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There is always some madness in love. But there is also always some reason in madness.

Nietzsche generally knew what he was about, expanding upon Shakespeare’s observation that “love is merely a madness”. Being someone’s true love means you accept them for the person they are, and that you do not wish to change them. And saying ‘I love you’ in front of the world is what your wedding day is all about. It means standing by the one you love during those days of delirious happiness, and also during days of sadness and self-doubt. It means knowing their deepest secrets — and how they have their coffee. It means coming together to plan your wedding — because it’s time to take that ultimate leap! While planning a wedding can be a lot of fun, it can also be very stressful. That’s why here you’ll find a safety net of tips and useful information — keep it handy as you plan your big day.

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Contents P3: Making it legal P4-5: Your wedding planning checklist P6: Choosing the right venue P7: A perfect match: choosing your celebrant P8: Gowns P9: In awe of mums/Ways to save P10: Menswear P11: Mood music P12: Ring it up P13: Photos/Transport/Transformation P14: Roles/Speeches P15: Cakes/Advertising directory P16: All around the world WEDDING GUIDE 2021 is published by the Otago Daily Times, a division of Allied Press Ltd. Advertising: adfeatures@alliedpress.co.nz Design: ODT Creative. The cover of Wedding Guide 2021 is courtesy of Margaret Wray Bridal and Tailoring Boutique in Clyde. Photographer: @flintandsteelnz Florals: @bespokeweddingsandevents Dress and suits: @margaretwraybridal

Covid-19 has understandably had a major impact on weddings, with the number of people choosing to get married dropping to record lows.

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ut while many may be choosing to postpone their nuptials so that family and friends from overseas can attend, there are still plenty of couples forging ahead with their plans. While it’s not the most romantic part of those plans, getting the paperwork sorted is definitely the most important. Because you’re not really married if it’s not legal. In New Zealand there are two ways to get married or have a civil union: By a registered marriage celebrant You can choose: • When and where you’ll get married. • To write your own vows. • A religious or independent celebrant.

But registry ceremonies remain a popular option for many, although they must be held on a weekday and not on a public holiday. A registry ceremony has a set cost ($240 in total) and standard vows. Step 1: Decide where to get married in New Zealand. You’ll need to arrange the celebrant and venue, and remember guests are limited to 20 people. Step 2: Apply for a marriage licence at least three working days before the ceremony, to confirm that it’s legal for you to marry. Step 3: Arrange witnesses — you’ll need to bring two to the ceremony.

To find a celebrant visit celebrants.dia. govt.nz (only registered celebrants can perform weddings or civil unions in New Zealand). You will need to arrange your celebrant before you can get a marriage licence. The cost varies.

Step 4: Get married. Registry ceremonies follow a script and you must use standard vows. Your celebrant will give you a “Copy of particulars of marriage”, and will register your marriage with the government.

Registry ceremonies Registry offices have not been available for ceremonies in New Zealand since 2019.

For more detailed information, visit: www. govt.nz/browse/family-and-whanau/ getting-married/how-to-get-marriedin-nz/registry-ceremonies

GET A MARRIAGE LICENCE You have to arrange a marriage licence at least three working days before you want to get married. If you’re being married by a celebrant, you’ll need their name, and the location and approximate date of the wedding when you apply. GET MARRIED Your celebrant will register your marriage and give you a ‘copy of particulars of marriage’. GET A MARRIAGE CERTIFICATE If you need to show anyone legal proof of your marriage, you can order a marriage certificate. It costs $33 to have one sent to you, and it will show your full names, your dates and places of birth, your occupations, your home address when you got married, parents’ full names, the date and place you were married. CHANGING YOUR NAME If you want to change your last name after you’re married, you don’t have to do anything special, but places like banks or government agencies might ask to see a copy of the marriage certificate. (Source: New Zealand Government) TYING THE KNOT OVERSEAS While New Zealand’s borders may be opening up to some countries in the foreseeable future, an overseas wedding remains an unpredictable and risky option. But if you are considering that, most overseas marriages are valid in New Zealand. Check with the country’s officials to see if you need to do anything there. Your marriage will be registered in the country where it takes place, so you don’t need to register it here.

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You’re going to need to be super-organised to make your wedding the best day ever. There’s so much to think about, so use this checklist to get on top of everything early.

r o f t s i l k c e h c g n i n n a l p A your wedding 9-12 MONTHS BEFORE PLAN style and budget, and decide who is contributing to wedding. SET date, time, and place. BOOK venue(s) and musicians/DJ. ASSEMBLE quotes from photographers, caterers, and wedding dress makers/suppliers. ORDER wedding transport. LOOK at wedding dress designs. DECIDE on colour scheme.

6-9 MONTHS BEFORE INSURE your engagement ring. CHOOSE your wedding dress. VISIT your minister, priest, or celebrant.

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WRITE a guest list. SEND a save-the-date. ESTABLISH beauty and exercise routine. SELECT a caterer. BAKE/order the wedding cake. DISCUSS flowers with chosen florist.

What do you enjoy most about being a celebrant? Meeting and getting to know a couple then getting to share and advise them in their preparation and planning for their ceremony.

CHOOSE your photographer. ARRANGE videographer and discuss your social media plan.

How long have you been a celebrant? Since early 2019 when friends asked me to perfom their ceremony. Since then I have ecompleted a certificate in Marriage Celebrancy. What do you think is important in your role as a celebrant? Ensuring a couple have the ceremony that they want which reflects their personalities, and helping to create one that is unique to them. Do you have a favourite memory from your career as a celebrant? The best memory always is when you get to tell the couple they are officially married and invite them to seal it with a kiss.

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Situated in the heart of Dunedin’s picturesque heritage district, Toitū Otago Settlers Museum offers a variety of high quality venues perfect for your special day. For all enquiries, please contact Functions and Events Coordinator Phone 03 477 5052 | 31 Queens Gardens Dunedin | toituosm@dcc.govt.nz

3 MONTHS BEFORE BUY bridesmaids dresses and decide on accessories. THINK about the vows you’d like to take, or write your own. FIT groom and groomsmen suits. SELECT a wedding gift registry or piece of art etc. for guests to contribute towards. FINALISE guest lists. SEND out invitations. BEGIN any DIY decorations. RESERVE wedding night accommodation for yourself and out-of-town guests. LIAISE with photographer, chauffeur and celebrant. CONTINUE beauty and exercise routine.

ONE WEEK TO GO GO through a full rehearsal at the ceremony site with all attendants. PRINT speeches. COLLECT hired items. WRITE place cards. RECONFIRM all bookings, numbers times and details. ENJOY a hen’s night or combined party. CHECK venue has the running order.

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WRAP presents for attendants. PACK for your wedding night and

APPLY for a marriage licence.

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ARRANGE seating plan.

PRACTISE your wedding vows.

ATTEND hairdresser with veil or head piece. PURCHASE thank you presents. DECIDE who will be making the speeches and let them know. ARRANGE wedding rehearsal. ACCEPT last-minute RSVPs.

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TASTE menu selections and beverages.

SLEEP late.

FINALISE running order.

EAT breakfast.

SCHEDULE final dress fitting.

PAMPER yourself.

PICK up wedding rings.

LET others do their job.

CRAFT or purchase wedding favours for guests to take home.

THANK friends and family.

TRIAL hair and makeup.

RELAX — don’t stress over tiny details.

WEAR wedding shoes so they are comfy on the day.

AND finally... ENJOY your wedding day.

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Here in our beautiful corner of the world there is a wedding venue to suit all sizes and styles, from seaside, lakeside, urban, or country.

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Tips: • Research: go online, ask friends, and ring suppliers to get some ideas. Enquire about capacity, cost, and availability, and definitely visit if possible. Photos are fine, but you might not get the right vibe once you’re there. • Be clear on the budget, and be realistic about whether you are public gardens or five-star hotel. • Does it meet your style and theme? A super-formal venue won’t lend itself to a relaxed feel. • Consider having your wedding on a weekday, as you may be able to negotiate a cheaper rate. • Having the ceremony and reception at the same place will save on transport costs.

f course, the level of involvement that you wish to have will determine the location that is the best fit for you. Some prefer a more do-it-yourself style of function, while others would just like to turn up on the day and have nothing to worry about. But don’t forget that as the reception is likely to take up the largest chunk of your budget, it is worth putting in a little more effort to find the perfect place for you. Hotels, resorts, and events centres With everything taken care of, there’s really no guess work involved. All you have to do is arrive, unpack, and be pampered. Vineyards and wineries What’s not to like about an outdoors wedding surrounded by vines? But yes, this is a weatherdependant choice requiring sensible footwear, so make sure that you have a rainy-day Plan B. Gardens, parks, gazebos A season-dependant favourite for the outdoors inclined. Plan for the best blooming season so photos are filled with flowers and green leaves. Church halls and sports clubs If you know how to make the most of a fairly stark space, this is the perfect option for an inexpensive, cheerful family-friendly occasion with all your favourite people. Unique locations It’s your special day, so why not make it super memorable by tying the knot on a boat, a hilltop, or even in your perfectly decorated backyard?

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Choose between a quirky restaurant and bar set up, situated around a central courtyard in the city, perfect in the summer sun or gathered around the outdoor fire /a beautiful beach fronted farm setting / or bring us to a venue of your choice with our mobile bar and catering services, all designed to make your day feel as magical as it is!

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choosing your celebrant

After months of planning, you are finally taking your vows in front of your loved ones on one of the most important days in your life.

hich is why the person standing together with you in front of all your guests, welcoming them and officiating your ceremony is one of the most significant people at your wedding. You may decide on a festivalthemed wedding and would like a celebrant that is happy to wear wellies. You may decide on a more formal occasion and would like the ceremony to follow a certain traditional structure, or maybe you are a couple that find yourselves never on time and need a celebrant who is relaxed and doesn’t mind the start time being flexible. You must find someone that suits your style, someone you really connect with and trust to have the huge responsibility of narrating your special day.

Tips: — sometimes up to a year or more in advance. The only other option is to be willing to be flexible on your time or date. The most popular wedding date and time is between 2-4pm on a Saturday. Early morning weddings or twilight weddings are a fabulous idea and will allow you to get the celebrant you want to work around other weddings. Friday or Sunday weddings are also a great option and often work better for other vendors too! Once you find your celebrant, make sure that you have something in writing with them. This not only ensures you are getting what you are expecting, in relation to date, time, location and fees, but should also outline some terms and conditions for all involved. You should sign a contract with them, that way everyone is clear about what is expected of each other.

Important: Ask them what they are going to wear!

There is nothing worse than celebrant turning up in an outfit that clashes with your colour scheme or style theme and takes the focus away from the couple. A celebrant should not be memorable for the wrong reasons; if they blend with the groom’s colours for example, it will make the overall tone of your photos much softer.

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Pick someone that is going to fit with your personalities. The ceremony can be one of the most emotional parts of your wedding so you need someone you feel comfortable to laugh and cry with. Someone that understands you, your sense of humour, your ideas and how you want your ceremony to be received by your guests. A really good fit between celebrant and couple is important. They will get to know the intimate parts of your relationship story and sometimes the harder things you want to acknowledge in your ceremony, such as losing a loved one. You should feel natural and comfortable to discuss things openly and honestly, and your relationship should not be awkward or forced.

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ESTHER SMITH-DEVANEY CELEBRANT The Otago Peninsula, a mystical marriage of land and sea has made Glenfalloch an ideal Dunedin wedding venue. Our Bridal Collection is designed to meet your requirements. Any day of the week or time of the day, we can provide you with the menu to suit your taste and budget. From traditional to unique, dine & dance to champagne brunch our team has the skill and energy to make your day one to remember.

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Mums are special, and never more so than on the day you get married.

he will be so proud of you, so why not pay tribute with some thoughtful ideas that show how important your mum(s) is/are to you? INCLUDE her in your planning, choosing a gown, bridesmaid pamper sessions, hens’ night festivities and the excitement on the day of getting ready together. PHOTO CALL in the busyness of the day, organise some special time for a photograph with just the two of you; this is often overlooked with dismay. SOMETHING old, something new, borrowed or blue will have special meaning if it’s come from your mum. Ask her for ideas and if nothing springs to mind, perhaps try to replicate her own bridal bouquet to represent an older era: new flowers, a borrowed design, and a blue ribbon or blossom. PUT IT IN WORDS by inviting your mum to do a reading at your wedding, thank her in your speech, and send her a note of thanks on the morning of the wedding with a bouquet.

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ARM IN ARM with your mum and dad down the aisle is a current popular trend or you may ask her to be your matron of honour. There are no rules, only wishes. VIP or MVP — make her a special sign, decorate her chair or find a special place for her at the top table. REMEMBER her. Even if you no longer have your mum with you she can still be a part of your special day. Carry her photo, wear her gown or her jewellery, play her favourite music and toast her memory.

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Whether bought, bartered, or borrowed, make sure your suit is tailored to fit you perfectly.

t r a p e h t k o o L Whether you are tall, slim, and long-legged, short and stocky, or an athletic build, a well-fitted suit will make you the apple of your bride’s eye.

To buy or hire? BUYING Pros: • Depending on the style of suit, you’ll get plenty of future wear out of it. • Having a suit custom-made for you will ensure it looks and feels perfect. • You’ll have a stylish keepsake from your wedding day. Cons: • Buying a suit can be expensive, especially if it’s custom-made. • If you do decide to get a suit tailor-made, you may need to have several fittings.

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HIRING Pros: • Hiring a suit can ensure you look great on your wedding day without blowing your budget. • If you’re having a formal wedding and wearing a tuxedo or morning suit which you know you’ll never have use for again, definitely look at hiring. Cons: • You may feel disappointed you don’t get to keep the suit you were married in. • You’ll potentially have to pay extra for any damage to the suit.

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It can take a long time to find the perfect music for your wedding, unless you are lucky enough to have plenty of songs that are meaningful to both of you.

ut don’t worry, the internet is a great source of inspiration when you’re stuck. It is of course important to note that some churches and religious marriage celebrants may frown upon certain types of modern music, so talk over your choices with them. Civil ceremonies are more flexible, and provide a great opportunity for you to roll out a string quartet, acoustic duo, or just line up the music on your device and have someone you trust coordinate the timing. For traditional weddings, music will be used at the following times: • incidental music before the wedding. This can start as early as 30 minutes before the ceremony. • the processional — entry of the bridal party.

Dance floor favourites

Single Ladies (Put a Ring On It) – Beyoncé Summer of ’69 – Bryan Adams Sweet Child O’ Mine – Guns N’ Roses Crazy Little Thing Called Love – Michael Bublé On the Floor – Jennifer Lopez Valerie – Amy Winehouse Marry You – Bruno Mars Walking On Sunshine – Katrina & The Waves Come on Eileen – Dexy’s Midnight Runners Gimme All Your Lovin – ZZ Top I Wanna Dance With Somebody – Whitney Houston Mr. Brightside – The Killers Wake Me Up Before You Go-Go – Wham! (I’ve Had) The Time of My Life – Bill Medley & Jennifer Warnes I’ll Be There for You – The Rembrandts Mambo No. 5 (A Little Bit Of…) – Lou Bega

• hymns or music during the service. • the signing of the register • the recessional — the bride and groom’s departure. • incidental music for the departure of the guests. When it comes to the reception, your budget and musical tastes will dictate whether you opt for a band, DJ, or a simple playlist. Each have their pros and cons, but remember that a DJ should be able to get a feel for the crowd and mix up the songs to suit the mood; a band will have a set repertoire, so check with them before booking; and a playlist can take a long time to compile, and you risk getting hijacked by overly enthusiastic, thrash metal loving guests!

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There are many things to consider when choosing wedding and engagement rings: colour of the stones, cuts, metals, and price.

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ltimately it comes down to personal taste though. And even after your big day is over, you’ll be wanting to take good care of this ultimate symbol of your union. Insure it against theft, loss, or damage (you can lose a diamond down the sink, or knock it out of its setting at the supermarket). Remove the ring when using harsh chemicals, applying make-up or sunscreen, playing sports, gardening, or doing the dishes.

Keep it clean Many jewellers will clean your ring free of charge. Ultrasonic and steam cleaners are the most popular choices. You can clean your ring at home with a solution of water and mild liquid detergent. Use a softbristled brush, such as a baby toothbrush to loosen dirt, rinse under hot water and dry the ring with a soft, lint-free cloth. For extra shine, soak your diamond in a small bowl of ammonia diluted three times the amount of water then clean and dry as above. (Rings from Dunedin Goldsmiths pictured)

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• What percentage of your budget? This will determine how much of the day the photographer can capture. • What is included in the package? Understand exactly what your photographer is offering and confirm it in writing. • It is important the photographer understands what style you are after: documentary, natural, posed, candid. • If there is one thing you can’t control, the weather is it. Have a backup plan. • Social media posting: Make sure your wishes are made clear or risk digital disaster.

Transform yourself Before planning a transformation for your wedding day: Be realistic: We can’t transform overnight, so consider your time frame and what is realistic for your body type. Think long term: Far out from your wedding date, set your plans in place as last minute exercise will not get speedy results. Resistance: Resistance training can help you lose weight faster than cardio or dieting alone, and also increases your metabolism. Change it up: Mix up your type of exercise, duration, and intensity to maintain interest and positive results. Watch what you eat: Think clean and lean by cutting down on processed foods and increasing your consumption of fruit, vegetables, and lean protein.

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Transport is obviously something you will need to arrange for the big day. Use your imagination and choose a transport option that matches your theme — and your personalities! Depending on the location and style of the wedding, you may also need to offer transportation for your guests — to the ceremony, between the ceremony and

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The bride and groom will decide upon the level of involvement they expect, but the traditional tasks include: Maid of Honour • helps the bride choose a wedding gown. • organises the bridal shower and hen night. • records who sent which wedding gifts. • makes sure the bridesmaids are on time on the day. • helps the bride dress for the wedding. • carries an emergency kit for the bride. • may act as an official witness at the wedding. Bridesmaids • attend the bridal shower and hen night. • participate in the wedding ceremony. • ensure young attendants are amused and well behaved on the day. • help the bride with any small details on the day.

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Best Man • attends suit fittings. • picks up the groom’s and the groomsmen’s suits. • makes sure the groomsmen arrive on time. • helps the groom dress and gets him to the ceremony on time. • keeps the wedding rings safe during the ceremony. • may act as an official witness at the wedding. • prepares a speech, and delivers it at the reception. • makes sure the couple’s transport is organised. Groomsmen • attend the buck’s night • act as ushers by arriving at the ceremony venue. • hand out any order-of-service booklets. • ensure all guests find their way from the ceremony venue to the reception.

BE PREPARED Give yourself plenty of time to write and practice. Memorise the speech, use cue cards when necessary. TAKE IT EASY Make sure everyone can hear you, while speaking clearly and slowly. READ THE ROOM To deliver a speech that is wedding appropriate, the humour and tone need to appeal to everyone. THEN THERE WAS THE TIME... It is okay to lightly tease the person you are toasting, so remember funny stories to make the room smile. PRAISE BE People love to have their efforts recognised, so remember to mention the bride, bridesmaids, and families. TWO DRINK MAXIMUM A bit of liquid courage is tempting, but you will thank yourself later for not slurring. TIMING IS EVERYTHING Five-to-10 minutes is perfect — ask someone to give you a cue to wrap things up.

TRADITIONALLY SPEAKING Father of the bride • Thanks the guests for coming and sharing in the special day. • Thanks everyone who contributed to the cost of the wedding. • Compliments and praises the bride, and welcomes her new husband into the family. • Toasts the bride and groom. Groom • Thanks the father of the bride for his toast. • Thanks the guests for attending and for their gifts. • Thanks both sets of parents. • Compliments his bride. • Thanks his best man. • Thanks and toasts the bridesmaids. Best man • Thanks the groom for his toasts to the bridesmaids. • Comments on the bridal couple, particularly the groom. • Reads any messages from absent friends and relatives. • Ends with a final toast to the bride and groom.

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It is probably the most delicious decision you’ll need to make — choosing what type of cake you’d like on your wedding day.

EQUIPMENT HIRE Dunedin Southern Lights .................... 12 Visual Effects .........................10

A key question used to be how many guests you would need to feed, but now it’s ‘how many can handle dairy?’ That’s why the dessert table option is becoming more popular; a selection of raw, dairyfree dessert options will be popular with the health conscious, and even having a huge bowl of plain fresh fruit salad means

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HONEYMOON ACCOMMODATION Dunedin Fable Hotel ..............................2 Larnach Castle.........................7

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Central Otago Cardrona Hotel ..................... 13 Olivers .....................................14 Winehouse .............................14 North Otago Oamaru Licensing Trust...... 15 Riverstone Kitchen................ 6

everyone can enjoy a treat. If you do choose to let them eat cake, three-tiers will generally serve 50-100 guests, and you’ll likely need five layers for 200 guests or more. A great way to save yourself a cakerelated budget blow-out is to order one small, beautiful, decorated display cake, and enough sheet cake to feed the masses.

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d l r o w the All around

Many countries have their own beloved wedding customs.

merican wedding customs are still popular today, from the bride tossing her bouquet to single female guests, to wearing something old, new, borrowed and blue. Even the most nontraditional bride happily takes part. However, America doesn’t have a monopoly on wedding rituals — many countries have their own beloved customs. Some are sweet (female guests in Sweden kiss the groom when his new wife leaves the room). Some are perplexing (certain Indian brides must first marry a tree for her husband to chop down). And some are downright strange (engaged pairs in Mongolia must kill and butcher a chicken to find a healthy liver before being allowed to wed). But what binds these seemingly disparate customs from near and far is one simple thing: love. If you find them charming, adopt it for your own “I dos” even if its outside your heritage. When it comes to love and weddings there are no borders. • Up for a party? Wedding celebrations in Morocco can be a week-long affair, with preparation rituals, pre-wedding ceremonies, and a days-long feast. • Instead of confetti, in Italy the couple are showered with coloured candy almonds

— five each for health, wealth, happiness, fertility, and longevity. • In Ireland, brides and grooms must keep both feet on the floor at all times when dancing or evil fairies will sweep her away. • Congolese brides and grooms must not smile for the entire wedding day, to show they’re taking the marriage seriously. • In China, the prospective husband shoots his bride with a bow and arrow (hopefully with the arrowheads removed) then breaks the arrows during the ceremony. • Opting for a wishing tree over the traditional guest book, the Dutch are encouraged to hang notes of good wishes on a small potted tree. • No crash dieting for brides on Mauritius: the chubbier the better for the husband, who is thought to be wealthy with such a well-fed wife. • Kenya Maasai brides’ dads spit on them so as to not tempt fate by being too supportive. • A South Korean groom has to tolerate having his feet whipped by family and friends. • Every man who dances with a Cuban bride pins money to her dress to help the couple pay for their wedding and honeymoon.

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