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Vol. 87 No. 4 • April 2022

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Federation Update on Ukraine Crisis

o address the need for volunteers, Jewish Federations of North America (JFNA) is creating an online hub. Through a centralized application process, volunteers from North America will be placed with Jewish and Israeli partner organizations working on the ground. JFNA is recruiting qualified applicants through the Russian-speaking Jewish (RSJ) network to volunteer for two to four weeks, beginning in April, to help refugees on the Ukrainian borders and at “olim hotels.” In particular, JFNA is seeking those with a mental health background. Volunteers will receive insurance coverage, local accommodations, meals, local transport, and a modest end-of-service bonus. The application form can be found at: https://www.tfaforms.com/4972390. Donations are being accepted at www. jewishnashvilleorg/ukraine•

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Nashville’s Jewish Community Collaborates on Efforts to Aid Newly Arrived Afghan Allies By BARBARA DAB

ashville’s Jewish community, in partnership with The Jewish Federation and Jewish Foundation of Nashville and Middle Tennessee, and Jewish Family Service of Middle Tennessee, is bringing together dozens of volunteers to aid and support Afghan ally families arriving in Middle Tennessee. According to Nashville International Center for Empowerment (NICE), more than 50,000 people have been forced to flee from Afghanistan, with several hundred arriving in Nashville. To help with needs ranging from housing and other basic necessities, to obtaining a driver’s license, finding a job, and enrolling children in school, three teams of Jewish community volunteers participated in extensive trainings offered by NICE. Volunteers Continued on page 15

Volunteers accompany recently arrived Afghan families on a shopping trip.

Team leader Evelyn Koch getting to know the family her team is sponsoring.

Reflections from the Border of Ukraine and Poland Editor’s Note: Jewish Federation and Jewish Foundation of Nashville and Middle Tennessee Board member, Aron Karabel, spent 36 hours in Poland as part of a JFNA emergency mission to provide support, supplies, and to bear witness to the unfolding refugee crisis in Ukraine. Aron is also the Co-Chair of the JFNA National Young Leadership Cabinet and has just spent an additional week in Israel. He posted the following reflection on his Facebook page, along with photos and videos, from the ground at the border town of Medyka. Additionally, Aron and the roughly 20 other participants brought with them 5,000 lbs in donated clothing, diapers, and other basic necessities. With Aron’s permission, we are reprinting his post as it reflects his real time impressions of the unfolding humanitarian tragedy. Videos can be viewed on The Observer’s website, www.jewishobservernashville.org By ARON KARABEL, CO-CHAIR JFNA NATIONAL YOUNG LEADERSHIP CABINET

’m privileged, period. There is no other way to see it after what I have witnessed these last 36 hours. Abby Eisen Goldstein and I were on a 6:30am flight from Warsaw to Tel Aviv this morning. I could count on one hand the number of men on this flight. A Publication of the

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Aron Karabel and Abby Eisen Goldstein from JFNA National Young Leadership Cabinet, visit the Polish border to witness Ukrainian refugees fleeing their country

Over 160 women and children boarded this morning and according to the flight crew most are from Ukraine. Their eyes say everything. They look exhausted and broken. It was also eerily quiet even with a flight filled with children including newborns. Women’s Passover Experience to Focus on Human Trafficking and Victims’ Journeys to Freedom, page 4

It’s hard to imagine that in 2022 we are faced with a global humanitarian crisis ripping families apart and forcing millions of women and children to flee leaving their husbands, fathers and partners behind to defend their homeland. Nobody should have such destructive Chief Prosecutor of Nuremberg Trial to Share His History of Hope and Justice, page 12

power through an unjustified and unprovoked war. Yesterday, on the border near Medyka, we witnessed something that will stay with me and haunt me forever. We watched several women and children walking through the border. The children were holding tattered stuffed animals and multi-color backpacks. We saw elderly in wheel chairs helpless and waiting for assistance to move from one area to the next. At the gates, families were greeted by someone in an animal costume. In a weird and morbid way, it felt like they were crossing the finish line of a marathon with food and supplies waiting for them at the entrance. For some, the travel was several hours and for others it took days if not weeks. They had small suitcases and bags with strollers and some with pets. Some were pushing their luggage in shopping carts. All looked bewildered - for “shit” sake, I was bewildered. I watched family after family walk through a narrow path (about 300 yards long) past hundreds of tents filled with supplies from formula to diapers to water to soup. So many humanitarian organizations, news crews and governmental officials. Not a single person was denied entry - not one. Continued on page 6

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Federation Funds New Community-Wide Emergency Alert System By BARBARA DAB

hen it comes to responding to natural disasters and security threats, planning is key. According to the Federal Emergency Management Agency (FEMA), it is important for faith communities to build a culture of preparedness that enhances security. The Jewish Federation and Jewish Foundation of Nashville and Middle Tennessee is taking that directive seriously by providing funding to synagogues, Jewish schools, and other institutions to improve emergency response and alert systems. The latest improvement is the Alertus system, which is a communication system that combines hardware (facility-based beacons) and a mobile application, both of which are cloud-based. The Temple is the first facility where the beacons have been installed. Eric Stillman, CEO of The Jewish Federation, says, “Jewish community security in Nashville and Middle Tennessee is a top priority for our Federation. Through dollars raised in our Annual Campaign, Federation security grants to our congregations and agencies have made possible the purchase and installation of this crucial communications and notification system. This only

The newly installed Alertus Beacon at The Temple is part of an improved emergency alert and preparedness system in Nashville’s Jewish community.

was possible because the Federation has taken the lead on community security to help keep our Jewish communal institutions and Jewish community members safe.”

The Beacon is an alert system that is affixed to the walls of the institution at various points and when activated, it uses a loud horn and voice notification telling people where to go and what to do. Kevin Painter, Senior Regional Account Manager with Alertus Technologies, says the goal is to improve communication throughout the entire community. “When there is an emergency, there needs to be a fast, efficient way to alert people to a risk. The Beacon provides a single point of activation without the need for a phone or other device.” For example, during Shabbat services, many people do not have access to their phones. Mark Shepard, Facilities Manager at The Temple says, “This beacon is going to be a great way to respond to everyone in the building if something happens.” The Alertus Beacon is an addition to the app-based notification system already being used in Nashville’s Jewish Community. Adam Bronstone, Director of Planning and Israel Partnerships for The Federation, says integrated systems like the one provided by Alertus are efficient specifically because it connects the entire community. “We have a community that is very closely connected

geographically. It’s easy for an intruder to go from one to the other and find the weak link. All the organizations need to be able to stay in touch with each other.” Stillman says the process for determining the best system was collaborative, “In addition to hardening facilities against threats, our Federation leads security coordination in Jewish Nashville and Middle Tennessee at the highest levels with local, state, and Federal law enforcement.” The Beacon response system will be installed throughout the Jewish community, and in addition to Federation’s funding, the Department of Homeland Security is providing some funds to assist with installation. Mark Shepard says The Temple is pleased to participate in the community-wide effort. “We’re very excited. Anything we get in the form of improved security puts us that much ahead of what is going on in the world.” And The Temple’s President, Jimmy Marks, says, “The Temple is very appreciative of the support provided by The Federation to enhance security for Nashville’s Jewish institutions. Alertus is one of the many security initiatives supported by The Federation that will make our community safer.” •

Community Relations Committee Never Again By DEBORAH OLESHANSKY

hortly after the end of World War II, Holocaust survivors began using the term, “Never Again” as a rallying cry to bring world attention to the unprecedented horror they had witnessed, and against all odds, survived. The phrase continues to be used both particularly by the Jews to demand that the world never again be silent to attempts of genocide against the Jewish people, and universally to demand the end of such barbarism against any group. Elie Wiesel, Holocaust survivor and author who came to be associated with the phrase, used it in the universal sense. “Never again becomes more than a slogan: It’s a prayer, a promise, a vow…never again the glorification of base, ugly, dark violence.” Ukrainian President Volodymyr Zelenskyy has invoked Never Again, in our time, asking what the point of Never Again is if we stand by as Russian military continues the unrelenting vicious and indiscriminately violent attacks against Ukraine which seem to specifically target civilians, displacing millions of people including at least 1.5 million children. This is a particularly painful number, as it is the same number of children killed by the Nazis during WWII. Anyone who has visited the Children’s memorial at

Yad Vashem remembers the poignant visual representation, entering the dark and emotional space, in which one simple candle is reflected over a million times to represent the lives of each child murdered. Once seen, the memory of that image is permanently imbedded and remains in our hearts and minds forever. On Sunday, May 1, remembering the children of the Holocaust will serve as the theme for our Community Yom HaShoah (Holocaust Remembrance) service. Our invited speaker, Joanna Sliwa, will share about the lives of children in the Krakow Ghetto, and connect it to what we are currently witnessing, so many years after the end of WWII. Remembering the children is also the theme of the Butterfly Project in which we in Nashville will join with others in learning about the horrors of the Holocaust as a way of combatting bigoty and discrimination not only in the past, but in also in our time. Through education of both the darkness and the beauty, the overall project seeks to create 1.5million ceramic butterflies, one for every Jewish child murdered by the Nazis. The imperative to remember those lives remains, and it echoes forward to the devastation currently being inflicted in Europe. For those of us old enough to remember the organized Jewish world

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collective cry to Save Soviet Jewry, this is a painful reminder that the work we thought was finished remains incomplete. Particularly ironic, Jewish President Zelenskyy is a function of the work to try to remake and reinvigorate Jewish live in Ukraine over the past generation after the war. The physical representation of that work, schools, hospitals, and civic life, has been destroyed by Russian missiles, but the ongoing quest for freedom, democracy, and peace continues. In his address to Congress, President Zelenskyy implored, “Today it is not enough to be the leader of the nation. Today, to be the leader of the world means to be the leader of peace. Peace in your country doesn’t depend anymore only on you and your people. It depends on those next to you – on those who are strong,” he continued. “Strong doesn’t mean big. Strong is brave and ready to fight for the lives of his citizens and citizens of the world. Today, the Ukrainian people are defending not only Ukraine – we are fighting for the values of Europe and the world, to provide our lives in the name of the future,” he said. When addressing German lawmakers, Zelenskyy referred to the post-Holocaust phrase Never Again. “Politicians always say ‘Never Again,’ but we see that these words are worthless…Support free-

dom, support Ukraine, stop this war, help us to stop this war.” There is no quick or simple solution to end the Russian assault, or the humanitarian crisis that has already resulted in 4 million people, 10% of the population of Ukraine, being forced to flee for their lives. No one yet knows what will happen for many of these people. Will they ever be able to return to home? Will there even be homes for them to return to when Russia ends the madness? So many of us, especially those with direct ties to Holocaust survivors and former Soviet Jewry, hoped that Europe had seen the last of this sort of barbarism. Unfortunately, we were wrong. Power corrupts and absolute power corrupts absolutely. We have an obligation and a responsibility to do what we can in our time and place to remember the past and try to build a better future. The work towards a world free from violence, hatred, and destruction continues. Never Again means each of us must not only remember the past, but we also must use that memory to address the current humanitarian crisis happening right now. For information about our Community Yom HaShoah service May 1, or the Butterfly Project, please contact Deborah Oleshansky, deborah@ jewishnashville.org •

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The Ins and Outs of Planning to Live a Long Time By MICHAEL WHITNEY, BARBARA MOSS, AND HARRY PERRET

e do need to plan for a long life. Since the 1950s, average life expectancies have increased to 80 years. We do need to plan for a long life. Since the 1950s, average life expectancies have increased to 80 years. We help people plan for income, housing, healthcare, chronic conditions, and long-term care. How will you answer these questions for yourself or for a loved one? Legal services—what documents do I need, how does Social Security work, should I take steps to qualify now or in the future for Veteran’s benefits or TennCare? Healthcare and long-term care (LTC)—how will I find and pay for healthcare and pay for long-term care. Where should I live; how will I manage a chronic condition? Advocacy—what if my family isn’t getting along, what if I’m being taken advantage of? What’s Your Plan? Do you feel you are going to live a long life? Do you agree that the longer you live, the greater likelihood your health could become compromised, and you may need some kind of extended care? Are you sure that your home will always be the right place for you? If you needed care, would that have an impact on those you love? What are Your Concerns? It can be overwhelming to confront the future. How will I access quality healthcare? How will I be able to pay for long-term care? How can I continue to live independently? How can I maintain mobility and control over decision c

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making? Can I still leave a legacy for my loved ones? What will the government pay for: Medicare vs. Medicaid? Medicare only covers a maximum of 100 days of skilled care after a 3-day hospitalization. It is designed to pay for severe, short-term illness only. Medicaid (called “TennCare” here in Tennessee), is a program for people who qualify and not just those who are impoverished. There are protections, for a spouse at home for example, that have been around since the 1980’s and are little understood. In addition, if you have a life expectancy of greater than 5-years, sophisticated planning can preserve some, if not all, of your assets. What is Long-Term Care? Long-term care involves help with activities of daily living (“ADLs”). You can receive that help at home, in adult day services, or as a resident in assisted living facilities or skilled nursing facilities. Long-term care is not simply nursing home care. Why is Planning Important? Not having a plan is the default. I will self-fund from my own assets, so which asset should I use first? Retirement planning is income planning AND protecting against the unexpected. A single long-term care event can become the biggest potential risk to our portfolio. For some of us, this is the time to consider having a partner to help cover the costs in a tax-efficient manner. Private Long-Term Care Options That Provide Answers: Standalone LTCi: Smaller annual premiums provide a greater benefit pool when care is needed Linked-Benefit Life Hybrid: The leveraging power of existing assets is in the LTC benefit pool – LTC is the key reason for purchase; legacy assets are a secondary benefit

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Linked-Benefit Annuity Hybrid: Leveraging an annuity for multiplied value in an LTC benefit pool; if LTC is not need the annuity benefit remains Accelerated Benefit Life: Life insurance is the key driver in this concept – access to the death benefit as a living benefit covers care expenses Life Care Planning: Legal Planning: Powers of attorney, wills, revocable trusts, irrevocable trusts, qualifying for VA Benefits or Medicaid now or in the future. Care Coordination: Having a care coordinator who can navigate finding care and housing Advocacy: Having a law firm to advocate for you or a loved one Care and Housing Can Be Expensive: Since the cost of care is always rising, what seems like a reasonable amount of long-term care coverage insurance today may not be sufficient for future care needs. Today’s products include additional leverage, riders or return-of-premi-

um guarantees. A long-term care policy is an asset, not an expense – it creates pool of tax-free benefits. Some coverage is better than none. Having a plan may free up some assets to pass on to a charity of your choosing. It is truly hard to talk about aging, diminished capacity, and death. We are good at pretending that we are never going to die and there is no chance we will become disabled. But we know, in the back of our minds, what the reality is. In our practices, we pull aside the curtain for a minute, do some planning, and provide people with peace of mind. • Submitted by: Michael F Whitney, MBA, CRPC® Wise Family Wealth, LLC, Barbara Moss Esq. Elder Law of Nashville PLC, Harry Perret, The Oak Tree Advisors. All are members of the Jewish Federation of Nashville Professional Advisory Council (PAC). For more information about the PAC members and the upcoming seminar on May 11th, contact Eric Stillman at eric@jewishnashville.org.

From Treasure to Tzedakah with Life & Legacy By NORMA SHIRK

iving is more satisfying than receiving. We’ve all heard this adage. Most of us think of cash when we think of giving. However, we all have treasures with cash value that can be donated as part of an individual’s estate plan for charitable giving to non-profits. Now members of our community have an opportunity to learn more about the cash value of their treasures at “From Treasure to Tzedakah”. This event will be held on Thursday, April 14, 2022, from 5:30 – 7:30 pm at The Temple. Appraisers will be on hand to provide non-binding estimates of the value of jewelry, watches, sterling silver, or other items. From Treasure to Tzedakah is sponsored by the Jewish Federation and Jewish Foundation of Nashville and Middle Tennessee, as part of the Life &

Legacy program in our community. It is a celebration of the conclusion of Year 5 of the program in our community. It is also the first in-person event for our community’s Life & Legacy program in almost two years. Life & Legacy is a program of the Harold Grinspoon Foundation which assists communities across North America, through partnerships with Jewish Federations and Foundations, to promote after-lifetime giving to build endowments that will provide financial stability to Jewish day schools, synagogues, social service organizations, and other Jewish entities. Nationally, this program has received over $1 billion in commitments. Nashville’s Life & Legacy program has obtained commitments in excess of $22 million of which over $550,000 has already been received by the designated organizations. •

Disability Inclusion Corner By ADAM BRONSTONE

Upcoming Activity On April 3, from 11:00am – 2:00pm The Federation is hosting Jewish Nashville Community Day, with booths and activities for everyone in the Jewish community of Nashville and Middle Tennessee. The Federation’s Disability Inclusion Committee is hosting one of these booths. When you visit the booth, you will learn about grant opportunities for individuals and organizations through the Lori Ann Fishel Special Needs Fund, see hands-on technological devices created by Vanderbilt University Tikkun Olam Maker (TOM) students and your kids can make their own calming bottles, complete with a few different kinds of glitter! Partner Spotlight The mission of Siskin Children’s Institute is to improve the quality of life

for children with special needs and their families. Siskin is a nonprofit organization that provides pediatric services throughout the region which includes a medical clinic for diagnosis and therapy and two early learning centers in Chattanooga, Tennessee and a Nashville, Tennessee clinic that also provides diagnosis, therapy, and family resources to the greater Nashville area. Our goal is to ensure children get the developmental services they need by enhancing access to care across the region and beyond. The Federation’s Disability Inclusion Committee works with partner organizations in and outside of the Jewish community with the goal to provide services and access to services for every member of our community. Siskin Children’s Institute is one of these partners. To learn more about its services: www.siskin.org •

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Women’s Passover Experience to Focus on Human Trafficking and Victims’ Journeys to Freedom By BARBARA DAB

he traditional Passover story recounts the journey of the Israelites from bondage in Egypt to their eventual liberation in the desert. But modern-day slavery looks very different from the biblical images of an entire people banding together and seizing their own freedom in a dramatic escape. Today’s victims are typically women and teenage girls, who are exploited for the purposes of sexual or labor servitude known as human trafficking. There are pathways to freedom for victims, and this year’s Women’s Passover Experience, a collaborative event between Congregation Micah and The Temple, will explore that journey. According to Rabbi Laurie Rice of Congregation Micah, “This event will provide a window into what it means in today’s world for women who are in bondage to be liberated.” The event, scheduled for April 12th, will feature Assistant District Attorney Sarah Butler as keynote speaker. Butler specializes in the prosecution of human trafficking cases in the office of District Attorney Glenn Funk. Butler has been in the position since 2018 and says her

Assistant District Attorney Sarah Butler will discuss her work prosecuting human trafficking cases at the Women’s Passover Experience.

Conservative Jewish upbringing in New York was influential in her decision to join the DA’s office. “My religion is part of my identity. The Passover story played a big role in how I came to value this

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aspect of the law.” She says there are many misconceptions about what human trafficking is, and who the victims are. “It’s not what people think. The traffickers prey on people, mostly women, with existing vulnerabilities. Those include addiction, mental illness, and runaways. And Nashville is a hub for trafficking because of where it’s located, right in the middle of the country with access to the Interstate and booming tourism,” she says. In fact, girls between the ages of 14 and 17 are most vulnerable. According to Leah Moyers, Chief Operating Officer of End Slavery Tennessee, “Thirty percent of victims are under 18, and 40-45% are under 24. The average victim’s lifespan is seven years.” Moyers says people of color and those in the LGBTQ community are particularly vulnerable. Both Butler and Moyers say it is important for people to know where human trafficking occurs. “Most people think it only happens in urban cores, but it is also happening in rural areas,” says Moyers. Butler says it is also very difficult to prosecute these types of cases, often for unexpected reasons. “The victims develop what is called a ‘trauma bond,’ with their captors. She feels attached and doesn’t want to leave.” She says that bond also makes it difficult for these cases to make it to trial. “Long term rehabilitation is something DA Glenn Funk is focused on, and that is really more dependent on the availability of wrap around services.” And, says Butler, the key to prevention

is diligence on the part of parents. “Pay attention to online safety. Know who your child’s friends are. Educate them to be aware of the dangers.” And Moyers says it is important to know that human trafficking is considered a violent crime, so it is important to report suspicious activities. Professionals and advocates, like Butler and Moyers, say the focus on human trafficking is still in its adolescence and best practices are developing. In addition to Butler, the event will feature a survivor of human trafficking who will tell her own story. Rabbi Shana Mackler, of The Temple, says events like the Women’s Passover Experience help raise awareness and connect people to this issue in a personal way. “Ritually during Passover, we are supposed to celebrate coming out of slavery, and the survivor will be able to share her own story of freedom.” She adds, “When slavery was institutionalized it was easier to see it and be offended by it. But in this case, it’s hidden so we have to be educated about it and stand up to it.” The Women’s Passover Experience is scheduled for Thursday, April 12th at 7:00pm at Congregation Micah. In addition to the speakers, there will be a reception featuring a marketplace of items from Thistle Farms, and a discount for Thistle Farms’ online store. There is no fee, but advance registration is required, and the event is open to the public. For more information, visit https://congregationmicah.shulcloud. com/event/pesachwomen •

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Thursday, April 7 at 7:00PM on Zoom Making Passover Meaningful for Interfaith Couples & Families - All are Welcome RSVP on thetemplehub.org/passoverprep

Saturday, April 9 at 10:00AM Tot Shabbat Passover with Rabbi Mackler and Cantor Fishbein

Monday, April 12 at 7:00PM Women’s Passover Experience with Congregation Micah

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Ukraine Border Continued from page 1 They said it was a slower day with only a few hundred people coming through the border because the Ukrainian military held their ground near Kyiv. I couldn’t imagine a busier day because it already felt crowded. It’s only a matter of time we were told. Imagine if everyone in a major US city had to flee - that is the fear those on the border shared. The anxiety in their voices was palpable. I saw one family reunited. The kid smooshed between the parents and the husband rushing them out of the crowded crossing. The embrace was nothing I have ever seen. It gave me chills and made me miss my wife, Batia. Another mother with children maintained her composure until she crossed the border and then she broke. She could not stop weeping – they were finally safe. At the end of this narrow path were busses packed with people going to various places. Everyone standing and waiting. All of it was overwhelming to witness. I was heartbroken and infuriated at the same time. One refugee shared that people in Chernigov have been trapped for weeks. She was able to flee with her sister. But prior to that, they sheltered for 7 days in a basement without electricity and running water. The clothing she wore was provided to her from others. She shared that when children tried to go outside to find bread and other food, the Russian soldiers fired at them. Schools, she said, were completely destroyed. This was only one of several stories we heard from families separated. One mother shared that she told her 15-year old daughter Sophia, it’s time to grow up now. She could not hold back her tears as she recounted the dark days in unsanitary and crowded conditions sheltering

near her home. Nobody is safe in these cities, she said. Nobody knows if they have homes to go back to. Nobody knows what the next day will look like. What do we do about it? Let’s start with what we know. We know this is only going to get worse and the needs

will only grow. We know that the infrastructure on the ground is there because of the Jewish Federation, it’s partners, so many other humanitarian organizations and the Polish government. But more is and will be needed. We absolutely need to stretch our giving. We absolutely need to be a voice for Ukrainians. And we absolutely need to push our government to do more. There are millions of refugees that need our help and need our voices. There will be millions more in the weeks and months ahead. I don’t know what it feels like to flee and to be separated from loved ones. I don’t know what it’s like to lose everything. I can’t empathize with such pain. But I’m sure as hell going to find a way to advocate for Ukrainians, tell their stories, and give them some hope for a better tomorrow. Why? Because! If you feel the same, please donate at www.jewishnashville.org/ukraine. •

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here is no doubt that, if you are a child, your favorite part of the Passover Seder is related to the Afikoman. Technically speaking, Afikoman is not a very Jewish word. Like Karpas – which is Greek for fresh raw vegetables or for what we define as hors d’ouvres – Afikoman is one of those terms that remind us that the Passover Seder was a spin-off of the Greco-Roman symposium, the Hellenistic drinking party where men came to debate, plot, and boast with each other. The Mishna (Pesachim 10:8) teaches us that “Ayin Maftirin Ahar Afikoman,” which means that after eating the Passover offering, you couldn’t add an Afikoman. In the Greco-Roman tradition, after you were done with your meal, you would go on your way to other people’s homes to keep drinking and schmoozing with them. In Greek, that tradition gets the name of Epi Komon, or the “procession that comes after.” But our Sages didn’t want us to treat the Passover Seder lightly, so they forbade us from going from party to party all around the neighborhood. Once the Temple was destroyed, the Afikoman was transformed into the matza dessert that we eat at the end of the meal. The idea was to go to bed with the taste of the bread of affliction. Our sages were telling us that, after the big meal is over, the flavors of the Seder should keep us grounded. Pesach is about liberty, not about licentiousness; it is about strengthening freedom, not about falling into debauchery. The Mishna (Pesachim 10:4) also teaches us that, when retelling the Passover story, we must begin by acknowledging the Gnut, the shame, or the discomforting parts of who we are. And maybe that’s why the Afikoman is connected with the Yachatz, that step at the beginning of the Seder where we break the middle matza in two parts. The journey to our personal liberation begins with the recognition of our inner brokenness. By the end of the meal, we come full circle as we finally reunite ourselves with that part of ourselves that is broken (and many times hidden), but none of that can happen if we do not acknowledge that basic truth. We all carry cracks, dents, sorrows and pains, and Pesach is not about forgetting them, but about integrating them. We begin by recognizing our inner brokenness, and out of that recognition, as the Seder unfolds, we hope to make sense of the many pieces that make us who we are, as we try to get out of the bitterness of our own personal Egypt. According to Judaism, recognizing our inner frailty is not a sign of weakness but a symbol of utter strength. However, none of that is so easy to accomplish. Perhaps, that’s one of the reasons we hide the Afikoman right after we break the matza. We would love to pretend that the broken pieces are nowhere to be found, that they are not there. We would love to bury our feelings, to numb our pain, and to pretend that we are just fine. And maybe that’s why eating the Afikoman gets the name of Tzafun, which is Hebrew for hidden. It seems as if the Seder is looking to teach us that there’s no freedom, that there’s no

real exodus from Egypt, if we don’t face some of those things that, at times, we would rather hide. At the same time, “Afikoman,” as Rabbi Ed Feinstein explains, “is all that is hidden in the world that is still possible for us. It’s all that we ought to go and look for in the world to give us a sense of purpose and meaning in life.” The Afikoman, in other words, embodies all those feelings that we carry deep inside our souls, feelings that could help us and nurture us in times of trouble and pain. So… Think about what you felt the first time you kissed someone you love. Think about what you felt under the chuppah. All that love, and those promContinued on page 8

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ometimes you have to smile. With all the misery piling up from day to day in the ongoing Ukraine saga, there was one light moment. A newscaster in India was interviewing two guests about the crisis. One was an American analyst, the other an editor from a Kiev newspaper. The two guests were broadcasting from different locations and were represented by their own window on the screen. They were identified by the name on their respective windows. The American - as identified by his name - was talking nonstop. This irritated the newscaster who really wanted to hear from the man in Kiev. When the American ignored him, the newscast-

er challenged him, including by insulting him, and his presumed association with Western ‘colonial’ policy over many decades and centuries. But the American just carried on talking. At some point the journalist from Kiev seized the chance to speak. He seemed exasperated and demanded to know why he was being insulted. The newscaster assured him that he was castigating the American who wouldn’t stop talking. At this, the man replied that, in fact, he was the American, and the other guy, who wouldn’t stop talking, was actually Ukrainian! This is when the penny dropped as the newscaster realized that the two men’s Continued on page 14

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Wild Wild West End Fundraiser Includes Unique Experiences, and Silent Auction with a Twist By DEBBY WISTON

he return to an in-person fundraiser on Sunday May 1st at West End Synagogue is shaping up to be a night Nashvillians won’t want to miss, and includes a little something for everyone. In the West End Saloon, attendees will enjoy delicious goodies provided with love by Goldie Shepard Catering including options for vegans, and mouthwatering smoked brisket, chicken and salmon prepared by Jason Sparks and his pit crew. To wash all that delicious food down, there will be signature cocktails and tastings of West End Synagogue’s very first private label signature Tennessee Whiskey. If they don’t sell out in advance, bottles will be available for sale to take home. But the food is only a small part of the fun planned for the evening. No Saloon would be complete without an opportunity to gamble the night away. There will be Casino games including Roulette, Blackjack, Texas Hold ‘Em,

Brokeness Continued from page 7 ises; all the excitement and big expectations. Think about the birth of your children. Or the births of your nephews or nieces. Or when your own kids became parents and you became a grandfather or grandmother. Try to remember the happiness and the fear, the sense of fullness while holding that baby for the first time

and more. Each guest will for all the great items we are receive Casino cash and a getting for our very generous winner’s circle opportunity donors, but I’m also looking ticket. Additional winner’s forward to bidding on some circle tickets will be given of those items- many are out with each purchase of really tempting.” additional casino cash. At But there is a twist, the end of the evening, Helen explained, “When Winner’s Circle tickets can planning the event, we be used to win various prizes. wanted to make sure that the But the most interestsilent auction was more than ing part of the evening will just a typical auction offerbe the first silent auction at Abby Sparks is offering ing items only. There are so West End in many years. In a private challah baking many talented members of describing some of the auc- lesson to a lucky bidder our community we want to tion items one will find in at the Wild Wild West showcase their talents and the “General Store,” Helen End’s Silent Auction. offer a chance for others to Crowley, co-chair of the event, said, benefit from those talents.” In addition to “The silent auction promises to bring in items for bid, there will be an experience a variety of bidding opportunities includsection including a variety of different sering items related to health and wellness, vices offered by congregants. These expemusic memorabilia, local sports merriences range from exclusive one-on-one chandise, art Judaica, and delicious home runs and hikes, including one with Rabbi baked goodies.” Jessi Kullock shared that, Joshua Kullock, to challah baking lessons. “As a member of the silent auction comAbby Sparks is one of several bakers offermittee for this event, I’m not only excited ing a private lesson and she explained,

“I love baking challah every Friday and sharing it with family and friends. Making my own challah roots me in tradition while also giving me a creative outlet. I have fun experimenting with new braids, shapes, and flavors. I can’t wait to share this experience with a lucky winner, who will receive a hands-on challah class with me!” There will be a wide range of other opportunities from a Sunday morning schlep to flying lessons. The chance to bid on these unique experiences along with all the other amazing silent auction items is one you won’t want to miss. So, grab your boots and corral your friends for a night to remember on Sunday, May 1st from 6-10 p.m. Tickets and patron packages are available now on the West End website at https://westendsyn.org/wildwildwestend In addition to purchasing your tickets, bottles of West End’s Signature Tennessee Whiskey are also available at the same link. These bottles may sell out, so act quickly if you want one for your liquor cabinet. •

in your arms. Think about the moment you graduated from college. Or about the day you got your diploma. Or about the moment you got your first job. Think about buying your first car, your first home, or a new studio. Try to remember the reasons that make you kvell, those fleeting moments when you believed with all your soul that you were able to touch the sky with your fingertips. The hug of a friend, the happy tears of your

deep in our own souls, maybe we will be able to understand the pain of friends and loved ones dealing with depression and maybe we will be able to be there for them as they walk through their own valley of shadows. If we have the strength to let those feelings come to the surface, it will be easier for us to tell those surrounding us: “You are not alone, and I’m here for you.” During Pesach we go from recognizing our inner brokenness to reconnecting with some of the feelings that are hidden within ourselves. We transform our Gnut, our discomfort, into the cornerstone of our Shebach, of our glory and our salvation. And we do that together. When we are down, we are called to rediscover the joy that is hidden in our hearts, and when we are up, we are summoned to remember our own sorrows hoping to help ease other people’s pains. And we do that because it is through discovering what is concealed that we can embrace the idea that redemption is already here, if we only dare to make it happen. Maybe, just maybe, that’s one of the reasons Pesach always falls during spring: The seed of redemption has already been planted, and if we commit ourselves to nurture it, to shield it and to care for it, that seed with become a Tree of Life. Chag Sameach! •

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Temple’s Cantor Tracy Fishbein to Perform Jewish Music in Concert with Belmont University By BARBARA DAB

art of the fabric of Jewish life is the deep connection to and relationship with music. In addition to Jewish liturgy, Jews have contributed to the popular and classical music traditions. Cantor Tracy Fishbein of The Temple will share that legacy in concert with the Belmont Chorale and University Singers on Sunday, April 10th. The program, which is being conducted by Jane Warren, Assistant Professor of Music at Belmont University, is another expression of the growing relationship between The Temple and Belmont. Rabbi Mark Schiftan, of The Temple, says he is pleased to see this latest collaboration. “Cantor Fishbein’s concert, featuring

Jewish music, highlights the evolving embrace and partnership between the Jewish community and a historically Christian university.” The idea for the concert originated with Professor Warren, who conducts The Temple’s High Holiday choir. Cantor Fishbein says she is thrilled to collaborate with Warren on something that educates new audiences. “Jane thinks Jewish music is spiritual and meaningful and wants her students to be exposed to something they’d otherwise never see or hear,” she says. The original plan was for Fishbein to perform the Hashkiveinu prayer with the Belmont Chorale before the Covid19 pandemic. Warren says the postponement opened up other ideas. “I had a

conversation around Christmas time with a student, a young man I spotted wearing a yarmulke and it turned out he is a composition major. During our chat, I got the idea for a whole concert of Jewish music.” In planning for the concert, Cantor Fishbein says she worked directly with the students to help them understand the meaning and use for the various liturgical pieces. “I talked with them about what the actual text means, rather than just discussing the music. I wanted them to know how the prayers affect us as Jews when we pray.” Professor Warren says the students are very excited about what they learned. “When I started working with The Temple choir, I was immersed in the High Holiday liturgy. Tracy is such

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Chief Prosecutor of Nuremberg Trial to Share His History of Hope and Justice A

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most certainly make a huge difference. People have asked what they can do in the current emergency. I have pointed them in the direction of those on the front lines of the disaster. The Rabbis and community leaders working night and day to ensure that those individuals and families who, in an instant, have gone from normal citizens to becoming refugees, and facing an unknown future, are being cared for. Those leaders have been joined by Rabbis in nearby countries who are absorbing this flood of humanity, greeting them with food, shelter, supplies and love. The upheaval is tremendous, but these leaders are softening the landing. Anyone who can contribute to these human angels shares in the phenomenal Mitzvah of literally saving lives - as well as people’s personal dignity. What about those not in a position to directly assist? There is still something we each can do. Take a leaf from the Purim Megillah, whose story we recently read on the Festival of Purim. The Megillah relates how the Jews

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go from “who am I?” to “I am the one who can make a difference.” But how? She would provide the physical solution. They would power its success with their commitment to strengthening their own individual religious life. It’s 2022, and we need a big miracle. We need tremendous Divine mercy and compassion. And G-d is waiting to deliver. He is waiting for each of us to make a move from “who am I?” to “I am the one who can make a difference.” And no one is exempt. The power to drive physical success in the troubles of 2022 is with our commitment to strengthening our own individual religious life. Make a difference by putting on Tefillin, by lighting Shabbat candles, by reciting an extra prayer, by studying a little more, by reaching out with care, compassion, and forgiveness. Millions of people are counting on you and me. The world is holding its breath - for you and for me to embrace our mission. Who am I? I think you know the answer! •

Writers of the Lost Ark Writers of the Lost Ark is made up of Temple members who love to write poems, prose, songs and stories. The group meets once a month to discuss works in progress and get feedback, creative encouragement and new ideas to write about. Members also share things online during the month and are very interactive with each other between meetings. And yes, Writers of the Lost Ark is a play on “Raiders of the Lost Ark,” only this is The Temple’s version! Here’s a sample of WOTLA’s musings. Check back again for more of their creativity in the future!

AT MY AGE

At my age, I have to exercise every day. If I don’t move my moving parts...they may stop moving.

At my age, I find that a good night’s sleep is a better antidote to depression than a pint of Haagen Dazs.

At my age, I finally feel—in my bones— that only love can soften a hardened heart, yours or mine.

At my age, I worry more about how I feel than how I look.

At my age, I am slower to anger, quicker to forgiveness.

At my age, as new ailments spring up (daily, it seems), I’m living proof of Murphy’s Law.

At my age, I no longer mind being called a girl. I’ve stopped fighting to be called a woman.

At my age, I am surprised that I still get impatient, envious, covetous, that I still can act petty, try too hard to please and am so often ruled by my ego...but I am learning to accept that I’m a work in progress.

At my age, when a young man gives me a second glance, I figure he has an Oedipal complex.

At my age, I think about my mortality so much more than I’d like to.

At my age, I rarely decline when younger folks offer to help me carry heavy packages or give up their seats for me. At my age, I find gray-haired men, and even bald men, way more attractive than I used to. At my age, illnesses and injuries take a lot longer to heal than they used to, but wounded pride and disappointment heal faster.

Afghan Allies Continued from page 1 learned about Afghan culture, as well as learning how best to help people navigate the various relief systems, and how to deal with people who suffer from trauma. Coordinating the efforts for The Jewish Federation is Michal Becker, Engagement Director for The Federation. “This has been a tremendous effort by so many people,” she says, “The volunteers are so excited to be able to get to know the families and to help them in such important ways.” Evelyn and Mosh Koch are leaders of one of the volunteer teams. As soon as they learned of the project, they responded immediately. “Last summer we saw people fleeing on the news and wanted to help,” says Evelyn, “We went through similar feelings of displacement when we made Aliyah to Israel and felt we could identify with them.” The Kochs are working with a family of eight, which includes six children ranging in age from eight to 23. Their story is one that echoes that of many others who were forced from their country. Mosh says, “These are people who helped the American government and they have become targets.” To date, the Kochs and their team have taken the family shopping for clothes, household supplies, and groceries. Most recently, Mosh presented them with a jigsaw puzzle of the United States so they could learn the geography of their new country. And along the way, friendships are developing. “Everyone is so grateful for our help,” says Evelyn, “I was nervous at first that we wouldn’t connect, but there really hasn’t been any cultural divide.” According to team leader Judy Saks, just learning to navigate a new country, new city, and new home, can be an isolating experience. So, the first step is a meeting with her team’s family of six to

Team leader Mosh Koch visits his team’s family.

help everyone get to know each other. “What’s been so wonderful is that at the beginning, the volunteers are really nervous, but within about five minutes, they completely enthralled,” she says, “And, since no one in the family has a driver’s license, they spend much of their time at home, so the social interaction has been important. And things we take for granted, like Internet service, which they don’t have yet, means the family has no outside contact.” Next, she is hoping the father will be able to find a job. “He was a driver for the American Embassy in Kabul. He knows how to work on cars, and he speaks English,” she says, “He just wants to get his license and be able to work to support the family.” In addition to providing items the families need to help set up a household, the Jewish community’s network is also a critical asset. “This Jewish community is so connected, if our team can’t find something that’s needed, or there is need of a particular service, we can find someone who can help,” says Judy.

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At my age, I think about my parents a lot and see that Mama was usually right. At my age, tears arrive with an unprecedented ferocity and the line between joy and grief is often blurry. At my age, I might finally be learning to go with the flow, rather than going against the stream—I fight less with what is.

That connection was put to the test recently when the Kochs learned one of the adults in the family they’re working with was having trouble sleeping for several nights. Evidently, the man had a toothache and was in a lot of pain. Jewish Federation staff member, Carolyn Hecklin Hyatt, made a call to her father, local dentist Dr. Steve Hecklin, and by early the next morning, Hecklin’s associate, Dr. David Smiley was on the case. Dr. Smiley says he was impressed with the community’s ability to react, “It was amazing that these connections were made, and we could step in and help.” He says although there was a translator to help, the lack of a common language was not a barrier. “Anytime I get to help move someone out of pain is special. In this case, it felt very good.” The cost for supporting resettlement of the Afghan families is estimated at $2,000 per month for a family of five. The basic resettlement process can take upwards of six months, meaning each family requires $12,000 in support. The Jewish Federation is assisting with this cost for two of the families through earmarked donations. Support for the third is being provided by an anonymous donor at The Temple. Team leader Renee Kasman says The Temple’s team only met their family very recently, so they are in the early stages of creating a support plan. And Renee says this family of 10 people is suffering from some severe trauma resulting from separation from two of their close family members who were unable to leave Afghanistan. “The chaotic scenes we all saw on television of the airports and train stations are real, and what this family experienced. And it’s still happening. The living conditions for those left behind are very hard,” says Renee. Locally the family has moved several times and is hoping to soon move to a larger, more permanent

At my age, I’ve come to understand that “This too shall pass” refers not only to suffering but to happiness as well. At my age, attention to unfulfilled dreams takes a back seat to a cup of coffee with a friend, the arc and hue of a cloud, the whisper of a forgotten melody... At my age, I am not without regrets, but I am also profoundly grateful for the road that brought me to this very glorious moment

apartment. Next steps include enrolling all the children in school and helping the adults obtain a driver’s license. Kasman says it is a learning experience but her team, much like the others, is motivated. “We have such a beautiful team with so many resources. We have retired medical professionals, social workers, and others who are excited to get going.” As for the unnamed donor, she says they are all grateful for the generosity. “I want to keep a journal so this donor can know the impact of their donation,” she says. The volunteer team leaders all agree the drive to help the families resonates with their Jewish values. Evelyn Koch says, “Jews know what it’s like to be strangers in a strange land.” And Renee Kasman says giving anonymously is something Jews aspire to do. Judy Saks says participating in this type of communal effort gives her hope during a difficult time. “Every time I despair about what is happening in the world, I am reminded that there are things we can do. You just have to break it down into smaller actions.” The families all have some similar needs, such as small home appliances, clothing, diapers, and toys. Mosh Koch is thankful to West End Synagogue for agreeing to be a temporary location for accepting donations. And while the adults wait to obtain driver’s licenses and cars, there is the need for help running errands. Perhaps the biggest hurdle is finding work. The initial funding for each family lasts for six months. After that, they will need to pay for rent in a city with consistently rising housing costs. For those wishing to help, or to learn more about the resettlement program, contact Michal Becker at the Jewish Federation at www.michal@jewishnashville.org To donate, visit https://www.thingstogetme. com/377861a797a9 for an updated list of needed items and locations. •

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Fusing Arts and Judaics, JMS Raises the Bar in Middle School Education By ELLY EBIN

he story of the Revelation at Mount Sinai has been dissected, discussed, and written about by Jewish scholars for centuries. Mount Sinai has also been the subject of paintings and poetry as far back as one can go, from its depiction in the Sistine Chapel, to John Milton’s poetic masterpiece, Paradise Lost. Carrying on in the footsteps of great scholars and artists before them, students at the Jewish Middle School have been diving deep into an exploration of Mount Sinai as part of their Jewish Studies Class. Starting with the Hebrew text in Exodus, students studied the narrative of Har Sinai and analyzed the depth and complexity of the story. For example, when the text says that “God spoke,” they explored what those words really might have meant. Some students contend it meant God actually produced the sound of language, while others interpreted this to mean that people experienced some emanation of God that they experienced as speech. In a more traditional classroom, the study of Mount Sinai would likely end here, perhaps with an essay or exam written and quickly forgotten. But at JMS, educating students does not end with the basic transmission of information, or even with a deeper conversation of the subject. Rather, students are encouraged to process, understand, and connect with the texts they are learning in creative and inspiring ways. Students began to think about what a depiction of Mount Sinai might look like. Using various art forms, they are bringing those representations to life. Rabbi Daniel Hoffman, Co-Head of Judaic Studies at

JMS, believes strongly in integrating the arts into Jewish Studies. Hoffman says “The concept is twofold. It gives those students who express themselves better in art an opportunity to share their ideas in the best way they can, while pushing those students for whom art is not a choice medium to explore new avenues of communication.” At JMS, there is a constant and thoughtful incorporation of the arts across curricula, giving students the opportunity to process, understand, and personally connect to subjects they are learning. As Hoffman notes, “The more kinds of connections we create in a child’s brain, the stronger the concepts they are learning become. If a student reads a verse and answers a question, it will likely blend in with the many other verses and questions they have read. But, if they produce a piece of art, or music, that knowledge will stick around for a lot longer and have a lot more meaning.” Rabbi Saul Strosberg, founder of JMS, believes that the ability to value art and the capacity to appreciate Jewish wisdom are closely connected. Rabbi Strosberg says, “Challenging our kids to depict the Revelation at Mount Sinai gives them the opportunity to put themselves into the experience and bring their own vision to the table.” He says that by fusing the arts and Torah study, students have the opportunity to become active participants in the experiences they learn about. Giving students this autonomy and ownership is one of the many ways in which the Jewish Middle School continues to advance pedagogical practices and raise the bar for middle school education. •

B’nai Tzedek’s Annual Event Helps Teens Develop a Passion for Giving By NILAM PATEL

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hrough the B’nai Tzedek program, Bar or Bat Mitzvah age teens establish an account in their own names through the Jewish Federation and Jewish Foundation of Nashville and Middle Tennessee. The program has proven to be popular among Nashville’s local Jewish teens, who are learning the value of Tikkun Olam, the repair of the world. On February 27th a group of 20 teens came together to learn and discuss what

it means to be Jewish, learn about the different values, and discover what cause holds true to their heart. Teens discussed a variety of topics like antisemitism, the elderly, women’s rights, and more. Along with enlightening discussions, the teens participated in a project to help Nashville General Hospital. They created little gift bags and Thank You cards for the healthcare workers in the Emergency Room. The program ended on a high note, as teens asked to be added to the board for the following year. •

Akiva’s Siddur Ceremony Builds Meaningful Connections for Students By ELLY EBIN

he stirring sounds of tefillah (prayer) echo in the halls of Akiva as students from across the school come together each morning to learn and pray. Tefillah at Akiva progresses beyond the fundamental skills of reading the text and focuses on the meaningful and transformative experience of prayer. Last week, first grade and lateral transfer students, those students who joined Akiva this year in grades one through six, gathered with their teachers and families Samantha Kirschner receives her siddur to receive their very first siddur, as part of from her parents Akiva’s annual Mesibat Siddur, or Siddur Ceremony. The Siddur Ceremony is a significant and meaningful rite of passage for every student, and each child’s siddur is specially decorated and inscribed by their parents. “The tradition to have parents and caregivers decorate the siddur and write meaningful notes helps our children feel connected and rooted to their families and Jewish community every time they open their siddur,” says Head of School Rabbi Daniella Pressner Students spend months learning and understanding the tefillot (prayers) throughout their time at Akiva. This capstone event is a celebration of the Kol Rosenblatt receives his suddur from students’ hard work and growth. The his parents goal is to instill a sense of belonging to those who prayed before us.” something greater than themselves, and Dov and Aura Rosenblatt joined foster the value of both individual and the Akiva community this year and celcommunal prayer. The Siddur Ceremony ebrated the Siddur Ceremony togethis also a chance to celebrate tefillah as a er with their first grader, Nava, and mechanism for connecting the Jewish their fourth grader, Kol. The Roseblatts People throughout history. echoed Rosenfeld’s perspective, noting Morah Batya Rosenfeld, a first that, “The celebration, like the siddur grade Hebrew and Judaic Studies teachitself, connected generations because all er, opened this year’s Siddur Ceremony parents and grandparents who attended by reflecting on the power of prayer. walked away proud that Jewish education Rosenfeld recalled her father rehearsing shines on.” in their living room in preparation for The lessons of prayer are those Akiva leading High Holy Day services. She now hopes children will proudly carry with hears her own son singing those same them for the rest of their lives and will melodies and is struck by the intergenconnect them with Jewish communities erational connectedness these prayers and their Jewish heritage wherever they cultivate. “When we pray from the siddur SPTZ-39OB PassoverAD_2021.qxp_SPTZ-39OB PassoverAD_2021 2/1/21 1:43 PM Page 1 may find themselves. • it connects us to the prayers and stories of

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n Monday, March 14th Moishe House was thrilled to host a hamentashen bake, one of the first indoor programs we’ve been able to have since beginning in July. Community members gathered to scoop jam, debate folding vs. pinching, and swap favorite Purim stories. We’re so grateful to have celebrated our first Purim in this meaningful way and look forward to packing up leftovers into mishloach manot for our neighbors. •

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magine that the Shtetl of Europe has been frozen in time, transported to New York, and then unfrozen. Imagine walking down the main street and seeing the Judaica shops, hearing the sounds of yeshiva students studying Talmud, smelling the aromas of the freshly baked Challah wafting from the local kosher bakeries, while seeing sings in Hebrew and Yiddush and shuls on every corner, while the skyscrapers of Manhattan rise in the distance. Chabad of Nashville invites the Nashville community to experience this at Shabbat in the Heights. The Shabbaton, which enables participants to experience Chasidid life in person, takes place May 13-15 in the Crown Heights neighborhood of New York City. Throughout Shabbat, guest lecturers and study groups provide opportunities to study the Rebbe’s teachings and perspective on life and its purpose. A guided tour of the Rebbe’s synagogue, office and home allows a glimpse into life with the Rebbe, and insight into how he inspired his thousands of emissaries, leaders in their own right, in Jewish communities in every corner of the globe. Participants attend the Shabbaton from all over the world, and this year, Rabbi Yitzchok ad Estehr Tiechtel will be leading a group from Chabad of Nashville. “Living in Nashville and working in the community for the past 25 years makes Nashville home, but a big piece of my heart is always in Crown Heights where I grew up,” says, Rabbi Tiechtel. “I can’t

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n Tuesday evening, April 5th, Belmont University’s Rev. Charlie Curb Center, in partnership with The Temple, will host a multi-media lecture by Andrew Feiler to celebrate The Rosenwald School Project of the early 20th century. The Rosenwald School Project built more than 5,000 schools, shops, and teacher homes in the United States primarily for the education of African-American children in the South during the early 20th century. The project was the product of the partnership established between Julius Rosenwald, a Jewish-American clothier who became part-owner and president of Sears, Roebuck, and Company and the AfricanAmerican leader, educator, and philanthropist Booker T. Washington, who was president of the Tuskegee Institute. African-American students in the south suffered from chronic underfunding of public education for black communities. Rosenwald created a vision and funding resource for the construction of a number of schools in African-American communities. He conditioned his support by having local communities raise matching funds for the construction and upkeep of these schools. Andrew Feiler is a photographer and author and a fifth generation Georgian. Having grown up Jewish in Savannah, he has been shaped by the rich complexities of the American South. Feiler has long been active in civic life. He has helped create over a dozen community initiatives, serves on multiple not-for-

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The Rosenwald School Project build schools to educate African-American children in the South.

profit boards, and is an active advisor to numerous elected officials and political candidates. His art is an extension of his civic values. Feiler’s newest book of photography, A Better Life for Their Children: Julius Rosenwald, Booker T. Washington, and the 4,978 Schools that Changed America, is the first comprehensive photodocumentary of the Rosenwald School program. The April 5th event will be held in Belmont’s Gabhart Chapel at 7:30 p.m. with a dessert reception to follow. The public is invited to attend. •

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A Taste of Hillel: Kehilla Kedosha “Creating a Holy Community”

his year, Vanderbilt Hillel is inviting the community to experience how first year students transition from new arrivals to considering Vanderbilt Hillel a home away from home. The event, Kehilla Kedosha “Creating a Holy Community,” will offer an inside look at the Vanderbilt student experience. Guests will be greeted, placed into groups, and experience interactive stations such as Freshman Orientation, Shabbat, Holidays, Israel, and Jewish Education in a similar way to how students experience the programming. “This program was designed to replicate the students experience,” says Shannon Small, Development Director

at Vanderbilt Hillel, “We hope that community members connect by having a shared common experience with one another. That’s what we do at Hillel. We connect Jewish students with shared common experiences.” The event will also include pairing stations complete with food catered by Goldie Shepard and beer/cider from Rhizome Productions Inc. as well as Israeli wine from Red Spirits and Wine. The program is Sunday, May 15th from 6:00-8:00 p.m. at the Vanderbilt Hillel building. For more information, please contact Shannon Small, Development Director, at shannon.small@vanderbilt.edu •

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Produced by Dr. Jerome Klein, the show is directed at jet-propelled pace, by our inimitable Suzanne Burns. The show’s stars are Martha Doust, Tony Grimes, Patty and Jerry Stelmaszak, Richard Strauss, Anne Ginsberg, Sarah Anne Moore, and James Arrington. With expert stage and set design by Chip Weinstein, Ken Ludwig’s screwball door slammer is structurally perfect!! There’s no point in telling you how superbly funny this all is: go now and don’t wait for the fat lady to sing. Performance are Thursday evenings April 21st and May 5th at 7PM and matinees Sunday April 24th and May 8th at 2PM. For further information and ticket purchases, please call 615-356-7170. •

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April in the Gordon JCC Galleries: Works by Ruth Simon McRae, Billy Martinez and Lee Oskar T

he Janet Levine March Gallery will feature the work of Ruth Simon McRae. Ruth’s artistry is expressed through the textile arts. She uses the talitot and challah covers as canvases for expressing stories, histories, and rituals. In 1970, she purchased a 100-year-old loom and taught herself to weave, focusing on pictorial tapestries. After reading the writing of Anni Albers, she was inspired to learn more about how to produce fabrics with textile machinery and earned a Bachelor of Science degree in textile design at Philadelphia University. In 1978, Ruth moved to Georgia, and earned a Master of Science degree in textiles at Georgia Tech. These degrees provided her entrée into the field of industrial textile design, and she enjoyed a long career in the floor covering industry. Creating Judaic textiles was a natural evolution from her studio work in the fine arts. Her process for making Judaic textiles in this exhibit is very much like painting, using fabrics, stitching, and hand printed imagery as her tools. The work in this exhibition represents a complex layering of handcraft and artistry along with a deep appreciation for the objects of daily life that are a part of the Jewish faith. The JLMG2 Gallery will feature the work of Billy Martinez. Billy was raised with a daily dose of comic books and Sunday funnies supplied by friends and family throughout his childhood. He began his professional career at the age of 20 supplying pages for The Rockin’ Roller Miner Ants a title that featured guest appearances by the Teenage Mutant Ninja Turtles. Soon after, Billy was signed on to create and draw his cult classic tale, known as Wildflower. With the success of his flagship title, Billy branched off into freelance work for companies such as Peregrine Entertainment, Heavy Metal Magazine and Image Comics. In 1997 he created his publishing company Neko Press and introduced comic book titles by top notch artists and writers in the industry. He later became a regular artist for Heavy Metal Magazine and was hired to do work on The Family Guy and Hellboy trading cards for Inkworks. Billy has released over 45 titles under the Neko Press imprint. Good friend and professional artist Jim Mahfood convinced Billy to bring his art live on stage, which consisted of painting four to six paintings presented simultaneously with music. What started out on the streets of downtown San Diego later began to catch on in such clubs as The Honey Beehive and the Hard Rock Hotel and the top San Diego hot spot The Stingaree Night Club. In 2014, Billy relocated to Nashville Tennessee ‘Music City’ to be amongst the second foundation in his life that inspires him, music. You can catch Billy on his live art tour throughout the country at various conventions and concerts. The Sig Held Gallery will honor Yom Hashoah with work by Lee Oskar. Lee’s lifelong engagement with the creative process began at an early age. With little more than a ballpoint pen and sheets of looseleaf typing paper, he began what would become a lifelong passion for highly imaginative, visual expression. Over the decades, Lee has explored a wide range of imagery, styles, and techniques. Some of his early work, published in 1994 by Journey Editions, in a collection titled,

Birds and Branches, by Ruth Simon McRae Miracle Children, by Lee Oskar

ashamed of myself. I have a fiduciary responsibility to my art, to humanity and to my family to acknowledge that this happened and tell the story so that others may be touched by it.” The Artist Reception will be held on Wednesday, April 13th from 6 – 8pm. There will be an Artist talk by Lee Oskar during the reception, in the Sig Held Gallery from 7 -7:30 pm. There will also be a special art and

music presentation by Lee Oskar on Thursday, April 14th, in the Senior Lounge from 12:45 – 1:45 pm. The Exhibition Dates are April 2nd – April 30th. The exhibitions are free and open to the public. Attendees will need sign in at the front desk. For more information, contact the GJCC at 615.354-1699, Curator Carrie Mills at carrie@nashvillejcc.org, or go to www.nashvillejcc.org •

Cash, by Billy Martinez

“Musicians As Artists,” reflects a highly detailed, black and white, pen and ink drawing style, imaginatively transforming realistically rendered elements into abstractly surreal, organic forms. In addition to his gifts as a visual artist, Lee Oskar is perhaps better known and loved all over the world as one of the founding members of the jam band WAR, who produced Gold and Platinum recording hits such as “Low Rider,” “Cisco Kid,” and “Why Can’t We Be Friends” and many other chart-topping songs. As art director, Lee was instrumental in creating WAR’s many album covers. Forever the artist and creative visionary, Lee introduced his own signature line of harmonicas in 1983. Known for superior quality and sound, Lee Oskar Harmonicas are preferred by harmonica players of all levels, all around the world. Lee established his own recording label, Dreams We Share ™ in 2020. He proudly produces highly accomplished professional recording artists as well as his own music with exciting new orchestrations featuring world-class musicians. Most recently, Lee released his landmark collection of original music and art titled, “Never Forget,” (January 28, 2022). He says the artistic memoir is the most important project of his life. It has been called an “Emotional musical journey to be savored,” by Bob Silvestri, Best of WNY and a “Tender tapestry threaded with emotion and commitment; an album destined to stand the test of time in both its impact and importance,” by Lee Zimmerman, Goldmine. Lee says, “If I went to my grave and never expressed the fears and humiliations that have always been in me, as a result of the atrocities of the Holocaust, I would be

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Community Listings Nashville Jewish Genealogical Socety Roy Hiller will give a presentation on the recently released 1950 US Census, He will begin with a short overview of previous census forms, highlighting the differences in information collected and will follow with a review of the questions found on the 1950 form focusing on new and updated information. The presentation will take place Sunday, April 24th at 2:00 PM. Please contact nashvillejgs@gmail.com for more information and a Zoom link.

outside of traditional synagogues and denominations and in the style of Jewish summer camps. No matter if we gather for Friday night services, Havdalah campfires, song sessions, or other innovative programming, we are a thriving, growing group of young professionals who want to experience their own Judaism in a meaningful way through music, prayer, and community. Our next event will be the evening of Friday, May 6 at 6:30 p.m. The event is in person but also streamed live on Facebook. For details, join our mailing list by emailing jewsiccity@gmail.com or join our Facebook group (search “Jewsic City”).

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East Side Tribe East Side Tribe Shabbat will be hosted at Moishe House in East Nashville on April 29th 6:30-8:30pm. All are welcome to join, this event will be outside. Please email eastsidetribenasville@gmail.com to RSVP and for details!

May 13 - Newcomer Shabbat - Federation will continue connecting newcomers with family hosts for a monthly Shabbat dinner experience. Please reach out to eitan@ jewishnashville.org if you would be interested in attending or hosting a Newcomer Shabbat.

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NowGen:

Title: Listening to the Music – Understanding the Impact Music Has on Individuals with Alzheimer’s Disease April 10, 2022 @ 7:00pm (CST). This is a virtual event Join us as we learn about a new program in Tennessee nursing homes working to bring individualized music and it’s benefits to residents! Amanda Boulware, Program Coordinator for the Tennessee Person-Centered Music Program, will teach us about music and cognition, the benefits of music, therapeutic music interventions, and how individualized music impacts individuals with dementia.

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April 23 - Passover Pizza Party - NowGen will be breaking Passover with a fun pizza party! This will be a great way to see all your NowGen friends and stay connected over a slice of pizza. - Location TBD

Young Jewish Nashville April 23 - Passover Pizza Party - NowGen will be breaking Passover with a fun pizza party! This will be a great way to see all your NowGen friends and stay connected over a slice of pizza. - Location TBD May 13 - Newcomer Shabbat - Federation will continue connecting newcomers with family hosts for a monthly Shabbat dinner experience. Please reach out to eitan@jewishnashville.org if you would be interested in attending or hosting a Newcomer Shabbat. •

Big Night Out Delivers Big In-Person Fun By RACHEL CLARK

ig Night Out 2022 was a great in-person success! Over 140 people met us at the starting line in their finest

Olympic-themed gear, from leotards to tracksuits, and even a toga. Co-chairs Julie Eskind Galbierz and Caroline Moses Sprouse and their committee transformed the J into a spirited Olympic Village.

EVER WONDER WHERE THE PEOPLE WITH ALL THE ANSWERS, GET ALL THE ANSWERS?

Guests, who dined on international cuisine catered by Goldie Shepard, brought their competitive spirit to our live auction and a rousing round of trivia hosted by Nerdy Talk Trivia. “It felt so nice to have the community together in person back at the J for such a fun evening,” commented Dara Freiberg, Gordon JCC Membership and Development Director. Thank you to our co-chairs and committee who went for the gold and

raised over $50,000 for the JCC. Sponsors included Zander Insurance, Argent Trust, Capstar Bank, Jamie and Billy Eskind, The Dorothy Cate & Thomas F. Frist Foundation, Ghertner and Company, Gold Skin Care, Hermitage Lighting Gallery, KraftCPAs, Sprintz, and Zeitlin Sotheby’s International Realty, as well as in-kind sponsors Best Brands, FLWR, Red Spirits and Wine, and Tennessee Brew Works. •

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Israel Diaries By FINN CROWE

ello again, it’s Finn Crowe! For new readers, I am studying abroad for a semester in Israel at Heller High, and have been documenting my travels in the Jewish Observer. I’ve been on many great adventures in the past month, so I’m here to tell you about them! First off, I hiked up Mount Masada to watch the sunrise. That was an insane day for me. We all woke up around 3 am to get on the bus and drive from our campus on Kibbutz Tzuba to Masada. We arrived at about 5 am right as the gates opened. We hopped off the bus and did some stretches before hiking up the snake path of Masada. A little thing about me, though, is I am a terrible hiker. I have little to no balance, not to mention when we hiked it, I had recently recovered from Covid. Our teachers told us we were going to be fine, and everyone would make it up, so I wasn’t terribly worried… until we actually started hiking. I wasn’t even to the entrance of the trail before I was wheezing like a dying dog. What met me at the trail didn’t boost my spirits either. At the entrance, I was met with stairs; lots of them. They were not smooth concrete stairs either. No, they were rocky and uneven. The only railing I had was the side of the mountain, meaning I would be stumbling all the way up; and that’s exactly what I did. I had finally gotten up the first flight of stairs and I already felt like death. I was way behind the rest of the group with my only companion being one of our counselors. She urged me to keep going, so I did. I’ll spare you guys the full story for the sake of brevity, but the whole hike up was quite a feat. It was all steep uphill with stairs scattered along here and there. I eventually made it up to the top. Let me tell you, when I made it to the top, it was the best feeling of my life. I almost cried because I was so happy. The rest of my time at Masada went by smoothly. After my adventure at Masada, we went to an Arab village and rode camels. I loved every second of it. The ride was bumpy, but very fun. We got off the camels and ate some food at the village before heading off to go to a hostel to stay the night. The hostel was basic, and the beds were uncomfortable, but we were so happy to finally get some rest after such a long and tiring day. The next morning, we got up, got on the bus, and headed to Ein Gedi. It was a beautiful (and much easier) hike and we got to splash around in a waterfall. Afterwards, we went to the Dead Sea. It was about an hour drive, and by the time we got there, it was around lunch time, so we ate at a nearby mall. After lunch, we put on our bathing suits and went to the beach of the Dead Sea. The counselors bought mud for us, and we all lathered ourselves up with it before going in. Once I got in deep enough, I immediately went on my back and started floating. No matter how hard I tried, I couldn’t push myself down. It was like I was wearing a strong life vest. At the bottom, it was filled with salt balls. Did you know that the Dead Sea was so salty, salt crystals actually formed inside of it? I sure didn’t. We had a blast there, and I really hope we go again. Our next destination was Eilat. We stayed at a much nicer hostel there for the weekend. Unfortunately, for most of the time it was raining, which rarely happens in Eilat, so we couldn’t do much. We settled on going to the movies, and I

saw the new Spiderman. It was a really good movie, so if you haven’t seen it yet I highly recommend you watch it, even if you don’t really watch Marvel. The next day was fortunately much nicer, so we went snorkeling in the Red Sea. I saw so many cool fish and coral. It amazed me how abundant the sea life was even that near to the shore. I wish I had an underwater camera to take pictures of it, it was beautiful. After our big trip to Eilat, we laid low for a bit. We went on a few field trips here and there, but we mostly spent our time at the Kibbutz. One of the field trips we took in that period of time was a trip to the Western Wall. I got to pray and put a note in the cracks of the wall, which Continued on page 34

High School student Finn Crowe floating in the Dead Sea. Photo credit: Shailee Bayer

Finn watching the sun rise over Masada. Photo credit: Shailee Bayer

Community Yom HaShoah Service HOLOCAUST REMEMBRANCE DAY

Sunday, May 1 2-3pm Gordon Jewish Community Center Campus 801 PERCY WARNER BLVD.

Entrance to the Nashville Holocaust Memorial Guest Speaker: Joanna Sliwa, Jewish Childhood in Kraków: A Microhistory of the Holocaust, which won a 2020 Ernst Fraenkel Prize from the Wiener Holocaust Library Join for the launch of our local Butterfly Project, which educates about the dangers of hatred and bigotry through the painting of ceramic butterflies memorializing each of the 1.5 million children killed during the Holocaust.

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At Our Congregations… Nashville’s congregations

Sell your Chametz with Chabad for Passover 2022

Here are the websites for all five Nashville Jewish congregations, with information on services, upcoming events and more: Congregation Beit Tefilah Chabad, www.chabadnashville.com Congregation Micah, www.congregationmicah.org Congregation Sherith Israel, www.sherithisrael.com The Temple – Congregation Ohabai Sholom, www.templenashville.org West End Synagogue, www.westendsyn.org

According to Jewish Law during Passover all types of Chametz (leavend foods) are prohibited to be owned any one of the Jewish faith. So, what is one to do with all of the leavened food in their home during Passover? The rabbis in ancient biblical days have come up with a solution. One can authorize their rabbi before Passover to sell their Chametz to a non-Jew, who is permitted to own it during Passover. After the holiday is over, the Chametz is sold back to the rabbi, and one is permitted then to benefit from it. Rabbi Yitzchok Tiechtel at Chabad of Nashville is offering to sell the Chametz of anyone wishing to fulfill this special tradition for Passover, thus taking Passover 2019 to the next level. To participate, visit chabadnashville.com/chametz to fill out the online form.

@ Chabad /Congregation Beit Tefilah

Chabad of Nashville is giving out a free Passover Shmurah Matzah for your Seder. Simply email your name and contact information to chabdnashville@gmail.com and you will receive your free Matzah gift box for your Seder. Shmurah Matzah from Israel can also be purchased in one-pound boxes from the Chabad office at $36 per pound. For more information call Chabad at 615-646-5750/

Rabbi Tiechtel to complete Tractate of Talmud There is an ancient and widespread custom for the firstborn to fast on the day before Passover. This fast commemorates G-d’s kindness towards the Israelite firstborn; when G-d slew all the Egyptian firstborn males He spared their Jewish counterparts. This fast is treated leniently. Thus, if there is a festive meal held that in connection with a mitzvah, for example, the celebration of a circumcision or of a siyum (the completion of a tractate of the Talmud) the firstborn son participates in the meal rather than fasting. It is therefore customary to arrange for a Siyum, which is the completion of the study of a tractate of the Talmud to take place in the synagogue after morning prayers on the fourteenth of Nissan. The firstborn sons who are present (and anyone else who is interested in enjoying some refreshments) participate in this festive meal and, having broken their fast, are free to eat for the rest of the day. On Friday morning, April 15, the morning before the Seder, Rabbi Yitzchok Tiechtel will be making a Siyum, celebrating the completion of 121 pages on the Talmud of Pesachim, following the morning service at Congregation Beit Tefilah Chabad. It will be followed by a light breakfast snack thus giving the firstborns the opportunity to partake in a meal of a Mitzvah and permitting them to break the fast of the first born. For more information go to www.chabadnashville.com

Chabad to host Family Cliff Notes Passover Seder and a Kabalistic Seder Chabad of Nashville invites the Nashville Jewish community to its 19th annual Community Passover Seders, which will take place in the ballroom of the Genesis Campus for Jewish Life Participants will experience the freedom of Passover the way our ancestors did when they left Egypt 3,334 years ago. Chabad will host two different types of Seder on the first two nights of Passover. On Friday, April 15, at 7:00 PM, Chabad will host A Cliff Notes Family Friendly Seder. It will be an interactive family Seder, a warm, fun and thought-provoking event, which includes a Passover Experience in a royal setting, handmade Shmurah Matzah for each Seder participant, an abundance of exquisite wines for every palate, an elegant dinner, which will include authentic gefilte fish, Bubbe’s Passover Brisket, and an array of salad and side dishes, catered by one of Nashville’s premiere chefs. On Saturday, April 16, at 8:00 PM, Chabad will host A Chassidic Seder for the Inquisitive Mind. This will be a full Chassidic Seder with many insights into the Haggadah and various Chassidic tales and melodies, and a Seder feast. This Seder will delve into the deeper meaning and dimensions to the Passover Exodus. Both seders will take place in the Bernard Ballroom at the Genesis Campus for Jewish Life, 95 Bellevue Road, and will be catered by one of Nashville’s premiere chefs Reservation for each seder can be made at www.chabadnashville.com. Chabad will also be offering free gift boxes of shmurah matzah, the traditional hand-made round matzah for all who would like to celebrate Passover with the ancient biblical Matzah, by calling Chabad at (615) 646-5750.

Chabad to host the Moshiach Seudah Passover begins with a meal and now ends with a meal. On the last night of Passover, on Tuesday, April 23, at 7:00 PM, Chabad will host the Moshiach Seudah (the Messiah’s meal). All are invited for the traditional feast, inspirational stories, songs, matzah & four cups of wine. In anticipation of the future redemption with Moshiach. Instituted by the Baal Shem Tov 300 years ago, the traditional Moshiach’s meal includes the eating matzah and the consumption of four glasses of wine, toasting to a futuristic era of redemption. The Baal Shemtov would make a festive meal at the close of the holiday, dedicated to the coming of Moshiach. Since then Jews throughout the world come together on the last day of Pesach to celebrate this unique custom. For more information visit www.chabadnashville.com

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Get your own personal Shmurah Matzah for your Seder

Passover Puppet Palooza on Shabbat Mornings at Chabad Jewish children’s programming at Chabad of Nashville has been in full swing. Jewish storyteller, Jenny Nissenson, brings the weekly Parsha and Jewish Holidays to life through puppetry and song with Esther Tiechtel, in an engaging Shabbat service for young audiences. Teens are invited to take on leading roles in the Shabbat Kids programs. Jenny has been designing arts-enrichment curricula and creating educational programming for children for many years. She is dedicated to bringing the magical stories and traditions of Judaism to life through puppets, music, dance, and art. Her mission is to foster creativity, broaden imaginations, and make learning fun. Esther has been involved in Jewish Education for over 25 years and has earned her certification from the Ohel Chana Werdiger Institute in Australia and from the International Montessori Council. The special Passover Puppet Palooza will take place on Shabbat, April 23 at 11:00 AM, and all children from across Middle Tennessee are invited to participate. No membership or background knowledge is required to take part in the Shabbat Puppet Palooza. Following the program, the children will sing Adon Olam with the congregation, and will then join a festive Shabbat lunch.

@ Micah Congregation Micah - an inclusive, innovative synagogue exploring and celebrating Jewish life - is committed to building community and repairing the world! We offer creative and diverse ways to live a Jewish life in Tennessee and beyond, using the rich beliefs and practices of Progressive Judaism as our foundation. Visit our 30+ acre campus or access our virtual programs from our website, www.congregationmicah.org. Like us on socials: Facebook and Instagram @MicahNashville; sign up for our e-blasts; learn and pray with us in-person or on YouTube, Zoom, and our Livestream. In our tent, there is room for everyone!

Weekly Events Mah Jongg: Tuesdays from 12:30 PM- 3:30 PM

Join our players for an afternoon of mah jongg fun in the social hall! For more information, contact Paula: pgkwn@comcast.net.

Schmooze & Views: Thursdays from 10:30 AM- 11:30 AM on Zoom and in-person

At Micah, we keep politics off the pulpit but not out of the building. Share your views in a round-table discussion on current events facilitated by Rabbi Flip and Dr. Bob Smith.

Saturday Morning Torah Study: Saturdays at 9 AM on Zoom

Deep conversations with thoughtful and caring people led by Rabbi Flip.

Sanctuary Shabbat Services: Fridays at 6 PM

At Micah, we approach God in many ways: the inspiration of words, the beauty of sacred space, and the authenticity of our intention through the power of music and song. This spring, we feature Music Director and Cantorial Soloist, Ms. Lisa Silver as she is set to retire this June. Join us in-person or virtually for services this month that will be as diverse as they are engaging, as moving as they are participatory. Come early and schmooze with us outdoors under our tent starting at 5:15! Light hors d’oeuvres and refreshments will be served.

At Our Congregations… April Events Micah Reads: Monday, April 4th, and Monday, May 2nd, at 7 PM on Zoom

All are welcome for a Zoom discussion on the book The Book of Lost Names by Kristin Harmel in April and What We Talk About When We Talk About Anne Frank by Nathan Englander in May. Education Director Julie Greenberg leads the conversation for this community-wide event.

Sculpture Dedication: Sunday, April 10th, at 10 AM

@ The Temple All programming can be accessed via thetemplehub.org unless noted to be in person

Pirkei Avot: Jewish Wisdom for Today’s World Every Friday from 5:00-5:40 PM

We invite the community to join in celebrating the unveiling and dedication of our newest statue. This piece was lovingly imagined by Micah members Frances Cutler Hahn and George Hahn and was designed by sculptor Theresa Dyer. The magnificent and moving work of art depicts two young children fleeing from oppression and will be used as an educational opportunity for our Micah students and students from all over the community.

Get ready for Shabbat with a little text study! Each week we will study a piece of wisdom from Pirkei Avot, The Ethics of our Ancestors, an ancient Jewish text still relevant in our own times. Available in person and via zoom. Zoom Room: https://us02web.zoom.us/j/81973096738

Sports Trivia: Tuesday, April 12, at 10:30 AM In-Person

Lunch with the Rabbi Thursday, April 7th, 14th, and 28th from 12:00-1:00 PM

Have you ever wondered who was on 3rd base when Bobby Thompson of the New York Giants hit “the shot heard ‘round the world” to defeat the Brooklyn Dodgers in 1951? Find out the answer to this question and many more when you join Martin Light and other Micah members for an hour of sports trivia on the second Tuesday of every month. Questions? Contact Martin at martylight@aol.com.

Engage with Rabbi Schiftan and guests in a discussion of currents and important issues from a Jewish perspective. Available in person and via zoom. Zoom Room: thetemplehub.org

Women’s Passover Experience: Tuesday, April 12, at 7 PM

Women’s Torah Study Every Thursday from 12:00-1:00 PM

Join Rabbi Laurie, Lisa Silver, Julie Greenberg, Rabbi Shana Mackler, and Cantor Tracy Fishbein for this opportunity to infuse the Passover narrative with a woman’s voice and experience, while putting a spotlight on modern-day slavery. Featuring guest speakers and a Thistle Farms Marketplace. All are welcome. RSVP by April 8th at www.congregationmicah.org/pesachwomen. This event is made possible with a grant from the Jewish Federation and is in partnership with the Temple and NCJW.

First Night Passover Seder and Shabbat Experience: Friday, April 15, at 6 PM

Dinner includes a full celebratory meal, including all the traditional Passover trimmings. We kindly request that each family bring their own Seder plate. Register by April 10th at www.congregationmicah.org/seder.

“Who Wrote the Bible?”: Saturday, April 23, 9 AM on Zoom

Rabbi Laurie welcomes Rabbi/Dr. Josh Garroway, Professor of Judeo-Christian Studies and Professor of Early Christianity and Second Commonwealth at the Hebrew Union College-Jewish Institute of Religion. Explore current scholarship on biblical authorship and the implications for Reform Jews. Want to take this relationship to the next level? Apply for membership! For more information, contact Mindy Drongowski at mindy@congregationmicah.org

Ongoing weekly women’s Torah study led by Patty Marks. Available in person and via zoom through thetemplehub.org

Shabbat Schedule for April

Our Shabbat Services will be held in person at The Temple. Please reserve your spot via thetemplehub.org. You can also watch via zoom from thetemplehub.org. Friday, April 1st ~ 6:00 PM Friday, April 8th ~ 6:00 PM Friday, April 15th ~ 6:00 PM– NO SERVICE DUE TO THE FIRST NIGHT PASSOVER SEDER Friday, April 22nd ~ 6:00 PM – Friday, April 29th ~ 6:00 PM

Chevrah Torah Study 9:30a.m. on Saturdays

Join us for our weekly Torah study on the portion of the week, led by the clergy. You can join us in person or via zoom from thetemplehub.org

Golden Lunch Bunch Will meet at Temple from 11:30-1:00pm on April 5th and 19th

RSVP to Anna Sir at 615-354-1686 or via email at helpinghands@jfsnashville.org

@ Sherith Israel

Let Everything That Breathes Praise God! A Celebration of Jewish Music

Congregation Sherith Israel will once again be hosting two community seders, April 15, and April 16, beginning at 7:15 pm and 7:45 pm respectively. Additionally, we will be offering Seders in Box in conjunction with Sova catering. For more information, please call the Shul office or visit us online at www.sherithisrael.com

Presented by the Belmont University School of Music and including the Belmont Chorale, University Singers and String Chamber Orchestra, featuring Cantor Tracy Fishbein from The Temple. Sunday, April 10 at 3:00pm McAfee Concert Hall, Belmont University Free and Open to the Public

Weekday Minyans

Are You Looking for a Creative Outlet? Join Writers of the Lost Ark!

Shacharit - 6:30 am Maariv - 7:00 pm

Shabbat Services

Kabbalat Shabat - 5 minutes before sunset Cantor’s Class - 8:00 am Shacharit - 9:00 am Babysitting and Groups - 9:15 am Kiddush Lunch - 11:15 am

Study Programs

Kids Cheder - Tuesdays at 4:00 pm Bass Medrish - Wednesday evenings at 8:00 pm Torah Class with Rabbi Saul - Thursday mornings at 9:00 am Visit www.sherithisrael.com for more information

“Writers of the Lost Ark” meets the first Wednesday of each month currently via Zoom. This is a safe, supportive, and no pressure environment to share your creative ideas whether they be stories, songs, poems, or prose. The group is open to all regardless of how little or how long you’ve been writing. Those curious to find their creative side are welcome as well. Wednesday, April 6th~ 7:00-8:00 pm For more information, please contact ninapacent@bellsouth.net. Go to thetemplehub.org for Zoom info.

10th Grade Confirmation Service Saturday, April 23rd at 11:00a.m. at the Morning Shabbat Service. Available in person and via zoom via thetemplehub.org

Tot Shabbat –Get Ready for Passover! Saturday, April 9th @ 10:00a.m.

(for families with children up to age 6) These opportunities offer families the chance to celebrate Shabbat with their young children in a creative way. For more information and to join in, please visit thetemplehub.org or www.templenashville.org

Welcoming Wellness presents Breaking the Bonds of Shame: a compassionate conversation about drug use, abuse, and overdose with Megan Barry April 4 @ 7:00pm via zoom accessible through thetemplehub.org

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Passover @ The Temple For more information about Passover at The Temple, please visit thetemplehub.org or templenashville.org

Making Passover Meaningful for Interfaith Couples & Families Thursday, April 7 at 7:00 PM on Zoom – All are Welcome

If you are hosting, attending, or even prepping for Passover this year, join us for this workshop. Join Rabbi Michael Shulman as we discuss the traditions, foods, and rituals of this important holiday. By the end, you’ll be ready for a wonderful Passover experience with your family and friends! RSVP on thetemplehub.org/passoverprep

Saturday, April 9th @ 10:00a.m. Tot Shabbat –Get Ready for Passover!

Tuesday April 12th at 7:00pm- Women’s Seder

@ West End For links to the following services or programs, please email office@westendsyn.org

Introduction to Judaism Class with Rabbi Kullock is back in person!

Join us every Sunday from January 9th - May 1st, 2022, from 9:30am – 11:00am For more information contact Linda Sisselman @ linda@westendsyn.org

Shacharit

Join us for in-person morning minyan! Sunday services will be at 9am and Monday-Friday will be at 7am

Daily Mincha/Maariv service depending on Daylight savings times Join us for daily Mincha/Maariv on Zoom only.

Kabbalat Shabbat

You are invited to join us for Kabbalat Shabbat on Fridays in person or on Zoom at 6:00 p.m.

Join Rabbi Shana Mackler, Cantor Tracy Fishbein, Rabbi Laurie Rice, Lisa Silver and Julie Greenberg for this opportunity to infuse the Passover narrative with a woman’s voice and experience, while putting a spotlight on modern-day slavery. Featuring two guest speakers, Assistant District Attorney Sarah Wolfson Butler and a survivor of human trafficking. We will also feature a Thistle Farms Marketplace. All are welcome. RSVP by April 8 at https://congregationmicah.shulcloud.com/ form/pesachwomen This event is made possible with a grant from the Jewish Federation and in partnership with the Temple and NCJW.

Morning Shabbat services

Saturday, April 16th at 6:00pm - Second Night Seder In-Person & Virtually

Torah class for Men:

We hope you’ll join us at The Temple for this festive family-friendly evening. Adults - $35, Children (3-11) - $10 ~ Non-member guest - $45. RSVP no later than April 11th Go to thetemplehub.org to RSVP

Wednesday, April 20th LGBTQ+ Seder In-Person at The Temple at 6:00pm More details on thetemplehub.org

Friday, April 22nd -Yizkor at 5:00pm followed by Shabbat Services Both In-Person at The Temple or virtually via thetemplehub.org

You are invited to join us Saturday mornings at 9:30 a.m. in person or by zoom.

Talmud class on Tuesdays

Rabbi Joshua Kullock teaches a Talmud class on Tuesdays at 7:30am.

Torah class for Women:

Join Rabbi Joshua on the first Wednesday of each month at 11am via Zoom (call for details) Join Rabbi Joshua the second Thursday of each month at 12pm.

Seniors - Lunch & Learn is Back!

April 27th – Learn with Community Schlicha Noam Harari Time: 11:00am - 12:00pm & 12:00pm – 1:00pm for Lunch Contact Linda Sisselman @ linda@westendsyn.org

Pesach 5782 - Schedule Friday, April 15 (before Pesach)

7am Morning Minyan 7:30am Learning session with R. Joshua followed by breakfast

Friday, April 15 (Pesach)

6pm Kabbalat Shabbat followed by communal Passover Seder in the Social Hall Seder catered by Goldie Shepard: Adults……………………….$60.00 Kids 6-12…………………..$30.00 Kids 3-6…………………….$15.00 Under 3……………………..free Non-Members………….$75.00 Please RSVP to: linda@westendsyn.org by April 7, 2022

Saturday, April 16

9:30am Shacharit for Shabbat and Pesach #1, followed by Kiddush lunch 6pm Mincha for Shabbat and Pesach #1 (in person)

Sunday, April 17

9:30am Shacharit for Shabbat and Pesach #2, followed by Kiddush lunch 6pm Mincha for Shabbat and Pesach #2 (in person)

Monday, April 18 - Wednesday, April 20

7am Shacharit for Chol haMoed Pesach (in person) 6pm Mincha - Maariv for Chol haMoed Pesach (on Zoom)

Thursday, April 21

7am Shacharit for Chol haMoed Pesach (in person) 6pm Maariv for Pesach #7 (in person)

Friday, April 22

9:30am Shacharit for Shabbat and Pesach #7, followed by Kiddush lunch 6:00pm Kabbalat Shabbat for Pesach #8

Saturday, April 23

9:30am Shacharit for Shabbat and Pesach #8 (with recitation of the Yizkor), followed by Kiddush lunch 6pm Mincha for Pesach #8 (in person)

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Tennessee Holocaust Commission accepting student entries for contest By ALYSSA TRACHTMAN

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he Holocaust is a lesson in human (and inhuman) history that took place because of hate, bigotry, indifference — all characteristics that know no bounds. These traits spread like wildfire. If we remain indifferent to human suffering, it can happen again; it can happen here, and who knows who the next victims will be? Only by remembering the bitter lesson of Hitler’s legacy can we hope it will never be repeated. Teach it, tell it, read it.” — Mira Ryczke Kimmelman, “Echoes from the Holocaust” Mira Kimmelman challenged students to reflect upon the history of the Holocaust and contemporary examples of injustice as she gave talks about her own experiences for more than 50 years. The Mira Kimmelman “Learning from the Holocaust” Contest, established after her death in 2019, continues her legacy. The contest invites Tennessee high school and middle school students to submit essays and projects that reflect how the lessons of the Holocaust are relevant to current events and their own lives. Kimmelman’s sons, Benno and Gene Kimmelman, proposed the contest, and the Tennessee Holocaust Commission sponsored the first contest last year. High school students are asked to submit a four-to-six page essay based on a prompt from Kimmelman’s book. Middle school students may enter either a two-to-three page essay or a project that reflects on the lessons of the Holocaust, for example, a visual art project, a website, a table-top exhibit, or a performance with accompanying script. The middle school essay should analyze and reflect on Kimmelman’s story and message. The Tennessee Holocaust Commission contest website links to 18 talks and interviews that Kimmelman gave between 1984 and 2017. It lists her two books, “Echoes from the Holocaust” and “Life Beyond the Holocaust: Memories and Realities,” giving students resources for the essays and projects. Julie Kinder-McMillan, (BelzLipman Award for Excellence in Holocaust Education Recipient) English Language Arts teacher at Robertsville Middle School in Oak Ridge and a Teacher Fellow with the Tennessee Holocaust Commission, introduces her eighth-grade students to the Holocaust and encourages her current and former students now at Oak Ridge High School to enter the contest. She hopes other teachers will direct their students to the opportunity to enter this year’s contest. “Students today have so many different things competing for attention. If teachers have any discretion on what to put in front of students, bringing in Holocaust literature is a great choice,” said KinderMcMillan, who has taught Holocaust studies in her classroom for 25years. “It helps them learn not only about history, but also about the world, empathy, human behavior.” From her memoir, students learn that Mira Ryczke had a happy childhood near what is now Gdansk, Poland, until the Nazi German government forced her family to leave their home and live in a ghetto. Sent to a concentration camp in 1943, she was moved to Auschwitz, the death camp she described as “absolute evil,” escaping the gas chambers when selected for slave labor. As World War II neared its end, she was among those in the death march to Bergen-Belsen, where thousands died from starvation,

disease, and exposure in the early months of 1945. British troops liberated that camp in April 1945. Only her father survived the Holocaust. Her mother, brother and 18 other members of her family were among the 6 million victims of the Holocaust. The next year, she met another survivor, Max Kimmelman. Mira and Max married and immigrated to the United States, living first in Cincinnati, Ohio, and then in Oak Ridge, Tenn., from 1964 until her death in2019. The contest’s project option allows students who enter to not only learn more about the subject material, but also to practice skills including technology, working with a team, and formal presentations, Continued on page 32

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Wellness Corner By SHERRI HOLZER

Back in the day, Dean Martin sang these lyrics: “When you’re smilin’ the whole world smiles with you.” Is that true? Is a smile contagious? Does a smile on MY face cause a smile to emerge on yours?

appiness is that feeling that comes over you when you know life is good and you can’t help but smile. I’ve done some research on smiling and how it can affect us. Studies have shown that smiling releases endorphins, natural pain killers and serotonin which helps our bodies feel love, happiness, and pleasure. Each time you smile, you throw a little feel-good party in your brain. The act of smiling activates neural messaging that benefits your health and happiness. I once read a Chinese proverb that proclaimed, “Use your smile to change the world; don’t let the world change your smile.” That surely makes it sound like something as simple as a smile can make a huge difference in this world. I am used to connecting to people with my smile and facial gestures. It’s odd that now we haven’t been able to read each other in that way behind our masks. I have the privilege of teaching Sunday school to 4-year-olds at Beit Miriam at West End Synagogue, and I wonder what joy they are missing by not seeing the ear to ear grin on my face when those tiny voices sing the Shema during our Hebrew lesson. I was pretty sure I could tell that

there were big smiles behind those 10 masks last week when I mentioned we were having Matzah and apples for a snack in honor of Pesach. Passover is my favorite Jewish holiday. Throughout the years I have beautiful memories of the retelling of the Exodus in various ways. When I was a little girl, we read from the Maxwell House Haggadah, and when my own children were young, we reenacted the story in costume and read from the interactive Haggadah I wrote. Last year, after our seder, we were discussing our ancestors’ bravery and determination to leave Egypt to start a new life in a new land. While enjoying slices of a gooey flourless chocolate cake, my husband, Jim, and I decided that we would make a move to a new land. Six weeks later we were in our new home Nashville, Tennessee. My own Exodus out of California provided me the gift of having the time to take stock of who I am, where I’ve been and what I believe makes me happy. I began reading books about faith and purpose. I became a part of a mastermind group of like-minded individuals who are all seeking to embrace the idea that everything we need and everything we desire is already here in the universe. I just needed to create a clear picture of what I desired, to decide to take action, to believe in the invisible and be ready to receive it. And I know that my now unwavering belief that I can create and be in charge of my own happiness is exactly what my god expects from me. God has created a world where I can use my creativity to attain all

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the joy that I desire. I have learned to not live in competition with others. I only live in creativity with myself. I use my creativity to teach a course called Cooking with Confidence. A student recently sent me this message: “Sherri, I didn’t want to cook. I didn’t understand how to follow a recipe and I thought it was just too complicated. Now look at me, smiling from ear to ear because I can cook a beautiful meal for my family and we’re all so happy. I feel so empowered.” As we gather in our homes in celebration of Passover, I hope everyone’s table will be surrounded by smiles. Smiles from the youngest asking the four questions, smiles from the excitement of find-

ing the afikomen, and the smiles given to those whose creativity in the kitchen blesses us with our seder meal. May you all smile, laugh and smile some more. Chag Pesach Sameach! Sherri Holzer is a food strategist, cooking instructor, and Integrative Nutrition Health Coach. As the founder of Simply Sherri, she leads culinary and corporate experiences where she shares her knowledge of food, nutrition, and simplifying the cooking process with her students. Sherri’s mission is to show the world how to use food for self-care. Sherri is also hosting a FREE Passover dessert class on April 9th, at 3pm CDT. For information, or to sign up, visit: www.simplysherri.net @iamsimplysherri

Pesach Matzohkopita Recipe SERVES 12 INGREDIENTS • 1 Package Matzo • 1 lb Baby Spinach (rough chopped) • 2 Green Onion (chopped) • 2 Egg (Beaten) • 2 cups Sheep’s Milk Feta Cheese (grated) • Cracked Black Pepper (10 cracks) • 1/4 cup Olive Oil • 2 Tbsp Dry Dill • 1 tsp Salt • 1 Egg (Top layer) • 1 cup Milk (Top layer) • 2 Tbsp Olive Oil (Top layer) • 1/2 cup Parmesan Or Romano Cheese (Grated; for top layer) DIRECTIONS Sautée green onions in 2 tbsp. olive oil for approx. 4 min. at medium heat. Spray baking sheet with olive oil spray. Take a second sheet pan and fill it with water. Submerge 6 pieces of matzo in water until soft but not breaking apart. Cover an oil-sprayed baking sheet with Matzo, pressing down on each piece so they join together to become

one giant layer of matzo (It’s okay if it overlaps, you must fill in the seams. In a large bowl, combine all the remaining ingredients to create a spinach mixture. Lay the spinach mixture across the matzo, making sure that all corners are covered. Submerge the remaining 6 pieces of matzo in water as previously done. Place them on top of the spinach layer and press down firmly to join together -- it should resemble the walls of the Old City of Jerusalem! In a small bowl, combine the egg, milk, and olive oil. Pat the milk mixture over the Matzo-kopitas, making sure to saturate the entire thing. Sprinkle grated parmesan over the top and pat down. Spray a piece of foil and cover the baking sheet loosely. Bake at 375 F for 30 minutes. Remove cover. Bake for 30 min. more. Must cool completely before cutting into squares. Best made day ahead. Reheat in a 350F oven for 15 min or until hot.

THC Contest Continued from page 31 much like the project-based learning taking place in class rooms today. The “Learning from the Holocaust” Contest offers monetary awards: $750 for the high school essay winner, $500 for the second place and $250 for the third place; $500 for the middle school essay winner and for the project winner, with $300 for second place in each category and $150 for third place. Nashville’s own Emmie Dubin-Wolf, daughter of Abbie Wolf and Ari Dubin, achieved the 1st place award for the Middle School category in 2021. The contest will be judged by a committee, including Kimmelman family

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members, according to rubrics outlined on the contest website. Entry forms and instructions for the 2022 contest may be found at https://tnholcom.org/kimmelman-contest/. The deadline for entry is June 1, 2022. •

Lifecycles B’nai Mitzvah Hannah Warsetsky

Hannah Warsetsky, will become a Bat Mitzvah on Saturday, April 2, at 10:30 a.m. at Congregation Micah. She is the daughter of Gail and Marc Warsetsky and sister of Russell and Jessie. She is the granddaughter of Ede and Bruce Slovin of Columbia, Tenn., Barbra and Gerry Warsetsky of Coral Springs, Fla., and the great-granddaughter of Poppy Ed Warsetsky of

Deerfield Beach, Fla. A seventh grader at Grassland Middle School, Hannah enjoys gymnastics, art and reading, along with performing in and going to the theater. For her Mitzvah project, she will be collecting art supplies for families staying at the Ronald McDonald House in Nashville.

Lilly Goorevich

Lilly Goorevich, will become a Bat Mitzvah on Saturday, April 23, at 10:30 a.m. at Congregation Micah. She is the daughter of Kelly and Michael Goorevich and the sister of Macey Goorevich. She is the granddaughter of Judy and Michael Babat and Jane and Sam Goorevich of Buffalo, N.Y. A seventh grader at Ensworth Middle School, Lilly

Kvetch in the City By CARRIE MILLS

istory tends to repeat itself unless the lesson is learned. Whenever I visit Manhattan, I get back on the dating apps and feel a tinge more hopeful (oops…lesson not learned.) Because I feel “home” and a feeling of being in my element, it’s an easy fool. The urbanite male appears to be more “my type”, sophisticated, interesting creative, and most of all, men who love NYC. Whereas I run out of potential dates on apps in TN, in the NYC metropolitan vicinity there are what appears to be endless possibilities. All that to say, I’ve yet to have any luck in meeting Mr. Right. For example, back in February while up in NYC, I matched up with a supposed architect, around my age, decent looking in his photos, living on the Upper West Side who loves to walk in Central Park. Perfect, or so I thought. When he showed up however, he was missing several teeth, and not in the back. Now, let me just say, I understand having to lose teeth. I have several implants. What I don’t understand is, what does someone expect when they put up false advertising photos? As you may imagine, that “date” was all of 15 minutes walking straight out of Central Park, making a sharp left and politely saying goodbye. Upon which I beelined right down 59th street to Forty Carrots restaurant on Bloomingdales 7th floor to cleanse my palate with a gigantic bowl of frozen yogurt with a side of chocolate syrup…and hopefully not cause any more tooth decay of my own. Talking about teeth in a metaphorical way, right now I need more teeth than I could ever have to chew on the insanity unfolding in the world. In case you may think I am way off course talking about dating while there is a horrifying war going, please know I am beyond distraught watching this tragedy unfold. A tragedy happening in the part of the world where my entire ancestral lineage is from. Though I generally can find humor in most situations, I’m finding it more and more challenging to “hold both things at one time.” It feels like a free fall spiral into

hell right now. I pray that by the time the April Observer hits homes, the war will be over, though that does not appear to be anywhere near likely to happen. All of this world madness is taking place as the deeply spiritual and meaningful holiday of Passover knocks upon the door. A time to reflect on the story of our people and the idea of freedom and its’ meaning for all mankind. The coming of Passover naturally got me to thinking of growing up Jewish in my exceptionally dysfunctional family of origin. As far as I can recall I never stepped foot in a Synagogue in Brooklyn my entire growing up years. And yet, I grew up feeling as Jewish as it gets, culturally speaking. If it was a Jewish holiday 30 of the 32 kids in my elementary school class would be out for the holiday. I was clearly aware of my Jewish roots as Yiddish words were thrown around like ping pong balls in my home. And while my mom, for several years dated a man in the Mafia, (am I allowed to say that out loud?) which would explain the year she made eggplant parmigiana for Passover dinner instead of her usual brisket, it was a Passover dinner nonetheless. Notice I did not say seder. I’m not sure I could call that specific eggplant parmigiana year a seder. Passover, however, was probably the only Jewish holiday we celebrated in some form or fashion religiously, which is why it may hold the most meaning for me of all the Jewish holidays. It was a time when my mom brought all the meshugana aunts, uncles and cousins, along with several of her Felliniesque friends around the dining room table. It was a time of true unity and togetherness. So as I pray for peace in Ukraine and some semblance of true happiness in my personal life, in the midst of what seems like an unbearable and very brutal world crisis, I will journey back to Manhattan once again. I will turn on the dating app on my phone, and celebrate the Passover holiday with dear high school friends’ at their apartment home in Greenwich Village while chewing on the fact, (with my real and not so real teeth) that though history may continue to repeat itself, the story of our people reminds me that with faith in God and the resilience of the human spirit, anything is possible, which very well may include meeting Mr. Right. •

enjoys art, singing, acting, rope climbing and Latin. For her Mitzvah project, Lilly chose Love Your Neighbor Notes.

project, Macie will be working with an organization to support environmental protection and awareness.

Macie Biller

Madeline Gochberg

Macie Biller, will become a Bat Mitzvah on Saturday, April 30, at 10:30 a.m. at Congregation Micah. She is the daughter of Daniel and Tara Biller and the sister of Andrew and Jonah. She is the granddaughter of Samuel and Rhonnie Leder and Stephen and Margaret Biller. A seventh grader at Ensworth Middle School, Macie enjoys playing basketball for both Ensworth and her out-of-school team, The Lollipops, as well as playing soccer and being on the Ensworth Dance Team. For her Mitzvah

Madeline Gochberg, will become a Bat Mitzvah on Saturday, May 7, at 10:30 a.m. at Congregation Micah. She is the daughter of Dan Gochberg and Leslie Meenderink and sister to Eli, Jasper and Ivy. She is the granddaughter of Michal and LeRoy Meenderink of Utah and Joan and Donald Gochberg of Michigan. A seventh grader at Meigs Middle School, Madeline enjoys playing the cello. For her Mitzvah project, Madeline is raising donations for the Oasis Center of Nashville.

Dear Esther Dear Esther, I buried my mom at the beginning of the pandemic, and we were not able to have more than a handful of people at the cemetery. It has been difficult to grieve in isolation. Now that we are beginning to see each other again, I have noticed that many people do not even remember I lost my mom. I feel awkward bringing it up and honestly, I feel shortchanged in terms of support because of the pandemic. Is it okay to ask for support two years later? – Karen G Dear Karen, First let me say that I am sorry to hear about the passing of your mother. May her memory be a blessing. It is tough to lose someone in a pandemic and to be deprived of the unrestricted support from others. Even though technology has enabled us to stay in touch virtually, it did not replace the warm hugs or the benefits we get from being with someone as a show of support. It is likely that your friends and co-workers have not forgotten but are merely consumed by their own struggles caused by the pandemic. Please do bring up your mom’s death and ask for support. Your friends and co-workers will be glad you did. It may open the door for them to talk about their losses as well. Everyone’s grief looks different and there is no set timeline. It’s never too late to attend to losses. Be gentle with yourself and allow as much time as you need to grieve. And don’t forget to be gentle with your friends and co-workers too! If there is ever a time to give others a “pass,” it is now. There are many ways to grieve that do not necessarily involve utilizing a support system. Planting a tree, making your mom’s favorite recipe, doing something she would have enjoyed or making a donation in her memory. It’s not too late to join a support group and in fact, Jewish Family Service is starting a new six-week grief group in April.

I would also like to take this opportunity to tell you about a new program facilitated by JFS called Beads of Courage. This program is for anyone who is grieving the loss of a loved one and involves meeting in small groups and constructing a string of beads that represent the person who has passed. Each bead represents a concept such as the continuation of life or a memory that you identify. You are guided through the exercise as you chose your glass beads and construct your individual strand in a supportive environment. At the end of the exercise, you will be invited to share and then leave with a beautiful strand of beads. This program is free and will be offered many times throughout the year. Keep talking to your family, friends, and co-workers. Grieving is difficult any way you look at it so don’t be afraid to take advantage of your support system. Now that people are starting to meet in person again, take advantage of support groups and any opportunity to honor you mom’s memory. There are support groups meeting in person and virtual ones if you are not comfortable. Jewish Family Service is tarting an in-person Grief Support group in April. To learn more about Beads of Courage or to sign up for the Grief group contact Toni Jacobsen at 615-354-1672 or Ashley Franklin at 615-354-1662. – Esther Esther recently migrated to Nashville from New York and will be partnering with JFS on an advice column for The Observer. Esther is a retired Psychologist, veteran grandmother who brings a lifetime of experience including dysfunctional families, raising children, relationships, kosher cooking and even interfaith families. Esther is excited to be in Nashville and promoting her famous matzo ball soup that she believes heals just about anything. Please submit your questions to esther@jfsnashville.org on anything under the sun and watch for answers in her column. •

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Obituaries Phyllis Alper

Condolenes to the family of Phyllis Alper. Phyllis was predeceased by her husband of 58 years, Ben Alper, and her sister, Mayora Ross. She is survived by her sisters, Kay Jacobs and Jean Valenti of Tampa, two daughters, Sherri Alper and Denise Alper, and grandchildren, Rachel Levy Howell (Patrick), Aaron Levy (Jessie), Brittney Goldfarb (Aaron Noparstak), Elliot Goldfarb and her great-grandchildren, Quentin and Willa Howell, Josie Levy and Danielle and Olivia Noparstak and niece, Vicki Ross Sawyer. Donations in Phyllis’ memory may be sent to Alive Hospice in Nashville or to a charity of your choice.

Terri Janette “TJ” Cohen

Condolences to the family of Terri Janette “TJ” Cohen, who died on March 16th. TJ is survived by her husband, Jay Cohen, stepdaughter Callie Cohen; sisters Pam Stiles (Nelson) and Jule Collins; mother-in-law Florence Saperstein (Rudy); brothers-in-law Mark Cohen and Lee Cohen (Deborah); and sister-in-law Lisa Cohen. In lieu of flowers, tributes may be made in TJ’s memory to Goofy Foot Dog Rescue, Congregation Micah, or any charity of your choice.

Bernard “Bernie” Goldstein

Condolences to the family of Bernard “Bernie” Goldstein, who died on February 23. Bernie gave generously of his time and his resources to West End Synagogue. He served as president

of the synagogue from 1968 to 1970. He funded and established the Sandra Klein Goldstein Community Service Award in 2015, which is presented to the student in the Beit Miriam graduating class who performed the most meaningful and active community service. He was a co-sponsor along with the Jewish Federation of Nashville and Middle Tennessee of the West End Synagogue Senior Learn and Lunch program and he purchased a new set of High Holiday and Shabbat prayer books for the synagogue. Most recently, Bernie made a significant contribution to kickstart the synagogue’s capital campaign. The Social Hall is dedicated in his honor. Bernie was predeceased by his first wife, Sandra Klein Goldstein, mother of his children, and is survived by his wife, Lenora, and his children, Steve Goldstein (Kent Newmark), Ronna Goldstein and Stewart Goldstein (Becky); grandchildren, Samuel Usmani (Maria), Zachary Usmani, Sari Goldstein (Ashley Baltes), Joshua Goldstein (Brynne), Jack Reason, Catherine Walsh and Bridget Walsh; and great grandchildren, Lyla Usmani, Emilia Usmani and Graham Goldstein. He is also survived by his brother and sisterin-law, Allen and Janice Klein and his sister-in-law, Jackie Klein Tepper.

Arnold J. Hyatt

Condolences to the family of Arnold J. Hyatt. who died March 5. Arnold is survived by his companion, Martha Blankenship; sister, Barbara Garbowitz; children, Susan Billotte (Roger), Ronald Hyatt, Larry Hyatt (Carol); grandchildren Seth Hyatt (Sharone), Joshua Grebow (Erin), Rebecca Hyatt, Brian Grebow (Bianca), Skyler Hodes; and five great-grandchildren. Donations may be made in Arnold’s

memory to the Jewish War Veterans of the United States of America or Congregation Micah.

Barbara K. Rittenberg

Condolences to the family of Barbara K. Rittenberg. She was born in March 1939 in New Jersey. She was happily married to her husband, Jay, for over 60 years. Family meant everything to Barbara. She was a terrific wife, mother, grandmother, daughter, sister and aunt. Barbara met Jay on a blind date and after only two dates they were engaged. After being married for seven years and having three sons within 30 months, she and her young family moved from New Jersey to Nashville where she lived for the rest of her life. Barbara spent over 30 years teaching students in the Metro School system who are gifted and those with learning disabilities. She earned an undergraduate degree from Montclair State and a master’s in education from Peabody College at Vanderbilt. She volunteered and served leadership roles in many non profits here in Nashville. Barbara is survived by her husband, Jay; sons, Scott (Terri), Evan and Edward (Melissa); grandchildren, Alex, Andrew (Victoria), Joel, Natalie and Samantha; sisters, Toby Kraus and Sondra Newall; sister-in-law, Helene Wolf; nephews and nieces, Terry Hahn, Judy Stichter (Wayne Kaplan), Jeff Kraus, Gary Kurtz, Stacy (Rick) Shaffer, Steve (Nan) Wolf, Carol (Mitch) Damsky and Eileen Rittenberg (Trent Grant). She was predeceased by her parents, Jack and Esther Kurtz; brother, Nathan Kurtz; sister-inlaw, Judy Kurtz; brothers-in-law, Harold Rittenberg and Irvin Wolf; and nephew, Jerry Rittenberg. Donations may be made to:

Tennessee Alzheimer’s Association, 106 Mission Court, Suite 203, Franklin, TN 37067 and online at: https://www.alztennessee.org/give/memorials-other-gifts/ memorial-gifts.

Helene Rothschild

Condolences to the family of Helene Rothschild who lived to 105. Survivors include Chelsea and Andrew.

Nyuma Shor

Condolences to the family of Nyuma Shor. He is survived by his wife, Marina.

Walter P. “Wally” Stern

Condolences to the family of Walter P. “Wally” Stern. who died on February 27. Wally is survived by his wife, Betsy May Stern; children, Sarah May Stern (Mark Rosenblatt), Willy May Stern (Ann Shapiro), David May Calhoon Stern (Mary Elizabeth Calhoon); grandchildren, Judd Rosenblatt (Melanie Plaza), Bex Rosenblatt (Ben Manson), Tom Rosenblatt, Zack Stern, Phoebe Stern, Kasey Stern, Gavin Stern, Fiona Stern; great-grandchildren, Trent Rosenblatt, Leo Manson; brother, Richard Stern (Phyllis Edelstein); and brother-in-law, Jack May (Lynn May). Donations may be made in Wally’s memory to The Hudson Institute or The Washington Institute for Near East Policy.

Unveiling Frances Kaminitz

Unveiling for Frances Kaminitz will be on Sunday, May 8th at 11am at the Sherith Israel Cemetery. The family invites Frances’ friends to please join them.

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was an amazing feeling. Fast forward a few weeks to around last week. It was the start of the month Adar-Bet (there’s a leap month on the Jewish calendar this year, pushing Purim back a month.) Every start of a new month on the Jewish calendar, a social justice group called Women of the Wall comes to the Western Wall to pray. Basically, the purpose of the group is to raise awareness about the need for men and women to have equality at the Western Wall when they pray. I highly encourage you to look it up, it is a very empowering movement. Our school went to Women of the Wall to pray with the women in the organization. All around our little group of women praying was a sea of orthodox Jews wearing black trying to silence us and stop the prayer. I’ve never seen anything like it, which is why I felt it was that much more important to be there and support these women. Even in all the hatred around us, we had the power to spread love, which I think is a very important message that everyone should follow. I encourage you, dear reader, that when you are surrounded by hatred, be the one to spread love and kindness. With that, I would like to thank The Observer for letting me continue to write my experiences. It has been such a blast to share my adventures with you all and I can’t wait to see what the future has in store. See you next month, everyone! •

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OPTOMETRIST DR. MICHELE SONSINO Optique Eyecare & Eyewear 2817 West End Ave., Nashville 615-321-4EYE (4393)

PERSONAL SHOPPER

PROPERTY MANAGEMENT

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REAL ESTATE

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SPORTING GOODS TEAM NASHVILLE Your Running/Walking Swimming Headquarters 3205 West End Ave. Nashville, TN 37203 615-383-0098

TRAVEL SERVICES Expredia Cruise Ship Centers A Full Service Travel Agency Alan Cooper: Office: 629-202-8945 www.cruiseshipcenters.com/AlanCooper 7081 B Hwy 70 S / Kroger Shopping Ctr.

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LYNCH TREE SERVICE Year Round, Complete Tree Care 615-444-4676 www.LynchTreeService.com

The Jewish Observer • April 2022

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