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Building Bonds That Last
Each stage of a child’s development is different and owners can help their dogs prepare for each one, says Jennifer Shyrock
ecause dog and baby/toddler dynamics are constantly evolving, I would like to suggest that we shift the emphasis from the standard ‘introducing dog to baby’ and focus instead on working to build bonds as baby grows through ongoing, consistent trust and comfort. It has become more common for families to prepare their dog for the arrival of a baby, but far less common for them to prepare for the stages of crawling or beginning to walk. Ideally, planning and preparation would continue for each new developmental stage throughout the first couple of years. But that takes work, you say…. Yes! Indeed it does; relationships take time and work. Dogs rely on predictability and consistent body language. Babies change quickly and constantly during the first two years and almost nothing is predictable. That alone makes it hard for dog and parents - as soon as one stage is over another begins.
6-12 Months: Many families have become relaxed with their dog and baby by this time. They feel a sense of comfort as their dog may have adjusted well so far. The challenges now are that baby may be sitting up, using new equipment and possibly crawling. These new positions and activities can be a total game changer for the dog, who is used to baby being less active. This is a great age to use a baby carrier or Inviting the dog for ‘cuddle time’ helps him get used to being around the baby and gives him a choice
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backpack to go for walks or dog activities together, as baby can safely watch while attached to Mom or Dad. Management while baby is practicing gross motor skills is important. It is best if the dog has a nice ‘kid-free’ zone during these times. I highly encourage families to begin preparing for times of separation in their kid-free zone very early on, so that when it is needed it is not stressful. This is a common frustration I hear from families during this stage if they have not prepared ahead. It is important to emphasize that interaction between dog and baby does not have to include physical contact during this time. Observation and just being in the same area is perfect.
12-24 Months: Dogs who may have adjusted to the visual of a crawling baby will now need to adjust to the awkward, unsteady walk of a toddler. This stage is exhausting for parents, as toddlers want to explore and may protest when interrupted from something of interest. This is the time of bumps and bruises due to stumbling and falling often as they master their new skills. The stress felt by Mom or Dad can spill over to or be picked up on by the dog. Often families will expect too much of their dogs during this phase. This is also an age of imitation. Parents love to see their baby mimic their behavior. This must be taken seriously when it comes to parents’ interactions with their dogs. Monkey see monAs they get older, children can be reinforced for good choices around the dog