1. When he starts to “throw a fit”
we calmly tell him that he needs to go to his room until he is able to tell us what is upsetting him in a calm way. He must walk up the stairs and to his room, then sit to the side of his dresser until we either come get him or we tell him he can come down. That’s it. We don’t tell him not to throw a fit, because obviously he is upset about something and is just trying to express his feelings. However, we try to give him time to settle down before explaining it to us (and give us a little time to diffuse ourselves). It is our job, as parents, to teach him to effectively deal with his feelings. And taking a little time out is good for everyone. Besides, fit throwing is a lot less enjoyable for a youngin’ without an audience! ~ Jenae You can find the rest of this article at icanteachmychild.com