New Year’s Message to Children Brian Cali, Esquire Chairman, Fidelity Bank

Generations before us could not have conceived what childhood today would be like. It is a very exciting time for children. Although geographic boundaries physically exist, the ability to be a part of the world community is at their fingertips. Access to information and the ability to communicate has never been faster or easier. An abundance of knowledge is directly within grasp at very young ages. It is our responsibility to teach them to use what is available in a safe, productive and appropriate way.

Because of the instant availability, many children have the tendency to use technology to communicate rather than faceto-face conversation. Texting instead of talking can diminish their ability to interact socially, to develop the skills needed to grow emotionally and to become a vital part of their communities. Technology can also limit the development of true friendships and relationships.

Children today are part of a diverse world. Complete acceptance and understanding of that diversity is essential in building and maintaining positive relationships and a better society.

There will be more opportunities for this generation of children than we can even imagine. With these opportunities will come successes and failures.

Children must be prepared to fail at times before success occurs. As a result of instantaneous expectations that confront this generation of children, the virtue of patience and hard work cannot be forgotten.

As recent surveys demonstrate, mental health issues facing our children are at an all-time high. Recognizing this and having treatments available must be an integral part of preparing the children of today. Continually educating children is the responsibility of parents, grandparents and caretakers. Directly and by example we must continuously remind children how acts of kindness will enhance and fulfill not only their lives, but the lives of others.