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xdkYaemuf olwdkYonf v,fuGif;xJodkY qif;oGm;MuNyD; aumufvIdif;rsm;udk ayGY,lMuonf/ aumufvIdif; yHkMum;rSa>rESifh rawGYygapESifh[k anmifyifBuD; qkawmif;rdao;onf/ rawmfírsm; a>rudkufvdkufvQif t½Sif BuD; tacsmif eHrnf&aeayOD;rnf/ vli,fESpfa,mufonf ewfuGef;ay:ü aumufvIdif;rsm;wifí a&eHqDrsm;yufavmif;NyD; rD;½IdUMuonf/ tcspfpdwfrTefaeolESifh r,m;pdwf'def;'vdef;yl;aeaom vli,fESpfa,mufudk t½SifBuD;vnf; wwfEdkif[efrwl/ rMumrDwGif t½SifBuD;ewfuGef;onf jymusoGm;avonf/ t½SifBuD;onfvnf; rD;aoG;wHk;jzpfoGm;½Smonf/ onfMum;xJ rqDrqdkifcHvdkuf&olum; anmifyifBuD;jzpfonf/ ykqdefESifhvnf; tckwfcH&onf/ yif&if; üaumuf½dk;yHkívnf; rD;½IdUcH&onf/ þum; 0w¬KxJu anmifyifBuD;\tjzpfwnf;/

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