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t’s time. My firstborn is leaving for college. I’m excited about his future and for his new stage in life as an adult. Recognizing that he is at a point in his life when asserting independence from his parents is part of the growth process; I can’t help but know that he still needs us financially and spiritually. The best way for us parents to nurture our college-age children’s faith is to remain true to our own faith and model good values. This is because our children are watching and will use our model to test other newly encountered models and challenges they will be exposed to. Don’t waiver, stay strong; they are going to challenge you. Listening is important too. Just pay close attention to every word of their (maybe new) point of view on topics; but don’t waiver from your principles, this would confuse them terribly. And most importantly we must know that prayer is our power. God knows my child through and through, and just as when we were young and learning to become our own person, God will be there in their time of need. God will speak to our children in a way that is perfectly “tuned” to them. So let you child know that you’re praying for them in a way that makes them feel loved; make sure to give them a religious item for their personal space. Nothing too big and showy, just a little something to
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A Prayer Petition O loving God, help me to adjust and find new ways of caring for my son that are appropriate for this stage of his life. Help me to discern how I am needed now, and help me to find new ways to give him support and confidence. Please provide good friends, confidants and mentors for Clayton during this time of growth and transition. Help me to let go of my own need to be such to him, for I realize that these are roles that others must fill during these college years. Amen. SP
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COVER MODEL Sydney Ella, 4 years old This month’s cover is a little sister to Jack (12y) and Sam (10y). She is a huge Doc McStuffin fan. (We wonder how many of her toys have bandages or stitches!). She loves to swim and play with her brothers and cousins. Favorite foods are watermelon, strawberries and Little Caesars pizza. When asked, her favorite song is ‘You are My Sunshine.” Sidney will attend Pre-K this year at St. Monica. Go Bearcats! Blanton George, gblanton@yahoo.com
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1. Participate in sports. Studies show kids in sports have less incidence of obesity. Soccer anyone? 2. Play around with the kids. To help your kids maintain a healthy body weight spend time with them in vigorous play; touch football, volleyball, run for fun and play chase. You’re it! 3. Limit Screen Time. This passive activity is tied to weight gain and not just because of the snacking that kids usually do while in front of computer or television!
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When reinforcing kind and caring behavior in our children, research shows that praise is more effective than rewards. Rewards run the risk of encouraging children to be kind only when there is something in it for themselves. Praise on the other hand communicates that being kind is worthwhile in and of itself.
THUMB SUCKING Thumb sucking is a common habit among children. Babies start doing it because of their natural urge to suck. They continue doing it because it’s comforting and calming. There’s no real reason for concern about it until their permanent teeth start to come in - usually around age 6. Until then, relax. If your child is still sucking his thumb frequently or aggressively after age 4 or 5, or you notice dental problems, try to dissuade him from doing it with positive reinforcement and gentle reminders. Having him talk with your dentist often helps too. Punishing doesn’t help.
Cold or Allergy? Are those sniffles caused by cold virus or an allergy? Use this simple guide: A sore throat or low fever comes with a cold, and usually accompanied with congestion and yellowish mucus. Lasting about 1 week. With an allergy you may have itchiness and clear runny mucus in the nose, which often results in lots of sneezing! This may persist as long as the allergen is present. See our “Questions” page for more info on this topic from a Specialist.
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Many children have seasonal allergies; the symptoms include runny nose, itchy eyes, and a mild cough during Fall or Spring. This is often a result of tree and grass pollen in the air. Spending less time outdoors (high pollen days); shower/wash face (when coming back inside); and using a saline nasal spray may help with symptoms. If not, try children’s allergy medicine for children older than age 6, including children’s cetirizine and children’s loratadine. They typically work well and do not require a prescription. Symptoms that get worse or prevent your child from breathing well, going to school, or playing, know it may be helpful to see their pediatrician. Their pediatrician, who has seen them regularly, is the best health care provider to know which additional medications may work best. RAY TSAI, MD, President and Chief Medical Officer, MyChildren’s, A Pediatric Practice of Children’s Medical Center
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ne of my daily highlights is to walk my 8-year-old daughter, Jessie, to her classroom. I kiss the top of her head and tell her to have a good day. However, today’s morning routine varied. It was a typical drive to school as we practiced a few spelling words for the day’s test. As Jessie exited the van, she did a spin in her dress and a ballet jump in the parking lot. Nothing new there. When we entered the building, she saw one of her male classmates and shouted, “Manatees aren’t fat!” Apparently, she has a friendly feud with a few boys in her class about the weight issues of manatees. Still, nothing out of the ordinary from my independent, free-spirited girl. Then she pulled her book bag from my hand and slung it over her shoulder as she sped to her classroom a few steps ahead of me. I quickly questioned, “Don’t you want a kiss?” She turned around and said, “I’m fine” and off into her classroom she went, happy to start another day. Jessie may have been fine, but I was not. It was a long walk back to the car. As I drove home, I thought about what I had heard on the radio a day earlier. The disc jockey reported that 6 to 15 year olds were asked in a survey, “Who do you turn to for advice?” I sure would have hoped the number one answer was Mom and Dad. A few seconds later, the disc jockey said it wasn’t parents. I guessed “friends.” Nope. Grandparents? Wrong again. Church leaders? Uh uh. It turns out that they turn to Google for advice. Google! This has the makings of a challenging day. First, I don’t get my morning kiss and now my daughter’s going to turn to the computer for advice instead of her dad. What will Jessie type into Google? “Should
I let a boy hold my hand?” I can answer that one. “When should dads stop kissing their children?” I can handle that one, too – Never! “Should I hop on the back of a motorcycle if invited?” Again, an easy answer for me. I apologize to my motorcycle-riding readers in advance, but I don’t want Jessie on a motorcycle...as Taylor Swift would say, “Like, ever.” After thinking about this for a while, I remember how often Jessie asks me a question and I say “I don’t know. Let’s Google it.” Okay, so maybe Google and I can co-exist, but not when it comes to select topics. It could be useful, though, for questions like, “Are manatees fat?” So I Googled it! According to one site, manatees eat a lot of food with low nutritional value, but have little body fat, which is why they don’t like cold water. So, to the boys in Jessie’s class, “My girl was right.” But more importantly, I see advantages to having Google close by, especially if I can search for answers while Jessie sleeps and be prepared with brilliant responses in the morning. I told Jessie about the survey results shared by the radio disc jockey. She wasn’t surprised. I emphasized that Mom and Dad are always here for her and that she
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should come to us for advice. I also told her that I Googled manatees and she was right, but that I only checked one site, and that it’s important to review several credible sources because you can’t believe everything you read. Jessie responded, “That’s okay; it proves I’m right so you don’t need to check further.” She asked me to make a printout of the website for her Show and Tell tomorrow. I’m glad Jessie is independent and free-spirited. No matter what the future holds, something tells me she’ll be able to handle the boys just fine, as well as other life challenges that come her way. As for me, I know one day I’ll hear, “Dad, you don’t need to walk me to class.” “I want to get my driver’s license.” “I’m leaving for college now.” I just might have to turn to Google for advice. Until next month, remember to cherish the moments. SP Patrick Hempfing had a 20-year professional career in banking, accounting, and auditing before he became a father at age 44. He is now a full-time husband, stay-at-home dad and writer.
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BY LARA KRUPICKA
Blurring the Homework Lines
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uring open house at my children’s school I secretly cringe at my girls’ handmade posters next to the projects with multi-color graphs and computer-printed illustrations with neat, precise captions under each one. The creations with my girls’ names on them look amateur in comparison. But at least my kids complete their homework independently, I think. It’s obvious an adult contributed more than a little to these others. Okay, so I’ve always been a bit judgmental of parents who insert themselves into their kids’ schoolwork. I’m a rule follower. It’s a matter of principle. But I also have to admit: I once
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completed my daughter’s homework for her myself. It was 9 o’clock at night - past bedtime for my seventh-grader. Yet her light remained on. I poked my head around her door to see her sitting on her bed, colored pencil in hand, lips pursed. “Why are you up?” I asked. I plunked beside her on the bed and looked down at the page on her lap desk. Graph paper. She was coloring it in a geometric pattern of orange and blue. “It’s my math homework,” she replied. And then she looked up at me, tears pooling in her eyes. “I still have reading to do for language arts,” she moaned. “And I have to fill this whole paper.”
I peered closer at the page. It was only half completed. “What is this math homework about?” I asked. “What are you supposed to be learning?” Between sniffles she muttered about patterning and trapezoids. “Do you understand patterns and trapezoids now?” I asked, rubbing my hand up and down on her back. She nodded. It wasn’t the first time she stayed up late working on homework that year. Not because she was a slow worker or procrastinator (although she can be both at times). But because the work she got often required intense amounts of manual effort - usually lots of coloring, like this one. And it frequently resulted in her becoming overwhelmed and falling apart. But with each one she rejected my offers to talk to her teachers about the workload. And she turned down my suggestions to turn in an incomplete project. I could see this wasn’t going to go well without my intervention. I needed to try something different. Even as the conformist in me cried “foul,” I knew what I had to do. I stopped rubbing and held out both hands. “Give me your homework,” I instructed. “And go get ready for bed.” “But...” she started to protest. Then her shoulders slumped and she handed me the pencil and paper, and tucked the lap desk beside her bed. She sleepily dragged herself away to the bathroom. I can’t believe I’m doing this, I thought as I situated myself at her desk, armed with two colored pencils. My children’s work was their own. They earned their grades fair and square. And yet there I was about to not only help, but actually complete a portion of my daughter’s homework. Or as it appeared to me, ‘busy work.’ Yet in that moment I also knew I was being the best parent to her that I could. This rebel mother had a cause - a bigger picture of her daughter’s school performance and what was in her best interest. In my mind I had to weigh which
mattered most: an assignment completed by a diligent child who the following day would be drowsy and irritable (and not at all focused in any class)? Or a project done with some “help” allowing the sleep-sensitive girl to have a good night’s rest and a productive school day after? Her previous objections to my offers for other kinds of assistance told me she was learning about school and the importance of owning her assignments and being conscientious. She also did well at grasping concepts quickly. In this case I figured she didn’t need to color 48 trapezoids when 24 would suffice. In my mind she had finished her homework enough to comprehend the lesson. So I attacked the grid with vigor - four squares across orange, then three blue, four orange. I lost myself in the repetition of the work - more like coloring than math. And never mind that I lack artistic skill. Coloring like a seventh-grader was coming in handy, for once. I completed several rows before she returned to the room in her pajamas, looking much more settled. I reassured her as I tucked her in that her math homework would be ready in the morning and I would wake her early enough to finish her reading. In the end the assignment was turned in on time and the reading got done. Even better, my daughter woke up relaxed and more confident about school than she had been in weeks. We never spoke of the coloring incident after that day. And I haven’t done anyone else’s homework since. But I learned sometimes it’s better to bend the rules for the sake of the bigger picture. And now I try not to judge parents who contribute to their children’s schoolwork (at least not so much - there are rules after all). I just hope they won’t judge my kid’s projects for looking amateur. SP
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Labor Day Splashtacular 1-5pm. Enjoy our Outdoor Waterpark! Free with membership or paid admission ($4-8). Flower Mound CAC, 1200 Gerault Road, 972-874-7275.
First Thursday Late Night at the Perot Museum- Galapagos 7-9pm.
tue 2 Dallas Summer Musicals: Nice Work If You Can Get It Sept. 2-14. Check website for exact show times/ dates: It’s the Roaring Twenties and a cast of outrageous characters gather in New York to celebrate the wedding of wealthy playboy Jimmy Winter. But things don’t go as planned when the playboy meets Billie Bendix, a bubbly and feisty bootlegger who melts his heart. The champagne flows and the gin fizzes in the hilarious, Tony®-winning musical comedy NICE WORK IF YOU CAN GET IT. This brand-new musical features a treasure trove of George and Ira Gershwin’s most beloved, instantly recognizable tunes set in a fresh and funny song-and-dance spectacular with a book by Tony winner Joe DiPietro (Memphis) and direction by three-time Tony winner Kathleen Marshall (Anything Goes). NICE WORK IF YOU CAN GET IT is filled to the brim with classic songs, including “But Not For Me,” “Let’s Call the Whole Thing Off,” “I’ve Got a Crush on You” and “Someone to Watch Over Me.” This sparkling, madcap tale combines laughter, romance and high-stepping Broadway magic for an evening bursting with girls, glamour and the glorious songs of Gershwin! Content Warning: Recommended for children ages 8 and up Run Time: 2 hours and 30 minutes including intermission Music Hall at Fair Park, 909 First Ave., Dallas, 214-565-1116 www.dallassummermusicals.org/shows_nicework.shtm.
Free LEGO Mini Build 5-6:30pm. Children ages 6-15 ONLY can celebrate every month with a free mini build at LEGO stores at Stonebriar Mall & Northpark Center. First Tuesdays beginning at 5:00pm until all the kits are gone. LEGO stores in Dallas & Frisco, www.lego.com.
Discover more about the amazing islands that make up the Galapagos. Explore volcanoes, winds and currents, and unique species found in this fascinating location through an exclusive meeting with a scientist, hands-on activities, and more! All you need to get in on the fun is the cost of general admission, so purchase your tickets online early. Your exhibit hall ticket on the date(s) of The Lab will gives you FREE access to this program. The Perot Museum will stay open from 10am-9pm first Thursdays. Come early and stay late! Perot Museum of Science and Nature, 2201 N. Field Street, Dallas, 214-428-5555 www. perotmuseum.org.
Texas Rangers vs. Seattle Mariners 7:05pm. Shin-Soo Choo bobblehead to first 15,000. Globe Life Park, 1000 Ballpark Way, Arlington, www. texas.rangers.mlb.com.
fri 05 Fiddler on the Roof Sept. 5-14. Lyric Stage celebrates its 22nd Season opener with Fiddler on the Roof. Schedule: Sep 05, 8pm; Sep 06, 8p; Sep 07, 2:30pm; Sep 11, 8pm; Sep 12, 8pm; Sep 13, 8pm; Sep 14, 2:30pm. Price: $25-53 Irving Arts Center, 3333 N. MacArthur Blvd., Irving, 972-252-2787 (ARTS) www.irvingartscenter.com/Performances/EventsCalendar/EventDetail.aspx?id=679.
Texas Rangers vs. Seattle Mariners 7:05 pm. Friday night fireworks. Globe Life Park, 1000 Ballpark Way, Arlington, www.texas.rangers.mlb.com.
sat 6 Yoga at Klyde Warren Park 1011am. Enjoy the serenity of yoga in the park. Perform your sun salutations in Klyde Warren Park with guidance from Dallas Yoga Center. Klyde Warren Park, 2012 Woodall Rodgers Frwy, Dallas, www.klydewarrenpark.org.
Afternoon Tea at Downton Abbey 3-4:30pm. You are cordially invited to attend Afternoon Tea at Downton Abbey. Enjoy specialty English tea and biscuits and stay for a special lecture provided by Rollin Phipps. Not only will you hear about the history of the Highclere Castle, the beautiful residence featured in Downton Abbey, but also learn about the life of Lord Carnarvon and his discovery of King Tut’s tomb. Seating is limited, so please sign up in the Library or through the online calendar. Manske Library, 13613 Webb Chapel, Farmers Branch, 972-247-2511 www.farmersbranchtx.gov/ CivicAlerts.aspx?AID=269.
Target First Saturdays at the Nasher Sculpture Center 10am5pm. Bring the kids and enjoy free admission and fun family programming on the first Saturday of every month. Presented by Target. Family Activities 10 am – 2 pm. Bring out your children’s artistic talents and broaden their understanding and appreciation of the world. Target First Saturdays are designed especially for children in preschool to elementary school and feature a line-up of activities that encourage creative thought through a monthly “Big Idea” Children’s Art Activity: 10 am – 12 noon, Artist Demonstrations: 10 am – 12:30 pm, Art Scavenger Hunt: 10 am – 2 pm, Family Tours: Hourly from 10:15 am – 12:15 pm, Yoga in the Garden presented by Yogasport (weather permitting): 11:30 am, Second Glances with the Writer’s Garret: 12:00 noon-1:00 pm, Storytime with the Dallas Public Library: 12:30 pm, NasherKids Live! Best of NYICFF Kid Flix Mix: 1 pm. NasherKids Meal Available at Nasher Cafe: 11 am – 2 pm Nasher Sculpture Center, 2001 Flora St., Dallas, Texas, 214-242-5100 www. nashersculpturecenter.org.
Texas Rangers vs. Seattle Mariners 7:05 pm. Chicken Express Beanie to first 15,000. Globe Life Park, 1000 Ballpark Way, Arlington.
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Texas Rangers vs. Seattle Mariners 2:05-5:00 pm $1 Blue Bell ice cream, ages 13 and under. Globe Life Park, 1000 Ballpark Way, Arlington, www.texas.rangers.mlb.com.
Dallas Cowboys vs. San Francisco 49ers 3:25pm. AT&T Stadium, 925 N. Collins Street, Arlington, www. dallascowboys.com.
tue 9 Stroller Boot Camp 10-11am. The YMCA hosts a boot camp for moms, dads and anyone else with a stroller! This is a great workout for moms and dads with little ones in strollers! Classes will be cancelled if it is raining or inclement weather. Klyde Warren Park, 2012 Woodall Rodgers Frwy, Dallas, www. klydewarrenpark.org. Texas Rangers vs. Los Angeles Angels 7:05pm. Globe Life Park, 1000 Ballpark Way, Arlington, www.texas. rangers.mlb.com.
wed 10 La Leche League of Dallas South 10-11am. Meets in Conference Room #12LEADER INFORMATION: Louanne 214-399-0098 Cassie 972-679-6564 Methodist Charleton Medical Center, 3500 W. Wheatland Rd, Dallas, www.texaslll.org.
Texas Rangers vs. Los Angeles Angels 7:05pm. Nolan Ryan Beef $1 Hot Dog Night. Globe Life Park, 1000 Ballpark Way, Arlington, www.texas. rangers.mlb.com.
thu 11 GrapeFest 2014 Sept. 11-14. The 28th Annual GrapeFest®-A Wine Experience, offers a variety of amenities to make your experience at the festival more enjoyable. Offering everything from complimentary
shuttles to the festival to great Grapevine hotel packages and special rates, GrapeFest is sure to be a fun and enjoyable weekend experience for your whole family! GrapeFest Hours of Operation: Thursday, September 11, 10 a.m.-10:30 p.m. Friday, September 12, 10 a.m.-11:30 p.m. Saturday, September 13, 10 a.m.-11:30 p.m. Sunday, September 14, 11 a.m.-6 p.m. GrapeFest Admission: Admission is free to everyone all day Thursday, September 11 and until 5 p.m. on Friday, September 12.Friday after 5 p.m. and all day Saturday and Sunday admission: Adults-$8 Children (6-12)$5 Seniors-$5 Weekend passes-$18 Souvenir weekend passes-$23 Downtown Grapevine, 636 S. Main Street, Grapevine, www.grapevinetexasusa. com/grapefest-2014/
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Collins, Arlington, www.dallascowboys.com.
fri 12 Texas Rangers vs. Atlanta Braves 7:05pm. Globe Life Park, 1000 Ballpark Way, Arlington, www. texas.rangers.mlb.com.
sat 13 NFL Punt, Pass and Kick 10am-12pm. The NFL Punt, Pass & Kick (PPK) program is a national skills competition for boys and girls between the ages of 6 and 15 to compete against each other in punting, passing and place kicking in a fun and engaging forum. The PPK program is free to kids who want to participate! Brazos Park, 190 Brazos Blvd., Highland Village, 972-317-7430 www.nflppk.com.
Texas Rangers vs. Atlanta Braves 7:05pm. Globe Life Park, 1000 Ballpark Way, Arlington, www. texas.rangers.mlb.com.
sun 14 3rd Annual Food Truck Palooza 11am-8pm. Listen to live music from local bands, while the kids play in the huge Kids’ Zone. This year we have four large bounce structures, professional face painters, balloon creations and other fun activities-ALL INCLUDED IN THE ADMISSION PRICE! There will be a Multi-winner raffle with exciting prizes, as well as special appearances by local performers. Admission is only $5 and includes parking, all kids’ activities, and great music. All proceeds go to support the North
Dallas Private School Preview 1-3pm. Find out about all that private schools have to offer your child. There will be many schools to talk with, and a financial aid seminar at 3pm, followed by a Q&A session. Episcopal School of Dallas, 4100 Merrell, Dallas, www.dallasprivateschoolpreview.com.
Texas Rangers vs. Atlanta Braves 2:05pm. $1 Blue Bell ice cream, ages 13 and under. Hispanic Heritage Day Globe Life Park, 1000 Ballpark Way, Arlington, www.texas. rangers.mlb.com.
tue 16 11th Annual CASAs for Kids Golf Tournament 9am. TOURNAMENT DETAILS: 9:30 a.m. Registration, Range, Putting Contest 11 a.m. Box Lunch, Final Announcements 11:30 a.m. Shotgun Start 5 p.m. Buffet, Awards Presentation CONTESTS & CHALLENGES 1st, 2nd, and 3rd Place Awards Putting Contest • Longest Drive • Closest to Pin Hole-In-One • Silent Auction • Raffle Prizes • Door Prizes. Download Registration Form here: http:// casaofcollincounty.org/useruploads/ files/team_&_player_registration_2014.pdf Stonebridge Ranch Country Club, The Hills Course, 5901 Glen Oaks Dr., McKinney, 972-5292272 www.casaofcollincounty.org.
thu 18 Addison Oktoberfest Sep. 18-21. Thursday, September 18, 2014 6pm-11pm FREE for All Ages. Friday, September 19, 2014 6pm-Midnight $10-ages 13+; $5-ages 4-12; 3 and under FREE. Saturday, September 20, 2014 Noon-Midnight $10-ages 13+; $5-ages 4-12; 3 and under FREE. Sunday, September 21, 2014 Noon5pm$10-ages 13+; $5-ages 4-12; 3 and under FREE. Food and Beverage Coupons: $1 each. Main Ticket Tent-Biergarten Ticket Tent. Addison Circle Park, 4970 Addison Circle Drive, Addison, 972-450-2851.
fri 19 ‘til Midnight at the Nasher 6pm-12am. ‘til Midnight at the Nasher presents special live outdoor concerts featuring the best in regional
music talent and artistic film screenings in the Garden. Nasher Cafe by Wolfgang Puck will offer an all new menu including picnic dining for two and grab & go snacks. Guests will also have the opportunity to participate in social media scavenger hunts, progressive tours and to view the permanent collection and special exhibitions. Reservations for picnic dining for two are taken the Monday-Wednesday preceding the event. Deadline for reservations is Wednesday, September 17 at 5 pm. ’til Midnight at the Nasher is presented with radio support from KXT.7 pm Concert: Goodnight Ned 9 pm Film: The Great Gatsby (G) Nasher Sclupture Center, 2001 Flora St., Dallas, Texas, 214-242-5100 www.nashersculpturecenter.org.
Plano Balloon Festival 4-10pm. Enjoy an action packed weekend of skydivers, hot air balloons, concerts, a huge kid’s fun zone, merchandise vendors, corporate exhibitors and variety of foods...young and old have much in common when they are enjoying the colorful balloons that will fill the skies over Plano. Come make memories for your family. Oak Point Park, 2801 E. Spring Creek Pkwy., Plano, 972-867-7566 www.planoballoonfest.org.
Rapunzel! Rapunzel! A Very Hairy Fairy Tale Runs Sept. 19-Oct. 26. In this hilarious musical take on the classic fairy tale, Princess Rapunzel must find a way to escape from the wicked (and wickedly fabulous) Lady Za Za. Thankfully, the handsome Sir Roderick is ready to help Rapunzel take her rightful place as ruler of the kingdom. A wise old dragon, a hairstylist named Edgar, and a mysterious gypsy woman round out this goofy cast of characters. Let down your hair! Enjoyed by ages 4 and up. Believe in Happy Endings Dallas Children’s Theater, 5938 Skillman, Dallas, 214-740-0051 www.tickets.dct.org.
Late Nights at the Dallas Museum of Art 6pm-12am. Free admission and special activities. Dallas Museum of Art, 1717 N. Harwood, Dallas, www.dallasmuseumofart.org.
Your Community
Story Times Highland Park Library 4700 Drexel Dr., 214-559-9400
Wed Lapsit Story Time 10am (ages 0-24 mos) Thur Toddler Story Time 10am (2 year olds) Fri Preschool Story Time 10am (3 & 4 year olds) University Park Library 3800 University Blvd, 214-363-9095
Wed Story Time 3:45pm (ages 4 &-5) Thur Toddler Story Time 10:45am (toddlers) Fretz Park Branch Library 6990 Belt Line Road, 214-670-6421
Fretz Park Library is closed for renovations for approximately one year. Renner Frankford Branch 6400 Frankford Road, 214-670-6100
Tue Tales for Tots 10:30am (ages 3-5), Baby Bounce 11:15am (infants & toddlers) Bookmarks (at North Park Mall) 8687 N. Central Expressway, Suite 1514, 214-671-1381
Mon NorthCourt - Baby Bounce Basics 10:30am (up to 24 mos.) Mon Inside Bookmarks Baby Bounce Basics 12:30pm (up to 24 mos.) Wed Inside Bookmarks Wiggly, Waggly Words 3:30pm (preschoolers) Thur NorthCourt Tickles for Toddlers 10:30am & 3:30pm (2 & 3 year olds) Thur Inside Bookmarks – Baby Bounce Basics 12:30pm (up to 24 mos.) Fri Inside Bookmarks Baby Bounce Basics 12:30pm (up to 24 mos.) Fri Inside Bookmarks – Preschool Palooza 3:30pm (ages 2-4) Lakewood Branch Library 6121 Worth Street, 214-670-1376
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Wed Boogie Woogie Books 10:30am (ages 6 & under)
Autumn at the Arboretum
10045 Audelia Road, 214-670-1350
9am-5pm. The fantastic Autumn at the Arboretum begins today! Over 50,000 pumpkins, gourds and squash come together to form the nationally acclaimed Pumpkin Village. A multitude of special events are also available throughout the week. Autumn at the Arboretum a must-see. Dallas Arboretum, 8525 Garland Road, Dallas, 214-515-6615 www.dallasarboretum.org.
Audelia Road Branch Library Fri
Boogie Woogie Books 10:30am (ages 6 & under)
Preston Royal Branch 5626 Royal Lane, 214-670-7128
No story times listed for Preston Royal Branch. Calendar contains other items, so I think they just dropped it. All Storytimes are FREE. Listed are the regularly scheduled storytimes. Call to confirm as schedules are subject to change.
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the know it all Repticon Dallas Reptile & Exotic Animal Expo 10am-5pm. Repticon Dallas is a reptile event featuring vendors offering reptile pets, supplies, feeders, cages, and merchandise as well as live animal seminars and frequent free raffles for coveted prizes. Exciting, educational, family-oriented fun for everyone! Hours: Saturday: 10:00am-5:00pm (VIP Entry at 9:00am) Sunday: 10:00am-4:00pm (No VIP Early Entry) Admission: Adults-$10, Children (5-12)-$5, Under 5-Free Visit our website for special offers on 2-day and VIP tickets Knights of Columbus Center, 2280 Springlake Road, Farmers Branch, Texas, 863-268-4273.
The Sound Of Music-Casa Manana Theatre Runs Sep. 20-28. When a postulant proves too high-spirited for the religious life, she is dispatched to serve as governess for the seven children of a widowed naval Captain. Her growing rapport with the youngsters, coupled with her generosity of spirit, gradually captures the heart of the stern Captain. The world’s most beloved musical is sure to capture your heart and become one of your favorite things. This show is suitable for all audiences. The Sound of Music is 2 1/2 hours in duration with one 20 minute intermission. Showtimes/Dates: Sat 9/20 2pm & 8pm, Sun 9/21 2pm, Tues 9/23 7:30pm, Wed 9/24 7:30pm, Thurs 9/25 7:30pm, Fri 9/26 8pm, Sat 9/27 2pm & 8pm, Sun 9/28 2pm & 7pm. Casa Manana Theatre, 3101 W. Lancaster Ave., Fort Worth, 817-332-2272 www.casamanana. org/performances/sound-music.
Plano Balloon Festival 6am-10pm. Enjoy an action packed weekend of skydivers, hot air balloons, concerts, a huge kid’s fun zone, merchandise vendors, corporate exhibitors and variety of foods...young and old have much in common when they are enjoying the colorful balloons that will fill the skies over Plano. Come make memories for your family. Oak Point Park, 2801 E.
Spring Creek Pkwy., Plano, 972-867-7566 www.planoballoonfest.org.
sun 21 The Great Texas Food Truck Rally 12-8pm. The Great Texas Food Truck Rally is a gathering of the tastiest Dallas food trucks. It is no secret that food trucks are all the rage and rally attendees can be sure to enjoy foot-tappin’, hip shakin’ live music, pouring out of speakers all day long. The Spazmatics and Hard Night’s Day will be performing as headlining acts from the rally stage! The Nodding Donkey is the rally’s Beer Garden sponsor, so be sure to check out what they’re brewing and pouring all day long! Once you purchase a ticket, your wristband will be available at the registration table at the event! Reverchon Park, 7550 Maple Ave., Dallas, 972-931-5598 www.eventbrite. com/e/the-great-texas-food-truck-rallytickets-11833070031.
Plano Balloon Festival 6am-7pm. Enjoy an action packed weekend of skydivers, hot air balloons, concerts, a huge kid’s fun zone, merchandise vendors, corporate exhibitors and variety of foods...young and old have much in common when they are enjoying the colorful balloons that will fill the skies over Plano. Come make memories for your family. Oak Point Park, 2801 E. Spring Creek Pkwy., Plano, 972-867-7566 www. planoballoonfest.org. Dallas Cowboys vs. St. Louis Rams 12pm. AT&T Stadium, 925 N. Collins, Arlington, www.dallascowboys.com.
mon 22 Hispanic Heritage Month Celebration 5-7pm. Join the library for a celebration of Hispanic Heritage Month with crafts, refreshments and a performance by Mariachi Espuelas de Plata Irving East Branch Library, 440 S. Nursery, Irvig, 972-721-3722.
Texas Rangers vs. Houston Astros 7:05pm. Globe Life Park, 1000 Ballpark Way, Arlington, www.texas.rangers.mlb.com.
Dallas Stars Pre-Season Hockey vs. Blues 7:30pm. American Airlines
cooking demonstrations and a marketplace at the 2014 Greek Food Festival! Holy Trinity Greek Orthodox Church, 13555 Hillcrest Road, Dallas, 972-991-1166 www. greekfestivalofdallas.com
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Heroes for Children Heart of Gold 5K & Fun Run 6:30-10am. The Heroes
11:15am Join us every Thursday morning for a story and craft with Ms. Kitty. Story time is free and open to kids ages 1 to 4 years old. University Park Public Library, 8383 Preston Center Plaza, Suite 200, Dallas, 214.363-9095 http://www.uptexas. org/Government/UP-Public-Library.
for Children Heart of Gold 5K and Fun Run is a fundraiser for Heroes for Children. The 5K is held in September to recognize and promote Childhood Cancer Awareness Month within the community. It is designed to be a “family friendly” event in which young or old can participate. The event starts off with our annual commemorative balloon release led by co-founders Jenny & Larissa celebrating the families we helped in 2013. Then we start the Family Fun Run, followed by the 5K Run/Walk. There is plenty of entertainment with prizes and awards, giveaways, bounce houses, face painting, music and more. The Plaza at Galatyn Park, 2350 Performance Dr, Richardson, 214-2565824 www.heroesforchildren.org/5K.
Texas Rangers vs. Oakland Athletics 7:05pm. Dr. Pepper/Albertsons Yu
Lakewood Library Book Discussion Group 3:30-4:30pm. This group
Darvish Replica Jersey presented by Dr. Pepper. First 15,000, 14 and older. Globe Life Park, 1000 Ballpark Way, Arlington, www.texas.rangers.mlb.com.
meets every 4th Saturday of the month and reads award-winning literature. Please contact the Lakewood Library for details about the book of the month. Lakewood Branch Library, 6121 Worth St., Dallas, 214.670-1376 www.dallaslibrary2.org
Texas Rangers vs. Houston Astros 7:05pm. Nolan Ryan Beef $1 hot dogs Globe Life Park, 1000 Ballpark Way, Arlington, www.texas.rangers.mlb.com.
thu 25 Toddler Story Time at University Park Public Library Thu-10:45am-
fri 26 State Fair of Texas Opens 10am9pm. The State Fair of Texas includes carnival rides, midway games, food concessions, a nightly parade, musical entertainment, shopping, livestock exhibitions, auto shows and a full entertainment schedule including many stages. Tickets can be purchased online NOW, and at Kroger beginning September 1. Fair Park, Dallas, 3921 Martin Luther King Jr., Blvd., 214-565-9931 www.bigtex.com
Greek Food Festival of Dallas 4-6pm. Enjoy live music and dancing, food, cooking demonstrations and a marketplace at the 2014 Greek Food Festival! Holy Trinity Greek Orthodox Church, 13555 Hillcrest Road, Dallas, 972-991-1166 www. greekfestivalofdallas.com
Texas Rangers vs. Oakland Athletics 7:05pm. Big Green Egg post-game
Center, 2500 Victory Avenue, Dallas, www.dallasstars.com.
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7:05pm. Coca-Cola Rangers garden gnome, first 15,000. Globe Life Park, 1000 Ballpark Way, Arlington, www.texas. rangers.mlb.com.
fireworks show. Globe Life Park, 1000 Ballpark Way, Arlington, www.texas. rangers.mlb.com.
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10-11:30am. 2nd Level Head in the main doors, turn right, then follow the hall to the elevator. We are in a classroom just outside the elevator. Around 11:30 we move out to the playground, weather permitting. Feel free to bring a picnic lunch and hang out! LEADER INFORMATION: Heather 214-5077564 heather.traylor@yahoo.com, Hannah 214-562-0738 hlpoole_82@yahoo.com, Alison alisonegrady@yahoo.com.
Texas Baby & Kidz Expo 10am-5pm. Affordable family fun with baby and kids fun vendors, parent resources, entertainment, activities, prizes and more. Adults $10, 65+ and Military $5. 10am-5pm. Dallas Market Hall, 2200 N. Stemmons Fwy, Dallas. www.familyfunexpo.com. See ad in this issue.
Greek Food Festival of Dallas 11am11pm. Enjoy live music and dancing, food,
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Texas Rangers vs. Oakland Athletics 7:05pm. Globe Life Park, 1000 Ballpark Way, Arlington, www.texas. rangers.mlb.com.
sun 28 Fiesta Latinoamericana! 11am-7pm Join in the fun at the 8th annual Fiesta Latinoamericana! This is a free family celebration that will feature two stages of music and dance, children’s discovery workshops, interactive cultural activities for the entire family. Klyde Warren Park, 2012 Woodall Rodgers Freeway, Dallas, 972-661-2764 www.dfwinternational.org/ FiestaLatinoamericana/
mon 29 Dallas Stars Pre-Season Hockey vs. Panthers 7:30pm. American Airlines Center, 2500 Victory Avenue, Dallas, www.dallasstars.com.
tue 30 Dallas Stars Pre-Season Hockey vs. Lightening 7:30pm. American Airlines Center, 2500 Victory Avenue, Dallas, www.dallasstars.com
Please note: Although we strive to bring you the most current information available regarding event dates & times, confirming with the event venue before going is always a good idea. SP
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have read a great many parenting books in my quarter century as a mother...philosophies, theories, how-tos, how-NOT-tos... but the God’s honest truth is my five children have been reared by a woman who has mastered the art of child rearing through trial-and-error. Sure, I’ve had a good role model to encourage and support my endeavors, and I know I absorbed some of what I read in all of those books, but I spend more time than I would care to admit relying on my intuition for what the next right step should be as my husband and I continue to raise our offspring. So when my youngest [and only] daughter, who is nine, began to have some pretty serious anxiety issues this spring, (completely stumping her dad and myself), I was all over trying to find an answer. I read child development websites, watched national news stories, picked up the latest parenting magazines, read books about managing emotions with her...you name it, I was on a mission to help my child feel her “happy, bubbly, carefree” self again, fast! A key element in my journey to understand her sudden angst has come from a book entitled, The Conscious Parent, Transforming ourselves, empowering our children, by Dr. Shefali Tsabary, a psychologist from New York who has worked for many years with diverse populations and a multitude of troubled families, She, herself, is practicing what she preaches every day as she and her husband raise their own preteen daughter.
Dr. Shefali makes a number of important points in her book, namely, “Our role is not to fix or mold our children into what WE desire them to be, but rather to create the condition for our children to rise.” — Shefali Tsabary, PhD. Think about it, we repeatedly ask our children to channel their energy into the behavior, personality traits, and activities that WE (and society) deem necessary for success in life. Achievement in academics, social aptitude (sometimes pushing our introverts to become extroverts), excelling in sports or the arts have become our guiding lights for raising kids today. Our desire to mold our children into something that may not be a part of their story at all (because we did so as a child, or maybe it is because we DIDN’T do so...) serves only to create a great deal of stress and tension in a child. However, Dr. Shefali does not look to place blame on parents. We are merely repeating the cycle which was passed down to us from our parents and their parents before them. Unless we make a conscious decision to learn to become aware and present in our own lives, to work through our own emotional challenges, we will not be able to fully attune to our children’s innate direction and voice. Won’t you join me on my journey to explore a more significant way to embrace the most important journey we have been entrusted with in life? Practicing the Art of Conscious Parenting is an ongoing look at our personal family stories and my thoughts about parenting in today’s complex world. Please walk the path with me weekly at www. suburbanparent.com. Together we can work on ourselves, and in turn work towards more enlightened parenting. SP
“Our role is not to fix or mold our children into what WE desire them to be, but rather to create the condition for our children to rise.”
— Shefali Tsabary, PhD.
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Hey Diddle Diddle, the Cat and the Fiddle... We asked area kids for the rest of the above nursery rhyme and here were their responses... “There’s a spoon in there somewhere; a cow too. May be a knife? Actually, I’m not so sure about the knife. Don’t you know it? Grown-ups should know this stuff. I’m still pretty little.” — Sarah, a very talkative 5 year old “I know this one. A cow jumps real high over the moon and plates and forks are running around and stars are flying around… It’s just beautiful”. — Sanjay, age 5 “Bring back that fiddle right now!” — Angel, age 4 “What’s a diddle?” — Geri, age 4
“The cow jumped after noon?” — Emma, age 4 “I don’t know about that, it all sounds pretty crazy to me!” — Adam, age 5 “The cow jumped over the moon. A little dog laughed… and grabbed a spoon??” — Casey, age 6
Anyone who thinks the art of conversation is dead ought to tell a child to go to bed. — Robert Gallagher
“Oh! My mom says this one! Every time I never had any idea what she was talking about, but I would still smile at her because I thought she was making it up and I didn’t want her to feel dumb about it. I’m pretty glad she was not making that up.” — Jeffery, age 6
LOL with James Estes!
GOTTA LOVE ‘EM MOTHER: Does Your Teacher Like You? SON: Like me, she loves me. Look at all those X’s on my test paper. MOTHER: What was the first thing you learned in class? DAUGHTER: How to talk without moving my lips! Q: WHAT’S A TEACHER’S FAVORITE NATION? A: Expla-nation.
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While volunteering in my son’s Kindergarten class, I heard the teacher ask a child what letter she was pointing to. He correctly answered, “D”. She asked him what sound it made, he answered, “Dog”. She said, “I want to know what sound it makes.” He replied, “Arf, Arf?” SENT TO US FROM JENNY H.
Do you have a funny story about your child? We’d love to hear it. Send them to editor@suburbanparent.com.
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Your kids may already be thinking about school supplies, new schedul es, and what the next grade is going to look like.
So we are giving you a few tips for back to school so you won’t be blindsided by what’s coming. Whatever age your children are, you can be a step ahead of the game but also be their number one resource too. There’s a lot that on-the-ba ll dads can do to make sure home and school are well connected. From computer hook-ups to being aware of carry-over academic challenge s; we can have a game plan in place designed to give everyone involved a solid start and a leg up. Chec k out these 10 Tips for Back to School and get ready to look like the hero you are.
1. Be in the know
Okay, Dad, don’t be clueless. You need to know the details—you need to know what is expected, both of you and your child. Put the exam schedule on your calendar. Know how to log into your child’s grade account. For upper scho ol students, get a copy of the course syllabus so you have a heads up on projects.
your child to succeed
7. Set boundaries
If TV, sports, or friendships are getti ng in the way of academics, you need to step in and limit those things.
2. Have a plan with clear
expectations
The time to be involved in the coming semester is now. We are exponentially more likely to be productively supportive when we know exactly what that means, and our children are more likely to be successful when they have confidenc e in Dad.
3. Hook up the technology
Most schools have ways for kids and parents to be connected with news, assignmen ts, grades, and issues via the Internet. Be a good tech-dad and make sure every line of communica tion is free and clear.
8. Sign up for something (anything!)
You may or may not be a dad with tons of available flextime, but you can always be involved in something. Dad signing up is a huge positive for any kid in any grade.
9. Talk over the challenges
4. Plan to attend orientation and
parent-teacher conferences
It’s important that our children unde rstand that we are invested in their education. Meet the teacher(s), get a copy of the schedule, and make it clear to junior that school is a famil y priority.
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6. Coach
Fist-bumps, notes in the lunchbox, rehea rsal drills on the basics. Dad can set the tone and provide the impetus to move forward into the new school year.
It does no one any good to be blindsided by difficulty. Is there a problem in math? Tutor ing should already be under way. Are there medi cal issues? Make sure the arrangements are clear . Behavioral concerns? Junior needs to understan d the plan and the consequences before school begins. Need ideas? Check out iMOMs Back to Scho ol TALK.
10. Model excitement
If Dad and Mom are positive about the coming semester and the new schedule, chan ces are the kids will fall in line. Mentally prepare yourself on the way home from work so that you can help your kids with homework when you get there. SP
your child
Kids can sense uncertainty. Make sure your belief is genuine, and make it contagious. Conv ersely, negativity and doubt communicate eloqu ently, devastatingly, with or without words.
This is where dads in any stage of fathe rhood can find helpful resources to aid in their parenting. Fathers can also sign up to start or atten d one of our All Pro Dads chapters.
Reprinted with permission
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remember the day my wife and I visited the daycare in our community for the first time. We were expecting our first child and we wanted to check out the facility we had hoped to use. At that meeting, we were provided an information packet that explained the daycare’s philosophies, procedures and policies. If I close my eyes, I can still see the last line on page 3. In big bold highlights were the words: All children MUST be picked up by 6 p.m. sharp. The word “sharp” was underlined 20 times. If late, the center charged $5 a minute past 6pm. I’ve heard that the highway patrol and department of transportation have that page memorized as well. They know as well as I do how a policy like that, contributes heavily to the problems associated with rush hour traffic. For, you see, the real wackos on the roadways are working parents trying desperately to reach their children before closing time.
This policy was also why, when I had children in daycare, I hated afternoon staff meetings at work. My boss’s children were grown and out of his house. He had nothing better to do than dance slowly through the agenda. Those of us with kids in daycare groaned whenever the boss called an afternoon staffer. We knew it would go long. We also knew that there was a 50- 50 chance our commute home, in some way, would involve NASCAR skills. As the clock ticked past 5 p.m., we sat in those meetings looking like a classroom of kindergarteners needing to go to the bathroom. We fidgeted nervously in our seats, glanced repeatedly at the clock, and gave dirty looks at the single people whenever they prolonged the meetings with their productive ideas and team spirit. A few times the meetings extended beyond 5:15 p.m., and that’s when, besides profit charts and Power Point presentations, there were also wide eyed looks and whimpering. It’s also why every pencil in our staff room looked half-eaten like road kill. Those without children in daycare sat in those meetings unaware of the desperation around them - except once when 60
year old Heidi Yeltsin apparently had a roast on time bake. After that day, Heidi never again did anything to prolong a meeting. She said she felt a bond. Then there was the time our meeting adjourned at 5:45 p.m. I would have had an aneurysm if there was time. As I sprinted from the building, I had anxious, horrible thoughts that superseded any financial concerns I might have also had. They mostly included images of me driving up to the darkened daycare to find the owner, a couple cops, CPS, and an elderly neighbor all standing in the driveway waiting to arrest me for child abandonment. And that’s when the wrong person cut me off on the freeway. Pulling into the next lane to pass, I rolled my window down and shouted directly at the startled driver: “Thank you very much! Maybe my son will get a nice meal at the foster home!” Boy, how I wish at that moment I had had a better idea what kind of car my neighbor drove. Now that I have older children, I never do anything to make a meeting run long. I do this, of course, to honor and support those parents with kids in daycare. I also never use a pencil. SP
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