Make It Better September 2014

SEPTEMBER 2014

with Jean Chatzky and 7 other Money Gurus

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14 DON’T MISS BRUNCHES THE GIRL AND THE GEFILTE FISH MIDDLE SCHOOL S.O.S.

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SEPTEMBER 2014 • VOLUME 5, ISSUE 10

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CANDID CONVERSATIONS WITH MONEY GURUS

SHE’S GOT A FRIEND: AN INTERVIEW WITH JESSIE MUELLER

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A SLICE OF HEAVEN: NAPA VALLEY’S ST. HELENA

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WOMAN UP AT WORK

ON OUR COVER Today Show Financial Editor & Author Jean Chatzky Photo courtesy of Jean Chatzky

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MIDDLE SCHOOL S.O.S.

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GOT LICE? YOU’RE NOT ALONE

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A BETTER YOU

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MONEY CHANGES EVERYTHING: 6 FINANCIAL LESSONS YOUNG ADULTS SHOULD LEARN EARLY

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7 NEW BEAUTY PRODUCTS YOU SHOULD KNOW

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9 WAYS TO JUMP-START FALL FITNESS

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BOLTWOOD: PUBLICAN CHEF COMES HOME TO EVANSTON 

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14 BRUNCHES YOU WON’T WANT TO MISS

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FALL INTO NEW THEATER

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THE GIRL AND THE GEFILTE FISH

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IN EVERY ISSUE Boltwood

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Corrections: In the August Best of 2014 issue, we inadvertently misspelled the name of our Best Wine Store winner. The correct spelling is Schaefer’s.

We also mistakenly left our Best Videographer off of the Winners’ Directory. His contact info is Steve Wright of Wright With You, 312-504-5342.

And finally, we credited our Best Landscaper, Mariani Landscape, with designing Evening Island at the Chicago Botanic Garden. In fact, they built the garden which was designed by Oehme van Sweden & Assoc. of Washington, D.C.

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PUBLISHER’S LET TER

OUR YOUNGEST CHILD JUST STARTED college.

CVC CERTIFIED: OUR SUCCESS WORKS FOR YOU

BY SUSAN B . NOYE S

July 2014

But please, don’t expect tears and empty-nest complaints from me. My future as a publisher and social entrepreneur is too exciting and demanding to dwell on that.

For this, I particularly thank John Lavine and the Circulation Verification Council (CVC).

About eight years ago, I asked Lavine to mentor me in my newfound calling to become a publisher. He had sold a publishing empire, founded Northwestern University’s Media Management Center, and successfully reorganized Medill School of Journalism as its Dean.

John agreed on the condition that I accept these simple principles: understand that online is the future; and identify an audience and honor what it wants. For these reasons, Make It Better was born May 1, 2007 as a little website for North Shore women. We called it Make It Better because of this influential group’s innate inclination to help—its most common denominator and overarching connector.

This year, we completed our first official audit by the CVC, the premier source of audit, circulation and readership data; they annually audit over 4,000 publications representing over 70 million readers. The results were so spectacular that the CEO, Tim Bingaman, asked to personally guide us through the good news and recommend a simple, rocket-fueled path to growth.

In short, our audience of affluent, educated women far exceeds national and North Shore norms. Bingaman described Make It Better as stunningly successful because of this. His words energized us. I’m also using them to focus on building an even better future.

You can use this magazine, our online content and upcoming events at the Chicago Botanic Garden (“Smart Women Smart Finance$” on September 10 and “RE:WORK” on October 29) to make your future better, for you—our audience—as well as our company. We encourage you to embed your favorite business in our publishing ecosystem by advertising with us or help your favorite nonprofit by:

» Nominating it for a Philanthropy Award (p. 85). » Taking our “How To Raise More Money” class, which will also earn it a media sponsorship. » Learning about Shop For Good, which launches with our new website next month.

As always, we’re proud of our mission to be the most-trusted, easiest to-use-community resource that helps you make your life and the lives of others better—online, in print and in person. We’re similarly proud of the network we’ve built connecting you to the best businesses and nonprofits in your community. Thank you for the opportunity.

Warm Regards,

MONEY RAISED FOR NOT-FOR-PROFIT ORGANIZATIONS: $3,589,866

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The 6 ways Make It Better can help your favorite nonprofit 1. Submit event to Events calendar, OpEd and You Said It. 2. Be included in our annual Guide To Giving.

3. Apply for a Make It Better Foundation Philanthropy Award.

Applications accepted online from now through September 15, 2014. Our Philanthropy Awards are presented on November 14, to coincide with National Philanthropy Day. 4. Earn a Make It Better media sponsorship for your nonprofit’s next fundraiser by taking our fun and informative “How To Raise More $$ For Your Favorite Nonprofit” class.

5. Be connected with a significant Make It Better for-profit advertiser.

6. Be our guests at two fantastic events.

Our Best Of 2014 celebration and concert at the Chicago Botanic Garden on August 26.

Finally, the launch of our new website on October 2 at a location soon to be announced. These will not only be great free parties, they also will be outstanding opportunities for you to network.

For more information visit  SUSANBNOYES.WORDPRESS.COM

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ONLINE

OUR BETTER HALF IS ONLINE

10 Semester Schools that High School Students Should Consider If your teen is artsy, adventurous or full of wanderlust, a semester school might be the right choice for a one-of-a-kind high school experience. Find the right pick for the semester of a lifetime at

Get Personal with Rick Bayless Rick Bayless sits down one-on-one with Make It Better to dish on farmto-table dining, his favorite food memories, and more. Don’t miss this exclusive video interview at  MAKEITBETTER.NET/RICKBAYLESS

 MAKEITBETTER.NET/SEMESTERSCHOOLS

No time to cook?

With fall sports and schedules in full swing, take the family out to dinner! Try these new North Shore hot spots:

Find full reviews online at  MAKEITBETTER.NET/DINING

Back-to-School Supplies for Adults Why should kids get to have all the back-to-school fun? Shop for some hot new “school supplies” for yourself! These chic office and tech products will help you get an A+ in organization.  MAKEITBETTER.NET/SUPPLIES

2014 Back-to-School Guide School is back in session! Give your student of any age—preschool through college—the most successful back-to-school launch with our best advice, ideas and tips.

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PHOTO COURTESY OF RICK BAYLESS

* LYFE KITCHEN, EVANSTON * VALLEY LODGE, WILMETTE * THE CURRAGH, GLENVIEW * MILWALKY TRACE, LIBERTYVILLE

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BEST OF 2014 SPECIAL EDITION WE LOVE TO HEAR FROM YOU, SO PLEASE KEEP SENDING US YOUR STORIES, COMMENTS, OPINIONS, IDEAS AND REVIEWS! FACEBOOK

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THANKS FROM BUSINESSES

“Huge thanks to MIB, its readership & our loyal customers!”

-SCHAEFER’S WINES, FOODS & SPIRITS

“Thanks Make it Better readers for voting us the best Barbecue. We appreciate and love you!!” -HECKY’S BARBECUE “Thanks for voting us as one of the best neighborhood gems. We are tremendously honored and appreciative of the votes!” –NICK’S WILMETTE “Thanks to the Make it Better readers for voting us in THREE times: BEST PIZZA, BEST DATE NIGHT (Union/SPACE) & BEST NEIGHBORHOOD GEM (Campagnola). Chef Vincent DiBattista is helping to make Evanston more delicious one venue at a time!” -UNION PIZZERIA “It’s an honor just to be nominated— but even better to win! Voted Best Green Builder!” -SCOTT SIMPSON BUILDERS, INC.

“We’re delighted to be on this list, thanks for the support!” -ART EFFECT “Thanks MIB, what an honor! The students at Bikram Yoga North Shore make it an incredible place. No experience necessary to join the sweaty, challenging and often life-changing classes. Come see and feel how hard work in the hot room pays off!” –BIKRAM YOGA NORTH SHORE “On behalf of Mariani Landscape, I would like to express how thrilled we are for being selected by your readers to receive the distinction of Best of 2014 for landscaping! We are extremely proud of our 50-plus years of service through the North Shore and are dedicated to maintaining the highest standards of design, construction and maintenance for our clients.” –FRED WACKER, PRESIDENT, MARIANI LANDSCAPE “Thanks so much! We owe it to our loyal customers and great employees!”

–ABT ELECTRONICS

CONGRATS FROM READERS

“Congratulations to Jim Guthrie and everyone at Hester Decorating on a well-deserved recognition. A complete pro.”

-Lynn Kalanik “Much deserved recognition for Depot Nuevo—a well-run business with great food!!”

-Laura Doyle “So proud of Jennifer Hopkins Lawrence and Jen Stamper for winning the North Shore’s Clothing Boutique of the year! Well done, ladies!!!”

-Kyle Lawrence “Congrats Andreas [Hogue Salon]! You guys rock!! I see my vote counted!”

-Stacey Boyle “How about a Menswear category next year?”

-Scott Siegel “Yea Dance Center Evanston! Best dance studio on the North Shore!!”

-Laura Doyle “Congrats A. Perry Homes on your win!”

–Northwestern University Settlement House

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588 Lincoln Ave. Winnetka, IL, 60093 | 847-256-4642 Founder & Publisher Susan B. Noyes

Editor In Chief Julie Chernoff

Digital Editor Lindsay Roseman

Assistant Editor Anna Carlson Make a Difference Editor Coco Keevan

Art Director Lesley Smith

Designer Melissa Johnston

Dining Editor Julie Chernoff

Fashion Editor Evangeline Politis

Finance Editor Meghan Streit

Fitness Editor Christy Coughlin

Home Editor Tate Gunnerson

Senior Living Editor Stuart Greenblatt Sex & the Suburbs Editor Marjie Killeen

Contributing Writers Kelly Konrad Robert Loerzel Jenny Muslin Susan Pasternak Laura Levy Shatkin

Photographers Christy Coughlin David Sutton

Interns

Grace Coburn Christopher Deaver Jamie Newman Jessica Van De Loo Caroline Wegener

Co-Founder & Vice President of Marketing Mindy Fauntleroy

Chief Operating Officer Sandy Tsuchida

Ad Sales Manager Megan Holbrook

Senior Account Executives Patti Augustyn Julie Carter

Account Executives Denise Borkowski Meredith Kopelman Director of Videography Katy Nielsen GOT FEEDBACK? Email susan@makeitbetter.net TO ADVERTISE: Contact megan@makeitbetter.net HAVE AN EVENT? Email anna@makeitbetter.net

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BY JULIE CHERNOFF AND CAROLINE WEGENER

Get Juicy With It

Modern Water, Vintage Living

Tucked away on Green Bay Road, Winnetka’s Modern Water is as refreshing as, well, a glass of pure water! Owner Dawn Ratts reconstructed the space in May and created a general store that focuses on the community with vintage pieces, homemade organic soaps and lip balms, and the best water purifier around, the Berkey Natural Purifier. Dawn uses this purifier to make her soaps and lip products, which also use organic beeswax and olive oil from nearby Café Buongiorno. It’s the perfect place to go to find one-of-a-kind gifts and products, including mugs, art, dishes, shirts, peach and blueberry preserves in the fall, and violet syrup in the spring. MODERN WATER: 556 Green Bay Road, Winnetka, 847-784-9105, modernh2o.net—CW

Welcome to Illinois, Vince!

Old Orchard gives us even more high-quality fashion choices with the new Vince Camuto boutique. (It’s the company’s first boutique in the state!) Vince Camuto is known for innovative and stylish footwear, ready-to-wear, jewelry, fragrance and swimwear. The boutique also features three different lines: VC Signature, “the ultimate luxury”; Louise et Cie, designed by creative director Louise Camuto; and Two by Vince Camuto, a more casual and youthful line. The new boutique gives North Shore shoppers the luxurious products they’re looking for this fall. VINCE CAMUTO : 4905 Old Orchard Center, Skokie, 847-3290156, vincecamuto.com—CW

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Burger Mania

Vernon Hills welcomed Smashburger to the Westfield Hawthorn Mall in June. One of America’s fastest-growing gourmet burger joints, they feature a smashed and griddled burger on a toasty artisanal bun. Try the Windy City Burger (sharp Cheddar cheese, haystack onions, lettuce and tomato on a pretzel bun) with Veggie Frites and a Nutter Butter Shake for the full experience. Yum. SMASHBURGER: 426 Hawthorn Center, Vernon Hills, 847-984-0240, smashburger.com —JC

MODERN WATER PHOTO BY CAROLINE WEGENER; OTHER PHOTOS COURTESY OF EACH BUSINESS

Dr. Leslie Mendoza Temple, an integrative medicine specialist at NorthShore University HealthSystems, has opened Mingle Juice in The Glen Town Center with co-owner Kim King. You’ll find cold-pressed juices made from local and organic produce, smoothies, healthy bubble teas, shaved Hawaiian ice, and good-for-you grab-and-go items that you can feel virtuous about eating.

Planned to get healthy over summer break but never got around to it? Not to worry—it’s never too late for a fresh start.

MINGLE JUICE: 1830 Tower Dr., Glenview, 224-545-2588, minglejuice.com —JC

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EVENTS

R E C O M M E N D E D

BY ANNA CARLSON

The Creation of “West Side Story” September 3 | Skokie Theatre, 7924 Lincoln Ave., Skokie skokietheatre.com Get the behind-the-scenes scoop on what it took to bring this love story to the silver screen.

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editor’s pick Food Network in Concert at Ravinia  September 20 | Ravinia, 200 Ravinia Park Road., Highland Park | foodnetworkinconcert.com Eat, drink and rock out with Food Network stars, including Alex Guarnaschelli, Jeff Mauro, Marc Murphy and Geoffrey Zakarian, as artists like John Mayer and Phillip Phillips provide the day’s soundtrack. What makes this event even better?

Proceeds will benefit the No Kid Hungry Campaign.

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Garth Brooks World Tour September 4-6, 11-14 | Allstate Arena, 6920 N. Mannheim Road, Rosemont | rosemont.com/allstate After retiring in 2001, Garth Brooks is making his way back to Chicago for the first time in 17 years. Joining him is his wife , singer and Food Network host Trisha Yearwood.

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Shock Top Oyster Fest September 6 | Roscoe Village, 2000 W. Roscoe St., Chicago | choosechicago.com Sharpen your shucking skills at this fest, which will also feature brew from Shock Top and live music.

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Downtown Downers Grove Art Festival September 6–24 | Downtown Downers Grove amdurproductions.com It’s fall, but there’s still more art-festival fun to be had! Kids can take part in a scavenger hunt and create spin art while adults browse works ranging in price from $20 to $2,000.

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Smart Women, Smart Finance$ September 10 | Chicago Botanic Garden, 1000 Lake Cook Road, Glencoe | makeitbetter.net/smartmoney Want to get smarter about money? Join Make It Better and a group of financial experts to discuss creating your financial-success checklist, investing for retirement, estate planning and more.

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World Music Festival Chicago September 11-21 | Various locations, Chicago cityofchicago.org Spend 11 days celebrating music from around the world throughout our eclectic city.

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EXPO CHICAGO/2014  September 18-21 | Navy Pier, 600 E. Grand Ave., Chicago expochicago.com This art fair is a cut above the rest with more than 140 galleries from 17 countries and 43 cities participating this year. Make sure to visit the EXPOSURE section, which highlights 20 young galleries.

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Fall Fest September 20 | Winnetka Ice Arena, 490 Hibbard Road, Winnetka | Win-

park.org Family fun for everyone! Food, music, inflatables, and fall-themed activities run from 4-10pm. The night ends with the movie “Frozen” as an added incentive.

Long Grove Apple Fest September 26-28 | Downtown Long Grove | visitlonggrove.com Enjoy the things that make fall so great, like apple cider, caramel apples and other apple-themed goodies.

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Chicago Gourmet September 26-28 | Millennium Park, 201 Randolph St., Chicago chicagogourmet.org What a month for foodies! Don’t miss this event by Bon Appétit magazine, which will feature live cooking demonstrations, seminars, tastings and book signings by some of the world’s best chefs and sommeliers.

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Flight Fest 27 September 27 | Gallery Park, Glenview | glenviewparks.org This celebration of aviation in Glenview starts with a ceremony honoring the U.S. Armed Forces. Then, fest-goers will enjoy live music, carnival games, eurobungy, a rock climbing wall, a hot-air balloon and more.

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Illinois Gourd Society Show & 20 Sale September 20-21 | Chicago Botanic Garden, 1000 Lake Cook Road, Glencoe | chicagobotanic.org Get your gourd on! Buy gourds, seeds and tools, or attend the several workshops that will be offered during the weekend.

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Sam Adams Lakeview Taco Fest September 20-21 | Southport between Addison and Newport, Chicago chicagoevents.com If it can be wrapped in a hard or soft shell, you’ll find it at this tasty festival, which will highlight beer and taco pairings, Mexican wrestlers and voting for Chicago’s Best Taco.

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Evanston Art & Big Fork Festival September 27-28 | Downtown Evanston | amdurproductions.com Check out this new event to discover artists and reacquaint yourself with Evanston’s many restaurants.

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David Bowie Is u September 23 | Museum of Contemporary Art, 220 E. Chicago Ave., Chicago | mcachicago.org In the first retrospective of David Bowie’s career, visitors will see more than 400 items from the David Bowie Archive, including costumes, handwritten lyrics, photos and set designs.

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ONGOING

Charlotte Salomon: “Life? or Theater?”

Through September 21 | Illinois Holocaust Museum & Education Center, 9603 Woods Dr., Skokie | ilholocaustmuseum.org “On The Town” Through October 12 | The Marriott Theatre, 10 Marriott Dr., Lincolnshire marriotttheatre.com Magritte: The Mystery of the Ordinary, 1926-1938 Through October 13 | Art Institute of Chicago, 111 S. Michigan Ave., Chicago | artic.edu “Avenue Q” Through October 26 | Mercury Theater, 3745 N. Southport Ave., Chicago mercurytheaterchicago.com

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Ladies’ Night Out September 4 The Grove, 1421 Milwaukee Ave., Glenview glenviewparks.org Teen B2SB^2 (Back-To-School Beach Bash) September 5 Tower Road Beach, Winnetka winpark.org Storm the Stadium September 6 U.S. Cellular Field, 333 W. 35th St., Chicago stormthestadium.com

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Ed Sheeran  September 16 Allstate Arena, 6920 N. Mannheim Road, Rosemont | rosemont.com/allstate

Touch a Truck September 13 Sunset Woods Park, 1801 Sunset Road, Highland Park | pdhp.org

Evanston MashUp September 16 Northwestern University Beachfront, 2311 Campus Dr., Evanston | evanstonmashup.com

Bright Pink’s 5th Annual FabFest  September 14 Westin River North, 320 N. Dearborn, Chicago | 2014fabfest.com

Moonlight Golf Outing September 19 Deerfield Golf Club, 1201 Saunders Rd., Riverwoods | deerfieldparks.org

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BY BEN WATTS PHOTO <CREDIT>

Illinois’ new medicinal marijuana “pilot program,” effective January 1, 2014 through December 31, 2017, has caused a wave of excitement throughout Illinois.

For years, potential patients and entrepreneurs have clamored for Illinois’ legalization to allow for the medicinal use of cannabis. In late 2013, Illinois approved the “Compassionate Use of Medical Cannabis Pilot Program Act.” Last month, Illinois’ pilot program regulations were finalized. Applications were published August 8, 2014.

Only 21 wholesale cultivation centers and 60 retail dispensaries will be allowed to operate in Illinois.

Illinois Cannabis Advisors LLC engaged local Glenview attorneys Borek & Associates, P.C. to assist in their Illinois permit applications for cultivation and dispensary centers. President Sam Borek recently appeared in FOX32’s “Good Day Chicago” to discuss medicinal marijuana in Illinois.

Mr. Borek stated “There are still investment opportunities in Illinois and other new markets available.”

Illinois Cannabis Advisors LLC is involved with applications for licenses and investment opportunities in Illinois. The company expects to be a leader in this burgeoning industry.

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Shermerfest September 21 Village Green, Northbrook northbrooknine.com

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“Dial ‘M’ for Murder” Opens September 25 Metropolis Performing Arts Centre, 111 W. Campbell St., Arlington Heights metropolisarts.com Evanston Green Living Festival September 27 Evanston Ecology Center, 2024 McCormick Blvd., Evanston | evanstongreenfest.org “Luce” Opens September 27 Noyes Cultural Arts Center, 927 Noyes St., Evanston | nexttheatre.org

PHILANTHROPY

Posse Chicago Golf Outing and Dinner Reception September 8 Skokie Country Club, 500 Washington Ave., Glencoe | possefoundation.org 2014 Celestial Ball September 13 Adler Planetarium, 1300 S. Lake Shore Dr., Chicago | adlerplanetarium.org Wilmette Theatre’s Centennial Gala September 13 Michigan Shores Club, 911 Michigan Ave., Wilmette | wilmettetheatre.com/gala

PHOTO BY PHIL FARBER

Rock the Beach 2014 September 14 Gillson Beach, Wilmette | events.sydrocks.com

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HOW TO SPEND $75 BILLION— OR JUST $75— TO MAKE THE WORLD A BETTER PLACE

BY SUSAN B . NOYE S

“FOR EVERY DOLLAR SPENT, HOW much good will be

done in the world?” – Strategy followed by the Copenhagen Consensus Center.

According to a recent Wall Street Journal article, the highly respected international think tank Copenhagen Consensus Center (CCC) offers a smart strategy to solve the world’s most difficult problems.

Every four years, it convenes a group of leading economists, including Nobel Laureates, to debate policies

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and rank them by their likely effectiveness. The basic criteria: For every dollar spent, how much good will be done in the world?

The group last met in 2012 and published a book with its recommendations called “How To Spend $75 Billion to Make the World a Better Place.”

The WSJ article’s author, Matt Ridley, who is also a member of the British House of Lords, posits that the United Nations and other global leaders would be wise to follow a similar cost-benefit analysis.

But really, we would all be wise—and probably happier—if we exercised a similar strategy for our own expenditures, too.

So let’s bring the question back down to Earth.

What’s the best way to spend $75 to make the world a better place?

Delightfully, the answer to that question is something that makes us all feel good: Shop local and you make your hometown better. Purchase products from a company that gives back, like TOMS, and you enjoy great taste and a good conscience, doubly so for shopping at a local shoe store. Attend a fundraiser and enjoy fun with friends while raising money for a good cause.

Buy fresh organic food and improve not only your nutrition, but the environment as well.

It’s heartening to know that great minds are making good global recommendations. But it’s even better to know that your daily choices can make a difference too.

We’re proud of our new ways to help you support local treasures. Are you a fan of independent bookstores? Thanks to Make It Better’s new partnership with Kobo.com, you can now purchase e-books through your favorite neighborhood bookstores, like The Bookstall (Winnetka), The Book Bin (Northbrook) and the Lake Forest Book Store (Lake Forest).

Please learn more and download the free app at Kobo. com/makeitbetter.

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CANDID CONVERSATIONS

WITH MONEY GURUS

BY MEGHAN STREIT

When you’re grappling with a tough money-management decision, wouldn’t it be nice if you could bend the ear of the head of a major bank, a top-notch investment advisor or a straight-shooting financial television personality? Well, we’ve got you covered. We picked the brains of 8 local and national stars from the finance world about how to make the most of your philanthropic gifts, what they have learned from their own money mistakes, how you can take better control of your finances in 30 minutes or less, and much more. Here’s what they had to say.

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JEAN CHATZKY AUTHOR, JOURNALIST, TV PERSONALITY

What is the biggest money mistake you think women tend to make?

One of the biggest money mistakes women tend to make is thinking that their financial planning can mirror men’s.

Anyone who tells you women don’t need financial advice specifically for them is wrong. Whether you’re a caretaker, a breadwinner or both, you face a unique set of financial challenges.

Most obviously, you’re more likely to live longer.

This means you need to be more aggressive with your retirement savings.

How do you teach your own kids to be financially responsible?

For my two teens, I opened up accounts at my bank that were linked to my checking account. Since I maintain the minimum balance, they didn’t have to worry about it.

The accounts each came with debit cards. Then I set up automatic transfers into the accounts every week for their allowances. They’ve learned to monitor their balances online (they have separate passwords), all about the fees when you use an ATM other than your own bank’s, and how fast money can go when it comes automatically out of

a machine.

Before they have their licenses, you may have to be the bank for them. So, when they need cash, you give it to them, then have them watch you transfer the money back out of their accounts into yours. It’s worked really well. And when my son took off for college, I didn’t have to add this to the skills he needed to learn. The most important point: Set limits on how much they’ll get from you. Then don’t bail them out when they blow it.

If they need more, they have to work.

How can I make my charitable gifts have the most impact?

Giving back is one of my Money Rules (it’s #94 to be exact) because whether it means writing a check, volunteering or giving away your unwanted goods, the process makes you healthier and happier. It will give your psyche a boost. As for giving more effectively and efficiently, approach choosing your charities and making your donations as you would choosing stocks: focus on the outcomes. Both are investments you hope to profit from—though in the case of charitable gifts, your profit comes in the form of changes you’d like to see happen. First ask yourself a few valuesbased questions: What angers you? What inspires you?

Then, survey the charities that share your passions and see which ones will give the biggest “change per buck.” For instance, would you rather donate a $10,000 gift that goes to buying children’s books, or a $10,000 gift that sponsors a class that teaches children how to read? I’m more inclined to take out my checkbook for the latter.

Anyone who tells you women don’t need financial advice specifically for them is wrong.

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PHOTO COURTESY OF MONEY MATTERS WITH JEAN CHATZKY; PHOTOGRAPH BY BRAD TRENT

What can I do today in 30 minutes or less to take better control of my finances?

Automate your savings. Do this by enrolling in your employer’s retirement plan and having money deducted from your paychecks, or having funds automatically transferred from your checking account into savings and retirement accounts. Then kick back and watch it add up.

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MANISHA THAKOR

FOUNDER AND CEO, MONEYZEN WEALTH MANAGEMENT

PHOTO COURTESY OF MANISHA THAKOR

If you were going to make one new investment now, what market would you invest in?

I get asked this question frequently, and I think it’s a very dangerous question to ask or answer. Before making an investment, the first step is to ask yourself how long you can afford not to touch that money. If it’s money you need to spend with certainty in the next five years, this question can get you into a lot of trouble by exposing those funds to ups and downs in the markets that inevitably come at the worst possible time for when you need to spend the money. If you answer, “This is longterm retirement money that can grow for the next few decades,” then my answer is to go to Vanguard and invest in an age-appropriate Target Date Retirement Fund. That’s because with one straightforward, low-cost index fund, you will get exposure to a range of asset classes, geographic regions and sectors with a level of expected risk appropriate for your age. It’s like an all-in-one foundation that has 30 SPF, a wrinkle fighter, some rejuvenating cream and blemish coverage all in one convenient application. It’s simple and it works for a wide range of situations and people.

What is the most important thing someone can do at 25 to create a secure financial future? At 35? At 45? At 55?

At age 25: Learn to live within your means. This means to set aside savings (and ideally a lot—the gold standard is 10 percent into retirement funds and 10 percent for emergency fund and near-term goals like buying a house or getting married).

At age 35: Make sure your savings are being invested in a prudent manner. Enemy #1 for your savings is inflation.

Inflation is like a financial termite eating away at the value (aka “purchasing power”) of your money. If you have $1,000 today and it is just sitting in cash and inflation is a

mere 3 percent, in 30 years that money will buy only what $400 does today.

Age 45: Speak with a financial advisor. Make sure your saving and spending levels are appropriate for your long-term financial goals. Ensure your portfolio has the right asset allocation and that you’ve made a conscious decision about whether or not you want to pursue an “active” or “passive/index” approach to investing.

(Hint: Active is like driving in the left lane of a freeway, darting in and out of cars looking for that extra edge; passive is like driving in the right lane at the speed limit with your seatbelt on. Guess who gets there first!).

Age 55: Don’t swing for the fences. Many people in their mid-50s wake up and realize they are late to the savings game. The understandable gut response is to want to make up for lost time by pushing for higher returns.

Alas, with the potential for higher returns comes higher risk. So a more prudent way to address this situation is to harness the triple action power of: saving a little more, spending a little less, and planning to work a few more years. The mathematical combination of doing all three at once is powerful. It’s like going to the gym, eating clean and drinking lots of water—way more effective for weight loss than doing just one of those activities in isolation.

What are some things you think are worth splurging on?

Experiences. I think experiences (be it a meal with friends, a hike in the park, a dance lesson, seeing a play, going swimming in the ocean) are some of the best things in life worth splurging on. These activities expose your mind to new activities, stimulate your neural pathways in new directions, don’t require any storage space or insurance or upkeep and, best of all, can travel with you in the future everywhere you go in the form of memories. In today’s 24/7, always-on-but-never-reallytruly-connected world, experiences are priceless.

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RENÉE COOPER FINANCIAL CONSULTANT, WINTRUST WEALTH MANAGEMENT What can I do today in 30 minutes or less to take better control of my finances?

You always need to pay yourself first, whatever money you make; before you spend it on anything else (rent, mortgage, car, credit cards, IRS for taxes), put some aside for your future. What determines your wealth is not how much you make, but how much you keep of what you make. Always pay in cash (not credit or debit cards), since it has been shown that people spend 20 percent less when they pay in cash. Also, get a journal and track every dollar you spend for at least one week. You will be surprised how much of your money goes to unnecessary purchases.

How do you teach your own kids to be

financially responsible?

Sit down with your children early on and teach them about saving. Have them open an account to put any money they earn in. Teach them about good purchasing decisions, and have them understand what things really cost. When they are in the workforce, make sure they contribute to their company’s 401(k) (Roth if offered), and at least max out the company’s match percentage (if the company matches).

What are some things you think are worth splurging on?

I think everyone should budget for a vacation. It is vital in this fast-paced, complex world we live in today to take some time to relax. It is a very important mentalhealth break that everyone needs.

EMILIA DIMENCO PRESIDENT AND CEO, WOMEN’S BUSINESS DEVELOPMENT CENTER

What is the biggest mistake you made and what did you learn from it?

When I was younger, I was so busy with my career, managing my family and raising my son that I failed to make investing a priority. I should have been more diligent about managing my money. I had money in interest-bearing accounts, but diversified stock mutual funds would have been more

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appropriate for me and yielded a higher return.

What can I do today in 30 minutes or less to take better control of my finances?

First, sign up immediately for online bill paying, which can help you better manage your bills. It really helps with budgeting. Second, consolidate your investments in a family of two or three mutual funds that have lower fees and will help you achieve higher returns.

Ideally, they should be funds that you can easily access and change online, and purchased from a company with a responsive customer service line you can call if you have questions. Finally, improve your investment knowledge. There’s a great deal of information online, so learning is much easier than it used to be. When your investment portfolio is sizable and you’re at a point when you are thinking about estate planning, tax implications and retirement income, then it’s time to consider hiring an investment manager.

PHOTOS COURTESY OF RENÉE COOPER AND EMILIA DIMENCO

What is the biggest money mistake that women tend to make?

Most busy women, especially when they are younger, tend to push money management to [the] bottom of their to-do list, but that’s a big mistake. You need to aggressively manage your money throughout your life, regardless of whether you’re married, living with someone or living alone. Especially at a young age, select investments with an eye on building longer-term wealth, such as stocks, and focus less on low interest-bearing vehicles like money-market accounts and CDs.

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ILYCE GLINK

COLUMNIST, RADIO PERSONALITY, FOUNDER OF THINK GLINK What is the biggest money mistake you think women tend to make?

So often, a woman will hand over the financial reins to her husband. She will do most of the planning and shopping and take the lead on raising the children, but when it comes to understanding what she and her husband own and how they’ve planned for their future, she’s clueless. This happens, even if the woman has a big career, and it’s one of the biggest money mistakes. I’ve long advocated for an equal role for women when it comes to money—in knowledge if not in action. You should understand what you have, where you have it, and how to access it. If you don’t, you’re setting yourself up for a lifetime of trouble.

What is the most important thing someone can do to create a secure financial future? The most important thing you can do, at any stage of your

life, is to salt away between 10 to 25 percent of your gross annual income for retirement. If you save $3,000 per year between the ages of 25 and 35, and your money grows at a reasonable 7 percent per year, you’ll wind up with more than $1 million in savings by the time you’re 67. A little bit of savings combined with a long period of time has a huge impact.

What is your favorite finance or money management app?

MaxMyInterest.com. It you have a lot of cash on hand, it allows you to optimize the return you’re getting without having to spend time moving cash from bank to bank. You get more interest on your money without doing any more work.

I’m also a big believer in Quicken and TurboTax. But any app that allows you to have a “dashboard,” so you can see where you are financially from one page, is probably great.

STEVE KUHN

PHOTOS COURTESY OF ILYCE GLINK AND STEVE KUHN

PARTNER AND CO-CHIEF INVESTMENT OFFICER, PINE RIVER CAPITAL MANAGEMENT If you were going to make one new investment now, what market would you invest in?

I can tell you about an area where we’ve started doing a lot of work, and which I’ll most likely be presenting on at Invest for Kids in November: Japanese value stocks. Right now, we’ve become intrigued by undervalued Japanese companies that are just now starting to take measures to show that they care about shareholder value. I won’t give any specifics right now—you’ll have to stay tuned for my presentation at Invest for Kids.

What is the biggest money mistake you made and what did you learn from it?

Probably the biggest single investment failure was when I stepped outside of my area of expertise and invested in a documentary film. It was a great piece of

work about kids growing up in housing projects—socially responsible, very valuable, and ultimately gratifying for me to have played a role in its making—but it wasn’t a good financial investment.

What is the most important thing someone can do at 25 to create a secure financial future? At 35? At 45? At 55?

At any of these ages, the message is the same: The most important thing is that you pursue something that you are passionate about. If you don’t believe in what you’re doing or if you don’t want to be doing it, there is no security. Of course, there are the simple rules of thumb: live within your means, save for retirement, create a plan and stick to it, etc. But without seeking to actually make yourself happy and fulfilled, what good is any of that?

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SHELLEY O’CONNOR HEAD OF FIELD MANAGEMENT, MORGAN STANLEY WEALTH MANAGEMENT What is the most important thing someone can do at 25 to create a secure financial future? At 35? At 45? At 55?

At age 25, most people are just starting out in their careers and are strapped for cash. Even so, you need to force yourself to start investing for the future. Put some money away each month—even a small amount—into a mutual fund or ETF (Exchange-Traded Fund). Make it automatic if you can, and if your employer offers a tax-advantaged retirement plan with a company match, take advantage of it. Put the money away and forget about it, and you’ll be amazed how it can potentially grow over the decades.

At age 35, keep up the savings and investment discipline and increase the amount you put away every year.

Individual Retirement Accounts (IRAs) and company-sponsored plans such as

401(k)s can be effective vehicles for this.

Try to set up a “rainy day fund” for emergencies. As your assets grow, consider working with a financial advisor who can help you be objective and divorce your emotions from your investment decisions. Avoid the “buy high and sell low” trap that too many people fall into.

At 45, don’t neglect the insurance considerations that can help protect your family against the unexpected. Disability insurance, life insurance, even long-term care insurance should be examined.

At 55, when most people are 10 or 15 years away from retirement, a detailed financial plan, revisited periodically to keep it on track, is an absolute must. And, if you’ve been disciplined about saving and investing along the way, then you’ll probably have a lot more flexibility in making that plan.

How can I make my charitable gifts have the most impact?

As an alternative to donating cash to your favorite charity, consider donating publicly traded securities you have held for greater than one year and that have appreciated in value. Typically this can create a win-win situation for both the charity and the donor. The charity receives the appreciated assets, which can be liquidated free of any capital gains taxes. The donor, on the other hand, receives the charitable contribution deduction on the fair value of the stock and avoids paying capital gains taxes on the appreciated amount. Individuals should discuss this approach with their tax advisors.

What is the biggest money mistake you made and what did you learn from it?

Without question, the biggest money mistake I made was trying to market

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time and take large holdings in just a few select stocks. It is a proven fact that diversification across asset classes and industries is far more beneficial to an investor, especially small ones, than trying to be a stock picker. I learned that good sound money management is about being invested with a proper mix of investments and being “in“ the market.

Missing just a few of the biggest positive market days a year has been shown to be detrimental to your overall returns.

How do you teach your own kids to be financially responsible?

By getting paid for working at odd jobs or simply getting allowance for doing household chores, children develop a sense of responsibility towards money and what it takes to earn it. Hopefully from this foundation, higher concepts such as goal setting, savings and time management begin to develop.

PHOTOS COURTESY OF SHELLEY O’CONNOR AND PAUL TASHIMA

PAUL TASHIMA MANAGING DIRECTOR – INVESTMENTS, UBS FINANCIAL SERVICES INC.

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MIDDLE SCHOOL S.O.S.

BY S U S A N PA S T E R N A K

Just a couple months into the school year and my sixth-grader’s backpack was like a black abyss: crumpled papers, food wrappers and some other unrecognizable objects obscured any sense of order. I knew we had an organizational challenge on our hands. Apparently, according to experts who understand the way middle schoolers operate, my son and I weren’t alone.

“THE ORGANIZATION OF MATERIAL AND time management are the two most important areas that we expect the kids know how to manage, and yet their brains aren’t often ready to do that until they’re in their 20s,” says Becky Friedlander, director of academic support and learning development at Lake Forest Country Day School. “Research does show the most successful students are the ones who are the best organized, and they take these skills with them through life.”

For today’s middle schoolers who juggle different classes, teachers, activities, social media and in-person social experiences, starting out the year with an organizational plan can make all the difference to their

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success and independence. It’s equally important for students to have input in the plan, as they are the ones who understand the ways in which assignments are delivered in today’s age of technology.

“Being an organized person myself, I set up a desk with all the supplies—paper, pens, sharpeners, and everything I would think a student would need,” says Michelle Grossmann of Highland Park, parent of an incoming seventh grader. “But my son came up with his own system. Technology has given him a lot of autonomy because he can go online at any time and know what’s due in a week, when the test is going to be and what he’s turned in.”

While for some students it comes naturally, others

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need to be taught these “executive functioning” skills. Parents can help their students by arming them with an executive functioning “get-started toolbox,” which should include an assignment notebook, a three-ring binder with colored subject dividers, a folder with pockets for homework assignments and completed work and notecards.

Professional tutors are also often helpful in organizing students, and many tutoring companies are now offering executive functioning as a curriculum that can be taught as a standalone subject.

4. P ack backpack at night—mornings are often too rushed.

1. W rite down each assignment in an assignment notebook and check off when completed.

9. Make sure students are using teacher-provided rubrics to guide coursework.

2. C rosscheck the assignment notebook each night with each teacher’s blog, which should indicate homework, long-term assignments and upcoming tests.

10. Use trial and error! Some strategies work for some students, but not others. Help create a custom plan that empowers your child.

THIS RECOMMENDED LIST, CURATED FROM ORGANIZATIONAL EXPERTS, WILL GET YOUR CHILD STARTED WITH GOOD HABITS:

5. U se a planner for long-term assignments, breaking up the project into separate pieces.

6. S et up a monthly calendar where “fun” activities are entered first, and then homework and long-term projects are filled in.

7. U se a nightly homework-planning sheet to help student visualize the night ahead; write in dinner, activities, etc. to help the student manage time.

8. Have perforated notecards on hand for test preparation. These notecards are easily manipulated for testing oneself and matching terms to definitions, or concepts to explanations.

3. M ake it a goal to finish homework by 7 p.m.

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Facial rejuvenation procedures were especially robust in 2013 with more Americans opting for non-surgical options rather than facelifts, forehead lifts or eyelid surgery. Fillers and neurotoxins are the leading procedures.

Physicians are jumping on this bandwagon, with many offering “Botox and Juvederm” alongside their annual exams. In fact, even some dental offices have joined the crowd! The issue is, regardless of training or degree, there is a fairly steep learning curve to becoming exceptional at performing these procedures.

In addition, technical skill doesn’t completely guarantee the best “aesthetic” result.

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participate in a peer-to-peer critique and rating competition of their work.

THE Aesthetic Show staff invites providers from all over the world to enter their work in multiple categories, including Best Facial Injectable Enhancement, Best Non-Surgical Facial Rejuvenation Enhancement, Best Surgical Facial Enhancement, Best Overall Facial Makeover, Best Non-Surgical BodyShaping Enhancement, Best Surgical Body-Shaping Enhancement, Best Overall Body-Makeover Enhancement, Best Overall Patient Enhancement, and Best Aesthetic Practice.

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This year, we congratulate Dr. Josie Tenore, who was selected from over 200 worldwide entries and was one of only THREE physicians to be honored on the podium at THE Aesthetic Awards.

Dr. Josie Tenore entered the “Best Facial Injectable Enhancement” category, and her entry earned additional accolades in the “Best Overall Facial Makeover”! “I was so surprised and honored to be recognized by my peers,” Dr. Josie (as she is known by her patients) said. “I really couldn’t believe it.”

Dr. Josie’s work was runner-up to a physician who entered a patient who had a surgical facelift!

Dr. Josie’s response to being a silver medal winner?

“If I can create beauty and symmetry with Artefill (my go-to filler) and neurotoxin that rivals surgery... I must be doing something right!

Dr. Tenore, M.D., MSc. Dr. Tenore, an international trainer, is continuing to create and build the FreshSkin facility to be the center of age-management excellence in Chicago and the North Shore.

She recently doubled the space to incorporate training for other physicians and service providers to learn her techniques.

“This way,” Dr. Tenore says, “other providers can become ‘restoration artists’ just like me.”

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MUST TASTE Heading up Highway 29 north of Napa and Yountville, a fabulous first stop for a welcoming tasting is at the Salon at Swanson Vineyards (1217 Manley Lane, 707-754-4018, swansonvineyards.com). You’ll start with their delightful, refreshing rosé while admiring the beautiful Ira Yeager paintings around you. Next up: the unctuous and velvety Merlot, followed by Face Cabernet Sauvignon. Stop into the whimsical Sip Shoppe to grab a few bottles.

As you just enter town, take an espresso break or squeeze in another tasting at Velo Vino (709 Main St., 707-968-0625, cliffamilywinery.com), a bike rider’s haven, to taste Clif Family Wines, have a snack or hang out before, during or after a gorgeous ride around the valley. To further explore the range of Clif Family Wines, reserve a space up at the guesthouse for the Rifugio food and wine pairing, served poolside in an unforgettable locale.

Charles Krug, Duckhorn, Flora Springs and Long Meadow Ranch are just a few of the no-appointmentneeded winery tasting rooms along the main drag. Be sure to reserve at a few other gems: Far Niente, Peju Province, Grgich Hills Estate and Trinchero. So many options, so little time! Save yourself the navigating and hire George Stone’s Napa Valley Chauffeurs (707-373-0704, napavalleygeorge@gmail.com).

B Y L A U R A L E V Y S H AT K I N

St. Helena is situated in the charming heart of the Napa Valley, between Yountville and Calistoga, right along Highway 29.

THE TOWN IS BURSTING WITH personality and has a significant local feel, rather than a touristy vibe.

Winemaking here dates back to the 1800s, its history echoing through the gables and turrets of the magnificent Rhine House, now home to Beringer Wine.

The wineries in St. Helena today range from powerhouses such as Franciscan and Louis Martini to critically acclaimed small producers including Revana, Corison, Spottswoode, William Cole and Del Dotto. You can stop by the quaint Chamber of Commerce on the way into town for even more info, but we’ve done much of the legwork here for you.

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Grab a snack as you roll into St. Helena at the venerable Gott’s Roadside (933 Main St., St. Helena, 707963-3486, gotts.com). It’s a diner, indeed, but burgers might be ahi tuna, tacos are more likely to be fish than meat, and fries come with a garlic-parsley sprinkle. Soak in the sunshine on a picnic table out back.

Don’t miss the exceptional Northern Italian cuisine with locally sourced ingredients at Cook St. Helena (1310 Main st., 707-963-7088, cooksthelena. com). You’ll be seduced by grilled octopus with micro-greens and a saffron-vanilla aioli, or perhaps the red wine friendly braised shortrib and hand-made cavatelli in a rabbit-porcini sugo. The wine list turns you on to lesser-known labels you won’t find at home.

Trek to the northern edge of Yountville to the noreservations Ciccio (6770 Washington St., Yountville, 707-945-1000, ciccionapavalley.com). Featured on the supremely farm-to-table menu: arugula and radish salad; wood-fired artichokes; and mushroom, taleggio and crispy sage grilled pizza. Proprietor Frank Altamura features his family wines—or try other lo-

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MUST EAT

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cal wines at retail pricing (no mark-ups!).

Chicago native Andy Florsheim left town to open Goose and Gander (1245 Spring St., St.Helena, 707967-8779, goosegander.com). Chef Kelly McCown has a knack for rustic American cuisine; a table on the lush patio makes the experience top-notch. The fare is seasonally driven and the wines mostly local and unique, like the 2009 Parador Tempranillo.

MUST DO AND SEE Explore the Friday Farmer’s Market behind the bocce courts in the heart of town. The local produce is downright intoxicating.

Housed in the pre-prohibition Christian Brothers winery, the Culinary Institute of America’s gorgeous stone structure is perched just past the downtown area.

There’s an amazing tasting bar and an acclaimed onsite eatery with outdoor seating and a view.

Stroll down the two historic blocks of Main Street and shop to your heart’s content. There are dozens of adorable small shops ranging from St. Helena Olive Oil and Woodhouse Chocolate to my absolute favorite, Model Bakery. Stop into 750 Wine where Chicago

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natives Monica and David Stevens run a unique shop with a purposefully curated gallery of small producers and hard-to-find wine gems to ship home.

MUST STAY For the true lap of luxury, there’s Meadowood Napa Valley (900 Meadowood Lane, 707-531-4788, meadowood.com). You’ll find beautifully maintained grounds, world-class spa and award-winning Dining Room—plus free car service into town.

The quaint Wine Country Inn (1152 Lodi Lane, 707-963-7077, winecountrynn.com) is as charming as it is convenient; it’s in close proximity to some of the Napa Valley’s finest wineries. Complimentary breakfast and a wine hour are included on these gorgeous organically farmed grounds. Spa treatments take advantage of the natural volcanic hot springs with the Valley Dew body scrub and massage.

Built in 1881, the elegant European boutique Hotel St. Helena (1309 Main St, 707-963-4388, hotelsthelena.net) is steeped in Victorian history. It’s in the heart of town and is extremely reasonably priced, but lacks the amenities of the other resorts and spas.

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GOT LICE?

YOU’RE NOT ALONE

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Any parent can imagine my horror upon discovering—after a visit to my brother-in-law’s New Jersey home—that not only did we thoughtfully provide them with memories of our toddlers’ tantrums, but we also left them with another gift homegrown in Chicago: head lice.

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didn’t regularly check her children’s heads before sleepovers, travel and any of the other countless ways lice can cross borders. I now know better. With three children infested with live bugs—my apologies to the squeamish readers who are now starting to feel itchy—I learned more than I ever wanted to know about the louse life cycle, their preferences for clean hair (anti-bathers, rejoice!), and how to rid one’s head of these pesky, but ultimately harmless, creatures.

“As a doctor I know that lice are not harmful and just a nuisance, but as a parent they are a terrible source of frustration and anxiety and can be a huge time commitment,” says Arielle Levitan, M.D., an internist at NorthShore University HealthSystem and co-founder of Vous Vitamin LLC. “I was called by our school nurse expecting me to leave my patients in the office to pick up my children from school and pick their nits.”

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which many schools adhere, as it has not been shown to decrease the cycle of lice transmission.

As with any issue surrounding children, medical care and parenting, opinions abound about how to rid one’s head of live bugs and the nits. So what’s the best product? Of course, it depends who you ask, but the AAP still recommends as the most effective treatment the old-fashioned 1-percent permethrin-based over-the-counter topical solution Nix that most of us remember oh-so-fondly from our childhoods.

“It’s still effective, and most children tolerate it just fine,” says Anthony J. Mancini, M.D., head of the division of dermatology at the Ann & Robert H. Lurie Children’s Hospital of Chicago, and professor of pediatrics and dermatology at the Northwestern University Feinberg School of Medicine. “I’m open-minded to more natural forms of treatment, but there’s not adequate testing to prove effectiveness” of these products.

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of the minuscule nits that eventually will turn into bugs if left on the human host.

“The hardest part of stopping the lice from spreading is getting rid of the nits,” says Risa Barash, who, as the owner of a New York children’s salon, saw so many cases of lice that she and her husband decided to create all-natural products to prevent and treat it. Their Fairy Tales Hair Care ( fairytaleshaircare.com) product line uses organic herbs such as citronella, tea-tree oil and lavender to repel lice. A natural enzyme in the “curative” treatment helps to break down the “glue” that binds the nits to the hair, making removal easier.

“Our product is a wonderful way to get rid of the bugs themselves, and then you can comb through the hair and pick out the nits,” Barash says.

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2. If the bugs find their way into your or your children’s hair, start with a 1-percent permethrin (Nix), considered by most (including AAP) to be the first line of eradication.

3. Go for the double-whammy by using a natural product to help loosen any nits that survived the Nix; use a finetoothed metal comb to comb out each strand of hair and pull out the nits.

4. V acuum all upholstered surfaces, wash bed linens and towels in hot water, and seal off any stuffed animals in plastic bags for a couple weeks.

5. Repeat the natural product process every three days until no nits are left.

6. I f steps one through five fail, speak to a physician about using 0.5 percent malathion (Ovide), considered by many (including AAP) to be the second line of defense.

7. Repeat steps three through five.

8. Have a lice eradication party!

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Warm gray tones, luxurious fabrics, and a reconfigured floor plan revitalize a historic home in Evanston.

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AS THE PROGRAM DIRECTOR FOR EVANSTON SCHOLARS,

a nonprofit organization that helps low-income, first-generation high school students with high potential to gain access to four-year colleges and financial aid, Nancy Baker often hosts events in her home.

During a recent gathering of students, Baker was reminded by how well her recently renovated home functioned for soirées of all sizes. “When I was planning my housewarming party, the ca-

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terer pointed out that there was enough room for 32 people to sit comfortably at the same time,” Baker explains, pointing to the bespoke oversized ottomans that can double as seating. “He said that my interior designer is a genius.”

That would be Nicholas Moriarty, who was referred to Baker by friends in the area. Before launching his own firm, the designer cut his teeth doing visual merchandising at the Andersonville vintage boutique Scout, which happens to be one

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spa-like master bathroom complete with marble floors and custom vanities. The renovation also gave Baker the opportunity to replace the original wood floors. “Over 140 years, they had been sanded and worn beyond repair and had started to split and form gaps,” Baker says. Most importantly, the renovation offered the opportunity to reinforce the house down to its foundation—something that had not been done properly when the house was moved.

Baker, who lived in a neighbor’s coach house during the five-month renovation, was astonished by her home’s transformation. “One of the best attributes of an Italianate home is the floor-to-ceiling windows, and when the walls came down, the whole place was flooded with light,” Baker says. “I should have foreseen it, but I didn’t.”

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of Baker’s favorite haunts. “Between the job that he had done on their house and the aesthetic of Scout, it was obvious that he was going to be a great fit,” Baker says.

The historic home was built in 1874 in the Italianate style and was originally located three blocks from its current location before it was moved to its current spot in the 1890s. “By then, the style that was more popular was Queen Anne, so they added a third floor and a wrap-around porch,” Baker says. Over the years, Baker and her family had become frustrated with its tiny, boxed-off, rooms and awkward layout.

Moriarty was up to the challenge, and with the help of architect Ray Kendra and CAB Associates in Evanston, he redesigned the floor plan by eliminating walls, adding a new staircase and replacing one of the home’s three bedrooms with a new

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to appreciate the suite of warm gray hues that Moriarty selected for every wall and even the ceilings. “One of the first things that Nancy said is that she didn’t want a gray house, but once she saw the medium tone qualities of the wood elements and had a full understanding of the textiles, she came to an appreciation of the contrast that gray would lend to the space,” Moriarty says.

To complement Baker’s existing family heirlooms, the designer selected new furnishings and bespoke pieces of his own design, which he covered in sumptuous fabrics. “It was about balancing those moments— a slightly transitional chair with a contemporary table with an antique walnut sideboard that they’ve had in their family for a long time,” the designer explains. “I have a very collected, eclectic viewpoint of modern-day interiors. It’s not about being beholden to any one area.”

Baker can’t say enough about her new home. “Nicholas saw that the house had survived all of these styles, and his design sort of reflects this entire arc of all the people and styles that have lived there,” Baker says. “We own the house, but really, we feel we are its temporary stewards; we are part of its legacy.”

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JESSIE MUELLER Sheâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;s Got A Friend

BY JULIE CHERNOFF

Jessie Mueller on Chicago, The Tony Awards and Carole King

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Jessie Mueller has had a good year.

This past June, the 2001 ETHS grad scored the 2014 Tony Award for “Best Lead Actress in a Musical” for her brilliant performance as Carole King in “Beautiful: The Carole King Musical.” Actually, it was more of a transformation than a performance, as Mueller’s complete lack of artifice on stage allows her to fully inhabit a character. Clearly the Tony voters felt the same way.

The child of Chicago theater actors Shelly and Roger Mueller, she got her start on the North Shore, appearing in numerous local theaters including the Marriott Lincolnshire, Chicago Shakespeare Theatre and the Goodman. A Jeff Award winner, she was named 2011 Actor of the Year by the Chicago Tribune.

That same year, Broadway called, and she moved to New York. As in every actor’s dream scenario, she was nominated for the “Best Lead Actress in a Musical” Tony Award for her starring role in “On A Clear Day, You Can See Forever” opposite Harry Connick, Jr. To say this hometown girl made a big impression is no exaggeration.

By all accounts, Mueller has remained down to earth and approachable despite her success. Make It Better’s email interview with the actor seems to prove the point.

MIB: You were born into a theater family. Did your parents encourage or discourage you from following in their footsteps?

Jessie Mueller: They didn’t push us either way; they let us figure it out on our own. And we got a pretty realistic picture of what a life in this business could look like. I’m grateful for that. Once our parents realized it was what we all wanted, they were super supportive. And we’re all still doing it! It’s great to have family that understands what you do.

What was your most meaningful theater experience at ETHS? I LOVED YAMO (ETHS’s all student-run variety show)! It was the greatest—the rehearsals after school, the people, the camaraderie.

I think that was my high school theater highlight. I also did a production of “A Streetcar Named Desire” my senior year, directed by Aaron Carney. It was very special. We really had no business doing that play in high school, but Mr. Carney made us feel like we did. He had such faith in us and treated us like professionals—not like kids.

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Who were some of your most important influences in Chicago?

Paula Scrofano, John Reeger and my parents, probably. I grew up watching them and maybe not knowing it at the time, but learning from them. They were also family friends of ours, so I was able to see them as professionals and as people. [They] made me believe I could find a way in this business and have a life—although I’m still working on how to make that happen!

Did you have a favorite professional theater role here in Chicago?

“Carousel” will always hold a dear place in my heart, as will “Shenandoah,” at the Court and Marriott, respectively. But I was blessed to do so many amazing roles during my time in Chicago. I can’t say I really have a favorite. But those are two that will always stick with me.

What was the deciding factor for you to relocate to New York City? What was it like leaving Chicago behind?

I had the unusual experience of coming with a show (“On A Clear Day You Can See Forever”). Harry Connick, Jr. and the producers took a chance [on] me. Staying was a leap of faith. The show didn’t last, but I decided to stay. I’ve always tried to focus on the work, the gig, the task at hand.

That’s how I wrapped my head around coming to New York and staying here. I cried the day I left … there was a part that felt I was leaving my life behind. But I wouldn’t change my path. I’ve been challenged and blessed by the opportunities I’ve had. And I’m excited about what the future holds.

Carole King made her mark in the ‘60s and ‘70s. Were you familiar with her music— or her story—when you first auditioned for the role?

I was somewhat familiar, but it was really in preparing and researching for the show that I became—let’s just say it—a bit obsessed. I’m such a fan now. I have the greatest respect for her as an artist and how she’s lived her life.

And I knew very little about her personal story before becoming involved with the show. I was surprised by what I learned, and I think our audiences feel the same way.

How did you prepare to tackle the role? What was your biggest challenge?

I did a LOT of research. I felt a great responsibility taking on the role of someone so iconic and so well loved. And I grew to love her. I loved doing the research—listening, finding interviews, pictures, reading her memoir (“A Natural Woman”). She became a great inspiration to me in my life as I learned more and more about her. Sometimes (often, I find), a role comes to you (or you to it) at the right time.

There’s a synergy there. Something works; something clicks. I am so grateful for this role and being exposed to Miss King in the way that I have been.

What was it like having your parents at the Tonys?

It was wonderful. I only got to sit with them and my boyfriend for about 10 minutes the whole night, but when I finally got to them, it made it all real! That day was crazy. And everyone we knew, including us, got such a kick out of the fact that Roger (my dad) was sitting right behind Neil Patrick Harris. So every time they panned to Neil, there was my dad!

Will the show ever make it to Chicago? Would you ever consider touring with it?

Yes, I believe the show has plans to tour soon, and Chicago will most likely be one of the top stops. I’m not sure what my involvement will be at this point. I’m taking it one day at a time!

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MONEY CHANGES EVERYTHING: 6 FINANCIAL LESSONS YOUNG ADULTS SHOULD LEARN EARLY

BY MEGHAN STREIT

Most schools don’t teach money management, so kids can ace algebra and graduate without a clue about how to manage their finances.

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most youngsters aren’t learning financial responsibility at home either. “Surveys show parents would rather talk about the birds and bees than money,” Klontz says.

Set your children up for success as adults by teaching these six lessons:

1. MONEY COMES FROM WORK. While it seems laughably obvious, kids from wealthy families often have a flimsy grasp on the connection between work and money. From a psychological perspective, Klontz says whatever behavior precipitates receiving money reinforces that behavior. So, children who get money for nothing become adults who expect handouts.

2. SAVE FOR INDULGENCES. If you can buy a TV or car without saving, your children may not learn to delay gratification. “Why would I think it’s important to save for a rainy day if I’ve never seen rain in my life?” Klontz says. “The only way to teach that skill is to create some deprivation.” If your daughter wants a new wardrobe, encourage her to get a job instead of taking her on a shopping spree.

3. LIVE WITHIN YOUR MEANS. Young adults should practice budgeting before they leave the nest. Diana Crabtree, CPA and author of “Money for Teenagers,” says parents should make kids responsible for discretionary expenses, like gasoline and entertainment, while they’re living under your roof. She recommends Mvelopes, an online

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spending management tool that mimics the old “envelope budgeting” system.

4. STAY OUT OF DEBT. Using credit responsibly is another skill that requires practice. Crabtree suggests co-signing with teens on a low-limit credit card so that by the time they’re working (and eligible for more credit), they’re in the habit of paying cards off each month and understand how interest accumulates if they carry balances.

5. CREDIT SCORES MATTER. Young adults should understand how late payments and credit card balances impact credit scores.

“By the time they go to college, kids should know how a bad credit score impacts their ability to get a car loan and buy a house,” Klontz says. Credit Sesame is a free credit-monitoring service that explains factors affecting your score.

6. TIME IS AN ASSET. Young adults may not have much money, but time is on their side. Bill Edgar, Elburn dad and author of “The Minimum Wage Millionaire,” says people who begin investing early can create wealth because money earns interest that compounds over time. He says Fidelity and Charles Schwab offer brokerage accounts with low or no initial investments and don’t charge fees as long as you make periodic deposits.

Parents can set up custodial accounts for minors, and Edgar says kids should begin investing as soon as they start earning money so they’re in the habit by adulthood.

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The advent of the fall fashion season means it’s finally acceptable to ditch the sandals and bring out this year’s most fabulous boots. We think they’re just perfect for a stroll with our favorite furry companions.

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7 NEW BEAUTY PRODUCTS YOU SHOULD KNOW

BY JENNY MUSLIN

1. BABY FOOT ($25)

People in Tokyo have been using Baby Foot for years, and now that it’s finally in the states, we could not be more psyched. Step into the gel filled-booties, sit back for an hour and catch up on your DVR while you let the 17 various natural extracts work their magic. Three to five days post treatment, you will begin shedding layers of dead skin from your soles, resulting in feet so soft they will rival a baby’s.

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2. HYPER HYDRATION SUPER KERATIN SPRAY ($13)

Celebrity stylist Sally Hershberger debuted this product in the spring and reviews have been outstanding. Spray this lightweight moisturizer on hair to tame frizz and flyaways, repair damage, seal split ends and protect hair from heat.

The spray works on all hair types, but will especially help us Midwesterners coming off a harsh winter with dry tresses. ulta.com

3. RMS LIVING LUMINIZER ($38)

You will notice that many celebrities on the red carpet have skin that appears dewy and refreshed. Often, the makeup artist has simply used a highlighter on the cheekbones and under the arch of the brows. RMS is a fairly new line, and this product gives skin a subtle hint of sheen without looking glittery or shiny. rmsbeauty.com

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4. THE WET BRUSH ($10)

The best 10 beauty dollars you will ever spend! The Wet Brush wins raves from reviewers who claim they no longer need a detangling spray after washing their hair. The bristles are designed to detangle wet or dry hair without any pulling or snagging— perfect to use on your kids’ hair, too. No more screaming when trying to brush knotted, long, wet hair. thewetbrush.com

5. BENEFIT COSMETICS GIMME BROW ($22) If you don’t have the time to fill in your eyebrows with a shadow or pencil, a swipe of this brow-volumizing, water-resistant fiber gel on each brow will do the trick. Not only does this product tame brows, it helps define your natural arch. Available in two shades. benefitcosmetics.com.

6. KAHINA GIVING 100% ORGANIC BEAUTY ARGAN OIL ($36 AND UP)

This all-natural, organic oil has been called “a wonder product” for its multiple uses and awesome benefits. The light oil moisturizes skin, treats acne, tames and restores hair, soothes chapped hands, and softens cuticles. Since only a small amount is needed, the bottle will last you a long time. kahina-givingbeauty.com

7. KERASTASE INITIALISTE ($52 AND UP)

This super serum promises to change the condition of your hair within seven days of use. The product prevents breakage, strengthens and softens hair, and promotes growth. The serum is lightweight and works on all hair types. Users noted drastically thicker hair that grew quicker than ever. Tip: Stick with this product and you will start to see dramatic results within two months. A bottle should generally last you around three months, depending on the length of your hair. kerastase-usa.com

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Anne Doyle

the professional world,” says Doyle, who in addition to a long career as an auto executive was one of the first female TV sports reporters in the U.S. “Femininity is not a parallel word to masculinity. Femininity is a word that refers to a woman’s softer side, particularly in relationship to how appealing she is to men. Femininity is a part of womaninity, but it doesn’t capture all of the pieces of being a fully evolved woman. The idea of womaninity is about tapping into all your strengths, your perspective, your life experience and your instincts as a female.”

Women share many characteristics with men, but they tend to naturally be more collaborative and attuned to what other people are thinking and feeling. And these “softer” skills are becoming increasingly necessary to organizations. I recently attended a Positive Business Conference at University of Michigan where practices like supporting employee health and well-being, community involvement and decentralized, team-based management styles were found to increase productivity and profit. Sound familiar?

AT WORK

BY MAR JIE KILLEEN

Usually, I encourage women to express their sensuality and explore their desires, but at work, these behaviors can get you in trouble.

A woman who exudes sex appeal on the job can undermine her professionalism and limit her chances for advancement. But that doesn’t mean she should look or behave like a man. Sex aside, it’s time to woman up in the work place.

Leadership in our society is still defined by masculine traits because the vast majority of leaders are men.

Women earn 60 percent of U.S. undergraduate and master’s degrees and hold 52 percent of all professional jobs, but are woefully underrepresented in top positions. According to the Center for American Progress, women make up only 14.6 percent of executive officers, 8.1 percent of top earners and 4.6 percent of Fortune 500 CEOs, and are similarly absent in top levels across fields like law, advertising, medicine and filmmaking.

But according to Anne Doyle, author of “Powering Up, How America’s Women Achievers Become Leaders,” the world is going through a cultural evolution that increasingly values women’s natural strengths. In a recent interview, Doyle explains the term she created to describe this full-fledged female power: womaninity.

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Here are five things you can do to amp up your womaninity, wherever you are: 1. Support other women. “‘Every woman for herself’ is a losing strategy,” Doyle says.

Give women colleagues credit, attention, and, most importantly, your business.

2. Don’t laugh or remain silent when men mock or undermine other women.

3. Don’t be afraid to demonstrate your talents, even though they may be different than men’s.

“It is no longer a weakness to be a woman,” Doyle says. “It’s a leadership strength to be leveraged and put into play.”

4. Use your voice.

Express your opinions and don’t allow yourself to be interrupted or brushed aside. Make sure other women are heard as well.

5. Dress stylishly, but appropriately.

Cleavage, short skirts, tight clothes, and super-high heels are fun for date night, but detract from your authority professionally.

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“It’s hysterical,” Doyle says. “No one is teaching ‘women’s style’ of leadership. They call it Emotional Intelligence, they call it Positive Leadership, but all of this stuff is coming from huge numbers of educated women in the workplace and bringing the natural strengths of women to leadership. The research shows it’s quite effective.”

The point is not to take anything away from the contributions of men. It’s to expand the definition of leadership to encompass the talents and characteristics of women, because the combination is powerful. Doyle describes it as “men and women, balancing one another and bringing a lot of similarities but also distinct differences and strengths to decision-making in the work world.”

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calendars. Take turns leading the workout. Not only will you enjoy each other’s company, but you will work harder—and be less likely to skip the exercise.

2. Invest in yourself. Spend on a new health club, 10 visits with a great trainer, a punch card at a spin or dance class, that treadmill to help get through winter, or the cross-country skis you have talked about for a few years. With dollars on the line, you will be compelled to take advantage of the investment and form a new habit.

FALL FITNESS

BY CHRIST Y COUGHLIN

The kids are back in school, and your crazy, non-stop summer is over. Beautiful fall weather is here and beckoning you to enjoy the colors, low humidity, and gentle breezes. It’s time to get back to a regular fitness routine. Here’s how to jump-start your fitness.

1. Recruit two fit friends for a regular workout.

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4. Use the downtime at your kids sporting events to squeeze in some movement. Don’t dread your kid’s soccer season—take advantage of the warmup and time between games. Meet your like-minded soccer-mom friends after drop-off for two laps around the field and 10 minutes of yoga, all before the first whistle. Bring your bike and cycle around the complex for 30 minutes. Take advantage of the health club attached to the gym and crank out an arm workout. All it takes is a little planning and motivation to make the best use of this time. You and your child can share in the post-workout buzz on the drive home.

5. Treat yourself to a running shoe that will make each stride feel comfy. Shop for the latest compression tights, colorful jacket and breathable long-sleeve tee. Exercise equipment and clothing improves every year, making your workout more efficient and comfortable. Bonus: You might even look forward to your workout.

6. Take advantage of the best weather of the year and hit the great outdoors. Try a new venue like the woods, a state park, the Morton Aboretum, the

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2. Book an early morning workout at least once a week. Studies have shown that people who exercise first thing in the morning are more apt to stick with their program long term. Morning exercise means you’ll kick-start your metabolism and be encouraged to eat healthy all day. Nothing will get in the way of your workout, and you will hit the hay at a reasonable hour.

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Chicago Botanic Garden or a beachfront. Work the hills, trails, steps and sand. Organize a field trip to a beautiful town like Long Grove, do a power walk, then enjoy a healthy lunch.

7. Get up from your desk or chair at least every 30 minutes. You can include enough activity into your regular workday. According to Thomas Hudgins, M.D., of NorthShore University HealthSystem, “Both the American College of Sports Medicine and the American Heart Association recommend 20-30 minutes of cumulative, moderate physical activity per day. You can achieve this piecemeal throughout the day. Take a brisk walk to and from the train; take the stairs rather than the elevator; or park in the farthest open space from the mall.”

So walk during your morning call or meeting with a coworker, a popular new trend, or try the Divvy bike system.

8. Catch up on your favorite TV shows (hello, “Orange is the New Black!”) while you work your core and legs. Feel good about watching for an hour as you squat, lunge, plank and bridge. Write a checklist and get it done.

9. Set a goal. Maybe you will run your first 5K, lose 10 pounds, workout four times a week, or commit to an eight-week yoga class. A goal will keep you motivated and get you moving.

Make a plan that will get you to your goal, and test yourself along the way.

Dr. Hudgins encourages the use of a pedometer to monitor your steps. For a more comprehensive monitor, check out the new Garmin Vivofit, which can record all your activity this fall.

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BOLTWOOD: PUBLICAN CHEF COMES HOME TO EVANSTON

BY JULIE CHERNOFF

The loss of Lulu’s Dim Sum still stings.

HOWEVER, THE BLOW HAS BEEN softened by the appearance of Boltwood in its stead—a really good restaurant that could prove unstoppable once it hits its stride.

Boltwood is the name of the freshman wing (and favorite cafeteria) at Evanston Township High School, the alma mater of Chef Brian Huston. He has returned to Evanston after a six-year gig as Chef de Cuisine of The Publican in Chicago; this time, it’s in partnership with John Kim of popular local hangout The Brothers K Coffeehouse, as well as his own brother, Brady Huston, and attorney Seth Kaplan.

Not surprisingly, Boltwood has been booked and busy since its June opening. Huston’s reputation as a gifted and inventive chef has definitely preceded him; the buzz has been tremendous, landing them in the pole position on Chicago Magazine’s August “Hot List,” an enviable spot—especially for a suburban restaurant.

The buzz inside the restaurant has been a little too big, at least in terms of noise. The décor is sparse and on the modern side, and there are plenty of hard surfaces, including a wall of floor-to-ceiling windows on

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Davis Street. For the first month of business—including my visits—this meant a nearly deafening roar, with people shouting across the tables to be heard.

They’ve taken a thoughtful approach to the problem, opting for a long-term rather than slapdash solution. They’ve hired a carpenter to create soundabsorbent, insulated upholstered panels and attach them to the ceiling. That’s a big plus.

I’m betting that Boltwood will quickly become a cocktail destination given the quality of the handcrafted beverages we sampled, including the Evanston Sazerac (made with Rittenhouse Rye, demarara sugar, absinthe and local FEW Spirits Malort) and the refreshing Herb Collins (City of London Gin, house-made blackberry-rosemary syrup, and soda water), both $10. Craft beers (including Evanston’s own Temperance Beer) are available on tap as well as by bottle and can. The wine list is not lengthy, but well chosen with a nice range of bottles under $50 (as well as a few above).

Kim runs the front of the house with an easy smile and a desire to please. His affable presence gives a friendly, unpretentious feel to this suburban restaurant with urban aspirations.

Certainly the farm-to-table menu is very of the moment, with many dishes perfect for table sharing.

Evanston’s Hewn Bakery provides the bread for the Fava Bean Toast ($10), two slices laden with mashed fava beans, feta cheese, radish slices and spicy mizuna leaves. The toast could have been crispier for better textural contrast, but it was such a market-fresh dish.

That the ex-Publican chef is a whiz with piggies is not a surprise, but the Italian Sausage ($14) with piquillo pepper and eggplant sofrito was a plump

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and juicy wonder. And the simple but effective batons of Grilled La Quercia Prosciutto-Wrapped Brun-uusto Cheese ($14) were simply addictive (they really didn’t need the drizzle of olive oil; they were rich enough), especially when paired with a sweet-and-sour cherry aigredoux. These are not the same “Cheese Stix” served at the original Boltwood cafeteria, and for that, I am eternally grateful.

The veggie side-dish section proved fertile ground.

Don’t miss the outstanding Crispy Potatoes ($7) with garlic schmaltz (Yiddish for chicken fat), sinfully yummy. As for the Kale Chopped Salad ($8)—yes, I know it’s ubiquitous, but this was a fresh take, with carrots, plump golden raisins and an Asian-accented peanut vinaigrette.

We loved the Gnudi ($14) preparation of brown butter, spring peas, chopped peapods, torn mint and shards of salty Pecorino, although truthfully the texture was more gnocchi than gnudi.

Huston has a deft hand with Grilled Squid ($14), served here with lentils, a tangle of shaved fennel, and arugula. The squid was fork-tender and deeply flavorful. Supposedly the Sand Dabs ($18) are his favorite fish, and tables around us seemed to love it, but unfortunately, they ran out by 7:15 p.m. The Whole Sea Bass ($36) is plenty for two or three to pick at; it’s difficult to dissect but well worth the effort. On one visit, it was stuffed with summer-squash escabeche and pumpkin seeds, although the preparation has since changed.

The Grilled Skirt Steak ($21) was another umamifilled winner, courtesy of the mushroom conserva, grilled onions and romesco sauce. Beefy and delicious.

Desserts could use some attention, although they’ve mastered the ice cream. Try a scoop of the Roasted Chicory and Dandelion Ice Cream ($6) with house-made butter cookies (yum!), or concentrate on the buttermilk ice cream gilding the Blueberry Cornmeal Cobbler ($8), which could’ve done with a bit less dry biscuit and more of the sweet, juicy blueberry concoction beneath. The Black Magic Cake ($8) lacked sparkle, but the Cheese Selection ($5 each/3 for $12), three lovely Midwest cheeses with house-made cracker crisps and local honey, more than made up for it.

Coffee is predictably delicious, given the Brothers K connection. They use a deep, dark blend from Portland, Oregon’s Stumptown Coffee Roasters (one of few nonlocal products here), and it’s available iced ($4), hot ($3), or as a Tableside Coffee Service for two ($12).

The food and service at Boltwood is a far cry from that of its cafeteria namesake. Evanston welcomes Huston back with open arms.

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Guild Hall

BY JULIE CHERNOFF

Brunch. There’s just something about the word that inspires coziness—and calories. Whatever. I’m totally on board.

AND I’M NOT THE ONLY one.

Weekend brunching has become a contact sport throughout Chicago and the North Shore. All-you-can-eat brunch buffet? A thing of the past. SO 10 years ago. This is a brand-new list, people!

These restaurants are doing it right: season-driven, house-made goodies that you will crave at all hours.

But with a mimosa in your hand and a line out the door, noon on a Sunday sounds about right.

615 W. Randolph St. | 312-377-2002 This West Loop star keeps its creative mojo going with Breakfast Paella (with chicken confit, snail boudin, eggs, and tangerine aioli) and Baked Eggs (with roasted peppers, white beans, guanciale, feta and crisp pita). Sip a Harissa Bloody Mary (complete with carrot-shallot pickle) while nibbling a chorizo-stuffed date wrapped in bacon. Sunday brunch from 10 a.m. to 2 p.m.

1227 W. 18th St. | 312-526-3851 This Pilsen newcomer is hot, hot, hot. Whether you’re in the mood for Oyster Hash, a Choucroute Latke (with house garlic sausage…don’t tell your bubbe), or the Marjoram French Toast with coffee crumble, limoncello glaze and homemade blackberry jam, you know you are eating in the moment. They take their “Brunch Libations” seriously here. Opt for the Brunch Punch (gin, orange, lime, clove and sparkling wine) or one of their soon-to-be-famous “Beermosas.”

Open for Brunch at 9 a.m. on Saturday and Sunday.

CARRIAGE HOUSE

NIGHT WOOD

1700 W. Division St. | 773-384-9700 Oooooooh, the Hush Puppies here, served with pimento aioli…perfection. You can never go wrong with Shrimp and Grits, or the Fried Green Tomatoes. This is southern food done absolutely right, especially if it’s accompanied by a big old glass of sweet tea, or for the hard-core bruncher, a Carriage House Red Eye (aged rum, cold-press coffee and crème de cacao). Brunch served Friday, Saturday and Sunday from 10 a.m. to 2 p.m.

2119 S. Halsted St. | 312-526-3385 Filled with do-not-miss items like Chai Custard Donuts, Green Eggs & Ham (over-easy eggs cooked in ramp butter with prosciutto and Wisconsin gruyère sauce on grilled sourdough), Spring Lamb Meatball Grinder and house-made Cherry-Almond Granola, there is no shortage of yummy at this hipster hangout.

Plus, you can sit out on their covered porch. Ah, summer. Sunday brunch from 9 a.m. to 2:30 p.m.

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671 N. St. Clair St. | 312-642-1800 Feeling so very, very Venetian here as I sip my Rossini (fresh strawberry purée, prosecco and rhubarb bitters) and dive into the Scrambled Egg Bruschetta with ricotta and mushrooms, or the Ciabatta French Toast.

It’s all so cosmopolitan, isn’t it? Brunch served Saturday and Sunday, 9:30 a.m. to 3 p.m.

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1954 N. Halsted St.| 773-634-4100 Lettuce Entertain You hits it out of the park— again—with this Lincoln Park stunner. Feel vaguely healthy while chomping your Spinach and Kale Omelette with Wisconsin cheddar, or the Roasted Vegetable Hash with poached eggs and tarragon aioli. Drink an Oatmeal Smoothie, “zero-proof cocktail” or go big with a Sunrise Punch. Open for brunch on Saturday and Sunday at 8 a.m.

THE REFINERY

1209 N. Wells St.| 312-854-2970 I discovered them first at Baconfest, where they served their unbelievable Gnocchi Tots. But Cinnamon Roll Pancakes, Pork-Belly Hash and Chicken N Waffles (with sesame waffles and sriracha, BTW) are also worth the drive to Old Town. Wash it down with a Breakfast Martini (gin, orange marmalade, Cointreau and lemon) and be very pleased with yourself.

Brunch served Saturday and Sunday, starting at 10 a.m.

EVANSTON DIXIE KITCHEN AND BAIT SHOP

825 Church St. | 847-733-9030 Southern classics abound at this downtown Evanston joint. Eggs Sardou, Country Steak ‘n’ Eggs, Dixie Hash with Chicken and the Jambalaya Omelet are all solid offerings. Toss on a few Beignets and order a Louisiana Lemonade (hint: it’s boozy!) and you’re good to go. Brunch served on Saturday and Sunday from 9 a.m. to 2 p.m.

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703 Church St. | 847-492-9700 Hearty brunch foods, locally sourced, are the play here. The Midwestern Fried Rice (with a sunnyside-up farm egg, braised pork shoulder, 10-bean blend, kale and root veggies) is a case in point. The Farmer’s Breakfast (scrambled farm eggs with wilted kale, scallions, wild mushrooms and sharp cheddar; spicy breakfast potatoes, toast and bacon) is another. I love their Hopped Waffles, and the Farmhouse Bloody Mary sports a McClure pickle, beef jerky and cheese curds. Come on, now! Brunch served Saturday and Sunday from 10 a.m. to 3 p.m.

GLENCOE GUILDHALL

694 Vernon Ave. | 847-835-8100 The tiny skillet with a homemade, hot-from-theoven Cinnamon Roll is reason enough for a visit. But in this sunny, light-filled room, everything is yummy.

Like the Lemon and Ricotta Hotcakes with lemon curd and fresh berries, or the Guildhall Eggs Benedict with Nueske’s Canadian bacon, creamed spinach, roasted tomato and hollandaise. But my fave was the Mexican Chorizo and Hominy Hash with salsa verde, fried eggs and picked onions. The Piccola Pesca Bellini (peach purée, prosecco and organic honey) is a winner. Sunday brunch from 10 a.m. to 2 p.m.

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3819 N. Broadway | 773-868-9866 If you don’t love Gale Gand’s Ricotta Doughnuts, you need immediate help—or at least a Dark Chocolate Belgian Waffle with cherries jubilee and brown sugar/sour cream drizzle. Savory more your style? The Chilaquiles, Breakfast Shepherd’s Pie or a decadent Poutine Burger should float your boat. Homemade sodas or a Gin Blossom will complete the picture. Sunday brunch from 10 a.m. to 3 p.m.

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2014 First St. | 847-433-7400 Chilaquiles, Huevos a la Mexicana, and Huevos Rancheros are all muy delicioso at this Mexican standout.

Breakfast Burritos or the Olé Omelette (with chorizo sausage, jalapeño, onions and cheese) are also yummy, as is the Fajita Skillet with hash browns and eggs. Try a Horchata (a rice drink) or Jamaica (made from hibiscus flowers) to drink. Brunch served Sunday from 8 a.m. to 3 p.m.

LAKE FOREST MARKE T HOUSE ON THE SQUARE

655 Forest Ave. | 847-234-8800 Let a Pomegranate Sunrise (tequila, Pama liqueur, OJ and pineapple juice) fuel your Sunday, along with Parker House Griddle Cakes (with candied bacon and maple sugar), Brioche French Toast, and Griddled Ham. Brunch served Sunday from 11 a.m. to 3 p.m.

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7931 Lincoln Ave. | 847-674-8100 This fabulous Latino-centric restaurant now serves brunch, and they have a lovely outdoor space as well. Huevos con Chorizo, the Breakfast Burrito or a Crab Benedict will pair well with a sprightly CitrusThyme Caipririnha (cachaça, citrus, cucumber and thyme). Brunch served Sunday from 10 a.m. to 3 p.m.

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HELP YOURSELF B Y K E L LY K O N R A D

It’s the time of year that everyone—everything—changes. A new school year is in session, the sweaters come out, and the leaves come off.

What better time to embrace the possibility of change in you?

Here are eight great selections worth a read:

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How the World Sees You: Discover Your Highest Value Through the Science of Fascination Sally Hogshead If you’ve ever struggled with the “describe yourself” question in an interview, or if you’ve ever been asked for that dreaded “elevator pitch,” this is the book that will help you figure it out.

Good Manners for Nice People Who Sometimes Say F*ck Amy Alkon Clearly, this author has been spending too much time listening in on my front porch.

And she has a few ideas on how we can re-establish etiquette in the age of smartphones and selfies.

Artist to Artist Eric Carle Museum of Picture Book Art Moms are always looking for ways to sneak in lessons in inspiration—and this book, in which recognizable artists talk about their passion, is a great way for kids to connect with their dreams.

Essentialism: The Disciplined Pursuit of Less Greg McKeown We all know that person—the one that is so busy but never seems to get anything done. If it’s you, this is your read. Here is where you learn to say it with gusto: “no.”

Creativity, Inc.: Overcoming the Unseen Forces That Stand in the Way of True Inspiration Ed Catmull and Amy Wallace Even creative types get stuck for inspiration. For some, there is nothing more paralyzing than a good old-fashioned case of writer’s block. This book offers valuable lessons about creativity and its spark from the folks at Pixar.

I Thought It Was Just Me (But It Isn’t): Making the Journey from “What Will People Think?” to “I Am Enough” Brene Brown If you read “Daring Greatly,” you should really go back and visit some of Brown’s earlier work, which is equally powerful.

There’s freedom found in self-acceptance—a tough concept when we are often our own harshest critics.

Don’t Sweat the Small Stuff (and it’s all Small Stuff) Richard Carlson, Ph.D. Sometimes the easiest and most honest bits of wisdom are right in front of you. Whether it’s the “Don’t Sweat” series or a “Chicken Soup for the Soul” book, read what is right for you.

The Missing Piece Shel Silverstein A great book to read with your kids, not at your kids. We’re all searching for something to complete us. Who says you can’t learn a thing or two about selfesteem from a kids’ book?

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BACK TO LIFE

BACK TO REALITY B Y VA L H A L L E R O F VA L S L I S T

“BACK TO SCHOOL” MEANS SO much more than new shoes and school supplies—it means back to work. Grownups and kids alike experience it.

Buckle down. Get organized. Be disciplined. Stay focused. After a summer of fun, some are ready for it, and others begrudge it.

But no need to panic; for young or old, right-brained or left, music has become the universal “focus medicine.”

You’ll know the right vibe when you hear it. Ambient or electronic, slow tempo or low volume...for many, having chill music during work time is just enough distraction to focus on the project at hand. It definitely works for me. As for the rest of the world, just ask the ear-budded majority—if you can get them to look up from their keyboard.

When I was younger I needed absolute silence to read or concentrate on homework. I’m not sure when or how that changed, but now I prefer to write with music in the background. OK, I depend on it. And that’s not a bad thing.

Here’s a suggested playlist to work to: 1. “If You Wait” by London Grammar 2. “Bully” by Cat Power 3. “Come Down In Time” by Elton John 4. “Drive All Night” by Amy Speace 5. “Sunspot” by Moby 6. “I’ll Never Forget You” by Birdy 7. “Healed” by Lia Ices

8. “Into White” by Cat Stevens 9. “Hear Me Out” by Frou Frou 10. “Hold On, I’m Coming” by Bird York 11. “Poor Boy” by Blind Pilot 12. “Holocene” by Bon Iver 13. “Another Sleep Song” by Graham Nash 14. “The Lime Tree” by Trevor Hall 15. “Don’t Let It Pass” by Junip

SEPTEMBER SHOWS NOT TO MISS: SEPTEMBER 4 & 5

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MOODY BLUES at Ravinia (flashback)

POMPLAMOOSE at Lincoln Hall (girls night out)

LAKE STREET DIVE - at new!

Thalia Hall (date night)

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JOSHUA JAMES at SPACE Evanston (indie rock)

SAM SMITH at Riviera (great show)

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THEATERGUIDE Chicago Shakespeare Theatre “Since I Suppose” Through September 21 312-595-5600 | chicagoshakes.com

NEW THEATER

Isaac’s Eye  September 2 – December 7 | Writers Theatre at Books on Vernon, 664 Vernon Ave., Glencoe | 847-242-6000 | writerstheatre.org While Writers Theatre builds a new Tudor Court venue designed by star architect Jeanne Gang, it will stage two shows this season in its 50-seat space at Books on Vernon—plus a site-specific production of “Doubt” next spring at Glencoe Union Church. The season starts with this Midwest premiere of Lucas Hnath’s quirky play about the young Isaac Newton. We’re told that the characters will be writing incontrovertible scientific facts in chalk on the walls during this show, which is directed by this justly acclaimed theater’s guiding light, Michael Halberstam.

King Lear September 9 – November 9 | Chicago Shakespeare Theater, 800 E. Grand Ave., Chicago 312-595-5600 | chicagoshakes.com Larry Yando is one of the most consistently interesting and exciting actors in Chicago, with roles including a recurring turn as Scrooge in the Goodman Theatre’s “A Christmas Carol” and an exceedingly acerbic husband in “The Dance of Death” this past spring at Writers’ Theatre. Now, he’s taking on one of the biggest theatrical roles of them all, starring as the aging, beleaguered monarch in Shakespeare’s “King Lear.” Chicago Shakes’ artistic director, Barbara Gaines, is directing this can’t-miss drama The Commons of Pensacola September 12 – October 19 | Northlight Theatre, 9501 Skokie Blvd., Skokie | 847-6736300 | northlight.org Movie and TV star Amanda Peet made her debut as a playwright last year with this story about a woman who’s cut off from her luxurious lifestyle after her husband commits financial crimes. (Think Bernie Madoff, or Woody Allen’s “Blue Jasmine.”) The New York Times praised Peet’s script, saying that she “writes easily flowing dialogue, laced with biting humor and a brash streak of vulgarity.”

Northlight landed the Midwest premiere of this comic drama, starring Barbara Kingsley, whose credits include the Broadway and national touring productions of “August: Osage County.”

The Night Alive September 18 – November 16 | Steppenwolf Theatre, 1650 N. Halsted St., Chicago | 312-335-1650 | steppenwolf.org This is the newest drama by Ireland’s Conor McPherson, who has written some of the most compelling plays of recent years, including “The Weir,” “Shining City” and “The Seafarer.” Steppenwolf regulars Ian Barford, Francis Guinan and Tim Hopper star in this tale about a down-on-his-luck moocher who defends a destitute woman against a violent attack. During its New York run, the Hollywood Reporter called it “a captivating play rich in tenderness.”

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Court Theatre “Native Son” September 11 – October 12 773-753-4472 | courttheatre.org Goodman Theatre “The World of Extreme Happiness” (in the Owen) September 13 – October 12 312-443-3800 | goodmantheatre.org House Theatre (at the Chopin) “Season on the Line” September 12 – October 26 773-769-3832 | thehousetheatre.com Lifeline Theatre “Jane Eyre” September 5 – October 26 773-761-4477 | lifelinetheatre.com Lookingglass Theatre “Death Tax” Opens September 2 312-337-0665 | lookingglasstheatre.org Marriott Theatre “On the Town” Through October 12 847-634-0200 | marriotttheatre.com Piccolo Theatre “Smash” Through October 11 847-424-0089 | piccolotheatre.com TimeLine Theatre (at Stage 773) “My Name Is Asher Lev” August 22 – October 18 773-281-8463 | timelinetheatre.com Victory Gardens Theatre “Rest” September 12 – October 12 773-871-3000 | victorygardens.org

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FALL INTO

Citadel Theatre “Deathtrap” September 5 – October 5 847-735-8554 | citadeltheatre.org

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B Y C H R I S D E AV E R

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GI V E T H I NGS

PREVENT HEART DISEASE Gaples Institute for Integrative Cardiology 312-695-4965 | gaplesinstitute.org The Gaples Institute for Integrative Cardiology educates people about the importance of nutrition and lifestyle changes to prevent heart disease. They hold national lectures for professional groups and communities, in addition to training seminars for health care professionals. Their extensive web-based resources empower people and physicians with essential health resources and information, including exercise and mental health tips. Sign up for their monthly newsletter to receive more information and attend events in your area. As you begin this process, consult with your health care provider before making any major health decisions. Monetary donations can be made online at gaplesinstitute.org.

IMPROVE HEALTH AROUND THE WORLD Hospital Sisters Mission Outreach 708-496-3900 | mission-outreach.org Hospital Sisters Mission Outreach helps to address the health care needs of people around the world. They respond to those in need by supplying medical supplies and providing education and awareness opportunities to improve future health. For every $1 that is donated, $6 of medical equipment is shipped to institutions in need, and up to $500 can fund an education program at a hospital. With over $35 million worth of supplies shipped worldwide, Mission Outreach has become a reliable and premium health care provider. To donate, visit mission-outreach. org, where you will also find volunteer opportunities.

HELP YOUTHS THROUGH SOCCER Family Service Center 847-432-4981 | famservice.org The Family Service Center works to strengthen families and individuals to help them succeed in relationships and within their communities. They sponsor a Highland Park/Highwood Community Soccer League that brings families together with the help of Highland Park High School students and volunteers within the area. Volunteers and coaches are needed on Sundays from 8 a.m. to 2 p.m., November through March at Highland Park High School. Support these youth teams and help them succeed in their endeavors. For more information, contact ghodges@fsslc.org.

PROTECT CHILDREN FROM NEGLECT CASA Lake County 847-383-6260 | casalakecounty.com CASA works to protect children who are victims of abuse and neglect. After 40 hours of training, you will be given the opportunity to directly change a child’s life. As you work on an assigned case next to a CASA Advocate Manager, you will visit the child and assist with their health care and educational needs and serve as their voice in the juvenile court system. With your help, you can ensure that these children will not endure the struggles of an over-burdened foster care system, and you will be given the opportunity to fight for their best interests. For more information, contact Joanie Bayhack at jbayhack@casalakecounty.com.

EMPOWER WOMEN TO PROMOTE PEACE YWCA Lake County 847-662-4247 | ywcalakecounty.org YWCA Lake County empowers women and helps them to become economically independent and self-sufficient. Various volunteer opportunities are available for a one-time service project, commitment on a regular basis or service for an extended period of time. Future volunteer positions are available in many categories: youth leadership and development, women’s economic advancement, women’s and girls’ health, and child care referral. Become a member and join a network of over 25 million women and girls, which has not wavered over the years. Monetary donations can be made online at ywcalakecounty.org.

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APPRECIATION FOR THE ARTS Lyric Opera 312-827-5600 | lyricopera.org Lyric Opera of Chicago is one of the world’s greatest opera companies and provides audiences with visually spectacular productions. In addition to performances, Lyric’s education department provides arts education for Chicago-area children and adults to cultivate a lifelong appreciation of opera. A Lyric Young Professionals membership also gives people ages 21-45 a chance to network and enjoy unique social events. To ensure that opera continues to thrive, visit lyricopera.org to donate and receive multiple donor benefits. The revelatory power of great art can’t be undervalued and deserves to stay in Chicago.

FIGHT POVERTY IN CHICAGO Chicago Lights 312-981-3385 | chicagolights.org Chicago Lights provides hope and opportunity for youth and adults living in poverty. They offer numerous programs, including tutoring sessions and summer camps to help youths strive academically, as well as service centers that encourage stability and self-sufficiency. In addition, the program also provides a weekly community meal, bag lunches three times a week, support groups and street outreach. In-kind donations such as pens, pencils, reading books, deodorant, toothpaste and clothing are needed to help keep the program running. Monetary donations can be made online. For more information, visit chicagolights.org.

SUPPORT FAMILIES AND THE COMMUNITY Family Network: A Family Focus Center 847-433-0377 | family-focus.org Family Network, a Family Focus Center, supports children from birth and strengthens families within their community. Their Parent/Child Center gives families a place to connect with one another and assists them through the challenging job of raising a child. They have additional programs, including after-school services and a program serving Latino Communities in Highland Park and Highwood. In-kind donations are greatly appreciated and include furniture, toys and books in good condition, as well as art supplies. Monetary donations can be made on the Family Network website. For more information, visit familynetworkcenter.org.

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GI V E T H I NGS PROMOTE FOOTBALL’S VALUES Pro Football Hall of Fame 330-456-8207 | profootballhof.com The Pro Football Hall of Fame honors the heroes of the game, preserves the game’s history and strives to celebrate excellence everywhere.

The Hall of Fame has created youth and education programs to inspire critical thinking and created the Get Fit Training Camp to encourage good nutrition and physical fitness. They also fund school field trips and youth football and offer a black history program addressing the African-American experience in football. You can support the Hall of Fame by donating any football memorabilia, or monetary donations can be made online. Help preserve a program that has promoted courage and fair play. For more information, visit profootballhof.com.

GI V E SU PP ORT TREAT MENTAL HEALTH Turning Point Behavioral Center 847-933-0051 | tpoint.org Turning Point Behavioral Center responds to mental health emergencies in the Niles, Northfield and New Trier townships. They provide psychiatric services for youths under 18 and psychosocial rehabilitation for adults. Turning Point provides expert care, regardless of one’s financial resources, and takes patients through their Recovery Model, a foundation for a successful journey towards recovery. In-kind donations are greatly appreciated and include office furniture, computers and office supplies, and monetary donations can be made on the Turning Point website.

Donations are vital in sustaining the level of treatment that the program provides. For more information, visit tpoint.org.

PROMOTE MENTAL ILLNESS AWARENESS National Alliance on Mental Illness 703-524-7600 | nami.org The National Alliance on Mental Illness is the world’s largest grassroots mental health organization, helping millions of Americans affected by mental illness. They provide nine signature education programs and public awareness events, including NAMIWalks and Mental Illness Awareness Week (MIAW) to encourage understanding and successfully combat stigma. To help one in four Americans who will be affected by mental illness, you can donate on the NAMI website or volunteer for the organization. In-kind and monetary donations are accepted. For more information, visit nami.org.

HELP YOUNG ADULTS WITH DISABILITIES Center for Independent Futures 847-328-2044 | independentfutures.com The Center for Independent Futures works to give those with mental disabilities all the benefits and opportunities of a full life. They have launched programs with Chicago Public Schools and have created an internship program with colleges such as Northwestern University and University of Chicago. Their hard work and training methods have helped to support a network of independent living for their clients and have helped ease students’ transition from high school. In order to create new

solutions and renewed communities, monetary donations can be made on the Independent Futures website. In-kind donations are also always accepted. For more information, visit independentfutures.com.

SUPPORT KIDS WITH AUTSIM Have Dreams 847-905-0702 | havedreams.org Have Dreams helps those with autism to improve learning abilities and independent skills to reach their full potential.

They provide after-school programs in addition to family and professional programs for over 140 children and families in the Park Ridge and Evanston areas. The program has also created the Sean Kelly Scholarship Fund, which provides financial aid for families who can’t afford beneficial programs such as Have Dreams. The organization has many volunteer opportunities, and monetary donations can be made on the Have Dreams website. For more information, visit havedreams.org.

SHARE SCIENCE WITH THE CHICAGO COMMUNITIES Adler Planetarium 312-922-7827 | adlerplanetarium.org Adler Planetarium serves diverse audiences and encourages the understanding of space exploration. They hold programs and fundraising events such as the Meteor Shower Star Party and Astro-Overnights, a night under the stars for young children and their families. Volunteers are needed to work directly with visitors or behind the scenes to help spread the excitement of space exploration. Monetary donations are also accepted on the Adler Planetarium website, where you can view a list of corporate sponsors. For more information, visit adlerplanetarium.org to help keep the fun of science alive and growing.

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SHOWN IN PHOTOS: (1) Pat and Patsy Callahan of Winnetka; (2) Jack Hanna with Event Co-Chair Cindy Galvin of Winnetka; (3) Television host and Director Emeritus of the Columbus Zoo and Aquarium Jack Hanna with Kim Louis Stewart, formerly of Winnetka (4) Kelly Golden of Winnetka, Sue Graunke of Barrington and Cindy Rourke of Glenview; (5) ARKive offers free education resources and events for children ages 5 to 18 to promote conservation, education and public awareness.

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Annual Benefit June 19, 2014 Racquet Club, Chicago $107,000 raised

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Goldfish Ball June 7, 2014 Shedd Aquarium, Chicago $1.67 million raised SHOWN IN PHOTOS: (1 ) Shedd Auxiliary Board Chairman David Trace and Samantha Trace of Lake Forest; (2) Shedd Trustee Bruce Lee of Hinsdale, Gala Chair Sandi Simon, of Chicago, and Shedd Trustees Mary Smith and Stephen Byron Smith, both of Barrington; (3) Shedd Trustee Kym Hubbard of Chicago, Megan Satherlie, Graham Satherlie and Darrell Hubbard of Chicago; (4) The Shedd brings people closer to nature.

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Calling all nonprofit organizations!

Nominate your favorite nonprofit for our 2014 Make It Better Philanthropy Awards!

Nominations are available online through September 15th.

To nominate your favorite nonprofit visit ď ľ MAKEITBETTER.NET/PHILANTHROPY-AWARDS

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SHOWN IN PHOTOS: (1) Chicago Park District Director of Conservatories Mary Eysenbach and Garfield Park Conservatory Alliance President Eunita Rushing, both of Chicago.; (2) Casey Herman, Leigh Ann Herman, Ken Moll and Event Host Committee member Mary Claire Moll, all of Chicago; (3) Paul Labonne of Darien, Jensen Club Award honoree Anne Pramaggiore of Barrington and Board of Directors member Cornell Barnett of Chicago; (4) IMPACT: Garfield Park Conservatory strengthens the community by engaging members in innovative and educational programs.

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1st to Play July 11, 2014 Wilmette Golf Club, Wilmette $30,000+ raised SHOWN IN PHOTOS: (1) Jamie Locke, Head PGA Professional; (2) Bob and Cathy Pratt of Wilmette; (3) Board members of The Ouilmette Foundation: Holly Gilson, Cathy Pratt, Amy Wolfe, Steve Wilson (Executive Director of the Wilmette Park District), Seth Martin, James Egan and Tom Nathan (President); (4) View of the pond from the 17th hole of the newly remodeled Wilmette Golf Course.

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Fleurotica June 12, 2014 Garfield Park Conservatory $100,000 raised

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Bernie’s Book Bank Bernie’s Book Bank’s mission is to significantly increase book ownership among at-risk infants, toddlers and school-age children thoughout the Chicago area by collecting, processing and redistributing new and gently used children’s books.  watch our video: makeitbetter.net/awards2013

 give and volunteer: berniesbookbank.org

28101 BALLARD DRIVE, LAKE FOREST 847.780.7323 • BERNIESBOOKBANK.ORG

Midwest Palliative Hospice & CareCenter Midwest Palliative’s mission is to provide high-quality, compassionate care through hospice and palliative care services to patients and their families in 150 communities in the Chicago area. They aim to bring both comfort and meaning to the end-of-life experience by respecting patients’ religious, cultural and personal choices and by helping them achieve their goals.  watch our video: makeitbetter.net/awards2013

 give and volunteer: carecenter.org

2050 CLAIRE COURT, GLENVIEW 847.467.7423 • CARECENTER.ORG

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It was a tough competition, but if you ask contestant Stephanie Goldfarb, she’ll tell you it was the latkes that sealed her victory.

IN THE FIRST ROUND OF Food Network’s “America’s Best Cook,” which pits home cooks against each other for the eponymous title, Goldfarb, of Chicago,

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brought out the big guns: a bone-in strip steak and a side of her mother’s famed potato latkes.

“I’ve been cooking since I was 6,” says the Midwestern transplant and Arizona native. “I grew up in a big Jewish family, and everyone was always hungry. My mother is an incredible cook. She taught me about how to make food taste good—not just how to cook well, but how to cook flavor out of ingredients.”

“That’s her latke recipe. I only know how to make them one way.”

Goldfarb, the Program Director of Youth Philanthropy and Leadership at the Jewish United Fund/ Jewish Federation of Metropolitan Chicago, was one of 16 home cooks selected to compete on the Food Network program, which premiered in April. Four renowned Food Network stars—Cat Cora, Alex Guarnaschelli, Michael Symon and Tyler Florence— representing four different regions of the country, selected their team of two home cooks to battle through a succession of difficult tasks. Goldfarb represented the North region and was mentored by Cincinnati’s Michael Symon, a James Beard Foundation Award-

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winning chef.

“I didn’t think I would last one day on the show,” she says. “Once I got my hands on ingredients and was in the kitchen, it was like all of that lack of confidence sort of melted away. I cooked my heart out.”

After six grueling episodes, Goldfarb seized the crown with her chipotle and butternut squash soup topped with a poblano-filled pot sticker. Goldfarb’s delight was palpable to at-home viewers.

“I was in disbelief,” she says. “I couldn’t believe that Bobby Flay said my name. But then I looked at Michael Symon, and he was freaking out, and I knew it was real.” As a result of her win, Goldfarb brought home $50,000 and certifiable name recognition.

Since early 2013, Goldfarb has hosted a supper club, the Seven Species Supper Club, out of her home in Edgewater. Proceeds benefit the Chicago Women’s Health Center, a provider of comprehensive and affordable health care for women and trans people in Chicago. The twice-monthly supper clubs now have waiting lists, as individuals vie to taste Goldfarb’s award-winning creations. While her creations are always vegetarian, Goldfarb, a self-defined “recovering vegetarian,” will prepare meat on request. Her education on the Food Network has improved her technique with meat, instilling within her greater confidence.

Seven Species is Goldfarb’s passion project. “It combines social work and philanthropic work and cooking and entertaining all into one package,” Goldfarb says. “It’s an awesome platform for me to do the kind of work I want to do, and it ultimately leads to

feeding people good food and supporting causes that really do matter.”

In the months since her crowning, not much has changed. She bought a pasta crank, and an ice-cream maker she’d long had her eye on, but the fire is still there. She hasn’t sold out, not on her passion for cooking, or on her spirited work in social justice. She’s returned renewed to her job as a social worker at the JUF, where she is preparing to launch two exciting new programs for Jewish teens.

The first, Voices: The Chicago Jewish Teen Foundation, positions teens as philanthropists. A group of 25 high school students work together as a philanthropic foundation to allocate $25,000 to worthy endeavors. “(The teens) learn how to do it through the lens of Jewish values,” Goldfarb says. “They really learn the ins and outs of philanthropy: how to read budgets, how to do community-needs research. They become philanthropists by the end of the year.”

The other program, the Research Training Internship (RTI), is a paid 14-month internship for young Jewish women. JUF collaborates with DePaul University to meet with the interns to discuss race, class, gender, power and privilege and provide training on academic research methodologies. The end result will be a research report on what it means to be a Jewish girl.

And as for her prize money? “I’m cautious to use it,” she says. “I can’t believe it’s mine!”

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