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hen trying to “get up” with a girl, there is obviously a right and wrong way to go about it. Some guys make the common mistake of thinking it all has to do with looks, which makes someone powerless unless they are one of the lucky few who were born with good looks. But if you looked beyond the superficial, you would realize that girls are attracted to more than just looks. One of these is finances. Girls are looking for someone who has a dream and a plan. You have to work on yourself before you work on finding her. What better way to do start off your journey by finding a job and getting your money right. Coolest thing about having a job is that it can bring you a few other things that can help you find a girl, like a car, nice clothes, and the ability to take her out on a nice date instead of to the corner store to share a pack of Jolly Ranchers. In school, lots of guys make another common mistake in assuming that it is “lame” to join extra-curricular activities. But what they fail to realize is that they are perfect places to meet girls. Activities like Cheerleading, ROTC, ASM, The Book Club, the Choir and True Star Magazine are packed full of potentially available girls. Putting yourself around girls logically increases your chances of interacting with one. 44 TRUE STAR MAGAZINE
BY BRYAN WILLIAMS, SENIOR, SCHURZ HIGH SCHOOL DESIGN BY ANSHAUNTI HILLERY JUNIOR, SIMEON CAREER ACADEMY Another clever thing to do when wanting to meet a girl is to make friends with as many girls as possible. The obvious benefit in this approach is that by making friends with girls, you stand the chance of being introduced to her friends, and might even find yourself invited to one of their parties, which will obviously be packed with none other than: girls! So don’t ever be sour if a girl turns you down by saying “I’m not interested. But we can be friends?” Take her up on her offer and see where it can take you. You never know; she might end up reconsidering how she feels about you once she gets to know you. Finding a girl is not the easiest thing to do, but it’s not impossible. Keep in mind that you have to work on yourself before you start looking. Once you feel comfortable with yourself, start to put yourself in situations where you can actually interact with them, like extra-curricular activities. And never close the door on an opportunity just because things didn’t work out the way you wanted them to. Don’t be afraid to make female friends and open yourself up to larger and larger social circles. At the end of the day, you will benefit from all the self-improvement work you put into yourself. Good luck!