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ANNIE’S MAILBOX
Dear Annie: My fiance is amazing, sensitive and wonderful. The only problem is his sister. When we became engaged, “Jessie” was so jealous, her mother begged us to make her my maid of honor. I did, to keep the peace. I’ve spoken with Jessie a handful of times and don’t particularly like her. She’s 29, gets a monthly allowance from her parents because she lives beyond her means, and threatens to withhold her young son from my fiance and his parents when they won’t give her what she wants. We told Jessie she could help with the wedding plans, but then she had a total meltdown and lashed out at my fiance and his mom. We then informed her that she cannot come to the wedding unless she apologizes. This has resulted in my not being allowed near her son. My future mother-in-law is trying to force us to invite her, saying, “I promise to keep her under control so she won’t wreck the wedding.” The fact that she needs to say that makes me very nervous. My fiance isn’t close to his sister and is tired of her behavior. I don’t want her at my wedding because she’s been so rude to both of us, but I’d accept her if she apologized. Do you think we should hold out and hope? It is our wedding. Can’t we do what we want? -- The Bride Dear Bride: Well, yes and no. Weddings represent the joining of families and, as such, should not become grudge matches. Demanding an apology from Jessie is an exercise in futility. She would rather create ill will than admit wrongdoing, and not being allowed to attend the wedding will fuel her fire for years to come. She could use some professional counseling. Meanwhile, consider the long-term repercussions of excluding her. And if you decide to forgive her, don’t rely on Jessie’s mother to rein her in. Ask a few friends to keep her in check, or hire someone to discreetly escort her out if she creates a scene.
Dear Annie: A number of years ago, I saw an old ad from the 1800s in a book on soap making. The ad said that this particular brand of soap could be used for everything from washing your clothes to cleaning floors and brushing teeth. This apparently was before toothpaste was invented. Is this where the expression “washing your mouth out with soap” came from? -- Grandma Dear Grandma: We doubt it. While some folks may have used soap to brush their teeth, it wasn’t necessary. Toothpaste in one form or another has been around since before the Romans. It was supposed to have a pleasant taste, or at least be tolerable. Soap was never meant to be ingested. Some soaps contain ingredients that are harmful to the mouth, throat or stomach lining. Washing one’s mouth out with soap is a specific punishment, usually in response to using profanity or other inappropriate language. We know parents used to do this, although we don’t recommend it. Thanks for providing an offbeat topic. Dear Annie: I read “Hermitage, Penn’s” diatribe about the elderly white-haired man who rudely butted ahead of her at the grocery store. Maybe he wasn’t feeling well and had to get out of the store quickly. He’s not going to say, “Excuse me, madam, but I am about to have an accident. May I go ahead of you, please?” I found Hermitage’s reaction to be insensitive and downright mean, a common trend in our young people today. -Judy from Omaha Dear Judy: There is no excuse to jump ahead of someone without at least saying, “Excuse me.” That is simple courtesy, regardless of age. Dear Readers: Happy Halloween. Please dress your trickor-treaters in flame-retardant costumes that don’t obstruct walking or vision, and be sure to accompany them.
Annie’s Mailbox is written by Kathy Mitchell and Marcy Sugar, longtime editors of the Ann Landers column. Please e-mail your questions to: anniesmailbox@comcast.net, or write to: Annie’s Mailbox, c/o Creators Syndicate, 737 3rd Street, Hermosa Beach, CA 90254.
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Animals Labrador Retrievers
AKC outstanding pups bred for breed standards and great temperaments, ready for their new homes now. (603)664-2828. Two Australian Shepherd female puppies. 10 weeks, Shots & health certificates, natural bobbed tails. Mostly housebroken. $600. 455-7463
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$_TOP dollar paid for junk cars & trucks. Available 7-days a week. P3!s Towing. 630-3606
Toyota Rav 4 X 4 2006 Sport. Immaculate inside and out. 89,000 miles $9,500 Must see to appreciate. 524-2580
BELMONT 2-bedroom condo basement storage, coin-operated washer/dryer, $865/mon. plus security and utilities. Section 8 welcome. Avail. 12/14. 630-1296.
1988 Buick Electra, Very-good condition, drives great, needs roof-liner. No rust. 109K. Fully-loaded. $1500/OBO. 524-5878. 1996 Dodge Diesel 4WD Long bed SLT package. Automatic, 180K miles, $6,500. 455-9313 1996 Ford F150 4x4 Automatic, 7-1/2 Fisher minute mount, 4 like new studded tires, like new brakes, many new parts., cap, bed liner, 112,863 miles. $3,250. Belmont 527-0010. No calls after 8pm please. 2003 Chevy S10 4x4 Ext. Cab, 140K, Good Tires/Brakes, Some Rust, Runs Well, $3,500/OBO. 603-393-8500
GREAT BARGAINS! Thrift & Gift a unique non-profit thrift store. 80 Bean Rd. Center Harbor Christian Church. Bring a non-perishable food item, get 10% off your total. Mon-Sat. 10am-4pm 253-8008.
Appliances JOE!S Used Appliances: Buy, sell, repair, one year guarantee, delivery, house calls, gas stove repair. 527-0042. KENMORE 19.1 cubic ft. refrigerator. 29.5” Wide X 64” High, X 32.5” deep, $100. Drop leaf table 40 ” long with/four chairs, $40. Both good condition . 387-5171
2005 Mercury Sable LS Premium, moon-roof, 77k, mint condition, custom stereo, new tires. $7900/OBO. 253-7015
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For Rent ALTON Room w/bath in country: 10 minutes from Alton & Wolfeboro. $450/month w/utilities and wifi and SAT TV. Outside smoking OK. 875-6875. Love pets!
2008 Ford Pickup, 4-Door, Loaded, Excellent Condition, 83k Miles, Books $18,200 sell for $15,000/OBO. 707-1545.
ALTON: Studio $695 month, All utilities included. Heat, electricity, hot water. Available November 1st. 603-534-7589.
CASH paid for unwanted or junk cars and trucks. Same day service possible. 603-231-2859.
APARTMENTS, mobile homes. If you need a rental at a fair price, call DRM Corp. Over 50 years in rentals. We treat you better! 524-0348 or visit M-W-F, 12-5, at our new location, 142 Church St. (Behind CVS Pharmacy.) BELMONT 2 bedroom, 1st floor, coin-op laundry and storage space in basement, $240/wk including heat, electric & hot water, 524-1234, www.whitemtrentals.com.
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BELMONT Nice quiet 2 bedroom up $215/ wk all utilities. Security and references needed. 630-1296. BELMONT: 2BR, $165/Week +utilities. No pets. Two week security, references required. 520-5209.
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FRANKLINRiverfront, 1 Bedroom, 2nd Floor. Hardwood floors, new carpet. $600/month + Utilities, Security Deposit. No Pets, 387-4471. GILFORD Furnished 3-bedroom waterfront winter rental. Dock, washer & dryer. Available through May 31st. $900/mo. + Utilities. Oil heat. No pets. (603) 686-2982 GILFORD House-, 5 rooms (2 bedrooms), kitchen with appliances, sun porch, full basement with washer/dryer hook-ups,. Heat/hot water included, walking distance to shopping, $950./month, one month security deposit. Call 527-9221. GILFORD- Small year round house near Ellacoya. 1 very large bedroom, small Living room, galley kitchen, full bath, freshly painted, new flooring, skylights, deck, all utilities included, $800/Month + Full security deposit. Credit check, no dogs. 524-2439 GILMANTON: 2-bedroom, 1-bath house, in private lake community. Bring your ATV, snowmobile & boat. Easy commute to Concord and Laconia. $800/month, plus utilities. $800 security deposit. 603-267-8970. HOUSESHARE Belmont/ 106. Quiet country home. Easy commute North and South. All utilities
For Rent
For Rent
LACONIA $1,100/month Spacious 3-bedroom apartment, first floor, Mechanic Street. Available November 1st. Call 581-6463. LACONIA 1 bedroom- Sunny & cozy 3rd floor $150/week includes heat/hot water. References & deposit. 524-9665 LACONIA 3 bedroom includes heat & hot water. $250/ week references and security deposit. 524-9665 LACONIA- 1 bedroom apartment. Newly renovated, Sunny 2nd floor near downtown. New washer & dryer. Heat/Hot water included. $800/Month Plus utilities. 387-0147 LACONIA- Spacious 2 bedroom units starting at $850 + utilities. 3 bedroom unit $1,000/month + utilities. Washer/dryer hookups and off street parking. NO PETS. Call GCE Apartments @ 267-8023 LACONIA: 1BR Apartment on Jewett Street, 1st floor, off-street parking, $600/month includes all utilities, security $280. Call 934-7358. sixtymarge@aol.com
MOULTONBOROUGH- Winnipesaukee Waterfront 2 bedroom cottage. Long term, $1,000/month. Small pet considered. 603- 253-8848 NEW Hampton/ Meredith. Rooms for rent $125 and up. No pets, Coldwell Banker Old Mill Properties. 744-8144. Randy.
LACONIA: 2BR apartment, $1,000/month, heat/water/sewer included. (603)630-7226. LACONIA: Large 2-bedroom, first floor apartment. $800/month plus utilities. FIrst month free. Includes parking. No dogs. 934-8200, ask for Dez. LACONIA: Near downtown, 2nd floor, 2BR, $750 +utilities. References & $750 security deposit required. 387-3864. LACONIA: spacious one and two bedroom apartments available. Heat and hot water included in rent. On-site laundry, storage room and off-street parking. Close to pharmacy, schools and hospital. Security deposit required. EHO. Please call Julie at Stewart Property Mgt. (603) 524-6673 LACONIA: 1 bedroom apartment. $775/Month + damage deposit, heat/ hot-water included, small pet considered. 520-1179 LACONIA: Gilbert Apartments. Call for available apartments. 524-4428 MEREDITH 1 & 2 bedroom apartments and a 2 bedroom mobile home. $700-$775+ utilities. Security deposit required, no pets, 279-5846 NORTHFIELD- 2 bedroom townhouse style unit on wooded lot. Laundry room on site, off street parking and storage. $750/month + utilities. PLEASE NO PETS. Call GCE Apartments @267-8023 MEREDITH/ L aconia/ Sanbornton Area : Beautiful studio apartment for country lover. Great views, great light, clean and new! $850/month, includes utilities. 455-3585.
NORTHFIELD: Large 1 bedroom, 1st floor, separate entrance, direct basement access with coin-op laundry, $200/wk including heat, electric & hot water, 524-1234, www.whitemtrentals.com. PITTSFIELD1 bedroom unit $500/month +utilities. 3 bedroom unit $1,000/month +utilities. Building sits on Drake field with off street parking. Call GCE Apartments @267-8023 NO PETS ROOM for rent. Heat, utilities & cable included. $475 month. 603-630-4599 TILTON: 1-bedroom. Heat, hot water included., great location, no dogs. $580 to $630/month. 603-671-7481 or 916-214-7733.
For Rent-Commercial LACONIA- Attractive rental in great building w/good traffic count and exposure. Approx. 600 sq. ft. Heat & electricity included. Can be divided. $550/month. 603-279-5626 or 603-279-6463