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The wedding season is upon us and that’s a big deal, even to those that like to take things casually. It’s also true that for many more men than women the task of putting together the right attire for this occasion is numbing. This is not hard to do if you follow some basic rules and we’ve put together some tips so you can concentrate on enjoying the festivities. The most important thing you need to remember is that a suit is the cornerstone of men’s wedding attire, whether a tuxedo or one for everyday use. The one you should wear will depend on the type of wedding. If you are not in the wedding party and are unsure, the look of the invitation will probably tell you. One on nice paper with regular lettering usually indicates a traditional wedding where a basic suit is fine. Whereas, a foiled invitation, detailed script and evening ceremony indicate that it is formal. If this is not stated on the invitation you should inquire. Before we go into more detail about your individual look, you should also want to coordinate your look with your spouse or the person who will accompany you for one 2 pleasing picture. Once you have decided on your wardrobe, it’s an easy fix – just choose a tie that matches or complements one of the colors in their garment and you’re done. Of course, if you choose to wear a classic tuxedo ensemble it will go with everyone’s outfit. Now, for the guidelines to follow: Black Tie/Black Tie Optional Wedding Most often you will need a basic tuxedo. Large department stores sell them at prices that suit their customer base. If you choose not to invest in one, a rental is a recommended option. Remember to select one at least two (2) weeks in advance to ensure size availability and adequate alteration time to avoid rush charges. If you are in the wedding party, make sure to rent it from the same store as the rest of the attendants because there can be obvious variations. A tuxedo also requires that it is accessorized with a tuxedo shirt, cufflinks, bow tie and vest or bow tie and cummerbund (a sash worn around the waist) or a long tie and vest. This needn’t be challenging at all. Any store that sells or rents tuxedos has these items and staff that will get all the parts together for the look you desire. You may also choose to wear a black suit in lieu of a tuxedo. This being the case, it is better to have a sophisticated no-frills look wearing a white shirt, often a French cuff and one requiring cuff links, giving it a more formal look and a black or silver bow or long tie. Basic Traditional Wedding The majority of today’s weddings fall in this category and, as mentioned earlier, a suit is the foundation for proper attire. We cannot overstate the value of a basic dark suit in black, navy or charcoal gray for an adult male. Yes, you may have to purchase your first for the wedding but it will come in handy for many occasions and for many years. The style you choose should depend on the regularity you will wear it, body type, style sense and budget. There are more types to choose from than ever as men are embracing fashion more and more. (Tip: A two-button suit stays in fashion and a light-weight wool fabric works for all seasons.) A white shirt is always appropriate, looks great under a dark suit and can be worn with any color or pattern tie. Unless you’re going to a very casual wedding, for instance guests are asked to wear flip flops, a tie is essential. It signifies the importance and respect for which you take the ceremony. However, your outfit needn’t be stuffy. How about wearing a colorful bow tie for something unexpected? A colored shirt instead of a white one can also work. You also want to wear nice shoes and a narrow belt and if you’re in tropical heat you can wear a linen or cotton suit. Now, men we’ve got you covered – dress to impress and have a good time.
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