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IN THE LIGHT SUMMER 2013 | Issue No. 5 EDITORIAL Editor-in-Chief
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EDITOR’S LETTER “Follow me, and I will make you fishers of men.” When Jesus told the disciples “go into all the world and preach the gospel,” the disciples took his words literally. They traveled to foreign lands to teach people about Christ and share the message of salvation. But in today’s era, preaching the Gospel has been modernized to a fresh approach called “the online pulpit.” For instance, many churches have websites in which members and nonmembers alike can stream live Sunday worship services. A typical evangelism track is now an eCard or eNewsletter. And at a recent Bible study I attended, when instructed to “pull out your Bibles” everyone reached for a tablet, eReader, or cell phone. While the online pulpit does not replace street evangelism, it has become a valuable resource for the church. In essence, the internet has allowed the church to grow upon its previously established ministries and expand its reach (we talk about this on page 27). Samuel Gali, in our cover story on page 18, agrees saying social media – and especially Youtube – has opened an avenue for him to share worship music to an untapped audience; one he didn’t necessarily plan to attract. Gali isn’t alone either. In the short two years we have been doing Proverbs & Wisdom, we’ve encountered people from all walks of faith who read our messages. One person commented on our Facebook page, “I’m Buddhist. I normally wouldn’t have sought out anything regarding Christianity, but my friend shared your message on her Facebook page. I saw it, checked it out, and now I’m following your website too.” Similarly, we received a message via twitter asking for some guidance from a Christian converted atheist who was rethinking that choice. So while the argument may be true that we aren’t physically going out into the world, the world is hearing about Jesus loud and clear. Believers of all ages are turning to Facebook, Twitter, and the good ole email inbox to share their faith. On a survey we conducted with our readership, 99% of surveyors said they use digital media to share the Gospel (see the full survey results on page 33). The way we see it, the internet is here to stay. The digital revolution is only advancing. Businesses are molding their marketing plans around it. Non-profits, like charity: water say the internet is helping them to end the global water crisis (page 17). And if almost every sector of corporations and institutions can use technology for the “greater good,” so can the Body of Christ. Here at IN THE LIGHT Magazine, we experienced how using the “online pulpit” can lead to the physical pulpit. Early last month I was invited to speak to a congregation in North Carolina at a church I had never attended. I barely knew anyone – with the exception of one person: a subscriber of ours. After reading our content and being a part of our community, she invited me to speak at her church. So, on a plane I went. The speaking engagement was blessed and in turn, more people were informed of the message we share in our magazine. There’s much to understand about the digital aspect of our lives. For most believers, it isn’t so much about getting people to “like” and “follow” Jesus as if they were on Facebook, but to share the message of salvation — just as generations before us did. Today, however, it’s just being done using a more innovative method. Blessings in Christ,
Ashley Ormon | Editor-In-Chief
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Contents ineveryissue Editor’s Note The Reader’s Voice Conversation INTERVIEW
HAPPENINGS
12 | Ministry in the Digital Era
24 | Saying “I do” to You
Q & A on how digital media helps churches advance God’s Kingdom
Entrepreneurs learn how to “marry themselves”
14 | A Funky, funny story
One woman relates being locked out her home to waiting on God
Silent Voices WORLD VIEW 17 | The Global Water Crisis Thousands are dying from drinking dirty water. But, we can change that.
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CHURCH VIEW
22 | Stepping into Our Calling A married couple share their call together in ministry
Features THE CHURCH EVOLVES
THE POLLS
27 | The Changing Face of Ministry
33 | Modern Christians How Christians are using social media
How the church has evolved from our grandparentsâ&#x20AC;&#x2122; time to ours
MINISTRY GUIDE 30 | Which ministry? A ministry guide for encouragement, and applying our faith
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C ov e r Stor y 18 | Samuel GalĂ: Healing through Music
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A gifted musician who once performed with major secular artists decides to use his music to heal lives
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The Reader’s Voice. YOU SPEAK. WE LISTEN.
Readers, share your thoughts with us at magazine@proverbsnwisdom.com
ON OUR 1ST ANNIVERSARY: “Superb... Glory to God, keep on going strong.” —Kingsley James “CONGRATULATIONS! Wishing you more supernatural SUCCESS.” —Ruby Taylor
Our anniversary issue of IN THE LIGHT made headlines! JesusReport.com featured our article: “Voice for the Orphans: Speaking Up for Neglected and Abandoned Children”. The article strives to give a voice to the thousands of children who so desperately need to be heard.
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Our magazine went global with our past issue reaching all the way to India. The SHINE CHILDREN’s group in India came together to pray for our magazine, and held a birthday celebration for our editor as a “thank you” for shedding light on orphans and spreading the news of Jesus Christ. Thank you, SHINE CHILDREN!
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CONVERSATION
serge roux-levrat on ministry in the digital era
Serge Roux-Levrat is the Principal Ambassador of SRL Ministries and the author of many best selling Christian books, such as Make Your Life Worth Living and A New Beginning: 4 Weeks To A Great Marriage. He stayed seven years in what he calls God’s detoxification clinic. There, the unconditional, unfaltering love of God changed his whole life, mindset, and priorities. He has been happily married for 17 years and has two wonderful children.
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For SRL Ministries, what vision do you hold in your heart? To help people enjoy the abundant life that Jesus Christ died to give them. Too few Christians live such a life and this is a tragedy for us. We also want unbelievers to become more spiritually aware so that they can hear the Holy Spirit that is trying to speak to them. We want them to find out that Jesus is the only way to God, and thus to true love.
Your ministry has several branches – allowing people from various nations and languages to hear about God’s love. How did this begin? When I fully realized years ago (long before SRL Ministries was born) what it meant that God had created only one body: the Body of Christ. Hence, it is our duties to reach out to all Christians, regardless of the denominations that they are currently planted in. Each denomination has a better understanding of some of the truths contained in the Bible than the others, but no denomination has a full knowledge of all the spiritual truths. What should unite all denominations is God’s love. And that means we should be able to work with all denominations that recognize Jesus as their Lord and Savior. We have to be tolerant and patient with each other, so that the body of Christ can be successful in its evangelizing mission.
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What new opportunities has digital media brought to the physical aspects of the church?
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Many in fact! It enables churches, for instance, to think through carefully what discipleship means in the digital age. In my opinion, churches should encourage their members to become and view themselves as digital disciples also. It is a view that empowers church members, helps them grow as love agents, and help improve others. It is also very good for their spiritual well-being.
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Do you have a favorite scripture, or life verse?
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Several in fact. However, today I will quote just James 1:22; “Do not merely listen to the Word, and so deceive yourselves. Do what it says.”
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What impact has social media had on you in ministry? Social media can implement the vision of a church or ministry like ours. They [social media] provide visibility for our ministry and enable us to reach out to and serve people we would otherwise not be in contact with. What Christian leaders must realize is that today, regardless of age, we are increasing in social networking, which is a very good thing. It helps people get confronted to key spiritual truths that they would not necessarily have been exposed to before. And as we know, truths set people free, which is essential if they are to powerfully assume their roles within the Body of Christ. Social media goes also a long way in promoting dialogue, deepening the level of engagement with our ministry, winning new people for Christ, and helping to deepen people’s faith. Finally, it helps us empower people and encourage them to become the great persons that God intended them to be. Our contents invite them to move into action and spread God’s love within their families and circles of friends. In many ways, we complement the work of the local churches they belong to. This is the power that being united releases: flows of love that Satan and his evil servants cannot stop.
“Churches should encourage their members to become and view themselves as digital disciples also.”
“We have to be tolerant and patient with each other, so that the body of Christ can be successful in its evangelizing mission.”
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Are there any special memories you’ll always have in ministry? Yes, when God’s love finally penetrates into a human heart. When this happens, you see a person becoming (spiritually) alive. There is no greater joy for me than being able to contribute to such a new birth as it marks the beginning of a life of victories for the persons concerned.
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Besides the message of grace, love and forgiveness, what do you want to tell Christians?
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We want Christians to know that God has empowered them to create the life that they dream about, that it is they who decide the level of abundance that they enjoy, and that they can do anything they want as long as their motives are rooted in God’s love.
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CONVERSATION
brenda k. hendricks on writing, and trusting God
Author and illustrator, Brenda K. Hendricks uses her B.S. in Biblical Theology to teach children of all ages. She maintains two blogs: Brenda K. Hendricks which features her artwork, and a blog designed to encourage and humor: My Quotes of Encouragement. She is also the author illustrator of What’s the Buzz, Bumbly Bee? and What’s Better than That, Seren Dippity? Both are available on Amazon.com. As part of her ministry, Brenda blends her artistic talent and her “gift to gab” to enhance the learning experience at women’s events.
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How did you begin your journey writing in the Christian genre? Years ago, I wrote stories, puppet skits, and mini sermons for our church. Eventually, God sent a writer into my life via her dog. She invited me to a writers’ critique group where I learned the art of writing. Unlike so many authors who wanted to write from the time they could hold a pencil, I had no clue. I thought pencils were for drawing pictures. To this day, my friend and I don’t know how we got on the subject of writing that day. But God had a plan.
As the recipient of the Proverbs & Wisdom Award, which focuses on writers who “encourage,” what is your one encouragement to us all? I know it’s a cliché, but never give up. Use the talents God has given you in whatever compacity He provides. The rest is up to Him. It may look as though we touch only a few people, but remember the ripple effect. We touch two people. They each touch two more people. Soon, millions have been touched by God’s word. But it has to start somewhere…why not with you?
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How has social media and the “digital life” helped you spread the Good News?
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Social media and the “digital life” have opened doors for most of us that would have never opened otherwise. We can reach people all over the world with God’s word without leaving our homes. That’s pretty awesome for a homebody like me. I have been amazed at the responses I receive from my blog. Not that I have many readers, but occasionally, a message comes from across the country or across the ocean; and God’s word blesses us both through the sharing of our faith.
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Are you working on any projects: new books, or something of the like?
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I’m in the process of marketing a speculative fiction titled Before Dawn Breaks and an inspirational for creatives named The Creator in Us. I have a short story coming out at either the end of the year or the beginning of 2014. It will published as Darkness Before Dawn and my third and fourth children’s picture books, You Want to What, Nibs Rabbit? and Much More to Christmas should be out before Christmas.
There’s always a funky story to tell, right? Here’s one of mine…sadly true. Exhilarated and exhausted from a writers’ conference, I felt the I-want-to-be-in-my-own-house mode strike about fifteen miles from home. After my friend and I piled my luggage on the front porch, and said our good-byes, I discovered the house was locked up as tight as a frightened turtle’s shell. With no other choice, I decided to try my hand at lock picking. MacGyver made it look so easy…for him maybe. Panic time! Then I saw it – my way in. Someone had left the kitchen window open a couple of inches. If I could push the screen in, I could raise the storm window and then the inside window. Wiggling through the eighteen-inch opening didn’t seem like a problem. However, hoisting my over-the-hill, five-foot, three-inch body up four and a half feet to the window seemed just a tad ridiculous. Spider woman I’m not. I spied a ten-gallon flowerpot full of soil on the little deck. I worked it up the step and under the window. After a few inconceivable maneuvers, I sat in the kitchen sink. A little tattered and thankful the neighbor didn’t see me and call the police, I sang the doxology as I jumped off the counter just as my daughter unlocked the front door. Life is a lot like that. It’s exhilarating and exhausting. We wrestle with our hopes and dreams. We grow impatient, knowing where we want to be, and try to attain our goals our way. And at times we simply need the comfort of familiar ground. We’d save ourselves a lot of work and embarrassment, if we’d only learn to wait on God.
“Use the talents God has given you in whatever capacity He provides.”
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“We’d save ourselves a lot of work and embarrassment, if we’d only learn to wait on God.”
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THE GLOBAL WAT E R C r i s i s Ashley Ormon with Sarah Mitchell
“Hi! Welcome to charity: water!” says Stephanie, the nonprofit’s receptionist. Her cheery attitude perfectly fits their welcoming and colorful environment. “Just so you know, much of what you see in our office has been donated.” She smiles. “Here’s a card.” Stephanie hands the photographer and I what seems to be a post-card sized paper. It lists what company donated what furniture or service. But it isn’t the furniture or the tech-savvy office that catches your eye. It’s the photographs on canvas that aligns the office’s walls − all of adults and children smiling. BEHIND EACH PHOTOGRAPH “Many of the photographs were taken by Scott,” says Kaitlyn Jankowski, the Supporter Experience Manager at charity: water. “Scott Harrison founded the nonprofit in 2005. He’s the CEO,” she adds. Harrison started the organization with a heart to help others after experiencing “spiritual bankruptcy,” as he writes on the nonprofit’s website. Realizing he needed a change, Harrison embarked a life-altering experience in where he volunteered with the group Mercy Ships. As a volunteer, he was a photojournalist – capturing the moments of people who lived entirely different than he ever had. Acknowledging these people’s suffering and pain motivated Harrison to use his life for something greater than he currently was. He decided to hold a large party for his birthday and charged
everyone $20 to get into the venue. The fee was used to fund a clean water project. “He raised $15,000,” Kaitlyn said. She paused: “He knew a lot of people.” That $15,000 was the first of many water projects and now, Harrison captures the effects of clean water. The photographs reflect “the power of positivity,” Kaitlyn says. She tells the story of Helen Apio, who after receiving clean water through a charity: water project said she was able to wash her face with water that wasn’t dirty. “She told us she felt beautiful for the first time,” says Kaitlyn. OBTAINING CLEAN WATER Every day, over 4,000 children die because they lack clean, drinking water. And many children who do not die from it are left spending hours of their time each year walking to get water. With the ability to have clean water, studies have shown children have a longer lifespan, can receive a better education, and help build stable communities as adults. Luckily, providing water isn’t too costly either. It only takes one $20 donation (along with many others) to provide one person with clean water for the rest of their life. Kaitlyn said Harrison is “dedicated to the charity” and hence, charity: water created a 100% donation policy. Meaning, 100% of any person’s donation goes completely to the people who need it most. “We hold separate fundraisers to fund our paychecks,” says Kaitlyn. The best part is, unlike many
charities in where you donate money and hope it is well spent, charity: water follows up with you so you can see what your money went towards. In a time span of 18 months or so, the organization sends you GPS coordinates and photographs of the community your donation went to. It makes charity personal. You can look at the photos and think: I helped these people. In addition to providing clean water, the nonprofit partners with local organizations who drill and build the water infrastructures. “We want the people who we’re bringing water to to take ownership,” says Kaitlyn. From building the water structures to maintaining it after it’s built, the local people are responsible for it all. MOVING FORWARD Kaitlyn admits the internet has played an important role in donations. She says, “60-70% of donations are made online.” However, charity: water provides several ways for people to donate, including the mycharity: water birthday campaigns. Individuals opt to “give their birthday’s away” by forgoing presents to raise money donations. It makes raising money personal, and very rewarding. So far, by the end of 2012 the nonprofit served a total of three million people. And while it seems like a large number, there are millions more who still lack clean water. charity: water recognizes this, and is passionate about filling more lives with hope, and pure water. Visit their website at charitywater.org INTHELIGHTMAG.COM <<< 17
Music That Heals By Ashley Ormon
It’s been said that music is the universal language which connects us all. That’s why Samuel Galí, pianist and co-founder of Mypianotalk. com, has chosen to use his music for a greater purpose: to touch lives. His musical path began as a child at age five in his childhood home in Puerto Rico. His father owned a small organ and told him one day to “just sit down and play.” “My first few years I played by ear,” says Galí. “There weren’t any YouTube videos or tutorials.” Later, at age 10, he took professional music lessons. Unfortunately, they didn’t last too long. He had to travel about an hour away from his house for 45 minute sessions. “It was a bit of a distance to travel,” he recalls. “So my music lessons only lasted about a year.” The musician says he continued practicing on his own and asked questions at church to become better. ACCIDENT OR GOD’S PLAN? Still a youth, at age 18 he was blessed with an unforeseen opportunity. “I was playing at a pretty popular church in Puerto Rico and an artist asked me to play,” says Galí. “I said, ‘um, okay’ and it turned out to be big names and tours I performed for.” For young Galí this was monumental. This one performance lead to many other musical milestones, allowing him to work alongside salsa musicians such as Tony Vegas, Richie Ray and Bobbie Cruz, and Ismael Miranda. He had achieved in his career some-
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thing most adult musicians hadn’t and he “had barely studied music,” he says. The pianist says he views the occurrence as “pure coincidence, or God’s purpose.” Yet, this was only the beginning. Galí’s love and passion for song influenced him to study professional music at Berklee College of Music. And it became not only a melody he played, but something more. “Music is a part of who I am,” says Galí. “In every sphere of society music is present: dance, commercials, parties. I cannot imagine life without music.” And a life with music is what the pianist received. He began touring and living his dream as a mucisian. He remembers the first few tours being a challenge. “It can be hard on the first stages when you’re living your dream,” he says. “The lights. The crowds.” So what’s the secret to keeping perfect balance? “A strong relationship with God,” says Galí. He encourages other musicians to perform and work for God, not for their dream. PLAYING TO HEAL Galí remains true to his words, also, on using his music for God’s glory. To him, the piano is a beautiful instrument. He makes the comparison of David playing soothing music on his harp to heal Saul. In 1 Samuel 16 scripture reads that the Spirit of God had left Saul, and was replaced with a tormenting spirit. It caused Saul trouble, depression, and filled him with fear. Some of the servants suggested finding a musician who could ease the pain, and David was recommended. Because of David’s music, the Bible says this: “And whenever the tormenting spirit from God troubled Saul, David would play the harp. Then Saul would feel better, and the tormenting spirit would go away” (1 Samuel 16:23 NLT). The hope Galí has in heart is for the Spirit of God to enable his playing to heal those who are being tormented by ungodly spirits. He says it is his prayer that as Saul was put at ease by David’s harp, those listening to his music will find peace and experience God. IS ALL SECULAR MUSIC BAD? Although Galí mostly plays worship and praise music, he does not condemn all secular types of music. He agrees the music industry is becoming darker, but there are many positive songs in the world also. “I like everything. Salsa, classical, Indian music,” he says. You learn to create something new and gain a greater appreciation for other music by listening to a wide variety of genres, he believes. As a teacher of music to children seven and older, and a public school teacher, he encourages his students to broaden their music genres. “My students tell me about all the kinds of music they listen to and tell me what I listen to isn’t good,” he says laughing. The musician’s teaching goes beyond the classroom, however, thanks to the digital world. He is the cofounder and administrator for mypianotalk.com. 20 >>> IN THE LIGHT_SUMMER ‘13
Essentially, the website is “Facebook for musicians,” he says. The website is home to over 4,000 pianists from over 120 countries. The front page reads that it is a “social network website created for Pianists & Keyboardists to share their music, media, events & knowledge.” LOOKING ONWARD Outside of music he says his most memorable moment is when his daughter was born. “It changed my life,” he says. The musician currently resides in Florida with his family, and is a song writer at the church he attends. For now, Galí has embraced a slightly quieter life. “I’ve been blessed,” he says. “I cannot complain.”
CONNECT WITH GALI: His website: http://galipiano.com My piano talk: http://mypianotalk.com
STEPPING INTO OUR CALLING
BY JOE AND MICHELLE LAZUREK
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look like a natural up there,” an elderly gentleman said with a smile. “God may have a future for you in ministry.” As a teenager, my pastor allowed me the opportunity to assist him during the church service. As a sixteen year-old, I was pretty certain that I didn’t want to be a pastor when I grew up. Little did I know, God would soon unveil His pastoral calling for my life. My dad owned a small business and I began working with him after graduating from high school. During those years, my pastor planted seeds in my heart about beginning a youth ministry for teens. When a friend showed up to my workplace one day and announced that he had given his life to Christ, I soon wanted to share that same excitement about my faith. I paid my pastor a visit and volunteered to lead the youth group. The journey had begun. The call to ministry began to become clearer to me during those first couple years of volunteering with youth. I was becoming more and more convinced that God was calling me to be a pastor. In fact, when I first began dating my wife Michelle I can remember explaining to her up front that God had called me to be a pastor. I wasn’t sure what that fully meant or where it would lead me, but if we were go-
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ing to pursue a serious relationship I wanted to communicate my intentions openly and honestly. She has always had an incredible heart for what God wants and was open to whatever God had. Little did we know this heart would eventually lead us to pastor our first church 2800 miles away in Alberta Canada. As a newly married couple and a newly ordained pastor, we were clueless when it came to ministering to a church. But God used those early years to build our faith and trust in Him. His constant faithfulness enabled us to continually take steps of faith, one of which would lead us back to our home state of Connecticut seven years later to fulfill God’s additional vision to plant our first church. Answering my call to ministry has always required a leap of faith. Though I don’t always know what I’m stepping out into, I am always confident in who I am stepping out with. I step out with a wife who has always said “yes” in response to God’s calling and a Saviour that has promised to always be with me, and who will never forsake me. I couldn’t imagine ministry any other way.
“My call to ministry has always required a leap of faith.”
AND THE WIFE’S ACCEPTANCE... A humid day in August changed my life. My boyfriend, on bended knee, opened a royal blue box and took out a sparkling diamond ring. In that moment, I knew my life would never be the same. I had no idea what God was calling me to do. As Joe placed the ring on my finger, the diamonds glistened in the sunset and symbolized my life’s new direction: one of unity, sacrifice and submission. When we first began dating, he told me God was calling him to become a pastor. As a young Christian, I did not understand the full breadth of that statement, but unwittingly accepted that call too. Seven months after we got married, God called us to pastor our first church in Canada. We were far way from our homes and had no money. I never realized the many luxuries and securities I would have to sacrifice as a pastor’s wife in order to serve the body of Christ. Although I consider it a privilege to serve God and his church in this way over the past thirteen years, there have been times when those sacrifices have proven a trial to my faith. One such trial came when we began our first church. We did not begin in the conventional way with 50-100 eager members waiting at the door. We started
“As Christians, we need to willingly surrender our preconceived notions of what our lives will look like in order to embrace the calling of God.”
our calling with twelve hesitant couples that had no idea what they were getting themselves into. At this point, frankly, neither did we. But my husband felt God nudging him to start a new church, and I did whatever I could to support him. At the end of our first church launch meeting, it seemed all twelve couples willingly embarked on this new church adventure, except for me. I searched my heart and questioned my doubts on this matter. I figured the enemy’s manipulations were driving my feelings. I thought if I prayed or read my Bible more, I would eventually share everyone’s contagious excitement, but I never caught it. After that first meeting, I felt much like James and John in Matthew 4:18-20, giving up my comfort and security to be thrust into a life laced with uncertainty and confusion. As I spent time with the new church members, got to know their stories and ate in their homes, something happened; my heart changed. As we met in small groups, studied the Word and prayed together, I began to see the members of my new church as brothers and sisters instead of strangers. Suddenly, my calling was no longer a source of frustration or sacrifice, but an opportunity to embrace God’s people. When I committed my life to Christ, I also needed to surrender my life to him. I erroneously believed I could still have everything I desired, and still call myself a disciple. God didn’t want some of my life. He wanted it all. As Christians, we need to willingly surrender our preconceived notions of what our lives will look like in order to embrace the calling of God. Like James and John, he wants us to abandon everything in order to follow the call of God on our lives. Because I am one with my husband, his callings are my callings. In this instance, God was asking me to fulfill my ultimate calling, to be a “suitable helper” for my husband (Genesis 2:18). Sometimes God’s callings aren’t always easy, secure or comfortable, but it is my willingness to be a suitable helper in the midst of them that gives God glory. Joe and Michelle Lazurek have been in ministry since 2003. In 2012, Joe accepted the call to Coudersport Alliance Church. Michelle, in addition to being a pastor’s wife, is a mother, speaker, and author. Her ebook, Everything I Learned About Writing I Learned From Rocky Balboa: Six Ways To Keep Fighting Without Throwing in the Towel, is an Amazon best seller. Visit her website at www.michellelazurek.com.
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SAYING “I DO” TO YOU By Ebonie Jones
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igh-energy event planner, Leslie Wright, took an interesting twist on marriage. She asked us to say “I do” — not to a spouse — but to our individual purposes and goals. Female entrepreneurs, photographers, singers, authors, motivational speakers and ministry leaders attended Wright’s Ladies Night In “wedding” event, and proved in a challenging economy, we can still launch businesses and thrive. A speaker at the event, Tanya M. Robinson who is the co-founder of Reflections of Hope, stressed to the attendees, “If God has given you something to do, then do it.” Now is our time to be empowered, to blaze our own trail, and to take an audacious step toward our dreams. But, it all starts with self-love and confidence. 24 >>> IN THE LIGHT_SUMMER ‘13
Taking this bold step into unfamiliar territory can be scary. The event provided several tips we can apply to our lives to help us overcome that fear. (Yes, for some of us, committing to our needs is unfamiliar. Yet, with a little help, it can be done.) Be Unconventional and Unique Each of us has something to offer and it is exactly what our world needs. Write that book. Start that ministry. Execute the process in a way that is unconventional and unique. It doesn’t matter that everyone has a ministry, or a book on the market. What’s important is that each of us has a story that needs to be told. Each of us possesses unique skills and ideas that are required to fulfill our unique purpose. We should never feel our experiences and input is of lesser value than anyone else. We all have something unique to contribute. In some cases, we’re unable to commit to ourselves because we haven’t accepted all that is special and specific regarding our journey. Until we are able to accept ourselves for who we once were and now are, we will not be able to commit to our purpose. Be Selective We need to surround ourselves with individuals who are like-minded and encouraging. Being connected supplies the fuel needed to persevere and become resilient. When we sur-
round ourselves with people who are pursuing their purpose, it sparks the desire inside of us to do the same. We all need a little nurturing. Don’t be afraid to connect with others who are on their way to greatness. They support an environment of safety, emotionally and psychologically. If we feel and believe we can succeed, we will become successful. Be Persistent Visualize a happy ending, but be aware all happy endings require much effort and work; be conscious of future obstacles; and understand you will encounter discouraging people along the way. Sometimes quitting will seem like a better option, but continue persevering. Know that all these twists and turns create an amazing journey. Life doesn’t end when there is a closed door. A detour in life is not derailment. Closed doors and detours offer the opportunity to learn new things, meet new people, grow in confidence and test our commitment. At the end of the day, if we’re not committed to ourselves, it is impossible to be fully committed to anyone or anything. If we cannot keep a covenant with ourselves and be devoted to our intended purpose, how can we vow and trust ourselves to execute God’s ordained agenda? When we say, “yes” to who we are and what we are ordained to do, we will be fully equipped to pursue every good thing. Will you say, “I do” to you?
Ebonies Jones is the founder and CEO of The New Woman, an organization which strives to “encourage, motivate, and inspire” single woman. Ebonie is also a frequent contributor to IN THE LIGHT. Visit her website at: http://jonesmooreconsulting.com
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THE CHANGING FACE OF MINISTRY By Susan Dusterhoft
The world is constantly changing. The events in recent weeks and months have only solidified that life is not simple like “it was back then.” Technology has ushered in a new age, bringing forth fresh ideas. While some may be on board with these new ways, others are resistant. The desire to stay the same is comforting, but change is inevitable, and in order to better equip mankind, it needs to be accepted across all aspects that touch the lives of everyone living in this world. There is not a single thing that can escape change. People, society, and even ministry have all changed in one way or another. While religion has been one of the driving forces to shape the world, the way it is presented to the masses has completely redirected the way spirituality is received. So what does the word “ministry” mean? In simple terms, it means the act of serving. A minister is one that serves. Ministry, in the Christian sense, is seen as serving the people in the Word of God. The various world religions all have pastors, priests, reverends, padres, chaplains or elders that lead and serve their people. But as the world changes, so too does the way these religious leaders minister to their congregations and followers. Outbound Ministry Going to church on Sunday is not just the norm anymore. In fact, over the years, go-
ing to church has even changed in the sense that “church” is not just that building with the cross on the roof. Today lay people are sent out into the world to share the Word with those who want to learn and be ministered. It is not uncommon to see magazines and other spiritual reading materials left at laundromats, on park benches, and even in the waiting room at the dentist’s office. These subtle and noninteractive methods rely on people actually picking up the materials and reading them. Some religious groups have taken this a step further and actually engaged in conversation with their communities. For their own part, these groups are taking a “leap of faith” and instead of just leaving those pamphlets, they are staying long enough at the laundromat to seek out patrons in order to have conversations with them. Furthermore, others are taking their ministry door-to-door, a painstaking process which inevitably leads to rejection, and perhaps, a slamming door in their faces. The question begs though, does the community want to be ministered in this way? In the real world, that exhausted-looking mom or the farm worker who only has a few hours before he has to get back to the field probably feels a little put out just by being at the laundromat in the first place. Ever notice how many people talk with each other while they are there, especially early in the morning? Not very many, as they don’t want to bother each other, much less talk to one another. Truthfully, interrupting someone that early in the morning, doing a monotonous chore, is probably not the best time to engage in conversation. More often than not, they just want to get it done and get out of there. While some would say this is the best time, it is almost guaranteed that the mom or farm worker is not interested. Who can blame them? Nevertheless, out of politeness or manners, they will engage in a short discussion and when all is said and done, everyone returns to a preconversation status and left to their own thoughts. Is there a chance that they will pick up that pamphlet while there or take it home to read later? The odds are even, but at the very least, the next person
that shows up will probably see it and read it. Thus, ministering to the community in this manner initially seems ineffective, but in the long run, changes the world one person at a time. Vacation Bible School and “Sunday School” As the world evolves into the age of electronics, the youth of today (and many adults for that matter) have redirected their energies into tiny handheld electronics as real life passes them by. The family bonding moments of attending weekly church services become disengaged for some. Looking around, one can practically see the disinterest. Facial expression and body mannerisms practically scream, “Church is the last place I want to be right now!” Forcing mandatory attendance of worship services, and compounding it with a lack of “interaction” inevitably leads to the decline in attendance, and ultimately, a falling away from God. Gone is the comfort in the traditions established by generations. Perhaps the time is nigh to take the youth of today who are glued to their electronics and redirect them back towards their faith and a simpler time. The year is 1894, in INTHELIGHTMAG.COM <<< 27
the small village of Hopedale, Illinois. A woman by the name of D.T. Miles, a public school and Sunday school teacher, came up with the idea of a Vacation Bible School.1 She felt she was limited by the time constraints in teaching the Bible to children, and thought this might be a better way. Ms. Miles was light-years ahead of her time if she already thought that there wasn’t enough time devoted to teaching the Word of God to children back in the 1800’s. Presently those time constraints are even tighter. Sadly though, Vacation Bible School (VBS) may be used by some busy families as a way to keep their kids occupied for part of the summer break. However these week-long programs, designed for the modern world, offer more than just Bible stories. Singing songs, participating in arts and crafts, skits, or puppet shows are all a part of these sessions catered toward elementary schoolaged children. By the end of the day, kids are running home to share all they have learned about the Bible with great enthusiasm. Now when looking at it more closely, VBS, at its core, ministers to children in a far superior way by changing their attitudes and renewing their faith in God thereby becoming much more than a convenient baby-sitter. Additionally, with the separation of church and state, childhood memories of saying a daily prayer to start the day is about as frowned upon as saying the pledge of allegiance. Public schools offer no form of religious education, leaving it up to parents to either send their kids to private school or look for other ways to bring God into their children’s lives. Since private school is cost prohibitive, turning to “Sunday School” was the way to provide religious instruction to those in the public school system. First set up in the 1780’s in order to provide education to working children on their only day off from the factory, “Sunday School” was originally designed to teach children about Christianity and named as such because many Christian churches met on Sunday.2Today, Seventh Day Adventists refer to it as “Sabbath School” because they are held on Saturdays. Various forms of “Sunday Schools” still exist today using more traditional methods of teaching such as gathering into small groups to read and study Bible-based teaching, and singing familiar songs. Through the years, alternate forms of “Sunday School” included religious education via correspondence for those children in outlying and sparsely populated areas; and “Sidewalk Sunday School” was started in 1986 out of a ministry by Bill Wilson in the inner city of Brooklyn, New York. Little delivery trucks converted to stages, project areas and parks became areas to serve Sunday school programs. Metro Ministries, as it is now called, can be found in many major cities across the United States with branches in eight other countries.3 VBS and “Sunday School” allow children to get involved and create a strong foundation for which to build their faith outside of the confines of weekly church attendance. Furthermore, the youth of the world finally gets an opportunity to fully understand the Bible on their terms. Thus, they can develop a deeper relationship with God before participating and accepting the ministry pro28 >>>IN THE LIGHT_SUMMER ‘13
vided by the traditions established in going to church every Sunday or Sabbath. An Old Fashion Revival Meeting, Television Evangelism and Bible Study Ministry It is evident that through the years, ministry has changed considerably, but some forms may have been a little deceptive in their true purpose. Remember the movie “Leap of Faith”, or how about Jim and Tammy Faye Bakker‘s PTL Club? Each of them represented a form of ministry, revival meeting and television evangelism respectively; however, after much scrutiny, they showed the dark and dishonest side of ministry. An old fashion revival meeting is simply a series of Christian religious services held in order to inspire active members of a church body or to gain new converts.4 The aforementioned movie, despite its comedic side and eventual redemption in the end, portrayed a level of deceit overshadowing the good qualities of what the revival meeting was meant to be, and more realistically represented by the beloved Billy Graham. His crusades weren’t “flash and glamour” but just a simple preaching of the Word of God and the opportunity for attendees to come forward, talk with counselors, and get clarifications to their questions.5 While Billy Graham was considered an evangelist, the likes of Jim and Tammy Faye Bakker took it to a whole new level. Their ministry, based upon “prosperity theology,” Wikipedia: 1) Vacation Bible School 2) Sunday School 3) Metro Ministries 4) Revival Meeting
was a non-traditional interpretation of the Bible where financial blessings are the will of God for Christians and that faith, positive speech and donating to Christian ministries will always increase one’s material wealth. The deceptive fund raising activities of The PTL Club brought about its eventual undoing, and Mr. Bakker was subsequently charged with fraud and conspiracy. During his incarceration he actually read the Bible all the way through for the first time and renounced his past teachings because he realized that he took certain passages out of context as proof to back up his teachings.6 Unfortunately, this type of ministry was obviously tainted for a long time, and the PTL followers who put their trust and faith in The Bakkers were bilked out of thousands of dollars. Slowly television evangelism has made a comeback with the infusion of other motivational and theological speakers such as Joyce Meyers, Paula Young and Joel Osteen. The concept of television evangelism in its purest form, however, does offer something that many people need during this new age of change – inspiration to renew a personal faith in God. In the end though, it is up to the individual to decide whether or not to be financially supportive of this kind of ministry. Perhaps there is a better alternative for the growing population who feel that going to “church” is not enough, but still have a need to learn more about the Bible, and want to develop a deeper relationship with God. Often overlooked, Bible Study Ministry offers a unique perspective in the sense that entire books of the Bible are read versus individual passages that are usually shared during weekly church services. Wikipedia: 5) Billy Graham 6)Jim Bakker 7) bsfinternational.org
While many faiths offer Bible study, there are numerous non-denominational opportunities available. From online groups to the internationally renowned Bible Study Fellowship7, men and women are gathering weekly to read and share their thoughts on various chapters from the one book that will truly bring all of them closer to God – the Holy Bible. The ability to listen, share and minister to each other in this fashion allows for a more personal experience and the chance to develop a relationship with God in a way that going to church and listening to one person’s interpretation may sometimes lack. If there is one thing about Bible study it’s the fact that this form of ministry has really kept up with the changing times. Online resources offering a wealth of information through e-books and other study tools are now available via the closest computer or wireless phone. How great is it to hold the Bible in one hand and have the ability to research and gather immediate information from a multitude of other books via a cellphone or electronic tablet? Not long ago this would have been unheard of, but today, it’s second nature. The true ministry here is the pressure free environment that allows each person to open up and freely participant without fear of reprisal. The exchange of thoughts and ideas to help one another acquire a more profound understanding of the Bible is nothing less than a gift from God. When the lessons are done, those that have struggled from a lack of knowledge will walk away with a greater sense of peace, a renewed sense of spirit, and hopefully return to weekly church services with an open heart to receive God back into their lives. Final Thoughts Yes, the “times are a changin’.” Technology has seen to that. Ministering to the needs of the people not only requires acceptance but also the ability to embrace the things that are needed in order to serve. However, it is not just about those doing the ministering, it is also about those accepting it. The world’s pastors, priests, reverends, padres, rabbis, and chaplains all face a daily uphill battle. Being ministered to means having an openness to new ideas, honoring the long establish traditions of family when they don’t seem exciting enough, and seeking out ways to allow God into hearts that may have been closed for a long time. Most of all, it is important to remember that when life starts to pass by too quickly, it might be best to turn off the technology for a bit and return to the simpler things in life: spending quality time as a family, listening to those in need, and providing inspiration in whatever matter necessary. This then gives each and every person the ability to reach out and minister to others so that the entire world has the opportunity to sit down and get reacquainted with God and themselves. In the end, just “being together” is truly the greatest form of all ministries. INTHELIGHTMAG.COM <<< 29
MINISTRY GUIDE
Here’s your online ministry directory. There’s probably hundreds (or more) websites which strive to share the love of God and the Good News. But, we chose a few.
Created to unify and stir up bold, unashamed Christians, Unashamed Impact has grown into a global ministry. This group has over 9,000 people in its community who fellowship, evangelize, and work to make Jesus’ name known. If you are interested in joining Christians who are on fire for God, visit their website to connect with a local group at: http://unashamedimpact.com
Every Thursday in a live video chart room, all who are interested in learning more about the Bible can join F4BS’s Bible study. Worksheets are provided, too, for each lesson to follow along during the teaching. For more information, visit http://follow4biblestudy.com
God Over Porn is a support and mentor-like ministry which helps those who struggle with overcoming pornography. It encourages people that they can overcome their desires and addictions involving lust. The ministry also aids in exposing the lies taught by the porn industry. For more information, visit: http://godoverporn.org
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If you’re ever in need of encouragement while experiencing a hard time, this ministry is for you. Focused on bringing you doses of uplifting words, the writer aims to fill your heart with the joy of the Lord. For more information, visit http://doseofencouragement.wordpress.com
Unlike most Christian praise and worship music stations which are easily categorized as “Contemporary Christian” or “Contemporary Gospel,” Life Radio Online combines the two. So if you’re listening to Hillsong and decide to listen to Donnie McClurkin, you don’t need to switch the dial. You can worship God in many genres! To listen, visit http://liferadioonline.com
Quentin McCall, the founder of Knowledge 4 Life, writes on a variety of topics from finances and relationships, to matters of the heart. He teaches practical ways such as how to love a job you hate, and dealing with hurt all from a Biblical point-of-view. For more information, visit: http://quentinmccall.com
For a complete listing of news, blogs, and Christian related ministries, visit http://JesusReport.com
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How Christians Are Using Digital Media The internet is changing how Christians receive the Gospel, and share their faith with the world.
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We conducted a survey asking Christians how digital media affects their faith. The results... How often do you visit Christian websites? According to the survey, almost 72% of Christians say they visit Christian websites on a weekly basis − with 43% of those 72% visiting daily.
And perhaps the reason for frequent visit to faith-based websites has to do with church attendance. Majority of Christians said they attend church weekly, while only about 8% attend monthly, and 4% never sit in a pew at all.
90% of Christians say online ministry has helped increase their faith... And in case you’re wonder what the “other” responses were, participants said: -Online sites were good for researching; -Ministry blogs provided new information; and -Usage of these sites gave them guidance.
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What platform do Christians share their faith on the most? Looks like Facebook takes the lead by a landslide. Oh, and email isnâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;t dead. It takes the silver medal in being the second most used platform to share the Gospel online.
So exactly what were the age groups of those who took the survey?
Christians who are online most are between the ages of 18-24, followed by 25-34 year olds.
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