Charlotte Jewish News June-July 2020 by Amy Montoni

Vol. 42, No. 5

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June-July 2020

Even in Uncertain Times, We Are Better Together Donate Today to the 2020 Annual Campaign The Greater Charlotte Jewish community has a strong culture of philanthropy and as the 2020 Annual Campaign continues, it is a time to think about Rabbi Hillel’s famous quote, “If I am not for others, what am I? And if not now, when?” The time is now to think of our collective identities as Jewish people and our need to support each other. These last few months have seen an incredible outpouring of support for our Jewish community. Thanks to many of you, we have been able to sustain our beneficiary agencies through the challenges they are facing. However, there is more work to be done as the Jewish Federation’s Annual Campaign continues on the Road to $5 Million.

As our community begins to reopen, we will be looking to you to provide the support our community needs as the recovery process ensues. Many depend on local Jewish organizations to provide social and economic services. Those organizations depend on Federation for support. We of course depend on you. The Road to $5 Million is not just a number. It is what we need to continue the work that we do. If you have not already done so, please make your 2020 Annual Campaign commitment today at www.jewishcharlotte.org or mail your donation to Jewish Federation of Greater Charlotte, 5007 Providence Rd., Ste. 101, Charlotte, NC 28226.Y

Temple Israel Welcomes New Rabbi

From Long Island via Louisville, Rabbi Michael Wolk Will Come to Charlotte in July where his father was the Cantor of the local Conservative shul. “My Jewish upbringing was very intense,” he admits. “We were Shomer Kashrut and Shomer Shabbes. I attended a Jewish day school till I graduated high school and I spent many years visiting relatives in Israel.” After receiving dual Bachelor’s degrees from Columbia and the Jewish Theological Seminary, Wolk spent several years in Jewish communal work at synagogues in Ohio and New York state. He was ordained by JTS in

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By Amy Krakovitz Michael Wolk recognizes the uniqueness of Shalom Park. As the new senior pulpit rabbi at Temple Israel, he is looking forward to working in a community that is already accustomed to working together. “There’s a great deal of value for a smaller community to recognize that our way of being Jewish is not the only way, and that we have so much in common with other Jews.” Born and raised in Plainview, NY, he grew up in a household

2012 and has served at Keneseth Yisrael in Louisville, KY ever since. His move from a small metropolitan area to Charlotte affords him the opportunity to establish allegiances to professional sports franchises. “I am really a baseball fan, I love the Mets. As far as basketball goes, I am a Knicks fan and I’m grateful to find a new team in the Hornets.” He understands, too, the graceful balance in supporting college teams. “I carefully navigated between University of Louisville and University of Kentucky. I think I understand the delicacy needed to weigh allegiances to UNC and Duke,” he joked. And has all his time in Kentucky given him a favorite bourbon? Not surprisingly, his choice is a small batch label whose brand evokes Biblical connections, Noah’s Mill. But more seriously, Wolk is fully cognizant of the challenges ahead for him during a time of Shelter In Place and a dangerous pandemic. “My wildest and craziest wish is that we can all be back together inside the shul,”

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he says, “but at this point we just don’t know when we’ll be back to normal.” The synagogue leadership is looking forward to Rabbi Wolk’s arrival. “Temple Israel is eager to welcome Senior Rabbi Michael Wolk, his wife, Heidi, and children, Klara Rose and Julia to our community,” said Temple Israel’s president, David Rosenthal. “As Temple Israel’s 21st Rabbi, against the backdrop of COVID-19, our kehillah antici-

pates a renaissance and renewed energy under his rabbinic leadership, inspiring all to enjoy meaningful relationships with one another, the broader community, Torah, and God through traditional and innovative expressions of Judaism.” “My initial goal for the first year was to learn about the congregation and not make a lot of changes,” Wolk tell us. “But this new situation is going to be a journey for all of us. “My hope is always to see people leading very Jewish lives, but if there is one thing we’ve learned during this time of COVID-19, it’s that synagogue is what you take home with you. We can make our Jewish lives at Temple Israel more meaningful, when we take what we get there home with us.”Y

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This issue will be the last under the leadership of Amy Krakovitz. Amy has been the editor of The Charlotte Jewish News for 22 years. During this time, Amy has worked tirelessly to make sure that CJN keeps us informed while reminding us how fortunate we all are to live in such a vibrant community. In reflecting on Amy’s tenure The Charlotte Jewish News Editorial Board praised Amy’s dedication as an editor, the thoroughness she displayed in getting all the news about Charlotte’s diverse Jewish community, her ability to work with its many institutions, – old and new – her professionalism, and her writing skills. We wish her many continually rewarding experiences in her retirement. Federation echoes the Editorial Board’s comments. We have been truly fortunate to have Amy in this role and wish her all the best. Todah Rabah Amy.

How to Communicate with Skeptics About Zionism By Carly Pildis (Carly Pildis is a celebrated journalist, speaker, and social justice activist. In 2019, she was named one of The Forward 50, The Forward’s annual list of influential American Jews. In May, the JCRC hosted a two-part community series with Carly entitled, “How to Communicate About Zionism.” To receive a recording of this lecture or to learn more about other programs curated by the JCRC, contact the Director of Community Relations and Israel Affairs, Laurel Grauer, at laurel. grauer@jewishcharlotte.org.) When we communicate about Zionism with our friends and community members, we often act as if we are talking to policymakers who are already knowledgeable about Zionism. So many advocates act as if we are at a debate and can never concede a single point. We focus on policies, especially security, anti-terrorism, and military aid. We talk about the importance of funding the Iron Dome and about vic-

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tims of Israeli terror. While these are critical priorities, they often fail to resonate with those who are most likely to be skeptical of Zionism, including those under 30. Millennials are less concerned with national security than baby boomers. The latest polling shows that only 27% of Americans under 30 generally feel favorably towards the Israeli government (although it’s worth noting, a majority of Americans feel positive about Israelis themselves, at 64%). It’s no surprise that those who are younger and lean left are more likely to be critical of Israel, but we need to reconsider how we are communicating about Zionism and about why we care about Israel. Leading with a topic that young people don’t connect with, and that many on the left associate with U.S. policies they are deeply critical of (The Mexican Border Wall, The Iraq war, the Muslim Ban, a militarized police force, etc.,) can set the conversation up for failure before it’s even begun. When we lead with policy – especially security policy – we lose an important opportunity. Rather, we need to lead by sharing who we are, what our personal connection to Israel is, what the Jewish historic connection to Israel is, and why we are Zionists. Lead by talking about how Zionism is a deeply progressive philosophy, the story of a people who were victimized by colonization, mass exile, and centuries of violent persecution, finally finding liberation through self-determination. We can also be open about points of disagreement about a particular Israeli government policy, and be unafraid to agree with critics. While this may sound counter intuitive, overall, this will make our broader defense of Zionism and of Israel stronger 95% of American Jews identi-

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fy as pro-Israel, and 59% identify as critical of some Israeli policies. When we welcome debate on Israeli government policies we can refuse to allow Israel to be treated as a place that is uniformly good or evil. In this way, we can refuse to allow any specific policy to delegitimize Zionism. Countless countries, including the U.S., have hotly debated policies and healthy democracies welcome them. When we create space for policy debate – and for agreeing with those who criticize Israeli policies – we open up new bridges for dialogue with those who are potentially persuadable on the most essential of policies – Israel’s right to exist as a Jewish state. It’s reasonable to believe that unilateral annexation is a threat to Israel’s long term security, which over 220 former Israeli generals attest to. It’s understandable to be upset when we hear instances of Ethiopian Jews being mistreated by Israeli police. You can still

be a Zionist and believe that Israel’s immigration policy needs to change, particularly when it comes to African refugees and Filipino guest workers. It’s justifiable to want to be able to pray at the Kotel the way you would at your own synagogue. These policy critiques do not come from a place of hate, but from a place of love. We want those we love to be the best they can be; for Israel to more fully exemplify values we agree on and share. Yes, these conversations are difficult, and yet, they are brave dialogues needed to build new avenues for understanding and allyship. When we talk about Zionism with skeptics, we need to put into terms and values they care about and understand. While American military aid is vital to Israeli security, that talking point will not resonate with those who are the most critical of Zionism. Instead, we need to frame the conversation in terms of justice, anti-oppression, self-determination, and the liberation of historically oppressed people. Zionism is a liberation philosophy. It’s the story of a people who were exiled by colonialism and after thousands of years of longing were able to return to their ancestral home and achieve self-determination. It’s a story of freedom and of hope. That is the story we should be telling. When we tell that story in an authentic and honest way that allows for disagreement, we are telling a story those skeptical of Zionism will be willing to hear.Y

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Sue’s Book Shelf By Sue Littauer

Eat. Sleep. Read. I bought this mug two years ago in Asheville at Malaprop’s Bookstore. At the time I thought it was a perfect (albeit humorous) symbol of my job at the Center for Jewish Education. Little did I know that “Eat. Sleep. Read” would become an actual description of my life during the coronavirus quarantine. However, I would add to the reverse side “Netflix. Online Mah Jongg. Zoom.” I’ve recently read four books which I’d like to recommend and share with you: * Someday We Will Fly by Rachel DeWoskin * The Song of the Jade Lily by Kirsty Manning * In Five Years by Rebecca Serle * The Dinner List by Rebecca Serle Someday We Will Fly and The Song of the Jade Lily are about the Jews in Shanghai. “As World War II began, approximately 30,000 Jews lived in Shanghai. About 20,000 had arrived seeking refuge as the Nazis gained strength. Another 6,000 had settled in the city a decade or so earlier, escaping the pogroms in Russia. Holocaust scholar David Kranzler calls this the “Miracle of Shanghai.” (The Daily Beast)

These two books of historical fiction are extensively researched and offer an accurate description of the life of Jewish refugees in Shanghai. Someday We Will Fly is the story of Lilia Kazka and her family who are circus performers in pre-World War II Poland. The family is split apart, but the father and two daughters escape to Shanghai where they will live with unbelievable grace in desperate conditions and endure great human suffering.

The Song of the Jade Lily is told in the alternating voices of Romy Benfield, who escapes Vienna with her parents after Kristallnacht and lives in Shanghai during World War II, and her granddaughter Alexandra, whose job sends her to Shanghai from Australia, where she was raised by her grandparents. Because Romy’s father is a physician with connections in Shanghai, their family status is quite different from the refugee family in Someday We Will Fly. However,

they are not immune to suffering. The brutal occupation by Japanese troops and its effect on the Jews and their Chinese neighbors is terrifying and accurately described in this book which centers on long hidden family secrets. The human drama portrayed beautifully in each of these books is engrossing, and the characters will stay with you long after you turn the last pages. I found a very interesting article online at “The Daily Beast – Shanghai Saved 20,000 Jews from Nazis.” I encourage you to read this interesting and informative article which is David Kranzler’s “tour of Jewish Shanghai.” (Editor’s Note: Charlottean Frank Osborn was born in Shanghai where his parents sought refuge from Poland during World War II. Read his story in the February 2007 edition of The Charlotte Jewish News: http://newspapers.digitalnc.org/ lccn/2002222009/2007-02-01/ ed-1/seq-13/) (Reporter’s Note: My dad had an Aunt Pearl who was a Jewish refugee in Shanghai.)

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I also recommend two books by Rebecca Serle. The Dinner List raises the question “which five people living or dead would you invite to a dinner in your honor.” The question is provocative and would lend itself well to a lively book club discussion. A one-hour, very real glimpse into the future pervades the story of In Five Years. Both books could be described in terms of women’s fiction, the powerful ties of women’s friendship, and the heartbreak of romance. (Reporter’s Note: I would invite my mother who died before knowing my children, my dad, and my three adult children.) Be sure to scope out the collection of ebooks at the Center for Jewish Education. Go online to www.jewishcharlotte.org, scroll down to the Levine-Sklut Judaic Library and Resource Center, then click “Borrow ebooks and audiobooks.”Y

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Women’s News Fighting COVID-19 at Hadassah Hospital Even though Hadassah has had to modify some of our planned activities, Hadassah CLT members have been busy leading, learning, helping the Hadassah Medical Organization in Israel, and having fun. Just as the U.S. military is doing hospital flyovers, the Israeli Air Force is celebrating Israel’s healthcare workers. On Yom Ha’atzmaut, Israeli Independence Day, the IAF Aerobatic Team flew in perfect formation over Hadassah Medical Center Ein Kerem, to salute the country’s health workers, heroes in the COVID-19 battle. Hospital workers came outside, waved Israeli flags, and sang Hatikvah in solidarity and appreciation. The COVID-19 pandemic has impacted the world. Hadassah Hospital Ein Kerem was chosen by the Israeli government as one of the select few hospitals to treat those infected by the virus. The Round Building at the hospital has been transformed into a COVID-19 hospital and has converted three floors into coronavirus wards and an ICU unit. To support the effort, Hadassah National has established the COVID-19 Emergency Fund to raise money for the fight against COVID-19 at Hadassah Hospital Ein Kerem in Israel. Hadassah has challenged every region to raise funds for our COVID-19 Emergency Fund. Our region’s goal is to raise $13,500 for one ICU bed at Hadassah Hospital Ein Kerem. A very generous donor has pledged to match up to $3.75 million of contributions, so every dollar you donate will

have double the impact. If you would like to donate, please go online to Hadassah.org, or send a check, made out to Hadassah COVID-19 Appeal to Hadassah, P.O. Box 1100, New York, NY 10268-1100. On Sunday morning, May 17, Hadassah Super South held its virtual Tri-Region Conference – “Plug In and Power Up” – instead of their previously planned three-day conference in Atlanta. Almost 200 people from the South attended. We heard updates on Hadassah, the Hadassah Medical Organization in Israel, and learned from a social media expert about using best practices to connect with people. Last month, Hadassah CLT planned a virtual art workshop with Nailed It DIY, since we physically couldn’t meet together in the studio. Each person chose their own colors in advance, received a kit with supplies, and created a 9 x 7 wooden hamsa. It was so much fun to see how different each person’s creation turned out even though we all started with the same basic materials. We’re also excited about our upcoming tie-dye event later this summer at a new art studio in Waverly, COVID-19 permitting. Hadassah recently launched Hadassah@Home, a program for members to stay connected with Hadassah from the comfort of home. Hadassah@Home has online articles, podcasts, speakers, concerts, discussion groups, Q&A sessions about current topics, and lists of resources you might need. There have been guided meditations on “Finding Balance in a

Should I sell my house now? Is now a good time to buy in Charlotte and stop renting? Can I get a mortgage? World Out of Balance,” an online heart healthy exercise class, videos about Hadassah medical innovations, women in politics, Antisemitism, and ethical dilemmas faced when working in the Middle East from the perspective of a Hadassah midwife. There was an online briefing with Ron Dermer, Israel’s ambassador to the U.S. The site is always being updated with interesting and uplifting updates from Hadassah about the special people and projects in Israel’s communities during the pandemic. Hadassah has also started The Branch podcasts on various subjects of interest. Virtual discussions about the podcasts will take place on Sunday afternoons at 4 PM. Look for more info coming soon. There are just a few of the things Hadassah CLT is doing. Want to join us? Please contact Amy DeLoach, Membership VP, at amybdeloach@gmail.com or go directly to our website, Hadassah.org, for membership information.Y

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School news Virtual Learning in the Early Childhood Classroom at CJP By Becca Green On March 13, the Charlotte Jewish Preschool Executive Director Brooke Amo called a last minute staff meeting to let teachers know that it was possible the school would have to close in the wake of COVID-19 pandemic. She advised teachers to bring home a few materials from the classroom that could help with teaching virtually from home. What we didn’t know at the time was that we would not be returning to school for 11 weeks. Just three days later, CJP shifted its education platform to virtual learning. In early childhood education, you will rarely see screens and technology used in the classroom. As a play-based preschool that uses authentic materials to encourage exploration we knew that distance-learning would be a challenge for everyone, from our youngest students to our most seasoned teachers. Teachers began to use Zoom as a platform to reach their students for live circle times every morning. We strived to maintain as much routine as possible as students sang their morning prayers, recited Havdalah on Monday mornings, and engaged with teachers and friends that they could see. Over the course of those 11 weeks out of the classroom we built in a full schedule of activities for our students so

they could enjoy a full academic day without leaving their home. We found that for some working parents having a live class did not always work well with their schedule, so we started a YouTube channel (@CJPTeachers) so that students and families could log in and view videos of our teachers demonstrating how to create artwork, bake a treat, make bubbles, and more. We posted two new videos a day and families were able to log in and view any video however many times they wanted. The Jewish calendar helped us structure what we posted, too. For Passover, Ms. Vicky posted a sing-a-long video, Ms. Courtney did a matzah cover art project, Ms. Ellen did a dramatic performance parting the Red Sea, and Ms. Ruth Ann demonstrated her family recipe for charoset. Lag Ba’Omer and Shavuot led our teachers to upload lots of videos spending time outside and teaching kids how to make their own picnic blanket, make vanilla ice cream, go on a nature walk, and much more. Our full day students had busy mornings, but we wanted to provide some afternoon structure for them as well, so we started our Mystery Play Date program. Students would log onto Zoom at 4 PM every day and a surprise teacher red virtual books with them, played games inspired by

the book, and interacted with those students who needed connection. Coach D and Coach Zack submitted YouTube videos of kids’ yoga and gross motor, Ms. Bobbie uploaded videos with updates on our learning garden, Ms. Debby led a virtual story time, and Ms. Patty continued to lead Shabbat every Friday which ensured that our students remained connected with our Specialists. While our students were busy learning, our teachers were, too. When they weren’t leading circle times or uploading YouTube videos, teachers were busy with professional development and volunteering on various committees behind the scenes. Office Manager Alyson Kalik led a marketing committee to engage teachers on social media and to help them stay connected with each other and our families. Judaica Specialist Becca Green led the Continuing Education committee which led two professional development seminars for teachers and provided planning resources for teachers to create their lesson plans. Director of Operations Ruth Ann Smith led the Operations Ready committee to plan an alternative Moving Up ceremony for our graduating 4s classes and to make sure the building was prepared to reopen when Governor Cooper allowed. The COVID crisis pushed our

educators to stretch themselves in unimaginable ways and the CJP staff stepped up to meet the challenge and exceed all expectations. The school bonded together through our “diaspora learning” and created a new learning environment for all of our CJP families. Kol HaKavod to our teachers for their creativity and our families for their patience and support. Y

I would say that behind all my ideas, the strongest idea of mine which is conveyed in my thinking, even more than in my writing, is the freedom of choice. If feel that freedom of choice is the very essence of life. Although the gifts which God has given us are small in comparison to the gifts which He has given maybe to the angels or to the stars, we have one great gift - and this is to choose. --Isaac Bashevis Singer, in Isacc Bashevis Singer: Conversations, ed. Grace Farrell

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How to Make Teachers Feel Appreciated and Families Feel Loved During Quarantine? As the month of May happened upon us (time seemed to move both slowly and quickly at the same time), we knew we had to put together a different type of teacher appreciation than usual to recognize and celebrate our hard-working staff. Together with our PTO Presidents, we put together an amazing package that

was hand-delivered to each teacher’s door. The package included a special treat for each day, including a delicious lunch and a DIY mani set. We wrapped up the week by showing the teachers an adorable video of the students thanking their teachers and saying “I love you/I miss you.” Our teachers were surprised and defi-

nitely felt appreciated. Once it became clear that we would not be able to reopen in May, we wanted to show our families some extra love and support. We wanted each student to have a set of materials for May projects they would be doing

with their teachers on Zoom, so we took the opportunity and put together beautiful Shabbat bags for each family to take home. The bags included tzedakah, candles, challah, chicken soup, and cookies. Our families were so excited to receive some extra treats and

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Gratitude, Empathy, and Forgiveness By Mariashi Groner, Director, Charlotte Jewish Day School Leading a full-time remote

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pretzels has been awe-inspiring. Hearing from families how their lives have been turned upside down has been humbling. And, yet, we are all rising to the challenge that has been put in front us, albeit often with difficulty. If there was ever a time where gratitude, and I mean the real kind, not the obligatory notes or checked off thank you, it is now. There are people all around us providing for our needs like never before. Even if it is a service that has been bought, the energy and wherewithal that it takes to deliver that same service is exponentially greater. And often it is a service given straight from the heart. In addition, there are many providing a service without any compensation, just because. It is sometimes difficult to find the right words and the best way to deliver our gratitude, and yet in these times, more than ever, we must. It is also a time for an extra dose of empathy, that even though we may not be experiencing the same set of challenges, someone else may be facing a more dire situation, and walking in their shoes is essential to be able to truly help and support. Our teachers need to empathize with our parents, and our parents need to empathize with our teachers. And more than anything those of us that are leaders need to find that extra dose

of understanding for those with whom we work. And last, but not least, forgiveness. We are all going to mess up, we are being asked to operate in environments that are less than optimal, without the tools that we are used to having, and often alone in our own homes without the tangible support of our colleagues. At CJDS, we try to keep these three values in mind throughout this storm. We’re going to get through this by strengthening those very muscles we haven’t used too often, and hopefully with sincere gratitude, empathy, and forgiveness, we will come out on the right side of this alternate universe, stronger and kinder. Some “thank you’s” from our parents: “I’ve been so impressed by the online learning CJDS has provided for my daughter over the last seven weeks. I’ve talked to a few moms whose kids are in 2nd grade in our local public schools and they’re all so disappointed at how bored their kids are and the near non-existent amount of student engagement their schools/teachers have employed. When I tell them about Leah’s daily Zoom meetings, assignments, optional Zooms, small group Zooms, they’re completely in awe. Within a week of everything shutting (Continued on page 13)

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Bal Tashchit and Beyond: Tikkun Olam in the Time of COVID-19 We recognize that these are difficult times, and that many aspects of our lives have changed because of the pandemic. Although we currently are not able to engage in many of the environmental activities we could previously, there are still many ways you and your family can be effective environmental stewards. Begin Composting In the last issue of CJN, we shared tips for creating a garden at home. And now, if you have always wanted to compost, this is the time. There are two types of composting: cold and hot. Cold composting is as simple as collecting yard waste or taking the organic materials from your trash (such as fruit and vegetable peels, coffee grounds and filters, and eggshells) and then collecting them in a pile or in a bin. Over the course of a year or so, the material will decompose. Hot composting is a bit more complex, so we will discuss that in a future article. Collect these materials to start off your compost pile: * Fruit and vegetable scraps * Coffee grounds * Eggshells * Grass and plant clippings * Dry leaves

* Shredded paper * Make sure not to put fats, meat, or dairy items into your compost pile As you collect materials in your compost pile, try to keep a 3:1 ratio of brown (dry, brown leaves and fibrous plant parts) to green (food waste and other green plants) materials, and make sure the pile stays moist, but not too wet. You will reduce your landfill contributions and will produce nutrient-rich compost for your garden. Create a Certified Wildlife Habitat at Home Recognize your commitment to wildlife and certify your yard, balcony container garden, schoolyard, work landscape or roadside greenspace into a Certified Wildlife Habitat® (https://www. nwf.org/CertifiedWildlifeHabitat). It is fun, easy, and makes a big difference for neighborhood wildlife. Wildlife habitat gardens are a haven for local birds, butterflies, and other wildlife. Tell the National Wildlife Federation how your yard or garden provides habitat and they will recognize it as a Certified Wildlife Habitat®. Once certified, you can share your accomplishment and com-

mitment to helping wildlife with your whole neighborhood by purchasing and posting an exclusive Certified Wildlife Habitat® sign. Clean Out Your Closets While many of the organizations that take clothing donations are not currently open for donation drop-offs, a Charlotte-based non-profit has developed an innovative program which addresses this need, while providing jobs and personal protective equipment for those who need them most. The mission of Spring Clean (https://springclean.org) is to create jobs and reduce landfill waste through the repurposing of donated textile material. Spring Clean is partnering with Lapels Dry Cleaning to collect your donations from your homes, and the donated materials are then sewn into masks. People who sew the masks earn 50% of the proceeds, and 50% goes to Spring Clean, providing much-needed work for many. Volunteers are also invited to donate their time by sewing masks. Pickups are every other Wednesday, beginning June 10. If you would like to donate, to sew masks or to buy masks, please email info@springclean.org.

After COVID-19: R U OK Shalom Park? While our world is trying to get back to normal with businesses beginning to reopen, schools hoping to start up again in the fall, and folks slowly getting back to work and as Shalom Park starts opening its doors once again, the medical aspects of the COVID-19 pandemic should be looking more positive. However, the long-term impact on our emotional well-beings is yet to be felt. While for many it is hard to imagine being more stressed and anxious than dealing with social distancing and hunkering down at home, we already know there has been an increase in calls to national hotlines related to suicide and depression and the increase in the sale of alcohol is only a roadmap for increased substance abuse down the line. For some, however, survival instinct has kicked in and you have positioned yourself for battle. However, once the battle is over and you begin to calm

down, the impact of the trauma we are all experiencing may start to manifest itself. In a recent opinion piece published in the Journal of the American Medical Association, Sandro Galea, MD, MPH, DrPH, a professor at the Boston University School of Public Health, warned of an upcoming wave of mental disorders because of coronavirus. He noted that “large-scale disasters, whether traumatic (the World Trade Center attacks or mass shootings), natural (hurricanes), or environmental (Deepwater Horizon oil spill), are almost always accompanied by increases in depression, posttraumatic stress disorder (PTSD), substance use disorder, and a broad range of other mental and behavioral disorders, domestic violence, and child abuse.” And while this may seem pretty foreboding for the future mental health of our community, there

is something each of us can do: * Talk with a friend or family member about how you are feeling. You will probably find you are not alone. * Acknowledge the fact that more than ever we need to recognize the importance of getting help if you or a loved one is struggling. * Fight the stigma that getting help is a weakness for yourself or for others * Learn about the signs and symptoms of someone struggling with a mental health issue…do

As civilization advances, the sense of wonder declines. Such decline is an alarming symptom of our state of mind. Mankind will not perish for want of information, but only for want of appreciation. The beginning of our happiness lies in the understanding that life without wonder is not worth living. What we lack is not a will to believe, but a will to wonder. --Abraham Heschel, Between God and Man

Listen to an Environmental Podcast Listening to a podcast is a great way to learn about environmental issues, and there are many wherever you get your podcasts. Here are just a few suggestions to get you started: * Creation Care is a podcast that shares stories of ordinary people doing extraordinary things to have a positive environmental and social impact. * Climate Cast is a podcast from Minnesota Public Radio that discusses the latest research on our changing climate. * National Wildlife Federation Outdoors explores conservation issues and conservationists from across the country. * A Sustainable Mind is a podcast for earth-conscious individuals who would like to take action to be the change they want to see in the world. Donate to an Environmental Organization There are many incredible organizations that are continuing to work on environmental issues during this time. Consider donating to these groups: * Catawba Lands Conservancy: https://catawbalands.org/

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Queens Jewish Studies – Never Distant The Greenspon Center Team invites you to consider the choices you face in your lives. There are lots of things we can’t do at this challenging time in our history. However, there are plenty of things we can do to infuse this time of adversity with actions and events that will go down in history as an example of humanity at its best. The Stan Greenspon Center continues to work for justice, to bring Holocaust and human rights educational programs into the community, and to bring engaging

programs into your homes. From our weekly “Peaceful Pauses” to our thought-provoking Wine and Wisdom classes, we hope there is something for everyone. In this time of social distancing, Queens Jewish studies has never been closer. In the summer months, here are great choices you can make to stay connected: * Peaceful Pauses Join us on Wednesdays from 5-5:30 PM, as we take a breath, relax, and explore topics of resilience, hope, and self-care. Led by Greenspon faculty, often along-

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and the words left unsaid by each line.” Explore the many faces of Torah as you see new faces and meet new members of our Charlotte community to learn with and from them. * Southern Jewish Roots: Inaugural Queen City Jewish Tour Join us on Sunday, August 9, at 1 PM to kick off our Charlotte Inaugural Jewish Tour. Charlotte’s 165 years of Jewish history is rich with civic leaders, business leaders, religious leaders, and philanthropists. As part of Queens Jewish Life’s Southern Jewish Roots Queen City Jewish Bus Tour, participants will enjoy a unique, entertaining, and educational hike through our city’s history. The experience will include a tour through the Hebrew Cemetery that was founded in 1867 and is rich with stories of the famous Jews who were buried there from the Civil War to the Civil Rights era to today. We will pass through historic uptown and Elizabeth and Dilworth sites that highlight Jewish historic contributions to our county and state and conclude our journey at Shalom Park as we explore the pluralistic and powerful Jewish community that thrives

in Charlotte today. We will learn of the uniqueness of Shalom Park and its development. We will commemorate Holocaust memory as we learn about the more than three dozen Charlotte survivors and take time for reflection at the Margaret and Lou Schwartz Butterfly Garden Holocaust Memorial. The tour will be developed and led by Susan Jacobs, a fourth generation Charlottean, and Roz Cooper, both esteemed Charlotte Jewish educators who have been at the helm of our Charlotte religious educational institutions for decades. This tour will follow state guidelines for safety in light of Covid-19 and may involve travel in individual cars and a microphone with amplifier at each stop of the tour so that everyone can maintain a safe distance. Cost: To be determined. Space is limited and fees will include noshes such rugelach, challah, knishes, and more. The Greenspon Center thanks you for your continued support. During these difficult times people tend to look for a silver lining, and we have found that you are our silver lining. To connect with us, please contact info@stangreenspon.com.Y

The Ruach Proposes Its Contingency Plan On April 29, we received an email from, the Assistant Director of Operations for the Sarah Belk Gambrell Center at Queens University. She was reaching out to let us know that she would be our point of contact for The Rosh Hashanah and The Kol Nidre Experiences that Rabbi Smookler and The Ruach would be hosting this year in the new Sandra Levine Theatre in the Center. In the last line of her email she said, “Right now, I am feeling optimistic that we will be back by September and able to host [The Experiences] but would want to discuss your COVID plan in case social distancing continues through September.” Contingency plan for the High Holy Days? Of course, we have one: Livestream. And we most definitely will not be alone in doing so should that be required. Livestreaming, Zoom gatherings, Webinars have now become a part of daily life and are used in business, pleasure, as well as, religion. Even before being unable to gather physically as a community, The Ruach has been exploring better ways to provide The Shabbat Experience online. We’ve come a long way; from using an iPad to capture audio and video in a live setting like we did at The Rosh Hashanah Experience last year at The Fillmore to now using multiple cameras and high-quality audio capture. It is our goal to provide The Ruach Community with the best Experience we can provide while we are sheltering in place.

What about after the pandemic? When we are able to do so, we will return to providing The Shabbat Experience live because online will not and simply cannot replace personal interaction. But we will also continue doing the online-only version of The Shabbat Experience when we aren’t with The Ruach Community and we hope that people will integrate these online Experiences into their own personal Shabbat gatherings with friends and family. Subcribe to The Ruach’s YouTube channel. Don’t miss a thing. To learn more about The Ruach visit the band (and give them a “like”) on Facebook, follow on Instagram @the.ruaach.new.jewish.music, and Twitter @TheRuachSpirit. The Ruach is a 501(c)(3) non-profit organization whose

mission is to spread the joy of Judaism through new Jewish musical experiences that are meant to create and maintain personal connections and inspire and engage people to embrace the religion and all that it has to offer. The Ruach depends solely upon donations and grants to support the High Holy Day and year-round Shabbat Experiences. The Shabbat Experiences are supported, in part, by a grant from the Jewish Federation of Greater Charlotte. All members of The Ruach and Rabbi Rachel Smookler are volunteers and receive no compensation for their contributions. What they do is done with an authentic and genuine love of Judaism and the Jewish people. The Ruach is: Nancy Good, lead vocals and rhythm guitar; Peter Levinson, lead guitar; Dan Ruda, bass guitar and vocals; Howard Swartz, congas; Rick Lipson, drums; and, David Armbrust, percussion and vocals.Y

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Funerals During Pandemic Friendship Circle and Chabad Launch Times “Shabbat Set” By Sandra Goldman, director, Hebrew Cemetery Assocation Death brings us together because funerals are a communal affair, especially in Judaism. With the arrival of COVID-19 and the stay at home order, everything has changed. How can we fulfill our responsibility to honor the dead (k’vod hamet), comfort the mourners (nichum aveilim), and protect the community (pikuach nefesh)? A simple hug and a gesture of acknowledgement face to face. A gentle hand stroke that injects love and care. Human physical contact expresses so much more than words could ever be capable of doing. We have probably never realized this loss of human connection as much as we do now. Jewish funerals are full of rituals and connections, but because of the contagious nature of the disease, most people who die during this historic period – either with or without COVID-19 – are doing so alone. Their loved ones are left to mourn on their own. While doctors and nurses risk their lives working tirelessly to treat those infected with the virus, the cemetery’s staff, clergy, and funeral directors risk theirs guiding the deceased to a dignified burial. Staff and board members have stood graveside, recited Kaddish, acted as pall bearers, held phones for FaceTime and Zoom services to give the grieving family a sense of normalcy. There is a fine line between courage and fear. Sir Winston Churchill once said that fear is a reaction. Courage is a decision. That is also the reason that the Hebrew Cemetery worked with clergy and other involved parties early in the pandemic cycle to establish guidelines on how to conduct funerals during the Coronavirus outbreak. The results are that, for the foreseeable future, all funerals – whether COVID-19 related or not – take place graveside, with the casket already lowered and the grave filled. It is our guidance that no more than ten people in total attend non-COVID-related funerals, with a family member or designate filming the burial if the family so chooses, and everyone at the burial needs to follow strict physical distancing. The services will be brief to limit the possibility of exposure. All COVID-19 related or presumed positive funerals will be held virtual. No presumptive positive people or individuals who have been in contact with the deceased will be allowed to the burial. The choice of the clergy member to attend the burial is up to each individual, and mourners will be asked to consider holding a memorial gathering at a later date, when health concerns have subsided. All these decisions have been made with a responsibility and motivation to honor and care for the deceased and the deep sense of love for the living in our community. The pandemic is pushing death into the forefront, to mourn without family and friends physically

beside them. Grief, which already can be an isolating experience, has become an even lonelier act. It’s for this reason that mental health experts, religious leaders and others hope the pandemic will change how Americans approach grief, paving the way for people to talk more openly about the difficult emotions that come with losing loved ones. The communal experience that we are all going through at one level or another is forcing us as well to look at a deeper level of the process of death and dying. People are beginning to realize how important it is to have conversations that nobody was willing to have in the past. (Continued on page 16)

Shabbat is a time of rest and tranquility. Even though we’re not able to invite our friends over for a Shabbat Dinner right now doesn’t mean you should miss out on experiencing the warmth of Shabbat and the feelings of connection that it brings. That’s why we’re offering a uniquely designed Shabbat Set complete with fresh challah, chicken soup, Shabbat candles, and other goodies to celebrate Shabbat @ Home. You can request a Shabbat Set for yourself and/or a friend who could use some Shabbat love. We’ll be offering a limited number of sets each week on a first-come-first-serve basis. But, don’t worry, if we reach our limit by the time you place your request, we’ll put you at the top of the list for the next Friday. Visit ShabbatSet.com to learn more and to request a set. Friendship Circle is a beneficiary of the Jewish Federation of

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Youth Visions Graduating Seniors Say Good-bye to Hebrew High Hebrew High is extremely proud to announce the graduation of seven seniors in the class of 2020. We are proud of their commitment to Judaism and to the way they handled themselves finishing Hebrew High during a pandemic. Graduation is a time of reflection, and some of our seniors wanted to share their thoughts about Hebrew High. When asked what they liked most about Hebrew High or what they have learned throughout their time as a Hebrew High student, they said: Samantha Baum, a graduate of Myers Park High School and member of Temple Israel, said that she really enjoyed having the open conversations relating to Judaism and current events during post confirmation. Hebrew High also taught her how to better combat Antisemitism, cook some Jewish foods, and learn more about her Jewish identity. Rayna Weiss, a graduate of Ardrey Kell High School and member of Temple Beth El, said

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what really had an impact on her during her Hebrew high experience was how the staff and teachers treated everyone like fellow adults instead of children. Instead of a strictly student-teacher environment, Hebrew High talked and led discussions like the students were grown people. “It was nice.” Andie Sly, a graduate of Hopewell High School and member of Temple Beth El, said her highlight of her Hebrew High experience would be her confirmation trip. She got very close to some of her fellow classmates and overall felt a connection to her religion that she had never experienced quite before. She thinks Hebrew High prepared her to be able to take her Jewish culture and experiences wherever she ends up, and to be an advocate for all minorities and religions. Samantha Weinstein, a graduate of Butler High School and a member of Ohr HaTorah, said her highlight was meeting her best friend and being proud of

her Jewish identity for the first time. Hebrew High gave her a safe place and her teachers helped her realize who she was and what she wanted to do with her life. She owes Mrs. Montoni a lot as she was the one who introduced her to creative writing in the first place. A lot of her favorite high school memories were made through Hebrew High. It also strengthened her desire to want to join Hillel and start other Jewish organizations on college campus. Mazel Tov to the Class of 2020 and good luck next year in college. No matter where you are, no matter what you do, never stop believing in the genius within you. We will miss you.Y Samantha Baum University of Delaware Jacob Laube – University of North Carolina at Charlotte Andie Sly – North Carolina State Leah Harrison Appalachian State Aaron Hart North Carolina State Rayna Weiss - Savannah College of Art and Design Samantha Weinstein Warren Wilson College

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UMessage is UMatter’s interactive texting platform created by teens for teens designed to approach mental health and self care with surprising simplicity. UMessage will send out weekly trivia questions as well as motivational quotes with interactive activities. During May, which is also mental health awareness month, UMessage launched a bonus challenge to keep teens engaged with each other and themselves during these tough times. Encourage your teen to sign up. Just text the word “Umatter” to 833-222-2619. What is UMatter? UMatter is an initiative developed by Friendship Circle, an organization that provides support to those who experience social isolation, with a focus on individuals with special needs. UMatter helps teenagers take a step back from daily stresses and refocus on life’s positivity. Our goal is to build a support network and eliminate the stigma surrounding mental health in our community. We believe that everyone is created with a Godly purpose and has something to contribute to the world. It’s up to each of us to know, and show, that you matter. UMatter is a project of Friendship Circle and an initiative powered by the Jewish Federation’s Impact and Innovation Fund.Y

BBYO Teen Creates “Mediumize,” a Platform to Help the Most Vulnerable During COVID-19 Pandemic Jonah Liss Seeks Volunteers for His Online Service, Delivering Food, Medicine, and Other Necessities By Jennifer Lovy, reprinted with permission from The Detroit Jewish News When Jonah Liss heard schools were closing due to the COVID-19 pandemic, his thoughts turned to finding a productive way to fill his spare time. The 16-year-old junior at the International Academy of Bloomfield Hills had been busy with a rigorous academic schedule and many extracurricular activities. But now, Liss’ goal is to help the community get through the coronavirus pandemic quicker by protecting those most vulnerable. Mediumize is a platform Liss designed to bridge the gap between those who cannot safely leave their homes during the coronavirus outbreak and those who are healthy and want to help. Liss, who lives in Michigan, is enlisting volunteers to run errands such as delivering food, medicine and other necessities at no additional cost. By minimizing potential exposure to the virus, Liss says Mediumize can also mitigate its spread. “I believe in what we’re doing and think we can make a difference,” Liss said. “It’s important that people aren’t putting themselves or others at risk.” Liss, an avid investor in the stock market, first noticed the effects the coronavirus was having on the market in China and started to track the virus. When it paralyzed Italy, Liss knew he wanted to do something to help once it reached the United States. He just wasn’t sure what that would be. As the virus spread and schools canceled, he turned his idea into a concrete plan. With a passion for coding and web designing, he created a website for Mediumize. He had the site up on Saturday, March 14. A few days later, he recruited nearly 60 volunteers, almost exclusively teens. Liss hopes to turn this endeavor into a nonprofit organization. He would also like to see the concept implemented on a national level. “My grandparents here do not have to use it because they can just call me,” he said. “However, one of my inspirations for expanding the regions Mediumize covers is so my grandparents on the West Coast can eventually use it,” he said. A lot of businesses are also delivering food, medicine, and other necessities. However, some are expensive or can be hard to navigate, especially for those unaccustomed to using the internet. Liss has volunteers who can offer phone support, helping maneuver online ordering as well as other technology-related issues, like telemedicine. The services are free, but delivery volunteers can accept tips. “I’m not surprised he thought of something like this. It’s what he does,” said his mom, Jennifer

Jonah at his computer. (Photo courtesy of Jonah Liss.)

Liss, who helped him further develop the concept, with input from friends and neighbors, including U.S. Rep. Andy Levin (D-Michigan). “Jonah comes up with these ideas all the time and then he implements them. The minute he found out he had to stay home from school, he started

working on this.” Currently, Liss has a few volunteers ready to go in the Charlotte area, from Mooresville to Pineville. He is seeking more, specifically teens. Eliza Faigin, a senior at West Bloomfield High School, knows Liss through BBYO. When she heard he was looking for volunteers, she immediately signed up. “I feel like it’s my job to do what I can to help those who are at risk or could use the support. It’s up to us to help our community in any way we can,” she said. Some of the people Liss consulted with voiced concern about the safety of teens going out in public. “We’re making it safe,” said Liss, explaining that because his age group seems to have the lowest mortality rate associated with coronavirus, students are the best candidates to do this type of work. Liss acknowledges that despite the age of the volunteers, they could still be unknowing carriers or contract the virus while out in the community. Therefore, those Jonah delivering safely. (Photo cour- offering assistance must not show tesy of Jonah Liss.)

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down, you and your amazing team of teachers and staff came up with an organized, engaging, and educational program for the kids. You all continue to amaze and inspire me.” “I am appreciative of the online school for several reasons: 1) support from these precious teachers, i.e., the invisible lessons about values such as ‘you before me’ that get played out in assignments and virtual classrooms; 2) meeting academic standards to the extent possible; and 3) without the structure of school, mayhem would increase exponentially. I can focus on work and teach at least part of the day while my daughter is ‘in class.’ Without school, screen time would probably become the default for the day because I can’t keep an eye on them outside while I’m working. … As an aside, we are eagerly awaiting the possibility of a return to school for even a couple of weeks, pending judgment that that would be safe. My 5th grad-

er misses all of her ‘siblings that I grew up with,’ as she now says, and hopes for an in person graduation. We will see.” “I wanted to let you know that we are so grateful that you are our son’s Judaica teacher. We are overwhelmed by the tremendous work and effort you are putting in to making sure all of your students continue to learn and love Judaism. During this particularly unusual time, you have provided so much structure and positivity for your students. We are simply amazed at the level of detail you put into your lessons, as well as your ability to support their progress and growth. We always knew that CJDS students learned so much on a daily basis, but virtual learning has really opened our eyes to the amount of knowledge they absorb each day. Thank you so much for the dedication, attention and love you give to your students. Your encouragement and devotion are so appreciated.” Y

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SYNAGOGUES The Blessing of Transitions

By Rabbi Asher Knight, Temple Beth El The Mishnah’s Tractate Berakhot starts with a discussion about how and when we sing of the Shema, the foundational prayer of our faith. The rabbis ask a question about whether a person can interrupt one’s singing of the Shema – a prayer to God – to acknowledge and greet another person. The tradition is clear in its recognition that human connection and relationships are key elements of spiritual living. This is much more than a question about prayer customs and synagogue decorum. It’s a reminder that our places of prayers and spiritual practices, that the human and Divine share the same spaces, physically, emotionally, and spiritually. My mentor, Rabbi David Stern, teaches that this is why we honor and sanctify the human moments when we pray and celebrate. Every human moment matters. Regardless of physical distancing, it is the human connections that help us have hope and courage in

the face of fear. It is the human connections that help to unite our sense of belonging to community and to something greater ourselves. June will be the last month in which we share the gifts of Susan Jacobs as our Director of Education. On June 5, during our Shabbat services, we will share messages and prayers from Temple’s current and previous clergy in celebration of all that Susan has offered our Temple Beth El and Charlotte Jewish community. This is not the celebration that we had initially planned. Yet, the carpool and our prayers are an inspiring reminder of the beauty of our community to celebrate the human moments in the ways that we can, regardless of the challenges that this moment in time creates. It is precisely because Susan matters to each of us, to her family, to our community, and to God. As many of you know from our earlier announcement, in July we will welcome Rabbi Beth Nichols as our new Director of Lifelong

Jewish Learning. We are excited for the arrival of a new partner and leader. Rabbi Nichols joins us from Temple Israel of New Rochelle, NY, which is well known for its innovative approaches to Jewish learning. She played a key role in the creation of Chavaya, a camp-style experiential religious school, and the Kehillah School for Early Learning, a fulltime Jewish childcare program. As Rabbi and Director of Congregational Learning at Temple Israel, Rabbi Nichols served as a full member of the clergy team, oversaw Chavaya and the Kehillah School, provided rabbinic leadership for the congregation’s youth programs and partnered with lay leaders and staff to create dynamic learning opportunities for adults. Rabbi Nichols’ first priority at Temple Beth El will be to bring her tremendous energy, creativity and educational vision to our Religious School that has been built by Susan Jacobs and our faculty. Rabbi Nichols will partner with

staff, faculty, and lay leaders to understand the strengths of our program and set a course for new horizons. She will also begin to collaborate with our adult learning programs as part of her responsibility for nurturing Jewish learning throughout our congregation. The ultimate wisdom of the Mishnah is that the human greeting is actually not an interruption of the Shema at all. It is the fulfillment of the Shema: of the Oneness that is God, and of the Oneness to which God calls us. So as we bid farewell to a gifted teacher, we prepare to welcome gifted teacher, and we know that our greeting will share the sacred act saying Shalom – hello and

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Temple Solel Shabbat Song and Prayer We added a new on-line service we are calling “Shabbat Song and Prayer” on the first and third Fridays with an opportunity to be together online more often as a congregation. These services are a shorter gathering to light Shabbat candles, sing a couple songs, and have a short time of sharing with an open chat at the end. Our first meeting included a discussion about prayer. Shelley Pawlyk explained the fourth letter of the Hebrew alphabet has a numerical value of four and one of its meaning is “door” – our door to communication and comfort, relationships, or even a door to a new beginning. The first “door of prayer” she spoke about can be our traditional pre-written prayers as we read them connected to our hearts (during services like we do or chanting pre-written prayers). The second “door of prayer,” especially during this challenging time when we have few words, is what our lay leader, Russ Cobe, describes as a niggun – a tune or melody often with repetitive sounds like “bim-bim-bam,” “Lai-Lai-Lai,” or “Ai-Ai-Ai,” instead of actual words in the lyrics of a song. The third “door of prayer” can be a very special way we pray our texts from the Hebrew bible, Tanach, an acronym for the first Hebrew letter of each subdivision of our bible: Torah (“teaching,” also known as the Five Books of Moses), Nevi’im (“prophets”) and Ketuvim (“writings”). Then, there is a fourth “door of prayer” Shelley described as her “absolute favorite” and one she learned at Temple Beth El’s adult education class, taught by Cantor Mary Thomas years ago. Kavanah prayer is the type of prayer said spontaneously with our voices or even expressed in other ways. Maybe through the voice of instruments in worship-

ful song like King David, sewing wonderful tapestries, creating art, acting, jewelry making, medical help, gardening, wood working, writing, film productions, dance, providing business support, being a good listener, teacher, cooking, friend, caring for others … what you do so you walk through the door of God’s heart to have a spiritual relationship. This type of prayer is similar to how Tevye in Fiddler on the Roof talks to God in a conversation. Speaking and expressing ourselves and hearts to God creates a personal and relational interaction and becomes the most heartfelt of all. Then Shelley led the congregation in a kavanah prayer using it as an example – “We pray together for everyone on the Zoom(c) call tonight that we will experience this closeness to You, Adonai, in a personal way, especially during this very difficult time of isolation and uncertainty. We are reminded and speak some of your Names reverently out loud together and keep them in our hearts on this Shabbat Song and Prayer night …. Adonai Tzidkeinu – Our God of Righteousness; Adonai Rapha – Our God Who Heals Us; and Adonai Yireh – Our God Who Provides for Us” – Amen. Then she turned it over to Susan Wexler to hear the poem she wrote to God, called, “Pray and Take Nothing for Granted” – The world is abundant, rivers overflowing with gold, but the inhabitants were greedy, brazen, and bold. Did this happen overnight? How do these events unfold? Did the glue dry up, hence, nothing would hold? Are we following His path or did we just go astray? There is only one path and we must follow His way. History repeats itself over a set-given time, as clear as two points shall form a straight line. Did we follow directions or get lost on these roads?

goodbye and peace. The Talmud gives us a blessing for these moments of transition. May these ancient words resonate for Susan Jacobs and Rabbi Beth Nichols, and for all of us blessed to be part of this Temple Beth El family: “May the Holy One whose name dwells in this house cause love and kinship, peace and friendship to dwell among you.” Y

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Virtual Hebrew School at the Ballantyne Jewish Center This past month has been full every Sunday. They made matzah Zoom, we have done crafts, of exciting learning opportuni- together, played interactive game games, and a virtual Chalties for BJC Hebrew School stu- shows, had a global mock Sed- lah bake. We sent a beaudents and their families. While er, and so much more. The les- tiful matzah cover craft to we miss seeing all of our teach- sons were offered virtually, with each home that we all did ers and students in person, we options for three different age together. This ensures that have enjoyed our online Hebrew groups. the students do not miss out School programs. We were able Twice a week, on Tuesdays on their personal touch and to learn a little about Pesach, see and Thursdays, Leah Levin, Shlo- connection to Passover at our friends, and engage in fun and mo Wolvovsky, and Rochel Wol- their family Seder this year. interactive activities. vovsky have a virtual Zoom class. We are so grateful to As one of the parents ex- It is special for the students to see have the amazing staff that pressed, “Hebrew School was up their teachers and friends from we do. The teachers have and running, faster than anyone Hebrew School and to have that reached out to each and evelse, making sure my child does social interaction they so crave. ery student to practice Henot miss out on her Jewish edu- We have tefillah, practice Mah brew reading one on one. cation. The classes and games Nishtana, and learn something in The beauty of this personal inhave been so enjoyable, the a fun engaging way. Together via teraction has been so special for rest of the family loves each student as they really watching, too. We are so get that time and attention grateful for the practicing to grow in their reading. A Mah Nishtana, crafts, and huge thanks to the teachers games.” Galia Lapidot-Boaz, DonWith less than 12 na deGroot, Tracy Farrell, hours’ notice, a netChaya Groner-Greenberg, work of Chabad Hebrew Schools around the world put together a Virtual Pesach Experience on the first Sunday that Hebrew School was cancelled. This amazing group of Chabad teachers have been working together, to bring the Pesach lessons Sofia Rosenberger joins in for Tefillah during Hebrew and stories to our students School.

One on one Hebrew reading lessons have helped our students progress quickly.

Mindy McShane, and Denise Sussman, for taking the time and making sure that every child continues to thrive in their Hebrew education. We feel honored to be bringing Torah and Judaism to so many homes.Y

Shane Hepworth and his rugelach that he made on Zoom Hebrew School.

The Show Goes on at Temple Kol Ami As the saying goes, the show must go on. At Temple Kol Ami of Fort Mill, we are adapting to the new normal and zooming right along. Over the millennia, there have been plagues, wars, and natural disasters, but Judaism has always survived. Every generation has faced their challenges; it is now our turn to step up. We are so thankful for technology that allows us to continue to pray, play, and learn together. Kabbalat Shabbat services have continued every other Friday night with our wonderful lay leaders as well as a virtual visit from Rabbi Bruce Aft the weekend of May 15. In addition to leading us in Friday night service, Rabbi Aft also facilitated Torah study with a focus on the current situation. There was a lively discussion entitled “Covid-19: God’s Punish-

ment or Wake Up Call?” The TKA Religious School did not miss a beat and continued with eLearning. Our dedicated teachers developed online learning plans and the students picked up where they left off. Additionally, Temple Kol Ami has stay connected with a virtual Passover Seder, book club, board meetings, sisterhood brunch, and Havdalah. Although communicating via computer has been great, we look forward to being together again hopefully sooner than later. In August, Religious School will start up again, and we anticipate wonderful High Holiday services in September lead by Rabbi Aft. We are also excited to reschedule our weekend with Jewish musical artist

Joe Buchanan. Whatever the future brings, Temple Kol Ami is prepared to embrace it and continue our traditions – either virtually or in-person. Temple Kol Ami is a reform congregation in Fort Mill, SC. We are a small but growing community and would love for you to join us. Please check our calendar at www.templekolamisc.org for upcoming events and contact us at yorksynagogue@gmail.com with any questions.Y

Zoom Shabbat services at Temple Kol Ami.

Israeli Inventors Create Face Mask with Slot for Eating in Public By Marcy Oster JERUSALEM (JTA) — Israeli restaurants reopened and require about 5 feet between patrons, but what about people who aren’t ready to take off their masks when they eat in public? Some Israeli inventors have created a face mask for the coro-

navirus age that will allow wearers to eat food without removing it. The mask has a slot that opens with a hand remote lever to allow food to go through, Reuters first reported. Drippy dishes might not fare very well, the story said, but solid foods “can be gobbled up in

a flash a la Pac-Man.” The developer, Tel Aviv-area based Avtipus Patents and Inventions, told Reuters that it has already submitted a patent for the mask and plans to start manufacturing in the next few months. Y

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The Hebrew Cemetery has always embraced the community and is honoring and celebrating its departed. One of its mission is to guide people in how to preplan their funerals. The comfort of knowing that family will not

have to make funeral arrangement decisions during the difficult time of their initial grief; the assurance that informed, thoughtful decisions have been made about the funeral and burial prices are locked in is priceless and gives

ultimately peace of mind. For more information how to purchase a grave, prefund a funeral or leave a bequest, contact Sandra Goldman at 704-5761859 or email director@hebrewcemetery.org.Y

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any symptoms of COVID-19 or exposure to others with symptoms. Further, they cannot live with someone who is in a highrisk group. Every day a volunteer is assisting, he or she must send Liss a video of themselves taking their temperature. He expects these helpers to wear masks and gloves and disinfect all items purchased. “No single thing is perfect, but at the end of the day, this is safer than sending a high-risk person out in public or sending a person with symptoms of the virus out either,” Liss said. “Those receiving a delivery can also customize what precautionary measures are taken to meet their comfort level. “If you order something on Amazon, you don’t know where

the package was or who handled it. Here, there’s personal contact with the delivery person.” Katie Darr has used Mediumize a few times so far. Once she had groceries delivered to her 83-year-old mother and once had groceries delivered to herself and her husband. Both are working from home and inundated with work. “We think it’s such a great program and we’re encouraging all our neighbors to try it. These are scary times and it’s nice to have something positive coming out of it.” To volunteer, teens are encouraged to contact Jonah at jonah@ mediumize.com.Y

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Innovative “Drive Through” Lag B’Omer at Chabad Chabad of Charlotte fulfilled the motto of “desperation leads to innovation.” Every year on Lag B’Omer, Chabad of Charlotte hosts a magnificent outdoor musical event that attracts many people from the greater Charlotte area. The event features musical concerts and an extensive Kosher

barbeque. This year, due to the Covid virus, which forced everyone to either remain at home or practice strict social distancing, there was no practical way to bring the community together for the traditional event. Creative minds at Chabad came up with a novel idea to

overcome the challenge … a “Drive-through” Lag B’Omer event. Music, Chasidic dancing clowns, a vivacious bubble man, and a variety of Jewish entertainers were stationed in the large parking lot of the new Epstein Family Chabad Center. Close to 100 cars, packed with adults and

children, drove slowly through the parking lot. What’s more was the Kosher barbecue galore, provided by Kosher Charlotte, featuring freshly grilled burgers and hot dogs. Lag B’omer s‘mores were added to the orders as each family received their pre-ordered packages from the gracious staff

of Chabad. People were tooting their horns with excitement and children were dancing through sun-roofs to the beat of Israeli music. It was a great break from the new routine as it brought joy and happiness to the community.Y

Parade photos courtesy of Len Weinstein.

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chapter in this rich Book of Gold and others shall read about it as the story unfolds. One thing is certain, we must abide and honor His ways. And follow in God’s footsteps, during our own numbered days. As the Lord gave to Moses, the power of the rod, we must listen to our scientists another gift from God. This book holds the key, to life’s tribulations. We must cherish our maker to thrive as a nation. Amen.

Temple Solel holds regular Shabbat services at 7 PM on the second and fourth Fridays of each month via Zoom© during the pandemic and hopes to resume services when appropriate at Belair UMC Family Life Center, 8095 Shelley Mullis Rd., Fort Mill, SC 29707. For more information see templesolelSC.org, write us at info@templesolelSC.org or call 803-610-1707.Y

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Celebrating our Community’s 399 Legacy Donors Foundation for the Charlotte Jewish Community thanks the 399 individuals and families who have created 900 unique Jewish legacies to ensure the future of our Jewish community. These generous donors have collectively committed to more than $26.5 million through bequests, individual retirement and life insurance plans,

Anonymous (26) Ann and Bob Abel Bernie and Teri Ackerman Susan and Benjamin Aizenman Yvonne Amato Bernard and Leah G. Amler Anthony and Brooke Amo Bette Andrews Alan and Madeline Aron Wilma and Gerson Asrael Judy and Stan August Amy Augustine Jill and Craig Balick Michele and Harvey Barer Gail and John Baron Michael and Meredith Baumstein Sanford and Lois Benjamin Sharri and Peter Benjamin Raymond Monty Bennett Benjamin and Elizabeth Benson Philip M. Berman Robert Berman Brian and Glenda Bernhardt Adam Bernstein and Tammy Seigel Andrew and Elka Bernstein Bobbi and Don Bernstein Mark (OBM) and Louise (OBM) Bernstein Nancy and Sam Bernstein Susan P. Bessey Lillian (OBM) and Irving Bienstock Lee and Jeffrey Bierer Martin Birnbaum Peter Blair Barry and Lisa Blau Herman (OBM) and Anita (OBM) Blumenthal Jill Blumenthal Lee and Alan Blumenthal Philip Blumenthal Karen Knoble and Barry Bobrow Gary and Susan Bogarad Michael and Lenora Borchardt David and Bonnie Bornstein Bunny Bramson Marian (OBM) and Walter Brawer Diana Warth and Justin Bregman Barry H. Brodsky Tracy and Larry Brown Chaim and Hanah Hawkins Burke Doris Cagle (OBM) Bobby Cain Sera and Marvin Callif David and Janice Cantor Susan E. Cernyak-Spatz (OBM) Bruce Bishop Cheen and Regina Rosenberg Suly and Richard (OBM) Chenkin Judith and Richard Coates Michael and Karen Coates-Traynor Jena Coen Aharon and Mintza Leah Cohen Brian and Sonia Cohen David Cohen Paige and Mark Cohen Shlomo and Yiska Cohen Steven and Olivia Cohen Wendy Williams Cohen (OBM) Jennifer and Jonathan Collman Denise and Bob Cooper Andrea and George Cronson Michael and Beth Cupp Irv and Deedee Gould Cygler Gene and Deedee Daumit Andrea and Jeremy Davids

Arlene and Gary (OBM) Davis Jill and Michael Dinerman Dana and Jeffrey Ditesheim Ellen (OBM) and Dan (OBM) Dubin Marcy and Fred Dumas Steven and Ellen Block Englehardt David and Aleen Epstein Barry and Mary Ellen Ezarsky Rabbi Murray and Barbara Ezring Larry Farber and Sherri McGirt Henry (OBM) and Margaret (OBM) Federlin Alec and Nancy Felder Roni and Glenn Fishkin Dorlisa and Peter Flur Adam Foodman Melvin W. and Caren N. Frank Robert and Beverly Friedman Jacob M. and Hunter K. Fuerstman Albert and Phyllis Garten Loren Leah Gelber Goodlyn Gelper Y’honatan E. Gimbel Stephanie and David Gitlin Rick Glaser and Ellen Reich Nancy Glass Rhoda (OBM) and Aaron (OBM) Gleiberman Alan and Ruth Goldberg Ken and Tammy Golder Sandra Goldman Mark and Linda Goldsmith Margi L. Goldstein Milton and Arlene Goldstein Shelton and Ellen Goldstein Joy and Neal Golub Jennifer Cohen Golynsky and Leon Golynsky Barbara and David (OBM) Goodman Brett H. Goodman Michelle Goodman Scott and Rebecca Goodman Allen (OBM) and Ethel (OBM) Gordon Bill and Patty (OBM) Gorelick Jeff and Bari Gorelick Marcelle Gorelick Shelton (OBM) and Carol (OBM) Gorelick Todd and Stacy Miller Gorelick Alan and Merle Gottheim Fay (OBM) and Dan (OBM) Green Karen Greenblatt Julia and Russ Greenfield Keith E. Greenspon Roslyn Greenspon Stan Greenspon Jodi and Josh Greenwald Bill and Gloria Grifenhagen Phyllis Shultz and Matt Gromet Yossi & Mariashi Groner Deidre and Clay Grubb Elizabeth Ren and Michael Grunwald Anna Gunsher Bonnie Hart Stephanie Haynes Richard (OBM) and Barbara Herd Ted and M.E. Hessberg Steven and Sharon Hockfield Vicki Hopkins Joel Horwich Christy and Andy Horwitz Jonathan M. Howard Jodie, Michael, Elyssa & Alex Iagnocco Robert and Linda Isser Donald L. and Susan Sachs Jacobs David Jacobson

without affecting current disposable income or lifestyles. Already, local Jewish organizations have received over $2.5 million in legacy gifts which have been realized. If you are interested in learning how to create your own Jewish legacy, please contact your favorite Jewish agency, Phil Warshauer or Nancy Kipnis.

Jake Jacobson Robert and Leola (OBM) Jacobson Florence Kaufman Jaffa Sol (OBM) and Janet (OBM) Jaffa Brian and Raizel Kahn Alyson Kalik Ronald and Mary-Margaret Kantor Morton and Mary Kaplan Dana and Andrew Kapustin Andrew and Susan Karp Barbara and Alan Katz Kenneth & Kimberly Katz and Family Nancy and Robert Kipnis Joan Kirschner Paula and Richard Klein Robert and Moira Quinn Klein Lorrie and Barry Klemons and Family Elise and Jaime Kosofsky Lee and Sheila (OBM) Kritzer Cary Berstein and Alan Kronovet Sara and Jonathan Kulbersh Anita Strauss-LaRowe and Bruce LaRowe David A. Lash Jack (OBM) and Carole Lash Gladys (OBM) Lavitan Judy and Eric Laxer Dale Lederer Janet and David Lefkowitz Alison and Mark Lerner Eric and Susan Lerner Gary and Donna Lerner Harry and Gloria Lerner Barbara and Jerry Levin Binyamin and Ilana Levin David and Brenda Levin and Family Donna (OBM) and Norman Levin and Family Ross C. Levin Alvin (OBM) and Helene Levine Elissa and Joshua Levine Howard and Julie Lerner Levine Leon and Sandra Levine Miles and Debra Levine Sol (OBM) Levine Ellis Levinson Eric Levinson Gary and Janie Levinson Holly and Hal Levinson Jack and Alison Levinson Lisa Strause Levinson Sam and Linda Levy Laura and Marc Lewin Robert and Inta Lidz Andrew and Gwendolyn Lindner Marshall (OBM) and Faylinda Lindner Jill and Marc Lipson Don and Ellice Liss Ron and Frances Liss Sue and Michael Littauer Joshua & Adina Loewensteiner Annie and Harrison Lord Meg D. Goldstein and Matthew Luftglass Isaac and Sonia (OBM) Luski Rose (OBM) and Abe (OBM) Luski Audrey Madans Karen and Gary Maniloff Family Linda McLendon Peggy McManus Michael (OBM) Meiselman The Meiselman Family Elise Menaker Polly and Steve Menaker Scott and Pamela Menaker

Janie and Gene Meyers Laura Milgrim Risa and David Miller Staci and Darren Mond Jennifer Monroe Yosef and Helen Moshfegh Elsa and Martin Multer Margaret Musa Paula Sigal Musler Bruce and Candace Naliboff Leah M. Naliboff Elizabeth and Jeremy Naman Edwin and Jill Newman Larry and Carole Nicholson Michael and Judith Norman Eva Nove Gwen and Paul Orland Andrew T. Osborne Gale Osborne Richard J. Osborne Victor (OBM) and Evelyn (OBM) Osborne Nadine and Arthur Oudmayer Marcelle and Allan Oxman Brenda and Floyd Patten Cyndee Patterson Harriet and Mark Perlin Diggie and Lee Pesakoff Wendy and Adam Petricoff Stephen and Laura Philipson Rachel and Darren Pierce Debora and Ed Pizer Milton and Gene Ruth Poler Larry and Dale Polsky William and Debra Porter Baila and John (OBM) Pransky Jason and Casey Pressberg Michael and Cheryl Rabinowtiz Dena and Michael Raffler Karen and David Ransenberg Steven and Melissa Raphael Alan and Jan Raznick Tonda and Mitchell Rifkin Julie and Scott Rizzo Albert Rogat Wendy and Sandy Rose Andrew and Jennifer Rosen Eliot and Shirley Rosen Estelle and Murray (OBM) Rosen Wendy and Frank Rosen Karen and David Rosenthal Family Anita Rounds Ilya and Chantal Rubin Dan and Toby Ruda Leon Rutman Neil (OBM) and Caren Sacks Mark Sahn (OBM) Fern T. Sanderson Neil (OBM) and Carol Sandler Susan and Bernie Sandler Gerry and Barbara Schapiro Michael Scharf Marty and Elaine Schefflin Mike (OBM) and Sara Schreibman Renee and Philip Schreibman Chris & Jon Schuller Larry Schwartz Albert (OBM) and Dorothy (OBM) Segal Melvin Segal Howard and Andrea Seidler Linda C. Seigel Amy Jill Seitlin Bobby and Stacey Selkin Daisy Shapiro-Rieke / Julie Irma Shapiro Morey and Lynne Sheffer

Allen Sherman and Suzy Savod Lisa and Fred Shporer Raenea Siegel Marc and Mattye Silverman Ruth Silverman Gary and Maxine (OBM) Silverstein Jonathan and Stephanie Simon Marcia and Paul Simon Anne and Mike Sinsheimer Lori and Eric Sklut Leonard (OBM) and Ann (OBM) Slesinger Ira and Stacey Slomka Ruth Ann and Tom Smith Steve and Emily Snyder Marcia Solomon Phil Solomon Harry and Laurie Sparks Bob and Carol Speizman Sheldon and Randy Sperling Sophie Spolender (OBM) Philip and Lauren Stark Stephanie and Steven Starr Robert and Maxine Stein Norman Steinberger Joseph and Renee Steiner Ken & Marcia Stern Liam G. Stokes and Betsy Rosen Sam (OBM) and Alene (OBM) Strause Irving and Sylvia Swartz Marilyn and Harry Swimmer Emery and Jacqueline Szabo Mike and Andie Taylor Beverly Tirsun Cheri and Marc Titlebaum Patty Torcellini Julianna and Thomas Toth Stephanie Townsend Natalie and Mike (OBM) Tunney Eleanor and Morton (OBM) Turk Jeffrey and Karen Turk Harold and Cynthia Turtletaub Amy and Ross Udoff Robert and Ellie Valenstein Fred and Katie Valfer David and Debra Van Glish Judie and Michael Van Glish Amy and Mark Vitner Liz Wahls Maor and Amy Waizman Phil and Beth Warshauer Janice and Ronald Weiner Alexander Weinstein Mark Weintraub Anne and Michael Weiss Evan and Debby Weiss Susan and Robert Weiss Elizabeth Star Winer Mort Wise Eric and Joanna Wisotsky Marc and Kim Wojnowich Mary and Simon (OBM) Wojnowich Nora Wolf Robert and Sandra Wolf Kim and Sue Worrel Michael and Nancy Yaffe Scott M. and Lisa Braverman Yarbrough Martha and Brian Yesowitch Robert (OBM) and Anne Yudell Marisa and Joe Zeibert Herman and Barbara Ziegler Emily and Samuel Zimmern William and Angela Zimmern Mildred Zuckerman (OBM)

This list is not all inclusive. We know there are individuals and families who have created Jewish legacies but have not chosen to make their plans public. We thank them as well.

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Lessons from a Virtual Jew By Rabbi Chanoch Oppenheim, Charlotte Torah Center These past few months have presented us all with challenges without a preexisting model of how to deal with them – especially the isolation and anxiety resulting from it. This has been especially difficult for people living alone. At the CTC, we have addressed this (with the help of Zoom) by offering multiple opportunities to learn and socially connect; the response has been so positive that even people who left Charlotte years ago are reconnecting. We even have our daily minyan – virtually. In addition to allowing us to connect it grants us the opportunity to pray for people in the greater Charlotte community who have been stricken with coronavirus. But perhaps amidst the upheaval, there is a silver lining in the lessons COVID-19 has imparted; here are three. 1 - Humility. With the many technological miracles occurring

at the beginning of the 21st century – AI, mapping of the genome, genetic engineering, quantum computers – we cannot control an invisible enemy, a microscopic virus. We are forced to confront the fact that we are not in control, which is the first step in being humble. The Torah warns us not to think “my strength and the work of my hands produced this wealth” (Deuteronomy 8:17). Humans are not the ultimate source of power; there is a superior authority beyond us. Coronavirus has taught us to temper our pride and sense of empowerment. 2 - Kindness. We are being asked to shut down our lives, isolate ourselves in our homes, and seclude ourselves with our families, and for many to be totally alone, in order to save others’ lives. We are being asked to put our personal (and in many cases financial) freedom aside for the sake of others. Yes, if we socialize there is a danger to ourselves,

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however, we understand that the real danger is to older people and those whose immune system is compromised. And indeed, some people across the world are pushing back, asking, “What about the economy?” The economy is a concern, but as Jews we march to the beat of a different drum: Jewish values call on us to isolate ourselves, otherwise the elderly and others with health issues will be in grave danger. The lives of all people in our society come first. As this crisis begins to abate, we will have learned that all of humanity is required to be responsible for one other, because we can no longer say that a virus on the other side of the world is not my problem. We also need to remember that as Jews we have a delicate balance of having a global consciousness and caring, while remembering that we also need to keep our distinctly Jewish values, the values around which

our communities stand. An example of this is the absolute value of human life, which cannot be compromised. Upholding our values sometimes calls for us to maintain boundaries and remain distinct from the rest of world. 3 - Isolation. The Torah speaks about a unique disease that only existed thousands of years ago called tzarat. If a person contracted it, he was sent out of the camp, like a leper, for a minimum of one week. The Talmud recommends that while one is in isolation, he should use the time to think about his interpersonal relationships: the family, friends, and business associates in his circle when he is not isolated. Does (s)he speak negatively of others (lashon hara); does (s)he honor all people and treat them with dignity or only his superiors or others he wants something from? Isolation can teach us to reflect on how to have positive and constructive social

interactions and avoid the negative and destructive ones. Eventually this will end and, somewhere down the road, life will return to normal. This is the time to ask ourselves, will this plague lead me to rethink some of my behaviors – to see things from a new perspective? If we internalize the message that we are not in control, it allows us to make room in our lives to let the Almighty in. If we learned the lesson that we should put others’ needs before our own, even if it causes us inconvenience or discomfort, our relationships will be more real and allow us to feel safe and make sure others do too.Y

Jewish Family Services Jewish Family Services Continues Its Impact on the Community

As states begin easing lockdown restrictions, graduates attend virtual commencements, and restaurants figure out how exactly to get back to business, JFS marches on with business, almost as usual. Usual in the sense that while our programs and services are being delivered in a different way, they are still being delivered. Adults, children, and families alike are consistently receiving services, without much interruption. Well, there is a bit of a learning curve with Zoom technology, but all seem to be adapting. It has been through the commitment, tireless efforts, and ingenuity of our staff, board, volunteers, and you, our community, that we are able to continue to provide for our pantry clients, continue to outreach to seniors and Holocaust survivors and host online workshops that assist in coping with the new norms. And as the latest research indicates a tripling in mental health disorders vs. pre-pandemic times, JFS has also been able to continue providing therapy services. Every day we hear heart-warming stories from staff and volunteers about the services we are providing, so we thought we would share a few with you. Online Workshops – In a recent Triple P Positive Parenting elementary age group workshop, participants were discussing the challenges associated with creating structure in their homes, maintaining schedules and getting their children to do chores. Alexis, the JFS Child and Adolescent Therapist, shared the science behind setting routines and the role it plays in creating compliance with children this age. Participants began collectively brainstorming and exchanging ideas. One mom with younger children said she was going to

create a routine chart with pictures. By the end of the workshop two moms exchanged contact information so they could support each other outside of the call. The workshop provided a platform for sharing much needed information and allowed these two moms to feel more empowered. Counseling – Online therapy is allowing clients to process and cope with the many changes and challenges. Recently, one client, who is working from home, shared that her elderly parent had been diagnosed with COVID-19. The constant worry, sleepless nights, and intense anxiety were so strong it was preventing her from getting her work done. Through her session, her therapist helped her work on techniques to manage unhelpful thinking patterns, especially surrounding the possible death of her parent. She also suggested several strategies to bring a sense of calm back into her life, including creating a daily routine, practicing deep breathing exercises, journaling, and the downloading of a mindfulness app. With the advice of her therapist she is now able to manage her anxiety and cope better with the stress of her parent’s illness. Senior Outreach/Food Pantry Client – Seniors are hardest hit when it comes to feeling isolated. Recently, one of our 76 year-old clients who lives alone, emailed JFS to share his appreciation for everything we have done. Even during the pandemic, he receives a volunteer visitor call each week to check in and see how he is doing. They talk about the weather, how he is feeling, what he is doing to occupy his time, news of his family and share a good joke. Every other week, a pantry volunteer brings him prepared meals with his personalized order and fresh produce from the Shalom Park garden. He said “JFS is my

lifeline.” Volunteering – Being asked to socially distance and stay at home is a tall order, especially for long-time JFS volunteer, Fred Shporer, a man always on the go who never says no. And while the list of his contributions throughout the years is exhaustive, we shine a light on his giving over these past few weeks. From picking up bagels at Poppy’s so our food pantry clients don’t go without, to delivering food to an isolated senior who lives far away, to loading up carts of food during food drives, Fred, who feels fortunate to have what he has, considers it his duty and honor to give back. “I give from my heart because I know that many are not as lucky as I am,” Shporer said. “I give to JFS, because the people who work there are so kind. Every time I walk through those doors, I feel so much love – I feel included and to be a part of this wonderful place brings me to another level.” Thanks to a grant from the JewishCharlotte Emergency Relief Fund JFS is able to provide these services that are impacting our community. Need assistance? Contact JFS at 704-364-6594 or info@jfscharlotte.org. JFS can help.Y

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Temple Israel Welcomes New Executive Director

YOUTH JOIN TI YOUTH GROUPS THIS SUMMER FOR SOME ENGAGING VIRTUAL PROGRAMS! Cooking/Baking - Mondays at 4:30 p.m. (3rd-12th grade) https://zoom.us/j/92020946969 Activity and Crafts - Thursdays at 4:30 p.m. (3rd-12th grade) https://zoom.us/j/93691137415 Ir Ha-Malka USY Hangout - Sundays, 4:30 p.m. (rising 9th-12th grades only) https://zoom.us/j/92527480677 LIFELONG LEARNING LUNCH N’ LEARN WITH RABBI SIEGEL Thursday, June 11, 12 Noon - “Thoughts on A Year in Charlotte: Part 2” Thursday, June 18, 12 Noon - “What’s on Your Mind: A Town Hall Farewell to Rabbi Siegel” Don’t miss Rabbi Howard Siegel’s final Lunch N’ Learn sessions of the year! Not only will you be able to hear more reflections on his year in Charlotte, but you will also have the chance to tap in on his wisdom as he opens the door to your questions. https://zoom.us/j/98433500306 THOSE FUNNY RABBIS - THE CRAZIEST TALES FROM THE TALMUD Wednesday, July 15, 8 p.m. – Location: TBD GETTING READY FOR TISHA B’AV Monday, July 27, 8 p.m. – Location: TBD Join Senior Rabbi Michael Wolk for his first classes at Temple Israel. Location information will be announced closer to the dates.

Temple Israel is pleased to welcome Tayuanee L. Dewberry as Temple Israel’s new Executive Director, effective June 1, 2020. Tayuanee has served as the Executive Director of Right Moves for Youth, a nonprofit student support and youth development program in Charlotte, NC for more than 15 years. A champion for operational excellence, Tayuanee led RMFY to transformational growth and fiscal stability. Along with a passion for empowering others, Tayuanee is committed to continual growth and learning for herself. She was a member of the inaugural cohort of Women’s Leadership Corp, a professional development program offered in conjunction with Flynn Heath Holt Leadership. She also completed Leadership Gift School, a year-long professional development training for non-profit leaders offered by the Institute for Philanthropic Leadership, to enhance the cultivation of philanthropic giving and fund development for organizations. Tayuanee has served as vice-chair, and later the chair, of the United Way of Central Carolinas Council of Agency Executives (CAE), and has served on the leadership team for the Mecklenburg County Children’s Alliance. She is a 2016 recipient of the Z. Smith Reynold’s Sabbatical, a prestigious honor awarded to non-profit executives with a track record of phenomenal leadership, strategic planning and non-profit vision, and organizational growth. Tayuanee earned a Bachelor’s Degree in Business Administration, and a Master of Arts in Counseling, with an Education Specialist certification, from GardnerWebb University. In October 2017, Tayuanee was inducted into Gardner-Webb University’s “Gallery of Distinguished Graduates.” She is also a Nationally Certified Counselor (NCC), and Licensed Clinical Mental Health Counselor (LCMHC) in North Carolina. Tayuanee is the mother of two boys, Jeremiah and Tremayne. She has always been a scholar-athlete through high school and collegiate basketball. She is an avid runner and skilled musician.

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Rabbi Michael Wolk Beginning July 1, 2020

SPECIAL EVENTS MIXING WITH MISHPACHA Thursday, June 4, 11 a.m. Thursday, June 25, 11 a.m. Don’t miss this fun and engaging baking class led by (WoTI President) Karen Knoble and her daughter, Anna, and learn to bake something delicious while celebrating of our Judaism. The featured recipe and its ingredients will be made available within a week of each event. https://zoom.us/j/92710217259 TEMPLE ISRAEL BOOK CLUB MEETING Wednesday, June 17, 7 p.m. Location: TBD Join us as we discuss Michael David Lukas’ novel The Last Watchman of Old Cairo, winner of the National Jewish Book Award (2018 – Fiction), The Sami Rohr Prize for Jewish Literature and numerous additional accolades. Everyone is welcome to attend whether or not you have read the book. For additional information contact Linda Levy (704-366-6362 or levyollie@aol.com).

Rabbi Michael & Heidi Wolk, along with daughters Julia Louise (age 1) and Klara Rose (age 3.5)

EREV TISHA B’AV Service Wednesday, July 29, 9 p.m. Location: TBD

“Abandoned sits the city, that was once filled with people” (Lamentations 1:1) Join us this evening for an opportunity to come together and mourn over the destruction of our present-day temples that are now sitting empty. *Tisha B’Av services on Thursday morning, July 30, will take place at 7:30 a.m., location: TBD.

EDUCATING AND INSPIRING FUTURE JEWISH LEADERS

Registration for Temple Israel Religious School’s 2020-2021 school year is currently underway. Classes meet on Sunday mornings (9:30 a.m. -12 p.m.). Additionally, students in grades 3-7 will choose one weekday session to attend (Tuesday, from 4:45-6:15 p.m. or Wednesday, from 5:15-6:45 p.m.). NEW THIS YEAR: Register online at templeisraelnc.org *We offer a multi-child discount of $75 per child (after your first child). This amount will be deducted from your tuition IF REGISTRATION IS RECEIVED BY THE DEADLINE (JUNE 30, 2020). Any registrations received after July 31, 2020, will not receive the discount.

JOIN US Are you interested in becoming part of a really amazing community? We invite you to experience Temple Israel. For singles and couples, young and old, students and families, for those seeking religious knowledge, for those seeking kindred spirits, for fun and a true celebration of all that it means to be Jewish, there is something here for you. Temple Israel’s 2020-2021 Annual Commitment campaign has commenced! NEW MEMBER REFERRAL PROGRAM: If you refer a friend or family member to Temple Israel, you and your referral will get a one-time $250 credit off of Standard commitment rates* to be deducted from your balance at the end of your payment cycle. NEW THIS YEAR: Register or Renew online at templeisraelnc.org To learn more about Temple Israel and membership opportunities, please contact Erin Goldstein at 704-362-2796 or egoldstein@templeisraelnc.org. *If you are contributing less than a Standard commitment level, you will receive a 15% credit off your total commitment balance - up to a maximum of $250.

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JFS Monthly Volunteers and Donors Month of April 2020 With such unusual times, how could we not be turned upside down and inside out with the uncertainty that surrounds us? Selfcare, disciplining ourselves to do the things that are necessary to maintain our own health and that of our families is vital. And yet, amidst all this chaos, our JFS volunteers seem to be pretty selfless in their giving. Listed below are the volunteers we know of that have helped us through these unusual times. From delivering food to isolated older adults, to making friendly visitor calls, serving on our board and so much more â&#x20AC;&#x201C; you are all very much appreciated. Volunteers: Gail Baron, Jeff Bierer Ana Bonheim, Bill Brightman, James Bryan, Suzy Catenazzo, Jonathan Collman, Andrea Cronson, Deena Cronson, Scott Cronson, Sheryl Effren, Maggie Fogel, Sara Freeman, Rob Friedman, Meredith Gartner, Neil Golub, Jennifer Golynsky, Stephanie Gitlin, Tair Giudice, Brooks Jaffa, Sara Kulbersh, Marcia Lampert, Alison Lerner, Eric Lerner, Adam Levy, Kim Levy, Matt Luftglass, Bobbie Mabe, Samantha Meighan, Yotam Mosinzon, Frada Mozenter, Melissa Reman, Harry Rubenstein, Fred Shporer, Louis Sinkoe, Mason Sklut, Gail Vogel, Jan Weiner, Nora Wolf

Food Pantry Donations: In addition there has been a small army of people who have been committed to ensuring that our JFS Food Pantry clients continue to get what they need. Each food pantry community drop-off has been more successful than the one before; complete with people who have brought food, essential items, prepared meals and more. We even had one volunteer/family host a community food drive in their own neighborhood. Sadly, we did not capture all of your names. But you know who you are! Because of all of you JFS has been able to help hundreds of Charlotteans get through this pandemic. Thank you does not seem adequate enough for all of your support. You Rock.Y

Donations to Jewish Family Services in April 2020 IN MEMORY OF Judy Biber to Daniel Biber from Jennifer Cohen Golynsky The mother of Marla Brodsky from Myron and Lynn Slutsky Hy Bruck to Susan Bruck from Paul and Lynn Edelstein, Phil and Marci Goldberg, Shelton and Ellen Goldstein, Gary Silverstein, Michael and Judie Van Glish Poli Cohen to Joel Cohen from Stuart and Carolyn Hennes Alvin Goodman to Rachel Davis from Paul and Lynn Edelstein, Shelton and Ellen Goldstein, Leonard and Karen Fox

Richard Herd to Barbara Herd and Tonya Meltsner from Paul and Lynn Edelstein, Leonard and Karen Fox, Shelton and Elle Goldstein, Michael and Judie Van Glish, Phil and Marci Goldberg Marie Cox to Claire Krusch from Leonard and Karen Fox George Wurzel to Laura Wurzel from Jeffery and Marcia Gleiberman, Lawrence and Sheila Margolis IN APPRECIATION OF Susan Jacobs from Jillian Bockenek

HAPPY BIRTHDAY TO Eric Lerner from Paul and Lynn Edelstein GLAD YOU HAD A SPEEDY RECOVERY Marvin and Anita Shapiro from Floyd and Brenda Patten WISHING A FULL AND SPEEDY RECOVERY TO Florie Gusman to Berta Straz from Allan and Marcelle OxmanY

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How Frankfurt Has Handled the Holocaust Since 1980 Projekt Judisches Leben Frankfurt am Main By Joe Freiberg Since 1980, the City of Frankfurt am Main has organized a visitor program for former Jewish citizens of Frankfurt and those who were politically or religiously persecuted during National Socialism. Over 3,500 interested persons from all over the world have already participated in these events. In 1994, my mother (Minna Lewin Freiberg), who was born in Germany, was invited and attended Projekt Judishes Leben Frankfurt as a first-generation Frankfurter. I applied to attend this program along with all four of my children. This past summer my daughter, Dara Beth, and I received invitations and spent a wonderful week in Germany. This generous and heartwarming experience began the first night with a get-together and information session before dinner. Our group of 32 included some first-generation but mostly second- and third-generation Frankfurters. As we talked about our expectations, a fairly common remark was made that survivors, parents, and grandparents did not want to talk about their experiences. We all brought our family’s stories while the first-generation members, some reluctantly, shared theirs. Our group unanimously wished we had asked our late family members more questions.

Memorial to the Borneplatz Synagogue where the Frieberg family attended.

The members of the association Projekt Judisches Leben in Frankfurt help the visitors to trace their families’ roots as well as organize school talks with students. Our itinerary included a guided city tour, a welcome reception hosted by the Jewish Mayor (Peter Feldmann), a visit to the Philanthropin School (which my mother attended as a student), the Jewish Lane Museum and Old Jewish Cemetery, and the East End High-Rise Bunker. There were many optional opportunities such as Shabbat services at local synagogues, a night at the opera or theatre, and interacting with high school students at many different area schools. During our free time, my daughter and I visited several

places that linked directly to our heritage. We went to the location of my grandfather’s tailor shop (Efroim Lewin married to Cypora), the hospital where my mother was born, and the area where her home and synagogue had been. We also visited my father’s (Alfred “Al” Freiberg) hometown of Winnweiler. While there, we met Sven Bischoff at the Bischoff Brewery. He is the grandson of the family that helped liberate my father out of Dachau and his family out of Germany. Meeting Sven was a highlight of this day. While exploring outside of Frankfurt, and as much as I did not want to,

Sven Bischoff with Joe Freiberg at the Bischoff Brewery.

I felt I needed to go to Dachau. It was a very cold and emotional experience. The museum there was very informative. We met David and Becky Hirsch on the first night and

L-R: David Hirsch, Dara Beth, Angelika Rieber, Joe Freiberg, and Becky Hirsch.

bonded with them, as they too were a father-daughter pair as well as second- and third-generation guests. We spent Father’s Day on a cruise down the Rhein River and they are our now lifelong friends. We want to recognize and thank the City of Frankfurt and the program staff and guides for making our trip so memorable. We also want to single out Angelika Rieber (Chair of the Associaion Projekt Judisches Leben in Frankfurt) who went out of her way to make sure we were able to connect to our roots. Since meeting on our trip, Angelika has become another lifelong friend. A resolution of the Frankfurt City Parliament provided that

the children and grandchildren of former Frankfurt citizens should also be invited to visit their parent’s native town. Every year the Mayor invites on behalf of the municipality and the city council about 25 guests and a companion to a weekly visit to the former native town of your parents or grandparents. The city assumes the cost of your flight, hotel accommodations with daily breakfast, receptions with interesting opportunities for contact and cultural events, a rover ticket for local public transportation on the S-Bahn, Underground, trams, and buses, and admission tickets to the Palmengarten, the Senckenberg Museum, the zoo as well as a Museum Embarkment-Ticket. Were your parents or grandparents obliged to leave Frankfurt during the Nazi regime? Would you like to see the native town of your parents or grandparents and find out more about Frankfurt today? Contact: Judisches Besuchsprogramm, Hauptamt und Stadtmarketing, Romerberg 23, 60311 Frankfurt am Main; http:// www.juedisches-leben-frankfurt. de/ If your direct family roots were in Frankfurt before and during the Nazi-regime, this program could be an important step in your uncovering of your family’s history and roots.Y

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Moishe House Launches World’s Largest Virtual Color War

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Creating Community and Connection for Young Adults During Quarantine Moishe House’s “Expedition Nai” invited teams to engage in month-long creative socially distanced challenges instead of coming together at annual, in-person Camp Nai Nai Nai. With communities worldwide largely under quarantine, Moishe House pivoted its focus from in-person immersive Jewish experiences to a completely interactive, online expedition, providing people a creative outlet to come together from their own homes. Launched as a month-long reimagined summer camp experience, “Expedition Nai” has become the world’s largest virtual color war, as daily, more individuals and teams join the ongoing adventure. Almost 800 players from 191 cities in 28 countries have accepted the challenge, submitting more than 2,500 videos and images in response to weekly prompts posted online. As participants lip sync “Summer Loving,” count the Omer, turn boxers into face masks, and give their pets makeovers, weekly highlight reels featured teams’ submitted challenges thus far. “Color war is a quintessential part of summer camp that builds community and brings people together in friendly competition,” said Camp Nai Nai Nai Director, Lisa Klig. “Expedition Nai’s challenges were designed to be inclusive, accessible and to generate creativity, an opportunity to engage in Jewish identity, and a sense of relief from the day-today experience of quarantine. We look forward to seeing more people join us in what has become a shared experience during a time none of us will soon forget.” Expedition Nai is named after Camp Nai Nai Nai, Moishe House’s annual Jewish summer camp for young adults. After hosting two sold-out camps in 2019, Camp Nai Nai Nai was set to host three summer camps for adults this year. Camp East, the first and largest of the three, was scheduled to host over 300 adults in their 20s and 30s over Memorial Day Weekend. Unable to continue with in-person programming due to the COVID-19 pandemic, Moishe House acted quickly to create an alternative opportunity for people from around the world to come together in the spirit of Jewish summer camp. The Midwest and West Coast camps are slated for the fall. Inspired by “challenges” announced each Friday, participants would vie for points and prizes by spontaneously singing songs with neighbors from across the street, making music videos, recreating science experiments, and cele-

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brating Jewish traditions. New participants could start playing at any point and could join as individuals or teams of up to five people. Each week, Camp Nai Nai Nai announces the winners of $50100 prizes based on points earned for submitting responses to challenges. Additionally, Week One paper plate awards honoring creativity in the style of those awarded at camp were presented via a video compiling winners’ submissions. A pop tart chef won cookbooks, a tailor team that turned a skirt and top into Mickey Mouse ears took home an Etsy gift card, and the Hive Golden Five turned Passover leftovers into matzah croutons, leading to earning a $100 gift card to a local restaurant of the winner’s choice. The competition culminated May 22 as all teams were invited to join a global gathering. The best of the expedition were celebrated, and the team earning the most points was announced as the grand prize winner, taking home the glory with $1,000 cash plus five $100 gift certificates to businesses local to their areas. Throughout the month, Expedition Nai offered additional opportunities to come together live with fellow participants. Those registered were invited to join daily “playshop” sessions – because there is no “work” at camp – with specialists on a variety of topics leading sessions on do-ityourself projects and Jewish engagement.

“More than anything right now, people need imaginative ways to be together and celebrate each other,” said Moishe House Founder and CEO David Cygielman. “Through our global network, Moishe House is committed to providing resources and activities that inspire Jewish community and build meaningful spaces for Jewish life, wherever that may be, and whatever is going on in the world around us. We encourage people of all ages to join Expedition Nai as a much-needed respite from our current reality. We look forward to continuing to showcase the unique ways our community is coming together at this unprecedented time.” Y

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