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Claire, Candace and Paige Reed. Photo by Michael Martinez Photography.

10 NATIONAL CHARITY LEAGUE, INC: Making Memories for Mothers and Daughters Memorial mom Candace Reed, along with her daughters Claire and Paige, enjoy serving the community together through National Charity League, Inc. The national non-profit organization promotes community service, leadership development and cultural activities among mothers and daughters.

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EXCLAMATION POINTS! THE INSIDE SCOOP STRAIGHT FROM THE TOP Associate Publisher, LARA BELL May is finally here, and that means gearing up for graduation, the end of school and Mother’s Day. I spent last Mother’s Day with family at 024 Grille for a fantastic brunch. Had I known it would be the last Mother’s Day I would spend with my mom, I think I would have savored every second. So, if your mom is still here, savor the moments! Our cover story this month is about mothers and daughters and how they Bonnie Bell Woodrow and Lara Bell. can give back. I learned about this organization called National Charity League (NCL) many years ago while I was a volunteer with the Junior League of Houston. How fantastic it is for mothers to serve to along side their daughters. There are several chapters here in Memorial, so if you have a daughter in elementary school, you’ll want to learn all about NCL, Inc. for upcoming years! Also in this issue, we have a lot of event coverage including the Age of Aquarius Winter Ball benefiting the Crohn’s & Colitis Foundation of America and Love’s in Fashion benefiting Dec My Room. Finally, please send me your graduation photos to be included in an upcoming issue! Congratulations to our outstanding Class of 2016 graduates.

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National Charity League, Inc: Making Memories for

Mothers and Daughters

have enjoyed volunteering over the years with numerous worthy non-profit organizations in our great community. I also make it a point to include my children in most of my volunteer endeavors. When I heard about an organization called the National Charity League, Inc. (NCL, Inc.) where mothers serve alongside their sixth to 12th grade daughters, I knew I wanted to inform our readers about it. NCL, Inc. is a non-profit national organization of mother and daughter members in chapters across the United States. Before NCL, Inc., National Charity League was established in 1925 by a group of women in Los Angeles. They supported the American Red Cross by making layettes and assembling food baskets for the hungry during the holidays. The women engaged their daughters, and by 1938, the daughters formed their own group. In 1947, all groups united to become the nation’s first mother-daughter charity. National Charity League expanded its program beyond philanthropic work to include educational

and cultural activities and was reorganized and incorporated to become NCL, Inc. in 1958. NCL, Inc. currently has 215 chapters nationwide in 25 states. Texas alone claims 66 chapters, and 30 of those chapters are located in Houston and its surrounding areas. The Memorial and inner loop area is home to the following chapters: Bayou City, Bayou Villages, Bright Star, Heart of Texas, Houston Hearts, Memorial, Post Oak, Texas Sage and West Houston. NCL, Inc. membership opportunities are dependent on chapter openings and its membership selection process, which occurs once each year. The or-

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ganization is committed to the development of mothers and daughters as leaders and is dedicated to improving local communities through hands-on volunteerism. Mothers, referred to as Patronesses, and daughters, or Ticktockers, participate in a six-year core program of community service, leadership development and cultural activities. For the community service pillar, each NCL Inc. chapter promotes social awareness by considering the local community’s needs and selecting appropriate non-profit organizations to serve. Each chapter then supports its philanthropic partners through handson volunteer activities. Some of the areas supported by local chapters include agencies for disadvantaged children, food pantries, performing arts institutions and programs for the disabled, senior citizen programs, children’s hospitals, women’s health initiatives and military veterans organizations. For its leadership development pillar, each chapter offers opportunities for members to engage in experiences by having jobs within the chapter, which build essential skills, such as confidence, consensus building, team building, conflict resolution, event planning, meeting etiquette and parliamentary procedure. The final pillar, cultural experiences, is where the chapter promotes cultural values and traditions that are essential to the orgainzation’s role in

Candace and Paige Reed volunteering at a Houston Food Bank event in February 2011.

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Claire and Candace Reed at Claire’s new member meeting in March 2015.

the community. Each chapter holds an annual Chapter Tea and celebrates the culmination of its graduating class by hosting a Senior Recognition event. Although all chapters operate under the same pillars and goals for their members, each chapter does things a little differently. At its core, all members generally have a financial obligation, which can include annual dues and special event fees. In addition, members are required to work a certain number of hours for their chapter’s approved philanthropy partners each year and to attend a monthly chapter meeting. In most chapters, prospective members should also anticipate holding a job with the chapter each year. The President of the Bayou Villages Chapter Candace Reed offered her vantage point on NCL, Inc. and her experience with her daughters, Paige, who is a senior at Memorial High School, and Claire, a seventh grade student at Memorial Middle School.

absolutely! Memorial: Why did you decide to participate in NCL? Candace Reed: Honestly, it was “mom peer pressure” initially. I knew from friends with older children that Paige would need a philanthropic component for college resumes, and I liked the moms who were joining Bayou Villages that year.

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How did your perception of NCL differ from reality? My first inclination was that NCL was something I was doing for my daughters. It was something that would benefit them. I never thought about what it would mean for me.

What have each of your experiences been? Well, Paige’s experience was phenomenal. Throughout the six-year journey, she was able to serve her Ticktocker class as the communications chair, historian, president, a member of the nominating committee and most recently as the special events chair. What that means in real life terms is that she has a skill set that many people her age might not have. She can write an agenda. She can send a well-written, informative e-mail to a group. She understands parliamentary procedure and the role of a nominating committee, and she is capable of standing in front of a ballroom of 350 people and emceeing an event with poise and confidence. So far, Claire has been communications chair for her class and served on the nominating committee. She takes her job seriously.

Ticktocker classmates Morgan Vicknair, Amy Drews and Paige Reed received the Mission Bell Award at the 2015 Awards Night for working at least 70 hours for the year, of which 50 hours were for one philanthropy partner.

president. I never considered myself a “board” kind of girl, but I love it.

What advice would you give someone considering NCL or looking for philanthropy opportunities to share with their daughters? My greatest advice for someone considering NCL is to learn about the program and decide for yourself and your daughter if you want the “whole package” that NCL offers. NCL is not just about doing philanthropy with your daughter, although that’s a big part of it. Both Patronesses and Ticktockers have a meeting requirement each month and other chapter required events, and many chapters like Bayou Villages require members to have a chapter job.

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If you had to do it over again, would you? Well, I kind of am doing it over again. Paige just finished, and Claire is just starting. I will have 11 years invested in Bayou Villages when we are all done. Do I think it will be worth it in the end? Absolutely. My sweet friend Darla Baerg spoke at one of our Patroness meetings one month about how we can look at things in life like a “to do” list. A person can choose to look at things like something they “have to” do or something they “get to” do. NCL will always be a “get to” for us. For more information on NCL, Inc., visit www.nationalcharityleague.org.

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What have you gotten out of it? The most valuable thing, bar none, is precious hours with my girls volunteering and sharing our gifts with others. I don’t have to tell you how fast life is and how easy it is to disconnect. With NCL philanthropy opportunities and the chapter events, my girls and I get hang out, work together and really know what it means to invest our time where it matters. The other positive for me was the opportunity to serve on the board for the past three years and most recently as

Claire, Candace and Paige Reed. Photo by Michael Martinez Photography.

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Ask Alex: Market Days

rom consumers to boutique owners, many people have asked me what it takes to stock a gift boutique and how to find new and up-and-coming items. Here are a few questions I am often asked, along with a glimpse into my experience at market!

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Where do you and other boutique owners find what you are going to sell in your stores?

I get items from the Dallas Market Center, located in Dallas, Texas. It is a 5 million square-foot wholesale trade center that houses showrooms selling consumer products, including gifts, lighting, home décor, apparel, fashion accessories, shoes, housewares, gourmet, floral, holiday items and more for storeowners. The Total Home & Gift Market in Dallas is held four times each year in January, March, June and September.

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Can anyone go to market?

The marketplace is closed to the public but open to qualified retail buyers and interior designers, manufacturers and industry professionals. Market events throughout the year attract more than 200,000 buyers and sellers from all 50 states and more than 80 countries.

Renee Schochler, Evette Sissel and Alex Belt with Santa at market.

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I always go to market with my two cousins Evette and Renee. Evette and I drive in from Houston, stopping at Buc-ee’s, of course, to stock up on jerky and Big Red. Renee drives in from Rusk, Texas, and we meet up at the hotel.

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What was your first trip to market like?

The first time I went, I was so overwhelmed. I slowly walked into the large auditorium in the Dallas Market Center’s World Trade Center and looked up at 15 floors of vendors staring down at me. And then, there were three more buildings next door with more vendors! Believe it or not, stores buy Christmas goodies and décor in January at market. The world is packing up all of the décor, and at market, we are buying for next year. The market experience enables store owners to find the best items to delight shoppers. Everyone wins! I love going to market, especially with my two crazy cousins who make it so much fun!

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What I Learned From

My Mom

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mom passed away a little over a year ago. She was my best friend, and I knew the first year would be hard, but I didn’t realize what an understatement that would be. I couldn’t have written this six months ago. I started it several times but was too stuck in the emotions to get it right or say what I wanted to express about her and my experience. Now, I believe the best way to write about her legacy is to focus on the valuable lessons she taught me.

Jeff Lane, Julie Lane and Jennifer Elliott in December 2012.

If you are going to do something, make it fun. My mom taught high school keyboarding, and she did not let a little teenage eye rolling get in her way of enjoying the day. She decorated her room for the holidays, brought candy for the kids and came up with games for them to play. They loved her! Do what you can to make your daily tasks joyful.

mother. That reality has been hard to accept. My biggest cheerleader is gone. She thought I was remarkable for having dinner in the Crock Pot on nights when my kids had to be at two or three different places throughout the evening. This made me realize that I need to praise others more often, and not just for the big accomplishments in life.

Know your favorite people’s favorite things and not so favorite things. Growing up, my brother hated nuts. Mom always made half of the cookies without nuts for him. We laughed at her little index cards in front of the platters labeled “Nuts” and “No Nuts.” She would even frost half of a cake with “no nut” icing. Things like that seem small, but it really shows love and consideration.

Listen. My mom could listen to me pitch 15 birthday party ideas like it was riveting material. I miss that. I want to do that for others.

Stay in touch. During the holidays this year, my mom got a few Christmas cards from distant friends who didn’t know she had died. While writing to them in response was difficult, it reminded me of the importance of real communication. My mom always included a letter in her Christmas cards to let people know what was going on in our family. She also mailed birthday cards to tons of friends and relatives each year. Facebook posts are not a replacement for sincere, hand-written correspondence.

Let people know you are proud of them. Probably, no one will ever be as impressed with you as your own

Volunteer. Someone needs to get those 300 hot dogs donated to the school carnival, and it might as well be you. You might think your kids won’t remember, but I remember my mom and her best friend cooking and selling those hot dogs. It matters.

Take care of your friends. I think my mom made Chicken Tetrazzini so many times for various births, surgeries and deaths that she could have made it in her sleep. It wasn’t always convenient timing for her, but she did it. People are grateful.

Holidays are important. Traditions made during various holidays help define your family. It is a huge comfort to bake the same cookies with my kids that Mom baked with my brother and me. She went all out decorating the house for all occasions. On our birthdays, she put huge butcher paper signs across the front porch. I think she was the first person in Fort Worth to have those giant Easter eggs in her yard. One of her dearest friends sent me a card at the beginning of December and said, “Heaven has never been so beautifully decorated for the holidays.” It made me cry, but it also reminded me that although she is no longer here, I have many wonderful memories. My mom also taught me to bake and sew, and while I am certainly grateful for those skills, I am even more grateful for the time we spent together working on them. My hope is to follow in her footsteps and celebrate all that is joyful in life. Happy Mother’s Day!

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China Baroque is Houston’s source for transforming broken China into a treasured piece of jewelry. Founded in the late 90s, China Baroque has grown into a household name. China Baroque recently opened their flagship retail store in the heart of Memorial, just off of Frostwood behind Memorial Hermann Hospital. China Baroque became best known for selling their products at the Houston Livestock Show and Rodeo and the Nutcracker Market but has traveled far and wide, exhibiting at Junior League shows across the south. What makes China Baroque so unique is their ability to take what some might consider trash and turn it into a treasure. “We have done thousands of custom pieces for our clients over the last decade or so,” said owner Christie Gunter. Each custom order is different, because customers’ stories are so different. From weddings to family reunions and even funerals, China Baroque has made jewelry for many events for customers over the years. Even those who do not have “jewelry worthy” dishes can find plenty in the store to choose from. The experts at China Baroque “treasure hunt” for the perfect China to repurpose. Some dishes date back as far as the mid to late 1800s. In addition, China Baroque carries a wide variety of gift items. Sit down with one of the designers in the China Design Room, and create a piece of jewelry to be passed down for generations to come. For more information, visit www. chinabaroque.com or contact 713-9968995.

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Susan Comey, Emily Paulson, Kelly Wolf, Stephanie Nolen and Morgan Scholl chaired Bunker Hill Elementaryâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;s annual auction, Noche de Fiesta: A Night in Old Mexico on March 5th.

Frostwood Elementary auction team members and their husbands Preston and Heather Cody, Michael and Jill Josephson, Justin and Courtenay Nichols, Dennis and Whitney Gormley, J.J. and Ara Hardig, Curt and Neely Besetsny, Katherine and Clayton Gring and Courtney and John Anderson dressed for success! The February 27th event raised funds for various enrichment opportunities including enhanced science and technology curriculum, a cultural arts program and the hiring of specialist teachers focused on Spanish, math and reading intervention.

Susan Fruit Draughon and Chris Lane, along with more than 350 high school senior girls, attended the Houston Alumnae Panhellenic Associationâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;s Recruitment Roundtable on February 27th at St. John the Divine. This annual event educates collegebound girls and their parents on the benefits of sorority membership and explains the recruitment process.

Girl Scout Troop 18453 members Sarah Tesarek, Katherine Ochs, Elise Egger, Ava McCord and Anna Brandt enjoyed selling cookies outside the Memorial Villages Kroger.

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On February 4th, the Sewing Ladies of Memorial Drive Presbyterian Church boxed up over 2,000 donated homemade cookies for troops. Senior Pastor Alf Halvorson, Fran Gantt, Judy Peters and Joy Humphrey prayed over the 60 packages, each of which contained individual cookie packets and notes of gratitude for about 40 soldiers to be mailed and distributed.

Frostwood ElementaryÂ moms coordinated a Scholastic Book Fair for their friends at sister Spring Branch Independent School District school Housman Elementary. At the library were Chairs Kate Harrison, Aubrey Slye, Becky Fenn and Frostwood Principal Ellen Green.

Tess Waggoner and Annie Jones enjoyed skiing in Jackson Hole, Wyoming over spring break!

Memorial Middle School Girls 8th Grade A and B basketball teams won the Spring Branch Independent School District Championship! The teams went undefeated in pre-season, district play and tournaments. The B team was invited to play in the A team tournament and won the Consolation Bracket due to being defeated by their sister A team. Both teamsâ&#x20AC;&#x2122; combined wins were 26 wins and 1 loss. Way to bring home another championship, Eagles! Celebrating were 8th Grade A Team members Caroline Sheahan, Anayo Tanaka, Kaitlyn Blan, Haley McCloskey, Meredith Clark, Sarah Flynn, Bea Jeon, Alyssa Elias and Brooke Moore.

The 8th Grade B Team: Kendra Evans, Nikki Altmann, Caroline Prewett, Katie Wilson, Emme Patterson, Elizabeth Dunn, Cameron Queal, Maddi Sangi, Kimberley Moore, Haley Basham, Michelle Fu, Elise Bounds, Leigh Robinson, Reece Weir, Caroline Harper, Peyton Mitchell, Jackie Davis, Allison Fuller, Lilli White, Grace Valerius and Emily Bishop.

The 11-13 Sky won the Spring Branch-Memorial Sports Association Gold Division Championship in an overtime battle against the Shock in Don Coleman Coliseum on February 27th. Congratulations to champions Fidel Sapien, Baris Ertan, Kane Kinney, Gabby Rosenwasser, Ellie St. Martin, Ava Picone, Meta Sapien, Kinsey Jacobs, Ellington Whitaker, Sydney Shelton, Sophia Cone and Leyla Ertan!

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Campbell Wellness Center’s Personalized Yoga Class for Seniors Yoga for older adults has become increasingly popular due to its benefits to prevent and alleviate many of the health conditions associated with aging. Yoga has been proven to promote good bone health, sharpen the mind, minimize hypertension, strengthen bones, improve balance, boost mood and reduce blood pressure. But, injuries happen. That is why it is important to do it right! Campbell Wellness Center’s (CWC) priority is to first assess the health and fitness condition of each client. The fitness test includes testing cardiovascular fitness, muscular strength, endurance and flexibility. The CWC team also performs basic measurements including height, weight, body mass index (BMI), body composition, blood pressure and girth measurements. This is a great way to track progress and help clients reach their goals. “Having knowledge about the health issues and conditions of each of the participants in the yoga class gives me the ability to modify poses and accommodate each of their specific needs,” said Katie, a yoga instructor at CWC. The size of the yoga classes at CWC is kept small to ensure personalized attention conducive to a more enjoyable and successful experience. CWC promotes a supportive environment that ensures clients’ comfort and happiness. The facility promotes “grass roots” wellness, which is physician supervised with expert nutritional and exercise counseling. CWC uses a customized, “babystep” approach to achieve clients’ goals. For more information, call CWC at 713-540-4550. See ad on page 5.

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Memorial City Gang Hosts Memorial Day Tribute Join the Memorial City Gang (MC Gang) on Memorial Day for a patriotic tribute to the memory of all who have died in service to the United States of America, as well as all deceased veterans. The program will begin at 9 am on Monday, May 30th in the Memorial City Mall Food Court. Refreshments will be served, and everyone is welcome to attend. The MC Gang is a group who enjoys coffee, conversation and camaraderie Monday through Saturday in the Food Court. Members present three programs annually, on Memorial Day, Independence Day and Veterans Day, to celebrate and honor traditions, history and military service in the United States. Continued on page 30. www.absolutelymemorial.com l MAY 2016

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Continued from page 29. The core of the MC Gang formed over 20 years ago. Original members included Ted Giles, Ed Bluestone, Jim Smith, Wilson Lemly, Jack Caskey and Arnold Paul, all veterans of World War II or the Korean Conflict. For the first eight years, the group functioned without an official name. As the group grew, patriots with no military service asked to join and were welcomed. Currently, there are 36 active members, including four World War II veterans. The list of fallen comrades totals 35. The MC Gang has thrived without elected officers, rules, regulations or dues. Harold Ogden serves as the group leader for program and activity planning. Daily conversation covers almost any topic, and members benefit from coffee and small drinks at reduced prices from Food Court establishments at Memorial City Mall. For more information, contact Bernie Butorka at 832-549-4944.

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Situated on a resort-style property along Buffalo Bayou in the heart of the Memorial neighborhood, The Buckingham retirement community offers a luxurious, active atmosphere that inspires residents each and every day. The sprawling 17 acre community includes dozens of unique amenities that encourage residents to pursue their interests and passions, as well as embark on new endeavors. The Buckingham’s philosophy is based on the Masterpiece Living® program, which embraces a wellness-minded attitude and encourages learning by focusing on an individual’s key development areas – physical, mental, social and spiritual. This innovative concept continues to attract area seniors to The Buckingham. A $72 million dollar expansion is currently underway to make room for more residents. The Buckingham acquired six additional acres to accommodate the project and will add 106 independent living apartment homes, 27 assisted living suites, 18 memory care residences and 32 private skilled nursing rooms. “I am pleased that this expansion will allow us to offer more seniors the exceptional services that our residents have come to love,” said Cathy Lightfoot, director of marketing for The Buckingham. “We truly believe that the positive energy at The Buckingham not only inspires personal growth, but also gives residents the tools they need to continue to pursue their dreams.” For more information, visit www. buckinghamhouston.com or call 832426-1372.

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too often, kids get lost even in their own neighborhood. It is easy for a child to begin in a comfort zone, then slowly work his way out by following distractions – a bug around the corner, a cat past a fence or a slide down a hill. Once they realize they are lost, most children panic and begin making bad decisions that do not help their situation. The following S.T.O.P. rules are good to teach depending upon your child’s development. Stop. Unless they are in a dangerous place, such as the middle of a road, children should immediately stop moving once they realize they are lost. Most likely, the direction they face is the opposite direction they want to go, but they won’t know for sure until they think. Tell them to assume you are looking for them right at that moment and not to panic, but running and hiding doesn’t help you do that. Think. This is the hardest one for most kids. Panic usually sets in, causing children to do things that are counterproductive. One example is a child who couldn’t find his mom in our 32,000 squarefoot facility. His response was to lay down behind a mat and hide. Teach your children to try to recall their steps and how they ended up where they are. Do they recognize anything near them or any people?

Do they know who they can trust in that situation? My son and I play hide and seek in our house after dark with the lights off as a way to try and lessen his fear of the dark. Games like this, which force children to think during traditionally scary or strange scenarios, are a great starting point, especially if you take the time to tell the child what you are trying to teach him in that moment. Observe. This step is also based on some prior learning. The classic road trip game I Spy may seem silly, but it teaches children valuable skills about observing details. I turn these into “verbal roadmaps.” Once we play for a bit, I ask my son to tell me everything we have seen in order. I enjoy doing this as we drive into and out of our neighborhood, slowly increasing the distance we play each time and picking new landmarks. My son now knows landmarks and how those landmarks can guide him home, and he even does it in new areas as well. In a new area that a child is not familiar with, the power of observation can save his life. Many parents teach kids to not trust strangers and for valid reasons, but what then does your child do if lost? Teach children “safe people” to trust when they are lost, such as police, fire and medical personnel, a large family together or waiters and waitresses since they are usually easy to spot in a restaurant or mall. If your school or workplace has badges or staff shirts, show them how to recognize those as well. Plan. Children need to take in all that they have remembered and plan out their next step. Emphasize that the child doesn’t need a plan all the way home since this can be overwhelming. Just plan one step at a time. This takes much of the stress off the situation and helps a child feel in control. A plan might be, “Carefully cross the street at the crosswalk, go to the restaurant, and tell a waitress I’m lost.” It seems simple enough for adults, but for children, that plan is usually the last thing they think of. Their normal response is to hide or run, making finding them harder. Finally, does your child know your full name and phone number? It’s hard for a policeman to find “Mommy!”

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Coach Wright and Mrs. Karnoski have both taught at Wesley Academy for more than 15 years. Mrs. Karnoski works with young students to get them ready for the challenges of elementary school, while Coach Wright works with all ages to promote good motor skills and athleticism, plus good sportsmanship.

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Mayor Sylvester Turner proclaimed Friday, May 20th Troop 641 Day. In recognition of this honor, the troop will hold its 65th Anniversary and Homecoming Celebration at 6:30 pm at The Pavilion on Gessner, located at 2500 Gessner Drive. All current and former Scouts, parents and Scout leaders are invited to attend. This unique event will recognize the hundreds of youth and adult volunteers who have participated in the troop over the years, as well as honor the Scouting spirit in the community. Troop 641 is chartered by Chapelwood United Methodist Church with its constant support and use of facilities. Boy Scout Troop 641 was founded in 1951 at Chapelwood United Methodist Church with the goals of developing young boys into capable young men and teaching values and ethics in the wilderness. Today, Troop 641 continues the tradition of Scouting excellence with 140 active Scouts participating in monthly campouts, summer high adventures, Eagle Scout projects, troop service projects and weekly meetings. The cost to attend the May 20th celebration is $10 per person and includes a buffet dinner. Former and current Troop 641 Scouts and volunteer adults can register at Troop641.com.

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ur precious pooch Princess Grace Kelly, also known as Crazy Gracie, has a torn anterior cruciate ligament (ACL), which is one of a pair of ligaments found in the knee joint. Technically, it is called the cranial cruciate in dogs. In other words, a ligament in her left knee was torn. It was torn in the back knee because dogs don’t have front knees. The front joints are called elbows. Thanks to two wonderful veterinarians, Dr. Taffi Tippit and Dr. Wayne Whitney, Gracie is on the mend! Here is how our schnauzer-maltese-poodle Gracie tells it. “I am still wondering how a simple jump off the couch could cause so much pain and trouble. I could lose a few pounds, but I doubt my round hound figure was the total cause for tearing the ACL in my knee. I never howled when it happened, but holding that back leg up was a sure sign something was amiss. It hurt when I put weight on it.

“I had my first X-ray and it was ‘ruff’ news. My ACL was torn. That is an injury that happens to sports people and not a lovely princess who spends her days chasing squirrels and lounging on the couch watching television. At Dr. Tippit’s suggestion, I was scheduled to be examined the next day at Gulf Coast Veterinary Specialists (GCVS). “The next day in the waiting room at GCVS, I did my usual shaking and hugging on Gene until Allison Black, the Client/Patient Service Coordinator, calmed me down. She prepared Jan, Gene and me for the meeting with Dr. Whitney, an orthopedic specialist, who not only was going to surgically put me back together again but was to become my new best friend. He was one of Marvin Zindler’s Angels on Channel 13, and now he is my angel. “He took an X-ray and tested me to see which procedure was needed. Then,

Dr. Taffi Tippit with her dog Mimi.

“After two limping weeks, and it wasn’t getting any better, my boyfriend, Gene Haynes, took me to my veterinarian. Dr. Tippit has taken care of me for seven years and until now is the only veterinarian I have ever known. She loves me, even though I have a tendency to snap when things aren’t going my way. You see, when Gracie isn’t happy, no one is happy!

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Gracie recovering from her torn ACL.

he told me in no uncertain terms, ‘Here’s the deal. The ACL was torn. It won’t grow back. If I wait, it would get worse, and arthritis would develop more quickly.’ He said he would perform arthroscopic surgery, which is a tiny dab of an incision and minimal pain. After eight weeks of healing, I should be back to chasing and humiliating squirrels in the neighborhood again. “The next part of my story I don’t remember too well. A few days after our meeting, Dr. Whitney performed the surgery, and I was sent home with medicine, a bandage on my knee and an awful lampshade around my head, so I couldn’t chew on my leg. “As I write this, it has been 10 days of healing, and I am at Gulf Coast again for my recheck. Dr. Whitney says he can barely see the incision, and I can take this lampshade off and get off the medicine. I have enjoyed the pain medicine but hated the lampshade. “During the last 10 days, the only hurt I felt was when Jan took my bandage off. You could hear me cry all the way to New Orleans. There are no more weeks of wearing the lampshade, bumping into the furniture, listening to laughter from Jan’s cat, Tammy, the odd stares from the dogs in the neighborhood and the squirrels sitting in their trees chattering about me. “That doggone headdress wasn’t my best look, but hey! The last 10 days I got anything I wanted from Jan and Gene. Every day was breakfast in bed, hugs and kisses, treats galore and a few pain pills now and then. I love my two vets. It is all a beautiful thing – and that darn lampshade is gone!”

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Down 1 Cat from India? 2 Cat’s hunting target 3 Simple 4 This breed of dog has a white coat and black or brown markings (2 words) 5 Alert the owner! 6 Bee colony locale 7 Doc 9 South American animal like a llama 13 Eastbound, for short 15 Wedding vow (2 words) 17 News channel 20 Great Britain (abbr.) 21 Established 22 Can be pointed or drooping 24 Aquarium creatures 25 Sing, as a bird 27 Dog breed with short legs, long ears and a black tan and white coat 29 Eagle’s nest 32 Current type 33 Resting place 34 Hawaiian honey-eater 35 ___ of lamb 37 Henry, for short

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unny, warm days bring the welcome opportunity to change up your routine and spend more time outdoors with your beloved pets. However, soaring temperatures bring risks from heat and sun exposure, making your furry friends rely on you to help keep them healthy and safe. Make these warm-weather adjustments to keep your pets in top condition and ready to enjoy all the season has to offer. Keep them hydrated. Dehydration and heatstroke can be fatal to pets, so access to a clean water bowl both inside and outside is critical in the summertime. While you’re on the go, be sure to bring water for your pet in a suitable drinking container. Serve up healthy meals. Warmer weather invites opportunities, such as enticing picnic spreads, for pets to nab tasty treats. Protect your pets’ health by preventing them from ingesting food intended for humans, and opt instead for food and treats that fit their special needs and preferences. Never leave your pet in a parked car. Studies show that on a hot day, the temperature inside a car can reach more than 160 degrees in five minutes. Leaving the windows cracked for fresh air or parking in the shade does not prevent temperatures from soaring either. Leaving pets in the car “just for a minute” is never a good idea. Groom regularly. One of the best ways to keep a dog’s coat healthy and help prevent matting and skin irritation is regular grooming. The right grooming tool can dramatically reduce shedding by removing the undercoat and loose hair without sacrificing the healthy top coat.

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Provide skin protection. Just like humans, dogs can experience sunburn and even skin cancer. To prevent sunburn, apply sunscreen where hair is thin and skin lacks pigment – nose, ears and sensitive areas – every day your dog is outside. Avoid hot surfaces. Dogs’ pads may seem tough, but sidewalks, pavement and sand can get so hot in the summer that dogs’ feet can burn and blister. To prevent this, schedule walks for the morning or evening, when sidewalks are cooler, or purchase protective boots designed just for dogs. Practice smart snacking. After exercising and in between meals, a sensible snack can provide a boost of energy. Treats such as Natural Balance Dental Chews do double duty by giving a little help with oral care between brushing. These tasty treats encourage natural, healthy chewing to help reduce and remove tartar and plaque. Provide outdoor relief. The best spot for your pet to cool off in the yard is a shaded, grassy area. For added comfort, provide a raised bed that increases the flow of cooler air underneath the bed mat to help your pet beat the heat. Keep water safety top of mind. Even if you consider your dog a good swimmer, a life jacket is very important if you take him on the boat or trips to the beach. Source: Family Features

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Who doesn’t love adorable little pups and their sweet little kisses, puppy breath and soft, cuddly fur? That is until the itchy, watery eyes, itchy skin, runny nose and sneezing appear. Pet allergies can range from a mild inconvenience to downright misery. Below, we’ll discuss some common questions regarding pet allergies.

WHAT ARE PET ALLERGIES?

People with pet allergies have supersensitive immune systems that react to certain proteins in the pet’s dander, saliva or urine. These proteins are called allergens. Allergens can collect on fur, walls, clothing and other surfaces. The allergens will not lose their strength for a long time, sometimes for several months.

WHAT ARE SYMPTOMS OF PET ALLERGIES?

WHAT ARE SOME TREATMENT OPTIONS?

If your allergies are severe, the best prevention is to avoid contact with cats or dogs and their dander, and avoid visiting people with pets. If you must come in

HOW DO I KEEP A PET, EVEN THOUGH I HAVE AN ALLERGY?

First, let us talk about the benefits of owning a pet. Studies have found that owning pets can alleviate stress, depression, lower blood pressure and minimize the risk of heart disease. Pets are especially beneficial to children since they teach responsibility, compassion and allow for an emotional connection for children with impaired social interactions. Interestingly, exposing children to pets at a very young age actually reduces the chances of developing allergies later on. So, if you decide a pet would be good for you and your family but are concerned about allergies, then consider fish, snakes, turtles or a “hypoallergenic” dog or cat. Certain dog and cat breeds have little to no dander.

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For more information, contact the Allergy and Immunology Clinic at Texas Children’s Hospital West Campus by calling 832-227-2280. Photo by A. Kramer.

When dog and cat allergens land on the mucous membranes that line the eyes and nose, the membranes begin to swell and itch, causing a stuffy nose and inflamed eyes. A lick or a scratch from a pet can cause the skin area to become red. If allergen levels are low or sensitivity is minor, symptoms may not appear until several hours after contact with the pet.

contact with pets that you are allergic to, many over the counter products, such as Benadryl or Zyrtec, contain antihistamines that can be very helpful in treating pet allergies. Decongestants, such as Sudafed and Claritin-D, can also be very helpful in reducing pet allergy symptoms.

If you decide to keep a pet that causes you to suffer from allergies: • Bar the pet from the bedroom, keeping the door closed and the bedroom clean. You spend from one-third to onehalf of your time there. • Because animal allergens are sticky, you must remove the animal’s favorite furniture, remove wall-to-wall carpet and scrub the walls and woodwork. Keep surfaces throughout the home clean and uncluttered. Bare floors and walls are best. • If you must have carpet, select ones with a low pile, and steam clean them frequently. Better yet, use throw rugs that can be washed in hot water. • Wear a dust mask to vacuum. Vacuum cleaners stir up allergens that have settled on carpet and make allergies worse. Use a vacuum with a high efficiency particulate air (HEPA) filter if possible. • Forced-air heating and air-conditioning can spread allergens through the house. Cover bedroom vents with dense filtering material like cheesecloth. • Adding an air cleaner with a HEPA filter to central heating and air conditioning can help remove pet allergens from the air. The air cleaner should be used at least four hours per day. Another type of air cleaner that has an electrostatic filter will remove particles the size of animal allergens from the air. No air cleaner or filter will remove allergens stuck to surfaces, though. • Washing the pet every week may reduce airborne allergens but is of questionable value in reducing one’s symptoms. • Have someone without a pet allergy brush the pet outside to remove dander, as well as clean the litter box or cage.

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Getting Divorced? Courses That Can Be Ordered by the Court During the Process By Nancy L. Rommelmann, Family Law Attorney If you are considering getting a divorce or are getting divorced, you should know that a court can order you and/or your spouse to take a course for a variety of reasons. Many Family Law courts require parties of a child to take a Parenting Education and Family Stabilization Course, also known as a “parenting” course. Some courts only require the parties to take a “parenting” course if custody of a child is a contested issue.

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These courses are helpful for divorcing parents or parties involved in a suit affecting a parent-child relationship (SAPCR). Frequently, parties experience conflict regarding access, visitation, exchange of a child and custody of a child. These courses help in providing an understanding of a child’s perspective in these situations, avoiding conflict, how to handle conflict and methods of communicating with the other party and the child that are productive and healthy, not destructive and damaging. The course’s content can vary to some extent, so it is important to check with your attorney which course is the best for your situation. If you have a hearing frequently, a judge will order you to attend a specific course. Many of the courts post the parenting course they require on their websites. Some courts require parties to attend courses in person, while others allow parties to participate in online courses. Courses can be from four to eight hours or more depending on what the court requires. The courses provide a “certificate” upon completion of the course that needs to be filed with the court.

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Courts can order Anger Management Courses, Battering Intervention and Prevention programs and a course of treatment with a mental health professional in accordance with section 153.010 of the Texas Family Code. This can be very helpful to redirect parties toward healthier mental health to make a significant difference in their own lives and that of their children. Make sure that whatever course you take is approved by your court. “Nobody can go back and start a new beginning, but anyone can start today and make a new ending.” – Maria Robinson

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The Memorial High School Softball Team volunteered at the SpringSpirit softball clinic. SpringSpirit softball players of all ages enjoyed the clinic, which included pitcher and catcher lessons, throwing and catching fundamentals and correctly running the bases. SpringSpirit provides safe pathways for youth to realize life opportunities through sports, education and mentoring programs.

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Teammates Savannah Olsson, Missy Margraves, Ellen Matthews, Lily Serrata, Kenna Carson, Stephanie Mosley, Emily Scofield, Mikaela Lopez, Klare Kennedy, Izzy Jack, Jenny Drago, Kara Kennedy, Alina Erb, Susan Soh, Rebecca Coker, Cate Wertheimer, Liz Graff, Kaleigh Stallings, Lauren Coerver, Emily Ellis and Tatiana Madsen had a great time volunteering.

Rummel Creek Elementary recently hosted a Boosterthon Fun Run.

Ready to run were third grade boys Michael Pratt, Owen Bennett, Lucas Dominguez, Parker Johnson, Cole Messer, Luke Wright, Rylan Reichenau, Nathan Moss and Andrew Marks.

These lucky boys got a chance to watch the Astros at Spring Training Camp, where Andrew Marks celebrated his 9th birthday.

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Having a blast on the slopes were Amanda Hesse, Leah Kirchgessner, Darla May, Kelly Howell, Marie Glover, Denise Leisten, Alla Barton and Tammy Norman.

The Barbara Bush Houston Literacy Foundation’s Ladies For Literacy Guild held its inaugural meeting at the home of George and Annette Strake.

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CanCare Announces Devon Still as Keynote Speaker for 22nd Annual National Cancer Survivors Day Luncheon

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Anuj Kothari, Finn Duty, Jed Howard, Kayla Tran and Annalise Bash celebrated Finn’s 9th birthday at the Memorial City skating rink!

Wilchester Elementary recently held its annual science fair. The judged contest encourages students to think independently as they investigate and explore scientific experiments.

CanCare’s 22nd Annual National Cancer Survivors Day Luncheon will be held Thursday, May 19th at The Westin Houston, Memorial City. The luncheon keynote speaker will be NFL Houston Texans Defensive End Devon Still, who recently signed with the Texans after taking some time off to care for his now five-year-old daughter, Leah, who recently finished an intense battle with cancer. Still graduated from Penn State University in 2011 with a degree in criminal Devon and Leah Still. law and justice. He received both the Big Ten Defensive Player of the Year and Big Ten Lineman of the Year awards in 2011. In 2012, he was drafted in the second round by the Cincinnati Bengals. On June 2, 2014, Still received the devastating news that Leah was diagnosed with stage IV neuroblastoma, a very rare form of childhood cancer with a 50 percent survival rate. Still put his football career on hold to be by Leah’s side during her fight. The Bengals placed him on the practice squad so he would not lose his medical benefits and not be required to travel with the team, thus allowing him to stay with Leah. Leah fought a long and hard battle, and on March 18, 2015 in an Instagram post, Still announced that Leah was finally cancer free. On July 15, 2015, both Devon and Leah received the Jimmy V Perseverance Award at the ESPYs, and in January 2016, Devon signed a contract to play with the Houston Texans. In recognition of their 25 year commitment to CanCare and bringing Hope to the cancer community, Tommy and Nancy Tucker will be celebrated as the event honorees, following Nancy Tucker’s retirement in February 2016 as CanCare’s long-standing president and CEO. Event co-chairs Yvonne Conklin and Megan Vondra invite the public to consider sponsorship packages starting at $500, as well as individual tickets for purchase. For more information, visit www.cancare.org.

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Hearts& Flowers A Mother’s Day Gift Guide

HAPPY MOTHER’S DAY Celebrate Mom with a beautiful piece of jewelry that says, “You are treasured.” China Baroque, 879 Frostwood Drive in Houston. Call 713-996-8995; www.chinabaroque.com.

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Bradley’s Art & Frame preserves precious memorabilia so you can display that one-of-akind shadowbox. Designing custom framing is their passion. Gift certificates are available. Bradley’s Art & Frame, 1306 Blalock in Houston. Call 713-461-5695; www.bradleysartandframe.com.

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Surprise Mom with one of her favorite scents this Mother’s Day. SS Votives has a variety of scents to choose from. It will be a gift that will touch her heart. D&S Antiques, 801 Second Street in Historic Downtown Rosenberg. Call 281-232-0035.

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100% PURE BODY SCRUB IN HONEY ALMOND Treat Mom to an organic body scrub with all natural ingredients that will leave skin silky soft. Stop by Serene Wax Boutique for Mother’s Day. Serene Wax Boutique, 9630 Westheimer Road in Houston. Call 832-767-4209; www.serenewax.com.

Are you ready to feel like yourself again? Do you feel frustrated with the medical care and diagnoses you have received from traditional doctors? If so, this book will speak to your mind and heart. Dr. Shel Wellness and Medical Spa, 1437 Highway 6, Suite 100 in Sugar Land. Call 281-313-7435; www.drshelmd.com/book.

The Award-Winning Stratford Playhouse Presents A Chorus Line

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Stratford Playhouse presents their spring production of A Chorus Line, a musical centered on 17 Broadway dancers all vying for a spot in the “chorus line” of a Broadway musical. This month’s performances are Friday, May 6th and Saturday, May 7th at 7:30 pm, with a matinee on May 7th at 2:30 pm. Funny, heartbreaking and refreshingly honest, the musical provides a glimpse into the personalities of the performers and the choreographer as they describe events that shaped their decisions to become dancers. Winner of nine Tony Awards including Best Musical, it is one of the longest-running and most successful musicals in Broadway history. Directed by Marcie Baker, the show features music by Marvin Hamlisch and lyrics by Edward Kleban. Baker is excited to bring this award-winning musical to the Memorial community, as well as showcase these talented young actors. Parental guidance is suggested for children under 12. Tickets are $16 in advance and available at www.shsplayhouse.org.

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8U Blue Lady Tornadoes Alex Shaw, Camden Hopper, Shayleigh Thomas and Callie Piercy.

It takes guts, hard work, dedication and energy to play sports!

salutes the kids and parents who hit the fields week after week.

Congratulations to these outstanding Spring Branch-Memorial Sports Association (SBMSA) team players!

Purple Fireballs Catherine Daly and Mary Helen Turner.

SBMSA Girls 6th Grade Movers Paige Hershey, Melissa Galvan, Wendy Ortega, Stephanie Aguilera, Desteny Fernandez, Alexandra Carriaga, Jaci Donnelly, Elissa Galvan, Diana Ortega, Marta Moncayo and Gisselle Corrales.

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ne question people often ask me is, “What makes a great steak?” Aside from friends and guests who have become vegetarians or vegans, there are few people who don’t like steaks. It’s one of those dishes that is embraced nearly universally in our country, and there is a good reason for that. Yes, they have great beef in Europe. I’ve had excellent steaks and roasts in France, Italy and even Great Britain, where beef is still a big part of their diet. But, the geographically challenged Europeans never had the Great

Dry aging is the secret behind the rich and almost nutty flavor of a great steak.

Plains that we have here in the United States. A lot of people don’t realize that the American landscape has a lot to do with the tradition of raising cattle and eating beef in this country. So much wide-open space gave ranchers all of the space they needed to let their cattle graze freely on the native grasses of the Great Plains. Then, the advent of refrigerated train cars made it possible to raise cattle on the plains of Texas, for example, and then get the freshly butchered meat to the finest restaurants of New York without any spoilage or health issues. Today, steak for dinner – especially on a Friday or Saturday night or for a special occasion – is something that almost everyone enjoys in our country. But what makes a great steak? Dry aging is something you can’t do at home, because you don’t have the space, and it’s the true benchmark of a great steak. Dry aging is exactly what it says it is. The beef is aged, uncovered and unwrapped in a temperature-controlled room where it loses its moisture, its flavors are concentrated, and it becomes naturally tender. A lot of restaurants don’t like dry aging, because it causes shrinkage in the meat. They might “wet age” their steaks, which means they age the beef in Cryovac, in other words, air-tight packaging. But, dry aging is the only way to achieve that richness in flavor and the almost “nutty” quality that make the best steaks in America today. All of the beef served in my restaurants is dry aged and some of it – the top selections on my menus – is dry aged for 55 days. That’s what makes the difference between a great steak and a mediocre steak. And when you’re treating yourself, family, friends, co-workers or clients to a steak, you don’t want it to be a so-so steak. You want it to be great. Email Tony@VallonesHouston.com to submit a food-related question to Tony.

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This casual, fine dining neighborhood restaurant is located in the heart of the Memorial/Energy Corridor. Established in 2010, the restaurant is proudly owned by native Houstonian and Texas Aggie Lindsey Jeffery. Recognized by Open Table and Trip Advisor as one of Houston’s “Top Best Italian Restaurants” and “Neighborhood Gem,” Devine Affair offers a variety of dishes including seafood, steaks, pastas, homemade desserts and daily specials. Devine Affair offers exceptional food, wine, service and ambiance in a friendly, comfortable atmosphere at an affordable price.

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From 1962 to 1964, the building was one of several in the city used as temporary facilities for NASA. This building housed the Manned Spacecraft Center. NASA S62-03939. Images courtesy of the Houston Parks and Recreation Department (HPARD).

Green Space and Outer Space: The Farnsworth & Chambers Building

his year, the City of Houston celebrates the 100th anniversary of the formation of the Department of Public Parks, now the Houston Parks and Recreation Department (HPARD). The department now oversees more than 37,000 acres of developed parks and green space from its headquarters in southeast Houston near the Gulf Freeway. The modernist building, whose sprawling plan and earthy materials provide an appropriate setting for the management of Houston’s green spaces, has a storied history of its own. In the early 1950s, Houston was spreading. Rapid growth, including a 55 percent population increase in the previous decade paired with a popular desire to move from the older infrastructure in the city center, resulted in massive sprawl uninhibited by natural boundaries. Residents and businesses moved outward toward new subdivisions and business developments made easily accessible by new freeways. It was in this atmosphere that Farnsworth & Chambers, one of the largest construction firms in Houston at the time, began planning to relocate from Leeland Street near downtown to a suburban location near the Gulf Freeway, which was completed in 1952. The new location had the added benefit of being near Hobby Airport, where the firm kept three company planes. Farnsworth & Chambers commissioned local architecture firm MacKie & Kamrath to design their new headquarters. MacKie & Kamrath were at the forefront of modernist architecture in Houston and were devoted followers of Frank Lloyd Wright’s design principles. The building reflected Wright’s influence in its sprawling horizontal emphasis – appropriate for its vast, undeveloped site – and the visible use of natural materials. Patterning on the exterior walls is similar in appearance to talud-tablero, a construction technique found in pre-Columbian pyramid sites in Mexico. The building included a prominent central courtyard, and the plantings were designed by nationally prominent landscape architect Garret Eckbo. Due in part to the death of Dunbar Chambers in 1956,

Farnsworth & Chambers only occupied their new headquarters for a few years before the company disbanded. L.O. Gragg purchased the building and surrounding land in 1961, giving the building its current name. For the next decade, Gragg leased the building to several industrial firms, as well as one unusual tenant. The National Aeronautics and Space Administration (NASA) chose Houston for its new headquarters in 1961. While permanent facilities were constructed in Clear Lake, NASA leased several buildings around the city to house its developing programs. From 1962 to 1964, the Gragg Building served as a temporary home for NASA’s Manned Spacecraft Center. In the mid-1970s, the Gragg Building finally found a longterm occupant. HPARD moved into the building in 1976, joining all of its operations under one roof for the first time in its history. HPARD undertook an extensive but sensitive rehabilitation project in 2009, updating the building’s systems and adding light while preserving historic features. The building is now designated as a City of Houston Protected Landmark and a Recorded Texas Historic Landmark, and it is listed on the National Register of Historic Places. To see the Farnsworth & Chambers Building, join The Heritage Society for their See Interesting Places (SIP) series on Thursday, May 19th. Guests will tour this iconic Houston building with wine and hors d’oeuvres. For more information, visit www.heritagesociety.org.

The building today retains the distinctive architectural features of the original design.

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