August 2021 Digital Issue by Neapolitan Family

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12 How to Reduce Back-to-School Stress. Tips from a pediatrician on minimizing your kids’ anxiety as they start a new school year. by Reisha Brown, M.D.

20 Beyond Books. Learn about the treasure trove of resources available at your local library. by Leigh Ann Newman 23 Story Times. Find a story time at a Collier County library branch near you.

Xavier West is 6 years old and a first grader at Sea Gate Elementary. He likes dinosaurs and animals, and loves to play soccer and any sport that involves a ball. He enjoys going to church and playing with his friends. His favorite food is any type of fruit. Thank you to Hampton Social at Mercato in Naples for hosting our cover shoot!

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24 Preparing Your Child for Kindergarten. Make sure your kid has the skills needed to make the first year of school a success. by Tanni Haas, Ph.D.

26 Youth Athletes FAQs. Picking a sport, club sports, and recruiting for college. by Lissa Carlson 28 SWFL Youth Sports Directory. Local organizations offering a wide variety of sports for beginner to advanced young athletes.

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THIS MONTH Back to School Back to school looks different in my house this year, and that has nothing to do with COVID-19. My daughter is a rising junior at Barron Collier High School, but has opted for full-time dual enrollment at FGCU for her last two years of high school. While this means no more 5:30 a.m. alarms, it also means no more marching band competitions, listening to plans about decorating a friend’s locker for their birthday, or meeting her teachers. I’m excited for my daughter to embark on this experience, but it feels as though we’ve skipped a step somewhere along the way. On top of that, she will have never had a “normal” year of high school. Freshman year was cut short by COVID-19, and that continued to affect her sophomore year. And now she’s moving on to college classes. Processing the emotions surrounding all of this has taken me back to when my daughter started kindergarten. As I remember the stress (me) and excitement and pure joy (her) of simply riding the school bus and spending all day in a classroom, I think about parents nervously sending their little ones off to school for the first time. If I’m talking about you, go to page 24 and read “Preparing Your Child for Kindergarten” for tips on ensuring your child is ready for school. The new school year also is the time that many families try a new sport. Writer Lissa Carlson answers your questions about kids and sports on page 26, plus we have put together a youth sports directory on page 28 that includes everything from football to fencing. If your organization is not included, email us details at info@neafamily.com, and we will update our online list at https://neafamily.com. Happy Back to School!

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he popular fundraiser Love That Dress! is back after a year’s hiatus due to the pandemic. The event, which runs Aug. 19-21, raises money for Pace Center for Girls of Lee County. Love That Dress! features shopping and silent auctions at Embassy Suites by Hilton in Estero, with all proceeds benefiting Pace programs. This year, the event features a collection of 9,000 new and gently used dresses, shoes, handbags, and accessories at deeply discounted prices. Shopping starts at 6 p.m. on Aug. 19 for VIP ticket holders, who will be the first to shop with exclusive access to private dressing areas, express checkout, and complimentary refreshments. General admission runs Aug. 20-21, and one-hour time slots can be scheduled online for up to 15 guests from 9 a.m. to 7 p.m. each day. Proceeds will help fund academic programs and counseling services for girls ages 11 to 18 who are working to overcome risk factors such as poverty, substance abuse, domestic violence, foster home placement, neglect, grief, incarceration of a family member, mental health, and physical, emotional or sexual abuse. General admission ticket are $30 per person. Sponsorship opportunities are available, including the presenting sponsor at $10,000, designer sponsor at $5,000, and VIP suite sponsors at $1,500. Volunteers are needed to sort and tag inventory as well as for the main event in August. Contact Jessica Cosden, volunteer coordinator, at Jessica.Cosden@pacecenter.org for additional information. To register or learn more about the event and sponsorships, visit https://lovethatdressleecounty.com or call 239-425-2366.

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Music Center for Neurodivergent Young Adults Coming to SWFL

Naples nonprofit is bringing a unique music education center to Southwest Florida as part of an alliance with the Berklee Institute for Arts Education and Special Needs. The Southwest Florida Music Education Center provides music education and life skills development for neurodivergent young adults ages 16-30. “It is well documented that most neurodivergent young adults face significant challenges when preparing for higher education and the workforce,” said Rob Moher, founder and board chair of SWFLMEC. “Currently, there are few programs designed to fill this gap anywhere in the United States.” The nonprofit will provide comprehensive music education for individuals with autism spectrum disorder, learning disabilities, social pragmatic communication disorder, and anxiety-related disorders in the context of neurodiversity. Students must be ages 16 to 30 with low to moderate support needs and must demonstrate mostly independent self-care skills. Students should also possess intermediate level or higher music skills on one or more instrument. Programs currently in development include a two-year high school transition music certificate and a four-year post-secondary music certificate. Community education opportunities will begin in fall 2021, and the two- and four-year programs will launch by fall 2023. Phase two of the project will include an onsite student living center and dormitory. Call 239-205-8258 or visit https://swflmusic.org.

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COLLIER COUNTY PUBLIC SCHOOLS

By Chad Oliver, Executive Director of Communications

Moving Ahead in the New School Year

he A-rated Collier County Public Schools district will welcome students Aug. 10 for the 2021-22 school year. Masks will be optional, collaborative learning spaces will return to classrooms, and families will be welcomed to fill stadiums and auditoriums to full capacity. Optimism is running high for the school year as CCPS creates innovative ways to support learners of all levels, expands on an already impressive range of career academies, and builds on various academic paths to meet individual needs. For example, the Advanced Studies and Gifted Education department ensures high expectations and academic achievement for gifted and high-achieving learners. These students are grouped on the basis of achievement and interest in specific areas. Academic competitions — like debate, Academic WorldQuest, and MATHCOUNTS — will continue challenging students with rigorous content. The CCPS career and technical education offerings constantly are evolving with the global economy. Whether a student is interested in 3-D animation, aviation, or entrepreneurship, CCPS has a track to explore diverse subject areas. Students can earn scholarship dollars, industry certifications, credits toward college, and even an associate degree while they are still enrolled in high school.

“Despite the unique challenges of the past two years due to the COVID-19 pandemic, our district maintained focus and continues to excel in academic achievement,” said Superintendent Kamela Patton, Ph.D., after Florida Standards Assessment results revealed higher than average scores for CCPS third graders. Never before in the last decade has CCPS performed 6 points higher than the state English Language Arts average for third grade, a crucial grade for students to become proficient readers. “We are proud of the achievements

of individual students, schools, and the collective district performance,” Patton said. “However, we do know there will be learning losses tied to COVID-19 stressors and disrupted learning.” Thousands of CCPS students took part in five weeks of summer school to build on foundational skills and also for course and credit recovery to mitigate learning losses that occurred during the pandemic. “That is one of the reasons why [CCPS] expanded summer school eligibility for grades 2, 3, and 4, and included for the first time our kindergarten and first-grade students,” explained Elizabeth Alves, Ph.D., CCPS associate superintendent of teaching and learning. “Having a solid foundation in those early grades is critically important.” Schools also hosted summer STEAM camps, and the district offered voluntary and non-graded summer online learning opportunities for students in grades preK-10 in English, math, science, and social studies. Instead of the summer slide where learning loss may occur, Collier County families had the opportunity to accelerate learning into a promising new school year. According to Patton, the district’s successes can be attributed to “the hard work, resilience, and perseverance of our students, teachers, parents, administrators, district staff, and strong community support.”

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How to Reduce Back-to-School Stress

ike any new experience, starting school can be difficult for kids and families. If your child seems stressed or anxious about the new school year, it is important to talk to them. Worries could range from fear of not fitting in, pressure to get good grades, or who to sit with at lunch. Regardless of their response, remember these thoughts and feelings are real for your child, so it is important to be sensitive and non-judgmental and to acknowledge their feelings. Once you understand their concerns, work together to create solutions. Here a few tips to help minimize back-to-school stress for kids and possibly the entire family: Meet the teacher. Before the start of the new year, many schools offer events for students and families to meet the teacher, tour the school, and review general curriculum. Participating in 12

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these opportunities is an excellent way to reduce first day or new school jitters, because your child will know what to expect. Start a back-to-school tradition. Many families like to commemorate the first day with a photo, but also consider creating a fun family tradition to celebrate these important first-day milestones. A tradition will give your child something positive and exciting to look forward to each year. Celebrations can be as simple as enjoying a special back-to-school meal together, buying a new book or collectible that your child adores, a family fashion show strutting school outfits, or a kids’ pick movie night. Make sure you ask your child what type of tradition would be special for them. Establish a routine. The predictable and repetitive nature of a daily routine is helpful in reducing stress and anxiety because NEAPOLITANfamily • August 2021

it takes much of the guesswork out of your day. Invite your child to take part in the planning; even better, encourage their budding independence and see what tasks they can do on their own. A week or two before school starts, begin to ease your child back into their school-year bedtime routine. According to Johns Hopkins Medicine, “Studies have shown that kids who regularly get an adequate amount of sleep have improved attention, behavior, learning, memory, and overall mental and physical health.” A good bedtime routine may include laying out an outfit for the following day, taking a warm bath or shower, and nighttime reading. Additionally, electronic screen time should be eliminated at least one hour before bed. Organize. Help reduce morning chaos by getting ahead the night before with a few easy preparations. Keep items needed for the following day, such as homework, backpacks, electronics, and sports equipment in a designated space. If your child brings a packed lunch to school, make it the night before. Create lunches together or encourage older children to pack their own (with some guidance). This will help them understand proper nourishment while also empowering them to make decisions that affect them. Be positive. Talk positively about past school year experiences, and remind your child about friendships and activities they may like such as recess, art class, music class, or visits to the library. Reassure them that they are not alone in their feelings, and other students likely are nervous about the first day, too. Remember, although anxiety around the first day of school is

common, it is important to take time to acknowledge and validate your child’s concerns. To make the transition as comfortable as possible, let them identify their fears and then work together to develop solutions. However, if your child’s anxiety lasts longer than two weeks or you sense something more serious, talk to your child’s pediatrician about your concerns. REISHA BROWN, MD, FAAP, has been practicing medicine since 2002 and joined Healthcare Network in 2018. Since 2015, she has been included annually in Castle Connolly’s regional directory of “Top Doctors” for pediatrics. For information about Healthcare Network, visit healthcareswfl.org or call 239-658-3000.

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12 p.m. The True Story of the 3 Little Pigs. Select dates through Aug. 13. A creative and fun retelling of the classic tale. Tickets are $19 for kids all of ages, and include show and lunch. Located at Broadway Palm Dinner Theatre, 1380 Colonial Blvd., Fort Myers. For tickets or more information, call 239-278-4422 or check https://broadwaypalm.com. 3:30 p.m. Space Science Sundays. Hands-on fun for kids and their adults. Located at Calusa Nature Center & Planetarium, 3450 Ortiz Ave., Fort Myers. Check www.calusanature.org or call 239275-3435.

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1 SUNDAY 9 a.m. Collier County Appreciation Days. Sunday and Monday. Free timed admission tickets to the Naples Zoo at Caribbean Gardens for Collier County residents. Tickets must be reserved in advance. Located at Naples Zoo, 1590 Goodlette-Frank Rd., Naples. Call 239262-5409 or check www.napleszoo. org. 14

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Junior Open Water Certification. Campers will be in full scuba gear playing pool games and learning basic scuba skills. Located at Scuba Outfitters, 950 3rd Ave. N., Naples. Call 239-280-5500 or check www.scubaoutfittersnaples.com.

3 TUESDAY 11 a.m. Toddler Tuesday Storytime & Craft. Songs, stories, and craft. Included with open play from 10 a.m. to 12:30 p.m. A great way to make new friends. Call to reserve your spot. Located at We

2 MONDAY 9 a.m. Music Camp for All Abilities: Ages 8-16. Music instruction, mindfulness activities, social skills, cognitive behavioral techniques for self-regulation, arts & crafts, and more. Led by autism-trained experts. Located at House of Gaia, 1660 Trade Center Way, Naples. Visit https:// EndlessBrain.org/register or email info@ EndlessBrain.org. 9:30 a.m. Scuba Seal Team Kids’ Summer Camp. Designed for future divers who are not old enough to receive their

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families in need. Everyone is welcome. Located at Emmanuel Community Park, 2770 Oil Well Rd., Naples. Call 239-5377775 or check https://mealsofhope.org.

12:30 p.m. Regal Summer Movie Express. Kids’ movies for $1 every Tuesday and Wednesday through Sept. 8. Located at Regal Cinemas Hollywood 20, 6006 Hollywood Dr., Naples; Regal Gulf Coast & IMAX, 10028 Gulf Center Dr., Fort Myers; and Regal Belltower & ScreenX, 13499 Belltower Dr., Fort Myers. Tickets may be purchased in advance at www.regmovies.com.

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9 a.m. Little Leapers. Also on Saturdays and Saturdays. For children ages 7 and younger. Located at Sky Zone Trampoline Park, 14181 S. Tamiami Tr., Fort Myers. Call 239-313-5448 or check www.skyzone.com.

1 p.m. Teen Program: Engineering the Everglades. Program features historic subject and STEM principles. Registration encouraged. Located at Museum of the Everglades, 105 Broadway Ave. W., Everglades City. Call 239-252-5026 or check https://colliermuseums.com.

9 a.m. Safari Squad. Members-only event. Includes an animal encounter, reading, art, and play stations. Wednesdays and

3 p.m. Meals of Hope Mobile Food Pantry. Frozen food, fresh produce, and canned goods are given away to

10:15 a.m. Mini Wonders. Thursdays and Fridays. A great introduction to the formal school classroom for ages 2-5 years. Located at Golisano Children’s Museum of Naples, 15080 Livingston Rd., Naples. Call 239-514-0084 or check cmon.org. 11:30 a.m. Paint Back-to-School Tote Bags. Create your own bag alongside the refuge’s artist in residence. All materials provided. Located at J.N. “Ding” Darling National Wildlife Refuge, 1 Wildlife Dr., Sanibel Island. Registration required. Call 239-472-1100. 4 p.m. Lego Fun. Share ideas, be creative, and have fun. Bricks provided. Ages 4-11. Registration is not required. Located at Estates Library, 1266 Golden Gate Blvd. W., Naples. Call 239-252-7109 or check www.collierlibrary.org.

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11:30 a.m. & 2 p.m. Saturday Movie Matinee: Pete’s Dragon. Rated PG. All ages. Registration is not required. Located at Immokalee Library, 417 N. First St., Immokalee. Check www.collierlibrary. org or call 239-252-7073.

6:30 p.m. Evening on Fifth. An array of live musical performances up and down the sidewalks of Fifth Avenue South, plus dining, shopping, and more. Located at Fifth Avenue South, Naples. Visit www. fifthavenuesouth.com.

12 p.m. Beach Bash. Food, live music, games, activities, rock wall, canoe and paddleboard races, photo booth, and vendors. Free entrance. Located at Baker Park, 50 Riverside Cr., Naples. Call 239213-3020 or check www.naplesgov.com/ parksrec.

8 SUNDAY 10 a.m. Miniature Train Rides. A 15-minute ride through woods, lakes, small villages, and scenes. Wednesdays and Thursdays, 10 a.m. to 2 p.m.; Sundays, 10 a.m. to 4 p.m. Located at Lakes Park, 7330 Gladiolus Dr., Fort Myers. Call 239-2671905 or check https://rrmsf.org. 2 p.m. Blippi The Musical. The energetic and lovable character Blippi comes off the screen and onto the stage. Locat-

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ed at Hertz Arena, 1000 Everblades Pkwy., Estero. Call 239-948-7825 or visit https://hertzarena.com. 8 p.m. Cowboys & Constellations. Join us as we explore major constellations and share tips about how to navigate and tell time like cowboys do. Hear the stories behind the stars. Free. Located at Immokalee Pioneer Museum at Roberts Ranch, 1215 Roberts Ave. W., Immokalee. Check https://colliermuseums.com or call 239252-2611.

10 a.m. Le Leche League Monthly Meeting. All breastfeeding mothers and mothers-to-be interested in breastfeeding are welcome. Also, our leaders are available by phone for breastfeeding help. Located at Center Point Community Church, 6590 Golden Gate Pkwy., Naples. Visit www.lllsunshinestate.org.

14 SATURDAY 8 a.m. Community Yard Sale. Find yard sale bargains with the convenience of having all the sales in one location. Located at Immokalee Community Park, 321 N. 1st St., Immokalee. Call 239-2524449 or visit www.collierparks.com.

Back to School & Better than Ever After School Program at the Club Fall Session begins August 16th Monday - Friday, until 7pm Ages 6-18 welcome!

Enroll online today! bgccc.com/become-a-member

Contact your local Club for more details and costs. Nichols Club 7500 Davis Boulevard Naples, FL 34104 239-325-1700

Bolch Club 1155 Roberts Ave. W Immokalee, FL 34142 239-675-7003

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7 p.m. PFLAG Naples. Every third Thursday. A safe, loving, nonjudgmental, and supportive environment for the parents, family, and friends of the LGBTQ+ people. Located at Naples Pride Center, 2248 Airport Pulling Rd. S., Naples. Call 2398:15 p.m. Movies on the Lawn: 304-9407 or check www.naplespride.org. $100,000 grant from the Virginia B. Toulmin Foundation School of Rock. Gates open at 7:15 is funding new miniature horse therapy program at Naples p.m. Seating areas under umbrellas are areRiding Center (NTRC), a nonprofit organization served for parties of atTherapeutic least four adults. providing therapeutic and other equine-facilitated Outdoor bar provided by The Pub. horseback 9 a.m. riding National Honey Bee Day. to children adults with physical, social, and mental Located at Mercato, services 9132 Strada Pl., andFree. Celebrate with hands-on honey bee health needs. or Naples. Visit www.mercatoshops.com presentations, honey extraction demonstraTwo miniature horses, andsale. Itty Bitty, were donated call 239-254-1080. tions,Toulmin and a plant Food truck, live muto NTRC. Miniature horses, known as “minis”, are similar to their sic, and beverages available for purchase. full-sized equine partners in terms of personality, intelligence, and disposition. The grant was used to improve the facilities to ensure the safety of the minis as well as fund the new position of equine 6 p.m. Love That Dress! Through Aug. resource manager 21. The ultimate feel-good shopping spreeto implement and facilitate the program. In 3,000 addition to having the minis on site at the riding center, of the year offering more than new NTRC’s newhandmini traveling program will bring the therapeutic and gently loved dresses, shoes, of prices horses to to worksites and organizations through Southwest bags, and accessories atbenefits nominal including benefit Pace Center for Florida, Girls of Lee Coun-hospitals, schools, hospices, nursing homes, and rehabilitation centers. ty. Volunteers needed before and during event. Located at Embassy Visit Suiteswww.naplestherapeuticridingcenter.org. Estero, 10450 Corkscrew Commons Dr., Estero. Visit https://lovethatdressleecounty.com Left: Camryn Ramsey with miniature horse Toulmin. Love That Dress! or call 239-425-2366. 9407, check www.naplespride.org, or email info@naplespride.org.

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Bark on the Ark Dog Cruises

8 a.m. Bark on the Ark Dog Cruise. Pure Florida’s dog-friendly cruise takes guests and their pups for a sightseeing eco cruise along Naples Bay to Keewaydin Island, where pets and their parents will enjoy time to play. Located at Pure Florida, Tin City Docks, Naples. Call 239-2634949 or visit www.purefl.com. 11 a.m. LGBTQ+ Youth Group. This is a safe space for those in grades 6-12 on the second Saturday of every month. Located at Naples Pride Center, 2248 Airport

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Located at Edison and Ford Winter Estates, 2350 McGregor Blvd., Fort Myers. Check www.edisonfordwinterestates.org or call 239-334-7419.

8 p.m. Family Friendly Comedy. Get ready to laugh until it hurts with Stage 2 Improv. The best family-friendly comedy in SWFL. Located at The Naples Players, 701 5th Ave. S., Naples. Call 239-263-7990 or check https://naplesplayers.org.

26 THURSDAY 5 p.m. Teen Driver Challenge. This two-day course taught by Collier County Sheriff’s Office deputies provides teens with the knowledge and hands-on experience to reduce their chances of being involved in a crash. Located at First Baptist Academy, 3000 Orange Blossom Pups ‘n’ Books

1:30 p.m. Pups ‘n’ Books. Stop by to read to a dog or just pet one. Dogs provided by PAWS Assistance and Therapy Dogs. All ages. Registration is not required. Located at Headquarters Library, 2385 Orange Blossom Dr., Naples. Check www.collierlibrary.org or call 239-252-7109.

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We buy & sell gently used kids stuff • Clothing (newborn to size 16), toys, baby furniture, equipment, and more. • We pay cash on the spot. • No appointment necessary; clothes must be freshly laundered and brought in a plastic container.

Dr., Naples. Call CCSO Youth Relations at 239-252-0144 to register.

28 SATURDAY 9 a.m. Pine Ridge Road Farmers Market. Fresh produce, plants, flowers, gourmet foods and desserts, guacamole, pickles, cheese, honey, jams, and handmade and fair-trade products. Located at Marquesa Plaza, 3360 Pine Ridge Rd., Naples. Call 239-254-1080 or check www.naplesmarketplace.net. 10 a.m. Hand & Harvest Artisan Indoor Market. More than 20 local vendors offer a wide array of home goods, plants, fashion, art, beauty, vintage, gourmet foods, and handmade products and gifts. Live music. Located at Mercato, 9118 Strada Pl., Naples. Call 239-254-1080 or check www.mercatoshops.com. We select a number of events each month from our online calendar to include in the magazine. Enter the details of your family-friendly event at https:// neafamily.com/calendarofevents.

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YOUR COMMUNITY

By Leigh Ann Newman

Discovering Libraries Beyond the Books

ublic libraries are just about the best deal on the planet. Yes, our taxes pay for libraries, but that happens whether we use their vast resources or not. Here in Collier County, we get more than our money’s worth. Keep reading to learn about all of the ways you can benefit from our library system. First, you need to get your library card. Cards are free for county residents (and must be renewed every three years), county government employees, as well as teachers, homeschool parents, and activity directors in Collier County. Non-residents can purchase a card for $100 per year, $50 for six months, or $10 for one month. Go to any branch with your Florida driver’s license or identity card, or school/work identification that shows your current Collier street address. If your address isn’t on your ID, visit collierlibrary.org for a list of documents you can use to prove residency. Now that you have your card, you are ready to explore. Books. Yes, obviously books are the main selling point of a library, but there is more on offer than just books on shelves. If the book you want is available at a branch across town, it’s a simple process to have it sent to your local branch, where it will arrive in just a couple of days. If you are housebound, you can apply to borrow books by mail. And we aren’t limited only to the Collier system. You can request items from the FGCU library, Sanibel Public Library, or even the Seminole Tribal Library System through the interlibrary loan program. You can even buy books at the library, which is a great option for readers in a county with (sadly) no independent bookstores.

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Some branches offer a few shelves of books for sale year-round, while others hold occasional sales events. Ebooks. This is the service I utilize the most. A librarian will assist you if you are struggling with setting up or linking a device to your library account. I access books through Overdrive for my Kindle, but there are other options available. The system of borrowing ebooks has improved vastly in recent years, and I no longer have to panic that six books I’ve waited several months for all arrive in my Kindle at the same time. You can delay delivery of a book for a few weeks or months. Audiobooks. There are three different types of audiobooks available: 1) on CD; 2) via download; and 3) on a device that you connect to your phone/car/etc. Ask a librarian for help if you need help accessing or playing audiobooks. Activities. In-person events are back, and the offerings go far beyond story times (go to page 23 for the August schedule). For adults, there are books discussions, lectures on everything from nature to history, and even basic technical assistance. Kids can read to dogs, enjoy time with other Lego fanatics, watch movies, make crafts, and more. Teens aren’t forgotten, with events tailored especially for older kids, as well as teen-only spaces in some branches. Puzzles. During the pandemic, I discovered that you can borrow jigsaw puzzles for three weeks, just like a book. Beach passes. You can secure your beach pass at Naples Regional and Marco Island libraries, with proof of residency. continued on page 22 NEAPOLITANfamily • August 2021

Collier County Libraries East Naples Library 8787 Tamiami Tr. E., Naples 239-252-7140 Tuesday-Thursday: 10 a.m. – 6 p.m. Friday & Saturday: 9 a.m. – 5 p.m. Estates Library 1266 Golden Gate Blvd. W., Naples 239-252-7109 Monday-Thursday: 10 a.m. – 6 p.m. Friday & Saturday: 9 a.m. – 5 p.m. Everglades City Library 102 Copeland Ave. N., Everglades City 239-695-2511 Monday-Friday: 9 a.m. – 4:30 p.m. (closed daily: 12 p.m. – 1 p.m.) Golden Gate Library 2432 Lucerne Rd., Naples 239-252-4542 Monday-Thursday: 10 a.m. – 6 p.m. Friday & Saturday: 9 a.m. – 5 p.m. Headquarters Library 2385 Orange Blossom Dr., Naples 239-252-7369 Monday-Thursday: 9 a.m. – 8 p.m. Friday & Saturday: 9 a.m. – 5 p.m.

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Immokalee Library 417 N. First St., Immokalee 239-252-7073 Tuesday-Thursday: 10 a.m. – 6 p.m. Friday & Saturday: 9 a.m. – 5 p.m. Marco Island Library 210 S. Heathwood Dr., Marco Island 239-252-7064 Monday-Thursday: 10 a.m. – 6 p.m. Friday & Saturday: 9 a.m. – 5 p.m. Naples Regional Library 650 Central Ave., Naples 239-252-5135 Monday-Thursday: 9 a.m. – 8 p.m. Friday & Saturday: 9 a.m. – 5 p.m. South Regional Library 8065 Lely Cultural Pkwy., Naples 239-252-7542 Monday-Thursday: 9 a.m. – 8 p.m. Friday & Saturday: 9 a.m. – 5 p.m. Vanderbilt Beach Library 788 Vanderbilt Beach Rd., Naples 239-252-7160 Tuesday-Thursday: 10 a.m. – 6 p.m. Friday & Saturday: 9 a.m. – 5 p.m. NEAPOLITANfamily • August 2021

NACS Naples Adventist Christian School

We are a K-8th grade school centrally located in Naples. We are proud to have a committed staff teaching a nationally certified and accredited curriculum in a Christ-filled environment. We accept Step Up For Students and Florida Empowerment scholarships. The NACS family exists to show children Jesus, teach them to think, and empower them to serve. All students are welcome!

Contact us to schedule a visit, or explore online. 2629 S. Horseshoe Drive, Naples, FL 34104 239-261-NACS (6227) • nacs@flcoe.org www.NaplesACS.org neafamily.com

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Study space. Collier libraries provide safe sand convenient spaces for tutoring for our children, as well as quiet rooms. Movies and music. For those of us who still use DVDs and CDs, the library is a goldmine. How else could my daughter and I binge watch This Is Us or some other show that isn’t included in my Netflix or Amazon Prime membership? Just like books, you can request DVDs that currently are checked out and have them delivered to your closest branch once they are returned. Computer access, scanning, printing, and copying. All branches provide internet and Wi-fi access. You can even print remotely to most library locations. The cost for printing or copying is 15 cents per page for black and white, and 65 cents per page for color. Free stuff. Sign up for free passes to the Children’s Museum of Naples. Every year, library card holders receive free admission on select summer dates to the Naples Botanical Garden. Summer reading program. Most libraries host summer reading programs for kids, but did you know that Collier libraries include adults in the fun as well? Librarians. You can get access to a librarian’s brain for free! You might wonder why would you need a librarian’s help when you can just Google your question? Well, stop to consider that the internet usually doesn’t handle complex questions successfully. Librarians are well-educated professionals who spend their days finding and disseminating information to the public. Schedule an appointment with a librarian to save yourself time and frustration. By booking a librarian, you can receive “in-depth technical assistance on topics such as starting an email account, searching or

browsing the library’s catalog, downloading ebooks or audio books, searching the internet, conducting basic research using the library’s electronic resources, or other computer basics,” according to www. collierlibrary.org. Genealogy research. A genealogy room is maintained in the Naples Regional branch. Volunteers from the Genealogical Society of Collier County will guide you through the resources available, including the non-circulating collection of genealogy books and periodicals, and useful links for accessing online subscription databases and recommended genealogy websites. Check the room for a schedule of volunteer availability. Please note that the Naples Regional branch is closed until Aug. 10 for renovations, and it is advised that you call before you go to ensure that the library has reopened on that date. Obituaries. Yes, you can request a hard copy of an obituary through the library. Submit requests to: Naples Regional Library, Reference Dept., 650 Central Ave., Naples, Florida 34102 or DL-Library-Obituaries@colliergov.net. A self-addressed-stamped envelope will secure one free hard copy of the obituary. The request must include the subject’s full name, as well as your name, phone number, and address. Voting. You pick up a voter registration application at any branch, and some Collier branches are voting sites. Friends of the Library. Joining this group is not free, but your membership fee helps fund programs that the library’s budget doesn’t cover. Individual memberships start at $30 and give you access to member-only events and other benefits. Find out even more at www.collierlibrary.org.

Summer is a great time for your kids to catch up and get ready for the next school year!

TUTORING

by Tracey Ansteth Albert

Grades K-3 • Flexible hours • Clean, calm, positive environment

Reading, Language Arts, Social Studies, Math, Organizational Skills, and Homework Assistance

What parents are saying about Tracey: “Our daughter always leaves her session full of energy and excitement. She loves going to tutoring and feels very comfortable and welcome.” —Kelly, Naples

Contact Tracey today for more information at:

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Golden Apple Award Recipient “Our son is so comfortable with Miss Tracey. It brings us joy and peace of mind knowing he is in great hands. Not only have we seen tremendous improvements, but she also has brought back his confidence. She is very professional, yet has a mother’s touch. Tracey takes great pride in her students, and it shows.” —Danielle, Naples

“I’ve noticed how thorough Tracey is about each subject/topic she reviews with our son. Her history as an elementary school teacher is very apparent because every time I pick him up from his lesson, he has learned something new without even realizing he is actually ‘learning’.” —Jen, Naples NEAPOLITANfamily • August 2021

Story Times

HEADQUARTERS LIBRARY Wednesdays: Toddler Story Time 10-10:30 a.m. Ages birth to 3 years. Stories, songs, and finger plays. Registration is required. Wednesdays: Preschool Story Time 11-11:30 a.m. Ages 3-5 years. Stories, songs, finger plays, and a craft or activity. Registration is required. IMMOKALEE LIBRARY Tuesdays: Family Story Time 10-10:30 a.m. All ages. Stories, songs, and hands-on activities, all focusing on pre-literacy learning skills. Registration is not required.

Here are the August weekly story times for Collier County library branches. Check back at https:// neafamily.com later in the month for the September schedule. ESTATES LIBRARY Wednesdays: Toddler Story Time 10-10:20 a.m. Ages 16-35 months Stories, songs, and activities. Registration is not required.

MARCO ISLAND LIBRARY Thursdays: Family Story Time 10:30-11:15 a.m. All ages. Stories, songs, and a craft for children and caregivers. Registration is not required. SOUTH REGIONAL LIBRARY Tuesdays: Family Story Time 10:30-11 a.m. All ages. Stories, songs, and hands-on activities, all focusing on pre-literacy learning skills. Registration is required.

Wednesdays & Thursdays: Preschool Story Time 10:30 a.m.-11:15 a.m. Ages 3-5 years. Stories, activities, and an art project. Registration not required. Please note that the same theme is repeated for

VANDERBILT BEACH LIBRARY Wednesdays: Toddler/Preschool Story Time, 10:30-10:55 a.m. Ages 18 months-5 years Story, songs, and rhymes, and a variety of fun activities. Registration is not required.

GOLDEN GATE LIBRARY Mondays: Family Story Time 10:30-11 a.m. All ages. Stories, songs, and a craft for children and caregivers. Registration is not required.

ALL BRANCHES Tuesdays: Virtual Story Time 10-10:30 a.m. All ages. Stories, songs, and fingerplays. A Zoom link will be sent to all registered participants about one hour before the program begins. A Zoom account is not required.

both sessions, and for each week throughout the month.

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EDUCATION

By Tanni Haas, Ph.D.

Preparing Your Child for Kindergarten

here are few moments more exciting to kids than the first day of kindergarten. It represents the day when children officially become “big kids.” How do you prepare them for that day and all the things they are supposed to learn in kindergarten? Here’s what the experts say: Teach independence Kids are expected to be able to do many things on their own by the time they start kindergarten. Tracy Galuski, a professor of early childhood development and education, says that kids should be able to dress themselves, including putting on their shoes and taking their coats on and off and hanging them up; use the bathroom on their own and wash their hands afterwards without reminders; unpack their lunch; and wipe their faces after they have eaten. These skills, Galuski says, will take your kids “from the coatroom to the lunchroom and beyond.” It’s a good idea to spend the summer before kindergarten practicing these skills with them.

Promote autonomy Work on your kids’ ability to make good choices. Merete Kropp, a kindergarten teacher and child development expert, says that kids should be able to make many choices. This includes deciding among different activities in the classroom and who to play with on the playground. “Children who’ve been given autonomy at home in developing preferences and making meaningful choices,” Kropp says, “are able to transfer this skill to the school setting.” Assign chores A way to make your kids more independent and autonomous is to assign them household chores. Charity Ferreira of GreatSchools, an education think tank, says that parents should give their kids chores like setting the table before dinner, folding the laundry, and tidying

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up around the house. “These types of activities,” Ferreira says, “will automatically transfer over into the classroom and help your child feel successful and comfortable.” Build self-confidence It’s one thing to have certain skills; it’s quite another to have the confidence to show those skills in front of classmates. Child psychologist Amie Bettencourt, Ph.D., says that parents can make their kids more self-confident by demystifying kindergarten. She suggests that parents spend time talking to their kids about what the school day will be like before the first day. Organize playdates You can make your kids more self-confident by organizing lots of playdates over the summer. Many schools distribute class contact lists for students before the school year starts. If you receive such a list, set up playdates with some of your kids’ future classmates. That way, when your kids walk into class on the first day of school, they will see some familiar faces. “A lot of what makes kindergarten a tough transition is that kids suddenly find themselves in a big group all day long,” Ferreira says. “The more social skills kids have, the easier it will be for them to concentrate on learning.” Create routine In kindergarten, kids are expected to follow the school routine. Prepare them by creating a home routine that you clearly explain. As Ferreira says, “Following a consistent routine – and pointing out parts of the routine to your child – helps your child know what to expect

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and when. This will help your child transition to the school routine.” She suggests that parents create a fixed schedule for when to wake the kids up in the morning and put them to bed at night. Bettencourt adds that the nightly routine should include a predictable order of activities: “take a bath, put on pajamas, brush teeth, read favorite story or sing favorite song, and get a goodnight hug or kiss.” Read books Much of what kids learn in kindergarten happens by listening to the teacher reading aloud. Prepare your kids by making reading an important part of their lives. “Get your child a library card, take her to the library to check out books, and be sure to read to your child every day,” says Galuski. Melissa Taylor, an education expert and author of Imagination Soup, a well-known blog, agrees: “Reading to your child teaches her many things that we adults take for granted. Kids learn basics such as how to hold a book, left-to-right reading, wondering what will happen next, and discovering new words.” So, read to your kids every day, read lots of different things, and ask them frequent questions to mimic what the teacher does at school. Acknowledge feelings As you prepare your kids for all the exciting new things they will learn in kindergarten, also acknowledge any unease they may experience. Melanie Dale, the author of several books on parenting, says that parents should let their kids express their feelings: “If they say they’re nervous, rather than say, ‘Don’t be nervous,’ ask them why they’re nervous and validate that feeling. Share a time when you were nervous and how it worked out.”

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SPORTS

By Lissa Carlson

All-Star Answers to Parents’ Sports Questions

he benefits of sports abound in a child’s development: motor skills, teamwork, physical activity, and even improved vision. We asked experts at the National Alliance for Youth Sports as well as an award-winning college coach/recruiter to answer some of the most pressing questions parents have about kids and sports. NAYS provides training and guidance to youth sports programs across the United States. What’s the best age to start a sport? This answer varies depending on the sport and what you hope your child will gain. Most experts suggest anything before age 6 should be focused on physical activity and fun, with no score keeping. By age 7 and 8, kids have the skills necessary to try team sports, while competitive sports are best reserved for ages 9 and older. Turn to page 28 for a list of organizations in SWFL offering opportunities for kids to play a wide variety of sports. Is it ever too late for kids to start playing a new sport? No, according to Hannah Dave, head field hockey coach at Newberry College in South Carolina. Dave, who was named 2019 Field Hockey Coach of the Year by Synapse Sports, started playing field hockey her freshman year of high school. “I went to college with kids who’d been playing [field hockey] since 6 years old, and I started in high school,” says Dave, who played NCAA Division II field hockey at Limestone University in South Carolina. “Starting early is going to be the best for someone who really wants to go to the next level, but I would say no, it’s never too late. There will always be different levels of participation available.” For the late bloomer, you might consider a personal coach. John Engh, executive director of NAYS, says the use of private training is one of the biggest changes he’s seen in the last decade. It was discouraged prior to that, but as kids have become involved in sports at increasingly earlier ages, private training can provide an older child new to the sport a chance to get up to speed. “The only caveat is know who that person is because there’s absolutely no one overseeing their work,” Engh warns.

Once you choose the sport, review your options. “If you want your child to learn and have fun,” Engh says, “make sure the team you’re joining is about learning and fun and not creating an all-star team.” For a greater challenge and to get your kids seen by recruiters, travel teams and club leagues offer an elite level of competitive play. These teams require a commitment to travel, time, and expenses beyond those found in school or park and recreation programs. Some families find themselves working around other family members and duties to honor the team expectations. Parents must review whether that commitment works for their family and if the benefits outweigh the considerable investment. Additionally, Engh cautions parents to consider whether the added expenses and commitments guarantee their child any more playing time. Make sure you closely examine the fine print in any program, no matter how innocent it may seem, Engh says. Each program should have printed and available guidelines for parents, including expenses you can anticipate. Consider “hidden” costs beyond program fees, such as uniforms/costumes, shoes, competition travel (gas, meals, hotels), etc.

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Any guidance in choosing a sport? Consider a child’s personality when deciding on the right fit. You’ll want to ensure your child has the abilities to be successful and confident. Some kids may welcome an aggressive outlet, which sports can provide, while others may not want the pressure of being part of a team, Engh says. In his nearly 30 years of experience, parents typically want their kids to gain social skills or learn about winning and losing. “Generally, the last thing parents say is [that] they want them to be a great baseball player,” he says. 26

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Are there guidelines for how much a child should practice and play? NAYS recommends: • Ages 6 and younger: Limit practice and games to a maximum of one hour per day, twice weekly.

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• Ages 7 to 10: Limit time to one hour per day, three times weekly. • Ages 11 and older: Limited to 1.5 hours per day, three times weekly. Learn more at https://nays.org. Should a child specialize in a single sport? Most medical advice encourages parents to delay sports specialization for as long as possible. The risk of overuse injuries, not to mention burnout and performance pressure, outweighs any advantages a young person might have in focusing all their effort on one sport. In fact, versatile, multi-sport athletes tend to be viewed advantageously by recruiters. Why do kids quit sports? NAYS has studied this since the 1980s. The top reason kids quit a sport is because it’s just not fun anymore. What makes a sport no longer fun? Time and parent pressures, Engh says, as well as greater self-awareness. The kid who thought baseball was fun may see top kids on the team excelling and become aware that they are not as good a player. What’s a parent to do? You can try taking a break or playing at a less competitive level, but ultimately, Engh says, “there comes a time when you just have to let it go.” We have a star athlete. What’s the likelihood of an athletic scholarship? The odds are slim – about 2 in 100 athletes – and most aren’t a free ride. Check out https://scholarshipstats.com for current information on playing college sports and athletic scholarships based on individual sports, from baseball to water polo. Engh advises parents to wait until high school before deciding their child surely is destined for the pros. It’s premature to base a child’s talent on play before then (although he admits that recruiters for certain sports consider those early successes). “Keep a clear head and evaluate where they’re at in high school, when age gaps tend to level out,” he says. Should we invest in an agent? That depends on the sport, says Dave. It’s all right if you don’t want to join a club league, yet it may require you to be a bit more proactive in reaching out to colleges. Finding someone, such as an agent, who knows the college recruiting process can be advantageous. Engh agrees. “If your child is older than 15 and they’re getting letters from colleges,” he says, “an agent is probably not a bad idea.” What’s always a big advantage in a recruiter’s eyes? Supportive families, Dave says. “I do think it makes or breaks how you coach, how you play,” she says. “I always want my players to play for themselves first, but I also tell them they need to play for those who are supporting them.” LISSA CARLSON, a writer of parenting articles for more than 20 years, sees the great benefits of sport participation and admires families who commit to it. NEAPOLITANfamily • August 2021

Tips on How to be a Good Parent in the Recruiting Process

elieve it or not, parents and close family members are B looked at during the recruiting process. If family members seem over-involved, overbearing, or act foolish, coaches are likely to look the other direction. Coaches are looking to recruit athletes who can handle themselves and are internally motivated (don’t perform the sport simply because the parents make them). Coaches are looking for parents who will not be any trouble. It isn’t uncommon for parents to constantly bombard coaches. This only hinders their athlete’s chance at success.

Tips to help your athlete look good in the eyes of coaches 1. Let the athlete reach out to the coaches. Often, parents will reach out to coaches, sending out resumes and other information. This does not look good to college coaches. Coaches want to hear from the players! This also sends a message that the athlete isn’t the one interested in getting a sports scholarship. Secondly, when parents are the ones reaching out, it can be perceived as laziness and that the athlete doesn’t want to do the work to attend their college. 2. Research what your athlete needs to send to coaches. Also proofread emails to make sure they are grammatically correct and are highlighting the athlete’s accomplishments properly. 3. As a parent, avoid reaching out to coaches if possible. Parents should not be messaging or calling the coaches. Cheer from the sidelines. Be supportive, but be comfortable with stepping back and letting your athlete take control. 4. Help your athlete identify reasonable goals for their college career. Do your research and determine what is possible for your athlete. Don’t assume your athlete will get full-ride scholarships. Research has revealed that only about 2% of high school athletes receive a full-ride. Help your athlete determine what level their skill will best fit in — Division l, Division ll, Division lll, NAIA, etc. 5. Make sure your athlete wants to pursue their sports career. The athletes who make it to school because of their parents’ dreams often lack motivation and likely drop out or are dismissed from the team due to lack of enjoyment or commitment. Allow your athlete to be honest with you. It could be a miserable process if your athlete does not want to pursue sports beyond high school. Many athletes do it because their parents are pushing them to — this will only cause trouble down the road. Don’t assume your athlete wants to play — deliberately ask them! Reprinted with permission from www.gulfcoastperform.com, courtesy of Gulf Coast Performance in Naples. neafamily.com

SWFL Youth Sports Directory

There are many opportunities in SWFL for kids of all ages to learn about a sport or to join a competitive team. The directory below is a year-round resource of athletic organizations offering sports for both beginners and advanced athletes. If your group is missing from the list, send us the details at info@neafamily.com. Visit https://neafamily.com for the most up-to-date list.

Multiple Sports THE BOYS & GIRLS CLUB OF COLLIER COUNTY bgccc.com BONITA SPRINGS YMCA swflymca.org CITY OF NAPLES PARKS & REC naplesgov.com/parksrec COLLIER COUNTY PARKS & REC collierparks.com FBCN BEACONS SPORTS OUTREACH beaconssportsoutreach.com GREATER NAPLES YMCA greaternaplesymca.org i9 SPORTS i9sports.com SPORTS CLUB sportsclub.org UPWARD SPORTS upward.org

Baseball/Softball CLOVERS TRAVEL SOFTBALL sjnceltics.org ESTATES SOFTBALL LITTLE LEAGUE m.facebook.com/ EstatesSoftballLittleLeague

HERTZ ARENA YOUTH HOCKEY skateeverblades.com

NAPLES YOUTH BASKETBALL playnybl.com

JUNIOR EVERBLADES jreverblades.org

AZZURRI STORM YOUTH SOCCER azzurristorm.com

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NAPLES ROLLER HOCKEY rollerhockeynaples.com

FLORIDA WEST FC floridawestfc.com

Lacrosse

OPTIMIST SOCCER CLUB optimistsoccer.org

BRAVEHEART LACROSSE CLUB braveheartlax.org

Swimming

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Fencing NAPLES FENCING ACADEMY naplesfencingacademy.com

Field Hockey GULF COAST FIELD HOCKEY gulfcoastfieldhockey.com

Football & Cheer NAPLES BEARS FOOTBALL & CHEER naplesbears.com NAPLES FLAG FOOTBALL naplesflagfootballleague.com NAPLES GATORS YOUTH FOOTBALL & CHEER naplesgators.com NAPLES HURRICANES FOOTBALL & CHEER facebook.com/naplescanes SOUTH NAPLES TROJANS FOOTBALL & CHEER southnaplestrojans.com

COLLIER COUNTY LACROSSE ASSOCIATION collierlax.com GORILLA LACROSSE CLUB gorillalacrosseclub.com

GOMEZ TENNIS ACADEMY gomeztennisacademy.com

Martial Arts

POSITIVE PERFORMANCE TENNIS positiveperformancetennis.com

ACADEMY OF MARTIAL ARTS napleskarate.com

Training

PR BRAZILIAN JIU-JITSU prbjjnaples.com

BEYOND MOTION go2beyondmotion.com

PREMIER MARTIAL ARTS premiermartialarts.com/naples

FLORIDA ATHLETIC DEVELOPMENT CENTER floridaadc.org

Golf

TEAM THIRD LAW ACADEMY teamthirdlaw.com

NORTH NAPLES LITTLE LEAGUE northnapleslittleleague.com

Basketball FLORIDA ELITE SOUTHWEST BASKETBALL floridaelitesw.com

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TENNIS DYNAMICS tennisdynamicsnaples.com

INTEGRITY MARTIAL ARTS integrityata.com

GULF COAST LITTLE LEAGUE gulfcoastll.com

NAPLES GIRLS SOFTBALL LITTLE LEAGUE naplesgirlssoftball.org

Tennis

NAPLES LACROSSE CLUB napleslacrosseclub.com

RUPERT’S KARATE ACADEMY rupertkarate.com

Gymnastics

SWIM FLORIDA SWIM TEAM swimflorida.com

ACADEMIA SANCHEZ-CASAL asc-florida.com

SWFL YOUTH FOOTBALL & CHEER facebook.com/swfyfl

THE FIRST TEE OF NAPLES thefirstteenaplescollier.org

T2 AQUATICS SWIM TEAM t2aquatics.com

MANIAX LACROSSE laxmaniax.com

GREATER NAPLES LITTLE LEAGUE greaternapleslittleleague.com

NAPLES CAL RIPKEN naplescalripken.com

Soccer

FOR THE LOVE BASKETBALL INC. 4tlbasketball.com

GULF COAST PERFORMANCE gulfcoastperform.com THINK OUTSIDE THE DIAMOND ricksaggese.com

TIGER-ROCK MARTIAL ARTS tigerrocknaples.com

Volleyball ADRENALINE USA VOLLEYBALL adrenalineusavolleyball.com

Pickleball MY PICKLEBALL LEAGUE mypbleague.com

Running

FLORIDA GULFSIDE VOLLEYBALL ACADEMY floridagulfsidevolleyball.com

Hockey

GIRLS ON THE RUN gotrswfl.org

USA SOUTH VOLLEYBALL usasouth.club

FLORIDA JUNIOR BLADES floridajrblades.com

GULF COAST RUNNERS YOUTH gcryouthteam.org

VIBE VOLLEYBALL ACADEMY vibevolleyball.com

NAPLES PROGRESSIVE GYMNASTICS naplesgymnastics.wordpress.com

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