Clifton Merchant Magazine - February 2023

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Yes They CAN!

The deadlock had Grabowski, Lauren Murphy and Joe Kolodziej on the side of tradition. Gibson, Rosemary Pino and Tony Latona wanted change. The tie breaker was Councilwoman Mary Sadrakula. Her vote would be known on Jan. 3, she said, at the first council meeting for 2023. More drama unfolded that Tuesday at 6 pm.

Clifton’s political landscape has settled down but it is not the “same old, same old.” The changing of the guard happened on Jan. 3 as tradition would have it. Ray Grabowski was selected by his peers to be the 23rd mayor of Clifton.

But boy, December was a hum dinger of a month. The hoopla began right after Election Day. Rumors began that a coup was in the works. Three council members were ready to show tradition the door. They would nominate Bill Gibson, the second highest voter getter, as mayor.

It was not a popular sentiment. Council meetings turned into raucous, rowdy sessions on Dec. 6 and Dec. 20 as residents took turns at the mic then often booed, shouted or spoke out of turn as Council members responded.

A large audience attended with many more tuned in to the cable broadcast. In the first round, Pino nominated Latona instead of Gibson as both men and the audience looked perplexed. As expected, Kolodziej nominated Grabowski.

The count went 3-3, and as it had became obvious, it would come down to Sadrakula.

Many political observers thought the odds were that Sadrakula’s vote would favor tradition. “What has happened for the last four years cannot go on for another four years,” she stated calmly. “I vote for the top vote-getter.”

My point in recounting this stormy, month-long drama is that change is not easy. Opposing views were considered and the majority vote prevailed. Democracy also prevailed. And in the last meeting of the council, decorum was again found and maintained. Keep working at it folks, and keep focused on helping Clifton grow.

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Sweeter Than Most

The Janishes love story was sweet from the start.

In every sense. James “Jim” and Lauren (Santin) Janish’s paths first crossed at School 12.

“[There was] an ‘extra’ dixie cup ice cream treat in the sixth grade,” said Lauren (CHS 1963). “Our teacher said she knew exactly who would get it.”

“Yes, it was Jim Janish,” recalled Lauren. “A new student who moved to our neighborhood from the Dutch Hill section of Clifton.”

Jim and Lauren attended CHS on a parttime schedule as the new high school was constructed. They dated on-and-off during high school, but Lauren said that “I always knew ‘he was the one!’”

Jim served in the NJ National Guard and Lauren pursued her secretarial goals at the Katharine Gibbs Secretarial School in Montclair. Jim later retired after 42 years with Becton Dickinson and Lauren retired in 2010 from the Fair Lawn Board of Education as a principal’s secretary.

In November of 1964, the couple got engaged in perhaps the most Clifton way.

“We became engaged while attending the annual Garfield and Clifton Thanksgiving Day football game,” said

Lauren. “How romantic was that?”

The Mustang sweethearts wed on Nov. 6, 1965, recently celebrating 57 years of marriage. They have two children, Jill Sproviero and Jayne Tanis. Their four grandchildren are Amy and Allison Sproviero, and John and Karyn Tanis.

“Ironically, our granddaughter, Allison, will graduate Clifton High School this June of 2023,” said Lauren. “Sixty years after Jim and I did as the first graduating class of the new high school.”

Now into their retirement, Lauren said it consists of an old phrase.

“‘Doing what we want to do, when we want to do it,’” she said. “And enjoying our summer home on the bay in Lanoka Harbor, with all the ‘toys’ that go with it.”

In 1965, James and Lauren Janish on the wedding day. James and Lauren Janish today. Their granddaughter CHS 2023 senior Allison Sproviero.
Love is in the air and across the folloing pages! This month, we shared stories told to us by couples on how they keep relationships healthy. Some of the stories are also told by readers in their own words, and have beed edited for space and clairity.
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By Ariana Puzzo
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Brandon and Alicia (Ortiz) Cabassa – Married 9 Years

We were married in the summer, so we usually celebrate by going to a nice restaurant with outdoor dining or barbecuing with our daughter, Quinn, at home. As a family, we try to live in the moment, which is often difficult in the age of digital distraction. We eat dinner as a family every night at the kitchen table and read at least three books to our daughter before bedtime. These are not momentous traditions, but they make the simple things special and slow down the hectic work week. We also try not to yell unless the house is on fire. If it is a hot topic, sometimes it is easier to send an email rather than discuss something face-to-face. Finally, we try to see the other person’s point of view.

Joseph Siano and Rickey Di Maria-Siano Married 1.5 Years

Rickey and I were together a number of years before I popped the question, neither of us ever thinking that we would get married because we had never wanted to. Then, one day I woke up and thought to myself how amazing it would be to call her my wife. As corny as it sounds, we really were meant to be together. It’s easy to keep our spark going when we have such fun and amazing conversations together. We love going to the renaissance faire and all the

county fairs. Every day, I wake up and I am blessed that she is there next to me. I could not imagine my life any other way. At home together and working together — I still can’t get enough.

Michael and Roxanne (Reimer) Campagna

My husband, Michael Campagna, and myself will celebrate 40 years of marriage on May 28. We knew that we were right for each other because we had long talks on the landline. We try to do fun and different things together, and we try to go somewhere fun and have a nice dinner on our anniversaries. We talk out most of our conflicts.

Scott Malgieri and Courtney Carlson

We have been together for seven years as of Feb. 1. We are currently engaged and planning our wedding for April of 2024. We both grew up in Clifton — Scott graduated from Clifton in 2013 and I graduated from Paramus Catholic in 2014. We met at the Stop & Shop on Broad Street through a mutual friend, and every year for our anniversary we try to go to the Allwood Diner since our first date was there. To overcome conflict in our relationship, we will sit and talk about the issue and try to resolve it as fast as possible.

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Brandon and Alicia (Ortiz) Cabassa with daughter Quinn, 6, and dog Lolita, 15. Joseph Siano and Rickey Di Maria-Siano taking their first couple photo at the Renaissance Faire. Scott Malgieri and Courtney Carlson’s engagement in May 2022.
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From rear left, Bohdan Baran, Nataliya Baran, Igor Loukachouk, Lydia Loukachouk, Anna K. Neporanny, Eugene N. Neporanny, Nadia Bukacz, Michael Bukacz. In middle: Daniel Loukachouk, Nicholas Neporanny, Christopher Bukacz, Bohdan Baran, Adrian Baran, Kateryna Baran. Girls in front: Andrea Neporanny, Nicole Bukacz, Juliana Loukachouk.

His eyes twinkle when he looks at her. She tilts her head and giggles. Kateryna and Bohdan Baran still have the bond they felt when they first met decades ago.

A few years after coming to America, Kateryna Duda went back to Poland during the summer of 1963 to visit relatives. In those days, almost no one had a car in Poland, so Kateryna’s uncle hooked up horses to a small wagon and off the group went to a nearby town. There was a community social that evening. Kateryna was hoping for an enjoyable night of song and dance.

Bohdan Baran’s aunt was related to the Duda family and thought that maybe the young lady visiting from America might be a good match for her 26-year-old nephew. When the wagon arrived at the Baran’s home, Bohdan came out to the gate and gave his hand to Kateryna to help her out of the wagon, to help her step safely to the ground.

Click. That was it. They were smitten. Love at first sight.

“I had a motorcycle back then” said Bohdan, “and every day that I could, I raced to her town to visit with her, then raced back home, swerving around the pits and cracks in the road, only to return the next day.” That was June 1963. Six weeks later, on August 3, Kateryna and Bohdan were married.

On August 3, 2023, the Barans will celebrate their 60th wedding anniversary down the shore in Wildwood, surrounded by their large extended family and many dear friends.

In Poland, both Kateryna and Bohdan had grown up near the Baltic Sea, in towns with tight-knit Ukrainian communities. In America, the newlyweds first settled in Brooklyn, where their son Bohdan was born in 1967.

Kateryna’s brother Antin suggested they join him in Clifton, also a town with a tight-knit Ukrainian community, and after the couple arrived here in 1969, they quickly sank roots.

“I was pregnant when we decided to move to Clifton. When I last saw my doctor in Brooklyn, he patted my stomach, wished me luck, and said that it looked like I was going to have a large, healthy baby,” Kateryna noted with a wry smile.

The next doctor she saw was at the old St. Mary’s Hospital and after listening with a stethoscope, the doctor predicted she would have twins. “Both Bohdan and I have twins in our families, so that sounded right.”

They thought twins were on the way

This was before ultrasounds were routine and the couple excitedly prepared for the possibility of two children. “Unexpectedly, I went into premature labor in December, and was rushed to the hospital. The doctor immediately ordered an X-ray. When it was over, I was wheeled away, but I heard the nurses murmuring something about triplets. I thought they were talking about somebody else, for sure not about me.”

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Kateryna delivered two baby girls and was thrilled. “That’s it! We have our twins! I thought I was done.”

“No, no, no, Kateryna,” said her doctor – there is another baby still to come. And then he delivered the third girl, who joined her sisters, identical healthy triplets, Lydia, Nadia and Anna.

St. Nicholas Ukrainian Catholic Church had just completed construction, and early in 1970, the triplets were the first babies to be baptized in the new church on President Street in Passaic, notes Bohdan with pride.

“Those first years were hard, at times, with four young children, but then, we were young, as well. I would go to work during the day,” he continued, “come home to be with the children in the evening and then Kateryna would leave for work. This continued for many years.”

“However,” added Kateryna, “we had a routine. The children knew what was expected of them. After school, a snack, some play, homework. All four were excellent students, among the top graduates in their classes at Clifton High School.”

In time, all four married –“we are very happy that our daughter-in-law and sons-inlaw are all also Ukrainian” –said the Barans, and the four siblings have seven children between them – Daniel and Juliana; Christopher and Nicole; Nicholas and Andrea; and the youngest, Adrian.

Bohdan chuckles. “Do you want to hear another story about threes? All three girls gave birth to their first child in the same year – only months apart – and for each girl, the first child was a boy. Three boys.” Kateryna and Bohdan look at each other and grin. That year was quite the year.

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Kateryna and Bohdan Baran on Aug. 3, 1963.

Their immaculate home down the street from Stefan Tatarenko Memorial Park is filled with Ukrainian art, embroidery, ceramic and wood pieces crafted by hand. And photos. Dozens and dozens of wonderful photos of family through the years: graduations, weddings, holidays, photos of their four children with spouses and their seven grandchildren.

Asked what, after 60 years of marriage, do they consider to be among their greatest accomplishments, what has given the Barans the most satisfaction, without hesitation both reply “Our family.”

“We are very grateful for what we have,” answers Kateryna, “our children are close, they get along with each other, talk with each other, and they are close with us. There is no competition, no quarreling. Not every family has that.”

“At our church,” adds Bohdan, “Father Andriy often points to our family – we all try to sit in one pew together and sometimes we no longer fit – and says that we are an example of what every family should be. A good family—a happy family,” he says, “is a loving family.”

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In their CHS days, Anna, Nadia, Lydia and Bohdan.
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Derek Leeshock and Kayla Lord have done long distance. They made it work, too.

While interviewing the couple over their speakerphone in late December, dealing with “distance” is a little different these days.

“You’re too far away. Come closer,” Kayla told her fiancé when he briefly walked away from the phone.

Now, they’re closer than ever. The reason why we spoke a month earlier than the other couples featured on these pages is because Derek and Kayla wed on Jan. 13.

The Mustang sweethearts became engaged on Feb. 5, 2021. Kayla (CHS 2013) recalled how Derek (CHS 2012) surprised her after he booked a weekend at a Bed & Breakfast where they could snowboard in New Hampshire.

“We went to a restaurant for dinner the first night that we checked in,” said Kayla, 27. “When we got back, the room was decorated with flowers and had a bucket of ice with champagne and chocolate-covered strawberries. That’s when he asked me to marry him.”

Kayla said it was a nice moment since it was shared between just the two of them. That doesn’t mean there weren’t nerves.

“I had originally called the place to set up [everything] and thought it would be there when we initially arrived, but only the flowers were set up,” said Derek. “So I was nervous that they had forgotten and it wouldn’t have been as grand of a gesture.”

It all worked out. The couple were planning to honeymoon in Jamaica and are eager to start the next era of their lives together.

“We’ve been together for eight years and have lived together for five of them,” said Derek, 28. “I think people have the misconception that marriage will change their relationship.”

“Will some things change? Sure,” he amended. “But a lot will stay the same, which is good for us.”

Reunited Through Social Media

Before becoming a couple, they were simply Clifton kids. They both grew up near Albion Park. Kayla grew up with her parents, Kevin Sr. and Robyn Sue, and her younger siblings, Kevin (CHS 2015), Kage (CHS 2017), and Kenzie (CHS 2022). Derek was born to parents James and Terry, and he grew up with his older sister, Ashley (CHS 2007).

They attended School 5 and WWMS, where they were acquaintances. They officially met while sitting alphabetically in French class during the first day of Kayla’s freshman year and Derek’s sophomore year.

On Jan. 13, newlyweds Derek and Kayla Leeshock with a cardboard cut-out of their dog, Ranger.
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“I thought you were funny and a bit of a contrarian,” said Kayla to Derek. “You were always sort of playing the devil’s advocate or had something smart to say.”

And Derek’s first impression that day?

“I just thought she was really cute,” he said, making them both laugh. “Genuinely.”

They started dating in 2009. After a year, they parted ways for a few years before reconnecting in college.

“Snapchat brought us back together,” laughed Kayla.

Kayla double majored in Psychology and Communication Arts & Sciences at Penn State. Closer to home, Derek worked toward his Math degree with a concentration in statistics at MSU. In 2015, he visited Penn State for a weekend. They’ve stayed together ever since.

Today, Kayla is a postdoctoral fellow at the Institute of Living, which is part of Hartford Hospital. She graduated last year with a PhD in Clinical Psychology from Suffolk University and is in the process of getting her license to officially be a licensed psychiatrist. Derek works as a Branch Manager for Sherwin-Williams in Wallingford, Connecticut, where they currently live.

“I think this is a nice time that we’re getting married,” said Kayla. “We’re entering a steady career phase and hoping to do more traveling. In the longer term, we’re also looking forward to starting a family.”

A Go-To Couple

Self-described by Derek as “pretty big foodies”, the couple get HelloFresh and prepare different cuisines together. They also spend time with their one-year-old corgi, Ranger, and enjoy date night bar trivia.

The moment that they agreed shifted their dynamic was when they went from long distance communication to living together in Boston.

“We communicated a lot through the phone and computer, and we actually spent a lot of time on online chats,” said Kayla. “We would tandem-watch Netflix shows and press play at same time so we could live-text our reactions.”

“Moving in together in Boston [required us to] figure out our dynamic as a couple after three years of long distance to moving straight into living together and being cohabitants,” said Derek. “The relationship dynamic at that point altered.”

An open line of communication made it work. It also required the acknowledgement that any transition requires patience.

“It was the adjustment of sharing a space and operating as a unit,” said Kayla. “When you’re long distance, you’re pretty much living two independent lives. Then you shift to being a unit in a different way and combining our lives in that way.”

For advice, Kayla said she’s spoken to her parents who have been married for 28 years. They added that their own journey has become a point of reference for other people.

“I think we’ve been that couple,” confirmed Derek.

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Every night before sitting down for dinner, my father gives my mother a kiss on the cheek. It’s a gesture that seemed normal as a kid. Maybe it is. My parents have always liked being together. I found it odd that other kids’ parents took separate trips or spent time apart.

What I saw was a partnership; Mom cooked the meals, Dad cleaned up — working in tandem. It’s still that way.

On Oct. 23, Luca and Kim Puzzo will mark 35 years of marriage — an impressive milestone. But there’s something that impresses me even more after all these years.

“It sounds weird, but we’ve never really argued,” said Kim. “We’re very compatible.”

Luca — called “Luke” by my mom and some friends — agreed. He said supporting one another is the key.

“There’s the expression: ‘If there’s one person to have with you in a foxhole’, and that’s an easy one for me,” said Luca, 62. “There’s only one person, and that’s [Kim]. I’ve always known that she had my back, and I made sure that I had her back.”

Cupid or a Clifton Colleague?

Born in Paterson to Charles and Phyllis (Pecci) Nouhan, Kim grew up with brothers Charles (CHS 1974) and Mark (CHS 1981), attending School 2, Woodrow Wilson, and graduating from CHS in 1976.

“I was very shy growing up,” said Kim. “I played with my best friend Cheryl who I met when I was five and lived around the corner.”

Childhood pastimes included watching the Mustang Band practice at nearby CHS, riding her bike to Styertowne, as well as Saturday matinees at the Allwood or Clifton Theaters and bowling at Bowlero.

Luca grew up in Palisades Park, the fourth child of his late parents Philip and Palma (Minutello) Puzzo, along with older siblings Frank, Tina Kerouack, and Anthony, and younger brother Michael. Luca recalled the town was “very small” with a lot of boys his age.

“We ran around and did whatever seasonal sport was in, getting into mischief at times,” chuckled Luca.

Kim studied Education of the Deaf/Hard of Hearing at Trenton State College, now TCNJ, later earning her MEd in Learning Disabilities and sixth-year level in supervision and administration at William Paterson.

In 1981, Kim became a Teacher of the Deaf at School 14. Awarded the Clifton Teachers Association Educator of the Year in 2014, she finished her 35-year career in Clifton teaching children with a variety of special needs in 2016.

Luca graduated with a BA in History from William Paterson. He attended Jersey City State College for his teaching certification, later earning his MA as a reading specialist and sixth-year level in supervision and administration. He began his career in Clifton in 1985 at WWMS as a fulltime in-school suspension/super-substitute.

“That’s where he learned crowd control,” joked Kim.

In March 1987, Luca became an eighth grade social studies teacher at CCMS. In 1994, he was named the first elementary assistant principal in Clifton and assigned to School 12. He later became the principal of Schools 4,1, and 11, retiring in 2020.

Their paths crossed in 1986, thanks to former WWMS and School 14 speech teacher Mary (Berk) Armona. “In February 1986, Harry Meyers, who was a social studies teacher at Woodrow and had become a friend, said, ‘Come on, let’s go for a drink.’ It turned out, there was a party at one of the teacher’s homes,” said Luca.

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Kim and Luca holding a future author Ariana Puzzo.
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Armona was at the party and Luca noticed her staring at him all night, which he found odd until she approached him with her plan to set him up on a blind date. Neither Kim nor Luca were interested and let her know in no uncertain terms. Armona wasn’t deterred. She gave Kim’s number to Luca and hounded him until he acquiesced about three weeks later.

“It was March Madness when I called,” said Luca, a huge sports fan. “It was the night of the National Championship and I called her 15 minutes before the game.”

Kim found out later why the phone call was so brief. But the first date was set for that Friday, April 4, 1986.

Building a Future

Luca knew immediately that it was a good first date.

“We talked about everything that night and still talk about everything,” said Luca. “One thing that I got from the first date was I knew I could trust [her]. And that doesn’t come easily for me.”

“She was very comfortable to be with and is also very bright,” he continued. “That is something that I always looked at — how well someone spoke and could get to the crux of the situation.”

Kim felt the same. They spent a long time at El Torito in Secaucus before speaking until 4 am. She did have one advantage going into the date. Kim had caught a glimpse of him while passing through WWMS one day.

“He kind of looked like Clark Kent with bad clothes,” said Kim. “He was wearing burgundy pants and a rust shirt. I later found out that he’s color blind.”

As they still joke, Luca’s attempt at a mustache also needed to go. She was kind about it and at one point during the date found an excuse to lift her finger so it was crooked in front of her eye.

“When he asked what I was doing, I said, ‘I’m seeing what you would look like without a mustache,’” she said. “By the next date, the mustache, which was horrible, was gone. I knew he was interested.”

Kim and Luca wed in St. Paul Church in Clifton on Oct. 23, 1988. They lived in Nutley and worked several parttime jobs to save for a house, buying one in Clifton in 1990. Calling it a “fixer-upper” is generous.

They enjoyed spending time together, including summer weekends entertaining family and friends by their pool. An avid Mets fan, Luca quickly converted Kim and they enjoy watching games together to this day. They also enjoyed vis-

iting Kim’s maternal grandmother, as well as Luca’s family in Bergen County.

“Luke and my grandmother shared a special bond and his family has always treated me great,” said Kim.

Starting a family wasn’t easy. After several miscarriages, I was born in 1996.

“When you were born, the world celebrated, and that’s no joke,” said Kim. “I had three baby showers. Everyone was so thrilled that this baby was finally here. I took 18 months maternity leave; a really great time.”

Consistent Support

Luca’s favorite qualities about Kim are her intelligence and honesty.

“She’s not afraid to tell me when I’m wrong. She’s forthright,” said Luca. “She’s taught me not to give up.”

Kim considers Luke a “great father” and said he makes her laugh daily. She appreciates his role as a son-in-law.

“Both of my parents were impacted by COVID in March of 2020,” said Kim. “It altered their lives and ours. It’s become my number one priority to make sure they’re well cared for, and that’s put a lot of retirement plans aside.”

“He’s been 100% beside me. He was contemplating retirement and ultimately did because I wouldn’t have been able to help care for my parents daily if I had to worry that he would bring COVID home,” she added.

Kim recalled a favorite moment that occurred one day as she was driving her father home from a doctor’s appointment and he randomly exclaimed, “You know, you married a good guy.”

“That really sums it up,” said Kim.

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Several summers ago, Ariana, Kim and Luca Puzzo.
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Michael and Rosemary Baran, Married 30 Years

We will be married for 30 years this May 7. While we were living in Atlanta in 1994, we visited Savannah, Georgia and the Golden Isles. We hope to recreate that this year — our 30th year. Our ways to be happy in marriage are: Compromise a lot, hear both sides of the story, be open with issues, be willing to do the best for the unity of the relationship, have fun and don’t be so serious, and know that life is short — make it a party!

David Lalla and Dr. Latasha Casterlow-Lalla Married 18 Years

Our rule is that it doesn’t matter the topic of discussion — everybody has a right to speak. Each person has an uncensored five minutes to say whatever you want, however you want and the other person can’t interrupt you. You can take notes or mental notes and then the other person gets their five minutes. Once you get all of that out, now you can talk and be more rational.

We have so many traditions. For our

anniversary, we take off work and have a really nice lunch at Waterside in North Bergen. It’s kind of like a pamper day where we try to do the things we want to do.

Our other traditions include celebrating a lot of holidays and cultures. For Valentine’s Day, we do our own thing but also do an entire spread for our three children. Everything from the china, the tablecloth, the lighting, and we typically get their favorite foods. We want them to know how much we love and appreciate them. It’s about trying to have a house of love and joy. That’s our big tradition.

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William and Robin Gibson Married 26 Years

We live in trying times with work, children, pandemics, bills, etc. There will always be some kind of conflict that all relationships face. No relationship is perfect. It’s how you deal with it that is very important. Never be too busy to listen to your partner. Listening is where it all starts. Never interrupt. Ev-

Rosemary Pino and Eric Oliver

Married 6 Years

Eric and I lived less than a mile away from one another when we met July 24, 2009. I was single and looking for someone local to date because I was traveling a lot with my job. I went on Match.com and put in Clifton and he popped up. I moved on but because I looked at his profile, he could see that.

He messaged me and we started talking, but it didn’t go far. A week or two went by and I received another message from Eric saying he was about to leave and he thought he would give me his personal email in case one day we might talk.

I decided to give him another shot, but he was really dry. So I figured, ‘Let me just give him my number. Maybe he’s better on the phone.’ He texted me, ‘Is this a good time to call?’ I told him I was putting my baby to sleep and to give me a minute, and I ended up falling asleep. That next day I was working in New York and we spoke on my hour and a

eryone needs to get their feelings out completely and feel like they are understood. Make compromises and work together to come up with a solution that is good for your relationship. Not all relationships will come to the same compromise, but communication, listening, and encouragement are great starts to dealing with relationship conflicts. Two people working together for the good of the family is what’s most important.

half ride back home. From that moment on the phone, we connected. We married Aug. 1, 2016 and making memories with our children is extremely important to us. We have a blended family with 11 children all-together.

He had three children, I had three children, we had three together, and we adopted two through the foster care system. We made a promise as a family to be present for family times. So every year we go on a family vacation for a week to spend quality time together.

Every two years we go to Belize and stay a week in the jungles where there is no WIFI and limited communication with the outside world. We are forced to be present with no distractions and strengthen our bond as a family. This is one of our most loved traditions. We agreed long ago not to allow our pride to get the better of us. So neither of us is ever too prideful to say “sorry” first. You can’t take yourself too seriously — that’s when the magic ends.

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If you’re looking for the Carlines on Friday nights, they’re likely enjoying pizza together.

It’s tradition, after all. One that took hold in 1963 after having their first semi-encounter at Juliano’s Pizza, today the Grande Saloon, on Van Houten Avenue.

“On Fridays, me and my friends would go for pizza,” said Ann (Friedhoff) Carline, 77. “We went to Juliano’s … which had great pizza.”

One of those Fridays, Ann was sitting with her girl friends when a group of “young gentlemen” entered the restaurant. Among them was Al Carline. Ann recalled that they didn’t speak that night and Al sat down at another table.

It wasn’t until Monday that their mutual friend approached Ann, then a senior at CHS, and asked if she saw who he was with Friday. At Al’s request through the intermediary, Ann gave him her phone number.

“He was a sophomore at Seton Hall University and was in their ROTC. They were having their annual picnic the following Sunday and he needed a date,” laughed Ann (CHS 1963).

So that Friday, they got to know each other. Al picked her up after work — Ann worked part time at the old Grand Union at Lexington and Clifton Avenues — and they got ice cream at Applegate Farm. They attended the picnic together a few days later and Ann said “that was it.”

The couple will celebrate 58 years of marriage on Aug. 28. What made the initial, and arguably most important, impression on Al was Ann’s smile and her temperament.

“From that time on, she’s been the only one,” said Al, 79.

Growing Inseparable

Despite growing up almost around the block from each other in Botany Village, Al and Ann had different education experiences.

Al attended St. Joseph’s and graduated in 1961 from Pope Pius XII in Passaic. Meanwhile, Ann attended School 12, went to junior high at the old School 7, and attended CHS for grades 10 through 12.

Once they got to know each other, the compatibility was instantaneous. Al said that they hit it off with common interests after attending the ROTC picnic in New York State. Ann agreed and said she knew that he was the guy for her “probably within the first month.”

“It didn’t take very long,” said Ann. “We just seemed very compatible and inseparable. We wanted to spend every minute together that we could.”

While Al was studying social studies and English for his education major at Seton Hall, Ann was working toward her bachelor’s in education at William Paterson University. During Al’s last two years, they knew he would be commissioned and leave once he graduated.

The two of them wed before Al began his two-year commitment with the US Army. He started at Fort Gordon in Georgia for his first basic school and served as a second lieutenant in the Military Police Corps branch. He received promotions and was then assigned to Fort Hamilton in Brooklyn. Al was at the Brooklyn Army Terminal and later at the Military Ocean Terminal at Bayonne as its chief security officer.

Once the Army discharged him following his two-year commitment, Al remained in the US Army Reserves for 26 years. He retired at the rank of Lieutenant Colonel. His branch changed in those years to a medical service

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branch. Al was executive officer at the 343rd Evacuation Hospital and 32nd General Hospital.

“The ROTC was mandatory at Seton Hall for the first two years, and I grew into it,” said Al about what led him to the Army. “I joined the drill team and a military fraternity.”

“It was just a new chapter in my life, the ROTC program,” he continued. “The instruction, the situation with Vietnam. The camaraderie amongst the students.”

A Wonderful Clifton Experience

The Carlines returned to Clifton after Al’s two years in the Army. They lived on Russell Street and later moved to East 6th Street with their three daughters.

Their daughters are Robyn Murphy, a pediatric radiologist at Morristown Hospital; Beth Carline, an executive assistant at Bank of America in Charlotte, North Carolina; and Kim Mouzon, a sixth grade math teacher at CCMS.

Teaching runs in the family.

Al’s first post-Army job was teaching social studies at then Christopher Columbus Junior High. He later taught at CHS and his career spanned nearly 40 years before retiring in 2007.

Ann taught in Clifton for 26 years. She spent 17 years at School 4 as a second grade teacher and nine years teaching sixth and seventh grade language arts at WWMS. She retired in 2001.

“It was just a wonderful experience. I loved it,” said Ann. “I loved the children and made many friendships with the faculty and staff.”

Al had a similarly positive experience. He coached the girls basketball team for 28 years.

“We won some games,” said Al humbly.

It was over 500 games. What stands out to Al more than

the wins are the lasting relationships that he developed with his former players. There was a mini reunion a few years ago that saw some players visiting him in South Carolina to play golf.

“I have a list of just about every player for 28 years and I’m in constant contact with them,” said Al. “We were the first Varsity girls program in Clifton, and I think we were successful.”

Al noted that they won county championships, league championships, and some girls went on to play in college.

One “extremely successful” stand-out was Erin (Shaughnessy) Monahan. Monahan’s in her 30th season as the Head Women’s Basketball Coach at her alma mater William Paterson. Her coaching record is 513-256 in 29 seasons. She has led the Pioneers to 11 NCAA Tournament bids and three NJAC Tournament titles.

“I really enjoyed [coaching],” said Al. “I didn’t think that it would be the case with the girls, but I think they’re more coacable than boys. We had some great moments.”

Al remains a present member of the Boys & Girls Club of Clifton. He played basketball with the old Boys Club

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Al and Ann Carline with their kids: Robyn, Beth and Kim. Facing page, the Coach in 2002.

and is close with the workers. While teaching, he was part of Project Rebound. The program for at-risk kids took place at the Club.

“[The kids] didn’t want to be in school, so the Board of Education started the program and it was extremely successful,” said Al. “Some of the things that the kids did after graduation were phenomenal. One girl got a PhD in psychology, another became a Costco executive. There were registered nurses and all kinds of vocations.”

Al was inducted into the BGCC’s Class of 2010 Hall of Fame in the 1950s category.

“It was extremely rewarding and quite a surprise,” said Al. “I cherish it today because [the Club] does great things and Bob Foster runs a great program.”

A Special Place

Al and Ann today enjoy golfing, going to the beach, and bike riding. They’re both active in their local Catholic Church — him in the Knights of Columbus and her in the

Women’s Club — and find that time goes by fast.

What makes each moment special is their enduring love.

“She’s very flexible,” said Al. “She puts up with me.”

Amidst some laughter, Al has his own qualities that Ann admires.

“I just feel he’s my best friend. I can depend on him for anything,” said Ann. “Sometimes you think back to the vows – in good times and bad, in sickness and health. I just know he’s there for me. For our family.”

That family has expanded over the years to welcome four grandchildren. Al said they’re eager to see their family retire down south with them. Hopefully even expand further one day so they can have great-grandchildren.

Yet they’ve never forgotten their Clifton roots.

“We hope and pray for … more healthy years together,” said Ann. “We retired down here but still consider New Jersey home, and especially Clifton. All of the many wonderful experiences that we had in Clifton hold a very special place in our hearts.”

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The initial spark between Bob and Carol Van Der Linda was slow burning, but it was real.

It wasn’t entirely metaphorical either.

“He took my phone number down on a matchbook cover,” said Carol, 84. “A month later, he called and said, ‘This is Bob’ and I said, ‘Bob, who?’”

Let’s backtrack a little bit. Bob, 88, did in fact make a strong first impression on his eventual wife and she’s the first to admit it. But the first impression for Carol was in high school. Carol recalled how Bob was a “big jock” and doesn’t know whether he actually saw her the first time that she noticed him.

“I saw him and I thought, ‘He’s gonna be mine’,” said Carol (CHS 1955).

It would be a while before they met but when they did, Carol also made a lasting impression on her now husband of 61 years.

“[My first impression was] she’s so pretty,” said Bob (CHS 1954). “Very pretty.”

Destined to Meet

Bob grew up on Sheridan Avenue before moving with his family in 1950 to the Lakeview section, where Carol and her family lived.

The future couple had separate high school experiences despite their close proximity. Carol was focused on her books and graduated on the young end of her class at only about 16. Bob was extremely active in sports. He played for the Mustangs in football, basketball, and baseball. For football, he was co-captain and an All-State fullback and linebacker.

The couple then went their separate ways and did some growing up. Bob worked in roofing and siding while Carol finished high school and decided she wanted to pursue nursing. The problem was that she needed to be 21 to sit for her licensure exam. Even if she started a program, she would finish by 19 and still have to wait.

“There was no question about me going into nursing at that point,” said Carol. “My mother said that I had to do something, so I said, ‘OK, I’ll be a secretary.’”

Carol attended Katharine Gibbs Secretarial School in Montclair. After graduating and spending some time working, she realized that she still wanted to pursue nursing. She took her entrance exam for nurses training in 1957. Upon completion, she worked at Passaic General from 1960 until 1997 in the emergency room, labor and delivery, and the operating room.

But it was after finishing at Katharine Gibbs that Bob and Carol’s paths formally crossed. It was Summer of 1956 when they met at the Bowlero cocktail lounge.

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“I don’t know why I went in there. I was only there one time and he had never been there either,” said Carol. “For some reason we were in there. It was like we were destined to meet.”

They dated a couple of times, but it was enough. It was a strong enough connection to endure when Bob went into service in 1958.

Bob served with the US Army and was at Fort Dix before moving to the North American Air Defense Command, now the North American Aerospace Defense Command, in Colorado Springs. He was two years active, two years active in the reserves, and two years inactive in the reserves before he was discharged.

When asked what has made their relationship work through the years, the answer is simple. “Well, we love each other,” said Carol. “Do you need more than that?”

A Higher Gratitude

Bob and Carol wed on June 10, 1961 and have lived for the past 25 years in Las Vegas. They have a son, Robert, who graduated from Clifton and married daughter-in-law Karen — who Bob said he and Carol are grateful to for

“making our life complete.” They have two grown grandchildren Steven, 23, and Stephanie, 21.

When Bob retired from his construction business at age 62, they made the move. Today, they are active in their church, an important part of their lives, and enjoy the casinos.

They haven’t forgotten their love or history in their hometown. “Clifton was a great town to grow up in,” said Bob. “I played in Upper Weasel Brook Park as a kid growing up.”

As far as relationships, Bob emphasized the importance of being patient, accepting, and kind. These qualities are ones that Carol appreciates most about him.

“I’ve had multiple medical problems while I’ve been [in Las Vegas]. My husband has stood firmly by me all that time,” said Carol.

“The good Lord’s given me a bunch of challenges, and hopefully I can meet any challenges that He gives me,” said Carol. “[Bob] has taken care of me totally during it. He’s an amazing man.”

Bob also recognizes a power that is greater than his own.

“We thank the Lord,” said Bob. “The Lord watches us.”

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“Wouldn’t you kiss Liz Taylor if you had the chance?”

Robert Lions, better known as “The Kissing Bandit,” made headlines on July 24, 1964 after he planted a kiss on Elizabeth Taylor and ran. The circumstances that lead to his aptly given title were no less astonishing.

We mentioned it as a footnote in the history of our city when we did our look back at the 1960s in April, 2016.

Lions, still a Clifton resident six decades later, met with us and shared some of the news reports from local and national papers. Here is a synopsis of what happened and how he snuck a kiss with a movie legend—while her husband Richard Burton helplessly stood by.

On a night that appeared to be no different than any other night, sirens were wailing at 6:20 pm, followed by Taylor and husband Richard Burton waving to a crowd gathered outside Clifton Stadium.

The motorcade brought the famous duo to Clifton to support young Christopher Turnham, who was lying paralyzed in Passaic General Hospital.

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As seen in the November 1964 issue of Motion Picture Magazine.
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A classmate of Lions, Turnham dove into the swimming pool at the Country Club Towers, hit his head, and was instantly paralyzed from the neck down.

Somehow through various connections, Taylor and Burton were the headline stars in a fundraising event at Clifton Stadium to help Turnham’s family pay medical bills.

The true excitement began once Taylor and Burton emerged from their Rolls Royce. They entered the school stadium’s center field amid cheers and applause from an audience of at least several hundred people. Mayor Ira Schoem greeted the Burtons and Tex McCrary, from radio station WOR, introduced the pair. Taylor then accepted a painting done of her by a “local high school boy.”

She asked McCrary if he could ask the painter to come onstage so that she could formally thank him. What happened next was nothing short of theatrical. Rather than the true painter coming onto the stage to meet Taylor, Lions ran up, kissed Taylor and immediately vanished. McCrary later revealed that the boy who kissed Taylor was not the actual painter.

“It took a lot of gall to do it,” Police Chief Joseph Nee had said.

When Lions saw hands shoot up into the air when Taylor asked if the painter was present, he realized that it was now or never.

“I saw my buddies raising their hands, pretending to be the one who painted the portrait of Liz, so I raised my hand too,” said Lions. “Then I decided to go down, since no one else, including the real artist, whoever he was, was coming forward,” Lions added.

The true painter of the painting of Taylor was Roger Robles, of Nutley. He was in the audience and watched

as Lions ran to the stage and kissed Taylor. “I was standing by the gate, kind of surprised, you know, I didn’t expect that,” said Robles. “I told one of the reporters there and he got in touch with the chairman and they told Liz and arranged for me to meet her.”

However, there were no hard feelings between Lions and Robles. “I went up to [Robles] after and I apologized to him for doing it,” Lions said. “He said, ‘Well, that’s all right.’ He just laughed it off, I guess. He got his reward, too. He was just as happy, I suppose.”

Amusement was expressed by everyone, including Taylor. “Oh, how funny,” she said when Robles came forward to meet her and also received a kiss.

However, Lions’ mother was not surprised by her son’s antics. “He’s always liked to do devilish little things,” she recalled. The excitement did not end—Lions story would go on to be published in the November 1964 issue of Motion Picture Magazine.

Despite his youthful hijinks, Lions grew into a professional man. Today, the still youthful and playful 76-yearold is a civic-minded family man and a grandfather who worked as a Chemical Engineering Lab Technician at the New Jersey Institute of Technology.

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Bobby Lions—Clifton’s Kissing Bandit of 1964—is pictured in a recent photo. At left, Richard Burton and Elizabeth Taylor share a kiss at one of their two wedding ceremonies.
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Government to the tune of Harmony

Where there’s music, you can bet on finding Ray Grabowski. In some cases, it’s the other way around. Yet climbing the stairs to the second floor of City Hall, you still may not expect to hear the soft tunes nearby.

The second floor was quiet. Municipal employees went about their business, almost seeming to orbit one office that carried a faint tune. The memorable “MAYOR” sign that projects into the hall lets you know where you are. But the face behind the desk is a new one.

The office, like the city, is in transition. Its occupant, Ray Grabowski, has ideas on how to make it his own. The dark paneling is gone. The walls — for now — are mostly bare with some diplomas hung near the door. The glass cabinet across from his desk holds some awards.

There’s work to be done, but there’s time. The new Mayor of Clifton’s focus is hitting the ground running where the city and City Council are concerned. “I wear a lot of hats,” said Grabowski. He paused. “Even though I refuse to ever wear a hat.” He grinned and chuckled at his own joke: “Don’t want to get my hair messed up.”

He’s owned Ray Grabowski Landscaping for over 30 years and is the president of the Athenia Business Associa-

tion. Grabowski’s also a performer and a cable tv host as he presents Meet Clifton on Channel 77, a program that spotlights people and events within the city. He also leads a band, Swingman & the Misfit-Mutts, which performs the third Friday of every month at the Grande Saloon, as well as at the concerts in the parks, and other area venues.

Music is a significant part of this mayor’s life, as evidenced by his office playlist. Yet despite the potentially distracting presence of music, there’s a focus to his words as he describes his vision.

Grabowski wants to bring harmony to his hometown. He wants to emphasize that our differences are the city’s strength. Grabowski also hopes to change the perception of the Council, which many residents have criticized in recent months for its in-fighting.

Some changes may be more hard-fought than others, but he embraces the challenges in a new position that was farfrom-guaranteed. Grabowski acknowledged that some of what we know of him and his role in Clifton will remain the same. “[My band] jokingly said they are going to change [our name] to The Mayor & the Misfit-Mutts,” quipped Grabowski, 69. “That’s not happening.”

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Mayor Ray Grabowski with council members, from left Bill Gibson, Lauren Murphy, Tony Latona, Rosemary Pino, Joe Kolodziej and Mary Sadrakula.

Always Marching Forward

Born to late parents Chester and Jean, Grabowski grew up and still lives in Athenia. He attended St. John Kanty and Woodrow Wilson Junior High, graduating CHS in 1971. Grabowski grew up with sisters Christine (CHS 1970) and Valerie (CHS 1974) and his late brother, Matt (CHS 1979).

It was Clifton that turned him into a musician. At CHS, he played tenor drums and was the Marching Mustangs file sergeant during his senior year.

“When I was in high school,” said Grabowski, “my neighbor... [John] Kasica) told my mother, ‘Why don’t you let your son play the drums? They’ll be going to Europe in a couple of years. It’s a great opportunity. He became my drum teacher,” added Grabowski. “And I did. In 1970, we went to Holland. Then I kept playing, and it became my living for years.”

Grabowski attended Fairleigh Dickinson in Rutherford, got a bachelor’s degree in K-8 education and taught briefly before starting his landscaping business. As he shares his story, people pop their heads in and the new mayor waves or nods, without missing a beat. Visibility is part of the job.

Since winning a Council seat in 2015, Grabowski has continued to make a conscientious effort to spend time in different sections of the city. One of the ways that he does it is by eating out at different restaurants for his meals.

“I’ll eat breakfast here, I’ll go across town to Botany to George’s, I’ll go to Hot Grill, I’ll go to the Mexican res-

taurants,” said Grabowski. “I’m friends with most of the owners of the restaurants.”

From meetings with the Athenia Vets and the Elks to various senior groups, he also sings in the choirs of St. John Kanty and St. Andrew’s. He attends celebrations for Diwali, the Chinese New Year and flag raisings. He is also making plans for 2023’s Van Houten Ave. Street Fair. “I want to be involved in everything. You learn a lot of things from the people,” said Grabowski. “I don’t sit still or stay home.”

Two Fused Into One

Grabowski didn’t always plan to run for a seat on the Council. It was his younger brother Matt’s goal. A goal that he hoped to share with Ray and even went as far as envisioning one of them as Clifton’s mayor one day. When Matt went to him with the idea of running for a seat in 2010, Grabowski was ready to support him.

“He said, ‘We should run for Council’, and I said, ‘Oh, yeah, Matt. You’re the choice,’” recalled Grabowski. “He said, ‘No, no, no. Let’s do it together.’ And I’m thinking, how crazy is that? He said, ‘Yeah, but we’ll be brothers. You know, it’ll be great. We’ll be on the Council. We don’t agree on everything, which is a good thing.’”

Grabowski had reservations, but agreed “because he’s my brother” and “of course I’ll stand by his side.” It was something that they had done all of their lives — music, motorcycles, or being in business together.

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“He was like my best friend and, because he was (seven) younger, he was like a son,” said Grabowski, adding, yet, “he was a mentor because he was ahead of the times with everything. Matt was the guy that knew what was cool and what wasn’t,” he added. “Even with motorcycles, we rode side-by-side. He was right there, all the time. We depended on each other constantly.”

In that first election, Matt finished fifth and won a seat. Although Ray finished in ninth, he stayed active and supported his brother. The voters re-elected Matt in 2014 but, shortly after, he passed away on Feb. 25, 2015.

Encouragement from others motivated Grabowski to step forward for the special election to fill Matt’s seat. He took home more than half of the 6,979 ballots cast, with 3,702 votes. But a separate contributor in his decision to run was that the Council was part of Matt’s identity.

“He was on the Council, and it was a part of him that he loved,” said Grabowski. “Then I got on, and I loved it. Now, here I am [as the mayor]. I still can feel him. I know his ideas because we felt the same about the city,” he continued. “We’re equal in that, so it’s almost like the two of us fused into one. Unfortunately, it’s me, but I still know his ideas for the city, which is the love of the community.”

Seeking Harmony

Grabowski felt that love leading up to his appointment as mayor. Ahead of the Nov. 8, 2022 election, the question on many minds was: “Who will be Clifton’s next mayor?” For the first time in 32 years, it would be someone besides James Anzaldi. The general expectation? The mayor would be the top vote-getter.

It isn’t law, but it was tradition with one exception — by now, many are familiar with what people characterize as the rail-roading of former Councilman William Bate in 1966. Fast forward to the present day, many felt Grabowski was almost similarly rail-roaded in the weeks leading up to his Jan. 3 appointment by the Council.

Online and at meetings, the public responded to the possibility of some council members wanting to nominate the second highest vote-getter, Councilman Bill Gibson.

In the end, the 4-3 vote in Grabowski’s favor was split between him and fourth-place finisher Antonio Latona. Grabowski learned a great deal from it.

“People assume when they go to the polls that their vote counts and the [highest vote-getter] will be picked as the mayor. That’s always been tradition,” said Grabowski. “One lesson I learned out of this is that sometimes, because

of the way things are structured, it doesn’t have to follow the will of the people.”

Grabowski expressed gratitude for the support shown by residents and how many came to the December Council meetings to have their voices heard.

Although tradition prevailed, the vote was still 4-3. Grabowski said he’s not angry by the three votes against him, but he’s “a little hurt and upset” that people he knows would go against that long-standing public expectation.

“I know if they were the highest vote-getter,” said Grabowski, “and we tried to take it away from them, they would object more fiercely than I would.”

The time between the election and his appointment was grueling. He described going to otherwise cheerful holiday functions and receiving congratulations, yet needing to remind people that nothing is guaranteed.

“It took the wind out of my sails,” he said. “I was prepared to accept whatever happened, and I would because I believe in the process.” Now, he feels great. Grabowski said he believes he and his colleagues are focused on working better together. “Obviously there will be problems, but we don’t need to fight about it,” he said. “We need to find solutions.”

Finding Solutions

Most pressing, for all seven council members, is finding a solution to balance the city’s roughly $10 million budget deficit without affecting services and taxpayers.

Shortfalls extend beyond Clifton and certain tax-raising aspects are outside of the city’s control. “We do not have any control over the Board of Education taxes, which is approximately 50% of your tax bill,” said Grabowski.

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In 1975: Matt, Valerie, Ray and Christine.
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The 2022 tax distribution was: District School, 47.37%; Local Municipal, 27.74%, County Taxes, 23.26%; Library Tax, 1.23%; and County Open Space, 0.40%.

Boiling down an example, Grabowski used a figure of $12,000. He explained how far that roughly $3,000 portion—27.74%— in city taxes stretches.

“We have a paid fire department. Many towns are volunteer,” said Grabowski. “For $3,000, we’ve got a great DPW and you’re getting four ambulances [through the Fire Department].”

The plan is to find alternate methods to bring revenue into the city. Projects like the On3 redevelopment of the Hoffman-LaRoche campus will provide revenue upon completion. But the city could also look at selling bonds, and there are still many moving parts to consider.

In a separate discussion, Councilman Joe Kolodziej explained other factors that can influence the city’s budget outlook for 2023. “Pensions … and the cost of health benefits went up significantly,” said Kolodziej. “The last Council added $1.3 million to the police salary and wages, and the garbage contract is the last really big piece of what pushes the budget to where it’s at.”

Kolodziej said the typical tax point in Clifton is roughly $550,000. If nothing is done, there could be an increase of 20 tax points (for the average homeowner, $17 per point). Without factoring in any union contractual increases for the FMBA, DPW, and city hall workers, it could translate to an average home increase of about $340.

Grabowski reiterated that the Council will “do the best we can for the city.”

“We always do that,” stated Grabowski. “We’re all taxpayers. I wouldn’t do anything that would hurt myself.”

A Mayor of the People

Collaboration is the key in meeting all of Grabowski’s goals — whether it relates to the budget, community harmony, or Council unity. Which is why Grabowski’s not afraid to seek the expertise of others, including his fellow council members.

“As council people, we talk. [We] need to have a rapport,” he said. “I like to be on top of things.”

Grabowski also stays connected with people in different departments. If it’s a topic related to the police, he’ll call Chief Thomas Rinaldi. If it’s a question about the city, Grabowski will reach out to City Manager Dominick Villano. He also has a direct line to congressional aides, who keep him informed about state and county circumstances.

Leaning into the Council’s diversity of experience also helps. Grabowski said that while personal differences should be set aside, differences in outlooks and problemsolving approaches should be encouraged.

“[Mayor Anzaldi] always said, ‘Compromise and consensus.’ At the end of the day, if you have a problem, you find a solution. That’s how I want the Council to work,” said Grabowski. “Together.”

On a personal level, Grabowski wants to become a “Mayor of the People” — as it relates to his involvement in many social areas, including business and the arts.

As far his six colleagues, he wants to orchestrate a harmonious elected team. “I want the Council to have integrity. I want it to be respected within the community as leaders of this city,” said Grabowski. “My job as the mayor is to make sure personalities don’t conflict.”

“Obviously you can’t please everyone,” he added, “but you have to do what’s best for the most people, and hopefully the other side will understand that.”

To Grabowski, it goes back to the belief that he held with his brother, Matt. That instinct to keep Clifton as the hometown they loved during their youths. A community where all cultures and people of all backgrounds have a voice.

“If Matt was still here, the first goal he would have had wanted was to incorporate everybody. Which is what I try to do now,” said Grabowski. “We’re all Cliftonites. We just have something different to offer and we [should] take advantage of that. It’s very important.”

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Valerie, Christine and Ray as he took the oath.
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From gym and swim to technology and academics, the Boys & Girls Club came from humble beginnings. Once for boys only, Clifton kids were brought together in a former Botany Village tavern. Today, the club has expanded but still builds great futures.

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Knapp Legacy of Service

On February 27, 1960, the day my mom and dad married, they opened R.F. Knapp Roofing. It was a bold move for Dorothy and Richard. But over six decades later, I’m proud to cel ebrate the 63rd anniversary of our family business.

While my brother and I worked together until his death in 2014, I proudly continue our family business. On this page I wanted to share a few photos...and let you know how much the Knapp Family has appreciated your support and trust over these six decades.

At right, in 1990 that’s my family just before my dad died... at the bottom is Richie, a great Skipper and Fisherman...and at right, that’s mom and me in 2007, supporting the Boys & Girls Club of Clifton....

Thank You, Clifton!

Since 1960 R.F. Knapp Construction
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Members of the

1966—The Girls Club was founded by Donna Aiello, a first for New Jersey. Charles Manella, pictured right, helped support it, offering his East First St. address as the first home of the Girls Club in August. The first official home of Girls Club was 1241 Main Ave. Eventually, the Girls Club purchased their own building–an old post office on the corner of Van Houten and Mt. Prospect Avenues.

1968—A provisional membership certificate for the Girls Club was issued by the national organization.

1970—Full membership for the Girls Club was granted.

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Mark Peterson

Chick Barnes

Jalmari Vanamo

Judi Niebuhr

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1970s

1974–Dolores Colucci was named executive director of the Girls Club in July. 1978–Clifton’s first after-school day care program is opened at the Girls Club, with 30 children.

A time when the Boys Club tag line was ‘The Club that beats the streets,’ the Clifton Club remained true to its traditions.

The club featured ‘Gym & Swim’ programs as well as its wood shop classes, its ‘802’ room for teen members and the traditional Turkey shoot, Santa House, Winter ‘Penny’ Carnivals, and family movie and Bingo nights.

Camp Clifton in Jefferson Township was in its second decade of serving over 500 day and overnight campers. It was directed by the Golden Chiefs, Severin Palydowycz and Thomas ‘Doc’ Fedor.

The Boys Club membership ranged between 1,500 -- 1,800 youth, with the boys always outnumbering the girls 2 to 1. The club’s operating budget was several hundred thousand dollars and funds came from the United Way, its Annual Golf Outing at the Upper Montclair County Club, Bingo, the Annual Appeal and raffles.

In the early 1970s, the Seahawks competitive swim team, led by coaches Joann Rean and Bill

O’Neill, competed in the New Jersey SwimLeague. In 1976, the club started the Winter Indoor Soccer League, WISL, serving 500 athletes and 48 teams in 6 divisions

The club’s competitive basketball teams traveled to compete against the Garfield, Paterson and Newark Boys Clubs. In 1979, the Teen Center and Social Hall opened to expand services to better serve teens. The Social Hall turned into a community fund-raising hall, which was home to beefsteaks and Chinese auctions. The Teen Center became the place to go for many of Clifton teens.

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Clifton

Recycling -

How and What to Recycle

Place all recyclables curbside the night before you scheduled day of collection. Anything in plastic bags will NOT be collected!

DUAL STREAM - ONLY TWO (2) CONTAINERS ARE NEEDED FOR CURBSIDE

PICK-UP

Newspaper, Junk Mail, Magazines, Paper Bags, Books (Soft Cover Only) Must be placed in paper bags or tied in bundles not to exceed 50 lbs.

Cardboard and Paper Board

• Glass Bottles/Jars (ALL COLORS)

• Aluminum Pie Plates/Trays

• Steel Food Cans (Tin & Bi-Metal)

• Aluminum Beverage Cans

• Plastic Containers labeled #1, #2, and #5

ONLY plastic bottles/containers labeled with #1, #2, and #5 inside a triangle found at the bottom of the container can be recycled. NO other types of plastic (labeled or not labeled) are allowable. Other types of plastic should be placed into your regular trash. Please rise all bottles and containers in a separate reusable container curbside, along with your other separated recyclable materials according to the schedule in the Recycling Guide. Most importantly NO caps and NO plastic bags of any kind will be collected. If you would like to recycle plastic bags, most grocery stores have a container in the front entrance of the store for acceptance. NOTE: Although plastic clam shell containers may be labeled #2 & #5, we do not accept them as recyclable materials.

Failure to comply may result in a summons!

1Cardboard and Paper 2Metal, Glass, and Plastic Bottles/Containers All cardboard boxes (cereal, shoe, tissue, cookie, packing, shipping, etc.) must be flattened, tied or placed neatly in other boxes. Boxes must be clean of any food waste or other debris. NO PIZZA BOXES.
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1980s

As the Club moved into the 1980s and membership expanded into the 2,000s with both parents in the workplace, the club grew to serve childcare needs when schools were out of session.

The club began opening from 8:30 am to 5:30 pm on school holidays and started a ‘Camp At Home’ summer day camp with over 200 members staying at the club facility for an eight week summer day camp program.

The Teen Program expanded with dances, concerts, arcade games and a music and TV lounge.

In 1982 the Teen Council was formed to help operate the programs, selecting local bands and setting up community service projects and activities for young people.

The club also had a Teen Leadership Club and Keystone Karacters, which traveled to National BGCA conferences across the country. In 1986, the club merged with the Girls Club and started to offer

bussing from the Clifton schools to the club after school every day for working parents. In addition, the club operated an early childhood pre-school and Oasis shelter for youth in trouble.

Club recreational leagues, cheerleading, swim team expanded, while the travel basketball team continued to grow.

The club’s basketball team won the NJJBL Championship by going undefeated in 1986 under the leadership of coach Tom DiDonna.

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1986–The Girls Club building is sold and clubs consolidate to form the Boys & Girls Club of Clifton, at 820 Clifton Ave. Dolores Colucci named executive director.
School Nurses (NJ Certification) Registered Nurses ESL Teachers (NJ Certification) Special Education Teachers (NJ Certification) Preschool Special Education Teachers (NJ Certification) Board Certified Behavior Analyst for Preschool Teacher of Mathematics (NJ Certification) Highly Qualified Paraprofessionals for Preschool Paraprofessionals Substitute Teachers Substitute Paraprofessionals Lunch Aides and Kindergarten Aides C l i f t o n P u b l i c S c h o o l s Clifton Public Schools 745 Clifton Avenue Clifton, NJ 07013 www.clifton.k12.nj.us Phone: 973-594-4195 E-mail: hr@cliftonschools.net Employment Opportunities The Clifton Public School District is currently accepting applications for the following positions: A p p l y t o d a y a t h t t p s : / / w w w . a p p l i t r a c k . c o m / c l i f t o n s c h o o l s / $20/hour $150/day non-certified | $170 certified Competitive PayRates! Cliftonmagazine.com • December 2022 35 Cliftonmagazine.com • February 2023 53

2002 - New commercial kitchen donated by the Laraja Foundation

2002 - As Clifton Schools reach new census figures, the Club began negotiations with Board of Education in March to use facilities to hold classes in the Club.

2001 - With expanded services, club's registered youth membership reaches 2,506 in the beginning of September.

2001 - The CHS Mustangs Swim Team (below) rents club's Martini A qu at ic C enter for competitive swim se ason.

2002 - Morning adult la p swim began on Sept . 1 and there are currently 330 adult members using the pool annually.

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Fall 2014Club’s 2nd “Taste of Clifton”

Fundraiser held on Sept. 29 attracted

500 people and 38 vendors, raising over $20,000.

2017 - BGCC Youth of the Year winner, Carlos Polanco (second from right) was named “National Youth of the Year.”

2019 - A dance studio was installed in the Teen Center.

2019 - New wall mats, LED lights, and Scoreboard were installed in the gymnasium.

2020 - During the COVID shutdown period, BGCC was able to distribute over 20,000 pounds of food to our families.

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Buy A Ticket To The March 9

Financial support remains a touchstone of the quality care and guidance that the Boys & Girls Club provides its Clifton community.

Now serving over 5,000 registered members, The Club strives to provide the personal touch that it had when it started with a mere 30 boys in the spare room of a Botany Village tavern.

The Club’s 2022-23 Annual Campaign: 75 Years and Beyond, Shaping Brilliant Futures — is one way to show that you care.

The campaign goal is $200,000 and concludes on March 7 with their Diamond Jubilee Gala. Everyone involved — from the administrative team and the board officers to trustees and staff — see the past uncertainty and ongoing need.

2021 - The Annual Winter Cup was named “The Agathe Marten Memorial” after a long-time supporter, Agathe Marten who passed away.

2022 - Diamond Year Anniversary

2022 - The Boys & Girls Club of Clifton had their Strategic Planning Retreat to discuss the past years and to 75 years and beyond.

• How do we continue serving the community and how do we expand?

• Implementing a Trauma Informed Care / Social Emotional Learning curriculum.

• Develop a deeper commitment to diversity, equity, and inclusion (DEI).

• Increase Teen Programming (Workforce & Life Readiness Program)

• Long-term growth opportunities: expand to a Clubhouse on the Eastside of Clifton.

• Establish an indoor Sports Dome Facility in Clifton.

To donate to the Annual Campaign, visit unstoppableclifton.org. To send physical checks, the Club’s mailing address is: Boys & Girls Club of Clifton, 822 Clifton Ave., Clifton, NJ 07013.

“Once again we are counting on the community and former club kids to support us,” said Bob Foster, who is still looking for sponsors and ticket buyers for the March 9 Gala. Call 973-773-0966 x155.

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Cast members of the Theater League of Clifton’s dinner/ theater production of “Meshuggah-Nuns!” include (front left) Felicia Benson-Kraft, Chris Cantu (back row) Kathy Monroe, Melyssa Searcy and Debra Carozza. The show opens Feb. 25, with performances on March 3,4,5, 10, 11, 12, 18 and 19 at Mario’s Restaurant. Tickets for the buffet and show are $55. Call 973-928-7668.

The Power of One presents a Country Night Fundraiser on Feb. 10 from 7-10 pm at The Grande Saloon. Cost is $10 and includes an open menu and cash bar. DJ Victor spins for a fun night of line dancing, with all proceeds benefiting Power of One Emergency Relief Clifton. For more info, call Kim Castellano at 201-328-2326 or email info@powerofoneccom.org.

The 4th Annual Disabled American Veterans Tricky Tray is Feb. 11 at 4 pm at the DAV Post, 315 Hazel St. Tickets are $25 and include a light lunch and small prizes. For tickets, call the DAV at 973-928-6745.

The Athenia Vets Annual Daytona 500 Beefsteak is Feb. 19 from 1–6:30 pm at the Post. Watch the race and enjoy beefsteak, salad, fries, and beer or soda. Cost is $45. For more info, call 973-778-0931.

Manage stress, anxiety, and grief with Power of One’s Kim Castellano. The next date is Feb. 16 in the series of one-day welcome sessions from 6:30-8:30 pm at the Senior Center Barn C5, 900 Clifton Ave. Future dates are March 16, April 13, May 18, and June 15. Register for the free series by emailing info@powerofoneccom.org or calling 862-239-5905. The series is open to people of all ages. For info, call Castellano at 201-328-2326 or email kim@powerofoneccom.org.

The NJSMA Region 1 chorus concert is Feb. 4 at 4 pm at Morris Knolls High School amd will feature five Clifton voices. The event, at 50 Knoll Dr, Rockaway, will feature five CHS students. Last month, the CHS Choirs saw the five students who auditioned place into the North Jersey School Music Association Region I Choirs. The seniors, pictured above, are Sandy Cocoyutla (Alto 1 Treble Chorus), Paris Frederick (Tenor 1 Mixed Chorus), and Lillyann Martins (Soprano 1 Mixed Chorus). The juniors are Mary Nakrosis (Alto 2 Treble Chorus) and Negin Saidian (Soprano 1 Mixed Chorus). For future updates and news, follow @cliftonhschoirs on Instagram.

The Clifton Arts Center’s exhibit “And We’re Off” by Pro Arts Jersey City and Shim Art Network runs until Feb. 25. The exhibit, at 900 Clifton Ave., is open Wednesdays through Saturdays from 1-4 pm. For this exhibition, Pro Arts co-presidents Dorie Dahlberg and Bryant Small want to reward those who have renewed their SHIM membership throughout the pandemic. For more info, visit cliftonartscenter.org/gallery-exhibits or call 973-472-5499.

Clifton FMBA Local 21’s Tricky Tray is March 10 at 6 pm. The event will be held at the Boys & Girls Club, 822 Clifton Ave., with dinner, dessert, and one general prize ticket sheet. Tickets are $40. Pre-sale ticket bundles are available for $60 and only available for purchase by Feb. 28. Cash and checks should be made payable to the Clifton Firefighters Foundation. Submit payment to 219 Valley Rd, Clifton, NJ 07013 Attn: Firefighter Hoogmoed. For more info, tickets or details, contact Tara Hoogmoed at butterfly210@optonline.net.

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WWMS students will take the stage Feb 8-9 at 7 pm to delight audiences with Disney’s Frozen JR. The adaptation of the 2013 Disney film and the 2018 Broadway adaptation costs $8 and will last 60 minutes. The WWMS cast and crew include 120 students, and are led by director Autumn Mecca. Get your tickets at the door of the can’t-miss show at 1400 Van Houten Ave.

If it ever snows, the final photo submission date for your best snowman creation is Feb. 10. Send the pics to: cliftonrecbestinsnow@ gmail.com. The free contest is available to Clifton residents only. Some “cool” prizes will be awarded to the “Best in Snow” winner of each category. Snow people, animals or any creation must be made from real snow. Review the rules, visit cliftonrec.com.

The art of School 16 fourth grader Jayvi Silva is featrued on April 2023 in Passaic County’s 27th Annual My County Poster Calendar Contest. The theme reflects Passaic County’s history, recreational sites, and culture. See it at passaiccountyclerk.org or find it in Passaic County schools, libraries, and government buildings.

City of Clifton

202 3 Dog Licens e Renewals

You may now register your dogs online at: https://pets.munidex.info/clifton-nj-1602

Residents may also obtain their dog license by applying in person at: Clifton Health Department, 900 Clifton Ave., 2nd floor, Clifton, NJ 07013, Monday through Friday, 8:15am to 4:15pm or by mailing in the application.

All dogs, 6 months of age or older that live within the City of Clifton are REQUIRED to be licensed as per City Ordinance 203-2.

License Fees are based on if your dog is Spayed/Neutered and has valid proof of a rabies vaccination, per state guidelines.

You may also stop by our Botany Satellite Office located at 207 Parker Avenue, Clifton, NJ 07011:

• February 8, 2023 from 3:00pm to 6:00pm

• February 22, 2023 from 3:00pm to 6:00pm

• March 8, 2023 from 3:00pm to 6:00pm

• March 22, 2023 from 3:00pm to 6:00pm

Benefits of Licensing Your Dog!

• Licensing will ensure that dogs are vaccinated against rabies, which is a terrible disease that can be fatal.

• A dog’s license is a way to ensure your dog gets home safely if they get lost. The license tag is an easy way for authorities to identify and contact their owner.

• Licensing fees are significantly less than not having a license.

• Dog license money stays in your community to help rabies clinic funding and Animal Control Services.

• AND It’s the law!

1-Year License 3-Year License Spay/Neuter $16.00 $45.00 Non Spay/Neuter $20.00 $57.00
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Emily Setteducato is in a fight for her life, but she and her loved ones will not back down. The 28-year-old Paterson elementary school teacher underwent treatment for Acute Leukemia and has since contracted a life-threatening infection that has affected her brain and incapacitated her. Among the many who are rallying around Emily is her mother, Maureen Setteducato, who works at Weichert Realtors’ Clifton office. Emily’s sister Jackie Griffin has also organized a GoFundMe campaign to assist with medical expenses. The campaign neared $160,000 of its $200,000 goal in six days. To learn more about Emily and to help her continue her fight, visit gofundme.com/f/emily-travel-tolifesaving-treatment.

Dr. Louis Stimmel, the chiropractic physician who has served Clifton for the 32 years, is facing his own health challenge. In January, 2021, Stimmel learned that he’s had kidney failure and is now trying to find an individual that is a match for a living donor kidney.

Stimmel is now in kidney dialysis treatments three days per week, including several hours of treatment before his work day. He continues to see patients five days per week, at Marshall Chiropractic Center, in Downtown Clifton. Unfortunately, dialysis treatment is not sustainable.

He was recently accepted to the Kidney Transplant List at St. Barnabas Medical Center, but the list is only for kidneys from deceased or non-living donors, which can take time he does not have and include significant risks.

Read Stimmel’s story and learn how to help. Visit his website DrLouNeedsAKidney.com or scan the QR code.

The Gagnons need your help — and the community’s heart. Bill has spent recent weeks in the critical care unit at Gagnon Cardiovascular Institute at Morristown Medical Center. He has been battling a condition that has weakened his heart to where a transplant is the only answer. Supported by his wife, Lizz, and their family, a GoFundMe was set up with a $20,000 goal to offset medical expenses. Visit gofundme.com/f/the-gagnons-need-your-help.

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Dr. Louis Stimmel and his family, from left, Michael, wife Ellen, Kelly, Dr. Louis, and Joseph. Maureen and her daughter Emily Setteducato. That’s Bill Gagnon ropin’ one in.

At a recent event for the Passaic County 200 Club, trustees are pictured from from left: Chief Joseph Borell, Ted DeMaria, Karen Kondel, Ferris Meredith, Diane Ohland, Administrator, Heidi Scripture, Chief Patrick Trentacost, Second row: Nicholas Mazza, John Plunkett, Joseph Cannatella, Jamie Nielsen, Jr.

The Clifton Health Department and the Community Policing Division are seeking donations for homeless or at-risk individuals. The dropoff location is at 900 Clifton Ave, with a drop box in the City Hall lobby. New clothing items are requested, including: Underwear, towels, sweatpants, sweatshirts, blankets, T-shirts, hats, scarves, and gloves. Toiletries can include feminine products, toothpaste/toothbrushes, deodorant, and toilet paper. Info at cliftonnj.org.

Start the new year fighting back against cancer in support of the 2023 Relay For Life. Relay For Life of Clifton and Rutherford will gather at 6 pm on May 13, 2023 at Tryon Field. Located at 52 Darwin Ave., Rutherford, team members and individuals will spend the night remembering loved ones lost, those currently battling, or anyone who has overcome cancer. Learn about donating or getting involved by contacting Halle Baker at 732-852-4068 or halle.baker@cancer. org. Visit relayforlife.org/crnj and follow Relay on Instagram @rfl_cliftonrutherfordnj.

PC200club.org

Imagine the call: a firefighter, police officer or EMS team member is struck down in the line of duty. Members of the Passaic County 200 Club is an organization of business men and women, public safety professionals, and others who stand ready to provide financial assistance to the families of The Fallen. Within 48 hours of the death of an emergency worker who lives or serves within Passaic County, the Club presents a $10,000 check to the family of the deceased to help through the difficult times. The 200 Club also honors the living officers who have gone “above and beyond” with Valor and Merit awards annually in May. The group invites new members to join with an annual $250 membership fee. The member fees and fund raising help prepare for this loss. The Club also provides scholarships for children of The Fallen. Visit pc200club.org for more info.

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Here are the Mustangs of the Month for February 2023.

These four students, one from each grade, were selected by the vice principals at CHS, to be spotlighted for their personal achievements and school-wide contributions.

Nicholas Nores, Freshman

Like many freshman, Nicholas Nores is still a relative newcomer to the halls and rather large walkways of Colfax Avenue. That hasn’t dissuaded the newly minted Mustang from getting involved and putting in his best efforts to smoothly transition into high school.

“My favorite subject has to be Social Studies simply because it is a bunch of fun learning about the past and learning about how stuff was done way back then,” said Nores (CHS 2026).

Nores has found success in his first several months at CHS by doing a few things. Staying on top of his grades is a big help. Keeping organized is the key to making it all happen. He also does his homework once he gets home for the day and gets to school and his classes in a timely manner.

Outside of the classroom, Nores is in the Mustang Marching Band and the Tri-M Music Honor Society.

“Mr. [Bryan] Stepneski has been the most influential teacher to me since he has taught me a lot of discipline,” said Nores. “That discipline is what has helped me stay on track with my grades. Plus, his class is tons of fun.”

Nores has other role models in his life.

“My parents inspire me the most since they’ve helped me through my low points and have kept me going to achieve success,” said Nores.

Nazli Yildiz, Sophomore

Taking advantage of MSU’s academic program is something Nazli Yildiz said she’d love to do.

The sophomore’s already involved in her school community. Yildiz (CHS 2025) is the 2022-2023 Key Club secretary, a CHS Mustang Ambassador, and a 2023 National History Day Competition participant this month.

Outside of school, Yildiz plays volleyball and has a particularly unique passion.

“Making clay is my greatest talent and one of my favorite activities,” said Yildiz.

Yildiz has admired her Social Studies teacher Mr. Matthew Stuart since starting at CHS.

“Mr. Stuart has helped me in every way since my first day of school and never spared his help over time,” said Yildiz. “He always influenced me to break my barriers and try my best.”

Yildiz’s favorite subject is Geometry. She said that it helps develop her analytical and thinking skills. For her greatest inspiration, she names her mother. Yildiz describes her mother as a “role model and shining light” in her life.

“As a student who moved to the USA from Turkey two years ago [and learned] a new language [in a] new environment … I would [not] be in this position right now If I did not take my mother’s support and her determined stance as an example.”

Nicholas Nores, Nazli Yildiz, Cameron Zutic. Amelia Proszowski chose not to provide a photo.
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Cameron Zutic, Junior

Cameron Zutic loves numbers and sports. His aspirations after graduating high school include playing soccer in college and professionally. His other career goal is to coach soccer either at the scholastic or collegiate levels on a way to the professional leagues.

The junior plans to major in either Marketing or Athletic Training in college. Zutic (CHS 2024) is currently a Mustang soccer player and plays on a club team. He is also in the Athletic Training Club and coaches young children in basketball and soccer in his free time.

His most influential teacher is Coach Stan Lembryk.

“[Coach Lembryk] is one of the reasons I have matured into the young adult that I am today,” said Zutic. “I spend the first four months of each school year with him and the team. I am so grateful for that opportunity. I can’t ask for a better coach.”

In the classroom, Zutic’s favorite subject is always math. He noted that he never had a hard time picking up a specific topic. What came less naturally during his high school years for him — and undoubtedly many of his peers — is fitting in again once the pandemic’s remote learning ended.

“Most of the communication that I had with others fell off [while learning online], so having to revive it and maintain it was tough,” said Zutic.

Amelia Proszowski, Senior

Amelia Proszowski plans to attend college to study architecture, and afterwards? Poland for her master’s degree in interior design.

“We’ll see exactly what I do with that in the future, but that’s the plan for now and I can’t wait to get started,” said Proszowski (CHS 2023).

Proszowski, who requested not have her photo published, loves art. She said it’s her favorite way to explore her thoughts in a creative environment.

“I love the freedom you have with art and how it’s therapeutic and you don’t always have to think or make sure to be perfect, you just create,” said Proszowski.

Proszowski’s most influential teacher is Ms. Lauren Fox, her junior year Studio Art teacher. She said Fox helped her return to art when she felt “stumped.” The teacher also made her feel more confident in her work and creating a college portfolio.

Proszowski did gymnastics for all four years and was the team captain for three years. She said returning to in-person learning was tough, but much better than Distance Learning.

Proszowski said her sister is someone from whom she can always seek advice. “Although growing up with an eightyear age gap was hard, we’ve grown super close and I’m so happy we are best friends.”

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See the Next Gen of Mustang Basketball when CCMS battles WWMS at the Clifton High School gym, Feb. 4 at 9 am. The girls teams square off in the first contest immediately fol-

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Andrea Cedeno, Laila

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Angelica Mullahey, Izabellah Scott, Sabreen Ramadan. Missing: Montez Rama, Natyra Gjemo, Jiya Patel. Middle: Viviana McGuire, Remas Alnabali, Laila Fairley, Savannah Welsch, Halizon Trejo Gomes. From rear left: Eilaysha Morales, Sonia Healy, Yasmine Himadi, Anjelyna Reyes, Faith Melvin, Malak Jaffal Coach Tim Jacobus. The CCMS Boys team from left front: Yousef Hamdan, Neil Harvey, Jeremiah Gonzalez, Ryan Cuevas, Max Gaytan. Second row: Christian Herrera, Aaden Nolan, Yandel Nina, Javier Johnson, Adrian Soltys, Coach Andrew Smith. Missing: Anthony Rojas, Brangel Neris.

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The Girls team from left front: Hatcher, Cabreja,

lowed by the boys game. Tickets are $5 for adults and $2 for students with ID. WWMS won both games last year but these are the kids that will be at CHS shortly.

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The WWMS Girls Basketball team from left front: Noemi Simon, Analise Farero, Sara Lesniowska, Zeina Hamdan, Brianna Gonzalez. Standing: Coach Kimberly Stell, Valeria Mantilla, Isabella Munoz, Isabella Rodriguez, Casey Mullen, Deanna Altnatur, manager Alessandra Checo. The WWMS Boys Basketball team from left front: Noah Castillo, Evan Poulis, Yousef Aburomi, Manny Reyes, Robinson Thelusma Guante, Amr Ellithy. Standing: Team coordinator Todd Conklin, Robert Castro, Kaden Slade, Michael Caputo, Joddy Sanchez, Ayden Santigo, Head Coach Dan Hopkins. Missing: Christian Hanle.

celebrates Feb. 25. Ernie Rodrigues turned 47 on Jan. 14. Ashley Rose Montague is 17 on Feb. 6. Maxine Presto turns 35 on Feb. 29—but leaps forward to celebrate on Feb. 28! The Lux siblings—Eric turns 27 on Feb. 3 and Renee will be 21—on Feb. 14. Orest Luzniak will be 68 on Feb.14.

Alison Degen 2/1 Robyn Feldman .................. 2/1 Jack Houston ..................... 2/1 Kristin Reilly 2/1 Mary Jane Varga ............... 2/1 Emil Soltis, Jr ..................... 2/2 Joseph Fierro 2/3 Bob Naletko ...................... 2/3 Catherine Grace Burns ....... 2/4 Diane Di Pietro 2/4 John Nittolo ....................... 2/5 Richie Szepietowski 2/5 Courtney Carlson 2/6 Don Knapp ....................... 2/6 Joseph DeSomma 2/6 Ashley Rose Montague ....... 2/6 Robert D’Alessio ................ 2/7 Nicole Tahan 2/7 Tara Fueshko ..................... 2/8 Natalie Pych...................... 2/8 Jamie Carr 2/9 Craig Grieco ..................... 2/9 Steven Becker .................. 2/10 Bryan Kelly 2/10 Matthew Seitz.................. 2/10 Valentine Le Ster .............. 2/11 Sarah Mikolajczyk 2/11 Nick Zecchino ................. 2/11 Joseph Hilla 2/12 Anthony Musleh 2/12 Dolores Rando ................. 2/12 John Hodorovych 2/13 Amin Zamlout .................. 2/13 Mark Gallo ..................... 2/14 Jeanette Ann Saia 2/14 Orest Luzniak .................. 2/14 Christine Canavan ........... 2/15 Chickie Curtis 2/15 Ashley Brandecker ........... 2/17 David Fazio
2/17 Leann Perez 2/17 Lorraine Rothe ................. 2/17 Sam Citero
2/18 Michael Del Re 2/18 Richie Bandurski .............. 2/19 Stephanie (Peterson)Yoda 2/19 Michael Papa 2/20 Robert Mosciszko ............. 2/21 Taylor Jesch 2/22 Diana Murphy ................. 2/22 John T. Saccoman ............ 2/22
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Sister Donna Hawrylko Jayke Williams will be 15 on Feb. 26. Happy 23rd Birthday, Alison Moran on Feb. 10. Bodhi Latham turns 4 on Feb. 20. Jo Ann Bellini celebrates her 62nd on Feb 22. Brinda Chauhan celebrates a birthday on Feb. 20. Chris Voit turns 15 on Feb. 1.
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Dwayne Williams who turns 46 on Feb. 3 with daughter Ixiana Westfield who will be 14 on Feb 12.
Robert Adamo ................. 2/24 Eileen Feldman ................ 2/24 Kimberly Mistretta 2/24 Robert Krupinski ............... 2/25 Kimberly Gasior 2/26 Jayke Williams 2/26 Joseph J. Schmidt ............. 2/27 Brittany Helwig 2/27 Joyce Penaranda.............. 2/27 Brittany Pinter .................. 2/27 Lauren Ricca 2/27 Charlie Galluzzo ............. 2/28 Mark Zecchino ................ 2/28
Gianna Louise turns 1 on Feb. 1 to parents Julie-Anne (Cupoli) and Michael Sanchez
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Aria Federle turns 12 on Feb. 15.

St. Peter’s Tackles Hunger with Souper Bowl of Caring

Souper Bowl of Caring is a national event that started in 1990. In 1997, St. Peter’s Episcopal Church’s youth group began a drive to help benefit St. Peter’s Haven. Over the years, various individuals and student groups have participated by donating or taking up collections with 100% of the proceeds going to St. Peter’s Haven.

“This year we are looking to expand past our own small efforts to help with the increase of families receiving food,” said coordinator Tara Fueshko. “Youth organizations are especially encouraged to participate in the week leading up to Super Bowl Sunday, Feb. 12.

St. Peter’s Haven will be taking in donations in relation to Souper Bowl of Caring from 9 am to 1 pm on Sat., Feb. 11 and 10 am to 2 pm on Sun., Feb. 12. To drop off donations prior, write to info@saintpetershaven.org.

Unable to organize a drive now? Plan a Tackle Hunger Challenge when it is more suitable. Go to saintpetershaven.org to see how your group can participate. Help us Tackle Hunger so that everyone can enjoy The Game.

To mail a contribution, make checks to St. Peter’s Haven and mail to 380 Clifton Ave., Clifton, NJ 07011. Questions? Call Tara Fueshko at 973-546-3406.

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