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our heart. Weighing in at 10 ounces, this blood-filled muscle has become the universal symbol of love, and something yoga teachers refer to all the time in class, e.g. “Spin your heart skyward.” “Feel your heart center lift.” You probably don’t think about your heart often. I didn’t until I started practicing yoga. Then real yoga slapped me in the face—there is nothing quite like Camel pose, Wild Thing, or Upward-Facing Dog that turns your attention deep within the cave of your heart – connecting with your true self. I realized this little discovery in my body was having tremendous effects on my heart chakra. I started to find myself. Happily, the yoga couples featured in our cover story on page 11 found true love. You’ll enjoy their thoughts on how yoga nourishes their relationships and helps keep their bonds— and bodies—strong. Speaking of couples, have you ever marveled at the talented pairs in AcroYoga, a combination of Cirque du Soleil-like acrobats and partner yoga? Jason Nemer and Jenny Sauer-Klei founded AcroYoga in 2003 in the San Francisco Bay area, and it’s made its way to Iowa (page 5). All that is needed is a mat and two people who are ready to trust each other with an Become the person open heart. you were meant to be, The article about self-love light your inner fire on page 10 is a good reminder and follow your for all of us. The ability to love, honor, and care for yourself is a most important foundation to all –Leon Brown of your relationships. An open heart not only improves the quality of your relationships, but also supports learning to embrace and love yourself. There is so much more in this issue I hope will inspire, inform, and empower you to improve the quality of your relationships. As the song goes, love is a many-splendored thing. Let the magic of your heart guide you towards love, joy, and happiness throughout the new year. With gratitude,
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Evan & Kelly Harris of tapas yoga shala, Rock Island, IL. Photograph by Kirstin Pope.
Leaving chronic headaches and the corporate world behind, Lisa Acheson, RYT 500, has yoga to thank for her new life of ease. Lisa is a Level 3 Certified Adamantine® Yoga teacher, sharing this practice at the Santosha Yoga studio in Urbandale. Visit lisaachesonyoga.com. Val Brown, RYT 200, is a certified Relax & Renew restorative yoga teacher and the Social Media Manager for Maharishi Ayurveda Products International (mapi.com). She is pursuing an Ayurvedic Wellness Consultant Certification through Maharishi University. Val recently learned Transcendental Meditation, and looks forward to a lifetime of practice.
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Lisa Evans is a seeker inspired by Jnana Yoga, the yoga of knowledge. She discovered Hatha yoga in 1998 and later, meditation. Lisa earned her 200 RYT in May of 2012 and began deepening her understanding of the chakra system by becoming a Reiki Master Healer and Kundalini Yoga instructor.
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The Yoga of Trust BY TIFFANY THOMAS
wenty yogis stood in a circle in Tree pose with our hands placed on the shoulder blades of the strangers next to us. The instructor looked around the circle, taking time to make eye contact with each of us individually before asking, “What does it mean to hold the heart of the person next to you and to trust someone to hold yours?” From there, we were instructed to lean back and trust through connection. It was through this experience in my yoga journey I began to love connection through physical touch. Fast forward three months. I was moving onto the feet of a stranger in my home yoga studio’s lobby. I was flying, really flying! Flying with a stranger. I wanted down quickly. “I’ve got you,” he said. “Trust me.” So I did. I stayed. When it was time to come down, I wanted more. The “Acro bug” had bit me! I learned about myself. I learned I like to move quickly. I learned I can be easily frustrated, that I compare myself to others much too frequently. I learned to fall, and more importantly, to stand back up. AcroYoga provides the opportunity to let someone else both physically and emotionally move you. In the solar, or acrobatic, side of AcroYoga, it may be into a handstand on hands. It may mean completely letting go and releasing into the lunar, or therapeutic, side of flying within AcroYoga. You learn how to communicate, to push through fears, and how to take control by letting go. Perhaps most importantly, you learn how to be present with another person. Imagine the responsibility of holding someone up, of keeping him or her safe. In AcroYoga, the smallest class community has three members: flyer, base, and spotter. The flyer is the person in full expression of the pose; the base is the person at the bottom of the pose supporting the flyer; and the spotter may stand nearby or provide additional balance to the flyer to ensure safety. These three individuals work together to create a yoga of trust. AcroYoga is building quite a following in Iowa. It’s more common now to find a “jam,” which is an open practice in a studio, park, or event where AcroYogis gather to practice skills and build community. It’s amazing to watch students walk in the doors alone and walk out with a new community of friends. It’s a beautiful honor to
witness strangers practice acceptance for themselves and others, to laugh, and to love in a safe container. It’s a blessing to allow yourself the opportunity to fall and recognize that it’s a part of life we can’t avoid, figuratively and literally. “Trust me,” and so I did, so I have continued to do, and will continue to do so with every Acro enthusiast who offers me presence, compassionate communication, and trust.
where to find
At press time, the following instructors/studios offer AcroYoga classes and workshops:
• Lovar Davis Kidd – Cedar Rapids/Iowa City • Joy Mozena – Johnston • PowerLife Yoga – various locations in the Des Moines metro
• Mandy Ryle – Omaha • Tiffany Thomas – Pop Up yoga and various studios in the Des Moines metro
Flyer Brent Aronsen in Front Bird, featuring Matthew Henry as base
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Below: Flyer Brent Aronsen in Free Star, featuring Matthew Henry as base and spotter Chris Rauch
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Stillness: The Heart of Yoga BY JEFF WRIGHT
hysical yoga is a powerful and somewhat amoral system. That is a shocking pronouncement, but truly, most of what happens in the yoga studio has little to do with the art of relationship. Asanas definitely cultivate fitness and good health, but good health usually includes a strong libido, and there is little in the poses that wisely manage our interests. There is nothing directly applicable to romance or any other sort of joyous rapport. Therefore, to meet our hopes for relationship, we should look further into the greater, more comprehensive yoga package. And there we find, protruding like a chunk of bedrock, the abiding practice of sitting in stillness. Everything we do in yoga should be in support of that practice. Fitness, healing, the balancing of vigor and relaxation, an aphrodisiac even, are all secondary benefits. Side effects, you might say. The essential purpose—the heart of yoga—is no more and no less than calm, alert stillness. Out of that stillness, mainly of body but also of thought, feelings of appreciation arise quite insistently and spontaneously. In stillness, we witness the miracle of the ordinary. Appreciation becomes affection, affection becomes gratitude, and with gratitude comes a genuine impulse to serve. None of this needs to be driven and directed cognitively. It just happens. Always. Patanjali said it That said, sitting still of in the all-defining muscle and mind, simple as it is, is often frustratingly second sutra of difficult, and then we rummage his Yoga Sutras, for help in our kit of asanas, pranayamas, bandhas, mudras, therapies, visualizations, affirmations, good deeds, diets, dharma talks, chants, altars, mantras, malas, and prayers. All, in the end, are to the benefit of our stillness. Visit the Way of Stillness Patanjali said it in the all-defining (wayofstillness.com) to learn second sutra of his Yoga Sutras, about Wright’s weekly event, the “Yoga is the stilling of thoughts.” Way of Stillness Sitting Group in Therefore, what we call love is Platteville, Wisconsin, and other not so much a feeling as an action, happenings, as well as his books the action of spontaneous service. and collected writings. It may be petting the good old dog, rescuing the hornet in the window, cleaning the bathroom for the family, or kicking back in a lounge chair with a cup of hot coffee and a good novel. (Yes, the impulse to serve ourselves is completely legitimate here.) And it may be love-generated, appropriate and wonderful, physical intimacy with someone. Or it may be no physical intimacy with anyone. True service/love has no duty, no definition, no expectation, no requirement. Stillness often brings forth the impulse of kindness for the diligent sitter, exposing it as the soft, imperishable fabric of existence itself. Sitting in stillness nurtures the insight quite reliably and becomes the most trusted guide in any fulfilling relationship. As our talking brains rest, our hearts take action. Of course, such loving connection can also arise regardless of any particular sort of effort we might make, but if you wish to move deliberately in that direction, sit erect and motionless often for a goodly amount of time, and, when possible, with others because stillness breeds stillness. Sit still, find love. That is the heart of yoga.
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“Yoga is the stilling of thoughts.”
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New Routines, New You
YOUR PRACTICE IN 2016
BOOST IMMUNITY THE AYURVEDIC WAY BY VAL BROWN AND RENEE POSNER Beej-bhumi, the immunity principle in Sanskrit, means “seed and land.” As a farmer prepares the land, so his seeds will grow. Likewise, we prepare our bodies through our habits, diet, and routine, creating the environment for a balanced lifestyle. Begin your day the Ayurvedic way with dinacharya, or Ayurvedic morning routine, to balance your body and control ama, the toxic by-product of inefficient digestion and metabolism. This will boost immunity and help avert the symptoms of imbalance.
Ayurvedic Morning Routine 1. Wake up with the rising sun.
2. Take care of bowel and bladder needs, but don’t strain. 3. Wash your face. 4. Brush your teeth and scrape your tongue. If you have ever noticed a film or coating on your tongue in the morning, your body may have a buildup of ama that can compromise your digestive and immune systems. Tongue scraping removes ama before it gets reabsorbed by your body. Place a silver (which has antibacterial properties) tongue cleaner as far back on your tongue as comfortable. Gently yet firmly, scrape the entire surface from back to front. Rinse and repeat 3-5 times. 5. Garshana is a self-massage, done with textured, raw silk gloves, that helps remove ama and creates movement in the lymphatic system. Start with dry, clean skin. While wearing the gloves, apply medium-firm pressure and vigorously massage back and forth over the long bones and in circular movements over the joint areas. Avoid massaging over the heart and breasts. It takes less than five minutes!
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6. This is a good time to drink a cup of warm water. 7. Abhyanga, or warm oil self-massage, goes a long way toward soothing the entire nervous system and emotions. This powerful tool, utilized before or after a shower, has healing qualities, including increased circulation, stimulation of nerve endings, and removal of toxins from the body. After the oil is applied to your skin, it’s best to wait 10-15 minutes for it to penetrate. If you don’t have this much time, it’s OK to jump into the shower. Use the time in the shower to try step 8! 8. Oral oil-pulling: use sesame or coconut oil to detoxify or “pull” toxins. This simple routine involves swishing the oil in your mouth, side-to-side and through your teeth (not gargling). Use one tablespoon of oil in your mouth for 2-20 minutes. 9. Bathe or shower. Use warm rather than hot water. 10 Perform asana and pranayama. Exercise helps to boost agni (digestive fire) and natural immunity, as well as calm the mind and body. 11 Practice Transcendental Meditation® for 20 minutes, or the technique of your choice. 12. Eat a light, well-cooked breakfast. A stewed apple or pear and/or warm cereal is ideal. 13. Then…work or school. You’re ready to take on the day! Take these recommendations one step at a time; don’t feel overwhelmed. And remember that each step in your daily routine prepares your body so that you may grow happy and healthy all year long!
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Living from the Heart
learning to Embrace your Inner Beat BY ANGELA SANDS How do you live from the heart? I’ve been practicing this way of living for several years and can tell you that it’s an ongoing process filled with trial and error. Sometimes it’s like walking through a dark room with your hands stretched out in front of you doing their best to feel their way around. It takes a healthy dose of curiosity, courage, and faith. Living from the heart has terrified me and led me to places I never imagined I would go. Today I find myself experiencing new levels of awe and wonder, and have arrived in a place where life has become an ever-unfolding gift full of surprises. For me, this is the greatest reward of living from the heart. It’s never boring. And, in my experience, my heart has never led me astray. My initiation into heart-centered living started with a fully ensconced mind. Oh, the mind! It’s a clever thing. Our minds are data centers that have been capturing and cataloging information since the day we were born. Our minds are as knowledgeable as the data that feeds it, so when it comes to designing a life, the mind prefers to work with what it already knows. It has a tendency to affirm itself over and over and to lead us into cycles of the ever-repeating known. This is safe and comfortable. It’s a good system for getting things done. However, it can drown out the voice of the heart. The mind’s voice is loud. The heart’s voice, at least for me, is very quiet. A few years ago, in a moment of stillness brought on by pure dysfunction, my heart got through to me. “Learn to meditate,” I heard it say. I scoffed at the idea. The voice was a whisper and it again urged me. “Learn to meditate.” Still scoffing, and with an added dose of self-righteous disdain, I googled the word “meditation” in order to prove that what I was hearing was indeed a ridiculous idea. It turns out that my heart was leading me to a tool that has completely transformed my life. The key for me was getting quiet. My dysfunction was a blessing in disguise. Without it I don’t know that I would have heard my heart leading me to what it knew I needed. Now that I meditate, I’m quiet every day on purpose. In that quiet I hear the voice of my heart and move my awareness from my mind, which is focused externally, to my heart, which is focused inward.
Inside is where wisdom lies. It’s where love and compassion come from, and it’s where inspiration ignites.
Inside is where wisdom lies. It’s where love and compassion come from, and it’s where inspiration ignites. It’s the place from which we can create an extraordinary life by making decisions that resonate with who we intend to be rather than being defined by our mind’s limited understanding. It’s the place where you feel your way through and, with practice, patience, and trust, prove to the mind that everything is going to be just fine.
Here are simple techniques to bring yourself back to peace and calm in your heart center, especially when you are in the midst of a stressful situation:
• Say a prayer or affirmation: Repeat a meaningful phrase such as, “all is well,” “this too shall pass,” or “let it go.”
• Feel your breaths: Focus your attention on your breath as you slowly
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breathe in and out of your nose. Count your breaths: Bring your focus to your breath as you count your breaths to 10. Close your eyes: Instantly regain a sense of balance and relaxation. Smile: Smiling releases endorphins that help you feel better. Slow down: Do one thing at a time a little slower than usual.
Your Body’s Definition
INSTEAD OF “FLIGHT OR FIGHT,” ENHANCE YOUR BODY’S INNATE ABILITY TO BE CALM AND CONNECT. BY TRACEY L. KELLEY Based on these successes, Fredrickson developed five primary guided mediations. “The meditations I’ve been testing are actually ancient, going back some 2,500 years,” she says. “So if you try out ‘loving-kindness meditation’ you can be assured that, like yoga, the benefits of the practice have been sharpened over centuries.” • Loving-Kindness: the ancient practice of metta bhavana, which is the method of developing compassion and cultivating love • Self-Love: overcome the challenges of sending love to yourself • Compassionate Love: bend your love into compassion for those who suffer • Celebratory Love: expand your love to share the joy of others’ good fortune • Loving All: stretch your love further still, excluding no one But how can you create a positive micro-moment right now? Fredrickson suggests simply taking time each day to reflect on connections. “Pausing on the moments in which you feel close and in tune is another way to develop an open heart and a healthy heart.”
Fredrickson’s site, Positivity Resonance (positivityresonance.com) outlines more concepts from Love 2.0, connects you with her Happify mobile app, provides access to her specialized meditation sequences, and offers resources for other meditations from whom she calls “true masters of LKM.” The PEP Lab (positiveemotions.org), studies people’s emotions, particularly their positive emotions, and how they affect thinking patterns, social behavior, health, and physiological reactions. It features a number of resources to help your quest of living a full and meaningful life.
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andy hearts and silly love songs manipulate one of your most powerful emotions: love. Barbara L. Fredrickson, PhD, is a psychological scientist and director of the PEP Lab at the University of North Carolina at Chapel Hill, and she doesn’t think of love simply as “romantic, exclusive, lasting, and unconditional.” She studies love within “cellular architecture,” the way your body responds to meaningful connection and how this allows you to develop better relationships on all levels. In her book, Love 2.0, Fredrickson explores love from a scientific perspective in order to strengthen your capacity to increase loving feelings from the inside out. There’s one key concept she wants you to remember: love is an emotion, not a status. “Emotions last just seconds or minutes, and are, by definition, embodied states that can quicken your heartbeat and kick off biochemical cascades,” she says. “Although you might define love as a bond or commitment, your body defines love as micromoments of positive emotional connection that you share with others. It is from an accumulation of such moments that bonds and commitments are built.” Fredrickson uses the concept of “positivity resonance” to describe these moments and their intensity. To understand this resonance, you first need to travel the path of your vagus nerve, also referred to as the 10th cranial nerve, or cranial nerve X. Vagus translates to “wandering,” and this nerve meanders through your entire body, triggering responses along the way. It starts in the medulla oblongata of your brain, which controls involuntary movements such as swallowing, breathing, and sneezing; moves through your throat; and encompasses multiple vital organs, including your heart, lungs, and intestines. The vagus monitors your body’s various sensations and responses, as well as emotional intuitions, and sends signals to your brain. It’s a conduit for your parasympathetic nervous system, helping to coordinate the “calm and connect” response. In her research, Fredrickson noticed that your vagal tone—a pattern established by measuring heart rate with breathing rate—determines astounding interconnectivity. The higher your vagal tone, the more likely you are to have lessened physical responses to external stressors, greater capacity for regulating emotions and attention, and increased occurrences of positivity resonance. It’s a simple loop. “Those who experienced the most frequent positivity resonance in connection with others showed the biggest increases in vagal tone,” she says. “Love literally made people healthier.” It’s difficult to personally assess your vagal tone unless you’re surrounded by scientists and hooked up to various sensors. Fortunately, you can continuously improve it, and increase your ability to experience positive connections. Fredrickson and her team find success with research participants who regularly practice lovingkindness meditation, or LKM. “In our studies, we learn that people who practice LKM experience more positive emotions throughout their day,” she says. “They also feel closer to and more ‘in tune’ with others. These emotional and social shifts have domino effects on people’s health. For example, we have seen improvements in cardiac health after just a few months of practice.”
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the importance of self-love BY GAIL HARDINGER-MCCARTHY Those famous song lyrics from The Beatles, “All you need is love,” have echoed through the years and have different meanings to various people. Regardless of what they represent to each of us, love is what connects us all into the oneness that we are. Our response to the world (as we perceive it) reflects our ability to give and receive love. Love is the very core essence of who we are. We are all deserving of it and are free to receive it without condition, guilt or fear. Any resistance to our worthiness of love comes from the illusion of our own fears. That which conquers fear is love. Love of anything begins with how we love ourselves. Are we quick to criticize and judge ourselves for our human imperfections and our unfulfilled expectations? Are we living in the past or in the “what will be next” mode, or can we feel gratitude for what we are experiencing in this very moment? Being mindful of how we treat ourselves is a priority with self-love. It can be as simple as paying attention to what our physical body is telling us: I am hungry. I am tired. I need a hug. Do we stop and respond to our physical needs or keep doing? By just pausing and taking a deep breath, we can allow ourselves to be, as we tune into what our body is trying to tell us. That is a gesture of self-love. Central Iowa Welcomes the
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Self-love is rooted in compassion. Compassion helps connect us with all aspects of ourselves and awakens gratitude for self and for others. Be mindful of judgment and replace it with compassion. That is a gesture of self-love. Take time every day to just be with yourself, such as practicing yoga, walking in nature, or pausing to re-center your energy to create an ongoing pattern of self-love. As we cultivate that love, it opens our heart chakra and helps us maintain more loving relationships with others and our environment. Take a moment right now to open your heart and mind. Send loving waves of gratitude to yourself as you fill every cell of your body with appreciation for all that you are by using the intention, “May I be happy and feel love.” That is a gesture of self-care and self-love. Yes, all we need is love. Love heals. Love restores. Love starts within, and love is the union that makes us all one.
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WE ASKED YOGA PRACTITIONERS, TEACHERS, AND PARTNERS ONE SIMPLE QUESTION: “HOW DO YOU FEEL YOGA ENHANCES YOUR RELATIONSHIP?” COUPLES PROVIDED INSIGHT REFLECTIVE OF THEIR INDIVIDUAL AND UNITED JOURNEYS. THEIR THOUGHTFUL REPLIES PROVE ONCE AGAIN HOW LOVE IS A BEAUTIFUL MYSTERY, DEFINED IN MYRIAD WAYS, BUT THE EXPERIENCE OF YOGA PROVIDES A FOUNDATION OF CONNECTED AWARENESS WITH EACH OTHER. PHOTOGRAPHY BY LORI JAYNE CARLSON, KIRSTIN POPE, AND MELISSA STUKENHOLTZ
BEVERLY WESTRA & JOEL SEVERINGHAUS TOGETHER 14 YEARS PRACTICE: MARY MCCARTHY, DES MOINES
We hardly spoke during that awkward partner class. But shortly after, we started dating, and married a year later.”
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“We met 15 years ago in the yoga class we still attend. One fateful night,our teacher Mary paired us by height for partner asanas. Until that moment, Bev was the quiet woman in the back row, and Joel was the divorced guy in front.
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EVAN & KELLY HARRIS
TOGETHER 16 YEARS PRACTICE: TAPAS YOGA SHALA, ROCK ISLAND
“Yoga is our longest and deepest-held shared interest and has led to travel, community, and career. In that way, it’s woven into our lives on every level and is our common language. But also, day by day, we’re fascinated with yoga as a tool for helping sift through life and cherish the best parts—learning about our own bodies, minds, boons, and blind spots.”
AMBER DAWN & MATT HAZEN TOGETHER 3 YEARS PRACTICE: HEAT YOGA, CEDAR RAPIDS
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“Practicing yoga together brings us back to each other in so many ways! Yoga was our first date together three years ago and gives us a chance to connect again. We both value quality time together, and
being able to share our practice allows us to be present, center ourselves, and enjoy something we both love!”
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MELISSA & ROLAND KANE
TOGETHER 18 YEARS PRACTICE: SPARK BARRE PILATES AND YOGA, URBANDALE “We walk through the studio door together, each ready for our separate practices. We move, breathe, and sweat a while on our mats, leaving behind what we cannot change.
we walk out together, restored and ready to face the day with clear minds, flexible bodies, and peaceful hearts.”
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TOGETHER 6 YEARS PRACTICE: ADAMANTINE® YOGA, DES MOINES
“Yoga enhances every aspect of our relationship by giving us a common spiritual direction.
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Over the past six years, we’ve practiced yoga together daily, taught countless hours in our yoga studio, and even created a new style of yoga. As a direct result of sharing yoga as our personal life path, we both value and prioritize the same things, and feel we’re growing together as a couple. Plus, we always have a lot to talk about!”
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“Practicing yoga together requires that we carve out intentional time to turn off the outside world and ground ourselves both individually and as a couple. Of course, the practice itself has so many physical benefits, but we especially enjoy talking about what thoughts emerged during the practice for each of us. Our after-yoga talks have become an important time of bonding and growing together as a couple.”
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BY ANN JACKSON AND LAURA A. WEBER
any seekers might Love as a way of describe the living is all about spiritual odyssey paying attention to as a “journey of a lifetime.” Arjuna, Buddha, the central, dynamic Moses, Jesus, Mohammed, energy that enlivens and all who have followed in and enlightens, their footsteps experienced strengthens and the fullness of the Divine through obligation, suffering, attracts, heals and isolation, freedom, cessation of cultivates peace. desire, disillusion, obedience, selfless service, surrender, and submission. There are as many paths as there are restless hearts, noble intentions, and courageous pilgrims. Yet we are all one: all one in spiritual poverty, in search, in service, in becoming—magi companions on the journey following the star. We often discover as we engage this magnificent journey that the road is neither linear nor transparent. Rather, it’s illumined one step at a time, one act of love at a time. So often, we are rewarded for overworking, taught to live in our heads and to ignore our bodies. However, our energetic awareness, imagination, curiosity and embodiment are integral. Inhabiting our bodies with intention is critical. Modalities such as yoga, tai chi, qigong, massage, meditation, and many other spiritual movement practices invite us to become more fully present to each moment of life, to each moment of love. Through these, we develop skills to drop more deeply into our awareness within our bodies, allowing our mind to simply notice without judgment. We hone our ability to recognize and interpret sensory information and subtle cues in our body and our environment. These empower us to actually recognize divine love when we experience it. Love as a way of living is all about paying attention to the central, dynamic energy that enlivens and enlightens, strengthens and attracts, heals and cultivates peace. Love celebrates compassionate presence, active listening, and silent stillness required to deepen our sense of oneness. Kindness, gentleness, and patient trust are its hallmarks. Love fosters wholeness via selfemptying, by engaging our capacity for expansive compassion and forgiveness. This emerging path assures no tidy answers, nor does it promise absolute certitude. Instead, love’s sacred journey offers generative space for creativity, imagination, and deep, steady breath which energizes each cell, each chakra. That still, center point where love resides, where the heart of the Divine beats harmoniously with our own, creates profound interconnection and joy. Love transforms! We experience a deep rush of energy and deep connection. On this journey, love songs sing us. Poetry writes us. Art paints us. Sun, moon, and stars embrace us. We are open to oneness all in an astoundingly vibrant creation. Spiritual awakening is a gradual process of travelling in love to one’s center, conscious of the great call within us, the great energetic exchange among our co-passions. Love can’t help but go extend beyond self, accompanying and creating new life and new passion in the process. Love supplants fear and self-doubt with union and co-creation. When we follow its beckon, we become love. We can be loved; we can be love. Love grounds us in forgiveness, compassion, care for and with one another, tending to Earth, creating new wholeness in ourselves, family, friends, workplaces, communities, and the world. As the ground of our being, love is ours to live.
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WE ARE COMPLEX, MULTI-LAYERED CREATURES. MANY PHYSICAL AND ETHEREAL SYSTEMS WORK WITHIN US. SOME OF THESE LAYERS EXIST BEYOND THE PHYSICAL WORLD. ONE SUCH LAYER IS THE CHAKRA SYSTEM, AND
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Just as it sounds, the heart chakra resides in the area of the sternum. When we place our hands in anjali mudra, thumbs resting on the sternum, we are making contact with our heart chakra. It’s the connecting bridge between the lower triad of chakras—root, sacral, and solar plexus; and the upper triad of chakras—throat, third eye, and crown. The lower three chakras work with our physical needs and worldly concerns—survival, creativity, and identity. Meanwhile, the upper three chakras work with universal consciousness—power of projection, intuition, and divine connection.
When we place our hands in anjali mudra, thumbs resting on the sternum, we are making contact with our heart chakra.
The heart chakra is the pinpoint of light that balances these two triangles. Most of us believe the heart center is the opening of feelings and emotions. While we do feel deeply at the heart, this isn’t entirely true. The second chakra is the gate for raw emotions such as love or hate. A perfect example of chakras working to affect the physical systems would be butterflies in the stomach when you fall in love or IBS when you’re upset or angry. Instead, the heart chakra gives a relationship to those feelings. When addressing your feelings with a balanced heart chakra, you act consciously instead of irrationally. And in this way, passion is transformed into compassion. When open, the heart chakra receives energy from the lower triangle; it feeds our deeper appreciation for other people. No longer is our awareness limited to our own perspective. The transitional expression of the heart chakra turns our concern from “me” to “we.”
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As our perspective widens, it opens up new aspects of ourselves. We have the ability to speak our truth from a place of calm loving-kindness. This gives rise to an open awareness and deeper understanding we call intuition. Moving through that place of intuition, the deeper intelligence within us begins to connect to the divinity we originated from. In this place of bliss, nirvana, Christ, or consciousness, we see that we are not alone, but part of the whole.
In this way, the heart chakra is love, but love that is deeper and more spacious than we realize.
T RANS FORM AT IVE T RAVEL
A Story of BY JUSTIN KALISZEWSKI
o you commit to staying the full ten days? Check. Do you understand that Vipassana is not a break or chance to relax from life? Check. Do you agree to adhere to all precepts including silence, abstinence, and refraining from all forms of exercise, reading, writing, intoxicants, stealing, and harming any living being? Check. Have you taken intoxicants in the last two years? Check. If so, what and how often? Various/daily. Arriving at the Vipassana meditation center outside of Rockford, Illinois, I felt less like I was on vacation and distinctly like I was checking in for rehab. Maybe I was. “We don’t allow any shorts. Did you bring pants?” “Couple pairs of short pants.” “Do they cover your knees for meditation?” “Aren’t your eyes closed in meditation?” I joked. Never mind that it was 90 degrees outside. Silence was the only answer offered–a preview of things to come. Apparently my vacation from sarcasm was to start right now. “Yes.” “Good. Drop off your things and report back here when you’re done for further instructions.” You know the Cherokee story about the two wolves we all have inside of us? One good and one bad and the one you feed thrives while the one you neglect dies? Well that story’s bullsh!t, ‘cause I have at least four wolves inside of me, and I watched in silent horror for the first few days as two of them tag-teamed the good one while the third fed on me. Silence provides a mirror straight into one’s being. Naturally, I wanted to hop the fence and run by day two. Day three saw me scouting the perimeter, planning my escape. Instead I was inspired by a friend’s voice in my head; Brazilian recording star Marco DiFerreira singing to me said, “Don’t worry…about a thing…’cause every little thing…is gonna be alright.” By day four my sweats were gone, replaced with joy in facing the day, even at the ungodly hour of 4 a.m. By day 10, I was reluctant to leave and wanted to begin the course all over again.
At the end of the retreat, everyone does a little job to help prepare the space for the next group. A veteran of the program, my friend Wendy took the liberty of signing me up for a simple but profound task: I was to open the front gate, freeing the participants. It took all of 30 seconds, but on the heels of 100+ hours of meditation, it was the most satisfyingly simple task I had ever completed. I sought out Vipassana because I felt empty, hollowed out, and used up by the yoga industry. I was nipping and tucking along with the aid of energy drinks and marijuana and found in it a simple, effective, accessible technique for generating sustainable peace from the inside out. I’ve had the fortune to walk a fair bit of this Earth, and yet everywhere I’ve ever been, I’ve found… myself. I’ve sat in sadness on the most beautiful beaches of Thailand and walked through madness in the hills of the Himalaya, but sitting in silence in Illinois was easily the single most difficult and transformative trip I’ve ever taken: the first step on a long journey to awaken. Travel isn’t necessary for transformation, but removal from our patterns is. In a weird way, sometimes the most reliable way to do that is to travel thousands of miles away from our routines.
Photos courtesy of Justin Kaliszewski
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Vipassana, which means to see things as they really are, is one of India’s most ancient techniques of meditation. This non-sectarian technique aims for the total eradication of mental impurities and the resultant highest happiness of full liberation. The Vipassana organization is run entirely by volunteer effort and on donations from former students. Courses are taught in various languages at hundreds of centers around the world, providing peaceful spaces in many destinations for one to awaken. For information on nonsectarian, non-religious, donation-based, 10-day courses near to you or far from you, visit dhamma.org.
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GET TO KNOW LAURA CRESWELL Where do you teach? State Street Yoga Co-op in Cedar Falls
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Favorite yoga pose: Child’s pose, definitely! Something you splurge on: Traveling! I love attending workshops in other cities, backpacking in the mountains, and experiencing other cultures around the world. I’m also not stingy when it comes to finding delicious craft beer! One thing people don’t know about you: I played the violin growing up and throughout college. What inspires & motivates you? Surrounding myself with people who live wholeheartedly. Why do you practice and teach yoga? I practice yoga because it keeps me balanced. It’s a daily reminder that I can be strong and flexible, calm and energized, grounded while reaching for the stars. I teach Prenatal Yoga because it’s a joy to bring mamas-to-be together and give them tools to feel good in their bodies, confident in labor and birth, and empowered in their choices. What makes your style of teaching unique? I keep my classes small and intimate, and begin each class with a discussion. This allows me to teach to what the class needs that day: poses for pregnancy discomforts, breath techniques to balance energy, simple words to soothe or reassure. I encourage mamas to go within and listen to their bodies, while not taking themselves too seriously. How has the yoga philosophy resonated with you? How to focus on the journey; how to do my work without striving for an end goal. One step, one posture, one breath at a time.
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Does your partner do yoga? He doesn’t “do” yoga regularly, though I’ve gotten him to admit that it’s probably good for his running body! I believe he practices yoga in other ways: running, hiking, being in and with nature. We support each other by sharing the unique ways we connect to ourselves and the world. Why did you choose to become a birth doula? I originally intended for my doula training to simply expand my skills as a prenatal yoga teacher, but it became much more. It’s rewarding to help women apply the techniques they learned in class during labor, and it’s valuable to apply my experiences attending births in yoga classes. Can you describe what it’s like to share in that loving moment as someone begins a new life? Not even close, but I’ll try! So many words come to mind, though none of them seem to be quite enough: beautiful, blissful, electrifying, vulnerable, empowering. Though as a doula, these aren’t my emotions to feel or own; it’s incredibly humbling to witness such a meaningful moment, to take a small supporting role in something much bigger than me. Upcoming Highlights: Professionally, I’ll be a certified birth doula soon. Personally, I’m planning a through-hike of the Pacific Crest Trail with my husband!.
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Love Chub FALLING HEAD-OVER-HEELS DOESN’T HAVE TO BITE YOU IN THE BUTT. IT’S NOT YOUR
IMAGINATION. FOOD AND LOVE ARE LINKED, AND YOUR WEIGHT IS OFTEN IMPACTED BY YOUR RELATIONSHIP STATUS. BY SHEREE CLARK
ood takes on various levels of significance during different phases of a relationship, and a spouse or partner can be a huge influence on your overall health. Food is often symbolic: during the early days of couple-hood, going out to eat may be a frequent occurrence and a way to celebrate the new union. This focus on food doesn’t automatically translate to weight gain, however, as people in the infatuation stage of a relationship often have reduced appetites as well as an abundance of nervous, giddy energy. (Of course, they may also burn off a lot of the extra daily calories before—or after—lights out!) Once a couple has settled down a bit—and the pressure of competitive dating has lessened— weight gain is more likely to occur. A couple’s lifestyle may start to revolve around more carryout and more meals at home, perhaps followed by sedentary evenings on the sofa. Unless the partners already have similar eating habits, one will typically influence the other and some sort of a shift may occur. In other words, one partner’s lack of portion control or one’s preference for healthy foods may eventually become the norm for both. Of course, not all couples go through this scenario, and falling in love doesn’t have to mean falling out of shape. Here are a few steps you can take to keep you and your partner on track: honey overdoes it with the snacking doesn’t mean you have to keep pace. If you’re happy with raw veggies, don’t feel you have to eat the other half of the fries. And if an activity was important to you before you were part of a couple, it should be important once you’re in the relationship. Don’t ditch your weekly jog with a friend or quit the office volleyball team just because you’re part of a pair.
Dress the part. It’s hard to gauge weight
gain when your go-to outfit at home is a pair of sweats. Try slipping into a pair of fitted jeans at least once a week to keep love chub in check.
Focused attention. If one of your
favorite pastimes is snuggling up to watch Netflix
together, you’re probably also nibbling on tortilla chips, buttered popcorn and other high-calorie snacks or drinks. Instead, relax and enjoy each other’s company, without involving food. When you do eat together, ditch the distractions and be aware of what you’re consuming, including how much.
Play in the kitchen. Make a
commitment to replace processed food and convenience with healthier fare. Take a couples cooking class and prepare healthy meals together.
Fit it in. Seek creative ways to get fit as a couple.
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Do yoga together. Plan an adventure vacation. Take couples’ dance lessons. Sign up and train for a halfmarathon. Try something that’s new for both of you, but work out by yourself sometimes, too.
Finally, if it’s your partner who’s put on some weight, don’t nag. It’s not likely to help and could drive a wedge between you. You might suggest taking a walk after dinner or start cooking more low-fat meals, but keep it positive; just by making your own more healthful choices, you’ll likely have an impact.
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Love is a profound experience. It gives a deep sense of intimate connection, and it is accompanied by joy and a vividness of life. It empowers one to live. You feel most alive when you’re in love, but it also brings with it desire, attachments, jealousy, disappointment, insecurities of all sorts, a crowd of social pressures and influences, a need to control, and a sense of conditional self-worth. The love we have for family is rooted in a shared sense of wanting the wellbeing of our family and sharing in their struggles and suffering as well as their happiness. In yoga, as the body, breath, and mind are developed, this both sets the stage for love and allows the love we already know the freedom to expand. Love provides a connection, a doorway, not to the desire and relationship dramas of the past and present, but to a higher sense of aspiration, realization, and experience. This is found in ananda, or bliss, and yoga practice leads to bliss. As we clear away the tension from our bodies, and increase the prana, or energy, smoothing with the breath, the mind becomes calm and clear, and the natural love, the natural bliss emerges. We connect to the atman, or the soul, the real self beyond ego.
Love provides a connection, a doorway, not to the desire and relationship dramas of the past and present, but to a higher sense of aspiration, realization, and experience.
Bliss experiences vary from being all absorbing to just beneath the surface of life. Bliss felt as intense happiness can make everything seem beautiful and wonderful. The beauty of something doesn’t cause the bliss; the bliss causes you to see the beauty, to experience with delight and joy. Bliss emerges out of peace and light, the profound clarity of meditational awareness. It brings knowledge, wisdom in action. At higher levels, it seems that we have such extreme joy and that we are totally in love. But there is no object—it is not the conditions. We are that feeling, but it is complete and requires nothing. When love is derived from such an experience, the feeling of joy, the feeling of happiness, the vivid sense of intimate connection is not dependent on a person, or a group of people, such as family. It is something that is shared with people. Everyone seems deserving; we want everyone to feel happy.
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Even when there are disturbances, such as anger at this or that, or petty frustrations that we encounter in life, there is still a sense that when we center and go inward, there is happiness, a vast peace, and true purpose that guides us. It feels that the world wants us to feel happy, and life itself is a precious gift.
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Bhakti Yoga: The Yoga of Love and Devotion by Swami Vivekananda One of the four paths of yoga, Bhakti Yoga relies on the guiding principle that every soul is potentially divine, and to travel this path is to see God, however defined, as the embodiment of love. This book from an ancient mystic encapsulates more concepts of Bhakti.
Yoga for Transformation: Ancient Teaching and Practices for Healing the Body, Mind, and Heart by Gary Kraftsow As founder of the American Viniyoga Institute, Kraftsow uses this book as an extension of his techniques designed to transform not only a practitioner’s physical body, but also mind, emotions, and soul.
The Complete Yoga of Emotional-Sexual Life: The Way Beyond Ego-Based Sexuality by Avatar Adi Da Samraj Moving beyond sexuality as merely a physical practice, spiritualist Adi Da encourages practitioners to recreate more powerful intimacy by first transcending ego and overcoming emotional patterning.
Tending the Heart Fire by Shiva Rea The legacy of the Heart Fire is more than 8,000 years old, renowned yogini Rea states. In this book, she combines yoga, Tantra, Ayurveda, and modern science to help readers become “firekeepers of the sacred heart.”
The Yoga of Relationships: A Practical Guide for Loving Yourself and Others by Yogi Amrit Desai The founder of the Amrit Method of Yoga Nidra and the Amrit Yoga Institute in Florida, Desai believes relationships are a progressive unfolding of the Spirit, and guides readers toward the understanding that you never experience your relationships the same way from day to day.
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ne of my favorite aspects of living in Des Moines is discovering the hidden gems that make this city unique. After 21 years at the Art Center, Trellis Cafe, owned by Chef Lisa LaValle, found a new home in the city’s Botanical Garden, which is where I enjoyed a delightful early afternoon lunch. This mid-city oasis provides a This mid-city calm and inviting environment oasis provides a with a locally-sourced, plantcalm and inviting based menu. Big windows add to the experience by showing off the environment with busy, beautiful city on one end and a locally-sourced, the bold colors of the botanical garden on the other. With a lovely plant-based menu. bar featuring wine, beer, and Trellis in Greater Des Moines cocktails, fast service, and free WiBotanical Garden Fi, one could easily enjoy a lunch of Open 11 a.m.-2 p.m. solitude as a midday escape. Trellis Tuesday-Sunday also has tables for two or more to 909 Robert D. Ray Dr. catch up with friends as well as large Des Moines spaces to hold a bridal shower or 515-323-6288 other party. dmbotanicalgarden.com/ Chefs Lisa LaValle and Rose visit-us/dine/ Punelli change the menu monthly, inspired by what’s seasonal, fresh, and available. Recipes might be repeated once a year with new twists or small improvements. The December menu during my visit featured Potato Dill Soup, Colorful Cruciferous Salad, Wild Rice Fruit Salad, Turkey Spinach Artichoke Crepe, Butternut Squash Pasta, and Date Pudding, among other delectables. The warm and cozy Potato Dill Soup perfectly blends spices without being overwhelming and was a great choice for cooler weather. The Colorful Cruciferous Salad and Wild Rice Fruit Salad may be the most exciting salads I’ve ever eaten. Packed with ingredients and flavors such as sautéed red cabbage mélange and oven-roasted peaches, a small portion of salad pairs well with another dish, such as the soup. Butternut Squash Pasta was quite the treat with both a creamy béchamel sauce as well as pesto. Red peppers, tomatoes, and butternut squash keep the dish from being too heavy and the side of citrus (orange and grapefruit) was a great way to cleanse the palate between bites. To meet my vegetarian tastes, the chefs at Trellis made it easy by removing meat from a couple items, one of which was the Turkey Spinach Artichoke Crepe. Although it was wonderfully delicious and thick, removing the turkey left this dish more like a spinach artichoke dip appetizer. If taking the vegetarian route, perhaps pair this with a salad and ask for a side of mini toasts. Rather than listing desserts on the menu, the server comes to your table displaying each one for you to pick straight off the tray. If I were to choose the highlight of the meal, it would be the Date Pudding. The natural sweetness of the dates comes through easily, keeping this dessert simple and satisfying. Date Pudding paired with a coffee or cider would be reason enough to enjoy the ambiance of Trellis. This will be the first place I take friends and family who come to visit. Exploring the botanical garden and gift shop after the meal makes for an enchanting afternoon and a splendid introduction to the uniqueness of Des Moines.
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BY LISA ACHESON
I immersed myself in yoga at the tail end of a past relationship. It started to reveal an internal strength that enabled me to finally move on from a relationship that was surviving only because of a fear of facing the heartbreak of ending it. Practicing yoga makes it easier to be at peace with all situations, from handling heartache to learning to love again.
BLISSFUL WILLOW YOGA STUDIO IOWA CITY
Yoga has taught me practical skills to assess and reduce both inner and outer agony. I have learned to breathe and move from a center that’s not so swayed by circumstance but compassionately stable and present with the occasions of each moment. Amidst my darkest hours, the practice of yoga has served to magnetize the broken pieces of my mind and reflect them whole within my heart. When I initially perceive a deep loss, pain, or suffering, I allow my emotions to pass, mindful and appreciative of my breath and poise—often revealing an imprecise estimation of a much broader context worth recognizing and perhaps even celebrating.
In the theme of love, we asked our teachers:
“How has yoga healed your broken heart?” Whether you are 22 or 62, everyone has experienced loss and grief, perhaps in the form of losing a longtime friend, lover, job, death, or divorce. How has your yoga practice helped alleviate the pain you felt or still feel?
ANKENY YMCA & GRANDVIEW UNIVERSITY WELLNESS CENTER DES MOINES METRO
Yoga came to me in a time of depression and heartache. I was wrapped up in toxic relationships, losing track of who I was and my sight of reality. I was drowning in my illusion of love. Yoga invited me to see myself in new light and opened doors to love within. I began practicing every day, unraveling the hurt and reconnecting my true self. I was able to accept who I was, learn to love not only myself but also people around me. Yoga saved my soul.
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Begin the new year with an open heart that is ready for life and intimacy by cultivating trust, acceptance and happiness.
Published on Jan 20, 2016
Begin the new year with an open heart that is ready for life and intimacy by cultivating trust, acceptance and happiness.