How to Fall in Love Again
One of God's laws of marriage from Genesis 2 is that a man "shall cleave" to his wife. That word cleave means to pursue with all energy. It's an energetic word. From the very beginning, God told us marriages take work.
Our culture, on the other hand, tells us that love just happens. That romance is some kind of magic that occurs between two people. Marriages fail because of these misconceptions about love and romance. In order to have a successful relationship, we have to get rid of these misconceptions.
The first misconception is that marriage should be effortless. People think the emotions will always be there. Every morning they'll wake up deeply in love, because they married their soul mate.