another beautiful daytime destination with the family is Beach Plum Farm. Kids can have fun picking berries, feeding hens and checking out all of the fresh produce they grow. Explore the Washington Street pedestrian mall, which is filled with shops and restaurants. Snag an outdoor table at Cape May Fish Market for sandwiches, burgers and the raw bar. Renting bikes for the afternoon is a fun and easy way to explore and get some exercise. Cape Island Bike Rental has three locations. Head to Sunset Beach to dig for “Cape May diamonds,” pure quartz crystals that sometimes wash up on the shore. When it’s time for a sweet treat, visit Peace Pie for ice cream sandwiches in a variety of flavors. The Original Fudge Kitchen offers homemade fudge and saltwater taffy—no trip to the beach is complete without it. For a truly terrific adventure, Cape May MAC trolleys offer guided tours of the historic district. On summer nights, check out free movies on the beach at Stockton Beach. Children’s activities begin at 8 pm and movies start at 8:30 pm. Watching the sunset on Cape May from the lawn of the historic Congress Hall hotel is a must. Let the littles run around on the Grand Lawn while you sit back in a rocking chair with a cocktail in hand, marveling at all this amazing beach destination has to see and do.

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Liberty Science Center

Jersey City

A day in this diverse city is a must for its family-friendly activities, amazing eats and epic New York City skyline views. Your first stop in Jersey City should be the Liberty Science Center. This massive science museum is filled with animals, hands-on exhibits, an amazing infinity climber that hangs in mid-air, a touch tunnel and live demos on electricity and more. Make sure to see a show at the planetarium, the largest in the Western hemisphere, where you can gaze at the stars or watch a mesmerizing 3D movie. Afterwards, head to Liberty State Park to bask in the outdoor space, catch spectacular views of the Manhattan skyline and visit the Empty Sky Memorial, a moving tribute to 9/11. If you want to take the kids or out-of-town guests to Ellis Island or the Statue of Liberty, the ferry leaves from Liberty State Park, saving you a trip to NYC. Get exceptional artisan pizza at Razza, try rooftop dining at Porta, score homemade brats at Würstbar or try a new twist on old-school dining at the newly-opened Automat Kitchen. For a unique night out, try the Italian food at 15 Fox Place. With its homey décor and food, you’ll feel like you’ve been transported right back to your grandma’s house. Lutze Biergarten has a family-friendly vibe with outdoor picnic space and city views. For fine dining with an unbeatable NYC views, Jersey City has a few spaces that are often spots for events and weddings, but perfect

for a special occasion of your own. Maritime Parc in the Liberty Landing Marina specializes in traditional seafood with a modern look, including a raw bar filled with local shellfish. Liberty House offers farmto-table cuisine with seasonal, locally-sourced ingredients. Battello has upscale Italian fare with a heavy seafood-influence. Finish your day with dessert. Bang Cookies are packed with flavor and come in original or booze-infused treats (and yes, they ship!), Ample Hills has gourmet ice cream and Milk Sugar Love has two locations in JC and offers ice cream and baked goods for the best of both worlds.

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Lambertville

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This charming town has a surprise around every corner, from unique local restaurants to high-end antique shops. A walkable bridge connects the town to New Hope, Pennsylvania, which means a day trip here really gives you two towns to explore in an afternoon. In Lambertville, you’ll find sweeping views of the Delaware River, cute shops and abundant food choices. Kids love crossing the bridge between the two towns so they can

stand in two states at once! Park on the Lambertville side of the bridge, which is a little more peaceful than New Hope with its pretty storefronts and antique shops. The towpath, which extends 60 miles, has gorgeous scenery for a walk or bike ride. A stroller will do fine here too, and you can have fun trying to spot turtles or do some birdwatching. Cavallo Park is home to the largest playground space in town plus a newly built pavilion and outdoor fireplace. Nearby Howell Living History Farm takes families back to the year 1900. You can learn about rural history through hands-on activities including everything from ice harvesting and maple sugaring in the winter to sheep shearing in the spring. Kids can help farmers plant and harvest crops, care for animals, build fences and do chores that keep the farm running smoothly. Your guides here wear period costumes, so you’ll truly feel like you’ve stepped into the past. Head back into town for lunch or dinner at the Lambertville Station Restaurant and Inn, which offers al fresco dining in season with amazing views of the Delaware River. Liv and Charlie’s …Real Food is a great spot for breakfast or lunch “made with love, served with love” from owners Eileen and Nicole. By the time you get back to your car, you’ll have definitely hit over 10,000 steps so get the kids a treat. The ice cream at Owowcow is made with local roasted fruits and veggies, organic extracts, and hand-baked ingredients.

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Montclair

Founded in the mid-1800s as a model “country town,” NJ’s citified suburb with vintage homes and cultural institutions is beloved for its artistic bent, commitment to diversity and endless ways to have fun. Kick off your day with one of Montclair Bread Company’s doughnuts (try the tres leches) and a caffeine fix from Bluestone Coffee, a fave of resident Steven Colbert. Meander through the Van Vleck Home & Gardens gorgeous landscaped grounds, then feast your eyes on the “rainbow on the hill” aka 14,000 flowers that bloom each spring at the Presby Memorial Iris Gardens. Or, play ‘I spy a raptor’ at the Montclair Hawk Lookout in Mills Reservation, a birder’s delight. Grab lunch at Jack’s Seafood Shack which is across the street from the Montclair Art Museum. Devour a dreamy double lobster roll then explore the celebrated museum’s exceptional American art collection (tip: buy tickets in advance—they sell out).

From there, head downtown to Montclair Center, a 10+ block stretch along Bloomfield Ave showcasing everything from swanky restaurants to unique boutiques. Book an appointment to view Cool Cat Music Company’s specialty guitars and more. Giftbar’s shelves are stocked with covetable and quirky items for the person who has everything. The whimsical Parcel bursts with precious papery picks—the garlands are especially darling. Just Kidding Around is a toy store you’ll need to drag your kids away from. And, if you’ve managed to bring a teen along with you, Stokedville will satisfy your moody one’s dark pop culture needs. Raymonds is a retro-style, threemeal favorite with updated comfort classics and kiddie faves with a twist. For something a bit more posh, settle into the pub Egan & Sons for refined Irish eats, better bar bites, and an award-winning beer list—welldeserved after a long day.

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Maplewood Mercantile

Brooklyn West? That’s what locals jokingly call Maplewood. The walkable downtown bustles on weekends, with locals and visitors enjoying charming restaurants and retailers. South Orange, Maplewood’s sister town, can be identified by streets lined with oldfashioned gas street lamps and a cool vibe boosted by the South Orange Performing Arts Center (SOPAC) and Seton Hall University. Ready to explore SOMA? Try The Order, a favorite cafe offering a worldly selection of drinks or visit the Mediterranean-inspired Jackie and Son for smoothies and griddled delights. Head to The Fox & Falcon, part trattoria, bistro and pub for a seasonally-inspired dinner (get the fried fennel, you guys!) and signature cocktails. Indie toy store Sparkhouse stocks a wide selection of toys—the STEM selection is especially top notch. Maplewood Mercantile is a woman-owned shop in the heart of town filled with vintage home finds. Mod Studio has an in-house design bar to customize your kids’ tees. Essex’s expansive 2,100-acre nature reserve, South Mountain Reservation, is packed with play areas, historic sites and hiking trails galore, including its enchanting Fairy Trail filled with dollhouse-like creations tucked into nooks along its edges. The res also boasts ice skating in the winter plus mini golf, an aerial obstacle course, and most famously, the Turtle Back Zoo, a treasure boasting more than 200 species. Take the long way to Maplewood’s town center— checking out SOMA’s picture-perfect, vintage homes is popular pastime. Grab a slice of Able Baker’s blueberry coffee cake and meander under the tracks to Memorial Park. Once a year, it’s home to the rollicking two-day music, art and food fest, Maplewoodstock. End the day at Village Ice Cream Parlour for custom milkshakes and other creations named for local schools. Sweet.

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Morristown

Historic Speedwell

From history and modern art to culture and fantastic food, Morristown has so much to offer daytrippers. Morristown National Historical Park is a sprawling outdoor space with 27 miles of hiking trails, maintained by the National Parks Service. See the Revolutionary War Winter Encampment where Washington and his troops spent the coldest winter on record. Currently closed, but worth a future visit are Historic Speedwell, the Birthplace of the Telegraph, and the SchuylerHamilton house, where Hamilton fans know Alexander first met Eliza. In neighboring Morris Township, step back in time at Fosterfields Living Historical Farm, where docents in costume answer questions about life in the late 1800s. Then take a stroll through the Frelinghuysen Arboretum, a 127-acre park filled with cherry trees, a fern garden and a marsh meadow garden. The Smithsonian-affiliated Morris Museum has collections of rocks, unconventional instruments and American Indian artifacts and frequently runs exhibits of model trains or LEGO. Wander through the center of downtown Morristown in “the Green,” a historical park and former military base. Visitors can take in a concert or show at the Mayo Performing Arts Center and grab a bite at the Committed Pig, a burger and pancake house serving up some of the best in American fare, or the Famished Frog, a craft beer bar with flatbread pizzas and wings or Inspiration Roll, a casual spot with poke bowls and ramen. For dinner, try Blue Morel, an upscale New American spot with sushi and a raw bar or Jockey Hollow Bar & Kitchen, with seafood and pasta specialties.

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Red Bank

This Monmouth County town was named after the red soil banks of the Navesink River where it stands. It’s loved for its plentiful shopping, outstanding eateries and artsy, urban charm. Most New Jerseyans know the famed Count Basie Center for the Arts as the legendary spot opened in 1926—it’s part of the National Register of Historic Places and everyone from Tony Bennett to Bruce Springsteen and Count Basie have performed there. It’s now home to many concerts, touring shows and musicals. If your kids love Minecraft and Fortnite, show them the retro video games that came before at Yestercades which boasts Pong, Pac-Man, pinball and more. Make sure to stop by Jay & Silent Bob’s Secret Stash. New Jersey native Kevin Smith owns the brightly-colored comic book shop filled with toys and comics and memorabilia from his movies like Clerks, Mallrats and Chasing Amy. And pay a visit to Jack’s Music Shoppe for unique gems, records and instruments. Check out JBJ Soul Kitchen—this innovative farm-to-table restaurant is a non-profit spot opened by local Jon Bon Jovi. The rock star opened this fine

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Downtown Red Bank

dining spot where a pricey meal is affordable for everyone. Those that have the means are encouraged to pay a suggested donation and others can volunteer hours for their dinner. And if you donate, your money goes to help provide meals to others who aren’t able to chip in. Plan a stop at The Cheese Cave—this artisan shop specializes in a wide variety of cheese and has sandwiches and charcuterie platters that show off their fromage in the best ways. The Molly Pitcher Inn is a stately hotel situated right on the waterfront and marina, perfect for a special anniversary or a weekend getaway. Even if you don’t stay the night, book a meal in the dining room, with seafood dishes, oysters and panoramic views of the Navesink River.

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Ridgewood

If you’re headed to a BYOB resto for dinner, stop at Super Cellars for wine, craft beer or sake. Stella Artisan is a favorite Italian spot and it’s just next door to No. 12, a speakeasy-style brasserie with an oyster bar. Latour is a must for French cuisine or get your tapas on at Finca or Cravings. Felina’s seasonal menu is on many best of NJ lists and is expected to open its rooftop bar this summer. Try Sook for pastries, Pierre & Michel for chocolate croissants or The Cookie Connect for mega cookie goodness. End your day with a scoop from Van Dyk’s, Ice Cream by Mike, Kilwins or Ben and Jerry’s.

Westfield

Parks a plenty in Westfield

This Union County gem has pretty old homes, downtown shopping, summertime jazz and more than 300 years of history. Stop by the Reeve History & Cultural Resource Center or visit the Miller-Cory House Museum for a slice of Westfield life spanning all the way back to 1720. The houses-turned museums are owned and operated by the Westfield Historical Society and offer tours all year. Kick off the day with traditional chocolate chip pancakes at the retro Vicki’s Diner, sample some Maryland Eggs Benedict made with crab meat at the Westfield Diner or feast on Volcano French Toast at Turning Point. If interiors or home reno are your thing, stop by The Farmhouse Store. Hard-core bargain hunters will love The Outlet, The Farmhouse Store’s clearance warehouse on South Ave. in neighboring Garwood. Ono Bowls prides itself on healthy, clean living. Stick with the classic acai—a blend of granola, blueberries, strawberries and bananas, or go wild with the ginger-infused

Creste di gallo with foraged mushrooms at Felina

acai stuffed with granola, almond slices, goji berries and coconut flakes. For an afternoon refuel, head to Boxwood Coffee Roasters to taste their specialty blends of coffees and teas, or kick back with a Nutty Irishman (it’s a drink!) in a hot, iced or frozen brew around the corner at Rock ‘n’ Joe on Prospect Street. Westfield is home to nine parks which range in size and amenities—from Brightwood’s 44 acres of outdoor recreation including a dam, pond, picnic area and nature trails (rated 5-stars on alltrails.com) to the downtown 12-acre Mindowaskin Park with its pretty pond, fountain and gazebo. Go to Spice Bazaar on Elm Street for a full-sensory dining experience with each dish beautifully prepared and loaded with exotic flavors. Try the turmeric, garlic and gingerlaced Salmon Tikka, or the Chicken Chettinad, a gluten-free dish steeped in a rich coconut sauce. If traditional but unique and decadent cuisine is more your thing, walk around the corner to 16 Prospect. This bar/restaurant, reminiscent of a Manhattan jazz lounge, also boasts live music and local bands.

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From restaurants for every palate to coffee and tea shops to indulgent dessert spots, Ridgewood is a go-to destination for foodies. The bucolic Bergen County village is also a prime shopping destination with architecturally beautiful homes. Start your day at American Bulldog Coffee Roasters for freshly roasted java or try the viral S’mores Latte at Rey Sol Coffee. Head to Village Tea Shop for bubble tea or bring home whole leaf tea varieties from Spicer’s Naturals. Ridgewood is home to boutiques, consignment shops, athletic stores, eclectic home shops and more. Pazzazed is a favorite for its unique gifts, collection of coasters and NJ-inspired treasures. Bookends is one of state’s best indie bookstores thanks to its history of A-list celeb signings. The kids can get crafty at Color Me Mine pottery studio and have a spa day at Sweet & Sassy. Visit the Ridgewood Historical Society & Schoolhouse Museum to see Lenape, Early Dutch settler and 19th Century artifacts and learn what life was like for early residents of Bergen County. A day trip can take you to the Wild Duck Pond, where you can walk or bike a lengthy trail that goes though multiple towns. Buy a day pass to Graydon Park, a lake surrounded by sand with a beach-like vibe, or hit up a free summer concert in at the Kasschau Memorial Bandshell in Veteran’s Park.

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ELDER LAW Gary Garland • Manalapan Eric Goldberg • Roseland Andrey Milvidskiy • Paramus

ENVIRONMENTAL Grace C. Bertone • Hasbrouck Heights

ESTATE PLANNING Kristine M. Carranceja-Gurski • Toms River Colleen L. Clark • Manahawkin Susan K. Dromsky-Reed • Roseland, p. 41 Gary Garland • Manalapan Stuart M. Gladstone • Roseland, p. 41 Alex M. Hilsen • Cranbury, Red Bank, p. 39 Kevin J. Hubbard • Chatham Brad M. Kaplan • Berkeley Heights, p. 47 Christine L. Matus • Toms River Susan B. McCrea • Westfield

Andrey Milvidskiy • Paramus Ann-Marie Murzin • Clark Glenn Praschil • Wayne Andrew M. Wolfenson • Union, p. 45

FAMILY LAW Rita M. Aquilio • Red Bank, Watchung, p. 43 Jodi Argentino • Montclair Santo V. Artusa, Jr. • Hoboken, Jersey City, Passaic Kristyl M. Berckes • Red Bank, Watchung, p. 43 Jamie N. Berger • Morristown, p. 42 Jenny Berse • Westfield, p. 46 Samuel J. Berse • Westfield, p. 46 Alexandra K. Bouadana • Hackensack, Livingston, p. 46 Sylvia L. Breitowich • Wall Hillary Brower • Brielle, Old Bridge Daniel A. Burton • Red Bank, Watchung, p. 43 Joseph P. Cadicina • Morristown, p. 46 Cary B. Cheifetz • Summit Melissa Cipriano • West Caldwell, p. 36 Patricia J. Cistaro • Mendham Alix Claps • Randolph Aaron Cohen • Morristown, Woodcliff Lake, White Plains, NY, p. 44 Cheryl Connors • East Brunswick, Eatontown

Jerry S. D’Aniello • Bridgewater, Hackensack, Roseland, p. 38 Carolyn N. Daly • Morristown Scott D. Danaher • Bridgewater, Hackensack, Roseland, p. 38 Nicholas De Metro • Montclair, p. 41 Erin D. DeGeorge • Clinton, Morristown Caitlin DeGuilo Toker • Clinton, Morristown Rosanne S. DeTorres • Clinton, Morristown Richard S. Diamond • Millburn Helen M. Dukhan • Hackensack Patricia A. Dulinski • Westfield Adrienne D. Edward • Jersey City Ashley E. Edwards • Red Bank, Watchung, p. 43 Robert A. Epstein • Hackensack, Livingston, p. 48 Sandra C. Fava • Morristown, p. 42 Diana N. Fredericks • Annandale Brian C. Freeman • Jersey City, Montclair Francine Julia Galante • Brielle, Old Bridge Sean P. Gaynor • Morristown Laura Guinta Gencarelli • Bridgewater, Hackensack, Roseland, p. 38 JoAnne Juliano Giger • Roseland Mark Goldstein • Brielle, Old Bridge Carolyn B. Hand • Clinton, Morristown Amy B. Harris • Bradley Beach

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Lawyers are listed alphabetically by category.

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Andrew M. Wolfenson • Union, p. 45 Jennifer L. Young • Cranford, p. 45 Melissa B. Zemsky • Hackensack, Springfield, p. 48

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Jamal S. Barnes • Bloomfield Albert Cifelli • Harrison Robert E. Kingsbury • Medford Tracey Oandasan • Woodstown Craig Rothenberg • New Brunswick Stanley F. Werse • Millstone Kisha Hebbon • Somerset Nancy Horta • Hackensack Robyn N. Howlett • Freehold Thomas J. Hurley • Moorestown Sarah J. Jacobs • Morristown, p. 42 Tracy Julian • Holmdel April Katz Israeli • Mountainside Ruth Kim • Hackensack, Springfield, p. 48 Nicole A. Kobis • Westfield Maria J. La Sala • Wayne, p. 43 Jeralyn L. Lawrence • Red Bank, Watchung, p. 43 Allison Leslie • Morristown Ronald G. Lieberman • Haddonfield Joseph V. Maceri • Bridgewater, Hackensack, Roseland, p. 38 Laurie J. Madziar • Short Hills, p. 44 Ashley Vallillo Manzi • Hackensack, Livingston, p. 48 Mark P. McAuliffe • Hackensack Thomas R. McConnell • Hasbrouck Heights Susan B. McCrea • Westfield Brad M. Micklin • Montclair, Nutley Dina Mikulka • Newton Amy L. Miller • Morristown, p. 42 Victoria D. Miranda • Short Hills, p. 44 Joseph M. Murphy, Jr. • Morristown Marie L. Napoliello • Hackensack Laurie L. Newmark •

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Hackensack, Whippany, p. 37 Veronica R. Norgaard • Cranford Carmela L. Novi • Hackensack Laura A. Nunnink • Fair Lawn Cathy J. Pollak • Morristown, Woodcliff Lake, White Plains, NY, p. 44 Glenn Praschil • Wayne Steven M. Resnick • Hackensack, Livingston, p. 48 A. Eugene Richards, III • Short Hills, p. 44 Adelaide Riggi • Bridgewater, Hackensack, Roseland, p. 38 Robyn E. Ross • Mountainside Victor A. Rotolo • Lebanon Renée A. Rubino • Springfield Angelo Sarno • Bridgewater, Hackensack, Roseland, p. 38 Allen J. Scazafabo, Jr. • Morristown, p. 47 Sheryl J. Seiden • Cranford AllynMarie Smedley • Woodbury Edward S. Snyder • Bridgewater, Hackensack, Roseland, p. 38 Carl J. Soranno • Roseland, p. 41 Linda Torosian • Hackensack Jill M. Tribulas • Collingswood Charles F. Vuotto, Jr. • Roseland Gale B. Weinberg • Hackensack Bari Z. Weinberger • Bedminster, Cranford, Hackensack, Freehold, Mount Laurel, Parsippany Allison C. Williams • Short Hills, p. 44 Sean Wirth • Freehold

HEALTH CARE Jeremy S. Piccini • Hasbrouck Heights

IMMIGRATION Auguy Mangone • Fair Lawn

INTELLECTUAL PROPERTY Janine Geraigery • Chatham

LAND USE Grace C. Bertone • Hasbrouck Heights

MUNICIPAL Stanley F. Werse • Millstone

PERSONAL INJURY James N. Barletti • Morristown Andrew R. Bronsnick • Roseland Angela Cervelli Bennett • Teaneck Harold J. Gerr • Highland Park Jeremy L. Hylton • Roseland, p. 41 Glenn Praschil • Wayne Salim F. Sabbagh • Roseland, p. 41

REAL ESTATE Grace C. Bertone • Hasbrouck Heights Colleen L. Clark • Manahawkin Benjamin B. Cooper • Ramsey Adolfo S. De Martinis • West Orange Jonathan B. Fahey • Far Hills Kevin J. Hubbard • Summit Brad M. Kaplan •

Berkeley Heights, p. 47 Adam Lefkowitz • East Brunswick Christine L. Matus • Toms River Joseph L. Mecca, Jr. • Paramus Toral S. Parekh • South Plainfield Jeremy S. Piccini • Hasbrouck Heights Glenn Praschil • Wayne Craig D. Spector • River Edge Andrew M. Wolfenson • Union, p. 45

SPECIAL NEEDS/SPECIAL EDUCATION Jodi Argentino • Montclair Lori E. Arons • Hackensack, p. 46 Lenore Boyarin • Cranbury, Red Bank, p. 39 Beth A. Callahan • Roseland Colleen L. Clark • Manahawkin Mariann Crincoli • Cranbury, Red Bank, p. 39 Karen F. Edler • Morristown, Woodcliff Lake, White Plains, NY, p. 44 Norma Francullo • Upper Montclair Staci J. Greenwald • Cranbury, Red Bank, p. 39 Kisha Hebbon • Somerset Alex M. Hilsen • Cranbury, Red Bank, p. 39 Michael I. Inzelbuch • Lakewood Sandra L. Lascari • Madison, Morristown, p. 47 Beth C. Manes • Westfield Christine L. Matus • Toms River Susan B. McCrea • Westfield Andrew I. Meltzer • Cranbury, Red Bank, p. 39 Mary Frances Palisano • Newark Julie Warshaw • Warren, p. 40 Jessica Weinberg • Westfield Jayne M. Wesler • Cranbury, Red Bank, p. 39 TAX Brad M. Kaplan • Berkeley Heights, p. 47

WORKERS’ COMPENSATION Andrew R. Bronsnick • Roseland John J. Rachinsky • Bayonne

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t Cipriano Law Offices, PC, Melissa Cipriano and her team work diligently to pursue fair resolutions and achieve meaningful results that serve their clients’ best interests. Cipriano has an MBA and is a qualified economic mediator, so clients benefit from the firm’s expertise in finance and business, as well as her two decades of family law experience.

COMPREHENSIVE, BUSINESS-SAVVY REPRESENTATION Admitted to the US Supreme Court, Cipriano blends her keen problemsolving abilities with business acumen to develop solutions for marital and custody issues while helping clients protect their business interests. The firm’s focus on family law, mediation and economics allows the attorneys to provide every client with comprehensive, holistic service. “My parents had a litigious divorce, I’m a divorced mom of two and I’ve been a lawyer for 20 years,” says Cipriano, who opened her firm in 2003 and has been in West Caldwell since 2007. “I can relate to my clients from every perspective there is, and my personal experiences have helped me

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PUTTING CHILDREN FIRST The firm’s legal team strives to build strong relationships with clients to fully understand their goals and concerns. While Cipriano can efficiently resolve disputes through negotiation, mediation or collaboration, she’s prepared to aggressively advocate for clients in court when necessary. “I always think of children first. They end up in the middle and they’re often confused and scared, so I approach every case from the perspective of what’s best for the children,” she says. A parenting coordinator and qualified family law mediator, including cases involving domestic violence, Cipriano volunteers on the Essex County Matrimonial Early Settlement Panel. She’s been recognized as a Super Lawyers Rising Star (2007-2009) and Super Lawyer (2011-2021). “I like what I do because I feel as though I’m making a difference in our clients’ lives,” she says. “Doing what’s best for a family is always my top priority.”

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TOWNSEND, TOMAIO & NEWMARK, LLC Laurie L. Newmark, Esq.

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aurie L. Newmark and the seasoned divorce and family law attorneys at Townsend, Tomaio & Newmark are committed to providing unwavering support and compassionate guidance to their clients. During the ongoing pandemic, they have continued to remain closely connected with clients to provide zealous advocacy and excellent service.

ADVOCATING FOR FAMILIES Newmark and co-founding partners Paul H. Townsend and Dominic A. Tomaio built their firm on the promise: “Our priority today is protecting your tomorrow.” They’ve demonstrated that regardless of life circumstances they’ll maintain the same level of advocacy that the firm is built upon. Partners John Clancy, Jessica Swenson, Gregory Pasler, Nicole Cioffi and Grace Eisenberg, as well as the firm’s almost 30 other employees, share that same commitment to service. “We are here for you…no matter what the circumstances may be in the outside world, we will remain connected and continue to serve as your advocates,” Newmark says.

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STAYING CONNECTED The pandemic didn’t stop the firm’s commitment to its clients. The firm is open and can service clients safely and without delay or inconvenience. “We quickly modified our physical offices to make them socially-distanced, and adapted our practice to provide in-person, virtual, telephone and even house-call visits, when necessary, so that the high level of representation synonymous with our firm can be maintained,” Townsend says. “For us there is no other way to practice—we continue to mediate and conduct trials, and we are continuing with business as usual. It’s part of who we are and what we do,” Tomaio says. The firm serves all areas of family law and has offices in Whippany and Hackensack. The firm has eight partners including the three co-founding partners. All of the partners are mediators and five are Certified Matrimonial Attorneys. Whether it’s a simple or complex case, the attorneys understand the sensitive nature of family conflict and use their vast experience to provide advocacy and compassion.

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SNYDER SARNO D’ANIELLO MACERI & DA COSTA, LLC Angelo Sarno, Esq., Edward S. Snyder, Esq., Jerry S. D’Aniello, Esq., Joseph V. Maceri, Esq. Scott D. Danaher, Esq., Adelaide Riggi, Esq., Laura Guinta Gencarelli, Esq. FA M ILY

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SKILLED ATTORNEYS With offices in Essex, Somerset and Bergen counties, Sarno and Snyder lead the firm with more than 75 years of experience working and ensuring each client receives tailored, precise legal representation to fit each case uniquely. D’Aniello, a highly-skilled negotiator and litigator, is actively involved as a fellow and past president of the American Academy of Matrimonial Lawyers—NJ Chapter. Riggi is actively involved in the Somerset County Bar Foundation and immediate past chair. Maceri is certified as a matrimonial attorney by the Supreme Court of NJ, a title held by only two percent of NJ lawyers. Danaher and Gencarelli take on

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leadership roles as experienced and trusted advisors to their matrimonial clients and mentors to their colleagues. SSDMD’s selected attorneys work tirelessly serving their clients and volunteering their time to serve the greater community.

EXPANSION TO MORRIS COUNTY Branching into Morris County, SSDMD is pleased to announce its newest office in Morristown will open in April 2021. “We believe our growth has been a direct result of the way we approach our cases and how we treat our clients. We’re there to support families every step of the way,” Sarno says. The Morristown office will be managed by family law attorney Salvatore Simeone. Since joining SSDMD in October 2020, Simeone represents clients in high-conflict divorce and custody cases that include domestic violence, alimony, child support and the valuation of complex marital assets. Associate Matthew J. Pires will also join Simeone in the Morristown office. All offices are interconnected and operate seamlessly. SSDMD is fully adapted to handle all matters remotely.

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SUSSAN, GREENWALD & WESLER Staci J. Greenwald, Esq., Jayne M. Wesler, Esq., Lenore Boyarin, Esq., Alex M. Hilsen, Esq., LL.M. Andrew I. Meltzer, Esq., Mariann Crincoli, Esq. SPEC IA L

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ounded more than 40 years ago, Sussan, Greenwald & Wesler is one of the leading special education law firms in New Jersey. The firm’s attorneys have taken a hands-on, wholechild approach to help thousands of families receive access to appropriate educational opportunities and set new legal precedents in the state.

ADDRESSING EACH CHILD’S UNIQUE NEEDS Each of the firm’s attorneys boasts a wealth of experience in the law. SGW’s attorneys bring unique expertise, having previous experience working in schools and developing and implementing programs for children, as well as being parents of children with unique needs. “While working in the education field, we all realized there was a group of kids whose needs were not being appropriately addressed…and felt that becoming attorneys was the way to change the system,” Greenwald says. In 1975, personal circumstances involving founder Theodore Sussan’s autistic son compelled him to gain an understanding of the special

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education rights of school-aged children. Today, the firm also offers financial services for families with special needs. An attorney with a background in finance and an LL.M. in estate planning, Hilsen offers his financial expertise to guide clients in estate issues including special needs trusts, wills, guardianship and general estate planning.

A TEAM APPROACH The firm employs a team approach when addressing issues regarding children with special needs, allowing parents greater access to attorneys when they encounter difficulties dealing with school districts or during emergencies. The attorneys maintain amicable relationships with a vast majority of the state’s school districts. “Our goal isn’t to litigate, but to get the services each child requires as quickly as possible and with the least amount of [parental] expenditure,” Greenwald says. “We’re constantly communicating to come up with the best plan and approach for each individual child. When you hire our firm, you become a member of our family.”

175Cranbury Fairfield •Ave., Stes.Mile 4C/D, West • 973-852-3346 • ciprianolaw.com 1249 South River Rd., Ste. 104, 125 Half Rd., RedCaldwell Bank • 609-409-3500 • sgwlawfirm.com APRIL / MAY 2021 | NEW JERSEY FAMILY

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WARSHAW LAW FIRM, LLC Julie Warshaw, Esq.

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EASING PARENTS’ ANXIETIES “When a child thrives in a learning environment, you know you did the right thing for that child,” she says. A mom herself, Warshaw has close family members with learning disabilities and understands how important it is for parents to be able to reach her directly with questions and concerns. “New clients are pleasantly surprised to find that I always answer my own phone,” she says. “I develop relationships with my clients, and I enjoy when they update me on their progress. It’s so rewarding to watch them succeed.” An

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experienced mediator, litigator, and collaboratively-trained attorney, Warshaw represents children who have been victims of discrimination, institutional abuse, harassment, intimidation, bullying, cyberbullying and retaliation, as well as children and young adults with disabilities in the criminal justice system. Her practice areas also include guardianships, collaborative divorce, family law, mediation, and corporate and civil litigation.

EXPERIENCE WITH SPECIAL NEEDS A member of the New Jersey Special Education Practitioner’s Group, New Jersey Bar Association School Law Committee, and other professional organizations, Warshaw is a frequent guest speaker and consultant on special education matters and anti-bullying cases. Passionate about American Sign Language (ASL), she was instrumental in Bill S1760’s Legislative process by building awareness for the need to have ASL recognized as a world language in New Jersey, and for high school students to receive credit toward graduation requirements. It became law in 2015. She is the author of IBD Friendly Recipes for Crohn’s and Colitis and Justin’s Garden.

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BRACH EICHLER LLC Carl J. Soranno, Esq., Susan K. Dromsky-Reed, Esq., Jeremy L. Hylton, Esq., Stuart M. Gladstone, Esq., Salim F. Sabbagh, Esq.

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he attorneys at Brach Eichler LLC come together from an array of practice areas to address the legal needs of families, including plans for the care and financial security of children, marital formation or disruption and personal injury. Stuart M. Gladstone and Susan K. Dromsky-Reed, co-chairs of the firm’s trusts and estates department, have been assisting clients for many years with the creation of estate plans to ensure their wishes are carried out in the future. “It’s not always easy to think about these issues, but your family must be protected,” explains Dromsky-Reed. “We can help with important documents including wills and

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living wills, healthcare and financial powers of attorney, guardianship plans for your children and trustees over your assets.” The firm also handles personal injury claims. Salim F. Sabbagh and Jeremy L. Hylton help clients fight for full and fair compensation if they’ve been injured through the careless actions of others. If a client is marrying or facing a divorce or custody, guardianship or trust dispute, Carl J. Soranno skillfully provides counsel about the impact these situations can have on a family. “Each matter is unique,” says Soranno, a certified mediator. “We have experience working with a wide variety of families and individuals with differing priorities and challenges.”

(L-R): Susan K. Dromsky-Reed, Stuart M. Gladstone, Jeremy L. Hylton, Carl J. Soranno, Salim F. Sabbagh

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MONTCLAIR DIVORCE MEDIATION Nicholas De Metro, Esq.

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n attorney since 1991, Nicholas De Metro has been representing clients as a divorce lawyer for several years. De Metro witnessed firsthand how emotionally and financially destructive divorce litigation is to the entire family—especially children—so in 2009, he changed his practice and dedicated himself to helping families going through the divorce process. He now devotes his practice solely to divorce mediation to limit the emotional pain and economic impact on families while assisting clients with improved methods of co-parenting. A compassionate, solution-oriented and neutral mediator, De Metro provides a nonthreatening environment for couples to resolve issues such as the division of assets, debts, alimony, child

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support and parenting issues. “Many clients have told me that I introduced issues they never even considered,” he says. An accredited divorce mediator by the New Jersey Association of Professional Mediators, De Metro guides couples by taking a practical, evenhanded approach. He re-focuses the dialog while offering multiple options, clarifying divorce law and diffusing disputes—which provides both spouses with better control over the terms and conditions of their divorce and future. He is adept at helping couples develop creative, long-term solutions to complex issues that result in fair, reasonable and comprehensive settlement agreements. “I’m committed to helping spouses resolve all of their issues and get divorced—without it costing a fortune,” he says.

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a national firm. She handles a range of family law matters, from prenuptial agreements to separation and divorce proceedings, mediations and arbitrations, and helps clients with issues of alimony, child custody, child support and equitable distribution. Fava is committed to helping families move forward, and connects clients with professionals to address their financial or emotional needs whenever necessary. “We can address any challenge that may arise during a family law case, while providing our clients with the attention and individualized service they deserve,” she says. “We help clients see what life can look like on the other side, and empower them to make the best decisions for their families.”

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JACOBS BERGER, LLC Sarah J. Jacobs, Esq., Jamie N. Berger, Esq., Amy L. Miller, Esq.

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t Jacobs Berger in Morristown, Sarah J. Jacobs, Jamie N. Berger and Amy L. Miller take the stress out of the divorce process. They listen to their clients’ fears and concerns and support them every step of the way. “When it comes to divorce, our mission is to help clients go from distressed to destressed,” says Jacobs, a certified matrimonial law attorney, qualified family law mediator and mom of an 11-year-old. “We encourage clients to establish their goals for the rest of their lives and develop creative, personalized solutions to get them there.” The firm partners with professionals from financial advisors to therapists. “Whether a

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client wants to continue living in their child’s school district or plan for retirement, we take a logical, solution-oriented approach and provide the resources they’ll need,” says Miller, a qualified family law mediator and mom of three. The attorneys work together to mitigate the emotional and financial impact of family law matters such as divorce and child custody, and approach each case as an opportunity to help their clients. “We’ve tried many cases, but believe avoiding the stress and financial burden of litigation whenever possible is often the most beneficial for the family,” says Berger, a member of the NJ State Bar Family Law Section, qualified family law mediator and mom of three.

(Top, L-R): Sarah J. Jacobs, Jamie N. Berger (Above): Amy L. Miller

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when children are involved—than helping a couple craft their own settlement and resolution,” she says. Maria’s extensive knowledge of family law and sharp litigation skills allow her to navigate even the most complex cases. She takes the time to listen to her clients and fully understand each family’s unique situation in order to advocate for the best possible outcomes. “People often ask me why I chose family law—and I do it for the kids. A divorce can be traumatic for the entire family, and adults often lose sight of its impact on children… so everything I do is always with their best interests in mind,” she says.

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LAWRENCE LAW Jeralyn L. Lawrence, Esq., Rita M. Aquilio, Esq., Ashley E. Edwards, Esq., Kristyl M. Berckes, Esq., Daniel A. Burton, Esq.

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t boutique family law firm Lawrence Law, Jeralyn Lawrence, Rita Aquilio, Ashley Edwards, Kristyl Berckes, Daniel Burton and their team provide a sophisticated, strategic approach to issues ranging from alimony, child support and equitable distribution to custody and parenting time. They have all been recognized as New Jersey Family Best Lawyers this year, and the firm recently welcomed three new attorneys. “I’m incredibly proud to be recognized for our talent, dedication and commitment to helping families through a challenging time,” says Lawrence, a divorce trial attorney, trained mediator and arbitrator and mother of three.

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Lawrence helps families resolve personal matters with or without court intervention. An officer of the New Jersey State Bar Association, she’s expected to become its president in May 2022. “My father’s career as a juvenile detective inspired me to become a lawyer, and I’ve been divorced, so I can personally relate to clients transitioning out of a marriage,” she says. The Lawrence Law team advocates for clients and guides families through the process of divorce while helping them move forward into the next chapter of their lives. “We take a lot of pride in viewing families holistically and strategizing to reach our clients’ goals and an outcome that’s in the best interest of the family,” Lawrence says.

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he knowledgeable and dedicated attorneys at Price, Meese, Shulman & D’Arminio, P.C. are committed to helping families reach constructive, long-term resolutions to their cases. The firm’s operations have continued seamlessly to represent clients during the pandemic. “We have a very personalized, clientfocused practice,” says Cathy Pollak, a family law attorney with more than 35 years of experience in litigation, negotiation, mediation and collaborative law. “Each client’s problems are unique, so we provide them with the guidance to make the best decisions for their families.”

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Karen Edler, founder of the Education Law Group, passionately advocates for parents and students’ rights in general and special education, discipline, HIB, guardianship and special needs planning matters. “During the pandemic, Jackie Esposito and I expanded our collegiate discipline practice to address sanctions from new COVID policies,” she says. Recognized as a Super Lawyers Rising Star in 2018, 2019 and 2020, Aaron Cohen has devoted his practice to family law. “Our clients are facing some of the most difficult challenges of their lives. We are proud of our hands-on approach and ability to craft solutions that help them move forward,” he says.

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WILLIAMS LAW GROUP, LLC Allison C. Williams, Esq., Victoria D. Miranda, Esq., Laurie J. Madziar, Esq., A. Eugene Richards, III, Esq.

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Laptop Learning Advocating A mom of a teen with autism shares what she’s learned about supporting her son’s needs during the pandemic. By Eileen Shaklee

s a parent to a teenager with autism, I’ve become used to the fact that even the most mundane tasks have a tendency to be slightly more complicated to figure out. After many years of parenting with these conditions, I had figured out the tricks that worked. I knew what accommodations would suit my son the best. Then COVID hit and everything I knew about parenting a special needs child went right out the window. Here are some of the things I’ve learned from this and how it changed my autism parenting experience. No one knows what they’re doing. I had to accept there needed to be a learning curve for everyone. Let’s remember none of this is normal. Teachers are teaching while their own children are being taught on laptops by other teachers. Teachers, therapists, students and parents were all learning how to use new computer programs together at the same time. The standard household WiFi is suddenly screaming for mercy. I had to expect and accept that there will be bumps. (And that our pets would make cameo appearances.)

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Emails, texts and classroom messaging apps became my receipts. That’s not so much to catch someone dropping the ball but to make sure that everyone was on the same page. I realized within the first week that I needed to get them organized into categories (academics, therapies, Zoom/Google Hangout invitations etc…) because suddenly my inboxes were exploding. It’s great to have the facts on file when you need to point out an issue. If you can’t find it because it’s buried in an inbox with hundreds of emails about sales at Old Navy or CVS, it’s not going to do you much good.

It can be easy to feel overwhelmed and out of control during all of this, so I eased my own anxiety by following my son’s lead. I made a schedule, right down to when we would eat lunch and have “free time” where I allow myself to do something frivolous like watch Netflix or play a game on my phone. Somehow checking things off the list became comforting and helped make me feel like time was going by faster. Never underestimate what your kids can handle. My kid loves to prove me wrong and this pandemic experience has been no different when it comes to what he can and cannot handle. I wasn’t sure how my son would take to “laptop learning” but I guess I forgot this is a child who has never not had computers in his life. While it isn’t always smooth sailing and I know he will always prefer the in-person experience to the virtual one, I know he can do it when necessary. Same with masks. I didn’t think he’d wear one but then he saw everyone else putting one on and he just accepted it as his new normal. If your child still has trouble with this, keep trying every day because he or she can do it. I had to make my peace with days that are less than perfect. There are days where my son gives “kitchen school,” as he’s dubbed it, a serious case of side eye. There are topics that just don’t translate over a laptop. For us the biggest challenge was art class. He wanted nothing to do with it and it became such a source of stress for us. One afternoon I just thought “enough” and wrote a “come to Jesus” email to his art teacher explaining what was going on and what would not be anymore. Believe it or not, she totally understood and was able to make accommodations that were a much better fit. It’s important to communicate what is and isn’t working at home to the teachers. They won’t know until you tell them.

I heart virtual meetings. Throughout the year I’ve discovered I absolutely love the virtual meeting experience and frankly, I don’t see myself ever going back to an IEP or a parent/teacher meeting in person ever again. My son is a teenager and I’ve never seen meetings be so efficient in my life. Every single one of them starts on time. Every person in them gets right to the point. There’s little to no “chit chat” or veering off topic. It’s all business and it’s fantastic. Virtual meetings are time savers for everyone. Plus, hello, I’m in my slippers at home while my child is doing his own thing on the couch next to me. Comfort and not having to figure out child care? Priceless!

This was the year of life skills. At the start of 2020, kiddo was going off campus at various job sites as part of his pre-vocational training for school. I really didn’t want him to miss out on those valuable skills. Even though he can’t work in the retail spaces at the moment, we can continue to work on the skills at home. If he had time to lean, he had time to clean. My kiddo became the master of the vacuum, helps out with the laundry, wipes down the kitchen table, helps organize the pantry and can now make a mighty fine cup of coffee. These are all skills he can use when it’s safe for him to return to his job training and life as we once knew it.

Schedules are life. It’s not just my autistic child that loves his routine. I realized during all of this that a schedule is very important to me as well.

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By Angel Madison and development at Bright Horizons. “It’s not only 100 percent okay for you to work while you raise children, it’s good for both of you. Learning about the positive impact of early care and education will prepare you for questions from well-meaning family members and friends who may have made different choices. It will also help you feel confident about your decision, and know it’s a positive one for you and your child.”

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LESSONS IN INDEPENDENCE What about COVID restrictions and masks? Most directors agree kids have had little to no problem with adjusting to the new rules. “The children are incredibly resilient and adaptable,” says Wasserman. “Separation looked a lot different this year with a car line for drop-off in the morning, but everyone has really adjusted well. The children were thrilled to come back.” O’Brien says SuperKids hasn’t had mask compliance issues, even among its youngest kids. “We have seen so much more cooperation and positive behavior in the classrooms,” adds O’Brien. “But what we have been most surprised at is that since we haven’t been able to allow parents in the building, we have seen unbelievable constructive and responsible independence in the children, even as early as 18 months old. We’ve been doing this for almost 20 years and in all honesty, I’ve never seen them so confident. We assist and are next to the children at all times, but even the Waddlers and Toddlers want to carry their own bags and walk right to their classroom.” Given the capacity limits on classrooms from the state, make sure to start looking well in advance of your planned start date and get on waitlists for centers you like as soon as possible. Happy searching.

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Disney Bound? While the pandemic has kept a lot of us from visiting Orlando, you’ll find the theme park still has the same magical fun along with new safety measures.

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THE PARKS All four Walt Disney World theme parks and Disney’s Blizzard Beach Water Park are open. When you arrive, expect to have your temperature taken in addition to a security screening. Most rides are open and you’ll be seated with your own party. While character greetings and parades are on pause, there are still characters throughout the parks along with “special cavalcades”—or pop-up mini parades—down parade routes. Expect capacity limits at parks and reservations must be made in advance for entry. Visitors are encouraged to use cashless payment whenever possible.

HOTELS & TRANSPORTATION The majority of Disney World’s hotels are open, with a few exceptions. Disney’s Beach Club Resort is scheduled to reopen May 30, Disney’s Wilderness Lodge will reopen June 6 and Disney’s Polynesian Village Resort is scheduled to reopen Summer 2021. Disney’s Boardwalk Inn is closed until further notice. If you’re staying over in a Disney World resort, you’ll see increased cleaning protocols during your stay. There is physical distancing on Disney buses, monorails and watercrafts. Face coverings are required while boarding and using transportation. The Disney Skyliner loads one party per gondola. Self-parking is available at resorts while valet parking is suspended except for guests with disabilities.

RECREATION Hitting up the hotel pool is an essential part of a Disney vacation and the good news is pools are open, though some may be operating with reduced hours and capacity. The same thing goes for fitness centers and sports courts—they are open with reduced hours and capacity. Arcades, campfires, character experiences, marina rentals, spa and salon services are not available. Inroom childcare service and a few other special classes and programs like Mermaid School and hula lessons are currently suspended.

THE MOMS’ TAKE If you’re feeling nervous, read on for some firsthand takes on what it was like to get back to the parks. Natalie F., mom of Elijah, 14, and Jayden, 10 from Atlanta, Georgia, recently visited Disney for the first time and said the mask requirements and dining precautions were strict and wait times for rides were what she expected. “The wait times at Magic Kingdom were pretty accurate overall ranging anywhere from 15 to 90 minutes long,” she says. “The longer wait times for rides like Splash Mountain were more like 75 minutes versus 90 minutes.” She and her family were kept together on the rides and separated from other parties for social distancing. “We were the only ones seated together except for boat rides, but everyone remained six feet apart as displayed on the floor.” The “cavalcades” of characters were a big hit, too. “They had designated employees walk ahead of the parade to ensure everyone was on the sidewalk as the dancers and floats came through,” Natalie says. “We were able to see Winnie the Pooh, the Mickey and Friends Cavalcade, The Royal Princess Processional and Fantasy Friends Cavalcade led by Gaston from Beauty and the Beast who rode on a horse.” Jenny E. from California, mom of a 2-year-old son, says the park was well organized. “Everything from ‘stand here’ floor stickers to ropes separating people in line to the way food ordering was done was according to protocol.” Jenny says.

KNOW BEFORE YOU GO Prep for your Disney World trip by keeping these tips in mind: Read any travel advisories for visiting Florida Make sure you have a confirmed room reservation I f you’re not staying overnight but plan on dining, you must have a reservation Be sure you have a MagicBand, Key to the World card or the My Disney Experience app M ake a theme park reservation in advance and ensure you have a valid entry for the day you plan to visit Face coverings are required for ages 2 and up and must be worn in all public areas except when swimming or seated for dining. (Mickey ears, while suggested, are not required) Though some things are closed or at reduced availability, there’s still plenty of fun to be had and a Disney vacation is well worth the trip. Head to disneyworld.disney.go.com/experience-updates for more information.

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isney World in Florida is one of those places you may be dreaming of getting back to if you’ve been missing the fun of traveling with the kids. But with theme parks being naturally crowded places, you may be wondering—is it safe to go? If you’re planning a trip to Disney, you can expect to see many changes from physical distancing on all modes of transportation to mask wearing at the parks to temperature screenings in the parks and at table service restaurants. Here’s a little more on what you can expect at “The Most Magical Place on Earth”:

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Lake Placid and The Adirondacks

NEW YORK Filled with mountains, lakes and woods dotted with small towns, the Adirondack Mountains in upstate New York are known for skiing but they’re also a spectacular destination for hiking in the spring, summer and fall. From stunning waterfalls to amazing local food and craft beer to wide open spaces to explore, a trip here will keep you and the kids moving. One of the most popular spots to visit is Lake Placid, home to the 1980 Winter Olympic Games. At Lake Placid’s Olympic Sites, you can experience what it was like to be an Olympic Bobsledder on the new Cliffside Mountain Coaster at Mt. Van Hoevenberg, the country’s longest year-round mountain coaster. Don’t miss the Sky Flyer Zipline at the Lake Placid Olympic Jumping Complex and the SkyRide Experience, an 8-person gondola that takes visitors to its ski jump towers. Take a hike, try riverwalking, get a unique view of the Adirondacks on a zip line trip or fly through the mountains with the Adirondack Flying Service. Head to the Wild Center to climb the massive tree house. Ausable Chasm, the Grand Canyon of the Adirondacks, is less than an hour from Lake Placid and is a must-see for its breathtaking scenery. Tour its waterfalls and relax by floating down the river in a tube. Start your day at the Breakfast Club, known for its Bloody Marys. Head to the Pickled Pig for wings, chili and burgers or the Big Mountain Deli, which serves an impressive sandwich menu that corresponds with the High Peaks. End your day with a seafood or steak dinner at Great Adirondack Brewing Co. High Peaks Resort, a dog-friendly spot on Mirror Lake, and Lake Placid Lodge, a former estate with magnificent architecture, bonfires, cozy cabins and horseback riding, are two of many familyfriendly places to stay.

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Greater Williamsburg

VIRGINIA Go back in time to Williamsburg, Virginia, America’s first outdoor vacation destination established in 1609. Greater Williamsburg is known for its historic sites but also offers kayaking, boating, sailing (pirate cruises and tall ship schooners), fishing, zip lining, Segway tours, golf and biking. From 1699 to 1780, Williamsburg was the thriving center of the American colonies. This area is all about walking, learning and experiencing. You’ll visit blacksmith shops, apothecaries, brickyards, carpenter yards, colonial yards and other historic sites and meet people dressed in 18th-century garb, who’ll tell you all about life in the 1700s. The museums at Colonial Williamsburg recently completed a $41.7 million expansion project. New exhibition highlights include “Early American Faces” and “American Folk Pottery: Art and Tradition.” Visit Berkeley Plantation, part of Greater Williamsburg, where the settlers observed the first official Thanksgiving in America in 1619. Colonial National Historical Park features Yorktown Battlefield, Historic Jamestowne and the Colonial Parkway—a beautiful place to bike and bird-watch. There are also ghost tours, art museums and 20+ guided and self-guided tours. The Williamsburg Winery is a beautiful spot for dinner and an outdoor tasting flight. Stop at Honey Butter’s Kitchen for a Southern-inspired lunch of shrimp and grits, garlic fried potatoes, corn cakes and BBQ. Save a day for Busch Gardens, where the adventurous can ride the Pantheon, the world’s fastest multi-launch coaster, expected to open this year. For water park fun, stay at Great Wolf Lodge in Williamsburg. Kingsmill Resort or Williamsburg Lodge are other popular family-friendly hotel options and Colonial House offers an authentic historic experience in the heart of Colonial Williamsburg.

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LBI doesn’t have a boardwalk like Wildwood or Seaside Heights, but the lack of typical “shore” amusements is one of the things that makes it so special. “Our region is a destination like none other at the shore, with distinctive towns that each hold their own personality,” says Lori Pepenella, CEO of the South Ocean County Chamber of Commerce. Once in LBI, you must make a patronage to Barnegat Lighthouse State Park. A visit to Old Barney is obligatory, and the kids will love walking out on the big stone jetty and looking for sea creatures along the water. For traditional shore activities, head to Fantasy Island Amusement Park and the Thundering Surf Water Park for rides, slides and an arcade. Or catch a family-friendly show at the Surflight Theatre. Pick up a free passport or visit passporttolbi.org to find more gems like the NJ Maritime Museum that offers kids’ programs and scavenger hunts and the LBI Museum with its history of the baymen and their tools. Want to commune with nature? Head to Loveladies for the Long Beach Island Foundation’s marsh walk where you might spot ospreys. Or visit Barnegat’s Cloverdale Farm for cranberry bogs and a self-guided trail. Grab breakfast at The Chicken and the Egg (aka Chegg) for a classic diner menu. Head to Parker’s Garage for fresh oysters and views of the water and make an early dinner reservation for the popular Black Eyed Susans with a seafood-filled menu. While staying in any of LBI’s towns like Harvey Cedars, Beach Haven or Loveladies, many rent houses for a week, a month or the whole summer. But after a year of staying home during COVID, demand is higher than normal. “We recommend making reservations now for lodging,” says Pepenella. “Our website, visitlbiregion.com has up-to-date beach, surf and travel guides to make planning easy.”

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Mount Washington Valley

NEW HAMPSHIRE The coast of Maine and Vermont get a lot of attention, and for good reason, but this region, nestled in New Hampshire’s White Mountains, is a drivable hidden gem that’s a must for so many reasons. See nature at its most extreme on the top of Mount Washington, where the observatory has the world record for surface wind speeds of 231 miles per hour. Advanced hikers can climb the mountain (7.6 miles of difficult elevation), but there’s also a drivable auto road and cog railroad that will take you to the Northeast’s tallest peak. The weather can vary wildly, with average summit temps of 26.5 degrees so bring a sweatshirt even if it is shorts and t-shirt weather at the bottom. Nearby Jefferson is home to Santa’s Village, an amusement park dedicated to Christmas, with the Ho Ho H2O water park, reindeer feeding, Santa visits and rides like the Great Humbug Adventure. Story Land in Bartlett is a theme park full of fantasy and fairy tale characters, with a wooden roller coaster, log flume and rides and shows for the kids. Thrill seekers can try zip lines at Wildcat Mountain or Attitash’s long alpine slide for a fun trip down a mountain. Lost River Gorge and Flume Gorge both get you up close and personal with cascading waterfalls and the Polar Caves Park allows you to squeeze through glacially formed caves. After a day of play, head to Moat Mountain Smokehouse for nachos, burgers and brisket or May Kelly’s Cottage Restaurant for Irish fare. Don’t miss Lickety Splitz for amazing ice cream sundaes. Stay in North Conway, which is filled with outlet shopping and is easily accessible to nearby towns. Try the North Conway Grand Hotel for a resort-style vacation, or opt for a little New England B&B charm at the Cranmore Inn. The stately White Mountain Hotel opens Memorial Day, and is home to Ledges restaurant with panoramic mountain views.

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background. “During a pandemic you want to make sure the camp director has been working in the field for some time and has the knowledge that comes with being in the camp industry full-time,” says Lupert. Make sure the camp has an organized way of keeping parents informed. “Communication is key any year, but during COVID, it’s imperative,” says Lupert. “Ask about how the camp communicates with parents and how frequently.” One of your top questions should be about how the camp plans to mitigate the risk of COVID. “It’s too early to tell exactly what protocols will be in place for this season, however, camps ran successfully last summer so there is a blueprint on how to operate,” says Lupert. Remember standard precautions have not changed. Keep hydrated, use sunblock of at least SPF 30, use insect repellent and wash hands frequently especially after using the bathroom and before and after eating, says Levine. Reach out to parents for honest reviews. “If the camp was open last year, you can speak with the parent about how the camp handled COVID and how their experience was for their child,” says Lupert. At the end of the day it’s important to use common sense. Don’t send your kids to camp if they aren’t feeling well, or if there’s a risk that they may have COVID from a family member and should be quarantining, since this puts the entire camp group at risk. “Remember that the biggest risk to our children at camp are not the other campers, it is the older teen and adult staff, as well as parents.” Levine says. “If the camp community is careful and committed, everyone wins.”

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Writing a parenting book while trying to be a good parent was the ultimate dichotomy. It was the epitome of a modern mom problem. NJF: What does self care look like to you? TC: Eliminate toxic people from your life. Remove things from your to-do list and delegate chores or work when you can. Say no to things that don’t “charge your batteries.” All of these things are self care. If you want to get your nails done and hair blown out, that’s great too. NJF: You live in Closter with your husband and 8-year-old son. What are your favorite spots in town? TC: Stern and Bow is a must. The Hill is also a great restaurant with an imaginative menu. Last but not least is Ma Mi Eatery. Our family tradition is ordering the same dishes every Friday night. NJF: Tell us about the free virtual event you’ll be speaking at in May hosted by Bloomingdale’s in Short Hills. TC: I’m thrilled to be a part of the Bloomingdale’s In Her Shoes: #MomBoss Panel Discussion with Hip New Jersey’s Maria Falzo on May 6 at 9:30 am. I’ll be sharing tips about work-life effectiveness. Register online for free at bloomies_momboss2021.eventbrite.com.

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Break out your lawn chairs for Imagine That!!! Museum’s circus show in Florham Park. Featuring aerial performances, magic, juggling and music. Pre-order food to be delivered during the fun. imaginethatmuseum.com 11 am-noon. $125/six people.

See one of the largest daffodil collections in the Garden State (there’s more than 50,000 bulbs!) and celebrate with music, crafts and games. Registration required. Reeves-Reed Arboretum, Summit. 11 am-4 pm. $10/non-member, free/ members. 908-273-8787.

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24 Bachapalooza Spring Music Festival Get the kids inspired by classical tunes played by Bach to Rock Nanuet’s student bands. There’s also a petting zoo, prize wheels and more. 2-4 pm. Nanuet, NY. Free admission, RSVP required. 845-215-9536

Mother’s Day Goat Yoga Get your self care on with a Vinyasa yoga session and you’ll be joined by four African Pygmy goats! Be sure to snap some pics with the animals. Registration required. The School House, West Milford. 10-11 am. $30. eventbrite.com.

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Grayrock Farm Sanctuary in Clinton offers lots of fun for the kids, like getting up close with farm animals, plus food trucks, a fire truck and more than 60 vendors with homemade baked goods, toys, art, decor and more. 10 am-4 pm. Free admission. grayrockevents@gmail.com

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Venture to Historic Smithville for carousel and train rides, paddle boats and an arcade. The Village will host more than 75 local artists displaying their wares. 10 am-5 pm, free admission. historicsmithville.com

It may not be summer yet, but the amusement parks are calling! Six Flags’ mega waterpark, with unique and fun slides, opens for the season with special health and safety guidelines. Times and prices vary.

New York Times bestselling children’s book author Nick Bruel, known for his “Bad Kitty” series, will do two drawing demos during this virtual program. 3 pm, free. sclsnj.libnet.info/events.

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April 22-May 2 [Thurs-Sun] A MIDSUMMER NIGHT’S DREAM Sitnik Theatre, Hackettstown. Times vary. $10-15. 908-979-0900. Bring the family to this fun intro to Shakespeare. The kids will laugh at this comedy featuring a roguish sprite and quarreling lovers. Although “the course of true love never did run smooth,” it triumphs in the end.

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SHEEP SHEARING Historic Longstreet Farm, Holmdel. Noon-3 pm. Free. 732-946-3758. Every spring, the farm harvests wool from its sheep. This year, your family can learn about traditional shearing practices used to remove fleece, plus watch collies show off their herding abilities.

25 [Sun] CHERRY BLOSSOM FESTIVAL Virtual. 11 am-noon. Free. bowers.org. The Bowers Museum is celebrating Japanese traditions with performers, food recipes and artmaking. Kids can learn how to create a Bonsai tree, fold origami and design a floral arrangement.

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IMAGINOLOGY Virtual. Times vary. ocfair.com/imaginology. This annual fair is headed virtual to make STEAM fun and exciting for kids. Events include a virtual chess tournament and a time travel virtual run, plus bingo, a scavenger hunt and puzzles.

SEA CHANTEYS AND MARITIME MUSIC Virtual. 2-4 pm. Free. southstretseaportmuseum.org. All ages are invited to share sea songs, featuring members of The New York Packet. Listeners can request a song via Zoom.

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4 [Tues] SPRING LUNCHEON @HOME Virtual. noon. Tickets start at $25. njpac.org/event/ spring-luncheon/ Broadway star Laura Benanti and iconic fashion designer Norma Kamali will share the secrets of their success at this annual Women @NJPAC event. Proceeds support NJPAC’s arts education programs.

5 [Wed] VIRTUAL METEORITES Virtual. 6-7:30 pm. Free. go.rutgers.edu/latenight. All ages are invited to this Late Night program with the Rutgers Geology Museum, which will teach the kids about meteorites. There’ll also be trivia, activities and a special guest.

7 [Fri] MOTHER’S DAY SPRING PARTY Wyckoff Family YMCA, Wyckoff. 6:30-8 pm. Free admission. 201-891-2081. Families and children and adults with special needs can celebrate spring with a Buddy Walk plus planting, Mother’s Day

crafts, games and snacks. Proceeds from the event support children with Down syndrome. Registration required.

8 [Sat] SPRINGTIME WATERCOLORS Watershed Institute, Pennington. 11 am-1 pm. $15. 609-737-3735. Stroll the Watershed Reserve with an educator before heading back to the easel for a watercolor painting session inspired by the signs and sights of springtime. For kids 7 and up. Registration required. APRON DESIGN & CAKE DECORATING Knights of Columbus, Old Bridge. Noon-3 pm. $25. eventbrite.com. This Mother’s Day celebration includes a light lunch while you decorate an apron using fabric markers and other materials with your kiddos. Then, decorate a mini bundt cake for you and your crew.

9 [Sun] MOTHER’S DAY AFTERNOON TEA GFG Bakery Cafe, Hoboken.

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11 [Tues] SONGS THAT COUNT: ADD TO THE WORLD Virtual. 10:30-11:15 am. Free. sclsnj.libnet.info/ event/4649288. Toddlers and children on the autism spectrum can watch this performance that includes books, music and visuals that teach counting, addition and subtraction.

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MAYFEST Historic Smithville, Galloway. 10 am-5 pm. Free admission. 609-748-8999. Hit the Village’s international food court, listen

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Enter Crossford, set in the English countryside in the 1500s. Watch jousts and sword fights and check out historical-themed food and wares. Faire continues June 5-6. 1195 Florence Columbus Rd., Bordentown Twp. 10 am-6 pm. $10-80. njrenfaire.com.

to music and shop wares from more than 100 crafters. Then, hop on a carousel or train ride, visit the antique arcade or jump in a paddle boat with the kids. KIDS TO PARKS DAY Multiple locations and times. Free. co.ocean.nj.us. Take your little ones to Jakes Branch County Park in Beachwood for a hidden clues scavenger hunt, where the only way to reveal the answers is by using nature. Stop by Cloverdale County Park in Barnegat for a habitat exploration scavenger hunt, or take a one-mile walk at the bay beach at Cattus Island County Park in Toms River after watching a fishing demo.

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WEIGHING Howell Living History Farm, Hopewell Twp. 10 am-4 pm. Free admission. 609-737-3299. Before the farm’s hogs step onto the scale for their summer weigh-in, your family can guess how much they weigh. Then, you’ll learn about how to take care of pigs, including grinding corn, mixing feed, filling the wallow and slopping the hogs yourself!

31 [Mon] FREEHOLD MEMORIAL DAY PARADE Main St., Freehold. 10 am. Free. freeholdmemorialdayparade. com. The oldest and largest parade in western Monmouth County features military units,

veterans groups, bands, fire departments, youth groups, custom floats and other participants. Point Service will also take place at 8:30 am at Elks Point, which includes a reading of names of service members killed in action. WOODLAND PARK ANNUAL MEMORIAL DAY STREET FAIR & PARADE McBride Ave., Woodland Park. 11 am-6 pm. Free admission. jcpromotions.info. After your family watches the morning parade, head to the street fair for live music, food trucks, a kids zone and street fair vendors selling festival food and goodies from local shops. DECORATION DAY CELEBRATION Historic Longstreet Farm, Holmdel. Noon-3 pm. Free. 732-946-3758. Learn the early traditions of Decoration Day, which originated after the Civil War when women decorated the graves of fallen soldiers and how Memorial Day was born from this day of remembrance.

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Hoboken Historical Museum, Hoboken. 10 am-1 pm. Free. 201-656-2240. On Tuesdays, Thursdays and Fridays kids ages 2-5 can hit the museum’s walkway for arts and crafts. Materials will be provided, program is first-come, first-served.

Liberty Science Center, Jersey City. 10 am-4 pm. Included with admission. 201-200-1000. Every Thursday and Friday, twice per day, ages 6 and under can hit the Science Dance Party, visit the Wild About Animal exhibition and even explore more shows in the Jennifer Chalsty Planetarium.

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