marlies|dekkers magazine Awaken Your Senses

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magazine fall winter 2016

— Marlies Dekkers



‘awaken your senses’ — Marlies Dekkers


‘awaken your senses’ contents



From the suffocating corset and the burned bra to Madonna’s iconic cone-bra; the three feminist movements have all used lingerie as a symbol for the cause. So, what’s next? First we fought for the right to vote. It was

Which was pretty hard in the constricting

a long fight -seventy years, starting in 1848,

corsets we were supposed to wear. So off

to be exact- and while we were at it, we real-

went those symbols of our suppression!

ized we also deserved the right to breathe.


During the second wave of feminism, we

So here we are. We have the right to vote,

burned our bras. We wanted freedom, sex-

the pill is widely available and Hillary Clinton

ual freedom; the pill, abortion, and the right

might soon be the first American president.

to walk around without being bothered by

We’re still riding the wave of the third femi-

sexist men. We should be able to go with-

nist movement, and we’re finishing what Ma-

out a bra, or even without a bikini top on the

donna started: the trend to gain control over

beach. The message: ‘Dudes, keep your tes-

our bodies by eating healthy and working

tosterone under control!’

out. We might initially have been shocked by how Madonna used her ‘guns’* as guns, but

To me, the third feminist wave started when

for a whole generation of women coming of

Madonna wore Jean Paul Gaultier’s cone bra

age, fit is the new sexy.

during her Blonde Ambition Tour. The bra, once a symbol of suppression, had been turned into a weapon. OUR weapon. In the same way we adapted the corset. Yes it was still restrictive, but may-

“Yes! What I do with my lingerie is spot on. Let’s start this revolution!”

But there are still double Why

standards.

are

sexually

liberated women still called sluts, when their male equivalents

are

studs?

Why can men show their bare chests on social media, where-

be we liked it that way every now and then. As long as it was

as women’s nipples are banned? The #free-

our decision.

thenipple movement proves it once again: for women, the (very) personal is always

Without Madonna’s bra moment, I doubt my

political.

own lingerie –which offers women the tools to explore their sexuality in a very similar

— Marlies Dekkers

way- would have had a chance. In one instant we advanced a few hundred years. I remember thinking: “Yes! What I do with my lingerie is spot on! Let’s start this revolution!”

* Slang for biceps


Femme Fatale My Femme Fatale collection is designed for ladies dancing with shadows. I was inspired by the female-focused crime movie Femme Fatale. A modern, erotically charged film noir by director Brian de Palma, revolving around an angel faced con artist with dangerous skills. Sultry and oh so seductive. Like a true femme fatale striking men down with her beauty, brains and sexuality. I love how this sensational woman fearlessly manipulates her identity to outsmart her enemies, while using the power of promiscuity to control the world around her. This collection is designed to explore your dark side. Paint your body black with its beautifully embossed bold braces and stylish leather.

‘erotically-charged, you remain in total control as you paint the town red, no matter what the night throws your way…’ — Marlies Dekkers




01 put a ring on it Glorious metal rings give this collection an extra bold look.

02 power print

The power print on the woven shoulder straps match the leather embossing on the cups.

03 double push This black super push up bra lifts your breasts to the max.

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It has become a bit of a trendy gadget, but a blindfold can truly transform your erotic experience. Take it from me‌


The first time I was blindfolded by a partner

Let’s get started!

was an eye-opening experience. Well, not literally of course, but by taking away my

1. First of all, you don’t need to break the bank

sight, I had to ‘see’ with my other senses -

and buy a fancy designer blindfold. You boy-

sound, touch, taste and smell more fully and

friend’s tie or a silk scarf will do nicely. My

intensely. It made me experience a whole

personal favorite: those sleeping masks you

new range of exquisite sensations and feel-

get on the plane.

ings. Which then allowed me to have mind2. Explore your newly heightened sense of

blowing sex.

touch. You can use your hands of course, How can such a simple trick have such a

but ask your partner to experiment with

dramatic effect? Well, besides your other

some unexpected materials, such as feath-

senses being sharp-

ers and bits of vel-

ened, there is an el-

vet, silk and linen. If

ement of sexual anticipation. You just don’t know what to expect which can make a whisper or a simple touch -fingers brushing your inner thighs, for example- feel simply electric.

I had to ‘see’ with my other senses - sound, touch, taste and smell more fully and intensely.

you really take your time, and are willing to surrender, the lightest touch could eventually lead to an orgasm. 3. This is actually something I’ve been doing since I was a child: using a blind-

Also, a blindfold fires the imagination. With-

fold to stimulate my sense of taste. But with

out any visual distraction, it is much easier

a partner, it can become an erotic experi-

to lose yourself in your sexual fantasies.

ence. Prepare a tray of aphrodisiac delights

Body shame or shyness? A blindfold makes

like oysters, figs, honey, almonds, chocolate

you much less inhibited!

and champagne…the works! Get naked, get blindfolded, and start making a very sexy

And last but not least, like Kim Bassinger in

mess…

9½ Weeks already proved: damn woman, you look seriously sexy with that blindfold on!

— Marlies Dekkers


Femme Fatale

Get dressed

& explore your dark side ‘Femme Fatale’. A modern, erotically charged film noir revolving around an angel faced con artist with dangerous skills. Sultry and oh so seductive. Like a true femme fatale striking men down with her beauty, brains and sexuality.

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leather belts and matching shoulder straps give the collection an extra sturdy look.

padded plunge balcony bra sizes: 70-90 D-E, 70-85 F thong - 2 cm sizes: XS-XL suspender sizes: S/M - L/XL



Mulholland Drive My Mulholland Drive collection is designed for females in touch with their fantasies. I was inspired by the sensual cultfilm “Mulholland Drive” by director David Lynch. A disorienting story about two women entangled in a playful fantasy. Passion, betrayal and confusion set the tone of a clever tale, in which I recognise the blurred line between fantasy and reality. That dreamy state where a woman’s deepest desires are given free reign…the place where it gets interesting! This collection builds a bridge between your conscious and subconscious self. Boost your fantasies with our luxurious lingerie in sensual silk, topped off with delicate stitching and tantalizing details.

‘the bedroom is your very own soft & lustrous sanctuary, where your inner-most secret fantasies come out to play…’ — Marlies Dekkers


01 gorgeous garters Gold-coloured garter belt ornaments above the cups and on your back give you an even sexier feeling.

02 sensual satin

The silky fabric and special stitching on the cups give the collection an extra sensual touch.

03 wow with a bow

Between the cups and on the bottoms is a beguilingly sweet, tiny pink bow.

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Does the G-spot exist? Well, the ancient Greeks knew exactly where to look…and it gave a special meaning to the term ‘nectar of the gods’. You have probably heard of ‘squirting’, or ‘fe-

like spray you see in porn movies. When it

male ejaculation’. You may have even expe-

first happened to me, I felt it was the most

rienced it: a release of fluids during stimula-

natural, beautiful thing, but I was also very

tion of your G-spot (more about that later),

curious. This was way before Google, so I

ranging from a little trickle to the fountain-

had to bring it up during biology class.


“Where exactly does all the liquid come

gina that produces this liquid, was consid-

from?” I asked my teacher. He looked stunned,

ered by many to be ‘just a myth’, branding

-“ALL that liquid?”-, and mumbled something

female ejaculation a mere fairy tale.

about women producing small amounts of vaginal lubrication. “At the most,” he added.

How sad to think that this attitude had been stopping generations of women from having

Ejaculation, it was suggested, was some-

the sex they deserve and desire! And how

thing only men did. “During sex, the man

ironic: thousands of years ago, female ejac-

gives, and the woman receives,” was one

ulation wasn’t seen as something dirty, but

another cliché I heard growing up. Since

as something divine! The great Greek philo-

I never cared much about what other

sphers Aristotle and Galen of Pergamon

people said anyway, I decided to –quite

even considered it a ‘nectar of the gods’

literally!– go with

and while I was in

my own ‘flow’, and

India, practitioners

enjoy what I considered a gift of nature. The only downside? Having to constantly change my sheets – which I did with a big smile. I was already in my

Sexual energy is the source of life. Sex is sacred, and so are your fluids.

of the Tantra tradition would drink or rub this precious liquid into their skin, calling it a ‘love tonic’. I believe our ancestors were right: sexual energy is the

forties when a lover told me about a woman who stopped herself

source of life. Sex is sacred, and so are your

from ejaculating during sex because she felt

fluids. So next time you feel the urge to let

too embarrassed. Really? Such a shame!

if flow, be a (Greek) sex goddess and let if

But when I started asking around, I realized

flow. Yes, it will get messy. You might have

that she wasn’t the only one. Often, female

to buy a new set of towels. But believe me,

ejaculate -prostatic fluid mixed with glucose

it’s worth it.

and tiny amounts of urine- was mistaken for pee. Women had been scolded by partners for ‘wetting the bed’. And the G-spot, the ‘female prostate’ located in the front of the va-

— Marlies Dekkers


Mulholland Drive

Get dressed

& surrender yourself to your deepest desires My Mulholland Drive collection is designed for females in touch with their fantasies. I was inspired by the sensual cultfilm ‘Mulholland Drive’. This collection builds a bridge between your conscious and subconscious self.

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padded plunge balcony corset sizes: 70-85 B-C, 70-80 D, 70-75 E, 70 F butterfly thong - 4 cm sizes: XS-XL


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more shapes, more sizes, more signature

padded push up bra brazilian briefs - 8 cm & suspender

golden garter belt ornaments above the cups and on your back give you an even sexier feeling.


Calamity Jane My Calamity Jane collection is designed for ladies bending the rules of convention. I was inspired by the female western movie Calamity Jane. A well-deserved hommage by director David Butler to the undisputed leading lady of the Wild West. In a world dominated by the smoke and guns of men, Calamity Jane taimed her own wild horses. Rough, tough and fiercely independent… yet undeniably female. One of my heroines, because she helped change people’s perception of how a woman should behave. This collection celebrates the free-spirited cowgirl in you. Dashing denim, leather straps and sensual shapes create a look that’s all about the perfect combination between self-reliance and femininity.

‘cantering through the great outdoors with the wind in your hair, not knowing what lies ahead is what keeps you going...’ — Marlies Dekkers




01 true blue

The classic ‘blue jean’ fabric looks great on any skin tone and goes with any outfit.

02 buckle up

Tan leather buckles and matching shoulder straps capture the spirit of a confident cowgirl.

03 sturdy stitching The dashing denim look is accentuated by sturdy stitching.

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her g

illustration by Milo Manara


What if there really was a machine or gadget that could turn you on with just a click? Well, one legendary Italian cartoonist made that idea look very sexy indeed… Oh, Milo Manara and his lusty, luscious,

I read Click years ago, and something just

long-legged nymphs! I can’t write about

‘clicked’! (sorry, couldn’t help it!) I saw it as

this Italian illustrator’s work without blush-

an incredibly sexy metaphor for the sexu-

ing and feeling a delicious tickle in my belly.

al on/off button we all have in our heads. I

His comics usually revolve around stunning

was reminded of this when I took part in a

women caught up in weird but wonderful

tv-debate about the lust pill for women, aka

erotic scenarios, like the girl in Butterscotch

‘female Viagra’. My stand: if you want to feel

who is brought to a screaming orgasm in a

sexual but haven’t been able to for whatev-

fancy restaurant by an invisible man.

er reason –hormonal, emotional, physical– why not use a pill to help you find the on/off

Wouldn’t you secretly love to be that girl?

button in your head?

I would! For that story, Manara came up with a sweet-smelling

Of course it isn’t all that

bodypaint that makes

simple. Sex is complex.

you invisible, but for his other gem, Click, he invented a device which renders women helplessly aroused….with just a

Awaken your senses, sexually...

click. It goes like this: an

But I believe that lust is an important part of who we are. We don’t have to be ‘on’ all the time, but we should allow ourselves that extra little push we

attractive but passionless woman is abduct-

sometimes need to get in the mood. Be it

ed by a scientist and a remote-controlled

porn, a pill or perhaps just a very naughty

device is surgically implanted into her brain.

Italian cartoon…

Press the button, and she becomes sexually insatiable.

— Marlies Dekkers


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leather belts and matching shoulder straps give the collection an extra sturdy look.

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Calamity Jane

Get dressed & confidently ride into the unknown

A well-deserved hommage to the undisputed leading lady of the Wild West. In a world dominated by the smoke and guns of men, Calamity Jane tamed her own wild horses. Rough, tough and fiercely independent‌ yet undeniably female. This collection will give you the feeling of that free-spirited cowgirl.

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Gloria My Gloria collection is designed for ladies taking the lead. I was inspired by female gangster movie Gloria, a groundbreaking piece of art in the history of film and feminism by director John Cassavetes. I remember watching this movie as a young woman. I can still feel the satisfaction of finally seeing a female lead portrayed as strong and dominant, instead of being dependent and obedient. This collection brings you stunning pieces that link Gloria’s strength to the concept of power suits. The result is a lingerie design marked by powerful pinstripe patterns and macho suspender straps.

‘oozing confidence, your unmistakable aura of seductive power commands the undivided attention of any audience...’ — Marlies Dekkers


01 suspender straps

Gorgeous bindings and macho suspender straps give this collection its character.

02 powerful junction Adding to the strong appearance of the lingerie are the leather-look junctions.

03 pinstripe perfection Gloria’s strength was linked to the concept of power suits and translated into a pinstripe pattern.

Gloria - Black Pinstripe | padded push up bra sizes: 70-80 A, 70-85 B-C, 70-80 D, 70-75 E, 70 F | brazilian shorts - 12 cm sizes: XS-XL

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According to a recent study, ‘men have more varied sexual fantasies than women’. We have some catching up to do, ladies! Let’s start now, by taking that sexy selfie one step further... Have you ever taken a sexy selfie? I bet you

(make sure it’s on airplane mode, no dis-

have. And I bet it turned you on. Maybe you

tracting yourself with cat videos), and think

shared it on Instagram or with your lover,

of a situation that would really turn you on.

maybe you kept it for yourself or even deleted it! It doesn’t matter; while you were

These are the only rules:

taking that picture, you were not compar-

1. Keep writing for at least 10 minutes. Don’t

ing yourself to Gisele Bundchen or Kim Kar-

stop, don’t give up, even if you feel ridiculous

dashian, you were just thinking: ‘Goddamn,

or uninspired.

I am HOT!’ You were claiming your own

2. Be absolutely shameless. There are no

unique beauty, and you were shameless

‘bad’ fantasies. The sky’s the limit!

about it. Now, I want you to take it one step

3. Write this story either for yourself or for

further. How about writing down your secret

a lover, real or fantasy. Nobody else needs to

sexual fantasy? How about digging deep

see it.

and finding out what REALLY turns you on? Like a sexy selfie, but in words.

The reason I want you to share your fantasy is because I truly believe that women need

According

to

a

recent

to explore what turns them

survey held in Canada

on. Let’s inspire each other!

amongst 1500 adults, 65% of women are interested in being dominated. That

Goddamn, I am hot!

means most of you like to

In the same Canadian studies that I mentioned earlier, it appeared ‘that men have more varied sexual fanta-

be told what to do! Perfect! Because I have

sies than women, describe them more vividly,

homework for you. I want you to sit down,

and want them to come true (unlike women).’

get comfortable, and set an alarm for 10 minutes. Grab a piece of paper or your phone

— Marlies Dekkers


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padded plunge balcony body thong

more shapes, more sizes, more signature


Gloria

Get dressed & taking the lead

My Gloria collection is designed for ladies taking the lead. I was inspired by the female gangster movie ‘Gloria’, a groundbreaking piece of art in the history of film and feminism. I remember watching this movie as a young woman. I can still feel the satisfaction of finally seeing a female lead portrayed as strong and dominant, instead of being dependent and obedient.

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my Gloria collection is designed for ladies taking the lead. padded plunge balcony bra sizes: 70-85 B-C, 70-90 D-E, 70-85 F | brazilian shorts - 12 cm sizes: XS-XL


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