Preparing for Pet Loss

For so many of us our animals are our companions and beloved members of our family. Th ey provide us with unconditional love, emotional support, and enjoyment during their far too short lives. W h ile experiencing loss can be devastating, it is an inevitable part of owning a pet.

Making the decision to euthanize a pet is one of the most difficult choices you will have to make for them even when it might be the kindest option. Something you can do to help you decide is to look at its quality of life. Is your pet in pain? Is it eating and drinking? Is it still able to go for walks or engage in activities it normally enjoys? You could keep a daily log to determine if the “bad” days outnumber the “good.” O nce you have made the decision, you then need to determine if you would prefer to take your pet to the veterinarian or have someone come to your home. Choosing to do it at home would provide you with another level of privacy. No matter the location you can provide comfort to your pet by having it lay on its favorite bed or blanket surrounded by its favorite toy(s).

Something you should consider in advance is what you plan to do with your pet’s remains. W e ighing out your options and knowing what they are ahead of time would be easier with a clear head than when the moment arrives and you are feeling distressed or emotional.

Should you choose cremation you have the option to select who performs that service even if your pet is euthanized at the vet. Y o u can make arrangements for the crematorium to pick up your pet at your vet’s office or your home, or you may also prefer to drop them off yourself.

It is not unusual to feel great sorrow. The grief process is an individual path for us all and while some may not understand your feelings or the bond you had with your pet, you should not feel ashamed or alone. You may find comfort in speaking with a loved one or someone you know who has previously lost a pet. Th ere are also books that may help guide you through the process as well as pet loss support groups and hotlines. Y o u may choose to prepare a memorial to honor your pet. Portraits and other types of commemoratives can provide some comfort as you grieve and remind you of the fun and love you shared. If a photograph is your preference, there are skilled photographers out there who have experience working with pets who can help you create a professional tribute. You may also wish to have multiple sessions that celebrate different stages in your lives together.

If your pet is cremated, there are now a number of beautiful urns and even jewelry that can hold small bits of your pet’s ashes. Yo u might also wish to scatter some in a place that was special for you both. Think things through and plan ahead; many of these decisions can be made in advance, so you aren’t left feeling that you wish you had done something differently. O u r pets mean the world to us, and they deserve the best we can offer them in life and once they must leave us.

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