St. Boniface Martyr Parish Bulletin December 1, 2013

St. Boniface Martyr Roman Catholic Church Established 1898

Serving the people of God in the communities of Sea Cliff ~ Glenwood Landing ~ Glen Head ~ Glen Cove “We are a pilgrim people on a journey toward the Kingdom of God.” Fr. Robert A. Romeo, Pastor

“Therefore, you too must stand ready, because the Son of Man is coming at an hour you do not expect.” (Matthew 24:37-44)

First Sunday of Advent December 1, 2013

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Daily Mass 8am (in the chapel) Sunday Masses: Saturday: 5pm; Sunday: 8am, 10:15am Holy Day Masses: 5pm Vigil; 8am & 7pm (in church) Special Intentions Mass 5pm first Saturday of month

First Sunday of Advent: December 1 5pm Vigil Lectors: Ministers:

8am Lector: Ministers: First Sunday of Advent, December 1 Isaiah 2:1-5; Romans 13:11-14; Matthew 24:37-44 The bread, wine, candles and sanctuary lamp used at this week’s celebrations were donated as “Special Blessings” for Diva & Ed Corbelletta’s 59th Wedding Anniversary by the children.

5pm Vigil Mass Intention: Richard Chiaino 8am Mass Intention: Parishioners 10:15am Mass Intention: Dr. & Mrs. Giordano Monday, December 2 (Eleanor Simunek) Isaiah 4:2-6; Matthew 8:5-11 8am Mass Celebrant: Fr. Azubuike Tuesday, December 3 (Michael J. Lincks, Jr.) Memorial of St. Francis Xavier Isaiah 11:1-10; Luke 10:21-24 8am Mass Celebrant: Fr. Azubuike Wednesday, December 4 (Amelia Lovett) Memorial of St. John Damascene Isaiah 25:6-10a; Matthew 15:29-37 8am Mass Celebrant: Fr. Bob Thursday, December 5 (Deceased members of the Welch and Woltering families) Isaiah 26:1-6; Matthew 7:21, 24-27 8am Mass Celebrant Fr. Bob First Friday, December 6 (Paidrag Halton) Memorial of St. Nicholas Isaiah 29:17-24; Matthew 9:27-31 8am Mass Celebrant: Fr. Bob First Saturday, December 7 (Catherine Malmgren) Memorial of St. Ambrose Isaiah 30:19-21, 23-26; Matthew 9:35-10:1, 5a, 6-8 8am Mass Celebrant: Fr. Bob 5pm Vigil Mass Intentions: Kenneth Alverson, Michael J. Lincks, Jr., Barbara Caggiano, Angelo Ancona, Marie Libasci, Patricia Bellidoro 5pm Mass Celebrant: Fr. Azubuike

10:15am Lector: Child Liturgy: Ministers:

Celebrant: Fr. Bob Blanche & Eric Tyrkko Kathleen Van Bloem Eileen Bowersock Irma & Bill Berkley Celebrant: Azubuike Mary Doran Heather Arena, Ralph Casey Diva & Ed Corbelletta Celebrant: Fr. Bob Tom Ryan Laureen Feehan Camille Miritello, Susan Moran Rosemary & John Murello Jane Serpico, Joe Vulpis

Renew & Restore the House of God “Lord, I love the House in which You dwell” Ps. 76:8 Our pledges to date are $1,160,217!

Total amount paid to date $824,000.00.

Payments are due as follows: Monthly payments are due on/before December 31, 2013 Fourth Quarter Payment for 2013 is due on or before December 31, 2013 Annual Payments are due December 31, 2013.

Credit Cards Payments continue to be processed the last day of each month. If your credit card expiration date is soon we will be contacting you.

It is not too late to participate in the Campaign!!

There is still time to enroll!

If you have any questions, kindly leave a message at the Parish Office or email stbonfinance@gmail.com. We are extremely appreciative of your generosity and your continued efforts to satisfy your pledged amount Thank you!

The Campaign Committee

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St. Boniface Giving Tree The Annual Saint Boniface Giving Tree to benefit Madonna Heights has once again been set up in the vestibule of the church.

For 50 years, Madonna Heights, a division of SCO Family of Services, has been helping adolescent girls, women and families overcome the devastating effects of poverty, neglect and abuse. Please help the young women in their care feel special during this Christmas season by taking a tag from the tree. All gifts should be returned unwrapped

by Sunday, December 15th. Your gift will go a long way in helping those Madonna Heights serves. Thank you for your generosity.

Saturday, December 14th 6:15pm St. Boniface Martyr Church Blessing of the Creche and Christmas Tree lighting followed by Caroling on a Horse-drawn Wagon ending with Hot Dogs, Hot Cocoa, Cookies, Santa and more!

Join us!

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PLEASE PRAY FOR OUR DECEASED Please pray for those who have entered into eternal life, especially Helen Lukoski.

Placement of names on the sick list must be requested by an immediate family member through Fr. Bob. Names will be announced at weekend Masses for 3 weeks; then appear in the bulletin only.

Martha Anna, Mae Caffney, Caesar Cavese, John Cini, Ro D'Alessandro, William J. Dobrowski, Anthony Grasso, Sandra Haberle, Jim Haley, Carol Hartney, Baby Jack, Chrissy Karabin, Janine D. Kelly, Carmen Listro, Carol MacGuffin Langstroth, Baby Max, Kerry McCauley, James Molloy, Catherine Mortell, Mike Napoli, Baby Ouin O’Shea, Luz Payano, Kathleen Quinn, Jeanne Riccardo, Maria Santoli, Nicholas Sica, Gloria Weis, Priscilla Waltz, Lillian Weber, Carolann White.

STEWARDSHIP . . . A WAY OF LIFE Thank you for your Financial Stewardship and donations to the Campaign for Human Development/ Home Missions last week. This week there will be a collection for the Long Island Catholic.

Thank you for your generosity!

PRAYER GROUP Mondays 7:30pm in the Chapel.

All welcome. Come and bring a friend! Call John & Rosemary Murello at 676-2767 for more information.

ST. BONIFACE HOLY HOUR AND BENEDICTION Wednesdays at 2pm in the Chapel.

PRAYER VIGIL FOR THE SICK Thursdays 7pm -7:30pm in the Chapel BIBLE STUDY

Lieutenant Melissa Buffa & Lieutenant Travis Buffa Petty Officer Keith Cano USCG Lance CPL Matthew B. Christman Second Lieutenant Mario Coronel, US Army.

Flight Lieutenant Joseph Doyle Jake A. Hojnowski, Sailor E-3, US Navy Lance CPL Gregory Knox Captain Brett Korade, USN Lieutenant Brian McMenamin Lieutenant Ian McMenamin Private First Class Joshua McMillan Ensign Michael R. Ragusa, USN Private First Class Cole N. Muttee, U.S.M.C. Lieutenant Drew Whitting, USN Captain Christina Merrick-Wright Captain Bradley Wright, US Army .

5% DONATION “Your plenty at the present time should supply their needs so that their surplus may in turn one day supply your need.” (II Cor 8:14) If you have any “plenty” left over, please place it in an envelope marked “For Special Assistance” and Fr. Bob will make sure it is given to those “to supply their need." PLEASE PRAY about this and see what Jesus is calling you to do.

Thursdays 7:30pm in the Parish Center "I have put my hope in your word." Psalm 119:147 As we listen to Gods' word read to us at Mass, we are filled with hope and confidence that His precious word will guide us on our life journey. Our guide will be "Bringing the Gospel of St. Luke to Life", by George Martin. For more information and to order a book call John or Rosemary Murello at 676-2767.

THE CHAPLET OF DIVINE MERCY Fridays 3pm in the Chapel “Be merciful, just as your Father is merciful,” from Saint Faustina’s diary.

BINGO! Fridays 7pm at the Knights of Columbus Hall in Glen Cove.

All proceeds go to charity, including our St. Boniface Outreach Program.

MIRACULOUS MEDAL NOVENA Saturdays after 8am Mass in the Chapel with the veneration of the relic of St. Catherine Labore.

LAY CARMELITES OF BLESSED TITUS BRANDSMA Third Saturdays 9am in the Parish Center Call Flora at 656-9375 or Pat at 887-7265 for details.

ROSARY Mondays-Saturdays after 8am Mass in the Chapel.

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Dear Parishioners, "Therefore, you too must stand ready, because the Son of Man is coming at an hour you do not expect." MT 24:37-44 As we begin the Advent Season, the Gospel challenges us to be watchful and alert for the coming of the Lord. The Season of Advent is like a stop sign on our journey of life. As we stop, we are called to reflect on what in our life, from the past year, has begun to clutter our lives and our hearts. Are there areas and issues in our lives that keep us from preparing a place for Jesus?

The days of preparation for Christmas can sometimes cause the season of Advent to fade into the background. I dare say we all begin with good intentions, but as the days move forward the rush and scramble of the Christmas season take hold of us. So I encourage you to be aware of these days of preparation and enter into the prayer and self-reflection that the Advent Season invites us to.

Many families display an Advent Wreath in their homes, and before dinner say prayers of blessing before lighting the candle. The Advent Wreath is the main symbol of the season.

You will notice that the wreath has four (4) candles, representing the four weeks of Advent. Each week we light a candle to remind us that the time of salvation draws near.

Three of the candles are purple (the first, second and fourth week) -- purple is the color of waiting, conversion and hope. The third week we light a pink or rose-colored candle. It is in the third week that we first hear in the Scriptures of the coming of the Messiah. The color of joy is white and when that is mixed with purple is creates pink. But even in that joy of hearing of the Messiah, we are reminded to continue to focus on our preparations and hence the fourth week is again a purple candle. If you go online you can find prayers for each weeks blessings. How wonderful a custom to be able to bring the symbols of the season into our homes!

I am beginning to gather a committee to assist in planning the restoration and renovation of our church. If anyone would like to be part of this process, please call the parish center and leave your name and number.

Last week one of our parishioners, Lori Golden LCHS, a Lady of the Equestrian Order of the Holy Sepulchre of Jerusalem, was promoted to Lady Commander at a beautiful ceremony at St. Patrick's Cathedral on Saturday, November 23. I wish to congratulate her on this prestigious honor.

The Holy Day of the Immaculate Conception has been moved to Monday, December 9th.

The obligation to attend mass is transferred to Monday.

A family in the parish has donated a new Nativity scene for the outside of our Church. I would like to thank them for this most generous and beautiful gift. We will bless the new nativity on Saturday, December 14th after the 5pm mass. The stable that houses our nativity scene was built by parishioners. I would like to thank them for their hard work. The families wish to remain anonymous.

May Jesus, our Messiah and Mary, Mother of the New Advent bless you all.

Fr. Bob

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Sunday, December 1 The finest and most challenging gift Catholics can give themselves today is to postpone the season of tinsel and twinkling lights and embrace wholeheartedly the quiet time of purple and blue: Advent. It’s the annual struggle to “delay gratification” when the whole world seems to have plunged into “pre-celebrating” Christmas. Savor the deliciousness of waiting, anticipating. Remember how thrilling it was as a child to look forward? Step into the world of Isaiah and God’s promises, the world of Mary, overshadowed and overtaken by grace, the world of John the Baptist announcing, “Prepare!” The celebration will come later.

Monday, December 2 Humility tends to get a bad rap in our society. After all, why not brag a little about what you’ve achieved instead of only listening to others talk about their success? Why admit you need help when society places such an emphasis on self-sufficiency? Humility can be associated with being weak. But the root word of “humility,” humus (“earth”), suggests otherwise. It speaks of groundedness, of knowing who we are and whose we are—the beloved of God—and feeling secure in that knowledge. With humility comes the freedom to be yourself and allow others to do the same.

How can you embrace humility and freedom in the course of your day today?

Tuesday, December 3 Memorial of St. Francis Xavier As appreciation for unfamiliar traditions has increased, especially in recent years, missionary methods have changed. Living 500 years ago, however, Jesuit priest Saint Francis Xavier was a missionary well ahead of his time. Not only is it estimated he converted more people to Christianity than anyone since Saint Paul, he insisted that missionaries adapt to local customs and cultures and learn the native language before discussing matters of faith. His method provided a model for modern evangelization. Show similar respect for differing beliefs in your conversations about faith.

Wednesday, December 4 Memorial of St. John Damascene God does not send us away hungry. Remember this promise of faith the next time you find yourself feeling empty. During times of spiritual dryness, trust that you

will be fulfilled. As Saint John Damascene observed, as created beings, humans are subject to flux: “By flux,” writes this seventh-century church doctor, “I mean . . . depletion, for dry things and wet things and spirit suffer depletion, and require repletion.” The best thing you can do to restore your soul is to continue to pray and do good works. As you feed others, you will soon find yourself satisfied.

Thursday, December 5 Many a Christian saint began their holy path in life by turning away from wealth. Saint Francis of Assisi is probably the most famous example, but there were others. They took literally Jesus’ command to sell what you have and give to the poor. You may not need to get rid of everything you own to be of service to God’s kingdom—though some downsizing and donating couldn’t hurt. A spirit of self-emptying for God and others will probably be enough.

Friday, December 6 Memorial of St. Nicholas Saint Nicholas, a Greek bishop of the fourth century, is said to have heard of the plight of three unmarried daughters who had no money for the dowries—a situation that could have led to a life of destitution for these women. Being too modest to help the family publicly, Nicholas threw purses filled with gold coins through their window or, in another version of the story, dropped them down the chimney. Yet another rendition says that one daughter washed her stockings and hung them near the fire to dry—and then bags of gold fell into the socks. Heard that one before? Hold onto the little customs of the holidays. They are links to long ago.

Saturday, December 7 Memorial of St. Ambrose Imagine you’re one of the adults getting ready for Baptism in your parish’s RCIA or OCIA—and you’ve been chosen bishop! Then, a week after the big day, you’re on the job. That’s what happened to Saint Ambrose in the fourth century. A lawyer and, like his father, a government official, Ambrose put his strength of character and negotiating skills to work, standing up to emperors and generals and averting wars. He was also a scripture commentator and renowned homilist and mentor to Saint Augustine, who would eventually join him in the ranks of those considered doctors of the church. Be ready to use your gifts when they’re called upon. ©2013 by TrueQuest Communications, L.L.C. Licensed for noncommercial use. All rights reserved.

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Pastoral Team

The youth group will be meeting this Sunday, December 1, from 6pm-8pm in the Youth Center.

There will also be a 5pm Youth Music Ministry Rehearsal in the Chapel for Midnight Christmas Mass.

All 8-12 grade singers and instrumentalists are invited!

For an updated schedule of youth group events join our Facebook page ‘St. Boniface Martyr Youth Group or email the youth minister, Chris, at stbonym@gmail.com.

St. Vincent de Paul Society Thank you for your support!

Furniture and financial donations are always welcome. You are too! Come join the St. Vincent de Paul Society and become a communal part of your parish. Call 822-3132.

Toys for Tots The Globe and Anchor Detachment #225 of Glen Cove along with The United States Marine Corps Reserves re implementing their Toys-for-Tots Campaign. Please bring a new unwrapped gift for a needy child to St. Boniface Church The Marines will pick up the boxes on December 13. Thank you!

Journey Through Advent St. Gertrude’s Church December 1, 8, 15 & 22 1pm - 2:30pm Presenter: Sr. Mary McConnell, CSJ formerly of St. Ignatius Jesuit Retreat House Come to one ~ Come to all! Free Will Offering

FK G j|ÇÇxÜá November 23 ~ $25: Annemarie Zabielski, Glen Head November 24 ~ $25 Irene McCormack, Sea Cliff November 25 ~ $25: Laureen Feehan, Glen Head November 26 ~ $25: Thomas J. Granieri, Glen Cove November 27 ~ $25: Bill & Barbara Laderer, Glen Head November 28 ~ $25: Emily Furlong, Glen Cove November 29 ~ $25: Howard Beisser, Glendale, NY Tickets are in the church vestibule & parish center.

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Pastor: Fr. Robert A. Romeo E-mail: stbonpastor@gmail.com In Residence: Fr. Azubuike Deacon Tom Fox: stbondcntom@gmail.com Music: Jeffrey Schneider E-mail: stbonmusic@gmail.com All Saints Regional Catholic School (ASR) Principal: The Very Reverend Dom Elias Carr, Can. Reg. Joanne Fitzgerald, Dean 12 Pearsall Avenue, Glen Cove, NY 11542 (516) 676-0762. Wesite: www.asrcatholic.org Religious Education: Karen Croce Phone: (516) 671-0418; E-mail: stbonccd@gmail.com Youth Ministry: Chris Mandato Email: stbonym@gmail.com Parish Outreach: Jerry Moran & Kevin O’Shea Parish Center. Wednesdays & Saturdays. 10 am-1pm Phone: (516) 676-0676. Email:stbonchurch@gmail.com Business & Finance: Eileen Krieb E-mail: stbonfinance@gmail.com Administration: Joan Schiller E-mail: stbonchurch@gmail.com Bulletin Editor: Julie Byrne. E-mail: stbonbulletin@gmail.com Bulletin Deadline: Noon Monday.

Website: www.saintboniface.org Webmaster: Robert Lynch Maintenance: Anacleto Rivera: 516-676-0676 Parish Center: 145 Glen Avenue, Sea Cliff, NY 11579 (516) 676-0676 / Fax: (516) 674-6742 E-mail: stbonchurch@gmail.com / www.saintboniface.org Office Hours: 9am-12:30pm & 1:30pm-4:30pm, Monday-Friday Parish Registration: We welcome all new members of our parish family. We ask all parishioners to welcome and invite new neighbors and their families to become a part of St. Boniface Martyr Parish.

Parish registration (census) forms available by the main doors of the church and in the parish office for new members. Please return completed forms to the parish office.

Baptism: Parents wishing to present a child for Baptism should be registered members of St. Boniface Martyr Parish. Parents are required to have a Baptism Preparation Interview and attend a Baptism class. Baptisms are celebrated on the last Sunday of the month. Godparents must be fully initiated members of the Catholic Church (having received the sacraments of Baptism, Confirmation and Eucharist), and provide a sponsor certificate. Please call 6760676 to pre-arrange.

Marriage: Couples wishing to be married should call the parish office before any other arrangements are made. A minimum of six months is needed for marriage preparations.

Rite of Christian Initiation of Adults (RCIA): An ongoing process of formation for those who ever wonder if they should become “Catholic”. If interested, call Fr. Bob at 676-0676.

Reconciliation (Confession): Saturdays 4pm-4:45pm in church.

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