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IS YOUR CHILD’S COACH ABUSIVE?

Beware of these six red flags during sports season. BY PAM MOORE

HOME & GARDEN

Keep the bugs away, avoid DIY mistakes, learn about gardening from a wheelchair and find out what your renovation timeline will be. BY BRPM

THE RISE OF SWITCHTASKING TEENS

Discover if multitasking is really possible for teenagers. BY EMILY DREZ

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MEET OUR TEAM WHAT’S YOUR BEST ADVICE FOR POTTY TRAINING TODDLERS? “Wait until they are ready. Trying to force your toddler to train on your schedule is just going to be disastrous for everyone. Do everything you can to make it a positive experience.” – Jannean D. “Make it interesting for the toddler.” – Murlonda J. “Breathe.” – Lizalis

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“Make faces [to make them laugh] and act it out when words are difficult.” – Paolo C.

Potty training isn’t easy. We all know that each child is different, so what works for one toddler may not work for another. However, having all the tips and tricks in your back pocket will be useful when you’re trying to find out what works best for your little one. Here’s some advice from our readers on navigating potty training.

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“Repetition was always helpful.” – Joyce M. “I went right from diapers to underwear. I would bring them to potty every 30 minutes. My daughter trained in three days, but my son took a little longer.” – Kayla V.

I will talk to my daughters about everything and anything. I think we’re traveling into this strange pattern of editing what we say to our kids, thinking that will help them, and I believe the opposite. – Kristen Bell

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pril is my favorite month of the year! Why, you ask? Many of my life’s important events have occured during the month of April. I got engaged, got married, and had my first child. My BFFs’ birthdays, lots of family birthdays, and Easter (sometimes) occur during this month, too. It’s an exciting month for me and my family. My daughter, the child who made me a mother, turns 13 this month. Wow, that was difficult to type! A teenager and my mini me, how will I handle this? I can tell you that it will not be easy because she is literally a younger version of me. Over the past few months, I have managed to make it a point to take her on outings to shop, get mani/pedis, and just run random errands together. It gives us that time where she can talk to me one and one, and I love the fact that she has to leave her bedroom–her sanctuary–that she retreats to the second she gets home. Spring is full of birthdays, sports, dance recitals, the home stretch to finish the school year, gardening, and of course, spending time outdoors. So much has to be done outside, even more so with the freezes we had this winter. I, personally, have been removing all the plants that didn’t make it and replacing them with new, fresh and colorful ones. Spring is also the time to wrap up any DIY projects my husband started but has yet to finish, because you know, life is always happening. This issue, we have a special section to help you wrap up those projects and get your home and garden ready for family gatherings and summer fun. I know I am ready to start hosting weekend barbecues and crawfish boils, and my pool will be warm enough for the kids to start swimming this month. Hopefully COVID-19 cases will continue to decrease with the vaccinations being pushed out and we can all soon return to a somewhat normal life. I’m looking forward to it. Happy 13th Birthday to my baby girl, and Happy 18th Anniversary to my hubby! Love always,

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community LIFE-CHANGING $2 MILLION GENE THERAPY AT WOMAN’S The youngest known patient to receive a life-saving, cutting-edge gene therapy was treated at Woman’s Hospital when she was just four days old. Lexa Dennis received the one-time Zolgensma therapy to treat spinal muscular atrophy, a devastating, debilitating and often fatal disease caused by a gene mutation that leads to difficulty performing basic life functions, including breathing and swallowing. “SMA is a serious illness that causes death or severe muscle weakness if they survive,” says Charlotte Hollman, MD, pediatric neurologist at Woman’s Hospital. “It’s the most common genetic cause of death in the first year of life.” Lexa’s medical team expects the $2.1 million treatment to prevent her from ever showing symptoms of SMA. ■ womans.org

GRANT PROVIDES EARLY LEARNING TECHNOLOGY

Preparing a child for kindergarten can be overwhelming. A new program from Baton Rouge Early Childhood Education Collaborative aims to help families of underserved preschoolers access what they need to be ready for the classroom. “There is a wealth of both information and programming available for early childhood education and well-being, much of which is available via the Internet,” says Patricia Smith, BRECEC executive director. “Our objective is to teach parents or caregivers how to access that information to help their children stay healthy and start learning at an early age.” The HomeStart Early Childhood Education and Technology Project began in March thanks to a grant from the Blue Cross & Blue Shield Foundation. ■ brecec.org

APRIL 22 MARKS EARTH DAY From its first celebration in 1970, Earth Day has grown into a global day of activism with more than one billion people in 192 countries participating. The 2021 theme, “Restore Our Earth,” provides a number of ways to participate both in large-scale global initiatives and smaller everyday steps toward more environmentally conscious lifestyles. “On Earth Day, and every day, there are many ways for individuals around the world to take action and make our shared home a more sustainable and healthy place to live,” says Terra Pascarosa, U.S. Earth Day national campaign director. “We do not have the luxury of time when it comes to combating climate change–we all need to act and act quickly.” ■ earthday.org 14

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BATON ROUGE BALLET ENDING ONLINE SEASON

In what they hope to be a final online-only performance, Baton Rouge Ballet Theatre will present Coppélia to complete its current season. The classic, comic ballet, which is fun for all ages, will be available for viewing April 12-26 for $30. The collaborative performance shares the story of a toymaker who believes his beloved doll has come to life, and it includes mishaps, pranks and a little romance. LeTiger Walker, artist-in-residence, performs as Franz, the male lead. By filming in the studio, multiple casts, including the Youth Ballet, will enjoy the opportunity to dance and perform, and safely reach more audience members who want to see their dancer’s moment in the spotlight. ■ batonrougeballet.org

IVF GRANTS AVAILABLE FOR COUPLES

Applications for the Gift of Hope IVF Grant are open to Louisiana couples who face medical and financial roadblocks to having a baby. The grant provides one free cycle of in vitro fertilization. Eligible couples earn less than $100,000 per year, have no or limited infertility insurance coverage, and IVF is medically necessary to conceive. The deadline to apply is Friday, April 23. “We started the program as a way to help Louisiana couples undergo IVF who could not otherwise afford it,” says Dr. John Storment, medical director and founder of Fertility Answers. “We feel strongly that all couples should have the hope to build their families, no matter their financial situation or insurance coverage.” ■ fertilityanswers.com

OCHSNER EXPANDING WITH NEW CLINIC More health care options are coming to Ascension Parish as Ochsner Baton Rouge has begun construction of its new health center in Gonzales at the intersection of LA 30 and South Burnside Avenue. The clinic is scheduled to open next summer, offering primary and speciality care. The construction project is estimated to cost $24.2 million for a two-story, 51,600 square-foot building that will complement the existing Ochsner facilities in the parish. “Our new clinic in Gonzales is a crucial part of Ochsner’s commitment to patients in the Greater Baton Rouge area,” says Eric McMillen, CEO, Ochsner Baton Rouge. “Gonzales is a major population center with a growing need for the primary and specialty care we offer.” ■ ochsner.org B R PA R E N T S . C O M | A P R I L 2 0 2 1

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TEEN COURT VOLUNTEERS NEEDED

Many high schools require volunteer hours as part of graduation requirements, and a unique way to fulfill that requirement that also provides some real world experience is to participate in the Baton Rouge Bar Foundation’s Teen Court. This voluntary program helps keep young firsttime misdemeanor offenders out of the traditional legal system and instead receive fair and constructive sentencing from their peers. Teen volunteers serve as prosecuting and defense attorneys, bailiffs and jurors, and hearings are held in a local courthouse with strict confidentiality. Licensed attorneys serve as judges. Interested middle or high school volunteers can contact Donna Buuck. ■ (225) 214-5556

PROJECT PUZZLE RAFFLE TO MARK AUTISM AWARENESS

The Emerge Center is hosting a community-wide raffle campaign, “Project Puzzle: Building Hope Piece by Piece” to mark Autism Awareness Month in April. Proceeds will provide scholarship assistance to families with children in year-round preschool therapy. “Emerge is committed to serving families regardless of their ability to pay,” says Deanna Whittle, The Emerge Center CEO. “Funds raised through Project Puzzle will enable more families to access our life-changing therapies and we are grateful for the support from our community.” Each ticket is $20 and is a chance to win one of five prizes that include a photography session, dinner, gift card, or Topgolf private event. ■ emergela.org

THE WALLS PROJECT LAUNCHES #ONEROUGE What began in 2012 as work to drive progress in Baton Rouge and stimulate Louisiana’s creative economy through creating public art, The Walls Project has evolved to collaborate with like-minded programs and organizations in more ways. During the pandemic, the community reactivation organization focused on closing the digital divide by offering free intergenerational technology training and increasing access to fresh produce by building 15 urban farm sites in food deserts across East Baton Rouge Parish. The nonprofit has launched a crowdsourced fundraiser, #OneRouge, to reignite and expand its mural program, featuring existing community partners and encouraging others to join its efforts to reduce the barriers preventing Baton Rouge communities from rising out of poverty. ■ thewallsproject.org/onerouge

NEW MUSEUM SEEKS COMMUNITY SCIENTISTS

The new Canal Lighthouse Museum and Education Center in New Orleans is studying microplastics and looking for community scientists who want to help shine a light on pollution. The Pontchartrain Conservancy constructed the new museum and center on the same spot as an 1890 lighthouse and incorporated original wood. At the Lakefront Learning Lab, community scientists, which the museum calls Lakefront Algae and MicroPlastic Scientists, are invited to bring water samples for testing and learn new skills from staff. Participants learn about water quality conditions, detect algae, and analyze microplastics found in our waterways. Training videos are available online to learn about the laboratory. ■ scienceforourcoast.org 16

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DAUGHTERS AND SONS AT WORK

Every day of working and learning from home is take your kid to work day, but this year’s official Take Our Daughters and Sons to Work day is April 22. It will mark the 28th anniversary of the international event celebrated by more than 44.5 million students, parents, educators and employers. What began in 1993 to “make girls visible, valued and heard in the workforce” was expanded in 2003 to include boys. With its 2021 theme,

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WE CAN’T WAIT TO MEET YOU! TUESDAY, APRIL 27, 2021 Socially distanced tours offered between 3:30 and 6 p.m. Tour campus with Student Ambassadors. Visit with teachers and administrators. Learn all about what makes the Academy so special. Please note that you must register for a specific tour time. Reserve your time at visitsja.org. Questions? Our Admissions Team is ready to help. admissions@sjabr.org or (225) 388-2243

“Boldly Moving Forward,” the Take Our Daughters and Sons to Work Foundation will provide live and pre-recorded virtual resources to mark the day. Even if COVID restrictions don’t allow in-person visits with mom or dad, students can still learn about careers. ■ daughtersandsonstowork.org

HELP FOR RAISING HEALTHY KIDS

Our Lady of the Lake Children’s Health and Louisiana Public Broadcasting have teamed up to help raise a healthier generation with “One to Grow On.” The new program provides parents across the state information, best practices, and quick tips about healthy eating habits, prenatal care, child safety, and mental health. The provided information is based on scientific research from the American Academy of Pediatrics. “We all have a hand in the future of Louisiana’s children,” says Trey Dunbar, MD, president of Our Lady of the Lake Children’s Health. “Through this partnership with LPB, we hope to connect with more families in providing tips and education on how to raise a healthier generation.” ■ onetogrowon.org

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education EAST IBERVILLE LADY TIGERS WIN TITLE

For the first time in school history, dating back to the opening of its predecessor Sunshine High School in 1956, East Iberville School’s Lady Tigers have won an LHSAA State Championship title in 1A Girls Basketball. The Lady Tigers were led in the championship game by senior MVP, Dedreka Wilson, along with juniors, Ty Mosby and Taylor Gordon, in defeating the Northwood-Lena Gators 50-46 at Southeastern Louisiana University’s University Center. In his post-game interview, Coach Mark Temple shared, “The first half, they won the battle; we’ve got to win the war.” East Iberville School has been open since 1990, with its predecessor opening in 1956.

CONSTRUCTION ON PACE FOR DENHAM SPRINGS ELEMENTARY

Elementary school students and their families in Denham Springs can look forward to a new addition to the Livingston Parish School System, scheduled for completion this fall. Denham Springs Elementary’s new two-story, 80,000-square-foot building is taking shape near the corner of Centerville Street and Range Avenue. “All our schools are landmark institutions for the communities they serve,” says Superintendent Joe Murphy. “We recognize that our facilities are made up of more than brick and mortar; they are filled with rich stories, memories and traditions that lay a historic foundation for the progress and growth we’ve experienced as a parish and individual communities.” The school was damaged by August 2016 flooding.

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SPRING TESTING RESUMES FOR GRADES 3-12

The pandemic turned learning upside down. After schools were shut down in March 2020, Louisiana received a waiver from the U.S. Department of Education that meant the state did not require standardized testing for the school year 2019-2020. This April and May, on-site Louisiana Educational Assessment Program (LEAP) testing for students in grades 3-12, including virtual learners, will resume. Students who don’t participate receive zeroes on the assessment, which impacts school evaluations, and for older students, accounts for a percentage of final grades. Passing scores on the LEAP 2025 exams are also part of high school graduation requirements. The tests cover English language arts, math, science and social studies. 18

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It’s lights, camera, and action for Parkview Baptist School students this month, as they will be taking center stage to perform Disney’s Newsies from April 19-24. Performances will be held in Parkview Baptist School’s high school gym. Based on the 1992 motion picture and inspired by a true story, Newsies features a Tony Award-winning score by Alan Menken and Jack Feldman and a book by Tony Award winner Harvey Fierstein. Newsies follows Jack Kelly, a charismatic newsboy and leader of a band of teenaged “newsies.” When distribution prices are raised, Jack rallies newsies from across the city to strike against the unfair conditions. Tickets for the performances can be purchased through the school. ■ parkviewbaptist.com

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amazing kid While most kids took advantage of additional screen time when quarantining in 2020, Annie Engholm used her extra time at home to craft. She turned her hobby into a lucrative Etsy shop and has given away all her profits. “I wanted to get rid of COVID, and I was feeling like everyone else wanted to do that as well,” says Annie, a 10-yearold fourth grader at Episcopal School of Baton Rouge. “I thought of the store to raise the money to do it.” She launched Annie’s Ever After Etsy shop (etsy.com/shop/AnniesEverAfter Shop) in March 2020, and has since raised more than $500, which she has donated to Baton Rouge General. “My goal is to give a thousand bucks to them,” she says. Annie sells jewelry, keychains and an original creation called click clack clams, “two clams that are painted and decorated by pretty tape and googly eyes and you can click them together.” Her parents, Ginny and Scott Engholm, pay for all of the supplies and shipping out of pocket, so everything customers pay is donated. Every Sunday, Annie rides horses, and her favorite school subject is science. Artistically, she loves to sing, and she looks forward to being able to sing in school again. “Annie has such a big heart,” Ginny says. “She sees something and wants to make it better and is always thinking of ways she can do that and make the world a better place.” DO YOU HAVE ONE AMAZING KID? Email: education@brparents.com B R PA R E N T S . C O M | A P R I L 2 0 2 1

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SEVEN EPISCOPAL SENIORS NAMED PRESIDENTIAL SCHOLARS

Seven seniors at Episcopal School of Baton Rouge have been selected as candidates for the U.S. Presidential Scholars Program: Abhay Basireddy, Elaine Gboloo, Alex Nelson, Marshall Pentes, Connor Porthouse, Charlie Roth, and Robert Xing. The national program recognizes and honors some of the nation’s most distinguished graduating high school seniors, and one male and one female student will represent each state at a summer event with the president. “We are excited by the continued success of our students in receiving recognition to the Presidential Scholars Program,” says Justin Fenske, Episcopal college counseling director. “Very few students in the state are recognized annually and we are thrilled to have so many named this year.”

CAREER TECH PROGRAMS OFFERED IN ASCENSION

High school students across Ascension have been choosing their classes for the 2021-22 school year, and many are selecting from the more than 100 career and technical education courses offered by the school system. In addition to the traditional college prep high school courses, these career tech classes provide students with real-world learning for real-world success. Both college-bound and career-focused students receive specialized training in fields including computer science, medical services, and business management. Career training programs are offered at all four high schools, the APPLe Digital Academy and Career Center in Sorrento and the Pelican Chapter of Associated Builders and Contractors.

HANDS-ON WATER CYCLE LEARNING AT LKA

First graders in Damyionne Brown’s class at Louisiana Key Academy have been learning about Earth’s water cycle. By following Freddie the Fish’s story, they discovered how pollution impacts rivers and other bodies of water on the planet. After hearing Freddie’s story, the students used cotton balls to represent other animals in the river ecosystem and dipped them in polluted water. The experiment allowed them to see and feel how pollution harms wildlife, and brainstorm ways to improve the situation. The academy is a school for students with dyslexia, which means they have difficulty with reading quickly and accurately. Those difficulties don’t dampen the students’ great thirst for knowledge and vocabulary learned in their science work. 20

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FREE ACT TESTS AVAILABLE FOR STUDENTS

Taking the ACT is a right of passage for high school students. Since 2013, Louisiana has provided the test for free for juniors. Investing $2 million in pandemic relief funds this spring, the Louisiana Department of Education is providing free ACT testing for sophomores and seniors as well. Eligible students can receive a voucher for the April 17, June 12 or July 17 test administrations. “This use of pandemic relief funds removes financial barriers and opens doors for our students,” says Dr. Cade Brumley, state superintendent of education. “This additional testing opportunity could be life-changing for some students. An improved ACT score can make college more affordable and expand a student’s post secondary options.” ■ louisianabelieves.com

EBR CREATES PARENT ADVISORY COUNCIL

Earlier this year, East Baton Rouge Parish Public School System named its new superintendent of schools, Dr. Sito Narcisse. As part of his first 100 day plan for EBR Schools, Dr. Narcisse is developing a Parent Advisory Council, which will include one parent or guardian from each school. “We want to hear from as many people as possible about what we can be doing better, what we’re doing well, and where they might need more resources to support their child’s learning in the home,” Dr. Narcisse says. “In order to be a district focused on every student, in every classroom, every day, we need to hear from those closest to the children, and I am excited to learn more from the families we serve.” ■ ebrschools.org

LOCAL STUDENT RECEIVES SCHOLARSHIP Sacred Heart of Jesus eighth grader Alex Stewart has been selected as a winner of the St. Joseph’s Academy 1868 award. The oldest high school in Baton Rouge, the Academy was founded by the Sisters of St. Joseph in 1868. One of only 10 students chosen, Alex will receive $1,868 toward her freshman year tuition. Selections are based on a 250-word essay the students’ write about a special gift they are passionate about and a recommendation letter submitted on their behalf. The award celebrates the exceptional achievements in an area of particular interest to each student, including but not limited to arts; service; community involvement; science, math, engineering and math disciplines; leadership; or extracurricular activities.

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It’s Potty Time HOW TO GET THE JOB DONE BY BROOKE SMITH

“Do you need to potty?” “No.” “Are you sure?” “Uh-huh.” “You don’t want to go try?” “No.” “You don’t want a sticker on your potty chart?” “Nooo. I wanna play!” “Okay. Are you going to tell me when you have to?” “Mhm.” A few minutes later... “Uh-oh! I tee-tee, Mommy.” 22

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A S potty training ever felt or sounded so draining that you consider keeping your child in diapers forever? Persuading a toddler to use the potty is no small task. Some get scared, some get frustrated, and others are just not interested. If you want to minimize the stress and step closer towards success, take these tips into consideration. RUSHING TO THE FLUSH WILL ONLY LEAVE YOU BOTH CRUSHED Do not rush the process or start potty training too early. Just because your first child or your sibling’s child trained quickly, it does not mean your little one will be the same way. Each child develops at his or her own rate. Marcia Cox, LCSW, advises parents to not be discouraged if a child does not show interest until 2 1/2-3 years of age. She shares that male

children are typically older when they are interested. “When to begin potty training depends upon the stage of maturity and the level of awareness that the child exhibits about the process of elimination. If the child is attending a childcare facility that sets aside a certain amount of time for visiting the potty, his/her awareness may be sooner than if in an environment of being the only child,” says Cox. Waiting for signs is also important. Simone O’Connor, LCSW, states, “Parents should wait until their child shows signs of potty training readiness.” Here are signs to look for: -They are interested in learning to use the potty and wanting to be more independent. -They can follow simple instructions and like to copy your behavior. -They can understand and verbalize

“I’ve done potty training both ways, a Pull-Up and straight to underwear. Pull-Ups took almost a year with my daughter. My boys went straight to underwear. Three days later, one boy was 90 percent trained and the other took a couple weeks extra with nighttime accidents. Tip: buy two to three extra fitted sheets and mattress protectors. Layer them on the bed for an easy swap in the middle of the night. I also recommend the book Potty Training in 3 Days.”

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words about using the potty. They might say, “My diaper is dirty,” or “I need to go pee-pee.” For instance, Gabrielle Settoon, a mother of two, says, “I knew my oldest daughter was ready when she started telling me she had a dirty diaper and didn’t want to sit in it.” -They can make the connection between having the urge to pee or poop. -They can pull down their own diapers or Pull-Ups. DEFEAT THE FEAR OF THE SEAT Children often perceive toilets as being monsters who will swallow them whole. Letting them use a potty seat or potty chair helps alleviate this fear, and since your child would have to sit on the actual toilet when she uses a potty seat, she will adapt to the toilet more quickly. Although there is more cleaning involved when your child uses a potty chair, potty chairs are more convenient than potty seats. Children can quickly sit on their potty chair when they need to go, as opposed to having to grab a step stool so they can reach a toilet seat. Potty chairs are portable, and you can place them anywhere, even in the car. You could always line it with coffee filters for a quick cleanup, too. Pick out the potty chair or potty seat together. It will get your child more excited about starting training. The goal is to make the potty as welcoming as possible. TIME TO POTTY Once your child is familiar with her potty chair, demonstrate what happens on the potty. You can use one of her dolls or toys. You can even ask your child to show you how the doll/toy goes to potty to reinforce the lesson. Once she is sitting on the potty chair by herself without being prompted, get her to sit there with her underwear or Pull-Up off for a few minutes. If your child needs to feel more secure, try to sit her backwards. Even if she does not end up going, get her used to the habit of wiping and handwashing. CONSISTENCY LEADS TO INDEPENDENCY Keeping your child’s bathroom routine as consistent as possible will make the training go smoother. Diapers do not

need consistency: when they are dirty, you change them. Here are a few methods to help your child gain more independence:

bed sheets constantly can become more annoying than buying more Pull-Ups. So, take advantage of the convenience while you can.

The Timer Method: This method focuses on the repetition that will help your child learn to associate the sensation of having to pee with sitting on the potty. Give your child fluids and set a timer for every 30 minutes over the course of two or three days. When the timer ticks, take her to the potty.

IMPRESS THEM WITH THEIR OWN SUCCESS Without a doubt, you and your little trainee possess different goals: your goal is to get her out of diapers whereas her goal is to get rewards. A jar of jellybeans or M&Ms goes a long way. Lauren Brickman, a mother of two, shares that it was chocolate that motivated her son to thrive. She says, “We gave our son one M&M after every time he went pee-pee and two M&Ms after every time he went poo-poo, eventually, he realized he would get rewarded if he went.” Meagan Dykes, mother of a three-year-old, states her daughter gets stickers/suckers for using the potty and a new toy for when she is consistent with it. Beware of manipulation though. Your child can pretend to go to get the goods. Only reward when she actually goes. Many children respond better when they see their progression, too. A sticker chart that tracks how well they are doing offers the inspiration they need to push themselves.

The Naked Method: Kids love being naked, so why not let your little one run around the house naked (from the waist down) for a few days? Try it over a long weekend. The principle of this method is that your child will naturally want to hold it in until she is sitting on a potty because nothing is touching her bottom. Three Day Potty Training Method: Instead of asking your child if she needs to go potty, you instruct her to. There is no forcing her to sit on the potty or visit the potty in regular intervals. You are putting her directly in underwear and throwing away all the diapers. Stay-athome-mom of three boys, Lora Jensen, created this method. She advises parents to let the child throw all the diapers away as a way of removing the child’s “way out” or “crutch.” PULL-UPS: CRUTCH OR NOT? Many parents develop mixed feelings about using Pull-Ups. Although Pull-Ups might diminish motivation and might be costly, they could be a good option to use in the beginning. Pull-Ups do not only give your child a “big kid” feel, they also prevent messes, especially at night. Cox explains, “Pull ups can be helpful for all children to not feel embarrassed when they are not consistent with potty training. It is a process and has nothing to do with intelligence. The main focus is on the emotional and social maturity of the child. Some children may need to continue the use of Pull-Ups at nighttime for a while because of bladder issues or because the child is a heavy sleeper.” Even if a child becomes potty trained during waking hours, the nighttime urges are harder to quash. Washing

BE AS EXPRESSIVE AS AN EMOJI Your children value your opinion more than you think. Smile and celebrate when they use the loo. Frown when their underwear fills up with poo. If you are disappointed in them, they work to amend the situation. Express your disappointment, but keep your temper in check. Added pressure will not help them learn any faster. You do not want to scare them into constipation either. If your child is refusing to go on the potty, ask her why. The problem could be quite simple to fix. Give your child an audience she can relate to: stuffed animals, dolls, or the family dog if your encouragement is not enough to entice her to go. Make up silly songs and read books about using the potty. If you have a boy, allow him to aim at something like a Fruit Loop, a Cheerio, or a Goldfish Cracker. If there are more tears than pee-pee, consider putting potty training on hold for a few days or weeks. It should not matter how long it takes because your child will always succeed. ■ B R PA R E N T S . C O M | A P R I L 2 0 2 1

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OCCUPATION: LOUISIANA STATE TROOPER WIFE: HEATHER CHILDREN: JAMES, 5, AND ETHAN, 3 HOBBIES: WORKING OUT, PLAYING OUTSIDE WITH THE BABIES, AND VOLUNTEERING IN THE COMMUNITY

s a Louisiana State Trooper, James Jefferson III has learned a lot about parenting and raising a family in Baton Rouge while on the job. He uses those lessons each day as he makes every moment with his family count. Whether he’s attending one of his son’s basketball or football games or simply spending time together at the house doing yard work or going on family walks around the neighborhood, James makes it a point to keep family time as the most important part of the day. How would you describe raising your children? JAMES: It’s fun. It has taught me patience. It is something to look forward to each day. I would describe it as a motivation for me. It reminds me that I have to do the best I can for my peers and for my family. It’s a blessing to have kids. What are some things you like to do as a family? JAMES: We definitely like to go to the jump house, where you have all the games and stuff for the kids to play. We play some arcade games and my wife and I like to play ice hockey on the ice hockey machine. So, it’s generally something along the lines where the kids can get involved and be active. We also enjoy going to church, spending time together at a family member’s house, and seeing grandmother and grandpa. What’s the greatest thing about being a dad? JAMES: So much. You know, it’s the responsibility of putting them in a better position than you were. Being able to provide, teach, and love them. It’s watching the process of them developing skills and just trying to prepare them for life and leaving a legacy for them, where they can be better off in life. How has parenthood changed you? JAMES: Parenthood has changed me for the better. You’re more cautious about how you live life. You’re very calculated about the things that you do and the way that you go about presenting yourself to your kids. Also, patience, for me, has been a big thing. It has made me grow as a person and understand that my decisions not only affect me, but they affect my whole family, and I have to get it right. You can’t just live life willy nilly; you can’t do things that you

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You have to think about every decision that you make, because it will have a consequence, and you never want it to negatively affect your kids or your family. may have done when you were in college. You have to think about every decision that you make, because it will have a consequence, and you never want it to negatively affect your kids or your family. What has been your biggest challenge in parenting during the pandemic? JAMES: I would say it’s making sure that I am continuing to develop their social and academic skills because they’re so glued to the computer. It seems as if videos and cartoons are always something that’s there and accessible, so one of the biggest things for me has been making sure that they are growing from a social standpoint, and being able to relate and interact with other people and other children. What do you love most about your job? JAMES: With each encounter with the public, I have an opportunity to leave an impression on that person by being a police officer. It’s a challenging time, and so, we have to take each interaction with seriousness and understand that that interaction can be the one interaction that will definitely change their mind or change their perception of law enforcement. So, I absolutely love that aspect of my job. It’s by far one of the most rewarding things. What has your job taught you about parenting? JAMES: It taught me how precious life is and how important family is. Working as a state trooper. I’ve seen a lot of fatalities that include kids, kids my kids’ ages, and to see the hurt that a family has to go through when you have to notify them that a tragedy has taken place, it really makes you understand that life, relationships, and family is so important. It should be the number one thing because it can be taken from you in the drop of a dime. We shouldn’t put them on a back burner. They should be the most important and number one thing outside of God in your life.

How do you make time to relax? JAMES: I don’t know how easy that is. Sometimes it’s just being around the kids or a relaxing day at home on the weekend. Although they are running around and doing what a five year old and a three year old would typically do, I’m still able to just relax and talk to the wife and watch things on TV. What’s your favorite date night with your wife? JAMES: Friday night, that’s me and the wife’s date night. I try to be intentional on ensuring that we don’t have anything scheduled that’s going to inhibit us from going out. This past Friday, we went to a high school basketball game and then to Outback. That’s what a good date night looks like for us. What’s something you hope to instill in your children? JAMES: I guess the top two things are one, have faith in God, and number two, hard work ethic. Which family member has been your greatest role model in life? JAMES: My mom. She lost one of her legs when I was a senior in college, so seeing her continue to work around the house and seeing her commitment to still live life, and just her work ethic is inspiring to me. Any advice for other parents? JAMES: Spend time together because it goes by fast. I was always told that you have to balance life and work, and I see the value of having a balanced work and life schedule. Work will always be there, but you have those precious years with your kids, so just enjoy it. ■

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H E N he was born seven weeks before his due date, prematurity seemed to be the biggest obstacle facing Gideon Schroeder. His parents, Marianne and Greg, were completely surprised when Gideon was diagnosed with Down Syndrome. “We had the option to do (prenatal) testing, and we discussed it, and we said, you know, ‘It is what it is,’” Greg says. Heart tests came out perfect, and the facial characteristics associated with Down Syndrome typically seen on ultrasound didn’t show up. “It was unexpected,” says Marianne, now a stay-at-home mom with a background in education. “It was tough at first. It changes your whole perspective on what you thought was going to happen.” The Schroeders didn’t have much experience with Down Syndrome, although Greg had a cousin who lived with the condition. Gideon spent his first three months in the hospital, unrelated to Down Syndrome or his premature birth. “He had a fluke piece of skin wrapped around his small intestine,” which was found via exploratory surgery when he was a month old, Marianne says. The extra time in the hospital helped Marianne and Greg adjust. “That gave us both time to get educated and find out about Down Syndrome and what all differences we would have as parents,” Marianne says. “I’m going to tell you, we don’t have very many differences, because I’ve raised another one.” Marianne has children from a previous marriage, Gideon’s older brother, Nathan, and honorary older sister, Aimy. Now two and a half, Gideon is thriving. “We were blessed,” Marianne says. “He doesn’t have the major medical conditions that are most characteristic of children with Down syndrome.” Gideon means strength and warrior, a name that suits his outgoing personality. In addition to the Biblical reference, his name also refers to the character from TV show Criminal Minds. His double middle name, Travis Lee, honors family members. A typical, active toddler, Gideon loves to climb. “He has perfected his climbing skills,” Marianne says. “He’ll climb anything you put him on.” He also loves swimming, music and Sesame Street. “His therapists have commented on how he loves to learn,” Greg says. “Even the way he’s picked up going up and down the slide. At first it’s tough for him, but you can see the determination. He does that with everything.” Gideon is tackling the alphabet and counting now. Gideon attends a parents’ day out program at The Way Church in Denham Springs, a school the family chose because of its willingness to learn about Down Syndrome and love Gideon for who he is. He will start a PreK3 program in Livingston Parish in August. “I love to brag on Gideon, but I don’t want to make it sound like it wasn’t expected of him,” Marianne says. “I expect my son to do well in school. He’s going to be something.” Therapy was the biggest change brought on by the COVID-19 pandemic, although teletherapy was manageable when it was necessary. Something the family missed was Gymboree being closed. “That’s where he was getting exercise and socialization,” Marianne says. “That makes me so sad. We’ve kind of built our own playground in the backyard during COVID though.” On World Down Syndrome Day, March 21, Marianne says the family focuses on sharing their story with an emphasis on Gideon’s inherent worth. “He’s worthy of anything and everything that anybody in this world is worthy of,” she says. “He’s Mr. Personality and he loves life. He’s an awesome guy.” ■

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I’ve learned it’s about keeping my hands open and not in my pockets. It’s about sharing what I’ve been given–and sharing it generously. God loves a cheerful giver.

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L OV E a good pair of blue jeans. Comfortable and faded, frayed along the bottom hems from walking too many times without shoes. I also love the fun of pairing my jeans with a graphic t-shirt and baseball cap. Other days, I like to dress them up with a flowy blouse, belt, and earrings. I could probably spend too much time and money in a clothing store or two–ask my husband. I wouldn’t necessarily consider myself a spender, but I’m trying to learn to be a saver. I think that goes for my husband, too, although he likes to purchase things that tend to come from very different stores–think home improvement or electronics. Thankfully, we have good communication and agree on allocating our finances, but it seems to be a constant process, an ever-changing balance to keep the books. Why is that? It would seem to be pretty straightforward–you make a budget, pay the bills and spend what’s leftover. Is that how it works for you? To be transparent, it’s not that easy for us. We have a budget, and we faithfully tithe our 10 percent. We always have what we need. But I wonder if our finances’ fluctuation has a more significant parallel to our hearts’ variation than we might think. Could this be the reason why Jesus taught so much on money, generosity, and provision? Did you know that the Bible has over 2,000 verses on these subjects? Author Randy Alcorn says this in The Treasure Principle, “God sees our faith and finances as inseparable.” This thought makes a lot of sense because I believe it points to the motivation behind the tithe. God doesn’t need our money, but rather, He wants our hearts. He owns it all (Psalm 50:10). He gives us the ability to earn income (Deuteronomy 8:18) and the capability to decide what we do with our resources. It’s a learning opportunity–a chance for us not to worship the things of the world but the Creator of it. In Bible school, I wrote a paper on why I believed Judas Iscariot was a consumerist. I demonstrated how he traded the presence of Jesus for the world’s treasures and ultimately realized their worthlessness. It’s heartbreaking. Yet, if I’m not careful, the same temptations are poised to poison my heart, too. I’ve learned it’s about keeping my hands open and not in my pockets. It’s about sharing what I’ve been given–and sharing it generously. God loves a cheerful giver. (2 Corinthians 9:6-7) If I hold too tightly to the things of this world, my hands become full of stuff, and it’s impossible to take hold of what God has for me. And what does He have? More than I can ask or imagine (Ephesians 3:20). But don’t mistake the meaning. What it truly comes down to is the issue of the heart. I love Psalm 37, verse 4, “Take delight in the Lord, and he will give you your heart’s desires.” The truth is, when we spend time with God and genuinely delight in Him; He is what our heart desires. And that is definitely sweeter than honey or money and far better than a new pair of blue jeans. ■

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ing kids develop confidence, leadership skills, and a sense of belonging. But when the pressure to perform and unhealthy coaching practices do the opposite, kids find themselves in a tough situation where they may need parental guidance. The problem? Most parents don’t know the abuse is happening until the damage has been done.

Jaye (who asked to be identified by her middle name so she could speak candidly) eventually learned the coaches took a fear-based approach, rarely offering positive reinforcement. She recalls her daughter calling for a ride home in the middle of practice. She thought perhaps her daughter had misbehaved. It turned out she was being penalized for failing to master skills. “[The coaches] would say, ‘You’re not taking this seriously. Go call your mom.’” In her absence, the coaches would use Jaye’s daughter as an example, according to another mom, who requested anonymity. Despite having signed a contract that stipulated parents should contact the coaches with any issues, Jaye says, “The coaches would tell the gymnasts, ‘Do not have your parents email me.’” Jaye continues, “Looking back, I feel terrible I didn’t pull her sooner. Jaye’s daughter finally quit in 2017 after two years in the program, but her daughter felt trapped. She loved her teammates and felt guilty about quitting the sport in which she and her parents had invested so much time and money. Knowing her coaches would retaliate against her in practice if her parents talked to them, she was reluctant to speak up. However, Jaye says her daughter appeared depressed during her final year of gymnastics. “I just felt like she lost her happy little spirit,” she says. According to Dr. Porter, it’s not uncommon for athletes to experience a loss of self-esteem and to develop self-doubt that bleeds into all aspects of their lives as a result of an unhealthy coaching relationship. The experience can also rob athletes of their joy for the sport. There are, however, steps parents and kids can take to find sports programs that support kids’ personal and physical growth.

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Dr. Porter recommends asking any potential coach and their supervisor about their coaching style. She advises parents to ask whether the coach utilizes resources from Positive Coaching Alliance, a nonprofit dedicated to creating positive, character-driven youth sports environments. Other questions to ask include: “What is the THE PROBLEM sport culture?,” “How do you support the athletes?” and “What are While research shows that an outsized focus on young athletes’ the consequences of losing?” weight can be damaging, it’s not the only way in which coaches Conversations with current athletes and their parents can also hurt young athletes. According to the European Journal of Sport Science, abusive behavior may be physical, verbal, or include denial be helpful. According to Dr. Porter, the most revealing source of information is often a chat between the child and a current member of attention and support. of the team. “Always watch the coach,” advises Dr. Porter. She recAccording to sports psychology consultant Dr. Kay Porter, it’s ommends attending a competition and observing coach-athlete innot uncommon for kids to stay quiet in these situations. For high teractions. Amy Manson, a trainer with Positive Coaching Alliance, school athletes who dream of making a Division I college team, quitting doesn’t feel like an option. “It’s incredible pressure,” says says parents should ask themselves: “Do the kids and coaches look stressed out? Happy? Is coaching done with a teaching spirit rather Dr. Porter. So, she says, they simply “suck it up.” than a critical or degrading spirit?” Jaye, a mom whose daughter endured emotional abuse by her Another factor to consider, particularly for younger children, is gymnastics coaches, can relate. Her daughter, now 14, had loved the time commitment that is required. Melody Fairchild, director gymnastics since she started the sport as a toddler. But when she of a youth running club, says parents of younger children should was 10, new coaches changed that. 32

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be cautious of any program that practices more than three days a week. Fairchild doesn’t advise kids younger than 11 to focus on a single sport. “Multi-sport athletes are more well-rounded mentally and physically,” she explains. The training schedule should also allow kids to have a family life, says Fairchild. Jaye recalled feeling anxious about emailing her daughter’s coaches about the family’s annual summer vacation, knowing her daughter would be berated for being “behind” upon her return.

RED FLAGS While there’s no clear line between sub-par coaching and abuse, certain signs may point to a deeper problem.

Yelling/name-calling. “Look at the coach’s anger,” advises Dr. Porter. If a coach yells at or calls players names, there may be a deeper issue at play. “A good coach builds up, they do not break down,” cautions Manson.

Crying after losses. Dr. Porter notes that while it’s not unusual for kids to cry after a loss, parents should find out why, particularly if there are multiple athletes crying on a frequent basis. Jaye says there was a period just before her daughter quit gymnastics when she cried herself to sleep every night.

Humiliation. Dr. Porter says parents should be wary of coaches who publicly criticize or single athletes out.

Dismissed concerns. If athletes and/ or their parents are raising concerns to the coach or their supervisor and nothing changes, this should raise a red flag.

Overemphasis on weight. While a leaner frame is an advantage in many sports, excessive pressure to lose weight is unhealthy.

Loss of joy. Every expert we spoke with said an athlete’s loss of love for the sport should ring an alarm bell. Jaye says she wishes she’d been more proactive when she saw her daughter had lost her enthusiasm for gymnastics. Since quitting the team, she’s found a new sport: climbing. With coaches who emphasize fun, “her self-esteem has been rebuilt,” says Jaye. It’s not always easy to spot an unhealthy sports program or a bad coach. When in doubt, says Fairchild, it’s always best to trust your gut. “Instinctually, we know when a situation is not life-enhancing,” she explains. ■ B R PA R E N T S . C O M | A P R I L 2 0 2 1

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Better weather is finally here, and it’s time to get outdoors and finish those gardening and home improvement projects you’ve been putting on the back burner. Before you begin though, we recommend taking a look at the tips we have compiled for you through our Home & Garden section. Discover how to avoid common DIY mistakes, how to tackle those pesky bugs when you’re entertaining, and see just how long projects will take so you can plan ahead.

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3 DIY Mistakes to Avoid HOME EDITION BY BRPM

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when homeowners successfully complete do-it-yourself projects on their homes. In addition to saving homeowners money, DIY projects provide a unique way for men and women to personally connect with their homes. The ability to look at a finished project and say it’s a result of your own handiwork can make a home feel more your own. As fun and fulfilling as DIY projects can be, they also can be nerve-wracking and induce anxiety. When DIY projects falter, fixing them can prove costly, as homeowners typically must call in contractors to correct their mistakes and get a project back on track. That results in additional labor and material costs that might have been avoidable, especially for homeowners who make an effort to avoid some common DIY mistakes.

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FAILURE TO SECURE PERMITS Even though homeowners own their homes, that does not mean that they have carte blanche to do what they want with them unfortunately. Many renovation projects require homeowners to secure permits before projects can commence. Some projects may even require additional permits as the projects advance. If proper permits are not secured, homeowners may be fined and projects may be nixed, regardless of how much time and money homeowners have spent up to that point. Before beginning a home renovation project, homeowners should always contact their local permit office to determine if any permits are required for their particular project. Bankrate.com notes that permits are often required for any project going on at the home that is larger than painting or wallpapering. So, if you find your DIY project is becoming more than a new paint job, make sure you have the approved permits.

OVERESTIMATING YOUR DIY ABILITIES DIY television shows make home renovation projects look easy. By the end of the show, they have the project completed, but reality suggests otherwise. Homeowners with little or no experience renovating a home may want to take classes before they think about starting a project on their own. Even online tutorials tend to make jobs appear easier than they are. Roofing and plumbing projects tend to be best left to the professionals, as these projects can be either dangerous or vulnerable to disaster if not addressed by trained professionals.

INCORRECT MATERIALS Whether it’s to save money or a byproduct of inexperience, DIYers do not always choose the correct materials for a job. Experienced contractors have ample experience working with all sorts of materials and are therefore in a unique position to recommend the best materials for any given job. That resource is not available for DIYers, who must perform ample research before beginning a job so the project involves the most appropriate materials. Incorrect materials can be a sunken cost that derails a project, but even jobs completed using incorrect materials may need to be redone a lot more quickly than those that employed the right materials the first time. Luckily, many home renovation projects can be completed without the help of professional contractors. Before you begin your next project, take the necessary steps to avoid some of the more common mistakes made by DIYers. ■ B R PA R E N T S . C O M | A P R I L 2 0 2 1

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patio provide some fun ways to enjoy the great outdoors from the comforts of home. While friends and family flock to such entertaining opportunities, some unwanted guests may want to crash the festivities. It’s impossible to ensure a completely bug-free outdoor environment, but there are steps homeowners can take to reduce the amount of pests who want to join the party.

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Western Exterminator Supply suggests first identifying which kind of insect infiltrations are most common around your home. House flies, fruit flies, mosquitoes, wasps, and bees tend to be abundant in spring and summer. Ants, termites and other bugs also can be prevalent. These insects, however pesky they may seem, often can be kept away without the use of pesticides and other chemicals. -Lure away pests. Many insects will be happy to snack on a treat and leave you alone. Put out a dish of sugar water or slices of fruit for insects that feed on sweets and nectar, or a slice of sandwich meat for wasps and yellow jackets. Place these items a fair distance from your gathering. -Install fans. A patio ceiling fan can blow away mosquitoes and flies relatively easily. And, you and your guests will likely enjoy a nice breeze on sultry days. -Use mulch wisely. Mulch will add to curb appeal, but having it too close to the house, according to the National Pest Management Association, can present an ideal environment for roaches and ants to nest and find their way into a home. As mulch decomposes, it generates heat and a cozy spot for pests, including mice. Keep mulch 12 inches away from the home’s foundation and entertaining spaces, or use inorganic mulch. -Keep patios clean. Sweep up and clean away any spilled foods and beverages promptly. Even a tiny nugget of food can attract ants and other insects. -Use natural pest deterrents. Citronella oils can drive away some insects, as can garlic and rosemary. Lavender, eucalyptus, marigolds, and other pungent aromas will naturally keep mosquitoes and other flying insects at bay. Some people also have luck with mint-flavored mouthwash misted on patios and furniture. -Address standing water. Mosquitoes and some other insects lay their eggs in standing water. Routinely drain areas where water collects, including gutters and downspouts -Use light colors. According to HouseLogic, studies show that bugs see dark and bright colors more easily than light colors. Choose lighter shades of paint for outdoor areas, and it may make these spaces less attractive to some bugs. -Leave those spider webs. Many people yell “eek” at the sight of spiders and spider webs, but those arachnids and their sticky webs can do a fine job of capturing many unwanted insects. Resist the temptation to tear down webs and shoo spiders away. By addressing insects through these various natural strategies, entertaining your guests and keeping the bugs at bay is a lot more easier and pleasant. ■ B R PA R E N T S . C O M | A P R I L 2 0 2 1

Gardening from a Wheelchair 5 EASY STEPS TO GET GROWING

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Anyone with the will to do so can plant their own garden, and that includes people who are confined to wheelchairs. Gardening from a wheelchair may present some challenges, but such obstacles are no reason for wheelchair-bound gardening enthusiasts to steer clear of this activity. In recognition of the challenges of gardening from a wheelchair, the Christopher & Dana Reeve Foundation offer the following tips. 1. Match the garden to your abilities. The Foundation notes that trying to push beyond your limits can affect how much you enjoy gardening. Address issues that may impair how you can function in the garden, such as accessibility. For example, if the garden is far away from the physical structure of your home, you may feel exhausted by the time you get to the garden, which can affect your productivity and progress. Prior to starting a garden, consider the potential that such issues may arise and then try to build a garden that makes it easy to overcome them. 2. Consider raised beds. They highly recommend raised beds for anyone gardening from a wheelchair. When designing such beds, make sure they’re narrow so they can be conveniently accessed. 3. Consider hanging baskets. Hanging baskets can also be a great option. Hanging baskets can provide aesthetic appeal inside and outside of a home, and such baskets can be accessed with a pulley system that makes it easy for gardeners to prune and water plants. 4. Use specialized tools. The online medical resource Verywell Health notes that manufacturers have recognized there’s a market for adaptive gardening tools. Such tools make it easier for people in wheelchairs to indulge their passion for planting. Adaptive tools like trowels, cultivators and hoes can make it easier for gardeners to perform all the standard gardening tasks. Ergonomic adaptive gardening tools can help gardeners avoid the joint pain that can arise from using more traditional, non-ergonomic tools.

ardening is a wonderful activity that people from all walks of life enjoy. A garden full of fresh fruits and vegetables and/or beautiful blooms can instill a sense of pride in gardeners and turn their backyards into colorful, peaceful respites.

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5. Make it a team effort. Gardening with a loved one can make the hobby even more enjoyable for anyone. Seniors can garden alongside their grandchildren and/or friends who also have mobility issues, ensuring no one gets too tired or falls behind. Gardening is a hobby in which anyone can partake. Having a gardening buddy or making minor adjustments to how the gardening is done allows for everyone to enjoy gardening, regardless of ability. ■

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Want to Renovate? THERE’S A TIMELINE FOR THAT

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ome renovation projects are significant undertakings. Working with skilled and experienced contractors can ensure projects go smoothly and are completed promptly. Timing is a big consideration for homeowners as they begin renovating their homes, and the home improvement experts at HomeAdvisor note that the following are some general timelines for popular renovation projects.

Home addition: Short of a full-scale demolition and rebuild, home additions are the most time-consuming projects. HomeAdvisor notes that its survey of customers who recently completed home addition projects reported that the average time from start to finish was between three and four months. Certain variables, including the scale of the project and the local permits process, can extend the time they take to complete. Kitchen remodel: Scale is a big factor to consider when estimating the time it takes to complete projects, and kitchen remodels are no exception. Some HomeAdvisor users reported projects taking as long as four months, though the average time report44

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ed was roughly six weeks. Projects that require major overhauls like rearranging the plumbing and moving walls will take longer than more cosmetic projects.

ly two weeks from start to finish. That estimate is the same regardless of which materials homeowners are replacing and installing.

Bathroom remodel: Homeowners surveyed by HomeAdvisor reported that bathroom remodels took about 4.5 weeks from start to finish. Small-scale remodels that focus on painting and replacing tiles can be completed in less than two weeks. However, bathroom remodels that involve replacing plumbing fixtures and removing walls take much longer than that.

Replacement windows: Homeowners who want to replace all the windows in their home can expect such a project to take roughly three weeks. HomeAdvisor notes that such a timeline need not concern homeowners worried that they will be forced to brave the elements during the length of the project. Much of a contractor’s time during a window replacement project will be spent on upfront measuring and then ensuring a tight fit once the windows have been installed. ■

Siding installation: HomeAdvisor users report that new siding projects take rough-

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IS MULTITASKING REALLY POSSIBLE? BY EMILY DREZ PHOTO BY KLEINPETER PHOTOGRAPHY 2020-21 COVER KID ANYA S.

he onset of the COVID-19 pandemic has set into motion a long train of dif-

ficulties as we have been adjusting to life in isolation. The lockdown notice in March 2020 came with little warning as it forced students and workers alike to buckle down

in their home offices and download Zoom on their desktops to face the web camera of a new lifestyle.

W H I L E many of our young learners were excited to attend class in the comfort of their own bedrooms amidst piles of fuzzy blankets, this rose-tinted world faded into reports of declining mental health among youth. It became increasingly easier to fall into a funk as many only switched from one room to another in between Zoom classes. On top of this, many found themselves grappling with a shorter attention span as computer screens became standard for their days. It felt easiest to multitask as a means of coping with new levels of stress, but what does this mean for our youth? Mental health and the concept of “switchtasking” has developed a new meaning in the age of a global crisis, and it hits much closer to home.

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between social media platforms and everyday work becomes blurred. March 2021 marked a year since the reduction or complete shutdown of social interaction such as travelling, gatherings, and extracurricular activities. With this came an influx of technology usage as people navigate their day-to-day lives at home. Brittany Hebert, a local Licensed Professional Counselor, notes the lack of social contact in this pandemic has significantly exacerbated the mental health of children and adults alike. “I’m seeing levels [of depression and anxiety] become more clinical for those whose levels were previously not clinical,” she says. Hebert recounts some children who have not seen their friends in person since March and were ecstatic to be in a classroom for the first time in almost a year, along with honor-roll students whose grades have been reduced to “D”s and “F”s now that their classroom is in their bedroom or at the kitchen table.

This failure is not to blame on the student, whose anxiety and depression levels can be ramped up due to several factors, one being the hyperawareness of how classmates perceive his or her surroundings on Zoom. Along with this, some kids are facing separation anxiety as they may be doing classes at home while their parents are away at work. On the contrary, a child’s poor relationship with his or her family may not yield the best home life, which creates an even tenser environment as he or she spends more time at home. The mental health of a developing human is still susceptible to his or her world’s ever-changing demands regardless of what is happening at home, especially if home is his or her world for the time being. Regularly taking your children on safe outdoor excursions and encouraging them to limit their screen time when possible can help alleviate some of this stress. Even so, the

question still lies in how to promote being one-track minded in an age of keeping open multiple tabs at a time.

WHAT IS SWITCHTASKING? Research has proven multitasking is harmful, yet online learning makes it so enticing to play Tetris while in your Zoom class or scroll through Instagram while completing an assignment. The global shutdown created a significant increase in all online interactions, which is particularly arduous on the minds of kids who are still working to control their attention span and impulse control. “Your focus doesn’t develop until your early twenties,” says Hebert. Now more than ever, it is easy for kids to struggle with concentration, and this is often the case for those using social media to cope with their intense emotions and the confusing world around them. They may claim they can handle “switchtasking” through their life online, but the truth is, the human brain is not equipped to give undivided attention to multiple things at once. “You can’t truly multitask,” Hebert says. “For three tasks, your focus can be 33, 33, and 33 [percent] or 60, 30, 10, but something still is not getting your full focus. You can’t have more than 100 percent.” Multitasking will only raise any degree of stress and hinder your productivity. With all this extra time on our hands, there are plenty opportunities to teach your children the value of accomplishing things one by one and free of distractions.

WHAT CAN WE DO? There have been innumerable growing pains as we get accustomed to this new decade, and it can take a toll on our young ones if we are not careful. So, among the list of expectations the pandemic has put down should be the expectation that children and teenagers will struggle not only with deeper emotions these days but also with the temptation to juggle an overabundance of screen-ridden tasks and distractions. How do we combat this? You can start by setting up a screen time on your child’s devices to limit his or her media usage and making sure he or she keeps one window open at a time as he or she is working. Another important thing to consider is taking a break; it is crucial to have some off periods, so set a timer for a break throughout work periods. It is also helpful to maintain a routine even when the days are monotonous. And finally, remember to take it easy. Check in with your friends and family. These times are trying for everyone, but certainly not impossible to overcome. ■ B R PA R E N T S . C O M | A P R I L 2 0 2 1

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K, so I have told my daughter for as long as I can remember that when she turned 13, I was installing a countdown clock in her room that counted down till her 18th birthday, and that she had to be out of the house when that happened. No, I really don’t mean that, but I do mean that I want and will have my children out of the house and being productive members of society and not living with me forever. And yes, I understand there are exceptions and this may change, but as of now, this is the plan of action. The thing is, I have been saying this forever. What I have now come to realize is that as much as I always meant for that to be a countdown clock for her, I never once thought of it as my countdown clock. You see, it always seemed so far ahead in the future that it was nothing to worry about. You know, like when people talk to you about retirement when you’re 20? It’s like, for real? That is so far away; I have plenty of time. Well the funny thing is, time, just like Christmas, sneaks up on you, and just like Christmas, it’s the same amount of time. It’s the same day. You know when Christmas is every year; they never change the date. It never moves, but somehow you look up and it’s December 20th! Well, this month is my December 20th, as my daughter is turning 13 and I’m supposed to hang up the clock and get her moving, but for the first time, I am now looking at this as it’s not her clock to be out or ready to be out. It’s my clock staring at me, saying, “Hey, big guy, you have less than five years to make this young girl ready for the real world.” That freaks me out. I mean, I have not even started, and you all know the world we live in today. Even if I can get one major life lesson in with her every month, that’s only 60. I don’t even know where to start, as so many of these things, she is not ready for. She is my “little girl.” I’m not ready to break the news to her on some of these things, but then again, I’m here to be her dad, not her friend. So, get ready, Kylee, because here we go. We have tires to change, accounts to balance, lessons on saving money, rules of 72, how to treat friends, and that girls can be mean and that’s ok (they won’t always be.) Don’t even get me started on how she should be treated by boys, what a real date looks like, and how she can protect herself, and the fact that, “It’s ok because he loves me,” is not an excuse for anything in the world if it hurts you both physically and or emotionally. Wow, this is going to be a lot. Let me know what’s missing, my veterans, as this is my first rodeo. As they say in my favorite movie, Top Gun, “The clock is ticking, and as of now, we are keeping score.” Text me at (225) 292-0032 because I can use the help. Pray for me. ■

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She is my “little girl.” I’m not ready to break the news to her on some of these things, but then again, I’m here to be her dad, not her friend.

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Eureka Springs, Arkansas BY LINDSAY MILLER PHOTO BY ARKANSAS TOURISM

F T E R word had spread about the “healing” waters in the local springs, Eureka Springs, Arkansas was founded on July 4, 1879. Thousands soon flocked to the town in order to build shanties for the expected guests, and now, there are many places to visit in and around Eureka Springs. See Victorian homes and tour the entire downtown area, which all has a spot on the National Register of Historic Places. With one-of-a-kind shops, galleries, museums, and restaurants, this small town is sure to accommodate anyone who decides to visit. WHERE TO STAY The Heartstone Inn Bed & Breakfast is a homey B&B located on the Historic Loop of Eureka Springs. With just a short walk to downtown, there are many activities and restaurants to visit nearby. Their attention to detail, amenities and personal concierge service sets the Heartstone Inn apart. With 11 modern and traditional rooms to choose from, there is sure to be something you will love. To top everything off, there are expansive decks, porches and a gazebo, so that you can take in the Ozark Mountains that surround you. WHERE TO EAT The Filling Station Restaurant This small, local diner is a great place to stop and get some lunch or brunch with your crew. What sets The Filling Station apart from other brunch spots in the area is that it is a casual, inexpensive, but quality diner. Serving both breakfast and lunch, the restaurant has some great choices alongside their breakfast buffet. Local Flavor Cafe The Local Flavor Cafe is a 10-minute walk from the Heartstone Inn B&B. Dishes are derived from Southwest, Italian, French and American influence, but they make sure it is known that their first priority is the freshness of each dish. The restaurant is a great stop for lunch, dinner and Sunday brunch, and they cater to all tastes. Eureka Springs & North Arkansas Railway Lunch or Dinner Train If you’re looking for an experience in Eureka Springs, the Eu50

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Coordinates: 36.4012° N, 93.7380° W Distance from Baton Rouge: 540 miles Flying Time: 3 hours, 30 minutes Driving Time: 9 hours, 32 minutes

reka Springs & North Arkansas Lunch/Dinner Train is a must. Each train ride offers a full-course meal as well as a two-hour train ride. The train operates from June through October. Each dinner train starts at 5 p.m. and each lunch train starts at noon. There are also excursion train rides which last for an hour. Children must be five years old for the dinner excursion. WHAT TO DO At Onyx Cave Park, there are 30-minute self-guided tours through the Onyx Cave. Discovered in 1891 and toured ever since 1893, the cave has a rich history being the oldest toured cave in Arkansas. Other activities the park provides include panning for semi-precious gems for younger guests and axe throwing. Only a few steps away from the Heartstone Inn B&B, the Ozark Mountain Ziplines are a must for adrenaline junkies. You will zip down 10 ziplines, cross one swinging bridge while standing on suspended platforms, all while being 250 feet above the ground. Reservations for this activity are recommended, but walk-ins are always welcome. Founded in 1992, Turpentine Creek Wildlife Refuge, a big cat rescue, is one of the largest in the United States and has grown to one of the top 10 attractions in Arkansas and the most popular in Eureka Springs. There are countless, large enclosures meeting the needs of each species, including lions, cougars, leopards, tigers, and bears. About a 30-minute drive from the center of Eureka Springs lies Hobbs State Park, the largest state park in Arkansas. This beautiful park holds over 50 miles of trails, including mountain biking and horseback riding trails. The park is also connected to Beaver Lake which provides scenic views and is a great place to launch kayaks. ■

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P R I L is a great month to start planting outdoors, especially since Earth Day is later in the month. It’s also the perfect time to enjoy the warm, spring weather before the scorching heat of summer arrives and teach your crew it is okay to get a little dirt on their hands. Earth Day is April 22, so here are some great products to get you and your family going. brparents.com/listing/things-we-love

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OUTEE TODDLER LIGHT UP RAIN BOOTS These rain boots are lightweight, waterproof, and made of eco-friendly material, and they also light up.

SOPHIE CONRAN POTTING SCOOP Make gardening more comfortable and efficient with this hand scoop from Williams Sonoma. This unique scoop is designed with an ergonomic handle and a durable, stainless steel scoop that is perfect for helping eliminate the mess that usually comes with potting plants.

PAINT & PLANT FLOWER GROWING KIT Plant marigolds, cosmos, and zinnia flowers with this kit. Follow the instructions for planting and get creative, too! 52

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SORBUS TRICYCLE PLANT STAND This tricycle plant stand is perfect for any plant-lover’s garden to display three plants on a Parisian-style tricycle.

GREEN TOYS WATERING CAN This watering can is made from recycled plastic milk jugs and is perfect for the littlest of gardeners.

GARDENING FOR KIDS Gardening for Kids will educate your beginner gardener about gardening and the environment. It also includes STEAM projects.

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things to do GO. SEE. PLAY. LEARN. EXPLORE.

FREE: BATON

ROUGE ARTS MARKET SATURDAY, APRIL 3 Visit Downtown Baton Rouge from 8 a.m.-noon. on Saturday, April 3 for this free event featuring local artists and makers. Held in conjunction with the Red Stick Farmers Market. artsbr.org

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Look for the Earth symbol to discover fun ways that you and your f amily can celebrate Earth Day this month.

THURSDAY

APRIL FOOLS' DAY ACT PRACTICE TEST GRAB AND GEAUX. Greenwell Springs Regional Library. Pick up a practice ACT test to take at home. Answers will be included, but you may bring your answer sheet back to the library for them to grade. Results will include an overall score, score by subject, and a breakdown of where your strengths lie. (225) 274-4470 ACTIVE FOR AUTISM VIRTUAL FUN WALK 2021. Virtual event through April 30. Participate at your own pace, on your own time, on any date that you choose during the month of April. Cost is $25. runsignup.com CRAWFISH BOIL FUNDRAISER. SU Lab School from 11 a.m.-3 p.m. This fundraising event is to support the ESports programs at Southern University and Southern University Laboratory School. $21 a bag. facebook.com EASTER BUNNY PHOTOS. Mall of Louisiana through April 3. Capture an eggs-citing moment of your little ones with the Easter Bunny. Reservations required. malloflouisiana.com GRAB AND GEAUX CRAFTS. East Baton Rouge Parish Libraries through April 30. Monthly themed crafts are Grab and Geaux, so that you can do them in the safety of your home. While supplies last. ebrpl.com JOLIE PEARL YOGA CLUB. North Boulevard Town Square Lawn from 6:30-7:30 p.m., weather permitting. Social distanced spots will be marked. Sign up online

to guarantee your spot. mindbodyonline.com MONEY SMART KIDS. Virtual on Livingston Parish Library’s Facebook or YouTube channel. For children ages five to eight, this event is hosted by the Federal Deposit Insurance Corporation as a way to start introducing money saving tips. Pick up a workbook, along with a free piggy bank, while supplies last. mylpl.info THE 2021 CRESCENT CITY CLASSIC 10K. Virtual race through April 5. If you raise $100, you receive a Girls on the Run Charity Runner tank/shirt, swag bag, and a Crescent City Classic Charity Runner Long Sleeve Race Shirt. Local routes and celebration items will be provided to the South Louisiana charity team. ccc10k.com TRAIL TIME FOR TODDLERS. Bluebonnet Swamp Nature Center Trail at 9:30 a.m. Toddlers and their parents make new friends and explore nature. Ages two through five. brec.org WANDERING SPIRIT: AFRICAN WAX PRINTS. West Baton Rouge Museum until May 2. A key aspect to African society, these fabrics represent the stories, dreams, and personalities of those who wear them, and they contribute to the history of African clothing, serving as a means of communicating, sending secret messages, and telling proverbs. westbatonrouge.net

FRIDAY

GOOD FRIDAY INTERNATIONAL KIDS’ YOGA DAY

THE 2021 CRESCENT CITY CLASSIC 10K. See April 1.

BREASTFEEDING SUPPORT GROUP. Woman’s Hospital Zoom meeting from 9:30-11 a.m. Learn from a certified lactation nurse and other moms about their own successes and challenges with breastfeeding. womans.org EASTER BUNNY PHOTOS. Mall of Louisiana through April 3. Capture an eggs-citing moment of your little ones with the Easter Bunny. Reservations required. malloflouisiana.com THE 2021 CRESCENT CITY CLASSIC 10K. Virtual race through April 5. If you raise $100, you receive a Girls on the Run Charity Runner tank/shirt, swag bag, and a Crescent City Classic Charity Runner Long Sleeve Race Shirt. Local routes and celebration items will be provided to the South Louisiana charity team. ccc10k.com TRIVIA NIGHT LIVE! ON ZOOM: DISNEY TRIVIA. Virtual with Livingston Parish Library at 7 p.m. Play with family and friends or just play solo. Ages 12+. Participants must register in advance on the Library’s website. mylpl.info

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INTERNATIONAL PILLOW FIGHT DAY 11TH ANNUAL EASTER GIVEAWAY. Scotlandville Plaza at noon. Partnership with Scotland Saturdays featuring an Easter egg hunt, free Easter baskets, snacks, pop up shop, and activities. Outdoor event. facebook.com BATON ROUGE ARTS MARKET. Downtown Baton Rouge from 8 a.m.-noon. Features local artists and makers. Held in conjunction with the Red Stick Farmers Market. artsbr.org EASTER BUNNY PHOTOS. Mall of Louisiana through today. Capture an eggs-citing moment of your little ones with the Easter Bunny. Reservations required. malloflouisiana.com EASTER EGG SCAVENGER HUNT. St. James Episcopal Church from 10 a.m.noon. Follow the clues to find Egg Stations located throughout downtown where an at-

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tendant will reward you with a prize and your next clue. hschroeck@ stjamesbr.org KIDS EARTH DAY INSPIRED ART CLASS. Arts Council of Livingston Parish at 10 a.m. Join Shelly Frederick for a project that focuses on shapes, composition, complementary colors, and endangered animals. Supplies included. Registration required. Ages six and up. artslivingston.org HAZARDOUS MATERIAL DROP-OFF DAY. Lamar-Dixon Expo Center from 9 a.m.-1 p.m. for Ascension Parish residents only. Must have valid ID. lamardix onexpocenter.com RAINBOW RUBBER BAND BRACELETS. EBR Main Library from 9 a.m.-6 p.m. Teens will create rubber band bracelets. ebrpl.com SATURDAY SHENANIGANS. East Baton Rouge Parish Libraries. Grab and Geaux crafts include everything from Easter wreaths to glitter slime. ebrpl.com

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EASTER EGG SCAVENGER HUNT. See April 3.

THE 2021 CRESCENT CITY CLASSIC 10K. Virtual race through April 5. If you raise $100, you receive a Girls on the Run Charity Runner tank/shirt, swag bag, and a Crescent City Classic Charity Runner Long Sleeve Race Shirt. Local routes and celebration items will be provided to the South Louisiana charity team. ccc10k.com THE FLOWER FEST. Pointe-Marie through April 4. Two-day outdoor celebration, floral competition, festival and gala, benefitting St. Jude’s Children Hospital. theflowerfest. com

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EASTER SUNDAY THE 2021 CRESCENT CITY CLASSIC 10K. Virtual race through April 5. If you raise $100, you receive a Girls on the Run Charity Runner tank/shirt, swag bag, and a Crescent City Classic Charity Runner Long Sleeve Race Shirt. Local routes and celebration items will be provided to the South 56

Louisiana charity team. ccc10k.com THE FLOWER FEST. Pointe-Marie through today. Outdoor celebration, floral competition, festival and gala, benefitting St. Jude’s Children Hospital. theflowerfest.com

MONDAY BEDTIME STORIES. Livingston Parish Library’s Facebook or YouTube channel at 6 p.m. Virtual bedtime story series for ages 0-11. mylpl.info HEARTS & HOOVES THERAPEUTIC RIDING PROGRAM. BREC Farr Park at 4:30 p.m. or 6 p.m. Riders ages six and older with physical, mental, and social disabilities participate in a six-week session of riding lessons tailored to their needs. brec.org ICE CREAM KEYCHAIN PACKET PICKUP. Ascension Parish Libraries. Tweens can create an ice cream themed keychain with pony beads and nylon cord. All materials and instructions provided. Ages 6-11. myapl.org

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READ TO ME MONDAY. Virtual event on Livingston Parish Library’s Facebook or YouTube channel from 10-11 a.m. for children ages 0-11. mylpl.info REFLECTIONS IN THE GARDEN: THE GARDENING LEGACY OF WALTER AND BESSIE BELINGRATH. Virtual with LSU AgCenter Botanic Gardens at noon. Members can join Todd Lasseigne, Executive Director of Bellingrath Gardens and Home, as he talks about furthering the wonderful legacy left by Walter & Bessie Bellingrath. facebook.com THE 2021 CRESCENT CITY CLASSIC 10K. Virtual race through today. If you raise $100, you receive a Girls on the Run Charity Runner tank/shirt, swag bag, and a Crescent City Classic Charity Runner Long Sleeve Race Shirt. Local routes and celebration items will be provided to the South Louisiana charity team. ccc10k.com

TUESDAY FAMILY STORYTIME. East Baton Rouge Parish Library virtual event on Facebook. Read stories, sing songs, dance, and have fun. facebook.com/ebrplkids GIRL SCOUTS LOUISIANA EAST: TOY BUSINESS PARTY. Zoom meeting with Girl Scouts Louisiana East at 6 p.m. Girls will engage in entrepreneurial activities. Parents will also participate and chat with GSLE staff to discuss how Girl Scouts can build courage, confidence and char-

acter in their daughters. eventbrite.com HOPE CHEST BREAST CANCER SUPPORT GROUP. Ochsner Medical Complex: High Grove at 5:30 p.m. This group features topics that would be of interest to breast cancer survivors and their loved ones. ochsner.org YOUTH VIRTUAL CRAFTS. Livingston Parish Library’s Facebook or YouTube Channel at 10 a.m. Ages 0-11. mylpl.info

WEDNESDAY

NO HOUSEWORK DAY BASIS BATON ROUGE PRIMARY MID CITY: VIRTUAL Q&A. Virtual event via Microsoft Teams at 6 p.m. Meet school leaders, ask questions, and learn more about the BASIS Charter School Curriculum. eventbrite.com BUILDING RESILIENCE THROUGH SELF AWARENESS: ATC MODEL. Webinar with Families Helping Families of Greater Baton Rouge at 11 a.m. Learn what resilience means to you and how the ATC model can help you understand how your thoughts impact actions. (225) 214-7474 CRESCENT CITY QUIZ. Jones Creek Regional Library at 6:30 p.m. Join the library for a fun evening of New Orleans trivia. There will be acknowledgements, prizes and refreshments. ebrpl.com WACKY WIGGLE WEDNESDAY. Livingston Parish Library’s YouTube or Facebook channel from 10-11 a.m. Children ages 0-11 are invited to dance, wiggle, and groove during this fun event. mylpl.info

THURSDAY JOLIE PEARL YOGA CLUB. North Boulevard Town Square Lawn from 6:30-7:30 p.m., weather permitting. Social distanced spots will be marked. Sign up online to guarantee your spot. mindbodyonline.com LET’S TALK ABOUT OPIOID ADDICTION RECOVERY & FAMILY SUPPORT. Virtual event at noon. Learn about addiction as a brain disease and the various treatment options that are available for opioid use disorder. ebrpl.com MONEY SMART KIDS. Virtual on Livingston Parish Library’s Facebook or YouTube channel. For children ages five to eight, this event is hosted by the Federal Deposit Insurance Corporation as a way to start introducing money saving tips. Pick up a workbook, along with a free piggy bank, while supplies last. mylpl.info SOURDOUGH PIZZA NIGHT LEISURE CLASS. Louisiana Culinary Institute at 5 p.m. Join Chef Jeanne Mancuso for a delicious three-course meal that's sure to please. lci.edu

FRIDAY BREASTFEEDING SUPPORT GROUP. Woman’s Hospital Zoom meeting from 9:30-11 a.m. Learn from a certified lactation nurse and other moms about their own successes and challenges with breastfeeding. womans.org CAFE FRANÇAIS. West Baton Rouge Museum at 1 p.m. Hang out with fellow French language enthusiasts and partake

in discussion over coffee and sweets. The event is free and open to anyone interested in attending. westbaton rougemuseum.org FAMILY DRIVE-IN MOVIE NIGHT AT HUNS GROVE. The Village at Huns Grove at 7:30 p.m. Family drive-in movie featuring The Croods: A New Age. Free popcorn while supplies last. $15 per car. eventbrite.com KING & QUEEN OF THE BEACH TOURNAMENT. Oasis Patio Bar & Grill at 6:30 p.m. Three games guaranteed. Cost is $10. (225) 223-6598 THE JAZZ LISTENING ROOM FEATURING ESCO MCCOLLUM. Chorum Hall Patio at 7:30 p.m. This event will take place outdoors. bontempstix.com

eventbrite.com RENAISSANCE RAID! PIRATES OF THE PONTCHARTRAIN FESTIVAL. River Road in Hammond at 9:45 a.m. Free. facebook.com SATURDAY SHENANIGANS. East Baton Rouge Parish Libraries. Grab and Geaux crafts include everything from Easter wreaths to glitter slime. ebrpl.com YOGA WITH PUPPIES. Pointe-Marie at 9 a.m. Exercise while getting puppy kisses from pups at Friends of the Animals. Proceeds support Friends of the Animals. eventbrite.com

DIY ORAL HISTORY WORKSHOP. EBR Main Library at 3 p.m. Resident expert archivist, Melissa Eastin, will explore what an oral history is and how you can start planning and recording your very own oral history project. Registration required. ebrpl.com OUTDOOR OLD TIME MUSIC OPEN JAM. West Baton Rouge Museum from 3-5 p.m. Musicians will play old country, bluegrass, and folk music using acoustic instruments. westba tonrougemuseum.org SIT & LEARN VIRTUAL PROGRAM SERIES: MY FAVORITE CHAIR. LSU Museum of Art Zoom event at 2 p.m. Conversation with local designers, collectors, and furniture enthusiasts about their chair choosing memories and the furniture they live with at home. lsumoa.org

SATURDAY

NATIONAL SIBLINGS DAY GARDEN DISCOVERIES: INSIDE SCOOP ON BATON ROOTS. Virtual on EBR Library’s Facebook page at 10 a.m. The Baton Rouge Botanic Garden Foundation hosts a free Garden Discoveries event for families. facebook.com/ebrpl GIRL SCOUTS LOUISIANA EAST: OUTDOOR ART PARTY. Zoom meeting with Girl Scouts Louisiana East at 10 a.m. Girls will engage in art activities and get a taste of how exciting it is to be a Girl Scout. Parents will participate and chat with GSLE staff to discuss how Girl Scouts can build courage, confidence and character in their daughters.

SUNDAY

NATIONAL CLEAN UP YOUR PANTRY DAY

MONDAY

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3D SPRING ART: APRIL SHOWERS PACKET PICKUP. Ascension Parish Libraries. Create a rainbow, a cloud, butterflies, or even an umbrella. Packets available at the library. Tutorial available on their YouTube channel. myapl.org BATON ROUGE BALLET THEATRE PERFORMANCE OF COPPÉLIA. Virtual viewing from April 12-26. Cost is $30. batonrougeballet.org BEDTIME STORIES. Livingston Parish Library’s Facebook or YouTube channel at 6 p.m. Virtual bedtime story series for ages 0-11. mylpl.info BIRDING FOR BEGINNERS. Virtual talk with Baton Rouge Audubon Society Educator Jane Patterson at 5:30 p.m. Presentation will discuss what is needed for successful birdwatching, how to attract more birds to your yard, and what it means to be located on a major migratory route. eventbrite.com HEARTS & HOOVES THERAPEUTIC RIDING PROGRAM. BREC Farr Park at 4:30 p.m. or 6 p.m. Riders ages six and older with physical, mental, and social disabilities participate in a six-week session of riding lessons tailored to their needs. brec.org READ TO ME MONDAY. Virtual event on Livingston Parish Library’s Facebook or YouTube channel from 10-11 a.m. for children ages 0-11. Hear a story while spending time with your kids. mylpl.info

BATON ROUGE BALLET THEATRE PERFORMANCE OF COPPÉLIA. Virtual viewing from April 12-26. Cost is $30. batonrougeballet.org GET ORGANIZED: ORGANIZING YOUR TIME. EBR Main Library at 2 p.m. Learn about the roadblocks people face when managing their time and how the five step EMEND organizing method can help you organize time and streamline your life. Registration required. ebrpl.com GIRL SCOUTS LOUISIANA EAST: BE-YOUTIFUL PARTY. Zoom meeting with Girl Scouts Louisiana East at 6 p.m. Girls will engage in self-development activities. Parents will participate and chat with GSLE staff to discuss how Girl Scouts can build courage, confidence and character in your girl. eventbrite.com WHAT IS MEDICAL WEIGHT LOSS? Woman’s Hospital Zoom meeting from 5:30-6:30 p.m. Join Dr. Drake Bellanger, surgeon and board-certified obesity medicine practitioner, and Woman’s registered dietitian to learn about medical weight loss. womans.org YOUTH VIRTUAL CRAFTS. Livingston Parish Library’s Facebook or YouTube Channel at 10 a.m. for ages 0-11. mylpl.info

WEDNESDAY BATON ROUGE BALLET THEATRE PERFORMANCE OF COPPÉLIA. Virtual viewing

from April 12-26. Cost is $30. batonrougeballet.org FAMILY WORKSHOP SERIES: YOUR DEAF CHILD’S RIGHTS. Zoom workshop provided by M. Tim Albert of the Louisiana School for the Deaf Alumni Association at 6 p.m. He will be sharing information about the rights of Deaf children to have access to language and communication inside and outside of the home. lalsd.org LCTF 2021 CHILD ABUSE VIRTUAL SPEAKER SERIES: COFFEE AND CONVERSATIONS. Virtual event at noon with

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Louisiana Children’s Trust Fund. Focuses on the activities planned in Louisiana to increase awareness about child abuse and prevention month. eventbrite.com MODERN CALLIGRAPHY CLASS. Paper n Things from 6-8:30 p.m. Class is recommended for ages 12+ and will teach pointed pen calligraphy. shannan@ paperglaze.com WACKY WIGGLE WEDNESDAY. Livingston Parish Library’s YouTube or Facebook channel from 10-11 a.m. Children ages 0-11 are invited to dance, wiggle, and groove to foster important literacy development, along with being able to get out all those wiggles. mylpl.info WEIGHT LOSS SUPPORT GROUP. Baton Rouge General Health & Wellness Center at 6 p.m. Monthly support group for weight loss surgery patients and those considering surgery, covering a variety of topics such as lifestyle changes, dietary changes and body image. brgeneral.org

THURSDAY WORLD ART DAY

BATON ROUGE BALLET THEATRE PERFORMANCE OF COPPÉLIA. Virtual viewing from April 1226. Cost is $30. batonrougeballet.org CREATIVE FRUIT PIES LEISURE CLASS. Louisiana Culinary Institute at 5 p.m. Join Chef Jeanne Mansuco to create two pies complete with homemade crust. lci.edu ELEMENTARY PERSONAL SAFETY ABUSE PREVENTION CLASS. Zoom meeting with Baton Rouge Children’s Advocacy Center at 4:30 p.m. This interactive one-hour lesson will cover personal safety and abuse prevention, safety rules, and reporting rules. facebook.com JOLIE PEARL YOGA CLUB. North Boulevard Town Square Lawn from 6:30-7:30 p.m., weather permitting. Social distanced spots will be marked. Sign up online to guarantee your spot. mindbodyonline.com LET’S TALK ABOUT OPIOIDS AND HOW TO PROTECT YOUR LOVED ONES. Virtual

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at noon. Informative presentation from a local pharmacist about opioid medications and their safe use for pain relief. ebrpl.com MANSHIP THEATRE SUNSET SERIES: NIKKI HILL. Shaw Center for the Arts River Terrace at 6:30 p.m. Performance by singer, songwriter, and bandleader, Nikki Hill. Tickets are $38. manshiptheatre.org MONEY SMART KIDS. Virtual on Livingston Parish Library’s Facebook or YouTube channel. For children ages five to eight, this event is hosted by the Federal Deposit Insurance Corporation as a way to start introducing money saving tips. Pick up a workbook, along with a free piggy bank, while supplies last. mylpl.info WEIGHT LOSS SURGERY: WHAT YOU SHOULD KNOW. Woman’s Hospital Zoom meeting from 6-7 p.m. Join a weight loss surgery physician to learn more about the different types of weight loss surgeries and get your questions answered. Free. womans.org

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NATIONAL STRESS AWARENESS DAY APRIL KIDS CLUB. Art Unleashed at 7 p.m. Craft class for kids. Cost is $20. Ages six and up. stayhappening.com BATON ROUGE BALLET THEATRE PERFORMANCE OF COPPÉLIA. Virtual viewing from April 12-26. Cost is $30. batonrougeballet.org BREASTFEEDING SUPPORT GROUP. Woman’s Hospital Zoom meeting from 9:30-11 a.m. Learn from a certi-

fied lactation nurse and other moms about their own successes and challenges with breastfeeding. womans.org CASA LUNCH AND LEARN. Virtual at noon. Learn more about how you can be the change for an abused/neglected child. childadv.net HISTORICAL HAPPY HOUR. West Baton Rouge Museum at 6:30 p.m. Bring your blankets, folding chairs, and libations to enjoy an outdoor performance by Chloé Marie. westba tonrougemuseum.org SCIENCE TELLERS: EARTH DAY SPECIAL. Livingston Parish Library’s Facebook or YouTube channel from 10-11 a.m. Virtual, interactive program for children ages 0-11. mylpl.info SOCIALLY DISTANCED SPOOF NIGHT! WITH STAR TREK II: WRATH OF KAHN. Shaw Center for the Arts at 7:30 p.m. The Family Dinner Comedy Troupe lovingly celebrates Star Trek II: Wrath of Kahn. This interactive movie experience pokes fun of your favorite films with live commentary, skits, and interactive games. Tickets are $11. manshiptheatre.org THE YELLOW HOUSE BOOK DISCUSSION WITH DR. ROBYN MERRICK. EBR Library virtual program at noon. ebrpl.com

SATURDAY 15TH ANNUAL BATON ROUGE KIDNEY WALK. Virtual at 10 a.m. Lace up and take steps to fight kidney disease and spread awareness of organ donation.

kidneywalk.org/ batonrouge AMAZING BRITISH BAKING LEISURE CLASS. Louisiana Culinary Institute at 9 a.m. Join Chef Jeanne Mancuso to bake classic British goodies from scratch. lci.edu BATON ROUGE BALLET THEATRE PERFORMANCE OF COPPÉLIA. Virtual viewing from April 12-26. Cost is $30. batonrougeballet.org BODY BASICS FOR BOYS. Woman’s Hospital Zoom meeting from 9:30-11 a.m. Preteen boys ages 10-13 will learn how their bodies grow, what changes to expect during puberty, and how to take care of themselves through informal, open discussions, a film presentation and take home materials. womans.org CAJUN COAST MIGRATORY BIG DAY. Patterson off of Cotten Road from 6 a.m.-6 p.m. Watching and photography will be allowed anywhere on the property. Lunch can be purchased at the site. The eBird app should be downloaded and used for the one-day event. Registration required. bontempstix. com CIRCLES + SCISSORS HANDWASHING AUTHOR EVENT. EBR Main Library at 10 a.m. Author Jenny M. Iverstine will do a live reading of her book. Books will be available for sale and signing, as well as activities for kiddos. ebrpl.com FINGER PAINTING FUN PACKET PICKUP. Ascension Parish Libraries. Pick up a finger painting packet to create fingerprint snapdragons, a handprint stegosaurus, and a

design of your choice. Ages three to five. myapl.org GIRL SCOUTS LOUISIANA EAST: ROBOT BUILDING PARTY. Zoom meeting with Girl Scouts Louisiana East at 10 a.m. Girls will engage in robotics activities. Parents will participate and chat with GSLE staff to discuss how Girl Scouts can build courage, confidence and character in your girl. eventbrite.com MOMMY & ME! RAINBOW MAGIC UNICORNS SET. Painting with a Twist from 10 a.m.-noon. This is a two-canvas painting for you and your guest to paint together. paintingwithatwist.com PARENTING CONFERENCE. Cedar House Church from 9:30 a.m.12:30 p.m. Conference is $10 per person and free childcare is provided. Register online. cedarhousechurch.com PARTY FOR THE PLANET. BREC’s Baton Rouge Zoo. Day filled with conservation, education, animal enrichments, and fun for the family in honor of Earth Day. Regular admission applies. brzoo.org TOUCH A TRUCK. Drive-thru event with Junior League of Baton Rouge at BREC’s State Fairgrounds from 9 a.m.-3 p.m. Quiet hours will be from 9-11 a.m. Car passes are $30. touchatruckbr.org

SUNDAY AFRICAN AMERICAN QUILTERS: TRANSFORMING THE CANON WITH SPIRIT DRIVEN WORK. West Baton Rouge Museum at 3

p.m. Lecture with Dr. Joyce Marie Jackson, an Ethnomusicologist. westbatonrougemuse um.org BATON ROUGE BALLET THEATRE PERFORMANCE OF COPPÉLIA. Virtual viewing from April 12-26. Cost is $30. batonrougeballet.org BOYS TO MEN. Baton Rouge General Center for Health at 2 p.m. Led by family physician, Dr. Jacob Wood, this class is tailored for boys ages 10-13 and a parent or trusted adult. Focuses on how a boy transitions through puberty, including topics like proper hygiene and skin and body changes. brgeneral.org LET’S TALK ABOUT THE TRUTH ABOUT OPIOIDS (FOR TEENS.) EBR Main Library at 3 p.m. Local high school students will present the facts about opioids and discuss ways to avoid misusing medications. ebrpl.com SPRING FÊTE. Houmas House and Gardens from 2-5 p.m. Taste wine, spirits, beer and amazing dishes from local chefs. Must be 21 and older. Dress is casual. eventbrite.com

MONDAY BATON ROUGE BALLET THEATRE PERFORMANCE OF COPPÉLIA. Virtual viewing from April 12-26. Cost is $30. batonrougeballet.org BEDTIME STORIES. Livingston Parish Library’s Facebook or YouTube channel at 6 p.m. Virtual bedtime story series for ages 0-11. mylpl.info DIY CRAYON CANDLE PACKET PICKUP. As-

cension Parish Libraries. Teens can stop by to pick up a craft packet containing all the supplies needed to create a candle out of crayons and wax flakes. Visit their YouTube channel to see the tutorial. myapl.org HEARTS & HOOVES THERAPEUTIC RIDING PROGRAM. BREC Farr Park at 4:30 p.m. or 6 p.m. Riders ages six and older with physical, mental, and social disabilities participate in a six-week session of riding lessons tailored to their needs. brec.org NEWSIES. Parkview Baptist School through April 24. Student performance of the Broadway-hit, Newsies. parkviewbaptist.com READ TO ME MONDAY. Virtual event on Livingston Parish Library’s Facebook or YouTube channel from 10-11 a.m. for children ages 0-11. mylpl.info

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BATON ROUGE BALLET THEATRE PERFORMANCE OF COPPÉLIA. Virtual viewing from April 12-26. Cost is $30. batonrougeballet.org GIRL SCOUTS LOUISIANA EAST: TOY BUSINESS PARTY. Zoom meeting with Girl Scouts Louisiana East at 6 p.m. Girls will engage in entrepreneurial activities. Parents will participate and chat with GSLE staff to discuss how Girl Scouts can build courage, confidence and character in your girl. eventbrite.com NEWSIES. Parkview Baptist School through April 24. Student performance of the Broadway-hit, Newsies. parkviewbaptist.com

YOUTH VIRTUAL CRAFTS. Livingston Parish Library’s Facebook or YouTube Channel at 10 a.m. for ages 0-11. mylpl.info

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ALONG THE RIVER ROAD WITH THE RIVER ROAD RAMBLER. EBR Main Library at 6 p.m. Author, freelance writer and “River Road Rambler,” Mary Ann Sternberg, will entertain you with stories from her explorations along the Mississippi River. Books will be available for purchase. ebrpl.com BATON ROUGE BALLET THEATRE PERFORMANCE OF COPPÉLIA. Virtual viewing from April 1226. Cost is $30. batonrougeballet.org EARTH DAY. New Orleans Botanical Garden from 4-7 p.m.

Includes exhibitors, activities for children, live music, crafts, cooking demonstrations, and delicious food. neworleans citypark.com NEWSIES. Parkview Baptist School through April 24. Student performance of the Broadway-hit, Newsies. parkviewbaptist.com RECESSION-PROOF YOUR JOB AND CAREER WEBINAR. Zoom at noon. There are steps you can take at any phase in your career to make your job and career more recession proof. Learn how to make your job safer and reduce the likelihood of getting laid off. Seminar led by Certified Career Coach Anne Nowak of the Career Center. ebrpl.com RIVER CITY JAZZ MASTERS SERIES: PONCHO SANCHEZ. Shaw Center for the Arts River Terrace at 7:30 p.m. Performance by Poncho Sanchez. Tickets are $48. manshiptheatre.org

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WACKY WIGGLE WEDNESDAY. Livingston Parish Library’s YouTube or Facebook channel from 10-11 a.m. Children ages 0-11 are invited to dance, wiggle, and groove to foster important literacy development. mylpl.info

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EARTH DAY TAKE OUR DAUGHTERS AND SONS TO WORK DAY BATON ROUGE BALLET THEATRE PERFORMANCE OF COPPÉLIA. Virtual viewing from April 1226. Cost is $30. batonrougeballet.org *EARTH DAY YOGA. Future Fitness Wellness Center at 8 a.m. Outdoor yoga class with Amanda Mays to celebrate Earth Day. $25. eventbrite.com JOLIE PEARL YOGA CLUB. North Boulevard Town Square Lawn from 6:30-7:30 p.m., weather permitting. Social distanced spots will be marked. Sign up online to guarantee your spot. mindbodyonline.com MONEY SMART TEENS. Livingston Parish Library’s Facebook 60

or YouTube channel at 10 a.m. Participants can pick up a workbook while supplies last. At the end of this event, they can bring back the filled out workbook for an HSFPP official certificate. Ages 12-18. mylpl.info NEWSIES. Parkview Baptist School through April 24. Student performance of the Broadway-hit, Newsies. parkviewbaptist.com

FRIDAY BATON ROUGE BALLET THEATRE PERFORMANCE OF COPPÉLIA. Virtual viewing from April 1226. Cost is $30. batonrougeballet.org BEETHOVEN’S SEVENTH: BATON ROUGE SYMPHONY ORCHESTRA. Istrouma Baptist Church from 6:30-9 p.m. Experience the work of the one and only Beethoven featuring guest conductor, Earl Lee. brso.org BREASTFEEDING SUPPORT GROUP. Woman’s Hospital Zoom meeting from 9:30-11 a.m. Learn from a certified lactation nurse and other moms about their

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own successes and challenges with breastfeeding. womans.org EDUCATIONAL SERIES: PLAN FOR TOMORROW, TODAY. EBR Main Library from 10-11 a.m. As we age or experience our parent’s aging, we hear terms we don’t understand, and we seek services that are confusing to us. St. Paul’s Senior Services is here to make senior living and the idea of living in a nursing home less stressful. ebrpl.com KING & QUEEN OF THE BEACH TOURNAMENT. Oasis Patio Bar & Grill at 6:30 p.m. Three games guaranteed. (225) 223-6598 LIVE ON POINTE: AFTER 8. Pointe-Marie from 7-10 p.m. Bring your blankets or lawn chairs to spread out under the stars in Pointe-Marie square and watch the show on the bandstand. Food trucks will be out to sell fresh selections, and Walk-Ons will have a full cash bar. eventbrite.com NEWSIES. Parkview Baptist School through April 24. Student performance of the Broadway-hit, Newsies. parkviewbaptist.com TRIVIA NIGHT LIVE! ON ZOOM: TRIVIA ABOUT BOOKS. Livingston Parish Library Zoom at 7 p.m. Play with family and friends or just play solo. Ages 12+. Registration required. mylpl.info

SATURDAY 2021 PARADE OF HOMES. Greater Baton Rouge through April 25. Large community-based event created to promote local

reputable builders and developers, showcase their latest creations in state-of-the art neighborhoods, and educate the community on responsible, innovative home building. paradegbr.fun BATON ROUGE BALLET THEATRE PERFORMANCE OF COPPÉLIA. Virtual viewing from April 12-26. Cost is $30. batonrougeballet.org BATON ROUGE BOAT CLUB AMITE 100 POKER RUN. Lagniappe on the Diversion from 10:30 a.m.-6 p.m. Poker run supports Dreams Come True of Louisiana. eventbrite.com BRSO SYMPHONY SHOOT. Bridgeview Gun Club in Port Allen from 8 a.m.-1 p.m. Novices and experts are invited to join Baton Rouge Symphony musicians to support BRSO through challenging sporting clay stations. eventbrite.com GIRL SCOUTS LOUISIANA EAST: OUTDOOR ART PARTY. Zoom meeting with Girl Scouts Louisiana East at 10 a.m. Girls will engage in art activities and get a taste of how exciting it is to be a Girl Scout. Parents will participate along and chat with GSLE staff to discuss how Girl Scouts can build courage, confidence and character in your girl. eventbrite.com LION KING JR. AT MSA EAST. MSA-East Academy in St. Gabriel at 10 a.m. and 2 p.m. Tickets are free but limited. eventbrite.com NEWSIES. Parkview Baptist School through April 24. Student performance of the Broadway-hit, Newsies. parkviewbaptist.com OF MOVING COLORS SPRING POP SHOW.

Brown-Holt Theatre at The Dunham School at 7 p.m. Performance will premiere work by OMC dancers choreographing pieces to the songs of pop legends such as Madonna, Prince, David Bowie, Elton John, Stevie Wonder, Cher, Donna Summer, Lady Gaga, and RuPaul. ofmovingcolors.org STEAM SATURDAYS. Helix Aviation Academy from 11 a.m.-2 p.m. Funfilled event for families highlighting STEAM. Space is limited. Event is free, but registration is required. eventbrite.com VIRTUAL SEIZE THE DAY 2021. Virtual 5K and one-mile fun run from 9-11 a.m. with Epilepsy Alliance Louisiana. runsignup.com/ seizetheday QUILT WORKSHOP WITH CELY PEDESCLEAUX. West Baton Rouge Museum from noon-3 p.m. Cely Pedescleaux is a selftaught textile artist and quilter born in the 7th Ward of New Orleans. Free, but registration required. westbaton rougemuseum.org

SUNDAY 2021 PARADE OF HOMES. Greater Baton Rouge through today. Large community-based event created to promote local reputable builders and developers, showcase their latest creations in state-of-the art neighborhoods, and educate the community on responsible, innovative home building. paradegbr.fun AFTER BABY COMES (ABC): BABY CARE AND PARENT CARE. Woman’s Hospital

Zoom meeting from 12:30-5:30 p.m. Learn how to bathe, feed, diaper, dress, and hold a baby with a lifelike doll. Plan to take this class in the sixth month of pregnancy or any time if you will be adopting a baby. It’s for new parents, grandparents, adoptive parents or other caregivers. Cost is $35. womans.org BATON ROUGE BALLET THEATRE PERFORMANCE OF COPPÉLIA. Virtual viewing from April 12-26. Cost is $30. batonrougeballet.org HEALING WORDS: TELLING STORIES AND POEMS TO FIND PURPOSE AGAIN IN THE YEARS AFTER KATRINA. EBR Main Library at 3 p.m. Event inspired by Sarah M. Broom’s The Yellow House, featuring poetry, performance and reflection. Registration required. ebrpl.com TRUCKS AND TIARAS. Chackbay Fairgrounds from 10 a.m.-2 p.m. Outdoor family event featuring Touch a Truck, bounce houses, costume contest, dance party, field day games, and chalk art. eventbrite.com

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NATIONAL PRETZEL DAY BATON ROUGE BALLET THEATRE PERFORMANCE OF COPPÉLIA. Virtual viewing from April 12-26. Cost is $30. batonrougeballet.org BEDTIME STORIES. Livingston Parish Library’s Facebook or YouTube channel at 6 p.m. Virtual bedtime story series for ages 0-11. mylpl.info

HEARTS & HOOVES THERAPEUTIC RIDING PROGRAM. BREC Farr Park at 4:30 p.m. or 6 p.m. Riders ages six and older with physical, mental, and social disabilities participate in a six-week session of riding lessons tailored to their needs. Riders enjoy a one-hour class on horseback learning stretching exercises, basic equitation and games. brec.org READ TO ME MONDAY. Virtual event on Livingston Parish Library’s Facebook or YouTube channel from 10-11 a.m. for children ages 0-11. Storytime helps develop pre-reading skills while children and their caregivers are able to have some fun. mylpl.info

TUESDAY CASA 101. Virtual at 6:30 p.m. Learn more about how you can be the change for an abused/neglected child. childadv.net GIRL SCOUTS LOUISIANA EAST: BE-YOUTIFUL PARTY. Zoom meeting with Girl Scouts Louisiana East at 6 p.m. Girls engage in self-development activities. Parents will participate and chat with staff to discuss how Girl Scouts can build courage, confidence and character. eventbrite.com ST. JOSEPH’S ACADEMY OPEN HOUSE. St. Joseph’s Academy from 3:30-6 p.m. Tour campus, visit with teachers and administrators, and learn what makes the Academy so special. Registration required. visitsja.org WEIGHT LOSS SURGERY SEMINAR. Baton Rouge General Blue-

bonnet at 6 p.m. During this physician-led seminar, you will learn about the different types of weight loss surgery and what to expect before and after surgery. brgeneral.org YOUTH VIRTUAL CRAFTS. Livingston Parish Library’s Facebook or YouTube Channel at 10 a.m. for ages 0-11. mylpl.info

WEDNESDAY WACKY WIGGLE WEDNESDAY. Livingston Parish Library’s YouTube or Facebook channel from 10-11 a.m. Children ages 0-11 are invited to dance, wiggle, and groove to foster important literacy development, along with being able to get out all those wiggles. mylpl.info

THURSDAY JOLIE PEARL YOGA CLUB. North Boulevard Town Square Lawn from 6:30-7:30 p.m., weather permitting. Social distanced spots will be marked. Sign up online to guarantee your spot. mindbodyonline.com LET’S TALK ABOUT MIND & BODY WELLNESS TO PREVENT OPIOID MISUSE. Virtual at noon. Engaging discussion on incorporating mind and body self-care interventions to optimize health and wellness and minimize misuse of opioid medications. ebrpl.com MACARON FLOWER BOUQUET LEISURE CLASS. Louisiana Culinary Institute at 5 p.m. Join Chef Jeanne Mancuso to create two

dozen French macarons and 12 flower cookies decorated with royal icing. lci.edu MONEY SMART TEENS. Livingston Parish Library’s Facebook or YouTube channel at 10 a.m. The High School Financial Planning Program is focused on basic personal finance skills that are relevant to the lives of teens. Participants can pick up a workbook while supplies last. At the end of the event, they can bring back the filled out workbook for an HSFPP official certificate. Ages 12-18. mylpl.info SIT & LEARN VIRTUAL PROGRAM SERIES: DESIGNER STUDIO VISIT. LSU Museum of Art Zoom event at 5:30 p.m. Features local designer, Damien Mitchell, in his workspace as he discusses his design practice. lsumoa.org

THE BEACH TOURNAMENT. Oasis Patio Bar & Grill at 6:30 p.m. Three games guaranteed. Cost is $10. (225) 223-6598 RALPH’S MARKET SPRING WINE GALA. Houmas House and Gardens at 6 p.m. Dress up in your Kentucky Derby best and enjoy food, lots of wines and live entertainment. facebook.com WAX PRINT: 1 FABRIC, 4 CONTINENTS, 200 YEARS OF HISTORY SCREENING. West Baton Rouge Museum at 6:30 p.m. Documentary traces the global history of a fabric that has become an iconic

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It’s Not Easy Being GREEN BY LISA A. BEACH

My favorite Muppet, Kermit, said it best: “It’s not easy being green.” Like any good mom, I try to lead my family down the do-the-right-thing path as we go about our lives. This includes adopting environmentally-friendly habits as I try to instill a leave-no-trace mentality in my family.

E T’S just say they’re about ready to stuff me into the recycling bin with my attempts to “green up” our lives. “Listen, Mother Earth, you need to chill,” my husband Kevin says to me on a regular basis as I try to shove my save-theplanet philosophy down my family’s throat. I admit that I sometimes go a little overboard in my efforts. I also admit that I sometimes fail miserably at my own green habits due to inconvenience or the reality of living with teen boys. For example, I’ve drilled my kids on the importance of the three big “Rs:” reduce, reuse, and recycle. Yet, despite my best efforts, we often fall short.

REDUCE

The Good: To cut down on all the harmful chemicals and reduce the influx of disposable containers in our home, I sometimes make my own non-toxic cleaning products with simple ingredients like water, vinegar, and lemon juice. The Bad: While this DIY approach works as effectively as most cleaners, I’m banned from using them when my family is at home because they claim it makes the house smell like pungent salad dressing. Which it does, but only for 10 minutes. The Ugly: With two teen boys in the house, I’m not against breaking out the Lysol as needed. I’m all for “going green,” but teen messes and smelly soccer cleats demand the toxic big guns, like bleach, alkyl, dimethyl benzyl, and other ingredients I can’t pronounce. Ozone layer, air quality, and clean water be damned! I’m trying to survive two teenagers.

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The Good: We own at least a dozen refillable water bottles, which we regularly take to school, work, soccer games, etc. One drink at a time, we’re not adding to the county landfill. Yay, us! The Bad: While we’ve slowly upgraded most of our water bottles to stainless steel or BPA-free plastic over the years, a few “bad plastics” still lurk in our cupboards. For unknown reasons, we’re still holding onto a few toxic, BPA-laden freebies emblazoned with our local radio station’s logo. 64

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The Ugly: At this very moment, we’ve got a case of disposable water bottles sitting on our back porch. Despite our best efforts to bring reusable containers everywhere, we’ve just committed the pinnacle of atrocious eco-crimes. Not only did we buy disposable water bottles, but we bought them in bulk. What kind of monsters are we?

RECYCLE

The Good: My zealot-level intensity of recycling is real. Each week, our recycling bins overflow with aluminum cans, plastic bottles, newspapers, and empty cereal boxes. I’m thrilled that we’ve reduced our carbon footprint. The Bad: Sometimes my overly aggressive efforts tick off my husband, like when he hasn’t yet read the Sunday newspaper, and I’ve already tossed it into the recycling bin by 10 a.m. that morning. (This is where he starts, “Listen, Mother Earth….”) The Ugly: Like George Costanza picking a Twinkie out of the trash in a classic Seinfeld episode, I’ve been known to pluck a perfectly good empty toilet paper roll out of the bathroom waste can and put it in the recycling bin. My husband thinks I’ve sunk to a new low, but do you know how many trees I’ve saved over the years? While I’ve got the best of intentions, I struggle with trying to set a good example and then consistently live up to it. For example, rather than waste gallons of water while brushing my teeth, I turn the faucet off until I’m ready to “rinse and spit.” Sometimes my husband or the boys will leave the faucet running full blast while brushing their teeth. “My God, you can bathe a toddler with all the water you’re wasting!” I chastise over the gushing stream. The problem? My hypocrisy comes back to haunt me when they point out that I take longer showers than a construction worker after a long, hot day on the job. They’re right. Yet, despite my eco-fails, I keep trying to live the green life. In fact, I’ve asked for a compost bin for Mother’s Day for the last five years. So far, no one has fulfilled my wish. Instead, I receive flowers on Mother’s Day. Of course when they die, I could toss them into the compost bin, IF I HAD ONE. The struggle is real, people. I agree with Kermit. It’s not easy being green. ■

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