Four County Catholic October/November 2022

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Dear Faithful Readers . . .

The Four County Catholic has been delivered to readers’ mailboxes for 34 years. Many of you have been with us from the first issue. We are grateful for your generous support and encouragement over the years as we continue our mission of bringing you truthful news with a Catholic perspective. The first thing you will notice in this issue is that it covers two months-October and November. That is so we can prepare for a major change that is coming in December. Read Bishop Cote’s column on the facing page. An expanded look into the details of the change can be found on page 16.

Thank you in advance for responding to our annual request to help defray the production costs associated with the Four County Catholic. This year we are saving the expense of including envelopes in the issue.

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Whether it arrives in your mailbox or your inbox, it is our pleasure to continue to deliver the news from around the Diocese to you and your family.

Happy Thanksgiving

The Four County Catholic Editorial Team

ON THE COVER October is Respect Life Month. Every October, we consider more deeply why every human life is valuable and reflect on how to build a culture that protects life from conception to natural death.

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Incidentes relacionados con el abuso de adultos vulnerables de 18-59 años de edad deben ser reportados a Departamento de Servicios al Desarrollo del Estado de Connecticut-División de Ayuda para Personas con Incapacidad Intelectual 1-844-878-8923.

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FAITH LEAD THE WAY

THE MOST REVEREND

MICHAEL R. COTE, D.D. BISHOP OF NORWICH

Go into the Whole World and Proclaim the Gospel

My dear brothers and sisters in Christ: We are fortunate to live in New England. One of the highlights of living in New England is the change of seasons. Each season offers us something unique and different for which to look forward. Seasons are consistent keepers of time from which we can learn and celebrate. Just as certainly as winter turns into spring, we are guaranteed that the greenery of summer will transition to the beautiful palette of colors that awaits us in autumn. The seasons teach us to embrace change.

An upcoming change that I am very happy to announce is that the Four County Catholic, our diocesan newspaper will be receiving a new look, an enhanced focus and an expanded audience come December.

We need more beauty in our lives, therefore, in December the communications team will unveil the Four County Catholic Magazine. It will be published every other month in a high-quality glossy magazine format. This decision came about because of a

few very simple and important reasons. Namely, timely news can be easily found online. During the last few years, we had to learn to get our news online. Even the grandparents among us. The transition to a high-quality magazine every other month meets the needs of our families to see our diocese in action, but not be our newsfeed.

The magazine will feature uplifting articles and high-resolution photos of our diocese. And with this change in format and the frequency of the publications we can now save both time and money allowing us to expand our circulation to every registered Catholic household in the diocese.

A few years ago, at a World Communications Day event, Pope Francis commented that “the digital world can be an environment rich in humanity, a network not of wires but of people.”

This change will now afford the communications team the time to expand the social media reach of the diocese and our charge to “Go into the

whole world and proclaim the Gospel to every creature.” (Mark16:15)

As your bishop, I am responsible for teaching, governing, and sanctifying you, the faithful of the diocese. I share these duties with the priests and deacons who serve in your parishes. The purpose of the Four County Catholic has always been to support these three duties. Increasing the circulation to every registered catholic and expanding our presence online will bring us closer to achieving this.

Thank you, always, for your support and faith in the ministries of love and hope that are an extension of your good will and commitment to the loving ministry of Christ our Lord.

May you enjoy an autumn filled with beauty.

Sincerely yours in the hospitality of Christ,

Most Reverend Michael R. Cote Bishop of Norwich

MICHAEL R. COTE, D.D. BISHOP OF NORWICH

Vayan por todo el mundo y proclamen el evangelio

Mis queridos hermanos y hermanas en Cristo, Somos afortunados de vivir en Nueva Inglaterra. Uno de los aspectos más destacados de vivir aquí es el cambio de estaciones. Cada temporada nos ofrece algo único y diferente. Las estaciones son guardianes constantes del tiempo del que podemos aprender y celebrar. Con la misma certeza que el invierno se convierte en primavera, tenemos la garantía de que la vegetación del verano pasará a la hermosa paleta de colores que nos espera en otoño. Las estaciones nos enseñan a acoger el cambio.

Un próximo cambio que estoy muy feliz de anunciar es que Four County Catholic, nuestro periódico diocesano mensual, recibirá en diciembre, una nueva apariencia, un enfoque mejorado y una audiencia ampliada.

Necesitamos más belleza en nuestras vidas, por lo tanto, en diciembre el equipo de comunicaciones dará a conocer la Revista Four County Catholic. Se publicará cada dos meses en un formato de revista brillante de alta calidad. Esta decisión se produjo debido a algunas razones muy simples e importantes. Es decir, las noticias pertinentes se pueden encontrar fácilmente en línea. Durante los

últimos años, incluso los abuelos entre nosotros, tuvimos que aprender a poner nuestras noticias en línea. La transición a una revista de alta calidad satisface las necesidades de nuestras familias de ver nuestra diócesis en acción, pero no de ser nuestro suministro de noticias.

La revista presentará artículos edificantes de nuestra diócesis y fotos de alta calidad.

Y con este cambio en el formato y la frecuencia de las publicaciones ahora podemos ahorrar tiempo y dinero permitiéndonos expandir nuestra circulación a todos los hogares católicos registrados en la diócesis.

Hace algunos años, en un evento del Día Mundial de las Comunicaciones, el Papa Francisco comentó que “el mundo digital puede ser un entorno rico en humanidad, una red no de cables sino de personas”.

Este cambio le dará al equipo de comunicaciones el tiempo para expandir los medios sociales de la diócesis y nuestra obligación de “Ir por el mundo y proclamar el Evangelio a toda creación”. (Marcos 16:15)

Como su obispo, soy responsable de enseñarles, guiarles y santificarles a ustedes, los fieles de la diócesis. Comparto estos deberes con los sacerdotes y diáconos que sirven en sus parroquias. El propósito de Four County Catholic siempre ha sido apoyar estos tres deberes. Aumentar la circulación a todos los católicos registrados y ampliar nuestra presencia en línea nos acercará a lograrlo.

Gracias, siempre, por su apoyo y fe en los ministerios de amor y esperanza que son una extensión de su buena voluntad y compromiso con el ministerio amoroso de Cristo nuestro Señor. Que disfrute de un otoño lleno de belleza. Sinceramente en el amor de Cristo,

Michael R. Cote Bishop of Norwich

October 20, 6-7pm - Our Lady of Lourdes, Gales Ferry

November 10, 6-7 pm - St. Joseph, Rockville

December 15, 6-7 pm - Christ the King, Old Lyme

Vocations Corner The Peace of Saint Francis

On October 4, the Church commemorates the Feast of Saint Francis of Assisi. Francis, we know, is a very popular and beloved figure worldwide. He has inspired the hearts and minds of so many people, both religious and non-religious alike. Founder of the Franciscan Orders of the Friars Minor, this thirteenth century man from Assisi and son of a merchant abandoned a life of luxury for a life devoted to Christ after reportedly hearing the voice of God, who commanded him to rebuild the Christian church and live in poverty.

What does Saint Francis’s witness tell us today? Pope Francis says that his first and most essential witness is this: “that being a Christian means having a living relationship with the person of Jesus; it means putting

on Christ, being conformed to him.” Pope Francis acknowledged that Francis’ journey of faith began with a personal encounter with the crucified Lord. It began with Christ’s gaze— “With letting Jesus look at us at the very moment that he gives his life for us and draws us to himself.” Francis, we know, experienced this in the Church of San Damiano at prayer and it transformed his life. It made him “new.” Everything else starts with this, Pope Francis says. The experience of transforming grace, “the experience of being loved for no merits of our own, in spite of our being sinners.”

The second witness of Francis according to Pope Francis is this: peace. True peace. The peace of Christ. The peace that Christ alone can give. Not “saccharine” peace. Not

‘oneness with the forces of the universe’ peace. But peace that is born of the greatest love of all, “the love of the cross.” As Pope Francis says, “The peace of Saint Francis is the peace of Christ, and it is found by those who “take up” their “yoke,” namely, Christ’s commandment: Love one another as I have loved you” (cf. Jn 13:34; 15:12).

I don’t know about you, but I have always loved the peace prayer of Saint Francis. Perhaps, as we commemorate the life of Saint Francis and remember his witness of peace born from the Love of Christ, we ask the Lord to lovingly gaze upon us anew and teach us once more to be instruments of His peace.

Lord, make me an instrument of your peace,

Where there is hatred, let me sow love; where there is injury, pardon; where there is doubt, faith; where there is despair, hope; where there is darkness, light; where there is sadness, joy;

O Divine Master, grant that I may not so much seek to be consoled as to console; to be understood as to understand; to be loved as to love. For it is in giving that we receive; it is in pardoning that we are pardoned; and it is in dying that we are born to eternal life.

Thank you for your continued prayers for our seminarians and all who, like Saint Francis, seek to discern their calling.

Peace.

Julian Cuervo 3rd Theology

Mount Saint Mary Seminary Emmitsburg, MD

-Father Jonathan Ficara, Director of Vocations

Alex Pandolfe 3rd Theology Mount Saint Mary Seminary Emmitsburg, MD

Eric Hosmer 3rd Theology Mount Saint Mary Seminary Emmitsburg, MD

Mark Johnson 2nd Theology Mount Saint Mary Seminary Emmitsburg, MD

Donors’ Generosity Knows No Bounds

By Mary Ellen Mahoney

The Annual Catholic Appeal is thrilled to announce that two wonderful donors, the Rossi Foundation and the Padre Pio Foundation of America, have generously agreed to match 50% of every new donation that the ACA receives between September 12, 2022, through December 15, 2022. This is the first time that anything like this has been done for the ACA and we are beyond appreciative. Ted and Ruth Rossi, founders of the Rossi Foundation, parishioners of St. Mary Church, Portland, have always dug deep into their pockets to support the ACA.

The Padre Pio Foundation of America, located in Cromwell, Connecticut was established in 1977 to promote devotion to Padre Pio and continue his legacy of love and caring for those less fortunate.

Padre Pio was a 20th century Italian Capuchin priest, responsible for numerous miracles, who was canonized by Pope John Paul II in 2002.

Andrew Becker, president of the Board of Padre Pio of Foundation of America, shared, “We are delighted to be able to join the Rossi Foundation in supporting the Annual Catholic Appeal –

From left to right, Andrew Becker, President, Padre Pio Foundation of America, and Ruth and Ted Rossi, Rossi Foundation.

“The Rossi Foundation has contributed to the ACA for over 50 years. We have always been impressed by the tremendous impact the ACA has on the many ministries within our Diocese, helping those most in need. We are thankful for the opportunity to join with the Padre Pio Foundation in a matching contribution that allows the goal to be reached and this important work and support of our ministries to continue.” Ted and Ruth Rossi.

especially in such a manner as to inspire other donors to examine their hearts and checkbooks so that its goal may be reached. We have been grateful for the Bishop’s support of our mission and are so pleased to be able to express our gratitude in this manner.”

We know how financially difficult this year has been for many and we are asking all of our parishioners and readers to come together as “One Faith, One Family,” joining the Rossi Foundation and the Padre Pio Foundation of America in helping us reach the goal that will enable our very important ministries to continue the life-changing work of Christ on our behalf.

We have currently reached approximately 89% of our 2023 goal with only 15% parishioners donating. If the 85% who have yet to participate, donate something and those who have already donated make another small gift, we will be well on our way to reaching our goal. To put it simply, if together, we make $202,116

in new donations, the Rossi Foundation and Padre Foundation of America will donate $100,558, bringing us to our goal of $2,700,000.

Please open your piggy banks, pull up the couch cushions and make your new gifts today. Also, please join me in thanking the Rossi Foundation and Padre Pio Foundation of America for their tremendous kindness.

I have long loved Padre Pio and often call to mind one of his most famous quotes, “Pray, hope, and don’t worry.” I am going to follow his advice and believe that our 2023 will be met. To donate to the 2023 Annual Catholic Appeal, please call our Campaign Manager, Heather Harris at (860) 8861926, ext. 111 or go online at www.norwichdiocese.net, You may also send checks made payable to the ACA, with your parish name in the memo line to the ACA Office, 197 Broadway, Norwich, CT 06360. Thank you very much for your support.

Statue of Padre Pio on the grounds of the Padre Pio Foundation of America, Cromwell.

“Pray, hope, and don’t worry.”

Saint Padre Pio

By Father Brian Maxwell

Once again we begin the 40 Days For Life Campaign, across our Diocese, America, and around the World, to peacefully pray for the end of abortion.

Following the Supreme Court override of Roe vs. Wade back in June, some abortion advocates throughout the country began protests, attacked some early pregnancy centers, damaged a few churches, and threatened to disrupt Masses.

Our parish pro-life reps and pastors are concerned for people’s safety and possible danger regarding this year’s 40 Days For Life Campaign.

A number have fears of opposition. Some wish not to participate praying out on the

Praying to Save Babies

September 28th to November 6th

sidewalk at Planned Parenthood on Case St. Many feel that an alternative of holding a prolife parish prayer vigil at their churches this year is a good idea.

A number also feel strongly that it is important to witness to ‘The Right to Life’ and to continue public prayer for the end of abortion, with the hope that this witness will cause Planned Parenthood clients to choose life, and not go through in the choice to end their pregnancies.

40 Days National leadership says: “Now, more than ever, is the time to turn up the battle for the unborn.” To change hearts and show our support for moms who can choose life! They claim statistics show that when

pro-lifers are praying outside abortion facilities, up to 75% of clients choose to cancel their appointments.

Respecting pastor’s and parishioners’ level of comfort, we are rolling out this year’s program with a two-fold approach: On a chosen Adopted-Day, a parish may continue to participate in the peaceful, prayerful vigil on the sidewalk at 12 Case St., this year with a required larger group of four(4) participants at any time during the 12 hours of daylight timeframe, 6AM-6PM, with the idea of safety in numbers. Additionally, participants must be informed and agree that if threatened, they will not

confront their aggressor, will leave immediately, and call the police.

And for those pastors and parishes not wishing to conduct the public sidewalk ministry this year, as an alternative, we are inviting parishes to adopta-day and conduct a pro-life parish prayer vigil at their parishes with Holy Hours for Life, Rosaries for Life, Masses for Life, etc.

We encourage you, to please get involved and participate in this year’s 40 Days For Life Campaign. On the sidewalk. In your Churches. Some Parishes have already said they’re going to do both.

Retreat Inspires Women to Follow God’s Lead

By Andrea Hoisl

The chapel on Enders Island in Mystic set the perfect backdrop for this year’s women’s retreat, sponsored by the National Catholic Women of Norwich. The retreat took place on a picture-perfect day in September for 100 women from across the diocese. The keynote speaker was author and spiritual director Kathy Irr, who resides here in the Norwich Diocese. The day was a time to reflect on each woman’s individual relationship with God through prayer and Eucharist.

Irr’s talks on the Eucharist throughout the day were not only inspiring, they also gave everyone a personal challenge to take home with them. She stressed the importance of keeping Christ at the forefront of our lives through simple everyday actions – saying grace before meals, making the sign of the cross when you pass a church – these simple practices bring us into the presence of Christ throughout our day.

She also highlighted the importance of letting God lead each of us, as well as trying to open ourselves to prayers that quiet the mind and promote listening to God rather than speaking.

Irr addressed the need most women have to try and fix everything in the lives of those they love. She reminded everyone present that God can handle everything and

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encouraged the women to hand all of their worry and stress over to the Lord.

The main focus of her presentations was the Eucharist, significant during this three-year revival on the Eucharist promoted by the United States Conference of Catholic Bishops. Irr said the Eucharist is the supreme proof of God’s love for all of us, as well as the closest any of us will get to heaven while here on Earth.

Bishop Michael Cote celebrated Mass for participants and offered his support and encouragement for the day.

Kathy D’Amelio from St. Bridget of Kildare, Moodus, especially liked the reminder that the Eucharist is our connection to Christ, a gift given at the Last Supper for Christ to remain with us forever. “The day was wonderful and left us all feeling inspired and enriched,” she said.

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Honoring the recipients of the Most Reverend Michael R . Cote, D.D. Award for Cont ributions to Catholic Education in the Diocese of Nor wich:

Monsignor Robert L. Brown (Posthumously)

Amy Freeman

Mother M. Elaine Moorcroft S.C.M.C.

Reverend Mark D. O'Donnell

Reverend Joseph Tito

Mrs. Doris Messina

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It’s A Wrap: Successful Catholic Charities Golf Tournament in the Books

Story By Sally Velcofsky

The 17th Annual Catholic Charities Golf Tournament held Sept. 12 was a day filled with gratitude, food, fun and reflection.

Upon arrival at Great Neck Country Club in Waterford, golfers checked in to find a delicious BBQ lunch and complimentary handrolled cigars. Bishop Michael Cote opened the tournament with a message of gratitude to all our sponsors and golfers. His message was followed by the beautiful music of a bagpiper, sponsored by Dr. and Mrs. Christopher Lipinski. The couple paid tribute to Ralph Monaco, who started the tournament 17 years ago, and Ray Castaldi of Castaldi Financial Solutions, who passed away on May 17. Ray, a faithful supporter of Catholic Charities, was also a player and sponsor of the tournament every year.

The golfers were treated on the course to free beverages by Tito’s Vodka and Viva Tequila Seltzer and enjoyed snacks by Community Snacks. M.J. Sullivan Auto

delivered a beautiful red Buick to display as the Hole in One Sponsor and we are so grateful to Shop Rite of Norwich and New London and Harp and Dragon as our Premier Sponsors again this year. Also, many thanks to Crest Mechanical,

the Mortimer Family of Great Neck Country Club, Chelsea Groton Bank and Conway, Londregan, Sheehan and Monaco, P.C. for their generous sponsorships and support. The tournament also wouldn’t be complete without the

generosity of the numerous hole and tee sponsors who brought more excitement to each hole.

After the tournament, the golfers returned to Langley’s for a light bite while collecting their raffle and silent auction items, donated by so many generous businesses throughout the Norwich Diocese. The team of Fr. Kevin Reilly of St. Patrick Church in Mystic, Merritt McDonough and Greg and Jeff Battiston were the winners of the day, taking first place in the tournament. Defending champs Todd Pavin, Matt Talbot, Tom Fontaine and Jason Carillo placed a close second and the ImpellitteriMalia team placed third.

Many, many thanks to all who helped make our day a great success. This event is the largest fundraiser that Catholic Charities holds all year and it helps us to continue our mission of “Providing Help and Creating Hope” to our vulnerable neighbors in New London, Windham, Tolland and Middlesex Counties.

Bishop Cote and Monsignor Les Janik are getting ready to hit the links.

Bishop Cote speaks at the start of the Catholic Charities 17th annual golf tournament.

A bagpiper performs while golfers pay tribute to Ralph Monaco and Ray Castaldi, two faithful supporters of Catholic Charities.

Photos by Hanna Velcofsky

“Mass Confusion” Connects Youth, Families to the Eucharist

By Liza Roach

In an effort to help people become more personally connected with Jesus in the Eucharist, the Office of Faith Events is combining this year’s Youth Explosion with a Family Eucharistic Celebration that will help youth and families do just that through “Mass Confusion.” Performed as part of the Doug and Dave Show, the program will explore our Catholic faith within the context of the Mass. It takes place Sunday, Nov. 6 at St. Bernard School, Uncasville.

“Through ‘Mass Confusion,’ performers Doug and Dave will share the beauty, history and mystery of the source and summit of our Faith in an engaging manner that draws the attention of all ages and backgrounds,” said Liza Roach, Youth and Young Adult Minister. “Mass Confusion” will assist participants in understanding and transforming their relationship with the Mass in a fun and enjoyable way. The aim of the show is to help attendees enkindle a living relationship with Jesus Christ in the Holy Eucharist.

“Then we will put our new knowledge and enlivened faith into action as we celebrate together in the Holy Sacrifice of the Mass with Fr. Jonathan Ficara, Director of Vocations for the Diocese of Norwich,” Roach said. “During the liturgy, we

will make connections to why priests do what they do, why we say what we say, and how actions lead to Jesus’ presence

and unite Catholics about the true presence of Jesus Christ in the Eucharist. According to the USCCB website, “In a world

Mass,” Roach added. A video from the USCCB provides more information about the revival. It can be reached at this link: https://bit. ly/3cBTXAC

Throughout the year, the Office of Faith Events will offer ways each of us can become more personally connected to Jesus in the Eucharist. In addition to “Mass Confusion” on Nov. 6, the office will sponsor a Scripture study in November, a panel discussion on the Eucharist in January, Dinner with Jesus in March, and more. The programs are part of a grassroots movement that hopes to restore understanding and devotion to the great mystery of the Eucharist here in the United States.

with us.”

This year’s combined Youth Explosion and Family Eucharistic Celebration is part of a three-year Eucharistic Revival initiated by the United States Conference of Catholic Bishops (USCCB) to inspire, educate,

where not many people know Jesus intimately, the revival is meant to show everyone what wonders the True Presence of Jesus can do to heal the soul.”

“This begins with forming and educating people on the source and summit of our faith: the

“Mass Confusion” is open to people of all ages. Families are encouraged to attend. The cost is $5 per person, $25 per family, or $4 per youth attending with their youth group. To register, singles, couples, or families may go to https://bit.ly/2Laol7Y to purchase tickets or call Marianne Nicholas at (860) 8482237 Ext. 304. Youth Groups and Schools will need Office for Safe Environments paperwork as well as registration. Please contact Liza Roach at lroach@ norwichdiocese.net or call (860) 848-2237 Ext. 305 for the necessary materials.

Pantry Receives Diaper Donation

Chapter 543 Daughters of Isabella, Putnam, donates diapers to the Daily Bread Food Pantry in Putnam to be distributed to local families in need. Left to right: Maureen Desilets, Suzy Lazarou (regent), Priscilla Dowd and Ellen Knight.

The Daughters of Isabella is a charitable organization of Catholic women founded on the principles Unity, Friendship and Charity. The group hosts benefits, fund-raisers, and social interactions to encourage community support.

A Path to Grow in Christ’s Love

By Gina Foster

Fall is upon us, and I hope that you all get the opportunity to visit your favorite pumpkin patch or apple orchard, bake an apple pie or sip your favorite spiced tea or coffee.

Autumn brings many new changes for several members of our diocese, whether it’s the start of a new school year, a new career path or perhaps retirement. A path can be defined as the course or direction in which a person or thing is moving.

As “One Faith, One Family” we pray for all the members of our diocese and for our Catholic school students as they continue their path to grow in Christ’s love as the school year begins. Suzanne deJongh, of Sacred Heart Taftville, said, “I love teaching at a school where faith is a focus, and students learn that God is the center of their lives. The small classes instill a family-like feel to our school, and students feel safe, welcomed, and loved.”

Our Diocesan Catholic Elementary Schools continue to work diligently to provide an exceptional education for our students surround-

ed by Christ’s love and guidance. They were met with several challenges over the past two years, but our students, teachers and faculty have remained devoted and steadfast.

Our families and students are very appreciative of the quality Catholic education their teachers provide them on a daily basis. This year we will be holding the 12th Annual Seton Scholarship Dinner on Nov. 6 at the Saint Clements Castle in Portland. This important dinner honors three individuals who have made a significant contribution to Catholic education: Amy Freeman, teacher, Mercy High School, Middletown, Mother M. Elaine Moorcroft S.C.M.C., principal, Saint John School, Old Saybrook, Reverend Joseph Tito, administrator of Saint Joseph School, Baltic, and Sacred Heart School, Taftville; Pastor, Saint Mary Immaculate Conception Church Baltic, Sacred Heart Church Taftville, and Saint Joseph Church, Occum.

The proceeds from this event help Catholic Elementary School students from the Diocese of Norwich with tuition assistance.

Our ACA donations continue to be extremely important to help all of our ministries carry out their spiritually affirming and life changing missions. Your generosity through the years has been inspiring and very much appreciated. We still need your help to make our goal. To make a contribution to our 2022 ACA “One Faith, One Family,” please go online to www.norwichdiocesedevelopment.org or call Heather Harris in the Office of Development at 860-886-1928.

If you would like further information about becoming a sponsor or purchasing tickets for the 12th Annual Seton Scholarship Dinner, please email or call me at gfoster@norwichdiocese. net or 860-886-1928 extension 115. Stay safe and God bless you.

We pray for the Church; ever faithful to, and courageous in preaching the Gospel, may the Church be a community of solidarity, fraternity and welcome, always living in an atmosphere of synodality.

- Pope Francis

Parish Fall Fair Schedule

Saturday, October 8

Corpus Christi Parish Apple Festival & Craft Fair

Saint Joseph Church Hall, Willimantic

9:00 AM to 2:00 PM

SAVE THE DATE! 99 Jackson Street, Willimantic

Saturday, October 15

Fall into the Holidays Fair

St Pius X Church Hall & Ground, Middletown

9:00 AM to 3:00 PM

Arts & Crafts, Baked Goods, Plants, General Raffle, White

Elephant, Food & Kids activities, Something for everyone. Fun, Friends, Family & Fellowship!

Friday, November 4

Saturday, November 5

Christmas Bazaar

St. Luke’s Church, Ellington

Friday, 5: 00 PM to 8:00 PM and Saturday, 9AM to 2PM

Free Children’s Activities, Crafters, Country Store, Filled and Decorated Gift Baskets, Attic Treasures, homemade baked goods and meals, gently used linens & jewelry, Tea Cup Raffle, Free Admission, 860-875-8552, handicap accessible.

Friday, November 11 Saturday, November 12

ST. BERNARD CHURCH CHRISTMAS BAZAAR

Friday, 4pm - 8pm, and Saturday, 10am - 2pm.

Tiffany Table gift items and collectibles; Attic Treasures; Toys; Books; Religious Shop; Christmas Shop with decorations; Handmade Crafts, and more. Raffle with cash - card prizes. Supper for purchase on Friday; Lunch on Saturday. Questions? Contact Jean at St.BernardWomen’sGuild@cath-comm.org

Saturday, November 12

Christmas Bazaar & Raffle

St. Mary Church, Stonington

9:00 AM to 2:00 PM

Christmas items, Jewelry, Floral arrangements, baked goods, Portuguese sweet bread, local crafters selling their ware, basket raffle. and lunch: soup, chowder and Chili. Get an early start for the holidays!

Saturday, November 12

Angels and Snowflakes Christmas Fair

St. Andrew Church Hall, Colchester

9:00 AM to 3:00 PM

Bake shop, Baskets and More Raffle, Teacup auction,

Parish Fall Fair Schedule

Little Gift Shop with handmade items, Quilters Corner, Christmas and Attic Treasures, Faith Corner religious items, and local crafters. Food available for purchase.

Saturday, November 19

Columbiettes Christmas Bazaar

St. Mary Church, Jewett City

9:00 AM to 3:00 PM

Great Food - Silent Auction - Bake Sale

Saturday, November 19

Saint Peter Church Christmas Fair Saint Peter Church, Higganum

9:00 AM to 3:00 PM

Visa Card Raffle, Basket Raffle, Holiday Decorations including wreaths and other greenery, Bake Sale, Attic Treasures, and a Café Kitchen.

Saturday, December 3

35th Annual Christmas Craft Fair

St. Philip the Apostle, Ashford

9:00 AM to 2:00 PM

A variety of crafters will be there for your Christmas shopping. Bake sale sponsored by the church. Soup and sandwiches will be available from the kitchen. Admission is free.

Saturday, Dec 17

Annual Cookie Sale & Basket Raffle

Our Lady of La Salette Church, Brooklyn

9:00 AM to 1:00 PM

At 25 Providence Rd, Brooklyn, our delicious homemade cookies are sold by the pound. Many varieties! Holiday boxes! Over 30 baskets. many with gift certificates.

Angel Ornaments Needed Wadsworth

Tree Festival

Once again, the Office of Faith Events will display a tree at the Wadsworth Tree Festival in Hartford. The Wadsworth Atheneum is integrating multicultural experiences into this year’s tree themes.

We are looking for donations of multicultural angels to adorn our tree, entitled Angels Among Us. Ornaments can be dropped off or mailed to the Office of Faith Events, Bishop Flanagan Ministry Center, 199 Broadway, Norwich, CT 06360. Or contact faithevents@norwichdiocese.net and we will arrange to have them picked up.

The Future of the Four County Catholic

By Wayne D. Gignac Executive Editor-Communications Director

If you’ve read Bishop Cote’s column on page three or seen the announcement in your church bulletin, you are already aware that the Four County Catholic will be undergoing a number of positive changes.

I am excited to be sharing the details of this today.

FORMAT, FOCUS, and FREQUENCY

Beginning with the next issue, arriving in homes in midDecember, there are three changes that you will notice. The main change is to the format. After 34 years the official publication of the diocese will become a magazine. Nationally, newspaper readership is in decline while magazines still enjoy strong readership across all demographics. Adults view magazines as more inspiring, fulfilling, and trustworthy than websites or TV.

The magazine format will provide readers with a more tangible, visual representation of the Catholic Faith in Eastern

Connecticut by incorporating beautiful images to better equip them to show our fellow Catholics, and Christians alike, the positive change that is being made in our diocese.

become more resourceful in that approach and increase our reach to unchurched Catholics. We are also hopeful that the refreshed design will engage a wider audience.

The second thing you might notice is the focus. We decided the time was right to refocus our approach on the mission of connecting people with Jesus and His Church, to

The content will move from the traditional “news from a Catholic perspective” toward an integrated approach incorporating all forms of media with the same purpose.

This idea is called content evangelization. The content of the magazine will help Catholics grow as disciples that are better equipped to evangelize. Sometimes simply sharing an article with a friend or family member will begin the dialogue.

And to prepare you to feel more comfortable, we will, over time, be adding new features that will strengthen you in the knowledge of your faith and provide you with tools to help you grow closer to God.

The page count and the frequency will both be reduced. The new format will be 24 pages published six times a year. This cost savings will allow us to increase our mailing list to reach every registered Catholic household in the Diocese of Norwich as well as making copies available at our schools, nursing homes, assisted living centers and for the chaplains to distribute in the hospitals and prisons.

“To live is to change, and be perfect is to have then changed often.”

- St. John Henry Cardinal Newman

By publishing six times a year, we will have more time to refocus our available resources to expand our reach online. Currently we have an active Facebook account that shares the news from around the diocese. However, not everyone is on Facebook. Many of our parishioners, especially young adults, are on Instagram, Twitter, and LinkedIn, so that’s where we need to be.

If you want to stay informed of the day-to-day news of the diocese, then please sign up for our weekly email newsletter and follow us on your favorite social media account.

We also want to interface more with our parishes to bring awareness of their evangelization efforts to the entire diocesan family. To do this we will need volunteers to provide us with content, both in words and pictures. If you are interested, send an email to Communications@ NorwichDiocese.net.

While we make this transition we ask for your prayers and support and of course your feedback.

Knights Korner Embracing Eucharistic Revival

TheUSCCB has initiated a three-year National Eucharistic Revival in dioceses throughout the United States. This began on The Feast of Corpus Christi, June 19, 2022 with the start of a year of diocesan revival, followed by a year of parish revival. It ends with a National Eucharistic Congress in July 2024.

The purpose of the National Eucharistic Revival is to help address the finding of a recent Pew survey that showed 70%

of Catholics don’t believe in the true presence of Jesus Christ in the Eucharist.

The Knights of Columbus Connecticut State Council is embracing Eucharistic Revival efforts. One way is supporting Eucharistic Processions throughout the state and another way is increasing the use of the Holy Hour program. To this end the State Council plans to host three Family Holy Hours in the state, one in each of the three dioceses.

Come to a Family Holy Hour of Adoration

NOVEMBER 17, 2022

6-7pm St. Joseph Church 99 Jackson St. Willimantic, CT

Featuring a reflection by Fr. Larry Barile on:

“The True Presence of Jesus Christ in the Eucharist”

Refreshments will follow All are welcome!

Sign up at: https://www.signupgenius.com/ go/HolyHour

The first will be Thursday, November 17, 2022 at 6PM at the Corpus Christi Parish, St Joseph Church, 99 Jackson St, Willimantic, CT. A reflection on the true presence of Jesus Christ in the Eucharist will be provided by Father Larry Barile. Participants in the Holy Hour can deepen their connection to Jesus through experience and catechesis.

The sacraments are ways that we can connect with and encounter Jesus Christ therefore deepening

our relationship with Him. The Eucharist is the “source and summit” of the Christian life (CCC 1324). Adoring the Eucharist is a great way to connect with Jesus.

The Knights of Columbus Connecticut State Council invites you to come and join us for this special Family Holy Hour on Thursday November 17.

Calendar of Events

Brothers in Christ: A Men’s Virtual Faith Group Meets monthly on the second Thursday of the month Join this gathering of Men who will share faith, personal experiences, and discussion. If you are interested in developing fellowship and discipleship with other men devoted to Christ, register by emailing Liza Roach at lroach@ norwichdiocese.net or call (860)848-2237 ex. 305.

October 9

Mass of Healing and Hope

Come join us for a Mass of Healing and Hope the second Sunday of every month at 2 PM, at Church of the Holy Family, 185 Church St, Hebron. The next Masses scheduled will be on October 9, and November 13. Mass will be celebrated by Fr. Ray Introvigne with a healing service following the Mass. For more information contact Andrea Hoisl at faithevents@norwichdiocese.net or 860-8482237 ext. 203

Calendar of Events

About the Eucharist?

October 3, 17, 24, 31 and November 7.

Virtual Program Explores

Mary’s Seven Sorrows

If you are seeking to find hope, strength and comfort from a loss, burden, trouble, or sorrow, come take a walk with Mary, the Mother of Jesus, and find a message of strength and support from a woman who transformed her heartache and sorrow into peace and hope. The Catholic Family Services office is offering a virtual seven-week program entitled A Journey with Mary Through Her Seven Sorrows. Each session will explore one of the Seven Sorrows of Mary’s life and the message of strength and encouragement each one contains. It is based on the book Your Sorrow is My Sorrow: Hope and Strength in Times of Suffering, by Sr. Joyce Rupp. Each session will include a reflection on one of Mary’s sorrows, guided prayer imagery and discussion. The program will be offered Monday nights from 7-8:15 P.M. September 12, 19, October 3, 17, 24, 31 and November 7. It takes place online and requires participants have an internet connection. The program is free, but registration is required. To do so, or for more information, contact Mary-Jo McLaughlin at the Catholic Family Services Office at 860-848-2237, Ext. 312, or email mmclaughlin@ norwichdiocese.net.

November 2, and 9

Virtual Fall Scripture Seminar

What Does the Bible Say

As Catholics we believe that the bread and wine become the actual physical body and blood of Christ based on John 6:53-54. Jesus said to them, “Amen, amen, I say to you, unless you eat the flesh of the Son of Man and drink his blood, you do not have life within you. Whoever eats* my flesh and drinks my blood has eternal life, and I will raise him on the last day.” Join Sister Elissa Rinere, C.P. from 7:00pm to 8:15 PM for this wonderful seminar hosted by The Office of Faith Events. To register please email manicholas@norwichdiocese.net or call 860-848-2237 ext. 304

November 13

Mass of Healing and Hope

Come join us for a Mass of Healing and Hope the second Sunday of every month at 2 PM, at Church of the Holy Family, 185 Church St, Hebron. The next Mass scheduled will be on November 13. Mass will be celebrated by Fr. Ray Introvigne with a healing service following the Mass. For more information contact Andrea Hoisl at faithevents@ norwichdiocese.net or 860848-2237 ext. 203

November 15

Cantor Formation

Our focus will be on the parts of the Mass and discussing the cantor’s role in each area according to the General Instruction in the Missal. Michael Steven Lianos, Director of Music at the Cathedral of Saint Patrick, will provide assistance and fundamental understanding of our role

as music ministers. Join us from 6:30 pm to 8:30pm at the Cathedral of saint Patrick in Norwich. To register, please contact Marianne at manicholas@norwichdiocese.net or call (860)848-2237 ex. 304

November 29, December 6, 13, and 20

Virtual Diocesan

Advent Mission

Join Vicar General Msgr. Les Janik and Director of Catholic Family Services Mary- Jo McLaughlin from 7:00 PM to

7:45 PM on the above dates, to deepen your faith and take up the call to conversion while you renew your commitment to the newborn Christ and His Church. To register please contact Marianne at manicholas@norwichdiocese.net or call 860-848-2237, ext. 304 Presented by the Office of Faith Events.

Veterans Day

Friday, November 11

Education in Haiti a Key to the Future

By Susan Wallace, Executive Director

At any given time, in any country around the world, young people represent the future of their individual countries. Because the young people of today will step into the leadership roles of tomorrow it is imperative for them to receive a good education. This is especially true for the country of Haiti whose government and citizens recognize the value of education, but they don’t have the resources to fund public education for all.

The Diocese of Norwich Outreach to Haiti knows only too well that Haitian parents, like all parents, want their children to earn an education. Because of this, one of our major areas of concern is education. Thanks to friends and supporters, we have two major efforts to educate young people who live within the Archdiocese of

Outreach’s Education Sponsorship Program provides scholarships to approximately 200 young people to attend primary, secondary, and post-secondary schools. Its focus is to provide scholarships to students up through graduation from secondary and post-secondary schools. This program takes place at the Outreach Center in the Christ Roi (Christ the King) community. We are truly thankful that most of our sponsors remain committed to helping the young person or persons from the grade they first entered school through graduation. For many students this means earning vocational and university degrees. This program has been a real treasure for many as evidenced by three of our young people in University.

▪ Christina hopes to be a dentist and has been studying odontology at Université D’Etudes Internationales. She said she will do her best to succeed not only in school but also in life.

▪ Fritz is a top student who has been studying Economic Science at Notre Dame University.

▪ Dieunord has been part of our program since 2008, when he began first grade and hopes to study Electrical Engineering at Quisqueya University.

Our Parish Twinning Program twins Parishes in our Diocese of Norwich and in other US Dioceses with Parishes within the Archdiocese of Port-au-Prince. This special program was initiated by lay people in the Diocese of Norwich and over the past forty years has built meaningful relationships of faith, hope and love with parishes in the Archdiocese of Port-au-Prince. The U.S. Twins help to support many health and education efforts. One of their major education efforts is helping to support eight parish schools that currently allow more than 3,500 young people to earn an education.

Both of these programs are very exciting as they will help make a positive impact on the future of

Haiti. When Father Frank Rouleau (our Chaplain in Haiti and Director of Twinning) was recently asked what advice he would share with young people in Haiti, he replied, “Education is a treasure. Study Well. It is a key to the future.”

We are so thankful for our many friends and supporters, especially to all who keep Haiti in their prayers. We also are grateful to those who share their earthly treasure to help young people prepare for their futures so that they can make the best use of the talents and gifts God has given them. Please remember, the gift of education lasts a lifetime and transforms children’s lives and the future of their families, communities, and countries.

If you would like to learn more about our diocesan ministry in Haiti and to support our work, please feel free to call me at 860-800-3604 or Marie Farrell at 860-800-3603 and be sure to visit our website https:// outreachtohaiti.org/

Port-au-Prince.

Hundreds Participate in Parish Family Reunion

On Sunday, September 18th, Blessed Sacrament Parish, with worship sites at St. Bernard in Rockville and St. Matthew in Tolland, hosted a Parish Family Reunion at Star Hill Family Athletic Center in Tolland. Over 450 parishioners gathered together in celebration and thanksgiving for all of God’s blessings to our parish family. Mass was celebrated at noon, followed by a BBQ offering a variety of good food, and games including soccer, pickle ball, corn hole, relays, face painting and crafts for the younger crowd. This event also coincided with the fall kickoff of our Catholics Returning Home program welcoming new and returning Catholics into our parish family. Additionally, parishioners were invited and encouraged to become even more involved in the parish through ministries in the

areas of service, spirituality, and evangelization.

Father Ricard judging tug-of-war

Father Rick Ricard celbrates Parish re-union Mass

Sacred Heart School, Groton

Gail Kingston, Principal 50 Sacred Heart Drive, Groton 860-445-0611 sacredheartgroton.org/school

Sacred Heart School, Taftville

Mother Christina Van Beck, SCMC, Principal 15 Hunters Ave, Taftville 860-887-1757 sacredhearttaftville.org

St. James School, Danielson

Elyse McAteer, Principal 120 Water St, Danielson 860-774-3281 stjamesdanielson.org

St. John School, Old Saybrook

Mother Elaine Moorcroft, SCMC, Principal 42 Maynard Road, Old Saybrook 860-388-0849 saintjohnschoolos.org

St. John Paul II School, Middletown

Larry Fitzgerald, Principal 87 South Main Street. Middletown 860-347-2978 JPII.org

St. Joseph School, Baltic

Sr. Mary Patrick Mulready, SCMC, Principal 10 School Hill Road, Baltic 860-822-6141 Stjosephschoolbaltic.com

St. Joseph School, New London

Marianne Cote, Principle 25 Squire Street, New London 860-442-1720 SJSNL.com

St. Michael School, Pawcatuck

Doris Messina, Principal West Broad St., Pawcatuck 860-599-1084 stmichaelschoolct.com

St. Patrick Cathedral School, Norwich

Sharon Stewart, Principal 211 Broadway, Norwich 860-889-4174 st-patrickschoolnorwich.org

Academy of the Holy Family, Baltic Mother Mary David, SCMC, Principal 54 West Main St, Baltic 860-822-9272 ahfbaltic.org

Mercy High School, Middletown

Alissa DeJonge, President

1740 Randolph Road, Middletown 860-346-6659 mercyhigh.com

St. Bernard School, Uncasville

Donald Macrino, Headmaster

1593 Norwich-New London Tpke, Uncasville 860-848-1271 saint-bernard.com

Xavier High School, Middletown

David C. Eustis, Headmaster

Brendan Donohue, Principal

181 Randolph Road, Middletown 860-346-7735 xavierhighschool.org

Mercy High School: A Strong Catholic Foundation

My dear friends, this month we focus the spotlight on another one of the outstanding educational institutions in the diocese, Mercy High School, in Middletown.

Mercy High School in Middletown, Conn. provides young women in grades 9-12 a challenging college preparatory education with a strong foundation of Catholic teachings. Guided by the traditions and values of the Sisters of Mercy, Mercy High School promotes service, confidence, ethical leadership and respect.

“Our students are encouraged to flourish individually, while remaining rooted in community,” notes President Alissa DeJonge. “This means Mercy girls are asked to strive for academic excellence and are taught the necessary skills to be successful in college and careers; but equally as important, they are asked to pursue their passions and unique gifts – and share them with the world – as our faith guides us to do.”

Mercy High School requires 100 hours of community service to graduate, finding that service to others leads their students’ greater understanding of themselves, their spirituality and their roles in the world. “Service provides a

vehicle for the development of leadership skills,” Ms. DeJonge said, “But it is also a way for our girls to practice the leadership skills they have already acquired. Here at Mercy, every leadership role is held by a girl.”

This peer-to-peer role modeling inspires Mercy girls to seize opportunities. In addition to their Honors, Advanced College Prep, College Prep and Advanced Placement academic levels, Mercy High School offers their students the chance to earn college credit through programs with the

University of Connecticut and Wesleyan University.

On its 25-acre campus, Mercy has an NCAA regulation gymnasium, a cross-country course and multiple playing fields. The Mercy Tigers also have access to tennis courts, a track and a swimming pool at venues in Middletown. In 2021, the school’s soccer team was CIAC Class M co-champions, SCC Tournament Champions and SCC Division Champions. The school has a 900-seat theater and offers two annual theatrical performances with Xavier High School.

Mercy also triumphs in a different type of competition: robotics. The school’s TechTigers are recognized on a global stage for their robotics skills, having competed in the world championships in 2022. Since their founding, the TechTigers have won more than a decade of awards, most notably the New England District Championship Chairman’s Award for the last four years, as well as the 2022 Western New England District Engineering Inspiration Award and 2019 CT State Robotics Championships.

Undoubtedly, at Mercy High

School, girls grow — academically, spiritually and individually — into inspiring, empowered and compassionate women who demonstrate lifelong learning, a moral compass and awareness of their gifts, committed to meaningfully benefiting society. One-hundred percent of graduates are accepted to college, with more than $6 million in scholarship money awarded by their chosen schools.

“We are so proud that our students are effective communicators, critical thinkers and independent

learners by the time they graduate,” Ms. DeJonge said. “They recognize and demonstrate leadership and cooperation, achieve their goals, and are aware and responsible global citizens. We invite anyone who would like to learn more about our school to attend our Open House on November 6 – you can register at www.mercyhigh.com.”

May God bless you and keep you safe,

Dr. Gail Kingston Superintendent of Schools

Xavier’s 60th School Year Opening Mass

By Matt Conyer

On Thursday, Sept. 15, Xavier High School held its annual Opening of School Mass in Kohs Gymnasium. Director of Campus Ministry Peter Lyons opened the Mass with a call to worship for a new school year, Xavier’s 60th. “May we continue to grow together as a community of faith, strengthened by God’s word and the Sacraments, as we mutually help, encourage, and edify one another.” Former Xavier Chaplain Father Greg Galvin celebrated the Mass. At the end of the Mass, Xavier once again recognized students who earned special recognition for their outstanding academic accomplishments in 2021-2022.

SAINT BERNARD SCHOOL SAVE THE DATES!

PLACEMENT TEST

Recognizing students have various academic strengths, skills and abilities our Placement Test allows us to put students in the correct classes to challenge and strengthen them.

Registration Required:

• Saturday, November 5th

OPEN HOUSE

We invite you to join us at our Open House where you can learn about our academic programs, athletics, campus life and much more.

Registration Required:

• Saturday, October 22

• Thursday, January 12th (Virtual)

• Saturday, March

• Saturday, December 3rd

• Saturday, February 11th

• Saturday, March 11th

• Saturday, April 22nd

PRAYER INTENTION

For November

We pray for children who are suffering, especially those who are homeless, orphans, and victims of war; may they be guaranteed access to education and the opportunity to experience family affection.

- Pope Francis

Mercy High School Opening Mass and Freshwomen Pin Ceremony

FCC News Desk

Photo Credit Mr. Rory Butterly

On Thursday, Sept. 8, Bishop Cote celebrated the Opening of School Mass at Mercy High School. Freshwomen and new student transfers participated in the traditional pin ceremony. The pins were presented by the students’ Big Sister, a Junior who accompanies the freshwoman during her first two years at Mercy.

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The Church, through its Funeral Rites:

• Celebrates the life and faith of the deceased

• Expresses the Church’s belief in the Communion of Saints

• Recognizes the spiritual bond that exists between the living and the dead

• Brings hope and consolation to the bereaved

• Reminds faithful to turn to God in time of need and crisis

• Seeks God’s mercy and love

• Nourishes the faith of the bereaved

• Acknowledges that the deceased benefit from our prayers

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Let His Love Shine Through What You Do

By Deacon Ben LoCasto

Melissa Phelps was 32 years old and still wrote to Santa Claus. On December 13, 2020, Santa gave her the two gifts she had requested – 10 days later Melissa was taken to Heaven.

When Melissa began preschool, she was diagnosed as “high functioning mentally retarded,” and high functioning she was. She could tell you anything you wanted to know about the Red Sox and the Patriots. She loved to cook and bake and served regularly as a greeter in Holy Family Church of the Parish of the Good Shepherd. Everyone who was handed a hymnal by her as they entered the church, were uplifted by her joyful greeting.

Sometime after Thanksgiving 2020, Melissa wrote Santa asking for

two gifts, “The Pioneer Woman Cookbook” and bones for her dogs. Three weeks later a FedEx box arrived at her door addressed to her. Inside were the cookbook and the bones. Melissa was over the moon with joy.

Some days before the arrival of these gifts she had broken her ankle, so she spent her recovery pouring over the book and trying the recipes. Days later, she developed the blood clots which caused her death. Her mother Candace had the consolation of knowing that Melissa had spent the last few days of her life enjoying Santa’s gifts.

The items sent to Melissa were donated by an individual through the U.S. Postal Service’s Operation Santa. Their website states, “We

receive thousands of letters to Santa every year and have handled them for over a century. The letters are carefully sorted, scanned and posted here:https://www. uspsoperationsanta.com/ , with personal information hidden, of course. Generous people adopt the letters and find just the right gifts to help Santa fulfill their wishes. The gifts are shipped on behalf of the North Pole, and together we deliver holiday magic.”

Several months after Melissa’s death, Candace emailed the USPS Operation Santa contact expressing her gratitude for what had been done for Melissa, and she also accessed their website with the intention of making a child happy just as what was done for her daughter. She found a letter which moved

her, written by a five-year-old girl named Cindy, from the Bronx, N.Y., requesting a puppy. Candace again emailed the Operation Santa contact

stating that she wished to give a gift to the girl who requested the puppy. She was informed that a video production company called Sweet World Films was doing a miniseries about the USPS program entitled “Dear Santa,” and that they might be interested in Melissa’s story.

After discussions with the producer of the show, it was decided that giving a puppy to the girl in the Bronx would make a fitting ending to Melissa’s story. The show’s producer offered to purchase a puppy, and Candace would provide the accessories (collar, lease, bedding and food).

Within a few weeks, Candace and the film crew were knocking on the girl’s door in the Bronx. The director of the show entered first (of course the child’s mother had preapproved), and asked Cindy what she wanted for Christmas. Without

any hesitation, she answered, “a puppy.” Just then, Candace entered, dressed like an elf, told the girl that she was from Santa’s workshop, and gave her the puppy. Candace said that she had never seen a child so happy in all her life, and was gratified that Melissa’s memory would live on through that gift.

The death of a child is most devastating to a parent. Candace has endured the tragedy of Melissa’s death through her strong faith – a faith in the Church and the love of Christ. Despite her sorrow at the loss of her child, she wanted to share Christ’s love with another through Operation Santa. She intends to do so again this year. You may wish to do the same.

Please look for the “Dear Santa” miniseries which is set to air on Hulu & ABC stations later this year.

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By Edward J. Tessman Executive Director, Catholic Charities

Catholic Charities, with the help and support from the Knights of Columbus Council #14 and the Willimantic Community held a Pasta for Hope Dinner at Saint Joseph Church Hall on Saturday, October 29th. Children of all ages were encouraged to dress in costumes and play games for candy. Father Larry LaPointe graciously offered the use of the Parish Hall and the event was a success. Ed Tessman, Executive Director of Catholic Charities, stated that, “we could not have done this without the support of Father Larry, the Willimantic

Defending Our Religious Liberty

Church community and the Knights from Council #14, specifically Charlie Nadile, Larry King, Sam Rice, Dan Roberts and John DeVivo.” great evening. The pasta was cooked the sauce was handmade and simmered the meatballs were huge and the of this world. We were excited join us for this community event us to continue to “Provide Help

Patrons bid on over twenty silent which ranged from a UCONN from the Willimantic Advisory Charities, Jelly Belly Machine, We are called to of human goods to life and the but to live it out. dom to “be Catholic,” ing the needs less of their race, they are Catholic

From the Latin meaning “come into,” as Jesus came into the world for us.

Diakonia: Instrument of God’s Charity

The word “deacon” is derived from “diakonia,” a Greek word which means “to serve.” Deacons are members of the clergy along with priests and bishops. The deacon’s ministry has three dimensions: liturgy, word and service. Deacons are ordained as a sacramental sign to the Church and to the world of Christ,who came “to serve and not to be served.” This column will focus on the service of the Deacons in the Diocese of Norwich.

Bringing Christ to the Infirm

By Deacon Dan D’Amelio

When my wife was an Extraordinary Minister of Holy Communion at Mass, she would also bring Holy Communion to residents at our local convalescent home. Often, she would tell me stories about the people there and how they loved having someone visit them and bring them our Lord. Eventually, I started going with her and I really enjoyed being with the elderly and bringing some joy into their lives. After I became a Eucharistic minister, I started visiting the home myself. I also called bingo for the residents. Along with other volunteers, we had a fun time calling the numbers and helping them check their cards to see if they had won the extravagant prize of 25 cents.

After entering the Diaconate program, we were tasked with choosing a ministry in which to work. Since I had enjoyed being with the elderly and was drawn to the Act of Mercy of visiting the sick, I decided that would be one of the ministries that I would like to pursue.

After my ordination I was assigned to my local parish, where I can visit the residents of the home and bring them Holy Communion. I love to spend time with them, either just in prayer or sharing a story about their week. Sometimes I am the only outside person they get to see. Some residents no longer have family to visit them, or they choose not to. Along with bringing them the body of Christ, I try to bring some joy to their lives in my short visits.

There is one resident that I have come to love visiting and who has taught me a great lesson. When I first met this man, he was very despondent and didn’t want to have anything to do with me or receiving communion. He told me that he was mad at God. He had spent his life doing good and working for the church and now here he was, not able to be at home, with crippled hands and a tough time speaking and remembering what he wanted to say. The first couple of times I visited him I would tell him how much God loved him and we don’t know why God allows suffering, but that he needed to believe in God and in His plan. I was wearing my “Deacon hat” and talking to him using theological words and phrases that I had learned in my formation. I wasn’t talking to him as a friend.

After several weeks of him saying that he did not want to receive

communion, I decided that I would just sit and talk to him. I asked him to tell me about his life. He began slowly telling me how he had served in the Army in Korea and worked as an ironworker before working at a church cemetery and as a sextant, setting up the altar for Mass and assisting priests and altar servers.

As he spoke I just listened, and I could see that his speech was becoming better, and he was able to speak without struggling to say words.

After 15 minutes, he turned to me and said, “Okay, I’ll receive today.” I was moved to tears, but somehow, I was able to say the prayers and offer him Holy Communion. It was a long time since he had received our Lord.

I learned a lesson that day: the best way to bring Christ to people is to be Christ ourselves. When we open our hearts instead of relying on our brains, love, and compassion flow in abundance.

By Liza Roach

Have you ever wondered why we say what we say at Mass? Have you ever questioned why we do “Catholic aerobics” (stand, sit, kneel, repeat) during the liturgy? Did you ever wish you knew why a priest did the things he does during Mass? If you are like me, you have wondered these things most of your life.

I remember as a child, I would repeat all the parts of the Mass – even the priest’s parts. I did this in hopes that I would better understand the Mass. I remember how literal I would take the Mass. I remember praying as a child, “Lord, I am not worthy to receive you, but only say the word and my soul shall be healed.” (Yes, my childhood was before the New Roman Missal.) After saying this, I would listen so intently for God or Jesus to say the word to me, so I did not need to go to communion. One day, I remember telling my priest that he did not have on his

Asking Questions Can Help Grow Our Relationship with Christ

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uniform. Can you guess why? He was in civilian clothes. I had seen him at church dressed in robes for the various liturgical seasons of the year or wearing his black collar after church and at CCD, but when I saw him at a restaurant in street clothes, I was in shock. A man of God should always be dressed as a priest, just like a nurse or a doctor.

In life, many of us are confused about the practices of our faith and even about our beliefs. The difficulty is that most of us do not seek answers from other faithfilled people to help strengthen our convictions. Did I ever ask my priest about his clothing? No. Did I ever wonder why God was not personally answering me at Mass? No. It would take many years for me to work up the courage to ask questions about my faith and then find faith-filled people to assist me in my search for answers.

These questions are opportunities for us to grow in relationship

with Christ. The Church needs to provide occasions in which everyone – young and old –are comfortable in asking questions about their faith.

The United States Catholic Conference of Bishops has dedicated the next three years to a Eucharistic Revival. During this time, we are called to prayer and education about the meaning of the Sacrament of Eucharist and our Catholic Mass. A recent study done by the Pew Research Center revealed that only 30 percent of Catholics believe in the real presence of Jesus in the Eucharist. It is the hope of the bishops that the Eucharistic Revival will give each diocese time to educate people about the Eucharist and answer questions they may have about the mysteries surrounding this Sacrament. The goal is to enhance each person’s belief that the bread and wine offered at Mass is truly transformed into the body and

blood of Christ.

On November 6, the Office of Faith Events will provide a terrific opportunity for members of the diocese to understand what we as Catholics do during Mass through a performance of The Doug and Dave Show’s Mass Confusion. This performance will walk participants through the Catholic liturgy and enlighten them about why the community does what it does during the Mass and why the priest says what he says. The event will take place from 1 to 4 p.m. at St. Bernard School in Uncasville. It will end with Mass celebrated by Fr. Jonathan Ficara, diocesan director of vocations. To join us, tickets can be purchased at https:// bit.ly/2Laol7Y

Our hope is that if each of us understands and prayerfully experiences the Mass with new eyes, each of us can grow in a deeper relationship with our Lord in the Eucharist. Please join us.

Ignite Your Faith.

Advent

Sunday, November 27, 2022 - Saturday, December 24, 2022

The Advent season is a time of preparation that directs our hearts and minds to Christ’s second coming at the end of time and to the anniversary of Our Lord’s birth on Christmas. From the earliest days of the Church, people have been fascinated by Jesus’ promise to come back. But the scripture readings during Advent tell us not to waste our time with predictions. Advent is not about speculation. Our Advent readings call us to be alert and ready, not weighted down and distracted by the cares of this world (Lk 21:34-36). Like Lent, the liturgical color for Advent is purple since both are seasons that prepare us for great feast days. Advent also includes an element of penance in the sense of preparing, quieting, and disciplining our hearts for the full joy of Christmas.

Excerpted from USCCB.org

The use of the Advent Wreath is a traditional practice which has found its place in the Church as well as in the home. The blessing of an Advent Wreath takes place on the First Sunday of Advent or on the evening before the First Sunday of Advent. When the blessing of the Advent Wreath is celebrated in the home, it is appropriate that it be blessed by a parent or another member of the family. All make the sign of the cross as the leader says: Our help is in the name of the Lord.

Response (R/.) Who made heaven and earth. Then the Scripture, Isaiah 9: (lines 1-2 and 5-6) or Isaiah 63 (lines 16-17 & 19) or Isaiah 64 (lines 2-7) is read:

Reader: The Word of the Lord. R/. Thanks be to God. With hands joined, the leader says: Lord our God, we praise you for your Son, Jesus Christ: He is Emmanuel, the hope of the peoples, He is the wisdom that teaches and guides us, He is the Savior of every nation. Lord God, let your blessing come upon us as we light the candles of this wreath. May the wreath and its light be a sign of Christ’s promise to bring us salvation. May He come quickly and not delay. We ask this through Christ our Lord. R/. Amen.

The blessing may conclude with a verse from “O Come, O Come, Emmanuel”: O come, desire of nations, bind in one the hearts of humankind; bid ev’ry sad division cease and be thyself our Prince of peace. Rejoice! Rejoice! Emmanuel shall come to thee, O Israel. Blessing of the Advent Wreath taken from Catholic Household Blessings and Prayers, Revised Edition (Washington, DC: USCCB, 2007), 73-75. Copyright © 2007, United States Conference of Catholic Bishops, Washington, DC. All rights reserved.

Because of their great concern for the welfare of others, many of our dearly departed family and friends generously supported our Annual Catholic Appeal faithfully throughout their lives. In honor of their devotion to the Church and all its good works, we invite you to make a donation to the 2022 ACA, Faithfully Loved, Faithfully Remembered, and have their name(s) listed in our Book of Remembrance. These intentions will be included in the Mass of All Souls’ Day, celebrated by Bishop Michael R. Cote, D. D. at the Cathedral of St. Patrick, Norwich on November 2, 2022, at noon.

To have your departed included in the Book of Remembrance, please send their name and donate a minimum of $25, either online or via check payable to the Annual Catholic Appeal and mail to ACA, 197 Broadway, Norwich, CT 06360. Include your contact information and your parish name.

To donate online with a credit card or EFT please go to norwichdiocesedevelopment.org, click the DONATE button and select All Souls Donation option.

All submissions with full payment must be received by October 10th and will be applied to the 2022 Annual Catholic Appeal. For more information, please contact Heather Harris at (860) 886-1928 ext. 111 or hharris@norwichdevelopment.net