so that my children felt safe and comfortable,” she said. She suggested that parents ask about discipline policies and strategies: What happens to a child if he hits another child? What if a child bullies another child, verbally or physically? Parents should discuss concerns about discipline and family values with the director to ensure their wishes are respected. Finding a Fit If you think you are alone in the search for an after-school program, you’re not. According to the Afterschool Alliance, in 2009, 8.4 million K-12 children in the U.S. participated in afterschool programs. The search for the perfect fit begins at home. Parents and children should discuss their needs and available centers. Brand suggested asking friends, too. “Other parents will know the pros and cons of the local programs,” she said. “Contacting the school where the child will attend is also a good start. Schools will usually keep a list of which centers or individuals provide transportation to and from school.” More important, parents and their children should visit the center, take a tour and bring a list of questions. “I also encourage parents to ask the same questions of the director and the teacher in the classroom,” Brand said. “Getting different answers is a red flag.” Following each visit, ask your child what she liked and didn’t like. “If they are able to tell you things they liked, such as friends they knew from school or a particular play center, that’s good,” Brand said. “If they are able to tell you several things they disliked, such as the noise, the smell or a teacher who yells, that’s a definite red flag.” In the end, parents must choose an after-school program that feels right for the entire family. “You have to go with your gut and remember that no program is perfect,” Raff said. “Focus on safety, cleanliness and the very real option for your child to have fun.” 88
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Care Centers vs. At-Home Baby Sitters
Although after-school programs at local centers or your child’s school may provide an opportunity for your child to socialize, many parents opt for in-home baby sitters. In-home care is more individualized and personalized, said psychologist Svetlana Ravinovich. Your child will receive one-on-one attention and care in an environment he is familiar with. “Parents do have a direct connection with the sitter and complete control over dietary issues and activities,” Ravinovich said. However, Ravinovich warned that finding a sitter you can trust is often a challenge. “It can be a risk,” she said. “Get referrals from friends, family and other parents.” Kilkenny County Childcare Committee will provide information on Childcare facilities in the county. Center-based programs also have more children and more opportunities for your child to make friendships and practice social skills, Ravinovich said. “Some kids need more practice beyond lunch or recess at school to socialize,” she said. “Centers can build on their interests and give them the skills to work with others.”