so to another, it could strain the relationships among your children. Think about the larger factor before agreeing to be the caregiver.
Talk to your spouse. If you are married or are in a
relationship, this is a decision that will have to be discussed with your partner, whose life will be impacted as well.
both of you are not seeing eye-to-eye on the situation, it may cause a rift that can damage your relationship.
Avoid guilt. If you choose to say no to the situation, it may
generate hurt feelings at the onset, but if you explain your reasons clearly, chances are the loved one will understand how you are feeling.
Although grandparents stepping in to become child care providers for their grandchildren while parents are at work has become a popular situation in recent years, it is important to weigh the pros and cons of the situation before delving headfirst into the arrangement. azhealthandliving.com | July 2014
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