May is a beautiful month in Florida – the weather is fine, the leaves are green, and the beach beckons.
In May, there are also lots of fun celebrations, including “May the Fourth Be With You” (on May 4, for those who are interested in the Star Wars movies); Cinco de Mayo, which celebrates Mexican heritage and culture; mothers and grandmothers
everywhere on Mother’s Day (May 12); and the official start of barbecue and picnic season on Memorial Day (May 26).
One fun way to celebrate this gorgeous time of year is to make yourself a Gratitude Jar. Sit down with 31 small pieces of paper (one for each day in May) and write yourself little inspirational messages or gratitudes. For example, you might write: “I am grateful for my brilliant granddaughters, April, May and June.” Or “Thank you for my fragrant flower garden overlooking the park,” or “I am so happy to be married to my wonderful spouse for 47 years.” Fold up each little paper and put it in the jar. Each day, pull out a message and be inspired!
May is also the month to allow yourself to be honored and cared for, so you might also share the delicious recipes this month – Mediterranean Chopped Salad and Catfish and Spinach Bake – perfect for a picnic by the sea.
Enjoy your spring!
Until next time,
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For grandparents, a trip to Disneyland Paris with the grandchildren can be a magical, memory-filled adventure. As the site proudly boasts, it is the happiest place on Earth! With iconic rides, beloved characters, spectacular shows, and family-friendly hotels, a visit there allows grandparents to bond with the young ones and experience plenty of fun together.
A little advance planning helps make such a special trip easy and enjoyable for visitors of all ages. Here are six tips to help you enjoy the trip.
Ensure the visit goes smoothly: book rooms at one of the Disneyland Paris hotels. They offer great proximity to the parks and extras like early park access for hotel guests. There are also budget options! The new Disney’s Hotel New York – The Art of Marvel looks particularly exciting for young superhero fans! Review height restrictions to see if little ones meet ride requirements. Make restaurant reservations to take the hassle out of mealtimes and download the app to check wait times and show schedules with ease.
The parks cover huge areas with endless entertainment options. Trying to do it all gets tiring, especially for little ones. Schedule ample breaks to recharge at hotels, restaurants or designated relaxation areas. Stake out a bench and enjoy a snack while people watching, or let kids burn off energy at play areas. Returning to the parks after rest makes the next few hours of fun feel fresh again.
The key is layers. Mornings and evenings in Paris can be chilly even in summer, so bring a light jacket or hoodie. Backpacks carry snacks, water, medication, small toys, and spare clothes through the parks with ease. Charging packs keep phones and cameras powered up. And don’t forget autograph books, Disney gear, and comfy, supportive shoes!
Part of the magic of Disney parks lies in unique experiences that become treasured memories. Book character dining with their beloved Disney friends or reserve the unforgettable Sequoia Lodge Golden Forest Club. Let the grandkids pick fun Disney gifts in boutiques, hunt for hidden Mickeys around the parks, and strike silly poses with statues and scenery. Capture plenty of priceless smiling shots together.
Use Disney’s FASTPASS service to avoid long lines and minimize wait times for popular attractions, as demand is high for top rides! Check for FASTPASS kiosks near ride entrances.
With younger grandchildren, the lure of late nights probably fades earlier, but older kids will get a thrill from staying until the spectacular closing show, Disney Illuminations. The dazzling nightly extravaganza lights up the sky in celebration of Disney movies through an emotional mix of fireworks, stirring music, lights, lasers, and water effects. Ride lines also tend to be shorter in the last couple of hours as many guests leave.
Q. Is cigarette smoke the only cause of lung cancer?
No. Radon and asbestos are causes, too. Radon is an invisible, odorless, and radioactive gas that occurs naturally in soil and rocks. Asbestos has been used for fireproofing, electrical insulation, building materials, brake linings, and chemical filters.
But cigarette smoking is the number one cause of lung cancer, and lung cancer is the leading cause of cancer deaths worldwide. Before cigarette smoking became popular in the early part of the 20th century, doctors rarely saw patients with lung cancer. Nearly 90% of people with lung cancer develop it because they smoked cigarettes.
The good news is that smoking is not as popular as it used to be. In 1965, about 42% of all adults smoked. By 2021, only 11.5% of adults aged 18 years or older smoked cigarettes. Also, there has been a sharp drop in lung cancer deaths among men, mainly because fewer men are smoking. Lung cancer is the leading cause of cancer death in men and women in the United States. It occurs most often between the ages of 55 and 65.
Common symptoms of lung cancer include a persistent cough that worsens, constant chest pain, coughing up blood, shortness of breath, wheezing or hoarseness, repeated problems with pneumonia or bronchitis, swelling of the neck and face, loss of appetite or weight loss, and fatigue. If you have any of these symptoms, it is important to check with a doctor immediately. If tests show that you have cancer, you should make treatment decisions as soon as possible. Studies show that early treatment leads to better outcomes.
The standard treatments for lung cancer are surgery to remove a tumor, chemotherapy with anti-cancer drugs, radiation to kill cancer cells, and photodynamic therapy, a newer technique that uses a laser with a chemical to kill cancer cells.
There are two major types of lung cancer: non-
small cell lung cancer and small cell lung cancer. Each type of lung cancer grows and spreads in different ways, and each is treated differently.
Non-small cell lung cancer is more common, and there are several treatments including surgery. Cryosurgery, a treatment that freezes and destroys cancer tissue, may be used to control symptoms in the later stages of non-small cell lung cancer. Doctors may also use radiation therapy and chemotherapy to slow the progress of the disease and to manage symptoms.
Small cell lung cancer grows more quickly and is more likely to spread to other organs in the body. In many cases, cancer cells have already spread to other parts of the body when the disease is diagnosed. To reach cancer cells throughout the body, doctors almost always use chemotherapy. Other tools include radiation therapy aimed at the tumors. Surgery may also help a small number of patients with small cell lung cancer.
Some patients with small cell lung cancer have radiation therapy to the brain even though no cancer is found there. This treatment is given to prevent tumors from forming in the brain. Targeted drug therapy blocks abnormalities in cancer cells and can kill these cells.
Immunotherapy uses your own immune system to fight cancer. Your body’s immune system may not attack the cancer because the cancer cells produce proteins that help them hide from the immune system cells. Immunotherapy works by interfering with that process.
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May is the ideal time of year to enjoy the great outdoors on the Suncoast. With temperatures in the 80s, we get to enjoy more daylight hours as we approach spring.
And sunsets seem to be more vibrant and beautiful here in winter. What a perfect time it is to enjoy a Mother’s Day picnic with your one-and-only mother!
By Patricia Horwell
Before you head out, you might want to stock your picnic basket with a variety of cheeses and charcuterie. Then add some fruit — berries or slices of melon. If your picnic is to take place at lunchtime or dinner, add a few sandwiches or wraps from your favorite gourmet deli. A bottle of your favorite wine or bubbly (sparkling lemonade works, too) adds a touch of sophistication, and chocolate, particularly decadent dark chocolate truffles, always works for dessert.
To get comfy, bring along a soft blanket and a few throw pillows. Add a few battery-operated candles or fairy lights if you will be picnicking past sunset. Handwritten notes, poems, or cards made by the children or grandchildren will make your picnic extra special.
We certainly have no lack of outdoor spots for your Mother’s Day picnic:
• Siesta Key Beach has stunning sunset views, coupled with the softest pure white sand you’ll ever dig your toes into.
• Marie Selby Botanical Gardens, downtown on Sarasota
Bay, offers lush gardens for a touch of natural beauty.
• The north end of Longboat Key at Broadway Beach boasts gorgeous sunsets and picturesque beach grasses should you desire a photo op.
• You’ll find beautiful, wide-open vistas at Bean Point at the tip of Anna Maria Island.
• And for a riverside al fresco experience in a historical setting, try Phillipi Estate Park.
• Or pack a breakfast basket and head to Celery Fields where you’ll have the opportunity to see all manner of visiting birds.
• Finally, head out east to Rothenbach Park where there are plenty of tranquil spaces to experience beautiful scenery.
Whatever way you decide to picnic, style it your way and Happy Mother’s Day!
When Joel Ehrenpreis first encouraged his son Scott to share his experience living with mental illness and autism spectrum disorder, he never dreamed that the idea would turn into the next Off-Broadway sensation. From the time he was young, Joel realized there was something different about his son. He and his wife Rosalyn watched as Scott struggled with obsessive compulsive disorder, social anxiety, bipolar disorder and depression, before finally receiving a diagnosis for autism spectrum disorder well into his twenties. The one respite from these challenges for Scott was the stage where, if just for a little while, he could shed his diagnosis and step into a realm of self-empowerment and discovery.
Throughout Scott’s time earning his degree in Performance from Ohio University and working with local theatre companies, Joel encouraged him to share his story: not only entertain others, but to educate, inspire, and reduce stigmas about these conditions. In 2022, Scott was ready. Joel enlisted the help of Playwright and Director Jason Cannon, a former ten-year Associate Artist for Florida Studio Theatre, who, together with Scott, crafted “Clowns Like Me,” a one-man show told in Scott’s own words. Combining humor, gut-punching truth, and heartbreaking realities all wrapped within a message of hope, Clowns Like Me plays in May 2024 at Sarasota’s Cook Theatre.
Not only does the play resonate with audiences, but guided talkback sessions following each performance illustrate how deeply Scott’s message had been heard, and the essential need for a continued conversation about topics of mental health and autism spectrum disorders.
“Clowns Like Me” returned to the Cook Theatre for a limited engagement in August 2023, where it came to the attention of Broadway Tony-award winning producer Jonathan Demar. Now, with Joel’s perseverance, passion, and continued fundraising, “Clowns Like Me” will run on Off-Broadway for eight weeks this summer at the prestigious DR2 Theatre in the heart of Union Square.
The Off-Broadway production is not only a dream come true for Scott, but for Joel as well. “The Off-Broadway production will pave the way for bringing this message to audiences who need it most,” says Joel. “It is my hope that this success will lead to many more opportunities for touring the show and sharing Scott’s essential message for those living with mental illness: ‘you are not alone’.”
Sarasota audiences can attend a sneak peek performance of the New York version of “Clowns Like Me” at the Cook Theatre on May 23-26. Tickets are $30. For tickets and information: www.ClownsLikeMe.com
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The Marie Selby Botanical Gardens in downtown Sarasota is the only botanical garden in the world dedicated to the display and study of epiphytic orchids, bromeliads, ferns, gesneriads, and tropical air plants.
On 15 acres overlooking scenic Sarasota Bay, this Smithsonian affiliate is wowing visitors with its recent refurbishment completed in time to celebrate its 50th year. Benefactor Marie Selby, a passionate gardener left her home and its acreage “for the enjoyment of the public” along with a $2 million endowment.
The banyan grove she helped plant almost a century ago is certainly one of the centerpieces. There are also stunning walkways through a glades garden, a desert oasis, a mangrove cluster, a lily pond, koi pond, a plant research center, an herbarium with its preserved collection of 125,000 dried and pressed plant specimens, a “spirit” laboratory where 35,000 specimens are preserved in fluid, and one of the finest botanical libraries in the world.
A new onsite restaurant, the Green Orchid, runs entirely off solar energy that powers the electric kitchen. Produce is grown on its rooftop garden by EcoVets, a not-forprofit serving military veterans. The 50,000 sq. ft. solar arrangement is the first net-positive energy botanical garden in the world and with its hurricane resilient buildings and its storm water management system, the complex is a stateof-the art facility. The welcome center and orchid lined gift shop highlight the area’s regional history and Florida’s native flora; free parking adds to a lovely Mother’s Day outing.
On the horizon for the museum and gardens are a 25,000 square foot greenhouse, learning pavilion, sea wall refurbishment, and renovation of the Payne Mansion that serves as an indoor exhibition space. Since Selby Gardens acquired the nearby historic Spanish Point Campus in Osprey, this flower lovers’ paradise has made Sarasota a destination site for naturalists the world over. Selby.org.
Heartworms are very prevalent in Florida, yet, as veterinarians, we still see clients every day that choose to forgo preventative medications. There are many reasons that people choose to not give these medications such as expense, concerns that the medications may cause harm, their pets rarely go outside so they don’t think they can get heartworms, or they can’t give their pets medications by mouth. The truth is that heartworm medications are very safe, affordable, and there are numerous alternatives to fit your pet’s lifestyle, even if you can’t give a medication by mouth. Also, they can still get heartworms even if they never go outside.
The lifecycle of a heartworm starts with a mosquito. The mosquito drinks the blood of a dog that is already infected with heartworms and then can transfer juvenile heartworms to another dog when it drinks their blood. The juvenile heartworms then slowly turn into adults inside the new host and set up their new home in your furry friend’s heart. These worms then can cause major issues in the heart and lungs (depending on the number of worms present) and can even result in long lasting heart damage, heart failure, or even sudden death.
Because of the hot and humid climate in Florida, we have a ton of mosquitos that would love to transfer heartworms to your pets. Keeping your dog on a heartworm prevention is the best means to keep them safe. There are monthly oral, and 6 month or yearly injectable options for those dogs that hate taking pills. We all find wandering mosquitos in our houses from time to time and they can be carriers for heartworms as well. So even if you have completely indoor pets, keeping them on regular preventatives is very important.
Once a dog has contracted heartworms, treatment can be potentially life threatening, and very expensive. Please reach out to your local vet if you have any questions or need to start your pet on heartworm prevention.
The American Heartworm Association is a very helpful online resource for further information on heartworm disease and prevention.
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Many people are fascinated by safaris, Prince William and Kate Middleton being among them. However, their interest in the environment differs from legendary hunters like Theodore Roosevelt and Ernest Hemingway, who were interested in big game for trophies. Hemingway, an adventurer at heart, helped popularize the idea of a “safari.”
Various national parks in Africa offer safaris, including the Serengeti National Park, the Hwange National Park in Zimbabwe, and the Masai Mara National Reserve in Tanzania. We are in the Kruger National Park in South Africa.
One key to a successful safari is seeing various wildlife in their natural habitats. The ultimate goal is to spot and observe the “Big Five” animals in the wild: lions, leopards, elephants, rhinoceroses, and Cape buffaloes. These animals are the most popular among hunters. Luckily, we spotted all five!
a watering hole. Photography is also important for a successful safari, as it allows for capturing incredible wildlife shots. During this safari, we spotted animals interacting with each other. Zebras and wildebeest hang out together; giraffes spread their front legs
to drink from a pond alongside hippos and their babies. We have a shot of a lion enjoying its prey after a successful kill.
We climbed into the jeep; the natural beauty of the landscape was striking. The savannah’s vast expanses of golden grasslands, scattered clusters of trees such as the acacia and baobab, and the play of light and shadows against the horizon made the trip come alive. Our guide talked about the behavior of different animals, such as a herd of elephants or a placid Cape buffalo at
To plan a successful safari, research the best options available, as it will be a significant investment of time and money. Look up “Best Safaris” in a search engine to find suggestions and request brochures from different providers. You can also speak to your travel agent about your options.
For millions of baby boomers, the retirement plans they carefully crafted over decades were severely shaken due to the pandemic. For a variety of reasons, many pre-retirees found themselves exiting the workforce earlier than anticipated. Fast forward to 2024, and the economic landscape post-pandemic is still full of challenges, including the highest inflation rates since the 1970s. This new environment has left a significant number of early retirees grappling with the harsh reality of financial strain, prompting many to “un-retire.”
A recent study conducted by T. Rowe Price reported that 55% of retirees who are working or seeking employment are doing so out of financial necessity, while another 49% say work provides them a sense of meaning and fulfillment. While it can be enjoyable to earn a paycheck and be surrounded by a social network, it is crucial to weigh the implications of existing retirement benefits before making this decision.
For those drawing Social Security benefits before reaching Full Retirement Age (FRA), exceeding annual earnings limits can result in reductions to your benefits. In 2024, earning over $22,320 incurs a $1 reduction in benefits for every $2 earned above this threshold.
thresholds that cause extra premium hikes as a household earns more income, compounding the financial burden.
Decisions about whether or not to draw from a retirement account shift when you reenter the workforce. Required Minimum Distribution (RMDs) are mandatory for retirees aged 73 and over – unless you are still contributing to an employer-sponsored retirement plan. While you’re exempt from withdrawing RMDs from an employer-sponsored retirement plan, you are still required to take RMDs from your previous retirement accounts that you are no longer contributing to. Failure to comply with RMD requirements incurs a steep 50% tax penalty on the mandated distribution amount, underscoring the importance of navigating retirement account requirements effectively.
The decision to re-enter the workforce after retirement demands careful consideration of various factors. Consult with a financial professional to get a complete understanding of all financial impacts, and navigate the path of un-retiring with informed clarity and confidence.
The financial impact of “unretiring” also extends to healthcare costs, particularly Medicare premiums. Higher-income earners may face increased premiums for Medicare Part B and Part D through the Income-Related Monthly Adjustment Amount (IRMAA), with MAGI thresholds of $103,000 for single filers and $206,000 for joint filers in 2024. There are additional income
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“Unbecoming a Lady, the Forgotten Sluts and Shrews Who Shaped America,” by Therese Oneill
Don’t let the title of this new, entertaining and fascinating book with historical illustrations fool you. It’s the perfect gift to celebrate both May 7 (National Teachers’ Day) and May 12 (Mothers’ Day). During the early 19th and 20th centuries when these women lived, they were called “sluts, shrews [and] scolds” or just plan “sinful.” They refused to fit the mold and conform to society’s standards; instead, they blazed their own paths.
New York Times bestselling author Therese Oneill has done her homework. After writing “Unmentionable: The Victorian Lady’s Guide to Sex, Marriage and Manners” and then “The Ungovernable: The Victorian Parents’ Guide to Raising Flawless Children,” she turned her attention to profiling 18 formidable women. One such is Hetty Green – the “Witch of Wall Street” – who lived so frugally and invested everything in stocks that she became a billionaire at a time when women needed their husbands’ permission to open a savings account.
only psychologist to have her face on a stamp, she designed women’s work shoes, and promoted hiring middle-aged women as consultants for Macy’s.
Lithuanian immigrant Lena Himmelstein patented the first commercial maternity dress, founded the store Lane Bryant that catered to plus-size women, and in 1916, founded the first multifloor luxury department store in New York City.
In 1920, Lillian Gilbreth was the first female engineering professor. She held 23 honorary academic degrees, was the
Aimee Semple McPherson founded the FourSquare sect of Pentecostalism (the first mega church), was a world-famous evangelist and established the first woman-owned Christian radio station in the 1920’s. She was then the most famous woman in America and our nation’s first real celebrity.
And there’s more: Carrie Nation, who started women's shelters; Dr. Mary Edward Walker, the only woman ever awarded the Congressional Medal of Honor (and who insisted on wearing pants in public); Elizabeth Packard, who fought for the rights of those declared insane; union organizer Mary “Mother” Jones; journalist Ida B. Wells, who fought racism; and Victoria Woodhull, the first woman to run for President, who did so 50 years before women could even vote.
If this collection about fellow sisters you never knew or have forgotten doesn’t make you proud of all your fair sex has accomplished, then, as the author states, “There’s much to be learned from those who were so unbecoming as women that they forever changed what women can become.”
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This recipe is perfect for Mother’s Day Brunch. You can substitute any other firm, white fish – such as tilapia or cod – or even chicken, if you prefer.
Ingredients:
• 1 package (10 oz.) frozen spinach, thawed
• 1/4 teaspoon each salt and pepper
• 1 lb. fish filets
Method:
1. Preheat oven to 350 degrees.
2. Spray a 9” x 13” baking dish with nonstick cooking spray.
3. Squeeze thawed spinach to remove most of the liquid. Spread in the bottom of the pan. Sprinkle with salt and pepper.
4. Arrange fish filets over spinach. Sprinkle with seasoning blend. Top fish with salsa.
• 1 teaspoon Creole or Cajun seasoning blend
• 1 jar salsa (mild or medium)
5. Cover the baking dish with foil and bake for 15 minutes. Remove foil and bake for 20 minutes more or until fish flakes easily.
6. Refrigerate leftovers within 2 hours.
Optional: A splash of lemon juice or lemon pepper will brighten the flavors.
This might be the most delicious use of onions we’ve seen in a long time! Customize this recipe with your favorite herbs and cheese for a decadent Mother’s Day side.
Ingredients:
• 6 medium onions (yellow, white, or Vidalia)
• Extra virgin olive oil
• 1 stick of unsalted butter
• Salt & pepper
Method:
1. Preheat the oven to 425 degrees.
• Optional: 4-6 Tablespoons fresh thyme, chopped
• Optional: 6 oz. goat cheese, divided into 12 half-ounce pieces
2. Peel off the skin and slice each onion in half crosswise so you have two equal halves. If needed, cut a small slice off the ends so the onion halves will rest flat.
3. Grease standard (cupcake-size) muffin tins generously with olive oil. Place an onion half in each tin, cut side up.
4. Drizzle each onion with a bit more oil, sprinkle with salt, and top with a pat of butter.
5. Bake for 40 minutes, basting with onion juices after 25 minutes.
6. You can stop here and enjoy the onions, OR…
7. Top each with pepper, herbs and cheese, then return to the oven for 5-7 minutes or until the cheese is bubbly and golden brown.
8. Serve hot.
Optional: drizzle with honey, add bacon bits with the cheese, or add any other herbs you like. Dill, basil, and rosemary are great options!
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MAY 3: CECE WINANS
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MAY 3-6: FIESTA BLOCK PARTY
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