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24 Fresh Perspectives

Your home should be your haven, and experts around Oklahoma work hard to ensure clients’ visions come to life. The professionals discuss trends in and outside the home, from water features to sustainable practices and tech you’ve got to try. We also take a tour of a Grand Lake getaway and explore some popular home improvement projects.

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Insurance. It’s not a topic that brings most people unbridled excitement. Some would say it’s even boring – until you need it, that is. Spending just a little time educating yourself about insurance – learning the basics, chatting with a professional to ensure you’re on track – can be both a figurative and literal lifesaver.

40 Surveying the Real Estate Market

36 A Paw-Sitive Effect

It’s no secret that an adorable puppy or feisty kitten can help boost your mood. But animalassisted therapy is more prevalent in Oklahoma than you may think. From dogs on college campuses to horses on ranches, the calming effects of animals cannot be understated. We dive into a variety of therapy offerings, get advice from the pros on taking the best possible care of your new pet, and explore shelters and nonprofits that need our help.

Despite the real estate market's volatility, there are a few tried and true methods for success in the industry. We talk to experts about buying and selling, perfecting curb appeal, trends for 2024 and more.

44 Top Real Estate Listings

Oklahoma Magazine’s Top Real Estate Agents listings give firms of all sizes the chance to recognize their agents, showcasing their total volumes for 2023.

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LETTER FROM THE EDITOR

It’s March! We’re finally seeing the promise of spring on the horizon! Patios are beckoning and seasonal depression is ebbing!

To celebrate the start of all things warm and inviting, peruse our annual Home and Garden feature starting on page 24. Learn about inhome tech, how to become more sustainable day-to-day and the trends pros are spotting this year. We also tour a gorgeous home nestled on the shores of Grand Lake – don’t miss it.

Staying on theme, the March issue also brings us the real estate feature, which explores the market and offers a comprehensive guide to buying or selling a home (page 40). Stick around for the Top Real Estate Agents listing (page 44), highlighting hardworking Realtors around the state.

If you’re looking to switch health insurance, invest in life coverage or just learn a bit about the industry, read our Insurance 101 feature on page 33.

And for the pet lovers, we've got a treat for you. Starting on page 36, you can read all about animal-assisted therapy, shelters that need our help and a new pet owner guide to ease the transition.

Other must-reads this month include an interview with Oklahoman producer Laura Galt, who’s involved with brand-new The Outsiders musical, beginning previews this month (page 4), as well as our review of a new OKC-based steakhouse (page 48).

You may also notice our magazine looks a little different this month. Our redesign is to honor the magazine’s 28th anniversary. Thanks for sticking with us this long – we hope you’ll enjoy the next 28.

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The State Staying Gold on Broadway

The Outsiders musical, with numerous Oklahoma ties, begins its previews this month.

In March 1943, the musical Oklahoma! – based on the play Green Grow the Lilacs by Claremore native Lynn Riggs – made its Broadway debut. More than 2,000 performances later, the Rodgers & Hammerstein production ended its run as one of the most successful shows ever to play the Great White Way, bringing our state incalculable positive attention.

Now, 81 years later to the month, along comes another set-in-Oklahoma musical. Like its predecessor, it’s based on the work of a stellar writer from the northeastern part of the state. And also like Oklahoma!, it could turn out to be something very good for us all.

The show is The Outsiders, based on the famed novel by Tulsa’s S.E. Hinton. Previews begin in New York on March 16, prior to its official opening date of April 11. And co-producer Laura Galt – who recently helped bring a number of cast and creative-team members to Tulsa for a weekend visit, including A-list producer Angelina Jolie – is enthusiastic about the connections that are already underway between the state and the show.

“One of my goals as a co-producer is to facilitate relationships between the production and the state of Oklahoma and city of Tulsa,” she says. “I think they can elevate each other. This musical can raise visibility for the state and, hopefully, encourage tourism. Oklahoma can also be a support for the production. And then, everybody’s goal is to shepherd Susie’s legacy, which is an incredible one.”

Susie Hinton wrote the novel The Outsiders while still a student at Tulsa’s Will Rogers High School. Her experiences of witnessing the tensions between the

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“greasers,” kids from the city’s poorer neighborhoods, and the “socs,” those in the school’s upper social echelons, fueled the book, which was first published in 1967. In the decades since, The Outsiders has not only become a perennial bestseller and enduring American classic; it’s also credited with starting the whole genre of young-adult fiction.

In addition, The Outsiders was the basis for one of director Francis Ford Coppola’s most memorable pictures. That 1983 production, shot in Tulsa and featuring a cast full of young actors who were just beginning to taste stardom,

sent a lot of viewers to libraries and bookstores to seek out the book. One of those was Laura Galt herself, who now works out of Texas but grew up in Oklahoma City and, she says, considers Tulsa a “second home.”

“I feel like I was a very smart girl growing up,” she says with a laugh, “but I would probably call myself a reluctant reader. I was introduced to The Outsiders via the Francis Ford Coppola film, and that inspired me to look into Susie’s writings. Seeing the film inspired me to read. That’s something I’m hoping the Broadway show does for other youths.”

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Oklahoma native Laura Galt is a producer on The Outsiders musical. Photo by James Arlen

At the same time, she acknowledges the differences between the way stories are presented onstage and on a page.

“In a book,” she explains, “you can take several pages to develop or describe a character or an incident. But in a musical, you don’t have the time to elaborate or narrate. You have to show who that character is via a song. So a lot of the character development and the things that drive the story are done through song and lyrics.”

An example of that can be seen and heard on YouTube, which features a sample of an Outsiders number called “Great Expectations.” It’s sung in the musical by lead character Ponyboy, played by Brody Grant.

“It’s about these great expectations he has for his life,” says Galt of the song, “and these dreams he has for his life, and he knows the story that he wants to write for himself. But then he says, ‘Sometimes I feel like the story is writing me.’ Haven’t we all experienced that?’”

Feeling that those lyrics are examples of the universality of both Hinton’s story and its musical adaptation, she calls The Outsiders “a show for everyone – for men, for women, for all ages. I feel like there’s something in this show that every single person can relate to.”

Galt knows that both the book and the movie set some extraordinarily high standards. She’s confident, however, that the musical will be well-received by those who already love the previous two versions of The Outsiders

“I do think fans of the book and fans of the movie will be fans of the musical,” she says. “As a personal fan, it hits every mark for me. You walk away so happy and so fulfilled. You see some things online where people are worried that maybe it’s not going to stay true to the story, but it is very true to the story. It’s done wonderfully well.”

For more information about the musical, visit outsidersmusical.com. Those interested in group ticket sales can contact Galt herself at atxrandom.com.

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Emma Pittman as Cherry Valance. Photo by Miller Mobly Galt stands outside NYC's Bernard B. Jacobs Theatre, where previews begin this month. Photo courtesy Laura Galt Back row, L-R: Daryl Tofa as Two-Bit Mathews, Joshua Boone as Dallas Winston, Jason Schmidt as Sodapop Curtis, Sky Lakota-Lynch as Johnny Cade, Brent Comer as Darrel Curtis; front: Brody Grant as Ponyboy Curtis. Photo by Miller Mobly

Your Inner Picasso

Novice artists can dabble in various mediums through local art classes.

It’s been said that creating art can be good for the soul and for mental health, but what if you think you don’t have any artistic aptitude? That’s where local classes and teachers can step in to help you reach your potential.

A variety of classes are held locally, and for people who don’t have experience or feel they don’t have the “talent,” – you can still benefit from taking a class, says Theresa Hultberg, the programs and exhibitions manager for the Paseo Arts Association in Oklahoma City.

“Creating art isn’t always about the final product,” she says. “It’s about expressing yourself and taking a moment away from the daily stressors we all experience to have some fun and explore color, texture, material and shapes. Creating something with your hands will engage your senses, get you out of your thoughts and ground you in the present moment. People often feel a sense of accomplishment when it is all done.”

The Paseo Arts Association hosts artist-taught workshops and classes on a rotating basis, and all events are hosted in the Paseo Arts and Creativity Center.

“[Everyone] can visit the galleries and studios in the Paseo Arts District,” says Hultberg. “Many of our businesses offer classes, including Su Casa (needlepoint), Prairie Arts Collective (stained glass), Paseo Pottery (ceramics), JW Jewelry and Home (jewelry), Paseo Arts and Creativity Center (watercolor, sculpture, alcohol ink, acrylic pour painting) and Paseo Gallery One (various mediums).”

No matter the medium you choose, you’ll be greeted warmly by the pros.

“All of the teaching artists in the district are extremely welcoming, and our spaces are accessible and casual, creating the perfect space to relax and create,” says Hultberg.

In Green Country, the Tulsa Art Center is a hub of creativity for art novices and pros alike.

“The Tulsa Art Center is an art-centered, educational community where experienced Tulsa artists inspire students

of beginning levels of all ages to achieve their creative goals,” says Marie Sullivan, the center’s owner.

The Tulsa Art Center has classes for adults and children, and all can enjoy courses in a low-pressure environment, says Sullivan. Parents who homeschool their children will also find valuable art resources at the center. Art “parties” can also be scheduled.

“We offer acrylic painting, color pencil, watercolor and drawing,” she says.

As for gaining confidence in art, Sullivan offers some insight.

“Everyone is born with talent until they start thinking they can’t do it,” says Sullivan. “During our classes, we start each beginner with the basics and help them learn the necessary techniques they will need to paint their piece.”

Art and Mental Health

Why does creating art help the mind?

“Because of the expressive nature of creating art, people are able to process their thoughts and emotions by making something with their hands that is uniquely theirs,” says Hultberg. “Both creating and observing art can reduce stress and empower people through their interpretation or relation to artwork."

She continues: “Depending on personality, adults may find any one of the types of artwork we offer relaxing. We’ve had some popularity with acrylic pour painting, as it is a simple technique and participants get to play with color and patterns of the paint without the use of brushes.”

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The Paseo Arts Association in Oklahoma City offers a variety of art classes in different mediums, all across the district. Photos courtesy the Paseo Arts Association

A Touch of Irish Magic

With March’s arrival, the green-themed holiday that’s a favorite for many also makes its appearance. St. Patrick’s Day, associated with Irish traditions, dance, music, food, drink and general revelry, inspires a host of Oklahoma-based celebrations.

Sham-ROCK The Gardens

Located in Oklahoma City at the Myriad Botanical Gardens, Sham-ROCK on March 17 has something for everyone, from face painting to vendor booths to delicious foods and beer. On top of that, Irish dance routines and music will be performed, with bagpipes as an exciting addition.

“Myriad Botanical Gardens is proud to host this annual Sham-ROCK the Gardens tradition,” says Kristen Milburn, the public events manager for the gardens. “It is always a day filled with stomping-good music and family fun!”

And don’t forget to take in the green lake, dyed specifically for the event.

“And what a bright green it is,” says Leslie Spears, the gardens’ director of marketing and public relations. “It’s a great backdrop for so many photos!”

Stockyards City St. Patrick’s Day Parade

Located in the historic Stockyards City in Oklahoma City, the St. Patrick’s Day parade on March 16 offers an eye-popping display of wonderful Irish iconography and music. Beginning at the intersection of Exchange and Pennsylvania avenues, the parade will include marching bands,

bagpipes, Irish dancers, participants from the Shriners group, plus unique cars, community groups, horses and more. After, the McTeggart Irish Dancers will perform, alongside myriad fun activities for kids, such as balloon art and face painting.

ShamRock The Rose District

Located in Broken Arrow's Rose District, this year’s ShamRock the Rose on March 16 marks the 10th anniversary of the event – and the perfect time to stop by. There will be live music from School of Rock, Glam-R-Us, and Weston Horn & the Hush, along with a family friendly kid’s zone, plenty of food trucks and

street vendors, and a craft beer garden. Admission is free, but if you want to try unlimited craft beers, you’ll need a ticket starting at $40. There will also be a special Soldier’s Wish ceremony honoring Oklahoma veterans.

Kilkenny’s and Watershed Tulsa St. Patrick’s Day Block Party

Located off Cherry St. in Tulsa, the block party is hosting several St. Patrick’s Day themed events all weekend long.

“This year we will be transforming our streets into a vibrant celebration of all things Irish once again,” says Alyssa Reichlin, marketing director of Watershed Hospitality, which runs beloved restaurants like Kilkenny's and Nola's.

Live music will keep your toes tapping while Nola’s, Kilkenny’s and Alley Cat Ranch will provide delicious meals for purchase.

“Imagine juicy andouille sausage corn dogs or the classic corned beef and cabbage – perfect for fueling your revelry,” says Reichlin.

There will also be a kid’s zone for the little ones, plus adorable and adoptable pets from the Tulsa Humane Society.

“This is more than just a party,” says Reichlin. “It’s a chance to connect with the community, create lasting memories and experience a touch of Irish magic.”

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Sham-ROCK the Gardens at Myriad Botanical Gardens offers a variety of activities for kids and adults alike – plus a green lake. Photo courtesy Myriad Botanical Garden Stockyard City in OKC offers a rousing St. Patty’s Day parade on March 16. Photo courtesy Stockyard City

Business is Booming

Becco Contractors has shaped a large portion of northeastern Oklahoma’s infrastructure.

An aerial view of northeastern Oklahoma depicts the megalithic handiworks of heavy highway construction company Becco Contractors Inc. Projects range from highway and bridge constructions like the Gilcrease extension over the Arkansas River to the almost finished widening of Yale Avenue from 81st to 91st.

Holding both helicopter and plane licenses, Becco’s general superintendent Chad Smith is familiar with that stunning view from the sky.

“Most of our projects are within 90 miles of Tulsa for bridges and overlays outside the surrounding cities,” says Smith. The company typically works on around fifty plans simultaneously, often on projects large in scope, involving infrastructure and mainstay institutions including the Turnpike Authority, the Oklahoma Transportation Department, the City of Tulsa, the City of Broken Arrow and the City of Owasso.

Becco is a private, family-owned company headquartered in Tulsa that employs around 430 people. Smith says the business has grown about 800% since his parents founded it in 1988, thanks in part to large city projects that started in 1989. Smith grew up learning every aspect of the construction industry, later earning a business construction management degree at Oklahoma State University. Today, he continues to wear many hats including, he says with a laugh, “all the HR.”

Training existing employees and the future generation of workers is a priority for Smith, and Becco has curated project partnerships with Tulsa Technology Center to develop the workforce they need, with training for equipment operators and CDL (commercial driver's license) truck drivers.

“We started a program about six years ago with Tulsa Tech,” he says. “Right now, we have an operator’s program with equipment simulators at the campus at 31st and Memorial with a full-time instructor; we think of it as ‘Becco University.’ As we bring in new people and invest in existing

employees, we want them to succeed – and so we invest in training, helping them earn certifications and operating skills. We are getting a nice return on the young men and women who come through the training program who become safer, more efficient and overall better employees.”

Smith says he devotes time talking to high school and vocational tech students to “let kids know that construction is cool, and you can have a different, well-paying career where you are outside every day. Minimum wage in this is $16.20 an hour, and when you prove your worth, that wage keeps going up.”

The social media campaign #BeccoCares came about “to bring awareness to our company and to safety,” says Smith. “Often in this industry, the only news that comes out is talking about road construction. With hashtags, I thought we could update it and bring awareness to employees, safety, community and our well-received, free concrete recycling program. It’s ongoing, as we’ve donated to different [causes]. People ask for donations, and we help when we can. And we want to communicate that we are hiring and share an option to people wanting a computer or tech job.”

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Becco Contractors is currently working on the Gilcrease extension project over the Arkansas River. Photos courtesy Becco Contractors

Treasure Hunting

Antique stores

and clubs harbor relics from decades –and centuries – past.

Henry Tankersley has a collection of items from late 19th and early 20th century drugstores – glassware, old advertising signs and even some antique Coca-Cola items.

“I have an entire museum at my house,” he says.

But his favorite piece is a four-foot-tall mortar and pestle, made from colorful stained and leaded glass, lit from the inside. It was a piece that originally hung outside a drug store in Indiana.

Tankersley has turned his passion for glass collecting into a chance to build community as the president of Tulsa Antiques and Bottle Club. The group creates an opportunity for collectors to socialize and learn from each other.

“We collect antique bottles of all types, every kind you can imagine: medicine bottles, milk bottles, soda pop bottles and [all kinds of] jars,” says Tankersley. “Lots of glass items, as well as a variety of other non-glass antiques [such as] advertising signs and anything made of paper that has to do with antique items or a promotional product.”

Another enthusiast, Bill McConnell, got started collecting at a very young age.

“Even when I was a little kid, I used to drag in all kinds of stuff, but mostly junk at that time,” he says with a laugh.

Today, he and his wife, Denny, own 23rd Street Antique Mall in Oklahoma City. But their passion for collecting isn’t limited to the business side of things.

Today, McConnell’s tastes are a bit more refined. The couple collects antique furniture from the 1870s and 1890s, as well as a highly specialized brand of glassware.

“It's called Wave Crest,” says McConnell. “It was only made [between] 1891 to 1916, and they’ve never reproduced it. So it’s a fun thing to collect,” he says.

of all kinds from a wide variety of dealers.

While collectors' clubs saw their heyday in the 1970s, according to Tankersley, there are still groups for people who enjoy antiques and other types of collectibles. These groups tend to congregate around specific types of collections, such as various types of glassware or furniture. They hold periodic meetings and some have newsletters to disseminate information, says Tankersley.

For those who may be intrigued by these cool collections, the Tulsa Antiques and Bottle Club holds its Antique Advertising and Bottle Show every summer at the Tulsa County Fairgrounds. This event is a great way to shop, learn about antiques and get to know others with similar interests.

At 23rd Street Antique Mall, antiques lovers can find furniture and jewelry, as well as silver glassware, pottery and toys

Excelling in Antiquing

When it comes to learning about antiques and finding those special, one-of-a-kind items, it seems experience and practice win the day. Visiting stores and shopping for the things that get you excited are the best ways to learn more about the hobby.

“How I’ve learned about [antiquing] is just years of experience,” says McConnell. “We were collecting long before we got into the antiques business and we’ve been in the antiques business almost 35 years, so just [through] years of experience we've learned [what] things are reproductions, and how to tell the real deal from the not-the-real deal. And so the experience is key for me.”

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The Tulsa Antique and Bottle Club meets to share neat finds and form a community. Photos courtesy the TABC Run by husband and wife Bill and Denny McConnell, 23rd Street Antique Mall offers a bevy of unique treasures. Photo courtesy 23rd Street Antique Mall

Grace, Precision, Energy

Competitive figure skating combines artistry, athleticism and devotion.

Competitive figure skating is a captivating sport that demands a unique blend of grace, strength and precision. Behind the mesmerizing performances on the ice lies a world of dedication, devotion and relentless training.

“Competitive figure skating requires a commitment to training, on- and off-ice, specific to our sport,” says Jackie Brenner, the director of figure skating at Arctic Edge Ice Arena and Blazers Ice Centre, located in Edmond and OKC, respectively. “Balance through motion, extreme athleticism and the desire for excellence are at the core of what makes competitive figure skating so exhilarating.”

Aspiring figure skaters in the Oklahoma City area can access these two premier arenas, where they can begin their journey to mastery – or even just proficiency. These arenas not only provide top-notch facilities but also offer a supportive environment for skaters to thrive.

“Anyone interested in private instruction can contact either arena for assistance in coordinating training,” says Brenner. This accessibility to professional guidance un-

derscores the commitment of the skating community to nurture talent and foster growth at every level – not just the pros.

According to Brenner, Oklahoma has a vibrant community of recreational and competitive skaters, all driven by the shared goal of reaching the pinnacle of their sport. Many aspire to compete at the prestigious U.S. Figure Skating regional, sectional and national events, where they can showcase their prowess on a larger scale.

“Training often allows skaters to hone their craft for competitive, test and professional opportunities,” says Brenner.

The meticulous training regimen prepares skaters for competitions and opens doors to various avenues within the skating world, including professional performances and even coaching careers.

Competitive figure skating is more than just a sport – it’s a lifestyle characterized by discipline and an unwavering passion. Every jump, spin and glide on the ice is a testament to the countless hours of dedication and perseverance invested by skaters.

It’s no secret that ice skating can be a bit scary as a beginner. After all, ice isn’t the softest cushion. Here are a few tips to ensure maximum safety:

1. Make sure your skates fit well. Too big of skates can lead to wobbling and twisted ankles; too small of skates can cause blisters and an uncomfortable glide. Additionally, make sure your blades are sharp – dull blades will lead to falls.

2. Speaking of falls – learn how to do them safely. Yes, you’ll bite it on the ice sooner or later. But knowing how to fall to protect what matters can save you a trip to urgent care. If you’re falling backwards, tuck your chin into your chest and aim to land with most of the weight on your bottom. If you’re falling forward, ensure you’re using your arms to protect your head. And never attempt to grab another skater to regain balance.

3. Avoid skating on natural frozen bodies of water unless they are surveyed and approved by a professional. You won’t be able to see how deep the freeze is, which can lead to potential breaks in the water and an unexpected cold plunge.

4. Don’t be afraid to wear safety gear, like helmets and knee, wrist and elbow pads. Worried about looking dorky? We guarantee it’s better to be safe than sorry!

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A Lot of Buzz

Classified as livestock, bees can provide farmers and enthusiasts with a lucrative business or fulfilling hobby.

European honey bees are the most commonly used species as a U.S. pollinator. In fact, bees are used to pollinate over 100 commercially grown crops in North America, making beekeeping one of Oklahoma’s activities with the most buzz – whether as a hobby or a business.

“The Oklahoma Apiary Act allows any Oklahoman to have bees,” says Steve Easom, owner of Easom Farms in Slaughterville. “As livestock, bees need to be managed properly, and if not, there’s an 85% national death rate of bees.”

Rules and regulations for keeping bees are straightforward.

“The Oklahoma Department of Agriculture administers a very friendly set of guidelines,” says Patrick Tickel, secretary of the Oklahoma State Beekeepers Association, president of the Texoma Beekeepers Association, and vice president of the Noble Beekeepers Association. “With the U.S. Department of Agriculture classifying bees as livestock, it can afford beekeepers the chance for federal assistance.”

But both Tickel and Easom encourage people to study before diving into the activity.

“To get started, have at least one year without bees,” says Easom. “Take one year of knowledge and mentorship, and then get with a bee club to find out what type of equipment you’ll need.”

Tickel, who owns his own beekeeping business, advises novices to “find a support group, like a local or regional club. Monetary commitment can be a consideration. Weekly time commitment may range from one hour to three or four, depending on the number of colonies you manage.”

As for the care and keeping of the bees themselves, “honey bees need to be inspected once every 14 to 18 days,” Easom says. “Inspections take somewhere between five to ten minutes for the owner. With a mentorship, you’re going to see the different approaches to be able to achieve the inspection effectively.”

Tickel says risks include stings, but also not having time to manage hives on a schedule, and losing bees to pests and diseases.

Both experts advise to wear appropriate protective gear including a beekeeper suit, a veil and gloves every time one interacts with bees.

“Have an idea of whether or not you’re allergic to bees, and if allergic, take ap-

propriate measures,” says Easom. “And don’t overfeed your bees. When there’s nothing to forage on, many people feed them too much, and they feed them sugar, which has zero nutrition.”

Oklahoma State University Extension has a plethora of beekeeping resources, plus white papers on the website.

Making a Difference

In 2022, Easom’s family began their free program designed to cater to veterans and first responders with life challenges. Using their farm’s facility to train new beekeepers, the program has positively impacted a variety of Oklahomans, helping them to refocus and gain new life purposes. The next classes, which include a virtual component, begin March 31 and meet once monthly until November. Classes run from 10 a.m. to 5 p.m. Team Easom funds the equipment, and people don’t even have to be exposed to bees if they don’t want to.

“Our program is a pathway for them to finish the course, and come back into the program as mentors if they desire,” says Easom, who is also a veteran. “It’s the opportunity to give back, which makes a difference for the challenges they face. The public is also welcome, but we don’t provide equipment for them like we do for veterans and first responders.”

Easom’s Tru Bee Removal is the only state certified company that extracts and relocates problematic bees. Find Easom at 405-830-0151, and sign up for classes at trubeeremoval.com.

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Photo courtesy Richard Henry –Henry’s Honey Farms Those interested in keeping bees have a variety of local resources and experts to help on the journey. Beekeeper Steve Easom's program Heroes to Hives helps veterans gain new life purpose. Photo courtesy Steve Easom

Spring Break Serenity

Whether you’re traveling solo, with a partner or with the whole family, you can stay in-state for spring break shenanigans.

When March arrives, it usually brings some blessedly warmer weather with it. It’s also the month of spring break for the kiddos, which means it’s time for a quick vacation. If traveling outside the state isn’t in your plans, Oklahoma has plenty of excellent spots to visit.

Wichita Mountains Wildlife Refuge & Visitors Center

Located near Lawton, the mountains offer a variety of activities for both solo and group outings. Hunting, fishing and backpacking are perfect for the spring weather, and there are free educational programs for people of all ages, including scavenger hunts and indoor birding. There are plenty of trails with campgrounds as well.

Medicine Park

Located in Comanche County and near the Wichita Mountains, Medicine Park was founded in 1908. With plenty of outdoor and indoor activities, this is a perfect family getaway. One of the most popular attractions is ParkStomp, a bluegrass celebration from March 15-17.

“Our first festival is perfect for spring break,” says Kaylee Horn, administrative assistant for Medicine Park. “It’s the kickoff to our busy season.”

There are also overnight options for those looking for a longer stay.

“There are rentals for couples to get away or a cabin for the whole family,” she says.

Little Sahara State Park

Located in Woods County, this park is perfect for the thrill seekers looking to drive across 1,650 acres of sand dunes.

“Visitors can bring their own ATV or rent one on site, and ride dunes ranging from 25 to 75 feet,” says Chase Horn, the communications director for the Oklahoma Department of Tourism and Recreation.

There are seven campgrounds if you want to stay overnight, complete with water and electricity.

“You won’t want to get off the dunes,” he says. “It’s a blast to be on an ATV in the mini-desert atmosphere.”

Carlton Landing

Located in Pittsburg County, this resortstyle town is perfect for relaxing over your well-earned break. The location has plenty of coastal vibes and a big selling point is the boat club, offering members access to luxurious ski and pontoon boats.

With a fleet of ski and pontoon boats, the water adventure route is a wonderful choice for a family looking to get some sun. There are also plenty of events, including Cinema on the Lawn and Saturday morning crafts.

Beaver’s Bend State Park

Located in McCurtain County, Beaver’s Bend is one of the most popular parks the state has to offer.

“With activities like hiking, horseback riding, fishing and golf, there is something for everyone at Beaver’s Bend,” says Chase Horn. The activities truly are endless, and there are plenty of booking options if you want to spend a few nights."

He also offers a must-see suggestion.

“You can’t visit Beaver’s Bend without stopping at the nature center to see some of the animal ambassadors,” he says. “Our naturalist always has activities that are fun and educational for kids.”

If you plan to return, Beaver’s Bend will also be in the path of totality for the 2024 total solar eclipse on April 8.

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From state parks to tiny towns, Oklahoma harbors plenty of spring break destinations. Photos courtesy Oklahoma Tourism & Recreation Wichita Mountains Wildlife Refuge & Visitors Center Beaver’s Bend State Park Little Sahara State Park Medicine Park

Total Eclipse of the Sun

Oklahoma off ers prime viewing for an upcoming astronomical event.

On April 8, Oklahomans will experience the Great North American Eclipse, which will last one hour, seven minutes and 58 seconds. As a total eclipse of the sun, the path of the solar eclipse in its totality may be viewed from Sinaloa and Coahuila, Mexico, into the Del Rio, Texas area, all the way through northeastern Maine, and into Ontario and Newfoundland, Canada.

A solar eclipse occurs “when the sun, moon and Earth are aligned just right, so that we see the moon pass in front of the sun,” says Brad Ferguson, public relations officer with the Oklahoma City Astronomy Club. “When the moon completely blocks the sun, the eclipse is total. If the blockage is not complete, it is partial.”

The entire state of Oklahoma will experience at least a partial eclipse of the sun in the early afternoon on April 8, says Ferguson.

“In Oklahoma City, the duration will be from about 12:30 p.m. to 3 p.m. on that day, and the depth of the eclipse will be quite noticeable, with the moon blocking more than 95% of the sun’s disc at mideclipse, which will occur about 1:45 p.m.”

A total eclipse will be visible in far southeastern Oklahoma, where the area will go completely dark at mid-eclipse. According to NASA, Idabel will experience this totality between 1:45 p.m. and 1:49 p.m., with the entire process, including partial eclipse, ranging from 12:28 p.m. to 3:06 p.m.

Of the viewing areas, Ferguson says: “The farther southwest you are, the better the view. The best possible spot is in western Mexico.”

There will be a partial eclipse across almost all of North America and a small part of western Europe, as well as the north of South America, and areas of the Pacific, Atlantic, and Arctic oceans.

Ferguson says that during the eclipse, “the air will get cool, animals will react and street lights will come on.”

If you happen to miss this one, you’ll have to bide your time for quite awhile.

“The next total solar eclipse in the U.S. will be during August of 2044, and Oklahoma will enjoy a total solar eclipse again in 2045, if you can wait that long,” says Ferguson.

A solar eclipse always occurs about two weeks before or after a lunar eclipse, or eclipse of the moon. From Earth, we may view two types of eclipses – solar and lunar. During most calendar years, there are two to five solar eclipses, and each may be viewed from a limited area of the Earth.

Viewing Safely

“Looking at the sun is always dangerous, except for those few minutes when the disc is entirely covered," says Ferguson. "One should only use special eclipse glasses, or project an image of the sun on a screen of some sort. For those staying in Oklahoma City during the eclipse, Oklahoma City Astronomy Club members will be stationed at Science Museum Oklahoma to assist the public with safe viewing of the event.”

Looking directly at a solar eclipse will severely harm a person’s eyes. Search online for helpful instructions on how to make a pinhole projector or a box pinhole projector, and other ways to safely view the eclipse.

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This map shows where in the U.S. viewers can experience a full (red line) and partial (shades of yellow) eclipse. Photo courtesy TimeandDate.com

The State | Music

e Feminine In uence

Women are prevalent in Oklahoma’s music scene, from country to alternative to soul.

Mallory Eagle says she fell in love with music “in the womb.”

The story goes that when her mother was pregnant with her, she attended a ZZ Top concert. Her mom told her later that “she kicked through the entire show – on beat.”

Eagle is still kicking up fun through her own music, which she describes as “roots country with Americana influence.”

The Oklahoma-City based artist, who has been working for about a decade in the industry, says her influences include Alison Krauss, Bob Wills, Marty Stuart and “the queens,” – Dolly Parton and Reba McEntire.

Eagle says one of her career highlights was when she performed with the bluegrass band Kate and Forrest O’Connor in a showcase for the International Bluegrass Music Association.

“All my heroes were there,” she says.

Another proud moment for her – and a goal for many musicians – was performing at the iconic Cain’s Ballroom.

“There’s just something about playing in a venue that you went to as a kid in your home state,” she says.

Eagle says that when on stage, her most consistent emotions are excitement and gratitude.

“It’s a joyful thing to be a songbird and get with other songbirds and make things happen,” she says. “It’s a gift, and I treasure it.”

Also OKC-based, Penny Pitchlynn says a bond forms between herself and fans when she’s onstage.

“It’s really energizing,” she says. “I think that’s the place I feel very connected to others. There’s a bit of peace once I’m up there.”

Pitchlynn’s audiences have varied from her performances at open-mic nights when she was in college to international venues while touring and playing bass with indie rockers BRONCHO. There are also her performances with LABRYS, her solo songwriting project.

Her audience has expanded to TV in recent years, as some of her work was featured on popular shows like Reservation Dogs and Better ings

Alternative and classic rock influenced her growing up, but Pitchlynn says she’s “always listened to everything.”

During her 14-year career in music, Pitchlynn says an experience that stands out was during her international tour with BRONCHO.

“The opportunity to travel and play music everywhere we go never ceases to be amazingly fulfilling,” says Pitchlynn, who advises anyone with a musical dream to shoot for the stars.

“Just do it. Just make the music,” she says. “If you really work on your craft, it will pay you back eventually.”

Branjae has always been drawn to dynamic performers. Growing up, she was influenced by Michael Jackson, Prince, Diana Ross, Freddie Mercury and Tina Turner – inspired by their artistry, energy, vision and storytelling.

Those influences are apparent in her music and performances.

“I’m a multi-genre artist,” says Branjae, who describes her sound as “Black American music” that fuses genres such as soul, jazz, R&B and reggae. Performing brings her joy and purpose.

“I am my best self when I’m on stage," she says.

Branjae has worked in the industry for 20 years, and says one of her proudest moments was performing at the famous Apollo Theater in New York City, soaking up the energy and appreciating the history of the artists who came before her.

She says another burst of pride comes for her “when I see young female artists and young female fans grow into their own artistry – that is the best accomplishment to me.”

Branjae hopes others take notice and support female artists who often face challenges in the male-dominated industry.

“I just really want people to pay attention to women. Listen to what we’re saying,” she says. “Women are making some amazing music.”

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Photo courtesy Mallory Eagle Photo courtesy Branjae Photo courtesy Penny Pitchlynn

e Draws of Live Music

When it comes to exploring local music, experts agree: don’t be a jerk, just be curious.

The live music experience is one that’s hard to match. Something about the atmosphere, hearing the music being played right in front of you and the sense of community in the crowd gives you goosebumps. Luckily for live-music-lovin’ Okies, there’s a wealth of talented folks in the state –and they could be playing right in your neighborhood.

Thelma’s Peach, a music venue and bar located in Tulsa’s Kendall-Whittier district, is the brainchild of owner Andrew O’Meilia. Thelma’s aims to please all of the senses, “carrying the living room-style feel,” says O’Meilia. “Really comfortable, good lighting, good sound and good drinks. [Thelma’s Peach] has a multifaceted approach as a bar.”

Thelma’s – or the first iteration of it, anyway – began as a DIY show space in O’Meilia’s backyard.

“There’s a shelf life of having shows in one’s backyard,” he says. The current venue, he says, “allows us to build a brand and a business.”

And although O’Meilia is a music enthusiast, he’s no music snob.

“We have an all-inclusive environment,” he says. “Everyone’s welcome, as long as you’re not acting like a jerk.”

Ensuring that patrons are not, indeed, acting like jerks is so important to O’Meilia that it’s printed right on the door. Why? Because “[Thelma’s] is a place for everyone to let their hair down and be themselves,” he says.

Another local venue that encourages patrons to just be is the Blue Door out of Oklahoma City.

“When I started doing this, I wanted to provide a place for songwriters to build their audience and a place for the community to come and find great music that they otherwise would not know about,” explains owner Greg Johnson. “The most important thing is connecting with the audience and developing a space for that to happen.”

While the Blue Door leans more toward the folk and Americana genres when booking acts, Johnson explains that he’s really just looking for good musicians.

“All a person has to do is show me their songs, and if I like them, I’ll book them,” he says. “We’ll try to get people to come see [the show]. That’s how you become part of the Blue Door scene – you write good songs.”

If you plan to head to the Blue Door, or any local music venue, Johnson encourages you to stay open-minded.

“I want to see listeners get curious about music they’ve never heard before,” he says.

The ‘next Nashville or Austin?’

When attempting to find comparisons for Oklahoma’s burgeoning music scene, many say our major metros are the ‘next Nashville’ or ‘next Austin.’ Both O’Meilia and Johnson have spent some time in those cities, and have unique perspectives on how Oklahoma’s music scene compares.

“The wealth of talent, in Tulsa in particular, is through the roof,” says O’Meilia. “Within our community, I think we can keep the momentum going in the right direction and hopefully elevate a handful of artists that can take us to the next level.”

As for Greg’s perspective: “There’s so much great music in Oklahoma, I don’t like to split it up between Tulsa and Oklahoma City. If you’re a good player, you can jump into a scene, be known and get your songs heard. That’s where the music community comes in. It doesn’t matter whether [Oklahoma] has publishing houses or record companies, as long as there’s a community of musicians to meet each other, that’s what makes the Oklahoma music scene – in Tulsa and Oklahoma City – cool.”

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Greg Johnson, owner of the Blue Door in OKC
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Smaller live music venues give local musicians a platform to thrive. Photos courtesy the Blue Door

A Farewell to Mr. Mystery

Tulsa legend Jim Millaway was involved in numerous Oklahoma-based entertainment off erings.

His name was Jim Millaway, but to a generation of Oklahomans, he was Sherman Oaks, or Mr. Mystery, or even sportscaster Stan Sharpe (“It’s not whether you win or lose, it’s whether you beat the point spread”), a character he created during his time as a morning-drive personality on radio station KMOD. His media visibility began in 1970 and ran for somewhere around a decade and a half, establishing him as a comedic cult figure known for his off-trail humor and unique angle of vision. Millaway, who died on December 23 of last year, will be remembered with fondness by a ton of Tulsa-area baby boomers for a good long time.

Almost from the beginning of his Tulsa media run, I knew him. And for about two decades, from the ’80s into the dawning of the 21st century, we were best friends.

I first met Jim in the summer of 1970, only a couple of months after a late-night show called e Uncanny Film Festival & Camp Meeting had debuted on KOTV, Channel 6, in Tulsa. Hosted by Dr. Mazeppa Pompazoidi, created by Jim’s friend Gailard Sartain, and featuring Millaway’s characters Mr. Mystery and Sherman Oaks in support, the Mazeppa show – as it would soon become popularly known – came squarely out of the tradition established in the late 1950s with a national effort called Shock eater. It was an invention of the Screen Gems company, which had released a package of old theatrical monster movies to TV and suggested that local television stations use their own talent to introduce the films. Soon, dozens of horror hosts doing ghoulish and ostensibly funny sketches around segments of the films had popped up all over the country (including on KOTV itself, where the characters Igor and Hornstaff did the honors).

Sartain, Millaway and their cohorts took that basic Shock eater premise and put a youthful, subversively irreverent, and wildly humorous spin on it. It wasn’t long before word got out and kids all over

northeastern Oklahoma were tuning in. It was comedy that belonged to them, not their folks, and they dug it.

Coincidentally, the Mazeppa show’s threeyear run dovetailed with a magical time in Tulsa – the legendary, if brief, period that saw Leon Russell, who’d become a wildly successful international superstar, return to his hometown, blanketing the city with rock ‘n’ roll stardust. He became a fan of the Mazeppa show, leading to one of its most memorable episodes, the 1970 Christmas special.

In that one, Millaway, as the ski-masked Mr. Mystery, spends much of the show bragging about how he knows “Paul McCartley” and other famous rockers whose names he consistently butchers. At the end, he pulls off his mask, and it’s Leon Russell himself, who then sits down at the piano and does a song. My group out of Oklahoma State University, the Beef Squad, guested on that same episode; we had been the first band to play the Mazeppa show, and I believe that was our last appearance, as I went on active military duty the next year.

By the time the holiday number aired, Gailard, Jim and I had become good friends. I remember coming home on leave in 1972, fresh out of Vietnam. Jim took me to Boston Avenue Market, a live-music club at 18th and Boston. There, I saw firsthand how Leon Russell’s return had altered Tulsa’s reality. The entire clientele seemed to be made up

of unemployed backup singers and young members of the British nobility.

At one point in the evening, looking around the noisy, uber-hip scene, Millaway told me, “You know, if you could somehow get Rolling Stone a week early, you’d own everyone in this place.”

By the time I finished my active duty, in December of ’73, the Mazeppa show was no more. Sartain had gone on to join the cast of the nationally syndicated country-music variety show Hee Haw and was beginning to find the sorts of film roles that would establish him as an enduring Hollywood character actor. Another Mazeppa show cast member, Gary Busey, was also starting to see the first stirrings of his own long-term cinema success.

Millaway, however, took his opportunities around his hometown, except for a brief foray to the West Coast in the late ’70s, where he became a staff writer for the Shields and Yarnell television show, “writing comedy for mimes,” as he sardonically described it to me at the time. (Sartain was a cast member on the program.) I also remember doing a radio appearance with Gailard and Jim after my military service; I believe that series was called e Un lmy Can Festival. The two of them spent most of our interview time remarking about how my face had cleared up since I’d gone overseas.

In the subsequent years, Millaway wrote material for country stars Roy Clark and

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Jim Millaway created beloved characters like Sherman Oaks, Mr. Mystery and Stan Sharpe. Photos courtesy James Millaway

Hank Thompson, had the aforementioned morning-show run at the top-rated KMOD, and spun that gig off into a job as the host of Creature Feature (later Groovy Movie), another sketch-comedy series wrapped around old theatrical features. Airing on KOKI, Channel 23, and co-starring Steve Pickle, it featured an exceptionally talented young woman going by the name of Jeannie Summers, who’d been working with Millaway at KMOD. Under her real name, Jeanne Tripplehorn, she would go on – like Sartain and Busey before her – to a notable and lasting career in the movies.

In the mid-’80s, Millaway hosted an hourlong special, e Sherman Oaks Comedy Network, which guest-starred Sartain, who appeared in a Spam-carving segment. The one-shot program also utilized a couple of 16mm films from my collection – an episode of the ‘60s ABC-TV series Expedition called “The Vanishing Musk Ox,” and an instructional short called “How to Twirl a Baton.”

Collecting and watching old 16mm films, especially in the days before home video became fully established, was one of the things Jim and our families enjoyed sharing. We also got into baseball – cards, games, and a fantasy league with some other friends – along with comic books and, especially,

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pulp magazines, those garish all-fiction publications that thrived in the ‘30s and ‘40s. Together, Jim and I traveled to a number of pulp-magazine conventions, where we never failed to have a fine old time.

Jim – who for some reason called me “Jabbo” – was one of those guys who would blurt out stuff for comedic effect wherever he was, especially if he knew it would make you a little uncomfortable. I remember, for instance, being in a crowded elevator with him when he started asking me, in a loud voice, if I’d gotten any new items for my “hats of the world collection.”

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about headgear until we mercifully reached our floor.

Although he rarely imbibed more than one or two beers at a sitting, for many years Jim was a member of the Drinklings, a loose group of writers and musicians who gathered regularly after work to hoist a few. Sipping at his beer, he would dispense acerbic, off-kilter wisdom, something he really seemed to enjoy. I remember, also, that he was a very open-fisted guy, the kind who was quick to pick up a tab.

When I think about him, though, I keep going back to an incident that happened on a flight we were taking to a pulp-mag convention in Ohio. Later on, we found out that there had been a pinhole leak in the cabin; however, at the time the plane went into a virtual nosedive, losing hundreds of feet of altitude in seconds, we had no clue about what was happening. The oxygen masks wriggled down and an obviously flustered stewardess came through, exhorting us all to put them on immediately.

Jim and I did. And as the plane continued streaking downward, with kids screaming and people shouting all around us, he looked at me and said, “I like the flight better where they serve lunch.”

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Life & Style

Posh Galore in St. Barts

Visit Saint Barthélemy for the getaway of a lifetime.

What do you get when you mix a little Beverly Hills with a little Caribbean island? St. Barthélemy, known as St. Barth to the French and St. Barts to Americans. No matter what you call it, it’s indisputably the posh headquarters of the Caribbean. Although it’s known for being a French locale, the capital town of Gustavia actually has Swedish origins.

This travel writer arrived in St. Barths by cruise ship tender – a perfect crescendo of anticipation along the gleaming sea to the port. Super yachts in view also helped define the glamor of this tropical haven. Although it is said that St. Barts is where “the billionaires go to get away from the millionaires,” there are many polite, friendly locals who dispel that image. Every shop you enter, you’re greeted with a heartfelt “Bonjour!” and the merchants at even the highest end shops are happy to help you.

Designer label stores define the shopping area, along with local boutiques showcasing trendy and whimsical wares. You instantly become a part of the vibe of all things posh in St. Barts. Patisseries, creperies and cafes adorn the sidewalks, as well as a modest tavern or two. Find the perfect spot in the shade after some time on the beach, or visit a wine cellar, like the Lounge Barons de Rothschilds. A spoonful of caviar with a chilled glass of white wine or champagne is the ultimate way to relax and absorb the joie de vive of the locals. The winery and restaurant owners can give a delightful “tutorial” on your wine or caviar choices.

Spend time on the white, sandy beaches, or better yet visit, on Shell Beach. The tiny, smooth shells are entrancing to look at and step on as you enter the most buoyant water that keeps you constantly

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Colorful vistas, crystal clear water and ample shopping excursions comprise a luxurious vacation in St. Barts. Photos by Gina Michalopulos Kingsley

afloat. The cove set within its boulders is magical. Cactus trees growing on the boulders where goats perch is quite the tableau for the sunbathers below. A profusion of tiny, yellow butterflies emerges from the boulder while iguanas slither in and out of crevices.

Just as you’re reveling in all the natural beauty, you’ll start to notice the beauty of the people, too. Schoolchildren with their teachers carry kayaks out onto the beach for a field trip. Angelic faces astound you as they walk hand in hand across the street following their guides.

St. Barts is not only a playground for the glitterati but it’s also where New Year’s Eve is celebrated in grand style. The extravagant vessels in the marina prove this exclusivity.

One of the reasons why St. Barts is so popular is because of the water, which is considered perfect for sailing. With more than 300 sunny days a year, the island offers several beaches along less than eight square miles of land. The crystalline, turquoise waters are inviting for snorkeling or swimming. Even in November, the water is walk-in ready temperature.

Amble through the streets to enjoy the neighborhoods and architecture. Do some people-watching, buy exotic cigars, and let the magic of St. Barts sink into your spirit. You’ll soon be planning your next vacation there – whether it’s a couples getaway, friends trip or solitary retreat. The island is also known as an idyllic honeymoon destination. No matter what the reason to visit – just do it!

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e Power of Donation

Living organ donors save lives and give hope.

Organ, eye and tissue donation helps ease suffering – and it drastically improves and saves lives, too. According to the Organ Procurement and Transplantation Network (OPTN), more than 100,000 men, women and children are on the national transplant waiting list – more than 700 being Oklahomans – and 17 people die each day waiting for an organ. OPTN shares that a

compatibility,” says Samara. “The donor is assigned a Donor Advocate that will assist them throughout their journey, making sure they are well informed during each step.”

One of the opportunities for a living kidney donation is through a paired exchange.

“We did Oklahoma’s first paired exchange 15 years ago on Valentine’s Day,” says Samara. “For patients enrolled in paired exchange, they have a living donor but they aren’t a match, usually because of blood group incompatibility or antibody tissue incompatibility. Through the use of OPTN’s national kidney paired donation system, we’re able to search throughout the country for potential matches.”

He says in the past, donors and recipients typically knew each other or were related, but with today’s social media landscape, new

“It’s amazing how many people reach out on social media and find a donor,” says Samara. “A few years ago, we had a transplant recipient who met their donor through a gaming chat room. It’s been wonderful to see the new ways people are searching because it’s expanded the pool of potential donors.”

He adds that it’s important for donors to know that they can remain anonymous, and their information is never shared with their intended recipient – and that if a donation occurs, they can look forward to a full recovery.

“If we do our job correctly, whoever is donating a kidney should feel comfortable knowing that they’re going to live their life normally, even with one kidney,” he says. “The vast majority of kidney donor surgeries are done laparoscopically, which is a minimally invasive approach with small incisions. The average hospital stay is two nights, with the ability to drive in two weeks, and resumed normal activities in four to six weeks.” REBECCA FAST

Join the Registry

LifeShare Oklahoma, a nonprofit organ procurement organization dedicated to the recovery of organs and tissue for transplant purposes, shares the three simple ways you

1. When getting your driver’s license, state ID or Real ID, you can say yes to organ, eye and tissue donation, as indicated by a red heart on your license or ID.

2. Register online at LifeShareRegistry.

3. Call LifeShare at 800-826-LIFE (5433) and request a donor registration form be mailed to you.

For more information about becoming an organ donor, visit lifeshareoklahoma.org.

Life & Style | Health

Staying Prepared

Learning CPR only takes a few hours, but can arm you with the knowledge to save a life.

If you see someone experiencing a cardiac event, calling 911 may not be enough. But what else can you do to help?

“Accidents and emergencies can happen to anyone, anytime,” says Misti McClellan, executive director of the central and southwest chapters of the American Red Cross. “We encourage everyone to learn first aid, CPR [cardiopulmonary resuscitation] and how to use an AED [automated external defibrillator] so they can act in an emergency. Every second counts, so people need to know what to do until medical help arrives.”

According to McClellan, the Red Cross offers a variety of online, instructor-led and blended courses that include online content and in-person skills sessions.

“This allows you to choose the type of class for your schedule, and for the way you learn best,” she says. “American Red Cross CPR classes take just a few short hours, but the skills you’ll learn during the process can make all the difference to someone in need.”

While learning CPR isn’t too hard, it's trickier to know when to use it.

“If the person appears unresponsive, check for responsiveness, breathing, life-threatening bleeding or other lifethreatening conditions,” says McClellan. “If the person does not respond and is not breathing – or only gasping – call 911 and get equipment, or tell someone else to get it, and begin compressions.”

One thing to remember is that CPR skills need to be refreshed.

“Like many things, if you don’t use your [CPR] skills frequently, they’re often easy to forget,” says McClellan. “We provide resources to support your continued learning.”

In addition to offering CPR certification, the American Red Cross also provides re-certification for current certificate holders, alongside continuing education credits for nurses, first responders, social workers and teachers.

“Currently, we are approved to award CEUs [continuing education units] in Preparedness and Health and Safety Services courses, such as CPR/first aid, swimming and water safety, lifeguarding, babysitting and so on,” says McClellan.

More information can be found at redcross.org/takeaclass for specifics on courses, locations and registration. To reach the Training Support Center, call 1-800-RED-CROSS and select the “training” menu prompt.

“I just heard this statistic on a phone call that may be of use,” McClellan mentions. “Seventy three percent of all out-of-

hospital cardiac arrests happen at home. That means the life you will be saving is most likely someone in your family or house.”

Check out a CPR class online or near you – it may save a life.

When Disaster Strikes

According to the American Heart Association’s website, just two steps can help someone in a life-threatening situation:

• Call 9-1-1 or ask someone else in the vicinity to call.

• Push hard and fast in the center of the person’s chest until help arrives.

Try to minimize interruptions in the compressions, and ensure compressions are of adequate depth and rate. Don’t lean on the victim between compressions. Learn proper hand placement now before an emergency ensues.

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A Town on the Move

Alongside nature off erings galore, bustling Talihina is one of the prime viewing locations for the upcoming solar eclipse.

Nestled between two scenic, majestic mountains, the LeFlore County town of Talihina and its surrounding environs have long been noted as among the most beautiful spots in Oklahoma.

Spring and the return of colorful vegetation generally bring people to the area, as does the spectacular fall foliage. But come this April, the area is expected to draw visitors who’ll be turning not so much to the mosaic of scenery, but to the skies.

A solar eclipse will take place on April 8, and southeastern Oklahoma is considered by astronomers and scientists to be one of the prime viewing areas.

Visitors are expected to flock to the area, and especially the famed Talimena National Scenic Byway, to take advantage of its 22 lookout points – and while there, to take in the panorama that nature offers.

Chase Horn, communications director for Oklahoma’s Tourism Department and State Parks, says Talimena State Park, seven miles north of Talihina, is one of three state parks in southeastern Oklahoma where the eclipse will be total. This means that in the Talihina area, the sun will be in total eclipse for about a minute and a half.

“This is a great opportunity to experience something so cool,” says Horn.

Located seven miles north of Talihina, the park offers ten RV hookups and ten tent pads.

Horn says officials are working with local law enforcement and federal forestry officials to make sure people not acclimated to camping can view the eclipse safely. The park also offers pavilions, comfort stations and showers, and Horn says that as the eclipse nears, campsites will go fast. Reservations can be made through the department’s website – oklahoma.gov.

The park is at the eastern entrance to the Talimena National Scenic Byway – 54 miles of mountain beauty from Talihina to Mena, Ark. Horn says the park represents

“a great area to get away from everything. There’s not much cell phone reception, which in this day and age is a good thing.”

Braden Davis, park manager, says the park is becoming better known, judging by the increasing occupancy rate. Fall is busiest, but this year might be the exception due to the eclipse.

Talihina, with a population of just over 1,000 residents, lies between the Winding Stair and Kiamichi mountains. The town was established in 1884, and according to the Oklahoma Historical Society, grew with the coming of the Frisco Railway.

By 1920, Talihina sported two banks, three churches, seven general stores and two sawmill operations. The name is a contraction of two Choctaw words that mean “iron road,” according to the Historical Society.

When not focused on the naturally scenic setting, Talihina is an inviting city in and of itself. According to the Talihina Chamber of Commerce, the area is a “city on the move” while still encompassing the small-town feel.

Outdoor sports and tourism have long been economically important to Talihina. Activities available include hiking, mountain biking and four-wheeler riding, camping and boating, hunting and fishing, and horseback riding – all with spectacular photograph opportunities.

For More Information:

Talihina Chamber of Commerce 918-567-3434 talihinacc.com

Town of Talihina 918-567-2194 townoftalihina.org

Ouachita National Forest fs.usda.gov/ouachita 918-653-2991

Talimena State Park 918-471-5394

Talimena Scenic Drive Association talimenadrive.com

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Home to Talimena State Park, Talihina offers outdoor activities like hiking, camping and mountain biking. Photos courtesy Oklahoma Tourism & Recreation
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FRESH Perspectives

Your home should be your haven, and experts around Oklahoma work hard to ensure clients’ visions become reality. The professionals discuss trends in and outside the home, from water features to sustainable practices and tech you’ve got to try. We also take a tour of a Grand Lake getaway and explore some popular home improvement projects to add to your list.

IN THE HOME

A Look at the Trends

Current in-home trends reflect homeowners’ inclinations to nestle into the quiet luxury of understated opulence, rather than indulge in flashy design, says builder Kent Hoffman, owner of the OKC-based Kent Hoffman Construction. Instead of moving, today’s homeowners also want to improve their existing spaces.

While the 2020 pandemic led to a rise in home office installations, Hoffman says that “COVID focused people more on improving their homes in general, as they’re spending a lot of time there. The thinking is that if it happened again, our homes would be ready. And some people aren’t traveling as much, so they’re using that income to improve their homes.”

Many people are opting to re-do kitchens and upgrade primary bedrooms with ensuite bathrooms and closet expansions.

“There’s also a great demand for outdoor living spaces,” says Hoffman. “This can be as simple as a patio or as involved as a covered outdoor living room with sun-blocking blinds, a TV, heating, a fireplace – and frequently this includes a pool.”

But trends vary with the scale and price point.

“We are blessed to work in a very highend world of projects,” says Hoffman. “We are getting more requests for two kitchens – a main kitchen and additional prep kitchen that is often a ‘butler’s pantry.’ The open living concept is still popular, but now people are also wanting a separate dining room. Overall, kitchens opening to a family room and onto an outdoor living room are popular, as a lot of living goes on in those spaces.”

Style choices can vary widely, he says, but in general, modern style is au currant with people seeking that clean, sleek, open ambiance with light colors and countertops.

Home Improvement

Home improvement projects continue to be a consumer draw to build equity in one’s home as well as curate features to fit the desires of a homeowner. Current demand is high to incorporate multigenerational spaces – meaning additional entrances for parents or for kids moving back home, as well as basements with full kitchens and baths and multi-use playrooms. A record number of baby boomers are aging in place as well, creating a need for safety improvements like walk-in tubs and stair lifts.

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OKC-based contractor Kent Hoff man says that open concepts – kitchens blending with living rooms blending with outdoor spaces – are a major request for many of his clients. Photo courtesy Kent Hoff man Construction

“I try to incorporate some water element in every project we do, and rarely do clients turn down the option – as people love that sound of trickling, babbling water," says Tulsa-based architect Brian Freese.

Kathy Caviness with OKC-based Caviness Landscape and Design has noticed other priority shifts in recent years.

“During the pandemic and immediate post-pandemic time, we saw very linear designs with a very balanced view. It was a needed space for order in a very unpredictable time,” she says. “While those designs are necessary to reflect certain architectural styles, people are coming back to a more natural setting that creates more of an escape and can bring more nature into the space. Enhancements like water features and fire features bring a peaceful aesthetic as well.”

Caviness continues: “A big trend in 2024 is a concentration on health benefits. Outdoor cold plunge features starting around $4,900 are rising in popularity due to the health benefits. These built-in cold plunges can be integrated into the landscape like a hot tub or spa would be. The benefits are numerous – from enhanced mood and focus to reduction in inflammation and muscle soreness. Saunas are rising in popularity again as well. When combining the two, the benefits improve even more. Integrating both into a landscape design where they can blend in and not be an eyesore can be achieved with an experienced landscape designer.”

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Photo courtesy Freese Architecture

Keeping It Sustainable

Going green continues to remain a top priority for homeowners and designers in 2024. Practices to become more sustainable run the gamut and include energy efficient lighting; the use of recycled, repurposed or reclaimed materials; upgrading and sealing windows and doors to reduce the need for air conditioning; purchasing energy-efficient appliances; solar energy usage; eco-friendly paint for renovations or new projects; and even growing food-bearing gardens.

“I see a greater awareness and requests for environmentally sustainable materials and for smaller houses with more efficient use of square footage,” says Brian Freese, owner of Tulsa-based Freese Architecture. “There is a greater desire to create homes and spaces more personally meaningful and not designed to impress others. We are designing our homes to be intentionally spare in the selection of materials so there is a greater emphasis on overall space and volume and connection to outdoors.”

The demand for solar energy incorporation is rising, Freese says, adding that both residential and business projects are finding value in that investment.

“We’re also seeing an increase in the desire for the use of natural materials such as repurposed materials, wood and stone,” he says. “There is more information out every day about the embedded chemicals in construction projects with VOC –volatile organic compounds – and the dangers of VOC outgassing has more people choosing natural materials.”

IN THE GARDEN

Outdoor Trends

Immersing oneself in nature, especially in the garden, is one of life’s richest rewards, and trends continue to reflect a reverence for sustainability in gardening efforts. Other green trends include houseplants that provide pops of color, indoor wall gardens with oxygen-enhancing properties, indoor trees and hortifuturism –which is the practice of creating futuristic-looking gardens for maximum entertainment. (Think metallic hues, neon colors and unique plant shapes.)

“There is still a huge trend in bringing indoor living to the outside, creating additional ‘rooms’ as spaces to entertain, a place to retreat, or an outdoor kitchen or dining area," says Caviness. "A firepit creates a great conversation space, while a pool is a great place to entertain and/or retreat. A space to work from home in a covered patio is a new trend.”

Hoffman agrees that outdoor living continues in popularity, along with a nod to sustainability.

“We’re seeing a lot of demand for synthetic grass in outdoor patios and outdoor living rooms,” says Hoffman. “It is especially popular for older people and people who travel a lot in general. Here in Oklahoma, it can be difficult to maintain lawns with our severe climate, and there is the cost of water and a conservation aspect of it. – fertilization and mowing and all those things associated with natural grass, so we have this big move to move to synthetic."

Health Benefits of A Green Thumb

The Mayo Clinic says gardening has a variety of health benefits, including increased exercise – as gardening is more active than people realize. It also improves diet and fiber intake if you’re growing

your own produce. Reducing stress and spending time in nature are also priceless benefits of getting one’s hands in the dirt and spending time under the sun; AARP reports that outdoor time increases one’s vitamin D levels and lowers the risk of dementia due to physical activity and emotional engagement. Experts also point to possible social benefits from participation in community garden efforts and local gardening clubs.

Types of Gardens

A garden reflects its owner, and each is a unique product of that constructive interaction with nature. There are a variety of garden types that appeal to different folks and locations.

Garden styles range from classic to modern and everything in between, like rock gardens, designed to look like a natural part of the surroundings. Other types include Japanese, English cottage, Mediterranean, tropical and desert styles. For those short on space, try container gardening or go vertical with a garden built on a supportive structure to create a green wall in the home or outside.

Pollinator gardens are an option designed with the intent of growing specific nectar and pollen-producing plants to attract pollinating insects.

How to Start a Garden

Turning a yard into a garden starts with deciding on placement and then testing the soil with the experts to determine what types of items to plant. Testing kits are available at chain retailers, or you can submit samples to the Tulsa County OSU Extension Center or the OSU Soil Testing Laboratory in OKC. Experts suggest choosing native plants and establishing garden beds before planting seeds and seedlings. Mulching retains water and maintenance tasks include fertilization, watering and weeding.

A basic set of gardening tools, according to e Old Farmer’s Almanac, includes a hand trowel, a cultivator, spades and shovels, rakes, pruning shears, a wheelbarrow, a watering can and a gardening hose.

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Tech-O-Clock

Home safety and security never go out of style, and Hoffman continues to see a focus on security technology “that is all tied to the homeowners’ phone, where they can monitor and control things like sound, lighting, temperature control, the garage door, appliances and audio/visual. You name it, and there is an app that will automate your phone and devices.”

When it comes to in-home tech, “connectivity is constantly evolving, incorporating everything from air purification systems to automatic window and shower cleaners, entertainment hubs that connect all devices into one, and even programmable smart bulbs that use LED technology.

“Contractors are seeing a rise in high tech doorbells, security cameras and digital security locks, as this technology is becoming more affordably accessible,” says Hoffman.

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Architect Brian Freese says he's seen a rise in clients requesting sustainable materials, as well as smaller homes with a more eff icient use of square footage. Photo courtesy Freese Architecture

COMBINING INDOOR AND OUTDOOR

Perfecting Water Features

Water features remain high in homeowner popularity – both indoor and outdoor.

“We do a wide array of outdoor water features,” says Freese. “I try to incorporate some water element in every project we do, and rarely do clients turn down the option – as people love that sound of trickling, babbling water. In my own office entry courtyard, there’s a water feature in the middle, and it’s a captivating example for clients to reference.

“Indoor features tend to be smaller and are always very present, creating sound,” Freese continues. “Typical indoor placement is in

“The first thing to consider are the easements of the property, as that will determine the placement choices for the pool,” she says. “Another thing to consider is your lifestyle. Do you like to entertain? What is the topography of the site? We always ask to make a list of the features you desire in the order of what is important to you, and we can tell you whether those features will fit into your budget.”

Perfecting the Patio

A patio is the launching point for outdoor living, whether placed in the backyard, side yard or even front yard. When planning a patio, start with the sun’s placement, says Hoffman.

“Decide what you are trying to do with that sunlight,” he says. “If it’s a west facing house, that is different than facing the other directions, so see what the sun does and work accordingly. Most patios we do are off the main house and become a beautiful outdoor living room, and they often have a roof and even vaulted ceilings with wood beams and fans.

“Typically, we install infrared heaters to make the space a yearround asset, especially if there’s a cigar or cigarette smoker involved. The patios often have fireplaces to add to the all-seasons functionality. Including kitchenettes is also common, as well as a cooking station for grilling.”

stairwells, entries and/or adjacent to living and dining rooms. In a recent project, the indoor water feature was in the entry vestibule right off the garage and incorporated a small waterfall into a basin to calm and activate that spot as a soothing experience when coming home.”

Hoffman typically creates outdoor water features “as part of a patio,” he says. “The water feature is often a fountain that the owner has purchased, or perhaps we’ll incorporate a waterfall with a new swimming pool, often with the infinity edge to the pool. We just finished a project with an 8-foot-tall wall of water cascading down tiles and falling into the pool.”

Swimming pools tend to be the centerpiece of many water features, says Caviness – but it requires some research before breaking ground.

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Pools with natural looking waterfall enhancements remain a popular request with clients for Kathy Caviness. Photo courtesy Caviness Landscape and Design Kent Hoff man advises those hoping to make an outdoor patio to be mindful of which direction they plan to build in. Photo courtesy Kent Hoff man Construction

A GRAND LAKE GETAWAY

Family fun and stunning lake view living inspired interior designer Mel Bean’s recent Shangri La Grand Lake project which, once completed and staged, was revealed to the entire extended family at once.

“This was a second home for a couple with grown daughters who have nearby lake houses,” says Bean, owner of Mel Bean Interiors. “This is a home for multi-generational experiences, and the inspiration drew from the lake environment and epic views for a family of very warm, hospitable people.

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The design took a Southern hospitality approach, straddling traditional style with a casual lake house for a cozy, welcoming result.”

Entertaining is a priority, she says, and the design encompasses spaces that invite intimate gatherings, including a dining nook off the main living and kitchen area as well as a card room with a bar and a moody-hued game lounge for a club-like experience.

Bean was surprised that this cozy, darker card room – unlike the lightness of the rest of the home – has become a place that’s frequented often.

“They really do use it all throughout the day,” she says. “It’s in the front of the house, and you can look through to the back and see the lake, or the front for open fields and endless sky out the large window. It’s a spot where they make daily calls and emails from the game table and have a glass of wine in the evenings. With the large, glass pocket doors that open, it’s both spacious and intimate.”

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For Bean, working with the family was her favorite part of the creation process.

“After we did the presentation process for the plan with the family, they trusted us and didn’t see it until the final reveal, which was a lot of fun,” she says. “They were so engaged and excited and trusted us to see the vision through. We always listen to the client and take inspiration from their ideas to inform the direction of the project. But we also push their boundaries a bit, and present concepts that may be beyond their comfort zones. For example, there is a console table in the foyer entry that is a bit dramatic, and at first they weren’t sure. But now it’s one of their favorite pieces.”

The project was a spirited and creative collaboration between the designer and the lady of the house with input from her daughters. The husband? Bean says his only caveat was the inclusion of comfortable recliners – and that he found the end result far more beautiful than he’d ever imagined.

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101 INSURANCE

Insurance. It’s not a topic that brings most people unbridled excitement. Some would say it’s even boring – until you need it, that is. Spending just a little time educating yourself about insurance, learning the basics and chatting with a professional to ensure you’re on track, can be both a figurative and literal lifesaver.

HEALTH INSURANCE

What is it?

At its core, health insurance is an agreement between you and a health insurance provider, stating that the provider will pay all or some of any qualifying medical expenses you incur.

Matt Brown, life and health insurance agent with the Tulsa-based office of Rich & Cartmill, Inc., explains the essence of health insurance in simple terms.

“I think health insurance is protection for that, ‘what if’ day,” he says. “To be there for the worst case scenario, if it were to happen, [and] to protect you from medical bankruptcy, is the ultimate goal.”

And, unfortunately, the risk of financial problems due to an injury or illness is a real possibility. According to the American Public Health Association, medical bills

are one of the most frequent causes of financial hardship in America.

Brown stresses that it is important not to assume you can’t afford health insurance without getting all the information.

“More and more people are qualifying for a tax credit through healthcare.gov,” says Brown. “So when they think they can’t afford it, they actually can. There’s situations or circumstances that are in place, that maybe … their adjusted gross income actually qualifies them for some monthly savings that they can use for the cost of their insurance. So they don’t have to go without. It’s worth the investigation to see that, based off [their] family size and [their] family income, they’re going to qualify.”

How do I get it?

In most cases, the best way to obtain individual or family health insurance is through an employer group plan. So check with your place of employment first to determine if it provides health insurance as an employment benefit. If health insurance is not a benefit offered by your employer or you are unemployed, you’ll need to look a little further.

Brown recommends shopping for health insurance through the federal health insurance marketplace, healthcare.gov. Here, shoppers can check out the healthcare insurance options available in their county. This is where you can find information regarding whether or not you are eligible for a federally funded subsidy to help you pay for your coverage as well, says Brown.

“A subsidy helps them … pay for a portion of their premium if they qualify, based off of their household size and household income,” says Brown.

There is a third option for obtaining health insurance by contacting insurance companies directly or working with a health insurance agent or broker.

What should I know about enrollment?

At the end of each year, it’s important to re-examine your health insurance plan. Make sure that it’s still serving your needs, and determine if any changes need to be made. Because, typically, you can only make these changes during a specific time of the year – the enrollment period, or open enrollment.

Be sure to watch for information about the enrollment period if you’re using your employer-offered health insurance. There will be a window of time, typically in November or December each year, when you will be asked to enroll for your employer’s health insurance plan for the next calendar year. This is the time to make any changes to that plan for the next year.

The federal health insurance marketplace operates on a similar time table. Those deadlines are typically from Nov. 1 through Dec. 15, says Brown, but be sure to verify those dates in your state.

There are some situations that occur that cause an exception to this rule. These are called qualifying events and include things like marriage, birth of a child, a move to a new area or the loss or change of a job. These events allow individuals to gain or change their coverage at any time during the year, says Brown.

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Term glossary

When dealing with health insurance, you may run across some terms that are unfamiliar. Premium is one of the first terms you’ll see, and it is simply the amount you pay, typically monthly, to participate in a certain healthcare plan. If you are getting your health insurance through your employer, this may be automatically deducted from your paycheck.

Another term you may hear in relation to health insurance is deductible, says Brown. He explains that a deductible is a

dollar amount that you are 100% responsible for paying before insurance begins to pay. This amount varies from plan to plan, and can be tied to a higher or lower premium, so it is important to know your deductible.

Next you will want to know what the term coinsurance means. Brown describes this as the percentage split between you – the member – and the insurance company itself. So, after you’ve paid your deductible, if you have one, then your insurance pays a certain percentage of healthcare costs and you pay the

remaining percentage. This is typically around 80% for insurance and 20% for the member, according to Brown.

After the deductible and coinsurance comes the out-of-pocket maximum. This is the total amount you would have to pay in a year. So no matter how large your medical bills are, that out-of-pocket maximum number is your total exposure for the year, says Brown. All co-pays, which are set amounts you pay for basic services, prescriptions and your percentage of coinsurance, count toward this out-of-pocket maximum.

LIFE INSURANCE

Now let’s discuss a different, but no less important, type of insurance – life.

What is it?

Much like health insurance, life insurance is a contract between an insurance policy holder and an insurer or assurer, where the insurer agrees to pay a designated beneficiary a sum of money upon the death of the insured person.

Susan Weed, the chief sales officer for American Fidelity Assurance in OKC, says that “life insurance allows us to plan, prepare for and financially protect our families and other loved ones when we die.”

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What types of life insurance exist?

There are a few different types of life insurance that you may want to consider, but it’s important to have some form of life insurance to provide for those you love in the case of death. According to Forbes.com, 44% percent of U.S. households would face financial hardship within six months if the primary wage earner died; and for 28%, it would be just one month.

Weed explains that there are three main types of life insurance: term, whole and universal.

Term life insurance can be the most affordable, but is only guaranteed for a set number of years - typically 15, 20 or 30. Weed says this type of life insurance can be useful “to cover your working years in case you pass away before paying off your home. Or to provide for your family during the years, when you have young children [and] they are most dependent on you financially.”

Whole life insurance typically has more costly premiums, but those premiums and the face amount will not change for the rest of your life.

“You have an idea of the amount of money that you want to leave, so that any outstanding and final expenses are covered, as well as an additional amount to help those who you are leaving behind,” says Weed.

Universal life insurance is a blending of the other two offerings, and all of these options should be discussed with a professional to determine which type or types are correct for different situations.

When it comes to life insurance, it is an important topic to ponder and discuss with loved ones. But Weed emphasizes the need to not overanalyze the choices and make a decision to protect your family.

“Most people do not have enough life insurance,” she says. “But the most important concept that I wish everyone could remember is [that] the best policy is the one you have in place when you die. Even a small amount of coverage is better than nothing.”

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A Paw-SITIVE EFFECT

It’s no secret that an adorable puppy or feisty kitten can help boost your mood. But animalassisted therapy is much more than that, and it's available in Oklahoma. From dogs on college campuses to horses on ranches, the calming e ects of animals can't be understated. We dive into a variety of therapy o erings in Oklahoma, get advice on taking the best possible care of your new pet, and explore shelters and animal-centric nonpro ts that need our help.

A New Pet Owner Guide

So, you’ve just become the proud owner of a new pet, whether it’s a kitten, puppy, bunny, fish or turtle. Congrats! While this time is exciting, you should also ask yourself: what are the right steps to ensure this animal is coming into a safe space?

Pet-Proofing

“Prepare the home as you would for a young child,” says Matthew Roper, DVM, medical director at VCA Roswell Animal Hospital. “Maintain open communication with your family veterinarian, as they are going to be a part of the growth and development of your pet for their entire life.”

Pet-proofing will include choosing where your new family member will sleep and play, as well as what it will eat, its training protocols and any long-term health factors to consider.

How Much Food?

Does your new puppy constantly seem hungry? Are you worried about over- or under-feeding?

“If [you’re] feeding [your animal] an appropriate, good quality food, most bags have a guide for feeding,” says Roper. “Many factors must be addressed though, including age, breed and activity level.”

Play Time, Training and Exercise

“Encourage play with appropriate toys, other pets, quiet time in the crate or kennel and appropriate elimination,” says Roper. “Discourage chewing on inappropriate objects around the house with distraction and deterrence, to teach what they can chew or play with. Try not to negatively reinforce behaviors.”

Training often involves treats and, even if untrained, most pet owners like to reward their animals every once in a while.

“Treats are very important, especially with training for positive reinforcement,” says Roper. “Frequency is up to the owners, but treats should not exceed 10% of daily calorie intake.”

How much exercise to give your pet depends on a myriad of factors, and is a good topic to discuss with your veterinarian.

“All pets should get low impact activity at a young age,” advises Roper. “Large breed dogs, though, should not run consistently for long distances until after they turn about 18 months old, due to delayed closure of growth plates or bone growth. Activity should remain consistent throughout life to maintain muscles and healthy weight, decrease joint discomfort and help decrease risk of anxious behavior.”

Animal-Assisted Therapy

Animal assisted therapy is a resource for all types of people, says Human Animal Link of Oklahoma (HALO) Foundation’s CEO Terri Smith. Some, however, may get animal-assisted therapy confused with the works of a service animal.

Service Dogs vs. Therapy Dogs: What’s the Difference?

“That’s not to say that a therapy dog, as in my case for over 20 years, can’t be part of an individualized therapy plan,” says Smith. “But there’s a big difference between service and therapy. Animal-assisted activities are for all, a service animal is for one person. Many of the activities that are under the umbrella for animal-assisted activities would be like our ‘children reading to dogs’ program by HALO, in partnership with the Metro Library system.”

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The Human-Animal Link of Oklahoma helps clients in times of transition, trauma or crisis. Photos courtesy HALO

Pet Therapy at OSU

Oklahoma State University is among institutions nationwide utilizing animalassisted therapy.

“As a university, we use dogs to impact college students, faculty, staff and visitors,” says Kendria Cost, director of the Ann Hargis OSU Center for Pet Therapy. “We have regularly scheduled visits throughout campus – Muttday Monday, Yappy Hour and Waggin Wednesday at the library, BowWow Bennett, Pups at Parker, Wags at West in our residence halls, and Ruff Ruff Reboot in our counseling center. We also do a variety of ‘private’ visits – new student orientations, recruiting events, sororities, fraternities, student organizations. We also have regularly scheduled visits to University Health Services to interact with staff and faculty in the health clinic. Having the dogs around campus provides a touch of home.”

People from all walks of life can benefit from animal-assisted therapy. Bonds are formed that transcend species and personal challenges.

“We find most of our handlers are service oriented and naturally want to give back to others,” says Cost. “Good listening skills and a comprehensive knowledge of university resources are also important. We do, at times, encounter people in distress, and it is important our handlers know where and how to refer to campus resources. Knowing and respecting boundaries are also important – our owners/handlers are not counselors, and it’s important we each recognize our role is to simply provide the appropriate resources.”

Equine Therapy

Willow Ranch, Christa Malcolm’s equine assisted counseling practice in Edmond, uses evidence-based resources to help clients.

“The activities chosen for equine assisted counseling are experiential therapy,” she says.

“This means the client learns about themselves and others by participating in physical activities with horses while processing thoughts, beliefs, behaviors and patterns. The equine assisted experience allows the client to have natural consequences and successes.

The horse promotes healthy relationships and what is needed for and from the individual during the session.

“The bonds formed with the horse and client create many positive outcomes. Relationship connection, love, safety and acceptance and unconditional support are among them,” Malcolm continues. “Horses are social, resilient, powerful and have an innate focus on survival. Their feedback and awareness motivate clients to make positive changes.”

A Story of Hope

At HALO, Smith recalls a specific case where her German shepherd, Shayna, was assigned to assist a selectively mute 10-year-old girl.

“If you don’t speak out loud, things shut down in the brain,” says Smith. “This child was high IQ, gifted, but for her own reasons, she decided it was safer to not say anything at all – lest she feel rejected and disconnected.”

After a few weekly sessions with Shayna, the child was allowed to choose a classmate to join her in her session with the dog, giving the young girl an opportunity to show her peer what she’s been taught. While the interaction was all non-verbal, the child was becoming more comfortable. One day, being caught out in the rain led to a breakthrough.

Smith and Shayna were drying off as best they could when the little girl arrived for a therapy session.

“I told her that Shayna was ready to exercise with her but that I wasn’t yet,” says Smith. “I gave her the leash and she went directly into the moves she knew, all to do with boundaries and planning courses of action. I told her that Shayna needed to hear her voice that day, just one word. And she did! She said Shayna’s name. That was the biggest breakthrough for that girl; she hadn’t spoken outside of her home in three years. That was the beginning of her speaking to her peers, as well.”

PLACES THAT NEED COMMUNITY ASSISTANCE

Most shelters and animal rescues rely upon donations to keep their doors open, and many employees are actually unpaid volunteers. There are a variety of organizations and shelters across the state that help strays and ensure injured animals are kept safe. Entirely donor and grant-funded, the Oklahoma Humane Society is a non-profit animal rescue, says Rachel Findley, vice president of development.

“We don’t receive tax dollars to support our programming, so the amount of donations we receive directly impacts the number of animal lives we can save,” she says. “I think it’s also important to note that while Oklahoma has made great strides in animal welfare in the last decade or so, we are still a state that is dealing with animal overpopulation. There currently aren’t enough resources amongst rescues and municipal shelters to care for all the homeless animals in our community.”

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Willow Ranch in Edmond welcomes clients of all ages to try equine-assisted therapy. Photo courtesy Willow Ranch

Caring for Animals: A Calling

“The majority of our employees foster animals themselves,” says Findley. “Of course, they already have a heart for animals when entering this line of work, but I think they are seeing the need in our community first-hand and want to do everything they can to help. Something that I think many people don’t realize about OK Humane is that we are an entirely foster-based rescue, meaning we don’t have sheltering facilities for animals to be housed under our care. We have a small adoption center where dogs are dropped off and picked up each day by their fosters until they are adopted. Oftentimes, an animal’s barrier to entry into the OK Humane program is due to lack of a foster home. Our employees frequently step up and open their homes when a foster can’t be found because they know that just a few weeks in their home makes a lifesaving difference for an animal in need.”

How to Help

“Oklahoma’s homeless cat and dog population needs support,” says Findley. “More donors, fosters and volunteers are needed to help us expand our lifesaving capacity. Fostering is by far our greatest need. Fostering is typically a 2-4 week time commitment, and our team can help identify an animal that will be a good fit for a particular foster home. OK Humane covers all medical expenses and food for an animal while they are in a foster home.”

Volunteers can also do everything from washing and folding laundry to walking dogs, cleaning kennels and helping at outreach events.

APPROPRIATE SPACES FOR PETS

Between dog parks, service animals, emotional support animals and the overall pet-loving society we live in, we often see people wanting to bring their pets to just about every event and destination these days. While some places are borderline inappropriate – like indoor restaurants and some work places – it’s also important to consider that dogs can experience ‘trigger stacking’ when dealing with scary situations or multiple stressors.

When you can’t bring yourself to leave your beloved canine with a pet sitter or at home, you’re not alone. But there are steps to take to prepare your pup.

“If the need or want arises to include pets in social events, start small with a few people and/or other pets in a neutral, lowkey, quiet environment,” says Roper. “Slowly work up to larger and louder environments. In most cases, pets should not be taken to fairs, concerts, [or events with] fireworks.”

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Surveying the Real Estate Market

Whether you’re a real estate pro or just someone looking to buy or sell, it’s tough to crack the market and predict what will happen in the coming months or years. Despite the volatility, there are a few tried and true methods for success.

We talk to experts about the buy/sell process, perfecting curb appeal and trends on the rise.

Market Trends for 2024

A nice house with a white-picket fence has long been synonymous with the American dream. However, rising home prices and interest rates have made home ownership more of a pipe dream for some.

In 2023, the U.S. Census Bureau reported that home sales prices have more than tripled since 2001. Soaring costs have, in large part, to do with low inventory.

According to the Bureau, approximately 89% of privately owned housing units are occupied. All these factors make for a hot real estate market that favors selling over buying.

Despite the current economic state, there’s hope on the horizon for people looking to purchase a home in the coming years.

“The good news for most people thinking of buying real estate today… [is that] interest rates are at a very good percentage; some as low as 6.33% – one of the best rates we have had since the pandemic,” says Sherry Lewis, owner and Oklahoma regional director at Keller Williams Realty.

There’s also been a concerted effort to address the housing shortage at the state level. In January, Governor Kevin Stitt approved emergency rules for the Oklahoma Housing Finance Agency’s Housing Stability Program, which will provide $215 million in funding for the construction of single and multifamily housing units.

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Selling a Home: A Step-by Step Guide

Most people view homeownership as a long-term investment. So, when it comes to selling your home, you want to get as much back on your initial investment as possible.

The first step is to set a timeline for when you’ll want to list the home. Warmer seasons, like spring and summer, are peak times for home-buying activity. Homes sold toward the end of April generally sell above the asking price, according to Zillow, an online real estate marketplace. Come October, homes are more likely to sell under the asking price.

Once you’ve set a date, you’ll want to start decluttering.

“If a person is considering selling their home, they need to really put their home in a very desirable condition,” says Lewis. “They need to remove valuable things and box them up so there is no concern.”

The ultimate goal is to create a space that will enable potential buyers to envision themselves living it.

Next, homeowners might want to make upgrades. Repainting cabinets and walls, resurfacing counters and refinishing wood floors are small touches that can go a long way. It’s important, however, not to get carried away with these renovations.

“A lot of people like to redecorate and make their own choices, especially in regards to décor,” says Peter Walter, founder of Tulsabased real estate agency Walter & Associates. “I think that it’s really the best for new buyers to do the updating.”

As you near your listing date, you’ll want to determine an asking price for your home. One tried-and-true method is to work with a real estate agent to determine value. According to data from the National Association of Realtors, homes that were listed by the owner had a median sales price that was $95,000 less than homes that were listed with an agent in 2023.

Shopping for homes has also become more digital over the years. To reach more buyers, you should list your home online. In doing so, the key is to take clear, professional photos and provide shoppers with an accurate description of the home. Photos should highlight selling points, such as fireplaces, pools and garages. Smaller details can be left for when potential buyers view the property for themselves.

When your house officially goes up for sale, you may receive multiple offers. Carefully consider all the factors. In many cases, the buyer may request specific repairs before finalizing their offer.

If you decide to accept an offer, you’ll want to have all the documentation ready to go, like the title and purchase agreement. Having an attorney review the agreement before closing can also protect the seller’s rights and best interests.

Buying a Home: A Step-by Step Guide

Buying a home is typically one of the biggest purchases someone makes in his or her life. But diving in too soon can set a person up for buyer’s remorse and financial woes. To avoid missteps, make deliberate plans before closing a deal.

One of the first steps is to get your finances in order.

“In today’s market, the value of homes hasn’t reduced very much, so the buyer needs to determine what amount of funds they have to invest in a home,” says Lewis.

Financial experts recommend keeping all your housing expenses below 28% of your gross monthly income. You’ll also want to factor in other costs, such as application fees, closing costs and insurance, to know how much you can realistically afford.

It’s also recommended to save for a down payment at least 6-12 months in advance. Doing so gives home buyers a chance to boost their credit score, which can help them secure a lower interest rate. Paying down debts and establishing a solid credit history can help put you on track, too.

The next step is to get preapproved for a home loan. There are several options beyond a conventional loan. For instance, an FHA loan can be a good fit for someone with less capital to put toward a down payment. To know what you qualify for, you’ll need to provide lenders with pay stubs, tax returns and other financial documents.

Selecting an agent to work with can help a buyer find a house that fits their lifestyle and budget.

“Consider whatever area you want to live in, and work with an agent who has a good track record and experience,” advises Walter.

It may be a good idea to designate certain days to tour homes. Viewing properties in person is critical to getting a feel for the neighborhood and the home’s layout.

When you’ve found your dream home, you’ll want to make an offer quickly. Real estate agents can help you determine a fair offer by researching home sales prices in the area. They can also make the offer with certain contingencies, which protects the buyer from unforeseen expensive repairs.

If your offer is accepted, you have the option to set up a home inspection next. Many mortgage lenders do not require home inspections; however, they’re strongly recommended as they give the buyer a better understanding of necessary maintenance or repairs. Before signing the real estate contract, the buyer will get the opportunity to do a final walk through of the home.

Finally, it’s time to close the deal. Make sure to read the purchase agreement to verify that all the terms meet your expectations. Items that should be included in the sale, such as a dishwasher or refrigerator, must be noted.

When you’ve signed the agreement, you can officially celebrate your new home.

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Creating a Smoother Ride

Whether you’re buying or selling a home, you’re about to go through a big transition. Save yourself a portion of the headache by planning ahead to make the process easier.

Homeowners and buyers alike can benefit from working with an agent, who will have firsthand experience in navigating the entire process.

If you’re selling your home, one of the simplest ways to cut down on the chaos is to give yourself plenty of time to prepare. Some homeowners spend weeks, or even months, getting their house ready. Homeowners may also want to consider paying for an inspection before listing their home. Doing so can help avoid unexpected surprises as you’re trying to close on a deal.

If you’re buying a home, you may want to seek out advice from the experts. Financial advisors can guide you through the loan application process and let you know if you qualify for special assistance, such as a First-Time Homebuyer Credit. In a seller’s market, buyers may find it hard to beat out other offers. Making an offer that is above the asking price and setting aside a chunk of cash for an earnest money deposit can increase your odds of sealing the deal.

Succeeding as a Real Estate Agent

Have you ever considered becoming a real estate agent? If you have a knack for networking, it may be just the career path for you.

Some of the advantages of the role include flexible work hours and the ability to multiply your earnings from commission. But before you get your real estate license, you’ll need to take a stateapproved, 90-hour salesperson course. A comprehensive list of approved courses is available on the Oklahoma Real Estate Commission website – oklahoma.gov/orec.

The next step is to take the official salesperson exam and pass with a score of 75% or higher. If you pass the exam, you can apply for a real estate license. Newly licensed agents are issued a provisional license until they complete additional hours of continuing education.

Beyond education, successful real estate agents often possess a combination of soft skills that help them win new clients, including time management, clear communication and resourcefulness.

“The key element is to provide the consumer great service – to be fair, honest and helpful,” says Lewis. “Many times, the buyer will have already worked with an agent, and if they have had a great working relationship, it is quite common that they will work with them again.”

Nailing Curb Appeal

Home shoppers may decide if they like a property before they even step foot inside. A messy yard or chipped paint job can ward off potential buyers and prolong the time that your house sits on the market. Adding a few small touches to the exterior of your home can drastically boost its appeal.

Excellent landscaping and gardening can make your home stand out from other properties. Cleaning out your garden beds, planting flowers and shrubs and adding lighting fixtures can breathe new life into your home.

Don’t underestimate the power of color, either. Repainting your front door can boost your home value by up to $6,000, according to a study from Zillow. Slate blue-

gray and black were some of the top performing colors when it comes to maximizing return on investment.

Before getting carried away with paint, consider pressure washing the outside of your home. A pressure washer can quickly remove dirt from most exteriors and can also be used to clear driveways, decks and patios.

Don’t forget to show some love to your trees. If you have a tree in your front yard, treat it as a focal point. Mature trees can add character to a home and provide shade in the summer heat. Pruning dead limbs and adding mulch around the trunk not only adds aesthetic appeal, but it also can improve the tree’s health.

Hot Ticket Items

Nearly four years later and the COVID-19 pandemic continues to shape the world. Real estate is no exception. Many people have shifted toward prioritizing amenities that balance comfort and function, and the demand for outdoor living spaces remains high.

According to the Luxury Agent Poll published in 2023 by Forbes Global Properties, real estate agents selected outdoor kitchens and entertainment areas as the single most important luxury amenity. Indoor and outdoor pools ranked second on the list.

Designated home offices and fitness spaces continue to be hotticket items as more people work from home and focus on their physical and mental wellbeing. Home shoppers also are on the lookout for rooms that they can easily convert depending on their needs, such as hosting a guest or taking up a new hobby.

The rise in technology is also making an impact on the real estate market. Voice-activated assistants, smart light switches, and integrated home security systems are popular for their convenience and automation.

Undeniably, there are home amenities that will always be in demand regardless of market trends. “The most important elements of a home are to have a nice, functional kitchen and sufficient bedrooms for the size of the home,” explains Lewis. “And usually in [Oklahoma’s] market, a 2- or 3-car garage.”

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TOP REAL ESTATE AGENTS LISTINGS

Oklahoma’s talented real estate agents are helping clients buy and sell their homes with ease – but some are a cut above the rest. Oklahoma Magazine’s Top Real Estate Agents listing gives firms of all sizes the chance to recognize their agents, showcasing their total volumes for 2023.

TULSA

Accent Realtors (Teams)

Paul Wheeler

918-665-8559

$30,476,919

Cenury 21 –

Around the State (Individuals)

Amy Hall

First Choice RealtyPoteau

918-649-7121

$17,320,650

Suehzen Mosley Mosley Real EstateChickasha 405-222-8625

$12,247,274

April Vaughn

First Choice Realty - Tulsa

918-696-1617

$11,206,600

Huiyang Gao

First Choice RealtyMoore 316-821-1788

$8,542,302

Monica Medley

First Choice RealtyMuskogee 918-704-5101

$7,842,450

Ananda Scaggs

First Choice Realty - Tulsa 918-506-3920

$6,025,190

Carla Weaver

First Choice Realty - Elgin 580-280-0715

$5,998,871

Cheri Hutson

First Choice RealtyCoweta 918-232-2432

$5,974,342

Amanda Curtsinger

First Choice Realty - Tulsa 918-822-1146

$5,963,900

Hayley Watkins

First Choice Realty - Elgin 580-951-0777

$5,911,900

Cindi Knippers

First Choice RealtyCoweta 918-694-8920

$5,495,150

Starla Gaddy

First Choice Realty - Elgin 580-514-6703

$5,408,800

Sharon Ford

First Choice Realty - Gore 928-300-4567

$5,354,650

Daron Dunn

First Choice RealtyMoore 405-503-0158

$4,873,800

Andrea Dickerson

First Choice Realty - Gore 918-636-1911

$4,868,661

Lacey Bradshaw

First Choice RealtyMoore 580-678-9857

$4,809,170

Justin Young

First Choice RealtyFort Gibson 918-820-2946

$4,685,301

Sarah Payne

First Choice RealtyCoweta 918-760-7340

$4,327,400

David Barnes

First Choice RealtyPoteau 918-839-4425

$4,284,000

Patsy Clinkenbeard

First Choice RealtyFort Gibson 918-869-7504

$4,232,150

Chinowth and Cohen Realtors (Individuals)

Brad Borem 918-605-6086

$38,177,340

Shawn Peters 918-808-2239

$21,937,000

Gayle Roberts-Pisklo 918-269-7035

$18,227,215

Jen Miller-Morrow 918-638-7653

$14,774,434

Missy Hagin-Pittman 918-955-8626

$13,300,735

Kristi Reed 918-260-5200

$12,131,392

Amy Prosser

918-805-9713

$12,118,900

Kristee Barlow 415-316-6080

$12,096,900

SC Clifford 918-637-2090

$11,922,395

Judy Stocker

918-605-0998

$11,574,597

Barbara Mefford 918-230-6397 $11,318,678

Tonya Ellison

918-277-3774

$11,097,528

Natalie Richardson

918-409-8497

$10,910,300

Barbara Hopper 918-335-7202 $10,671,400

Megan Forehand

918-906-0885

$10,632,650

Melissa Mansfield

918-808-0075 $10,612,284

Cindy Morrison

918-760-5751

$9,906,800

Chinowth and Cohen Realtors (Teams)

True & Co. Group

Brandi True

918-688-4581 $31,746,258

Tiffany Johnson Homes

Ti any Johnson

918-671-4263 $15,844,173

Alli Hayes Real Estate Group

Alli Hayes

918-855-5868

$15,631,585

The Ford Group

Jessica Ford

918-262-5347 $10,770,000

Coldwell

Banker Select – Around the State (Individuals)

Kristin Winton

918-346-9213

$20,991,835

Maria Chupp

918-697-6589

$19,337,916

Trish Allison 918-260-7653 $18,134,100

Teresa Favors

405-640-4700

$13,085,116

Jeanette Bagrosky

918-810-6034 $12,574,325

Michelle Jansen

918-884-5531 $12,425,476

Britney Smith

918-402-5164 $11,942,402

Peggy Rose

405-410-8671 $10,944,117

Carol Berry

918-408-4680

$9,634,025

Sally Mulready 918-629-9897 $9,388,050

Jessica Hamilton

479-252-1991 $8,962,928

Paula McGuire

918-625-1750 $8,962,276

Sharon Leach 918-214-1400 $8,634,822

Karla Meislahn 918-638-5894 $8,511,638

Caroline GorinskyHuesler 918-607-7315 $8,332,652

Janice Koss 918-694-9918 $8,218,225

Melanie Coon 918-521-1990 $7,789,600

Suzanne Mobley 918-808-5576 $7,745,050

Ashley Wozniak

918-232-8052 $7,744,901

Cynthia Jolley 918-381-3987 $7,425,967

Coldwell Banker –Around the State (Teams)

G7 Group

Greg Ganzkow 918-381-5656 $43,474,889

Maureen Kile Team

Maureen Kile 918-605-4150 $38,252,838

The Rainwater Team

Josh Rainwater 918-852-8500

$36,409,144

Alice Slemp Team

Alice Slemp 918-260-3735

$35,003,450

The Jenkins Team

Laurie Ann Jenkins

918-951-4663

$30,834,042

Jeb Perry and Associates

Jeb Perry

918-284-0664 $28,676,716

The Alicia Parker Team

Alicia Parker

918-231-5995

$24,721,657

Corrie Egge Team

Corrie Egge

918-230-8433

$23,458,227

Team Carter

Mary Carter 918-637-7961

$23,273,546

McGuire-Cooley Team

Deborah McGuire

918-695-9711

$18,848,199

Wil Montomery 580-745-4752

$11,900,350

Darryl Baskin 918-732-9732

$10,787,000

Jennifer Samuelson 918-361-1473

$9,055,726

Melissa Smith 918-815-3402

$8,873,824

Tony Georr 918-955-4500

$8,719,700

Beverly Jeanes Team

Beverly Jeanes 918-931-9434 $17,419,414

The BK Team

Brian Kirk 918-869-7080 $16,449,674

Kevin Rhoades Team

Kevin Rhoades 918-260-9072

$16,166,625

The Vermilion Group

Janet Vermillion 918-230-1915 $15,232,434

RCL RedDoor Group

Katherine Cook 918-693-3900 $14,844,589

The Brewer Standlee

Home Team

Kimberly Brewer 918-370-8147 $14,496,284

Jay Miller Team

Jay Miller

918-230-9876 $13,757,832

Turn Key Realty Group

Kelli Blevins 918-313-0241 $13,487,730

NICO Real Estate Group

Janelle Nicolay 918-550-3526 $12,953,275

OK Homes and Lifestyle

Dana Weyl 918-906-6600 $12,527,450

Engel & Volkers

Tulsa (Individuals)

Taylor Zinn 918-995-4172 $11,695,833

Rachel Bjelke 918-347-1054 $1,695,000

Soledad Trevino 918-626-1733 $942,000

Engel & Volkers Tulsa (Teams)

Chris Zinn Group

Chris Zinn 918-262-4030 $22,124,969

eXp Realty East (Individuals)

Robin Wilson 918-810-1511 $19,573,100

Amanda Dudley 918-520-6514 $18,630,750

Tracy Stoner 580-775-0354 $13,913,500

Sandra Bahe 918-470-4710 $11,976,580

Adam Callaway

918-810-9879

$7,385,367

Chelsea Meek

918-640-5018

$7,329,077

Elizabeth Beaubien 918-408-0270 $7,301,820

Amy Cavallin

918-760-9058 $7,067,300

May West Harrison

918-697-2733 $6,955,300

Heidi Ewing 918-230-1090 $8,195,205

Drew Lolato 918-600-5769 $8,026,000

Ruben Hunter 405-520-2606 $7,077,790

Clay Cecil 580-230-0834 $6,999,700

Taj Lucero 918-740-7151 $6,842,648

eXp Realty East (Teams)

The Collective Real Estate Group

Jaybee Hawkins 918-404-1416

$27,663,821

Burger & Co Real Estate Group Brooke Burger 918-810-2471

$22,132,228

Vance Curtis Connection

Gary Vance 918-691-6226 $6,678,905

Sirens and Scrubs Team

Brian Sanchez 619-739-0700 $6,556,440

The Alpha Group Adriana Four 918-764-6336 $5,982,987

Fox + Associates

Realty (Individuals)

Shannon NunneleyGrimshaw 918-899-4747

$10,200,000

Keller Williams

Advantage (Individuals)

Holly Berry

918-781-2563

$20,491,567

Kara Folkins 918-781-2563 $14,420,265

Jamie Goodnight 918-510-0887

$13,744,950

Jennifer Sanders 918-829-5200 $12,773,040

Carol Pankey-Davis 918-829-5200 $10,209,277

Kathryn French 918-720-5663 $9,645,615

Andrea Pinney 918-644-9950

$7,752,067

Jill Brewer 918-637-0262 $6,413,400

Jeff Boone 918-406-5685 $6,101,190

Braxton Thomas 918-520-9566 $6,099,200

Joy Jones

918-606-0306

$5,678,600

Allie Hodges 918-645-7154 $5,577,251

Kenny Tate

918-607-6194 $5,521,400

Amy Calmus

918-850-0242 $5,437,000

Keller Williams

Realty Advantage (Teams) Teams of two are denoted with asterisk*

Ary Land Co.

Drew Ary, Eric Zellers 918-884-5263

$126,899,916

The Wolek Group

Jennie Wolek 918-706-9845

$29,741,241

Jessica Scott & Associates

Jessica Scott 918-361-0104 $27,398,582

Aussie Real Estate Team*

Kasia Olek 918-282-3451 $23,102,301

Amber Davis Home Team

Amber Davis 918-521-8417 $22,218,169

Heckenkemper Team

Max Heckenkemper 918-381-8883 $20,239,916

BayneBrook Group

Holly Brumble 918-409-2762 $15,070,929

Elite One Realty

Kimberly Cruse, Linda Hughes 918-906-9439 $14,021,490

Underhill-Miller Homes*

Angela Miller, Ricky Underhill 918-688-8883

$11,554,750

Dream Maker Homes*

Cindy Quinton, Alicia Swartz 918-948-5666 $11,514,425

Pritchett Team

Apryl Pritchett 580-239-2689 $11,284,510

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$9,569,699

Proff

MB

918-814-1870

$7,151,594

DeJournette Property Group

Jeremy DeJournett, Kara DeJournett

918-568-2173

$7,072,550

Peck Real Estate* Calvin Peck, Priscilla Peck 918-645-6633

$6,334,300

Keller Williams

Realty Preferred (Individuals)

Kristin Bell

918-636-0799

$17,382,550

Chet Wilson

918-691-2898

$10,819,000

Heidi McMurray

918-313-1786

$10,270,390

Ryan Treadway

918-810-1314

$9,542,370

Richard Thompson

918-230-4566

$9,176,107

Tina Bell

918-853-2412

$6,998,833

Jerid Cook

918-221-4481

$6,778,833

Bahar Ranjbar

918-340-4361

$5,769,698

Deanna Maxwell

918-500-5122

$5,695,000

Cynthia Saldivar

918-282-1798

$5,654,600

Christian Teague

918-340-1717

$5,278,900

Yvonne Carreno

918-381-1151

$5,050,915

Keller Williams

Realty Preferred (Teams)

The Rentz Team

Mark Rentz, Suzanne Rentz 918-859-5840

$82,919,523

Brian Frere Home Team

918-298-6900

$58,745,528

Ellis Real Estate Team

Tracy Ellis

918-809-0112

$52,872,833

Hometown Home & Ranch

Cody Capell 918-413-0075

$28,281,201

Cochran Team

Austin Cochran 918-697-3889

$23,091,380

Ratzlaff Team

Summer Ratzla

918-850-6306

$22,970,455

Tulsa Premier Home Team

Jame Sumter 918-805-9315

$13,104,750

The Ashley Group

Ashley Elizondo 918-894-3434 $12,637,671

H&M Home Team

Juliane McMurray, Amanda Houtman 918-695-2626

$9,169,500

The Hill Team

Julie Hill

918-760-6565 $8,772,490

BIG GUY Home Team

Dustin Moseley 918-549-0303 $7,931,100

The Mobley Team

Jenna Mobley, Josh Mobley 918-863-4130 $7,123,500

Keller Williams

Premier –Owasso (Individuals)

Juli Edwards 918-260-7661 $10,372,467

Kevin Abbott

918-244-9706 $10,173,141

Darren DeLozier 918-530-5167 $9,132,916

Karen Walden

918-740-4360

$6,433,416

Tara Hargrove

918-521-9457 $5,946,350

Lana Hodge

918-606-1133 $4,972,225

Silvia Cuellar

918-327-2353 $4,360,850

Kimberly Cox

918-724-0884 $3,980,703

Mary Richardson

918-697-2707 $3,346,056

Felicia Lanquist

918-557-0434 $3,277,700

Kellie Bland Dixon

918-961-9052

$3,026,500

Keller Williams

Premier –Owasso (Teams)

Shields & Co.

Jackie Shields

918-798-5581 $22,413,985

Colt Realty Group

Austin Colt 918-808-7522 $11,100,365

Dailey Properties

Ashley Dailey 918-760-1487 $12,731,832

The Paramount Group

Jody Grubbs 918-798-7271 $11,518,707

Sara Alexander Real Estate Team

Sara Alexander 918-557-9062 $5,692,559

The Five Star Group

Ronica Warden 918-636-9529 $6,929,555

The Jules D Team

Julie Dikeman

918-607-0747 $5,923,732

St. Gemme Posey Property Group

Angie St. Gemme

918-520-0907 $7,488,807

Red Fox Realty Group

Holly Aldrich

918-724-5439 $6,761,733

Modern Nest Properties

Dana VanEmburg

918-949-5196 $5,495,316

First Family Home Team

Lynn VanDeventer

918-625-2026 $5,856,310

Bartel Properties

Cheara Bartel 918-630-6692 $4,520,200

Hill Property Network

Mark Hill

417-527-3986 $3,133,908

M & T Realty Group (Teams)

Terry Hassell, Michele Melton 918-884-7653 $30,101,436

McGraw Realtors

– Around the State (Individuals)

Belinda Tucker

918-698-4418 $32,000,000

Laura Bryant

918-693-2961 $32,000,000

Diana Riley Patterson

918-629-3717 $24,000,000

Mike Keys

918-808-4780 $19,000,000

Curt Roberts

918-231-0691 $18,000,000

Laura Hawkins

918-260-7885 $17,000,000

Angela Cozort

918-202-3675 $15,000,000

Rachel Close

918-698-2896

$14,000,000

David Palik

918-812-2757 $13,000,000

Anna Brooks

918-344-2275 $12,000,000

Heather Caputo

918-237-9340 $12,000,000

Cathy Schaefer

918-787-1957 $11,000,000

Paul Henrion

405-973-7357

$11,000,000

Shawna Miller

405-830-3408 $11,000,000

Tammy Ryan

405-226-5758

$11,000,000

McGraw Realtors

– Around the State (Teams)

Brown & Co.

Carol Brown

918-740-9694

$75,000,000

“Whether you are looking for a high end dream house or you are a first time home Buyer, I’ve got you. I work tirelessly to find your perfect property and then to win the deal for you.”
“Whether you are looking for a high end dream house or you are a first time home Buyer, I’ve got you. I work tirelessly to find your perfect property and then to win the deal for you.”

Shannon designs and renovates homes; and her experience working on the job site gives her an advantage in understanding and directing necessary repairs. She has been a top producer and has consistently been in the top 10 percent of the 6,000 licensed realtors. In 2024 also Shannon introduces  her first team member – Stephen Williamson who for 20 years has successfully helped his clients manage their real estate investments, while preparing their properties for sale, and finding their dream homes.

Shannon designs and renovates homes; and her experience working on the job site gives her an advantage in understanding and directing necessary repairs. She has been a top producer and has consistently been in the top 10 percent of the 6,000 licensed realtors. In 2024 also Shannon introduces  her first team member – Stephen Williamson who for 20 years has successfully helped his clients manage their real estate investments, while preparing their properties for sale, and finding their dream homes.

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With Heidi as your partner in real estate, ALL roads lead to home.

Offering over three decades of experience and successes, Heidi has accumulated over $50 million in recent production as a solo agent – often out-producing entire realty teams. She continues to be a top-tier expert in both commercial & residential markets, meeting the needs of her clients, buyers and sellers alike.

Heidi’s expertise is vast, ranging from new construction and resale to renovations and interior design. Working with a wide variety of clientele, she consistently achieves Top Agent awards for production volume in properties sold.

A trusted guide, Heidi harbors a keen understanding of microeconomic factors impacting the Oklahoma markets including shifting realty values, mortgage rate and finance options, hot selling metro locations and consumer motivations.

“It is difficult for locals to imagine how much our market is changing, but Tulsa is becoming a rockstar choice amongst families across the U.S. We are experiencing historical growth – a reverse migration back to the Heartland,” she says.

Continuously offering her time and energy, Heidi boasts an extensive professional network streamlining the sales process from the early stages of preparing to list, with proven results at the closing table. She is dedicated to a seamless experience, lifting the many stressors which accompany making a big local or out-of-state move.

Heidi strives for a five-star day at the closing table, which she achieves through her sharp ability to negotiate and her passion for exceeding expectations.

“I love people and to serve families; there is nothing more rewarding than to watch dreams unfold and people’s lives change for the better – there’s NO place like HOME!” she explains.

Whether that dream is to live in South Tulsa or Midtown, or enjoy sprawling acreage where “the wind comes sweeping down the plains,” Heidi’s desire is to make her client’s dream come true.  Heidi received her bachelor’s degree in business from Oral Roberts University and after graduating, got her Oklahoma license in 1991.

“WE MAY BEGIN OUR JOURNEY IN REAL ESTATE, BUT MY GOAL IS TO END AS FRIENDS!” - HEIDI
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All the Little Details

OKC’s newest steakhouse, Symmetry, puts hospitality at the center of its business model.

When Oklahoma City’s newest steakhouse, Symmetry, opened in the Nichols Hills neighborhood, it was designed from the start to stand out. It excels with steaks, global dishes and vintage cocktails, but its sleek and modern design is meant to be enjoyed leisurely.

Like everything else about the new restaurant – from the delicious cuisine to the curated yet comfortable atmosphere – even how the concept of the place was conceived is interesting – and a bit random.

“It’s kind of crazy,” says Dave Osborn, part of the leadership team behind Symmetry.

“My wife and I were driving to the mall because I needed a new pair of shoes, and we saw the space.”

The property at 9203 N. Pennsylvania Avenue was the former location of Naifeh Fine Jewelers, but had been recently converted into a restaurant space. Upon seeing it, Osborn reached out to his friend and business partner Jason Pool.

“We had always liked the idea of opening our own spot. Every restaurant guy does, I think,” Osborn says. “They opened the space for us two days later, and Jason and I walked in and said, ‘We could really do something with this.’”

Two days later, both men quit their jobs and signed the lease. Soon after, they convinced chef Glenn Scott to join the adventure.

“We came up with the name Symmetry to pay homage to what was here for so long – Naifeh Fine Jewelers,” says Osborn. “If you look at jewelry, you think ‘symmetry,’ and that really stuck. Like jewelry, you have to have an exact cut for that diamond to shine. We liked that because the dining industry as a whole needs more symmetry.”

To get that uniformity, the partners knew the whole experience, from the greetings at

the entrance to the bar to the service to the back of house operations, had to be perfect. Hospitality was the keyword.

“It seems like the restaurant industry is moving away from hospitality; it feels like they just want to get people in and out quickly,” Osborn says. “We learned back in the day that it is handshakes at the front door and making the guests feel welcome that matters. Hospitality should be in all the little details.”

With the help of interior decorator Tammy Barrett, Osborn and Pool created the space to encourage diners to enjoy a meal, relax and

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A steak-driven restaurant, Symmetry also offers everything from oysters to roasted bone marrow. Photos courtesy Symmetry

feel at home, evidenced in ample couches and lounge areas.

“We created these couches that become a fun seating area to hang out and have appetizers and cocktails,” Osborn says. “Everything is designed to have people come in here and just have a good time.”

Ultimately, though, people come – and return – to a restaurant for the food and drink. While Symmetry focuses on steaks, bison and wagyu, Scott also incorporates his years of experience to add global twists to the menu.

“Glenn … is not just stuck on one cuisine,” Osborn says. “He cooks Italian, and he likes German, Spanish and Mediterranean, so he’s tuned into all those flavors. We wanted the menu to encompass that.”

Coming from top-end steakhouses like Mahogany, the team knew they needed something special when it came to the main attraction. They found it with Meats by Linz, a Chicago-based meat company that sources cattle from a herd in Oklahoma. But the nonsteak dishes are just as quality.

“You have to get the chicken. It’s just amazing,” says Osborn. “If you get the chicken, you’ll fall in love with it and come back and order everything.”

From appetizers like roasted bone marrow and salmon crudo to mains like Mediterranean lamb, black truffle scallop risotto and duck breast, everything is prepared with the same attention to detail as the top-end steak cuts.

The craft cocktails are also designed to sparkle. Bar manager Austin Greer incorporates touches like house-made syrups and foams, ice diamonds and specialty bitters to create drinks that truly shine.

“Austin developed the cocktail list with his girlfriend Jessica, and their cocktails are out of this world,” Osborn says. “They are just so forward-thinking in today’s society.”

Despite just recently opening, “we are packed out on the weekends,” says Osborn. “We are excited to see where we go from here.”

Can You Handle the Heat?

"Don’t be a chicken – eat like a wolf." That’s the motto of the Tulsa-based restaurant Chicken and the Wolf, which offers its diners all things poultry. You may be wondering why the joint discourages diners from being chickens themselves. Well ... their dishes can be hot – so don’t say we didn’t warn you. Heat levels range from the original, x-mild and mild to medium, hot and x-hot. But the question remains: Can you handle the heat? (This writer sure can't!) Popular menu items include chicken tender baskets and sandwiches like the OG, the Nashville and the Clucker, which all come with variations of fried chicken, lettuce, slaw, pickles and housemade sauce. Also delicious are the chicken fries, chicken salads, boozy slushies and cold beer. And if you’ve sworn off meat, vegan options abound – all with the same kick.

A Howling Good Time

El Coyote – a new bar and cantina in OKC’s Britton Town – is inspired by the aesthetic and flavors of Santa Fe, New Mexico. The joint is helmed by chef Jonathon Stranger, who has led other OKCbased culinary concepts including Osteria and Bar Cicchetti. For El Coyote, Stranger’s goal was to bring an authentic Southwest cantina experience to diners.

The restaurant, open seven days a week for dinner as well as Saturday and Sunday for brunch, has a menu that will surely entice. Start with apps that range from red chile rib tips to green chile chicken nachos, guacamole or posole. Tacos are a star of the menu, and you can order them a la carte or with a heartier platter. Options range from chicken verde to pork adovada and shredded beef, all served on house-made blue corn tortillas.

Other entrees will get you mouth watering; try the green chili double cheeseburger with sauteed onion, lime crema, cheese and lettuce, or the roasted mushroom chile relleno with beans, shredded cheese, pickled onion and queso fresco. Finish off with a Mexican hot chocolate cake or a sopapilla sundae. And brunch lovers get an additional menu to enjoy, with highlights like chorizo breakfast tacos, huevos rancheros and cinnamon and caramel flan.

It wouldn’t be the full cantina experience without a selection of margaritas, and El Coyote doesn’t disappoint. Try the Devil’s Canyon with reposado tequila, raspberry-jalapeno syrup, lime juice and Tajin, or the Taos Desert Heat, with green chili and strawberry-infused tequila and triple sec. Alongside a selection of beers and wines, El Coyote also offers craft cocktails like spiced apple sangria and horchata.

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Photo by Valerie Wei-Haas Photo courtesy El Coyote

Appease the Food

After a whirlwind culinary competition landed him in Oklahoma, chef Nook Ducre laid down roots and honed his craft.

When Nook Ducre’s grandfather made square fried eggs with square biscuits, Nook thought it was the coolest thing he’d ever seen. He was five years old. This was New Orleans, and everyone in his family could cook, so Ducre learned, too.

Some years later, Ducre needed a job, and a local restaurant took him on as a line cook.

“And I’ve been in the kitchen ever since,” he says.

Ducre wanted to attend culinary school, but each time he planned to go, he was offered a promotion and stuck with his job instead. So, how did he get to where he is now without the formal training?

“I worked with some amazing chefs,” he says. “I kept my eyes open, and I read, read, read.”

One of his promotions landed him at John Besh’s restaurant American Sector in New Orleans. Another landed him at Broussard’s, where he became executive sous chef.

Luxurious, elegant and almost a century old, Broussard’s is one of the pillars of traditional New Orleans cuisine. Ducre learned a lot from the chef there, Neal Swidler.

“He taught me how to balance ingredients, the importance of little things, how to go the extra mile, how to let the food speak for itself while remaining true to myself,” says Ducre. “‘Don’t appease people,’ Neal would say, ‘appease the food.’ I didn’t realize the impact that would have 'til much later.”

By 2018, Ducre felt like he was in a rut. He wanted to be more than a sous chef – he wanted the top job. He heard about a national competition called the Wright Chef; the winner got national recognition, plus the executive chef job at the restaurant in Bartleville’s landmark Price Tower, designed by Frank Lloyd Wright. (Get the pun?) He knew next to nothing about Bartlesville, or Oklahoma for that matter, but he still applied.

There were 760 other contestants –which got narrowed down to ten, and they all met in Bartlesville for the finals. Each had to prepare a fine dining meal. Come time for the competition, Ducre’s plane was delayed 12 hours; he was barely able to prep his food.

He won anyway.

Within a few days, he was living in Oklahoma. It was a major culture shock, he says, and the person who helped him most during those days was chef Miranda Kaiser.

“When I first met him,” Kaiser recalls, “I saw a quiet, hardworking guy who really cares about his craft. A man of few words but many culinary talents.”

Those talents blossomed on Oklahoma soil.

After leaving Price Tower a year later, Ducre started hosting monthly popup dinners. That was his time to soar. Creative, exuberant, playful dishes with names like Dan Doodlin in the Field (“Dan Doodlin is a sausage made decades ago in Appalachia – I love those old Southern foodways and I love charcuterie,” he says) and Quaking Canard (duck breast with farro salad, carrot puree and bordelaise sauce). These pop-ups were named the Cicada Supper Club. But within the past few months, Ducre has moved to a permanent brick-and-mortar space.

Crossing 2nd is a whimsical locale,

decorated with souvenirs of world travel, and Ducre is now its executive chef. He has ambitious plans. Dishes will be “seasonal, bright and fresh,” he says. Produce will come from a local vegetable garden called Ragtag Resilience.

“I’m going to put a Southern spin on things,” he says, but wants to clear up exactly what Southern cuisine can be.

“It’s a serious misconception,” he says, “to think it’s nothing but heavy, fatty food. It is seasonal; it was developed by farmers. We got things killed, fished or farmed hours before. I want to use all this to broaden the culinary scene in Bartlesville.”

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Chef Nook Ducre, originally from New Orleans, now runs Crossing 2nd in Bartlesville. Photos courtesy Crossing 2nd See Ducre’s recipe for veggie bolognese at okmag.com.
Celebrate all things Irish this month by visiting a pub or two to keep the magic going.

Mucker’s Pub and Eatery

An Irish pub perfect for watching soccer, Mucker’s is located in OKC’s NW 23rd District. The joint uses 100 % beef hot dogs, or Irish bangers, piled with your choice of toppings. For those meat-free, plant dogs and pizza are available, too. Wash it all down with a variety of local beers on tap, or a craft cocktail.

Kilkenny’s

Tulsa’s go-to spot for all things Irish, Kilkenny’s on Cherry Street is as authentically Irish as they come. Try the Jenkinstown Cottage pie, with beef tips, peas, carrots, mashed potatoes and vegetables, or the Black Abbey Bangers and Mash, with Irish sausage, caramelized onions and Guinness gravy.

O’Connell’s Irish Pub & Grille

A Norman institution, O’Connell’s Irish Pub & Grille offers the quintessential pub experience with delicious food and drink, plus events like karaoke and trivia. Try fish and chips, delicious burgers and a variety of brews on tap. Who knows – maybe some of them will be green on the holiday.

Bishop Quigley

A new pub nestled into Tulsa’s Maple Ridge neighborhood, Bishop Quigley is perfect for a quiet sip or a fun night with friends. Try the pub curry, complete with chicken, shrimp, veggies, and basmati and garlic naan, or the old faithful: fish and chips. Brews win the day, with Guinness on tap, as well as a bevy of bottled and canned beers.

Sean Cumming’s Irish Pub

Many an Irish pub slaps a couple of Americanized dishes on the menu and calls it a day. But not Sean Cumming’s. Here, you can enjoy everything from Boxty – traditional Irish pancakes – to stew, corned beef and cabbage, and Shepherd’s pie. Stick around for pub fare, plus drinks, desserts, soups and salads.

J. Farley’s Pub

Americanized Irish fare is the name of the game at Claremore’s J. Farley’s Pub. Nosh upon Reubens, Shepherd’s pie, chicken and cabbage or wolfhounds – cheesy dogs. The restaurant also hosts an array of weekly events, like bingo, karaoke and live music.

McNellie’s

McNellie’s combines that friendly Irish feel with traditional pub grub. From cottage pie to fish and chips and everything in between, diners can enjoy a slice of Ireland in Oklahoma. Drinkers will also enjoy the rotating beer menu, as well as a collection of Irish spirits.

The Black Raven

Irish whiskey, bangers and mash, fish and chips, corned beef and cabbage. What more could you want from The Black Raven? The beloved pub, based in Harrah, also has other mouth watering entrees to whet your whistle.

CJ Moloney’s

What brings you into CJ Moloney’s in Broken Arrow is most likely the array of entertainment options – pool, darts, live music and karaoke – but you’ll stay for the delicious meals, ranging from corned beef to patty melts.

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Photo courtesy Bishop Quigley Photo courtesy Mucker's Pub Photo courtesy Sean Cumming's Irish Pub Photo courtesy The Black Raven Photo courtesy Kilkenny's Photo courtesy McNellie's File photo Photo courtesy J. Farley's Pub Photo courtesy CJ Moloney's

Where & When

GREAT THINGS TO DO IN OKLAHOMA

EVENTS LISTED ARE SUBJECT TO CHANGE. CHECK INDIVIDUAL WEBSITES FOR UPDATES.

IN TULSA

Performances

American Theatre Company presents: All

The King’s Women March

1-9 Tulsa PAC Enjoy the story of Elvis Presley told through the eyes of 17 women – some enthralled, some appalled, all obsessed. tulsapac.com

Signature Symphony presents: Inevitable

Beethoven: The Struggle for Creation March

2 TCC VanTrease PACE This all-Beethoven and Beethoven-influenced program was inspired by immersive theater experiences that are now found all over the globe. signaturesymphony.org

Celebrity Attractions

presents: My Fair

Lady Through March 3 Tulsa PAC Director Bartlett Sher’s glowing production is thrilling, glorious and better than it ever was. celebrityattractions.com

Tulsa Symphony presents: Harry Potter and the Sorcerer’s Stone in Concert March 9-10 Tulsa PAC The Harry Potter film series is one of those once-in-alifetime cultural phenomena that continues to delight millions of fans around the world. This concert will feature a live symphony orchestra performing every note from Harry Potter and the Sorcerer’s Stone. tulsasymphony.org

Baby Shark’s Big

Broadwave Tour March

15-16 Tulsa PAC Join Baby Shark and his fincredible fishy friends on an undersea adventure filled with oceans of fun and finship! tulsapac.com

Chamber Music Tulsa

Presents: Horszowski

Trio March 15-17 Tulsa PAC Enjoy talented musicians and a night of wine and hors d’oeuvres. chambermusictulsa. org

Theatre Tulsa presents:

Calendar Girls March

15-24 Tulsa PAC When

Annie’s husband John dies of leukemia, she and best friend Chris resolve to raise money for their local hospital with a daring “alternative” calendar. theatretulsa.org

PERFORMANCES

Classics and New Twists

In Tulsa, the PAC welcomes a range of entertainment options to suit any taste. The month begins with American Theatre Company’s All e King’s Women from March 1-9. The story follows Elvis Presley, but his story is told through the eyes of 17 women in his life. You won’t want to miss the last bit of My Fair Lady’s run, through March 3, brought by Celebrity Attractions. Other goodies at the PAC include Harry Potter and the Sorcerer’s Stone in Concert, performed by Tulsa Symphony on March 9-10, as well as the Horszowsi Trio, hosted by Chamber Music Tulsa. The fun doesn’t end there – Tulsa Ballet’s romantic tragedy

Romeo and Juliet runs March 21-24, as well as Celebrity Attraction’s To Kill A Mockingbird March 26-31. At Tulsa Community College’s VanTrease PACE, enjoy Inevitable Beethoven: e Struggle for Creation on March 2.

The Civic Center Music Hall hosts OKC Broadway’s Wicked through March 10. Don’t miss OKC Philharmonic’s show Glorious Life on March 23, alongside Canterbury Voices’ All for the Saints performance on March 14. At the Susan E. Brackett Dance Center, OKC Ballet presents its annual Future Voices showcase on March 7-10. Take a quick trip to Edmond to enjoy the talented violinist Ray Chen on March 14.

Outside the major metros, visit the Simmons Center in Duncan for hilarious musical The Addams Family, March 1-2, or the McKnight Center in Stillwater for the Piano Spectacular on March 3.

Tulsa Ballet presents: Romeo & Juliet March 21-24 Tulsa

PAC This emotionally stunning ballet combines intensity and passion to portray William Shakespeare’s tragic story of two star-crossed lovers. tulsaballet. org

Celebrity Attractions presents: To Kill a Mockingbird March 26-31 Tulsa PAC All rise for Academy Award winner Aaron Sorkin’s adaptation of Harper Lee’s Pulitzer Prize-winning masterwork. celebrityattractions. com

¿Dónde Están Las Mellizas Miller? March 30-31 Tulsa

PAC Isabel Perozo writes, produces and presents this Spanish-language play. Taking place between 1978 and 1983,

¿Dónde están las mellizas Miller? tells the story of Amber Miller, a woman who belongs to a mysterious religious congregation. tulsapac.com

Concerts

Killer Queen March 1 Tulsa

Theater This Queen tribute band is not to be missed. tulsatheater.com

Babyface March 1 River Spirit

Casino Resort Kenny ‘Babyface’ Edmonds is a 12-time Grammy Award-winning recording artist, songwriter, producer, and one of the most celebrated creative forces in music history. riverspirittulsa. com

Winter Jam March 1 BOK

Center Don’t miss this annual concert with Crowder, Lecrae, Katy Nichole and more. bokcenter.com

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Bob Wills’ Texas

Playboys Mach 2-3 Cain’s Ballroom Don’t miss one of the south’s most beloved bands, playing the Cain’s for two nights. cainsballroom.com

LANY March 5 BOK Center One of indie music’s most popular bands visits Tulsa. bokcenter.com

The Dave Matthews Tribute Band March 10 Cain’s Ballroom Fans of Dave Matthews won’t want to miss this talented tribute band. cainsballroom.com

Lil Wayne March 14 BOK

Center Iconic rapper Lil Wayne returns to Tulsa with Selfish Sons and Cordae. bokcenter.com

Chris Cagle March 29 Hard Rock Hotel and Casino Tulsa This country star visits Tulsa. hardrockcasinotulsa.com

Blake Shelton and Friends: Oklahoma is All for the Hall March 30 BOK Center The concert, which will benefit the Country Music Hall of Fame and Museum and its educational programs, features an all-star Okie lineup including Ronnie Dunn, Kristin Chenoweth, Wade Hayes and fan favorites, The Swon Brothers. bokcenter.com

Art

Champagne & Chocolate

Through March 16 Living Arts The Champagne & Chocolate Member Showcase features 46 artists with more than 100 works being displayed. The artwork in this exhibition displays the diversity of our member artists in both skill and media, ranging from woodworking to painting. livingarts.org

Cynthia Marcoux: Beaded

Memories Through March 24 108 Contemporary This exhibition is a collection of items that have been transformed with beads into long lasting gem-like tributes to Marcoux’s childhood. 108contemporary.org

Collidoscope: De La

Torre Brothers RetroPerspective Through April 25 Philbrook This exhibition features dozens of colorful multi-media blown-glass objects and elaborately framed lenticular prints that span the spectacular, genre-defying careers of artists and brothers Einar and Jamex de la Torre. philbrook.org

Wyeth: Textured Visions Of Nature Through June 9 Philbrook Through three

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successive generations, the bountifully creative Wyeth family closely observed the world around them to produce artworks that reflect their textured visions of nature. philbrook.org

Here Be Dragons:

Mapping The Real And

Imagined Through Dec.

29 Philbrook This exhibition presents artworks from the Philbrook collection that span over three hundred years of history, and that build a sense of place, whether real or imagined. philbrook.org

Slumgullion: The

Venerate Outpost

Ongoing Philbrook Philbrook is proud to partner with award-winning artist Karl Unnasch to present Slumgullion, a full-scale log cabin built from the skeleton of a late-1800s pioneer home. philbrook.org

Sports

Tulsa Oilers Hockey March

2-3, 29 BOK Center Cheer on the Oilers as they take on opponents at home. tulsaoilers.com

OKRHA Ride & Slide March

5-10 Expo Square The Oklahoma Reining Horse Association was formed to serve the needs of reining horse enthusiasts in the Oklahoma region, while supporting neighboring reining affiliates and the National Reining Horse Association. See the annual Ride & Slide event March 5-10. okrha.com

Big XII Wrestling Championship March 9-10 BOK Center The Big XII Wrestling Championship returns to BOK Center for two days of wrestling competitions. bokcenter.com

Oklahoma Men’s Gymnastics

State Meet March 15-16 Expo Square Some of the state’s most talented gymnasts take the floor at this state meet. exposquare.com

Bassmaster Classic March

22-24 BOK Center When it comes to the Outdoors Bassmaster Classic, Grand Lake O’ the Cherokees has more than lived up to its name. And now, the picturesque reservoir will add to that grand lore when it plays host to the 54th renewal of the Super Bowl of bass fishing at the BOK Center. bokcenter.com

Community

First Friday Art Crawl March 1

Downtown Tulsa Since 2007, the Tulsa Arts District has presented the community with rotating art displays as part of the First Friday Art Crawl. travelok.com

Pool & Spa Show March

1-3 Expo Square Prepare your home for the summer heat at this annual show. exposquare.com

Greater Tulsa Home & Garden Show March 7-10 Expo Square Experienced vendors will be on hand to answer any questions, helping to make your home and garden exactly how you imagined. exposquare.com

Tulsa Town Hall presents:

Mary Louise Kelly March

8 Tulsa PAC From the AfghanPakistan border to Kosovo refugee camps to the deck of an aircraft carrier – among many other places – Mary Louise Kelly traveled the world as a reporter for the BBC and CNN to investigate foreign policy and military issues. tulsatownhall. com

Second ArchitectureSaturdayTour

March

9 100 E. Second St. Take a fun and educational walking tour during the Second Saturday Architecture Tour. tulsaarchitecture.org

Tulsa Dog Training Club AKC Agility Trials March 15-17 Expo

Square Canines will compete for top prizes at this agility trial. exposquare.com

Hot Wheels Monster Trucks

Live Glow Party March 1617 BOK Center Fans of all ages will experience the thrill of watching their favorite Hot Wheels Monster Trucks in the dark. The Glow Party production features a laser light show, spectacular theatrical effects, dance parties, and Hot Wheels toy giveaways. bokcenter. com

Dinosaur World Live March

21 Tulsa PAC Dare to experience the dangers and delights of Dinosaur World Live in this roarsome interactive show for all the family. Grab your compass and join our intrepid explorer across uncharted territories to discover a pre-historic world of astonishing dinosaurs. tulsapac.com

Jurassic Quest March

22-24 Expo Square Life-like dinosaurs will be sure to amaze at this annual event. exposquare. com

Jim Gaffigan March 24 River Spirit Casino Resort Jim Gaffigan is a seven time Grammy nominated comedian, actor, writer, producer and two-time New York Times bestselling author. riverspirittulsa.com

Charitable Events

Brainiac Ball March 2 Cox

Business Convention Center Get ready for a classically good time at Brainiac Ball: The Classics, presented by Cyclonic Valve and benefiting Family & Children’s Services. Guests will be whisked off to a whimsical, classical world to sip cocktails, dine, dance and, of course, compete in exciting team trivia. brainiacball.com

Sapphire Celebration March

2 River Spirit Casino Resort The 2024 Sapphire Celebration, benefitting Riverfield Country Day School, calls on our inner artists to show up in bold, creative and adventurous ways. Will you show up as a Picasso or come as your own masterpiece? riverfield.org

Street Party March 8 Cox

Business Convention Center Enjoy a night of drinks, dancing, food and fun to benefit Street School. streetpartytulsa.com

Candy Ball Havana

Nights March 9 River Spirit

Casino Resort Get ready for the sweetest night of 2024 at the Candy Ball Havana Nights, an enchanting Cuban-themed evening benefiting the Child Advocacy Network.k candyball.org

Red Ribbon Gala March 16 Cox

Business Convention Center Visit the Red Ribbon Gala 2024, Year of the Dragon, an auspicious year symbolizing well-being, strength and prosperity. Organizers promise a spectacular evening of culture, good fortune and festivities raising critical funds for Tulsa CARES. redribbongala.org

Opera Ball March 30 Mayo

Hotel Part of the city’s vibrant social calendar for the past 63 years, the Tulsa Opera Ball is an iconic happening and a can’t miss event for young men and women, their families, and the community, all to benefit Tulsa Opera. tulsaopera.com/operaball

IN OKC Performances

Oklahoma City Ballet

presents: Future Voices March 7-10 Susan E. Brackett Dance Center This must-see event features entirely new works without sets or costumes under the direction of

Artistic Director Ryan JolicouerNye. okcballet.org

OKC Broadway presents: Wicked Through March 10 Civic Center Music Hall Wicked, the Broadway sensation, looks at what happened in the Land of Oz …but from a different angle. okcbroadway.com

Ray Chen March 14 Armstrong Auditorium, Edmond Armstrong audiences were stunned by Ray Chen’s immense talent and electrifying energy at his 2018 recital. Since then, he has risen into the stratosphere as a violinist who redefines what it is to be a classical musician in the 21st century. armstrongauditorium.org

Cantury Voices presents: For All The Saints March 14 Civic Center Music Hall Canterbury embarks on a musical journey, paying homage to the spirit of the Irish, the legacy of the saints (especially Patrick) and the timeless beauty of ancient melodies. okcciviccenter.com

Outback presents: Disney Princess March 17 Civic Center Music Hall For generations, the music of Disney’s princesses has been the soundtrack to our lives. Now, these beloved songs come alive on stage with a host of Broadway and television stars in Disney Princess - The Concert! okcciviccenter.com

Okc Phil presents: Glorious Life March 23 Civic Center Music Hall Enjoy a stunning performance from the OKC Philharmonic, with Alexander Mickelthwate conducting and help from Canterbury Voices. okcphil.org Emporium presents: Home

SPORTS America’s Pastime, Plus So Much More

In Tulsa, the Oilers can still be found on the BOK Center rink on March 2, 3 and 29. Stick around Tulsa’s largest event venue for the Big XII Wrestling Championships, running March 9-10, as well as the Bassmaster Classic fishing event, March 2224. Expo Square also hosts a couple of intriguing events – the Oklahoma Reining Horse Association’s Ride and Slide, March 5-10, as well as the Oklahoma Men’s Gymnastics State Meet, March 15-16.

We’re seeing an uptick in baseball and softball this month, with a bevy of home games for our two largest public universities. OU softball – the reigning national champs – play at home, Love’s Field in Norman, March 1-3, 6, 8-10, 12, 20 and 23-24.

Across the way, visit L. Dale Mitchell Park to watch OU baseball games March 5, 8-10, 12, 19, 22-24, 26 and 28-30. In Stillwater, the Cowboys play at the O’Brate Stadium March 1-3, 5-6, 8-10, 19 and 22-24, and the Cowgirls hit the field, Cowgirl Stadium, on March 1, 6, 13, 15-17, 26 and 28-30.

Worry not, basketball fans! You can still enjoy

Free Crazy(er) Life Tour March

28 Civic Center Music

Hall All-vocal country entertainers

Home Free have made their mark on the music scene, racking up nearly 600,000 album equivalents globally. okcciviccenter.com

Concerts

Keith Sweat March 2 Paycom

Center Keith Sweat is coming to Oklahoma City with the Make it Last Forever 35th Anniversary Tour along with SWV and Pretty Ricky. paycomcenter.com

Dan + Shay March 9 Paycom

Center Dan + Shay’s Heartbreak

On The Map Tour with Ben Rector and Hailey Whitters is coming to Paycom Center! paycomcenter. com

Fall Out Boy March 11 Paycom

Center Fall Out Boy is bringing the So Much For (2our) Dust tour to Oklahoma City, along with special guests Jimmy Eat World, The Maine and Daisy Grenade. paycomcenter. com

Katt Williams March 15 Paycom

Center Katt Williams returns to Oklahoma City with The Dark Matter Tour. paycomcenter.com

Drake and J. Cole March

18-19 Paycom Center See two of the most successful rappers of the 21st century on the It’s All A Blur Tour. paycomcenter.com

Wayne’s World March 23 The Criterion Enjoy the talented rapper with Skilla Baby. criterionokc.com

Corey Kent March 30 The Criterion Country music star Corey Kent visits OKC for one night only. criterionokc.com

Art

February Group Art

Show Through March 3 DNA

Galleries Featured in DNA Galleries the month of February, this group show features Brad Hill, Mia Isabel Pons and Cecilia Otero. dnagalleries.com

Magnificent Beauty: Georgia O’Kee e and the Art of the Flower March 9-July 7 OKCMOA Enjoy an exhibition of work by Georgia O’Keeffe and photographer Imogen Cunningham, both of whom shared a fascination for flowers. okcmoa.com

First Look: New to the

Museum Through March

17 OKCMOA First Look: New to the Museum showcases a variety of genres and art movements, from traditional still lifes, landscapes and portraiture to street photography, abstract paintings and conceptual art. Featuring a wide range of mediums and styles, the objects on display explore the overarching idea of space. okcmoa.com

Treasures from our Atherton Vault Through April 28 National Cowboy and Western Heritage Museum Treasures from our Atherton Vault is a rare glimpse at some of the typically tucked away art and artifacts in the National Cowboy & Western Heritage Museum’s vast collections. nationalcowboymuseum.org

Lighting Pathways:

Matriarchs of Oklahoma Native Art Through April 28 National Cowboy and Western Heritage Museum The seven women artists in Lighting

HARLEM GLOBETROTTERS 2

OKC Blue and OKC Thunder games at Paycom Stadium all month long. And for an extra dash of b-ball entertainment, stick around for the Harlem Globetrotters on March 23.

If you want to participate in the action yourself, try the Stilly Half & 5K on March 2 at Stillwater’s T. Boone Pickens Stadium, or the Mid-South Endurance Festival, March 14-17, at District Bicycles in Stillwater.

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Pathways: Matriarchs of Native American Art came from diverse tribes and overcame challenges, diff icult to imagine today. nationalcowboymuseum.

org Italy’s Legendary Cowboys of the Maremma, Photographs by Gabrielle Saveri Through May 5 National Cowboy and Western Heritage Museum The butteri, or Italian “cowboys” — hailing from the lands spanning from the plains of northern Lazio up through the coastal Italian region of Maremma into southern Tuscany — have a long-standing connection to Buffalo Bill and the history of America’s Wild West. nationalcowboymuseum.org

Routines & Rituals Through May 6 Oklahoma

Contemporary Life is routine. We sleep, wake, shower, scroll, go to school and work. These rituals and routines offer comfort in a chaotic world, but doing the same thing, again and again, can make anyone bored and frustrated. Routines & Rituals reflects the patterns and personal experiences of current high school sophomores, juniors and seniors. oklahomacontemporary.

rog

HOME1947: Sharmeen

Obaid Chinoy Through July 22 Oklahoma

Contemporary HOME1947: Sharmeen Obaid Chinoy explores the lives and stories of the millions displaced in 1947 during the creation of two new independent nation-states, India and Pakistan. oklahomacontemporary.

org

Eva Schlegel: Multiple

Voices Through Jan. 13, 2025 Oklahoma

Contemporary Multiple Voices is the first public artwork in the United States by Eva Schlegel, the Austria-born and -based artist known for engineering steel and mirrors into spectacular, architectonic sculptures. oklahomacontemporary.org

Chihuly Then and Now: The Collection at Twenty Ongoing OKCMOA Redesigned in collaboration with Chihuly Studio, Chihuly Then and Now: The Collection at Twenty incorporates a unique design, featuring five decades of glass and painting and tells a comprehensive story of Chihuly’s groundbreaking career. okcmoa.com

Sports

University of Oklahoma

Softball March 1-3, 6, 8-10, 12, 20, 23-24 Love’s Field, Norman See the national champ OU softball team take on early season foes. soonersports.com

University of Oklahoma

Baseball March 5, 8-10, 12, 19, 2224, 26, 28-30 L. Dale Mitchell Park, Norman See the Sooners take on teams at home. soonersports.com

OKC Blue Basketball March 5, 27, 28 Paycom Center Enjoy Oklahoma’s G League team, the OKC Blue, at home games. paycomcenter.com

OKC Thunder

Basketball March 8, 10, 12, 14, 20, 27, 29 Paycom Center Join the Thunder for electrifying nights of basketball. okcthunder.com

Harlem Globetrotters March

23 Paycom Center Don't miss your chance to be a part of the worldfamous Harlem Globetrotters global

tour as they take the court with moments of extreme basketball innovation and unparalleled fan fun. paycomcenter.com

Community

Backwoods Hunting & Fishing Expo March

1-3 OKC Fairgrounds Outdoor enthusiasts won’t want to miss this informative and entertaining expo. okcfairgrounds.com

OKC Auto Show March

1-3 OKC Fairgrounds See a variety of vintage and brand new vehicles at this exciting swap. okcfairgrounds.com

Jurassic Quest March

15-16 OKC Fairgrounds Enjoy Jurassic Quest – the largest and most realistic traveling dinosaur experience in North America. jurassicquest.com

2024 OKC Home + Outdoor Living Show March 22-24 OKC Fairgrounds Enjoy friendly vendors and plenty of wares to get your home and garden in tip-top shape. okcfairgrounds.com

Red Earth Native American Cultural Festival March 2224 National Cowboy and Western Heritage Museum The Red Earth Festival features more than 1,000 American Indian artists and dancers from throughout North America. redearth.orgredearth.org

Charitable Events

COMMUNITY

Common Grounds Coffee Festival March 2 Cleveland County Fairgrounds, Norman The Common Grounds Coffee Festival brings people together to build community and support a powerful local cause: Rose Rock Habitat for Humanity. rrhabitat.org

Game on with Casa March

4 The Jones Assembly Game On is a casual, fun-filled evening with games, drinks, dinner and a mission moment showcasing the impact one CASA can make in the life of a child in foster care. okcountycasa.org

Boots and Ball Gowns March

9 Oklahoma City Convention Center It’s time to don those cowboy boots and saddle up for another boot scootin’ good time. Visit the 15th annual Boots and Ball Gowns Gala benefiting Infant Crisis Services. infantcrisis.org

Shine A Light March

28 National Cowboy and Western Heritage Museum You are invited to join Sunbeam Family Services in lighting the way for Central Oklahomans at the 10th annual Shine a Light event, chaired by Jessica Gilmore. sunbeamfamilyservices. org

THE STATE Performances

Duncan Little Theatre presents: The Addams

Go Green

In Tulsa, prep your home for the warmer weather at Expo Square’s Greater Tulsa Home and Garden Show on March 7-10. Stick around the area for the adorably cute but highly competitive Tulsa Dog Training Club Agility Trials, March 15-17, as well as dinosaur extravaganza Jurassic Quest on March 22-24. (Oklahoma Citians – the event runs March 15-16 at the OKC Fairgrounds!)

Family March 1-2 The Simmons Center, Dunca Starring a talented cast of local actors, this rip-roaring musical tells the story of a ghoulish but loveable American family. simmonscenter.com

Pauls Valley Opry March

2 Pauls Valley Junior High School Auditorium The Pauls Valley Opry revived a 1960s and 1970s tradition built on traveling the state to play country, rock and folk music in a variety of clubs. travelok.com

Chamber Music at The McKnight: Piano Spectacular March 3 McKnight Center for the Performing Arts, Stillwater For six seasons, chamber music has defined The McKnight Center experience –intimate and inspiring, playful and moving. This season, artistic director Anne-Marie McDermott reinvents the chamber music experience with an all-piano program. mcknightcenter.org

The Cameraman Silent Film with Organist Peter Krasinski March 10 McKnight Center for the Performing Arts, Stillwater Hailed as a film accompanist extraordinaire, Peter Krasinski improvises incredible concerts that are a favorite among audiences every season. mcknightcenter.org

Jim Gaffigan March 22 Winstar World Casino and Resort, Thackerville Comedian, author and entertainer Jim Gaff igan visits Thackerville. winstar.com

Concerts

Diana Ross March 1 Winstar World Casino and Resort, Thackerville See vocal powerhouse and icon Diana Ross live. winstar.com

Shane Smith and the Saints March 8 Choctaw Casino and Resort, Durant See this exciting band live for one night only. choctawcasinos.com

Josh Abbott Band March

9 Choctaw Casino and Resort, Durant This country band makes a stop in Durant for a toe-tapping good time. choctawcasinos.com

Tyler Childers March

16 Winstar World Casino and Resort, Thackerville One of the most prominent up-and-comers in the world of country music, Tyler Childers is a can’t-miss performer. winstar.com

Jackson Dean March

28 Choctaw Casino and Resort, Durant See this crooner with special guest Ashley Cooke. choctawcasinos.com

Sports

Oklahoma State University

Baseball March 1-3, 5-6, 8-10, 19, 22-24 O’Brate Stadium, Stillwater See the Cowboys play American’s pastime. okstate.com

Oklahoma State University Softball March 1, 6, 13, 15-17, 26, 28-30 Cowgirl Stadium,

Stillwater The Cowgirls play at home this month. okstate.com

Stilly Half & 5K March

2 T. Boone Pickens Stadium, Stillwater Get a great workout and a tour of the Oklahoma State University campus when running the Stilly Half & 5K. stillyhalf.com

Mid-South Endurance Festival March 14-17 District Bicycles, Stillwater This cycling festival celebrates the hard challenges and the beauty of Oklahoma dirt roads through a series of route options. midsouthgravel.com

Community

Parkstomp Music

Festival March 15-17 Town Center Mainstage, Medicine Park Celebrate the coming of spring amid cobblestonelined streets at Parkstomp. wichitamountainslodge.com

Queensferry Renaissance Festival March 16-17 Park Hills Motel and RV Park, Vinita The annual Queensferry Renaissance Festival invites you to step back into 1540 Scotland as the villagers prepare for King James V’s arrival. queensferryrenfest.com

Sunny Side Up Film Festival March 22-24 The Coleman Theatre, Miami The first of its kind in the area, this festival embraces the spirit of independent media. brenrockproductions.com

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The Tulsa PAC hosts reporter Mary Louise Kelly on March 8, brought to town by Tulsa Town Hall. Also at the PAC is Dinosaur World Live, perfect for the kiddos, on March 21. The BOK Center also plays host to Hot Wheels Monster Trucks Live Glow Party on March 16-17.

Car enthusiasts won’t want to miss the OKC Auto Show at the fairgrounds, running March 1-3. The area also welcomes the OKC Home and Outdoor Living Show on March 22-24. And one of the biggest cultural events of the year – the Red Earth Native American Cultural Festival – is happening March 22-24 at the National Cowboy and Western Heritage Museum. Other goodies outside Tulsa and OKC include the Parkstomp Music Festival, March 15-17 at Town Center Mainstage in Medicine Park; the Queensferry Renaissance Festival, March 16-17 at Park Hills Motel and RV Park in Vinita; and the Sunny Side Up Film Festival, March 22-24 at Miami’s Coleman Theatre.

As for St. Patty’s Day activities, try the Eufaula Green Run 5K, March 16 at Eufaula’s Xtreme Amphitheater; the Stockyard City St. Patrick’s Day Parade, March 16 starting at 2303 Exchange Ave. in OKC; Sham-Rock the Gardens, March 17 at OKC’s Myriad Botanical Gardens; Shamrock the Rose, March 16 in Broken Arrow’s Rose District; or the Kilkenny’s Saint Patrick’s Day Celebration, March 17 on Tulsa’s Cherry Street.

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ART

Much to Explore

Art exhibitions run the gamut this month.

In Tulsa, make sure to catch Champagne & Chocolate at Living Arts before its run ends on March 16. The show features 46 artists and more than 100 works, with mediums ranging from paint to woodwork.

108 Contemporary’s March exhibition Cynthia Marcoux: Beaded Memories runs until March 24. The exhibition showcases a collection of items that have been transformed with beads, creating tangible tributes to the artist’s childhood.

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Philbrook has plenty to see and do this month, as well. Visit until April 25 for Collidoscope: De La Torre Brothers RetroPerspective. Featuring dozens of colorful blown-glass objects, the exhibition also offers elaborately framed lenticular prints for a dynamic viewing experience. Next up at Philbrook is Wyeth: Textured Visions of Nature, running through June 9. The show follows the works of three generations of the Wyeth family, who all produced content that pays homage to the natural world. Lastly, enjoy Here Be Dragons: Mapping the Real and the Imagined, through Dec. 29. This exhibition presents artworks from the Philbrook permanent collection that span over three hundred years of history.

In Oklahoma City, the OKCMOA welcomes a new exhibition this month – Magnificent Beauty: Georgia O’Keeffe and the Art of the Flower, from March 9-July 7. The famed artist’s works can be seen alongside photography from Imogen Cunningham – both of whom shared a fascination for flowers. Through March 17, don’t miss First Look: New to the Museum, showcasing a variety of genres and art movements, all exploring the overarching idea of space.

The National Cowboy Museum has three exhibitions to peruse, all closing April 28. The first is Treasures from our Atherton Vault, which provides a rare glimpse at some of the typically tucked away art and artifacts in the museum. The second, Lighting Pathways: Matriarchs of Oklahoma Native Art, displays the creations of seven female Native artists, all who forged successful careers in the bustling heyday of the late 20th-century Oklahoma. Finally, Nations at War! Field Sketches of a Pawnee Warrior, highlights colorful and realistic depiction of Indigenous life – not only during war but during courting and day-to-day life.

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Cinema’s Heating Up

Great movies are coming out of winter hibernation.

It’s March! Spring is almost here and will last approximately twenty minutes before the sweltering heat of summer makes another early appearance. However, there’s always a cool, airconditioned movie theater calling your name this and every month, with exciting new films to see.

Starting the month strong, we have Dune: Part II. A sequel to the highly successful and well received Dune from 2021, this follow-up looks to conclude the story of the 1965 book of the same name by Frank Herbert. Again directed by Denis Villeneuve, the film sees another stacked cast with returning actors Timothee Chalamet, Zendaya, Rebecca Ferguson, Josh Brolin and Dave Bautista, with newcomers Florence Pugh, Christopher Walken and Austin Butler joining the story. There’s a huge amount of lore here, so make sure you refresh your memory by watching the first one prior to viewing part two. Prepare to control the spice when the film hits theaters on March 1.

If you need another science fiction fix, take a look at Spaceman. Starring Adam Sandler as an astronaut sent to the edges of the galaxy to collect a mysterious ancient dust, he encounters a voice (Paul Dano) who tries to help him along the way ... and also happens to be a creature from the beginning of time. This doesn’t appear to be the regular Adam Sander schlock that Netflix normally churns out, so we’ll see if this is a cut above when it lands on the streaming service on March 1.

Looking for a weird romantic thriller by A24? Look no further than Love Lies Bleeding. The story follows Lou (Kirsten Stewart), a gym manager that falls hard for Jackie (Katy O’Brian), a bodybuilder headed for Vegas. Lou’s father, played by an unhinged looking Ed Harris, is involved in the criminal underworld and seemingly pulls both of them into it. It has a bizarre ’80s setting with what appears to be some steroid-induced muscle growth that borders on the

comical, but we’ll see how it all holds together on March 8.

For pure action and machismo, check out Road House. A remake of the 1989 film of the same name, this updated version stars Jake Gyllenhaal in the lead role of Elwood Dalton, an ex-UFC fighter now working at a roadhouse in the Florida Keys. Of course, nothing is as it seems. Directed by Doug Liman (The Bourne Identity), the film has a lot of potential to be an excellently made action ride full of great fights and one-liners. It comes to theaters on March 21.

Lastly, check out the TV show Nirvanna the Band the Show. Created by and starring Matt Johnson and Jay McCarrol, playing exaggerated versions of themselves, the mockumentary follows the duo as “Nirvanna the Band” and their ill-fated attempts at getting a show despite having no preparation. The show utilizes hidden camera techniques along with pre-planned scripting to create something that is often influenced by the actions of an unsuspecting person. It’s genuinely unique and extremely funny. All seasons are available on Internet Archive for free.

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